A mental health expert shares tips and insight on how to have a less stressful holiday
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20 | Holiday Gift Guide
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Zoom! The Holidays Are Here
The year is winding down, which, whoosh, that went quick. Many of us are in the holiday season, juggling school concerts and traditions old and new, which is why, as parents ourselves, we set out to share helpful pieces that remind us that the holidays are meant to be savored.
Starting with stress, we share some helpful advice from a mental health expert on how to make the holiday less stressful (page 08). Our editor and a mom, Danielle Ramos shares a reminder to slow down (page 10) and be present. And because kids need to stay curious and active even as temperatures
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drop, our Activities guide (page 14) shares classes and programs to keep kids learning and moving.
Let’s not forget our Gift Guide (page 20)! We share a curated roundup of the toys and gifts kids actually want, from babies to teens, with plenty of parent-approved picks (including stocking stuffers!).
Wherever this season finds you, gathering, exploring, or sneaking in a bit of rest (fingers crossed), we wish you a holiday filled with comfort, connection, and joy.
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The Secret to a Less Stressful Holiday
Dr. Claudia Fernandes on mental health and connection
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
The holidays are meant to be a time of joy, but let’s face it, for many parents, they come with a side of stress, pressure, and high expectations. From trying to create the perfect holiday experience to managing all the extra tasks and emotions that pop up this time of year, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.
To help make the season a little easier, we spoke with Dr. Claudia-Santi F. Fernandes, a licensed professional counselor and the Founding Director of Youth4Wellness at Yale University. Dr. Fernandes is also the Director of Research and Evaluation at the Born This Way Foundation, where she focuses on mental health and wellness, particularly among young people.
A lot of moms feel this huge pressure to create the “perfect” holiday for their families. Why do you think we put so much weight on that, and how can parents, especially moms, let go of those unrealistic expectations without feeling like they’re failing?
The pressure to create the “perfect” holiday often stems from unrealistic expectations and a heartfelt desire to give our loved ones the very best. And sometimes, we think it has to come at all costs, but it doesn’t have to be this way and—in fact—it should NOT be this way as it often leads to burnout. This pressure is often amplified by images in the media, where comparison can lead to feelings of falling short of these expectations. It’s important to remember that kindness toward others starts with kindness toward ourselves.
I appreciate Dr. Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion, which highlights that treating ourselves with the same compassion and understanding that we show others can reduce stress and increase our resilience—
preventing burnout. I’ve witnessed this in my own life and in working with thousands of parents and caregivers over the years: By shifting our focus from perfection to connection—moments of shared kindness, like practicing gratitude as a family, participating in volunteer activities, or spending time engaging in meaningful conversations—we can create memories that truly matter.
With so many families facing financial stress this year, it can be hard to make the holidays feel special without going into debt. What are some ways parents can still create meaningful memories without the pressure of overspending?
Sometimes we forget that the essence of the holiday season lies in connection and gratitude. Connection is feeling seen, heard, and valued by ourselves and one another. Gratitude is noticing and appreciating the positive in life. Research tells us that daily gratitude improves parent-child dynamics and family well-being, which can have a more lasting impact on our well-being than physical gifts. At Born This Way Foundation, we encourage daily acts of kindness and gratitude toward ourselves and others, like writing heartfelt letters to loved ones, which strengthen bonds and emphasize the joy of giving beyond material possessions. Teaching children the value of these moments helps cultivate resilience and promotes wellbeing for the entire family.
And, if you are looking for some sugges-
tions on a few acts of kindness, I always enjoy checking out our #BeKind365 platform for science-backed strategies on how to be kind to ourselves, others, and our communities. One of my favorite features is also one that I’d highly recommend for this holiday season: our “Gratitude Postal Service” where we’re invited to send a message of gratitude to anyone in the world and remind them they matter.
I recently sent an email with a note of gratitude to one of my best friends (who I consider a sister) in San Francisco. Although we can’t be together over the holidays, it made me feel so connected to her. In the midst of the holiday hecticness, it is so important to take a moment to express gratitude, to feel connected, and to share meaningful memories with yourself and others—by pausing and creating these lasting memories is truly kindness in action.
For many people, the holidays bring up feelings of loneliness or sadness. Why do some parents—especially moms—get more depressed during this time of year, and what can they do to take care of their own mental health when it feels like everything is on their shoulders?
The holidays are known to exacerbate stress, grief, and/or loneliness, particularly for caregivers who feel immense responsibility to make the season magical. This past year, the U.S. Surgeon General issued an Advisory on the Mental Health and Wellbeing of Parents. In this report, he emphasizes the critical need
of providing better support to parents, caregivers, and families—individually, as a community, and through policies. So, please know that structures and systems need to change as well. In the meantime, there are sciencebacked individual- and community-level strategies to help navigate this time of year.
First, I want to acknowledge that if you are feeling overwhelmed, sad, and unmotivated—your feelings are valid. Compounded by the holidays, less daylight, and more, this time of year can feel challenging. While many may overlook their own needs during this time (leading to burnout), it is vital for caregivers to prioritize their mental health and well-being.
One of my first recommendations is exercise and, specifically, walking—alone, with your pet, with your kids, with your entire family, or with your friends. In a review of 23 studies with over 900 participants, exercise was an effective intervention in treating depression. If exercise is not for you, I invite you to find activities that allow you to pause, reflect, and engage in self-compassion and acts of kindness toward oneself, whether it’s a few minutes of quiet, a phone call with a friend, or an activity that brings joy.
Another favorite recommendation is the Kindness-Loving Meditation. In fact, in a review of the literature, kindness-loving meditations reduced stress and even improved our immune response. These findings are corroborated by our research from Born This Way Foundation that highlights the power of kindness, including kindness to ourselves, to reduce stress and improve mental health and wellbeing. Giving yourself permission to step back and focus on your needs isn’t selfish—it’s essential in order to show up as your best self for yourself and those you care about.
Oftentimes young people, due to varying reasons, do not have an immediate family to spend the holidays with. How can we best support them during the holidays?
It’s important to remember that family extends to those we chose, too—and some family may not be related by blood. For young people without immediate family, chosen families and trusted communities can provide the connection and support they need during the holidays. This might look like hosting a gathering for friends, reaching out with a simple check-in, or creating spaces where everyone feels welcome.
At Born This Way Foundation, we focus on uplifting young people’s stories and experiences, ensuring they know they are seen, valued, and supported—especially
“Research tells us that daily gratitude improves parent-child dynamics and family well-being, which can have a more lasting impact on our well-being than physical gifts.”
during times when loneliness may feel more pronounced. Through Channel Kindness, our digital platform where stories from young people are published, Phoebe Chidley shares a letter from Seanryan, a teenage adoptee, who reflects on their journey as an adoptee.
Seanryan’s piece validates the experience of finding and embracing chosen family as a source of strength and identity. We learn from this letter to value the relationships that bring us joy and stability because family is not solely defined by blood but by the bonds we intentionally create with those who nurture, uplift, and accept us unconditionally.
Teens and young adults can often feel the pressure of the holidays too. How can parents help their kids recognize when their friends might be struggling with holiday stress or depression, and what can they do to support each other?
Each young person is unique; therefore, engaging in open, ongoing conversations about mental health can help parents and teens recognize signs of stress or depression. By doing so, we are better able to understand how someone may be feeling or what they are experiencing around the holidays. Through these ongoing conversations, we are also able to recognize any changes in their behavior—like excessive worry or fear, prolonged feelings of irritability, or avoidance of friends and social activities—and this is key to knowing when someone may need additional support.
In our research at Born This Way Foundation, we learned that the majority of young people report connecting with family and friends as a strategy to support them during difficult times. And, interestingly enough, we also learned that even when young people find the courage to share their struggles and ask for support, their friends and family members often do not know how to respond because they don’t feel confident in their ability to respond appropriately.
For this reason, our team partnered with Jack.org to create the Be There Certificate— a free, digital, self-paced online course that teaches young people how to recognize when someone is struggling, listen without judgment, and connect them to help. Encouraging teens and young adults to check in on one another and ask simple questions like “How are you really doing?” can create meaningful
opportunities to support one another.
We can all think of the moment when someone in our lives might have needed a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, or when we ourselves needed to be there for ourselves, and this tool offers a way to practice how to do just that. Imagine knowing what to say in those moments and having the skills and confidence to support someone in your life this holiday season? I’m moved by the over 56,000 people that have already chosen to learn these skills and I invite anyone reading to start there today.
In your work with the Born This Way Foundation, you’ve seen the positive effects of kindness on mental wellness. Could you explain why acts of kindness are so powerful, especially during the holidays? And how can parents incorporate this into their family routines?
We are rooted in the science of kindness and science tells us that our brains respond positively to practicing, witnessing, and receiving kindness. In our own research at Born This Way Foundation, our findings highlighted that acts of kindness—big or small— improve mood, reduce stress, and foster stronger connections.
During the holiday season, incorporating kindness into family routines could mean volunteering together, leaving kind notes for loved ones, or practicing gratitude as a family. For additional ideas, our #BeKind365 platform provides science-backed ideas to inspire kindness every day of the year. By prioritizing kindness—in ourselves and toward others, we create opportunities to strengthen bonds, lift others up, and improve our collective wellbeing.
As the Director of Research + Evaluation at Born This Way Foundation, Dr. Claudia Fernandes brings a deep understanding of youth mental health, caregiver dynamics, and evidence-based strategies to promote the organization’s vision of a world where every young person has access to resources, communities, and platforms to proactively support their own and their peers’ mental health and wellbeing, kindly and bravely. Dr. Claudia’s work focuses on amplifying the voices of young people, fostering connections, and offering science-backed, actionable tools to navigate stress and build relationships rooted in kindness—including for caregivers and chosen families this holiday season.
Before They’re Grown
One parent’s reminder to slow down and be present
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
We’ve all heard the reminder to enjoy parenting, because children grow up so fast. Never before had that simple saying proved to be more true than when I watched my son—my adorable, sweet, 6-foot1, 14-year-old baby—acquire an insanely deep voice and trot off to high school. There are countless times a week when I just look at his face and my daughters, and see the beautiful, smiling toddlers they used to be, in what seems like just yesterday.
If I could go back, I would press the rewind button, slow down, and enjoy parenting so much more.
If you find yourself relating, follow these simple tips:
Slow down … literally!
Stop trying to pack more into your day than you can reasonably handle. That pressure doesn’t just affect you—it spills over onto your kids. Constantly rushing creates stress, and stress creates chaos at home.
Repeat this small word: “No.” For such a tiny word, we sure have a hard time uttering it, and yet it can be the most freeing thing we do. By intentionally choosing not to overcommit, we are prioritizing enjoying our lives (and our kids!) more. We all know it, we just have to start doing it.
Do the same for your children.
Give your children recreational activities, but don’t sign them up for so many obligations that they have no downtime after school and on weekends. Children need time to recharge and opportunities to do nothing. This is how creativity is cultivated. It’s also how children learn to restore themselves and become who they are.
Enjoy the little things.
You know how you were rushing to get to school or work, but your toddler wanted to look at the beautiful flower in the neighbor’s yard or the ants gathering on the piece of candy on the ground? These seemingly insignificant things can become some of the most cherished moments. Humans were not made to live life at a frenetic pace. Ever notice how when you are at a beach or in a park, or somewhere else enjoying nature, your stress levels decrease? Our children are very good at this. Take their lead.
Make time for engaging in slow, simple, and meaningful activities together.
Whether it’s drawing, reading a book, baking, or just sitting and talking, carve out space in your day to be with your child without
distractions. Schedule art time or story time, and treat it like a sacred appointment—not something to squeeze in between chores or errands. Turn off your phone, close your laptop, and tune in completely. Don’t halflisten or multitask—kids notice when your mind is elsewhere. What they crave most is your undivided attention. Be fully present, fully engaged, and let those moments become the ones they remember most.
Don’t rush milestones.
So what if your friend’s baby can speak in full sentences or is potty trained? Stop worrying about when or if your child will do certain things and just let him be. Every single human on earth is different, and we need to embrace this. Our child’s unique ways should be respected and celebrated.
A Local Westchester Real Estate Specialist Who Really Cares
They say home is where the heart is, but what happens when the time comes to sell your home? How do you ensure your “heart” follows you to your new home?
That’s where Jennifer Martire Baukol comes in. This Seniors Real Estate Specialist makes it her business to ensure every buyer, and seller, is more than comfortable with the transition to their next chapter in life. Under her guidance, clients are supported through every step of selling, downsizing, “right-sizing,” or relocating with the utmost care and patience.
According to Jennifer, selling a home, especially later in life, isn’t just a transaction; it’s full of memories and emotions. With two decades of experience in real estate, mortgages, and senior care, she is able to seamlessly navigate both the financial and emotional sides of a move. Utilizing an extensive network of highly trusted professionals, organizers, estate specialists, elder care attorneys, movers, and community partners, she gives clients her all. By protecting their interests and negotiating the best value, clients enjoy a manageable transition without the overwhelm.
Combining market expertise with compassion, Jennifer simply wants to ease the process for her clients. “For me, it’s not just about the real estate transaction. It’s about helping people move forward with confidence and care,” she says.
While Jennifer specializes in helping seniors and families through major life transitions, her expertise extends to firsttime home buyers, growing families, and
"For me, it’s not just about the real estate transaction. It’s about helping people move forward with confidence and care.”
anyone looking to make their next move with confidence and care.
She believes that real estate is about helping people buy or sell a lifestyle, not just a home.
It’s no surprise Jennifer’s clients are so trusting. Her empathic and kindhearted nature shines through in everything she does. From raising funds and awareness for the Alzheimer’s Association and Sharp Again to volunteering as a youth basketball and soccer coach, she’s always thinking of ways to give back. A member of the Business Council of Westchester as well as the Women’s Club of White Plains,
her ties to the community are deep-rooted and strong.
“For me, giving back means using my skills, time, and network to make a positive difference at every level, from families to businesses to the wider community,” she says. “Being a good example to my three children.” That’s the kind of person you want your real estate agent to be.
Jennifer Martire Baukol Coldwell Banker
278 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains, NY 10605
Cut-Your-Own Christmas Tree Farms
BY NÁOSHA GREGG
The holidays are heer and if you have yet to pick up that Christmas tree, no worries-we got you covered! Westchester County is full of farms that offer lush picks, from cut-your-own to pre-cut options, and also offer seasonal fun, including warm cups of hot cocoa and apple cider, decorative wreaths, and a visit from the man in red himself.
Ahead, we break down where you can find the perfect Christmas tree for your home this season.
Cockburn Farm
1611 US-9, Garrison, NY (845) 424-3574
Hours: to December 23rd, 9 am to 5 pm December 24th, 9 am to 1 pm
Enter a world of lush, green trees as you begin your search for the perfect Christmas tree. This local farm offers two great options for selecting your tree: Cut-Your-Own or choosing from their selection of premium Pre-Cut Trees. The farm offers a variety of fragrant fir trees, including Fraser Fir, Douglas Fir, and Concolor Fir, ranging from five to 15 feet tall.
In addition to Christmas trees, the farm also serves as a picturesque background for the holiday season, featuring hot cocoa, coffee, and festive snacks from Mrs. Claus’s Sweet Shop, or enjoy heartier bites from Santa’s Snack Shack. Visitors can also stop by to visit the man in red before he heads back to the North Pole!
Emmerich Tree Farm
101 Sleepy Valley Road, Warwick, NY (845) 986-0151
Call for hours, reservations required Tree reservations may be needed at this farm, give them a call first before heading over. at this popular choose-and-cut Christmas tree farm. Families can pick from 12 varieties of spruce, pine, and fir trees. They also have a cut your own option, and the team at Emmerich can help with
trimming, shaking, baling, and getting your tree on your car.
Additionally, you can find ornaments and gifts such as handcrafted Adirondack reindeer and snowmen, locally made chocolates, assorted bells, handcrafted ornaments, and more. The farm also offers wreath-making classes where you can learn how to decorate and personalize your own wreath for the season.
Westchester Greenhouses and Farm
332 W. Hartsdale Ave., Hartsdale, NY (914) 949-9403
Hours: Monday to Sunday, 9 am to 6 pm
Head to Westchester Greenhouses and Farm this holiday season to embrace the holiday cheer at a local favorite in Hartsdale. This family-friendly Westchester County
greenhouse and farm offers fresh produce, plants, jams, honey, and newly added dairy, alongside seasonal items like Christmas trees and wreaths at affordable prices. The farm also offers delivery if the holiday season gets too hectic.
Stuart’s Fruit Farm
62 Granite Springs Road, Somers, NY (914) 245-2784
Hours: Farmstand, 9 am to 5 pm; cut your own or pre-cut Christmas trees; Wednesday to Sunday, 10 am to 5 pm
A lovely greenhouse & farm in Westchester where you can cut your own tree, enjoy fresh pies, and shop for seasonal decorations in a welcoming, family-friendly setting. Families can get a pre-cut tree or you can cut-yourown at Stuart’s Fruit Farm, be sure to check
the website for updated information before heading there.
You can also find delicious homemade pies, donuts, sweets, and local produce at their on-site bakery.
Wilken’s Fruit & Fir Farm
1335 White Hill Road, Yorktown Heights, NY (914) 245-5111
Call for hours, reservations required A local seasonal farm in Westchester, where families can enjoy a festive day and experience the holiday spirit together, families can find Douglas and Fraser Fir trees for choice-and-cut and some pre-cut Fraser Fir trees.
After you pick or cut your tree, stop by their gift shop for wreaths, ornaments, and their bake shop for apple cider donuts, pies, and cookies. They also provide a free cup of hot apple cider with every tree purchase.
Tony’s Nursery
2285 Boston Post Rd, Larchmont, NY (914) 834-2172
Monday to Friday, 10 am to 5 pm, Saturday to
Sunday, 9 am to 5 pm
At Tony’s Nursery, customers can explore a wide selection of Fraser fir cut trees, some reaching heights of up to 12 feet. Families have the chance to find the perfect tree for their home and decorations, with knowledgeable staff on hand to assist with any questions. Once a tree is selected, the staff expertly wraps it, gives it a fresh cut, and securely ties it to the roof of the customer’s car.
Tony’s Nursery prides itself on handling each tree with care, ensuring it looks its best when finally in your home for the holiday season.
Wright Family Farm
329 Kings Hwy, Warwick, NY (845) 986-1345
Call for hours
Wright Family Farm is a wonderful greenhouse & farm-style location in Westchester where families can find fresh trees, wreaths, seasonal décor, and enjoy a warm and friendly holiday outing. Located an hour north of NYC, find a selection of
fresh-cut Christmas trees, including Fraser Fir and Balsam Fir. You can find trees that range in size from tabletop to 12-foot trees. They also offer free hot chocolate, wreaths, roping/garland, and seasonal décor items.
Solvang Christmas Tree Farm
80 Bedell Rd, Poughkeepsie, NY (845) 473-0224
Hours: Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, 9 am to 4:30 pm
You and your family can cut your own Christmas tree at this tree farm, varieties include Blue Spruce, White Spruce, Norway Spruce, and Engelmann Spruce, that range in size from three to nine feet tall. Additionally, they carry a variety of pre-cut New York State and Pennsylvania-grown trees such as Fraser Fir, Concolor Fir, and Douglas Fir trees that range from seven to nine feet. They also have Fraser Fir trees that range in height from 12 feet-16 feet.
You can also find holiday decorations, ornaments, centerpieces, and baked goods for sale.
Samuel Polan DDS, MS
Catherine Woo DDS, MS
Winter Classes & Activities
Find the right class, activity or extracurricular for your child
BY STACEY EBERT
As a kid, I loved after-school extracurricular classes. Whether summer camp, gymnastics, or high school clubs – regardless of the time of year- I embraced the energy that came with all activities. As a young adult, I led youth groups, ran after-school classes at the local community center, and taught many kids to swim. I felt lucky to have teachers and counselors who chose to share their time, energy, expertise, and talents.
As the season shifts towards winter, it’s time to ensure those young minds have extracurricular classes, activities, or sports to engage, foster, and energize their spirits. Parents should know something exists for all kids – it might take time, effort, trial and error, thinking outside the box, recruiting experts, and listening to your child’s voice. It might mean investments in energy, money, community, and heart. However long it takes to find the thing that lights them up – it’s worth it.
Here are 4 tips to help find an engaging winter extracurricular, class or activity for your child.
Listen actively to the kind of activity, class your child needs Kids have a way of sharing their thoughts. Young children might not have the words yet, but they know how they feel. Those with the words might not have the meaning flushed out, and some kids may be shy and might need coaxing to try something new. Listen to what seems to interest them and provide options, give them the tools to research, keep an open line of communication, remind them they’ve got a support system, encourage giving it a try, and help them see that the nervous excitement of expanding that comfort zone is worth both the risk and joy.
Know what sorts of classes, sports your child gravitates towards
There is something for everyone in New York – offering many enriching activities encompassing diverse arts, including painting, sculpting, dancing, drawing, poetry, writing, music, theater, and more.
Engaging in the arts fosters talent and expands your child’s understanding of the world, nurturing a heightened sense of selfawareness.
For those passionate about sports, tailor-made winter classes are available after school or on weekends, providing the ideal outlet for children to expend their boundless energy.
Don’t overextend your child’s extracurricular schedule
Parent tip! If you’re overextended, your child is overscheduled, or there is sensory overload coming for your child (or you!), then less is more. One meaningful activity is more than enough.
If one day a week or a few hours each is sufficient, it will work for your child and, most importantly, the family.
There is an activity, class, or sport out there for every child
In families with more than one kid, you may run around and do different activities for your children, as only all of your kids will want to do the same sport or class.
So, lead them to what they will thrive in or take a mild interest and turn it into a full-on hobby. For example, If your child has an ear for languages, steer them towards an international culture or language club. If they’re pulled towards teams, leadership, and exercise, see what types of sports or club teams are out there for them. If they crave connection and want to learn creative pursuits, consider opening their world towards what’s possible in arts, community service, or learning something new. They want to practice swimming midwinter, there’s a club for that. They want to learn chess and build their interpersonal skills simultaneously; there’s a class for that. They want to learn marketing, debate, and business skills – there’s an organization for that. They want to learn survival skills and embrace the goals of scouts and leadership; there’s a space for that.
Give them a safe, non-judgemental space to share their interests and thrive.
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Amadeus Conservatory of Music and Theater
201 King St., Chappaqua 382 Cantitoe St., Bedford 914-238-0388
Amadeus offers private lessons in all instruments and voice for children and adults at all levels. Instruments include piano, voice, guitar, drums, strings, Suzuki violin, woodwinds, and brass, and early childhood classes for babies through preschool. Excellent teachers hold top credentials from prestigious schools. They are experienced, nurturing, and give students a love of music. Classes include music theory, chamber music, and composition. There are two student recitals a year, NYSSMA preparation, and more. Classes begin December 1st.
Central Park Dance
165-171 South Central Ave., Hartsdale
Voted Best of Westchester
2025, Central Park Dance has been a hub for movement, creativity, and connection for 43 seasons. With after-school and weekend classes in ballet, jazz, tap, hip-hop, lyrical, and contemporary, there’s something for every dancer from toddlers to teens to adults. Classes are led by expert faculty in a supportive, inspiring environment. New students are welcome year-round! Sign up for Winter & Spring now!
KAC Kisco Art Center
40 Radio Circle Dr, Mt. Kisco 914-232-4843
Katonahartcenter.com
This winter the KAC Art Center in Mt. Kisco is offering a wide array of after-school and Saturday art classes. Our working artist instructors offer a diverse range of talents, including Painting, Drawing, Sculpture, Encaustics, Fused Glass, Pottery Wheel & Animation with classes for children, teens and adults. Register early to secure your spot as classes fill up fast.
Don’t miss the chance to have fun and learn something new at KAC.
The Music Conservatory of Westchester
216 Central Ave, White Plains 914-761-3900
info@musiced.org musicconservatory.org
At the Music Conservatory of Westchester, they bring together students and families of all ages and backgrounds through shared musical experiences. As a transformative force, music education cultivates a lifelong passion for the arts, empowering kids to explore their unique voices and realize their fullest potential. In this vibrant, supportive environment, everyone can grow, connect, and celebrate music as a community...a harmonious neighborhood where music matters!
The Play Group Theatre
One North Broadway, White Plains 914-946-4433
info@playgroup.org playgroup.org
Be sure to join The Play Group Theatre this season for two fun and family-friendly Mainstage productions. This December, James and The Giant Peach will capture your heart and imagination as you travel with James in the most unusual form of transportation imaginable! Then in January, catch She Loves Me, a witty romantic comedy by the writers of Fiddler on the Roof, complete with handwritten letters, mistaken identity, and unexpected romance!
Rising Sport Stars
280 Old Mamaroneck Rd., White Plains, NY 999 Wilmot Road, Scarsdale, 929-841-4500
Info@RisingSportStars.com
RisingSportStars.com
Powered by New York Knicks Partnerships, Rising Sport Stars delivers premier basketball programs for kids ages 3 and up. In collaboration with the Jr. Knicks and
Westchester Knicks, we offer exciting classes and leagues each fall, winter, and spring. From high-energy clinics to private sessions, every experience builds skills, confidence, and teamwork. Smallgroup challenges sharpen shooting, passing, and defense—helping each child grow with expert coaching and feedback while fostering a lifelong love of the game.
Studio B Dance Center
277 White Plains Road, Eastchester 914-793-2799
studiobdance.com
Dance is one of the healthiest activities you can give your child. Studio B fosters a joyful, safe studio culture that helps children grow physically, mentally, and emotionally. Every class teaches life skills, building self-confidence, lowering anxiety, developing social skills, and learning how to be resilient. Their philosophy is: “We don’t teach kids to make great dancers; we teach
dance to make great kids.” Experienced and nurturing teachers help every dancer. Sign up now for Winter 2026!
WSA Westchester Skating Academy
91 Fairview Park Dr, Elmsford 914-347-8232
bdonohue@skatewsa.com
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Keep your kids active and inspired this season at Westchester Skating Academy’s Winter Camps! Westchester County’s only NHL twin-rink facility—offers year-round skating programs for ages 3 to adult. From Learn to Skate classes and youth hockey leagues to figure skating, stick time, adult pick-up hockey, birthday parties, and public skating, there’s something for every level. This winter, WSA Winter Camps provide fun, skill-building instruction in a supportive environment. With sessions starting every eight weeks, it’s the perfect place to grow confidence on the ice!
Finally, Equal Changing Spaces for Parents
Parks are making diaper duty easier for Moms and DADS
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
County Executive Ken Jenkins recently signed (October) the Diapers Involve All Parents Regardless of Sex (DIAPRS) Act into law. This law ensures that every county park restroom and public floor in countyowned buildings has a diaper-changing station for all parents to use. This law gives moms and dads the same access to changing stations, making it easier for every parent to care for their children on the go.
DIAPRS Act Provides Changing Stations in Both Men’s and Women’s Restrooms
For years, many fathers and male caregivers found themselves without access to safe, clean changing stations, forcing them to get creative (and sometimes unsanitary) when changing their child’s diaper in public spaces. The DIAPRS Act eliminates that gap by making sure all caregivers, regardless of gender, have equal access to clean facilities to safely change their baby.
“Every parent knows that caring for a child does not always happen on schedule, and diaper changes are part of the reality of parenting,” Jenkins said. “With the signing of the DIAPRS Act, we are telling every parent and guardian that their role is valued and supported. Families in Westchester should never have to struggle to find a safe, clean space to care for their child.”
The bipartisan bill was co-sponsored by 13 legislators and unanimously praised for its family-centered vision. Deputy County Executive Richard Wishnie noted that the law helps “remove barriers” and ensures families have what they need “to care for their children safely and with dignity.”
Similarly, Board of Legislators Chairman Vedat Gashi added that the legislation reflects modern parenting needs: “The DIAPRS Act ensures that all caregivers, whether they’re fathers, mothers, or guardians, have equal access to the facilities they need to care for their children with dignity.”
It’s a Win for Westchester Dads
For County Legislator Colin D. Smith, the new law represents a long-overdue acknowledgment of shared parenting. “Historically, fathers have faced practical barriers such as the absence of changing facilities in men’s restrooms that have limited their ability to support their partners in childcare duties,” he said. “Fatherhood merits the same respect and recognition as motherhood, and this legislation is an important step toward ensuring that equality.”
Legislator Erika L. Pierce called the new law a “win for dads across Westchester,”
adding that “being able to change a diaper on the fly is no small need, and this legislation will help us make certain that every caregiver, regardless of their gender, can do that safely and hygienically.”
Next, the Department of Public Works and Transportation will map out where the new changing stations will go, calculate the costs, and set a timeline to complete the project. In short, the DIAPRS Act is a real step forward for Westchester parents and makes life a little easier for anyone caring for a baby in public. Dads, moms, grandparents, and all caregivers will finally have equal access to clean, safe spaces to tend to their children.
Westchester is following New York City’s lead. In 2024, NYC Parks installed more than 600 diaper changing stations across nearly 1,300 public restrooms, ensuring that both men’s and women’s facilities are equipped for parents and caregivers.
Gift Guide
BY SHARA LEVINE AND NEW YORK FAMILY
1 . Woom WOW Balance Bike
Balance and developing it are always learn ing goals for toddlers. But make it fun with this self-balancing balance bike that helps your child to learn this important motor skill. Age: 9-36 Mo, $200, Woom.com.
2 . Fisher-Price Rocket Pals Ball Pitt
The kids can launch into space right in their bedroom or playroom in this versatile inflatable rocket-ship ball pit. There are 15 included play balls to practice gross motor skills and engage in sensory play. Ages: 2+, $30-40, Walmart.com.
3 . Lamaze Peek-a-Moo Friendly Barn
It’s all about the squish for babies, and that is what this plushy barn offers. There is a roof that has a crinkled flap, as well as satinto-the-touch ribbons, and a soft cow plush that has what babies adore. The mother hen can be found at the side of the barn. 6 Mos +, $15, Tomy.com.
4 Wonderclimber Climber
Dr. Emmi Pikler believed that babies flourished when given the freedom to explore. This wooden Pikler Triangle playset invites rich sensory and active play, giving kids a chance to feel differ ent textures as they climb, balance, and explore. Age: 18 Mo +, $90, mybtoys.com.
5 . Loveevery The Play Kits
Every kit blends expert guidance with ageperfect play, giving you curated toys, helpful resources, and steady support through the app, social media, and weekly emails. Age: 0 +, $80-120, Lovevery.com
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AGES 3–4
1 . Imaginext Jurassic World Rebirth Ultimate Action Chomp T. Rex
2 . Cutie Cubes
Go back, or actually, in the cinema world, in the future with this T. Rex. With this toy, your kid will be in control and can play out all their dinosaur adventures. Age: 3+, $107.99, Mattel. com.’’
These stackable, cubeshaped plushies come in multiple styles and won’t break the bank. Choose from four sizes ranging from 4 to 10 inches. Age: 3+, $3.99-12.99, Yooniquetoys.com.
3 . 48-Piece Glitter Castle Pack
shapes, building, and how repetitive
The beauty of magnetic tiles is by using imagination, kids learn about shapes, building, and how repetitive play offers adventure, no electronic tablets necessary! Age: 3+, $69, Connetix.
4 . Harmony All-In-One Activity Table
Parents and kids (!) love a good activity table, and this well-designed one does triple duty for play. Your little one can switch between a train table top, an art surface, or go old-school style with the flat play side. And oh, there is also room for storage! Age: 3+, $180, Target.com.
5 . Crayola Art-To-Go Table Easel Magnetic Set
Play at home or travel with this double-sided easel that includes a magnetic dry-erase board, a chalkboard, and a storage nook for supplies. The crayon tube stores the magnetic letters and numbers. Age: 3+, $34.99, Grow-n-up.com.
6 . Flip & Fry Grill Play Set
Kids can “cook” safely with this fun playset, which includes a grill, a griddle, and a fryer with waterbased, color-changing food. Of course, there is a spatula, a fryer basket, and condiments, all for serving up some sumptuous play meals. Age: 3+, $27.99, Melissa&Doug.com. or
1 . Minecraft Builders & Biomes Junior
Play with friends and family with this no-app-required Minecraft board game. Staying on theme, you can build a farm using a pickaxe and a shovel, gather those books, and, of course, like the game, construct stables for the animals. Ravensburger.com.
2 . Evergreen Cabin
If your child is past the dollhouse stage or is an architect in the making, they will love this kit’s features, which let them use pieces together to craft an A-frame cabin, complete with luch trees and a cool roof. $60.00, Maisonette.com.
3 . Bluey Mini Music Player
Time to dance to the beat, or not with this mini music player. There are four built-in tracks. The player also lights up and pulses with the beats your child plays. Age: 3+, $15, Ekids.com
AGES 5–7
4 . Remote Control Climbing Bottle Fly
Your kid will spend hours remotely controlling this Bottle Fly. Up the walls or the ceiling, or switch to Auto Mode and let it move about on its own, like flies tend to do! Age: 5+, $19.99, Target.com.
5 . National Geographic Ant Habitat
Ants get a bad rap, and this Ant Habitat can be your kids’ cool animal kingdom where they can enjoy watching live ants (you will have to add those) and learn
1 . Easy Bake Ultimate Oven
Parents who once owned this oven may feel a sense of nostalgia this holiday. This version still has many of the fun elements and has been upgraded with features such as a modern-retro design, a light-up rainbow confetti pattern, and a builtin timer. Age: 8 +, $49.97, Walmart. com
2 . Pokémon Trading Card Game: Mega Evolution Elite Trainer Box
For the deserving kid who loves Pokémon, 24/7 #iykyk, the Mega Evolution Pokémon, along with Mega Lucario ex and Mega Gardevoir, can be found in this Trainer Box! Age: 6, $50, Target.com
3 . The Hobbit: There & Back Again
A good dice game is a way to screen free play and invite the family to join in. This game includes eight individual adventures that all lead from the Bag End to the Lonely Mountain. Age: 10+, $35, Store.asmodee.com
4 . Emotional Support
Dino Nuggies
This age group can be challenging; kids face social dynamics and heavy homework loads. A small reminder, like a basket of soft, mini dinosaur nuggets, can never hurt; they’re so cute! Add to a backpack, place next to the bed for a comforting squeeze. Age: 0+, $17, Target.com.
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A big thank-you to Toy Insider (toyinsider.com) for helping us curate the best toys for our little ones!
TWEENS & TEENS
1 . Kendra Scott Elisa Pendant Necklace
This classic Kendra Scott Elisa Pendant Necklace can be worn in so many different ways: on its own, layered with other pieces, dressed up, or dressed down. Choose from gold or silver chains, and over 20 different colored stones. This can be a truly personal gift when you choose meaningful colors like a birthstone. Starting at $60, kendrascott.com
2 . Playstation Pulse Elite Wireless Headset
The Pulse Elite wireless headset is light, comfortable, and uses technology typically found in headsets for professional sound engineers. A retractable microphone lets players can easily communicate with their friends. Although this headset is made for the PS5 gaming system, it can also be used with PCs, Macs, and Bluetoothsupported devices. $149.99, playstation.com
3 . KAWS WINTER x UNIQLO HEATTECH Beanie
You won’t have to fight with your kid to wear a hat when you gift them with this beanie, part of the new KAWS WINTER collection from UNIQLO. Brooklyn based artist KAWS (Brian Donnelly) known for his pop art, translates his style to this winter drop, including this beanie, adorned with his signature “XX”. $29.90, uniqlo.com
4 . Nintendo Switch™ 2 + Pokémon™ Legends: Z-A – Nintendo Switch 2 Edition Bundle
You gotta catch them all, but first you need this Nintendo Switch 2 bundle that includes a full game download for the Pokémon Legends: Z-A. Experience Lumiose City in a new way with enhanced features and performance upgrades. $499.99, nintendo.com
5 . Men’s Fragrance Discover Scent
By now, your son has probably started dabbling in colognes or, more likely, body spray. He’s trying to figure things out as he grows, and may need a little help. Enter the Men’s Fragrance Discovery Set from Ulta. Gift this to your man in training and let him test his way through 15 unique designer scents until he finds one, or more, that suits him best. The set comes with a $15 gift card to use toward a $50 purchase of any of the fragrances featured. $39, ulta.com
6 . SKIMS Teddy Bear Slipper
Just because they’re too big to be carrying around a stuffed animal doesn’t mean they won’t want to wear them on their feet. These comfortable slippers are adorable and perfect for keeping your kids warm and cozy. $78, skims.com
STOCKING STUFFERS
1 . Slushy Kid’s Masks
Choose from three fruity “slushy” flavors: Blue Raspberry Slushy, Cherry Slushy, and Lemonade Slushy. $2.50, avataraskin. com
2 . Hot Dog Pretzel N.Y. Socks
Super comfortable and reps our favorite New York street food snacks- a hot pretzel and hot dog (with mustard, of course!) $16, piccolinyshop.com
3 . Ty Beanie Bouncers
The new Ty Beanie Bouncers are made for throwing and bouncing- as high as 50 feet! Characters to choose from, including holiday-themed, animals, and kid favorites from Star Wars, Paw Patrol, and Harry Potter! $5.99. michaels.com
4 . Juice Infused Lip Oil
Swipe on for a shine that subtly brings out your natural color, and even normally unforgiving shades are still flattering. $10, ulta.com
5 . UNO Show ’em No Mercy
Named Game of the Year at the 2025 Toy of the Year awards, a game we all love, but with more opportunities to mix things up and add to the excitement of this family favorite. $9.99, Walmart.com
5 . Mother’s Reindeer Games Cookies
Adorable and delicious, these limited-edition shortbread cookies come in fun reindeer shapes. Let’s leave some out for Santa, too! $13. walmart. com
A HOLIDAY PICK WE LOVE!
Ages 6 & Up
Raquel™ 18-inch Doll & Journal (American Girl® Girl of the Year™ 2026) Raquel Reyes™ loves DJing, taste-testing paletas at her family’s shop in Kansas City, and spending time with her lovable rescue pup, Luzita™ Premium features:
An 18” Raquel doll with brown eyes that open and close, and dark-brown hair styled in a front ponytail with a gingham bow. She has a soft cotton body, and her movable head and limbs are made of smooth vinyl.
An outfit inspired by Raquel’s greatgreat-grandmother Samantha Parkington’s iconic look: a pink-and-plum ginghamprint top with a ruched front, puff sleeves with attached purple bows, and a ruffled bottom hem; a gingham-print full skirt with gathers at the waist; and a matching hair tie with a gingham-print fabric bow
Also includes:
A golden cuff bracelet with a bow, a pair of pink platform shoes with ankle straps and purple bows at the toes, and a pair of underwear
An illustrated paperback book, The Diary of Raquel Reyes, that tells how Raquel shares her passion for music and family history, reconnects with her relatives, and springs into action with her cousin Sloan for an important rescue mission
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BY SHARA LEVINE
Santa at Ridge Hill
WHEN: Through Dec. 24; see website for schedule
WHERE: Ridge Hill, 1 Ridge Hill Blvd., Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: Step into Santa’s North Pole-inspired cottage to capture unforgettable holiday photos with the jolly man himself.
WANT TO GO?: Photo packages start at $34.95. ridgehill.com
Lumina
WHEN: Through Dec. 30; see website for schedule
WHERE: Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard, 130 Hardscrabble Road, North Salem
AGES: All
WHAT: Immerse yourself in the warmth and magic of our enchanting, illuminated forest. Over half a million brilliant lights will create a cozy and inviting glow, filling the air with holiday cheer.
WANT TO GO?: tickets start at $15. (917) 535–9979, luminahm. com
Holiday Bricktacular
WHEN: Through Dec. 31; see website for schedule
WHERE: LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester, 39 Fitzgerald St., Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy a winter wonderland of activities, special builds, photo ops, festive decorations, and more!
WANT TO GO?:
Tickets start at $24.99. legolanddiscoverycenter.com
Yonkers Downtown Getty Square Tree Lighting Ceremony
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 5, 4:30 –5:30 pm
WHERE: The Getty Square, 1 Palisade Ave., Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: Experience the magic
of the holidays with festive lights, holiday music, hot chocolate, candy canes, and plenty of photo ops.
WHAT: Visit the animals inside of the decorated barns, participate in holiday themed activities, listen to music, enjoy delicious food from participating food trucks and more!
WANT TO GO?: $6; free for ages 2 and younger. muscootfarm.org
Train Show
WHEN: Saturdays and Sundays, 10 am – 4 pm, through Dec. 7.
WHERE: The Nature Center at Greenburgh, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All
WHAT: See a special display of model trains traveling through countryside scenes built by Yonkers Model Railroad Club.
WHAT: Stroll the 2,500-squarefoot exhibit set featuring multilevel tables and tracks carrying trains as they chug past whimsical settings, nostalgic scenes and well-known characters.
WANT TO GO?: $10$20. (914) 864–7263, lasdonpublicgardens.org
Sing-A-Story
WHEN: Monday, Dec. 8, 10:30 – 11 am.
WHERE: Groove Family Music, 158 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont
AGES: 1 – 4
WHAT: In honor of Sing-AStory’s 10th Anniversary, families are invited to share songs and stories accompanied by live music.
WANT TO GO?: Free. (914) 834–3383, findgroove.com
Stew’s Holiday Breakfast
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 13, 10 am – noon
WHERE: Stew Leonard’s Yonkers, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: Have breakfast with Santa and his friends featuring a buffet of morning favorites.
WANT TO GO?: $22.99; $18.99 ages 11 and younger; free for children younger than 2. stewleonards.com
Gingerbread Decorating Class
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 13, 10:30 am
WHERE: Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, 149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah AGES: 4 and older
WHAT: Enjoy a cozy, creative morning of holiday magic when you decorate a gingerbread house with inspiration from the Rosen House — all while sipping warm hot chocolate.
WANT TO GO?: $54 per gingerbread kit with one child and one adult; $15 additional guest. caramoor.org
WHAT: Enjoy a delicious kosher dinner, create festive Hanukkah crafts, take a family swim, and experience the wonder of a Hanukkah-themed laser light show.
WANT TO GO?: $54 per family; $18 individual. (914) 725–7300, jccmw.org
Menorah Lighting
WHEN: Monday, Dec. 15, 6 – 7 pm
WHERE: Cross County Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Chanukah with a traditional menorah lighting, live music, cultural dancing, and delicious treats.
WANT TO GO?: Free. (914) 968–9570, crosscountycenter. com
Hanukkah Laser Light Show
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 20, 4:30 – 6 pm
WHERE: The Ark at the Shames JCC, 371 S. Broadway, Tarrytown
AGES: All
WHAT: With fog, the Hanukkah story becomes a duel of light beams with incredible laser lighting effects. The show culminates with a giant menorah lighting you’ll never forget.
WANT TO GO?: $10-$16. thearkevents.org
Nutcracker, Short & Sweet
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 21, 5 – 6 pm
WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill
AGES: 3 and older
WHAT: This easy-to-follow performance is narrated from the point of view of Clara and only 1 hour long, sure to keep the attention of even the youngest audience members.
WANT TO GO?: $25; $20 youth. (914) 739–0039, paramounthudsonvalley.com
STSI Kwanzaa Celebration 2025
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 28, 2:30 pm
WHERE: Hotel NoMa, 1 Radisson Plaza, New Rochelle
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy an evening filled with culture, music, and unity, while celebrating and embracing the 7 Principles of Kwanzaa.
WANT TO GO?: $30; $15 ages 3-12. s2si.org
Kid’s Countdown – The Ultimate Daytime New Year’s Event
WHAT: Bring the kids to this daytime celebration filled with fun, music, dance, crafts, giveaways, and a confetti-filled countdown!
WANT TO GO?: $20; $15 members; free for children younger than 2. (914) 421–5050, discoverwcm.org
Cross County
WHEN: This Holiday Season
WHERE: 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers, NY 10704
AGES: All
WHAT: From festive light displays and family-friendly events to great shopping, tasty treats-go soak in the holiday vibes, it’s an easy, fun stop for everyone!
Greenwich Reindeer Festival
WHERE:437 North Street, Greenwich, CT
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate the season at the 17th Annual Greenwich Reindeer Festival, where families can meet live reindeer, snap photos with Santa, and enjoy a beloved town tradition that supports Kids in Crisis. WHEN: November 28th -December 24th
Nutcracker, Short & Sweet at Paramount Hudson Valley Theater
