The unrealistic expectations set by your news feed
10 | Maternal Ambivalence
Explore the contradictions of motherhood
14 | Mother’s Day Brunch
A special brunch for Mom in NYC
18 | NYC’s Postpartum Care Crisis
New moms are not receiving the support they need
24 | Maternal Mental Health
Identify key differences between baby blues and something more serious
STORIES & COLUMNS
6 | Editor’s Note Happy Mother’s Day
30 | Specialty Camps
Summer camps and programming to suit kids’ specific interests
34 | Local Spotlight
The grand reopening of the renovated, historic Port Richmond Library
36 | Top Preschools & Montessori Schools
Our top picks for early education
38 | Teen-Free Zone
The behavior of some local teens leads to restrictions in some public spaces.
FAMILY FUN
26 | Family Day Out
Why spending a day at the farm can help bring families closer together.
44 | Calendar
The best local family-friendly events this May
46 | Birthday Club
Birthday freebies to make your big day even more special!
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Happy Mother’s Day
Dear New York Families, Mother’s Day always sneaks up on me—somewhere between soccer and baseball practice, school projects, and the constant chaos of daily life with two growing boys. To be honest, I’ve never been big on the holiday—I am not usually into others making a fuss or being the center of attention. But each Mother’s Day I’ve spent as a mom, I take a moment to pause and reflect on the joy, deep love, and utter mayhem my kids have brought into my life. I also don’t mind sleeping in, being served coffee (I didn’t brew myself!) in bed, and the extra snuggles with my boys.
Whether you’re a new mom, a seasoned parent, or a caregiver guiding the next generation, we see you. We know the sacrifices you make and all you do to ensure schedules run smoothly, bellies are full, and kids are cared for. We see the invisible load you carry, and we know it’s not always as easy as some moms may have you believe— curated highlight reels on social media don’t always tell the whole story. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up, you’re not alone—and you’ll find real insight in our feature on Motherhood Milestone FOMO on page 8.
We continue to explore some of the realities of motherhood, from Maternal
Ambivalence on page 10 to the gaps in postpartum care that many New York moms face in our story on Rising Challenges in Postpartum Care on page 18. We also dive into maternal mental health as we take a closer look at postpartum mood disorders on page 24.
In this issue, you’ll also find ways to celebrate together as a family, from spending a day on the farm picking your own fruit on page 26 to delicious and extravagant Mother’s Day Brunches around the city page 14.
We recognize that Mother’s Day may be difficult for some mothers who may be grieving a loss, doing it all on their own, or who may not feel much like celebrating for another reason. However you choose to celebrate—or not—this Mother’s Day, we hope you feel a sense of connection, discover moments of inspiration, and find a little joy. And maybe you’ll even find a moment to take a welldeserved break.
Warmly, Tara
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Motherhood Milestone FOMO
When your own social media doesn’t match your feed, the pressure builds. How to block the noise and protect your mental health
By BarBara russo
Facebook, Instagram, TikTok—social media can be great for anyone seeking advice on a wide range of topics. But sometimes, the constant scrolling can become too much. We know a lot about its influence on kids, but what about the effects of social media on mothers?
It’s not uncommon for mothers to overshare their families’ lives on social media. Whether they’re an “influencer” or not, these highlight reels make it easy for their friends and followers to get caught in a comparison trap. In fact, a recent study even confirmed that moms who spend more time online engage in greater levels of social comparison. This can lead to increased cortisol levels and, in turn, higher stress and negative emotions.
AdditionAl tips
Dr. Patel-Dunn shares some additional tips for building a healthier relationship with social media:
• Be mindful of how you feel before, during and after social media engagement. Get curious about this experience, and ask yourself what boundaries around social media might serve you best.
• Unfollow accounts that lead to increased negative emotions or feelings of comparison.
• If you notice yourself falling into a comparison trap, remind yourself that these glimpses of motherhood do not accurately represent what is going on in a person’s life.
• Focus on social media sites that offer a sense of community rather than comparison.
• Avoid using social media first thing in the morning or right before bed at night. Give yourself breaks to be present throughout the day.
While this occurs most often in first-time moms, parents of multiple kids experience this, too. From their own personal postpartum weight loss journey to their toddlers’ potty training timeline, there’s a ton of pressure to keep up with what seems to feel like a never-ending cycle that continues as children become teenagers, adults and eventually parents themselves. Some therapists call this social media pressure “motherhood milestone FOMO” (fear of missing out).
Anisha Patel-Dunn, D.O., psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at LifeStance Health, and mom, is familiar with this topic. She’s been working with patients dealing with this type of pressure. We spoke with Dr. Patel-Dunn, who shared tips for moms on how to cope and have a healthy relationship with social media.
What is Motherhood Milestone FOMO?
Motherhood is full of milestones, including pregnancy and childbirth, a child’s first steps, first words and more. If your timeline or experience doesn’t match what you see on social media, it’s not uncommon to experience feelings of being left behind or inadequate. Comparison is a common challenge many people face in different aspects of their lives, but for mothers, societal expectations about what makes a “good mother” can make this even more difficult.
Do you find that moms compare themselves to other mothers on social media? If so, is there a lot of pressure for them to keep up
with what their friends, influencers and celebrities are posting and sharing?
There is so much parenting content on social media from celebrities, influencers, friends and loved ones. This content often presents itself as rules or advice for mothers, which can become overwhelming. Another side of this is that many people on social media only show their “best” moments. This is not an accurate representation of their lives. Understandably, moms might fall into a comparison trap, which can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety.
Can you explain how moms who spend more time on social media experience more stress and negative emotions?
For those experiencing low self-esteem, spending more time on social media and falling into a comparison trap can often exacerbate these feelings. Social media is designed to pull us in and capture our attention, and it can be incredibly challenging to break out of this cycle.
Does social media benefit Mom in any way?
A silver lining of the last few years is that more people have become more candid about their mental health, and this is often seen on social media. It can provide an opportunity to is now part of access a community of likeminded people that you may not be able to access in person depending on your location and personal situation. In that sense, social media can connect moms with peer support regardless of location.
A Peek Into Maternal Ambivalence
A therapist’s new book takes a closer look at struggling with mixed feelings about motherhood
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
Motherhood is often romanticized as a journey of pure joy, unconditional love, and endless fulfillment. But for many moms, there’s a hidden side to parenting—the feelings that don’t always match the picture-perfect narrative.
In her upcoming book, Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood on sale now, psychotherapist, social worker and mother of three, Margo Lowy, PhD, delves into the often-unspoken, complex emotions that accompany the experience of mothering.
Lowy explores what it means to embrace the full spectrum of feelings that come with raising children—from the deep love and pride to the exhaustion, frustration, and moments of doubt. Through her own personal journey and extensive research, she challenges the societal pressures that demand mothers to be selfless, constantly joyful, and always in control.
In this excerpt, Lowy invites us to confront maternal ambivalence and redefine what it means to be a mother in all its beautiful, messy contradictions.
Being a mom is so difficult some days. We are pulled in so many different directions by our children, and we are supposed to be caring, selfless, and remain an adult all the time, even when it becomes too much. How do we make room to acknowledge and talk about maternal ambivalence, a forbidden and silenced but daily part of our mothering?
Making sense of these contradictions in order to live with them in a peaceful and productive way may be the greatest challenge of all. As a mother of three, I’ve struggled— and still do—with my mothering. While my children are all things to me—the wonder, love, and accomplishment of my life—they also test me continually as I tread the awe, joy, and heartbreak of being a mother and its continual twists and turns. On that score, I’m not so different from any other mother.
I suppose my difference creeps in in the way that I have dealt with my experience of mothering and its combination of awe, joy, and heartbreak. It hasn’t been easy, and why would it be? I have been driven to spend years of my life trying to find ways to make sense of mothering and the mother’s feelings of ambivalence.
I have pondered its contradictions and mystery while questioning the status quo and the wider social commentary.
It seems to me that most people feel entitled to freely comment on the sacred feelings that a woman experiences as a mother, often leaving her with deep, unsettling feelings that may be hidden in the shadows or feel shameful.
Ironically, this research and work on mothering began with a foray into infertility and the heartache that a woman usually feels when she is unable to conceive. My belief that these feelings are too important to ignore, too fragile to be denied, also segued into a desire to shine a light on the desperation that many mothers feel.
Both infertility and mothering, in their own way, provoke a sense of failure or lacking, a yearning, and many negative feelings that go unspoken. Both hold an element of taboo. That’s the fascination for me: the jumbling, contradictory flow of life.
This raises another matter, which is that this is not a book about whether or not to have children, despite the fact that maternal ambiva-
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lence is sometimes understood in these terms.
To this point, I strongly believe that most women who decide not to have a child do not come to their decision lightly; more often than not, it arrives after a great deal of soul-searching. These women merit exactly the same respect as those who decide that they wish to rear a child; they don’t justify derision or voicelessness.
Across all cultures in this world, there is a universal truth, which is that motherhood defines womanhood in some way, whether we have children or not. We are judged for the ways in which we raise our children and judged when we choose not to raise them.
Men and fathers, too, experience the conflict of parenthood and that dialogue, and while much different than it was even a halfcentury ago, it still has much progress to make. My focus in this book, however, is the intersection of womanhood and motherhood—the relationship that springs into being after birth and exists long after a child has left the nest.
Every mother has her moments when troubling feelings, including those of desperation, anger, loneliness, exhaustion, and
despair, surface despite attempts to keep them down where she thinks that they belong. I think these moments have been disregarded or cloaked in denial.
It’s time to air and name them, and in doing so, redefine the image of a mother as either a demon or an angel into one where she is an ordinary human being—one who, despite
having these feelings, does still love her child deeply and, in fact, within these troubling feelings, discovers that her love is strengthened and fueled in the soundest way possible because these feelings are genuine and real.
Ambivalence is the human capacity to acknowledge, own, and engage with many contradictory feelings, without dismissing the difficult ones. An indication of a healthy mindset is an acceptance that this dynamic is part of life, that challenges will crop up from time to time, and that the individual is prepared to work with them and not to dismiss or repress any of them. While the idea of ambivalence certainly throws many curveballs, let’s welcome it: it’s the unsung hero(ine) of mothering.
Margo Lowy, PhD, is a psychotherapist specializing in mothering. She is the author of MATERNAL AMBIVALENCE: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood (Post Hill Press) and holds a doctorate from the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, where she researched maternal ambivalence. She is the mother of three children and lives with her husband in New York City.
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Mother’s Day Brunch & Dinner in Staten Island
BY ALEXA LUTTER
May brings warmer weather and a special holiday to celebrate the woman who does it all. This year, Mother’s Day falls on Sunday, May 11th. Whether you are a mom yourself, honoring your mother, or a motherly figure in your life, enjoying a delicious meal with loved ones is a great way to commemorate the woman who does it all. Whether at a little café or Mom’s favorite restaurant, enjoying a delightful meal together fosters laughter, meaningful conversation, and precious moments— showing Mom how deeply she is loved and appreciated.
Enjoy a refined waterfront sit-down brunch overlooking the Manhattan skyline this Mother’s Day, including freshly baked croissants for the table, a choice of expertly crafted entrées like matcha pancakes, caviar omelets, and chicken and waffles, a selection of shareable, family-style sides, and choice of dessert. Whether you’re craving a classic brunch dish or something more innovative, there’s something here for everyone.
Adults: $49.95; Kids:$27.95. Reservations are recommended.
Grand Oaks Country Club
200 Huguenot Ave.
718-356-2771
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Seating Times: 10:30 am and 2 pm
Show Mom your appreciation with an elegant Mother’s Day brunch in a warm and beautiful 19th-century Dutch Revival estate overlooking a serene golf course in the heart of Staten Island. Classic brunch offerings
and seasonal entrees crafted by awardwinning chefs will help make Mother’s Day memorable.
Adults: $59.95; Kids ages 3-10: $29.95. Reservations are required.
Lacey’s Bridge Tavern
75 Innis St.
718-273-7514
laceysbridgetavern.com
10 - 11:30 am and 12 - 1:30 pm
Celebrate Mom at one of Staten Island’s beloved family-style restaurants. Lacey’s Bridge Tavern offers a cozy, welcoming atmosphere and a brunch menu that blends comfort food with classic brunch favorites, including eggs Benedict, stuffed French toast, steak and eggs, and createyour-own omelets. Enjoy unlimted sangria, mimosas, Bloody Marys, and more. Á la
carte menu prices will vary. Reservations are recommended.
Marbella Restaurant
24 Navy Pier Ct.
347-855-2400
marbellanyc.com
11:00 am
The elegant ambiance and attentive service at Marbella Restaurant provide the perfect backdrop for honoring Mom. Delicious Mediterranean flavors are served in a serene, coastal Mediterranean setting. Enjoy a thoughtfully curated brunch menu featuring a variety of flavorful dishes, a mezze platter for the table, family-style bacon, home fries, and a choice of dessert. Adults: $55; Kids: $30. Reservations are recommended.
Sally’s Southern BBQ
427 Forest Avenue
718-727-2559
sallyssouthern.com
10 am, 10:30 am, 11 am, 12 pm, 12:30 pm and 1 pm
Treat Mom to a soulful, southern-style brunch with fresh, flaky buttermilk biscuits
for the table, followed by your choice of hearty entrée—from classic Southern favorites to creative brunch specials—and a sweet dessert to finish. $46.95 per person. Reservations are recommended.
Enjoy a wide selection of breakfast and lunch favorites, including made-to-order omelets, carved meats, fresh pastries and desserts on the beautiful outdoor patio.
Sit-Down Brunch Seating Times: 10:15 am and 10:45 am
Treat Mom to a sit-down brunch in the elegant fireplace or lakeside rooms, offering a curated prix fixe menu of brunch classics. Adults: $49.95; Kids: $29.95. Reservations are recommended.
The Vanderbilt at South Beach
300 Father Capodanno Blvd.
718-447-0800
vanderbiltsouthbeach.com
Sit-Down Brunch Seating Times: 10:30 am and 2 pm
Celebrate Mother’s Day with an elegant oceanfront brunch. Mom can indulge in a gourmet menu of brunch favorites, seasonal specialties, and decadent desserts while taking in a breathtaking view. Adults: $59.95; Kids ages 3-10: $29.95. Reservations are required.
Celebrate Mom with a delicious brunch at Violette’s Cellar, offering two unique experiences: a breakfast buffet or a sit-down brunch. Enjoy an array of sweet and savory favorites, including fresh pastries, eggs, pancakes, salads, and chef-crafted entrées. Adults: $49.95; Kids: $24.95. Reservations are recommended.
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NYC Faces Rising Challenges in Postpartum Care
By Náosha GreGG
For many, motherhood starts a new chapter of life. New mothers experience a whirlwind of emotions – happiness, joy, fear, and nervousness – as they prepare to begin their new life journey with their bundle of joy. While many show the highlights of life post-birth (we’re looking at you, Instagram highlights!), proper postpartum care is a considerable part of the behind-the-scenes.
An Increasing Crisis
Maternal health has always been an issue across the five boroughs. According to the New York State of Health, between 2018 and 2020, there were 121 pregnancy-related deaths in New York State, averaging approximately 40 deaths per year. However, while many mothers have reported not receiving adequate care before and after birth, the focus on postpartum health has not had as much advocacy. A report from March of Dimes found that approximately 12.5% of birthing individuals in New York receive inadequate prenatal care, which is below the national rate of 14.8%.
32% of mothers in this stage across the city report high levels of medical mistrust, and one in five new and expecting mothers in New York City experience perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMAD), including depression, anxiety, and postpartum psychosis. Postpartum depression (PPD) is one of the leading causes of suicide, accounting for 20% of postpartum deaths. It is also during this time that individuals are most at risk for perinatal suicide, as many occur between nine to 12 months postpartum.
Many mothers struggle with postpartum care as economic and financial circumstances come into play. On average, it would cost a new mother $40 to $70 per hour for doula support.
“Postpartum is often seen as an afterthought – often just making sure the baby is happy and healthy, without considering the mother’s well-being, too. Physical recovery, mental health,
breastfeeding, lack of sleep, and everything in between can make this period extremely difficult,” says Joy Windley, Postpartum Doula, CLC, and assistant manager at Boram Care, a postnatal retreat for mothers and newborn babies in New York City.
“There are a lot of barriers to adequate care, whether that’s lack of paid family leave, rising medical costs, and general pressure put on moms to just “deal with it” after they give birth. Postpartum care is often seen as a luxury when it should be essential for every mom. This isn’t just something we see in New York City — it’s a societal shift we need across the country.”
The 5-5-5 postpartum rule recommends that new mothers take 15 days of rest after giving birth: Five days in bed, five days on the bed, and five days around the
bed. This encourages new moms to spend time bonding with baby instead of doing housework, caring for older children, or returning to work. However, the high cost of living in New York City, which is 77% higher than the national average, makes it difficult for many parents to take this much-needed time away.
How We Can Heal
New York State has made some progress in supporting new mothers by requiring health care providers to screen for PPD and other postpartum mood disorders during postpartum follow-up appointments and baby’s pediatric well-visits.
The city has also launched initiatives such as allowing emotional support dogs during and after birth and providing newborn
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supply kits to new parents. However, some mothers still hesitate to ask for help.
“The first step is talking about it with friends, family, and healthcare providers. There’s such a stigma around postpartum wellness and knowing that if you’re struggling with breastfeeding, mental health, identity shifts, and the overwhelming emotions that come with new motherhood,” says Windley. “I also encourage new mothers to give themselves permission to ask for help, whether it’s from a partner, a doula, a lactation consultant, or a mental health professional. Recovery isn’t linear, and there’s no one-size-fits-all path. Building a support system, staying connected to your body, and being gentle with yourself can make a real difference.”
Postpartum mothers are not alone; they are encouraged to reach out for help if they may be experiencing PPD or other psychological symptoms. To learn more, read our story — “Postpartum Depression or Just the Baby Blues?” — in this issue. For resources and information, visit the following support groups across the city:
“There are a lot of barriers to adequate care, whether that’s lack of paid family leave, rising medical costs, and general pressure put on moms to just ‘deal with it’ after they give birth. Postpartum care is often seen as a luxury when it should be essential for every mom.”
The Motherhood Center of New York
Located in Manhattan, this center offers comprehensive services for individuals experiencing PPD and other perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs). Their programs include a specialized Day Program for moderate to severe cases, outpatient therapy, medication management, and virtual support groups. themotherhoodcenter.com
Postpartum Resource Center of New York (PRCNY)
PRCNY provides free support and resources for new parents across the state. They offer weekly virtual support groups, individual peer coaching, and a toll-free helpline at 1-855-631-0001, available daily
from 9 am to 5 pm. postpartumny.org
Postpartum Support International –New York Chapter
This organization connects individuals with local support groups, therapists, and educational resources throughout New York. psichapters.com
Seleni Institute
Based in Manhattan, the Seleni Institute offers mental health care, counseling, support groups, and maternal and reproductive mental health workshops. It also trains mental health professionals in perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. seleni.org
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Six Gifts Mom Really Wants for Mother’s Day
By Jana Beauchamp
Book Drop is a must-have, monthly surprise book subscription for the bookworm mom. Powered by an independent bookstore, curated subscriptions are categorized by genre, so you can be sure Mom will enjoy any book she receives. Subscription genres include Books for Tea, the only designated historical fiction monthly mailing of any subscription box. If that’s not her cup of tea, try Books for Coffee, featuring mysteries and thrillers. Books for Lemonade, a quarterly beach read subscription, will be available just in time for Mother’s Day. Starting at $27 per month, thebookdrop.com
Maison Miru’s Falling Star Nap Earrings are a thoughtful gift for any stylish, busy mom. These unique earrings feature a delicate gold chain adorned with pavé crystals. They are crafted from hypoallergenic, medical-grade titanium and designed for 24/7 wear with a flat back that ensures comfort. Available in gold or silver finishes, these earrings are chic with a little edge and will add to the fashion-forward mom’s jewelry collection. $140, maisonmiru.com
The Owala Spring Revival collection is perfect for moms to stay refreshed and hydrated this Mother’s Day. The special-edition spring colorway is available for all the musthave Owala bottles, including the new Owala FreeSip Sway. These “all sip, no drip” bottles are leak-proof, easy to sip, and insulated to keep drinks hot or cold for hours. Plus, they’re made from stainless steel and are BPA, lead, and phthalate-free. $35, owalalife.com
Give Mom a gift that keeps on giving with a flexible floral subscription from UrbanStems . Offering fresh, curated arrangements weekly, biweekly, or monthly, you can choose from classic, seasonal, or luxe bouquets for all tastes and occasions. Subscriptions include free shipping and flexible scheduling, and premium, sustainable floral arrangements starting at $60, urbanstems.com
TAJA Collection’s 2025 Mother’s Day lineup features a range of customizable candles designed to honor moms with both sentiment and style. Each candle is hand-poured in Miami using 100% soy wax and phthalatefree fragrances, ensuring a clean burn. The “Best Mom Ever” candle is a classic favorite—bold, heartfelt, and always appreciated. Other notable options include the “Loquet” candle, which allows for a personal photo upload within a heart design, and the playful “Five Star Mom” candle, celebrating moms with a glowing review. $98, tajacollection.com
For a mom who needs a chic, practical way to carry the motherload, the Longchamp Cabas Tote Bag from the new summer collection is the perfect gift. Crafted from recycled canvas with signature leather accents, this lightweight, spacious tote features a timeless, minimalist silhouette in a vibrant hue. It has ample interior space and pockets to keep essentials organized, which is ideal for moms on the go. $325, longchamp.com
Postpartum Depression or Just the Baby Blues?
How to determine the difference between hormones and something more serious — and when to ask for help
By Ashley Ziegler
Welcoming a new baby into your life comes with expected emotional ups and downs. Suddenly, you’re responsible for a tiny human who can’t even hold its head up yet – this kind of responsibility is overwhelming, to say the least. Toss in the dramatic hormone fluctuations that come naturally after giving birth, plus the physical toll of recovery, and it’s a wonder how a new parent wouldn’t feel a little out of control.
Still, as normal as it is to feel a mix of highs and lows in the first few weeks after having a baby, often known as the “baby blues,” it’s essential to stay alert and monitor what you’re feeling, as you may be experiencing postpartum depression (PPD).
To help make the distinction between the baby blues and PPD, we spoke with Janel Coleman, LMSW, a doula and licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in Manhattan, and Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C, an OBGYN, author, and clinical director at Oula in Manhattan. Here’s what they had to say.
What’s the Difference Between Baby Blues and Postpartum Depression?
Around 85% of birthing parents experience symptoms of baby blues, while around 12.5% are diagnosed with PPD. Given how common the baby blues are, it’s no wonder why signs of depression are so easily overlooked. In fact, the symptoms of each are incredibly similar.
According to Coleman, symptoms of baby blues can include feelings of anxiety, sadness, tearfulness, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and difficulty sleeping (even when baby is sleeping). These are all also signs of PPD, but according to Dr. Vernon, the difference is in the onset, duration, and severity of these symptoms.
Baby blues
“Baby blues are a common and temporary emotional experience during the postpartum
period … they typically occur within the first two weeks after the baby is born,” explains Coleman. Dr. Vernon describes the symptoms more as mood swings. “You may be laughing one minute and crying the next, often not even knowing why you are crying, then just as quickly changing again to a happier state,” she says. Dr. Vernon explains that these dramatic mood changes can be attributed to “rapid hormonal shifts that occur after the baby is born” and typically level out within the first two weeks after delivery.
In addition to being short-lived, baby blue symptoms are less intense than PPD symptoms. Dr. Vernon says, “The lows are not severe or persistent – you can easily ‘snap out of it.’” Also, while they can certainly feel overwhelming in the moment, Coleman notes that baby blues symptoms typically aren’t severe enough to interfere with a new parent’s ability to care for their baby or themselves.
Postpartum depression
Just like the baby blues, symptoms of PPD can show up within the first two weeks of the postpartum period, but they won’t fizzle out. Both Dr. Vernon and Coleman stress that symptoms lasting longer than those first two weeks after baby arrives indicate it’s more than baby blues.
Not only do the symptoms last longer, but they’re also more intense with PPD. Coleman explains that these symptoms can become so severe that they can interfere with a parent’s ability to meet the needs of their baby. In some cases, the parent is able to care for the baby, but they stop taking care of themselves — they may stop eating or drinking, skip basic hygiene tasks for days on end, withdraw from family and friends, or not get enough sleep (beyond the typical parents-of-newborn sleep deprivation).
Symptoms that PPD shares with the baby blues but will be more severe include:
• Anxiety
• Irritability
• Feelings of sadness
• Difficulty concentrating
• Tearfulness
• Difficulty sleeping
Additional symptoms Coleman says to look for include:
• Feelings of hopelessness
• Difficulty bonding with baby
• Lack of interest in pleasurable activities
• Withdrawing from family and friends
• Doubts or fears about their ability to be a good parent
• Thoughts of harming themselves or baby
Postpartum Depression Treatment Options
In New York, the birthing parent’s health care provider screens them for postpartum depression (or postpartum mood disorders,
in general) during follow-up visits. However, these visits are usually not scheduled until several weeks after delivery. In 2023, the state passed legislation requiring pediatricians to perform maternal mental health screenings during baby well-visits, which occur within days of being released from the hospital.
Early identification, diagnosis, and treatment of PPD are essential for effective maternal mental health care. As part of the state’s effort to prioritize this, the Department of Health and the Office of Mental Health developed official guidance and standards for maternal depression screening and referrals, and insurers are required to cover screenings and treatment without prior authorization.
Once someone has been diagnosed with PPD, Dr. Vernon says their treatment plan will depend on how severe their symptoms
are and what the patient wants. “[Treatment] is often a personal decision made with your care team,” she notes.
When a patient comes to her with PPD, Dr. Vernon says she checks to ensure they are not anemic, that their thyroid functions are normal, and that their vitamin D levels are optimized. “All of these things can contribute to symptoms of PPD,” she explains, and she will ensure the patient’s treatment plan also addresses these factors when appropriate.
Beyond these tests, Dr. Vernon says PPD treatment options can include a combination of psychotherapy, psychopharmacology (medication), peer support groups, and well-being practices (meditation, exercise, acupuncture, outdoor time, etc.).
Dr. Vernon also highlights the importance of sleep for those who are experiencing
postpartum depression. “One of the first recommendations mental health providers always give is to utilize your support system or bring in extra support so that you can get more sleep.” In cases where PPD interferes with the ability to sleep, a breastfeeding-safe sleep aid may be recommended.
Other Postpartum Mood Disorders
Postpartum depression is one of the more well-known postpartum mood disorders, but there are several others a new parent may also experience. Possible diagnoses include:
• Postpartum Anxiety
• Postpartum OCD
• Postpartum Panic Disorder
• Postpartum Bipolar Disorder
• Postpartum Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
• Postpartum Psychosis
Coleman emphasizes that those who were diagnosed with mental health disorders prior to pregnancy or during pregnancy are 30% more likely to experience a postpartum mental health disorder.
It’s also worth noting that new parents can be diagnosed with more than one postpartum mood disorder at once. “You may experience one or many of these [mental health disorders], and seeing a provider trained in diagnosing them can be critical in understanding exactly what you are experiencing and what may best help you feel better,” says Dr. Vernon.
If you suspect you’re experiencing symptoms of postpartum depression or any other postpartum mood disorder, it’s essential to reach out to your provider for help. Your feelings are valid and shouldn’t be dismissed as “just hormones.” With the right treatment and care team, you can (and will) start feeling better.
Experts:
Janel Coleman, LMSW, is a trained fullspectrum doula and a licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in New York City. Her focus areas include providing support during the trying-to-conceive, prenatal, and postpartum periods.
Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C , is an OB-GYN and clinical director at Oula. She’s also an advocate for perinatal mental health, as well as author of the book Then Comes Baby: An Honest Conversation About Birth, Postpartum, and the Complex Transition to Parenthood.
The Ultimate Guide to Pick Your Own Farms
Why families love this seasonal activity, and the best time to go
BY ALEXA LUTTER
Nowadays, farms are so much more than red barns, milking cows, fresh eggs, and Old McDonald’s. Farm visits have become a popular outdoor family excursion. Not only do farm trips teach us about agriculture and where our food comes from, but they also get our families off their devices and out of the house and take us to a different scenery. Farms also allow fun and interactive experiences, like picking your produce. As an added bonus, they provide the perfect backdrop for a family photoshoot.
We are sharing tips and helpful information you will need to prepare for your next trip to the farm!
Why Pick Your Own?
Sensational Scenery
The scenery at these farms and fields can be
breathtaking. They serve as fantastic photo ops for the whole family and are Instagramand holiday-card-worthy all year round. So make sure your phone is fully charged and set in the right mode for all the beautiful photos you are going to take.
Health Benefits
There is nothing like smelling fresh lavender, biting into a crisp strawberry, or plucking the perfect apple off a tree. Picking your own produce has both mental and physical health benefits. Getting outdoors has been proven to boost your vitamin D levels and reduce feelings of stress. Visiting farms allows you and your family to stimulate all five senses. It could make even your picky eater try something new! Having fresh produce at home promotes healthy eating and may even entice your picky eater to try something new. Whether you are buying produce or not,
the environment lends itself to a new kind of outdoor experience, so breathe in the fresh air and enjoy your surroundings! Most farms provide rich knowledge about agriculture, as it is both interesting and beneficial to know where your food is coming from.
Environmental Benefits
Visiting a farm is a great way to support small businesses and local farmers, which in turn helps stimulate the local economy. This support promotes sustainability and ecological preservation. You can further support the environment by carpooling to farms with friends to reduce fossil fuels!
Taste the Difference
One of the best benefits of picking your own produce is stocking your fridge and pantry with all the yummy fresh fruits and veggies! Once you bring all the produce home, the possibilities are endless. You can create your own jams, jellies, pies, and more. Check out recipes to make after pumpkin picking and apple picking.
If you’re not the recipe-following type, no worries! Most of these farms feature a market where you can purchase seasonal farm fresh fruits and vegetables grown onsite. They carry high-quality homemade ciders, coffees, teas, maple syrups, honey, jams, yogurts,
cheeses, and more. The options are endless! Find a farm with a bakery, and you hit the jackpot! If you have never had a hot, fresh apple cider donut, you have no idea what you are missing! Stock up on your favorite pies to share with your families, a popular holiday option.
Strawberries
There is nothing like a fresh, sweet, and slightly tangy strawberry. They’re popular with kids in their natural form, but the possibilities for family-friendly recipes are endless. Some favorites include strawberry jams, yogurt, and pancakes.
Parents, are you looking for a real treat? Homemade strawberry daiquiris make the perfect summer cocktail. Cheers!
When to go? May and early June
How much? $5.50 to $8.00 per pound
Picking tips : When picking the perfect strawberries, look for vibrant red and fully shaped strawberries. Strawberries do not ripen after being picked, so you want to grab the ripest ones immediately. When picking your strawberries, grip the stem above the strawberry, twist, and pull. Be careful when storing strawberries in containers so as not to overcrowd the container, which may cause strawberries to bruise or become mushy. When you go home, refrain from washing the strawberries until ready to use them; washing immediately increases the chances of spoiling faster.
Peaches
Peaches have a bright and sweet flavor with notes of tartness. They have been called a superfood and contain excellent sources of vitamins A and C. They are versatile; keep it simple with sliced peaches and cream, or whip up a decadent peach cobbler.
When to go? Late July through September.
How much? Approximately $3.00 per pound
Picking tips: When picking the perfect peach, there are many things to keep an eye out for. First, you want to examine the peaches’ skin to see if there is any green on it. If there is, the peach is not ready to be picked. Additionally, use your sense of smell! Ripe and ready peaches will give off a sweet aroma; when there is no aroma, the peach needs more time to ripen. Finally, make sure the fruit is not too firm and easy to retrieve from the tree. When bringing peaches home, store them in the refrigerator to slow down the process of ripening. For long-term
storage, you can freeze them in an airtight plastic bag.
Sunflowers
Sunflowers are commonly associated with summer. They add a pop of color to any space, whether it is your backyard, kitchen, or living room. Sunflowers can be displayed and used for crafts, composting, and more. Sunflower fields open the door for Instagram-worthy pictures. There are usually many fun activities for families, such as mazes and bouquet-making.
When to go? M id-summer
How much? Approximately $2.00 a flower
Picking Tips: Some sunflower farms or fields let you pick your own sunflowers, while others sell them. You are usually allowed to enter the fields for photos either way, but check the farm’s policy first.
Apples
Nothing says fall like a nice crisp apple plucked straight from a tree. Apples are one of the most diverse fruits and are used in many different delicious ways. Cider, pie, tarts, juice, and more are all delicious options – not to mention biting into one the old-fashioned way. There are many apple varieties, so choose a farm growing your favorite kind. Or try them all!
When to go? Late August until mid-tolate October.
How much? Apple prices vary by variety and are typically sold by the pound.
Picking tips: There are many things to look out for when choosing apples. You want to ensure the apples you pick are free from any blemishes or bruises. Apples should be firm to the touch and not mushy. Another helpful tip is to look for apples with stems intact, as the stem keeps the apple good for longer. Be mindful when you pick the apple to keep the stem intact.
Pumpkins
Pumpkin picking is a fall staple and perhaps the most popular fall outdoor activity for families. After everone chooses their favorite pumpkin, many families follow the treasured tradition of carving them. Kids love the joy of picking their own pumpkin to turn into a unique Jack-o’-lantern and displaying it proudly outside during Halloween. Grab a few extra pumpkins to create delicious recipes such as pumpkin pie, bread, muffins and more. Pumpkins are a healthy food that provides calcium, potassium, and magnesium. Don’t forget to roast the seeds!
When to go? September through late October.
How much? Prices vary greatly depending on size, but they average around $5.50 each.
Picking tips: Color is everything when it comes to the perfect pumpkin. You want to pick a deep orange pumpkin with no blemishes or bruising. If you are looking for a pumpkin to carve, look for one that will have enough room for your design and a smooth outer shell. When bringing home your pumpkin, you definitely want to clean it. Pumpkins can be prone to bacteria, which could result in decay.
Christmas Trees
Christmas tree farms allow you to observe these gorgeous trees in their natural habitat and take them to your home to decorate. Picking your own tree creates a special memory within the family for the holidays. Not to mention, having a real Christmas tree will hit you with joy the second you open your front door, thanks to its unmistakable aroma. Most Christmas tree farms also sell wreaths, garlands, and more. As an added treat for the kids, many tree farms offer a visit and photo opportunity with Santa! When to go? Late November through December
How much? Though they vary, on average, trees cost about $85.
Picking tips: Bundle up! It will most likely be very chilly, and you want your family to be as comfy as possible. Always feel free to ask farm workers questions to find your perfect tree. Your tree should be a healthy green color and the size of your liking. Christmas trees can be large, so measure ahead and ensure you have space in your vehicle to transport them home.
Additionally, look for branches with space to hold all your decorations and ornaments; flimsy branches will result in falling “needles.” When you get home, you will need fresh water to keep your tree well-hydrated. The amount of water you need depends on your tree and trunk size.
Visiting pick-your-own farms offers a delightful way for families to connect with nature while enjoying fresh produce together. These experiences not only enrich our understanding of where our food comes from but also provide lasting memories amidst stunning landscapes. So, gather your loved ones, plan your next farm adventure, and savor the joys of picking your own fruits and vegetables this season!
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SPECIALTY CAMPS & SUMMER PROGRAMS
Summer will be here before we know it, and you may have put off camp registration until nearly the last minute, or a traditional day or overnight camp may not be a fit for your family. We see you! We all want our children to have an enriching, active summer experience where they can make new friends and memories, but your child may have a beloved hobby, interest or skill they want to explore. An option that will provide your child with the supervision, activity or education they need during the summer months is a specialty camp that focuses on sports, STEM or the arts. We’ve found some local summer programs and specialty camps worth considering.
Art Lab
1000 Richmond Terrace
718-447-8667
artlabsi.com
Located on the grounds of Snug Harbor Cultural Center, Art Lab’s Camp Picasso and Camp Kandinsky are led by professional teaching artists in a relaxed, friendly classroom environment. Campers enjoy hands-on art activities in drawing, painting, sculpture, collage, and more, creating exciting take-home artwork. Children also explore the grounds of Snug Harbor during snack and lunch times, where they will have time to socialize and play. Sessions run all summer long. Full and half days available three days a week for children ages 6-12, and two days a week for ages 3-5.
DEA Music & Art Camp 1409 Richmond Ave. 718-370-7733
deamusicandart.com
This summer at DEA Music & Art, kids learn to sing, act, paint, play piano and guitar, and jam in a rock band! From the Little Luminaries discovering music and storytelling to Young Virtuosos refining stage-ready talent, each program blends fun with skill-building in music, visual arts, and drama. Students create vibrant masterpieces, build confidence, and express themselves in unforgettable ways. There’s a creative adventure for every age!
Ed Perpetua Tennis Academy
30 Harold Street
917-295-8122, EPTAtennis@aol.com EPTAtennis.com
Discover a summer of tennis excellence with Ed Perpetua Tennis Academy, located amidst the serene campus of Staten Island Academy from June through August, their outdoor programs offer a picturesque backdrop for young tennis enthusiasts. For children ages 10 and under, the revolutionary QUICKSTART program brings a blend of modified courts, racquets, and balls, fostering confidence and enjoyment in their tennis journey. Their annual summer camp caters to budding tennis stars ages 7 to 17, with flexible scheduling options to fit every family’s needs. From beginner to advanced, their programs focus on skill development, strategy, and agility, preparing players for competitive play and even college scholarships.
With four specialty summer programs, there’s an activity for every child at the JCC of Staten Island, whether they’re looking to try something new or develop their skills. At the JCC’s Morning Splash Club, kids ages 6 and up will enjoy a three-hour program including swim lessons, water slide fun, and activities in a beautiful outdoor pool. Beginner and intermediate/advanced classes are offered. Sign up for two or four days of classes a week. The JCC also offers a full-day Summer Sports Academy for kids ages 6 to 14, featuring basketball, soccer, and flag football! Sports academies focus on core skill development, teamwork, confidence-building, and fun through drills, small-group instruction, and team play. Participants also enjoy daily time in the pool.
At FTKNY’s STE(A)M and academics-based summer programs, children will explore the weeks’ enrichment adventure, interact with a SmartBoard Learning Station, engage in role-play, do arts and crafts, conduct experiments, improve their math and literacy skills and have lots of free play time plus outdoor playtime with their friends! FTKNY programs ensure that your child has lots of fun while combating the summer brain drain that occurs each year when children are out of school. At FTKNY, kids have so much fun they don’t realize how much they are learning!
Mozart and Einstein Camp blends performing arts and STEM for a summer of discovery. Kids explore piano, ukulele, and rock band while diving into science labs, beginner economics, and digital art. Superhero adventures, storytelling, and vibrant visual art projects spark imagination and confidence. With hands-on learning across music, tech, and creativity, every child finds inspiration, builds skills, and has fun.
St. Joseph by the Sea 5150 Hylan Blvd. 718-984-6500, athletics@josephsea.org josephsea.org/sea-summer-camps
St. Joseph by the Sea offers summer programs in 2025 encompassing sports, business, robotics, dance and theater. All camps are run by coaches and experts well-versed in that discipline. Camps include: Competitive Cheer, Flag Football, Girls Basketball, Boys Basketball, Football, Softball, Tennis, Boys Lacrosse, Girls Lacrosse, Baseball, Boys Soccer, Girls Soccer, Wrestling, Girls Volleyball, Robotics, Business, Theater and Dance!
United Activities Summer Camps
College of Staten Island- 2800 Victory Blvd., 347-830-7557 IS 34- 528 Academy Ave., 347-830-7933 info@uausummercamps.org uausummercamps.org
For over 30 years, United Activities Unlimited (UAU) has provided children and families with the most sought-after summer camp programs. Their newest program available this summer at the centrally located College of Staten Island. This new summer program will not only be fun, but also provide access to exclusive events and activities, including technology, boxing, and more. Register for an upcoming open house, take advantage of discounted pricing, and learn more today by visiting their website.
This summer, Staten Island YMCAs are offering exciting new specialty camps! At South Shore, Jewelry Making Camp (ages 6–12) lets young artists craft charms, necklaces, and bracelets while building creativity, fine motor skills, and more. At Broadway, Soccer Camp for ages 6 to 12 helps players of all levels sharpen skills like dribbling, passing, and shooting. Campers will learn game rules, practice in mini-matches, and develop teamwork, sportsmanship, and a strong work ethic. All specialty campers also enjoy instructional swim as part of their weekly schedule. Children will have a summer full of fun, skill-building, and lasting friendships.
Wagner College Department for Lifelong Learning
631 Howard Ave. 718-390-3221
wagner.edu/lifelong-learning/youth-programs/ It’s time for summer camp fun! Wagner College Lifelong Learning has a great lineup of camps and specialty programs for kids and teens on campus this summer atop the beautiful Grymes Hill. Specialized camps for children and teens include performing arts, LEGO robotics, python, video game design, A.I., Roblox, Minecraft, animation and Mario flix, Dungeons & Dragons and Star Wars role play games, space adventure, art, and more! The programs are designed to harness passion and encourage imagination while learning and having fun.
Port Richmond Library Has a New Look
BY ALEXA LUTTER
On Thursday, April 3rd, the New York Public Library (NYPL) celebrated the grand reopening of the newly renovated Port Richmond branch in Staten Island — the last to reopen its doors as part of the Carnegie Branch Renovation Program, a $176 million initiative that has revitalized five historic libraries in communities that need it most.
“We are so excited to open the beautiful, new Port Richmond branch, and we want to keep doing important work like this,” says NYPL President Anthony W. Marx. “That’s why we’re actively urging city leaders to reinvest in libraries so we can continue improving our system.”
The Port Richmond Library opened its doors in 1905 as the second NYPL branch established on Staten Island. The recently redesigned Port Richmond features a range of renovations offering a more spacious and inviting space to serve the community more effectively.
New Renovations
Important historic features have been maintained during the updates to create a more public space and set new design standards. The redesign respects the original Carnegie focus
on space, light, and natural materials, keeping the high ceilings and tall, arched windows while making them energy efficient.
New additions include a community room and special areas for children, teens, and adults featuring delightful new furnishings, finishes, and exciting book collections. A new entryway ramp and elevator have improved accessibility, ensuring everyone can take advantage of the library’s resources.
As you enter, you’ll be greeted by “Flying Minds,” a mural by Greta McLain of Good Space Murals. Commissioned by NYPL through the Percent for Art program, this artwork was brought to life through workshops and paint parties with the Port Richmond community, creating a vibrant and inspirational piece.
The Importance of Renovation
Deputy Mayor for Housing, Economic Development, and Workforce, Adolfo Carrión, explains the importance of the renovation. “By modernizing this historic space, we are ensuring that all New Yorkers have access to the state-of-the-art resources and opportunities they deserve … this multimillion-dollar investment reflects our dedication to uplifting
the Port Richmond community and fostering lifelong learning.”
“We are pleased that the long-awaited renovation is now complete,” says Staten Island Borough President Vito Fossella. “Once again, Port Richmond residents can return to this fixture to enjoy a book or take part in programming and services.”
The entire renovation and reopening represent the dedication the NYPL has to the Staten Island community.
Support The New York Public Library
For more than 125 years, The NYPL has provided free education and information to New Yorkers. With over 90 locations— ranging from research to branch libraries— across the Bronx, Manhattana and Staten Island, the library opens its doors to everyone to enjoy free resources, internet access, classes, exhibitions, and exciting programs.
The NYPL receives approximately 16 million visits annually, and millions more around the globe use its resources at nypl.org. To offer this wide array of free programming, the NYPL relies on both public and private funding. Learn more about how to support the Library at nypl.org/give
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As we anticipate the arrival of summer, now is the perfect time to consider your child’s early educational journey. Whether you’re a first-time parent or you’re exploring new options, finding the right preschool can feel overwhelming. Identifying programs prioritizing creativity, social interaction, and foundational learning is essential. But is a traditional preschool or a Montessori school—which offers a unique approach that encourages childled exploration and independence—right for your little one? We’ve explored some local preschools and Montessori schools to give you a head start to securing a spot that aligns with your values and nurtures your child’s interests.
JCC of Staten Island
Bernikow JCC: 1466 Manor Road, 718-475-5230
Avis/South Shore JCC: 1297 Arthur Kill Road, 718-475-5224
Berman Early Childhood Education Center: 2221 Richmond Ave., 718-475-5100
JCC Early Childhood Center at Temple Israel: 10 Gregg Place, 718-475-5290 sijcc.org
The JCC of Staten Island offers a daycare program and 3-K and Pre-K for All. Teachers create fun, hands-on learning opportunities that provide children with a strong educational foundation. The JCC offers flexible schedules at four convenient locations, including schools on the North Shore, South Shore, and Mid-Island. The JCC also offers First Foot Forward, a preschool program for children with disabilities. Extended hours and free lunch are available. Programs are staffed with caring and experienced professionals. Teachers are certified by the State Education Department of New York. The JCC is licensed by the Department of Health’s Bureau of Day Care.
Big Bird’s Playhouse 1859 Richmond Ave. 718-982-0550, bigbirdsplayhouse.com info@bigbirdsplayhouse.com
Since 1991, Big Bird’s Playhouse has been serving and providing a safe environment where children feel loved and respected and can learn, grow, and build a foundation for their future. Big Bird’s Playhouse believes that children can learn from play, stories, and arts and crafts at their daily centers. Their staff is warm, caring, and sensitive to each child’s specific needs. The school serves children from 3 months to 12 years old. Pre-K and Pre-K 3 are free full days of instruction for 6 hours and 20 minutes; before and after care is available for a fee. Extended hours are available.
Staten Island Academy 715 Todt Hill Road 718-303-7803, ccrane65@statenislandacademy.org statenislandacademy.org
Staten Island Academy offers a nurturing, challenging and intentionally small pre-K program to provide the best in experiential learning and extracurricular resources. Small class sizes benefit young children, ensuring individualized attention from teachers and confirming that each child’s personal learning needs are met. Teachers know their children’s strengths, weaknesses, needs, and challenges, as well as their gifts. Small classes enable teachers to see students clearly, recognize their individual learning styles and take steps both to challenge and inspire them. Small class sizes also enhance safety and emotional wellbeing, as teachers can provide adequate supervision, establish meaningful partnerships with families and reinforce an approach to learning shared by listening, encouragement and motivation.
Tender Care Preschool
6581 Hylan Blvd.
718-317-2849
tendercarepreschool.com
Tender Care Preschool provides a stimulating early education experience that promotes each child’s social, emotional, physical, and cognitive development. It is a loving and caring place for children and families. The preschool supports children where they need it and challenges them when they are ready for the next step. At Tender Care Preschool, children become lifelong learners with a strong foundation who are well-prepared for their educational journey. It offers a full-day 2-year-old program and a free full-day 3- and 4-year-old program with extended hours.
Tiny Treasures Academy & University
396 Van Duzer Street
718-273-5157
tinytreasuresdaycare.com
This early childhood center offers a warm, family-focused environment where young children can thrive. With a small, supportive setting, the school creates a positive developmental impact through advanced, thoughtfully tailored programs for infants, preschoolers, and pre-kindergartners. Purposefully designed classrooms and a private outdoor space inspire daily learning and play. The center is especially working-family friendly, providing flexible and extended hours to accommodate busy schedules. Now open is a brand new Pre-Kindergarten facility—a vibrant, engaging space where each child’s potential is nurtured every step of the way. Families seeking a strong, joyful foundation in early education will find the perfect fit in this beautiful educational space.
Teen Bans Continue Across NYC
More and more businesses are telling teens to keep out
By Náosha GreGG
If you have noticed extra security when you’re shopping or that stores seem much quieter (or louder), you’re not alone. Across the city, stores have been working hard to ensure a pleasant shopping experience for their customers by making one small change: banning teenagers.
Teens hanging out in a mall for fun isn’t new. With teens having few options for spaces to hang out, it’s no surprise that they turn to public spaces. With many community centers focusing on older populations, teens can have a difficult time trying to find a space where they can have fun and be safe, without feeling like they are being harassed or watched by adults. In fact, more often than not, you would walk into a Target or Kings Plaza mall and see groups of teens and young adults lounging on public seating, roaming the aisles looking for the latest Tiktok trending item (we’re looking at you, Stanley cups), or gathered around waiting for a Starbucks order. Usually, it’s harmless, albeit noticeably louder and more crowded than you’d prefer, but it’s never been so disruptive that it poses a risk to the public or the store. However, that calm sentiment has begun to shift.
In March, the Target store at the Flatbush and Nostrand Avenue junction in Brooklyn made a controversial decision. In bright, bold letters, on the clear glass that greets customers as they open the door, it reads a controversial but firm message: All guests under the age of 18 must be accompanied by an adult at this Target store.
“I think that it is unfortunate that it’s come to this, but I understand why some locations have had to implement an agerestrictive policy,” says Amber Adler, mother of two, award-winning activist and former Democratic nominee for NYC council. “I have personally seen teens running wild in stores, breaking merchandise, making it
tough for employees and customers.”
Teenagers are teenagers – but the recent behavior witnessed in stores has sparked concern from adults all around. Just a couple of weeks ago, the New York Police Department was called to Bay Plaza Mall in the Bronx, where teenagers were causing an uproar. According to CBS News New York, a phone video captured teenagers running up and down the food court, throwing chairs into the air, and causing chaos and disruption.
The recent bans come as a shock to teenagers, who often turn to retail chains for a designated hangout space. If we’re using teenager logic, while they may be loud, central restaurants and shopping plazas serve as indoor spaces where they can hang out with their friends, and grab a bite to eat, which comes in specifically handy during the rainy and chilly season of the city. However,
shoppers who favor the stores say they’re not surprised by the recent bans.
“I think the adult required rule being implemented is a shame, but it’s really one of the most straightforward ways these businesses can protect their staff and property,” says Tyler L., a Brooklyn resident who has witnessed teenagers misbehaving in local stores. “Employees typically don’t have much liberty to handle a rowdy kid, nor should they be expected to have to do so regularly. While I’m not a parent myself, I can say that what my parents did worked for my sister and me, as neither of us would ever dare cause the uproar that some kids today are causing.”
In a bold move, the McDonald’s restaurant, favored by students from nearby Midwood High School near the aforementioned Target at 2154 Nostrand Avenue, banned teen patrons without an adult.
“As a Brooklyn-born military veteran and local business owner for over 30 years, I have deep respect for this community. This measure to ID customers is another way we’re prioritizing the safety and security of our people within our lobby,” the franchise owner told ABC 7 News in a statement.
The McDonald’s is often loud and packed with teenagers cruising through the lobby, chatting their school days away, using vulgar and inappropriate language, and creating an uncomfortable dining experience for the average restaurant-goer. However, this was not the first time the restaurant chain instituted a ban; in 2015, a McDonald’s on Flatbush Avenue near Erasmus High School was the scene of a vicious fight that led to the arrest of six teenagers, all between ages 15 and 19.
“I think banning teenagers from getting to the store alone is definitely necessary in order to provide a safer and more peaceful shopping experience for the other customers,” says Kevin L., a Brooklyn resident.
While it’s hard to pinpoint the exact
“I have personally seen teens running wild in stores, breaking merchandise, making it tough for employees and customers.”
cause of the behavior, many believe it is due to a lack of stimulation and safe spaces for teenagers to hang out and express themselves. However, some parents believe banning teens will not solve the problem; it will only make it hard for those who obey the rules.
“I think it’s a bad policy since it keeps out people based on age rather than keeping out those who are disruptive, regardless of age. I suspect stores are using signs to keep groups of teens out [exclusively] without stopping solo teens,” says Katy R., parent and volunteer with youth organizations. “I don’t think this policy is going to solve the issue since it’s not addressing the actual problem. A store has to actually address disruptive behavior at the moment if they want to make a difference.”
Teen behavior can be tricky to navigate, though the behavior could be due to the recent circumstances of the world. Many teenagers lost social interaction and critical
portions of their social lives and high school years during the COVID-19 pandemic, while in 2024, the NYPD reported an uptick in youth shootings and crimes. This, compounded by the socio-economic struggles faced by teenagers – 1 in 8 public school students experienced homelessness during the 2023-24 school year, while 1 in 5 children experience food insecurity – can lead to complex emotions that can cause them to act out.
Adler believes the solution, while not quite obvious, could be effective, and the answer to many issues is love.
“No matter what, parents should give their teen unconditional love. Every teen is going through a whirlwind of emotions, whether they openly show it by acting out or they manage to process it silently,” the mom of two says. “Remind them that you are on the same team. Remind them that even as an adult, you are growing, and tell them why it’s important to make good decisions.”
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Thursday, May 1, 3:30 pm
Teen Zone, 1617 Richmond Rd.
Ages 12+
Free Experience Latin Jazz’s vibrant rhythms and melodies with an interactive music activity led by Emmy-winning drummer Alex Garcia.
NYPL Green: Food & Climate Garden Series
May 1 & May 8, 3:30 – 4:30 pm St. George Library Center, 5 Central Ave.
Ages 5-12
Free
Join staff from the St. George Library as you start your spring garden from seed, learn how food is grown, and care for the community garden. Learn about climate change, how it affects food production, and how food production can also influence climate change.
Reopening of the Joe Holzka Community Garden
Saturday, May 3, 1 pm – 4 pm
Joe Holzka Community Garden, 100 Barker St.
All Ages
Free
Join the Joe Holzka Community Garden group as they celebrate the reopening of the garden and the new patio built by Project Evergreen. The community will be hosting a day of outdoor activities and demonstrations.
Farmers Market at Grand Colony Hall
Sunday, May 4, 8 am – 1 pm
Grand Colony Hall, 460 Brielle Ave.
All Ages
THINGS TO DO IN MAY
Make friends at Farm Day at the Staten Island Zoo on May 10.
Free
A brand-new farmers market is bringing fresh, organic, locally sourced food to the community.
Yankee Peddler Day
Sunday, May 4, 9:30 am – 3:30 pm
Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Ave.
All Ages
Adults: $11.00; Seniors ages 60+: $10.00; Children ages 6-11: $3.00; Children ages 5 and under: Free
The Women’s Auxiliary of the Historic Richmond Town will hold its annual Yankee Peddler Day. The market will feature dealers of antiques, collectibles, crafts, and new items. All proceeds from Yankee Peddler Day benefit Historic Richmond Town.
Walker’s Tiny Groovers
Wednesdays, 11 am – 12 pm
Walker Park, Bard Ave., and Delafield Place
Ages 5 months – 4 years old
Free
Sing, dance, play instruments,
and explore a world of sounds and rhythms with your child. It’s a fantastic way to bond with them while encouraging their development through playful interaction.
Farm Day
Saturday, May 10, 11 am – 2 pm
Staten Island Zoo, 614 Broadway
All Ages Free with Zoo Admission
Get up close for sheep shearing thrills and uncover the secrets behind how the zoo cares for animals that call Children’s Center home. Enjoy a fantastic day packed with woolly wonders that are fun for all ages! Professional sheep shearer Pete Sepe of Sepe Farms will demonstrate how the wool is expertly sheared!
Birding: All About Pigeons
Sunday, May 11, 11 am – 12 pm
Seaside Wildlife Nature Park, Nelson Avenue, Tennyson Dr.
All Ages
Free
The “Pigeon Patrol” program
will take you on a deep dive into the lives of NYC’s most misunderstood bird. With hands-on activities, birdwatching tips, and historical insights, you’ll gain a new appreciation for the pigeons that share our parks and streets.
Asian Pacific American Heritage Month: Year of the Snake
Sunday, May 25, 11 am – 12 pm
Allison Pond Park, Prospect and Brentwood Ave.
All Ages
Free
Celebrate Asian Pacific American Heritage Month with NYC Parks! 2025 is the Year of the Snake. Rangers will discuss the Chinese Zodiac, the significance of the Year of the Snake and different snake species in our parks.
Staten Island Anti-Prom
2025
Friday, May 30, 6:30 pm
St. George Library Center, 5 Central Avenue
Ages 13-18
Free
Dance the night away at Staten Island Anti-Prom, the Library’s annual celebration for teens. The event features music, art activities, snacks, and more.
Nature Open Mic
Saturday, May 31, 1 pm – 2:30 pm Greenbelt Nature Center, 700 Rockland Ave.
All Ages
Free
Come show off your talents and how nature inspires you. Whether it’s singing, dancing, or showing off your art, each participant will have five minutes to show off a talent that makes you unique.
