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There are so many things to enjoy in the month of May! Right off the bat, Star Wars enthusiasts can celebrate with a “May the Fourth Be With You” activity, and we’ve got ideas (page 28). Mother’s Day is also just around the corner, so we’re sharing meaningful gift ideas Mom will love in this edition (page 26).
The month of May also means the end of school is drawing near, with graduation party plans in full swing. We offer some clever game ideas to get young and old in on the fun (page 14). Parents of younger children may be contemplating where they want
to send their kids to school this fall, and homeschooling has become a popular option. We’ve got advice for those considering it (page 22).
Are you a parent of a child thinking about college soon? Summer can be a great time to schedule a university tour, and we’ve got tips on how to make the most of your time on campus (page 12). And this month’s humor column reminds us to have patience with moms who might just be missing us when they spam our email (page 38). Happy May!
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Cooking with Kids
Mom’s Day Pancaking
A Simple Recipe
By Angel Jenkins
Nothing says Mother’s Day like waking mom up with breakfast in bed, and what more traditional dish than pancakes? While the secret ingredient is, of course, love, the key to successful pancake making for kids, is a simple, easy-to-follow recipe.
According to bettycrocker.com, pancakes were first mentioned in writing in 600 B.C., when a poet of Ancient Greece referenced the sweet morning treat. Fast forward to 1100 A.D., and the holiday Shrove Tuesday (aka Pancake Day), became a popular way to use up dairy products before lent. The 1880s introduced syrup as the topping of choice for this breakfast staple. In the early 1900s, Bisquick lands on store shelves, helping cooks across America make the fluffiest pancakes yet.
Take a lesson from history, and have the kids write a poem, pour a glass of milk and present mom with a plateful of syrup-covered pancake love. Make sure hands get washed first, and the kitchen is cleaned up last, so that Mom can truly enjoy breakfast on her special day! ❖
Source: thespruceeats.com
Mother’s Day Pancake Breakfast
Prep time: 5 minutes
Cook time: 10 minutes
Servings: 8 pancakes
Ingredients
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 Tbs. baking powder
1 Tbs. sugar
1/2 tsp. fine salt
2 tsp. unsalted butter, melted
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
1 1/4 cups milk
1 large egg
cooking spray
maple syrup
fresh fruits, optional
In a large mixing bowl, add first 4 ingredients, hollowing out a hole in the center of dry ingredients.
Pour butter, vanilla, milk and egg in the hole. Blend with an electric mixer on low until all ingredients are well mixed. Scrape down sides of bowl with a spoon to incorporate all ingredients.
Spray skillet or griddle with cooking spray, heating skillet to medium-high or griddle to 300 F.
Filling a ladle half full, slowly pour batter onto griddle. Repeat as space allows, leaving room between pancakes.
Once pancakes are covered with small bubbles, carefully flip with a spatula. Cook second side for about 30-45 seconds until done, then remove from griddle with spatula.
Serve warm with butter, syrup, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, or your choice of fruits.
Call of the Wild
Free admission and family-friendly events include a hike, blacksmith demonstration, and family art project. The hike takes place from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. with free admission but registration required. The family art project is from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. The blacksmith demonstration, tractor pull and hayrides around the ranch, savory and comfort foods, plus a wine tasting will be offered from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Visitors can explore the ranch at their own pace through Beauty Ranch Bingo, guiding guests through the park’s history, agriculture, and innovation. Receive a prize with a completed bingo card. Sunday, May 18. Jack London State Historic Park, 2400 London Ranch Rd., Glen Ellen. Learn more at tinyurl.com/2yjcy22h
Annual Fisherman’s Fest
The 52nd Annual Bodega Bay Fisherman’s Festival, “Sea to the Future,” features craft and non-profit booths, live music, wooden boat challenge, boat parade, plus art show and sale. Kids’ entertainment includes touch tank tide pools, jump houses, pony rides, face painting, games, and crafts. Barbecue, seafood, desserts, beer, wine, and cider available. Adult admission is $20 or $30 for a two-day pass. Seniors 65+, military, fire, police, and commercial fisherman admission is $18. Kids 0-11 admitted free. 10 a.m.5 p.m. Saturday, May 3-Sunday, May 4. For the full schedule, visit bbfishfest.org.
Bark in the Park
This free, fun-filled event features live music by School of Rock, animal demonstrations, and vendor booths with pet products and services. Enjoy food and drinks for purchase while participating in pet-themed contests and games. Bring your furry friend (on a leash) and celebrate a day of pets and play. Pet-themed contests include Furthest Treat Catcher, Cute Tick Talent Contest, Dog/Person Look Alike, and Musical Mats. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday, May 3. Rohnert Park Community Center. 5401 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. Visit tinyurl.com/ mwmznpy2 for more information.
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Fifth Annual Inclusion Festival
Inclusion Festival is an all-ages music event featuring live music, a silent disco, adaptive activities, free tie-dye, calming areas, and incredible exhibitors. Food and drinks for purchase and accessibility resources round out this event. This year’s theme, Empowering CommUNITY, is about celebrating diversity, breaking down barriers, and ensuring that every person feels valued and included. Saturday, May 10, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Petaluma Community Center. 320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. Find tickets and ticket prices at tinyurl.com/2f2ftkma.
Rose Parade & Festival
Experience a tradition that’s been brightening the community for over a century. The Luther Burbank Rose Parade & Festival brings people together to celebrate the vibrant spirit of Sonoma County. The parade begins at 10 a.m. down 4th Street with festival immediately to follow around 11:15 a.m. at the Old Courthouse Square. The event unites local businesses, organizations, schools, and performers to showcase their talents and share what the community means to them. Saturday, May 17. Downtown Santa Rosa. Learn more at lbroseparade.com
4-H Family Fundraiser
Sonoma County 4-H Chicken Que Open House and BBQ event is a fundraiser for county 4-H programs. 4-Hers and their families come together, rain or shine, to host the largest single-day barbecue west of the Mississippi, featuring chicken meals and homemade cakes. Community partners spend the day educating the public. 1:30-6:30 p.m. Sunday, May 4. Saralee & Richard’s Kunde Barn. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. Direct questions about meal tickets, T-shirt/ hat orders, or to make a donation, email chickenque@yahoo.com. For ticket prices or purchase, visit tinyurl.com/4k59fez8
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College Visits Tips for Successful Campus Tours
By Cherie Gough
This summer, thousands of teens and their families will tour college campuses. Since college schedules differ from high school, summer can still be a good time to experience campus life in action, and though online resources abound, there’s nothing like getting a feel for campus in person.
Signing up for the official tour is the obvious first step, but what else can parents and students do to prepare for and make the most of these important visits?
Tips for College Visits
1 Before heading out on tours, take time at home to discuss your teen’s values. Help them clarify their “Why” for attending college. College consultant Dr. Steven Antonoff offers free, downloadable tools to help families start the discussion at schoolbuff.com
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Engage with a diverse range of people beyond the scripted tour. Ask at least three current students questions about their campus experiences to gain honest answers and valuable insight. Get specific. Instead of “What’s the social scene like?” ask “What did you do last weekend?” Instead of “How many majors are there?” ask, “Do counselors help freshmen sign up for classes? Is it easy to get the classes you need?”
Before heading out on tours, take time at home to discuss your teen’s values.
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Sit in on a class that interests you.
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Ask lots of questions about dorms. Housing can be stressful. Ask about availability of on-campus housing beyond freshman year. If not guaranteed, what’s the process to obtain off campus housing? How far in advance do students typically plan? Is it a hassle? Does overpriced housing often place excess pressure on students’ budgets?
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Observe how people get around campus. Are they riding bikes? Taking the bus? Walking? Is the campus walkable to local shopping and dining? Is there a free campus shuttle to town?
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Be a people watcher. What are your impressions of the student body? Is there a fun, positive vibe
or do people look stressed and exhausted? Does the campus have the right fit of diversity to help you thrive? Can you see yourself happily fitting in among these people and this environment?
7 Are safety measures in place around campus and in the surrounding area? Look for emergency call boxes. Ask if there are campus security escorts or free shuttles available at night.
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Eat in the dining hall. How well do they accommodate your dietary preferences or needs? Can meal plans be used at cafes campus wide? Notice the vibe. Are students eating together or mostly picking up to-go orders?
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Take photos to help you remember key positives and negatives about each campus. Use this tracker from College Board to help record your impressions: secure-media.collegeboard.org.
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Visit the surrounding neighborhood. Walk into shops and restaurants, coffee shops and bookstores you’ll likely frequent. How does the neighborhood feel?
12 Can’t get away for college visits? Check out Campus Reel, an online guide with real students leading you through a typical day at their university (dorms, cafeteria, nearby neighborhood, etc.): campusreel.org.
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Visit the Career Center. Ask questions about job boards, work study, internships. Ask: How often do students meet with career counselors? What services do they offer?
Visit the variety of local colleges and universities in town. They’ll give you a good indication of what feels right. ❖
Cherie Gough is a college essay coach who has successfully helped hundreds of students gain success in their application journey.
Graduation Games
Eight Activities that Guests Will Love
By Pam Molnar
It’s graduation season and time to start planning your party. Every parent tries to make their child’s event unique, especially since the same group of kids will circulate to each other’s party. Most guests will come to congratulate the graduate, fill their plates, and sit at a table where they will remain until it’s time to leave. Why not liven things up by offering some friendly competition with games your guests will love?
Does it Add Up? Purchase several boxes of dollar-store dominos. Pour them into a 5-gallon bucket with ice and water dyed to match the school colors. Players work to gather enough dominos to add up to ’25. The person to reach that number first wins.
O-Fish-ally Done with High School. Fill a kiddie pool with water and place chairs around it.
Add Swedish or plastic fish as well as a few other water creatures like sharks, seahorses, or turtles. Invite all the players seated around the pool to take off their shoes. On go, the players use their feet to get as many Swedish fish as they can in a minute (or two).
Tossing of the Hats. Break the group up into teams of two. One player sits in a chair while the other
tosses graduation caps and tries to land it on their partner’s head. You can also play this game like tic tac toe by creating a game board on the driveway and using two different colored graduation caps.
I’m Blown Away. Set up tea candles on a long table in a line about 8" apart. Next to each candle, place a small prize like gum, a candy bar, a hair clip, etc. The dollar store is a great source for
If a player gets a question wrong, they have to admit that they are not smarter than a 5th grader.
these prizes. Players take turns standing at the end of the table and try to blow out as many candles as they can. The player gets to keep the prize next to the last candle they blew out. Keep moving prizes and candles to fill in the space until all prizes are gone.
Pass or Fail. Mark the grades on small paper plates — one A, one F and the rest B, C, and D. You will need a plate for each player. Hole punch the plates and attach a long piece of colored yarn to it. Gather up all the yarn and pull through the hole at the bottom of a Solo cup and place it upside down.
Lay out all the attached plates randomly around the cup. Players take turns pulling a piece of yarn through the cup. If the player gets an F, they are out. If a player gets a B, C or D, they are still in but will remove that plate. If they get
an A, they stay in and no plates are removed. Play until there are only two players left and the last one gets an A.
Find the Keys to Success.
Turn your party space into a scavenger hunt. Purchase a package of 125 keys used for jewelry (under $10 on Amazon) and hide them in plain sight on tables, near the food, on the counter in the bathroom, etc. Have a small prize for the most keys collected during the party. Warning: this game might have the hostess finding unclaimed keys around her house for weeks!
The Freshman 15. This game is a fun relay race. Players use cups to carry water to a big bucket on a scale. The first team to get to 15
lbs. is the winner. You can play this with other variations using different sized cups, squeezing sponges, or with players passing water from cup to cup instead of running. You can
Why not liven things up by offering some friendly competition with games your guests will love?
also play with teams playing against each other with someone from the opposite team trying to empty their opponents’ bucket with a teaspoon while they are filling it up with cups.
Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader? You would hope
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this would be an easy game for a bunch of high school graduates, but you might be surprised. Gather questions for math, science, grammar, and history that should be able to be answered by a 5th grader. Players can be assisted by their classmates. If a player gets a question wrong, they have to admit that they are not smarter than a 5th grader. Offer points for each right answer with a grand prize for the winner.
Whatever you play, have fun celebrating your graduate’s special day! ❖
Pam Molnar is the mother of three and an avid party planner. She enjoys writing about having fun and making memories together.
‘Big Kid’ Campers
By Kerrie McLoughlin
MSending Teens to Summer Adventures
aybe the thought hasn’t crossed your mind that your teen might need to find a fun summer camp. Your teen should be babysitting, mowing lawns, working at the pool, hanging around with friends, right? Well, sure! But why not send teens off for a week or more of summer fun and learning this year for a break? Here are nine great benefits for teens attending summer camp:
1. Giving back. Community service camps offer a great chance for your teen to make a difference and help out in the community while also learning skills that will carry them through their life. Kids get to spend their days helping others, which just feels good to
everyone involved. Maybe your teen will learn how to pack food for the homeless, teach kids how to read, or work on a project that will benefit the community, like cleaning up a playground or fixing equipment. They could even learn how to paint a house, care for a yard for an
elderly person who is unable to do so anymore, or they may even learn how to plan and build a house for someone who is in need.
2. Making new friends. It’s important to continue to grow and change, and adding new friends to one’s life enriches it at any age. Some teens attend the same camp or camps every summer and might find the same friends there year after year. Many are attending for the very first time and need to hone their social skills to make new friends and get to know other kids in their age range outside of a school setting. Being in close proximity for days or weeks helps kids get closer, faster.
3. Learning new things you can’t find in a textbook. Whether your teen attends a camp to learn more about horses, adventure, or a specific sport — or any other type of camp — they have an entire day, week, or longer to
focus on that one activity and really immerse themselves in it. Who knows? Your teen might find a new passion that he never thought of before that could be helpful in his educational or work life later on down the road.
4. Developing a hobby. When your child is unplugged from the TV, video game player, smartphone, etc., they can really focus on developing a hobby in a creative way. It seems like these days there’s a camp for pretty much any interest your kid has. There are camps for horse and other animal lovers, sports lovers of all types (think developing soccer skills, swimming, football, volleyball, baseball — anything!), Boy Scout camp (covers so many
different hobbies and topics), Girl Scout camp (also covers so many great skills) … the list goes on!
camp. Some camps even have kids do team-building and trust activities to help them get to know each other.
what it takes to be in a family and help out in the running of the household.
5. Working as a team. Your child will be meeting kids of different ages and from different backgrounds. Learning how to get along and work as a team is a huge life skill that will be reinforced at
6. Staying active. Forget sitting around doing “screen time” all day long during the summer with a bag of Takis or Funyuns close by! When a teen attends summer camp, they often forget all about those things and focus on having fun with their friends going on hikes, paddle boating, swimming, and more, depending on the camp they choose. Bonus points for activity if your child chooses a camp targeted to a sport they’re passionate about.
7. Standing on their own. Let’s face it: As our kids get older, they start to grow away from us.
They are simply preparing to head out on their own, and they are also preparing you for that by perhaps being a little distant. They are stuck in between childhood and adulthood, and it’s a confusing time. Going away to camp for even a short period of time helps teach independence. There is a daily structure at camp that’s already in place that teens need to follow. Parents aren’t the ones doing the nagging, so teens don’t tune it out and they learn to respect and learn from other adults.
8. Appreciating everything. Away from screens (yes, I keep focusing on this one), it’s easier to focus on nature, learning, forming relationships, and more. Being away from parents, kids will come home
with a new appreciation for what it takes to be in a family and what it takes to help out in the running of the household. Your teen will
Why not send teens off for a week or more of summer fun and learning this
probably also appreciate funny things, like a full pantry that’s open all day, a comfy bed, and privacy!
9. Deepening their faith. If your teen enjoys activities with youth groups at church, synagogue, or mosque, an organized religious camp might just be the ticket. The
day might begin with a service, followed by breakfast, a hike, and then some time spent in the cabin with friends memorizing scriptures for a competition at the end of the week. Later there could be singing songs around a bonfire while roasting s’mores. The point is that making connections based on their faith can create strong bonds.
Teen summer camp has so many benefits that cover all the bases, from physical, social, mental, and spiritual. As for the rest of the summer? Well, your teen can spend plenty of time doing those odd jobs to help pay for camp next year! ❖
Kerrie McLoughlin is the seasoned mom of five who blogs at TheKerrieShow.com
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Homeschooling Tips Awareness Month Advice
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By Sarah Lyons
During National Homeschool Awareness Month, are you considering homeschooling your kids but are unsure where to start? Teaching your child at home can be rewarding for both you and your child but many parents find getting started overwhelming. Here are some tips to help you decide if homeschool life is a good fit for you and your family.
It's okay to be overwhelmed. When you are trying something new it is normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure of where to start. While the idea of teaching your children at home may seem daunting, try not to worry. No one expects you to have everything figured out right away, not even your kids. Let them know that you are all trying something new and it's fine to allow time for adjustments and frustrations along the way. Do some research and make a list of things you
would like to try so you have a place to refer back to if you need ideas.
Create a flexible schedule. Creating a schedule is a great way to keep your kids, and yourself, on task. It can be easy to get distracted when you are adjusting to the new idea of learning from home. Home is typically a place where you relax, rest, and play but it will also need to be a place to get work done during homeschool. Create time and space for learning from
Take it a little at a time and you will become more comfortable and confident.
home and use a schedule that works for your family. If you are freshest in the morning, try to schedule learning right after breakfast. If you are a family of night owls, later in the day may be a better time to focus. Allow time for outings, errands, play time, and free time in your schedule. Unlike traditional school, you do not need to be working on school work the majority of the day. A big benefit of homeschool is the flexibility it can give your family.
Follow your child’s lead. Kids are more excited about learning when they have an interest in what they are learning about. When planning your curriculum try to include and incorporate things that your child is interested in.
For example, if your child is interested in animals, have them research
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cooking, and serve the meal while they learn about social skills such as how to set a table, manners, and clean up. Reading, writing, math, social studies, and science can be incorporated into almost any topic. Follow your child’s lead and take note of what they are
they enjoy, and what works best for your family.
Don’t overdo it. When you are just starting your homeschool adventure it may be tempting to do too much. Don't spend a lot of money on curriculums that you may not end up using. Don't try to cram too much into each day. Try to be flexible while you are learning and see what works well for you, your budget, and your kids while still meeting the requirements. Take it a little at a time and you will become more comfortable and confident.
Teaching your child at home can be rewarding for both you and your child but many parents find getting started overwhelming.
Enjoy the time. A big benefit of homeschooling is knowing you get to be a role model to your kids. As adults, we can learn new things too. You do not have to know about everything you teach prior to teaching it. Have fun learning along the way, experience reading new books with your kids, enjoy watching them discover new things, and enjoy quality time together.
If you think homeschooling is a good option for your family, start by talking to some friends in your community that have experience with teaching their kids at home. They will be a great resource for support in your area. ❖ Sarah Lyons is a mom of six children, including 10-year-old triplets. She enjoys reading, writing, and spending time outdoors with her family.
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A Day Just for Mom
Celebrations and Gifts She’ll Treasure
By Kimberly Blaker
The role of mothers in shaping their daughters’ and sons’ lives is unsurpassed. Mothers teach us to love, be strong, be confident, persist, live life to its fullest, and be the best we can be.
Mother’s Day is this month. Give her a gift from your heart and your undivided time to make it a day she’ll treasure …
Mother’s Day Brunch — Serve your mom a scrumptious breakfast or take her out for Mother's Day brunch. If you prepare it yourself, the following menu will be sure to please: fruit salad, juice, waffles, or pancakes with her favorite berry topping, bacon or fresh sausage, omelets or eggs benedict, homemade hash browns, and coffee cake or Danishes. Don’t forget the fresh cut flowers for the table centerpiece.
Spring Blooms — Pick up Mom’s favorite annuals and perennials: begonias, petunias, violets, morning glories, poppies, marigolds, snapdragons, or mums. Enjoy a day sprucing up her flower garden and catching up on old times.
Mother/Daughter or Mother/ Son Memories — Purchase a pre-designed record book to fill out and share with her. Or create your own memory scrapbook or journal. Include photos and memories about special times the two of you have had together; the most important things you remember about your mother from your childhood; how
she has inspired you; and the times you look forward to in the future.
The Main Event — Surprise her with event tickets: the ballet, a concert, play or musical, favorite sporting event, comedy show, or dinner theater. Be sure to tell her you have something special planned (but not what), so she’ll be yours for the day.
Train Excursion — Make memories on a train ride enjoying the vivid colors of spring, blue skies, beautiful blossoms, and other sights.
Enjoy a day sprucing up her flower garden and catching up on old times.
Family Portrait — Schedule to have your family’s picture taken at a studio, or hire a photographer for a photoshoot in the park. Coordinate with family in advance on the formality and color scheme, so outfits match. Inform your mother how to dress for the day, but keep the specific reason a surprise.
The Power of Poetry — You don’t need to be a poet to write a special verse for your mother. Share how she influenced your life, or tell her just what she means to you. Then print it on stationery, matte and frame it.
A Little Pampering — Mothers spend many years pampering their children giving bubble baths, washing hair, and caring for them when they’re ill. Give your mother a special treat, a gift certificate for pampering at the spa where she can enjoy a Swedish massage, hair care, a manicure and pedicure, or a soothing facial.
Weekend Getaway —Put together a weekend package designed especially for your mom. Choose a city that offers excellent shopping, art museums, and cultural centers, or even a quaint historic town with neat shops, cafes, and parks. Leave the dates for the getaway open so she can make the trip at her convenience, or so the two of you can make plans together.
Give her a gift from your heart and your undivided time to make it a day she’ll treasure …
Keep it Simple — Plan a relaxing day together, enjoying the outdoors. Head to a nearby park where you can meander along nature trails, picnic, or take a bike ride.
Especially for Mothers —
Buy a book for and about moms. Consider one of the following:
Mother: A Cradle to Hold Me by Maya Angelou
I Love You, Mom by Amylee Weeks
Why a Daughter Needs a Mom by Gregory E. Lang
Why a Son Needs a Mom by Gregory E. Lang
Mothersongs: Poems For, By, and About Mothers by Sandra M. Gilbert et al.
Mom, I Wrote a Book About You by M.H. Clark
Real Poems for Real Moms: From a Mother in the Trenches to Another by Rachel S. Donahue
Mom, Tell Me Your Story: Keepsake Journal by Susan Branch
You Are One Amazing Lady: Special Thoughts to Share With a Truly Wonderful Woman by Douglas Pagels
Dear Mother: The Hot Mess of Motherhood by Bunmi Laditan
Write an inscription inside the book’s front cover, including the date, so Mom can always remember
the exact day she received your thoughtful gift! ❖
Kimberly Blaker is a freelance writer. She also owns an online bookshop, Sage Rare & Collectible Books, specializing in out-of-print, scarce, signed, and first editions; fine bindings; ephemera and more at sagerarebooks.com
Star Wars Party
‘May the Fourth Be With You’
By Cherie Gough
Team up with budding Star Wars fans to create festive family fun for May 4 (Star Wars Day). Transform your home into a Star Wars galaxy with these fun ideas.
Jedi Attire — Form a family alliance by dressing in Star Wars gear whether it’s pajamas, favorite T-shirts, or full costumes. Ask classmates to wear Star Wars face masks or shirts to make the school day special.
Bring Outer Space to Your Place — Create a party atmosphere by decorating with red and blue or black and silver. Get creative and use whatever you have on hand. Supplement with Star Wars themed napkins and plates (available at party and discount stores).
Make a playlist of iconic Star Wars music and turn it up full throttle to bring the galactic mood to life. Place pre-built Star Wars LEGO masterpieces around the house.
Anyone working online can choose a Star Wars Zoom background to
download. Yes, you can join the virtual company meeting from the cockpit of the Millennium Falcon (and others)!
Mealtime Fun — Awaken the force with Chewbacca-shaped hash browns or maple bars for breakfast. Add a smile to the kids’ lunchboxes with a Star Wars note or riddle. Find free, downloadable notes online.
Cook some Chewie chicken nuggets and Darth Tater tots for a fun, easy dinner.
Kids can help make healthy lightsaber snacks: Sith-kebabs with cherry tomatoes and red pepper chunks or a fruit version with red strawberries and green grapes.
Top cupcakes with stormtrooper decorated marshmallows (use a
food-safe pen to draw faces). Make gingerbread Wookie Cookies.
Get Crafty — Construct “lightsabers” from pool noodles and electrical tape. Make droids from cardboard boxes. Paint rocks to look like R2-D2, Chewbacca, or a Jawa, or paint/draw your favorite Star Wars phrase or symbol.
Write “May the Fourth be with you” on the back and place the rocks
Transform your home into a Star Wars galaxy with these fun ideas.
around a local park for neighbors to find. Learn how to make a Baby Yoda portrait using paint and an egg carton.
Jedi Training Games — Backyard games are perfect for young Jedis, and keep festivities outdoors. Have a galactic egg race. Adapt this popular game by decorating eggs to look like stormtroopers.
Bounce a balloon on the pool noodle lightsabers you made. Count how many bounces before it hits the ground. Create a Jedi obstacle course with items you already have (cones, hula hoops, pool noodles, crawling tunnels, balls, ramps, trampoline, etc.).
Indoor Fun — Play a Star Wars version of a classic board game.
Have a family video game battle playing LEGO Star Wars or Battlefront.
Binge watch your favorite Star Wars movies or episodes of the Mandalorian TV series.
However you choose to celebrate, “May the Fourth be with you!” ❖ Cherie Gough is a writer and mom of two who loves to celebrate life’s little moments. Find her on IG @cgoughwrites.
May Calendar of Events
Cinco de Mayo Festival
The one-day Cinco de Mayo Festival features local entertainment, fun for the kids, informational booths, plenty of food choices, crowning the “Reina del Cinco de Mayo,” Rosie the Trolley shuttling guests to and from the event, and a low-rider car show. Two stages feature music, dance, and demonstrations. Karate demonstrations, drum corps, youth dance groups, and “future stars” fill the stage. After dark dancing to magical beats by deejay closes out the event. 4-9 p.m. Monday, May 5. 771 Sebastopol Rd., Santa Rosa. For a full schedule, visit santarosacincodemayo.com
Friday 2
Disney Aladdin Kids. A Theater for Children’s production for young audiences. $7. May 2: 7 p.m. May 3: 1 & 3:30 p.m. May 4: 3 p.m. Kid Street Charter School Theater. 709 Davis St., Santa Rosa. Tickets: atheaterforchildren.com
Saturday 3
HSSC’s 1st Annual Doggie Dash. On-leash dog welcome for a 2.3-mile walk around Spring Lake. Goodies from various pet-friendly vendors; socialize with your fellow pet lovers. $35 pp. Ages 10 and under: Free. (Registration still required for ages 10 and under.) 9 a.m. Spring Hill Regional Park. 5585 Newanga Ave., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl. com/4dfayhea
FREE Tennis Across Sonoma. Adult tennis lessons. Co-ed ages 21+, beginner level. Equipment provided. 9-10 a.m. May 3, 10, 17, 24. Hanna Center Tennis Facility. 17000 Arnold Dr., Sonoma. sonomacommunitytennis.com.
Spring Plant Sale & Family Fun Day. Tour the Burbank Home, enjoy kids’ activities, Mother’s Day card-making, a scavenger hunt, dress-up for photos with the 1926 Dodge Estate Wagon, and free cookies & lemonade. $5 pp. Ages 12 and under: free. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Luther Burbank Gardens. 204 Santa Rosa Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/4696w4yn.
Annual Bodega Bay Fisherman’s Festival. Live music, kids’ zone, pony rides, face-painting, crafts. Seafood & food trucks, beer/wine/cider for purchase. Proceeds support local services. $18–$20. 2-Day ticket: $20. Discounts for eligible guests. Free: ages 0–11 yrs. May 4–5: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Sunday: Noon–12:30 p.m. Boat parade & Blessing of the Fleet. Westside Park. West Shore Rd., Bodega Bay. Tickets: bbfishfest.org
Find the Flock: Winged Wonders Bird Walk. Led by Dana Glei, interactive walk to discover 12 striking bird sculptures from the Winged Wonder exhibit. $8–$15. Ages 4 & under: free. Discounts
available for teachers & active military. 10:15–11:45 a.m. Sonoma Botentical Garden. 12841 Hwy. 12, Glen Ellen. sonomabg.org.
FREE Rialto Cinemas Weekend
Family Matinees. Screening of Hook starring Robin Williams. Rated PG. Matinees held the first Saturday & Sunday of the month. May 3–4: 11 a.m. Rialto Cinemas. 6868 McKinley St., Sebastopol. rialtocinemas.com/ sebastopol.
FREE Bark in the Park Celebration. Animal demos, live music, vendor booths, food & drinks for purchase. Sponsored by the City of Rohnert Park. 11–3 p.m. Rohnert Park Community Center. 5401 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. tinyurl.com/4na3znac.
FREE Vamos A Nadar Water Safety Classes. One free swim lesson ages 5 and up. Water safety training for parents. Bilingual program. Noon–2:30 p.m. Rio Nido Roadhouse (Pool). 14540 Canyon 2 Rd., Rio Nido. Questions: info@friendsofmonterio. org. tinyurl.com/5dfp94fz.
Cinco de Mayo Festival
Redwood Hill Spring Farm Tours. Last weekend to cuddle with baby goats, learn sustainable farming, & shop for produce. $25–$40. Picnic area to enjoy at noon. May 3–4: 1–2:30 p.m. (Kid feeding demonstration starts promptly: 1 p.m.) Redwood Hill Farm. 5480 Thomas Rd., Sebastopol. Reservations required: redwoodhillfarm.org
Annual Pasta Feed Petaluma Wildlife Museum. $20: dinner and includes access to Museum and Adventure Center. Raffle & silent auction items. Museum: 1–6 p.m. Dinner: 4–6 p.m. Petaluma High School. Multipurpose Rm. 201 Fair St., Petaluma. Tickets: petalumawildlifemuseum.org.
FREE Cinco de Mayo Festival. Live banda & performances, authentic Mexican food vendors, Cantina garden, kids’ arts & crafts. 3–5 p.m. 50 Old Courthouse Square, Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/2zpfctc3.
Sunday 4
Annual 4-H ChickenQue & Open House. Open to the public. Interactive booths, BBQ, homemade cakes, music, & fun. Proceeds benefit 4-H community club events $15 pp. Parking included. 11:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. Saralee’s & Richard’s Barn.1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. Parking: Lot B Only. Tickets: tinyurl. com/rt2zyvp6
FREE Cool Petaluma’s Annual Local Resource Expo. A family-friendly day of climate action and community building. Door prizes, electric vehicle, & e-bike demos, a student showcase, kids’ crafts, food
trucks, and more. Noon–4 p.m. Lucchesi Park. 320 N. McDowell Blvd. Petaluma. coolpetaluma.org.
Young Voices Concert Series. Features musical performances by local college, high school, & middle school students. $10–$18. Ages 18 & under: free. May 4 & 25: 2 p.m. May
18: 1 p.m. Sebastopol Center for the Arts. 282 S. High St., Sebastopol.
FREE Roseland Cinco de Mayo Festival. Live entertainment, youth dance, Ballet Folklorico, Danza Azteca, karate demonstrations, drum corps, & local vendors. 4–9 p.m. Roseland Elementary. 1777 West Ave.,
LAKE COUNTY OUTDOOR PASSION PLAY
ADMISSION IS FREE; donations are gratefull chair and sunscreen. No smoking, food, drinks or pets allowed on the grounds. Water is available Facilities for the handicapped
Santa Rosa. Free parking at Santa Rosa Plaza with a free shuttle to the festival. 1071 Santa Rosa Plaza, Santa Rosa. santarosacincodemayo.com
Monday 5
Baby Buggy Bootcamp with Angela. Stroller Fitness helps moms restore or boost pre-baby fitness in a supportive outdoor setting. Punch cards available: 8 Punches.: YMCA members: $72. Non-members: $80. Mondays & Fridays. 11 a.m. (No session May 26.) Meet in the YMCA Lobby. 1111 College Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/ bddtxn8j.
FREE Showcase Sonoma County 2025. Celebrate local business during Small Business Week. Over 100 local
Center. 50 Mark Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. santarosametrochamber.com
FREE Santa Rosa Taco Tuesdays Rides. Family-event. All cyclists welcome to roll through downtown Santa Rosa (8-miles round trip). Taco trucks on hand to sell taco & drinks. Tuesdays. Meet-up: 5:30 p.m. Pedals up: 6 p.m. SRJC Parking Lot. 550 Silva Ave., Santa Rosa. facebook.com/ groups/santarosatacotuesday.
Wednesday
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FREE Celebrate Bike to School Day. Participating schools give prizes to kids who bike, walk, scooter, skate, or utilize any form of active transportation to get to school. 6–9 a.m. Participating schools:
FREE Annual Luther Burbank Rose Parade & Festival. Local school bands, community floats, and veteran tributes. Parade: 10 a.m. Festival follows 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Downtown Santa Rosa. 600 4th St., Santa Rosa. lbroseparade.com.
FREE Wednesday Night Market. Support local talent, shop, eat, and enjoy family-friendly fun. Featuring Pop Fiction bringing high-energy-hits. Wednesdays. 5–8:30 p.m. Old Courthouse Square. 600 4th St., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/6jzpd4c3
Acoustic Sunsets. Live music, family fun. Leashed dogs welcome. Bring a picnic. Free for members and included with admission. $8–$15. Ages 4 & under: free. Wednesdays. 5:30–7:30 p.m. Sonoma Botanical Garden. 12841 Hwy 12, Glen Ellen. sonomabg.org.
Friday 9
Freaky Friday at The Zones. Parents and kids (ages 5–18) enjoy rock climbing, basketball, gaming, coloring, fort building, and fun contests. $5–$10. 6–8 p.m. The Zones. 1011 Hahman Dr., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/2t98ju3z.
The Julia Keefe Indigenous Big Band. An ensemble of Native and Indigenous jazz musicians from across Indian Country. $30–$80. 7:30 p.m. Weill Hall at the Green Music Center. Rohnert Park Expy. & Petauma Hill Rd., Rohnert Park gmc.sonoma.edu/keefe.
Saturday 10
FREE Native Arts Festival. Family-friendly event, celebrating Native American culture, art, music
and food. Kids Zone. Sponsored by the Progressive Tribal Alliance. 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Windsor Town Green. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. nafestival.org.
FREE Annual Eco-Friendly
Garden Tour. Showcases sustainable landscaping in Sonoma and Marin with Russian River and Bay-Friendly gardens. Hosted by the Sonoma-Marin Saving Water Partnership. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. An email with garden tour information will be provide after registering: tinyurl.com/4vtwmrc4
Living History Day. Family friendly hands-on event brings 1840’s Mexican California to life inside & outside the two-story adobe walls of General Vallejo’s rancho headquarters. Admission includes all activities.
$2–$3. Ages 5 and under: free. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Petaluma Adobe State Historic Park. 3325 Adobe Rd. Petaluma. tinyurl.com/3h39h5xe
5th Annual Inclusion Festival. Music, arts, drum circle, hands-on sensory buffet, silent disco, & more. $17.85–$71.21. (On-line ticket sales help fund bands, gear, and insurance.) Bilingual festival. 11 a.m.–5 p.m. Lucchesi Park. 320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. Tickets: tinyurl. com/4nascsmk.
FREE Post Office for a Day. The Museum of Sonoma County returns to its historic roots as an official Post Office. Mail letters onsite, explore postal trucks, and buy or use your own stamps. Family-friendly event. 11 a.m.–5 p.m. Museum of Sonoma
County. 425 Seventh Ave., Santa Rosa. museumsc.org/events/?eid=12075
Green Valley Food and Wine Festival. Kids Village, live music, 15+ local wineries, farm fresh fare, beverage garden, silent auction, & more. Tickets $44–$150. Ages 12–20: $22. Ages 11 and under: free. All event proceeds towards new town square construction. Noon–5 p.m. Graton Town Square. 9155 Graton Rd., Graton. tinyurl.com/awf6r3ja
Second Saturday Cartoonist. Meet illustrator and comic artist Lonnie Garcia, whose work includes the graphic novel Putty Pygmalion. Cost included with Museum admission. $5–$12. Ages 3 & under: free.
Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org/lonnie-garcia
FREE Bike-In, Roll-in, Block Party. Everyone who walks, bikes, rolls, or rides transit. Food & drinks available for purchase. Hosted by the City of Santa Rosa and Bikeable Santa Rosa. 2–7 p.m. 4th Street Between B Street and Mendocino Ave. + Courthouse Square, Santa Rosa. bikeablesantarosa. org/block-party.
Sunday
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FREE Mother’s Day Special. Mothers get free admission to the museum. General admission: $5–$12. Ages 3 & younger: free. 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301Hardies schulzmuseum.org
Tuesday 13
FREE Sensory Friendly Afternoon. For children with sensory processing differences and their families or caregivers. Hands-on exhibits. Second Tuesdays. 2–5 p.m. Children Museum. 1835 W. Steel Ln., Santa Rosa. Pre-registration recommended: tinyurl. com/yewmb9t5
Thursday 15
FREE Petaluma’s Salute to American Graffiti. Car show & cruise. More than 600 classic American cars will line downtown streets to celebrate our city’s starring role in this 1972 movie. tinyurl.com/49k3mwx7.
Friday 16
FREE Open Ranch Fridays. All ages. Animal feedings, art, crafts, & treats.
This month’s theme: Pollinator Power. 3–5:30 p.m.Veronda-Falletti Ranch. 175 W. Sierra Ave., Cotati. Questions: info@sandyloam.org. sandyloam.org/ workshops-events.
FREE 4Cs Sonoma Parent Cafés. A welcoming space for parents, guardians, and caretakers to share experiences and practical tools. Open to all child age groups. Free childcare. Bilingual. 6–8 p.m. (Dinner served: 6-6:30 p.m.) Roseland Creek Elementary. 1683 Burbank Ave., Santa Rosa. RSVP for dinner: bit.ly/ ParentCafe2025.
Clover Sonoma Family Fun Series – Doktor Kaboom! Using comedy to showcase amazing physical science applications. Recommended for ages 6–12. $13.20–$18.70. Lap passes
available day of the show, in-person at the ticket office for ages 2 and under. Show: 6:30 p.m. (Arrive 1 hour early for art-themed projects.) Luther Burbank Center. 50 Mark Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. Tickets: lutherburbankcenter.org.
Saturday 17
FREE Blossoms, Bees, and Barnyard Babies Spring Tour. Explore flower fields & walk the labyrinth. Some spots offer snacks, lunches, & picnic areas. Fees may apply. May 17–18: 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Bees & Blooms. 3883 Petaluma Hill Rd., Santa Rosa. Registration required to access the insider’s guide and interactive map to tour destinations. farmtrails.org/experience/spring-tour-2.
FREE Kids to Park Day Scavenger Hunt. Ages 6–12. Self-guided scavenger hunt through the park to uncover the secret prize, plus treats and activities along the way. Younger children welcome but must be accompanied by an adult. 11 a.m.–2 p.m. Howarth Memorial Park. 630 Summerfiled Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/fhhhuxwp
Monster Truck Spring Nationals. $30–$50. Ages 2 and under: free. Parking: $10. 1:30 p.m. & 7:30 p.m. (Pit Party 90 mins before showtime) Sonoma County Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl.com/mrj5nzum.
FREE Lake County Outdoor Passion Play. Men, women, & children from many denominations
come together each year to participate. Bring your own chair. No smoking, food, drinks, or pets are allowed. Donations accepted. May 17–18. 4–6 p.m. 7010 Westlake Rd., Upper Lake. (off Hwy. 29). lakecountypassionplay.org.
Sunday 18
FREE Call of the Wild 2025. Hiking, Blacksmith Demo, art projects, Beauty Ranch Bingo, hay rides. TriTipTrolley & Wine tasting by Benziger Winery (add’l fee). Parking $10. 10 a.m.–3 p.m.
Jack London State Park. 2400 London Ranch Rd., Glen Ellen. tinyurl. com/2v34yecm
FREE Matsuri! Japanese Art Festival. Japanese art & culture festival. Family fun event. All welcome. 11 a.m.–5 p.m. Juilliard Park. 227 Santa Rosa Ave., Santa Rosa. sonomamatsuri.org.
1st Annual Bloom Hip-Hop Fest & Car Show. Live DJs, music, art & dance workshops, breaking battle, beatbox showcase, & more. Proceeds benefit the Community Cultural Center’s Future Club teen after school program. $10–$15. Ages 12 and under: free. 11 a.m.–6 p.m. Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. 390 Morris St., Sebastopol. Tickets: seb.org. Garden Party Celebrating Jewish Women. Fine teas, champagne, lunch & delicacies, and a personal massage. $36. Hosted by the Chabad Jewish Center of Petaluma. 1–3 p.m. Address provided upon RSVP: tinyurl.com/ ycycu5ps.
Thursday 22
FREE Healdsburg Future Farmers Country Fair. Fun-filled celebration of agriculture with a circus, food, games, exhibits, and more. Supports
local FFA and 4-H clubs. May 22: 6–10:30 p.m. May 23–24: 9 a.m.–10:30 p.m. Livestock auction: May 24: 4 p.m. Recreation Park. 515 Piper St., Healdsburg. tinyurl.com/y4usnhuh.
FREE Geyserville May Day Celebration. Live music, family-friendly fun with kids activities and classic games. Rib cook-off competition, wine/beer available for purchase, or bring picnic lunch. 11 a.m.–4 p.m. May Court: 1 p.m. May Pole Dance: 1:30 p.m. Geyersville Winery. 19410 Geyserville Ave., Geyserville. tinyurl.com/5afjetcy.
VOCES Y PASOS: A Cultural Celebration. Celebrate Mexico’s culture with afterschool Mariachi and Ballet Folklórico. $5.90–$11.80. 7 p.m. Luther Burbank Center. 50 Mark Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl.com/2s3fcpz5.
Friday 23
FREE Friday Night Live at the Cloverdale Plaza. Concert series featuring different bands each week. Food & drinks available for purchase. May 23 & 30: Street Fair: 6 p.m. Live music: 7–9:30 p.m. Downtown Plaza. 1st & 2nd Streets, Cloverdale. Full schedule of performers: cloverdaleartsalliance.org.
Monday 26
Jack London Memorial Day Hike. Slow- to medium-paced hike approximately 3+ miles roundtrip. Entry fee: $15. $10 parking. Pack a picnic for after the hike. 9:30 a.m.–noon. Jack London State Park. 2400 London Ranch Rd., Glen Ellen. tinyurl.com/mt5mhfvm
FREE Memorial Day Celebration. Honoring those who lost their
lives serving our country. Opening Ceremonies begin at 10 a.m. Rohnert Park Community Center. 5401 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. tinyurl. com/3rxu5b64.
FREE Memorial Day at Rural Cemetery. Honor the day with special guests and a Tour of Veterans’ graves. Donations appreciated. Noon. Meet at the Franklin Gate. 1600 Franklin Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/yvku6dsf.
Thursday 29
FREE Summer Nights on the Green Concerts. Beatles Tribute. Family lawn games, food vendors, & more. Bring blanket & chairs. Farmers’ Market: 5–8 p.m. Live Music: 6–8 p.m. See website for parking instructions. Windsor Town Green. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. bit.ly/ SummerNights2025.
Saturday 31
Dino Trax: Dinosaur Train Day. Explore dinosaur-themed train exhibits and hands-on activities. Members free. Non-members: $18. Infants 11 months & younger: free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Children’s Museum. 1835 W. Steel Ln., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/3kbfv9va.
FREE Sonoma County Pride Annual Parade & Festival. Parade: 11 a.m. (Kicks-off at 4th St. & Mendocino Ave.) Festival: Noon–5 p.m. 25 Old Courthouse Square, Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/49mce6rx.
The Fun and Fabulous Family Show. A child-appropriate, fully improvised show for families to enjoy together. $5–$10. 3:30–4:30 p.m. Polly Klaas Community Theater. 417 Western Ave., Petaluma. tinyurl.com/38jhtv45.
Unsubscribe Me
Hidden Meaning of Mom’s Emails
By Cheryl Maguire
My mom deemed the Internet useless back in the early 2000s when it became mainstream. Like other new technology she resisted it. I knew she would love a digital camera, but she refused to buy one insisting her camera worked fine. Since she wouldn’t buy a camera, I gave her one as a gift and as predicted she was snapping pictures of everything.
An Internet connection was not as simple as purchasing a camera. There is a monthly fee, and it requires a computer connection. She lived most of her life without the Internet so she thought it was unnecessary. By the time 95 percent of the population was surfing the net, she finally caved. Once she learned how to use emails, she sent me a minimum of 10 per day; nine I deleted without reading. I informed her of this fact. I even typed “unsubscribe” in response to one of her emails, to no avail.
Most of the emails she sent were forwards of articles for a town she didn’t even live in anymore. One email subject said, “FW: Miley Cyrus Spotted Food Shopping.” As you can imagine I didn’t read it.
She also sent elaborate recipes even though I don’t cook. A lot of the emails were things you would say in passing conversation:
Subject: Laptop
Message: This laptop is a lost cause. It takes FOREVER to do anything. if you see any good deals, please let me know …
(She waited FOREVER to get an Internet connection and now it’s not quick enough for her?)
She also liked weather-related emails: Subject: Snow
Message: They are predicting 6 inches of snow this weekend. Starting Friday night here...
(I do have faster ways of gathering weather information, like checking the weather app on my phone.)
But some emails I have to open. Like when I read this subject: Subject: GRRRRRRROSS!!
Message: A live mouse caught in the trap under the sink. Moved the trap to the back under the pipes but Dad can’t get him out!!
The emails started coming in around 8 a.m. and then are sporadically sent throughout the day. Until one day when I didn’t get any.
My mom had an accident and shattered her shoulder. She was unable to send emails and I felt this strange sense of loss.
I recovered all her deleted emails, and found myself smiling with a new perspective, noticing the nuances of the messages for the first time.
How she still read news from the town she used to live in because she missed it. How her use of all caps hilariously mimicked her emotions. How her innocuous message about a mouse left me wondering what happened to him?
The emails have her personality all over them and were simply her way of keeping in touch with me. The realization led me to type the following email:
Subject: Subscribe
Message: I would like to please re-subscribe to your email list. I really miss it.
Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree and is a professional member of ASJA. You can find her on X @ CherylMaguire05.
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