New York Family - November 2025 by Schneps Media Digital Editions

FEATURES

12 | Harrow International School

Harrow International School New York arrives on Long Island

20 | Breaking the Ice

Helping girls of color excel on the ice while building confidence, leadership, and lifelong skills

26 | Out With the Old...

Recycle and donate your kids’ old toys

46 | Laughing Through Motherhood

Comedian Alyce Chan turns parenting chaos into comedy

HOLIDAY

8 | Holiday Markets

Shop our favorite holiday markets across the city this season

14 | Family Traditions Family, food, and the ties that bind

16 | Holiday Light Shows

Light up the holiday season with

NYC’s most magical displays

50 | Bryant Parks’s Winter Wonderland Returns Holiday shopping, ice skating, and festive foods for the whole family

SPECIAL CHILD

32 | Leveling the Learning Field

Deputy Chancellor Christina Foti talks to New York Family about inclusive education in NYC public schools

34 | Success in School

Simple ways to strengthen communication and build confidence

36 | Choosing Private Schools for Neurodiverse Learners

From tailored instruction to smaller class sizes, explore how private schools help neurodiverse learners succeed

38 | A Christmas Spectacular for All Inclusive performances, sensory accommodations, and accessibility features to ensure everyone enjoys the holiday magic

40 | Choosing a Caregiver

One mom’s thoughtful process for finding the right caregivers for her autistic son

FAMILY FUN

24 | Laurie Berkner Live!

Experience a joyful solo show with the “queen of kids’ music”

48 | Calendar

The best family-friendly events in November for Manhattan families

DIRECTORIES

42 | Special Needs

44 | Birthday Parties

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’Tis the Season...of Change

For my family, fall signifies change — the start of a new chapter, new beginnings, and growth. It’s not only the seasons that change — my youngest turns a year older, and with each birthday that passes, I am faced with the realization that I am no longer mom to two little ones — I’m no longer responsible for a baby, a toddler, a preschooler, or a kindergartener.

I now have to look up to speak to my 13-yearold, and my baby is now an independent 9-year-old with endless energy, a sense of humor, and a lot of opinions. While I am proud to see how they’ve grown up to be strong, intelligent, kind, loving boys, it feels like their childhood came and went as quickly as the seasons. I can still clearly remember the time my eldest showed his then-year-old brother how to launch himself into a pile of freshly raked fall leaves and what pure joy it brought them both—and to me. While it really was not that long ago, it feels like a lifetime. It’s a simple reminder that our time to raise tiny humans may be short, but the memories we make will last for the rest of their lives.

As challenging as it is to find time after the exhaustion of our daily routines, it is important to make as much magic as possible while we have time, which is why we pack each issue with ideas for fun activities and events you could possibly do together. So, whether you’re celebrating your family’s

Thanksgiving traditions, shopping for unique holiday gifts, taking in the magic of sparkling holiday light displays across the city, or planning your little one’s next birthday bash, we hope your family makes memories to last a lifetime.

Enjoy every moment,

Tara

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holiday Markets

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It’s the holiday season in NYC, and no one does holidays better than we do! There are countless holiday markets around the city where people cannot only get their shopping done but also experience a unique winter wonderland like nowhere else in the world. Check out these festive holiday markets, and be sure to check newyorkfamily.com for updates as we add more fairs, markets, and holiday fun all season long!

Manhattan

Crafts at the Cathedral

1047 Amsterdam Ave. at 112th Street

Dec. 5 – 7

Crafts at the Cathedral offers a distinctive holiday shopping experience within the aweinspiring walls of the Cathedral of St. John the Divine. With over 75 artisans offering handcrafted ceramic, glass, wood, fabric, and jewelry items, this market allows visitors to explore unique creations while surrounded by the grandeur of one of the world’s largest Gothic cathedrals.

The Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park

Between 40th & 42nd Streets and 5th & 6th Avenues

Oct. 24 – Jan. 4; Select shops remain open through March 1, 2026; Weekdays, 11 am – 8 pm

Sat. & Sun., 10 am – 8 pm

Known as Manhattan’s Winter Wonderland, the Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park is the pinnacle of holiday markets in NYC. The Winter Village includes free admission to the ice skating rink. The Holiday Shops by Urbanspace are open-air markets inspired by those found in Europe and include almost 200 artisanal vendors. Other activities include a Curling Cafe + Bar, Cozy Igloos, and, of course, the tree lighting. While the holiday shops will only be around until Jan. 4, the winter village will be open through March 1.

Grand Central Holiday Fair

Vanderbilt Hall , Grand Central Terminal

89 East 42nd St.

Nov. 10 – Dec. 24

Mon. – Sat., 10 am – 7 pm; Sun., 11 am –6 pm; Christmas Eve, 10 am – 6 pm

The Grand Central Holiday Fair is only a short walk from Bryant Park (and just a train ride away). This event is a sixweek-long celebration of small businesses that guarantees the best of NYC’s holiday cheer and talent. This year’s fair features a 6,000-square-foot indoor artisan market packed with unique handmade jewelry, pottery, amazing artwork, and more.

Columbus Circle Holiday Market

59th Street and Central Park West Dec. 2 – 31

Mon. – Fri., 11 am – 8 pm; Sat. – Sun., 10 am – 8 pm

Internationally known as one of the most beautiful and elegant places for holiday shopping, the Columbus Circle Holiday Market is back! This holiday market contains countless aisles of art, jewelry, home decor, and food from local vendors, and is the perfect place to do all your holiday shopping.

Union Square Holiday Market

University Place & East 14th Street

Nov. 16 – Dec. 24

Weekdays, 11 am – 8 pm; Sat., 10 am – 8 pm; Sun., 11 am – 7 pm

With over 160 vendors, including local artisans, artists, and entrepreneurs, organizers say this year will be better than ever! Millions of people browse the aisles of this unique, eclectic holiday experience each year. There is something for everyone at Union Square.

Uptown Holiday Market

Jackie Robinson Bandshell

116 Bradhurst Ave.

Dec. 5 – 26, Thursdays, 4 – 10 pm

Embrace the holiday spirit at this holiday market, which features local makers, crafters, and food vendors with one-of-a-kind offerings. Browse handmade items, savor delicious treats, and enjoy a lively community atmosphere while supporting local businesses.

Grand Holiday Bazaar

100 West 77th St. at Columbus Ave. Sundays, Dec. 1 – 22, 10 am – 5 pm

With over 300 amazing local artisans and dealers, the Grand Holiday Bazaar is the perfect place to find unique gifts you cannot find anywhere else! You’ll find one-of-a-kind handmade holiday decorations and gifts, candles, skincare, fashion, vintage accessories, handmade jewelry, rare antique silver and glassware, and tasty artisanal chocolates.

Renegade Craft Fair

Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St. Dec. 13 & 14

Sat. – Sun., 11 am – 5 pm

With over 180 talented artists showcasing their work, this event is the perfect place to explore a variety of handmade gifts that will make great gifts this holiday season. Whether you’re looking for one-of-a-kind decorations, stylish accessories, or thoughtful presents, you’re sure to discover something special.

Brooklyn

7th Annual Wallabout Holiday Market

Brooklyn Navy Yard, 141 Flushing Ave. Dec. 7 & 8

The 7th Annual Wallabout Wonderland

Holiday Market in Brooklyn Navy Yard

Grand Central h oliday Fair

features a winter wonderland-themed marketplace that brings the community together and supports small businesses. Shop for holiday gifts and enjoy a weekend of holiday cheer.

The Makers Show at City Point

445 Albee Square West

Nov. 30 – Dec. 22

The Makers Show combines the idea of the retail market platform with values in social justice by promising a commitment to promoting equity and community investment through local markets. Founders Julie and Tiz believe in keeping resources within local economies and amplifying businesses owned by BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, women, and other underrepresented groups.

DUMBO Holiday Market at the Brooklyn Flea DUMBO Archway

80 Pearl St.

Saturdays and Sundays through Christmas

10 am – 5 pm

Located at the Brooklyn Flea Market, Dumbo transforms into a winter wonderland shopping district during the holiday season. Over 40+ vintage and handmade vendors sell a variety of items, including antiques, clothing, art, jewelry, and more!

Holiday Market at Industry City

220 36th St., Sunset Park

Nov. 25 – Dec. 30

Mondays, 4 pm – 10 pm

This festive holiday market comes to Brooklyn’s own Industry City. Local artisans, craftspeople, and food vendors will be on hand with a large selection of handmade goods, delicious seasonal treats, and unique offerings perfect for gift-giving.

FAD Market

Boerum Hill, Cobble Hill, DUMBO

Weekends, Dec. 7 – Dec. 22, 11 am – 6 pm

With three locations at The Invisible Dog Art Center, St. Paul Catholic Church, and Empire Stores, the FAD Market is bringing the holiday spirit back to the BoCoCa neighborhood. These markets contain the region’s most

talented makers, designers, and entrepreneurs selling jewelry, apparel, bath and body care, home décor, handmade food items, and more.

Queens

BrickHouse Ceramics Holiday Market

10-34 44th Drive

Fri., Dec. 12, 5 – 9 pm; Sat., Dec. 13, 11 am – 7 pm; Sat., Dec. 14, 12 – 5 pm

This unique holiday market in Long Island City offers a variety of handmade pottery for sale at affordable prices. Ceramic artists from all over New York participate and showcase their one-of-a-kind pieces, which are the perfect gifts for any art enthusiast in your family.

Bronx

Bronx Holiday Market at Fordham Plaza

1 Fordham Plaza

Saturdays, Nov. 30 – Dec. 28, 4 – 10 pm

This fun, festive event features local artisans, craftspeople, and food vendors with all kinds of unique goodies. It’s a great chance to shop for one-of-a-kind gifts, enjoy tasty treats, and soak up the holiday spirit with family and friends.

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Harrow International School A Longstanding Tradition of Excellence Arrives on Long Island

By Douglas Hatt

When yeoman farmer John Lyon

petitioned Queen Elizabeth I for a charter to educate the poor in England, it’s unlikely he envisioned the school he started being the future alma mater of leaders and luminaries such as Winston Churchill, Jawaharlal Nehru, Lord Byron, and Benedict Cumberbatch, but that’s just what happened. Located on the outskirts of London, the Harrow School has been a bastion of learning for students from across the globe since 1572.

Now, in a development the visionary Queen herself could not have imagined, Harrow International School New York are bringing their core values of courage, honor, humility, and fellowship to the South Bay. Starting this September, the 170-acre grounds of the former Bourne Mansion Estate will be the setting as young people benefit from a premier International Baccalaureate (IB) education in a location ideally situated between bustling New York City and the bucolic Hamptons, near a LIRR station.

Initially opening for grades 6 through 9 with flexible boarding and day school options, Harrow New York will add a grade each year until it offers grades 6 through 12, with its first class graduating in 2029. “Our mission is to not only provide students with world-class academics, but to inspire them to make a difference in a complex and constantly changing world,” says Matt Sipple, the school’s principal.

To that end, Harrow New York has recruited educators from around the world, with all teachers—or “beaks” as they are called at the school—being eminently qualified and fully vetted with extensive background checks. “Parents should know that their children will be safe and their dignity will be protected,” Principal Sipple added. “Our teachers will not only be subject experts, they will be available to students every step of the way, to guide and mentor them on their journeys.”

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Students will take advantage of a curriculum designed to inspire their curiosity, foster

intellectual independence, and develop skills they need to thrive in their future academic endeavors — and life. To that end, the school has chosen the International Baccalaureate curriculum, which comprises the Middle Years Program (MYP) for grades 6 through 10, followed by the Diploma Program (DP) as the foundation of its academic model. This course of study will equip them with a globally recognized, inquiry-driven approach that challenges students to think critically while connecting coursework to real-world issues.

The curriculum at Harrow New York extends beyond the traditional academic model. It includes developing students’ cognitive gifts, ensuring that students are fluent in the digital world, including data and Artificial Intelligence, and social learning, ensuring that students can communicate, collaborate, and lead. Students at Harrow New York will learn to pursue their interests, expand their thinking, and develop independent learning skills. Harrow New York allows students to stretch and grow through research, debate, academic competitions, and university-style

electives. The goal is for each student to leave Harrow New York confident, curious, and ready to take on the future.

Pastoral Care for Budding learners

At the same time, great care is taken to nurture and care for students, especially those who may be living away from home for the first time. The school’s system of pastoral care centers on students’ well-being in every aspect of student life, whether those students are boarding or commuting to the school each day. Its Personal, Social, Health, and Economic Education (PSHE) is designed to empower students with the resources they need to navigate life at the school and in their futures.

Harrow New York will offer families three options for attendance: the seven-day option immerses students fully into campus life, which is ideal for families keen on providing the traditional boarding school experience and those with international ties. The five-day boarding option allows students to stay on campus Monday through Friday and return home on weekends, which will help Long

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Island families balance school and home life. Day students are also welcome, with full access to meals, extra-curricular activities, and additional help with school work, so they can fully enjoy school life with the added benefit of accessing the Long Island Railroad at the nearby Oakdale station.

Tremendous care—and a $100 million investment—have been deployed to transform the Bourne Estate into a cutting-edge educational facility that includes modern classrooms, a 400-seat theater, a gymnasium, athletic fields, and squash courts so that

students can learn and play the game invented at Harrow in London. The grounds themselves are stunning, with 1,000 feet of waterfront, a quiet stream, and plenty of quiet areas to enjoy nature. It’s a great location, situated roughly between JFK and the Hamptons.

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To commemorate the Harrow New York’s debut in the New World, the Amity Education Group is generously offering Founding scholarships of $20,000 for three years, for a total of

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Family Traditions

One clan’s intergenerational Thanksgiving customs

By Drew Kramer

“Lifting a turkey is a big event,” my mother admits. She accepted the responsibility of hosting Thanksgiving this year, a holiday she owned every year since I was a child. Growing up, Thanksgiving was my favorite holiday. My older cousins made their pilgrimage from upstate New York to stay with us for the long weekend. Our family came together from all corners of Long Island to honor a day celebrating gluttony and our country’s complicated colonial history.

Like good Americans, in the kitchen we trust. In the wee morning hours, during the “ugly phase” of the holiday preparation, the ritual dressing of the bird took center stage. “18 pounds of pure poultry,” my mother announced in her annual impersonation of Julia Child, your French chef. As the years went by, the size of the bird ebbed and flowed with the loss and gain of family. In recent years, with the expansion of our modern family to include step-brothers, in-laws, and 10 grandchildren, the invite list hovers around 30.

After raising her hand to host in a family group text, I messaged my mother separately to assure her that I was up to the task if she decided she wasn’t, even the day before. Since moving to suburbia four years ago, I’ve stepped up to bring family together when she could not.

My mother is a caretaker. In the 20 years since my stepfather’s Parkinsons diagnosis, my mother’s capacity to find joy in the manual labor of the holidays waned. “I feel like I have reached a point in my life where I recognize that, mentally and physically, I cannot do what I used to do. My husband is ill. I find myself anxious at the thought of a big event,” she acknowledged. In the irreverent, dark humor we share, she declares, “I pass the torch. The old gray mare ain’t what she used to be.”

When I mention my 30 person holiday guest list, people are shocked by my appetite to take on extra work while raising two young boys. Yes, the torch comes with domestic

responsibility, but with great responsibility comes great purpose. Like my mother, I feel the magic in bringing family together for joy. It is important to me to bring familiar faces and flavors to my table in the name of tradition and kinship. It is important to me to provide a forum for cousins to come together for mischief and forward momentum. If their relationships fade, so too do the ties that connect our people for generations to come.

Someday, when I’ve passed the torch to my children and theirs, I hope they’ll draw from the menu of family recipes that filled our bellies and hearts in the warmest moments of a calendar year: Cousin Dineen’s kugel; my late Aunt Debbie’s carrot soufflé; my mother’s turkey. These are the flavors that bind.

Everyone does their part to keep the party alive. As a spectator, my mother is happy to bring whatever she can to ease the pain of hosting the holidays. She delights in making her signature dishes the family craves without the stress of planning and cleaning. In corners of my basement, I squirrel away folding tables and chairs. I Pinterest compostable tablescapes because I cannot sacrifice style or sustainability, while prioritizing ease in executing a celebration for 30. My family comes with food in hand, rolling up their sleeves to clean a platter and unclog the drain. The

holidays teach me that I am not alone in this.

In the wake of Covid isolation, I am a conduit for connection. After years of uncomfortable distance, we are all making up for lost time. In this season of my life, I find purpose in bringing people together. As my Millennial generation grows into middle adulthood, our Boomer parents move into their golden years. This holiday season, many of us are grappling with the weight of the torch we’ve inherited. As a family leader, sandwiched between young children and aging parents, I urge you to rise to the occasion. Fight through the host anxiety, culinary pressure and cleaning exhaustion for the important milestones of the year. Let people bring food and pull up their sleeves in the kitchen. Use paper plates. Ask for help and watch relationships grow through the shared creation of this beautiful moment. When the dishes are cleared, the leftovers stored, and the grandchildren are taking apart your couch to erect a fort, sit back with your wine and know that you too are building something. Feel gratitude and connection to the generations of family that roasted the turkeys that brought all of you to this day. Know that someday, when the pounds of pure poultry become too great for you to carry, you will lean on the foundation you and generations of others established to keep the family flame ablaze.

NYC Holiday Light Shows

BY: NÁOSHA GREGG & TARA LUSTBERG

Few places capture the magic of the holiday season quite like New York City, where twinkling lights, festive displays, and seasonal traditions transform the streets into a winter wonderland. From glowing lantern trails and the Botanical Garden’s whimsical Holiday Train Show to dazzling window displays and sparkling public installations, there’s no shortage of ways to celebrate. Whether you’re seeking a grand spectacle or a cozy neighborhood outing, these beloved light shows and seasonal events offer holiday cheer for the whole family.

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Luminaries at Brookfield Place

Winter Garden

Brookfield Place, 230 Vesey Street, Battery Park City bfplny.com/luminaries

November 25 to January 1, light shows daily from 8 am to 10 pm; wishing stations available from 10 am to 8 pm Brookfield Place’s Winter Garden transforms into a sparkling holiday wonderland with Luminaries, an interactive light installation featuring 640 hanging lanterns that change color and brightness based on visitors’ interactions. Guests can make a wish at one of the touch-activated wishing stations, causing the lanterns to illuminate in a captivating display. Additionally, hourly light shows set to festive tunes like “Winter Wonderland” and “Let It Snow” enhance the holiday atmosphere. This magical experience is free for the public and provides a perfect chance to enjoy the holiday cheer in Lower Manhattan.

Macy’s Herald Square Christmas Windows

Herald Square, 151 West 34th St., Midtown

Late November through December

Each year, Macy’s transforms its Herald Square storefront into a whimsical

celebration of the season. Themed window displays feature intricate mechanical scenes, vibrant characters, and heartwarming holiday stories—delighting generations of New Yorkers and visitors alike. Families can stroll along 34th Street to admire the artistry up close, making this a beloved (and completely free) city tradition.

Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree & Lighting Ceremony

30 Rockefeller Plaza, Midtown rockefellercenter.com/holidays/ rockefeller-center-christmas-tree-lighting November 8 to Mid-January; Lighting Ceremony: December 3, 7pm

Few holiday traditions capture New York’s spirit quite like the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree. This year, the Norway Spruce arrives on November 8 from Massachusetts. Towering over the skating rink and framed by the glow of Fifth Avenue, the tree sparkles with more than 50,000 multicolored LED lights and a Swarovski crystal star. The live lighting ceremony on December 3 features musical performances and a dose of New York nostalgia.

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Saks Fifth Avenue Holiday Light Show

611 Fifth Ave., Midtown

Late November through early January For decades, Saks Fifth Avenue’s holiday light show has been a not-to-be-missed spectacle for Midtown visitors. Returning for the 2025 holiday season, following a one-year hiatus in 2024. The department store’s façade transforms into a canvas for a dazzling synchronized light display, set to holiday music and visible from Rockefeller Center across the street. The show is free to the public and does not require tickets or reservations. Visitors can enjoy the iconic synchronized light displays from the sidewalks along Fifth Avenue.

Shine Bright at Hudson Yards

Hudson Yards, Midtown

hudsonyardsnewyork.com/shine-brighthudson-yards

November 24 – January 5

Modern, sleek, and glittering from every angle, Shine Bright at Hudson Yards is one of Manhattan’s most striking holiday displays. Millions of twinkling white lights drape trees,

railings, and the shopping complex’s 32-foot hot air balloon centerpiece, creating an elegant glow that reflects off the surrounding glass skyline. Visitors can browse, dine, and walk through the light tunnel installations for a chic, urban twist on holiday magic. Free and open to the public daily.

BROOKLYN

Dyker Heights Christmas Lights

Dyker Heights

Late November through December

What began as a neighborhood tradition has grown into one of New York’s most extravagant holiday displays. For decades, Dyker Heights residents have transformed their homes into elaborate light shows— featuring giant inflatables, mechanical reindeer, synchronized music, and thousands of sparkling bulbs covering every surface. Visitors can walk through the blocks between 11th and 13th Avenues (from 83rd to 86th Streets) or join a guided tour. It’s festive, free, and full of holiday cheer.

Lightscape at Brooklyn Botanic Garden

990 Washington Ave., Crown Heights bbg.org/lightscape

November 21 to January 4

A winter tradition that feels like it is straight out of a storybook. Lightscape transforms the Brooklyn Botanic Garden into a luminous, walk-through art experience. International light artists reimagine the garden’s natural beauty with larger-than-life installations, glowing pathways, and dazzling effects that dance across trees, water, and sky. Families can stroll at their own pace, enjoy festive music, and stop for seasonal treats like hot cocoa and warm churros. Ticket prices vary by date and time; visit the official website for current pricing and availability.

BRONX

Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights

2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Park bronxzoo.com/holiday-lights

November 21 to January 4

A borough tradition, the Bronx Zoo brings back its famed Holiday Lights for the 2025 season. The event transforms the zoo grounds after dark into a glowing winter wonderland. Visitors can stroll through trails lit with millions of twinkling lights and hundreds of animal- and plant-themed lanterns, explore immersive zones like the “Enchanted Sea” with interactive swings and LED floors, watch ice-carving demonstrations, and even

ride a holiday train. It’s a vivid and magical experience for families, offering both festive ambiance and the backdrop of wildlife, including themed lanterns. Tickets start at $42 for adults and $27 for children.

Holiday Train Nights at New York Botanical Garden

2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx Park nybg.org/event/holiday-trainshow-2025/holiday-train-nights Select evenings, November 22 to January 10

Celebrated for more than 30 years, the New York Botanical Garden Holiday Train Show combines horticultural artistry and nostalgic charm—and becomes even more enchanting when the lights come on after dark. During Holiday Train Nights, Giant model trains weave through nearly 200 handcrafted replicas of New York landmarks. Guests can stroll the glowing pathways with a festive drink in hand, enjoy live entertainment, and capture picture-perfect holiday moments amid the twinkling lights. Tickets start at $43 for non-members (members receive 20% off), and children under 2 enter free.

It’s a Winter Wonderland at Williamsbridge Oval

3225 Reservoir Oval East, Norwood nycgovparks.org/parks/williamsbridgeoval/events

December 12, 4:30 pm to – 7 pm Local to the borough, the Williamsbridge Oval Park turns into a winter wonderland. Families can enjoy winter-themed activities, including lights, ice skating, and seasonal décor. This free, community-oriented event

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Luminosa: A Festival of Light at the Queens Botanical Garden

Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing queensbotanical.org

November 22 to February 2, 5 – 9 pm Luminosa transforms Queens Botanical Garden into a luminous wonderland with over 40 handcrafted lantern displays made from silk and steel. Visitors can stroll winding paths filled with glowing flowers, animals, and fantastical scenes, all enhanced by music and seasonal décor. It’s an immersive experience perfect for families, with plenty of photo opportunities and festive cheer. Tickets start at $30 for adults; children age 7 and under are free on weekdays.

Tianyu Lights Festival: Koda’s Adventure to the Magical Forest Citi Field, Lot E & F, 41 Seaver Way, Flushing Meadows–Corona Park tianyuculture.us/nyc

November 29 to January 19, 5 – 10 pm

The Tianyu Lights Festival transforms Citi Field into a magical holiday wonderland with its theme, Koda’s Adventure to the Magical Forest Visitors can explore more than 40 handcrafted lantern displays inspired by a young boy’s dreams and Amazon rainforest adventures. The festival also features a Forest Food Court with seasonal treats, live cultural performances, and a holiday marketplace. ADA accessible and perfect for families, tickets start at $30 for age 12 and up, $22 for children ages 3 to 11.

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Diversifying a sport where only 2% of fans identified as Black

By Náosha GreGG

When the stars of Disney+’s Harlem on Ice arrive at their annual gala, their unity and presence are strong. Some girls are dressed head to toe in black, with a sparkling Figure Skating in Harlem logo on their t-shirts. Some alumni come dressed to the nines in gowns and feminine dresses, but despite their different looks, they all share one thing: their love for figure skating.

Hosted by CBS Mornings Plus cohost Adriana Diaz, the program honors CBS Mornings Plus featured host, Vladimir Duthiers, whose eyes begin to gloss over as he fights back tears. In his acceptance speech, he thanks the organization and speaks of the importance of young girls following their dreams.

The young figure skaters sit stage left at a table, watching in awe as prominent media members praise them and their

hard work on the ice. Even television queen Gayle King stopped by to show support, further confirming the importance of the organization. To them, those are three icons that they look up to, and who solidify that their dreams of gliding on the ice are valid.

The organization quickly rose to fame after starring in the Disney documentary, encouraging donors to support the cause and encouraging young girls of color that there is room for them on the ice. The series follows three participants as they gear up for their annual ice show and attempt to shatter glass ceilings as Black figure skaters.

“I was just so inspired by the ways that they support young girls of color in New York City. I’m from New York City. I grew up here, and figure skating was something I always admired, but never really did. I took lessons when I was around 12 at Chelsea Piers,” Diaz told New York Family. “But to see that this organization is not just teaching

girls the technical skills of skating, but also the emotional skills of communication and community, and the educational skills needed just to do well in life overall.”

When the young girls of Figure Skating of Harlem step onto the ice rink on 125th Street, they’re not just there for recreational purposes. For many of these girls, figure skating provided the tools to help shape them into who they are today. The organization was founded in 1997, after community leaders Gene Kitt and Bernice DeAbreu invited former competitive skater Sharon Cohen to teach skating in the Harlem community. After seeing the spark it ignited in the community, Cohen decided to open the facility, which now proudly boasts over 2,000 participants and has reached a success rate of 100% of their seniors graduating high school and 88% maintaining at least a B average.

The organization also works to make the sport accessible. With the average costume costing over $600, skates topping between $80 and $200, and lessons ranging from $30 to $100 per hour, the sport quickly became elitist due to economic barriers. Harlem is 42% Black, with the average household income in 2022 plateauing at just $51,990 in Central Harlem and $36,930 in East Harlem, a stark difference from the citywide median

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household income of $77,550.

“Figure skating is an elite sport; it’s extremely cost-restrictive outside New York. But once you get into New York, everything is inflated. It’s such an expensive city. So from the beginning, our model has been cost equitable,” says Ila Epperson, creative director. “We give them uniforms, a jacket, and the cost of our figure skating program is tailored to your household’s income. Being able to offer your child something that they’re interested in, and it’s at a price that is affordable to you, I think is something that’s appreciated.”

Gliding Into Diversity

For years, figure skating has been an American tradition of grit and grace, as skaters execute beautiful and complicated moves on the ice. Still, it has often lacked one thing: diversity. 2023 U.S. Figure Skating data indicates that only 2% of figure skating fans identified as African American. In 2022, the U.S. national team made headlines for not having a Black athlete on its roster.

“More work is needed, but I think we are

“More work is needed, but I think we are starting to bring awareness to the issue of it being a predominantly white sport. And we’re bringing more essence and color into the sport.”

starting to bring awareness to the issue of it being a predominantly white sport. And we’re bringing more essence and color into the sport,” says Zenzile Tonge, another FSH alumnus who recently graduated with dual master’s degrees. “We’re also bringing a lot of representation for our young girls.”

To say the girls appreciate it is an understatement. You can see their faces light up like a bright horizon as they step onto

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the ice, executing complex movements with fluidity, exuding love with every twist, and turning on the frozen water. Many skaters hope to inspire other young girls of color and encourage them to lace up their skates and get gliding.

“I definitely don’t think of skating as a hobby because I love putting so much effort into it. And I love dedicating all my time to it,” says 16-year-old Adrian Walker.

For some, the ice represents the connection that they all have with each other because even though ice melts, a bond stays frozen for life.

“The sisterhood is beautiful,” says Zaiane Alawode, an alumnus of Figure Skating in Harlem. “It’s great to be able to connect with people with whom I can have a shared experience. We are all doing beautiful things and great, amazing things now. So to be able to have the network and to be able to lean on each other in different areas of my life has been awesome.”

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Laurie Berkner’s Friendly World

A warm, high-energy concert where kids lead and parents enjoy the ride

By Adrienne FArr

Laurie Berkner is a pioneering children’s singer-songwriter, author, and live performer with over 25 years of family music and over 1.7 billion streams. Her many accolades include being the first recording artist to appear in a music video in the Noggin and Nick Jr. stratospheres, developing a Universal Kids series, and authoring books for Simon & Schuster.

Throughout high school and college, Berkner sang in choirs and performed in bands and musical theater. After graduating from Rutgers University, she spent a decade as a preschool music specialist in New York City, learning the rhythms of real kids in real rooms. She didn’t plan to make children’s records, but she was inspired by her time with them, and it became the perfect way to use her talents for something she felt was important and rewarding. She says, “I wanted to create songs that matter for children.”

That intent threads throughout her albums, picture books, Off-Broadway children’s musicals, TV shows, and audio projects.

Inside the Laurie Berkner Show

Berkner doesn’t just play a set — she builds a friendly world where families can sing, stomp, and have a blast. When you go to one of her shows, you might see a sparkly drum kit, egg shakers, and her guitar waiting at the center. You may see holiday lights. Whatever the setup is, the stage is always bright and welcoming. Berkner comes out in sneakers, waves like she’s greeting old friends, and starts to strum. The room shifts from watching to doing. Her motions are big and expressive, capturing the attention of kids (and adults) in the audience. Berkner’s band keeps a happy beat that invites all to bounce, march, and move.

One of the songs you’re sure to hear is “The Goldfish (Let’s Go Swimming),” an adorable tune about fish who have to keep reminding themselves that they’re fish. It usually has kids jumping and dancing as it cues the sounds of strokes and splashes. The audience becomes

a gentle ocean — parents do lazy breaststrokes, babies flap starfish hands — then the punchline drops and laughter erupts from everyone in attendance.

The show keeps folding kids into the action. For “Pig on Her Head,” she wears a plushie as a hat and looks out into the crowd to joyously converse with kids about what plushies they’ve brought to the show. She then incorporates their little buddies into her song. “We Are the Dinosaurs” builds a mini parade where kids “march, march, march” and let out a huge communal roar that even too-cool older siblings can’t resist.

Between songs, Berkner interacts with the crowd the way a teacher chats with kids during circle time: quick call-and-response, eye contact that reaches every row and improv when a kid blurts out something extraordinary. If a

little one gets overwhelmed, Laurie can soften the sound and slip into a lullaby moment like “Moon, Moon, Moon,” a beautiful song that she sings in a high octave with her bandmates, which relaxes the whole room.

Audiences don’t just watch Laurie Berkner; they become part of her delightful, familyfriendly band. You can experience one of her energetic, interactive shows during one of her upcoming New York shows:

November 8 : Adler Hall at the New York Society for Ethical Culture, 2 West 64th St., Manhattan

December 6 : Paramount Theatre, 370 New York Ave., Huntington, Long Island

Deceber 7: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Floor 2, Tarrytown

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What To Do with Your Kids’ Old Toys

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The holiday season is around the corner! It’ll soon be time to check off items on your kids’ wishlists. But in the meantime, you might wonder, “How will we have room for all these new toys?” Don’t fret, because we put together a list of what to do with the old toys they outgrew or just don’t play with anymore. From recycling to donating, these suggestions give beloved toys a second life — in someone else’s home!

Recycling

Mattel PlayBack Program shop.mattel.com/pages/playback

Do you have Mattel toys to retire? If so, you can send them back to where they were created via the company’s PlayBack program. It allows you to return a wide variety of their branded items, which are then recycled into energy or reused as content in new products. To participate, go to the website and fill out a short form to receive a free prepaid shipping label.

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Mr. Potato Head. My Little Pony. Playskool. These are just a few popular Hasbro brands that you can send back as part of the company’s toy recycling program, which is a partnership with the organization, TerraCycle. Once you send back your toys, they repurpose them into new materials and products, including play spaces, flower pots, and park benches.

Spin Master Free Recycling Program spinmasterplaysponsible.com/terracycle Recycling is one smart way to handle outgrown toys. Spin Master, the company behind PAW Patrol and Rubik’s Cube, offers a

free mail-in recycling program in partnership with TerraCycle (similar to Hasbro’s). Check the eligible items list on Spin Master’s site, print a prepaid label, and send your toys in. They’re sorted, cleaned, and melted into hard plastic remolded into new products—think park benches and picnic tables—instead of ending up in a landfill.

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Your kids aren’t playing with their stuffed animals anymore, but it might seem horrifying to think of these once-beloved plush companions winding up in the trash.

Well, there’s good news: They don’t have to! You can purchase a TerraCycle Zero Waste Box (prices start at $110), fill it with your stuffed animals, and send them out. The toys are then sorted and processed into raw materials used to make new products.

LEGO Replay

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If your kids are ready to move on from their LEGOs, you can pass forward these muchloved toy bricks to kids in need. Just box up your bricks, print out a label, and ship them out. Kids will get a box filled with a variety of bricks and elements to play with, as well as a

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If you’re looking for more answers on what to do with your kids’ old toys, consider donating them to charity! Many charities, such as Goodwill and The Salvation Army, will resell your donated items and use the money to support their causes if you have a new, unwrapped toy you’d like to give. It’s run by the U.S. Marine Corps Reserve, and its mission is to bring Christmas joy to kids who are economically disadvantaged.

Homes and Shelters

Those beautiful dolls in your child’s old toy chest will almost certainly bring joy to children going through a difficult time. Consider calling local children’s and women’s shelters to see if they’re accepting toys, and if so, ask how you can go about donating.

Religious Organizations

Consider contacting churches, synagogues,

Ways to Recycle Other Items

Now that you have a few tips on what to do with your kids’ old toys, here are a few bonus ideas for recycling other household items, too:

Umbrellas: Broken or unwanted umbrellas can be upcycled into everyday items like tote bags, and the metal spokes can be recycled at a scrap metal facility.

Pet food bags: Once empty, pet food bags can be used as

and other religious organizations to see if they know of any families in need who can use toys.

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Paint: Through the PaintCare program, many stores will accept unwanted paint to give away, sell, or reuse, which are preferred methods over recycling. Fewer resources are utilized, allowing local communities to benefit from free or low-cost paint. Check out paintcare.org for a store locator and instructions on how to make your donation.

comfort for children in traumatic or emergency situations through donations of stuffed animals, blankets, books, children’s clothes, and baby items. This beautiful mission allows you to donate items so they can be used to comfort the kids who need them most.

The Power of Partnership: 40 Years of The Parkside School

Forty years ago, two young educators—Albina Miller and Leslie Thorne—shared a simple but radical idea: that children with language-based learning differences deserved a place where they could be challenged and understood. In 1986, that vision took shape in a modest six-room space on West 100th Street. Their first student was just five years old.

What Albina and Leslie built together would go on to change the landscape of special education in New York City. Today, The Parkside School serves 80 children, supported by a team of more than 50 teachers, therapists, and specialists. Yet the heart of Parkside remains the same as it was on day one: a warm, child-centered community where every student is seen, supported, and celebrated for who they are.

Albina Miller, Co-Head of School and Administrative Director, brings a steady blend of vision and pragmatism. With degrees from St. Joseph’s University, NYU, and Columbia University’s Teachers College, she has spent her career creating an environment where learning feels joyful and purposeful. “Every child deserves an education that honors their potential,” she says—and under her leadership, Parkside’s programs continue to evolve with innovation and heart.

Leslie Thorne, Co-Head of School and Educational Director, is known for her empathy and her ability to inspire both students and teachers. A Buffalo State and Hunter College graduate, she helped shape Parkside’s hallmark interdisciplinary model, where educators and therapists work in close partnership to integrate academics, communication,

and emotional growth. “When children feel safe, curious, and connected,” Leslie says, “real learning begins.”

Together, Albina and Leslie have built a community that changes lives. Parkside’s small classes, personalized instruction, and robust arts and movement programs nurture academic skills, confidence, creativity, and resilience. The impact endures

long after graduation—alums often credit Parkside with giving them the tools and selfbelief to thrive far beyond its red doors.

As The Parkside School celebrates its 40th Anniversary, Albina and Leslie remain as committed as ever to the future. They continue to mentor teachers, guide families, and strengthen programs that reflect their founding vision: to serve the whole child.

From one student in 1986 to a vibrant community today, Parkside stands as a testament to what can happen when compassion and expertise come together—and when two educators dare to imagine a school that meets every child where they are and helps them grow into who they’re meant to be.

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Leveling the Learning Field

Christina Foti, Deputy Chancellor of NYC Public Schools, discusses

the future of inclusive education

By Náosha GreGG

New York City is renowned for its exceptional education system. From charter to public schools, families rest a bit easier at night knowing their child is receiving a quality education, taking one thing off their already full plate.

For Deputy Chancellor Christina Foti, standing firm on the city’s reputation is not just a goal, but a mission. As the Deputy Chancellor of the Division of Inclusive and Accessible Learning (DIAL), Foti works to ensure that the approximately 20% of disabled New York City students and 73% of students considered economically disadvantaged are on a level playing field.

“DIAL was established to ensure that students with disabilities and multilingual learners are at the center of decisionmaking at New York City public schools,” she explains. “Our mission is to make sure that every New York City public school provides inclusive and accessible learning environments to students by centering their needs. And that starts at the highest level of decision-making.”

Education Closer to Home

As one of the largest public school systems in the country, city schools play a key role in the educational development of our youth. As of June 2022, 88% of students received their recommended special education programs in full; however, ensuring that all children have access to the resources they need remains an ongoing challenge. Most students with IEPs travel to and from school in the same manner as students without IEPs, which can consist of a long school bus ride or via crowded city buses and trains during the hectic weekday morning rush hour.

Foti is working to make schools more equitable and recognizes the importance of

bringing resources closer to home. She says that families have had to travel far outside their neighborhoods for too long to access the right programs. “For students with disabilities, they’ve needed to travel outside of their communities to get the high-quality services that they need,” says Foti. “Our work has been about bringing those services to their communities so that siblings can attend school together and neighbors can attend school together.”

Brooklyn residents have recently experienced the outcome of this initiative head-on, with the opening of the new PS 6 Early Childhood Annex in Flatbush. The newly opened extension serves children from 3K to kindergarten and is described by Foti as “a completely accessible building.” The annex features include a sensory room, preschool-sized bathrooms, and family spaces—all designed with accessibility and community needs in mind. Foti hopes that the newly opened space provides some relief to parents who worry that their children won’t have to commute so far and won’t have to sacrifice the quality of their education.

“Families can walk to school together and know their children, of all abilities, are being served in a high-quality, inclusive environment.”

The response from families has been overwhelmingly positive. Foti recalls visiting her neighborhood school one morning and watching a father gently brush his son’s face before dropping him off. “It was a beautiful moment to see how they clearly walked to their school that day. Dad was happily dropping his son off somewhere he knew his son would be safe and happy, and where he would be educated in a high-quality way,” she shares.

Autism Initiatives

Beyond Brooklyn, DIAL is piloting new autism programs in several districts, including 5, 12, and 14, seeing what Foti describes as high success rates. In the New York-New Jersey metro area, approximately 3% or around 17,000 students in NYC public schools (as of a 2017 New York Times report) were identified as having Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

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“Our autism programs are outperforming their peers. Students are graduating in four years at 97%, which is remarkable,” Foti emphasizes. “The city now offers specialized placements for every incoming kindergartener with autism in those districts, and the model is expanding year over year.”

Embracing Multilingual Learners

The influx of migrant children has presented challenges for multilingual learners, but Foti is quick to emphasize the opportunities it creates. “Our commitment has been to increase bilingual programming generally because it benefits all students,” she says.

Since 2022, the city has experienced an influx of 40 thousand migrant children, in addition to the already 148,000 English as a second language (ESL) learners across the city, according to the NYC Department of Education. Many struggle to find proper education due to the language barrier. Despite the struggles, migrant children have shown promise, as exemplified by the child chess prodigy. “When children learn a second

“For students with disabilities, they’ve needed to travel outside of their communities to get the highquality services that they need. Our work has been about bringing those services to their communities so that siblings can attend school together and neighbors can attend school together.”

language, brain development is incredibly beneficial,” Foti explains. “We welcome the diversity that our students bring.”

The city is also mindful of broader issues, such as safety and accessibility. When asked about Gov. Hochul’s recent cell phone ban in schools, Foti emphasized the importance of striking a balance between distraction-free environments and necessary accommodations.

“From the inception of the ban, we were very mindful of what that would mean for students with disabilities, who perhaps rely on technology. What we’ve made clear is that if a child needs a device in accordance with their IEP, the school should provide it,” she clarifies. For parents

and caregivers navigating these systems, Foti encourages leaning into school-level support. “We’ve trained parent coordinators, school psychologists, and special educators. Thousands of folks have already been trained on the special education process,” she says. Families can also reach out to district offices or even DIAL’s central office directly via a dedicated special education inbox, which is monitored by her team.

According to Foti, at the heart of it all is a simple but powerful mission: Equity. “Our goal is really to put New York City at the forefront of special education practices, and to make every school the school we want to see for students with disabilities and multilingual learners.”

Set Up for Success

How to help your differently-abled child thrive in school

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Good communication between parents and teachers is key to every child’s success—but it’s essential when your child has a learning difference. Staying informed, maintaining open communication, and helping your child feel empowered can make the school year smoother and more rewarding for everyone involved. Here are some tips on how to set your child up for success.

1. Know Your Rights—and Speak Up Parents are entitled to clear information about special education services and supports. Understanding these rights helps you advocate confidently for your child. When attending meetings—such as the Committee on Special Education (CSE), annual reviews, or parent-teacher conferences—don’t hesitate to ask questions if something isn’t clear. Staying informed puts you and your child in the

best position to ensure their needs are met.

2. Keep Communication Flowing Regular, honest communication with your child’s teachers makes a huge difference. Long Island co-teachers Kathy Devine and Emily Cole emphasize that parents of students with special needs should stay in close contact. “We like to know early if something changes at home—like a new medication or a shift in routine,” Cole says. Devine adds, “If your child is struggling with homework, let us know right away instead of waiting until the end of the trimester.”

Write a short letter to your child’s teacher at the start of the school year describing their strengths, challenges, and what strategies work best. It helps teachers understand your child as an individual from day one.

3. Understand IEP Goals

Take time to learn your child’s Individual-

ized Education Plan (IEP) goals and how they differ from general classroom goals. It’s normal for students to progress differently across these areas, but knowing what each set of goals measures will help you track growth more accurately—and celebrate progress in all forms.

4. Involve Your Child in the Process

Encouraging your child to participate in discussions about their learning plan can build confidence and self-advocacy skills. Cassie Reilly, a Transition Coordinator at a Long Island high school, suggests involving children in IEP meetings when possible. “Being open with kids about their diagnosis helps them see that their learning difference doesn’t define them,” she says. It’s about giving them a voice in their own education.

5. Embrace Your Child’s Unique Path

Every child’s journey looks different. Reilly notes that children may behave or perform differently at school than at home, and that’s okay. Success might not always follow a typical path—but with ongoing communication and understanding, parents and teachers can work together to find what works best for each child.

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Why Some Families Turn to Private Schools for Learning Differences

For children with ADHD, dyslexia, autism, or anxiety, personalized instruction can unlock success

BY TARA LUSTBERG

For many New York–area families, choosing the right school is rarely simple. But when a child has learning differences, whether it’s ADHD, dyslexia, autism, or anxiety, that search can feel overwhelming. Even in districts with strong special education programs, parents often find that large class sizes, limited resources, and inconsistent support make it difficult for their child to thrive. That leads some to the realization of exploring private schools explicitly designed for students who learn differently.

Despite dedicated teachers’ good intentions and hard work, resources are stretched thin within the NYC public school system. Classrooms include students with a wide range of educational needs, and individualized attention can be difficult — if not impossible — to sustain. When a student’s needs aren’t fully met in a traditional classroom environment, some parents begin exploring alternative options for neurodiverse learners, like schools that center their teaching philosophy on how each child learns best.

A Tailored Approach

Private schools that specialize in learning differences take a different approach to classroom instruction. Unlike traditional schools that expect neurodiverse students to adapt to conventional learning methods, specialized schools design their curricula around each student’s unique needs. This individualized model may mean breaking lessons into shorter, more manageable steps, using multisensory techniques, pacing instruction according to the individual’s needs, and measuring progress by growth rather than standardized benchmarks.

These schools often maintain small classes — sometimes with fewer than 10 students per teacher — allowing teachers to devote more one-on-one time to each child

to familiarize themselves with their interests, abilities, and challenges. For children who struggle with attention or anxiety, the quieter, more predictable environment can reduce stress and improve focus.

Focus on Emotional Well-Being

Often, these schools place a strong emphasis on social-emotional learning and executive functioning skills, which help students manage frustration, stay organized, and advocate for themselves. Instead of viewing behavioral differences as disruptions, teachers are trained to recognize how overstimulation and frustration manifest and respond to help students refocus and regulate.

This can be transformative for a student who has gone from falling behind or feeling misunderstood to being engaged, capable, and confident. The feeling of belonging rather than feeling singled out can be as valuable as the curriculum itself.

Navigating the Path—and the Price

For many families, moving from public to private school can be complicated. When a public school cannot adequately meet a child’s needs, some parents look to private

schools for tuition coverage through the city’s Department of Education (DOE) reimbursement process. However, this process can be lengthy and often requires legal advocacy, documentation, persistence, and time.

But, while tuition costs are high, families who are able to make the investment (or effort of pursuing reimbursement) say it is worth it for their child’s long-term confidence and well-being.

Lessons for Every Classroom

In classrooms where individuality is embraced, mistakes are treated as learning opportunities, and emotional well-being is seen as essential to success, children who once struggled to fit in finally begin to flourish. The lessons from these specialized environments could inspire all public and private schools to rethink how they support the diverse ways children learn.

As awareness and understanding of neurodiversity grow, more families and educators are recognizing that traditional learning doesn’t work for every student. For many, finding the right school isn’t just about academics—it’s about helping their child discover their strengths, build selfesteem, and rediscover the joy of learning.

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A Spectacular Holiday Season for All

This year’s Christmas Spectacular brings extra magic with a full slate of accessible offerings

By Jana Beauchamp

It’s the most wonderful time of the year at Radio City Music Hall, where the Rockettes light up the stage for the 2025 Christmas Spectacular. This season is extra special as the Rockettes celebrate their 100th anniversary with a full lineup of accessibility offerings, ensuring every guest can experience the magic of Christmas. Families can look forward to the production’s third annual sensoryfriendly performance in partnership with the Theatre Development Fund (TDF), along with select shows featuring open captioning, audio descriptions, American Sign Language (ASL) interpreters, and more.

The Christmas Spectacular’s third annual sensory-friendly performance, presented in partnership with TDF, will take place on November 9 at 10 am. This year’s production features thoughtful modifications such as softer stage lighting, lowered audio levels, and additional house lighting to create a more comfortable experience. Guests can also visit Radio City Music Hall’s Grand Lounge, which will be transformed into a sensory-safe

space with soft seating and fidget tools to help guests reorient if needed. Dedicated staff members from TDF and Radio City Music Hall, trained in sensory needs, will be on-site to provide support throughout the event.

Radio City Music Hall and The Christmas Spectacular offer a variety of accessibility services to ensure more guests can experience the joy and thrills of the show. VITAC closed captioning, assistive listening devices, and relay calls made through a TTY machine are available at every performance. In addition, ASL interpreters will be present at four performances this season: Saturday, Nov. 15, and Wednesday, Dec. 10, at 11 am; Sunday, Dec. 7, at 6 pm; and Wednesday, Dec. 17, at 8 pm. An open-captioned performance will take place on Tuesday, Dec. 2, at 5 pm, and an audio-described performance will be offered on Thursday, Dec. 11, at 5 pm.

This season, Radio City, in partnership with KultureCity, the world’s leading nonprofit dedicated to sensory accessibility and acceptance, has unveiled the newly renovated Chris & Veronica Jackson Sensory Room. Open during all public events, the room offers

a calm and welcoming retreat for anyone who may feel overwhelmed by the excitement of the festivities. Thoughtfully designed with the holiday spirit in mind, it features adjustable lighting, cozy seating, calming visuals, and full wheelchair accessibility. Families can also take comfort knowing that sensory bags with fidget tools, noise-canceling headphones, and other resources are available at every event, and all guest-facing staff have completed KultureCity training to ensure the magic of the season can be enjoyed by guests of all abilities.

Tickets for the sensory-friendly performance, presented in partnership with TDF, are now available at tdf.org/rockettes.

For more information on these and other accommodations, including accessible and companion seating, please contact the Accessibility Services Department at accessibilityservices@msg.com or the Accessibility Services FAQ page. Tickets for the 2025 Christmas Spectacular can be purchased in person at the Ticketmaster Box Office at Radio City Music Hall (1260 6th Ave. between 50th and 51st Streets) and online at rockettes.com/christmas.

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Choosing a Caregiver for My Special Needs Child

A mother shares her comprehensive approach to interviewing, vetting, and preparing caregivers for her autistic son

BY DANA GREENBERG

My son has autism, so when I need to leave him with a babysitter, I’m incredibly picky about who that person will be. A dozen worries run through my head: Who can I trust with him, especially since he has limited verbal skills? Will the sitter understand his wants and needs? Will he be happy and engaged while I’m gone? Over the years, I’ve developed a system for choosing babysitters that has worked well for us. Here’s how.

Where to Find Babysitters

There are some great places you might not have considered. I contact local specialeducation schools and therapy centers; social workers, psychologists, teachers, and therapists are excellent resources. Tell them exactly the type of person you seek and describe your child’s age and needs. Many staff members are looking for extra work, and these programs often circulate caregiving opportunities internally. A big advantage: these candidates frequently already have background checks or fingerprinting done by their employers.

Referrals from other parents of children with special needs are also invaluable. Other parents know what to ask and can give honest feedback about whether someone would be a good fit.

Meet as Many Candidates as Possible

I like to meet as many potential sitters as possible. Different personalities work for various situations. I have sitters I prefer for at-home care and others I want to bring on outings. And life happens — you need backups. It’s not unusual to call several people before getting a yes, so build a list of trusted candidates.

The Initial Interview

I meet new candidates alone, without my son present. He has strong receptive language, and I don’t like to discuss him in front of him. In that first meeting, I shared

everything: routines, likes and dislikes, what bowl he prefers for snacks, and that he likes ice cubes in his water — every detail matters. I also cover pay and invite candidates to ask questions. This meeting helps me decide whether to move forward.

Checking References

After the initial interviews, I always check the references of those I’m seriously considering — past families, supervisors, or coworkers. Have your questions ready and ask about interactions with children, handling difficult situations, punctuality, and reliability. You should feel free and comfortable to ask anything; after all, this is your child’s welfare we are talking about. Ask specific questions about the candidate’s interactions with children, how they’ve handled certain situations, and the like. I always like to ask about punctuality, too. This is the opportunity to get a feel for whether this person may be the right fit and if you want to continue moving along with them.

Introducing Your Child

Assuming the references check out, I will schedule a meeting between the candidate and my child at home. I will prepare my son in advance by telling him the person’s name and that they are coming over to see where

he lives and what he likes to play with. I show the potential caregiver around my home, pointing out where my son likes to hang out, where his favorite snacks are, and going over routines in detail. Watching how they interact gives me a strong sense of whether they’re a good match.

Joining us for an Outing

If I am hiring a sitter to take my son out, I invite them on an outing first. Being outside requires different skills: safety vigilance, managing unexpected behaviors, and staying calm if he won’t hold a hand or chases birds. I guide them through the outing and ask how they would handle particular scenarios.

Assessing the Sitter’s Commute

Where a sitter lives is important to me. Just because you are identifying candidates via a school or center does not necessarily mean they live nearby. I confirm that candidates can reliably get to and from my apartment independently and understand travel time. You don’t want to scramble to pick someone up or drop them off late at night.

Every question matters, and no detail is too small. Make lists, check references, and do what it takes to put your mind at ease — when you know your child is in the right hands, you can go out and truly relax.

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Comprehend The Mind

114-20 Queens Blvd., Suite CS 2, Forest Hills 718-441-0166

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Comprehend the Mind is a group of neuropsychologists who diagnose and assess various conditions. They conduct neuropsychological, educational, speech and language, and psychiatric evaluations to help parents understand their child’s strengths and weaknesses, enabling them to plan for their academic success and emotional well-being.

Conversations Together

525 West End Ave., Upper West Side Info@conversationstogether. com conversationstogether.com

Conversations Together is a speech therapy private practice on the Upper West Side. We are a womanowned, local small business

providing inclusive and individualized speech, language, and literacy services for children and young adults. Therapists emphasize collaboration with families and educators to support real-world communication and carryover. Using clientled, play-based, and interest-driven approaches, Conversations Together helps clients build confidence and achieve meaningful and functional communication goals. Reach out today to start the conversation.

The Gillen Brewer School

410 East 92nd St., Upper East Side 212-831-3667

admissions@gillenbrewer.com gillenbrewer.com

The Gillen Brewer School offers an academictherapeutic approach to special education for K to

8th-grade students. The school’s mission is to educate and support students in becoming confident, independent, and engaged learners. The program features a hands-on, language-based curriculum integrating speech and language therapy, occupational therapy, counseling, and social groups into each child’s schedule. Children from across NYC are immersed in developmentally appropriate and socially engaging learning.

The Ideal School

5 Hanover Square, FiDi 212-769-1699

admissions@theidealschool. org theidealschool.org

The IDEAL School of Manhattan distinguishes itself as a private school by expanding the definition of diversity to include ability and economic status. Its

financial assistance packages have built a more diverse student body than most private schools. The school’s academic program is tailored to support students at their individual levels to help them achieve their goals. Schedule a visit or join an open house to learn more.

Lindamood-Bell Learning Processes

355 Lexington Ave., Suite 1020, Midtown East 212-644-0650

newyork.center@ lindamoodbell.com

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Lindamood-Bell Learning Centers provide personalized instruction to help students of all ages develop the sensory-cognitive skills essential for reading, comprehension, and math. Using evidence-based programs, they address learning challenges such as dyslexia and ADHD while

unlocking each learner’s potential. Lindamood-Bell Academy, an accredited private school, offers a tailored K-12 education that integrates these instructional methods into the curriculum, creating a supportive environment where students thrive academically and gain confidence in their learning.

Metro Community Health Center

335 East 24th St., Suite 1B, Kips Bay 212-209-5102 mchcny.org

Metro Community Health Center (MCHC) provides high-quality, wellcoordinated primary and specialty care and is strongly committed to individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Its skilled physicians, therapists, nurses, and staff deliver compassionate, evidencebased, and culturally

competent care regardless of a patient’s ability to pay. Services include primary care and psychiatry in a comfortable and supportive environment. MCHC ensures accessible healthcare for all, prioritizing dignity and comprehensive wellness.

The Parkside School

48 West 74th St., Upper West Side 212-721-8888 alevinger@parksideschool.org parksideschool.org

Celebrating 40 years of helping children with language-based learning differences thrive, The Parkside School provides a warm, individualized environment where every child’s strengths are recognized and nurtured. Their integrated academic and therapeutic programs support students in developing confidence, skills, and a lifelong love

of learning. Discover how Parkside opens doors to new possibilities for children in kindergarten through 5th grade.

Westchester School For Special Needs

45 Park Ave., Yonkers 520 Route 22, North Salem 33 Seymour St., Yonkers 914-376-4300 westchesterschool.org

The Westchester School is a New York State-approved, non-public school that provides educational and therapeutic services to students from Long Island, New York City, the Hudson Valley, and Connecticut. With campuses in Yonkers and North Salem, New York, the program serves over 300 students with autism, intellectual disability, multiple disabilities, orthopedic impairment, emotional disability, preschool students with

disabilities, and other health impairments.

The Windward School

212 E. 93rd St, Upper East Side 212-222-8628 thewindwardschool.org

A coeducational, independent day school located in NYC and White Plains for children in grades 1 through 9 with languagebased learning disabilities such as dyslexia. Committed to helping students achieve their full potential in order to return to a mainstream educational environment successfully, Windward remediates students’ skill deficits through a proven instructional program— combined with opportunities for social and emotional growth—to enable students to understand their learning differences, build confidence, and develop self-advocacy skills.

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BEST

Birthday Party Places

Finding the right place to celebrate your child’s big day can turn an ordinary birthday into something truly unforgettable. Whether your little one dreams of a handson art party, an epic play-space experience, or a fun outdoor adventure, there’s no shortage of creative venues to bring those birthday wishes to life.

We’ve gathered some of our favorite kids’ birthday party spots—each with its own unique charm, from themed entertainment to stress-free all-inclusive packages. No matter where you celebrate, these spots deliver fun, laughter, and unforgettable memories.

Blue Balloon Parties

Astoria 718-766-8058

book@blueballoonparties.com blueballoonparties.com

Blue Balloon Parties specializes in creating unique, personalized entertainment experiences for every occasion. Whether it’s a birthday celebration, family gathering, community event, or corporate function, the company’s mission is to deliver unforgettable moments with professionalism, creativity, and care. Serving the New York Tri-State Area—including New York City, Long Island, Westchester, Fairfield, Rockland, and Northern New Jersey—Blue Balloon Parties brings the fun directly to its clients. With passionate and engaging performers, the team ensures guests are always surprised, delighted, and thoroughly entertained. From small parties to large-scale events, Blue Balloon Parties guarantees reliable service, exceptional quality, and complete client satisfaction. Their dedication to excellence makes every celebration one to remember— because at Blue Balloon, they truly “Bring the Party to You.”

Color Me Mine

177 Amsterdam Ave., Upper West Side 212-877-0007

upperwestside.colormemine.com/ events/parties

Celebrate your birthday with color, creativity, and fun at Color Me Mine Upper West Side. All-inclusive pottery painting “pARTies” make celebrating as easy as it gets. Kids can choose from a wide variety of ceramics and create a one-of-a-kind masterpiece while bonding with friends and family. Color Me Mine provides everything you need to make the day extra special: ceramics, glazes and materials, kiln service, special treats for the guest of honor, décor, goodie bags, delivery of finished ceramics, and food. With multiple package options including full studio rentals for private celebrations, parents can relax while kids paint, laugh, and celebrate together. This unique and vibrant experience creates lasting art and memories for years to come.

ItyBell Productions

39 West 56th St., Midtown

917-667-0807

itybellproductions@gmail.com itybellproductions.com/studio-sessions Does your little one want to be a rockstar for a day? At ItyBell Productions, your child’s birthday becomes a full-blown music adventure in the heart of Midtown Manhattan just steps from Fifth Avenue and Central Park. Your child can step into the spotlight and record their very own hit songs in a professional studio, mixed and mastered by Grammy-level engineers. Each session includes custom instrumental production tailored to your musical style, along with expert vocal coaching to bring out your kid’s best. Guests also enjoy a Pop Star photoshoot to capture the entire experience! With state-

of-the-art recording rooms and acclaimed engineers, ItyBell makes every birthday feel like the exciting kickoff of a worldwide tour. Sing, shine, and celebrate where legendary artists record—because your big day deserves superstar energy!

Kidville

205 West 88th St., Upper West Side 212-362-7792

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Make your child’s big day unforgettable with a Kidville Birthday Party, an all-inclusive, totally customizable celebration designed to make party planning effortless for parents and magical for kids! Kidville takes care of every detail—from setup to cleanup—while energetic party leaders guide children through themed games, art projects, and fun-filled gym play. Choose from exciting themes like Rainbows & Unicorns, Under the Big Top Circus, Royal Princess and Knight, Fly Me to the Moon, Slime Factory, and more, or create your own dream theme! With options for every age, from toddlers

to big kids, and flexible packages that fit your needs, Kidville turns every party into a stress-free, joy-filled experience parents love and kids remember forever.

Magic By Bruce

917-525-7139

brucebiggins@hotmail.com brucemagic.com

Magic by Bruce, featuring his adorable rabbits Bun Bun and Cocoa Puff, specializes in creating unforgettable magical entertainment for any occasion. Founded by Bruce, a seasoned magician with years of experience captivating audiences, Magic by Bruce brings laughter, wonder, and excitement to every event. His engaging performances and charming animal companions delight children and adults alike, making each festival truly memorable. With affordable pricing and customizable packages, Magic by Bruce ensures that every family can enjoy a magical experience, because no child should miss out on a joyful birthday. Whether for birthdays, school

events, or family gatherings, Bruce’s Magic guarantees fun, amazement, and smiles all around. Explore videos on his website and book your magical experience.

A Novel Princess Party anovelprincessparty.com

A little magic can make a big impact! A Novel Princess Party transforms children’s birthdays into unforgettable adventures with royal, superhero, and fan-favorite character experiences. Families can choose from beloved characters like Elsa, Moana, Superman, Ghost Spider, Taylor Swift, and K-Pop Demon Hunters. Professional performers bring the magic directly to the celebration, offering 30–120-minute visits filled with hands-on activities, special gifts, and sensory-friendly options. Serving kingdoms across the tristate area, every celebration is uniquely enchanting.

NY Kids Club

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Preschool & Kids Club brings children’s dream birthdays to life! Thoughtfully designed to be both fun and enriching, each party features exciting themes and immersive experiences that give children and their friends the chance to learn new skills while having an unforgettable time. As a one-stop shop for party planning, every detail, from planning to hosting to cleanup, is expertly handled, allowing families to relax and enjoy a stress-free celebration. Every party is an immersive adventure, tailored to spark imagination and create lifelong memories that children and their friends will treasure for years to come.

Party Mags

631-600-3315 charles@partymags.com partymags.com

Party Mags services the Tri-State Area, delivering high-energy entertainment with the latest multimedia technology. Each Party Mags event features Mobile Arcade Gaming Systems equipped with two TVs, dual game consoles, vibrant LED lighting, and double-sided play for nonstop fun. Guests can enjoy top video game consoles, crisp displays, versatile tablets, and immersive virtual reality headsets. From thrilling VR adventures to Fortnite battles and gaming tournaments, Party Mags transforms any occasion into an unforgettable experience. Whether for a birthday, school event, or corporate gathering, Party Mags brings excitement directly to your venue. With game trucks, bouncy houses, and jumbo games, they ensure endless fun for guests of all ages—making every celebration truly memorable.

Urban Air

4422 2nd Ave., Brooklyn 347-732-5438, option 2 urbanair.com/new-york-brooklyn

The best kids’ birthday parties are at Urban Air Trampoline & Adventure Park in Brooklyn! Urban Air is the perfect place to celebrate your child’s special day! With wall-to-wall trampolines, exciting obstacle courses, and thrilling attractions, your child and their friends will bounce, climb, and have non-stop fun. At Urban Air, party planning is simple and stress-free! All party packages include a party host, digital invitations, balloons, utensils, bottled water, and so much more! Urban Air is the go-to destination for birthday excitement and endless adventures every day of the week.

Alyce chAn

Comedian on a mission to make motherhood funnier—and a lot less

lonely

By Danielle Ramos

Parenting in New York City is intense, unpredictable, and maybe sometimes a little absurd. One minute, you can be wrangling a stroller through the subway turnstile like a ninja, the next, you might be bribing your kid with a bagel just to get through a museum without a meltdown. Still, depending on the day, it can also be pretty wonderful.

We caught up with one of our favorite cover moms, Alyce Chan of @momcomnyc. She is a stand-up comedian, content creator, and real-life mom who tells it like it is and has turned parenting chaos into comedy gold.

From the realities of sleep-deprived lectures to her hit live comedy tour, “Pee Alone,” Alyce reminds us that even on the hardest days, laughter can be a lifeline, and yeah, you’re allowed (possibly required) to sit on the couch some days, and not feel guilty about it!

When we last spoke with you about two years ago, your kids were 6 and 9 they are 8 and 11 now. How has your comedy evolved as they’ve gotten older?

A couple of years makes a huge difference! I’m still in the sweet spot, but I’m also learning to let go a bit and give them some independence especially my eleven-yearold. My oldest is providing me with tons of material now that he’s officially a tween. He’s got the Gen Z vocabulary down and just enough attitude to keep me on my toes. I’m discovering that even though he craves autonomy, he still needs me around. This delicate balance of not embarrassing your kid while still being their safe space is crucial since he’s starting middle school this year.

My 8-year-old is still wonderfully cuddly, but I love that he can now arrange his own playdates; watching his friendships develop has been beautiful. Both boys can actually hold adult conversations now without immediately pivoting to poop and fart jokes, and they still

manage to crack me up daily.

These days, my comedy revolves around the uncomfortable questions my 11-yearold asks that I’m completely unprepared to answer, and the perfectly timed backhanded compliments my 8-year-old delivers about my appearance and aging process.

Speaking of aging, we especially love your recent videos in which you “lecture your kids while perimenopausing.” How has this stage of life shaped your parenting and comedy?

I only learned what perimenopause was about two years ago. It kept popping up all over my social media feed, and one day it hit me wait, I have brain fog and don’t sleep! I started using social media as my outlet because I had these moments where I’d try to lecture my kids and completely forget my words mid-sentence. In my head, I’m thinking, ‘Wow, I sound dumber than I ever have in my life.’ So I made my first video about my own experience, and it resonated with a lot of women.

I feel like it’s my job to keep the humor in an incredibly important topic something I think all women and men need to understand because every woman will go through this, is going through this, or has gone through this. This is huge for women it affects our wellbeing, our emotional and mental state so why aren’t we learning about this earlier? Wouldn’t it help everyone if we understood what we could do about it and how our peers and partners can support us? Or at least stay out of the way?

It’s definitely shaped the tone of my videos. The brain fog has really connected with my audience because we’re apparently all out here forgetting what we were saying halfway through sentences and pretending we totally meant to do that.

What motivated your collaboration with Kindred Bravely on a campaign centered on the humorous, heartfelt, and authentic

aspects of postpartum life?

I jumped into this headfirst! Since becoming a mom, I’ve felt like my purpose is to bring light and humor into the most challenging journey called motherhood. I got back into comedy because I felt lost and alone as a new parent. After having my second baby, a lightbulb went off, and I started “BYOB” Bring Your Own Baby at WORD Bookstore, a local bookshop in Greenpoint, Brooklyn.

My first show had seven moms and seven newborns. It was a monthly show that grew to twenty parents with twenty babies and eventually their siblings, too! I watched moms, dads, grandparents, and even nannies come together to create this incredible community. They felt safe to laugh without the pressure of constantly entertaining their babies, and for an hour, they could just feel like adults again.

Kindred Bravely was a natural extension of BYOB like the next generation of that mission. It’s about reaching even more moms, making them laugh, and reminding them they’re not alone in this beautiful, chaotic mess we call parenthood.

What’s one postpartum truth you wish someone had told you?

That I would need help, and asking for it isn’t being weak. Don’t try to do it all. We live in different times now, where we don’t have our families living in the same house or siblings and aunts next door like previous generations. There’s no prize for being a martyr. And here’s the thing—nurture your other relationships even when you’re exhausted. It feels impossible, but those connections are essential to your life. Your friendships, your partnership, your sense of self beyond being ‘Mom’ they all need tending, too. You’re not just a vessel for keeping a tiny human alive; you’re still a whole person who deserves support, laughter, and adult conversation that doesn’t revolve around sleep schedules and diaper counts.

What’s on your mom’s must-have list?

Comfortable bras . My body has changed significantly, and I need support even when sleeping. I love a good supportive but soft bra I can sleep in and wear to the gym. I’m all about efficiency: one bra that can seamlessly travel from school drop-off to the gym to a coffee date and still look great under a t-shirt.

A nice water bottle though honestly, I think I’ve lost more water bottles than my kids have, so I’m not exactly proud of that track record.

And coffee I love coffee anytime, even if it completely sabotages my sleep. Apparently, I’m committed to this cycle of exhaustion, and caffeine is my willing accomplice.

What do you love most about being a New York City mom?

There are so many things to do for adults and kids alike. I absolutely loved being in the city when the kids were young. I miss that era because I could accomplish anything with two kids and a stroller. That stroller was my lifeline my mobile command center.

Now that they’re older, a whole new world has opened up. We can take longer walks through the city, catch Broadway shows, explore museums, and try new restaurants without having to strategically plan around nap schedules and diaper changes. The city becomes your extended living room when you’re raising kids here. Where else can you grab coffee, hit a playground, catch some

culture, and still be home for dinner all within a few blocks?

What’s the most challenging part about being a New York City mom?

You’re constantly compromising on space while feeling guilty for staying in. The city has this manic energy that makes you think you should always be out like you’re failing New York if you’re home in pajamas.

It’s exhausting. You’re cramped in your overpriced shoebox, but also somehow convinced you’re wasting the city by not being at some gallery opening or rooftop bar or toting your kids to a DJ afternoon brunch party.

What’s one thing you hope every mom takes away from your comedy whether she’s up all night with a newborn or dealing with teen drama?

She’s not the only one who’s completely winging it. Whether you’re up all night with a newborn, dealing with a teenager, or giving advice to your now adult kid, you’re not alone in feeling like you have no idea what you’re doing.

I also try to bring humor to the stuff we’re not supposed to laugh about grief, bullying, and perimenopause. Sometimes, the only way to survive these things is to find the absurdity in them.

Online, I can reach moms at 3 am in their pajamas, scrolling through their phones while their kid finally sleeps. But live shows hit different. I get to connect with you in the front row I never know what I will say, but I love talking to couples in that VIP section, also aptly known as the roasting zone. There’s something about laughing together in a room that makes even the heavy stuff feel more manageable and builds a connection amongst strangers.

We know that our brains can’t run in stress mode 24/7. We need permission to forget about the serious stuff for an hour or at least find a way to laugh at it. People tell me they leave my shows feeling lighter and ready to face reality with a bit more resilience.

What’s next for you? Are there any shows, projects, or surprises NYC parents should know about?

I took the summer off to write and be with my kids and family in Vancouver, BC (Canada). I’m back on tour (across the US and Canada) with my full-hour “Pee Alone” tour. It’s a constantly evolving piece that I hope to soon shoot a special for to distribute globally.

Kindred Bravely

calendar

BY SHARA LEVINE

MANHATTAN

Snow White

WHEN: Nov. 1 – 9, Saturdays and Sundays, 12 – 1:15 pm and 4 – 5:15 pm

WHERE: The New Victory Theater, 209 W 42nd St., Midtown

AGES: 6 and older

WHAT: This new take on a classic tale brings a witty warmth to the Grimm classic and reminds us that even the wicked deserve a chance at redemption.

WANT TO GO?: $25. 646-223–3010, newvictory.org

The Colors of Frida

WHEN: Nov. 1 – 8, Saturdays, 3 – 4 pm

WHERE: Teatro SEA at The Clemente Center, 107 Suffolk St., Lower East Side

AGES: 5 – 12

WHAT: See the story of Frida Kahlo, one of the most famous painters in History, as told through music and puppetry, in this colorful bilingual production.

WANT TO GO?: $20. 212-529–1545, teatrosea.org

Huddle

WHEN: Nov. 4 – 8, Daily, 10 am and 11:30 am

WHERE: Resnick Education Wing at Carnegie Hall, 154 West 57th St., Midtown

AGES: 2 and younger

WHAT: This intergenerational exploration of music, light, movement, and collective imagination follows characters fragile, fin, and hoof as they find each other and create a new community.

WANT TO GO?: Free. carnegiehall.org

Christmas Spectacular

Starring The Radio City Rockettes

WHEN: Nov. 6 – Jan. 4; see

website for schedule

WHERE: Radio City Music Hall, 1260 Avenue of the Americas, Midtown

AGES: All

WHAT: Celebrate the 100th anniversary of the worldfamous Radio City Rockettes as this milestone season promises to be more unforgettable than ever before.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $65. rockettes.com

Big Apple Circus at Lincoln Center

WHEN: Nov. 7 – Jan. 4, see website for schedule

WHERE: Damrosch Park at Lincoln Center, Amsterdam Ave. & West 62nd St., Upper West Side

AGES: All

WHAT: The magic of the Big Apple Circus is back with unforgettable feats of strength and skill, this all-new show brings the magic of the circus

to life.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $37. bigapplecircus.com

Laurie Berkner Solo –Greatest Hits

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 8, 11 am

WHERE: Adler Hall at New York Society for Ethical Culture, 2 W. 64th St., Upper West Side

AGES: 8 and younger

WHAT: Get ready to sing and dance with the “queen of kids music” when you hear her classic songs including “We Are The Dinosaurs,” as well as newer hits like “Waiting for the Elevator.”

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $52.50. laurieberkner.com

New York City Veterans Day Parade 2025

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 11, 12:30 – 3:30 pm

WHERE: Parade begins at

26th St. and 5th Ave., Flatiron District

AGES: All

WHAT: The nation’s largest Veterans Day Parade will commemorate the 250th anniversary of America’s military by celebrating the founding of the Army, Marine Corps, and Navy!

WANT TO GO?: Free. uwvc.org

Sleepover

WHEN: Nov. 22 – 30; see website for complete schedule

WHERE: TADA! Youth Theater, 15 West 28th St., Chelsea

AGES: All

WHAT: Take a peek into the hilarious world of teen life— from secret crushes to party guest list drama, Sleepover captures the excitement of growing up from a teenager’s point of view.

WANT TO GO?: $30; $15 ages 15 and younger. tadatheater. com

Big Apple Circus at Lincoln Center

Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 27, 8:30 am – 12 pm

WHERE: Parade begins at Central Park West & 77th St., Upper West Side

AGES: All

WHAT: This iconic parade includes magnificent floats, marching bands from across the country, and enormous balloons featuring favorite characters, old and new.

WANT TO GO?: Free. macys. com

NUTCRACKER! Magical Christmas Ballet

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 28, 7 – 9 pm

WHERE: The United Palace, 4140 Broadway, Washington Heights

AGES: All

WHAT: The show uniquely blends classical ballet and Tchaikovsky’s timeless score with jaw-dropping acrobatics, larger than life puppets and stunning hand-crafted sets and costumes.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $45. nutcracker.com

BRONX

Flip Circus

WHEN: Monday – Friday, 7 pm, Saturday, 1 pm, 4 pm, and 7 pm; Sunday, 12 pm, 3 pm, and 6 pm, through Nov. 4.

WHERE: The Mall at Bay Plaza, 200 Baychester Ave., Co-op City

AGES: All

WHAT: Don’t miss experiencing thrill seeking motorcycles inside the Globe of Steel, gleeful clowns, and more!

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $17.23. 718-208–2750, flipcircus.com

Holiday Train Show

WHEN: Nov. 15 – Jan. 11, Tuesdays – Sundays, 10 am – 6 pm

WHERE: New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx Park

AGES: All

WHAT: The timeless magic of rail travel fills NYBG with seasonal cheer as model trains travel famous bridges and familiar city settings, bringing nearly 200 twinkling landmark replicas to life.

WANT TO GO?: $27-$39. 718817–8700, nybg.org

Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights

WHEN: Nov. 21 – Jan. 4; see website for schedule

WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Park

AGES: All

WHAT: Millions of lights and hundreds of illuminated animals transform the Zoo into an immersive experience, featuring hands-on activities, holiday entertainment, and delicious treats.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $26.95. bronxzoo.com

BROOKLYN

Brooklyn FC vs DC Power FC

WHEN: Nov. 8, 3 – 5:30 pm

WHERE: Maimonides Park, 1904 Surf Ave., Coney Island

AGES: All

WHAT: Brooklyn FC takes on the DC Power FC during what is sure to be an exciting soccer match!

Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $23. seatgeek.com

Lightscape

WHEN: Nov. 21–Jan. 4, Daily, 10 am – 6 pm

WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Prospect Park

AGES: All

WHAT: This after-dark illuminated trail features luminous installations and light-splashed landscapes highlighting the beauty of the Garden in winter.

WANT TO GO?: $15-$44. bbg. org

A Charlie Brown Christmas

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 28, 7 pm

WHERE: Kings Theatre, 1027 Flatbush Ave., Flatbush AGES: All

WHAT: Charlie Brown and the Peanuts gang uncover the true meaning of Christmas in this Broadway-style production complete with immersive sets, choreography, and colorful costumes.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $25. 718-856–5464, kingstheatre.com

QUEENS

WQXR Classical Kids Fair

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 9, 12 – 4 pm

WHERE: Queens Theater, 14

United Nations Ave S, Corona AGES: 4 – 12

WHAT: Families can enjoy live performances, instrument discovery stations, dance and songwriting workshops, musical arts & crafts, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Free. 718-760–0064, queenstheatre.org

BagelFest

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 16, 9 am – 4 pm

WHERE: Citi Field, 41 Seaver Way, Flushing

AGES: All

WHAT: Explore and sample from top bagel, spread, and specialty food vendors, play interactive games, check out the special kids programming, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $69 for adults; $18 child 12 and under. bagelfest.com

360 ALLSTARS

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 16, 4 – 5:30 pm

WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts at Queens College, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All

WHAT: Featuring a first-class lineup of World Champion and record-holding athletes and artists, this show blends street artistry with a live soundtrack and immersive video projections.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $27.75. 718-793–8080, kupferbergcenter.org

Bryant Park Transforms!

Seasonal favorite kicks off the holidays in style in Midtown

By Danielle Ramos

You know the holiday season’s right around the corner when the Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park returns! This year, it opened in late October, kicking off one of NYC’s most beloved family traditions. The park’s annual transformation includes festive, open-air holiday shopping, free ice skating, and plenty of food and drink.

Whether you’re picking up handmade gifts, teaching your kids to skate, or just enjoying the lights with a cup of cocoa, the Winter Village is a fun day out right in the heart of Midtown. And, of course, New Yorkers already know that while there are so many bigger parks, Bryant Park is truly one of the most beautiful parks in the city.

The Holiday Shops: A Festive and Unique Shopping Experience

With so many big stores offering the same generic-looking gift items, the shopping alone is worth the trip. The Holiday Shops by Urbanspace bring together over 190 local and international vendors, offering everything from handmade jewelry and art prints to gourmet snacks and unique stocking stuffers. Plus, it feels like wandering around through a European market, right in the heart of Manhattan.

A few highlights from this year’s lineup include:

Baked by Melissa : New to the Holiday Shops, enjoy handcrafted mini cupcakes loved nationwide for their creative twists on classic flavors. These are those bite-sized cupcakes everyone fights over at parties!

Buttermee Pancakes : Also new to the market this year, these mini pancake bites are as delicious as they are meaningful, with a portion of proceeds supporting mental health programs.

Cheese Wheel Pasta : Back by popular demand, serving creamy pasta spun to perfection inside a giant wheel of cheese (yes, it’s as good as it sounds).

Pinky Pilots : Affordable, feel-good art prints and originals that brighten any

space and bring positive energy to your home and heart!

Soap for Sinner s: All-natural soaps and apothecary goods that make thoughtful gifts or a little treat for yourself. Free from preservatives, sulfates, parabens, phthalates, and synthetic fragrances, this new addition for 2025 delivers clean skincare for everyday grime.

Visitors can check out the Bank of America Small Business Spotlight, where you’ll find a rotating selection of local entrepreneurs selling everything from ceramics to greeting cards in rent-free booths designed to help NYC small businesses shine. This year features Brooklyn’s Tribe & Oak (through Nov. 11), Staten Island’s JAY CERAMICS (Nov. 12–30), Brooklyn’s Smar Art (Dec. 1–16), and Manhattan’s Vanilla Joe & Co. (Dec. 17– Jan. 4).

You Gotta Check Out Midtown’s Free Ice Skating Rink At the center of all the holiday activity and

shopping is The Rink, New York City’s only free-admission ice skating rink. Bring your own skates or rent a pair. Kids can use skate aids, lessons are available, and Bank of America cardholders even get 10% off skate rentals when booking online. There will also be special skating performances throughout the season.

When you need a break from the cold, head to The Lodge, a cozy indoor spot with comfort food, hot drinks, and seasonal cocktails.

More to Come at Winter Village This Season

Later in the season, keep an eye out for Santa’s Corner, Cozy Igloos, and everyone’s favorite, Bumper Cars on Ice, for both kids and adults.

The Winter Village runs until March 1, 2026, at Bryant Park (between 40th and 42nd Streets on Sixth Avenue).

For up-to-date rink and shop hours, visit wintervillage.org.

Photo by Colin Miller