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Cooking with Kids Peanut Butter, Chocolate Treats

Features 10 Camp Ready!

Prepare Your Child for First Sleepaway Adventure

14 Earth Day 12 Easy Ways to Celebrate the Planet

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Out & About Annual Earth Day Festival Skunk Train Easter Express Omar Sosa Quarteto Americanos

18 Graduation Guide

Children’s Advocacy Walk & Festival

Advice for Parents on Getting it Right

Annual Clear Lake Splash-In

20 Celebrate Easter

Beatles Jazz Connection Concert

Fun for the Whole Family Activities

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25 Hunt for Eggs!

Local Events and Activities

How to Balance Children’s Screen Time

Calendar of Events Campovida Earth Day

30 Humor Break Sick Day Survival

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t’s tradition to celebrate this month with tales of the Easter Bunny followed by a hunt for colorful eggs.

For parents who Sharon Gowan want to add a new Publisher/Editor Sharon@family-life.us twist, however, this edition offers ideas on creative celebrations, plus ways even grownups can get in on the fun (page 20). Our April recipe also honors Easter, with a couple of easy-for-any-age, peanut butter and chocolate dessert ideas (page 7).

begin to think about preparing their kids for sleepaway camp. Several tips can help ease any anxiety your child might have (page 10).

Parents of high school seniors may have their own emotions about impending graduation. One mom shares thoughts on a special way to commemorate the day with fellow families who have walked the path from tot to grad with you (page 18).

Children of all ages (and us adults, too) can use screen time management reminders. Check out ways to ensure life is more balanced through good digital habits (page 16).

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Cooking with Kids

Peanut Butter, Chocolate Treats Easter Desserts

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eed a fun way to fill Easter baskets as a family? Why not involve the kids in creating some chocolate nests or no-bake peanut butter chocolate eggs!

These treats are also easy items for little hands to place on a dessert charcuterie board to set the perfect holiday table.

These recipes use Once Again’s organic no-stir peanut butter.

Handcrafted in small batches, the high-quality, lightly sweetened spread features dry-roasted peanuts, milled beautifully creamy, for a rich, nutty flavor that perfectly complements milk or dark chocolate. The family-friendly pantry staple contains no added preservatives, no hydrogenated oils, and is also Non-GMO Project Verified, vegan, certified gluten free, and part of the company’s Honest in Trade sustainability program. ❖

Chocolate Peanut Butter Nests & Eggs Nest Ingredients:

Servings: Makes 4 eggs

2 cups pretzel sticks

Prep Time: 10 minutes

1 cup milk chocolate chips

Egg Ingredients:

1/2 cup Once Again Peanut Butter

1 cup chocolate chips

1 12-oz. bag mini Cadbury eggs

1/4 cup of Once Again Creamy Peanut Butter

Directions: 1. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper and set aside.

Melt chocolate chips and peanut butter until smooth. Stir in the pretzel sticks until well covered.

2. Create mounds of the covered pretzel sticks into the shape of nests and place on the baking sheet. Place the Cadbury eggs into the middle of the nests. Once hardened, gently remove the egg nests and enjoy!

Directions: 1. Melt chocolate chips in a microwave or your preferred method. Pour about 1 Tbs. or more into each egg silicone mold to coat and place in freezer to set for about 10 minutes.

2. In the meantime, add 1/4 cup of peanut butter to a small bowl and combine with about 3 Tbs. of coconut flour. You may need a little extra if the peanut butter is too thin. You’ll know it’s right when the consistency is of modeling clay.

3. Remove eggs from freezer, fill with peanut butter, add layer of chocolate, and return to freezer to set. Enjoy once set. Refrigerate in sealed container 3-5 days.

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3 Tbs. coconut flour

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Out & About

Annual Earth Day Festival

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oyo Food Forest’s 16th Annual Earth Day Festival will feature food, live entertainment, a plant sale, hands-on environmental activities, earth-friendly artisan crafts, local nonprofit booths, an upcycled T-shirt press, and bicycle-powered smoothies – all with a focus on regenerative gardening and community farming. This free event is open to all (donations encouraged). Saturday, April 19, Noon–5 p.m. The Learning Garden on the Fort Bragg High School campus at 300 Dana St., Fort Bragg. Learn more at tinyurl.com/25kjat59.

Noyo Food Forest’s Earth Day Festival

Skunk Train Easter Express

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op into Spring aboard the Easter Express.

The Skunk Train from Willits hosts a two-hour train excursion through Tunnel #2 featuring Easter egg surprises, a special treat, and pink lemonade, plus a visit from the Easter Bunny. Hidden in the egg hunt is a Golden Egg. The lucky finder will win four Annual Passes, good for a full year of train-only experiences.

Tickets start at $74.05. Times vary from Willits Depot, 299 E. Commercial St., Willits. Reserve your seats at skunktrain.com/easter-express.

Omar Sosa Quarteto Americanos

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his celebration of Afro-Cuban Latin Jazz features the seven-time Grammy-nominated Cuban composer and pianist Omar Sosa. Sosa is considered one of the most versatile jazz artists today, fusing jazz, world music, and electronic elements with his Afro-Cuban roots to create a fresh and original urban sound — all with a Latin jazz heart.

Sosa performs with collaborators: multi-reed player Sheldon Brown, Josh Jones on drums, and Ernesto Mazar Kindelan on baby bass. General admission is $38.59 before the event and $5 more at the door.

Sunday, April 6 at 2 p.m. Mendocino College Center Theater, 1000 Hensley Creek Rd., Ukiah. Purchase tickets at ukiahconcerts.org.

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Children’s Advocacy Walk & Festival

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he Lake County Children’s Council, in partnership with numerous Lake County agencies and organizations, highlights April as Child Abuse Prevention Month with multiple events throughout the community. There will be a Children’s Advocacy Walk and Festival this year in Lakeport and Clearlake. Booths will be set up to provide free resources, education, prizes, and surprises. Saturday, April 12 from 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Xabatin Park. 800 N. Main St., Lakeport. Saturday, April 19 from 10 a.m.–3 p.m.

Austin Park. 14077 Lakeshore Dr., Clearlake. Learn more and read about other events at tinyurl.com/2e98veun.

Clear Lake Splash-In

Children’s Advocacy Walk and Festival

Annual Clear Lake Splash-In

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he 2025 Clear Lake Splash-In brings together seaplane pilots and enthusiasts in the seaplane community for demonstrations, networking, and education. This year’s event offers an expanded program featuring expert presentations on seaplane operations, innovations, and safety. It also showcases the AOPA High School STEM Aviation Program at Clear Lake High School in Lakeport. Friday-Sunday, April 25-27, Skylark Shores Resort, 1120 N. Main St,, Lakeport. View the full program and reserve your spot at tinyurl.com/3ucse4zn.

Beatles Jazz Connection Concert

Beatles Jazz Connection Concert

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ach year in the winter and spring, the Tallman Hotel hosts a monthly series of intimate, informal “Concerts with Conversation” on Sunday afternoons. In the April installment, a small ensemble performs classic Beatles tunes in a jazz style, Sunday, April 27, from 3-4:30 p.m. Tickets are $35 plus tax and can be obtained online at eventbrite.com or by calling 707-275-2244, ext. 0. Riffe’s Meeting House beside the Tallman Hotel, 9550 Main St., Upper Lake.

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Camp Ready!

Prepare Your Child for First Sleepaway Adventure

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By Sandi Schwartz

ne of the best things we can do for our children is to let them spread their wings and experience the world a bit without us by their side. Sleepaway camp is the perfect summer activity for children to help them become more independent, build confidence, challenge themselves, learn new skills, and meet new people. Time away from home can broaden their perspective and lead them to discover who they are and what they want to become.

That first time heading off to sleepaway camp, however, can be intimidating and nerve-wracking for some children. They might feel homesick, experience separation anxiety, or struggle with meeting new friends or adapting to a new environment and schedule. Here are some tips to help you prepare your kids to make the transition from home to camp as smooth as possible.

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Involve Them When Choosing a Camp — Get kids involved early on when camp hunting. Look at camp websites and brochures together. Bring them to camp tours. Involve them in conversations with camp staff, current campers, and parents of campers who you connect with. Some camps even offer a special weekend for kids to try out the camp before registering.

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Encourage Independence at Home — Start building their independence by getting them more involved at home, such as picking out their own clothes, making their bed, organizing their room, cleaning up after a meal, and learning basic hygiene so they can do these activities

Time away from home can broaden their perspective and lead them to discover who they are and what they want to become. on their own at camp. It is also helpful for them to have some sleepover trial runs so they can get used to sleeping in other places and build more independence.

Discuss What Camp Will be Like — In the months building up to the first day of camp, casually add camp to conversations. At bedtime, set the scene for how fun it will be to have a sleepover with several friends www.mendolakefamilylife.com

that lasts weeks. Review the activities and ask what they are excited to try.

Look at the camp’s social media posts from previous summers to show your kids what to expect. If you attended sleepaway camp or had a similar experience like living in a college dorm, share your stories.

Attend Orientation — Even if your child has already seen the camp in-person, it’s critical that you attend the orientation as a family, recommends Jenny Grogan, one of the camp directors at a traditional sleepaway summer camp for campers ages 7–17 on a real working ranch.

“We do a new camper orientation before the summer starts and then post it on our website, so even if you can’t attend, you can still see what

questions were asked and get a general overview,” Grogan shared.

When kids see what the camp is like in advance, it helps reduce anxiety about the first day. It’s also a way to meet some of the staff and other campers, possibly making friends before camp

Don’t hesitate to call the camp for drop-off and first-day details … even starts. Don’t be shy about asking questions during orientation.

Have Them Share Concerns — Make sure the lines of communication are open for kids to express how they are feeling. Let them know it’s normal to miss home but that camp will also

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Reinforce the idea that camp is a safe place where they can grow and learn new things.

Grogan suggests focusing on a goal or purpose for them while they are at camp. “Having a goal or a purpose in mind, like what are their hopes for going to camp, is helpful,” she said.

“During those challenging moments, they are going to be able to think back to that goal.”

She also emphasizes filling out the paperwork to inform staff of what might be an issue or concern for your child at camp.

Teach Coping Skills — In addition to talking about children’s worries, it’s helpful to provide them with tools to help when they are struggling. “Pack

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postcards in their suitcase so they can write you letters whenever they are missing you” suggested Grogan.

Other helpful coping skills include breathing exercises, meditating, taking a walk, reading, journaling, using self-talk, listening to music, and talking to a friend or counselor.

Finally, be sure to identify a point person that your child can seek out when feeling uneasy, whether that be a counselor, camp director, or an older camper that you know from home.

Pack Together — The more your campers are involved, the more prepared they will feel. Plus, it will help them get excited to start camp.

Bring them along to shop for camp supplies and let them pick out their favorite items to take for the summer.

Don’t pack their bag; have them go through the packing checklist with you. Including favorite comfort items can also help ease their worries.

Walk Through Drop-off — As the

When kids see what the camp is like in advance, it helps reduce anxiety about the first day. first day of camp approaches, discuss exactly what will happen when you drop them off at the bus stop or at the camp. Some kids board a bus in their local area and travel to camp, so it’s important they know how that works. Don’t hesitate to call the camp for drop-off and first-day details so

you can describe everything to your kids. When that day arrives, keep your goodbyes brief and avoid becoming too emotional (wear sunglasses to hide your tears if you have to). If they see that you are upset, they may feel guilty or scared about leaving.

By following these helpful tips, both you and your children are sure to have a less stressful experience as they embark on their first trip to sleepaway camp. ❖ Sandi Schwartz is an award-winning author, freelance journalist, and mother of two. She has written extensively about parenting, wellness, and environmental issues. Learn about her efforts to educate families about feeling happier and calmer through nature at ecohappinessproject.com.

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offer goods at farmer’s markets often minimize waste compared to conventional grocery stores. Many of them also use fewer harmful chemicals in their growing practices which helps keep the soil and water clean. Plus, you can find tasty new foods for your family to try.

Visit a National Park — Did you know the U.S. has 62 national parks and almost all have virtual tours? Whether you make a trip

Earth Day

12 Easy Ways to Celebrate the Planet

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By Rebecca Hastings

e all know taking care of the Earth is important, but it’s easy to let the busyness of daily life push thoughts of being eco-friendly to the back burner. Being aware of the planet and making small changes is easier than you think.

Earth Day is the perfect opportunity to remind children how to appreciate and take care of our planet. Raising earth-conscious kids has never been more important than it is today. The earth provides us with a place to call home, food, water, clothing, shelter, and even medicine. Fostering a love for our planet helps all of us live longer and healthier lives. And it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.

Start small by trying one activity a month or go all in and try all of these fun activities today.

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Plant Something — It doesn’t matter if it’s a tree, a flower, or a seed. When we grow new things, it helps the earth. Trees help replenish oxygen and keep the planet cool, flowers can help endangered species like bees, and growing your food helps reduce the amount of food transport needed. Plus, it can be a lot of fun to plant and grow something together as a family.

Find a Local Farmers Market — Supporting local farms and growers is a great way to keep the earth healthy. The farmers that April 2025

The best way to help kids take care of the earth is to fall in love with it. to visit or go virtual, helping your kids fall in love with these awe-inspiring treasures will grow their appreciation for the planet.

Recycling Challenge — Teach kids to look for recycling symbols on packages to recycle as much as possible. At the end of a week see how much you recycle compared to how much you throw away. Try to get your recycling output to beat your trash output each week.

Make a Recycled Craft — Kids love to get creative. Instead of grabbing the usual art supplies, use some of those recycled items to create something. You can have a theme or let everyone create whatever they want. This is a great, earth-friendly rainy-day craft!

Give It Away — Instead of tossing things you no longer want or need in the trash, have a household collection day. Once your family gathers a group of items, make a www.mendolakefamilylife.com

family trip to the local donation center or give things to another family that could use them. You can even think about younger children who would enjoy playing with toys your kids have outgrown. It can be fun for kids to see their favorite playthings being used by another child who will enjoy them.

Make a Birdfeeder — Gather pinecones or large sticks to use for the feeder. Cover them with a layer of peanut butter and roll in birdseed.

Hang outdoors for birds to enjoy.

Get Inspired — Watch the video of young poet Amanda Gorman reciting her poem, “Earthwise.”

Children and adults will be inspired to treat our planet well.

Take 52 — Commit to taking one hike, walk, or bike ride each week this year. Try making a chart to keep on the fridge to see your progress throughout the year.

state. Do a little research about Leave No Trace and then have a fun family challenge. On your next outing see if you can cover your tracks and leave no trace that you were even there.

Being aware of the planet and making small changes is easier than you think.

Get Outside — The best way to help kids take care of the earth is to fall in love with it. Spending time outside, enjoying the beautiful creatures and landscapes is great for fresh air and exercise as well as learning to love this great big beautiful planet we call home.

Just One Thing — Swap out one plastic item for a more sustainable option from your household per month. Try reusable water bottles, travel mugs, straws, shopping bags, or sandwich bags to reduce plastic waste.

Leave No Trace — This is an effort to leave the planet in its most natural

When we are intentional about taking care of the planet, everyone wins! ❖ Rebecca is a published author and former teacher passionate about authenticity, faith, and family. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places, or wherever there is chocolate. Connect with her at RebeccaHastings.net and on Instagram.

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Interactive Play: Encourage interactive play that doesn’t involve screens, such as building blocks, drawing, or playing outside.

Scheduled Screen Time: Set a daily limit on screen time and stick to it. Use a timer to make it fun and predictable.

Electronics Management How to Balance Children’s Screen Time

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By Marin Cristian-Ovidiu

hese days, it’s not unusual to see little kids swiping away on tablets and smartphones like pros. These ‘iPad babies’ are spending more and more time glued to screens, causing parents to worry about how it’s affecting their growth and behavior.

One 2023 study showed that kids aged 6 to 14 spend an average of 2.77 hours a day on screens, with nearly half of them clocking in at least 2 hours daily.

It’s no wonder parents are desperately seeking out ways to handle screen time without the constant battles.

Parents need to strike a balance so kids can enjoy technology without it taking over their lives. With these expert tips, you can help your child develop healthy habits across different age groups: 16 MendoLakeFamilyLife

Set a daily limit on screen time and stick to it.

Children Under 6: At this age, children are rapidly developing cognitive and motor skills through hands-on activities and interactive play. They need a variety of non-screen activities to support their overall growth.

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Co-Viewing: Watch educational programs together and engage in discussions to make screen time more interactive and meaningful.

Ages 7-11: Children in this age group are increasingly using technology for both education and entertainment. Parents should guide

Show your teens that you also prioritize screen-free time and engage in various offline activities. them towards productive screen use while ensuring they have ample opportunities for physical and social activities.

Educational Apps: Incorporate educational apps and games that promote learning and creativity.

Screen-Free Zones: Designate certain areas of the house, like the dining room and bedrooms, as screen-free zones.

Active Breaks: Encourage breaks during screen time for physical activities like stretching or a quick game of catch.

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offline interests is key to maintaining a healthy balance.

Set Boundaries: Clearly define screen time limits and involve your child in setting these boundaries to ensure they understand the importance.

Encourage Hobbies: Promote offline hobbies and interests, such as sports, reading, or arts and crafts, to provide alternative sources of entertainment.

Tech-Free Time: Establish tech-free times, especially during family meals and before bedtime, to foster family interaction and improve sleep quality.

Ages 16+: Older teens are preparing for adulthood and need to learn

how to manage their own screen time responsibly. Encouraging self-regulation and setting a good example are essential strategies.

Parents need to strike a balance so kids can enjoy technology without it taking over their lives.

Self-Regulation: Teach teens about the importance of self-regulating their screen time and the potential impacts on their health and well-being.

Healthy Balance: Encourage a healthy balance between screen time and other activities, such as

physical exercise and socializing with friends in person.

Role Modeling: Lead by example.

Show your teens that you also prioritize screen-free time and engage in various offline activities.

Managing screen time is key for children’s growth. It’s not just about cutting down on screen time but making sure it’s used well and balanced with other activities.

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Graduation Guide Advice for Parents on Getting it Right

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By Katy M. Clark

ne of the best parts of my son’s high school graduation was unexpected. It wasn’t the processional, with hundreds of young people in their caps and gowns marching onto the football field.

It wasn’t the speeches — although, thankfully, the ones at my son’s graduation were short and generated some laughs.

The unexpected part of graduation was post ceremony, when my son moved from friend group to friend group, hugging, shaking hands, and snapping pictures.

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new classmates he met as a high school senior. He shook hands with teammates from sports he’d played.

It was amazing to see him mark this moment with so many kids from so many different parts of his life.

It made me think: Wouldn’t it be awesome to congratulate, honor, and recognize all the parents who walked alongside us and our high school graduates to this day April 2025

Starting with parents I met at daycare, the ones I saw at drop-off or pick-up when our kids were little.

They were some of the first friends I made as a parent. We made strides together in our early attempts to balance work and parenting.

I’d want pictures with the playgroup moms who welcomed me and my messy, loud, crying tot into their homes. And the summertime moms, with whom I visited the beach or pool to get the kids out of the house for a few hours. These moms made me feel less alone and sprinkled my days with the sunshine of adult companionship.

Then the birthday party parents.

We spent dozens of weekends with each other at miniature golf, laser tag, or bounce house venues, and weathered the noise and mirth of places like Chuck E. Cheese on Saturday afternoons.

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I’d want pictures with the room volunteers. Together we manned craft tables at holidays, helped small groups with reading or spelling, and ran activities in the hot sun on Field Day. Parents who chaperoned field trips.

They know how hard it is to keep a group of youngsters from wandering off! And the mom who partnered with me on a middle school trip.

Without her, I don’t know how I would have endured a rowdy group singing the Spongebob Squarepants theme song over and over.

I’d want pictures of the church parents who greeted my family every Sunday, prayed for my child, taught his youth group, and walked alongside my child in his faith journey from tot to teen.

I’d pose for pictures with sports team parents. They cheered for my kid as I cheered for theirs. We shivered in the rain by soccer fields and shared blankets in the hockey rink so we didn’t freeze.

These moms made me feel less alone and sprinkled my days with the sunshine of adult companionship.

Looking around the crowd after my son’s high school graduation, there were so many more parents whose photos someone might treasure. The parents who helped with scout troops, or debate, or

the robotics teams. Who prepped for band competitions or theater performances. Parents who ran the parent-teacher organizations.

If I were to attend a high school graduation all over again, I’d snap pictures with all the people who were part of our family’s journey to this occasion. I’d hug and high five them. After years of trying to coordinate our schedules to hang out, we were actually all here.

Together, we made raising our kids a little easier, less lonely, and a lot more fun. ❖ Katy M. Clark is a writer and mom of two who embraces her imperfections on her blog Experienced Bad Mom.

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3. Spread the joy: In the weeks leading up to Easter, think about how your family can spread joy with others in the community. Kids can color Easter cards and deliver them to neighbors. Grandparents can make a special spring dessert with grandchildren. Families and teens can serve in a soup kitchen. Make the holiday one to celebrate with the community.

Celebrate Easter Activities for the Whole Family

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By Rebecca Hastings aster egg hunts, coloring eggs, and chocolate bunnies are all things children look forward to each year for Easter. While these are great ways to celebrate, it can be tricky to think of new things to do. Plus, it shouldn’t only be kids getting in on the fun. Here are some fun ways to spread the Easter cheer for everyone in the family.

Getting Ready The holiday doesn’t have to last just one day. Build excitement and prepare for the holiday together with these simple ideas.

1. Read all about it! Reading books is a great way to learn about the holiday and build excitement. Plus, there is something for everyone.

If you want to focus on the faith aspects of the holiday you can try The Story of Easter (under 5), The Berenstain Bears and the Easter Story (ages 5-10), or a lent study or reading plan on the YouVersion Bible App (tweens and up).

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Other fun books for kids are Happy Easter from the Crayons (ages 4-8), How to Catch the Easter Bunny (ages 2-6), and Easter Eggstravaganza Mad Libs (ages 6 and up).

2. Something to wear: Easter is a great time to get dressed up!

Make it a special occasion for all ages by encouraging people to wear their Sunday best or follow a theme like florals or spring colors. Instead of picking things out for kids and presenting them on the day of Easter, let them help choose and plan their outfits. Hang it someplace special so they can see it and look forward to wearing it.

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Create the Perfect Easter Baskets There are so many fun options for things to include in an Easter basket. Have fun thinking outside the box — or basket! An especially fun idea is to have something special for the big kids and grown-ups, too. Here are some ideas to get you started: The basket: A traditional basket is a good starting place, but you can also think beyond that. Things to use instead of a standard basket …

• New pastel sand bucket with a shovel • Easter-themed gift bag • Reusable tote • Makeup bag • Upside-down hat, helmet or ballcap • Open umbrella turned upside down • Fun mug • Watering can • Jumbo plastic egg • Beach bag or purse • Mason jar • Hatbox • Flowerpot • Mixing bowl • Toy dump truck • Rain boots Filler: Most baskets have some sort of filler to take up space and feel festive. Many people use plastic Easter grass, but if you are looking for some www.mendolakefamilylife.com

other options, there are plenty of ideas.

Environmentally friendly options include: • Tissue paper • Shredded paper • Yarn or felt pom-poms • Inflated mini balloons • Moss • Ribbon • Edible grass • Rafia • Colorful scarves The basics: Some of the classic things you can include are Easter eggs, jelly beans, and a chocolate bunny.

Then build from there.

Beyond basics: This is where you can customize things for each person by choosing favorite treats and unexpected gifts. Think about what each recipient would enjoy.

• Is there a special kind of candy they like?

• Do they have a hobby?

• What will make them feel special?

Build excitement and prepare for the holiday together with these simple ideas.

When you fill a basket with the recipient in mind, you’re sure to create something they will love! Here are some ideas that go beyond candy: • Books • Puzzles • Candles • Small craft kits • Flower or vegetable seeds

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Fun Activities & Games Easter egg hunts are a tried-and-true tradition for celebrating the holiday.

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• PlayDoh • Hair clips • Crayons • Mini toys such as Rubix Cube or Etch-a-Sketch • Tiny Lego set • Mini tool kit • Gourmet coffee or tea • Deck of cards • Bubbles • Glow sticks • Chapstick • Gum • Stickers • Bath bombs or bubble bath

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celebrating the holiday with you and try these ideas so everyone has a fun way to celebrate.

Traditional Easter Egg Hunt: Hide plastic eggs filled with candy outside or around the house. Let children explore and find their treasures, keeping what they find.

Shared Easter Egg Hunt: Make the hunt feel fair by collecting all eggs and divvying up the candy equally at the end. This allows kids to still hunt for eggs but evens the playing field.

This can be especially important if you have different ages.

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Buddy Easter Egg Hunt: Pair a little one with a teen or adult to hunt for eggs. This is a great way to get everyone involved in the fun.

Scavenger Hunt: Instead of hunting for eggs, try a scavenger hunt that leads to a prize or their Easter basket. For young children, the clues can be pictures or things they need to collect. For older kids and adults, you

When you fill a basket with the recipient in mind, you’re sure to create something they will love! can find clues online or write your own. You can even expand this idea by having a scavenger hunt that requires finding things in the neighborhood.

Easy Indoor Activities If you’re stuck inside on Easter, you’ll need some simple things to help you have fun. Here are some easy indoor ideas …

• Tic-Tac-Toe: Using graham crackers and icing, create a tic-tac-toe board. Then use jellybeans to play.

• Bake Off: Create a score sheet to rate each of the desserts and see which one gets the most votes. Give a prize to whoever made the winning treat.

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• Resurrection Eggs: Try using these special eggs in an indoor hunt and use the cards and special trinkets to tell the story of Easter. ❖ Rebecca is a published author and former teacher passionate about authenticity, faith, and family. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places, or wherever there is chocolate.

Connect with her at RebeccaHastings.net and on Instagram.

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Calendar of Events

Campovida Earth Day

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very day is Earth Day at Campovida! Mother Nature is calling … come appreciate all she offers. Recognize this time as a chance to reconnect with nature and reground yourself.

Leave a legacy at Campovida by tagging a tree to revisit time after time and remind you that you leave an impact on the planet. Draw from a basket of prize eggs to receive a special gift from the farm.

Saturday, April 12 from 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Campovida. 13601 Old River Rd. on the Campovida Estate in Hopland. Find more details at tinyurl.com/329upxpr.

Tuesday 1 FREE Art in the Schools. Local

elementary and high schools present student artwork and projects. Thru April 6. 11 a.m.–4 p.m. The Burnett Gallery and the Elaine Jacob Foyer at Gualala Arts Center. 46501 Old State Hwy., Gualala. tinyurl.com/y24mbt46.

Ballet Class. Ballet classes for all

ages. Other dates throughout April.

3:30–6:30 p.m. 15051 Caspar Rd., Caspar. Check class schedule by contacting instructor Aline Jalfim: (707) 734–0952. casparcommons.org/ calendar.

FREE Library events. Family Game Time, Tech Tuesday, Children’s Storytime, Kids’ Crafts, Cookbook Club, Stitch Club, Lego Club, and much more. Various dates and times throughout the month. Mendocino and Lake County libraries. Calendars: mendolibrary.org/events and lakecountyca.gov/calendar.

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Gray Whales passing by. Three walking tours to choose from, too. Saturdays. 11 a.m.–3 p.m.

Point Cabrillo Light Station State Historic Park. 45300 Lighthouse Rd., Mendocino. pointcabrillo.org/ self-guided-whale-trail.

Close Encounters of the Third Kind.

The Mendocino Film Festival classic film series. Tickets: $16.79. 7–9 p.m.

Coast Cinemas, 135 S. Franklin St., Fort Bragg. tinyurl.com/38hr72k8.

Thursday 3 Wild Heart Men’s Retreat. Led

by GBT–friendly facilitators, this weekend retreat offers a blend of breathwork and embodiment practices toward self-discovery and healing.

April 3. 3 p.m.–April 6. noon. Spirit Camp Retreat Center. 4640 Albion Little River Rd., Little River. spirit. camp/retreats.

BASKERVILLE: A Sherlock Holmes Mystery. A fast-paced comedy about

everyone’s favorite detective, Sherlock Holmes, solving his most notorious case before a family curse dooms its

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newest heir. April 3–5. 7:30 p.m. April 6. 2 p.m. mendocinotheatre.org.

Friday 4 Rhododendron Walks. More than 1,000 rhododendrons can be seen blooming throughout the gardens. Free with cost of admission.

Fridays.1–3 p.m. Mendocino Coast Botanical Gardens. 18220 N. Hwy. 1, Fort Bragg. gardenbythesea.org/ calendar/rhododendron-walks.

Fool’s Weekend. Hit and Run Theater players present improv with musical accompaniment. All ages welcome. Snacks available for purchase. Admission: $25. Seniors: $20. Kids under 18: $15. Also April 5. 7 p.m. The Caspar Community Center. 15051 Caspar Rd., Caspar. hitandruntheater.com.

First Friday Art Walk. Join artists and their hosts for an evening of art, music, and refreshments strolling from one venue to the next, each showcasing local art and artistry.

First Friday of each month. 5–8 p.m. Participating Galleries: Corner Gallery/Art Center Ukiah, Grace

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Hunt for Eggs!

Friday 11 Skunk Train Easter Express.

Two–hour train excursion, featuring Easter egg surprises, a special Easter treat and pink lemonade, plus a visit from the Easter bunny. $64.95-$99.95.

Infants (2 & under) ride free on a lap.

Dog: $10.95. Through April 20. Hours vary. Willits Skunk Train Depot. 299 E. Commercial St., Willits. skunktrain. com/easter-express.

Friday 18 FREE First Annual Glow In The Dark Teen Egg Hunt. Ages 12 and older. Bilingual. 7:30–9 p.m. Clearlake Youth Center. 4750 Golf Ave., Clearlake. tinyurl.com/mrhndtu3.

Saturday 19 FREE Fort Bragg Lions & Leos Easter Egg Hunt. Four age groups:

0–2, 3–5, 6–7, 8–10 yrs. Many prizes in the special eggs. Bring baskets.

10–10:15 a.m. Bainbridge Park.

E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. tinyurl. com/43rpades.

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FREE City of Clearlake Egg Hunt.

Ages 0–11. Event is limited to 500 children. Bring basket. 10–11:30 a.m.

Clearlake Youth Center. 4750 Golf Ave., Clearlake. Sign-up early: tinyurl. com/yruvbuab.

FREE 1st Annual Jack & Noel’s Easter Egg Hunt.2 fields. Ages

0–5 yrs and 6+. Bring a basket. 10 a.m. Jack & Noel’s Holiday Garden.

9532 Laughlin Way, Redwood Valley facebook.com/jackandnoels.

FREE Easter Eggstravaganza. Visit the Easter bunny, basket giveaways (while supplies last), petting zoo, and special showing of Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory. Bring basket.

11 a.m.–2 p.m. Twin Pines Casino.

22223 CA-29, Middletown. tinyurl. com/2pyr7wyx.

Easter Egg Splash. Ages 1–16 yrs.

Rubber ducky races and egg hunt.

Bring basket or bag, bathing suit, and towel. $5 Entry. 1–4 p.m. CV Starr Community Center. 300 S. Lincoln, Fort Bragg. tinyurl.com/4ukvwe37.

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Sunday 20 Reverse Easter Egg Hunt. Kids hide

eggs for parents, and adults can join the fun. Find the Golden Egg to win a reward. Complimentary for cottage guests all month. 9:30–10:30 a.m. Mar Vista Farm + Cottages. 35101 Hwy. CA-1, Gualala. tinyurl.com/mrxuabam.

FREE Lakeport Rotary Egg Hunt.

Three age groups: 0–3, 4–8, & 8–12 yrs. 2,880 eggs with 300 of them being “Special Pay” eggs. Gates: 1:15 p.m. Hunt: 1:30 p.m. Lake County Fairgrounds. 401 Martin St., Lakeport. lakeportrotary.org/easter-egg-hunt-2.

Lower Lake Easter Extravaganza.

Egg hunt two groups: 0–8 yrs. and 9 and older. Golden eggs and prizes.

Ages 17 and under: $5–$10. Free entry ages 18+. 1–5 p.m. Hunt: 3:30 p.m. Piñatas: 4:30 p.m. Hanitzy Services. 10355 Hwy. 29, Lower Lake.

Registration required: tinyurl.com/ ypyx9u43.

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Hudson Museum, and Medium Art Gallery — Deep Valley Arts Collective.

Downtown Ukiah. artwalkukiah.org.

Saturday 5 Lighthouse Tours. Join volunteer

docents for the unique opportunity to climb to the top of Mendocino’s

historic lighthouse. $10 per adult, $5 per child (under 18; must be over 42” tall). Tours last between 15 and 20 minutes. 11 a.m.–2 p.m. Point Cabrillo Light Station State Historic Park.

45300 Lighthouse Rd., Mendocino. pointcabrillo.org/visit/events.

Nailed It! Adult Craft with Amie. Bad at crafts? Love Pinterest? This is the place for you! All supplies provided.

April’s project: A Most Eggcellent Wreath. Space is limited. 2–3:30 p.m.

Fort Bragg Branch Library, 499 E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. Sign-ups are required: fortbragglibrary@gmail.com.

Sunday 6 FREE Disability Awareness Day.

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10 class pass for $170 / 5 class pass for $85

Celebrating ability in every form.

Family games, community resources, food available for purchase. Bring your lawn chairs and blankets for a spot on the lawn. Noon–3 p.m. Alex Thomas Plaza. 20290 S. State St., Ukiah. tinyurl.com/bdd75bnu.

FREE Sunday Funday. As weather permits, there will be a collection of yard games on the lawn. Choose from Giant Jenga, Giant Connect 4, Giant Yahtzee, Darts, Disc Golf Putter, and Cornhole. On blistery days, board games, cards, and dice inside. Noon–6 p.m. Food available for purchase. No outside food allowed. The Mercantile.

4350 Thomas Dr., Lakeport. lakeportmainstreet.com/events.

Photos with Easter Bunny. Have

your picture taken. No appointment needed. Packages start at $7. April 6–7. 3–6 p.m. Triple S Camera.

260 S. School St., Ukiah. tinyurl. com/3fcjuspt.

Brazilian JiuJitsu HIIT Fusion Taekwondo Subtle Body Movement Cardio, Tone & Sweat Barre Fitness Intermediate & Advanced Ballet Japanese JuJutsu Mobility & Stability MixxedFit & Barre Toning

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Easter Egg Splash. Eggs hidden in the pool. Three ages groups, ages 1–12. Bring basket. $5 entry. 10 a.m.– Noon. CV Starr Community Center.

300 S. Lincoln, Fort Bragg. tinyurl. com/4th3vs95.

FREE Gypsy. Showing of the classic musical. Donations appreciated.

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Doors open 5:30 p.m. Showing 6–8:30 p.m. Concessions available for purchase. Soper Reese Theatre. 275 S. Main St., Lakeport. soperreesetheatre.com.

Wednesday 9 Creative Writing Workshop. A

monthly workshop taught by published authors. Each month will feature a different genre/style/or theme.

Open and free to all adults. Bring your notebooks and pencils. This month’s theme is The NOVEL: plotting your way out of a paper bag with Ericka Lutz. 2–3:30 p.m. Fort Bragg Library.

499 E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. For more details, email fortbragglibrary@ gmail.com.

African Dance Class. Break down of

traditional dance steps, then dancing to associated drum music. All levels welcome. Cost: $10. Multiple classes in April. 5:30–7 p.m. Caspar Community Center, 15051 Caspar Rd., Caspar.

Contact: neno@divadesignstudio.com. casparcommons.org/calendar.

St. Catharine’s Girls Choir. Concert

for all ages. $15 per person in advance. $20 at the door. 7 p.m. Gualala Arts Center. 46501 Old State Highway, Gualala. gualalaarts.org/2025/04/ st-catharines-girls-choir-2.

Friday 11 Skunk Train Easter Express.

Two–hour train excursion, featuring Easter egg surprises, a special Easter treat and pink lemonade, plus a visit from the Easter Bunny. $64.95-$99.95.

Infants (2 & under) ride free on a lap. Dog: $10.95. Through April 20. Hours vary. Willits Skunk Train Depot. 299 E. Commercial St., Willits.

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Schedule and tickets: skunktrain.com/ easter-express.

FREE Poetry for Everyone.

Arts Center. 46501 Old State Hwy., Gualala. gualalaarts.org/2025/04/ poetry-for-everyone-3.

Celebrate National Poetry Month by bringing an original poem or two, or poems by other authors, to share. Snacks provided along with a no-host bar. 4–5:30 p.m. Gualala

Saturday 12 Nature Walks. Plants are the main

subject of observance and discussion, but also animals such as birds, marine mammals, insects, amphibians,

CHILDREN’S DENTAL HEALTH REMINDERS Healthy dental habits start age 0.

What can you do?

For Babies: Wipe gums 2x a day with a soft, clean cloth when teeth come in, brush 2x a day For children: Brush 2x a day with fluoride toothpaste Help your child brush their teeth until they have good brushing skills Schedule regular dental visits Ask child’s dentist to apply dental sealants when appropriate Help your child get a head start to healthy teeth and gums!

Smile, CALIFORNIA is the Medi-Cal oral health resource for families.

Oral Health is an important part of overall health for all stages of life, from infant to senior.

For more information about covered services, finding an oral health provider, and FAQ go to smilecalifornia.org or call 1-800-322-6384

www.mendocinocounty.gov/departments/public-health/community-wellness

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and more. $15 members. $25 non–members. Also April 26. 10 a.m.– Noon. Mendocino Coast Botanical Gardens, 18220 N. Hwy. 1, Fort Bragg. gardenbythesea.org/calendar/ nature-walks-2025.

Earth Day Celebration. Reconnect and reground with nature. Come tag a tree, revisit time after time to remember you leave an impact. Draw from a basket of prize eggs. 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Campovida. 13601 Old River Rd., Hopland. tinyurl.com/329upxpr.

FREE StoryWalk® Fiesta. Kids, 0-8,

and their grown-ups. Join the library for some fun activities as it kicks off its Downtown StoryWalk®. 2–3 p.m. Fort Bragg Branch Library, 499 E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. fortbragglibrary.org.

An Affair to Remember. Ukiah

Senior Center fundraiser. Dinner followed by dancing. Individual tickets start at $115. 5–10 p.m. Carl Purdy Hall. 1055 N. State St., Ukiah. tinyurl. com/rc2bmwsh.

Tuesday 15 FREE Downtown StoryWalk®.

Families walk their way through the book Diminuta by Silvina Rocha. Start at the library and follow the map in order, reading more pages of the giant book at the different stops along the way. Through May 3. A printable map is available at fortbragglibrary.org (or pick one up at the library).

Saturday 19 FREE Fort Bragg Lions & Leos Easter Egg Hunt. Four age groups:

0–2, 3–5, 6–7, & 8–10 yrs. 40 grand prizes. Bring baskets. Easter bunny there for photos. 10 a.m. Bainbridge Park. E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. fortbragglionsclub.org.

Earth Day Festival. Noyo Food

Forest presents a giant plant sale, live music, makers market, crafts for kids, food available for purchase, and more.

Noon–5 p.m. Fort Bragg High School.

300 Dana St., Fort Bragg. See full schedule: tinyurl.com/25kjat59.

Sunday 20 Reverse Easter Egg Hunt. Kids hide eggs for parents to find. Adults-only groups are welcome to join in the fun as well. Plus, the lucky guest who finds the Golden Egg will receive a reward. Events throughout the month are for guests staying at the cottage

First Presbyterian Church of Ukiah 514 W Church St. Ukiah

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and are complimentary. Mar Vista Farm + Cottages. 35101 CA-1, Gualala.

Schedule: marvistafarmandcottages. com/calendar.

FREE Lakeport Rotary Egg Hunt.

Bring baskets & arrive early. 2,880 eggs. Three age groups. Golden & silver eggs cash prizes. Easter bunny photos. Gates open: 1:15 p.m. Hunt begins: 1:30 p.m. Lake County Fairgrounds. 401 Martin St., Lakeport. lakeportrotary.org/easter-egg-hunt-2.

Tuesday 22 FREE Room for One More. Showing of classic Cary Grant film. Donations appreciated. Concessions available for purchase. Doors open 5:30 p.m.

Showing 6–7:30 p.m. Soper Reese Theatre. 275 S. Main St., Lakeport. soperreesetheatre.com.

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FREE 23rd Annual Haiku Festival.

A celebration devoted to the haiku form of poetry. Readings of past haiku contest winners from various local luminaries followed by an all-ages open mic. 2–4 p.m. Grace Hudson Museum Wild Gardens. 431 S Main St., Ukiah. ukiahaiku.org.

Reclaim Your Vitality. Ready to

rediscover your inner spark? Secure your enneagram retreat spot now. $500. April 23, noon–April 28, 2 p.m.

Spirit Camp Retreat Center. 4640 Albion Little River Rd., Little River. tinyurl.com/yvpzerst.

Saturday 26 FREE Open Mic Poetry Series.

Begins with one or two featured readers and a brief break, followed by the open mic. Featured readers for February are Thomas Roberdeau and Scott Croghan. Last Saturday of every month. 4–6 p.m. Mendocino Art Center, Stevenson Studio. 45200 Little Lake St., Mendocino. devreauxbaker. org/events.

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WIN: Four Annual Passes if you find the Golden Egg Chance to win on every ride!

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Humor Break 12:30 p.m.: Lunchtime already?

After preparing them a meal destined for the garbage disposal, gulp down the soggy half-eaten remains of your child’s breakfast waffle. Don’t worry about avoiding your kid’s germs, since it’s a proven fact that not even a full body hazmat suit will prevent you from getting sick later.

Sick Day Survival Remember: This Too Shall Pass

By Gina Rich

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ven when my kids are too ill for school, they somehow have enough spunk to whine constantly, taking occasional breaks to bicker over toys that neither has played with in months.

Despite the best intentions of handling each illness with grace, the truth is after a day (or maybe an hour) of playing nurse to cranky, stir-crazy children, I generally start to lose it.

If you can relate, simply refer to the handy schedule below …

6:30 a.m.: Brew lots of coffee.

You’ve probably been up at least once during the night with a feverish, crying, or vomiting child. Throw a lid on that caffeinated nectar of the gods.

You can look forward to your first sip approximately four hours from now.

8:30 a.m.: If your child is in the mood to eat, lovingly prepare them a vitamin-packed, nutrient-rich 30 MendoLakeFamilyLife

smoothie. Artfully serve the drink with a beautifully cut strawberry garnish. Then sob silently when your child takes one sip and says, “This is disgusting! I want goldfish crackers/ the Christmas candy I stashed under my bed when you weren’t looking.”

11 a.m.: Time for arts and crafts!

You may need to negotiate the return of your phone or laptop from the germ-infested clutches of your patient.

After the screaming subsides, scour Pinterest for the most complex project you can find. Painstakingly assemble supplies, making sure huge amounts of glitter are available.

Sit on the floor with your lukewarm coffee and watch your child make a giant mess. Bonus points if more than one kid is home sick and you get to listen to them squabble over paintbrushes and glue sticks.

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2 p.m.: Ideally, your child will nap and let you get some rest, catch up on work, or tackle some household projects. (Ha! Sometimes I really crack myself up.) Should you miraculously get down time, go ahead and text or call friends whose kids are also home sick. Misery loves company.

You may need to negotiate the return of your phone or laptop from the germ-infested clutches of your patient.

3:30 p.m.: If you’ve avoided using screens so far, you’re superhuman and should probably be photographed and honored on some intergalactic parenting wall of fame. Otherwise, collapse back on the couch for another round of Disney Jr. 7 p.m.: With luck, another adult is home to relieve you to drown your frazzled nerves in a glass of wine or an IV drip of your favorite chocolate. The rest of the evening will be a blur, but plan to pass out with your kid right after dinner. In fact, I better go lie down now; I feel a sniffle coming on. ❖ Gina Rich lives in Wisconsin, where she writes about parenting, health, and the natural world for publications including the Washington Post, Notre Dame Magazine, and others.

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