International Men on the Frontline by scriptofvirtuecollections

Script of Virtue Magazine Christian Professionalism and the Workplace

A Tribute to the

Holy Land

Nov 2023 Issue 3

Armed and

DANGER O

EPHESIANS 6:10

Jehu & Jezebel’s Mascara

POWER

Holy Humour

INTERNATIONAL

vol 1 3 vol.

to Win

Marriage & Ministry A Balanced Diet

Men on the Frontline

The Sent Ones Pastoring Challenges

Benson Ekakitie An Ambassador for Christ

Contents 20

Editorial 2 Mr. Conservative 4 Christian Professionalism and the Workplace A Guide for Men 8 The Sent Ones 10 Benson Ekakitie An Ambassador for Christ 12 Power to Win with Nosa Blessed 16 Pastoring Challenges Apostle Michael Moore 18

Armed & Dangerous Pastor James McLean 20 Jehu & Jezebel’s Mascara A Tale of Power and Deceit 22 Marriage & Ministry A Balanced Diet 24 Did You Know Facts 28 Holy Humour 29

A Tribute to the Holy Land 30 Bibliography 32

Arena, battleground, Armageddon, field, front, salient, combat zone, theater of operations, theater of war – these are all military terms for being on the frontline in battle.

EDITORIAL

Being on the frontline means that you are the first in the battle. It signifies that whatever comes will come to you first. You will be the first person your opponent sees and identifies.Therefore, as Christians, we are soldiers in Christ, ready for battle.

here is a battle in the atmosphere, a battle against our faith, a battle against our minds, a battle against our souls, and a battle against our spirit. This battle began in Heaven when the devil waged war against God and His angels. Men of God called to ministry are prey to this enemy. They enter, expecting to come out bruised, battered, but victorious. As soldiers in Christ, we have already won the victory. Christ went first to the frontline, expecting persecution for righteousness’ sake, chastisement by men, and crucifixion on the cross. He went ahead without fear of the outcome. He was sent by God the Father so we could be saved, and now we are the sent ones to go forth like Gideon to wage and win the war. The battle has begun, and Christians are the soldiers fighting against the kingdom of darkness. We must conquer and prevail. This magazine is for men on the frontline, those who are sharing their last resources for the Gospel, who have given everything for the Gospel – their country, their freedom, their family, their children, their jobs, and for some, even their lives. These Christian men face temptation every day. This magazine is filled with testimonies and voices from men in Christ, men on the frontline. Thank you for joining us. Tracey Nosakhare Christian Author/Entrepeneur/ Radio Host

No man that warreth entangleth himself with the aﬀairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier. 2 Timothy 2:4

Mr Conservative

he Book of 1 Samuel 16:7 reminds us that God doesn’t look at the outer appearance but at the heart of a person. However, there are some limitations when it comes to attire and ministry.

Nevertheless, as ministers of God, it is essential to remember that a person’s attire and dress code, especially when addressing a multitude of people, hold significance. A person’s appearance is the first thing others will notice, and it conveys a statement. It can have a proModesty is a crucial aspect of ministry, es- found impact, either positively or negatively, pecially when it involves being on the front on how they perceive the message being delines. In urgent situations when the phone livered. rings and a minister is called to an occasion or meeting, they may find themselves pressed for With that being said, in many facets of life, time, making it tempting to throw on some- the way we dress conveys a message about thing casual that they’re accustomed to wear- our values, beliefs, and the roles we hold. ing just to meet the deadline. Consequently, it This holds true, especially for Christian men can be argued that spending excessive time on in ministry. The dress code for men in minisa dress code, solely for the purpose of appear- try is not just about fashion; it is a reflection ing modest, might become a significant dis- of their commitment to serving God and their traction from delivering the message of God. ccongregation. 4

Clerical garments are not outdated. Some Christian traditions utilize clerical garments such as cassocks, collars, and robes. These can be a powerful symbol of their ministry, emphasizing their commitment to God.

In this article, we will explore the importance of an appropriate dress code for Christian men in ministry and provide guidelines for their attire. The dress code for Christian men in ministry goes beyond personal style preferences. It is a means of conveying respect for the sacred nature of their calling and their role as spiritual leaders. Here are some key reasons as to why:

Try to avoid distraction. Ministers should avoid clothing that draws unnecessary attention. Bright colors, flashy patterns, or extravagant accessories can divert focus away from the message they are delivering.

They are Spiritual leaders. Christian men in ministry are often seen as spiritual leaders within their communities. Their attire should reflect a sense of reverence and authority, emphasizing the importance of their role.

Christian men in ministry should be adaptable to seasonal changes. In hotter weather, lightweight suits or clerical shirts can be worn. In colder months, adding layers like cardigans or vests can maintain a professional They set example. As role models, ministers appearance. set an example for their congregation. Dressing modestly and appropriately can inspire ‘‘God doesn’t look at the others to follow suit and maintain a sense of outer appearance but at the heart of a person. decorum within the church. There should be respect for the Sanctuary. Places of worship are considered holy spaces. By dressing modestly and respectfully, ministers show their reverence for the sacredness of the church and its activities.

Regularly maintaining and cleaning their clothing is essential. Worn, stained, or unkempt attire can send the wrong message about one’s commitment and dedication.

Respect cultural sensitivities. In a multiThere are some guidelines that need to be rec- cultural world, it’s crucial to be sensitive to ognize when it comes to appropriate dressing. cultural norms. Ministers should be aware of their congregation’s preferences and respect Modesty goes a long way. Christian men in cultural sensitivities in their attire. ministry should prioritize modesty in their attire. This means avoiding clothing that is too Finally, while God does not look at the outtight, revealing, or flashy. Modesty in dress er appearance of a person, the dress code for demonstrates humility and a focus on spiritual Christian men in ministry plays a significant matters rather than worldly concerns. role in their spiritual leadership and the message they convey. While the specifics may Utilize professional attire. Depending on the vary by denomination and local customs, the denomination and the specific ministry, pro- overarching principles of modesty, respect, fessional attire can vary. However, in most and professionalism should guide their choice cases, wearing a suit or dress shirt and tie is of attire. An appropriate dress code reflects a a safe choice. Ministers should always appear deep commitment to the faith and a desire to neat and well-groomed. serve as effective spiritual leaders within their ministry. 5

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For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. Hebrew 4:12

A GUIDE FOR MEN

CHRISTIAN PROFESSIONALISM and the Workplace

n today’s fast-paced and diverse regardless of their job or position. Coloswork environments, people of sians 3:23 states, “Whatever you do, work all backgrounds and beliefs come at it with all your heart, as working for the together to pursue their careers. Lord, not for human masters.” This verse Among them are Christians, who encourages Christians to view their work often face the challenge of main- as a service to God and to put their best taining their religious values and effort into everything they do. principles while excelling in their professional lives. This article ex- One of the fundamental principles of Chrisplores the concept of Christian pro- tian professionalism is integrity. Christians fessionalism and its impact on the are called to be honest and truthful in their dealings, whether with colleagues, clients, workplace.

or superiors. This commitment to integriChristianity has a long history of empha- ty can set a positive example in the worksizing strong work ethics. The Bible en- place, fostering trust and respect among courages Christians to work diligently, coworkers. 8

Christianity places a strong emphasis on love and compassion for others. In a professional context, this translates into showing empathy and care towards coworkers, clients, and even competitors. By practicing compassion in the workplace, Christians can contribute to a more inclusive and supportive work environment.

balance that upholds their faith while respecting the dynamics of the professional environment. Christian professionalism in the workplace is a delicate balance that requires individuals to embody their faith while excelling in their careers. By upholding values of integrity, compassion, and hard work, Christians can make a positive impact on their workplaces and society as a whole. Finding this balance isn’t always easy, but it’s a worthy endeavor that can lead to personal fulfillment and a harmonious work environment.

Balancing one’s Christian faith with a demanding career can be challenging. Here are some strategies that can help individuals achieve this balance: Prioritize your values. Christians should take the time to identify their core values and ensure that their professional choices align with those values. This might mean making career decisions that prioritize family, ethical considerations, or community service. Always set boundaries. In a world of constant connectivity, it’s crucial to set boundaries to protect personal time, allowing for rest, reflection, and spiritual growth. Seek support from others. Joining or creating faith-based networks in the workplace can provide a sense of community and support, making it easier to navigate professional challenges. Praying and reflect. Regular prayer and reflection can provide clarity and guidance when facing diﬃcult decisions or ethical dilemmas in the workplace. While Christian professionalism brings many positive aspects to the workplace, it can also present challenges and dilemmas. Christians may encounter situations where their values conflict with company policies, client demands, or colleagues’ behavior. In such cases, they must carefully consider their responses, striving to find a

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THE SENT ONES by Chuck Gianotti | The Upper Room

John 17:18 “As You sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world.”

Like Christ, like Christians. We are an extension of Him in this world, on assignment. Our being sent into the world is rooted in Jesus’ being sent into the world. We are carrying on His mission. The word “sent” in our verse today translates the Greek word “apostello,” the noun from which we get our English word “apostle.” Jesus was the first Apostle, the first “sent one” – “Jesus, the Apostle and High Priest of our confession…” (Heb 3:1). John, interestingly, does not use the noun form of the word “apostellos” as a descriptor of the twelve. But he recorded Jesus later repeating this element of His prayer in commissioning them: “Peace be with you; as the Father has sent Me, I also send you” (John 20:21). They are the “sent ones.” Matthew and Mark, in writing to their original audience, used the word “apostle” only once each. This paucity of use is understandable, because they were not actually sent out formally until the end of Jesus’ ministry. The gospel writers were using language more in tune with the events as they happened. Luke, as a careful historian used terminology that was more familiar later in the expansion of Christianity – specifically that the original twelve came to be well known as “the apostles.” Thus, he had more of fondness for the word enlisting it six times in his chronicle of the Lord’s life. He stands alone in recording that Jesus did in fact name them “apostles” (Luke 6:13). 10

In the Book of Acts, Luke continues to use the word, enlisting it twenty-eight times. In the first eleven chapters, he uses the word twenty times referring to the twelve (Judas was replaced by Matthias–Acts 1:26). Then, we discover in Acts 14:4 and 14, that Paul and Barnabas are called apostles, expanding beyond the original 12. The rest of the occurrences in Acts are somewhat ambiguous as to whether the twelve are in mind or more. Luke was not using the word “apostle” carelessly, for the word had come to carry great significance in the early church. Paul and Barnabas carried weight like the original twelve did, though they were not originally part of that group. Having said this, the original twelve had a unique role that Paul and Barnabas had no part in and this will never change. The twelve were the recognized eye witnesses of the life of Christ from the time of John the Baptist until the ascension (Acts 1:22). No one could be added to that number. It will be their names written on the foundation stones of the new city of God (Rev 21:14), not Paul’s name, not Barnabas’ name. The twelve are the unique “sent ones.”

“Lord, thank You for the twelve unique men who were faithful in proclaiming You and Your truth at the foundational stages of the church. 11

Benson Ekakitie

Senior Pastor l Salvation Gate Ministry

An Interview

with Pastor Benson Ekakitie

1. Can you share a brief overview is love” (1 John 4:8), and “And we of how you became a pastor? have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and Preamble: I became aware of my he who abides in love abides in God, divine calling after a life-changing and God in him” (1 John 4:16). automobile accident on May 13, 1992, during which I miraculously I ultimately surrendered my life to survived. Here’s how it unfolded: I the Lord Jesus Christ on December sustained a significant and deep cut 19, 1993. At that point, I had one on my upper back, near the right rib clear message to share with others: cage, so severe that it nearly exposed that God loves them. Regarding your my right lung. I was promptly rushed question about pursuing ministry, I to the hospital, where the doctor approached it with an open mind, skillfully stitched up the wound, and ready to embrace any opportunity I was placed under anesthesia. In the Lord presented. I began my studthat altered state of consciousness, ies with the International Bible Instia radiant, angelic figure appeared tute of Rome, followed by the Global before me and spoke these profound University. Initially, my studies were words, “Benson, you are saved be- primarily for personal enrichment. cause God is love.” However, in September 2003, when my wife and I were ordained as pas2. What inspired you to pursue a tors at the International Christian life of ministry and service? Fellowship Rome, I recognized that this was God’s plan for me. At the time of the accident, I wasn’t a believer in Christ Jesus. In fact, 3. What is the mission and vision it took me a year and a half to fully of your ministry or church? surrender my life to the Lord. During this period, I continued to hear the My mission is to faithfully preach angel’s message, “Benson, you are the gospel as commanded by God, saved because God is love.” I lat- sharing the message of His bounder discovered that this message was less love, and cautioning individuals rooted in the Bible: “He who does about the perils of rejecting His love. not love does not know God, for God 13

4. Can you describe a significant challenge you’ve encountered in your ministry and how you successfully addressed it?

with depression or mental health challenges often reveal that the underlying issue is a lack of love. Love has the power to heal, restore, assist, and forgive. The core of the gospel mesDealing with human beings, with their sage is love, and over the years, we’ve diverse personalities and beliefs, can witnessed many individuals embracbe incredibly challenging, though ing God’s love through our ministry. not insurmountable. Recognizing this challenge has strengthened my 7. Balancing a pastoral role with reliance on the Holy Spirit, who com- personal life can be quite challengprehends the hearts and minds of all. ing. How do you maintain that balEven in the midst of these challenges, ance, and what self-care practices I have witnessed God’s faithfulness as do you follow? He possesses the ability to transform the hearts of individuals. I often share with people that I wear three full-time hats: a family man, a 5. Can you share a memorable minister, and an employee. The day scripture that inspired you? provides us with 24 hours, and to truly understand its value, one only needs Trust in the Lord with all your heart, to attempt a 24-hour dry fast. What And lean not on your own understand- you choose to do with your day mating; In all your ways acknowledge ters significantly. When you allocate Him, And He shall direct your paths. your time wisely, you’ll be amazed at (Pro. 3:5) what you can accomplish. 6. What has been the most fulfilling aspect of mentoring and inspiring young people in the ministry?

8. Can you share some of the core values and beliefs that guide your pastoral work and personal life?

The foundation of my salvation is rooted in love, as mentioned earlier: “Benson, you are saved because God loves you.” This truth holds for everyone, as evidenced in the famous scripture, “For God so loved the world...” Young people, in particular, need to understand that they are deeply loved. Conversations with individuals grappling

My guiding principles are simple but profound. I start each day with God, continue to center my day on Him, and conclude it in His presence. Additionally, I believe in doing what matters now, not putting it oﬀ until later. I’ve learned to say “no” when necessary, especially in response to external pressures. 14

9. What advice would you offer to young men aspiring to become pastors and make a positive impact in their communities? Pastoring is indeed a privilege. As Ephesians 4:11 says, “And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers.” It’s important to note that this scripture doesn’t indicate that He merely called some to be apostles, prophets, etc. Rather, it states that He gave these roles. We are all called to follow the Lord Jesus Christ, so if you’ve been given the

gift of being a pastor, don’t hesitate to step out of the boat and walk towards Jesus. 10. What are your future goals and aspirations for your ministry and personal growth as a pastor? My future goals revolve around a steadfast commitment to continue preaching the gospel, never ceasing in my pursuit of knowledge and spiritual growth in the Lord. For me, life both begins and ends with God.

11. What message or words of encouragement would you like to convey to the readers of “Men on the Frontline” magazine? Life is a journey filled with highs and lows. My advice to all readers is to trust in the LORD with all your heart, avoiding over-reliance on your own understanding. Acknowledge Him in all your ways, and He will guide your path. Never consider yourself wiser than you are; instead, embrace a reverence for the LORD and turn away from evil. 12. Share a fun or interesting fact about yourself that readers might not know. A fun and personal tidbit about me is that I deeply cherish my wife. She is not only my life partner but also my best friend. In my eyes, she is the most wonderful wife in the entire world. I dream of traveling the world with her someday, creating cherished memories together.

Nosa Blessed

Gospel Recording Artiste, Italy

Nosa Blessed is a Gospel Artiste who was born in Benin City, Nigeria. He is known for his strong faith in Jesus and his uplifting music that inspires and encourages his listeners. Nosa’s music career began in 2015 when he wrote his first song, ‘God is Real.’ This was followed by ‘God of Everything,’ which further established his unique sound and style. In 2020, he released another single, ‘Never Fail,’ followed by ‘Power to Win’ which received positive reviews from fans and critics alike. He has also been a lead vocalist on the Isernia Gospel Choir, where his talent and passion for music have been on full display. You can follow him on Youtube, Spotify, Instagram and Facebook under his title name @Nosa Blessed to stay up-to-date on his latest music releases and performancess.

POWER t o W i n lyrics Solo: We gained righteousness at Christ expense Righteousness that we could not earn on our own But by the grace and resurrection power of Christ Now the Holyghost at work in me Chorus: God has given power to win Power to reign He has given power to heal the sick Power to raise the dead My God has given me Power to win He has given me Power to reign God has given me Goodness and mercy everyday Favour and blessings all the way Bridge: I will tell the world Of your goodness How we overcame By the blood of Christ Men will come to know Of your power And come to your light Power to win and power to reign Power to heal the sick And power to raise the dead (Repeat 2× and go back to chorus) 17

Pastoring in 2023 Challenges

irst and foremost, let me preface that what I do in ministry is a labor of love. I love serving God’s people. I have been pastoring for over 20 plus years and I love impacting the world with God’s love, His word, and His wisdom for life. Pastoring in this age is a challenge, yet still a joy. The challenge is the changing moral compass of man, when I was young, a boy was born a boy and a girl born a girl. Today, people now have choices. But the simple truth is, God is the Creator of all, despite what man changes, God’s Word remains the same and

His creations remains the same as He has designed. We teach people to live by faith. The world will have you to believe that whatever you want or choose is ok, it’s their truth. Now here comes Pastor Mike preaching “Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6), for them it’s easier to go the way of the world. Hebrews 11:1-2 NLT Faith shows the reality of what we hope for; it is the evidence of things we cannot see. 2Through their faith, the people in days of old earned a good reputation.

OVERCOME THIS CHALLENGE A good reputation, that’s a thought, and a challenge that ministries today must overcome. Does the church have a good reputation by what the world sees? Social media continues to make a mockery of our churches online and with the material supplied with unscriptural antics and services for the whole world to see. 18

In 1 Corinthains 14:40 AMP Paul said “But all things must be done properly and in an orderly manner.” In many cases what is called ministry, the judge would say to the Church, “you are out of order”; and this my brothers and sisters in Christ, brings me to tears.

My heart’s desire has always been to see the body of Christ moving through history as a collective unit advancing God’s Kingdom in a powerful way. But what I see is the spirit of pride separating us to decrease the effectiveness of the Church. So, I would say the pride of life is one the biggest problem I face as a Pastor. The number one challenge for all of us as leaders in our homes, leaders in the Church and just people in general around the world is found in Matthew 24:11-12 The Message Bible. “In the confusion, lying preachers (false prophets) will come forward and deceive a lot of people. For many others, the overwhelming spread of

evil will do them in—nothing left of their love but a mound of ashes. Another translation says the “The love of most will grow cold’’ (NLT). The scriptures state in Revelations 2:4 AMP, to the Church “ButI have this [charge] against you, that you have left your first love [you have lost the depth of love that you first had for Me]. I would say the love lost is not just for God, but for God’s people as well. One of my favorite scriptures is 1 Corinthains 14:1a, (NLT), the Apostle Paul says after his description of love in the 13 chapter, Let Love be your highest goal, Agape Love that is.

Apostle Michael Moore is currently serving as the pastor and visionary of Crossover Covenant Church in Blythewood, S.C with a vision to impact the world by transforming the hearts and minds of generations by the world of God and His manifested presence.

Armed & Dangerous EPHESIANS 6:10-18

eading in unprecedented times can be challenging. It’s a faith walk that requires you to fully lean and depend on God. We have a lot of saints in the body of Christ but few soldiers. God is calling us to be soldiers. Adversity is ever present because spiritual warfare is always in play.

against powers, against rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness. Prayer is vital in navigating through adversity. No matter the opposition, we are Armed and Dangerous.

We are the hands and feet of Jesus, the change agents in the earth. God did not call us into his service and send us We don’t wrestle against flesh and into warfare without weapons. First blood but against principalities, of all, God has given us

his Armor for protection.

In this battle, we have the advantage. We have been given weapEph 6:13-18 “Wherefore take unto ons that the enemy has no defense you the whole armor of God, that ye against. We have power in the name may be able to withstand in the evil and the blood of Jesus. We have the day, and having done all, to stand. power of the word of God—the powStand therefore, having your loins er of praise, prayer, and fasting. We girt about with truth, and having should always be armed and ready. on the breastplate of righteousness; Finally, we have the weapon of the And your feet shod with the prepa- Holy Spirit, which will lead us to ration of the gospel of peace; Above all truth. Our job is never to give up, all, taking the shield of faith, where- never give in, and never give out. with ye shall be able to quench all We are Armed and Dangerous. We the fiery darts of the wicked. And are the Army of the Lord, anointed take the helmet of salvation, and and chosen for this time. the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with -James McLean, Contributor all perseverance and supplication for all saints.”

Pastor James McLean resides in Fayetteville, NC. He is the Senior Leader at Flame of Fire Outreach Ministry International and the founder of Man Up Ministry. Pastor McLean accredits his success first to God and his excellent support system, his best friend, and his wife of 24 years. Pastor Jennifer McLean. They have three sons, two daughters, and ten grandchildren. Pastor McLean is a Godly leader marked by a servant’s heart, transparency, integrity, Godly character, and biblical teaching. 21

Jehu & Jezebel’s

Mascara A Tale of Power and Deceit

In the ancient land of Israel, during the time of the prophet Elisha, a dramatic tale unfolded—one not often recorded in the sacred texts. It was a story of power, deceit, and the striking allure of a woman named Jezebel. This is the story of “Jehu and Jezebel’s Mascara.” King Joram of Israel was severely wounded in battle, and he was left to recover in Jezreel. News of his condition reached the prophet Elisha, who sent one of his disciples, a young and zealous man named Jehu, to the city with a divine mission.

herself in the palace window. With the seductive allure she had used throughout her life, she hoped to manipulate Jehu’s ambitions. Jehu, a man of strong resolve, recognized the danger of Jezebel’s charms but remained determined to fulfill his divine mission. As he approached the palace, he ordered her eunuchs to throw Jezebel down from the window. The painted queen met a gruesome end, falling to her death, with her mascara smeared and her beauty forever marred. Jehu, now the king, went on to fulfill his role as a zealous reformer, putting an end to the worship of idols and punishing those who had led Israel astray. His reign marked a turning point for the nation, as they turned back to the worship of the one true God.

Jehu rode his chariot to Jezreel, a city synonymous with the legacy of King Ahab and Queen Jezebel. The scent of intrigue and betrayal filled the air as Jehu approached the city gates. He had been anointed as the new king of Israel, chosen by God to put an end to The story of “Jehu and Jezebel’s Masthe wickedness that had engulfed the cara” serves as a reminder of the ennation. during allure of power and the consequences of deceit. It showcases the Jezebel, now an elderly queen, still re- unwavering commitment of Jehu to tained her legendary beauty and cun- fulfill his divine mission, even in the ning. When she heard that Jehu had face of seduction and manipulation, entered the city, she painted her eyes ultimately leading Israel back to the with the darkest mascara, adorned path of righteousness. herself in regal attire, and positioned 22

The story of “Jehu and Jezebel’s Mascara” from 2 Kings 9:30-37 can serve as a cautionary tale regarding lust and temptation in ministry. Here’s how. Lust is the biggest temptation. Jezebel symbolizes temptation in the story. Her use of mascara and seductive allure represents the lure of sinful desires, including lust, which can entice individuals, even those in positions of spiritual leadership. There are great danger when one yeilds to temptation. Jehu’s resistance to Jezebel’s charms, despite his divine mission, demonstrates the importance of staying steadfast in the face of temptation. In ministry, yielding to lust and temptation can lead to disastrous consequences, both personally and for the community one serves.

In closing, the story serves as a powerful reminder for those in ministry to remain vigilant against the temptations of lust and to prioritize their spiritual mission over worldly desires. It underscores the importance of maintaining moral integrity, seeking divine guidance, and being accountable for one’s actions to avoid the tragic consequences that can result from yielding to temptation.

Christians must maintain integrity. Jehu’s actions highlight the necessity for ministers and leaders to maintain their moral integrity. It’s a reminder that those in positions of authority and leadership must guard against the allure of worldly desires and maintain their commitment to their spiritual duties. Every action comes with consequences. The story also underscores that giving in to lust and temptation can have severe consequences. In ministry, such actions can damage one’s reputation, harm the faith community, and lead to personal and professional consequences. Seek divine guidance when being tempted. Jehu’s divine anointing and commitment to fulfilling God’s mission emphasize the importance of seeking guidance and relying on a higher purpose to resist temptation. In ministry, staying connected to one’s spiritual foundation can provide the strength to overcome worldly temptations. 23

Marriage & Ministry A Balanced Diet

From the article ‘5 Ways to Balance Ministry and Marriage’ By Paul & Martha Davis

alancing marriage and ministry is like walking a tightrope. Several patterns of thinking throw marriages off-balance, and the unique demands of ministry—especially missions— complicate one’s work/life balance, threatening paralyzing guilt at every turn. go out to eat with your sending church pastor and his wife. Are you “on the clock”?

Consider a few of these scenarios that effect work/life balance drawn from our experience visiting missionaries on the field:

The family of one of your teammates is sick, so you bring them a meal. Was that work?

Take a moment to reflect on these questions with your spouse: Have you struggled with these types of scenarios, as we have?

It is not important how you answered the above questions, What circumstances because there are no right antend to trigger guilt swers. Ministry is complicatabout your marriage? ed. What is important is that You are traveling for two days you and your spouse answered What circumstancto a seminar where you are the them the same way. es trigger guilt about speaker. Do those travel days count as “work”? Danger, conflict, miscommu- your ministry? nication, and hurt feelings lurk You are having dinner with nearby when you and your These innocent friends who support you for spouse disagree about min- differences of opinion $100/month. Is it person- istry. When one spouse be- can turn arguments al time with your spouse and gins tracking time differently, into fights and fights friends or ministry? it won’t be long until simple into bitterness. ministry tasks become sources After a church function, you of frustration and guilt. 24

How can our marriages and ministries be freed from constant guilt? We have relied upon these guidelines when our roles as spouses and ministry partners come into conflict, and they have been game-changers for us, sustaining us through seasons of complexity in life and work.

ake expectations crystal-clear. Unmet expectations are a leading reason for struggle in ministry. When ministry and marriage fail to reflect our dreams of what they should be, we become easily disillusioned. Balancing ministry and marriage means managing these expectations. We all tend to envision ministry idealistically. We daydream of impact, growth, and receiving human praise. We do the same with our marriages, assuming conflict will never arise and romance will never subside. When reality hits, these uncommunicated expectations are dashed, and we are tempted to blame our spouse. When expectations go unmet for long periods of time, our minds become breeding grounds for bitterness, resentment, anger, and discontentment. The consequence is that we disengage from marriage, ministry, or both. The solution? Talk about the elephant in the room. Realize that ministry is complicated. Grow in your understanding of your spouse and their expectations of your personal time versus ministry time. Be as explicit as possible with your expectations. Some expectations should be made explicit, agreed upon, and be set in stone; through conversation, others will be revealed as unhealthy or unrealistic, and should be suppressed. Either way, the specifics need to be ad-

dressed. Having conversations about each other’s expectations We think to for time and attention will help ourselves: you see how much personal time is needed—and when it is need- This isn’t what I ed. This helps eliminate the un- signed up for. due guilt that arises from unclear expectations. Is ministry worth the

cost? This is an area in which spouses can truly minister to one another. This job was Do not suffer in silence, nor al- supposed to be fulfilllow your spouse to suffer alone ing. either. We all have unmet expectations. Talk about them.

ractice Sabbath rest. Understand the Sabbath principle. Sometimes, the very best use of your spiritual gifts is for them to stop. Biblical rest is about ceasing from work and realigning your priorities. Prioritize, first, your personal walk with God and, second, your personal walk with your spouse. It’s interesting that the command for Sabbath is the only commandment in which each member of the family is listed. You, your spouse, your children, your servants—even your animals—are all commanded to rest, and rest together (cf. Exodus 20:8-11).

R-egroup E- mpathize S-trategize T-ogether

ometimes, we need a reality check. Ministry is meant to be demanding, and as a result, it is necessarily emotionally and spiritually draining. You must rest and realign every week. Be honest with yourself: if you are leading a church, Sunday is not typically restful.Set aside a day that works for both you and your spouse, and rest unto the glory of God as a couple devoted to following his call. Practicing Sabbath delights God as much as ministry, because it honors both his command and his design for human flourishing. Remember why you got married; to glorify God. This is simple, but critical: you must get on the same page about who God is, why you are married, and why you are serving him. Be serious and intentional about growing your relationship with the Lord, your theology, and your view of marriage. In his book Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?, Gary Thomas’ premise is that your marriage is not about your personal happiness; it is about God helping you know and trust him more fully. Adopt this approach, and address you and your spouse’s disparate, piled-up expectations of each other by building a deep, rich theology of marriage. Don’t neglect the degree to which your marital expectations flow out of your theology. Don’t neglect your personal spiritual formation or that of your spouse. Ministry can put a lot of pressure on a marriage. Take it all in stride. In all the chaos that can come along with ministry, remember that God created us as limited creatures. When he calls a couple to ministry, he does not call them to be boundless superheroes with limitless energy, focus, and time. Everyone has limits. Every divinely-ordained vocation is fitted to the couple and their calling. Christian husbands and wives can live faithfully, both in ministry and the covenant of marriage. 27

“Don’t neglect the degree to which your marital expectations flow out of your theology.”

Paul Davis is president of ABWE. Paul and his wife, Martha, have been married for 28 years, and have both served in numerous roles in Christian ministry and education.

Did You Know Facts ... 1. The Book of Enoch, often cited in the New Testament, is not part of the traditional biblical canon but is considered a significant ancient text. 2. While the Bible mentions Noah taking “two of every kind” of animal onto the ark, it specifies that clean animals were taken in sevens (Genesis 7:2). 3. The Bible records that King David had the largest army. He had 1.3 mil lion men (1 Chronicles 21:5). 4. Goliath, the Philistine giant defeated by David, was said to be about nine feet tall (1 Samuel 17:4-7). 5. Methuselah is the longest-lived person in the Bible, living to the age of 969 years (Genesis 5:27). 6. In the book of Genesis, Jacob wrestled with a “man” until daybreak. At the end of the struggle, Jacob’s hip was wrenched, giving rise to the tradition that the Israelites do not eat the meat attached to the hip socket (Genesis 32:25-32). 7. In the Bible, there are references to several books that are not included in the traditional biblical canon, such as the Book of Jasher (Joshua 10:13) and the Book of the Wars of the Lord (Numbers 21:14).

Holy Humour A church member is spotted in the parking lot, circling around, looking for a parking space. Church Member: “Lord, if you help me find a parking space, I promise I’ll attend every service!” Suddenly, a parking space miraculously appears. Church Member, with a grin, says, “Never mind, Lord, I found one!” ........................................... A group of church members are discussing the annual bake sale. Church Member: “We need more variety this year.” Another member chimes in. Church Member 2: “How about ‘Holy Guacamole’ and ‘Manna Muffins’?” ............................................. A man visited a new church and noticed that people were shaking hands and greeting each other. He turned to the person next to him and asked, “Is this where I say, ‘Peace be with you,’ or ‘May the force be with you’?” ............................................... Two churchgoers talk after service. Congregant 1: “You know, our church is just like Wi-Fi.” Congregant 2 looks puzzled. Congregant 2: “Wi-Fi?” Congregant 1: “Yes, we connect on Sundays, and then we hope for a strong signal the rest of the week!”

A Tribute to the Holy Land

Israel Oh, land of ancient stories, cradle of faith, Where history’s tapestry weaves a sacred wraith, Your hallowed hills and golden shores, Resonate with the songs of pilgrims and more. From Jerusalem’s old city walls so grand, To Bethlehem’s humble manger land, In the shadow of the Western Wall’s aged stone, The echoes of prayers and dreams are known. Beneath the scorching desert sun so bright, The Dead Sea’s waters glisten in soft light, Where Masada’s fortress stands with pride, A symbol of courage that can’t be denied. Among olive groves, Gethsemane’s grace, Where Christ knelt in his final embrace, To the Sea of Galilee, where He calmed the waves, Your landscapes are where faith engraves. In the bustling markets of Jaﬀa’s old town, And the tranquil beauty of Haifa’s renown, From the Negev’s desert, so vast and wild, To the fertile plains where crops are piled.

You stand as a beacon, a land of dreams, Where people of diverse cultures gleam, In unity, they write their stories anew, In the heart of a land so sacred and true. Through trials and triumphs, you’ve endured, A place where faith and history are secured, In our hearts, you’ll forever remain, The Holy Land, a land of eternal gain. Tribute to the Holy Land, Israel, A land of hope, where dreams compel, In the midst of strife, you shine so bright, A beacon of peace, in the world’s light.

Bibliography Gianotti Chuck, The Sent Ones, BiblEquip, https://bible-equip. org/2015/11/23/the-sent-ones-john-1718/ Davis Paul and Martha, 5 Ways to Balanced Ministry and Marriage, ABWE, September 10, 2019, https://abwe.org/blog/5-ways-balance-ministry-and-marriage/ https://www.biblegateway.com/

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“These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33