Carlton Clive Anderson

Reverend Carlton Clive Anderson

Carlton Clive Anderson

Sunrise 18th June 1957

Service: New Testament Church of God, Nursery Street, Sheffield, S3 8GT

Interment City Road Cemetery, Sheffield, S2 1GD

Rev D Reid Rev L Palmer

ORDEROFSERVICE

Procession‘No weapon formed against me’ - Fred Hammond

Welcome - Rev Desmond Reid

Opening Prayer - Rev Lamech Palmer

Hymn‘It is well with my soul’ (https://youtu.be/ZYrL9ea1XUg)

Scripture Reading - Psalm 121 - Read by Michael Caine (Cousin)

Address - Bishop Dr Donald Bolt (NTCG National Administrative Bishop)

Tribute - Peggy Allen (Aunt) and Cheryl Edwards (Cousin)

Tribute - Delora Russell & Family (Cousins)

Eulogy - Milly Anderson (Wife)

Musical Tribute - Reunion Choir

Tribute - Maud Anderson (Mother)

Tribute - Colin Anderson (Uncle) - Read by Paulette Afflick-Anderson

Tribute - Carol Comrie (Sister) & Howard Comrie (Nephew)

Tribute - Steve Poyser - (Life-long friend)

Sermon - Rev Gillian Anderson (Sister)

Closing Prayer - Rev Winston Taylor

Recession‘Simply Put’ - Fred Hammond

REUNITED

Grandad Dad Clive John(Brother)

Psalm121(KJV)

I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.

2 My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.

3 He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.

4 Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.

5 The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand.

6 The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.

7 The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.

8 The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even forevermore.

TributeforthelateRevCarltonCliveAnderson

BishopDrDonaldBolt

I am honoured to be able to write this tribute on behalf of the leadership, members and friends of the New Testament Church of God, England and Wales. We were all very saddened to hear of the passing of our beloved Rev Carlton Anderson. We send our sincere condolences to the bereaved family and the Sheffield church family. We pray that you will all experience the joy, peace, and consolation that Jesus gives.

My wife and I are very disappointed that due to the COVID-19 Pandemic, we could not be with you today in person to pay our respects and to say goodbye, however, I want the family to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers today and always.

I want to express my sincere appreciation for the commitment, sacrifice, faithful and dedicated service that the late Rev Carlton Anderson has given to our Church as a member and Minister over many decades. Rev Carlton Anderson was not just a Minister,he was also a faithfulhusband.

Rev Anderson had a sense of humour and loved to have a good laugh. He was loved and highly respected in his community and Church, he was a good man. Rev Anderson has added value to the New Testament Church of God through his faithful service, for which we are extremely grateful. He has now gone on to reap his reward and his master will say to him “well done good and faithful servant, enter thou into the joy of thy Lord”.

Dwight L Moody

"Some day you will read in the papers that D.L. Moody of East Northfield, is dead. Don't you believe a word of it! At that moment I shall be more alive than I am now; I shall have gone up higher, that is all, out of this old clay tenement into a house that is immortal - a body that death cannot touch, that sin cannot taint; a body fashioned like unto His glorious body" .

"I was born of the flesh in 1837. I was born of the Spirit in 1856. That which is born of the flesh

may die. That which is born of the Spirit will live forever" .

1 Thessalonians. 4:13“But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others whichhave nohope”.

Rev Carlton has served his God; his family; his Church and his community with distinction and was a good citizen on planet earth. You his family can be justly proud ofhis life andachievements.

Rev Carlton Anderson will be sadly missed; however, we are comforted by the fact that we have an assurance that he is now at rest with the Lord. May his soul rest in peace until that resurrection morning.

MaudAnderson(Mother)

Almost 64 years ago, I gave birthto a beautifulbaby boy (Carlton Clive). I knew he was on loan to me from the Lord. He was a contented baby with a ready smile.

His father was a ‘hands on’ dad and helped in his upbringing. Aged 2, he took on the ‘big brother’ role when his sister Carol joined the family and would teach her how to be mischievous.

Aged 12, Elder McAnuff and Bishop Cyrus Scott saw potential in Clive and made him a ‘doorkeeper’ in the church. He has served in several capacities in the church since then. Clive gave his life to the Lord as a teenager. He was humble, selfless, kind, caring, thoughtful and compassionate. Clive loved his ‘close knit’ family.

Over 38 years ago he met Millicent Palmer and fell in love, they were married and became ‘soul mates’. I never thought I would be at Clive’s funeraltoday, I expected him to live to bury me.

Clive fought a good fight and kept the faith. I am shattered, but I’m not broken, because as Clive would always say ‘God has the final say’. Rest in peace my dear son.

MissingYouAlready~pennedfrommyheart~yourlovingwifeMilly

I wish I could wave a magic wand, so you could still hold my hand, I wanted more time for us to grow, but I know you really had to go.

I wasn’t really ready, to be left feeling so unsteady, I will try my best to understand, it was time for you to leave this land.

I would have liked the chance to take my last walk with you, but your body wouldn’t allow you to.

I want you to be with me, yet I want you to be free.

I will always admire you, respect you, cherish you, praise you, be proud of you, but most of all, l’ll always love you.

I will never forget our 36 years together, as we said 1-4-3, our code that says (I-love-you), meant just for you and me. I won’t remain broken-hearted, now that you’ve departed, that’s not the thing to do, to prove I still love you.

I will look to the hills, for that’s where my help comes from, then the skies will turn the brightest blue, as I take the time to reflect on you. I want the world today to know, that I will try to let you go, but in my heart you’ll always stay, until we meet again some day.

Missing you already Mr C Don’t forget 1-4-3.

TRIBUTES

Cynthia,Godfrey,Noel&SoniaPalmer (Cousins)

Clive has always been part of the family from when he first started dating Milly (affectionately known to us as Valda) who lived with us after our dad passed away. We have lived side by side, more like brothers and sisters rather than cousins, and we were with Milly at the hospital when Clive had his first illness 21 years ago. “It was a privilege and an honour to be one of his carers during the last 6 months. He has fought a good fight and finished his course”, says Cynthia. “I will never forget you Humph, RIEP”, says Godfrey. “Clive Anderson AKA Humphrey, you will be missed forever, rest in peace”, says Noel. “I will always remember going to Nuneaton and Clive being able to drive me to the supermarket to get some supplies after getting the all-clear to be able to drive again”, says Sonia. We all concur “you were our gentle giant, we loved you well but Jesus loves you best, good night”

AuntieBabs&UncleHuby(Jamaica)

On behalf of my family, we are deeply saddened by the passing of my beloved nephew Clive Anderson. As a servant of the Lord Jesus our God, we maintain the confidence that you are dwelling in his everlasting arms. Huby and I reminisce on the times that you would visit us in Jamaica whenever it was convenient for you. Though I was able to attend the funeral of your father, it pains me that I am unable to attend your funeral due to conditions of the COVID-19 pandemic. Although I won’t be able to physically see you one last time, I continue to paint mental pictures in my heart of the times I spent with you my dear nephew. A pure soul and a true soldier, we remember you for the spirit you carried. The Powis family reach out to your family and all relatives who are

now mourning. Let us be encouraged by the word of the Lord - Psalm 147 verse 3, ‘God heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds’. As our hearts mourn, we have faith that the Lord will comfort us during this time. To my beloved nephew, may God bless you and may your soul rest in perfect peace. We love you.

LeviPalmer(Father-in-Law)

Clive wasn’t my son-in-law, he was my buddy. I moved to Sheffield into their family home in 2017 and our bond grew stronger. He supported me during the day while Milly was at work, and I will always love and respect him for that. Even when he struggled he would help me. He would play dominos with me even when he didn’t want to, and would be my solo audience when I wanted to play my guitar. I will miss him dearly. Our home will never be the same.

WarrenWhite(Cousin-USA)

Not many of us are blessed to have a family member like Clive Anderson. Clive lights the room up when he enters. You will laugh just because he is laughing. His spirit is calming and peaceful. When Clive loves you, you know it, and he loves his family. Clive, although you are physically no longer with us, our memories of you will last forever. As you take your rest from the toils of this earthly life, we know you are not far from us. When the rays of the sun brighten up the room, we will know that you are with us. When we see a butterfly flying high in the sky, we will know that you are with us. When we hear the birds singing outside our window, we will think of you. We will think of your smile, your quiet but powerful spirit. Our cousin, our nephew, and our brother in Christ, your family in America will miss you dearly, travel on Clive, travel on.

TRIBUTES

Clarissa,Colin,Joyce,Rose,Aaron,Ron, Dean,Samantha,Shirley,(Brothers& Sisters-in-Law)

We have so much to say about Clive, but individually and collectively, we can all agree that he was unique, genuine and ‘one in a million’. He was inspiring and influential, witty and wise. He respected us all as his ‘in-laws’ and he treated our sister Milly like a QUEEN and held her in high esteem; for that we are grateful. We salute you Clive as a great warrior, an overcomer and man of God, who we were proud to call our ‘BROTHER’. We will truly miss our gatherings together. Rest in Peace Mr C.

Elaine,Dorothy&theFrancisfamily (Cousins)

In remembrance of a mighty man of GodClive Anderson. As the song writer says ’when my task on earth is done, when by grace the victory’s won. Even death’s cold wave I will not flee. Since God through Jordan leadeth me’. He will be led by his hands safely home to his resting place. As a faithful follower Clive was a man who touched many, many lives, he was very special to me and our family. Clive was infectious, such a great man who left you remembering all the special moments spent with him. Strength was something that he possessed, his love for his family and so many others, a true man of God. Our cousin Clive, we did not get to spend enough time with you, but the little time that we got to know you was so special. Our mother, who’s living in Jamaica - Thelma Francis - would like to send her deepest condolences to all the family. May God bless you all as you find comfort and strength. You will always be in our hearts, rest on my sweet cousin.

RolynPalmer(Uncle-in-Law-USA)

Our condolences to Valda and other family members from Rolyn, Daisy, and all the family in the US. The song says it’s hard to lose a loved one to the grave. Another one says we sometimes suffer till death gives final relief, but the word said “we’re blessed when we die in the Lord”. Since we have that assurance in the life we see Clive demonstrate, let us live the life God requires so we can see Clive again and rejoice with him in heaven.

RonaldBrown(Closefriend)

Mr C (Clive Anderson), I am so sad to hear of your passing. I am so glad I had the privilege of having you as a friend, and grateful for the fun times we shared growing up together. We used to go to Youth Club on Friday, then the boys would sneak off to go and play football at the park. We would inevitably suffer the consequences later. Remember how we all got our suits tailor made for national conventions and tried to out do each other with our super flairs, then we would pose and have our photos taken. I remember how you used to come round to my grandmother's house and we would help her make her cakes. Our reward was to get our own cake that we shared, after deliberating on who would get the biggest piece! I also enjoyed the times we spent together singing and playing music. We had so many memorable times together. Thank you for your enthusiasm and encouragement. To Milly and the rest of the family, I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you and give you healing for your great loss. Mr C, you will be sorely missed. May your soul rest in peace.

TRIBUTES

VeronicaMattis(Sister-in-Law-USA)

Clive was a wonderful kind and generous man. I was the maid of honour at his wedding to my sister Milly over 35 years ago. We went on many group holidays together. He was a great brother-in-law. A gentle giant. I never heard him raise his voice in all the years that I knew him. I'll always remember when I would call Milly and then speak to him, I would ask how he was doing and he would say ‘all the better for hearing your voice’. He will be greatly missed, but he's not in any pain or suffering anymore. He's in a better place now with the Lord.

MelissaMattis(Niece-USA)

Uncle Clive, I'm proud of the man you were while on your earthly assignment. You have left a legacy that will be talked about for generations to come. Were, is past tense and as I write these words I believe you are still present. So uncle Clive, you ARE kind, courageous, comical, smooth, loving and thoughtful... I could go on & on. Thank you for showing the world, that though few are present, REAL gentleman do still exist. You ARE an amazing soul, now rest easy... sit back and let the King take over for now. I love you forever and always.

MichaelMattis(Nephew-USA)

I remember my younger days. Uncle Clive wasn’t uncle Clive he was Unc Unc. The gentle giant that when I wanted to play, would use his unfair size to grasp both my arms in his one hand and shut me down with a Kung Fu movie sound effect. He’d say “pshh! don’t be doin me like that man”. I remember thinking one day I’ll be big and strong just like him. I remember playing Tekken with Unc Unc on his PS1 console; they have the same game for my PS4 and

whenever I see it I think of who got me into video games either knowingly or unknowingly. These are only two memories of the myriad I have of this man whom I love and is perhaps the greatest man I will ever know; his influence on me will be likely more than he will know. Uncle Clive I miss you and I love you, now rest easy you’ve earned it.

UncleColin,AuntEllen&Family(USA)

Good morning to the Sheffield family, friends, and loved ones. Today is such a sad day as we have to say goodbye to Clive. Our hearts break along with you because he will be sorely missed. My heart aches because I was not able to say a proper goodbye to my nephew. I live in the United States and due to COVID-19, I was not able to travel to see him. Clive is one of my favourite nephews and I would always call to see how he is doing. No matter what, he would always give me a smile. A few weeks ago, I did not see that smile from him. I will deeply miss speaking with him on WhatsApp. Please know that we will miss Clive, but he will forever be in our hearts. To Clive’s wife Millicent, and mom Sister Pearl, sisters Gillian, Carol, and the rest of the family, please stay strong. Clive is in a better place, take comfort in knowing that we all shall meet again someday. May the Lord keep you safe under his wings as you begin to navigate this new existence. Our prayers are with you and the family. May God bless you all.

DeloraRussell&family(Cousins)

Clive, we will surely miss you our dear cousin. Your larger than life smile, your big laughter and unforgettable hugs filled with love. “We know you’ve gone up yonder to be with your Lord”. RIEP Cuz.

TRIBUTES

GillianAnderson(Sister)

You are my brother, like no other. A friend, defender, adviser and confidant. You'll know what you meant to me, in every sense, head and shoulders above all other men. You faced many challenges, but remained close to the Lord. When you felt weary, deflated, frustrated or in pain, I was in your corner always cheering you on. I am proud as can be to call you my brother. I hope one day I'll mature to become just like you Clive. All my love, your 'baby' sister. Gillian XX

DanielComrie(Nephew)

Uncle Clive, the climbing frame. My earliest memories of you are climbing up all over you. Sometimes swinging from your neck, a child-sized medallion. I wasn’t a small child either! Still, you let my brothers and I do this whilst you wore the biggest smile. Childhood was filled with special moments punctuated by your influence. You’ve passed on your love of music, martial arts and computer games. What resonates the most is your genuine love of people and the passion you ignited in friends, family and wider circles to be their best. We continue to honour your legacy which remains within us all as your nephews as time goes on. Rest in peace.

NoelBlake(Friend)

Farewell my dearest friend. I recall the journey of our lives and the pain you left behind at the hearing of your passing. I met a good friend, one with strong arms that held me up during our reign as District Youth & C E Directors of Sheffield & Wood Green Districts. It pains me to even contemplate putting pen to paper. I miss you. Together we soldiered through our

National Youth & C E Conventions known as the NTCG Bouncers, as we ushered delegates into service on a Sunday morning. My dear friend you had a heart that loves and cares. When I saw your smile I knew my friend had my back and the tasks would be met. There was never a dull moment with you my friend and the love we shared as ‘Brothers in Christ’. I will remember your open door and a bed to lay my head. My dearest friend, you will never die, you are now with the biblical Patriarchs. You certainly fought a good fight, you have run your race well, but most of all your life was a testimony that Jesus Christ saves and keeps and satisfies. You have kept the faith, so my friend, wear your crown of righteousness well. My condolences, prayers and support to your ‘Rock’ in this life, your wonderful wife (Milly). You did choose well my friend. So to the entire Anderson’s family, I miss you, remain strong.

CarolComrie(Sister)

CLIVE

Caring and loving into this world you were sent, but not to stay

Living and giving was the way your world went, day by day

Infectious character sowing kindness and peace, it was your way

Valiantly sailing on through life’s stormy sea, you would pray

Encouragingly and enthusiastically for the cause of Christ, your trumpet you’d play

Clive loved God with a passion and had a heart for those who did not know Jesus. He has now gone to meet the Lord. Rest in peace Clive till we meet at Jesus’ feet.

Bishop Dr Derek Webley MBE, DL

NationalSecretaryTreasurerEngland &Wales

In paying tribute to my colleague and friend Clive of over 30 years, I am so thankful to have had the opportunity of the friendship and love of a most sincere, genuine and warm-hearted person. His infectious smile would brighten up any room. This gentle giant was a caring and generous soul. He and Milly opened their home to me whilst I studied at Sheffield University Urban Theology Unit many years ago.

He was indeed a servant leader, a person of humility who worked very closely with me when I served as National Director of Youth & Christian Education. Under his leadership, the Sheffield District Youth movement grew from strength to strength and flourished becoming a model movement for the Nation. I will always hold him fondly in my heart and cherish those precious moments and memories.

Bringing my tribute to its conclusion, I close with a poem written by David Harkins: "You can shed tears that he is gone, or you can smile because he has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back, or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left. Your heart can be empty because you can’t see him, or you can be full of the love that you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember him and only that he is gone, or you can cherish his memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back, or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on”. Sleep on my beloved Clive, sleep and take your rest. Love you my brother.

CharlesPalmer(Uncle-in-Law-USA)

I will always remember Clive from his visits to Jamaica, especially when he helped Valda to put on a surprise 40th birthday party for me. We also had some good times and talks when we visited England. He was always jovial and comfortable to be around. Even our children liked to be with him as he would always be playing around with them. He was a cool, calm, gentle man of God. Even during his sick days, I never heard him complaining and up to the last weeks, though he was unable to speak he was making lip movements to say hello. He will certainly be missed, but to Valda and family remember we will meet again someday.

AvrilGolden(Cousin)

I will never forget the first time I met my cousin Clive. He was beautiful in so many ways. He and Carol came to Jamaica to visit and I believe I pretty much followed him around all day long just to hear him speak. I felt so special knowing we were related. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. We will meet again in the new Jerusalem.

Graveside

Officiating Minister - Bishop W Taylor

Musical Tribute - Cynthia Palmer-Golding (Saxophonist)

Tribute - Uncle Maurice

Tribute - Dad

Closing Prayer - Minister David Bussue

Acknowledgements

The Anderson and Palmer Family would like to thank everyone for their calls, texts, cards, gifts, flowers and visits during this sad time.

Due to COVID-19 restrictions, we will not be holding a wake. Thank you for joining us today either in person or via live stream.

SpecialThanks

Hannah Road Neighbours (Clive’s home for 30 years)

Pipworth Community Primary School

The medical staff from the Sheffield Teaching Hospitals and the Rotherham Community Care team

Osborn 4 - Neuro-Rehab Team

Neurospecialists: Dr Hadjivassiliou & Dr Hewamadduma

New Testament Church of God - Local, District and National

Beechy Knoll Care Home

Scarsdale Grange Nursing Home

Mickley Hall Care Home

Sheffield CCG

Choices & Niche Home Care staff who were personally involved in Clive’s care

Clive’sPersonalAssistants

Cynthia Palmer-Golding, Marva Ferguson, Angela Schawsmidth, Gillian Anderson, Ena Caine, Sonia Palmer

Donations towards a memorial bench for Clive and a remembrance tree, will be graciously received. Please contact Sonia Palmer on 07939 931 255 if you would like to donate.