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Happy Mother’s Day
Dear New York Families, Mother’s Day always sneaks up on me—somewhere between soccer and baseball practice, school projects, and the constant chaos of daily life with two growing boys. To be honest, I’ve never been big on the holiday—I am not usually into others making a fuss or being the center of attention. But each Mother’s Day I’ve spent as a mom, I take a moment to pause and reflect on the joy, deep love, and utter mayhem my kids have brought into my life. I also don’t mind sleeping in, being served coffee (I didn’t brew myself!) in bed, and the extra snuggles with my boys.
Whether you’re a new mom, a seasoned parent, or a caregiver guiding the next generation, we see you. We know the sacrifices you make and all you do to ensure schedules run smoothly, bellies are full, and kids are cared for. We see the invisible load you carry, and we know it’s not always as easy as some moms may have you believe— curated highlight reels on social media don’t always tell the whole story. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up, you’re not alone—and you’ll find real insight in our feature on Motherhood Milestone FOMO on page 8.
We continue to explore some of the realities of motherhood, from Maternal
Ambivalence on page 10 to the gaps in postpartum care that many New York moms face in our story on Rising Challenges in Postpartum Care on page 18. We also dive into maternal mental health as we take a closer look at postpartum mood disorders on page 22.
In this issue, you’ll also find ways to celebrate together as a family, from spending a day on the farm picking your own fruit on page 26 to delicious and extravagant Mother’s Day Brunches around the city page 14.
We recognize that Mother’s Day may be difficult for some mothers who may be grieving a loss, doing it all on their own, or who may not feel much like celebrating for another reason. However you choose to celebrate—or not—this Mother’s Day, we hope you feel a sense of connection, discover moments of inspiration, and find a little joy. And maybe you’ll even find a moment to take a welldeserved break.
Warmly, Tara
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Motherhood Milestone FOMO
When your own social media doesn’t match your feed, the pressure builds. How to block the noise and protect your mental health
By BarBara russo
Facebook, Instagram, TikTok—social media can be great for anyone seeking advice on a wide range of topics. But sometimes, the constant scrolling can become too much. We know a lot about its influence on kids, but what about the effects of social media on mothers?
It’s not uncommon for mothers to overshare their families’ lives on social media. Whether they’re an “influencer” or not, these highlight reels make it easy for their friends and followers to get caught in a comparison trap. In fact, a recent study even confirmed that moms who spend more time online engage in greater levels of social comparison. This can lead to increased cortisol levels and, in turn, higher stress and negative emotions.
AdditionAl tips
Dr. Patel-Dunn shares some additional tips for building a healthier relationship with social media:
• Be mindful of how you feel before, during and after social media engagement. Get curious about this experience, and ask yourself what boundaries around social media might serve you best.
• Unfollow accounts that lead to increased negative emotions or feelings of comparison.
• If you notice yourself falling into a comparison trap, remind yourself that these glimpses of motherhood do not accurately represent what is going on in a person’s life.
• Focus on social media sites that offer a sense of community rather than comparison.
• Avoid using social media first thing in the morning or right before bed at night. Give yourself breaks to be present throughout the day.
While this occurs most often in first-time moms, parents of multiple kids experience this, too. From their own personal postpartum weight loss journey to their toddlers’ potty training timeline, there’s a ton of pressure to keep up with what seems to feel like a never-ending cycle that continues as children become teenagers, adults and eventually parents themselves. Some therapists call this social media pressure “motherhood milestone FOMO” (fear of missing out).
Anisha Patel-Dunn, D.O., psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at LifeStance Health, and mom, is familiar with this topic. She’s been working with patients dealing with this type of pressure. We spoke with Dr. Patel-Dunn, who shared tips for moms on how to cope and have a healthy relationship with social media.
What is Motherhood Milestone FOMO?
Motherhood is full of milestones, including pregnancy and childbirth, a child’s first steps, first words and more. If your timeline or experience doesn’t match what you see on social media, it’s not uncommon to experience feelings of being left behind or inadequate. Comparison is a common challenge many people face in different aspects of their lives, but for mothers, societal expectations about what makes a “good mother” can make this even more difficult.
Do you find that moms compare themselves to other mothers on social media? If so, is there a lot of pressure for them to keep up
with what their friends, influencers and celebrities are posting and sharing?
There is so much parenting content on social media from celebrities, influencers, friends and loved ones. This content often presents itself as rules or advice for mothers, which can become overwhelming. Another side of this is that many people on social media only show their “best” moments. This is not an accurate representation of their lives. Understandably, moms might fall into a comparison trap, which can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety.
Can you explain how moms who spend more time on social media experience more stress and negative emotions?
For those experiencing low self-esteem, spending more time on social media and falling into a comparison trap can often exacerbate these feelings. Social media is designed to pull us in and capture our attention, and it can be incredibly challenging to break out of this cycle.
Does social media benefit Mom in any way?
A silver lining of the last few years is that more people have become more candid about their mental health, and this is often seen on social media. It can provide an opportunity to is now part of access a community of likeminded people that you may not be able to access in person depending on your location and personal situation. In that sense, social media can connect moms with peer support regardless of location.
A Peek Into Maternal Ambivalence
A therapist’s new book takes a closer look at struggling with mixed feelings about motherhood
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
Motherhood is often romanticized as a journey of pure joy, unconditional love, and endless fulfillment. But for many moms, there’s a hidden side to parenting—the feelings that don’t always match the picture-perfect narrative.
In her upcoming book, Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood on sale now, psychotherapist, social worker and mother of three, Margo Lowy, PhD, delves into the often-unspoken, complex emotions that accompany the experience of mothering.
Lowy explores what it means to embrace the full spectrum of feelings that come with raising children—from the deep love and pride to the exhaustion, frustration, and moments of doubt. Through her own personal journey and extensive research, she challenges the societal pressures that demand mothers to be selfless, constantly joyful, and always in control.
In this excerpt, Lowy invites us to confront maternal ambivalence and redefine what it means to be a mother in all its beautiful, messy contradictions.
Being a mom is so difficult some days. We are pulled in so many different directions by our children, and we are supposed to be caring, selfless, and remain an adult all the time, even when it becomes too much. How do we make room to acknowledge and talk about maternal ambivalence, a forbidden and silenced but daily part of our mothering?
Making sense of these contradictions in order to live with them in a peaceful and productive way may be the greatest challenge of all. As a mother of three, I’ve struggled— and still do—with my mothering. While my children are all things to me—the wonder, love, and accomplishment of my life—they also test me continually as I tread the awe, joy, and heartbreak of being a mother and its continual twists and turns. On that score, I’m not so different from any other mother.
I suppose my difference creeps in in the way that I have dealt with my experience of mothering and its combination of awe, joy, and heartbreak. It hasn’t been easy, and why would it be? I have been driven to spend years of my life trying to find ways to make sense of mothering and the mother’s feelings of ambivalence.
I have pondered its contradictions and mystery while questioning the status quo and the wider social commentary.
It seems to me that most people feel entitled to freely comment on the sacred feelings that a woman experiences as a mother, often leaving her with deep, unsettling feelings that may be hidden in the shadows or feel shameful.
Ironically, this research and work on mothering began with a foray into infertility and the heartache that a woman usually feels when she is unable to conceive. My belief that these feelings are too important to ignore, too fragile to be denied, also segued into a desire to shine a light on the desperation that many mothers feel.
Both infertility and mothering, in their own way, provoke a sense of failure or lacking, a yearning, and many negative feelings that go unspoken. Both hold an element of taboo. That’s the fascination for me: the jumbling, contradictory flow of life.
This raises another matter, which is that this is not a book about whether or not to have children, despite the fact that maternal ambiva-
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lence is sometimes understood in these terms.
To this point, I strongly believe that most women who decide not to have a child do not come to their decision lightly; more often than not, it arrives after a great deal of soul-searching. These women merit exactly the same respect as those who decide that they wish to rear a child; they don’t justify derision or voicelessness.
Across all cultures in this world, there is a universal truth, which is that motherhood defines womanhood in some way, whether we have children or not. We are judged for the ways in which we raise our children and judged when we choose not to raise them.
Men and fathers, too, experience the conflict of parenthood and that dialogue, and while much different than it was even a halfcentury ago, it still has much progress to make. My focus in this book, however, is the intersection of womanhood and motherhood—the relationship that springs into being after birth and exists long after a child has left the nest.
Every mother has her moments when troubling feelings, including those of desperation, anger, loneliness, exhaustion, and
despair, surface despite attempts to keep them down where she thinks that they belong. I think these moments have been disregarded or cloaked in denial.
It’s time to air and name them, and in doing so, redefine the image of a mother as either a demon or an angel into one where she is an ordinary human being—one who, despite
having these feelings, does still love her child deeply and, in fact, within these troubling feelings, discovers that her love is strengthened and fueled in the soundest way possible because these feelings are genuine and real.
Ambivalence is the human capacity to acknowledge, own, and engage with many contradictory feelings, without dismissing the difficult ones. An indication of a healthy mindset is an acceptance that this dynamic is part of life, that challenges will crop up from time to time, and that the individual is prepared to work with them and not to dismiss or repress any of them. While the idea of ambivalence certainly throws many curveballs, let’s welcome it: it’s the unsung hero(ine) of mothering.
Margo Lowy, PhD, is a psychotherapist specializing in mothering. She is the author of MATERNAL AMBIVALENCE: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood (Post Hill Press) and holds a doctorate from the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, where she researched maternal ambivalence. She is the mother of three children and lives with her husband in New York City.
Celebrate Mother’s Day Brunch & Dinner
BY N ÁOSHA GREGG
As May approaches, warmer weather and Mother’s Day is right around the corner. Whether you are a mom or celebrating a mother figure in your life, the holiday is often filled with joy and plenty of events around the city. Some may not have the time to cook as they spend the day dedicated to their mother figure, and thankfully, there are tons of delicious brunch options across the city. Whether you’re in the mood for eggs and bacon or fish and pasta, brunch is the perfect meal to give everyone what they want.
Bateaux Mother’s Day Cruise
Pier 61, Chelsea Piers West 23rd and 12th Ave. cityexperiences.com
10:00 am to 12:30 pm
Take an elegant Mother’s Day cruise on the Hudson and East Rivers. Enjoy fine dining, wine and cocktails, and live entertainment as you enjoy beautiful waterfront views. Mothers and families everywhere are sure to have the experience of a lifetime. Prices start at $120.
Bottino
246 Tenth Ave.
212-206-6766
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Enjoy a three-course Italian-style Mother’s Day Brunch at Chelsea favorite Bottino. Enjoy tranquil views of the garden and enjoy favorites such as bavette cacio pepe, brioche french toast, sliced New York strip steak, and more. Prices start at $95 for adults and $50 for children.
BRASS
The Evelyn Hotel, 7 E. 27th St.
212-971-9746
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Celebrate the day with an elegant brunch at BRASS in NoMad, where classic Frenchinspired fare meets New York City’s vibrant en-
ergy. Chef Partners Jeremiah Stone and Fabian von Hauske present refined brunch dishes with a twist alongside house-made laminated bread, artisanal cheeses, and their iconic desserts. Soak up the views from an overhead skylight and jam to live music from the dining room’s antique piano. Reservations are required.
Cafe Mogador
101 St. Marks Place
212-677-2226
www.cafemogador.com
9:30 am to 4:00 pm
Enjoy cuisine from a family-run Moroccan and Middle Eastern restaurant. Their brunch menu contains classic options, including Moroccan and halloumi eggs, herb omelets, and French toast.
David Burke Tavern
134 E. 62nd St.
212-988-9021
www.davidburketavern.com
Brunch 10:30 am to 3:00 pm
Dinner 3:30 pm to 9 pm
Nestled in an elegant townhouse, this chic restaurant will offer three-course pris fixe menus
for Mother’s Day brunch and dinner. $75 for brunch and $90 for dinner for adults; $24 for a two-course kids’ menu option for brunch and $25 for dinner for kids 10 and under. Reservations are recommended.
Industry Kitchen
70 South Street at Maiden Lane
212-487-9600
www.industry-kitchen.com
12 pm to 4 pm
Prepare to dive into an exquisite pre-fixe menu on Mother’s Day. The menu includes fresh favorites, including appetizers such as deviled eEggs and Hiramasa sashimi, entrees like Scottish smoked salmon, eggs Benedict, Maine lobster mac and cheese, and huevos rancheros, and desserts such as carrot cake and mini raspberry beignets. Prices start at $55 per person.
Park Ave Kitchen by David Burke
514 Lexington Ave.
646-847-4166
www.parkavekitchenbydb.com
Brunch: 10 am to 3 pm
Dinner: 5 to 9 pm
The cosmopolitan Midtown restaurant, with its vibrant pink Himalayan salt brick wall and jewel-toned color palette, will present creative, whimsical a la carte Mother’s Day brunch and dinner menus, which will featureincluding signature starters like Clothesline Bacon, a variety of house-made sushi rolls, patented salt-aged beef, and much more. Reservations are recommended.
The Peninsula New York
700 Fifth Ave. at 55th St.
212-903-3051
www.peninsula.com
11:30 am to 4:30 pm
If you’re looking for a sophisticated Mother’s Day celebration, look no further than The Peninsula. Indulge in a specialized buffet that includes a raw bar of artisanal cheeses and charcuterie and a collection of springinspired delicacies such as Amish chicken cordon bleu, wild mushroom risotto, a succulent carved ribeye roast, and more. Prices start at $265 per guest and include a glass of Louis Roederer Champagne; $115 for children 12 and under.
Refinery Rooftop
63 West 38th St.
646-663-5951
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10:30 am to 3:00 pm
Enjoy breathtaking views of the city while enjoying a delicious brunch buffet. Enjoy savory brunch classics, including an omelet station, a seafood bar, fresh pastries, pancakes, and savory treats. Raise a glass with bottomless mimosas or craft cocktails as you honor the incredible moms in your life. Prices start at $95 for adults and $35 for children under 12.
Rockaway Hotel + Spa
108-10 Rockaway Beach Dr., Queens 718-474-1216
www.therockawayhotel.com
11 am to 3 pm
Spend Mother’s Day at the Rockaway Hotel + Spa in Queens! Enjoy brunch in the sun-filled Harbor Room, which includes options for everyone, like a seafood bar, sweets table, brunch staples and gluten-free options. Buffet prices are $75 for adults and $35 for children 12 and under.
Russo’s On The Bay
162-45 Cross Bay Blvd., Howard Beach 347-354-3235
www.russosonthebay.com
Paragon Room: 11:30 am to 4 pm
Encore Room: 12:30 pm to 5 pm
Enjoy a special all-inclusive brunch menu, cocktail hour, pasta, entree, dessert and open bar while celebrating with the person you call mom. Bring your child along for fun children’s entertainment and dance to live music with a DJ present! Prices start at $100 for adults and $50 for children.
Take Care
303 Lexington Ave. 646-349-0990
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Nestled in the Shelburne Sonesta Hotel, this modern-traditional American bistro, crafted by Chef Chris D’Ambrosio, features savory seasonal flavors, handcrafted pastries, and refreshing cocktails. Specials include Eggs Benedict, a Smoked Salmon Board, and Chicken and Waffles for $65 per person and $25 per child.
NYC Faces Rising Challenges in Postpartum Care
By Náosha GreGG
For many, motherhood starts a new chapter of life. New mothers experience a whirlwind of emotions – happiness, joy, fear, and nervousness – as they prepare to begin their new life journey with their bundle of joy. While many show the highlights of life post-birth (we’re looking at you, Instagram highlights!), proper postpartum care is a considerable part of the behind-the-scenes.
An Increasing Crisis
Maternal health has always been an issue across the five boroughs. According to the New York State of Health, between 2018 and 2020, there were 121 pregnancy-related deaths in New York State, averaging approximately 40 deaths per year. However, while many mothers have reported not receiving adequate care before and after birth, the focus on postpartum health has not had as much advocacy. A report from March of Dimes found that approximately 12.5% of birthing individuals in New York receive inadequate prenatal care, which is below the national rate of 14.8%.
32% of mothers in this stage across the city report high levels of medical mistrust, and one in five new and expecting mothers in New York City experience perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMAD), including depression, anxiety, and postpartum psychosis. Postpartum depression (PPD) is one of the leading causes of suicide, accounting for 20% of postpartum deaths. It is also during this time that individuals are most at risk for perinatal suicide, as many occur between nine to 12 months postpartum.
Many mothers struggle with postpartum care as economic and financial circumstances come into play. On average, it would cost a new mother $40 to $70 per hour for doula support.
“Postpartum is often seen as an afterthought – often just making sure the baby is happy and healthy, without considering the mother’s well-being, too. Physical recovery, mental health,
breastfeeding, lack of sleep, and everything in between can make this period extremely difficult,” says Joy Windley, Postpartum Doula, CLC, and assistant manager at Boram Care, a postnatal retreat for mothers and newborn babies in New York City.
“There are a lot of barriers to adequate care, whether that’s lack of paid family leave, rising medical costs, and general pressure put on moms to just “deal with it” after they give birth. Postpartum care is often seen as a luxury when it should be essential for every mom. This isn’t just something we see in New York City — it’s a societal shift we need across the country.”
The 5-5-5 postpartum rule recommends that new mothers take 15 days of rest after giving birth: Five days in bed, five days on the bed, and five days around the
bed. This encourages new moms to spend time bonding with baby instead of doing housework, caring for older children, or returning to work. However, the high cost of living in New York City, which is 77% higher than the national average, makes it difficult for many parents to take this much-needed time away.
How We Can Heal
New York State has made some progress in supporting new mothers by requiring health care providers to screen for PPD and other postpartum mood disorders during postpartum follow-up appointments and baby’s pediatric well-visits.
The city has also launched initiatives such as allowing emotional support dogs during and after birth and providing newborn
supply kits to new parents. However, some mothers still hesitate to ask for help.
“The first step is talking about it with friends, family, and healthcare providers. There’s such a stigma around postpartum wellness and knowing that if you’re struggling with breastfeeding, mental health, identity shifts, and the overwhelming emotions that come with new motherhood,” says Windley. “I also encourage new mothers to give themselves permission to ask for help, whether it’s from a partner, a doula, a lactation consultant, or a mental health professional. Recovery isn’t linear, and there’s no one-size-fits-all path. Building a support system, staying connected to your body, and being gentle with yourself can make a real difference.”
Postpartum mothers are not alone; they are encouraged to reach out for help if they may be experiencing PPD or other psychological symptoms. To learn more, read our story — “Postpartum Depression or Just the Baby Blues?” — in this issue. For resources and information, visit the following support groups across the city:
“There are a lot of barriers to adequate care, whether that’s lack of paid family leave, rising medical costs, and general pressure put on moms to just ‘deal with it’ after they give birth. Postpartum care is often seen as a luxury when it should be essential for every mom.”
The Motherhood Center of New York
Located in Manhattan, this center offers comprehensive services for individuals experiencing PPD and other perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs). Their programs include a specialized Day Program for moderate to severe cases, outpatient therapy, medication management, and virtual support groups. themotherhoodcenter.com
Postpartum Resource Center of New York (PRCNY)
PRCNY provides free support and resources for new parents across the state. They offer weekly virtual support groups, individual peer coaching, and a toll-free helpline at 1-855-631-0001, available daily
from 9 am to 5 pm. postpartumny.org
Postpartum Support International –New York Chapter
This organization connects individuals with local support groups, therapists, and educational resources throughout New York. psichapters.com
Seleni Institute
Based in Manhattan, the Seleni Institute offers mental health care, counseling, support groups, and maternal and reproductive mental health workshops. It also trains mental health professionals in perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. seleni.org
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Postpartum Depression or Just the Baby Blues?
How to determine the difference between hormones and something more serious — and when to ask for help
By Ashley Ziegler
Welcoming a new baby into your life comes with expected emotional ups and downs. Suddenly, you’re responsible for a tiny human who can’t even hold its head up yet – this kind of responsibility is overwhelming, to say the least. Toss in the dramatic hormone fluctuations that come naturally after giving birth, plus the physical toll of recovery, and it’s a wonder how a new parent wouldn’t feel a little out of control.
Still, as normal as it is to feel a mix of highs and lows in the first few weeks after having a baby, often known as the “baby blues,” it’s essential to stay alert and monitor what you’re feeling, as you may be experiencing postpartum depression (PPD).
To help make the distinction between the baby blues and PPD, we spoke with Janel Coleman, LMSW, a doula and licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in Manhattan, and Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C, an OBGYN, author, and clinical director at Oula in Manhattan. Here’s what they had to say.
What’s the Difference Between Baby Blues and Postpartum Depression?
Around 85% of birthing parents experience symptoms of baby blues, while around 12.5% are diagnosed with PPD. Given how common the baby blues are, it’s no wonder why signs of depression are so easily overlooked. In fact, the symptoms of each are incredibly similar.
According to Coleman, symptoms of baby blues can include feelings of anxiety, sadness, tearfulness, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and difficulty sleeping (even when baby is sleeping). These are all also signs of PPD, but according to Dr. Vernon, the difference is in the onset, duration, and severity of these symptoms.
Baby blues
“Baby blues are a common and temporary emotional experience during the postpartum
period … they typically occur within the first two weeks after the baby is born,” explains Coleman. Dr. Vernon describes the symptoms more as mood swings. “You may be laughing one minute and crying the next, often not even knowing why you are crying, then just as quickly changing again to a happier state,” she says. Dr. Vernon explains that these dramatic mood changes can be attributed to “rapid hormonal shifts that occur after the baby is born” and typically level out within the first two weeks after delivery.
In addition to being short-lived, baby blue symptoms are less intense than PPD symptoms. Dr. Vernon says, “The lows are not severe or persistent – you can easily ‘snap out of it.’” Also, while they can certainly feel overwhelming in the moment, Coleman notes that baby blues symptoms typically aren’t severe enough to interfere with a new parent’s ability to care for their baby or themselves.
Postpartum depression
Just like the baby blues, symptoms of PPD can show up within the first two weeks of the postpartum period, but they won’t fizzle out. Both Dr. Vernon and Coleman stress that symptoms lasting longer than those first two weeks after baby arrives indicate it’s more than baby blues.
Not only do the symptoms last longer, but they’re also more intense with PPD. Coleman explains that these symptoms can become so severe that they can interfere with a parent’s ability to meet the needs of their baby. In some cases, the parent is able to care for the baby, but they stop taking care of themselves — they may stop eating or drinking, skip basic hygiene tasks for days on end, withdraw from family and friends, or not get enough sleep (beyond the typical parents-of-newborn sleep deprivation).
Symptoms that PPD shares with the baby blues but will be more severe include:
• Anxiety
• Irritability
• Feelings of sadness
• Difficulty concentrating
• Tearfulness
• Difficulty sleeping
Additional symptoms Coleman says to look for include:
• Feelings of hopelessness
• Difficulty bonding with baby
• Lack of interest in pleasurable activities
• Withdrawing from family and friends
• Doubts or fears about their ability to be a good parent
• Thoughts of harming themselves or baby
Postpartum Depression Treatment Options
In New York, the birthing parent’s health care provider screens them for postpartum depression (or postpartum mood disorders,
in general) during follow-up visits. However, these visits are usually not scheduled until several weeks after delivery. In 2023, the state passed legislation requiring pediatricians to perform maternal mental health screenings during baby well-visits, which occur within days of being released from the hospital.
Early identification, diagnosis, and treatment of PPD are essential for effective maternal mental health care. As part of the state’s effort to prioritize this, the Department of Health and the Office of Mental Health developed official guidance and standards for maternal depression screening and referrals, and insurers are required to cover screenings and treatment without prior authorization.
Once someone has been diagnosed with PPD, Dr. Vernon says their treatment plan will depend on how severe their symptoms
are and what the patient wants. “[Treatment] is often a personal decision made with your care team,” she notes.
When a patient comes to her with PPD, Dr. Vernon says she checks to ensure they are not anemic, that their thyroid functions are normal, and that their vitamin D levels are optimized. “All of these things can contribute to symptoms of PPD,” she explains, and she will ensure the patient’s treatment plan also addresses these factors when appropriate.
Beyond these tests, Dr. Vernon says PPD treatment options can include a combination of psychotherapy, psychopharmacology (medication), peer support groups, and well-being practices (meditation, exercise, acupuncture, outdoor time, etc.).
Dr. Vernon also highlights the importance of sleep for those who are experiencing
postpartum depression. “One of the first recommendations mental health providers always give is to utilize your support system or bring in extra support so that you can get more sleep.” In cases where PPD interferes with the ability to sleep, a breastfeeding-safe sleep aid may be recommended.
Other Postpartum Mood Disorders
Postpartum depression is one of the more well-known postpartum mood disorders, but there are several others a new parent may also experience. Possible diagnoses include:
• Postpartum Anxiety
• Postpartum OCD
• Postpartum Panic Disorder
• Postpartum Bipolar Disorder
• Postpartum Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
• Postpartum Psychosis
Coleman emphasizes that those who were diagnosed with mental health disorders prior to pregnancy or during pregnancy are 30% more likely to experience a postpartum mental health disorder.
It’s also worth noting that new parents can be diagnosed with more than one postpartum mood disorder at once. “You may experience one or many of these [mental health disorders], and seeing a provider trained in diagnosing them can be critical in understanding exactly what you are experiencing and what may best help you feel better,” says Dr. Vernon.
If you suspect you’re experiencing symptoms of postpartum depression or any other postpartum mood disorder, it’s essential to reach out to your provider for help. Your feelings are valid and shouldn’t be dismissed as “just hormones.” With the right treatment and care team, you can (and will) start feeling better.
Experts:
Janel Coleman, LMSW, is a trained fullspectrum doula and a licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in New York City. Her focus areas include providing support during the trying-to-conceive, prenatal, and postpartum periods.
Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C , is an OB-GYN and clinical director at Oula. She’s also an advocate for perinatal mental health, as well as author of the book Then Comes Baby: An Honest Conversation About Birth, Postpartum, and the Complex Transition to Parenthood.
Elliston PEdiatrics: Redefining Pediatric Primary Care
Say goodbye to long wait times, short visits and a revolving door of doctors
By Mia Sala S
In a city with over 8 million people, germs spread, and our kids often get that common cold. You know the one– snotty nose you’re constantly wiping, snotty hands you’re constantly cleaning. Sometimes, the cold takes a turn. Maybe you notice a pink eye, feel a warm forehead or get woken up in the middle of the night by your child crying. That’s when you start to panic. Your first thought was, ‘I need to bring my child to the doctor.’
Choosing a primary care doctor for our kids is one of the most important decisions we make as parents. This decision becomes even more critical when you’re expecting. From the moment your baby arrives, you’ll have countless questions—about feeding, sleep, development and more. Having a trusted pediatrician who is easily accessible from day one can make all the difference. Because in those moments of concern, you want to feel confident that your doctor will be there for your child. And not just any doctor, your doctor. The doctor who knows your child inside and out, who has seen them grow, witnessed everything from their common colds to more serious medical issues.
And most importantly, the doctor you and your child trust. But primary care today
doesn’t always guarantee this. Between packed provider schedules, long wait times and the impersonal nature of office visits, finding your doctor isn’t so easy.
That’s where Elliston Pediatrics comes in.
Founded by Heidi Meeker, RN, and Dr. Andrew Elliston, MD, FAAP, this groundbreaking practice is transforming pediatric healthcare by offering concierge-level, in-home care designed to put families first. With a focus on accessibility, continuity, and personalized attention, Elliston Pediatrics is setting a new standard for primary care in NYC.
Both Heidi and Dr. Andrew Elliston experienced the healthcare system’s failures firsthand. Heidi’s daughter, Isabela, was born with a congenital heart condition, a diagnosis that should have been made at birth but was overlooked for years despite Heidi’s relentless advocacy. When the diagnosis finally came, it was nearly too late. Dr. Andrew Elliston witnessed similar failures during his time at pediatric practices. The constraints of insurance-driven medicine left him with only minutes to spend with each patient, unable to provide the level of care he knew children and parents deserved. They both knew there had to be a better way.
Heidi and Dr. Andrew Elliston’s experiences fuel their passion every day. “We are
bringing back the whole point of primary care, which is for it to be your medical home and a person who is your quarterback– who can see your child as a full person, within the context of their family, their society and everything that is going on around them,” shared Heidi. Continuity of care is a fundamental part of Elliston Pediatrics. Unlike other volume-based healthcare practices that result in seeing different doctors every time you visit, Elliston Pediatrics ensures you always see the doctor you and your child have developed a relationship with.
Elliston Pediatrics has no office. Not only does this eliminate waiting rooms and rushed visits, but it allows your doctor to get to know your family on a more personal level. “We get to see these children playing with their toys and with their pets. We get to physically see the baby’s nursery and answer the parent’s questions about the crib,” shares Dr. Andrew Elliston. “We get to see things parents maybe wouldn’t know to mention, or we wouldn’t see in an office. I can see how a child’s development is progressing and how they engage socially. I can see things they wouldn’t feel comfortable trying in an office.” Kids also often feel more comfortable in these home visits. “If you’re a parent and already inviting
someone into your home, you tell your kids this is someone to trust. It already gives that sense of safety,” Heidi adds.
Not only are home visits convenient for busy schedules (and we know just how busy they can get as city parents!), but the relationship they form between your doctor and your family ensures high-quality care. For new parents, this level of support is invaluable. Knowing that your pediatrician is just a text or call away allows you to feel confident in your choices rather than second-guessing every little cough or cry. “You feel confident talking to that person, and you feel heard and listened to,” explains Heidi. “When it comes to my experience in the past, I didn’t feel like I was being heard, and that perpetuated a problem that almost cost my daughter her life.”
“There are lots of times when there might be multiple choices for how to manage the medical situation. The key to all of it is the connection, relationship and trust. It’s easier to have those more serious conversations, and there’s a lot more confidence on both sides on what the decision is,” adds Dr. Andrew Elliston. As NYC parents, we hope that primary care can truly be our “medical home,”
as Heidi put it. With Elliston Pediatrics, you’ll have 24/7 direct access to the medical team, newborn care and lactation support, developmental and behavioral consultations, advanced diagnostic testing and screenings, and much more. Unlike traditional pediatric practices, Elliston Pediatrics supports parents before their baby is born. Through prenatal consultations, they help expecting parents feel prepared for newborn care, address concerns about feeding and sleep, and ensure a smooth transition into parenthood.
Elliston Pediatrics strives to make this high-quality care accessible to as many families as possible. They’ve expanded from Manhattan into Brooklyn—covering neighborhoods like DUMBO, Brooklyn Heights, Cobble Hill, Boerum Hill, Downtown Brooklyn and Williamsburg. They also remain committed to utilizing insurance on an in-network basis for all medical care. Non-medical services, which insurance does not cover, are included in the membership model—making it more cost-effective and predictable for your family.
So, if you’ve ever felt the burden of the pediatric healthcare system today, whether
waiting weeks to see your doctor, not getting all your questions answered in short visits, or not feeling heard as a parent, check out Elliston Pediatrics. They aim to redefine pediatric healthcare and welcome your family with open arms. Fill out an inquiry form at ellistonpediatrics.com to learn more.
Bonus tip!
We’re in full swing with allergy season, so we asked Heidi and Andrew about their professional advice for parents.
Heidi : “Change your clothes, wash your hair, change your pillowcase, keep windows closed and consider an air filter in your home. There are a lot of male trees in NYC, which are the ones that have a lot of pollen. We have it tough here, so doing all those little tricks to minimize pollen in your home will help.”
Andrew : “Most children don’t encounter seasonal allergies until they are at least 2 or 3. Once they do, it shows up with the classic running nose, itching, watery eyes. It’s most helpful to manage those symptoms when they start rather than trying to play catch up when they’ve gotten a lot worse.”
photos by Howard Huang
Nurse Laura, Dr. Bennett, Dr. Copenhaver, Dr. Elliston, Nurse Heidi and Dr. Davis
The Ultimate Guide to Pick Your Own Farms
Why families love this seasonal activity, and the best time to go
BY ALEXA LUTTER
Nowadays, farms are so much more than red barns, milking cows, fresh eggs, and Old McDonald’s. Farm visits have become a popular outdoor family excursion. Not only do farm trips teach us about agriculture and where our food comes from, but they also get our families off their devices and out of the house and take us to a different scenery. Farms also allow fun and interactive experiences, like picking your produce. As an added bonus, they provide the perfect backdrop for a family photoshoot.
We are sharing tips and helpful information you will need to prepare for your next trip to the farm!
Why Pick Your Own?
Sensational Scenery
The scenery at these farms and fields can be
breathtaking. They serve as fantastic photo ops for the whole family and are Instagramand holiday-card-worthy all year round. So make sure your phone is fully charged and set in the right mode for all the beautiful photos you are going to take.
Health Benefits
There is nothing like smelling fresh lavender, biting into a crisp strawberry, or plucking the perfect apple off a tree. Picking your own produce has both mental and physical health benefits. Getting outdoors has been proven to boost your vitamin D levels and reduce feelings of stress. Visiting farms allows you and your family to stimulate all five senses. It could make even your picky eater try something new! Having fresh produce at home promotes healthy eating and may even entice your picky eater to try something new. Whether you are buying produce or not,
the environment lends itself to a new kind of outdoor experience, so breathe in the fresh air and enjoy your surroundings! Most farms provide rich knowledge about agriculture, as it is both interesting and beneficial to know where your food is coming from.
Environmental Benefits
Visiting a farm is a great way to support small businesses and local farmers, which in turn helps stimulate the local economy. This support promotes sustainability and ecological preservation. You can further support the environment by carpooling to farms with friends to reduce fossil fuels!
Taste the Difference
One of the best benefits of picking your own produce is stocking your fridge and pantry with all the yummy fresh fruits and veggies! Once you bring all the produce home, the possibilities are endless. You can create your own jams, jellies, pies, and more. Check out recipes to make after pumpkin picking and apple picking.
If you’re not the recipe-following type, no worries! Most of these farms feature a market where you can purchase seasonal farm fresh fruits and vegetables grown onsite. They carry high-quality homemade ciders, coffees, teas, maple syrups, honey, jams, yogurts,
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cheeses, and more. The options are endless! Find a farm with a bakery, and you hit the jackpot! If you have never had a hot, fresh apple cider donut, you have no idea what you are missing! Stock up on your favorite pies to share with your families, a popular holiday option.
Strawberries
There is nothing like a fresh, sweet, and slightly tangy strawberry. They’re popular with kids in their natural form, but the possibilities for family-friendly recipes are endless. Some favorites include strawberry jams, yogurt, and pancakes.
Parents, are you looking for a real treat? Homemade strawberry daiquiris make the perfect summer cocktail. Cheers!
When to go? May and early June
How much? $5.50 to $8.00 per pound
Picking tips : When picking the perfect strawberries, look for vibrant red and fully shaped strawberries. Strawberries do not ripen after being picked, so you want to grab the ripest ones immediately. When picking your strawberries, grip the stem above the strawberry, twist, and pull. Be careful when storing strawberries in containers so as not to overcrowd the container, which may cause strawberries to bruise or become mushy. When you go home, refrain from washing the strawberries until ready to use them; washing immediately increases the chances of spoiling faster.
Peaches
Peaches have a bright and sweet flavor with notes of tartness. They have been called a superfood and contain excellent sources of vitamins A and C. They are versatile; keep it simple with sliced peaches and cream, or whip up a decadent peach cobbler.
When to go? Late July through September.
How much? Approximately $3.00 per pound
Picking tips: When picking the perfect peach, there are many things to keep an eye out for. First, you want to examine the peaches’ skin to see if there is any green on it. If there is, the peach is not ready to be picked. Additionally, use your sense of smell! Ripe and ready peaches will give off a sweet aroma; when there is no aroma, the peach needs more time to ripen. Finally, make sure the fruit is not too firm and easy to retrieve from the tree. When bringing peaches home, store them in the refrigerator to slow down the process of ripening. For long-term
storage, you can freeze them in an airtight plastic bag.
Sunflowers
Sunflowers are commonly associated with summer. They add a pop of color to any space, whether it is your backyard, kitchen, or living room. Sunflowers can be displayed and used for crafts, composting, and more. Sunflower fields open the door for Instagram-worthy pictures. There are usually many fun activities for families, such as mazes and bouquet-making.
When to go? M id-summer
How much? Approximately $2.00 a flower
Picking Tips: Some sunflower farms or fields let you pick your own sunflowers, while others sell them. You are usually allowed to enter the fields for photos either way, but check the farm’s policy first.
Apples
Nothing says fall like a nice crisp apple plucked straight from a tree. Apples are one of the most diverse fruits and are used in many different delicious ways. Cider, pie, tarts, juice, and more are all delicious options – not to mention biting into one the old-fashioned way. There are many apple varieties, so choose a farm growing your favorite kind. Or try them all!
When to go? Late August until mid-tolate October.
How much? Apple prices vary by variety and are typically sold by the pound.
Picking tips: There are many things to look out for when choosing apples. You want to ensure the apples you pick are free from any blemishes or bruises. Apples should be firm to the touch and not mushy. Another helpful tip is to look for apples with stems intact, as the stem keeps the apple good for longer. Be mindful when you pick the apple to keep the stem intact.
Pumpkins
Pumpkin picking is a fall staple and perhaps the most popular fall outdoor activity for families. After everone chooses their favorite pumpkin, many families follow the treasured tradition of carving them. Kids love the joy of picking their own pumpkin to turn into a unique Jack-o’-lantern and displaying it proudly outside during Halloween. Grab a few extra pumpkins to create delicious recipes such as pumpkin pie, bread, muffins and more. Pumpkins are a healthy food that provides calcium, potassium, and magnesium. Don’t forget to roast the seeds!
When to go? September through late October.
How much? Prices vary greatly depending on size, but they average around $5.50 each.
Picking tips: Color is everything when it comes to the perfect pumpkin. You want to pick a deep orange pumpkin with no blemishes or bruising. If you are looking for a pumpkin to carve, look for one that will have enough room for your design and a smooth outer shell. When bringing home your pumpkin, you definitely want to clean it. Pumpkins can be prone to bacteria, which could result in decay.
Christmas Trees
Christmas tree farms allow you to observe these gorgeous trees in their natural habitat and take them to your home to decorate. Picking your own tree creates a special memory within the family for the holidays. Not to mention, having a real Christmas tree will hit you with joy the second you open your front door, thanks to its unmistakable aroma. Most Christmas tree farms also sell wreaths, garlands, and more. As an added treat for the kids, many tree farms offer a visit and photo opportunity with Santa! When to go? Late November through December
How much? Though they vary, on average, trees cost about $85.
Picking tips: Bundle up! It will most likely be very chilly, and you want your family to be as comfy as possible. Always feel free to ask farm workers questions to find your perfect tree. Your tree should be a healthy green color and the size of your liking. Christmas trees can be large, so measure ahead and ensure you have space in your vehicle to transport them home.
Additionally, look for branches with space to hold all your decorations and ornaments; flimsy branches will result in falling “needles.” When you get home, you will need fresh water to keep your tree well-hydrated. The amount of water you need depends on your tree and trunk size.
Visiting pick-your-own farms offers a delightful way for families to connect with nature while enjoying fresh produce together. These experiences not only enrich our understanding of where our food comes from but also provide lasting memories amidst stunning landscapes. So, gather your loved ones, plan your next farm adventure, and savor the joys of picking your own fruits and vegetables this season!
Making Summer Magical and Manageable for Your Little One
Ah, summer—the season of sunshine, sandals, and sticky popsicle hands. It’s the perfect time to slow down and soak up extra moments with your little ones. But let’s be real: preschoolers don’t magically hit pause just because it’s summer. They still need routines, rest, and a bit of structure to thrive.
So how do you keep summer fun and functional? Think balance.
Start your day with a consistent morning routine—nothing fancy, just something to ground the day. Then head outside! Whether it’s a walk to the park, a backyard splash session, or chasing bubbles on the sidewalk, outdoor play is a must. It gets little legs moving and builds important motor skills.
Midday is prime time for winding down. A quiet rest, a cozy nap, or even a little audiobook can do wonders. In the afternoon? That’s your window for playful
learning—building towers, exploring water play, or turning snack time into a counting game. Even “helping” with chores becomes a hands-on adventure.
Evenings are your cue to slow it down. Family dinners, a good storybook, and bedtime snuggles help little ones transition from busy bees to peaceful dreamers.
And if the idea of crafting the perfect summer routine feels like juggling flaming pool noodles—don’t sweat it. That’s where early childhood programs like Little Scholars Summer Camp come in. With experienced educators, playful learning, and a rhythm that feels just right, your child gets a summer full of magic (and you get a breather).
Because summer should feel magical— for both of you.
Smart Tips for Parents of TeenS
By Serena norr
One thing they never warn you about before having a baby is that eventually, babies grow up into teenagers. Much like parenting a baby, parenting teens can be equally challenging and amazing. As your kids are growing up, they are navigating a new terrain with extended responsibilities, questions about life, and simply finding their way. In some instances, teens might rebel, act out, or shut down. Others might be dealing with mental health issues, or simply feel overwhelmed by the many things they have on their plates. As parents, it’s important to be there for them and allow them to explore and find themselves. So, we are sharing some tips on how to navigate the teen years.
Keep the communication open and be a good listener
Teens, in general, are sometimes known to shut down. This can include closing you off from the conversations and/or giving you limitedto-no responses. Try not to take this personally as teens are also figuring out who they are as well as what they believe in. Establish an open dialogue with them so they know that they can go to you. It’s important not to stress out or force conversations, but rather be open to their journey and listen. Teens need parents to listen as a way to feel understood, which can help to forge a closer connection. Sometimes this might even involve walking away from a conversation or revisiting it if anger comes into play.
Let them explore and encourage them
Teens, unlike younger kids, are figuring out their interests and/or what they enjoy doing. Give them the space to figure out their interests/passions as well as support their journey, even if you might noy completely understand it. It is important for them to feel your support and know you are there for them.
Provide guidance and give clear guidelines
You want your teen to know what is accept-
able about where they are going and/or who they are hanging out with. This is a good time to discuss values,making good choices, and any challenges that might arise. Make sure they understand the consequences of not following the guidelines, which could be anything from breaking curfew to drinking to being grounded.
Respect their values
Your teen might not have the same values and views as you. Show them that you respect what is important to them and ask them to explain why it is important to them if you are conflicted. Showing that you care about them and respect them will go a long way as you address your concerns while still supporting them.
Spend
time together
Despite what they might think, your teen is still a child who needs you differently now. Show them that you care and you’re interested in them by doing things together. This could be you enjoying something that they love or involving them in one of your favorite activities. Be consistent and make it a point to show up for them, focusing on activities without the clutch of devices or technology. Try yoga, hiking, or even simply enjoying a meal together.
Share your experiences
Even though they might not say it, they look up to you. Share your lived experiences, including some hard life lessons you had to learn at their age. They will appreciate – and
maybe even be shocked – by how human you are.
Be a role model
Your teens are watching. Model traits that you would want them to embody such as kindness, thoughtfulness, curiosity, confidence, patience, and more. It is also important for them to see you being passionate about what you do. This can also include your volunteer work and how you show up in the family. Even if they might not be expressing these traits now, they are absorbing everything.
Make sure teens get enough sleep
Teens may think they can operate on little sleep, but as we know sleep is vital for everyone to function and be in a better mood. Set realistic goals around bedtime, including an electronic curfew or no screens after a certain amount of time. Also, make sure they get up at a decent time on the weekend.
Reach out for support
While you can do all of the “right” things, there’s still a level of complexity when it comes to parenting teens. Know that this is all part of their journey and will take time for them to find their way. Find local parenting support groups – with a focus on teen parenting as well as teen specific issues to communicate your struggles with others in a similar situation.
In NYC, check out Parenting Teens in NYC, NYC Parents with Disabilities, and Raising Teenage Girls Is HARD! Parenting Teens Support Group by Teen Thrive on Facebook.
Check in your teens mental health
We are in a mental health epidemic. According to the Center for Disease Control, “more than 4 in 10 (42%) students felt persistently sad or hopeless and nearly one-third (29%) experienced poor mental health.” This problem is continuing to heighten with common pressures, social media, and issues at home and school.
Check in with your teen to see how they are doing. Some ways to monitor this might be assessing their energy levels, digestion issues, headaches, increased anxiety, anger, eating issues, memory problems, and more. If you are concerned, contact your local doctor or find a support group or therapist, and be present for them.
SPECIALTY CAMPS & SUMMER PROGRAMS
Summer will be here before we know it, and you may have put off camp registration until nearly the last minute, or a traditional day or overnight camp may not be a fit for your family. We see you! We all want our children to have an enriching, active summer experience where they can make new friends and memories, but your child may have a beloved hobby, interest or skill they want to explore. An option that will provide your child with the supervision, activity or education they need during the summer months is a specialty camp that focuses on sports, STEM or the arts. We’ve found some local summer programs and specialty camps worth considering.
412 Squash
412 East 90th Street
646-943-6861, info@412squash.org 412squash.org
Join the fun this summer at 412 Squash, the premier squash club on Manhattan’s Upper East Side! Dynamic summer programs and day camps are designed for kids ages 5 and older, providing a fun and engaging introduction to the world of squash. Under the guidance of experienced coaches, young athletes will develop essential skills, make new friends, and boost their confidence both on and off the court. With a focus on teamwork and sportsmanship, the camps nurture a love for squash in a supportive environment. Don’t miss out on a summer of fun and fitness.
412 Nothing But Net
412 East 90th Street
646-600-7620, nbn@spenceschool.org
12nothingbutnet.org
412 Nothing But Net offers summer basketball co-ed day clinics from June 23 through 26 and July 7 through 10 for grades 3 to 6 and 7 to 12. Morning sessions are from 9 am to noon and are educational and skill-based sessions for students in grades 3 through 6, focused on fun and skill building, drills, game play, special guest speakers, and a 3v3 tournament! Afternoon sessions held from 1 pm to 3 pm are for students in grades 7 to 12, with position-specific training provided by coaches with college playing and coaching experience for guards, wings and post players, with full-court games played each session. Skills video and game videos are available to build your recruiting portfolio. All participants receive an NBN water bottle, practice pinny and sling bag.
The Ailey School
405 W. 55th Street
212-405-9000
ailey.org/training/junior-division
The Junior Division offers dance training for students ages 3 to 17, ranging from introductory classes for preschoolers to curriculumbased programs preparing students for professional careers in dance. In the First Steps and Bounding Boys program (ages 3 to 6), children are taught through creative movement classes that emphasize spatial and musical awareness as students are introduced to basic dance vocabulary while also exploring their own creativity. Classes are led by an instructional team dedicated to fostering a sense of fun and joy. The Pre-Professional Program (ages 7 to 17) is a diverse, curriculumbased program for students from beginner to pre-professional level. Designed to develop well-rounded young dancers, it offers a graded ballet curriculum enriched by several other dance techniques.
Ballet Academy East
1651 Third Ave
212-410-9140, info@baenyc.com balletacademyeast.com/summer-programs
Ballet Academy East has summer programs for children of all ages and levels. Summerdance is a fun-filled full-day program for children ages 3 to 7. Activities include ballet, tap, yoga, art, musical theater, cooking, origami, and more. Flexible weekly enrollment is available, or save by enrolling for multiple weeks. For serious ballet students, BAE offers the Junior Summer Course for ages 7 to 15, and the August Intensive for ages 9 to 19. These programs require an audition and inspire students to reach their next level of achievement through a comprehensive curriculum. In addition to camps and programs, the school has weekly summer classes for Children ages 18 months to 10 years that will instill a love of dance within a warm, positive environment focused on developing individual potential.
Camp Kids ‘N Comedy
Gotham Comedy Club, 208 W 23 Street
212-877-6115, info@kidsncomedy.com kidsncomedy.com
Spend two weeks at Gotham Comedy Club learning to write and perform stand-up comedy, practice improv, and write and perform sketch comedy! Each camp culminates in a graduation show live on stage. Teachers are professional stand-up comics, improvisers and actors. Open to kids ages 10 to 18. Camps are held for two weeks, Monday through Friday from noon until 4 pm in sessions beginning on July 7 through August 15. Kids can register for one to all three sessions. Discount applies for those registering with a sibling or friend for more than one session.
Bloomingdale Summer Music Intensives
323 West 108th Street, New York, NY 10025 212-663-6021, nbarbera@bsmny.org bsmny.org/summer-2025
Bloomingdale School of Music offers three exciting summer intensives in strings, piano and guitar. All intensives provide students the opportunity to grow through collaboration, performance, and masterclasses with expert faculty. Students receive private instrument lessons, music theory lessons, and interactive workshops. The Summer Strings Intensive and Summer Piano Intensive run from July 7 to July 11 for students ages 8 to 16. The Bloomingdale Guitar Intensive, for students ages 10 to 16 runs from July 14 to July 25. Students can choose to attend for one week or the full two weeks. All intensives are for students with at least one year on their instrument and run Monday through Friday, 9 am to 3 pm, and culminate in a student concert.
Central Park Tennis
W 96th Street at Central Park West
212-316-0800, cathy@nytennis.net
Centralparktenniscenter.com
Central Park Tennis Camp offers an opportunity for players of all levels to improve their skills while enjoying the iconic surroundings of New York City’s Central Park. Located in one of the most famous parks in the world, the camp provides a variety of tennis programs tailored to children of all ages. Participants receive professional coaching, with a focus on developing technique, strategy, and fitness. Central Park Tennis Camp is ideal for those looking to sharpen their game, make new friends, and experience the unique atmosphere of playing tennis in one of the city’s most celebrated outdoor spaces.
Circus Academy Camp
353 West St.
Pier 40 - Roof
circusacademy.com
Step right up for five days of excitement, creativity, and unforgettable memories. Circus Academy Youth Circus Summer Camp offers a thrilling experience where kids unleash their inner circus stars and soar to new heights! Campers will learn circus skills like flying on the trapeze, mastering daring aerial disciplines, and juggling. When not in the air, they’ll enjoy classic camp activities that build teamwork and spark creativity, from games to arts and crafts, relay races, and even the chance to pie a counselor! On the final day, family and friends are invited to a spectacular showcase. Prepare to be amazed as campers display their newfound talents. Space is limited.
iPianoLab Keyboard Camp
353 E. 77th St, Lower Level 347-816-5193 , inbox@ipianolab.com pianolab.com/nyc
iPianoLab Camps are a fresh, fun way to learn piano or keyboard. Unlike traditional methods, which focus on months of drills and exercises before a student gets to real music, iPianoLab students learn all the keyboard basics while they learn their favorite tunes. Kids learn hits from Taylor Swift, Imagine Dragons, Roblox, Legos, Star Wars, and more. They also learn note reading, proper hand position, counting and rhythm, and more. iPianoLab offers games, contests, special guest performers, and recitals for parents and friends. Students also get access to our online site, which has video lessons and tutorials of the camp curriculum for at-home study.
Downtown United Soccer Club (DUSC)
Pier 40 at Hudson River Park, 353 West St. 646-241-7024
dusc.net/programs/camps/ Downtown United Soccer Club (DUSC) offers a summer of fun, soccer, fitness and friendship! With over 25 years of experience, DUSC has a strong reputation for providing kids with an enriching camp experience. The staff facilitates a love for the game by creating a joyful and developmental soccer experience. The meaningful relationships that coaches build with players foster the kind of community environment that families look forward to being a part of. Since DUSC offers full-day and half-day experiences, parents are able to keep their regular work schedule while ensuring their children are engaged and making memories during the day. At DUSC’s Pier 40 Camp, players will experience the best of NYC soccer, develop their skills, train with friends, and enjoy a summer filled with fun!
Launch Math + Science Center Camps
Two UWS locations in Manhattan 212-600-1010, info@launchmath.com launchmath.com
Launch Math + Science Centers offer one-week STEM summer camps that spark adventure and creativity for kindergarten through 7th grade kids. With a tight-knit 4:1 camper-to-staff ratio, children dive into exciting specialties, from unraveling the science of detective work and mastering the intricacies of robotics to exploring the wonders of physics and the magic of animation and more! Launch camps offer recreational activities to ensure a well-rounded experience! Older campers enjoy half of the day in Central Park, blending interactive tech activities with classic camp games for the perfect mix of learning and play, while the younger STEM enthusiasts in kindergarten and first grade unwind, socialize, and build meaningful relationships with friends through indoor gameplay and active, collaborative projects. Launch Math + Science Centers camps ignite a passion for learning and a lifelong love for STEM!
Oasis Day Camp, Central Park 795 Columbus Ave. 914-712-5054
oasischildren.com/central-parkcentralpark@oasischildren.com
Oasis Day Camp offers kids ages three to grade 10 a traditional camp experience—in Central Park! Their dedicated team of educators is committed to engaging activities, a safe environment, emotional development, self-esteem, resilience, and vital life skills. Early Start Imagination Camp (age 3-K) is a child’s introduction to new experiences and making friends, with specialized care by experienced professionals and developmentally appropriate activities. Lower Camp (grades K, 1 and 2) includes funfilled days of adventure and exploration with sports, art, music, swimming, enrichment and nature. Upper Camp (grades 3 - 5) offers a variety of activities for growing interests, including basketball, soccer, flag football, swimming, adventure, painting, theater and crafts. Travel Camp (grades 6 -10) is available for older campers, offering trips to theme parks, museums, Broadway shows, sporting events, and overnights.
Play On! Studios
263 West 86th St. 347-709-4149, info@playonstudios.com playonstudios.com
Play On! Studios offers theater day camps on the Upper West Side that will give kids a summer full of acting, music, and fun they won’t soon forget! Young actors will rehearse and perform in a full production, work with professional actors and teaching artists, build up their skills in a nurturing, non-competitive environment and play lots of drama games in a welcoming camp atmosphere perfect for beginners and more experienced actors alike. Creative Drama Camps are ideal for kids entering grades K to 4, and multi-week Musical Theater Camps are aimed at kids entering grades 4 to 9. Sign up for a week or more — there’s a new show every session!
School at Peridance Dance Camp
126 E 13th St.
212-505-0886, sap@peridance.com peridance.com/sap-camps-intensives
The School at Peridance is excited to offer a fun-filled and enriching summer dance camp experience for young dancers. The one-week dance camps include ballet, tap, jazz, hip-hop, musical theater, and tumbling and acrobatics. Designed for children ages 3 to 8, camps run from June 9 through August 29, allowing dancers to join for one week or up to 12 weeks. Whether the child is looking to dive deep into dance or explore new styles, there is something for everyone. Half-day and full-day options are available, along with early drop-off and late pick-up services to accommodate various schedules.
Steve & Kate’s Camp
Trevor Day School - Upper School, 312 E 95th St.
Trevor Day School - Lower School, 1 W 88th St.
United Nations International School, 24-50 FDR Dr. Academy of St. Joseph, 111 Washington Place steveandkatescamp.com
Since 1980, Steve & Kate’s Camp has trusted kids to choose their own activities and plan their own days in real-time. Campers ages 4 to 12 design, build, code, create, bake, dance, play, eat, sew, skip—all on their own schedule. When children feel empowered to make their own choices and be their own bosses, they discover new reserves of confidence, resiliency, and creativity. No weekly reservations or commitments are required. Lunch, snacks, and all hours (8 am – 6 pm) included.
Meet the Pizza Party of Your Dreams
Crazy Pizza NYC brings unforgettable energy, entertainment, and over-the-top deliciousness
By Jana Beauchamp
Crazy Pizza New York City is a truly immersive dining destination that beautifully blends crazy-good pizza with excitement and entertainment from start to finish. Kids of all ages will declare it the best pizza party ever. Located in the heart of SoHo, this NYC outpost offers festive fun, featuring its signature chef-spinning pizza show. From the gourmet, ultra-thin crust pizzas to the lively atmosphere filled with music, sparklers and glitterati, you’re sure to have a good time. By the end of the meal, your entire family will be swinging their napkins and dancing in their seats while savoring the Crazy Pizza experience. Bring your crew to indulge in the Italian fare and soak in the electric ambiance.
Once the ABBA music kicks in and the pizza-shaped disco ball starts spinning, the restaurant goes wild.
The theatrical dough-spinning pizza show unlocks a new world of fun – you will be mesmerized when the pizza “soars and spins” to the ceiling and lands gracefully, spinning right above your head.
Crazy Pizza also hosts a special familyfriendly Sunday Funday brunch weekly from noon to 4 pm, including a balloon animal artist, a face painter, and the festive, vibrant energy Crazy Pizza is typically known for.
The menu is a masterful blend of Italian culinary tradition with a modern twist. Crazy Pizza’s signature dough is sourced from a mill in Puglia, Italy, and topped with premium ingredients like fresh mozzarella and imported tomatoes. Some fan-favorite
dishes include the brunch Bismarck pizza and dinner options like the burrata and tartufo pizzas. Kids will love the Margherita pizza and spaghetti al pomodoro. Everyone will want to make sure to save room for dessert. The kids will swoon for the Crazy Pizza alla Nutella, and no one will be able to resist the tableside Crazy Tiramisu prepared with gusto.
Crazy Pizza is more than a pizzeria—it’s a vibe. Families can expect an epic dining experience with napkin-waving moments and plenty of photo ops. You might even go viral after treating your kids to a special family meal under the pizza-disco ball and spinning pizza dough.
Crazy Pizza is located at 218 Lafayette Street in Manhattan.
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Preschools & Montessori Schools
As we anticipate the arrival of summer, now is the perfect time to consider your child’s early educational journey. Whether you’re a first-time parent or you’re exploring new options, finding the right preschool can feel overwhelming. Identifying programs prioritizing creativity, social interaction, and foundational learning is essential. But is a traditional preschool or a Montessori school—which offers a unique approach that encourages child-led exploration and independence—right for your little one? We’ve explored some local preschools and Montessori schools to give you a head start to securing a spot that aligns with your values and nurtures your child’s interests.
Camp Kidville
205 W. 88th St, Manhattan 212-362-7792, nikki@mykidville.com kidville.com/westside/our-services/camp-kidville/ Camp runs from June 16 to Sept. 5, and flexibility is at the heart of everything they do. With three unique camp groups designed to meet families where they are, there’s something for every stage of early childhood. The Blue Whales group is perfect for little ones ages 18 to 30 months who aren’t quite ready to separate; it’s a parent/caregiverand-child program offered on Mondays and Wednesdays from 10:30 - 11:45 am. For children who are almost 2 to 3 years old and beginning to explore independence, the Lions group provides gentle separation with a caregiver staying until the child feels comfortable. This group meets Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9 - 11 am. For older campers aged 2.5 to 4.5 years, the Elephants group offers a true drop-off experience, running daily from 9 am to noon. Families can choose the days and weeks that work best for them—whether that’s one day a week or all five. Plus, current promotions offer up to 20% off, making this flexible and thoughtful program even more appealing.
Columbus Pre-School 606 Columbus Ave. 212-721-0090, julie@columbuspre-school.com info@columbuspre-school.com columbuspre-school.com
Columbus Pre-School understands that parents want their children to be safe, happy, and kind. The school environment fosters joy, engagement, and nurturing, while teachers create curriculum based on student interests, using thought-provoking activities and experiences to encourage learning. In addition to the classrooms, Columbus Pre-School also features an outdoor playspace, an outdoor classroom, and a gymnastics studio.
The Gillen Brewer School
410 E. 92nd Street
212-831-3667, admissions@gillenbrewer.com www.gillenbrewer.com
Gillen Brewer’s Preschool program incorporates the most effective methods in special education to support children in developing foundational skills within their language, social/emotional, physical and academic development to set them up for continued growth and success at a crucial time in their development. Designed for children ages 3 to 5, the program uses research-based curricula and features a weekly schedule that includes music, art, and science classes. Students enjoy daily time on our rooftop play space. With a collaborative team of teachers, speech therapists, OTs, and counselors, GBS provides integrated instruction and support in a warm, vibrant setting. Together with families, we help children build confidence, curiosity, and independence—empowering them to take meaningful steps forward.
Playto Tribeca
90 Hudson st.
212-590-2445, Tribeca@playto.com www.playto.com
Discover Playto in Tribeca, located in the heart of Tribeca, Playto Childcare offers a warm, enriching environment where children grow through play, creativity, and guided learning. Their dedicated staff fosters curiosity and confidence in every child, with flexible care options tailored to modern families. Whether families seek fulltime care, backup options, or enrichment programs, Playto is there to support each child’s early journey. Come see why families are choosing Playto—where every child shines.
The Montessori School of New York International
347 East 55th St., Sutton Place 212-223-4630, info@montessorischoolny.com montessorischoolny.com
At The Montessori School of New York International, children explore academic dimensions at their own pace and interest level. This tailored approach helps them grow in self-esteem and independence, leading them to become well-rounded and confident. Classrooms are equipped with didactic Montessori materials that encourage the absorption of concepts while playing. Music, foreign language, musical theatre, swimming, dance, yoga, science, art, public speaking and chess are also offered as part of the program. This multifaceted program inspires curiosity and instills a lifelong love of learning. Children who attend usually do well academically and are prepared for admission to gifted and competitive programs. A unique summer camp staffed by the school’s year-round teachers allows children from other programs to experience a Montessori summer!
Parks Montessori Schools
1 W 91 St. at CPW
202 Riverside Dr. at 89 St. 435 Central Park W at 103 St. 212-595-2000, admissions@twinparks.org twinparks.org
Twin Parks Montessori Schools enroll preschoolers from 3 months to 6 years old at three Upper West Side campuses for half and full days, 2, 3, and 5 days per week. Enhanced with daily time outdoors, plenty of art and music, and close parent communication, the classic, AMSaccredited, Montessori approach is balanced with skills learned in teacher-directed activities to ensure children are both well-prepared and successful at ongoing independent and public schools. Virtual or in-person admission events are available.
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Teen Bans Continue Across NYC
More and more businesses are telling teens to keep out
By Náosha GreGG
If you have noticed extra security when you’re shopping or that stores seem much quieter (or louder), you’re not alone. Across the city, stores have been working hard to ensure a pleasant shopping experience for their customers by making one small change: banning teenagers.
Teens hanging out in a mall for fun isn’t new. With teens having few options for spaces to hang out, it’s no surprise that they turn to public spaces. With many community centers focusing on older populations, teens can have a difficult time trying to find a space where they can have fun and be safe, without feeling like they are being harassed or watched by adults. In fact, more often than not, you would walk into a Target or Kings Plaza mall and see groups of teens and young adults lounging on public seating, roaming the aisles looking for the latest Tiktok trending item (we’re looking at you, Stanley cups), or gathered around waiting for a Starbucks order. Usually, it’s harmless, albeit noticeably louder and more crowded than you’d prefer, but it’s never been so disruptive that it poses a risk to the public or the store. However, that calm sentiment has begun to shift.
In March, the Target store at the Flatbush and Nostrand Avenue junction in Brooklyn made a controversial decision. In bright, bold letters, on the clear glass that greets customers as they open the door, it reads a controversial but firm message: All guests under the age of 18 must be accompanied by an adult at this Target store.
“I think that it is unfortunate that it’s come to this, but I understand why some locations have had to implement an agerestrictive policy,” says Amber Adler, mother of two, award-winning activist and former Democratic nominee for NYC council. “I have personally seen teens running wild in stores, breaking merchandise, making it
tough for employees and customers.”
Teenagers are teenagers – but the recent behavior witnessed in stores has sparked concern from adults all around. Just a couple of weeks ago, the New York Police Department was called to Bay Plaza Mall in the Bronx, where teenagers were causing an uproar. According to CBS News New York, a phone video captured teenagers running up and down the food court, throwing chairs into the air, and causing chaos and disruption.
The recent bans come as a shock to teenagers, who often turn to retail chains for a designated hangout space. If we’re using teenager logic, while they may be loud, central restaurants and shopping plazas serve as indoor spaces where they can hang out with their friends, and grab a bite to eat, which comes in specifically handy during the rainy and chilly season of the city. However,
shoppers who favor the stores say they’re not surprised by the recent bans.
“I think the adult required rule being implemented is a shame, but it’s really one of the most straightforward ways these businesses can protect their staff and property,” says Tyler L., a Brooklyn resident who has witnessed teenagers misbehaving in local stores. “Employees typically don’t have much liberty to handle a rowdy kid, nor should they be expected to have to do so regularly. While I’m not a parent myself, I can say that what my parents did worked for my sister and me, as neither of us would ever dare cause the uproar that some kids today are causing.”
In a bold move, the McDonald’s restaurant, favored by students from nearby Midwood High School near the aforementioned Target at 2154 Nostrand Avenue, banned teen patrons without an adult.
“As a Brooklyn-born military veteran and local business owner for over 30 years, I have deep respect for this community. This measure to ID customers is another way we’re prioritizing the safety and security of our people within our lobby,” the franchise owner told ABC 7 News in a statement.
The McDonald’s is often loud and packed with teenagers cruising through the lobby, chatting their school days away, using vulgar and inappropriate language, and creating an uncomfortable dining experience for the average restaurant-goer. However, this was not the first time the restaurant chain instituted a ban; in 2015, a McDonald’s on Flatbush Avenue near Erasmus High School was the scene of a vicious fight that led to the arrest of six teenagers, all between ages 15 and 19.
“I think banning teenagers from getting to the store alone is definitely necessary in order to provide a safer and more peaceful shopping experience for the other customers,” says Kevin L., a Brooklyn resident.
While it’s hard to pinpoint the exact
“I have personally seen teens running wild in stores, breaking merchandise, making it tough for employees and customers.”
cause of the behavior, many believe it is due to a lack of stimulation and safe spaces for teenagers to hang out and express themselves. However, some parents believe banning teens will not solve the problem; it will only make it hard for those who obey the rules.
“I think it’s a bad policy since it keeps out people based on age rather than keeping out those who are disruptive, regardless of age. I suspect stores are using signs to keep groups of teens out [exclusively] without stopping solo teens,” says Katy R., parent and volunteer with youth organizations. “I don’t think this policy is going to solve the issue since it’s not addressing the actual problem. A store has to actually address disruptive behavior at the moment if they want to make a difference.”
Teen behavior can be tricky to navigate, though the behavior could be due to the recent circumstances of the world. Many teenagers lost social interaction and critical
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portions of their social lives and high school years during the COVID-19 pandemic, while in 2024, the NYPD reported an uptick in youth shootings and crimes. This, compounded by the socio-economic struggles faced by teenagers – 1 in 8 public school students experienced homelessness during the 2023-24 school year, while 1 in 5 children experience food insecurity – can lead to complex emotions that can cause them to act out.
Adler believes the solution, while not quite obvious, could be effective, and the answer to many issues is love.
“No matter what, parents should give their teen unconditional love. Every teen is going through a whirlwind of emotions, whether they openly show it by acting out or they manage to process it silently,” the mom of two says. “Remind them that you are on the same team. Remind them that even as an adult, you are growing, and tell them why it’s important to make good decisions.”
Unparalleled Living in Westfield
1021 Lawrence Ave., Westfield, NJ 5 Bedrooms | 4.1 Baths | $2,500,000
Welcome to this exceptional residence situated on one of Westfield's most coveted streets, offering the perfect blend of comfort, elegance, and functionality. Some of the endless highlights of this magnificent home include an elegant living room and formal dining room, each featuring a wood-burning fireplace, and the chef's dream kitchen, outfitted with top-of-the-line appliances, ideal for culinary enthusiasts and entertaining guests. The home's walk-out lower level is an entertainer's paradise, complete with a custom wine cellar and versatile bonus rooms to suit your lifestyle needs. Outside, the .70- acre professionally landscaped lot includes an expansive backyard with deck and slate patio, while the front yard is beautifully framed by stone retaining walls, enhancing the home's curb appeal.
Ideally located to downtown Westfield and NYC transportation, this residence, known as the Pinnacle House, provides an unparalleled living experience in one of
Six Gifts Mom Really Wants for Mother’s Day
By Jana Beauchamp
Book Drop is a must-have, monthly surprise book subscription for the bookworm mom. Powered by an independent bookstore, curated subscriptions are categorized by genre, so you can be sure Mom will enjoy any book she receives. Subscription genres include Books for Tea, the only designated historical fiction monthly mailing of any subscription box. If that’s not her cup of tea, try Books for Coffee, featuring mysteries and thrillers. Books for Lemonade, a quarterly beach read subscription, will be available just in time for Mother’s Day. Starting at $27 per month, thebookdrop.com
Maison Miru’s Falling Star Nap Earrings are a thoughtful gift for any stylish, busy mom. These unique earrings feature a delicate gold chain adorned with pavé crystals. They are crafted from hypoallergenic, medical-grade titanium and designed for 24/7 wear with a flat back that ensures comfort. Available in gold or silver finishes, these earrings are chic with a little edge and will add to the fashion-forward mom’s jewelry collection. $140, maisonmiru.com
The Owala Spring Revival collection is perfect for moms to stay refreshed and hydrated this Mother’s Day. The special-edition spring colorway is available for all the musthave Owala bottles, including the new Owala FreeSip Sway. These “all sip, no drip” bottles are leak-proof, easy to sip, and insulated to keep drinks hot or cold for hours. Plus, they’re made from stainless steel and are BPA, lead, and phthalate-free. $35, owalalife.com
Give Mom a gift that keeps on giving with a flexible floral subscription from UrbanStems . Offering fresh, curated arrangements weekly, biweekly, or monthly, you can choose from classic, seasonal, or luxe bouquets for all tastes and occasions. Subscriptions include free shipping and flexible scheduling, and premium, sustainable floral arrangements starting at $60, urbanstems.com
TAJA Collection’s 2025 Mother’s Day lineup features a range of customizable candles designed to honor moms with both sentiment and style. Each candle is hand-poured in Miami using 100% soy wax and phthalatefree fragrances, ensuring a clean burn. The “Best Mom Ever” candle is a classic favorite—bold, heartfelt, and always appreciated. Other notable options include the “Loquet” candle, which allows for a personal photo upload within a heart design, and the playful “Five Star Mom” candle, celebrating moms with a glowing review. $98, tajacollection.com
For a mom who needs a chic, practical way to carry the motherload, the Longchamp Cabas Tote Bag from the new summer collection is the perfect gift. Crafted from recycled canvas with signature leather accents, this lightweight, spacious tote features a timeless, minimalist silhouette in a vibrant hue. It has ample interior space and pockets to keep essentials organized, which is ideal for moms on the go. $325, longchamp.com
We hope all our awesome campers found amazing summer programs and camps at our fairs! Huge thanks to everyone who came out — you made it a blast. Miss the action? Don’t worry — check out the highlights from this year’s fair! We’re already dreaming up next year’s events… and trust us, they’re going to be even bigger and better! www.newyorkfamily.com What a Fair-tastic Time! Thank you to all of our 2025 Sponsors and Partners:
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MANHATTAN
May the Fourth Be With You
WHEN: May 3-4, Saturday and Sunday, 10 am – 5 pm.
WHERE: Children’s Museum of Manhattan, 212 W 83rd St., Upper West Side
AGES: 8 and younger
WHAT: Celebrate Star Wars Day and create super fun artmaking projects!
WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $14-$17. 212-7211223, cmom.org
Japan Parade and Street Fair 2025
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 11 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Parade begins at W. 81st St. and Central Park West, Upper West Side
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate the friendship between the United States and Japan with floats, live performances, community organizations, local leaders, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. japanparadenyc.org
Make Mother’s Day Cards with Flower Petals
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 2:30 – 6 pm
WHERE: LaGuardia Corner Community Garden, 511 LaGuardia Place, East Village
AGES: All
WHAT: Make your own Mother’s Day cards with pretty pressed flowers!
WANT TO GO?: Free. nycgovparks.org
Backbone
WHEN: May 16-17, Friday, 7 pm; Saturday, 2 pm & 7 pm.
WHERE: Alice Tully Hall, 1941 Broadway, Upper West Side
AGES: 5 and up
WHAT: Examine the various perceptions of strength, where it comes from, and how it is
measured through this exciting display of circus arts.
WANT TO GO?: Suggested ticket price of $20. 212-875–5788, lincolncenter.org
SUBMERGE Marine Science Festival
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 11 am – 3 pm
WHERE: Pier 84 Hudson River Park, 555 12th Ave., Lower Manhattan
AGES: All
WHAT: This interactive science festival invites the public to explore water topics through awesome experiments, kidapproved entertainment and
The city’s annual Dance Parade kicks off at Union Square on May 17.
Ren Mutevellioglu
Carnegie Hall hosts the Lullaby Project Celebration Concert on May 31.
much more!
WANT TO GO?: Free. hudsonriverpark.org
Dance Parade
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 12 – 7 pm
WHERE: Parade begins at Broadway & 17th St., Union Square
AGES: All
WHAT: The annual event celebrates over 80 different styles of dance and continues with performances in the park and free dance classes.
WANT TO GO?: Free. danceparade.org
Storytelling and Sea Adventures
WHEN: Thursday, May 17, 1 – 4 pm
WHERE: The Morgan Library & Museum, 225 Madison Ave., Murray Hill
AGES: All
WHAT: Design your own marine environment using upcycled materials and join storyteller Tom Lee for an interactive storytelling experience inspired by the Greek myths found in the Library.
WANT TO GO?: $13-$25; free for children 12 and younger. 212-685-0008, themorgan.org
2025 Israel Day on 5th
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 11:30 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Israel Day on Fifth, 62nd - 74th St. on Fifth Ave.
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Israel’s the history and culture at this annual parade featuring elaborate floats, live performances, marching bands, community organizations, first responders, local leaders, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. israeldayon5th.com
Fleet
Week
WHEN: May 23-26, Friday, 7 pm; Saturday-Monday, 10 am – 6 pm.
WHERE: The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum, Pier 86, Hell’s Kitchen
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy musical performances, along with activities, and demos from the military, including the U.S. Marine Corps, U.S. Coast Guard, Office of Naval Research, and more!
WANT TO GO?: Free; additional events on The Intrepid included with admission: $28-$38; free for children 4 and younger intrepidmuseum.org
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Lullaby Project Celebration Concert
WHEN: Saturday, May 31, 3 – 4:30 pm
WHERE: Carnegie Hall, 881 7th Ave., Midtown
AGES: 2 and under
WHAT: New and expecting parents are paired with professional artists to write and sing personal lullabies for their babies, supporting maternal health, aiding childhood development, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $24. 646-477-8416, carnegiehall.org
BRONX
Dinosaur Safari
WHEN: Saturdays and Sundays, 10 am – 5:30 pm; Weekdays, 10 am – 5 pm through Nov. 2.
WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Fordham
AGES: All
WHAT: Get up close with some of the largest animals to ever walk the Earth, including more than 60 life-size animatronic dinosaurs, during this immersive walkthrough experience.
WANT TO GO?: $38.95; $28.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. bronxzoo.com
4th Annual Gjergj
Kastrioti Skenderbeu Fair
WHEN: Sunday, May 4, 12 – 6 pm
WHERE: Crescent Ave. at Arthur Ave., Little Italy
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Albanian tradition and culture with
music, dancing, performances, food, games and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. bronxlittleitaly.com
Wings Over Wave Hill
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 10 am – 5:30 pm
WHERE: Wave Hill, 675 W 252nd St., Riverdale AGES: All
WHAT: Experience a full day of amazing bird encounters with demonstrations, handson activities, walks and presentations.
WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $4-$10. 718-5493200, wavehill.org
BROOKLYN
Celebrate Holi
WHEN: Saturday, May 3, 10 am, 1 pm & 4 pm.
WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy a day of play featuring Bollywood dancing, colorful puppet shows, delicious treats, art-making, music, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $15. 718-7354400, brooklynkids.org
Blippi: Join the Band Tour
WHEN: Sunday, May 4, 2 pm
WHERE: Kings Theatre, 1027 Flatbush Ave., Flatbush
AGES: All
WHAT: Join Blippi and Meekah as they explore what makes music, including sounds, rhythms and instruments,
SUBMERGE Marine Science Festival immerses Pier 84 in Hudson River Park on May 17.
16 and 17.
through all your favorite hits.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $50. 718-856-5464, kingstheatre.com
17th of May Parade
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 1:30 pm
WHERE: Parade begins at 3rd Ave. and 85 St., Bay Ridge
AGES: All
WHAT: The NorwegianAmerican 17th of May Parade celebrates independence and freedom with floats, performances, community groups, local leaders, first responders, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. 17thofmayparadecommitteebrooklyn.org
QUEENS
Apple Blossom Children’s Carnival
WHEN: May 3-11, Saturdays and Sundays, 11 am – 6 pm
WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 75-50 Little Neck Parkway, Glen Oaks
AGES: All
WHAT: Merry Go Round in the orchard and celebrate the season with assorted carnival
rides, midway games, local food vendors, and a visit with farm animals.
WANT TO GO?: $25-$50. 718-347-3276, queensfarm.org
Queens International Children’s Festival 2025
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 12 – 5 pm
WHERE: Jamaica Performing Arts Center, 153-10 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica
AGES: All
WHAT: This day of live music, dance performances, games, arts and crafts, and more will inspire young people and families to enjoy the arts.
WANT TO GO?: Free. 718-618-6170, jcal.org
Family Pajama Story
Time at the Queens Zoo
WHEN: Friday, May 30, 5 – 8 pm
WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona
AGES: 2 and up
WHAT: Get cozy and experience animal encounters, craftmaking, and engaging stories at this fun after-hours event.
WANT TO GO?: $30; $24 member. queenszoo.com
Backbone brings their circus arts to Alice Tully Hall on May
