St. Charles Avenue January 2024

DECEMBER 2023

ACTIVISTS OF THE YEAR

GIFT IDEAS

E VENTS

NEW ORLEANS’ DEFINITIVE SOCIAL MAGAZINE S T. CHARLE S AVENUE MAG A ZINE

DECEMBER 2023

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SOCIE T Y • CELEBR ATION • S T YLE

Associate Publisher Kate Henry EDITORIAL

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Contents

VOLUME 28 ISSUE 7

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Features

Standards

23 | Activists

6 | A Note from Andy + On the Cover

Avenue's 2023 Activists of the Year

8 | Arts Calendar

34 | Gift Guide

10 | On The Web

Luxe gifts for the most discerning on your list

12 | Around Town

Recent news you need to know

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14 | Fashion

December, Darling

16 | Design

Summer McCune

18 | What's Hot

Home for the Holidays

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20 | Changemakers

Colonel Christopher Schlafer USMC

48 | Eat + Drink

Dinner Party in a Box

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50 | Wellness

Ultra-Processed Foods

52 | With This Ring

Society

Trostorff-Robinson

41 | Social Events

64 | The Finishing Touch

Philanthropic events

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54 | Nostalgia

A Time-Honored Tradition

Merry and Bright

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A NOTE FROM ANDY

Glad Tidings

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n 2017, British news source The Independent, delivered an unexpected holiday gift to all who embrace the season, reporting that people who decorate earlier are tapping into cherished chidhood memories, which makes them happier than those who wait. Several articles and psychologists have since confirmed this theory, stating that getting a head start can not only lift your mood but also allows you to fully relish in the season, avoid last minute decorating and cleaning stress and possibly even benefit your neighbors with your positive energy. We put so much effort into making our homes festive and welcoming for the season.

Why not enjoy the fruits of our labor for a bit longer?

This issue is full of gift ideas throughout. From NolaBee Awareness Jammies to fine jewelry, we have you covered. Head to pages 18 and 48 for insight on the perfect dinner party in a box and cozy décor that will certainly have sugarplums dancing in your head.

Our shopping guru Amy Gabriel has done it again, curating a luxury gift guide for even the most discerning on your list. We’ve included unique and thoughtful gift ideas from shops around town that are sure to bring smiles to the loved ones on your lists.

For more than 20 years, Avenue has honored local activists for their tireless work helping our community, embodying a love for our city and citizens. This year’s Activists of the Year include Shannon McCloskey Able, Essence Banks, Mark Firmin, Bridgette Hamstead and Julie Schwam Harris. Learn more about their incredible efforts on page 23.

We wish you and yours a magical and healthy holiday season filled with joy. So, don’t wait to haul the decorations down from the attic and dust off the tinsel because you’re worried it’s too early. Give your family, friends and neighbors that extra dose of merriment by decking the halls as soon as you see fit.

ANDY MYER, EDITOR

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On the Cover Avenue's 2023 Activists of the Year Bridgette Hamstead, Julie Schwam Harris, Mark Firmin, Essence Banks and Shannon McCloskey Able.

For more than 20 years, Avenue has honored local activists for their tireless work helping our community. Learn more about their incredible efforts on page 23.

Photography by Theresa Cassange.

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ARTS CALENDAR

7-10, 14-17, 19-21 A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens in a New Adaptation by Patrick Barlow Marquette Theater at Loyola, 6363 St. Charles Ave., 504-323-4648, crescentcitystage.com The Crescent City Stage theater company brings a new take on the Dickens classic with this adaptation

by Patrick Barlow (writer of “The 39 Steps”). With a cast of five actors, this production explores the familiar holiday tale of redemption with new energy and imagination.

DECEMBER 1 Ilana Glazer The Civic Theatre, 510 O’Keefe Ave., 504-272-0865, civicnola.com

8-10, 15-17 New Orleans Jazz Nutcracker Marigny Opera House, 725 Saint Ferdinand St., 504-948-9998, marignyoperaballet.org

2 Artist Workshop: Watercolor Still Life with Diego Larguia Ogden Museum of Southern Art, 925 Camp St., 504-539-9650, ogdenmuseum.org

9 John Mulaney Mahalia Jackson Theater for the Performing Arts, 1419 Basin St., 504525-1052, mahaliajacksontheater.com

2 Improvisations: The New Orleans Jazz Museum Gala New Orleans Jazz Museum, 400 Esplanade Ave., 504-568-6993, nolajazzmuseum.org

15 New Orleans Music Fridays: Meryl Zimmerman Christmas Show New Orleans Jazz Museum, 400 Esplanade Ave., 504-568-6993, nolajazzmuseum.org

8 LPO Classical Christmas: Handel Messiah The Orpheum Theater, 129 Roosevelt Way, 504-274-4871, orpheumnola.net

15 New Orleans Ballet Theater: The Nutcracker The Orpheum Theater, 129 Roosevelt Way, 504-274-4871, nobt.org

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27 Mannheim Steamroller Christmas Saenger Theatre, 1111 Canal St., 504-525-1052, saengernola.com

20-21 The Skivvies: Best in Snow Le Petit Théâtre, 616 St. Peter St., 504-522-2081, lepetittheatre.com

29 Little Feat: Rollin Into ’24 Tour The Joy Theater, 1200 Canal St., 504-766-8051, thejoytheater.com

20 An Evening with Gregory Porter: 2023 Holiday Tour Saenger Theatre, 1111 Canal St., 504-525-1052, saengernola.com

30 Nutcracker! Magical Christmas Ballet Saenger Theatre, 1111 Canal St., 504-525-1052, saengernola.com

21 Lyrica Baroque: Winterreise Christ Church Cathedral, 2919 St. Charles Ave., lyricabaroque.com 22-23 Candlelight: Holiday Special Featuring “The Nutcracker” and More The Sazerac House, 101 Magazine St., feverup.com

JANUARY 2024 _________________ 3 Bach at the New Marigny LPO, New Marigny Theatre, 2301 Marais St., lpomusic.com 9 My Fair Lady Saenger Theatre, 1111 Canal St., 504-525-1052, saengernola.com

COMPILED BY REBECCA FRIEDMAN

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ON THE WEB

Shop Talk

Look for this and more every Wednesday in the Avenue newsletter.

What local finds should we feature next? Email shoptalk@myneworleans.com

Pinhook Bourbon + Alexa Pulitzer

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ean Josephs, New Orleans resident and founder/ master distiller of Pinhook Bourbon, believes the differences between artist and distiller are not particularly vast. In the whiskey world, an expression refers to each distinct version of whiskey created by the same producer. Think age, distillation process, barrel type etc. So, for Sean, blending the perfect whiskey, when given the proper attention, is as worthy an artform as anything else. To celebrate these parallels, Pinhook recently launched its Artist Series No. 3 Double-Blended Bourbon. This is the third vintage in the series, each showcasing artwork by a different artist. I got to chat with Sean briefly about all things whiskey and his recent Artist Series collaboration with renowned New Orleans artist Alexa Pulitzer.

Meet Penn, Shop Talk Blogger Penn larocci is a born and raised New Orleanian.

After graduating from Tulane University she lived in NYC for nine years working in sales and marketing at an investment bank.

When she missed New Orleans more than she could stand, she moved back home, met her husband and started a family. She's now raising two rambunctious little boys and spending her free time on environmental sustainability projects.

What sets Pinhook Bourbon apart? We craft distinctive bourbons and ryes each year with a vintage approach to whiskey. We prioritize careful barrel selection, small batch blending, and bottling at the proof to showcase the resulting whiskey’s character. As a former sommelier, I look at the process almost through a vintner’s lens. Each new vintage will be slightly different, as special as a unique piece of art or promising young thoroughbred.

Speaking of horses, what does Pinhook mean? Pinhooking is the practice of buying yearling horses, overseeing their breaking and training, and eventually re-selling them as race-ready animals. Much like this age-old equestrian practice, we vie to age, nurture, and mature our product as painstakingly as one would a future racing champion.

Tell us about the Alexa Pulitzer collaboration. At Pinhook, we take pride in both our modern and vintage approach to blending and bottle design. This contemporary take on tradition is also at the heart of Alexa’s work, as she uses many classic and historical images to tell a modern story.

In a recent press release Alexa commented, “Sean is always thinking outside of the box and finding new ways to create a unique whiskey, which is exactly what I wanted to capture; a blender who finds the beauty of art in the science of blending.” You can pick up a bottle at Elio’s, Martin’s, The Wine Seller and Keife’s, among others and pinhookbourbon.com.

Any holiday gift recommendations for cocktail lovers? From Pinhook, our Artist Series No. 3 Double-Blended Bourbon is my top recommendation, followed closely by our Vertical Series 8 Year Bourbon. I also love the bar tools and Bitter Cube bitters sold at Keife’s. And for something special, New Orleans-based Glassblower Ben creates beautiful rock glasses.

Last but not least, what’s your go-to holiday cocktail recipe? A palate awakening Boulevardier is a great aperitif. I mix 1 to 1 to 1; Pinhook Rye, Campari, Sweet vermouth (preferably Carpano Antica).

Try to prepare in advance and keep cool in the fridge. Then pour over the rocks with an orange peel skin side down and squeezed.

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AROUND TOWN

Parade, Holiday Style Santa Claus knows a good parade when he sees it, so of course he is returning to the city for a guest appearance on Dec. 2 in the Children’s Hospital New Orleans Holiday Parade, which rolls through the French Quarter and downtown, starting at 11 a.m. It’s the parade’s second year and organizers — including Kern Studios, Downtown Development District, among others — are presenting 25 holiday-themed floats, as well as more than a dozen dancing groups and marching bands. The after party, with support from Louisiana Feed Your Soul, is in Lafayette Square, 1 p.m.-3 p.m. with performances

by Maggie Koerner and Trombone Shorty with members of the Trombone Shorty Academy. There will be food and beverage for sale.

Nolaholidayparade.com; Instagram: @childrenshospitalnola, @dddneworleans

Happy Birthday, Professor Longhair!

Pianist, vocalist and composer Henry Roeland «Roy» Byrd, aka Professor Longhair or “Fess,” created many of the beloved songs that are part of the New Orleans soundtrack: “Tipitina,” “Going to the Mardi Gras” and “Jambalaya,” among others. On Dec. 16, the Friends of the Cabildo will be hosting the 106th Professor Longhair Birthday Show featuring Ivan Neville at the New Orleans Jazz Museum (400 Esplanade Ave., on the third floor). Reserving tickets ahead of time is recommended, FOC members: $50, general public: $65. Friendsofthecabildo.org; Instagram: @friendsofcabildo

Supernova’s Greenway Glow If you see lights on Greenway Plaza and Station during Dec. 7-9, aliens have not landed (well, maybe); it is another other-worldly experience: Supernova, Friends of Lafitte Greenway’s glowing, interactive, site-specific exhibition. Ten illuminated art installations by local artists creatively meld light and sound to produce an immersive tableau for attendees, local — or perhaps, from outer space. Additional performances by musicians add to the ambiance, and there will be food and beverage for sale.

While the event is free, a preview party/benefit is on Dec. 6.

Greenway Plaza and Station is where the Lafitte Greenway meets Bayou St. John. Lafittegreenway. org/supernova; Instagram: @lafittegreenway

’Tis the Season

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festive French Quarter home tour and caroling in the Jackson Square, say no more, we’re in!

Patio Planters of the Vieux Carré’s Holiday Home Tour, Dec. 17, Noon - 4 p.m., is a self-guided walking tour featuring seven French Quarter homes decorated for the season. Reserve your tickets now as there are a limited amount. Tickets are $35 online and $40 the day of the event.

The home tour also raises funds so the Patio Planters can host the caroling in Jackson Square (which it has been doing since 1946) on Dec. 17, 7 p.m.-8 p.m. and is free. (Gates open at 6:30 p.m.) Patio Planters members will distribute a complimentary song book and candles.

Patioplanters.net; @patioplantersvieuxcarre – By Sue Strachan

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Do you have anything you would like to see highlighted?

Email information to: aroundtown@myneworleans.com

Dew Drop Inn Returns From 1939 to the late 1960s, the Dew Drop Inn (2836 LaSalle St.) hosted some of the most iconic Black musicians, including Aretha Franklin, Marvin Gaye, Allen Toussaint and Irma Thomas, among others who performed and stayed there. The venue closed in 1972 and Hurricane Katrina displaced its last tenants, leaving the building empty until now, when the Dew Drop Inn’s swagger returns this winter. Real estate developer and New Orleans native Curtis Doucette Jr. has guided the restoration of this important landmark: The hotel’s 17 guest rooms (including three suites), will reflect the building’s history, with each room paying homage to a musical or cultural icon who helped shape the Dew Drop Inn. There will also be 400-plus person venue featuring musical performances.

Dewdropinnnola.com; Instagram: @dewdropinnnola

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FASHION

December, Darling

By Amy Gabriel

Ring in a sparkling celebration with the Tacori RoyalT eternity band collection in ruby and diamond, set in 18K rose gold.

Boudreaux’s Jewelers, 701 Metairie Rd., 504-831-2602, boudreauxsjewelers.com.

Wouldn’t it be lovely to be draped in an infinity diamond curb chain as the clock strikes midnight? This 4mm necklace has over 935 diamonds and is available in rose, yellow or white gold. Porter Lyons, 623 Royal St., 800-585-0348, porterlyons.com.

Raise a glass of bubbly with a wrist encircled in a 14K yellow gold round diamond paperclip link bracelet 7”.

Aucoin Hart Jewelers, 1525 Metairie Rd., 504-8349999, aucoinhart.com.

A holiday engagement calls for a stunning 14K rose gold, 2.35ct pear-shaped Morganite ring surrounded with a 0.40ct diamond halo. Symmetry Jewelers, 504-861-9925, symmetryjewelers.com.

Make merry in a pair of emerald cut diamond earrings that will catch the light just right. Wellington & Company Fine Jewelry, 505 Royal St., 504-525-4855, store.wcjewelry.com.

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DESIGN

Sweet Dreams for Children’s Health Summer McCune, Founder, NolaBee Awareness Jammies

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or Summer McCune and daughter Adler, a lot of long nights fueled the idea for NolaBee Awareness Jammies. Adler suffered from Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) as an infant, and McCune relied on ‘dream feedings’ – feeding Adler when she was asleep – to give her the nutrition she needed to survive. The experience weighed on McCune, a former art teacher who left her job to care for Adler and her two older brothers.

She recalls feeling isolated and depressed during the months before receiving a diagnosis for Adler’s relatively uncommon condition and resources to help her start eating willingly (Adler is now almost 2 – and thriving).

“I decided when I was painting, I was going to tell her story and raise awareness,” said McCune. “If anyone is going through what I am, I want to be there for them.”

McCune decided to make pajamas as a nod to dream feeding. She created a line of soft, bamboo pj’s (Safe Sleep-certified) with a hand-painted pattern referencing Adler’s story. Her design was inspired by “Five Little Speckled Frogs”

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(with NOLA flair), the song she sang to calm Adler during a hard refusal.

Then McCune decided: “If I’m going to do this for Adler, why not open it to other children who are brave out there facing different diagnoses?” So, in late 2022, McCune began inviting other families to share their children’s stories, creating new lines and patterns around those children and their diagnoses, which now include more than a dozen collections – and counting. The pajamas run from infant through adult size 3x, with a portion of proceeds donated to Children’s Hospital New Orleans, and each comes with a curated story list related to the pattern or diagnosis.

Currently, more than 100 kids are on the waitlist to be represented. “I want to start knocking off that list and give children the spotlight they deserve,” said McCune. She also hopes Awareness Jammies reach families who don’t have a child with special needs. “It’s about strangers befriending strangers, putting a face to a diagnosis. If parents are willing to take time and teach, the differences don’t stand out as much.” – By Rebecca Friedman

PHOTO BY SARA ESSEX BRADLEY

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WHAT'S HOT

Home for the Holidays

By Amy Gabriel

Give your holiday tablescape a whimsical touch with a set of stoneware salad plates from the Nostalgic Christmas Dinnerware Collection. The set of 4 is beautifully illustrated in fine detail with glazed decal artwork featuring 4 different depictions.

Pottery Barn, Lakeside Shopping Center, 3301 Veterans Memorial Blvd., 504-219-0168, potterybarn.com.

Start a celebratory brunch with a pop, fizz, clink and keep the bubbly on ice in a polished aluminum Cuvee de Prestige champagne bucket. 18” x 12.5”. Alice and Amelia, 4432 Magazine St., 504-502-6206, shopaliceandamelia.com.

Give guests an aromatic experience when they first set foot into the foyer by lighting Niven Morgan’s Winter Fig candle. Encased in a spirited red glass holder, the enveloping aroma features an herbaceous blend of fresh fig, clove and fern needle. Little Miss Muffin, 766 Harrison Ave., 504-482-8200, shoplittlemissmuffin.com.

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Add a delightfully sweet touch to the festivities by outfitting the dessert table with a handpainted stoneware house cookie jar, complete with gold electroplating from Creative Co-Op. Hazelnut, 5525 Magazine St., 504-891-2424, hazelnutneworleans.com.

A set of white cotton pine tree napkins from Henry Handwork (henryhandwork.com) will take you from canapes to cocktail hour. The hand embroidered classic hemstitch adds a darling detail to each. Maisonette Shop, 2727 Prytania St., Ste. 13, 504-437-1850, maisonetteshop.com.

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CHANGE MAKERS

Colonel Christopher Schlafer USMC (Ret) Commandant New Orleans Military and Maritime Academy

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or t hree decades, Chr is S c h l a f e r w a s a l l U. S .

Marine. He served around the globe, completed three combat tours, and commanded a Marine Securit y Guard based in the Middle East. In 2008, he was named Assistant Chief of Staff for Communications and Information Technology at the Marine Reserve Headquarters in New Orleans.

It wa s quite a ca reer for t he young ma n who enlisted out of Long Island, New York. Along with his tea m, he wa s cha rged w it h maintaining phone and data communications while relocating the USMC Reserve Headquarters into Federa l Cit y w it hin t he histor ic neighborhood of Algiers.

Colonel Sch la fer had no idea that the community of New Orleans did not intend to let him go anytime soon. He retired from his active-duty career as Chief of Staff for the U.S. Marine Corps Forces Special Operations Command in 2015 and had a decision to make about where to relocate his career and family.

A General he had worked with previously reached out to Colonel Schlafer about taking over at the New Orleans Military and Maritime Academy (NOMMA). He had recently been certified as a JROTC Senior Marine Instructor, and Colonel Schlafer had an interest in teaching.

“New Orlea ns is such a spe cia l place, a nd t his progra m at

NOMMA is specially dedicated to involves rigorous academics, physt he yout h of t his area,” he said. ical fitness training, and commuColonel Schlafer took the reins at nity service. So, it is truly inspirNOMMA in September 2015. ing to be present and shake their The New Orleans Militar y and hand as they walk across the gradMa r it i me Ac ademy op ene d it s uation stage.” doors in 2011 as a Type 2 public Over the past decade, the school ch a r ter s cho ol to has expanded to inser ve a l l pa r ishes clude grades eight w it hin t he New t hrough t welve, Orleans Metropolia nd it is home to tan area. It remains over 900 cadet s. the only public high The NOMMA team We have endured school in Louisiana recently announced what has likely where every student a n expa nsion of been the most becomes a cadet in its footpr int w it hchallenging time in the Junior Reser ve in Federa l Cit y to the recent history of O f f icer s Tr a i n i ng accommodate its education during the Corps (JROTC). The grow ing sta f f a nd pandemic, and we school started with s t u d e n t b o d y, a s have come out the ju s t ove r 10 0 9 t h well as its spor ts, other side of it even grade cadets. music, academ ic stronger."

Under his leaderenr ichment, a nd ship, the school has training programs. bu i lt s t rong rel aThe NOMMA expant ionships w it h t he sion is t he largest lo c a l c om mu n it y, development withi nclud i ng t he A lg iers Develop - in Federal City in nearly 10 years. ment District, as well as New Orle“I want NOMMA to continue to a ns-a rea educat iona l a nd busi- grow into a city, state, and nationally ness organizat ions, such as Pro recognized educational institution,” Bono Publico. As Commandant, said the Colonel of his long-range he a ns wers to NOMM A’s Boa rd plans. He has helped the school creof Directors, chaired by Retired ate its Master Plan, which includes USMC Colonel Terry Ebbert. new building construction and reno“Our graduates are my biggest vation of existing historic structures success,” sa id Colonel Schla fer. on its campus.

“They go t hrough a cha llenging Today, NOMMA is a top-rated, f ive-year educat ion and charac- open-enrollment public char ter ter de velopment prog r a m t h at high school serving all metro-area

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parishes. It has been designated a Naval Honor School due to its superior performance in the MCJROTC program. Colonel Schlafer works w it h his sta f f, led by P r incipa l Alexis Long, to ensure strong mentoring and instructional support to all cadets.

NOMMA offers bot h a college prepa rator y a nd a ca reer/technical education. Cadets can earn a TOPS Universit y or TOPS Tech Career diploma. They ca n complete honors courses, AP courses, CLEP testing, and dual enrollment courses, as well as take advantage of after-school tutoring, suppor t for diverse learners, and participation in its Class 4A sports teams.

At NOMMA, cadets are guided by a team of teachers and retired military instructors who bring unparalleled experience into the classrooms. “ We h ave endu red wh at h a s likely been the most challenging time in the recent history of education during the pandemic, and we have come out the other side of it even stronger,” said the Colonel. “I am very proud of the team we have built here at NOMMA, the genuine dedication and commitment of our faculty and staff, which includes c iv i l ia n s a nd a g reat g roup of U.S. Marine instructors. It is an entire team effort that has made NOMMA among the top-performing, open-enrollment schools in the greater New Orleans area.” –

By Lindsay Mack

PHOTO BY THERESA CASSAGNE

GET INVOLVED The NOMMA team is about to begin a multi-million-dollar fundraising effort to support a campus expansion project. “To be successful, we will need community support and advocacy,” said Colonel Schlafer. “We will need donors and donations, but we also need community members spreading the word about the great work the NOMMA team is doing and the positive impact it has on the Greater New Orleans area.” Interested donors are welcome to visit the NOMMA website or contact their staff for more details. In addition, prospective cadets interested in joining NOMMA are invited to attend an open house to learn more about the school and its many opportunities. nomma.net; 504-227-3810 info@nomma.net

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There is much to celebrate about New Orleans — the architecture, food, the overall spirit that makes us special — but even with that, there is still much to be done.

For the past 20-plus years Avenue’s Activists of the Year have embodied a love for the city that also includes the need to do right by it and its citizens.

This year’s honorees include: Shannon McCloskey Able, Essence Banks, Mark Firmin, Bridgette Hamstead and Julie Schwam Harris.

Their interests are diverse: literacy, health care, neurodiversity and grassroots politics.

All are united in doing the best for New Orleans.

Written by Sue Strachan Photographed by Theresa Cassange

Shannon

McCloskey Able When COVID-19 hit, STAIR (Start the Adventure in Reading) Executive Director Shannon McCloskey Able and her staff took action to keep this program going.

Able’s philosophy with her community work — and in this challenging situation – was, “I don’t see obstacles. I see opportunities. There is always another way of accomplishing something. We just have to be willing to help and to try.”

STAIR (stairnola.org) has been providing one-on-one literacy tutoring for 2nd and 3rd grade students in the greater New Orleans area since 1985.

The group’s mission is to improve the reading skills and self-esteem of lower elementary students.

During the pandemic, STAIR revamped its curriculum and pivoted to virtual tutoring.

“We delivered books to homes.

We provided recorded read-out-loud videos and prepared literacy packets for students,” says Able. “We found ways to continue providing support to our students,” she adds.

These included new programming such as STAIR Adventures, which are reading field trips; STAIR Impact, quarterly sessions to support guardians and parent; and Read for Joy, one-on-one reading buddies to complete literacy-related activities.

Able shared a transformational success story about a STAIR parent who had no idea what to do and nowhere to turn about their son, who hated school and wouldn’t touch a book.

“A teacher suggested STAIR and she enrolled her son. After hours of tutoring one-on-one with an adult, he is now reading on grade level,” Able says. “He is excited to go to school and raises his hand to read aloud in class. The mom gave me the biggest hug. I cried. I will never forget the feeling,” says Able. “When your child is struggling, you feel it in

every part of your body. She knew her child couldn't be successful in life if he couldn’t read.”

Part of the STAIR program now includes students keeping every book they read since many of them don’t have home libraries.

“When handing out materials at the beginning of a semester — a large white box of books, workbooks and school supplies — a mother asked when she needed to return the materials. I explained that STAIR was investing in her child.

This was a gift. Nothing needed to be returned,” says Able.

“The tears flowed down her cheeks. She said, ‘We don’t have any books in our home. This is amazing.’ When she got home, she texted me a picture of her child holding all the books and smiling.”

Growing up in New Orleans, Able was surrounded by “family members who volunteered their time in various ways and led local businesses and nonprofit organizations.”

Her mother was a member of the Junior League of New Orleans (JLNO) and president of the Isidore Newman School Parents Association and is now its school’s archivist; her father was president of the Carrollton Boosters.

Years later, Able herself would become active in the JLNO, and her husband, Patrick Able, would serve on the Carrollton Boosters board.

Their three children — Sydney, Madison and P.J. — have enjoyed soccer, flag football, softball and baseball at Carrollton Boosters at The Fly. Able also credits her years attending Newman, which “was training me for volunteerism through leadership, caring for your community, and cultivating relationships,” she says.

She continued volunteering when she attended University of Georgia, from which she graduated with a

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Bachelor of Arts in Journalism, Public Relations and a focus in Business Management. After graduation she worked in Atlanta and continued to volunteer for organizations.

Every child

should have the chance to thrive and that starts with building a solid literacy

foundation to

propel future success”

But the lure of New Orleans couldn’t keep Able and her husband away and they returned just before Hurricane Katrina.

“It was gut-wrenching and yet I saw the best in people and how many people who didn’t live here loved and treasured our city,” she says. “I thought to myself, if people who didn’t live here could help us, I could do more too.”

In addition to STAIR, Able dedicated herself to the JLNO. “I will always support JLNO because I believe in empowering women and I was so honored to work alongside the remarkable group of JLNO women — working professionals, business owners, and moms giving so generously of their time and talent.”

She also is a supporter of the American Cancer Society and other cancer fighting organizations.

“Giving back and helping make our community a better place has always been important to me,” she says. “And, as a mother of three, I want my children to see the positive impact that one person can make.”

Able also believes that by working together “we can accomplish more and solve the issues facing our city.

It takes faith-based, small and large nonprofits in every facet of life. We just all have to be willing to help — everyone has something to give [be it] time, talent or treasure.”

Able says her hometown New Orleans is unique in so many wonderful ways, with its culture, landscape, cuisine and people.

“New Orleans and its people have given me more than I can ever give back. I will continue to do what I can to make New Orleans better for all of us,” she says. “There are so many good people doing great things, I know I can do more,” she adds.

In November, she resigned from STAIR because she became COO of RCC Flooring, a commercial flooring company her and her husband purchased.

STAIR will still be in her heart.

“My ultimate goal is to continue giving back to our city and maybe someday have a foundation that will allow me to contribute more to our community,” says Able, who will remain as an advisor to STAIR. “I believe that every child should have the chance to thrive and that starts with building a solid literacy foundation to propel future success,” says Able.

“Helping even one child is important. STAIR has helped almost 10,000.

It is not about the vast number of children that STAIR has helped. It is about the individual child. The child that now has confidence, the foundation for educational success, and the hope for a brighter future.”

Essence Banks Essence Banks is entering her 20th year as a heart disease survivor and her 10th year as the head of Heart N Hands (heartnhands.org), an organization that educates girls ages 10-18 about heart health and heart disease prevention.

In 2004, Banks found out at the age of 30 that she had coronary artery disease diagnosis requiring three emergency stents.

And while her family had heart disease risk factors, “No one had what I did,” she says. Coronary artery disease is caused by plaque buildup in the wall of the arteries that supply blood to the heart.

While she was in the hospital recovering, Banks promised her mother that she would overcome heart disease and devote herself to bringing awareness about it to young women.

When she got home, she Googled women with heart disease, learning that it was the number 1 killer of women and decided to tell her story to the American Heart Association.

“They read my story and I became an instant spokeswoman,” says Banks, who was featured at a number of AHA events.

In 2008, she became involved with WomenHeart, which is a national patient-centered organization dedicated to serving women with heart disease. She applied to and got into the conference it holds at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota, where she was joined by those who were living and survivors of heart disease. They learned about heart health and the disease, and listened to the top specialists in the field.

Ultimately, they learned the “tools to go out in your community to spread the word,” she says.

Before starting Heart N Hands, Banks was an Alvin Ailey dancer in Brooklyn, N.Y. She returned to New Orleans, where she started her career at Entergy, then moved into hospitality as part of Starwood Hotels & Resorts’ executive team and eventually to Marriott’s Corporate Global Quality Division for Luxury Brands. Most recently she was part of the opening team of the Four Seasons New Orleans Hotel.

Her focus is now committed to her philanthropy efforts with Heart N Hands.

“Eighty-percent is preventable,” Banks says about issues arising from heart disease.

In founding Heart N Hands she saw “the need for awareness and education in our community and believe turning my heart story into a success story is the way to inform others about cardiovascular disease and the impact it has on our community as a whole,” says Banks.

“I want to share my story and message with as many women and girls as possible to create stronger communities.”

Banks specifically picked that age group — girls 10-18. It was to educate women at an early enough a g e to d e c r e a s e t h e n u m b e r of women with heart disease, calling these young ladies the soon to be “CEOs of the family.

If you raise awareness during this age, when they are older or become caregivers of the family, the y can make heart-healthy

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who she proudly watches find ways to get involved. story into a success “They have also been part of the story is the way to growth of Heart N inform others about Hands,” she adds.

Banks is as a cardiovascular current a member of the American disease and the Heart Association impact it has on our Circle of Red, board member of community as a whole.

Friends of Lafitte Greenway, past I want to share my board member of story and message Dress for Success, past board member with as many women for Emerging Philanthropists of and girls as possible New Orleans and to create stronger was the past treasurer for Luke’s communities.”

House Clinic.

Banks is married to Nicoye Banks. She is decisions. They are equipped to a graduate of McDonogh #35 create generational health.”

High School, received a Bachelor Giving back has been a family of Arts from Loyola University tradition since she was a child New Orleans and an MBA from living in the Lower Ninth Ward.

University of New Orleans.

“I watched my family, espeWhat keeps her in New cially my grandmothers and aunt, Orleans? “It’s the CULTURE for give back to the community as me, I love NOLA — the best city members of the community and in the world. NOLA has so much not necessarily involved with orga- culture, great food — the best, nizations — it was truly from the flavors, so colorful. I love how we kindness of their hearts that they move, how we dance to the beat of gave to those who didn’t have,” our own drum and just love life. she says.

It’s all about the people,” she says.

“They would give food, time, talent, And, the success of Heart N Hands, clothing and more in the community she says, has exceeded her wildest wherever they saw the need.” dreams, “and making a true impact This generosity continues with in the community — educating and Banks’ sons, Jaden and Conner, reaching over 6,500 girls.”

Turning my heart

Mark Firmin Mark Firmin had been working as at Archbishop Rummel High School, where he had graduated from, when after 22 years, he took the position to be the executive director of Angels’ Place (angelsplacenola.org).

Firmin had been a math teacher at Rummel and helped students do ser v ice projects, something that had been spu r red a f ter h is f i r s t ye a r teaching at the school when, “I went to help raise money for a student who had a car wash and was raising money for a bone marrow transplant. After a few hours, I realized how much I enjoyed it.”

It led to him starting a service organization, Operation HeadStart, which allowed students to help different marginalized populations in the local area.

One of those organizations was A ngels’ Place, which provides respite service for the fa milies of children who a re seriously ill.

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by Anita Gilford in 1997 after her youngest son was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma.

While he was ill, she found out that there were few places her family could turn to ask for help.

She prayed to God to help her and her son, and if so, she would do something in return. Her son won his fight against cancer and Gilford fulfilled her promise and created Angels’ Place.

W hen Fir min lef t Ru mmel to become executive director of A ngels’ Place, the school’s alumni started asking him why he was leaving.

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We are looking for donors to adopt a child or a family and

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I am not sure who will.”

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was going to help children with life threatening diseases and their families, it went from why are you leaving to what do you need,” he says.

“I talk to several alumni each week,” he notes. “All those relationships, including all of the supporters at Angels’ Place, help me continue this work. I could not do it without all of them.”

A n gels ’ Place is c u r rent ly getting ready to bring Christmas to 80 children and their families. “ We are looking for donors to adopt a child or a family and secure the requested gifts from our kids’ “wish-list,” he says. “If we do not bring them Christmas, I am not sure who will.”

The distribution happens in the first part of December so the parents can have gifts and plan for Christmas morning.

Firmin admits he gets nervous that a child will not get what they want for Christmas or even have no Christmas morning. “ We a lways seem to get it done,” says Firmin. “It is really so heartwarming when we put out the request for Christmas and former students, friends, supporters and community have your back.”

F i r m i n a nd h is c re w a lso deliver gifts with Santa Claus and elves on Christmas Eve morning

to Magnolia Communit y Services’ special needs adults who do not have any family.

“I have been doing that for over 15 years. It is fun and they really appreciate it,” says Firmin.

In addition to his work at Angels’ Place, Firmin is an adjunct instructor in the Mathematics department at Loyola University. He graduated from University of New Orleans with a Bachelor of Science in Mathematics, Master of Science in Statistics/Mathematics and a Master of Science in Math Education Curriculum and Instruction.

B or n i n Ne w Orlea ns a nd raised in Metairie, he “could live off red beans, po-boys, beignets, Hubig pies and gumbo,” despite not eating seafood. He loves the personality of the city and the resilience of the people.

Firmin is a dedicated believer in giving back, as is his wife, C her ie, w ho he c a l ls “ M r s .

Angels’ Place.”

“I can give you all the cliché reasons like treat others like you want to be treated and everyone should pitch in and help,” he says. “I think the most important thing is that it is fun and a great feeling to reach out.

Also, the gratitude that they give you back is just awesome. They appreciate your efforts.”

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Bridgette Hamstead Bridgette Hamstead says she “embarked on the path of activism driven by personal experiences as someone with autism and ADHD, growing up in a society that often misunderstood and stigmatized these neurodivergent traits.”

Hamstead is the founding director of Fish in a Tree (fishinatreenola.org,) an organization dedicated to supporting and championing neurodiversity in New Orleans and surrounding areas.

“This organization holds a deeply personal significance for me,” Hamstead says. “As the founding director, Fish in a Tree represents my commitment to creating a community that fosters understanding, acceptance and celebration of neurodivergent individuals.”

Hamstead went on to explain that the name Fish in a Tree was inspired by the idea that if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing there is something wrong with it.

“The concept resonates deeply with me, reflecting the societal misunderstandings and misjudgments faced by neurodivergent individuals,” Hamstead says.

“It is a realization of the urgent need for change.”

Fish in a Tree provides a safe space, Hamstead says, where neurodivergent individuals feel empowered and supported. It also offers education and training to community stakeholders who share in the group’s heartfelt desire to make the environments in which people live, learn, work and play truly accessible and inclusive for all.

On such example is when Hamstead was asked to be the neurodiversity consultant for Le Petit Théâtre's production of “The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time.”

“This opportunity allowed me to advise the production team, cast and crew, on authentically representing

autism in the stage performance and creating neuro-accessible and neuro-inclusive showings,” Hampstead says.

During one performance tailored for the neurodiverse community, Hamstead implemented specific accommodations, which included adjusting lighting and sound to providing clear signage and social stories and ensuring a supportive environment for neurodivergent audience members.

“The feedback I received from the attendees was incredibly moving.

Many expressed astonishment at the accommodations provided, as it was a novel experience for them,” Hamstead says. “They shared a sense of feeling seen and heard, which they hadn't previously encountered in a theatrical setting.” Hamstead adds that, “For many, it was a stark departure from the typical portrayals often seen in mainstream media — typically caricatured or stereotyped representations.”

One of those in the audience included Hamstead’s daughter, who told her mother she didn't know people would come to a show about a person like her, who is neurodivergent. “That solidified my commitment to neurodiversity advocacy,” Hamstead says.

Inspired by the show, Hamstead’s daughter is currently writing a screenplay that features neurodivergent characters for her NOCCA application where she hopes to study film.

Hamstead was born and raised in Baton Rouge, but now calls New Orleans home, with husband Seth Hamstead, their daughter Brax, and her stepdaughters (and his daughters) Talbot and Arden.

Hamstead received a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Kansas State University and Master of Science in Human Development and Family Science from Oklahoma State University.

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acceptance, and accommodation for neurodivergent community spirit individuals across various spheres reflects the kind of of society,” says inclusive environment Hamstead, who is also a member we aspire to create of the LGBTQIA+ community. for neurodivergent “It's not just individualș where about my family or me; it's about differences are not ensuring a world just accepted but where everyone can thrive, where cherished.” differences are celebrated, and where policies, education, healthcare, and nity Advisory Committee for the Loui- workplaces are more inclusive and siana Children’s Museum and the New accommodating to all forms of Orleans Public Schools Superinten- human diversity.”

The aim is to shift the focus away dent’s Community Advisory Council.

Before founding Fish in a Tree, from changing neurodiverse individHamstead was the program director uals to fit a predetermined mold.

“By providing neurodiversity o f t h e C o m p u t i n g f o r Yo u t h with Autism Program, where she education, advocating for policy specialized in securing education, changes, and collaborating with training, support and employment various stakeholders, I aim to foster for autistic young adults in comput- an environment where neurodiverer-related careers in the tech gent individuals are not just included industry in New Orleans. Hamstead but embraced for their unique also worked as a vocational reha- strengths,” she says. “The signifibilitation Counselor for Louisiana cance of this work extends beyond the immediate community; it influRehabilitation Services.

Hamstead notes the unique charm ences the broader societal perspecof New Orleans is rooted in its rich tive on diversity and inclusion.”

Hamstead explains that research history of celebrating differences.

“It's a place where differences consistently demonstrates the value are not just tolerated but cele- of neurodiversity and the importance brated, reflecting a long history of of embracing it, adding that neurodiembracing diversity,” Hamstead versity is an intrinsic aspect of human says, adding “Ne w O rleans's variation, and yet, societal structures community spirit reflects the kind have historically disregarded or of inclusive environment we aspire misunderstood these differences.

“Giving back to the community to create for neurodivergent individuals, where differences are not just allows me to actively contribute accepted but cherished. My activism to c h a n g i n g t h i s n a r r a t i v e , ” seeks to promote understanding, Hamstead says.

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Julie Schwam Harris Children, women and families have an advocate in Julie Schwam Harris.

She concentrated for years on addressing economic and environmental concerns, as well as racial injustice. She is spending “a lot of time keeping people informed on a wide range of issues and actions.”

Economic security is a major focal point.

“I have focused for a long time on aspects of economic security,” she said, citing for examples, trying to pass a meaningful law to enforce equal pay by stopping retaliation for talking about wages and raise the minimum wage statewide [in Louisiana].

tioning democracy,” she says.

“The more we can get people aware of what is happening at the state legislative level and to participate, the more people can get what surveys show they want.”

Harris says the basis of democracy is an informed electorate that participates in choosing leaders and working with them to make good decisions for the benefit of all.

“Many of the things I work on are supported by the majority of people when polled, but gerrymandering and an imbalance of money spent to protect the interests of certain powerful people have skewed the policies we live under.”

We have many troubles and

challenges but I still have hope

that our diversity may one day get us to a better place.”

She has recently spent more time on the push to get state and local investment in childcare and early education for “the multiple benefits it brings to children, families and society as a whole,” Harris says.

“I have also been focused on educating people about the benefits of establishing a statewide paid family and medical leave program through employer/employee contributions,” she adds.

Another focus is state-level politics overall and how it affects New Orleans.

“Grassroots advocacy at the state level is a crucial part of func-

Harris notes Louisiana and a few other states have particularly bad outcomes for the majority of its people.

“If I know this, I have a responsibility to act on it,” she says.

Through the years Harris tackled a number of issues, among them raising the minimum wage for New Orleans city employees and contractors; funding childcare seats that help to lower the waiting list of qualified families that need help; and trying to make the criminal justice system less racist and more about prevention and safety.

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itself from state constraints that pre-empt its power to make structural changes for itself,” says Harris.

Harris is currently a part-time advisor/consultant to a philanthropic foundation from out of state. She listed a few key coalitions that include organizations she supports financially and gives time to as a volunteer advocate.

“The problems in Louisiana are so big, keeping us at the bottom of good lists and top of bad. These lists contain a broad spectrum of organizations and dynamic leaders tackling many of the structural problems.”

These groups are: • The Louisiana Coalition for Reproductive Freedom (LCRF) works on reproductive justice. The fight for reproductive health is personal for Harris, and she says that Terri Bartlett, the founder and first director of Planned Parenthood in Louisiana, was an early mentor.

• Maternal and Child Health Coalition is trying to save lives of mothers and children, as Louisiana has among the highest maternal and infant mortality rates in the country with access to quality, respectful care.

• Geaux Far is a new coalition working on equitable access to childcare and early education so parents (women particularly) can work, children experience enriched environments and the business owners/ workers/teachers of these young children get the respect and earnings they deserve to thrive themselves.

• Power Coalition for Equity and Justice works on community and civic engagement.

Harris also helped organize the Legislative Agenda for Women c o a l i t i o n a n d G o v. Jo h n B e l Edwards appointed her the Louisiana Women’s Policy and Research Commission. She is a founding board member of Ellevate Loui-

siana, which connects and educates women leaders in the state on its challenges and the goal to develop date-driven, non-partisan solutions.

Harris worked for the city for 16 years, five post-Hurricane Katrina, with one of her bosses the former New Orleans Mayor Marc Morial, who she says was the “consummate political and moral leader.”

While working for Morial, he had her staff a task force on domestic violence in partnership with then Assistant City Attorney Terri Love (later a judge).

“Sadly, Louisiana is still one of the most dangerous states for women in terms of violence and homicide. There is much work still to do on the structural economic and gender underpinnings to that ranking and to establish more rational policies about access to guns,” she says.

This native of New Orleans — a valedictorian of Alcee Fortier High School, summa cum laude graduate of Newcomb College at Tulane University and recipient of a teaching certificate from University of New Orleans — loves the city, and in particular her family, “I have two wonderful sons with my husband of 46 years,” she says, as well as a beloved grandchild.

Harris also noted that she has an affinity for “Gumbo, figuratively and literally!”

“When I worked for Mayor Marc Morial, he talked often about the gumbo of people in the city – our diversity. We have many troubles and challenges but I still have hope that our diversity may one day get us to a better place,” she says.

“I adore edible gumbo too — particularly my sister’s seafood gumbo and my husband’s chicken and andouille gumbo. That African-derived stew symbolizes our diversity and tastes so good!”

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Luxe Holiday Gift Guides

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Each set includes 100 sticks handmade with fragrant and aromatic precious oils with notes of saffron, sandalwood, honey and spices. Saint Claude Social Club, 1933 Sophie Wright Place, 504-218-8987, saintclaudesocialclub.com.

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1 Beautify any bar cart with a set of gems champagne/cocktail glasses from LSA International. The four amber-hued, textured glasses are painted by hand in assorted tonal lusters to add a special touch to pours of holiday bubbly. Hilltop Shoppe, 3714 Magazine St., 504-5339670, hilltopshoppe.com.

2 Coffee connoisseurs will up their at-home café with the Bodum BISTRO Burr Grinder that allows you to seamlessly go from espresso to French press. Current Crop Roasting Shop, 3931 Magazine St., 504-571-5129, currentcroproasting.com.

3 For the caviar lover, a divine mother of pearl caviar dish with silver edge and wooden handle and mother of pearl spoon. cajuncaviar.com.

4 Charcuterie boards are a mainstay of any hostess, which makes a polished solid marble tray with a cheese knife in a velvet pouch from Two’s Company service with a style. Jade, 324 Metairie Rd., 504-8754420, jade.shoplightspeed.com.

6 For the entertainer who loves an artistic twist, the Muses ice bucket makes for a fun beverage chiller. Hazelnut, 5525 Magazine St., 504-891-2424, hazelnutneworleans.com.

7 For the pal who invites you over for pool parties, make a splash with a luxe lie-on swim float shaped like a bottle of French perfume from SUNNYLiFE. Sparkle & Swag, 508 Metairie Rd.; 634 Orange St., Ste. B., 504-510-5838, sparkleandswag.com.

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Athleisure Lover

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1 From daily stress management to on-wrist guided breathing sessions, the soft gold white Luxe Fitbit SmartWatch and coordinated app has you covered. bkstr.com.

3 Hit your 10,000 steps in style in a pair of on-the-go gold knit Dolen sneakers by Dolce Vita. Lucy Rose, 3318 Magazine St., 504-895-0444; 600 Metairie Rd., 504-2187368, shoplucyrose.com.

2 Ideal for a quick zip on the run is the renewable, packable puffer vest.

Available in black and or coconut, this throw on is lightweight and made of 100% recycled polyamide. tasc New Orleans, 3913 Magazine St., 504-304-5030, tascperformance.com.

4 For the friend who loves to frequent meditation retreats, "The Beth" peach weekender bag is a must. The ultrastylish bag is made of durable high-grade waterproof fabric and has sturdy vegan leather handles and a comfortable shoulder strap. Ashley Lasseigne Designs, ashleylasseignedesigns.bigcartel.com.

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5 A set of bracelet hair ties from Maya J Jewelry will instantly uplevel a ponytail or braid. Double the delight and opt for matching wrist and hair ties. Phina, 425 Harrison Ave., 504-571-5169; 3717 Veterans Memorial Blvd.,504-8884141; 2561 Metairie Rd., 504-827-1605, phinashop.com.

6 Gift your favorite sun salutation partner a no-slip Manduka PROlite yoga mat available in a range of colors. Free To Be Power Yoga, 725 Magazine St., 504-3424310, freetobepoweryoga.com.

7 When dashing from the Pilates studio to a green juice lunch with girlfriends, the ecru cape coat from Billy Reid offers chic style with casual ease. Crafted in Italy from brushed wool, this versatile must have can be dressed up or down. Billy Reid, 3927 Magazine St., 504-208-1200, billyreid.com.

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1 Herbal enthusiasts will appreciate a limited edition “Ya Herb Me?” large felt pennant, custom made for Southern Rhoades by Oxford Pennant. Southern Rhoades, 4200 Burgundy St., 504-766-7174, southernrhoades.com.

2 Create a spa in the sanctuary of your abode with Gleaux Balm, a moisture body balm made with invigorating Buriti fruit oil from the Buriti tree, aka the Life Tree. Freedom Apothecary, 1900 Magazine St., 504-381-5920, freedomapothecary.com.

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4 Cozy personified, a pair of shearling slippers, handmade in Turkey, are the perfect “pad around the house” essential.

Baldiz, shopbaldiz.com.

5 Nothing says at-home meditation like a Nanna Ditzel Nanny Rocking Chair. Made from rattan, this relaxing rocker evokes femininity, fluidity and movement.

Sunday Shop, 2025 Magazine St., 504-342-2087, sundayshop.co.

6 The clawfoot tub set will love the New Moon Bath Soak by Ollie Blossom. Featuring a mix of charged dead sea salts and essential oils, the soothing powder room staple also comes with a small piece of paper to write an intention on that will dissolve in the bath. The Collective Shop, 3512 Magazine St., statementgoods.com.

7 Tea and toast while snuggled under the covers is the height of at home comfort. The breakfast in bed arrangement includes one-of-akind nude bowls and mugs, wooden spoons and a basket-style tray.

Voyage Living, voyage-living.com.

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1 Step up your guy’s shoe game with a pair of Zegna Triple Stitch sneakers. Available in offwhite, black and navy, the lowtop kicks feature the brand’s signature triple-crossed elastics that echo the hand-stitching of a tailored jacket. Rubensteins, 102 St Charles Ave., 504581-6666, rubensteinsneworleans.com.

2 For the sharpest man you know, a custom designed Mignon Faget Fleur de Lis cheese knife with polished hardwood, brass rivets and a premium steel blade. Mignon Faget, 3801 Magazine St., 504-891-2005; 3301 Veterans Memorial Blvd., 504-835-2244, mignonfaget.com.

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Judy at the Rink, 2727 Prytania St., 504891-7018, judyattherink.com.

4 For a night spent beneath the stars sitting fireside on the bayou, a Shovler Quilted Jacket by Barbour fits the mood. Diamond quilting and studded pocket details make for a classic outdoorsman look. Perlis, 6070 Magazine St., 504-895-8661; 1600 Decatur St., 504-523-6681, perlis.com.

5 Time will always be on his side with a Rue Canal watch with handsome elements like a streetcar dial, fleur de lis shield engraving and a small grain leather strap. Bourbon Watch Company, bourbonwatchcompany.com.

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7 A penchant for putting makes the Italianmade Pasotti golf ball handle umbrella a hole in one as a present. RYE 51, 333 Canal St., Ste. 219, 504-264-7788, rye51.com.

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1 Have some Crescent City style fun with a set of King Cake sidewalk chalk.

The washable chalk allows kiddos to create their sidewalk masterpieces anew with every play date. Nola Tawk, nolatawk.com.

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5 Encourage sky high fun with a Make Your Own Launcher Kit from Two’s Company. Choose from either an airplane, butterfly, hummingbird or spaceship, and then have your curious little one decorate and watch their creation take flight. Banbury Cross, banburycrosskids.com.

6 Flora to fauna over, a Pressed Flower Art Kit from Green Creativity invites your child to explore nature, collect petals a plenty, and then use the kit's 4-inch flower press to make cards, bookmarks and trinket boxes. Juju’s Boutique, 5519 Magazine St., 504-304-2737, jujuskidsboutique.com.

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The mini studio includes tools and instructions to make your own wearable tie-dye fashion.

Mignon Nola, 5414 Magazine St., 504-891-2374, mignonnola.com.

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PHILANTHROPIC EVENTS

SOCIETY 42 | Bridge House/Grace House Mr. Legs XXIII

43 | Contemporary Arts Center Petite Sweet Ball: A Ball For All

44 | Fidelity Bank White Linen Night

46 | Jewish Family Service of Greater

45 | Louisiana Museum Foundation

47 | Historic New Orleans Collection

Annual Meeting

New Orleans Platinum Jubilee

Bienville Circle Dinner

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PHILANTHROPIC EVENTS

Bridge House/Grace House Mr. Legs XXIII

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The men.

And not just any men. Men who donned costumes and fearlessly strode down the catwalk to the cheers of their many admirers.

Their purpose was to raise funds for Bridge House/Grace House, which offers no-cost, substance-use disorder treatment services and a safe place to recover.

Emcees Laura Buchtel and Mike Hoss expertly guided the event, which featured as contestants: newcomer, Matt Shine, and veterans: Tony Bertucci (second year), Jeffery Carlson (11th year), Steve Carnes (17th year), Ryan Haydel (fourth year), Travis Henthorn (eighth year), Chris Kazik (seventh year) and Michael Zarou (10th year).

Each was eligible in a variety of categories. And after much deliberation, the winners were chosen by celebrity judges Great Day Louisiana host Malik Mingo, WWL-TV anchor/reporter Whitney Miller, former contestant Roberto Espinoza and Vincent Giardina, president of the Oscar J. Tolmas Charitable Trust, which presented the event.

Those deemed the tops were: Best Performance: Steve Carnes; Best Costume: Tony Bertucci; Hairiest Legs: Jeffery Carlson; Skinniest Legs: Ryan Haydel; Rookie of the Year: Matt Shine and Fan Favorite: Chris Kazik Michael Zarou, who also won Sexiest Legs, was bestowed the Mr. Legs XXIII crown, which is given to the contestant who has raised the most money for the event.

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1. Ryan Haydel, Jeffrey Carlson, Matt Shine, Steve Carnes 2. Mike Hoss, Roberto Espinoza, Laura Buchtel 3. Vincent Giardina, Kevin Gardere 4. Tony Bertucci, Chris Kazik, Travis Henthorn, Michael Zarou 5. Malik Mingo, Whitney Miller, Rachael Boudreaux, Keith Boudreaux 6. Arlene Rome, Barbara Gaiennie

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Contemporary Arts Center Petite Sweet Ball: A Ball For All

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The idea for starting the event was to do something different to welcome new supporters to this multidisciplinary arts institution.

Guests dressed to impress in vibrant colors and ensembles. Better to enjoy the entertainment from DJs Dr. Romance and Mikey Offline and other fun interactive experiences.

Food was from Cody’s NOLA while the bars and liquor were donated by Hendrick’s Gin, which made a cucumber lemonade just for the event. According to sources, it was so frequently requested it is now a standard and was the most popular drink at Fidelity Bank White Linen Night on Aug. 5.

FUN FACT: The CAC is about to turn 50! Look out for a lot of celebrations, parties, exhibitions and changes as it prepares for the next 50 years.

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1. Dionna Thomas, Russ Roy, Alegra Roy, Chanté Ward 2. Wayne Clark, Freret Perkins 3. Alphonse Smith, Lasie Smith, Ashley Charbonnet, Dan Charbonnet 4. Nathalie Simon, Babette Rittenberg 5. Tiffany Langlinais, Jesse Wales, Ray Lowe 6. Claire Thriffiley, Allen Johnson

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hough some thermometers read 99 degrees on Aug. 5, there was no stopping the art-loving crowd from attending Fidelity Bank White Linen Night.

This artful block party, which takes over Julia Street and surrounding areas in the Arts District of New Orleans (ADNO), saw 20-plus galleries and arts institutions open their doors to showcase a variety of artists and genres.

In addition to the art there were culinary offerings from 10 food trucks, performances by Love Your Own Noise (LYON) + Primus Roman, DJ Mig and JetSet + Fùnke. There was an Arts District Scavenger Hunt provided by Let’s Roam App with a Grand Prize of a weekend in the Arts District and a giveaway interactive “Coloring Book Garden” and LUNA Fête 10th Anniversary teaser by Arts New Orleans — and a much-appreciated Cool Down Lounge. The After Party was at the CAC, where DJ Legatron Prime performed.

“White Linen Night has been part of the Arts District calendar for 29 years. We are grateful for our continued partnership with Fidelity Bank, as well as renewed relationships with our many other regular sponsors,” said Leslie-Claire Spillman, co-owner and director of Spillman | Blackwell Fine Art and president of the ADNO, the latter of which this event benefits.

Fidelity Bank also hosted a VIP part at the Renaissance Arts Hotel, which has a lobby adorned by sculpture, paintings and more by artists.

“Fidelity Bank is proud to once again support White Linen Night and the vibrant art district of New Orleans,” said Chris Ferris, president and CEO of Fidelity Bank. “We are committed to investing in the cultural and economic development of our community, and we believe that supporting local artists and businesses is essential to the continued growth and success of our city.”

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The gathering was a way for the foundation to thank donors and members, as well as note the growing board, changes in foundation staff and upcoming events.

Speeches were made by foundation President Ben Dupuy, Louisiana State Museum Curator of Visual Arts Cybele Gontar, Educational Director Sara Lowenburg and foundation Executive Director Kristin C. Shannon, who marked her first year in the role.

“In my first year as the new executive director, I’m humbled and grateful for the supportive membership community of this organization, as well as the leadership and support of our board President Ben Dupuy. This is an incredible board of directors, and we all whole heartedly believe in our mission to provide fundraising support to enable the Louisiana State Museum to provide stellar exhibits and educational programming to Louisiana residents and visitors,” Shannon said, who added there was much excitement for “Hunt Slonem: A Retrospective,” opening at the foundation’s Founders Ball V on Nov. 17. Gontar is the head curator for the exhibition, which is on view through Sept. 30, 2024 at The Cabildo.

The party, which was at Brennan’s, wasn’t all about official business, as guests were also enjoyed delicacies such as hand passed-crawfish cakes, crispy boudin balls, spinach and truffle grilled cheese, Jackson salad, seared Gulf fish Nancy and praline bread pudding.

FUN FACT: The foundation appointed three new board members Aulston Taylor, Mariah Bencik and Jeremy C. Corkern.

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1. Aulston Taylor, Benjamin A. Dupuy, Kristin C. Shannon, Mariah Bencik, Jeremy C. Corkern 2. Jane Scott Hodges, Martine Chaisson Linares, Sweet Dupuy 3. Mary L. Cavanaugh, Renee F. Carrere, Marjorie A. McKeithen 4.

Eugene A. Priestley, Murray A. Calhoun, Tommy Westervelt 5. Lloyd Shields, Laura Shields 6. Kat Edmundson, Catherine Whitney, Cybele Gontar

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Jewish Family Service of Greater New Orleans Platinum Jubilee

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ewish Family Service of Greater New Orleans hit a milestone this year: its 75th anniversary.

To mark this occasion, JFS hosted a brunch gala on June 25 at the Ritz-Carlton Hotel, “Decades of Service for the Decades Ahead: 75 Years of Jewish Family Service.”

JFS started after the Jewish Children’s Home closed in 1948. The organization was originally founded to help World War II refugees resettle in the U.S. Today, the agency offers a variety of services, regardless of religion, such as affordable counseling, holistic case management, free youth suicide prevention education, older adult services and more.

“Our 75th anniversary celebration was a very special event for our community. It offered us an opportunity to reflect on the past and make a commitment to the future,” said Executive Director Roselle M. Ungar, CFRE. In addition to Ungar’s opening remarks, Nancy Bissinger Timm did the Hamotzi, and Jefferson Parish and Orleans Parish councilpersons Jennifer Van Vracken and Joe Giarusso read proclamations from their respective parishes declaring June 25 as Jewish Family Service Day. Closing remarks were from board President Debbie Pesses.

Ungar also noted how the work of JFS, as well as its staff, board and volunteers were what made the agency make it to 75.

“It was a beautiful event that truly strengthens our commitment to our mission and the Jewish community,” she added.

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For the “future decade” there was a speculative poster for 2028 in which JFS board president was U.S. president, JFS executive director was prime minister of Israel, the New Orleans Saints won the Super Bowl, a new Tesla cost $504, and the Gulf of Mexico experienced a hurricane-free decade.

1. Stephen Sontheimer, Nancy Bissinger Timm, Billy Henry 2. Stanley Ungar, Roselle Ungar, Debbie Pesses, Leon Pesses 3. Shawna Jones, Joshua Rubenstein 4. Howard Green, Susan Green, Ellen Kessler, Stanley Kessler 5. Sally Marcus, Michelle Allen-Hart, Barbara Kaplinsky, Ellie Wainer 6. Deena Gerber, Jordan Lieberman, Ashley Merlin Gold

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Historic New Orleans Collection Bienville Circle Dinner

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he beautiful home of Mimi and Claude Schlesinger was the site on June 28 of the Historic New Orleans Collection’s thank-you dinner for Bienville Circle’s sponsorship of the exhibition, “American Democracy: A Great Leap of Faith.”

The exhibition, which was from the Smithsonian Institution Traveling Exhibition Service, takes a look at the evolution of American government, “of, by, and for the people.” It was on view through Oct. 8.

The Bienville Circle is the museum's highest donor level.

“Thanks to this group’s generosity, thousands of museum visitors, including local students and citizens as well as tourists to our city, were able to experience the Smithsonian’s stirring and thought-provoking lesson in liberty,” said Daniel Hammer, president and CEO of The Historic New Orleans Collection.

“It was an honor for The Historic New Orleans Collection to host this engaging journey through American history.”

Remarks were also made by HNOC Board Chair Bonnie Boyd and HNOC Board Member, Bienville Circle and Laussat Society Chair Lisa Wilson. The Schlesingers, in addition to being the night’s hosts, were the 2023 Bienville Circle honorary chairs.

Ralph Brennan Catering was the party food purveyor and music was performed by the Eric Merchant Band. The home was adorned with flowers from Arbor House.

FUN FACT: Every year, the Bienville Circle sponsors an exhibition at THNOC.

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EAT + DRINK

What We Ate In The Moveable Feast Jewel of The South Dinner Party Box: • Two starters: Eggs Royale with smoked trout roe, and perfect, tiny sprigs of fresh dill; and the most perfectly beautiful, delicate little Hakurei turnips with a squeeze-able packet of bone marrow and a little jar of smoked Maldon • Salad: Fresh endive, sealed slices of Granny Smith apple, toasted hazelnuts, and lemon vinaigrette • Entrée: Braised Short Rib Pie “Bourguignon” encased in a flakey crust to be served with an umami-rich short rib gravy • Side dish: Brit-style mushy peas to be topped with fried shallots and scallions • Dessert: Eccles cake served with a savory potted cheese of both Stilton and Pecorino • Optional add-on: Baked Camembert with roast fingerling potatoes, honey, cornichons, and slices of sturdy bread

Dinner Party in a Box Moveable Feast Conquers Holiday Entertaining and Gifting

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say this without reservation: Except for children, Moveable Feast is the perfect gift for anyone, (including yourself) anywhere, for any occaision. The nationwide subscription and a la carte service brings exclusive dinner parties (for 4, 8, or 12) from celebrated restaurants straight to the recipient’s door. Each feast requires thirty minutes or less of light prep and offers a multi-course, luxury menu from a different acclaimed American chef each month. The program launched in April with chef Nina Compton of Compere Lapin.

Full disclosure, in October, Moveable Feast sent me the Jewel of the South (JOTS) dinner party in a box to share with three others. JOTS is known for Chris Hannah’s peerless cocktail program and Chef Philip Whitmarsh’s British-style cuisine.

Right off we were excited by the beautiful sustainable packaging in the recyclable/reusable insulated

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box. Components were packaged in reusable stainless steel or glass containers, or compostable pouches, all of which were tucked carefully between reusable Nordic Ice packs to keep them cold. Everything was screamingly fresh and sustainably sourced through a collaborative kitchen in Napa, Ca., with access to top-notch seasonal and sustainably grown ingredients from farmers that employ sustainable, biodynamic, or organic growing methods.

A thoughtfully composed playlist to accompany prep time, the meal itself, and a long hang after was available for download or streaming on Spotify.

Instructions for preparing the meal were idiotproof and available in print, via YouTube videos, or via scannable QR codes. A detailed list of possible allergens in the box was included. A printed menu on cardstock was included for each dinner guest.

– By Jyl Benson

What We Drank Wine and cocktails are optional add-ons: • A premixed Pontchatoula Daiquiri

by Fassionola to which we added two ounces of our own rum per cocktail, gave it a shake, and topped each cocktail with the dried lime wheels for garnish (included) • 2020 Dr. H Thanisch Riesling Kabi nett worked with both the salad and the baked Camembert • 2021 Nottingham Cellars Mogambo Vineyard Syrah that paired with the short rib pie, gravy and mushy peas • 2007 Topaz Late Harvest Semillon that complemented with sweet spices and sultanas in the Eccles cake, while standing up to the rich potted cheese that accompanied it The Experts Moveable Feast was co-founded by restaurateur John Stubbs of New Orleans’ own Jewel of the South and Jon Sybert of Michelin-starred Tail Up Goat in Washington, D.C. What’s Next for Moveable Feast December 2023: Birdie G’s, Santa Monica January 2024: Dirt Candy, New York February 2024: Reverie, Washington D.C. March 2024: Ernest, San Francisco

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Ultra-Processed Foods Self- sabotage vs. Self-love

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elf-sabotage. It’s one of those things that can seem so easy to spot in others, yet so challenging to recognize in ourselves.

Our relationship with food – ultra-processed food, in particular – can be a significant contributor to self-sabotage, especially in times of stress when we’re tempted to turn to sweet treats or savory snacks to selfsoothe and unwind from the pressures of the day.

And we’re not alone. Study after study affirms that these ultra-processed foods, high in added sugars and refined carbohydrates, are contributing to our pervasive culture of self-sabotage.

These foods activate the pleasure circuits in our brains in much the same way as addictive drugs. But this feel-good sensation is only temporary, quickly giving way to a cascade of negativity, triggering a mind-boggling array of issues that many of us struggle with daily.

The list of physical consequences is lengthy, including but not limited to food cravings, overconsumption and weight gain, along with an elevated risk of obesity, diabetes, heart disease, hypertension, IBS, non-alcoholic fatty liver disease and even cancer.

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to stress. It’s a cyclical spiral of self-sabotage: We turn to ultra-processed food and drink when we’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed, and at the same time, these very products are worsening our anxiety and depression.

What makes a food ‘ultra-processed’?

The official definition of ultra-processed includes the description of foods that are ‘industrial formulations,’ often created in labs using flavor enhancers, colors and other additives. These foods are intentionally and specifically engineered by the food industry to be ‘hyper-palatable’ – meaning rich in sugar, refined carbs, fat and/or salt – and therefore also hyper-craveable. They’re unnaturally rewarding, triggering what can feel like an addiction to these foods.

An estimated 60 percent of the American diet is centered on ultra-processed foods, including sweets like cookies, cakes, chocolate and ice cream – also savory, like fried foods, chips, pizza, mac and cheese. We know these foods aren’t exactly healthful, but we crave them anyway.

And let’s be honest – the fact that added sugar and white processed carbs aren’t good for us isn’t exactly a revelation. We’ve heard the messaging for years. But sometimes simply knowing isn’t enough.

For many of us, there just hasn’t been enough to motivate us to truly make a lasting change. Instead, we keep doing the same thing, making the same choices.

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So what’s different now?

Understanding why we crave these foods, recognizing that they can actually exacerbate anxiety and depression – some of the very reasons that we’re turning to these foods in the first place – can help us to view them more objectively.

If the physical consequences of an ultra-processed diet aren’t enough, perhaps knowing that these foods can also have such a damaging effect on our mental wellbeing just might give us the motivation needed for lasting change.

It doesn’t have to be an all-or-nothing proposition; it can be a gradual transition that begins with consciously shifting our messaging to ourselves. Instead of obsessing over what we ‘can’t’ or ‘shouldn’t’ have, try focusing on nourishing foods to form the foundation of a wellness-centered lifestyle: Lean proteins like fish, seafood, skinless poultry, along with vegetables, fruits, whole grains, protein-rich dairy like cottage cheese and plain Greek yogurt, and plant-based fats like olive oil, avocado and nut butters.

It also doesn’t mean that we must completely forgo all convenience foods. Not everything has to be made from scratch – minimally-processed foods are just fine and can provide us with valuable time-saving shortcuts. Frozen vegetables are an easy go-to, reducing both waste and prep time. Even some canned foods – think Blue Runner’s Creole Cream Style Red Beans – can be part of a nutritious, minimally-processed lifestyle, for example. Hanley’s is another local brand that’s centered on real, whole ingredients, offering a variety of options for salad dressings and marinades.

Quick-bake desserts and sweet treats can even be a decent option, with products like Swerve boxed mixes for cookies, brownies, cake and more. Granted, they’re still very much ‘processed’, but at least the ingredients (primarily almond flour and plant-based zero-calorie sweeteners) are significantly better than regular white flour and sugar.

And of course, keep convenient snacks on hand like ready-made hummus and guacamole, cheese, nut butters, dips made with Greek yogurt – paired with fresh fruits and vegetables, or other minimally-processed foods like blue corn chips, almond flour tortillas, seedy grainy bread or crackers.

Ultimately, it’s about tapping into what will drive us toward better fueling for our mind, body and spirit. The goal is finding real, whole foods that we enjoy, that fit within our taste preferences, lifestyle and budget.

I always try to keep the focus on what really matters, prioritizing our energy and focusing on behaviors and choices that can truly support our whole-body wellness.

And dialing back on ultra-processed foods – something that has such a strong benefit for our mental as well as physical health – unquestionably falls within this category of ‘what really matters.’ – By Molly Kimball

Salted Dark Chocolate Peanut Butter Cups Makes 24 servings Chocolate Coating: ¾ cup coconut oil ¾ cup unsweetened cocoa powder ¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons Swerve Confectioners Peanut Butter Filling: ½ cup no-sugar-added creamy peanut butter ¼ cup cacao butter, melted ¼ cup Swerve Confectioners 1 ½ teaspoon sea salt

Originally featured in the "Eat Fit Cookbook," these delicious little PB cups are as good (some say even better) than the real thing. And they’re just as decadent with almond, cashew or sunflower seed butter.

In a muffin pan, place liners into 12 cups. Set aside.

To prepare Chocolate Coating, whisk together melted coconut oil, cocoa powder and Swerve in a medium bowl. Spoon 1 tablespoon of chocolate mixture into each muffin liner. Freeze for 5 minutes or until mixture is no longer shiny on top.

To make Peanut Butter Filling, whisk together peanut butter, melted cacao butter, Swerve and sea salt until combined. If it seizes up, microwave for 10 seconds.

Remove muffin pan from freezer and add 1 tablespoon peanut butter mixture to frozen Chocolate Coating. Return pan to freezer for 5 to 10 minutes. After mixture has set, remove pan from freezer and add ½ tablespoon of remaining chocolate mixture to each cup, covering peanut butter layer. Freeze for 5 to 10 minutes or until completely frozen. Store in refrigerator or freezer in an airtight container.

Per Serving: Calories 120 | Saturated fat 7g | Sodium 120mg | Net Carbs 1g | Sugar <1g | Protein 4g

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nowing that both Lauren Michelle Trostorff and Tyler Lee Robinson were looking to meet someone special, mutual friends conspired to bring them together. The opportunity arose when Tyler hosted Friendsgiving, and their friends invited Lauren along. Sure enough, they hit it off, and soon after they were on a group date at Bouligny Tavern. They returned to Bouligny on New Year’s Eve to toast beginning the new year as a couple.

Eight years later, Lauren’s brother and partner had just had a baby, and Tyler saw the chance for a surprise proposal, enlisting the help of Lauren’s father to pull it off. Under the guise of meeting the newest member of the family, Lauren’s dad invited everyone for dinner. Between courses, Tyler made a speech about chosen family, and then asked Lauren to choose to be family for the rest of their lives.

As they began planning their wedding, they wanted to incorporate their passion for health and wellness. Our Habitas

Hotel in San Miguel, Mexico, became the natural choice for the celebration. Our Habitas offers guests an immersive wellness experience, including breathwork, yoga, sound baths, beautiful nature, and healthy, high-quality food.

On the morning of June 17, 2023, the couple and their guests began with a yoga class, meant to be a release and heart opening practice, setting the tone for the day to come. This relaxed, meditative vibe carried over into the wedding and reception, where giant bowls of copal were burning. Copal, traditionally burned to connect to the divine and mystical, is also used to clear negative energy and for protection. Lending some protective, beautiful energy was Danielle Trostorff, Lauren’s recently departed mother, whose presence was felt throughout the day.

After a serene ceremony, guests enjoyed cocktail hour where libations included a mezcal negroni, a hibiscus margarita, and all-natural wine local to San Miguel and Guanajato. These spirits were complemented by canapes created

by Our Habitas’ incredible culinary team.

The culinary offerings continued to delight as the three-course dinner was served; a pork dish with handmade purple corn tortillas, black beans, and roasted banana puree was the crowd favorite. Guests located their tables with seating cards from an oracle deck, and at each seat was a quote from one of the newlyweds’ favorite spiritual teachers.

After dinner, Tyler and Lauren wowed their guests with a night full of surprises, beginning with Aztec dancers and drummers escorting everyone to the party. There, guests found a bird that chose a special fortune for each person, a costume box, a kaleidoscope room, face and body painters, and more!

The couple enjoyed their first three weeks as husband and wife exploring the natural beauty of Italy, visiting Sardinia, Rome, and the Dolomites. They then returned home to New Orleans, where Lauren owns Vibrant Market—a clean beauty, wellness, and lifestyle store and spa—and Tyler is owner of Urban Properties, a commercial real

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estate and development company, and co-owner of The Tell Me Bar, a natural wine bar. – By Megan Holt Rehearsal Dinner Location: Casa No Name Ceremony & Reception Location: La Troje, San Miguel de Allende and Our Habitas Reception Décor: Couple’s friends and wedding planner Penzi Coordinator: Jennifer from Penzi and Cat Lena Celebrant: Ben Paneccasio Ceremony Music: Gray Pumpelly Wedding Gown: Bride designed, made

by Sophie Tran at Pilot and Powell Groom’s Attire: Custom suit by Harper + Jones Engagement Ring: Judi Powers custom, fair mined green gold oval cut in bezel setting Bride’s Wedding Band: Judi Powers custom fair mined green gold with colored rose-cut diamonds Groom’s Wedding Band: Judi Powers custom fair mined green gold Florist: Florklor Invitation: Coco Schramel Art Photographer: Ildefonso Gutiérrez Videographer: Ricordomedia Hair: Hair by DJ Dani Osso Music: DJ Dani Osso

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A Time-Honored Tradition

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n the late 1800s, the New Orleans police force began holding inspections. police and fire departments who had died during the preceding year was At times annually, and at other times semiannually, the inspections were added to the day’s events. Held after the inspection and parade, the mass was usually held at police headquarters at Elk Place at the changing of the heavily attended by both first responders and the community. seasons, which also meant the changing of the The inspection and parade were paused from police uniforms between summer and winter attire.

1918-1921, after the assassination of Police SuperNew Orleans police parade down the Police commissioners, city officials, and often the intendent James Reynolds. And in 1942, the parade 600 block of Canal St. in November 1916, mayor were present for the inspections, which consisted was discontinued due to WWII, and never reinstated. debuting the winter uniforms consisting of long blue-coats, white gloves, and heavy of drills, marching, and appearance checks. Ceremonies Instead, the police force would line up on Chartres helmets. In the summer they wore short to bestow medals for gallant conduct on the job were near Jackson Square for inspection, and then head khaki lightweight coats and white tasseled sometimes held during the inspections as well. into St. Louis Cathedral for services. helmets. Due to New Orleans’ fickle weather The day would include a parade, most often from In 1952, women joined the annual inspection. during some years, the winter uniforms Elk Place to City Hall to salute officials and ending in Though they were called policewomen, they were would debut for the day and then be retired Lafayette Square. The public would turn out to cheer classified as civil service employees and assigned again until the temperature cooled. on them on along the route. The police brass band only to the traffic department; they weren’t considwould lead, and the patrolmen, mounted police, and ered part of the police force at that time. The first their equipment would follow. In the early years, this equipment consisted woman to attend the police academy wouldn’t graduate for another two mostly of patrol wagons, although over time, bicycles, motorcycles, a mortuyears. In 1953, the Junior Safety Patrol was also included in the inspection. ary wagon, and automobiles were added.

The annual First Responders Inspection and Memorial Mass continue In the early 1900s, an annual memorial mass to honor members of the to this day. – By Seale Paterson

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Sazerac House Sazerachouse.com 101 Magazine St. 504-910-0100 Dazzle the yuletide away with this Domed Diamond Stretch Bracelet in 18K Yellow Gold, $33,500

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Elevate your cocktail hour with these Mignon Faget Rocks Glasses by local designer Mignon Faget featuring details and halo in 22k gold and illustrations by Kate Lacour. Hand wash only. Set of 4, $85

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Perlis Clothing Perlis.com 504-895-8661 (Magazine St.) 504-523-6681 (600 Decatur St.)

Symmetry Jewelers Symmetryjewelers.com 8138 Hampson St. 504-861-9925

Celebrate a Cajun Christmas with a handcrafted Cloisonné Christmas Ornament featuring local favorites like hot sauce, beignets, crawfish, and more.

Shatterproof and includes a keepsake box.

There are normal holiday gifts, and then there are Estate Collection Black Tahitian Pearls with a stunning Platinum 2.25CTW Diamond Enhancer, $28,000

Display unmatched quality and style with this Estate Collection 1.5CT Round Brilliant Diamond Swirl Cocktail Ring, $7,000 The perfect accessory for the winter months is the Crawfish logo, 100% Lambswool Scarf with a tasseled hand-cut hem adding a traditional finish.

A true luxury for any man is a genuine glazed American Alligator belt lined with full grain glove leather and a polished nickel on brass buckle. 30mm wide. Also available in black.

Make a timeless statement with this Estate Collection Vintage 1928 Hamilton Pocket Watch. Elegant yellow gold-filled 25 jewels, '920' pocket watch with a porcelain dial and French hands, $950

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Canal Place Shopping Center Canalplacestyle.com 333 Canal St. 504-522-9200

Wellington & Company Wcjewelry.com 505 Royal St. 504-525-4855

Cozy up by the fire in this Brooks Brothers, 3-Ply Cashmere Crewneck Saddle Shoulder Sweater, $498

Enjoy classic elegance to last a lifetime with this Style Topaz and Diamond Pendant, 18kt

Diamonds are just better.

Bring home these Emerald Cut Diamond Hoop Earrings in 18kt

The perfect holiday shopping companion, bring home this Tory Burch, Fleming Metallic Soft Barrel Bag, $498

Simple, stylish sophistication.

Sapphire and Diamond Ring in 18 kt White Gold

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Walk your own winter wonderland in these Golden Goose, Women's Super-Star with gold sparkle foxing and metal stud lettering, $595

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Nola Shirts Nolashirts.com 3013 Magazine St. 504-494-3313

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Port Authority Nola 100% Cotton Polos. A favorite year after year, these polos are known for their exceptional range of colors, styles, and sizes. The soft pique knit is shrink-resistant and easy to care for, so your group will always look its best, $48.

Nola Hats. This popular style, with its contrast sandwich bill, has an exceptionally soft feel and appearance—thanks to a garment wash. 100% garment-washed cotton twill, unstructured, low profile, and hook & loop closure, $25.

Nola Tri Blend Unisex T Shirts. You won't want to take off this bestselling unisex, tri-blend t-shirt, featuring a uniquely soft tri-blend fabrication, modern fit, crew neck, and short sleeves, $28.

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FINISHING TOUCH

Merry and Bright Fifi Laughlin's coloful bud vases are the perfect adornment to add cheer to a space year-round.

These make lovely gifts for any taste, or you can delight in building a collection for your own table. Available in a range of colors through Fifi Laughlin, 504-452-5212, Instagram: @fblnola.

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