Chicago Style Weddings JanuaryFebruary 2020

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Chic & Unique WEDDING IDEAS FOR EVERY CELEBRATION

Congratulations on Your Engagement !

Iam truly honored and thrilled to say the journey you are about to embark upon is one of the most memorable times in your life. Enjoy it!

The planning process will be filled with excitement and important decisions. Although planning a wedding may be viewed as a long and challenging process, our team wants to make it fun and easy for you!

We have carefully curated every page of the magazine to help you along the way. From planning tips and tools to timelines and check lists – your essential planning resource will help you find everything you need to plan the perfect celebration.

First, you need to assemble your team. The people you can trust with your unique vision for your Big Day.

When do you envision yourself walking down the aisle? How many guests do you intend to invite? Those answers will really get the ball rolling for you. Select your venue and now you’re off!

Choosing your dress is one of the most personal elements of all. Find your unique style within the pages of our fabulous fashion shoot and Gown Glamour. These gowns are wow-worthy and let you express yourself in a highly stylized way.

If festive décor is more your fancy, you will love our Designers’ Challenge photo shoot! Maybe it’s culinary creations - let Chicago’s top chefs create a wedding meal that’s sure to evoke “Compliments to the Chef!”

Our pages are packed full of endless ideas, dazzling designs and gorgeous gowns so you can customize your day to personalized perfection. Take these ideas and make them your own!

Whatever you decide, you can’t go wrong because within these pages you will find the most talented, inspirational, and savvy vendors in the business. These experts will take you from engagement ring to wedding band without a hitch. Still need more ideas and inspiration? No problem! Check us out online at chicagostyleweddings.com, follow us on Instagram and like our Facebook page. Planning a fabulous fete has never been so easy!

Best Wishes,

Kelly Broz

Kelly Broz Publisher

2019 | 2020 EDITION

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Joseph H. Chambers

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Kelly Broz

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Covers

September/October

GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, Sophie et Voilà

HEADPIECE Eugenia Kim

JEWELRY State Street Jewelers

HAIR Zazú Salon

MAKEUP Bridal Brigade

STYLING The Wedding Dresser

LOCATION Loews Chicago Hotel

PHOTOGRAPHY Rick Aguilar Studios

March/April

GOWN Luxe Bridal Rack, LiRi Bridal

EARRINGS, NECKLACE, RING Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

BRACELET State Street Jewelers

SUIT Formally Modern Tuxedo

EARRINGS, RIGHT HAND RING, SHIRT STUDS Eve J. Alfillé

Gallery & Studio

HAIR Zazú Salon | MAKEUP Bridal Brigade

STYLING The Wedding Dresser

LOCATION Loews Chicago Hotel

PHOTOGRAPHY Rick Aguilar Studios

November/December

GOWN Jenny by Jenny Yoo

PHOTOGRAPHY This Modern Romance HAIR & MAKEUP KC Witkamp

January/February

GOWN Netta BenShabu

PHOTOGRAPHY Dvir Kahlon

HAIR Ran Karisi MAKEUP Naor Appel

May/June

GOWN Netta BenShabu

PHOTOGRAPHY Dvir Kahlon HAIR Ran Karisi MAKEUP Naor Appeli

July/August

GOWN Berta

PHOTOGRAPHY Dudi Hasson

RICK AGUILAR STUDIOS

IN THIS ISSUE

Culinary

290 Food Truck Frenzy

295 Give My Compliments to the Chef

298 Sweet Slices

304 Delicious Decisions

Entertainment

324 The Most Important Playlist of Your Life

Floral & Décor

320 How Can I Ever Thank You! Photography 306

IN THIS ISSUE

12 MONTH

Planning Checklist

You have said “YES!” but now what? With plenty to do before walking down the aisle, our twelve-month planning checklist will help you stay organized without experiencing the occasional mini-breakdown. By using our easy-to-navigate guide, you will be able to plan your Big Day while also enjoying every moment of your exciting new chapter.

ONE YEAR

___Create your budget.

___Begin researching wedding vendors (go to chicagostyleweddings.com/vendordirectory to get started).

___Choose a date and time for your ceremony and reception.

___Select and book your ceremony location and reception venue.

___Choose your attendants.

___Begin wedding dress shopping.

___Decide on an officiant and meet with him or her to learn about any premarital requirements.

___Begin planning the guest list to get a rough idea of head count.

___Determine your wedding theme, colors and décor.

TEN-TWELVE MONTHS

___Finalize your guest list.

___If you are having a destination wedding, mail save-the-dates.

___Choose your dress and accessories and schedule delivery date and fitting(s).

___Select dresses for bridal attendants.

___Meet with and make final decisions on your team of vendors: wedding planner, stationer, floral and décor, caterer, musicians, photographer, videographer, transportation.

___Get a facial and start your pre-wedding skincare routine.

___Have engagement photos taken.

GOWN Enzoani via White Dress Bridal Boutique

SHINE

Be

EVE J. ALFILLÉ GALLERY & STUDIO

NINE MONTHS

___Begin to plan groom’s and groomsmen’s attire.

___Register for gifts.

___Reserve a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.

___Reserve any rental equipment such as tables, chairs and tent (if necessary).

___Choose a cake designer for your wedding cake and groom’s cake.

___Select hair and makeup vendors.

SIX-EIGHT MONTHS

___Mail your save-the-dates.

___Start planning your rehearsal dinner.

___Choose wedding favors for your guests.

___Meet with your officiant to plan ceremony details.

___Start planning your honeymoon (check passports/visas if necessary).

___Secure transportation to and from the ceremony and reception.

___Purchase wedding bands and arrange for engraving.

___Reserve groom’s and groomsmen’s attire.

___Schedule hair and makeup trials.

THREE-FIVE MONTHS

___Meet with caterer to discuss menu details.

___Plan welcome bags for out-of-town guests.

___Choose the ceremony music and discuss reception music with your band or DJ.

___Confirm out-of-town guest accommodations.

ENCHANTING CREATIONS

SENT WITH LOVE

Select stationery that tells your unique love story. Mail your invitations two months before the wedding to ensure arrival and enough time for your guests to RSVP. INVITATIONS BY DESIGN

TWO MONTHS

___Mail your invitations.

___Develop a system for organizing RSVPs.

___Begin to write wedding vows.

___Prep for bachelor and bachelorette parties.

___Confirm details for rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception.

ONE MONTH

___Pick up rings and check engraving.

___Research local marriage license and name change requirements.

___Have your final dress fitting.

___Confirm details with the florist, caterer, entertainers and officiant.

___Have a trial run for full hair and makeup.

___Purchase gifts for attendants, flower girl, ring bearer, fiancé, parents and anyone else who helped make your wedding extra special.

___Attend bachelor and bachelorette parties.

___Plan for floral and dress preservation.

___Decide who will do readings and toasts.

___Finalize wedding vows.

TWO WEEKS

___Finalize seating arrangement.

___Give caterer and venue final guest count.

___Break in your wedding shoes.

___Get last pre-wedding haircut and color.

___Practice your wedding vows.

Don’t be a late bloomer! Meet with your florist ten to twelve months before the Big Day to ensure you’ll have the floral arrangements of your dreams. PHILLIP’S FLOWERS

ONE WEEK

___Give assignments to wedding party members and remind them of rehearsal details.

___Obtain marriage license.

___Confirm timelines and details with all vendors.

___Assign attendant to collect gifts and cards.

___Prepare tip envelopes for vendors and arrange for someone to distribute them the day of the wedding.

___Perfect your wedding vows.

ONE DAY

___Get a manicure and pedicure.

___Arrange to have welcome bags delivered to hotel rooms.

___Host rehearsal dinner and hand out special gifts to the wedding party.

___Ensure dress, shoes, jewelry and accessories are all ready to go.

___Pack overnight bag if you are staying at a hotel the night of your wedding.

WEDDING DAY

___Arrange to get checked in and have luggage delivered to your hotel.

___Relax and enjoy the day!

Obtaining an Illinois Marriage License

REQUIREMENTS

Both partners must appear together in person at the time of application.

WHO MAY APPLY

Unmarried people who are 18 years of age or older and not blood relatives can apply for a marriage license, as can first cousins 50 years or older. People 16 and 17 years of age must provide the following information: sworn consent, in person, from each parent or legal guardian before the county clerk at the time of application, as well as a certified copy of their birth certificates and a second form of identification to show their date of birth. Those giving consent must provide proper identification, including a valid driver’s license, state ID or a valid U.S. passport. If the legal guardian is giving consent, a certified copy of his or her guardianship papers must be provided.

WHAT TO PROVIDE

You must provide one of the following pieces of information to receive your marriage license: valid U.S. driver’s license or state ID, valid U.S. passport or U.S. Armed Forces identification card. If the above is not available, you must provide two of the following: a certified copy of your birth certificate, U.S. naturalization papers or resident alien card, a valid foreign passport, life insurance policy that has been in effect for at least one year, a baptismal record showing the birth date of the applicant or a consulate identification card. Some counties may require divorce decrees and/or death certificates of former spouses. Counties may vary

when it comes to forms of acceptable ID. Call your county clerk to verify what documentation you should bring.

CIVIL UNIONS

Civil unions are still legal, valid and offered to all couples in the state of Illinois. It is not required that a civil union be converted into a marriage. If couples would like to convert their civil union into a marriage, the marriage license fee will be waived if the couple applies for their licenses and has their ceremony within 60 days of the date their civil union was actualized. If a couple does not live in Illinois, they may still apply for a marriage license in an Illinois county, provided they have a ceremony in that county within 60 days.

COST

Depending on your county, the cost to obtain a marriage license is $30-$60. Certain counties only accept cash, so call ahead to confirm what types of payment the clerk will accept. If you intend to request multiple copies of your marriage license, be prepared to pay a small replication fee.

WAITING PERIOD/ EXPIRATION OF LICENSE

A marriage license becomes effective twenty-four hours after it is issued. After the document becomes effective, couples have 60 days to hold their ceremony and make their marriage official. The couple must hold their ceremony in the same county that issued their marriage license.

Where To Go

Call your County Clerk’s office to verify requirements, hours and additional locations. We recommend getting two or three certified copies of your marriage license for name change and/or filing purposes.

COOK

Downtown Chicago – Daley Center

50 W. Washington St. East Concourse (Lower) Level, Room 25 Chicago, IL 60602

312.603.7790

DEKALB

110 E. Sycamore St. Sycamore, IL 60178

815.895.7149

DUPAGE

421 N. County Farm Rd. Wheaton, IL 60187

630.407.6500

GRUNDY

111 E. Washington St., Room 12 Morris, IL 60450

815.941.3222

KANE

719 S. Batavia Ave., Building B Geneva, IL 60134

630.232.5950

KANKAKEE

189 E. Court St., Room 1 Kankakee, IL 60901

815.937.2990

LAKE

18 N. County St., Room 101 Waukegan, IL 60085

847.377.2400

MCHENRY

667 Ware Rd., Suite 107 Woodstock, IL 60098

815.334.4242

WILL

302 N. Chicago St. Joliet, IL 60432

815.740.4615

Sample Wedding Budget

There are an array of options when it comes to allocating your money. Whether your funds are limited or infinite, many couples find themselves overwhelmed at the prospect of putting together a budget for their Big Day. After agreeing on your total, here’s a good starting point to break down your budget.

6% Attire (wedding gown, formalwear, rings, accessories)

2% Beauty (hair, makeup, spa services)

3% Cake (sweets, dessert bar)

42% Ceremony & Reception (venue, food, beverage, rentals)

8% Entertainment (DJs, bands, orchestras)

12% Event Planner

8% Floral & Décor (bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces)

3% Other (gifts, officiant, favors, rehearsal dinner)

10% Photo & Video (engagement session and wedding day)

4% Stationery (invitation suite, programs, menus, thank-you notes)

2% Transportation (limousine, trolley, classic car)

Tipping Guide

Aside from contracts that include it, tipping is never required. In instances when a vendor has gone above and beyond, tipping is always greatly appreciated. But how much is enough to thank those who have helped make your Big Day extra special? We’ve got you covered!

15% Bartenders

15-20% Catering Managers

$50-100 Civil Officiant or Friend Performing the Ceremony

$1-2 Coat Check Attendants, per guest

15% DJ

15% Event Planner, or a gift valued up to $500

10% Florist

15-20% Hair & Makeup Artists

15-20% Limo Driver

$20-50 Live Musicians, per member

$100-300 Officiant, additional to be donated to their institution

15-20% Photo & Video

$1-2 Valet Attendants, per car

$25+ Waitstaff per server

Coqui Paperie

captivating classics

STATIONERY

Amore Creative

BRACELET State Street Jewelers

EARRINGS State Street Jewelers

JEWELRY BRUSH Baublerella Bling Brush

SHOES

Louise et Cie

GOWN Martin Thornburg via All About The Gown By Judy

STATIONERY

Invitations by Design

PERFUME

RING LAGOS

LIPSTICK Tom Ford

Oscar de la Renta

EARRINGS LAGOS

SHOES

Badgley Mischka

FLORAL

Phillip’s Flowers

GOWN Love Story via Veiled by ChaCha

sultry & stylish

STATIONERY

DBY invitations

RING State Street Jewelers

NECKLACE State Street Jewelers

SKINCARE

Paris Hilton ProD.N.A.

Advanced Recovery Serum

SHOES

Bella Belle Shoes

BOUQUET Artistic Blooms

GOWN

Moira Hughes via Luxe Bridal Rack

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

CUFFLINKS

SUIT

Jojayden

JEWELRY

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

EAU DE PARFUM

Prada – Midnight Train

BOW TIE

The Groomsman Suit RING

CIGAR CUTTER Mark and Graham

BOUTONNIERE

Avant Gardenia

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

A Few of Our Favorite Things

Something we love about the wedding industry is its effortless ability to follow its ever-changing styles, while still capturing the timeless essence of love. As certain items slip away, and new trends are introduced, our Chicago couples continue to sweep us off our feet with their breath-taking beauty and unique personalities. With a refreshing take on vintage styles, cutting-edge designs and eclectic décor, we can’t wait to see what our couples choose to incorporate into their Big Day.

WRITTEN BY Mia Riddell GOWN Anne Barge

SHORT & CHIC

Short dresses are the most popular option for the bride who wants to spend her night being whisked away on the dance floor. If a floor length gown is still on your mind for your ceremony, consider choosing a glam mini-dress as your second look to slip into before your reception. Less material and shorter lengths will allow you to move freely on the dance floor without worrying about your train or extra fabric dragging along.

BEST OF BOTH WORLDS

While the high-low trend hit the scene a few seasons ago, it seems to be gaining momentum this season. We love the hem's versatility and twist on the classic ball gown. Scoop out the front of this skirt and now you have a gown that is structured, simple, relaxed and non-traditional. Frothy versions of these skirts made their way down the runway and many of these high-low tulle confections were finished with seemingly endless trains. Keep in mind, this silhouette is great to show off a sensational statement shoe!

Justin Alexander Signature

Reem Acra

Monique Lhuillier

FITS LIKE A GLOVE

A fashion staple for royalty and style icons everywhere, bridal gloves are appearing again in true fashion with undeniably gorgeous and vintage embellishments. If you’re looking to make a fashion forward statement, a pair of sheer or lace gloves will certainly do the trick. Flaunting this accessory in photos gives you an air of regal elegance and editorial edge. They also work well with any style of dress – elbow length styles work well with strapless gowns, while wristlet gloves complement a higher neckline.

TANGLE FREE, STRESS FREE

The last thing you want to worry about on your wedding day is trying to pick apart your favorite necklace from a pile of tangled chains. Lasso is a travel and storage solution for organizing and protecting all of your glittering rings, necklaces and earrings to ensure they don’t end up in a tangled mess. It’s a cute and thoughtful bride-tobe or bridesmaids’ gift to make sure you never have to worry about misplacing or ruining your jewelry again!

ALL ABOUT THE ACCESSORIES

Bridal hair accessories have always been a trend on the runway, but this year brides are replacing the sacred veil with captivating statement pieces such as pearl-beaded barrettes, flower studded crowns and silk bridal turbans. Not only do these headpieces keep your hair from falling in your face, but they elevate your wedding hairstyle to tie your entire look together. Consider adding these memorable pieces to stand out on your Big Day.

Maria Elena Headpieces & Accessories

Sareh Nouri

Lasso

HEADPIECE Keren Wolf

BARRETTES

SUIT UP

Today’s bride is unmistakably herself. If you would never be caught wearing a dress in your “every-day” life, then don’t wear one to your wedding! Bridal suits are a great option for the nontraditional, empowered bride. With a growing interest in women’s suits and gown alternatives for weddings, designers have started to create bridal suits that cater to every woman's ideal wedding day look. If you’re looking to do a modern take on a traditional gown, incorporate a lace cape on your suit jacket or attach a dramatic train to your trousers.

TAILORED TO YOU

As the years go by, we see more and more grooms replacing the traditional black tuxedo with bolder colors and unique styles, showcasing their individual fashion tastes. Custom suits give you the opportunity to add flair to your wedding day attire with creative jacket styles, decorative vests and matching ties. You can match your suit color with your wedding theme, or you can draw attention to your fashionable choice with eclectic colors and patterns.

CUSTOM SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier PHOTOGRAPHY BY SYPhotography

SUITS The Groomsman Suit

THE MAIN ATTRACTION

When deciding what décor and design style you want for your wedding, consider choosing pieces that captivate the essence of the entire room. There are several ways to wow your guests, but enchanting ceiling installations make for a great environment at your ceremony, reception or even rehearsal dinner. Some of our favorites include beautiful floral chandeliers, candles floating down from the ceiling or a simple crystal globe decorated with metallic designs. You won’t regret adding this gorgeous feature to your wedding once you see how it brings the room together.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY Erin Hoyt Photography

GOLDEN FIELDS

Organic flowers have been showing up at wedding celebrations everywhere making for beautiful rustic and dreamy looks. One of our favorites is the towering plant, pampas grass. Its feather-like plumes are found in shades of beige, white and even dusty pink, making it easy to pair with other gorgeous flowers in a fresh bouquet or centerpiece. These organic flowers are romantic and versatile and can be incorporated into every aspect of your wedding décor, from an intimate countryside wedding to a glamorous city celebration.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY Ashley Galminas Photography

UNDER THE NEON LIGHTS

It’s no secret that neon lights usually lead you to a great party, so why not include them in your celebration? Incorporate these electric signs at the door, behind the altar or at your reception for an enticing accent to your wedding theme. Simply spell out you and your partner’s names or write a clever catchphrase like, “better together” or “cheers to the newlyweds”. It’s the perfect photo opportunity for guests to enjoy, and a unique feature that will make your celebration stand out.

PHOTOGRAPH Courtesy of You Name It Events

MOBILE MUNCHIES

Whether you’re at an outdoor reception, a cocktail hour or a grand ballroom, food trucks are a fun alternative to serving your guests a wedding meal. Most food truck vendors can accommodate dietary restrictions or special requests, giving you the freedom to choose what kind of food you would like to serve.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY Rick Aguilar Studios

TABLE FOR TWO

There has been a surge of couples choosing to set aside a sweetheart table at the reception for themselves. With a sweetheart table, having those first few minutes as newlyweds to yourselves at a special table can make for an intimate, and memorable moment. Dress up the table with romantic décor and your family and loved ones will be gushing over you and your partner all night long.

FLORAL & DÉCOR Kensington Florals & Events

PHOTOGRAPHY BY Nakai Photography

DISCO FEVER

What’s a better way to kick off your reception than a glittering disco ball shining light onto all of your guests? This 80’s quirk is making an appearance again at all styles of wedding celebrations. Of course, installing one over the dance floor is the obvious option, but there are so many other ways to incorporate this funky feature. Smaller decorative disco balls bode great for themed wedding cake toppers, name placeholders, mini flower holders and several other creative concepts.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY Justine Montigny

LAURA & MIKE

Lovely Location

Laura and Mike met in high school, but later realized they had actually attended pre-school together! Throughout their relationship, they had vacationed in Lake Geneva many times and had even gotten engaged in the area. It was clearly the perfect mini destination spot for their wedding.

Bright & Beautiful

Laura’s vision for the Big Day included an abundance of color and was very summery, with pink, coral, bright green and white. With inspiration from Lilly Pulitzer and the flowers from her wedding dress fabric, the florals were big, bright and fresh. The vibrant flower arrangements and bouquets were also reflected in the custom watercolor monogram crest that was used on everything from the stationery to the napkins.

Recipe for Love

Mike is a chef, so he came up with the entire menu for the cocktail hour and dinner. He worked closely with the chef at Geneva National Resort to bring those ideas to life. The guests couldn’t stop talking about how delicious everything was!

Par for the Course

Both Mike and Laura agreed that their favorite part of the day was driving in a golf cart together around the reception site, soaking in the day and enjoying a moment of alone time.

Number of Wedding Guests: 190

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

CEREMONY VENUE: St. Francis de Sales Catholic Church, Lake Geneva, WI | RECEPTION VENUE: Geneva National Resort

PHOTOGRAPHY: Jenna Kutcher | VIDEOGRAPHY: One Fine Day Productions | WEDDING RINGS: James & Williams Jewelers

ENGAGEMENT RING: New York Jewelers | EVENT PLANNERS: Frontier Flowers of Fontana; Graceful Events; Something Blue Lake Geneva

GOWN: Lela Rose via Dimitra’s Bridal Couture | BRIDE’S SHOES: Sophia Webster | HAIR & MAKEUP: DMC Makeup Artistry

BRIDE’S ACCESSORIES: Kate Spade; Tiffany & Co. | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: After Six via Brideside | STATIONERY: Bluebird Paper Company

GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse | GROOMSMEN’S FORMALWEAR: Menguin | GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: David Yurman; Rolex

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Frontier Flowers of Fontana | ENTERTAINMENT: Andrew Blake Band | CAKE & SWEETS: Julie Michelle Cakes; Alliance Bakery

Jennifer & Michael

Vendors

EVENT PLANNER: LOLA Event Productions | VENUE: Café Brauer | PHOTOGRAPHY: Katie Kett Photography

STATIONERY: Steracle Press | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Exquisite Designs | CAKE & SWEETS: Sweet Mandy B’s

To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration.

Bridal Beauty for All

NAVIGATING WEDDING GOWN SHOPPING AS A CURVY BRIDE

Finding your dream wedding dress can feel daunting, regardless of your dress size. For curvy brides, navigating the high-fashion world of wedding gowns can feel downright impossible. We understand the fear and apprehension that commonly accompanies bridal shopping when you don’t wear a sample size, but we also believe every woman should feel empowered when shopping for her Big Day. If you are a curvy bride-to-be searching for your perfect dress, you should know that it is absolutely out there. The key is having the right mindset, confidence and support system to help you overcome any insecurities or fears to find the dress of your dreams.

SIZING

Let’s start with one of the toughest parts of shopping for a wedding dress – the sizing. When you buy a pair of jeans or a dress off the rack at a run-of-the-mill clothing store, chances are good that the manufacturer employs vanity sizing. As the average size of a woman has increased over time, stores have adjusted the size of their clothing without increasing the nominal size. This means that an item that was sold as a size-twelve in a store in 1950 is smaller than the item sold as a size-twelve today. To make matters more complicated, stores all use their own sizing systems, so it’s entirely possible to wear an eight, twelve and

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley | GOWN Anne Barge via Belle Bianca Bridal Couture

fourteen in jeans that come from three different stores. Your waist obviously doesn’t change from store to store, but rather the number assigned to your clothes has little correlation to the actual measurements of the garments.

Now here’s where things get psychologically challenging. Wedding dresses are typically made following high-fashion sizing,

which is based on European measurement charts. You should expect your wedding dress to be one to two sizes (or more) larger than your typical off-the-rack size. If you already have a difficult time with your number size, having to go up in number can feel soul-crushing. But here’s the thing – you haven’t changed size. You are still exactly the same, so it shouldn’t

matter what the tag in your dress says. The reality is that it does matter to a lot of plus-size brides, so what can you do about it?

You have different options for dealing with the emotional impact of your wedding dress size. You can mentally prepare yourself for the size to be bigger, acknowledge the fact that wedding dress sizing runs small and accept the size of the dress you order as a reality that doesn’t affect how you look or feel in your dress. This strategy will work well for a lot of brides, but it isn’t enough for everyone. Another option is to simply not find out what size you are ordering. The sales associate will take your measurements and order your dress size based on your largest measurement, but you don’t have to know what size they order. Simply ask for that information to be withheld or redacted on any form or receipt you need to sign. You can have a friend cut out the tag when you receive your dress and never be the wiser. While this may sound dramatic, if the size of your dress will influence how you feel in it, it’s worth it to keep that negative information out of mind.

SHOPPING

Where you choose to shop for your gown and who you choose to invite with you will seriously affect your experience. You should put some serious thought and consideration into both decisions before making appointments or inviting anyone along. Your feelings matter the most here, so be careful and cautious.

Do some research to find plus-size friendly salons. We’ve got some incredible bridal boutiques in this issue who offer a range of plus-size gowns. Some brides also prefer smaller, more intimate salons where they don’t have to try on dresses surrounded by other brides. If you feel self-conscious, consider booking your appointment in an off-peak time or at a smaller store where you can be assured

of privacy while you shop and try on dresses. You’ll also want to make sure you only make appointments at bridal salons that carry sizes you can try on. Sample sizes are generally a bridal sizeeight or – ten, and it can be challenging to get a true idea of what your dress will look like on you if the dress you try on is considerably smaller. It can also feel awkward and embarrassing to try on a dress that is clipped to you, with giant gaping holes in the back. Avoid this situation by shopping at bridal salons that carry plussize samples.

Set yourself up for success by creating a support squad who will give you a boost of confidence without any underhanded or judgmental comments. It’s best to go with at least one other person so you have someone to give you feedback and make the experience feel more special. If you are unsure about bringing a crowd, consider

a close, supportive friend, parent or family member as your plus-one. Alternatively, some brides find strength in numbers. If having a larger group to swoon over you in pretty dresses feels right, don’t hesitate to invite a crowd. Regardless of the number of supporters you invite, make sure each person included only brings good vibes. Even if your sister expects to be included, you may want to leave her off the list if she is known for offering biting or rude criticism. It might be uncomfortable in the moment, but be picky and only invite those you know will build you up and make sure you feel beautiful.

ALTERATIONS MATTER

Once you have found your dream gown, don’t trust the alterations to just anyone. Virtually everyone has to have their wedding dress altered, so go ahead and plan for the expense and time requirements of some serious tailoring. It’s vital that you find a tailor who has ample experience with plus-size wedding gowns. A skilled seamstress can add boning, built-in bra cups and other structural support that can make quite the difference in the comfort and silhouette of your gown. Make sure the tailor takes the time to understand any specific concerns you have around the fit and any changes you wish to make. If you fell in love with a ball gown that is just too full for your shape or taste, you can have several layers of tulle or crinoline taken out during alterations. Ask your tailor to explain how any potential alterations will change and affect the fit.

CUSTOMIZATION

There’s a wide range of customization available when it comes to wedding gowns. From a completely custom creation to small changes, curvy brides should be discerning when it comes to customizing their gowns. You may find a dress that checks all of your wants, except for the neckline. Don’t despair! See if there is a

way to change up the look, like deepening a V-neckline or adding lacy sleeves to a strapless design. You can make some pretty significant changes if necessary.

If you can’t find anything that fits your needs, it may be best to go custom to avoid an ill-fitting gown. Research designers and seamstresses who specialize in custom plus-size gowns and explore the possibilities. Don’t let the potential price tag scare you off from a custom gown – you may be surprised at how reasonable a custom creation can be. Your wedding gown is one of the most important aspects of how you look and feel on your Big Day, so don’t be afraid to spend the time and dollars necessary to find the right dress.

SELF-CONFIDENCE

You deserve to feel incredible and look amazing on your Big Day. Prepare mentally, physically and emotionally for wedding dress shopping to give yourself the self-confidence to enjoy the experience. Being intentional about your attitude and outlook can dramatically shift the tone of your shopping day.

If you’re planning on trying to lose weight before your wedding day, it can be tempting to put off dress shopping until you’re down a few pounds. However, don’t wait too long or you won’t have time for a made-to-order gown. Most wedding dresses take around at least eight months to arrive, and you’ll need a month or two for alterations once you receive your gown, so plan accordingly. Remember, your partner loves you for who you are, and they think you look amazing exactly as you are right now. There’s nothing you need to change in order to find your dream dress.

Once you’ve made your bridal appointments, it’s time to get ready for the day. It’s good to have an idea of the styles you like, but it’s definitely not required. Forget any notion of anything you aren’t “allowed” to wear. Plus-size brides, just like every

other bride, look good in a wide variety of styles – ball gowns, fit-and-flare, mermaid and more. Bridal fashion is extensive and your size does not determine what is available to you, so don’t rule out that deep v-neckline, illusion back. Think about when you feel the most confident and what aspects of your body you want to highlight. If you love your full hips or your strong shoulders, you may want to find a style that accentuates the parts of your body you’re proud of.

To physically prepare for the day, consider laying off salty, fatty foods for a few days before your appointment. Drink plenty of water and get ample sleep. These small efforts will leave you feeling stronger and physically ready for trying on dresses. Wear an outfit you love and take the time to fix your hair and follow any beauty habits that make you feel better. Eat a healthy breakfast and make sure you give yourself plenty of time to get to your appointments on time. Feeling calm and confident will go a long way to making your fitting a success.

You are your own worst critic, so do a little emotional homework before taking on the bridal boutiques. Make a list of the things you love about yourself: physical traits, personality characteristics and achievements. Ask your partner to give you a pep talk if that feels helpful. Focus on the positive and think about how you want to feel walking down the aisle on your wedding day. Go into your appointment with the knowledge that you will find a dress that makes you feel like a bride. Acknowledge any concerns or worries you have, name them and let them go.

INSPIRATION

One of the best ways to feel confident about your body is to surround yourself with images of women with a body shape that reflects your own. Don’t build Pinterest boards and wedding dress inspiration that only feature thin models. Find body

positive photos of plus-size models, real life brides and other curvy women with whom you can identify. Seeing wedding gowns on women similar to yourself will help you feel more comfortable when you try on a wedding gown and look in the mirror for the first time.

Along with curating a collection of curvy brides for dress inspiration, you should also take some time to find emotional inspiration. Consider how you want to feel on your wedding day. Maybe it’s most important that you feel sexy or perhaps you want to feel like a princess. These emotions, unique to each individual bride, should drive your wedding gown shopping more than anything else. Focus on the emotions that are most predominant when you imagine yourself as a bride on your own wedding day and keep those feelings in mind when trying on dresses. Don’t buy something that doesn’t fulfill

your emotional desires, even if it fits well or your friends love it.

CELEBRATE

Make a big deal out of your wedding dress shopping day (or days)! Invite your best supporters, look and feel your best, and then pop some bubbly and celebrate once you find your dress. Make a whole day out of it – with a stop to get your nails done, a celebratory brunch or a relaxing spa treatment after the shopping is over. Even if you aren’t looking forward to dress shopping itself, bookend the trip with things you do love so you have something to look forward to. The excitement and enthusiasm will naturally carry over to your dress appointment as well.

Remember that your wedding day is about you and your partner – not a model you saw on Pinterest. Your confidence and inner beauty reflect on the outside,

so feeling good about yourself and being confident will do wonders for how you see yourself in that bridal salon mirror. You and your wedding dress are no less important than anyone else just because you have a larger number on a tag in your gown. It’s also a healthy practice to remind yourself that everyone compares themselves to others and feels insecure about something, so there’s really no escaping those doubts. You can make sure your wedding dress shopping experience is fun, successful and enjoyable by setting the right tone and mood and going into it with a positive outlook. The truth is that you will find a dress that works for you! It might not be what you expect, so always keep an open mind when trying on different styles, but you will slip into a gown that feels just right and that makes it easy to imagine walking down the aisle to marry the one you love.

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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO CHOOSING THE PERFECT WEDDING BANDS

When it comes to choosing the right wedding bands for your Big Day, you’ve got options is an understatement. Save yourself and your partner some time and take the guesswork out of choosing which wedding bands are right for you by familiarizing yourself with these guidelines.

PLAN IT OUT

Planning ahead is key. If you are purchasing wedding bands separate from your engagement ring, start shopping two to three months before your wedding day. Browse for wedding bands in person and online, compare prices and revisit any

rings that you like. If you are looking for a custom ring, you may need even more time – keep in mind that even small details like engraving can take up to one month. If you want your wedding band to match your engagement ring, you and your fiancé can purchase your engagement ring and wedding band as a duo set or even have his wedding band match to form a trio set. No matter what you decide, it is important to give yourself enough time to find or create the ring you have in mind.

Once you have established a personal timeframe, set a budget. The average wedding band costs around $600, but there are more cost-effective options if you are looking for more economical options. Plenty of wedding bands are available for

under $100. More importantly, you are going to wear this band every day, so it is important to choose a wedding band that will easily integrate into your lifestyle.

KNOW YOUR BASIC OPTIONS

Wedding bands come in many styles and you have likely heard of the most common types — yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, silver and titanium. But more than anything else, thinking longterm about your budget and how you’ll wear your ring day-to-day will help you determine the right metal for your wedding band.

Pure Gold: Pure or 24 karat gold is a very soft metal that is more likely to scratch and bend, making it a rare find. More practical and common gold choices include yellow, white and rose.

Yellow Gold: The most common and traditional type of gold, yellow gold, is a mixture of pure gold with silver, copper and zinc. It is the purest color of gold and the most hypoallergenic. It requires the least maintenance, which makes it the easiest and the most practical to wear and repair. However, it is also the most expensive type of gold.

White Gold: White gold is usually made out of gold and platinum or gold, platinum, nickel and zinc, which gives it its glistening white color. White gold is usually plated with rhodium, to give it a hard reflective surface, but it will require replacement plating once signs of wear and tear begin to appear. White gold is more durable and scratch resistant than yellow gold, and it’s also more affordable.

Rose Gold: Rose gold contains silver and copper to give it its trademark warm pinkish hue. Its inexpensive copper mix also makes it cheaper and more durable than yellow or white gold.

Silver: If you’re looking to go more traditional, a sterling silver wedding band will always be in style. On the other

hand, for a more durable option that won’t tarnish, consider an Argentium silver ring due to its higher percentage of silver. Even though it is much harder than sterling silver, Argentium is more malleable, lending itself well to a variety of designs and settings for gemstones.

Platinum: Of the white metals in this list, platinum is the most luxurious option

to show your enduring love, due to its rarity. The metal is also a great choice for people with sensitive skin because platinum is naturally hypoallergenic. Platinum rings have high-shine and are exceptionally durable, making it a great choice for couples who have a higher budget but still want a timeless ring that is practical for long term wear.

You liked it and now you’ve got to put a ring on it! Wedding band options are endless, so we’ve collected some of our favorites below to help you find the bands that are just right for you and your partner.

Palladium: Palladium is another metal that works for people with sensitive skin. It is more common than platinum and friendlier to couples on a budget. The metal is prized for its bright, natural white color. Unlike silver, palladium is not prone to tarnishing, making it a popular alternative.

Titanium: Strong, lightweight and unique, titanium rings will endure the test of time and are a popular metal choice for men. Titanium is much more durable than gold or platinum and even stronger than stainless steel. Titanium wedding rings appear whiter than tungsten, but darker than cobalt, platinum or white gold. The metal does not contain any nickel, making it the perfect choice for a hypoallergenic wedding ring. Keep in mind – this metal cannot be resized, so it is best for couples who don’t plan on upgrading their rings in the future.

Tungsten: Another metal choice for men, tungsten is harder than precious metals like gold and platinum and is perfect for those who are looking for a ring that is durable and far from dainty. Not only is the rare metal distinctive –its steel gray, white or black color comes with high luster – tungsten can stand up to the wear and tear of an active lifestyle without losing its shape over time. However, just like titanium, tungsten can’t be resized. It also comes with a lower price tag than traditional gold bands and other jewelry metals like silver and platinum.

Cobalt: This durable, scratch-resistant metal is another option for men. Cobalt is usually mixed with chrome to form a strong bond that also alters cobalt’s signature deep blue color into a stunning white one. As far as platinum and white gold rings go, cobalt rings are an affordable option for white jewelry. They are even whiter than titanium and offer a better scratch resistance. Plus, cobalt does not require rhodium plating to keep

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its color. It is also free of nickel, making it hypoallergenic and perfect for those who experience sensitivity to traditional jewelry material.

ADD A LITTLE BLING

If you decide to spring for stones in your wedding band, the choice will ultimately come down to budget, style and personal taste. White diamonds are the most popular choice, but you can also opt for colored diamonds or gemstones to complement your ring. All of the metals above are well suited for stone embellishments.

Popular wedding band styles for women include the eternity band, which features stones that wrap completely around the finger allowing the band to sparkle from every angle, and the channel band, which has two tracks of metal that hold a row of stones side-by-side. By far, the most popular male wedding

band style with a stone is the gypsy band, where most commonly a solitary stone is placed into a hole and flushed with the surrounding metal’s surface.

PROTECT YOUR RING

Your wedding band will likely be one of your most valuable possessions, so ring insurance is essential to making sure it is protected for a lifetime. Consider both its sentimental and monetary value and then opt to add a rider to your homeowner's or renter's insurance to provide higher coverage limits to your jewelry and protect it from greater risks. Make sure to talk with your jeweler first to see what options they offer. If they don’t have the option you would prefer, another alternative is to take out a separate policy with a specialty insurer like Jewelers Mutual. On average, the yearly cost to insure a ring is around $1 to $2 for every $100 that it would cost to replace, so that means that if your wedding band costs $2,000, you’ll be looking at around a $40 fee. Before you purchase insurance, you will first need to collect your receipt and have the ring appraised by a certified jeweler to get a description of details like its metal and embellishments. Taking a few high-quality photos of your ring from different angles to submit is also a good idea. Getting your ring laser inscribed and investing in a home security system can help you qualify for a discount on your jewelry insurance. Additionally, before settling on a policy, become familiar with the fine print as some policies may cover theft but not misplacement or repairs.

KEEP IT SPARKLY CLEAN

To maintain your ring, clean it often to remove lotions, oil and dirt, which can tarnish and cloud it. If you don’t have a brand-name jewelry cleaner, you can soak the ring in warm water and mild

dishwashing liquid before scrubbing it with a soft toothbrush. You can also soak your ring in equal parts ammonia and cold water for 30 minutes then let it air dry. Note that this latter method works only with diamonds and can damage other types of stones.

It is also smart to take off your ring for tasks that require harsh chemicals or abrasive solutions (like the ones in household cleaners). These chemicals can erode metal settings and dull their finish. Ring maintenance should also include bi-annual visits to your jeweler, who can check the prongs on your setting to make sure they aren’t getting loose, which can lead to a dislodged stone.

A little extra caution goes a long way when storing your wedding bands. When you need to take off your ring, place it in a dry and secure location. If you take off your ring often, consider a safe or an unusual but memorable hiding spot. If you need to take it off when you're on vacation, store it in the hotel safe. Lastly, it is worth remembering that diamonds are the hardest substance on earth, which means that they can scratch other gemstones, metal bands and even other diamonds if left in the same jewelry pouch or box. For that reason, keep your ring in an individual soft cloth pouch or box when you're not wearing it.

REMEMBER WHAT IS IMPORTANT

When all is said and done, your wedding band will be more than a symbol to the world that you are married now – it is a testament to the love and commitment you and your partner share. And with the right amount of time, a set budget and the knowledge of basic wedding band options and care, there is no doubt that keeping in mind the reason you are searching for a wedding band in the first place will lead you to a ring that will represent that promise for a lifetime.

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Darling Details

Choosing to work with the colors of the ornate ballroom, Stephanie and Dane incorporated accents of gray and silver into the overarching blue and white theme. Their florist designed a breathtaking floral installment of wisteria and orchids that framed the couple while they exchanged their vows. With thirteen tables, an exact match for the number of years Stephanie and Dane had been together, they chose to use a photo from each year of their relationship as their table numbers.

Ready to Mingle

Stephanie and Dane had guests travel from all over the world to celebrate with them. The couple chose to seat random groups of people together and were thrilled when everyone bonded and had fun getting to know each other. Stephanie and Dane really hoped their guests would enjoy the dance floor, and they did — it was a boisterous party all night.

The Last Piece

Everyone loved the cake which was layers of butter cake and chocolate fudge cake with passionfruit curd and bittersweet chocolate mousse fillings frosted with Italian meringue. For those who weren’t quick enough to indulge in their piece, there were onlookers waiting to run over and swipe the unclaimed slices.

Number of Wedding Guests: 135

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

VENUE: The Blackstone Hotel | PHOTOGRAPHY: Colin Lyons Wedding Photography | VIDEOGRAPHY: Hendzel Productions

STEPHANIE’S RINGS: Family Heirlooms | DANE’S RING: MJ Metals Jewelry | GOWN: Morilee by Madeline Gardner via Kathryn’s Bridal

VEIL: Kathryn’s Bridal | BRIDE’S SHOES: Badgley Mischka | BRIDE’S JEWELRY: NADRI | HAIR: Lumination Salon

MAKEUP: Neapolitan Collection | FORMALWEAR: Kathryn’s Bridal | GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: Baume & Mercier; Charles Tyrwhitt; Cuff-Daddy

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Bill Levkoff via Kathryn’s Bridal | STATIONERY: Minted | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Joseph’s Events

ENTERTAINMENT: Okyne Medialab | CAKE & SWEETS: Cake Chicago

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EVENT PLANNER: Big City Bride | VENUE: Bridgeport Art Center

PHOTOGRAPHY: Studio This Is

STATIONERY: Minted

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Kehoe Designs | CAKE & SWEETS: Alliance Bakery

in the city HAUTE

LOCATION

Loews Chicago Hotel

PHOTOGRAPHY

Rick Aguilar Studios

HAIR Zazú

STYLING The Wedding Dresser

Bridal

To see the video and more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration.

FROM LEFT: GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, J.Mendel; SHOES Badgley Mischka; JEWELRY

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio | GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, Sophie et Voilà; SHOES Bella Belle Shoes; JEWELRY State Street Jewelers; HEADPIECE Eugenia Kim | SUIT Jojayden

Custom Clothier: SHOES Macy’s: JEWELRY & LAPEL PIN Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio | SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; CUFFLINKS State Street Jewelers; RING & LAPEL PIN Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

Salon MAKEUP

Brigade

ABOVE – FROM LEFT: GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, Sophie et Voilà; SHOES Bella Belle Shoes; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection; SHOES Badgley Mischka; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; HAIR COMB Dame Couture

LEFT PAGE – FROM LEFT: SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; LAPEL PIN Varón by Maria Elena | GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection; JEWELRY State Street Jewelers; HAIR COMB Dame Couture | GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection; SHOES Bella Belle Shoes; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; HAIR COMB Dame Couture

GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, Galia Lahav; NECKLACE State Street Jewelers; RINGS & BRACELET Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, Anne Barge

SHOES Badgley Mischka

JEWELRY State Street Jewelers

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SUIT The Groomsman Suit

SHOES Macy’s

JEWELRY State Street Jewelers

SUIT The Groomsman Suit

SHOES Badgley Mischka

JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

SUIT Formally Modern Tuxedo

WEDDING BAND State Street

Jewelers, Benchmark; WATCH State Street Jewelers; CUFFLINKS, EARRINGS, LAPEL PIN, RING & SHIRT

STUDS Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

LOCATION

Loews Chicago Hotel

PHOTOGRAPHY

Rick Aguilar Studios

STYLING

The Wedding Dresser

HAIR

Zazú Salon

MAKEUP

Bridal Brigade

NAILS

Tara Kadar

VIDEOGRAPHER

Newlyweds Cinema

PROP STYLIST

Amanda Wolfson Productions

FROM LEFT: SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; LAPEL PIN & RING

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; WATCH, CUFFLINKS & BRACELET State Street

Jewelers | GOWN Diana’s Bridal, Pronovias; EARRINGS & RING ON MODEL’S RIGHT

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; BRACELET & ENGAGEMENT RING State Street

Jewelers | GOWN Modeca; VEIL Belle Custom Atelier; EARRINGS State Street

Jewelers; BRACELET & RING Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio | SUIT Jojayden Custom

Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; WEDDING BAND State Street Jewelers, Benchmark; EARRINGS & LAPEL PIN Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio

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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO WEDDING MAKEUP

So, you found the dress of your dreams, booked the perfect venue and those save-the-dates are in the mail! Now, it’s time to tackle another wedding day must-have: bridal makeup. Like every other part of your Big Day, planning your beauty routine and day-of makeup deserves the utmost attention and care. After all, your wedding day is one of the few times in your life where you can truly glam it up like a supermodel. So, you might as well take advantage of it! If you’re a makeup novice, you might be stressing over just where to begin. To help you answer all of your burning questions, we’ve put together this ultimate guide to wedding day beauty!

LET’S START WITH THE BASICS.

Your makeup journey starts with finding inspiration. This allimportant first step helps you get a better idea of what’s out there and what appeals to you. Are you going for a dramatic and smoky look? Or maybe more fresh-faced and natural with just a pop of color? The possibilities are endless! Luckily there are many resources out there to get your creative juices flowing.

Think about your other wedding decisions.

Before you begin your search, take stock of the things you’ve already planned. Consider your dress, color scheme, bouquet and any other relevant parts of your wedding. Why did you

choose these things? Probably because they spoke to essential parts of your personality and you liked how they all work together. Your makeup should fit into the mix just as seamlessly. Now, that is not to say your makeup can’t make a bold statement. Quite the opposite! In fact, a daring look might just make the perfect accent or contrast to the rest of your ensemble. After all, you wouldn’t want the color of your lipstick or eyeshadow to clash with your flowers or bridesmaids’ dresses. Find a delicate balance between your makeup and your wedding’s aesthetic that ties everything together effortlessly.

Inspiration is everywhere.

Of course, Pinterest is a tried and true source of inspiration. But you can also look to other social media platforms as well as keep a close eye on some of your favorite celebrities, influencers, and beauty gurus. You might even take inspiration from online ads or billboards for things like perfume and other beauty products. Magazines (like the one you’re holding!) are also incredible resources.

Stay organized.

As you find looks you like, save them all in one place so they can be found and referenced easily. And remember, at this point, nothing is set in stone! This early stage is your chance to

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let your imagination run wild and collect any and all looks that call to you. With that being said, you will probably want to end up with a look that’s less trendy and more classic. Why? Because your makeup will be forever showcased in your wedding photographs, so it is usually better to go with a look that can stand the test of time. But that doesn’t mean statement looks can’t work! It all depends on your unique style. Later, your makeup artist will help you refine your ideas and find what works best for you.

NOW, LET’S FIND YOU THE PERFECT ARTIST.

Next comes the hard part: finding an artist who can execute the runwayworthy looks you've been dreaming about. Now, this step can be a bit tricky and requires some legwork, but in the end, it will all be worth it – trust us! Now, let’s review some of the ways you can find your makeup artist soulmate.

Nothing beats word-of-mouth.

Getting a recommendation from someone you trust is one of the best ways to go. Were you recently a guest at a wedding and just couldn’t take your eyes off the bride’s makeup? Reach out and ask to be put in contact with the artist! Also, never underestimate the power of social media. Consider putting out a call to ask your friends and family if they have any connections or recommendations. You never know, that high school classmate you haven’t spoken to in years just might be BFFs with Beyoncé’s personal makeup artist. (We kid, but still…what if?). All jokes aside, however, you might be surprised by what your social network can find for you.

But a word of caution: just because an artist’s style worked for one person, does not necessarily mean they will work for you. So, even if you get an amazing recommendation, it’s probably not a good

a solid foundation

You know it’s all about that base! Finding a solid foundation that fits your skin-type can be stressful, we know. By working these products into your makeup routine, you can count on every day being as flawless as your foundation!

idea to just hire them blindly. You will still want to do your research before making any final decisions.

Check out the websites of local artists.

If you find an artist you like, carefully review their website and portfolio. Do they have looks that prove they can pull off the style you’re going for? Does their website have a clean and professional appearance? If you’re impressed by what you see, then it might be time to take the next step: setting up a consultation.

Schedule a trial run.

Before you make final hiring decisions, arrange to do a trial makeup run with the artist you’re vying for. Trial runs allow the makeup artist to show you what they’ve got. It's a time in which they can play around with different colors, foundations and styles to help you finalize a perfected look. Trials are also an opportunity to get a sense of what you can expect on your Big Day. So, when the wedding arrives, there are no major surprises. You can feel confident that your artist knows what they are doing and will make you look your absolute best.

But remember, talent isn’t everything! While a trial run gives the artist a chance to show off their skills, it also helps you get a sense of who they are as a person. Sure, you want an artist who does amazing work, but you also want someone with a personality that jives well with your own. Professionalism and a good attitude are non-negotiables. After all, weddings can be high-stress. So, you need an experienced artist who works well under pressure and still manages to make you feel like a superstar!

STICK TO A CONSISTENT SKINCARE REGIMEN.

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so much. Taking proper care of your skin and body is equally important. This means drinking plenty of water, eating nutritious foods, and putting a little extra thought into your skincare regimen.

During your consultation, your makeup artist will have many recommendations for ways to improve the quality of your skin. For example, they might suggest regular facials to give your complexion a little pick-me-up. Or they might advise using a soothing exfoliator twice weekly to slough off dead skin cells. This leaves your face feeling baby-soft and gives your makeup artist a smooth, clean canvas to work with.

But the importance of consistently practicing a good face-wash routine cannot be overstated. If you have ultra-sensitive skin, then keeping it simple is probably the best way to go! Use a gentle soap to cleanse your face twice daily, followed by an oil-free moisturizer for hydration. You might also consider adding a toner for an even skin tone. Just remember, don’t add any new products in your regime the day or so before your wedding if you don’t know how your skin will react.

FOCUS ON FOUNDATION.

Now we turn our attention to one of the most important products in your makeup artist’s arsenal: foundation. While it might not sound as exciting as, say, eyeshadow or lipstick, foundation literally lays the groundwork for the fun stuff. After all, without a solid base, the rest of your look will fall apart. So, choosing the right foundation is essential. While you and your makeup artist will talk about the specifics and the best option for you, here is a general overview of the different foundation types available.

Tinted Moisturizer

If you are blessed with blemish-free skin and are looking for a foundation that’s super light and breathable, then a

tinted moisturizer might be perfect for you! As the name implies, tinted moisturizers hydrate your skin while providing just a smidge of color for sheer coverage. Because of their rejuvenating quality, they work well for brides with dryer skin. They are meant to enhance your skin’s natural beauty without layering on unnecessary product. With that being

said, extra coverage will be needed to cover blemishes, dark circles or an uneven skin tone.

Powder

Typically, powder foundations are very versatile. They are easy to blend, rarely leaving discoloration or blotchy lines (think the dreaded makeup mask!). Usually, they

have a lovely satin finish that leaves your face with a delicate glow. Plus, the absorptive quality of powder foundations keeps shininess down and works especially well for oily or acne-prone skin.

But powder can also be quite finicky. It’s difficult to set, so it tends to wear off after only a couple of hours. Also, they are often light-weight, making it challenging to build coverage. Often, the more powder used, the cakier your skin tends to look. So, powders are usually best suited for brides who need minimal coverage.

Liquid

By far the most popular choice for bridal makeup, liquid foundations provide a wide range of coverages and finishes. They're long-lasting and make great bases for the rest of your makeup. Like tinted moisturizers, liquid foundations also help to add a bit of hydration to your skin. So, they work well for dry or combination skin types.

Whether you have only a few blemishes you wish to cover up or more troublesome skin problems, your makeup artist can help you find a liquid foundation best suited to your needs. But keep in mind that these foundations tend to be a bit heavier, so you will want to keep your skin’s sensitivity in mind. During the consultation with your makeup artist, let them know if you’re prone to breakouts or if your skin is easily irritated.

Airbrush

This technique, which has been popular with models and film stars for years, is gaining traction among brides. And it’s easy to see why! When done correctly, airbrushing gives your skin a flawless look not easily achieved with more traditional foundations. Plus, it needs less product than a liquid foundation for full coverage, giving airbrush a similar lightweight feel to powder foundation. Better yet, most airbrush makeup is silicone-based, which

means it lasts longer and is more waterresistant (so you can bring on the tears!)

Once the airbrush foundation is set, it doesn't move easily. But this can also be one of its downsides. For example, if airbrushed makeup does flake or streak throughout the day, it can be more difficult to blend out than other foundations. But if it dries properly, then it shouldn’t be too much of an issue.

Cruelty-Free Products

It’s a harsh reality to face that many makeup brands test on animals. But if you’re a more socially-conscious bride, you might be wondering if there are any ethical options out there. Luckily, they aren’t as hard to find as you might think! In fact, there are many big-name brands out there that are 100% cruelty-free. You just have to do a little digging. Ask your makeup artist about the products they use. If you’d prefer to use a cruelty-free brand, let your artist know and they will most likely be happy to accommodate.

LET’S TALK DAY-OF MAINTENANCE.

In most cases, after the initial makeup application is complete, your artist most likely won’t be on-hand for touch-ups throughout the day. So, you’ll probably have to take your makeup maintenance into your own hands. That means anticipating and planning for anything that might mess up your flawless look. Talk with your makeup artist on the best ways to keep fresh-faced all night long. The best way to fight against fading makeup is to pack a touch-up kit with all the essentials – blush, translucent powder, cotton swabs, blotting paper, etc. – to stash in either the bridal suite or a clutch.

Don’t be afraid to check in with your bridesmaids or family when you don’t have enough time to run to the powder room. They will want to help you on your

Big Day as much as possible, that’s what friends are for.

RELAX AND ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE.

Your wedding day is a chance to look as good as you feel. That means enhancing your natural beauty with healthy habits and products that are best suited for

your skin. The right makeup artist will help bring out the gorgeous glow of happiness that’s inside you to create a timeless, and perfect makeup look that’s personalized just for you. Plus, it’s not every day you get fully immersed in the supermodel experience. So, sit back and enjoy the extra pampering, you deserve it after all your hard work and planning!

Hello, Gorgeous !

With a million things to think about before your Big Day, a new beauty routine should not be one of them. From bridal trends to beauty tips, we have you covered in becoming your best self as you say ‘I do!”.

FLAWLESS & FABULOUS

The key to achieving the bridal glow you have always wanted is to know which beauty products are current and work best for you. Embracing and enhancing your natural features is always a bridal beauty trend to follow. Doing your research on wedding makeup and skin care trends is a great place to start. Whether you choose a bold lip, defined brows or trendy metallics, your bridal look should elevate your every-day style, while also staying true to your personality and natural beauty.

HAIR & MAKEUP I Do Plus Two PHOTOGRAPHY Mandelette Photography

LIPSTICK White Lotus Lip Color Recommended by White Lotus Weddings

DUAL LASH WAND Honest Beauty Extreme Length Mascara + Lash Primer

EYE SHADOW

Anastasia Beverly Hills Sultry Eye Shadow Palette

SKIN BALM

CV Skinlabs

Restorative Skin Balm

FACIAL SPRAY Mario Badescu Facial Spray with Aloe, Herbs and Rosewater

NOT A HAIR OUT OF PLACE

Whether you choose a traditional updo or effortlessly styled waves, embrace your unique hair texture with style. From a messy bun, to hair done up with eye-catching accessories be sure to highlight your natural beauty as you walk down the aisle.

STYLING POWDER

evo haze styling powder

Recommended by DRYtini

HAIR CREAM

Joico Heat Set Blowout

Perfecting Créme

HAIR SPRAY

Moroccanoil Luminous Hairspray

Recommended by Studio Stÿl

HAIR AND MAKEUP Appease, Inc. PHOTOGRAPHY Juancho SC Photography

HAIR & MAKEUP Sophia Bella Bridal PHOTOGRAPHY Inspired Eye Photography

EYE GELS FlashPatch Restoring Night Eye Gels TWEEZERS Tweezerman Slant Tweezer

Wedded Wellness

A YOGA TEACHER’S GUIDE TO KEEPING CALM ON THE BIG DAY (AND THROUGHOUT THE PLANNING PROCESS)

From cake tastings to vow writing, venue visits to décor designing and so much more, planning your Big Day involves a whole lot of big decisions. Whether you are newly engaged or well on your way to planning the wedding of your dreams, you are probably already feeling the pressure to get every single decision exactly right. And whether you have hired an amazing wedding planner or have a whole team of nuptial experts by your side, chances are you’re still feeling a little (or, you know, a lot) stressed out.

The truth is, weddings can be as stressful as they are magical – but they definitely do not have to be! If you have already turned to the pros for everything from your flower arrangements to the menu selections, then it’s time to add one more expert to your list: a wellness expert! Because yeah, sometimes we all need a little help with something as simple as remembering to breathe.

Here are some (totally yoga teacher approved) tips for

keeping calm and planning on, from the moment you said “yes!” to the moment you say “I do”.

STICK TO YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM.

Yoga is all about support: supporting the body, supporting the mind and teaching the mind and body how to work together in supporting your overall wellness. Planning a wedding essentially works the same way: you need a solid support system around you.

One of the absolute best ways to make sure you keep selfcare at the top of your to-do list, throughout the entire wedding planning process, is to assemble a support system that will be there for you no matter what – and once you’ve got ‘em, be sure to keep them close by. From family and close friends to an amazing team of wedding professionals, many of which you can find right in the pages of this magazine. Don’t tackle wedding planning solo. Ask the folks around you for help, and then let each of them do what they do best: whether that

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means trusting your florist when she says calla lilies are a never-fail classic, inviting your music-loving bestie to put together a rockin’ list of tunes for your DJ or letting the bridal party select their own dresses (with some general guidance from you, of course.)

PLAN FOR DOWN TIME, AHEAD OF TIME.

Just like a regular yoga practice, wedding planning is as much about the journey as it is about the destination. And as crazy as it might sound, you actually have to plan to plan. Aka: don’t try to arrange your entire wedding all at one time, schedule yourself mindfully. If you’re running straight from a cake tasting to a dress fitting, or trying to write your vows after spending hours looking at seating charts, chances are that not only will you burn out fast, you will also miss the oneof-a-kind experience that is planning your wedding in the first place.

Instead of trying to check everything off your to-do list as quickly as possible (tempting as that may be,) arrange each task in a way that supports your own wellness. Add a weekly massage to your wedding planning agenda. Schedule a quiet walk around your wedding venue after an extra-long session with your wedding planner. Take time to savor that cake you’re tasting (I mean, cake tasting is basically the best part of the whole planning process.)

And don’t just stop to smell the roses (or those calla lilies) during the wedding planning process. Arrange a little down time in your Big Day as well. Whether that means scheduling an extended cocktail hour so you and your spouse can quietly bask in the glow of those just-spoken “I dos” or taking five minutes to kick your shoes off in the Bridal Suite between your first dance and dinner. Setting aside time during your wedding day to deliberately unwind will ensure

that the Big Day really does feel like the most magical day of your life, rather than a marathon.

TRY SOME EASY BREATHING EXERCISES.

Did you know that there are entire yoga classes dedicated to just sitting still and breathing? (Believe it or not, it’s true!)

There is no underestimating the power of taking a breath when you are stressed – whether that moment comes in the heat of rethinking your seating arrangements, again, or just seconds before you’re about to walk down the aisle. But to make sure all that deep breathing doesn’t suddenly turn into full-on hyperventilating (that would definitely defeat

the purpose), consider practicing some easy breathing exercises when you’re already feeling calm. Then you will be prepped to tap into them when they are most needed.

A favorite breathing technique of yoga teachers is the “4-7-8 Breath” – and yeah, it’s as easy to remember as it sounds. Simply inhale for a count of four, hold your breath for a count of seven and then release that breath through your nose for a count of eight. Repeat this breathing technique as often as necessary, until you are feeling ready to tackle whatever is heading your way: be it a persnickety future-in-law or an endless to-do list. Extra relaxation points if you close your eyes while doing it.

ACTUALLY PRACTICE YOGA.

Signing up to attend a regular yoga class

throughout your wedding planning process, and even beyond, is a great way to work some stress release into your schedule. And hey, don’t let all those fancy yoga poses you see on social media intimidate you: yoga is as much about sitting still as it is about breaking out a headstand or folding yourself into a pretzel. Even just one yoga session can calm the nervous system, slow the mind, relax the body and let you tune into you. Added bonus: yoga is great for toning your muscles, if that’s the look you are going for as you approach your Big Day. You really can’t beat something that tones your bod and relaxes your mind at the same time.

START A GRATITUDE JOURNAL.

This is a wellness practice that you will definitely want to take from wedding

planning all the way ‘til death do you part – and it’s another one that is as easy as its name. Whether you journal daily, weekly or whenever you feel yourself approaching meltdown mode, a gratitude journal is a great way to refocus your energy away from what is stressing you out in the present moment, and towards all the things that are going oh-so-right. Consider giving yourself a goal of listing five, or even ten things you are grateful for – those super-stylish strappy sandals that are also amazingly comfortable, that cake tasting that ended in red velvet bliss, the fact that you are about to marry the most amazing person you have ever met.

And yes, you have to physically write each item down, pen and paper in hand (definitely no typing these into your Notes app.) By the time you’re done, not only will you be totally tuned into some positive vibes, you will also have a hand-written keepsake that you can cherish forever.

START A MEDITATION PRACTICE.

If you have always thought meditation is way too “woo” for you, think again. Meditation is one of the simplest – and easiest to implement – ways to de-stress your mind and reconnect to your calm; no matter where you are or what you are doing. And don’t think that meditation is just for professional yogis and Buddhist monks, either – it’s definitely a practice for anyone and everyone. Unsure of where to start? Believe it or not, beginning with even just a couple of minutes of a meditation practice a few times a week can completely transform the way you walk through the world – and through your wedding planning.

Finally ready to give it a try? Consider starting with a mantra – one designed to draw your mind to everything that’s going well in your life, and to encourage the universe to send even more goodness

your wedded way. Settle yourself, close your eyes if you are comfortable doing so, take a breath and say quietly to yourself: “I am a magnet for the goodness of life. I receive goodness freely and without hesitation.” Repeat this mantra at least five times, or as many as needed before you begin to feel calm, grounded and centered. Once you get into the habit, I guarantee you’ll find yourself turning to these words whenever you need a quick pick-me-up.

ACCEPT THAT EVERYTHING IS NOT GOING TO BE PERFECT, IN ADVANCE.

If there is one Big Day guarantee, it’s this: everyone wants their wedding day to be perfect, and nobody’s wedding day is. (Although, having the right professionals by your side can get you pretty darn close.) But even with the best in the biz behind you, things like unexpected weather, unfortunately-timed traffic, wardrobe malfunctions or minor miscommunications are bound to happen. And while you can’t always plan for the unexpected, you can plan for how you’re going to handle those last-minute snafus if, and when, they occur. Is the trolley transporting the entire wedding party stuck in rush hour traffic? Turn that slowdown into a dance party.

TAP INTO SOME MINDFULNESS.

If you’re looking for more than mediation, or if meditation still just isn’t your thing, consider a mindfulness practice instead. (And yes, they are different things.) While meditation is designed to take you out of your current moment and direct your energy somewhere else, the goal of mindfulness is to bring your full awareness to your present moment, engage with what you are feeling and approach it with new energy.

Does a miscommunication with your calligrapher have you spiraling? Pause in your frustration, acknowledge what you’re feeling and why and don’t move forward until you’re able to communicate from a place of calm. Is an unexpected inability to say yes to your dress or tux about to bring you to tears? Have a moment to yourself in the dressing room, acknowl-

edge your emotions and then give yourself time to get to the root of them before making a final decision. One of the keys to mindfulness is to accept that frustration, stress and discomfort are going to come your way – and that’s okay! Let yourself feel your feelings, and then take the time to figure out what needs to change before you can move forward.

TERI & MIKE

Showing Off Chicago

After meeting each other at work in Boston, Teri and Mike moved to Chicago together to attend grad school. Since neither are Chicagonatives, most guests were traveling from out of town. They wanted to showcase the city they love with a summer wedding. A Friday evening cocktail hour helped kick off the wedding weekend and gave guests time to explore and enjoy the city before the Saturday ceremony.

Sprinkled with Love

The couple wanted an elegant and modern aesthetic for their wedding but, they decided their cake should be “all fun”! They covered the cake in sprinkles – Teri’s favorite. The pair also chose a banana bread cake with cream cheese icing for a unique take on the traditional wedding cake.

An Egyptian Flair

Mike’s family is Egyptian, so the pair wanted to incorporate his cultural heritage into the reception. Teri and Mike worked with the band to curate several blocks of Egyptian songs throughout the evening. Guests were delighted to learn the traditional songs and dances!

Game Play

Playing board games is one of Teri and Mike’s favorite hobbies. So instead of having a traditional guestbook, they asked that guests sign Jenga tiles. With the game added to their collection, the couple will be able to reminisce about their wedding day for years to come.

Number of Wedding Guests: 115

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

VENUE: The Langham, Chicago | PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY: Giadore Photography | EVENT PLANNER: Effortless Events

RINGS: Stephanie Gottlieb Fine Jewelry | GOWN: THEIA via Lovely Bride | BRIDE’S SHOES: Jimmy Choo

HAIR & MAKEUP: Kate Johnson Artistry | FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Avant Gardenia

STATIONERY: Minted | ENTERTAINMENT: Sway Chicago | CAKE & SWEETS: Sugar Fixé | FAVORS: Garrett Popcorn

Tricia & Jake

Vendors

EVENT PLANNER: Bethany Moore Events | VENUE: The Monte Bello Estate | PHOTOGRAPHY: GReyes Photography

STATIONERY: Chelsea Brown Designs | FLORAL: Flowers by Steen Productions | CAKE & SWEETS: Vanilla Sugar Bakery

DÉCOR: Chicago Factory, Flowers by Steen Productions, Key To Your Heart, Stacey’s Place & Morgan’s Place

To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration.

City Scene

WHAT’S NEW AROUND CHICAGOLAND

PHOTOGRAPH

BY Jasko Omerovic Photography

InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile

505 N. Michigan Ave. | Chicago, IL 60611 312.321.8735 | icchicagohotel.com

The InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile is thrilled to have given both their Renaissance and Grand Ballrooms exquisite renovations for your upcoming celebrations. Guests will twirl around the dance floor under opulent crystal chandeliers and intricate hand-painted frescos reminiscent of Michelangelo’s Sistine Chapel. With an updated color scheme of sophisticated gray tones and gold accents, the historic hotel establishes an elegant and lavish atmosphere that makes it one of Chicago’s most treasured gems. With the help of their incredible culinary and events team, The InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile will successfully make your wedding dreams come true.

Manzo’s Banquets

1571 S. Elmhurst Rd. | Des Plaines, IL 60018 847.593.2233 | manzosbanquets.com

Manzo’s Banquets has effortlessly hosted beautiful weddings at their venue for nearly 35 years. With recent renovations, guests will be in awe of their spectacular ballrooms adorned with crystal chandeliers, ornate ceilings and marble dance floors enhancing the venue’s sophisticated atmosphere. The private bridal suites have been redecorated with love, to ensure you feel comfortable and relaxed on your special day. Guests will capture the perfect photo opportunity on an enchanting open patio decorated with glowing LED lights spelling “I DO” and “LOVE”. Manzo’s impeccable service and luxurious decór will help create intimate memories that will be cherished forever.

City Hall

838 W. Kinzie St. | Chicago, IL 60642

312.801.1181 | thecityhall.com

Chicago’s newly opened City Hall is a sprawling venue divided into a 5,000 sq. ft. event space, a 3,700 sq. ft. restaurant and a 6,000 sq. ft. patio. Skylights run the length of the building and bathe the space in natural light, accentuating the intricate iron trusses and exposed brick original to the structure. The open hall brings in classical and neoclassical design elements, emulating those of historic municipal buildings across America. Refined finishes, such as art deco steel panels and a 40-foot marble bar, dazzle, while a newly built loft and private bridal suite, overlook the space for your perfect wedding celebration.

River Roast

315 N. LaSalle St. | Chicago, IL 60654

312.527.1417 | riverroastchicago.com

River Roast has been named one of the best patios in the city with glittering views of the Chicago riverfront and its acclaimed glory. Expansive windows line the restaurant’s historic red brick walls giving the venue a rich and industrial ambiance. With its updated bar that includes indooroutdoor service, the spacious Murdoch room opens up to a beautiful outdoor terrace for a cocktail reception overlooking the water. The versatile space includes new decorative mobile bars and an eclectic selection of furniture to accommodate your event’s ideal aesthetic. Your special day will be unforgettable with breathtaking views and remarkable service from the beginning to the the fairy-tale ending.

Taureaux

155 W. Van Buren St. | Chicago, IL 60605

312.624.8778 | taureauxtavern.com

Experience a taste of France right here in Chicago at Taureaux. Offering elevated French dining in the heart of Chicago’s Loop, this recently opened restaurant and bar boasts outdoor seating all year round under the covered outdoor pergola. Your guests will taste the acclaimed chef's seasonal menus and indulge in paired wines from an extensive list. Let the private dining team customize and refine your next wedding event to distinguished perfection.

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Location, Location, Location

Nothing defines a wedding more than the location. Not only does it set the tone for the day, but it also says a lot about the personality of the couple. The sheer number of wedding venues can make an engaged couples’ heads spin. City vs. country. Ballroom vs. barn. Indoors vs. outdoors. Library vs. loft. Park vs. by the water. There is so much to take into consideration that it can be overwhelming. Where do you start?

Before you dive head first in looking at venues you need to determine your budget and how many guests you plan to invite. This information will help you to narrow down your choices. One other thing to be mindful of is the distance your guests will need to travel between the ceremony location and the reception location, if they are not one and the same. Once you have those details in mind it’s time to start thinking about the type of venue for your Big Day.

HOTELS

If you are looking for a full-service, traditional location, a hotel is a great choice. Most hotels have all-inclusive wedding packages and in-house event specialists that will lead you through the entire process from linen colors to cake flavors. Because of their versatility, hotels are a great option for almost any type of wedding celebration. It is common for hotels to offer intimate nooks that can accommodate 20 guests, elegant grand ballrooms that can accommodate up to 400 guests, rooftop terraces, skyline views and on-site restaurants where you can hold your rehearsal dinner.

If you foresee inviting numerous out of town guests, holding your reception at a hotel will take the guess-work out of booking a room. Some hotels can even supply you with a unique reservation link for your guests to book their rooms. Another perk is that it will allow guests the convenience to access their

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rooms throughout your reception to change their high heel shoes to flats, freshen up or easily get to their room safely if they have had too much of a good time.

COUNTRY CLUBS & GOLF COURSES

A country club is another classic venue to consider. You might think that you are required to have a membership to rent their facilities, but they are not as exclusive as many people think. Many country clubs are available to the public even if

you are not a member. Similar to hotels, most country clubs will offer many of the services you will need on-site, such as an event planner, catering and a variety of linens.

Known for their golf courses and expansive grounds, a country club is an ideal location for an outdoor event. As every savvy planner knows, if you are planning an outdoor ceremony or reception it is advisable to have a back-up plan in case of rain. Be sure to discuss your options with your event planner ahead of time.

Having the peace of mind that you have a space to move into if inclement weather strikes will allow you to focus your thoughts on other things. Then there’s the golf! Your wedding party might enjoy playing 18 holes the morning of the ceremony or as a part of the bachelor or bachelorette party.

MANSIONS & HISTORIC SITES

If a picturesque setting is on your musthave list, then be sure to explore the

many opulent mansions located throughout Chicagoland. Where else are you going to find cascading staircases, expansive grounds, exotic gardens, historical backdrops, romantic chandeliers and elegant architecture all in one place?

Mansions that are available for events, such as weddings, will also offer some of the same amenities as hotels and country clubs. Most are likely to offer all-inclusive packages, including a dedicated wedding specialist, full-service caterer and bridal suites. The versatility you will have when deciding how to execute your Big Day will enable you to have both your ceremony and reception on the property if you so desire. Plus, most mansions will offer both indoor and outdoor site options. Keep in mind that Chicago weather can change on a dime. It is advisable to have an alternate location set up inside if you have decided on an outdoor wedding. Another bonus to having your wedding at a mansion is that they typically only host one event per day. This means that you will have the grounds to yourself for pictures and the staff will be completely focused on your needs alone.

MUSEUMS & LIBRARIES

Art and culture are all around us in Chicago. There are many spectacular museums, art galleries and libraries to choose from. Though these locations might not be obvious choices for holding a wedding, they should be. These amazing buildings often feature exquisite art, unique architectural design, historical yet modern elegance and amazing natural light. Depending on the venue you choose, you may need to be more hands-on with all the details. This is a fantastic opportunity to truly make the day your own. If you do not feel prepared to handle all the planning single-handedly, you can enlist the help of a wedding planner. These professionals can walk you through everything from hiring caterers to selecting

a florist. Plus, they will be your point person on the day of your wedding to take care of any issues big or small.

RESORT & SPAS

Planning a wedding can be stressful, so why not incorporate some well-deserved rest and relaxation into the equation? Holding your ceremony at a luxurious resort and spa might be just what you need. The final 48 hours leading up to your Big Day are likely to be a whirlwind of activity for you and your wedding

party. Be sure to take a step back and carve out some time for yourself and your wedding party to enjoy a little pampering at the spa or improve their swing on the golf course.

Choosing a resort and spa as your wedding location can also take the guesswork out of how to fit in a trip to the salon to have your hair and nails done. And don’t forget about that massage. After the major undertaking of planning a wedding and making it to the finish line (aka, the aisle), you deserve it!

BARNS & FARMS

Getting married on a farm or in a barn has grown in popularity over the years, and for good reason. Think rustic wood beams wrapped in twinkle lights, gorgeous landscapes for wedding photos, a casual reception set around fire pits, mature trees and farm to table catering. Though these kinds of locations will probably not have an all-inclusive option, you can hire a wedding planner to assist you with all the details. Plus, if you were planning to have your four-legged friend be part of the Big

Day, holding your wedding in such a versatile location means that your pet could not only walk you down the aisle but could join you at the head table.

GARDENS & PARKS

Parks and gardens have always been popular as wedding locations. You are almost guaranteed amazing wedding photos among the blossoming flowers in the spring, the lush greenery in the summer or the magnificent array of colorful leaves in the fall as your backdrop. Many parks and gardens offer both outdoor and indoor options for your nuptials giving you a built-in back-up plan. Additional items to keep in mind are that parks and gardens tend to be public property, you will probably need to adhere to a noise ordinance and may not have all the privacy that you and your partner desire.

BY THE WATER

Chicagoans looking to get married are blessed in many respects when it comes to location choices. On top of all the beautiful hotels, restaurants, museums, etc. that the city and surrounding area have to offer, couples planning their weddings also have the option of a ceremony with water views, or even a wedding on the water.

Envision sailing down the Chicago River as you and your guests sip champagne under the setting sun. Depending on the vessel you select, your guests will have the option of sitting out on an open-air deck or in a climate-controlled salon. Either way, they will be treated to a fabulous meal, full bar service and a spacious dance floor so that they can dance the night away.

If you would rather keep your feet firmly planted on dry land, there are

numerous venues located by the river, or on Lake Michigan, that boast spectacular water views. Whether the venue you choose has grand windows or a high-rise patio that overlooks the water, either way, you can’t go wrong.

BANQUET HALLS

Banquet halls are another popular choice for wedding celebrations. One major perk to selecting a banquet hall is large scale events are their niche. This means that the staff will be well-versed in making any size event go off without a hitch. With their custom kitchens designed to prepare meals for large events, allinclusive packages and dedicated event planners, you can rest assured that every aspect of your reception will be taken care of meticulously.

If you are planning to have a rather extensive guest list, be sure to discuss

your audio-visual needs with the event planner. From microphones for your toasts and speeches to projectors for your picture montage, this will be another item you do not need to worry about and an added feature to enhance your reception.

RESTAURANTS

Throughout your wedding planning, you are likely to use restaurants for your bridal shower, bachelor or bachelorette party and rehearsal dinner, but many couples may not think of them for the wedding celebration itself. Here is some food for thought. A restaurant can be a great location if you are having a smaller wedding. It is common for restaurants to have event rooms that can be reserved for private parties, or, depending on the time of day, you might be able to rent the entire restaurant.

While you are likely to get delicious meals at any venue you choose, most large kitchens are set up for catering, thus limiting the meal options you can offer your guests. You are more likely to be able to add variety to your menu at a restaurant, or even have your guests order off the main menu which is aavailable to all who dine at the establishment.

Another perk that a restaurant can offer is a personal connection. Maybe you met your future spouse during your semester abroad in Italy or had your first date in Chinatown. Holding your wedding celebration in a restaurant that ties a part of your journey together as a couple to your wedding day can be a special reminder for you both of the things that brought you together, and will continue to be the ties that bind you together for your happily ever after.

LOFTS

The modern engaged couple may be looking for a location that is a little edgier or industrial. There are many benefits to having your ceremony and reception in a

loft space. Many of these venues are converted mills, so they have expansive, wide-open spaces to fit all your friends and family, plus a great dance floor. If you and your wedding planner are up to the task, this could be a great choice for you. Though some lofts will offer in-house catering, many do not. This provides you with the opportunity to select the caterer of your choice and have your wedding cake designed by your favorite bakery. Another benefit is the unique photo opportunities. These wonderful spaces tend to

have amazing steel beams, original wood or concrete floors, weathered brick walls and exposed ceilings. Work with your wedding planner and photographer to come up with some creative ideas to incorporate these urban features into your photographs.

While most couples will opt for one of the more traditional wedding locations mentioned earlier, there will always be those adventurous duos who want to treat their guests to something a little more unique. Luckily, Chicagoland can accom-

modate even the most eclectic desires. These couples may choose to say “I do” in a stunning wildlife habitat at a local zoo, standing on a glass ledge thirteen hundred feet above the city, on the playing field of a hometown sports stadium, on stage at an iconic Chicago theater, in front of an aquatic wonderland at an aquarium or among the stars at a planetarium. Chicagoland offers an almost endless list of options if you are looking for something more inimitable for your wedding. The only limitation you have is your imagination.

VICTORIA & FRANK

Vintage Glam

Victoria & Frank both love the Rat Pack Era and Old Hollywood Glam, so settling on a wedding theme proved to be easy. No detail was left unplanned, from the personalized and monogrammed pillows to the custom paper fan backdrop behind the live band playing big band music. The addition of red roses throughout the décor truly stole the show amongst the black, gold and ivory color palette. Together, it created a bespoke, intimate experience for guests to feel as if they stepped back in time.

Always

Frank regularly signs his letters to Victoria with “I will love you, always.” In combination with the symbolism from Harry Potter, “Always” has become the couple’s personal mantra. They incorporated the “Always” emblem into every detail of their celebration, from their invitations to their table décor.

Unforgettable Moments

When reminiscing about their favorite moments from their Big Day, Victoria and Frank had a hard time narrowing down their list. Frank decided that one of his favorite moments was riding around in Victoria’s Dad’s vintage car at the end of the day. For Victoria, the best part of the day was seeing her groom waiting at the end of the aisle.

Number of Wedding Guests: 180

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

VENUE: Stan Mansion | PHOTOGRAPHY: Hello Rose Photography | VIDEOGRAPHY: Old North Film Company

EVENT PLANNER: Fairy Tale Dream Events by Monica | RINGS: dimend SCASSI | HAIR & MAKEUP: Tigerlilie Salon

GOWN: Sophia Tolli via Eva’s Bridal International | BRIDE’S ACCESSORIES: Silver Moon | BRIDE’S SHOES: Emmy London

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Adrianna Papell | FORMALWEAR: DXL Mens Apparel; Men’s Wearhouse | DAY-OF STATIONERY: Buffy Weddings

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From the Chic to the Unique

8 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WEDDING MEMORABLE

Couples are always looking for exceptional ways to make their wedding stand out. Of course, you can opt for a flashy theme that will encompass your personalities, or you can go with a classic, traditional vibe that looks like it just came off the silver screen.

However, if you don’t want to go with a theme per se, but still want your wedding to be distinctive, there are a number of things that you can do to make sure that your guests are talking about your wedding for months to come. Sometimes it’s the little touches that are the most memorable, and just a pinch of creativity can certainly go a long way. Guests love to attend a wedding that utilizes new, trendy ideas and maybe even get a few ideas for their own upcoming nuptials.

So, let’s jump right in and look at eight ways to ensure your wedding is as special as your commitment to each other!

1. TAKE TO SOCIAL MEDIA

As you already know, anything and everything can be posted on your favorite social media platforms. Your wedding and the entire process leading up to it, can easily be shared with your friends, family and coworkers. We don’t have to remind you what a special day your wedding is to both of you as a couple, so it’s absolutely normal that you will want to share all of the exciting details with your social media followers.

However, will a few random posts do, or will you want a little

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more? In an environment packed full of hashtags, shouldn’t your wedding have one, too? Well, a lot of couples agree, as wedding hashtags are one of the biggest trends for 2019.

So, how does it work? Well, whenever you make any post about your wedding, whether it be pictures of dress fittings or your first walk-through at the reception venue, you will include your carefully crafted wedding hashtag. That way, everyone can follow right along with you, from the first moments of planning to the last song at the reception.

Now, you may already be throwing around a few ideas for your wedding hashtag, but make sure that it will be unique. There are hashtag generators that you can use, but they can be expensive. Plus, it’s fun to create one yourself, if you follow just a few steps.

Brainstorm – Get together with your partner and come up with a few ideas. Think of your full names, your wedding date, the venue or honeymoon destination, your theme and some of your special memories. Also, consider your children, pets, your go-to music genre and your favorite sports teams.

Get Witty – Now it’s time to get those creative juices flowing! Think about what makes your union unique, and try a play on words. Blend your last name with a saying, like #ILoveYouMoore, or make a pun like #FureverLove, especially if you are including fur babies in your journey.

Keep It Correct – Be sure that you use the proper format. Capitalize the first letter of every word, be sure that there are no common typos and make certain no one else is using it.

2. DECORATE TIL YOU DROP

If you really want to devote some energy to your décor, you can come up with some amazing ideas. Even if you are working with a professional designer,

which we absolutely recommend, you can work together to be sure that he or she creates your ultimate vision.

The first thing to do is get inspired. It’s really important to find local trends, because let’s face it – what’s going on in Dallas or Los Angeles is completely different than what might be considered on trend in Chicago.

Use every inch of space at your disposal. A lot of people tend to neglect the entryway, but this is the first impression that your guests will have when walking into your venue. If you have a theme, incorporate it here, and give your guests the option to be pulled in. For example, are you going with a travel theme, or do you both just like packing a suitcase and hitting the road when the mood hits? Set up a globe or a flat vinyl map that your guests can sign as they come in.

Your centerpieces can also serve as

gifts for the table, with small potted plants that can be taken home and planted in your garden, or even consider tiny spruce trees. Also, etched candles or little boxes containing monogrammed items will always be a reminder of your wedding.

3.BE INTERACTIVE WITH YOUR GUESTS

Your guests love feeling as if they are a big part of your ceremony or reception. It’s impossible to have everyone in your wedding party, but you can come up with ideas that will make it simple for them to participate in a myriad of ways.

One way to get started is to re-think the notion of a boring guestbook, with a distant cousin standing behind it to somehow encourage people to sign their names. The globe tip above is a neat idea, but let’s take things a step further. Allow your guests to leave a video message on

an iPad, or take a Polaroid and write a note on the back. If you or someone in the family likes to sew, your guests can sign squares of fabric that can be put together in a beautiful wedding quilt to be cherished for generations.

You can also set up a “Words of Wisdom” box. This is an opportunity for other couples to leave a few tips on how to settle arguments, why you should never go to sleep angry or why deepdish pizza is never a bad dinner plan.

Another interesting way to keep guests interacting is to allow them to create a time capsule. Let them add whatever they want to a box or crate to be opened at a predetermined time. You can even set up stations for multiple time capsules, say at one year, five years or longer.

4.RENT A PHOTO BOOTH

When these blasts from the past began

appearing at wedding receptions all across the country, some cynics thought they wouldn’t last. However, photo booths are most definitely the trend that is decidedly here to stay! Perhaps a big part of this is the nostalgia that is involved. Doesn’t everyone recall cramming into a dark booth at an amusement park, an arcade or a movie theater to

take photos with your two best friends?

Most photo booths come with hilarious props and a choice of backdrops or screens, so you can personalize the experience for your guests. Photo booths are wonderful because, at weddings, old friends tend to reunite after 10 years, or family members from the other side of the country are able to spend a few days

together. Candid photos can be the best way to commemorate these moments.

5.SET UP A COCKTAIL LOUNGE

If you have space at your reception venue, consider setting up a lounge area where guests can mingle and sip a cocktail or two. If your wedding will have a seating chart for the dining portion of the reception, or if guests simply want to converse in a more relaxed setting, a makeshift cocktail lounge can do the trick.

A small side room is ideal, but you can also section off an area in the main venue and bring in a few sofas and tables to give the space its own vibe.

And don’t forget to be creative with your cocktails, and have a few featured drinks with cute names that incorporate your wedding theme or other ideas. Years later, it may come up in conversation –I wonder what was in the “Kendall and Brady Blast”?

6.GET CUTE WITH YOUR CONFECTIONS

While the wedding cake will always be the centerpiece of the sweets at your reception, that doesn’t mean that you can’t add a bit more here and there. Cupcakes are perfect for the kiddos, and you can even bring the sweets to the tables as centerpieces. You can wrap up local chocolates in brightly colored paper, or you can stack small boxes filled with candies on the tables as well.

While it was extremely popular a few years back, what is known as the “groom’s cake” is really making a comeback. Of course, the cake doesn’t have to be just for the groom or decorated in sports or other hobbies. The idea of this second cake is to have fun with it. If you’re both big fans of the Broadway sensation “Wicked,” go with bright green icing on one side and pale blue on the other. If you both play golf, then your cake

designer can go crazy with a fun hole-inone design. Are you getting the idea?

Let your main cake be the masterpiece that you’ve been dreaming about since watching “Ace of Cakes,” but get quirky and eccentric with this smaller cake.

7.GAME ON

Everyone loves a good game, and your

wedding doesn’t have to be any different. Typically, the focus of the game is on the bride and groom, where they are asked questions about each other until one can be deemed the winner. However, you can also test the members of the wedding party, such as “Who Knows Taylor the Best”?

There’s also the ever-popular scav-

enger hunt, which is a fantastic choice for the young people at the reception. Prepare a list of items or information that must be gathered, and have a prize for the winner who finishes the list first.

8.AFTER THE PARTY

Many couples are heading out on their honeymoon the following day, or at the start of the next weekend. They are sad to see the reception come to an end, so why not have an “after party”?

A lot of couples opt to continue the party at their favorite bar or nightclub, where they have rented a separate room or a few VIP booths so that the fun doesn’t have to end.

If you are catching a plane to Bermuda the next morning and are anxious to get to your B&B for the night, set up a plan for your guests. As mentioned, this may be the first time several of these people have gotten together for years, so make the night last!

Spending time brainstorming with your loved ones can be a great way to come up with even more inspiring ways to make your wedding and its reception memorable. Think outside of the box, and don’t be afraid to try something new or different. On the flip side, if you’ve seen something that you thought was super-awesome at another wedding, incorporate it into your own, with perhaps an extra detail or a slight twist.

Your reception is the party that you deserve after months, even years, of planning. This goes for your bridal attendants and family as well. Remember all those late nights making out-of-town gift baskets or visiting every bridal shop in town until you found the perfect bridesmaids dresses? Trust me, everyone is ready to let loose and celebrate!

So, let your personalities shine through, and be as unique as you want to be with this list of tips. After all, it’s your wedding day – enjoy it!

One-of-a-Kind Wedding Options

There is no right way to plan a wedding. Seriously. The entire point of your Big Day is that it is a reflection of you, your partner and the love you share. While a traditional affair speaks to many couples, there’s no reason you can’t design a celebration that makes the two of you happy, no matter how quirky or “outside the box” it may seem. We are seeing more and more couples opt for non-traditional wedding ceremonies, receptions or wedding day elements in an effort to

personalize their celebration and truly showcase their personality as a couple. If you’re tempted to do something a little unexpected for your Big Day, we’ve got some ideas (both big and small) for you right here.

ELOPEMENTS

Let’s just start with perhaps the most dramatic non-traditional route you can take – eloping. Couples choose to elope for so

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many reasons, and the popularity of this wedding day option is currently on the rise. Maybe you don’t want to spend the money on a typical wedding, you can’t stand the thought of hundreds of eyes on you as you exchange vows or you want your wedding day to feel completely intimate and personal. There’s no rule about why you would choose to elope. Just like with planning a traditional wedding, you should choose what feels right for you and your partner.

If you do decide to elope, there are dozens of ways to pull off this more intimate wedding day option. You can opt for just you and your partner, parents and immediate family only, or a small gathering of close friends. Once you’ve decided who will be included, you’ll need to decide on a location. The courthouse is historically a popular option, and some cities and towns have city halls or courthouses with

stunning architecture if that is important to you. You can also choose a location that is special to you and your partner – a rooftop where you had drinks on your first date, a waterfall you hiked to or a restaurant you both really love. There’s no need to travel to another city or country to pull off the perfect elopement, though that is always a choice, too!

Couples who decide to elope should still consider including some of the elements of a more traditional wedding. At the very least, you should still hire a photographer to capture the event. You’ll want to have photos to share and look back on. You may also want to include a videographer if you want to share your special day with friends and family who may not be included in the event. If you have always dreamed of wearing a fancy white gown or a crisp tux, there’s no reason to not dress up just because

you’re eloping. Go as fancy or as casual as you want! Other details you may consider including: a bouquet and boutonniere, a small wedding cake or sweet treat and a customized announcement to send out afterwards. Some couples choose to celebrate with a small group of close loved ones after a private ceremony. Skipping the traditional Big Day does not mean you have to pass on everything –include the elements and traditions that feel right to you.

DESTINATION WEDDINGS

If a full-on elopement feels too dramatic, but you are still not digging the traditional wedding day experience, a destination wedding may be just the ticket. Destination weddings lend themselves to smaller affairs as you typically only ask your closest friends and family to

spend the time and money required to travel. You may also choose this option for your Big Day if you want a more laid back, less formal vibe than a traditional wedding venue would provide. If you and your fiancé are from different states or countries, maybe a neutral location makes more sense so as not to unfairly burden one side of the family.

If you decide to host a destination wedding, consider sourcing some wedding vendors from your hometown and bring them with you. A hair and makeup artist who knows your hair and skin, that can do a trial run with you before the wedding, is invaluable. You may also want to consider hiring a photographer who is willing to travel with you. This affords you the opportunity to get to know one another during the engagement session this will ensure you feel more comfortable than you would if meeting someone on location

the day-of your elopement. You’ll almost definitely need to buy your dress at home, well ahead of your wedding date, and be sure to talk to the boutique owner about any concerns with packaging your dress for shipping to your destination.

Benefits of a destination wedding are bountiful: gorgeous photos in exotic locations, a more intimate guest list, a relaxed party vibe and less stress if you book your wedding at a resort that offers a fullfledged wedding coordination package. However, a destination wedding doesn’t come without some difficulties. Make sure you know exactly what the legal process is like for obtaining a marriage license if you are in another country. You may want to consider staying for a night or two after your wedding and then booking a separate honeymoon, so you aren’t surrounded by your wedding guests for the entirety of your newlywed vacation. If you like to be

in control of every single detail, a destination wedding could prove challenging, as you’ll likely have to leave a lot of the work up to professionals on location and trust that it will be what you want when you arrive. If you are aware of these challenges ahead of time, and tying the knot somewhere far from home sounds like your cup of tea, then a destination wedding may just be your dream come true.

NON-TRADITIONAL RECEPTIONS

For couples who want a more traditional wedding ceremony, but still want to customize their Big Day in a unique way, a non-traditional reception may be the perfect compromise. Instead of hosting an afternoon or evening reception like usual, couples could choose to have an early-morning ceremony followed by a brunch reception. Similarly, couples could

choose to host a later ceremony with a cocktail reception to follow instead of a full dinner reception. There are specific pros and cons to consider with these non-traditional reception options.

A brunch reception is the perfect choice for the couple who wants to eat delicious food and spend time with their wedding guests, but doesn’t want a raucous party. Brunch doesn’t have to mean no alcohol (hello, mimosas and bloody marys!) but guests tend to be more subdued and less inclined to tear up the dance floor at eleven AM. A brunch reception can be laid back or more formal, but you should generally stick with a semi-formal dress code at most. An earlier celebration could also allow you to get into more popular venues that may be booked already.

With a cocktail reception, a couple foregoes a full dinner in favor of heavy

hors d’oeuvres or passed appetizers. This type of reception could be held in the early afternoon or later evening. If you choose to host a cocktail reception during typical “dinner” hours (5-7 PM), you should let guests know, on a details card or invitation, so they don’t expect a full dinner. Having food stations or passed apps instead of a plated meal can be a fun alternative to typical wedding food, giving you the opportunity to offer bite-size treats or unexpected fare like tacos or sliders. While some couples choose a cocktail reception as a way to save money, be aware that snack food costs can add up quickly and sometimes end up costing more than a regular dinner. A cocktail reception is perfect for a couple who wants a less-formal vibe. It’s generally easier to mix and mingle with guests when everyone isn’t seated at tables to eat. While standing

cocktail tables are perfectly acceptable, make sure you do offer some seating options, especially for older guests and anyone whose feet are tired from standing in heels.

THE WEDDING WEEKEND

While some cultures throw multi-day wedding celebrations as per tradition, the Western or Christian wedding is typically a one-day affair. If you crave the intimacy of an elopement or destination wedding, but also want to celebrate with a larger group, a two-day wedding could be the answer. On the first day, exchange vows in a small ceremony with only your closest friends and family and then follow up the next day with a larger reception to celebrate! Or consider including all your guests in a weekend full of festivities. You could have a pre-wedding ceremony activity on Friday

that incorporates a special interest that you and your partner share – kayaking, hiking, painting, ballroom dancing – and then have your wedding and reception on Saturday. By stretching your wedding celebration over several days, couples can personalize activities and share more time with their guests than just a few hours at a busy reception.

UNEXPECTED WEDDING ELEMENTS

If you’ve read through all of the alternative options above and none feel quite right, you may be interested in planning a more traditional wedding while including a unique element or two. From wedding attendants to dessert, there are hundreds of ways to customize your wedding and add in a little unexpected flair.

To customize your wedding ceremony, you can have a family member marry you

for a personal touch. Some couples have elected to have their grandmothers drop flowers in lieu of traditional flower girls, and the photos can be cherished for years. Want a unity symbol but not into the idea of lighting a candle? Switch it up and toast your new spouse with each other’s favorite beer or wine.

You can always use entertainment options to set your Big Day apart and leave your guests with an experience to remember. Hire a magician or tarot card reader to move between tables. A mariachi band could add a fun touch to a cocktail hour. We’ve seen Elvis impersonators serenade guests at the reception and LED robots spray guests with fog from the dance floor.

When it comes to the food options, a food truck reception instead of a typical plated meal or a beverage truck for specialty cocktails is a memorable option.

Desserts are easily customizable and there’s no need to even stick to sweets. Couples are opting to cut into things they love – pizza and cheese wheels are two popular choices – instead of traditional cakes. There’s also interactive s’mores bars, donut walls or French crêpes. You can always have a wedding cake and then bring in additional sweets to highlight your culture or favorite desserts.

Never forget that your wedding is a reflection of you and your partner. It’s important that you both feel like your Big Day is authentic and personal, even if that means flouting tradition or expectations. From solo elopements to an unexpected dessert, there are endless options for customizing your wedding, you just need to decide what feels right and follow your heart – especially if it leads to pizza at your reception, because who doesn’t love a little wedding pizza?

JAIME & WILL

Knowing Early On

After meeting through an online dating site, Jaime and Will just knew this was it. They shared so many interests including a love for food, traveling, sports (loyal Cubs fans) and family values. By their second date, they were a perfect match for one another.

Ready to Party

Jaime and Will wanted their wedding reception to feel like a big party, with a focus on the band, food and bar. They featured two specialty cocktails named after the bride and groom –a pear martini with grenadine and a spicy Old Fashioned with habanero bitters – which were a big hit with guests. The upbeat band had guests kicking up their heels on the dance floor the entire night.

The Lone Star State

In honor of Will’s Texas roots, the couple incorporated a “Texas chic” theme throughout their reception. They used antlers, cacti and plenty of candles interspersed with a navy, pink and metallic color scheme to keep things both western and elegant.

Photogenic Pup

Jaime and Will enjoyed taking photos around the financial district and the Wells Street Bridge after their first look. One of their favorite moments of the day was including their sweet pit bull Macey in the photoshoot for some adorable family wedding portraits.

Number of Wedding Guests: 200

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Real Wedding Vendors

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| FORMALWEAR: BALANI Custom

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VENUE: City Hall

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Albert’s Diamond Jewelers

GOWN: Lazaro via Bella Bianca Bridal Couture

BRIDE’S SHOES: Manolo Blahnik

HAIR & MAKEUP: Rose Austra

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BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Brides & Hairpins; Susan G. Allen Couture Bridal Accessories and Jewelry

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Rod Tuffcurls & The Bench Press

CAKE & SWEETS: Blue Plate; Jewell Events Catering; Sweet Mandy B’s

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FLORAL & DÉCOR: Avant Gardenia | VENUE: Pazzo’s at 311 | EVENT PLANNER: Rachael Steacy Events

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STATIONERY: Minted | CAKE: Sweet Ali’s Gluten Free Bakery

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How to Book a Wedding Venue

Booking a wedding venue obviously requires organization and preparation, but whether you are ready for it depends on details such as where you are in your overall planning, the type of venue you want and how soon you want to get married.

In order to choose the best venue, you and your partner should determine what is most important to you both on your wedding day. For example, if you both value having all of your

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family and friends attend your celebrations, make sure the venue has room for your ample head count. So, grab your laptop or a pen and paper and let’s dive into the most common venue details to iron out.

LOCATION

Choosing a location is the first step of booking your venue. Consider guest count capacity, indoor and outdoor potential,

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catering and alcohol options and proximity to your ceremony. It is also important to note that while you might be able to transform an event space with lighting, drapery and flowers, the costs of those elements add up quickly. To avoid a hefty price tag, consider selecting a location that requires only minor changes. But remember, some little things count

for a lot. Even if you only dislike the ceiling or the carpeting, moving forward with signing a contract could translate into spending thousands of dollars trying to camouflage it down the road.

VENDORS

Another detail to consider about your venue are your wedding vendors. Many

locations have a list of caterers, design studios and florists they recommend who have worked with them on events in the past. However, some venues go beyond recommendations and exclusively work with these partners as their “preferred vendors.” Be sure to ask about the policy before bringing in outside vendors to make sure you can create the wedding you have in mind.

You and your partner should also look into an all-inclusive venue. All-inclusive venues often come with pre-packaged options, which can save a lot of coordination and research for couples who want a celebration that is more simple and traditional. A-la carte locales require a lot more time and effort, but they allow for more customization for couples who want a celebration that is tailor-made to their preferences.

GUESTS

If you are not celebrating the day with just the two of you (which we are not knocking), make sure you consider any family or friends who will be witnessing your nuptials. Transportation, accessibility, parking, safety and proximity to the ceremony are all details to account for. Some urban venues don’t have attached parking and outdoor venues, while picturesque, are not always easily accessible for guests.

Knowing approximately how many guests you will invite is crucial to selecting a venue that safely accommodates each person and allows everyone to have a good time.

BUDGET

It goes without saying that to book a venue, you will have to spend some cash. How much you spend, however, is completely up to your personal style and budget. The average cost of a wedding venue is around $15,000, but venues can be as low as $2,000. Setting a

budget for your venue might also impact your vendor budget. The last thing you want to do is blow your budget on a beautiful venue and then realize you have to scrimp everywhere else. Call potential vendors and make sure each quote is within your means before even visiting a venue.

Many event spaces require a minimum

number of guests or a food and beverage minimum to book the space and guarantee a certain price. If you know for a fact that your number of guests will exceed the minimum amount or your catering needs and preferences will go beyond the requirement, this could lower the venue price or the catering price per guest. However, make sure that you are

100 percent able to fill the number of seats you request. Another tip for lowering the price of your venue is requesting changes to the event package. Politely tell the venue representative what your price range is and ask if you can subtract extras that you don’t think you’ll need (chair covers, candle treatments, centerpieces, etc.). Be aware – negotiating will have its limits. If you are dead set on a particular venue, you will have to accept their general price range. Make sure you also ask the venue representative to calculate the total cost per person, including any service charges and taxes. Online prices and even prices quoted in person sometimes exclude these two figures, which can make a sizable difference in your total cost. For good measure, check that your venue doesn’t charge extra for services like cutting your cake.

DATE

Unfortunately, there is not an industrywide standard that wedding venues follow when it comes to securing an event date at a venue. In fact, many venues will charge anywhere between $500 to 20% of the total cost of your wedding to hold a date. It is crucial to call each vendor on your list and ask how much the deposit is when you have your date set in stone. This will ensure that you don't show up short-handed during your inperson visit if you fall in love with a space – and do make sure you visit in person before you put down any money towards any venue space.

Some venues also charge a premium for Saturday evenings. You can instantly save by booking your wedding on another day of the week. You might also consider having your wedding during the off-season months like January through March versus May through October.

Generally, you should plan to book your wedding reception site at least nine months to a year before your wedding

date. Give yourself a deadline and begin researching and touring a month or two before then. If you are having a longer engagement, try to book your venue early to lock in the current year’s prices versus the year you are actually getting married. This can save you up to at least 15 percent of the total cost of booking the space. Unless you are apt to change

your mind, there is no such thing as booking too early – keep in mind, most venues will not allow you to switch the date once you have signed a contract. Remember, dates fill up quickly – wedding venues usually get booked as far as two or three years in advance – and there are plenty of other couples out there who will want the same venue and

date as you. So do not hesitate to book a space if you know you really want it.

VENUE STAFF

While it may seem like a small detail, couples need to consider the staff they will be working with. It should feel like a natural fit and they should get along well with your wedding planner, and other points of contact. Searching for this type of relationship will provide a much smoother planning process and wedding celebration. Do not underestimate the power of word-of-mouth. Reviews are an important part of a business’ reputation and your secret weapon in validating whether the venue representative’s conduct and anecdotes are both truthful and professional. Finding out what kind of experience friends, family members and especially other brides had at a particular wedding venue will give you the most accurate sense of what you will be getting. Another perk of word-of-mouth – telling the venue representative about the couples you know that have gotten married at their establishment and recommended it to you could earn you a discount.

ASK QUESTIONS

The most important aspect of booking your venue is to make sure you get all of the agreed upon details in writing. Nothing will give you more peace of mind than knowing all of the aspects of your dream venue are accounted for and guaranteed. Overall, booking a venue isn’t rocket science, but it does require careful thought and project management before you set foot inside of a location. There is no rule of thumb for what your venue should entail but there are workarounds to stay within budget and ensure everything runs smoothly so you and all of your guests have a memorable time. Trust us, the months of planning and hard work will all be worth it. So what are you waiting for?

Something Blue

FUN AND FESTIVE WAYS TO FEATURE “SOMETHING BLUE” IN YOUR WEDDING THAT ARE ALSO OH-SO-MODERN

Every bride and groom knows that there are a few items you absolutely must have before you are ready to walk down the aisle: including something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue. But it’s that last one – something blue – that can leave a couple totally stumped for ideas. (Sure, that light blue garter might be a tried-and-true

blue classic, but there are also TONS of oh-so-modern ways to get much more creative than that.)

But first things first: where did this whole “something blue” tradition even come from, anyway? Aren’t weddings supposed to be all about white? As it turns out, the tradition of having “something old, something new, something borrowed and

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something blue” comes from an Old English rhyme. (One that actually ends with “and a sixpence in your shoe” – but seriously, who wants to dance the night away with a sixpence in their shoe?)

The rhyme features four objects intended to bring the newly wedded couple good luck in their life ahead. Something old to demonstrate continuity and sentimentality. Something new to start the happy (new) couple off on an optimistic foot. Something borrowed from an already happily married couple, with the hopes that their good luck will rub off on the newlyweds. And finally, something blue, traditionally meant to deflect the Evil Eye (eek), but more modernly to represent the love, purity and fidelity that goes into a successful relationship.

So now that that’s settled – and you are pretty clear that you don’t want the Evil Eye anywhere near your Big Day –

how do you go about incorporating something blue into your wedding, anyway? Especially if blue isn’t exactly a key element of the color palette you’ve been planning for.

START WITH YOUR ATTIRE.

While a blue ribbon laced through your garter is a classic “something blue” goto, you definitely don’t have to stop or start there. When it comes to modern manifestations of this antiquated tradition, the bluer the better. From sassy stilettos to a statement wedding or reception dress, sleek sunglasses for your outdoor wedding or a vibrant blue veil, this season’s couples aren’t just featuring a touch of blue – their motto is go blue or go home.

Brides can also boost the blue with accessories like a cute clutch or some

statement-making earrings. Are there buttons running down the back of your dress? Make them blue! Are you rocking a corset bodice? Replace those white laces with blue ones. Adding a cocktail ring for even more bridal bling? You can’t go wrong with a blue one. And who can forget fictional fashion icon Carrie Bradshaw, who arrived at her headline-making wedding with blue feathers in her hair? If all else fails, or you’re just not feeling the blue vibes? Blue undies totally count towards your blue quota. Believe me when I say that when it comes to wedding attire, blue is the new white.

Grooms can definitely get in on the blue action too. Think: a blue tux, vest or suspenders; argyle socks or shoe laces; pocket squares or a fun bow tie. There are so many ways to have fun with the color blue.

GET CREATIVE WITH HAIR AND MAKEUP.

It’s your wedding and you can walk down the aisle with blue hair if you want to. Modern brides are breaking all the “rules” these days, which means that right now there is no better time to let your unique, creative spirit fly than on your wedding day. A blue hairdo a tad too much for you? Consider blue highlights or lowlights, a few blue flowers or gemstones to accent your updo, or a blue birdcage veil.

And by the way, if you think blue makeup was best left in the ‘80s think again. While brow-high blue eyeshadow might be so four-decades-ago, there are other ways to do blue that won’t give you and your guests Saved by the Bell flashbacks. I’m talking eyeshadow, eyeliner or some super subtle shimmer. None of the above speaking to you?

Consider a blue mani or pedi (or, just one sparkly blue accent nail on your ring finger.)

ADD SOME BLUE TO YOUR CEREMONY.

The tradition of “something blue” definitely doesn’t have to stop at your wedding wardrobe. Consider adding some brilliant blue elements to your wedding ceremony itself. Incorporating blue flowers into your bouquets or wrapping them with blue ribbons are two beautiful ways to boost the blue. Not into carrying blue hues down the aisle yourself? Sounds like the perfect task for your flower girl, who will definitely be more than happy to sprinkle bright blue petals along your path. Or maybe you’re ring bearer will present you’re ring on a plush, baby blue pillow. Blue bubbles are also a wildly whimsical way

to go – and exiting your wedding ceremony through a cloud of bright blue bubbles will make for some seriously magical photographs.

CONSIDER A COLORFUL COCKTAIL HOUR.

Custom cocktails are a super fun element to any wedding reception – and while you’re creating your custom cocktail why not add some custom color to it as well? From blue liquor to creative incorporations of fruit, there are tons of ways your mixologist can make sure you’re serving up all the color you want on your Big Day.

Not quite ready to drink your “something blue” – or worried that you and your guests will spend the entire evening boasting blue tongues? In that case, blue glasses or goblets are definitely the way to go.

a hint of blue

Your “something blue” doesn’t have to be predictable. Find a shade of blue you love and include it anywhere throughout your Big Day. You can trust these true-blue options we’ve compiled to make a statement your guests will remember.

EAT YOUR BLUES.

You know it’s important to eat your greens – but on your wedding day, feel free to indulge in your blues, instead. Blue food, that is. And no, I’m not talking about a menu of purple potatoes, eggplant and blueberries (although, that would definitely make an impression.)

When it comes to featuring a menu of blue food, dessert is definitely a huge crowd pleaser. (I mean, unless you and everyone you know just really, REALLY loves eggplant.) Consider adding some blue accents to your wedding cake –think: fondant ribbons, a blue monogram of your brand-new initials or edible blue flowers. If you’re including a groom’s cake that’s a great place to go all-blue. A garden of blue cake pop “flowers” will definitely dazzle your guests and their taste buds. An ice cream sundae bar with an offering of all-blue toppings is another fun and festive feature or maybe a custom candy bar with bowls of allblue candies that your guests can take home as wedding favors.

SET YOUR TABLES IN BLUE.

Whether you’re keeping your blues subtle or you’re jazzed about making them the star of the show, table arrangements and place settings are a great way to feature all kinds of blue accents. Blue glasses, goblets or dinnerware make for some gorgeous eating; while blue table runners or napkins can add that pop of color you’re looking for.

Want to keep your “something blue” mostly on the down-low? Consider a subtle blue monogram on your cocktail or dinner napkins.

THINK: LIGHTING, DÉCOR AND MORE.

Just because you don’t walk down the aisle carrying a bouquet of blue doesn’t mean you can’t feature some blue

1. Monogrammed Mini Daily Zipper Pouch, Mark and Graham 2. Sapphire Ring, State Street Jewelers

Royal Blue Hodgkiss Flowers Tie, The Tie Bar

Plate Collection, The Festive Frog

Blue Macarons

beauties in the rest of your floral arrangements. Whether you’re seeing visions of ceiling-high flowers cascading blue or are more interested in small, subtle pops of blue blooms, a great florist will know exactly how to make all your blue dreams come true.

Blue candles – fun tea lights or more dramatic tapers – are another beautiful way to include some blue in your décor. Blue balloons or Chinese lanterns can add a touch of whimsy to your reception. Consider wrapping some highboy cocktail tables in blue, or wrapping your dining chairs in blue bows.

Are you definitely looking to feature some blue but are not totally sure you’re ready to commit? Blue lighting might be the way forward for you. Talk to your DJ about including some blue spotlights on the dance floor. End up hating the vibes? Chances are you’ll be able to ditch the

blue with the flip of a switch. Blue tunes are another totally unexpected way to get your wedded serving of blue – from a classic like Blue Moon to that Eiffel 65 song that was stuck in our heads all of 1999, there are enough “blue” songs to keep you dancing all night long. (Just make sure you don’t over-blue it, as many blue songs do tend to be on the sad, sappy side.)

TACKLE THAT TOUCH OF BLUE BEFORE THE WEDDING.

While wedding invitations typically feature the same colors you will be highlighting throughout your wedding day, there’s no rule that says they have to. A blue envelope liner, blue text or even blue calligraphy are all great ways to check “something blue” off of your to do list before the Big Day.

DON’T FORGET: THERE ARE DOZENS OF SHADES OF BLUE.

Is the color blue still not quite speaking your wedding day language? It might be time to head over to the paint section of your local hardware store, to see just how many shades of blue there actually are to choose from. While every venue and vendor obviously won’t have every shade of blue available to choose from (seriously, there are SO MANY) having an idea of how much blue you really want and what hues you would like to include can go a long way in getting you started. There is a perfect shade of blue for every color palette.

After all, whether you love the color blue or it just ends up giving you the blues, one thing is for sure: nobody wants the Evil Eye making an appearance at their wedding.

PATRICIA & GERASIMOS

“It’s Wedding Day!”

On the day of her wedding, Patricia woke up to her sister chanting “It’s wedding day!” The enthusiasm spread until the whole family joined in on the chant. The family danced out of the house and onto the bus taking them to the church while the live band from Crete, Greece followed along playing music. The band accompanied the bride as she arrived at the church, walking in with both her dad and brother by her side.

Darling Details

Patricia loves invitations, so the couple wanted to ensure their wedding invitation made a lasting impression. The acrylic invitation included an etched lace design that was hand-drawn to match the details on Patricia’s stunning wedding gown. They also included a dance floor monogram that coordinated with their gorgeous invitations to make sure every detail flowed seamlessly throughout the celebrations.

Greek Traditions

To celebrate her Greek heritage, the couple incorporated many Greek traditions throughout the day. Her father and Gerasimos both wore a traditional white sariki – a Cretan headscarf with a dense fringe, and Patricia changed into a traditional Cretan wedding dress midway through the reception. Staying true to Greek tradition, the first dance was The Bride’s Dance. The couple stood side by side while guests danced with Patricia and showered the couple with money.

Number of Wedding Guests: 400

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

CEREMONY: St. Andrew Greek Orthodox Church | RECEPTION: The Westin O’Hare | PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY: RED Weddings

EVENT PLANNER: Manikas Designs | RINGS: Ancona Jewelers | BRIDE’S GOWN: Ersa Atelier via Dimitra’s Bridal Couture

BRIDE’S SHOES: Jimmy Choo | HAIR: Danielle Specialty Hair | MAKEUP ARTIST: Brett Loding | GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: My.Suit

GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: Tiffany & Co.; Thomas Pink | GROOMSMEN’S FORMALWEAR: Emanuele Tuxedo Rental & Sales

STATIONERY: Papagraphics Custom Design | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Yanni Design Studio | CAKE & SWEETS: Brookhaven Marketplace

ENTERTAINMENT: John Grammatis; The Pantermakia

Your Wedding Party

HOW TO APPEASE BOTH SIDES OF THE AISLE WHEN CHOOSING YOUR ATTENDANTS

If you are anything like most couples, you’ve probably been dreaming about your wedding since the proposal. Your visions have more than likely consisted of the perfect ceremony venue, the most unique decorations and a reception that no one will ever forget. And it doesn’t end there! You may have even picked the most beautiful beach in the world to spend your honeymoon – can you almost feel the sand between your toes?

But when it comes time to begin thinking about the bridal attendants, groomsmen and the flower girl and ring bearer, you may think that it’s a no-brainer. Even though you may have made a change or two over the years, you’ve definitely decided that you’re going to stick with your siblings, your three best friends from college and your favorite cousin. However, you’re getting married, which means that not only

are you and your partner becoming a family, but you will also be joined to each other’s as well. Therefore, things will change when you need to think about incorporating some of the important people in your partner’s life. Unless you’re going to have a gigantic wedding, you’ll need to make some cuts and devise a plan to make every attempt possible to make both families comfortable with your choices.

Never fear, though, as there are a few tips that you can follow that might simplify choosing the members of your wedding party and ensure that you include as many loved ones as possible.

AVOID UNFORGETTABLE MISTAKES.

Before you begin to center in on how to select your bridal

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attendants, you will want to be sure that you make the right choices straight out of the gate. Think long and hard about the repercussions of the selections that you make, as well as how it may affect other people – particularly your relationships with your in-laws.

It’s easy to get caught up with the idea that selecting your bridal attendants

is all about you and your preferences. Always know that it can still be your day, even if you make a few compromises along the way.

TRADITION CAN GO RIGHT OUT THE WINDOW.

No two ideas are typically the same, and

what one couple may see as an inspired ceremony may not appeal to another. There’s no need to stress over your ceremony in the traditional sense, and see the choices that other couples have made as “rules.” If you find yourself starting a sentence with “it’s customary,” remember that even if a choice may be popular, it doesn’t have to apply to selecting your own attendants.

The first thing that may come to mind is separating the attendants according to whether they are male or female, or with which member of the couple they are the most acquainted. If this makes selecting your attendants difficult, or if a choice based primarily on gender just doesn’t feel “right” to you, there’s no reason that you have to go in that direction.

If you’re the bride, and your best friend is the boy who lived two streets down your entire life, you shouldn’t feel pressured to ask a distant cousin merely to have a particular “look” during your ceremony or scattered throughout your wedding album. Make your decision based on love and loyalty – not on perception. There’s certainly nothing wrong with having a “man of honor” or a “bride’s man.”

Many couples are even skipping the idea of a bridal party altogether, and simply looking at their wedding as a lavish party, where everyone is welcome, and no one feels left out. It seems that the days of 10 bridesmaids are over, as more and more couples are finding that they want the majority of the focus on their own relationship at the ceremony.

When you’re considering your options, forget about seeing things as male or female, or traditional or modern. Only envision the ceremony that you will remember for the rest of your lives together. Nothing else will do!

FAMILY SHOULD TYPICALLY COME FIRST.

Making decisions that will impact who

stands next to you on this long-awaited day can sometimes get complicated, but as long as you keep a clear head and choose with your heart, you can’t go wrong! However, we all know that family can sometimes be tricky. Don’t expect that to change just because it’s your wedding day.

However, there are several things to

keep in mind, starting with how there’s a reason that you’ve heard countless times how blood is thicker than water. Your family will always be your family, and your partner’s relatives are also going to become a big part of your relationship –if they aren’t already.

Everyone has the absolute right to save that special place of honor for their

closest friend or sibling, but try to give a little on how you can incorporate others into your wedding party. If you have extra space on your side and your partner needs to include a step-sister or close cousin, try to be as accommodating as possible.

Additionally, if you’re having a really difficult time choosing between your two closest friends, sometimes opting for a brother or sister can ensure that you won’t regret your decision or create feelings of ill will or jealousy.

Even if you have a really small wedding party, you can even find unique ways to incorporate your closest family friends. This is your wedding, so get as creative as you want!

10 YEARS FROM NOW.

There are so many different things to remember when making numerous important decisions regarding your wedding ceremony. So, it’s not too far-fetched to understand that there may be moments when you need a little grounding when it comes to making your choices. What are some of the things that can impact your decision the most?

No matter what situation you find yourselves in, there’s always one thing that can help you step back and see things in a different light. Deeply consider where you may be in the next 10 or even 15 years. Will you have the same friends? Is it really wise to choose a bridesmaid or a groomsman that you only seem to be friendly with regarding a particular hobby or sports league? If you’ve just graduated from college, will you still keep in touch with your roommate from your semester abroad in Amsterdam?

Be sure that you understand your relationships and are able to see which ones are “situational.” In other words, what if you no longer work in the same office on the same team? What if you no longer live in the same apartment building?

What if your friend stops dating your sister? Would you still feel a deep enough connection to include this individual in your wedding party?

More often than not, many couples look at their wedding album a few years later and wonder why they chose a particular person. They may not remember their last name, or even if they’re still friends on social media.

Try to pick wedding attendants who have a sense of permanence – that you can envision being around for your 20th wedding anniversary, or even becoming godparents or honorary aunts and uncles to your children.

BOTH SIDES OF THE ALTAR MAY REQUIRE A LITTLE COMPROMISE.

There probably hasn’t been a single wedding in the history of the world that didn’t

require some compromising on at least one or two issues. Selecting your attendants typically takes some give and take. Absolutely refusing to accommodate a particular person upon your partner’s request may set your entire wedding off on the wrong foot, especially if it involves a relative or a close family friend. Be especially cautious when you may be considering only three out of four siblings, or if you are filling up more than your “fair share” of slots available for the wedding party.

It’s a fact that it is often difficult to merge two sides of the altar, while at other times, it can quickly turn into one big happy family. Setting the precedence to compromise will ensure that your partner’s loved ones are included just as often as your own can determine the tone for your entire married lives. So, in the grand scheme of things, having your

partner’s second cousin that you don’t particularly like help seat the guests isn’t that big of a deal.

FIND OTHER WAYS TO INCORPORATE PEOPLE IN THE CEREMONY.

While you can make every attempt possible, not everyone can stand next to you in those beautiful eggshell dresses that you spent weeks looking for, and you shouldn’t feel bad about that. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try to please everyone, it’s just not possible. This can especially be the case with close co-workers or more distant relatives. Even if you get along well enough at the employee picnic or at your fun family reunion, it doesn’t mean that you may have a closer relationship with other people who may be a better fit for your wedding party.

Is This Seat Taken?

A GUIDE TO PLANNING YOUR RECEPTION SEATING

Well, you’ve done it: you have finally settled on your guest list, sent out all those invitations you so thoughtfully designed, and diligently gathered the RSVPs that came flooding in. It sounds like you, my friend, are smack dab in the thick of wedding planning. At this point, if there’s one task on that Big Day to-do list that you’ve been putting off, it’s probably the seating charts.

Compared to dress shopping, cake tasting, ring designing and floral arranging, planning the seating for your wedding reception can seem like a total snooze fest. But it’s also one of the more important elements of the entire day. How you choose to handle this task can either lead to a room full of smiling, dancing guests or an evening ending with awkward encounters between estranged family members. So, for better or for worse, it’s a task that you must complete.

The good news is that you don’t have to plan your seating

chart alone. From that fantastic wedding planner you hired to your ever-helpful parents, there are plenty of people who will be more than happy to assist you as you take on the task ahead. This guide, full of tips and tricks for successful seating arrangements, is a great way to get started.

DON’T WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE.

If you are waiting for those last, lingering RSVPs to trickle in: don’t. If you have already followed up with your invited guests who haven’t responded and you still haven’t heard back, it’s the kids’ table or the highboy beside the DJ booth for them. (And honestly, even Miss Manners would say it serves them right.) Putting off your seating charts until the last minute is a definite no-go – it’s a fairly substantial undertaking, and just ask any wedding planner: they’ll say it’s something you’re going to want to get settled and off your mind sooner rather than later.

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(All the more energy you can spend focusing on veil length and custom cocktails – am I right?) If the deadline you gave your guests to RSVP has passed and you’ve heard from most of the family and friends you are going to share your “I Dos” with, it’s time to get cracking on seating charts. So, grab some of your favorite snacks – and your fiancé, of course – and start planning.

START WITH CATEGORIES.

Think: family, college friends, high school friends, office buddies, distant relatives, friends of your parents and – if they made the cut – all the kiddos. Organizing your guests by categories – whether that means making a list, an excel sheet or labeled piles of RSVPs – will not only help you determine who you want sitting where, it’ll also help you figure out which of your guests will be the most comfort-

able sitting next to each other. While it might be tempting to sit your college roommate next to your BFF from grade school (you’ve always wanted them to become better friends, and what better way to bond than over their mutual love of you, right?) if they’ve only spent a few passing moments together, neither one is going to appreciate an evening of inescapable small talk; especially if all their own friends are sitting elsewhere. This isn’t speed dating, it’s your wedding. Seat your guests next to the people who make them comfortable and who they’re guaranteed to have the most fun with.

MAKE AN “OFF LIMITS” LIST – AND THEN STICK TO IT.

Yes, “off limits” as in: these people can in no way sit within earshot, eyeshot or arm’s length of one another, under any

circumstances. Put aside any dreams of your wedding day becoming the occasion upon which your estranged in-laws finally make peace, and put those folks on opposite ends of the room (or, at least, opposite sides of a very large table) from one another. Nothing about too much champagne and a few sappy love songs says: “maybe it’s time to reconcile.” You’ll thank us later!

KEEP YOUR BESTIES NEARBY.

While you won’t be spending much of your wedding reception seated (you’ll be greeting guests, circling the room, dancing, taking tons of photographs) you are going to want to sit down and actually eat the food you spent so much time sampling, at some point. By placing a table of your BFFs between you (and your well-deserved meal) and the rest of

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the room, you won’t feel obligated to make casual conversation with your parents’ work pals while your chicken piccata gets cold. There will be plenty of time to chat with them later. Meanwhile, let that table of friends run interference while you eat.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR SOME INPUT.

Speaking of your parents’ work pals, unless you’ve been dropping in to visit your parents at the same office every week since you were a kid, chances are you haven’t a clue what the interpersonal dynamics of your parents’ workplace are like. When it comes to seating the guests your parents invited to your wedding, enlist their help. I guarantee they will be more than happy to tell you who gets along best with whom, and who has been fighting over replacing the photocopy

paper for the past decade. Don’t be afraid to delegate.

REMEMBER: NOBODY LIKES A ‘SINGLES’ TABLE.

While time once was that weddings were a one-stop-shop for matchmaking (at least, that’s what the rom-coms from the ‘80s say) nowadays, nobody – and that means: nobody – likes a singles table. From the perspective of your guests, it can definitely be both a little bit embarrassing and a whole lot of boring. Seat your guests by the people they already know and love, and they’ll be guaranteed to have a good time. Think your cousin and your coworker would totally hit it off? Find the time to introduce them before your wedding – maybe your instincts are spot on, and they’ll end up as each other’s dates. If not, they won’t

be forced to spend an evening awkwardly trying not to bump elbows as they cut into their Beef Wellington.

ON THE FLIP SIDE: EVERYBODY APPRECIATES A KIDS’ TABLE.

Did the rug rats you know – and, okay, generally love – make the guest list? Then it’s definitely worth thinking about having a kids’ table. Not only will all of their parents have more fun with their littles stashed away in their own, kid-approved space, the kiddos themselves will definitely have more fun seated with others their own age. It’s a win-win situation. Plus, if your caterer is featuring a few kidfriendly options on the menu, having all those little eaters seated in the same place will make your servers’ evenings easier as well.

WHEN IT COMES TO ACTUALLY ARRANGING: WORK SMARTER, NOT HARDER.

So, you’ve thought about it all, now it’s time to actually diagram who belongs in what seats. Do so in a way that makes sense to you. If that means digital, snag a PDF of the reception floorplan from your wedding planner and start clicking keys. Does your brain run better on oldschool technology? A giant bulletin board and some color-coordinated Post Its should do the trick. Are you a lover of lists? Then number (or name) each table and line up the guests accordingly. Definitely keep the overall flow of the room in mind too – aka: give your favorite guests the best seats in the house, put the kiddos closest to the bathroom, and don’t seat the grandparents next to the DJ’s giant speakers.

HAVE FUN WITH THE BIG DAY DISPLAY.

Now that the hard part of your seating chart is done, it’s time to have some fun! The seating chart is just one more fun and festive way to show off your Big Day style – so be sure to get creative! (While keeping things organized and easy for your guests to understand, of course.) While a table lined with numbered cards is a simple and classic approach, that’s definitely not the only way to go these days. Want to welcome your guests by inviting them to imbibe that fancy bubbly you bought? Consider listing their table numbers on champagne glasses; alongside pretty, personalized glass tags. For a rustic wedding, string some rope across a few picket fence posts and attach your guests’ place cards with colorful clothespins. Is travel a trend in your relationship? Name each

table after a location from your globetrotting lives, and pin each place card to a giant map. Hosting your reception beneath some starry skies? Constellation-themed table numbers with corresponding place cards might be the way to go. If you’re celebrating all things vintage on your Big Day, a display of vintage picture frames, each featuring a different table, is cute and creative. Have way too many guests to work in that much whimsy? Something as simple as an alphabetized board (in calligraphy, of course) might work for you.

STILL NOT INTO ASSIGNED SEATING? NO PROBLEM!

If assigned seating – and all the charting that goes with it – is still just not for you, don’t worry. Assigning guests to a table and then letting them determine their own seating from there is a great way to keep all your guests organized without micromanaging every single detail. Is hosting a formal dinner not really the Big Day vibe you’re going for? In that case, consider some more creative seating: a mix of high and low tables, some couches and cushions, a blend of indoor and outdoor arrangements (weather permitting.) Pair more casual seating with hors d’oeuvres and a passed dinner, and your guests will be free to mingle, move around and change seats as they please.

No matter how you decide to seat your guests, or what creative seating chart you incorporate into your Big Day, the most important thing to keep in mind is that seating arrangements are a great way to show your guests just how much you love them and appreciate their presence as you proclaim “I Do.” Thoughtfully arranged seating will not only ensure success on your Big Day, it will tell your guests you thought about them, and you are really glad they are there.

TAYLOR & RONNIE

Heartfelt Vows

Taylor and Ronnie chose to read their vows individually in front of the videographer before their ceremony. They opted not to do a first look, so reading each other’s vows was a personal and intimate experience in anticipation of seeing each other at the altar.

Feels Like Home

The wedding ceremony itself was a celebration of Taylor and Ronnie’s south side Chicago upbringing. The wedding was held in their hometown church and their pastor incorporated many loving memories into their service. They also asked friends and family members to participate in the celebration by providing a ceremonial dance and song selection.

Family Roots

Instead of a unity candle, the couple chose to use a plant to symbolize their union. Both mothers provided soil that the couple poured into the pot of the plant. The gesture ceremoniously illustrated their family roots and values.

Ronnie’s Favorite Moment

While the whole day was memorable, Ronnie’s favorite moment was seeing his beautiful bride walk down the aisle for the first time. It was a magical moment that signified the wonderful journey they were about to begin together.

Number of Wedding Guests: 275

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

CEREMONY VENUE: St. Sabina Church | RECEPTION VENUE: The Odyssey | EVENT PLANNER: The Event Source

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY: M28 Photography & Films | OFFICIANT: Fr. Michael Pfleger | ENGAGEMENT RING: Verragio

WEDDING RINGS: Tacori | GOWN: JJ’s House | BRIDE’S SHOES: Badgley Mischka; Nina | HAIR: Crystal-Eyez Makeup & Beauty Lounge

MAKEUP: Brittani Goode; Lauren Blackwell | BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Allure Wedding Jewelry | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Azazie

GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Indochino; Yulain | GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: Pronto Uomo; Royal London Watches

GROOM’S SHOES: Calvin Klein | STATIONERY: Yadao Printing | CAKE & SWEETS: Dat Donut; Kesha’s Kreations4U

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Elegant Chair Covers & Event Décor; Mitchell’s Flowers & Events

Choose Your Words Wisely

TIPS FOR CREATING THE PERFECT WEDDING VOWS

Without a doubt, your wedding will be full of magical moments. But one of the most meaningful moments will by far be the exchanging of your vows. After all, they're the whole reason you're getting married in the first place! For a few short minutes, all eyes will be on you and your fiancé as you pledge your love and devotion to each other. In fact, your vows might just be the most important words you ever speak! But no pressure, right? With everything hinging on these all-important oaths, you want them to pack the right punch. So, if you’re dying to learn the secret to creating memorable, personalized wedding vows, look no further!

START PLANNING EARLY.

With so many other things to arrange, don’t let your vows get lost in all the chaos. More than any other part of the wedding,

your vows should truly embody the spirit of your relationship. This is definitely not something you want to rush! You’d hate to be scrambling at the last second and resort to snagging something subpar off the internet.

Have an open and honest conversation with your fiancé as early as possible to discuss your vows. If you plan on having a religious ceremony, keep in mind that some religions require the use of traditional wording in your vows. But others can be more flexible. So, always be sure to keep your officiant in the loop. That way, you can be aware of any limitations you might face.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO GET CREATIVE.

If you want to break the mold and move beyond traditional vows, there are plenty of alternative options. The beauty of

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planning a wedding is that you can really do whatever you want! Sure, there’s a customary format, but feel free to throw the rulebook out the window. You might shake things up by reading a beloved poem or moving passage from a favorite book. If either you or your fiancé is a musician, you might even consider playing something that represents you as a couple. It’s totally up to you!

MAKE THEM YOUR OWN.

If you’re feeling especially ambitious, you might even be so bold as to write your vows from scratch. Going this route takes a bit more work. But nothing will be more gratifying than speaking the vows you wrote as you gaze into the eyes of your betrothed. But where do you even begin with such a daunting task? Let’s break it down.

START WITH THE EASY STUFF.

Before you go lunging for a pen and paper, there’s some preliminary fieldwork you should do first. Like with any major project, writing your vows involves a process. Following these first steps will help tremendously when the time comes to start writing.

Communication is everything.

First and foremost, check in with your fiancé to make sure you agree on writing your own vows. This might seem obvious, but it’s best to have all your bases covered. After all, while you might have your heart totally set on writing your vows, your fiancé might be a bit iffy about it. Maybe writing isn't their forte. Or perhaps they just don't feel comfortable being that vulnerable in front of all your friends and family. Whatever the reason, you

would hate to pressure them into doing something they’re not fully onboard with. On the other hand, they might be just as thrilled by the idea as you are!

Time to talk tone.

Once you and your fiancé are on the same page about writing your vows, it's time to talk about tone. Are you dreaming of poetic and romantic vows that'll leave your crowd in tears? Or maybe something casual and funny? A lot of these decisions depend heavily on your personalities. Take some time to think about how you can incorporate the best parts of yourselves into your vows.

Agreeing on a general tone is a good way to prevent any embarrassing surprises on the day of the wedding. After all, how mortifying would it be if your fiancé delivered a long, heartfelt speech and you followed up by jokingly vowing to never watch your favorite Netflix shows without them? What might seem clever and funny at first could turn out to be hopelessly awkward if you don’t plan ahead.

Better together?

Along the same lines, it’s important to decide early-on just how much of your vows you’ll write together. Maybe you’re the type of couple dead-set on tackling everything side-by-side. Collaboration can be a beautiful thing. You might turn it into a romantic bonding time for the two of you to reflect on your relationship and future.

Or maybe, after you’ve settled on a tone, you want to keep your vows a total surprise! Going this route will add a little extra thrill on your Big Day as you each eagerly await to hear what the other wrote for you. Many couples do a combination of working together and separately. There might be some parts that just make sense to collaborate on, while others you might want to keep secret.

Get inspired.

If you’re stumped on how to format your vows, there are plenty of samples out there to help inspire you. Read a large variety of different examples and save the ones that speak to you. You can mix and match elements you like from your favorites to get a bare-bones idea for what you might want.

You can even get inspiration from your favorite love songs, poems and stories. Consider printing out specific lyrics to keep them nearby as you write. You might even be able to find imaginative ways to weave them into your vows!

Do some soul-searching.

Before you start writing your vows, find a quiet, stress-free time when you can be alone to really think about your relationship. Create a romantic and relaxed atmosphere to get yourself in the right

mindset. Pour yourself a glass of wine, coffee, hot tea or whatever else puts you most at ease. Maybe even turn on some music that reminds you of your fiancé. Just get comfortable and reflect on what this marriage will mean to you. What specific qualities do you adore about your fiancé? What are you most looking forward to in your future together? What do you want to promise? These are the questions your vows should answer.

LET’S MOVE ON TO WRITING.

Now, that you have a general idea of how you want your vows to sound, it's time to dive into the nitty-gritty of content.

Practice some free-writing.

Keep a pen and paper nearby as you think about the questions above. Then, whenever you feel ready, just jot down

your thoughts. It might even be a good idea to set a timer (about 10 minutes, or so) in which you allow yourself to freely write whatever comes to mind. It doesn’t necessarily have to make sense yet. In fact, you don’t even have to write in complete sentences! For now, just allow the pen to move across the page completely uninhibited. What’s important is that you get all your thoughts out in front of you.

This is an old trick that professional writers use to kick writer’s block to the curb. And it can be just as useful as a starting point for writing your vows. Remember, the blank page is not your friend. It’s better to have a page full of messy scribbling than nothing at all.

Create an outline.

So now you have a piece of paper filled with your semi-coherent, love-sick ramblings. Now what? It’s time to make the magic happen!

You’ll want to start by creating an outline. This will help you develop the structure you want your vows to take. Circle the big ideas from your freewriting exercise and expand on them a bit more. Then, put them into an order of importance and relevance. Maybe you want to open with how you first met, followed by the things you love about them and then close with whatever you wish to promise them. Once you have this rough sketch, writing your first draft will be much easier.

Prepare for multiple drafts.

Once you’ve written your first draft, take a break from it. Put it in your desk drawer, or close out of that word document, and just walk away for a few days – maybe more. This really helps to clear your head. So, when you finally come back, you’re looking at it with fresh eyes. Distancing yourself makes the revising process so much easier since areas that need improvement will be more obvious.

It’s very possible that you’ll have to repeat this process several times before you end up with a version you feel satisfied with. At the same time, know when to call it quits. Be careful that you don’t become overly critical of your work. There is no such thing as perfection. So, you’ll drive yourself crazy if that’s what you’re striving for.

Keep things brief.

For the benefit of your guests, shorten your vows to one or two minutes, tops. Ceremonies have a rhythm to them, and you want to make sure you keep things rolling. If they start getting a bit too lengthy, it’s probably time to make some edits. If there are things you want to say, but can’t fit them in, consider putting them in a letter for your fiancé to read before the ceremony. Or, you might even find a way to work them into a toast during your reception.

THE HOME STRETCH.

So, now you have something that resembles a final draft for your very own wedding vows. Congratulations, you’re almost done! Now, it’s time to work on the finishing touches.

Show them to someone you trust.

Having a second opinion can give you valuable insight into what changes you might need to make. Consider showing your vows to someone you trust – like a parent, or maybe your Maid of Honor or Best Man. This is especially helpful if there are places in your vows that you feel just aren’t working. Ask them for honest feedback and be open to their critique. But remember, ultimately, you’re in complete control of what makes it into the final version. So, if you disagree with their advice, there’s

no pressure to follow it. But you might be pleasantly surprised by the suggestions they give you.

Practice makes perfect!

While this might go without saying, you should always practice your vows before your wedding day. Play around with your delivery by placing emphasis and emotion on different words until it sounds just right. If you feel comfortable, you could even try practicing on someone else. This might be the same person who helped you proofread.

While you don’t have to memorize them (although that would be a nice touch!), you should be able to recite your vows fluidly without stumbling over your words. Even if you do memorize them, it’s a good idea to keep a copy on-hand. You’d hate to get a sudden case of stage fright mid-ceremony and completely forget your words!

It’s best to have your vows typed and printed. But if handwritten, make sure your script is clearly legible and free of any margin notes. You don’t want anything to distract you while you’re reading.

READY TO GET STARTED?

While creating personalized vows requires a lot of thought and time, it doesn't have to be overwhelming. If you keep an open line of communication with your fiancé and break the process down into smaller, more manageable steps, you'll be golden.

Whether you decide to write your own vows, keep things traditional or do a combination of both, make sure you give yourself plenty of time to plan. Enough preparation will ensure that your vows sound streamlined and sincere. So, when the moment finally arrives, you’ll be able to speak from the heart and focus on what really matters: promising your commitment to the love of your life.

Every Wedding ExplainedEvent

As you’re busy planning and prepping, it’s easy to forget about all the events leading up to your Big Day. From an engagement party to a day-after brunch, each event is a chance to celebrate your love story with your nearest and dearest. But, more events also mean more questions. Who should you invite? Where should you have it? Who’s supposed to host, plan and pay for them all?

We have rounded up the most common wedding-related events along with the tradition and etiquette for each. Keep in mind that none of these events are required (besides the ceremony, of course!), but the more celebrations the merrier!

ENGAGEMENT PARTY

You said yes, which is definitely cause for celebration! There’s not a firm rule for who hosts the engagement party, but it’s usually the parents of the bride or groom. However, many couples choose to plan their own! Held during the first few months of the engagement, the party is a fairly casual affair before the stress of wedding planning kicks into high gear. Although if everyone is in on the surprise, you may head straight to your engagement party after the proposal!

You don’t have to invite everyone that you plan to invite to the wedding; in fact, it’s customary to keep the guest list to just

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Photography

family, the wedding party and perhaps a few other close friends. However, don’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you don’t also plan to invite to the wedding. Speaking of invitations, an engagement party doesn’t require formal mailed invites. Evites or even a Facebook event are an acceptable and easy way to get the word out.

Host your engagement party at home or at your favorite restaurant to keep cost and planning to a minimum. It’s still early, so save your budget for the Big Day! Many restaurants and bars have rooms available to rent for large groups that are perfect for engagement parties. If you host at home, ask a few close relatives to pitch in with food prep and decorating.

While most guests will likely bring a small gift, gifts are not mandatory at the engagement party. Some guests might

take a peek at your registry if you already have one, but don’t feel obligated to register before the engagement. A card and nice bottle of wine are an appropriate engagement party gift.

BACHELOR & BACHELORETTE PARTIES

Hosted by the bridesmaids and the groomsmen, bachelor and bachelorette parties take place closer to the wedding – think two months to two weeks before. While it’s tradition to have them on the same weekend, don’t stress if you and your sweetie celebrate your final days as singles on different dates. It’s more important to find a time that works for everyone in your individual wedding parties. While not everything about the party has to be a surprise, your friends should take on the majority of the planning

for this event. After all, it’s a time for you to relax, let loose and forget about wedding planning.

The guest list for the bachelor and bachelorette is by no means limited to only those in your wedding parties; feel free to include other close friends and siblings. This is another event that does not call for formal invitations. In fact, a group text may be the easiest way to determine everyone’s schedule to start planning!

Whether your friends have planned a night on the town in your hometown or a weekend getaway to a different city, the most important thing is to have fun at your bachelorette or bachelor party. Whether you go out for dinner and dancing, enjoy mani-pedis and a wine tasting, take in a local sports game, explore a new city or simply lounge by the pool, there are endless ways to celebrate your upcoming wedding with friends!

One point of contention for bachelor and bachelorette parties can be the cost. As a rule of thumb, the wedding party should treat the guest of honor to a night out; however, if travel is required, the bride or groom should cover her or his own expenses, with the exception of a nice dinner or a few drinks on their friends at the destination. And if you do opt for a weekend getaway, don’t be offended if some of the invitees can’t attend; there are plenty more opportunities to celebrate you.

BRIDAL SHOWER

Another event that takes place in the last month or two before the Big Day is the bridal shower. True to its name, the bride is showered with love and gifts at this traditionally daytime event. As for the host, it can be anyone from your maid of honor to your mom or another close female relative.

Historically ladies only, the guest list should include family, the bridal party

and other close friends of the bride. A classic bridal shower is brunch at the host’s home; opening presents would follow light snacks, refreshments and maybe a few games. If you’re imagining something less traditional and a little more relaxed, have the festivities at a restaurant or an art class.

As with many events on this list, the female-only rule is increasingly broken by couples that choose to have a joint shower. As with a traditional bridal shower, a relative or the couple’s close friends would host a coed event at their home or favorite local spot. Whatever kind of event you choose to have, mailed invitations are expected.

Make sure to register before your shower because guests will look to it as a source for what to gift you at the shower. Alternatively, some brides opt to have a lingerie shower where guests are

asked to gift lingerie or sultry sleepwear for the honeymoon. While this doesn’t require a registry, be sure to list your sizes and perhaps a few preferred brands on the invitation.

REHEARSAL DINNER

The groom’s parents usually host the rehearsal dinner, which is always held the night before the wedding. After the couple and their wedding party rehearse the ceremony at the venue, they’ll head to dinner to celebrate with their closest relatives and friends. While the father of the bride, best man and maid of honor will give speeches the next day at the reception, the rehearsal dinner is a time for other guests to share their fond memories and well wishes for the couple.

Like the engagement party, you don’t have to invite everyone to the rehearsal dinner that you invite to the wedding.

The guest list should always include the wedding party and immediate family, but many couples choose to invite extended family and other close friends as well. In the case of a destination wedding, it’s a courtesy to invite all guests to the rehearsal dinner.

Since the main event is the next day, most couples opt to have a more casual rehearsal dinner that complements the wedding. The rehearsal dinner is a time for everyone to mingle and enjoy each others’ company before the production of the wedding day; be sure to thank guests from near and far for attending and being a part of your celebration as you rest assured that everything is set for the Big Day.

The venue could range from your parents’ backyard to your favorite restaurant. Whatever you choose, the rehearsal dinner is the perfect time to infuse a little of your personality as a couple into the wedding weekend. Was your first date at a taco truck? See if you can rent it for the event! Did you bond over a love of craft beer? Host the rehearsal dinner at your favorite brewery. If it’s a destination wedding, think about a restaurant that showcases the local cuisine.

Paper invitations are customary for the rehearsal dinner and are sent after you receive wedding RSVPs. Guests do not bring gifts to the rehearsal, but the night before the wedding is a good time to give thank you gifts to your wedding party, especially if it’s something you’d like them to wear during the ceremony.

CEREM ONY & RECEPTION

The main event! Although tradition states the bride’s parents host the wedding and reception, like many traditions, this one no longer holds firm. Many couples choose to host their own wedding, the groom’s parents may offer to host or all three parties could chip in a little bit to pull off

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your dream wedding. The wedding ceremony and reception themselves should need no explanation, but there are a few details that often need clarification.

The guest list is historically the same for both events, but some couples choose to have an intimate ceremony followed by a larger reception. Although it depends on the couple’s style, the ceremony and reception will be the most formal of all your events, which means mailed invitations are a must. The typical wedding stationery suite will include an invitation, reception card, an RSVP card with preaddressed envelope, directions to the venue, an accommodations card for outof-town guests, as well as any other information you think your guests will need.

Whether you hold the ceremony and reception at separate venues or at a location that can accommodate both, it’s helpful to have a day-of coordinator.

Even if you choose not to have a wedding planner, most event spaces have an event coordinator that keeps things running smoothly while you enjoy your special day to the fullest. Similarly, you wouldn’t want your mom or best friend running around the venue instead of celebrating at your side.

Guests should bring gifts from your registry to the wedding. Register for gifts at a variety of price points at a few different stores so that every guest can find the perfect gift at a price they feel comfortable with. If you don’t need or want physical gifts, you can also ask that guests contribute money to a honeymoon fund. Although this trend is still catching on, there are a few websites designed to help.

DAY-AFTER BRUNCH

Whoever hosted the ceremony and recep-

tion may also host a brunch the day after the wedding. Especially common for destination wedding, the informal and completely optional party is for wedding guests to say a final goodbye to the newlyweds before they jet off to their honeymoon. Of course, a brunch is just one more event to add to an already busy wedding calendar; nobody will question if you choose to skip this event and start the honeymoon a little early (or you just want to sleep in).

Invitations to the brunch can be an added insert in the wedding invitations, but an evite is equally appropriate. While destination weddings typically call for inviting everyone that attended the wedding, in other cases, it’s acceptable to invite only the wedding party, immediate family and out of town guests as a courtesy. Common places to host a morning-after brunch are at the host’s home or at the hotel where most of your guests stayed.

Fitting the more casual atmosphere, the day-after brunch can be a comeand-go event. Let guests know that they should feel free to stop by anytime within a two or three hour period to offer any final congratulations. A buffet is an easy way to feed your guests without much stress and; offer light breakfast options like muffins, quiche and fruit that do not require a sit-down meal. While a mimosa or bloody mary bar is always festive, be sure to have plenty of coffee and water!

If you take anything from this, it should be that there are a few rules that can’t be broken. Talk to your family and friends early-on about what events are a must and which you’d rather skip, discuss who might be willing to host and what you’d like to take on yourself, and set budget expectations for each event. Most importantly, remember that every event is supposed to be a celebration of your unique love story!

NICOLE & NICOLE

Meant to Be

Nicole and Nicole had a strong connection from the very start and after only a few months of dating, they knew their love was meant to be. Sports, fitness and family are only a few of their many similar interests.

Feeling Butterflies

They knew seeing each other prior to the ceremony was necessary to work out their excitement and nervous jitters. The resulting first look was one of their favorite moments of their wedding day. Nicole and Nicole exchanged gifts under a huge willow tree and treasured the alone time together before the busy wedding festivities began.

Family Support

Having their family members involved in their wedding ceremony was very important to the couple. They chose significant poems and passages about love and marriage for their aunts to read as a meaningful and memorable part of their service.

Love is Sweet

Enjoying good food was an essential part of Nicole and Nicole’s Big Day. Nicole R.’s mom customized a heart-shaped donut wall to create a special way to serve sweet a treat to the wedding guests. Each guest got to choose from over a dozen different flavors!

Number of Wedding Guests: 190

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WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

VENUE: Lincolnshire Marriott Resort | PHOTOGRAPHY: Tamara Jaros Photography | EVENT PLANNER: Clementine Custom Events

VIDEOGRAPHY: Our Wedding Movie | RINGS: James Allen; R.C. Wahl Jewelers | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Reddington Bridal

NICOLE J.’S GOWN: Stella York via Volle’s Bridal & Boutique | NICOLE J.’S HAIR & MAKEUP: Structure Salon

NICOLE R.’S GOWN: Casablanca Bridal via Reddington Bridal | NICOLE R.’S HAIR & MAKEUP: Elana Darrus Makeup & Hair

STATIONERY: Minted | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Yanni Design Studio | ENTERTAINMENT: The Gold Coast All Stars

CAKE: Lovin Oven Cakery | SWEETS: Oak Mill Bakery | DONUTS: Do-Rite Donuts

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Vendors

EVENT PLANNER: Sarah Kathleen Events | VENUE: The Pavilion at Orchard Ridge Farms | PHOTOGRAPHY: Palette of Light Photography

STATIONERY: Minted | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Event Floral | CAKE & SWEETS: Delish Cakes

Your Unique Ceremony

WHAT SHOULD YOU ASK YOUR OFFICIANT?

Every wedding is unique and the planning process can be similar to finding all of the right pieces to an extremely important puzzle. Selecting the right officiant is like sliding that last piece into the picture, standing back and seeing just how perfectly it fits. You’ll want to make sure that your officiant will be the perfect match for you specifically as a couple.

Your wedding will create the perfect blend of two families, along with their past, traditions and standards. Depending on your religious affiliations and even your own personal preferences, you may opt for a ceremony that is classic and traditional in every way. Or, you may want to take that crayon and scribble outside of the lines with a sudden burst of creativity.

You will also find that, should you come from different cultures, nationalities or religious backgrounds, it may become even more challenging to select the perfect officiant. After all, it’s not always easy to combine ideas that are rooted so deeply in opposing views. Yet, when you find the right formula, the end result can be absolutely beautiful.

Therefore, it’s easy to see why finding just the right officiant can set the entire tone for your ceremony, including reciting your vows and that magical moment when you both say “I do.” But how do you know that you’ve found “the one”?

First, you must start by asking the right questions. You and your fiancé will want to feel confident in your decision. Use this list to help you ensure the officiant you have chosen is the right selection for this ever-important role in your ceremony.

Do you customize your script, or try to stick to something standard?

Some officiants have presided over hundreds of weddings. Therefore, it is fairly common that an officiant will read from a script, or that they even have it memorized. However, what you need to discover with this question is if the officiant is willing to make changes to what is normally performed.

You can begin by asking to read the script that is typically used at most weddings. Who knows? Perhaps it will be perfect as it is! If not, kindly ask the officiant if they are willing to amend the wording. Most will agree to do so, but you may come across an officiant who isn’t comfortable with making any changes and tries to follow the same blueprint. At this point, you will probably need to decide if this is a deal breaker, and if you are inter-

ested in working with an officiant who isn’t open to accommodate your vision.

Have you been involved with ceremonies that have incorporated unique ideas or unions?

If you already know that you will have unique requests for your ceremony, it’s best to mention this up front, and then ask if the officiant has ever held a wedding of this nature. When meeting with a prospective officiant, or even when vetting them over the phone before you make an appointment, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with jumping right to the point.

Some officiants may only perform a particular religious-based ceremony, or others may not be familiar with your particular culture. An officiant may have pages of five-star reviews or come with a stellar reference from another recently married couple. But what’s most important is that they will be a good match for your specialized ceremony.

You will also need to decide if you are willing to work with an officiant who has never performed a ceremony similar to the one that you are wanting, but is still willing to do so. A couple can tell a lot about an officiant and whether their personalities will get along. Yet, it’s also imperative to be sure that the officiant will put in the work to ensure that he or she is properly educated on your religion, culture or any other unique background or circumstance.

Have you performed multicultural or multireligious ceremonies?

As already mentioned, some officiants specialize in a particular ceremony style, so it’s always best to know a bit about their background. Things can get even trickier when you are hoping for a ceremony that will incorporate two different cultures, ethnicities or religions.

Choosing an officiant who has performed a ceremony that melds two different cultures, nationalities or religions may not be as difficult as you might think. The United States embraces diversity, and it is a melting pot of different people from so many unique walks of life. It’s not at all unusual for a Catholic to marry a Buddhist, or for an American to wed an Austrian or a Jamaican, so professional officiants have learned the best ways to highlight the beautiful differences, while also illustrating the numerous commonalities.

If you come from countries that speak two different languages, consider performing the ceremony in both of them. If you have different religious backgrounds, think about incorporating passages from both spiritual prayer books. Your union is a message that everyone can connect with, especially on your wedding day.

What

are some of the different customs that you have seen used in ceremonies?

Even though you have already asked if your officiant has performed a ceremony that will be similar to the ideas that you have presented, it doesn’t hurt to ask about some of the customs and traditions that they have seen. Just like wedding planners and a host of other wedding professionals, an officiant has probably witnessed a lot of really original ceremonies.

Thankfully, unique ceremonies are memorable, so the officiant can more than likely recall a few examples that might be useful to you. Moreover, you may even decide to replicate certain aspects of a ceremony or two that piques your interest.

So many things at weddings today

are based on tradition, such as the giving away of the bride, the exchange of rings and even sealing the deal with a kiss. Adding your own customs to your ceremony will make everything more meaningful to you and your guests. And when your family members see traditions from their own weddings repeated in your ceremony, the feeling of pride and sense of culture will be unimaginable.

Ask detailed questions of your officiant, and you may also learn about a custom or tradition that had been previously unknown to you or even your older family members. Many couples walk into a meeting with a professional officiant with a basic outline of what they’d like but leave with the entire ceremony mapped out. The best weddings are typically a blend of many different ideas and input from several different people.

What are some of the best ways to feature our particular heritages?

Almost every culture has a few staple traditions that couples often incorporate into their ceremonies. A professional officiant will surely be familiar with several, but here are a few ideas to get you inspired.

Germany – German weddings include flower girls, just like most weddings. However, Germany also keeps the wedding party simple, as the flower girl is the bride’s only wedding attendant.

Jamaica – It’s customary for the bride to wear a typical white wedding dress just like in the United States. However, the groom wears a brush jacket, which is a special shirt worn only for important occasions.

Japan – Many Japanese couples begin their wedding ceremony with a quick sip of Sake.

Mexico – During a Mexican ceremony, one tradition is for the groom to give the

bride 13 gold coins. Another is a Lazo, where a rosary or a rope is wrapped around the happy couple to symbolize that their marriage will last forever.

Pakistan – Flowers make up much more than bouquets and centerpieces in Pakistan. Instead, the happy couple also wears wreaths made of beautiful blooms around their necks.

The Philippines – This small country encourages wedded couples to release doves right after the ceremony ends. It symbolizes their love taking flight, which has become a popular custom in the United States over the years as well.

Russia – For a Russian ceremony, a red carpet is used as the aisle to the altar, as the couple is viewed as royalty for the day. Couples also race to see who arrives at the carpet first to declare the head of the household.

Wales – It is traditional for the bride to include myrtle in her bouquet, which will symbolize the unending love between the couple. The bridesmaids will also stick a cutting of the flower in their bouquets as well, in hopes that they will also soon encounter true love.

Do you have any fun ideas on how to customize an otherwise traditional ceremony?

Even if you are both of the same heritage and religion and have the idea of a

more classic, traditional wedding in mind, it does not mean that you can’t spice things up a little. Who truly wants a cookie-cutter wedding?

Your officiant should be able to make a few suggestions, such as incorporating your wedding theme into the decorations or even the wording of the ceremony, or perhaps you may want to have a loved one walk your pet down the aisle.

If you’re looking for other ways to get creative, ask a few family members or friends to perform a reading. It can be something classic like a few lines from your favorite poem, or it can even be an inspirational movie quote. Just be sure that the words are personal to both of you, and your guests will sense their importance.

You can also consider the music that will be played during the ceremony. Choosing popular, current songs, but playing them with a string quartet, is an excellent way to do something classic with a modern edge.

Will you attend the

rehearsal?

Many officiants will also preside over the rehearsal and make certain that everyone involved is familiar with the order of things. This may be included in the contract, or it may be an option that is available for an additional fee.

However, some officiants may opt to

leave the rehearsal in the hands of the wedding planner or other professionals who work with the venue.

What will you wear?

This can vary depending on the type of wedding that the officiant will be performing, as well as religious or cultural preferences. Some officiants will wear robes, while others will wear suits or dresses. If you have a particular idea of what you would like to see your officiant wear, speak with him or her plainly, and discover if your request can be accommodated.

Do you have a backup plan?

While no one really wants to think about this, situations sometimes arise in which a particular wedding vendor cannot assume their responsibilities. This, of course, can also apply to your wedding officiant. It is best to simply ask what type of emergency plan they have in place. Many officiants always have someone on standby that they can call should the need arise. However, it’s also imperative that notes are provided to the substitute officiant so that they can become as familiar as possible with your specific ceremony requests.

Your ceremony is the main event, so it’s only natural that you’ll spend a good portion of your wedding planning time on ensuring that it will be perfect. This is the moment that you’ve been waiting for since you saw your first romance film or began to anxiously peek into jewelry store windows at their selection of engagement rings.

Even when you’re on a quest to make your ceremony as unique as possible, or to include customs or traditions that are important to your culture, never feel pressured to include aspects that don’t appeal to you in a personal way. Finding just the right mix is key to the ideal ceremony, and a professional officiant can assist with every aspect.

8 Important Tips FOR BOOKING

GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS

Your wedding is not only an important event in your lives as a couple, but it is a day that your family and friends are also looking forward to as well – often with every bit as much excitement and anticipation. A wedding is one of the happiest occasions that can be imagined, so it’s only normal that everyone on your guest list will do everything possible to ensure that they can be a part of this momentous occasion.

When you look at your guest list, you may find that it is comprised primarily of people who live in the same general location. However, everyone has out-of-town loved ones that they hope can be a part of their Big Day. Moreover, what if you just moved to a different city? If you choose to host your wedding from your new home, then you’ll have plenty of people traveling to join you in celebrating.

For all of your friends, family members and co-workers who will be flying, driving or even taking a train to attend your wedding, you will want to make things as simple for them as possible. After all, they may be taking time off work, paying for

travel expenses and juggling busy schedules for this not-tomiss moment.

Therefore, you will want to ensure that finding accommodations is not just one more hurdle to jump so that they can attend your wedding. Even though you have menu tastings, formalwear fittings and way too many other tasks to mention, you can often set up accommodation options with only a few phone calls or even emails.

So, without further introduction, it’s time to explore eight important tips for booking guest accommodations for your wedding.

1. LOCATION ALWAYS MATTERS.

You’ve heard the phrase, “Location is everything” on repeat your entire lives because it is absolutely true, and it is even more important at a time like your wedding day. While you might like the idea of your day moving slowly so that you can enjoy every second without even the slightest hitch, chances are good that this may be the busiest day you’ve ever encountered.

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In short, every single minute counts. So, having accommodations that are nearby can be crucial, especially if you’ve opted to book your own rooms the night before for an added convenience.

Before you even think about contacting a particular hotel to inquire about making arrangements, make use of that handy GPS app on your smartphone to check on the actual distance from the hotel to the venue. Once you’ve made note, next look at the actual driving time. Just because a hotel is only 10 minutes away doesn’t mean that you can always use the estimated minute-per-mile method. You may have selected a venue that is in a busy area, which can increase travel times. When you can, check the driving time on the exact day of the week and time of the day as your wedding, if you want to get as accurate as possible.

If you can find a hotel that is within

walking distance, this is your best bet. That way, you won’t have to worry about traffic and driving times at all.

To see everything on an even broader scope, look at your venue on Google maps and then start to search the surrounding areas for available hotels. You can even view price points, or set a filter that will match a multitude of options.

2. EXPLORE THE HOTEL’S EVENT SPACE.

It never hurts to get an idea of the event space that is offered at a hotel, even if you already have your dream wedding venue booked. For example, you may want to host additional events at the hotel, to make it convenient for your outof-town guests, who will find it harder to travel back and forth to other locations.

Many couples opt to host their rehearsal dinners or a pre-wedding brunch at their chosen hotel. You can also consider planning a going-away breakfast or lunch for your out-of-towners, even if you’re already on your plane to discover the wonders of Europe or ready to board your cruise ship to the Southern Caribbean.

The possibilities are endless, so it’s definitely worth looking into the possibility of an event space that may be available on your selected dates.

3. ASK ABOUT OTHER EVENTS.

When you have the venue booked and your date is set in stone, you will want to make sure that there aren’t any conferences or large meetings being held at the hotel. Any events that could make it difficult for last-minute guests to book a room could be problematic.

Additionally, check the surrounding areas for things like sporting events, festivals or big-name concerts. These attendees may also be looking at the same hotel as an overnight option, and you may not want to be surrounded by the hype that often

accompanies such a crowd – especially the weekend of your wedding.

4. LOOK FOR AMENITIES AND EXTRAS AVAILABLE TO YOUR GUESTS.

While you’re looking at things like room types and availability, you should also explore the amenities that are offered to hotel guests. Let’s face it – if you could have made arrangements with a hotel that offered an indoor pool for a similar price in the same location as the one you selected, you had better not let your guests find out.

You may think that no one may have time to enjoy the property’s amenities, but you’ll need to keep in mind that your guests may not have the same hectic preand post-wedding itineraries that you will need to manage. Furthermore, many of them will also be viewing this weekend as a little getaway, so why not make it as much of a vacation as possible?

Things that can make the stay more enjoyable include a:

• Swimming pool

• Hot tub or sauna

• Spa

• Fitness center

• Dining options on-site

• Bar

• Lounge area

• Play area or other children’s activities

• Shuttle for airport transportation

5. DON’T BE AFRAID TO GET A LITTLE CREATIVE.

When you’re asking exploratory questions about the property, don’t forget to get inspired by additional ideas that could make your guests’ stay even more convenient or memorable.

First, if the hotel is within driving distance of the venue, check to see if trans-

portation can be arranged for your guests. Many hotels offer courtesy shuttles to the airport and other popular destinations within the city, and that’s also an added bonus, as mentioned above. But often, if a large block of rooms is booked, you may be able to coordinate additional shuttle services with the hotel, even if it’s at an additional cost. If a lot of your guests are flying in for your wedding, this service would be invaluable.

Next, if you’re still thinking of ways to show your out-of-town guests a little love for making the effort to travel to your wedding, you can also consider setting up a small gift bag upon their check-in. This can include anything from unique, regional treats to tickets to a local attraction that’s within walking distance.

6. BOOK AS A GROUP.

Once you have decided that this property checks off all the boxes for what you’re looking for in a hotel for your guests, you will be ready to move on to the most important tip on this list – to book as a group.

The first thing that you’ll need to do is get an estimate of the number of rooms that you will need, so that the property will have a general idea of how many guests to anticipate. This number doesn’t need to be exact, but it should be accurate enough to create a good starting point for negotiations. The total number

will undoubtedly change several times before the wedding, with some guests finding that they can no longer attend, and others finally realizing that they can readjust their schedules and be there to lend their support.

When coming up with your count, be sure to include:

• All out-of-town guests who have expressed that they would like to attend

• Any members of the bridal party who’d like to be closer to the venue

• Yourselves, as the hotel is a perfect place to spend the night before the wedding

Next, you will need to begin the process of making arrangements as a group, which may be referred to as a “block” of rooms. Note that you will not be confirming reservations or making payments, but you will make an agreement with the hotel to set aside a number of rooms for your guests. Typically, they will need to be booked before a specific date, or the hotel will release them to other interested parties.

Be sure to set up a group code, so that people booking their reservations can use this information to ensure they are identified as a part of your group. This also negates any confusion that might be created by using last names that might be unfamiliar or difficult to pronounce.

Additionally, if you are thinking about

booking a suite for the bridal party to utilize, consider booking it for two days. That way, you’ll have time to bring over all of the necessities, as well as relax with a little downtime.

7. CONSIDER MORE THAN ONE HOTEL.

No matter where you look or what options are available to you, it may just be that your wedding occurs at a busy time of the year, or there may be unavoidable events that are booking up large blocks of rooms. Perhaps you are having a holiday wedding, or maybe your wedding date falls on the same day as an important city-wide event.

If this is the case, then it may be wise to make arrangements with two different hotel properties.

8. SPREAD THE WORD

The final step is to spread the word about the options that you have arranged. Some couples may include a small card inside the invitations providing this information, or you can utilize your wedding website. Always follow up with word-of-mouth, especially if you haven’t confirmed with a guest who will needs accommodations.

Above all else, be sure your guests do not book their rooms independently. If so, they will not receive the special discounted rate.

Setting up the accommodations for your out-of-town guests will not be a very time-consuming task, but it can make all of the difference. By following these simple tips, your guests will enjoy the convenience of a prime location, rather than having to race across town and possibly encounter traffic. Moreover, not only will you make this step of attending your wedding easier for your guests, but they’ll see the efforts that you have made and, accordingly, will make the same effort to be a part of your celebration.

SPOTLIGHT ON STYLE | NORTHERN GREENHOUSES

FLORAL & EVENT DESIGN

Hues Used:

Anna & William

Vendors

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Northern Greenhouses Floral & Event Design | VENUE: Concorde Banquets | PHOTOGRAPHY: Bart Galbas Photography

EVENT PLANNER: Toula Kriemadis | CAKE & SWEETS: The Baking Institute

Celebration Locations

CEREMONIES & RECEPTIONS

Locating and securing the perfect venue for your wedding celebration is most likely at the top of your priority list. Whether it is a formal affair or a more casual afternoon gathering, finding the right venue for your reception style requires asking yourself a few key questions. For example, do you want to get married in the city, suburbs or off the beaten path in a countryside affair? Additionally, will your venue be able to comfortably host and accommodate your desired guest list? Some venues are spacious and can easily

house 200 guests, while other venues are a bit more intimate.

If you have always dreamed of tying the knot outdoors, several venues offer beautiful spaces and picturesque views that will fulfill all of your alfresco wishes. From ballrooms and mansions to lofts and gardens, these inquiries and more can be answered by simply perusing the next several pages. Keeping this guide handy during planning will help you navigate this important wedding decision quickly and accurately ensuring the pictureperfect fit for your Big Day.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY Erin Hoyt Photography

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Chicago

chicagoathletichotel.com

Chicago

chicagohistorymuseum.org

Chicago Park District chicagoparkdistrict.com

Chicago Public Library Harold Washington Library Center chipublib.org

Pinstripes pinstripes.com

River Roast riverroastchicago.com

Rookery Building, The therookerybuilding.com

Salvatore’s Ristorante salvatores-chicago.com

Skydeck Chicago theskydeck.com

Spirit of Chicago spiritcruises.com/chicago 888.957.2634

Stan

stanmansion.com

Swissôtel Chicago swissotel.com/chicago

Taureaux taureauxtavern.com

Thompson Chicago thompsonchicago.com

Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago trumphotels.com/chicago

Volo Restaurant Wine Bar volorestaurant.com

NORTH, NORTHWEST & WISCONSIN

Allegra Banquets allegrabanquets.com

Café la Cave cafelacave.net

Mirage Four Points Sheraton themiragerestaurant.com

pinstripes.com

Ridge Hotel, The ridgelakegeneva.com

Green Country Club rollinggreencc.com

Wandering Tree Estate wanderingtree.com

NORTH SHORE

Ballroom & Lounge, The crystalevanston.com

Hilton Orrington/Evanston orringtonevanston.hilton.com

pinstripes.com

ravinia.org

SOUTH,

Gaelic Park chicagogaelicpark.org

at Burr Ridge marriott.com

WEST

Drury Lane drurylane.com

DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau discoverdupage.com

Empress Banquets, The theempressbanquets.com

Heritage Prairie Farm heritageprairiefarm.com

Arista hotelarista.com

Naper Settlement napersettlement.org

Oaks, The at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse gibsonssteakhouse.com

pinstripes.com

Prairie Landing Golf Club prairielanding.com

Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante venutis.com

DIANA & FRANCISCO

Love Never Fails

Diana and Francisco’s love story began in high school. A few years into their relationship, their love grew even stronger after having a brave, beautiful daughter who was born with a heart defect. Their angel baby passed away as an infant and together, Diana and Francisco learned to rely on each other for strength and comfort. The loving couple endured and were later blessed with a second beautiful daughter. She was a very special part of their wedding day, along with the memory of their angel baby.

Cultural Traditions

Diana and Francisco’s Mexican heritage was reflected in many of the details. Throughout their Big Day they served specialty drinks, danced the “baile de la culebra” (a special cultural wedding dance) and even featured a Mariachi band. Their wedding color palette also held significance as their last name translates into ‘purple’ in Spanish.

Favorite Memories

Before their guests came into the reception, Diana and Francisco had a quiet moment together to walk through their decorated celebration. This was one of their favorite moments of their wedding day. Another highlight was when their daughter ran up to them and started clapping while they were enjoying their first dance.

Number of Wedding Guests: 250

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

CEREMONY VENUE: St. Mary of the Angels Church | RECEPTION VENUE: Bridgeport Art Center | PHOTOGRAPHY: Angela Garbot Photography

EVENT PLANNER: Elena’s Garden Floral Design and Event Planning | GOWN: Anne Barge via Bella Bianca Bridal Couture

RINGS: New York Jewelers | HAIR: Rare Bird Beauties | MAKEUP: Sol Jimenez | FORMALWEAR: The Groomsman Suit

GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: The Tie Bar | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Brideside | STATIONERY: Basic Invite | SEATING CHART: Reenie Rose

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Elena’s Garden Floral Design and Event Planning | CAKE & SWEETS: ECBG Cake Studio

ENTERTAINMENT: Escuela de Rancho; Jesse El Grandote; Mariachi Perla de Mexico

Lauren & Peter

Vendors

EVENT PLANNER: You Name It Events | VENUE: Bride’s Parent’s Home | TENT: Blue Peak Tents

PHOTOGRAPHY: Mary Rose Photography | STATIONERY: You Name It Events | FLORAL: Town & Country Gardens WOODEN DÉCOR: Bride’s Father | ICE CREAM CART: Cook’s Ice Cream Cart & Catering

To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration.

Biggs Mansion

Maximum # of Guests: 225

Blue Door Kitchen & Garden

Maximum # of Guests: 250

Starting Price per Person: Call

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: Call Housed in an iconic and historic landmark, this unique and sophisticated space is the only man cave a groom needs. Perfect for bachelor parties, birthday celebrations, and viewing parties.

Blue Door Farm Stand

2010 N. Halsted St., Chicago 312.265.0259

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: Call Let the seasons dictate what’s on the table. Blue Door Farm Stand provides a warm and welcoming space perfect for wedding showers, brunches, rehearsal dinners and more!

Chicago q

1160 N. Dearborn St., Chicago 312.642.1160

Maximum # of Guests: 240

Starting Price per Person: Call Mastering the art of elevated BBQ, Chicago q provides a charming and comfortable atmosphere for any rehearsal dinner, shower or gathering! chicagoqrestaurant.com

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Chicago’s First Lady Cruises

112 E. Wacker Dr., Chicago 847.358.1330

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call

The ultimate way to showcase Chicago to your guests. Experience classic luxury and superior service aboard your own Private Rehearsal Dinner Cruise. Perfect for parties of 10-250. Breathtaking sunsets and skyline views included.

cruisechicago.com

Coco Pazzo Restaurants

300 W. Hubbard St. • 212 E. Ohio St., Chicago 312.836.0900

Maximum # of Guests: 150

Starting Price per Person: $40

Coco Pazzo’s elegant setting, and Coco Pazzo Café’s warm ambiance add versatility when selecting the perfect venue for your wedding festivities. Our goal is to make all guests feel welcome, as we embrace all couples and event celebrations.

cocopazzochicago.com

City Hall

838 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.801.1181

Maximum # of Guests: 1200

Starting Price per Person: Call

This column-free space boasts 40ft ceilings with 20ft windows and skylights that run the length of the building, bathing the space in natural light. Laser-cut art deco steel panels and a 40-foot marble bar flanked by fluted columns dazzle while a newly-built brick second floor, complete with bridal suite, overlooks the space. thecityhall.com

The Congress Plaza Hotel

520 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.427.3800

Maximum # of Guests: 550

Starting Price per Person: $45

This downtown Chicago hotel offers a convenient location across from Grant Park and close to Lake Michigan. Since hosting its first wedding in 1893, the Congress Plaza Hotel & Convention Center has upheld an enduring tradition as one of Chicago’s premier settings for unforgettable celebrations.

congressplazahotel.com

Cochon Volant Brasserie

100 W. Monroe St. (at Clark St.), Chicago 847.284.0855

Maximum # of Guests: 80

Starting Price per Person: $52

Located around the corner from the historic Chicago Board of Trade Building, Cochon Volant Brasserie blends traditional French influences and execution with American bistro staples. Semi-private spaces are available for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and weekend brunch. Ask about our fully private spaces and special room block rates that are available at the Hyatt Centric The Loop Hotel. cochonvolantchicago.com

The Curragh Irish Pub

6705 N. Northwest Hwy., Chicago 773.774.6170

Maximum # of Guests: 150

Starting Price per Person: Call

Celebrate in one of Chicago’s best loved Irish pubs! Located in the beautiful northwest neighborhood of Edison Park, our private event room features a gorgeous stone fireplace, full bar with customizable draft beer system, slate and hardwood floors and iron chandeliers. We also provide private dressing rooms for the bride and groom, complimentary valet parking for guests and a private event entrance. curraghirishpub.com

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Erie Café

536 W. Erie St., Chicago 312.266.2300

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: $35

The Erie Café is a classic Chicago steakhouse, with warm and inviting fine dining. The Erie Café is a family owned and operated, with 3 generations providing exceptional service and attention to detail. Highly individualized private dining is a priority at this River North establishment.

ETA Restaurant + Bar

455 N. Park Dr., Chicago 312.840.6605

Maximum # of Guests: 150

Starting Price per Person: $120

ETA Restaurant + Bar at Loews Chicago has two private dining rooms that offer unique settings for rehearsal dinners. Pullman and The Dining Car each accommodate up to 150 guests in a welcoming environment, offering menus that serve up locally sourced, seasonally-inspired dishes that pull inspiration from rustic meals of the past. etarestaurantandbar.com

Fig & Olive - Chicago

104 E. Oak St., Chicago 312.445.0060

Maximum # of Guests: 400

Starting Price per Person: $55

Fig & Olive - Chicago is located in the city’s luxurious Gold Coast district on tree-lined Oak Street. This 10,000 sq. ft. dining destination features indoor and outdoor spaces which evoke the ambiance of the Mediterranean Riviera. Combined with modern finishes and accents, the venue’s various spaces can accommodate an intimate event of 10 guests to a large event of 400 guests. figandolive.com

Forbidden Root

1746 W. Chicago Ave., Chicago 312.929.2202

Maximum # of Guests: 45

Starting Price per Person: $40

Forbidden Root is more than just a restaurant and breweryit’s an experience. We offer a unique, rustic setting for your wedding festivities, and have both private and semi-private dining areas that are perfect for engagement celebrations, showers, and intimate rehearsal dinners.

Farmhouse Chicago

228 W. Chicago Ave., Chicago 312.280.4960

Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $35

Farmhouse Chicago is a midwestern craft tavern featuring the best of the Midwest. Located in River North, our event space will make you feel right at home with our midwestern hospitality. Our mission is offering affordable, approachable midwestern fare based on locally sourced and sustainable ingredients.

farmhousechicago.com

Market Kitchen

311 N. Sangamon St., Chicago 312.733.6900

Maximum # of Guests: 500

Starting Price per Person: $40

Fulton Market Kitchen offers guests the rare opportunity to enjoy dining, drinking, and the work of incredible artists in a single, truly unique setting. Only steps from Randolph St.'s Restaurant Row, our versatile space can be tailored to accommodate every type and size of event. We'll work with you on food, signature cocktails, furniture, entertainment, florals, and everything in between! fultonmarketkitchen.com

Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse

1028 N. Rush St., Chicago

Maximum # of Guests: 160 Starting Price per Person: $50

Introducing La Pergola at Galleria Marchetti, the new openair boutique venue for extraordinary events. This unique setting features a European-designed shade structure with a retractable roof, a beautiful indoor pre-function space, and the fantastic food and service for which the Marchetti’s of Como Inn fame are known.

Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $75

Always happening and consistentl y offering abundant portions of Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian Beef, pristine fish and homemade desserts. Entertainment radiates from the piano bar where locals, celebs and out-of-towners mix and mingle. Choose from six of the iconic steakhouse’s private dining rooms. gibsonssteakhouse.com

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Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $30

N. Canal St., Chicago 312.414.1100

Maximum # of Guests: 750 Starting Price per Person: $45

Located in the West Loop, Gibsons Italia is a three-level, modern Italian steakhouse that features outdoor dining and a retractable roof showcasing stunning views of the Chicago River. The menu includes seafood, vegetables, risotto, and gold-extruded pasta. At the heart of the menu is a world-class tour of beef featuring Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian, and Japanese Kobe. gibsonsitalia.com

Maximum # of Guests: 50 Starting Price per Person: Call

The Gwen Hotel

521 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.896.7474

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call

Perfectly situated in the heart of Chicago, The Gwen offers its guests the best of the city from right outside its doors. Located in the landmark McGraw-Hill Building on the beloved Magnificent Mile, the hotel offers ideal venues for intimate affairs, elegant festivities for hundreds and every event in between.

thegwenchicago.com

Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo

122 W. Monroe St., Chicago 312.950.7012

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $85

Boleo, the year-round rooftop lounge at The Kimpton Gray Hotel, may only be 15 floors up, but you’ll feel like you’ve been transported all the way to Argentina. Contact us to plan your timeless celebration under the stars. The drinks flow, the music is always playing, and the food is irresistible!

grayhotelchicago.com

Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North

350 W. Mart Ctr. Dr., Chicago 312.529.1114

Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: Call

From beginning to end, the Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North offers innovative culinary concepts, impeccable service, and Instagram-worthy cityscape views overlooking the Chicago River. Our team of professionals work closely with you to provide everything needed to make your wedding dreams come true.

martplaza.com

Kimpton Hotel Palomar Chicago 505 N. State St., Chicago

Maximum # of Guests: 150

Starting Price per Person: $70

The Canvas Room, a non-traditional space, boasts highlights like floor-to-ceiling windows, outdoor patio space, and the capacity for interactive chef events-thanks to an open-kitchen layout. The sophisticated style of our River North luxury lifestyle hotel-and that loveable Kimpton personality-make us the ideal setting for your next to-do.

hotelpalomar-chicago.com

Hugo’s Frog Bar & Fish House

1024 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.640.0999

Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $75

A lively next-door neighbor to the iconic Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse, this Gold Coast seafood authority offers an impressive selection of fresh seafood, flown in daily, along with renowned Gibsons Prime Angus beef. Guests can choose from six elegant private dining rooms.

hugosfrogbar.com

La Storia

1154 N. Dearborn St., Chicago 312.915.5950

Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: Call

Exuding a genuine Italian experience, the cozy and comfortable environment of La Storia is best for rehearsal dinners, wedding showers, family gatherings, business dinners and more!

lastoriachicago.com

3638 N. Pulaski Rd., Chicago 773.283.7980

Maximum # of Guests: 230 Starting Price per Person: Call Whether you have a growing guest list or a small intimate party, La Villa has a variety of room options to accommodate your needs. Our “Belvadore” room may be a perfect place for your rehearsal, with a minimum hold of 25. Also available, our bright open air “La Strada” room holds a maximum of 80. If that’s just not big enough, our “Grand Hall” will hold 230 of your closest friends and family. lavillabanquets.com

The Metropolitan

233 S. Wacker Dr., 66th

guests with a unique Chicago experience. The Private Event Team at The Metropolitan is ready to assist in turning your vision into a night to remember!

midamclub.com La Villa Restaurant & Banquets

E. Monroe St., Chicago

Maximum # of Guests: 75 Starting Price per Person: $50

Craft an event reflective of your vision for occasions leading up to and following your wedding. Entertain in a refined setting under 21 Greek mythology frescoes of the Palmer House lobby. Sample from American bistro selections uniting Great Lakes region flavors blended with hyper local Chicago influences to bring forward a casual yet playful experience exemplified by homegrown label partnerships. lockwoodrestaurant.com

The Mid-America Club

200 E. Randolph Dr., 80th Fl., Chicago 312.861.1100

Maximum # of Guests:

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themetropolitanchicago.com

Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $50 LUXBAR is the Gold Coast’s quintessential neighborhood bar, serving hand-crafted cocktails that complement the kitchen’s all-American feel good food. The soaring second floor private dining spaces offer ideal settings for events large and small with sweeping views of State Street & Bellevue Place.

Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: Call

Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago is located in the heart of the Gold Coast, and is a versatile venue that is perfect to accommodate any size event. Our Executive Chef will create a special menu for you, whether it be a casual, themed, upscale, or family fun event. We have the experience, knowledge, and setting to get you ready for your special day.

800 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.239.4075

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: Call

Steps away from Michigan Avenue, The Murphy offers elegance, charm and historic space for rehearsal dinners too! Working with Chicago’s top caterers, let us execute a wonderful event for you. the-murphy.com

Orso’s Restaurant

1401 N.

Maximum # of Guests: 125 Starting Price per Person: $100

Host guests amidst high end art, distinguished design and sophisticated ambiance with spectacular views overlooking Michigan Avenue. Design custom menus with cuisine from the award-winning NoMI Kitchen. For more information contact Lindsey.Kaskowitz@hyatt.com nomichicago.com

City

N. Cityfront Plaza Dr., Chicago 888.957.2634

Maximum # of Guests: XX

Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $119

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The newest vessel in the Entertainment Cruises fleet –Odyssey Chicago River – features plated menus, flexible bar packages, curated entertainment and unparalleled views of Chicago’s iconic water riverfront. This unique, glass-enclosed vessel made its debut in late 2018 and has since offered a memorable experience like no other venue in the city. odysseycruises.com/chicago-river

E. Illinois St., Chicago 312.527.3140

Maximum # of Guests: 220

Starting Price per Person: $41

the perfect balance between exceptional food, gracious service and fun as you gather with family and friends for your special day. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 220 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or outdoor patio with picturesque views of Chicago. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration! pinstripes.com

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Quartino Ristorante & Wine Bar

626 N. State St., Chicago 312.698.5000

Maximum # of Guests: 300

Starting Price per Person: $35

River North’s most authentic urban Italian food and wine experience, Quartino features a menu of regional specialties including salumi, handmade pasta, Neapolitan pizza and house made cheeses.

River Roast

315 N. LaSalle St., Chicago 312.527.1417

Maximum # of Guests: 400

Starting Price per Person: $47

Located on the Chicago River, River Roast offers dramatic city and water views from every seat. James Beard award-winning Chef Tony Mantuano and Executive Chef Cedric Harden’s menu of contemporary American tavern fare is satisfying and soul-warming. Our private rooms accommodate intimate affairs from 10-400 for cocktails and dinner with access to a private outdoor veranda. riverroastchicago.com

Salvatore’s Ristorante

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Bottom Restaurant & Brewery

1 W. Grand Ave., Chicago 312.755.1677

Maximum # of Guests: 250

Starting Price per Person: $40

Rock Bottom will make your wedding event a memorable one! Our renovated event spaces & rooftop terrace create an atmosphere for a one-of-a-kind event. River North location, private rooms with full bar access, upgraded AV capabilities and a private staff dedicated to you. Add our award-winning craft beer selections and innovative menu choices and you have the recipe for your event’s success! rockbottom.com

quartinochicago.com STK Chicago

525 W. Arlington Pl., Chicago 773.528.1200

Maximum # of Guests: 230

Starting Price per Person: $45

Salvatore’s is the perfect place to begin your wedding celebration! Let our staff create a rehearsal dinner, reception or bridal shower that you will never forget! With the help of our event planners expertise, they can design every detail to fit your needs. From linen to custom menus we are always happy to help!

salvatores-chicago.com

Sepia

123 N. Jefferson St., Chicago 312.441.1920

Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $78

Located in the West Loop, Private Dining by Sepia is a stylish event space that brings the Michelin-starred experience to life for any private occasion. Inventive American cuisine created by Executive Chef Andrew Zimmerman focuses on productdriven menus that showcase the best of the season. Designed to cater to any occasion and available seven days a week.

sepiachicago.com/privatedining

9 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.340.5633

Maximum # of Guests: 550

Starting Price per Person: $75

From engagement to bachelorette; wedding shower to wedding reception; first date to renewal of vows – STK Chicago is your premier wedding destination. With built in ambiance, and décor that will vibe up any occasion, STK Chicago boasts a romantic and intimate setting, perfect for your engagement party, bachelor/ bachelorette party, wedding show, wedding ceremony & reception. stksteakhouse.com/venues/chicago/

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The Talbott

20 E. Delaware Pl., Chicago 312.944.4970

Maximum # of Guests: 100

Starting Price per Person: $30

Gather your loved ones at The Talbott! Located on a quiet, quaint & quintessential Gold Coast street just steps off the Mag Mile, our unique hotel offers multi-functional venue space to cater to an intimate and upscale event of any kind.

talbotthotel.com

Thompson Chicago

21 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago 312.994.7204

Maximum # of Guests: 150

Starting Price per Person: $85

The Thompson Chicago is truly a one-of-kind venue for rehearsal dinners in the Gold Coast. Enjoy carefully crafted menu options from acclaimed restaurant Nico Osteria among the candle light in an intimate environment. Our exceptional service and irresistible menu will make your evening unforgettable.

thompsonchicago.com

Taureaux

155 W. Van Buren St., Chicago 312.624.8778

Maximum # of Guests: 70

Starting Price per Person: $52

Taureaux is an elevated, inviting French-inspired restaurant and bar in the heart of Chicago’s Loop neighborhood. From an 8-person intimate gathering to a 350-person reception, your guests will taste our acclaimed chef's seasonal menus and indulge in handpicked wines from our extensive list. Our private dining team, as well as indoor and outdoor settings, are offered to enhance your next occasion. taureauxtavern.com

Tuco & Blondie

3358 N. Southport Ave., Chicago 773.327.8226

Maximum # of Guests: 60

Starting Price per Person: $18

If you’re hungry, chow down. If you’re thirsty, drink up. We have room for all. The hottest new spot on Southport! Private & semi-private rooms available seven days a week for (up-to) 60 guests. Perfect for your shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, or reception. With several party options...it’s a perfect fit with a lot of fun!

tucoandblondie.com

Terrace 16

401 N. Wabash Ave., Chicago 312.588.8030

Maximum # of Guests: 50

Starting Price per Person: $75

A rehearsal dinner marks the beginning of your celebration and Terrace 16 will create a truly memorable evening. Our private dining rooms and seasonal rooftop patio offer breathtaking views of the Chicago River, Lake Michigan, and the city's prized architecture. Terrace 16 offers new American cuisine with high-quality, approachable dining and a vivacious atmosphere. trumphotels.com/chicago

Untitled Supper Club

111 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.880.1511

Maximum # of Guests: 750

Starting Price per Person: Call

Untitled can accommodate up to 750 guests across its five elegantly appointed rooms, each offering distinct experiences and available together or individually. Lush materials and vintage detailing combine with chic art deco elements to add warmth, while speakeasy-inspired features and lighting provide your event an alluring backdrop.

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Restaurant Wine Bar

2008 W. Roscoe St., Chicago 773.348.4600

Maximum # of Guests: 120 Starting Price per Person: $45

Volo has been fortunate to have hosted many rehearsal dinners, post-wedding brunches, and other wedding related celebrations that have been truly special. We’d love to create a unique and memorable celebration for you. Our “#1 Hidden City Patio” (Chicago Magazine), 100 year old patina’d barn, and urbanchic dining room combine to create an ideal wedding venue. volorestaurant.com

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1524 S. Randall Rd., Algonquin 847.658.5040

Maximum # of Guests: 84

Starting Price per Person: $15

Located in Algonquin Commons, Biaggi’s Special Event Room comfortably accommodates up to 84 guests. With large tables, glass and mahogany wine displays and a stone hearth fireplace, your guests will dine in comfort. Whether it’s your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or wedding reception, let Biaggi’s help to make your special day an event to remember. biaggis.com

The Walton Room by Rosebud Restaurants

188 E. Walton St., Chicago 312.778.6000

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $40

The Walton Room, in Streeterville is the newest private event venue from the Rosebud Restaurants family. This beautifully appointed space features, state-of-the-art kitchen, two bars, luxe gold finishes and Chiavari chairs. The spacious layout offers a variety of options for groups of 10-250. The cuisine is a combination of Rosebud's famous Italian classics plus Steakhouse favorites. rosebudrestaurants.com

20560 N. Rand Rd., Deer Park 847.438.1850

Maximum # of Guests: 72

Starting Price per Person: $15

Located in the Deer Park Town Center, Biaggi’s offers a choice of private room options. Our Special Event Room, complete with mahogany wine displays, comfortably accommodates up to 72 guests. And our Wine Room is perfect for smaller gatherings of 10 – 20 guests. Let Biaggi’s help to make your special day an event to remember. biaggis.com

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago

701 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.274.6421

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: $70

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago presents two very different, yet equally spectacular ballrooms, for your occasion. Our 23rd Tip Top Tap offers breathtaking views of Michigan Avenue and downtown Chicago, accommodating up to 200. For more intimate affairs, you’ll love the architectural features of our 3rd floor Buckingham Ballroom, accommodating up to 120 guests. warwickhotels.com

Eaglewood Resort & Spa

1401 Nordic Rd., Itasca 630.694.5907

Maximum # of Guests: 340

Starting Price per Person: $40

Nestled on 106 acres of lush, manicured grounds, Eaglewood can provide an unforgettable setting for your happily ever after. From breathtaking photo opportunities and personalized culinary creations to authentically crafted receptions and rehearsal dinners, we look forward to delivering a day as momentous as your love for each other.

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Event Room at Fox Run Golf Course

333 Plum Grove Rd., Elk Grove Village 847.690.1426

Maximum # of Guests: 125 Starting Price per Person: Call

Imagine your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or intimate wedding overlooking the beautiful Fox Run Golf Course. The Event Room features a cozy fireplace, scenic waterfall and an outdoor patio for your celebration. Experience our superior customer service and allow our event planner to make sure your occasion is more than you ever dreamed possible. foxrungolflinks.com

Gino’s East Rosemont

9501 W. Devon Ave., Rosemont 847.825.3333

Maximum # of Guests: 80

Starting Price per Person: $13

Our private party room, Gino’s Musikskeller, features stunning portraits of famed Chicago musicians and a full service bar showcasing Chicago craft beers. Our iconic deep dish pizza is a “must experience” for out-of-town guests. We’re easy to get to and there’s a ton of free parking. Stop by to take a look and we’ll be sure to turn on the Disco Ball.

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Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse

5464 N. River Rd., Rosemont 312.587.0508

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: $65

This Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse location is situated in the heart of Chicagoland’s bustling Rosemont area, a stone’s throw from the Donald E. Stephens Convention Center, Allstate Arena and the Rosemont Theater. The classic American steakhouse features Gibsons Prime Angus beef along with fresh fish, classic cocktails, an extensive wine list and exceptional service. gibsonssteakhouse.com

Grand Victoria Casino

250 S. Grove Ave., Elgin 847.531.7652

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $54

Reinvent your reception at the Grand Victoria Casino! Experience two newly renovated ballrooms, the Grand Ballroom and the Victoria Ballroom, plus our outdoor balcony overlooking the picturesque Fox River. Let us customize the perfect menu for your ideal reception, rehearsal, or brunch.

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Gino’s East

45 S. Barrington Rd., South Barrington 847.304.4466

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: $22

Perfect for entertaining a rehearsal dinner, reception, welcome dinner, engagement party or day after brunch. We can offer the perfect setting for your legendary event. Our spacious rooms can accommodate groups of 10-150. If you are from Chicago or visiting for the first time, Gino’s East is the spot to make your memorable event stick out from the rest. ginoseast.com

Hofbräuhaus Chicago

5500 Park Pl., Rosemont 847.671.2739

Maximum # of Guests: 1000 Starting Price per Person: $33

Hofbräuhaus Chicago provides an authentic entertainment experience. From traditional German cuisine to famous freshly brewed beers, and nightly live music from Germany, every day feels like Oktoberfest. Hofbräuhaus Chicago can accommodate any size party and offers three classic rooms: the Beer Hall, King Ludwig Room and Biergarten. hbchicago.com

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Maximum # of Guests: XX Starting Price per Person: $XX

Maximum # of Guests: 400 Price $70

Loews Chicago O’Hare offers distinct event spaces as the perfect backdrop to your event. Our unique venues accommodate everything from intimate gatherings to large parties. From beautiful ballrooms to the eclectic Ashburn restaurant, our seasonally-inspired, locally-sourced menus deliver a memorable experience for you and your guests. loewshotels.com/chicago-ohare

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Hilton Orrington/Evanston

bachelor and bachelorette parties. Amazing space to fit your needs and style. More than 8 various and unique spaces to choose from.

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529 Davis St., Evanston 847.570.4400

Maximum # of Guests: 275 Price Call

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Wandering Tree Estate is an exceptional venue for extraordinary events. It’s the only private estate in the Metropolitan Chicago Area that is open for exclusive luxury celebrations and gatherings. Wandering Tree Estate provides ten acres of breathtaking gardens at the edge of a four-acre lake along with scenic model garden railways. wanderingtree.com

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1150 Willow Rd., Northbrook 847.480.7676

Maximum # of Guests: 200

with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration! pinstripes.com

Maximum # of Guests: 220 Starting Price per Person: $35

Crystal Ballroom & Lounge takes events to the next level with a stunning space featuring scratch cooking, personalized one on one attention, and a flexible approach. From casual to refined, we ensure you have exactly the experience you’ve dreamed of. Located in the heart of downtown Evanston, you’ll have lakefront photo ops, guest accommodations, and amazing nightlife at your fingertips.

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Ravinia Festival

418 Sheridan Rd., Highland Park 847.266.5066

Maximum # of Guests: 275

Starting Price per Person: $50

Internationally renowned, the private spaces at Ravinia are the perfect setting for your rehearsal dinner. Our indoor and outdoor spaces along with our world-class menus will make every moment of your extraordinary event unforgettable. Begin your love story on a high note and let Ravinia’s landscape and history be the backdrop to this special time in your lives. ravinia.org

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Arrowhead Golf Club

26W151 Butterfield Rd., Wheaton 630.653.5800

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $27

Nestled among a forest preserve, the stone and brick clubhouse, lush fairways, lavish greens and sparkling waters provide the perfect setting for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, and indoor and outdoor ceremonies. NEW outdoor terrace available for cocktail parties.

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Che Figata

2155 City Gate Ln., Ste. 103, Naperville 630.579.3210

Maximum # of Guests: 80

Starting Price per Person: $35

Che Figata, Italian for "That's Awesome!" A sentiment you and your guests will share when you experience the housemade Mediterranean menu while sipping the finest Italian wines in our stocked cellar. The scene is festive and inclusive, with an open-air, exhibition kitchen. Your guests will enjoy a variety of seating options, including our stylish patio space. chefigatakitchen.com

Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano

2752 Showplace Dr., Naperville 630.428.8500

Maximum # of Guests: 56

Starting Price per Person: $15

Located in Naperville Crossings, Biaggi’s Special Event Room comfortably accommodates up to 56 guests. With large tables, glass and mahogany wine displays and a stone hearth fireplace, your guests will dine in comfort. Whether it’s your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or wedding reception, let Biaggi’s help to make your special day an event to remember. biaggis.com

The Clubhouse

298 Oakbrook Ctr., Oak Brook 630.472.3079

Maximum # of Guests: 110 Starting Price per Person: $40

Located at Oakbrook Center in the heart of Oak Brook, The Clubhouse is committed to creating an unforgettable experience for you and your guests. From engagement parties and rehearsal diners, to stunning wedding ceremonies and wedding receptions, event specialists will work with you to create an event to impress. theclubhouse.com

The Carleton of Oak Park

1110 Pleasant St., Oak Park 708.848.5000

Maximum # of Guests: 200

Starting Price per Person: $35

Class, quality and ambiance are the signature of events hosted by The Carleton of Oak Park. A historical venue with event coordinators eager to assist in the planning of your celebration, The Carleton is located 9 miles from downtown Chicago and has over 6,000 sq. ft. of event space, making it the ideal location for rehearsal dinners and post-wedding brunches. carletonhotel.com

Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $19

Thank you for considering D.O.C. Wine Bar for your special event. Our two private rooms are available seven days a week for brunch, lunch, or dinner. Join us for a sit-down meal or cocktail style reception. Our event spaces feature a private bar,

The Drake Oak Brook

2301 York Rd., Oak Brook 630.571.0000

Maximum # of Guests: 350 Starting Price per Person: $30

Escape to The Drake Oak Brook, boasting a natural grandeur and history of hosting events of all kinds. Create memorable moments while experiencing elegant venues, legendary and attentive service, delectable cuisine, and unique amenities.

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315 W. Front St., Wheaton 630.588.1010

Maximum # of Guests: 150

Starting Price per Person: $22

Perfect for entertaining a rehearsal dinner, reception, welcome dinner, engagement party or day after brunch. We can offer the perfect setting for your legendary event. Our spacious rooms can accommodate groups of 10-150. If you are from Chicago or visiting for the first time, Gino’s East is the spot to make your memorable event stick out from the rest. ginoseast.com

Naper Settlement

523 S. Webster St., Naperville 630.420.6010

Maximum # of Guests: 40

Starting Price per Person: Call

With its warm wood floors and ceiling, authentic hand-carved bar and period lighting, the historic tavern is an ideal setting for a rehearsal dinner or bridal shower. An outdoor patio is also available. Our exclusive listing of approved caterers and staff will work hand-in-hand with you to make your event unforgettable. napersettlement.org Pinstripes 7

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SYLVIA & BILL

Keeping with Tradition

Sylvia and Bill coincidentally grew up attending the same Greek Orthodox Church, though they did not know each other at the time. They decided to get married in that same church with a traditional Greek Orthodox ceremony to celebrate their shared passion for their Greek heritage.

Real Life Fairy Tale

Sylvia and Bill’s wedding day was simply magical. They felt like royalty strolling the elegant grounds together to take photos, while the stunning interiors of the Armour House Mansion & Gardens were elevated with enchanting floral touches. The couple even made a grand entrance fit for a king and queen, descending the grand staircase hand-in-hand for a magical moment they will never forget.

Time to Party

The dance floor was rocking once the couple got things started with some traditional Greek dancing. Guests loved joining in the boisterous traditional dances! Sylvia and Bill also offered guests a smoky treat on the outside terrace – a custom cigar bar featuring some of Bill’s favorite cigars. With a dance party inside and cigars and gorgeous gardens to explore outside, there was something special for guests to enjoy at every turn.

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Real Wedding Vendors

CEREMONY VENUE: Holy Taxiarhai and Saint Haralambos Greek Orthodox Church | RECEPTION VENUE: Armour House Mansion & Gardens

PHOTOGRAPHY: Nakai Photography | EVENT PLANNER: Kensington Florals & Events | BRIDE’S SHOES: Jimmy Choo

GOWN: Martina Liana via Bella Bianca Bridal Couture | HAIR: Scruples Salon & Spa; Drea’s Hair Design

MAKEUP: Kimberly Patterson Makeup; SukyVMakeup | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: White by Vera Wang via David’s Bridal

FORMALWEAR: Emanuele Tuxedo Rental & Sales | STATIONERY: Flyy Design Creative | CALLIGRAPHY: A Fine Letter

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Kensington Florals & Events | ENTERTAINMENT: John Grammatis; Parkwest Strings

CAKES & SWEETS: Chicago Sweet Connection Bakery; Deerfields Bakery; Orland Park Bakery; Papagalino Pastries

DESIGNERS’ CHALLENGE

LOCAL PLANNERS GO HEAD-TO-HEAD TO CREATE THEIR FANTASY WEDDING DESIGNS.

DESIGNERS’ CHALLENGE | AN ELEVATED GARDEN AFFAIR

The Team

PLANNER/STYLIST

Glamour & Lace Events

FLORAL & DÉCOR

Kensington Florals & Events

CAKE & SWEETS

Amy Beck Cake Design

STATIONERY

Amore Creative

RENTALS

Hall’s Rentals

Marquee Event Rentals

VENUE

Chicago Public Library – Harold

Washington Library Center

PHOTOGRAPHY

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DESIGNERS’ CHALLENGE | FRESH RUSTIC ROMANCE

The Team

PLANNER/STYLIST

Preoccupied Bride

FLORAL & DÉCOR

Flora Elements

CAKE & SWEETS

The Bakester Patisserie

STATIONERY

EJD Design

RENTALS

Dish & Décor Vintage Rental

Windy City Linen

VENUE

Pinstripes - Northbrook

PHOTOGRAPHY

Ashley Galminas Photography

The Team

PLANNER/STYLIST

Lillian Rose Events

FLORAL & DÉCOR

Phillip’s Flowers – Elmhurst

CAKE & SWEETS

Vanille Patisserie

STATIONERY

MAXE Designs

RENTALS

BBJ Linen

Dish & Décor Vintage Rental

VENUE

Venue SIX10

PHOTOGRAPHY

Ashley Galminas Photography

DESIGNERS’ CHALLENGE | MODERN TROPICS

The Team

PLANNER/STYLIST

Wedicity Wedding & Event Detailing

FLORAL & DÉCOR

Artistic Blooms

CAKE & SWEETS

The Quintessential Cake

STATIONERY

Coqui Paperie

RENTALS

BBJ Linen

Marquee Event Rentals

VENUE

Odyssey Chicago River

PHOTOGRAPHY

Ashley Galminas Photography

Benefits of Hiring a Wedding Planner

When is the last time you planned a large-scale, eighthour party for one hundred guests including food, entertainment and extensive wardrobe selections? Unless you’re a professional event planner, chances are you have never planned such an involved affair. But it can’t be THAT hard, right? All in all, a wedding is really a complicated, full-scale party that requires hundreds of decisions and dozens of external vendors working together to pull off one fabulous event. Most of us don’t have the time, energy or expertise to put together a wedding completely on our own. But don’t despair, that’s where our lovely wedding planners come in to save the day. When you hire a wedding planner, you are hiring

someone to oversee all the details of your Big Day so you can sit back, relax and enjoy the party. Something like the electricity hookup for the catering staff is the last thing a bride needs to be thinking about before she walks down the aisle to marry the love of her life. Do yourself a favor and take some of the wedding stress off yourself by hiring a professional. We have broken down the types of service and benefits of hiring a wedding planner here, so all you have to do is decide how much help you need. When you are ready to find your wedding planner, we have got some of Chicago’s best right here in the pages of this issue. Are you starting to feel less stressed already?

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TIERS OF SERVICE

Wedding planners generally offer different tiers of service, priced according to the amount of time involved and services offered in each category. Before hiring a wedding planner, you and your partner should decide how much of your budget you’re willing to spend and how much help you truly need. Once you understand the volume of work you’re able to take on and how much you need or want to outsource, you can get to work finding a wedding planner who offers the type of service you need.

Full-service wedding planning

If you have an incredibly demanding job, chose to have a wedding in a location where you don’t live or feel completely overwhelmed and clueless about how to start planning such a big event, then a full-service planner is probably the best

choice. The investment for comprehensive wedding planning generally ranges from 10-20% of your total budget. In return, your planner will help you pick a wedding date, secure a venue and help you hone in on the specific style and vibe you want for your Big Day. They will guide you through selecting your vendors including, photographers, DJs, caterers, florists, rental compa nies, makeup and hair artists. With their knowledge and recommen dations you will save countless hours of scrolling through reviews. Your planner will attend all vendor meetings with (or for) you and handle pricing negotiations. Depending on the wedding planner you work with, you will probably receive at least one wedding planning assistant in addition to your full-time event planner. Full-service wedding planning typically begins shortly after you get engaged and runs through the day of your wedding.

Partial wedding planning

Wedding planners may have their own term for this type of service, such as month-of planning, but it generally falls between full-service planning and day-of coordination. If you have already booked a venue and have a general idea for what you want your wedding to be like, partial wedding planning services are perfect for you. You will get help with establishing a wedding day timeline and narrowing down your design choices, while still maintaining control of the details. You will probably have one or two sit-down meetings with your planner in the days leading up to your celebration and email access with your planner throughout the process. If you decide partial planning services are right for you, be prepared to make some big decisions (like where and when to host your wedding) on your own, but feel confident knowing you have a professional to help you with the details.

Day-of wedding coordination

The term ‘day of’ is a bit misleading, as no one could come in only on your wedding day and effectively manage all of the details and vendors. Day-of wedding coordination usually begins at least 8-12 weeks before your Big Day. Your wedding coordinator will meet with you once you’ve hired all of your outside vendors and will take over to finalize details and confirm their coverage times for the actual day. You can expect your day-of coordinator to provide you with a timeline of events and manage the logistics of your wedding day. They will also generally attend your rehearsal and coordinate any outstanding payments or gratuities.

WEDDING PLANNER OR SUPERHERO?

Honestly, most wedding planners are expert event planners with a touch of

superhero thrown in. Weddings involve a lot of people, and large numbers of people generally means a few disasters are inevitable. We’ve heard stories from planners of every kind of crisis they have solved, and most usually occur without the couple even knowing what was happening. From a grandparent passing out during the toasts (they were completely fine after getting some hydration) to a melting wedding cake, wedding planners are innate problem solvers. If they have been in business for a while, chances are there are very few issues they haven’t handled.

Imagine you’re in the stunning wedding dress of your dreams, you just married the love of your life and you are on your way to celebrate with everyone at your reception. You step out of the limo and straight into a spilled cherry slushie on the sidewalk. There’s red liquid staining your white dress and you are about to walk into a room full of people who will be looking right at you. If you have hired an experienced wedding planner, there’s no need to cry. They will whip out some of the white chalk they carry around for just this moment (who knew?) and color right over the glaring stain. No one will ever know the difference. That moment right there is worth every penny you spent to hire a planning pro.

MONEY MATTERS

Weddings are not cheap. Even small, seemingly simple affairs will require a significant investment. It can seem daunting to spend a chunk of your wedding budget on a planner, but not hiring a professional can end up costing you even more. Planners know the ins and outs of the local wedding market, which means they know which vendors you can trust and who you should stay far away from. This expert advice and knowledge your wedding planner brings to the table will help you avoid expensive

mistakes. A good wedding planner will double-check every contract and every decision to make sure all of the details are correct. They ensure you don’t end up with a room full of gardenias when you paid for peonies.

VISION AND REALITY

You may have dreamt of your wedding day for years. Maybe you know exactly what you want the room to look like when you walk in, hand-in-hand with your new spouse, to be introduced to your guests for the first time. Or perhaps you have a Pinterest board with thousands of ideas, overflowing with inspiration. While it's fun to imagine things in your mind or look at them on a Pinterest board, bringing that vision to life is a challenge. One of the greatest benefits of a good wedding planner is their ability to look at your inspiration, talk to you

about your desired style and vibe and then create those ideas and dreams into something magical.

A good wedding planner also knows the difference between Pinterest and reality. Your budget may not line up with your Pinterest dreams. By using their expertise, they can help manipulate your budget and offer creative solutions to design your dream wedding while keeping things realistic and within your budget. One common misconception is that wedding planners can save couples money when it comes to negotiating contracts. While your planner may have a working relationship with a company that could cut costs a bit, a discount should never be expected.

Wedding inspiration can quickly become overwhelming and impossible to wrangle. How do you pick a color palette that evokes the timeless, elegant

vibe you know you want but can't really describe? How do you make sure you're staying within your budget? A wedding planner has the expertise to take your dreams and intangible ideas and turn them into a cohesive, gorgeously styled wedding day.

ADVICE AND MEDIATION

Weddings tend to cultivate unique conflicts. Bringing together two families is inherently tricky, and when you throw in all the logistical details and personal feelings involved in a wedding, the situation can get sticky. One of the best parts of having a wedding planner on board is that they can act as a mediator. Maybe you’re too scared to tell your future mother-in-law that you think her favorite flowers are tacky and ugly, but your wedding planner can tactfully inform her that you’re using specific floral arrangements without it feeling personal. If you have a particularly challenging bridesmaid who questions every decision, you can direct her to your wedding planner who will always have your back.

Then there’s the plethora of advice you receive when you hire a planner. Not sure if a venue is big enough for your guest list? Your planner will be able to tell. Can’t decide if you should have live music or a DJ? Your planner can give you a rundown on the pros and cons of each and help you make a decision. Completely lost when it comes to wedding gown styles? Your planner has seen every body type walk down the aisle and knows what gown will impress. Wedding planners live in the wedding world – they know what is trendy, tacky and tasteful.

WEDDING DAY DETAILS

It may seem obvious, but perhaps the biggest service a wedding planner provides is coordinating the actual wedding day. From what time your hair and

makeup should be completed to sending the wedding party down the aisle, a planner has the knowledge and skills to make your day run flawlessly. Hiring a wedding planner also frees up your family members to enjoy your day instead of working to make sure everything goes to plan. Your mom deserves to relax and enjoy your wedding day, too. You cannot coordinate your reception set-up while you’re busy walking down the aisle and exchanging vows. It takes a lot of work and expertise to pull off a wedding day. Even the most organized of couples can’t successfully enjoy their Big Day if they are simultaneously trying to manage it. Plan to hire a wedding planner and make sure there is room in your budget to cover the level of service you need before you make any other decisions.

THE VALUE OF TIME

You are only engaged for a short amount of time and as they always say “time is money.” Do you want to spend that special season stressed out over five thousand wedding decisions? Or would you rather spend your time creating memories with your fiancé and dreaming of your honeymoon? A wedding planner’s most valuable contribution is their time. They spend their time finding vendors, negotiating contracts, and making decisions so you don’t have to. Every minute your wedding planner spends making your Big Day dreams come true is a minute you have back –to spend with your friends and family, your fiancé, your dog, at the gym, reading, whatever it is you’d rather be doing than stressing out about wedding planning. Hiring someone who can get things done while also reducing your stress and workload is one of the smartest decisions you can make, besides getting married of course!

What to Do After the Wedding

You will spend several months or even longer planning your wedding. Chances are, you will put serious thought and consideration into drafting a workable budget, securing the perfect venue, booking the best entertainment and finding your dream dress. But once your Big Day has come and gone, are you clear on all the follow-up items? Most couples don’t

think to plan for any after the wedding logistics, but turns out –there’s a lot to be done!

IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE WEDDING

You’ve said “I do,” partied through the night with your friends and family and enjoyed a grand exit with your new spouse. Now

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you need to make sure you have plans in place so when you leave the venue, everything is properly taken care of.

Payments

Make sure all payments were received by your vendors and that gratuities have been distributed. You don’t want an angry phone call from your caterer demanding payment when you’re getting ready to jet off on your relaxing honeymoon. If you’ve hired a wedding planner or coordinator, make sure to have a

backup plan in case they need to make any last-minute payments. Your wedding planner should take care of all financial logistics, but if you don’t have a planner or coordinator, make sure you or someone you trust has finalized all of the payments before you leave the premises.

Gifts

With online shopping and easy shipping, the number of physical gifts brought to a wedding have declined, but still expect a few. Guests will also bring cards with gift

cards, cash or checks to the reception. Make sure that you not only have a secure place for the gifts and cards to be displayed or stored during the celebration, but also arrange for someone to transport the gifts after the reception has ended. Decide if you want the gifts brought to your home or if a trusted family member or friend will hold onto them for you until you return from your honeymoon. Once you decide who will be in charge of the gifts, make sure you have a clear plan for how they will collect the items (usually your wedding

planner will facilitate this process) and when you will pick up the gifts.

Formalwear

If you rented formalwear or any of your wedding attire, make sure you have a return plan in place. Most rentals are only for a few days, so avoid any late fees or extra charges by returning everything on

time. If you are leaving for your honeymoon immediately after your wedding, find someone who can complete the returns for you. This is a good task for a best man or maid of honor who lives in town.

Social Media Sweep

You spent hours coming up with the perfect wedding hashtag, so don’t let

your efforts go to waste. Click on your hashtag and scroll through Instagram and Facebook posts to save all the photos other guests shared. You will find unexpected gems, sweet memories and different perspectives from your Big Day when you see it through other people’s eyes and camera lenses. If you find pictures you want to print, reach out to the guest who took it and ask if they can send you the original. If you created a special Snapchat geo-filter make sure to check your feed within twenty-four hours to see the shared photos before they expire!

Preservation

Preserving your bridal bouquet and wedding gown are lovely ways to keep the memory of your Big Day alive. Some popular methods for preserving flowers include hanging the bouquet upside down to let the blooms air dry, pressing individual petals in parchment paper or using silica gel to preserve the flowers for a more natural look. If you want to keep your bouquet long after your wedding has passed, be sure to decide which method will achieve the look you want.

Preserving your wedding gown is also a process that needs to start the day after the wedding. If you are heading on your honeymoon right away, arrange for your mother or maid of honor to take it to the pres ervationist or dry cleaner as soon as possible. By waiting, any stains on the gown will have fully set in. After cleaning, the preservationist will then proceed to put the gown in an air-tight box where the oxygen has been removed and replaced with nitrogen, so your delicate gown will be beautiful for years to come. If you choose not to preserve your wedding dress, the fabric may become yellow and even show signs of mold over time.

AFTER THE HONEYMOON

After you’ve enjoyed a week of relaxed, newlywed bliss, you’ll return to quite a few

post-wedding tasks. To avoid feeling overwhelmed by your to-do list, it’s best to know what specific tasks need to be completed and make a plan for accomplishing a few things at a time. Don’t try to do everything the first day back!

Thank-You Notes

Now that you are home, you can settle in and really enjoy using all your new, lovely wedding gifts. Make yourself a nice latte with your new Nespresso and settle in to write some thank-you notes. It may feel like a lot of writing, but it’s absolutely necessary to give a sincere thank you to everyone who gave you a gift and celebrated your love with you and your new spouse. Keep an organized list of every gift and who gave it so you can easily keep track of who still needs a note. You may want to split the thank-you note duties with your spouse, write them

while watching your favorite guilty pleasure TV show or find another way to make the activity more enjoyable, but make sure you get this important task done!

Name Change

If you, your spouse or both of you are legally changing last names, make sure you don’t procrastinate too long. The sooner you get your name changed, the sooner you can complete other changes with your bank, insurance and other companies, and get a new driver’s license. You’ll have to change your name at the social security office before you can make any other updates, so plan to take at least half a day to get it done. We recommend going to the social security office as early as possible to avoid long wait times. If you haven’t decided whether or not to make the big name change, you may want to consider some of the pros and

cons. Sharing a last name with your spouse will make things easier if you decide to have children together, as you are all easily recognizable as a family unit when you fly, register for school or attend doctor appointments. Some people feel like sharing a last name makes them feel closer to their spouse, while some just want to be able to use a common monogram. There are plenty of reasons to not change your name as well. If you are already established professionally or well known in your chosen field, it could hurt your respectability and notoriety. Changing your name can feel akin to changing your identity, so some people reject the change on principle and choose to keep their full given name. There is also a gender role at play – women are traditionally expected to assume their partner’s name, but this may feel contradictory to your personal politics, or downright confusing for a same-sex

couple. There are reasons to change your last name and reasons to keep your last name, but in the end, it really comes down to making the choice that feels authentic and right for you. There are also other options to a full-on switch: hyphenated, your partner taking your name or a new combined last name that incorporates both names. Whatever you decide, make sure you take the proper steps to make your name change legal.

Vendor Reviews

Once you have had some time to reflect on your wedding day and relive all the highlights, it’s a good practice to leave reviews for your vendors. Businesses big and small rely on reviews and feedback to gain new customers. You can also think of leaving reviews as a small service to future couples who will be looking for input on who to hire for their own Big

Days. Be fair and considerate when leaving reviews. If you received poor service, you can absolutely give a poor rating, but make sure you explain the situation clearly and unemotionally. Never use a review to lash out at a vendor.

Also make sure to share everything your vendors did that was above and beyond your expectations. Did your wedding planner unexpectedly stash away two plates of food for you and your partner to enjoy once you had retired to the hotel room for the night? Tell everyone! Future brides and grooms rely on your feedback as much as your vendors do, so make sure to celebrate all of the wonderful moments, big and small. It’s also a good practice to send a personal thankyou note to each of your vendors as well.

Wedding Photos

One of the most exciting tasks after

the wedding is choosing your wedding photos. Once your photographer sends over your gallery of images, take the time to choose your favorites to have printed. While it may feel a bit overwhelming to sort through the hundreds (or even thousands) of images, you will be grateful you spent the time to pick your favorites in the moment. You can even turn it into a date night with your new spouse. Taking the time to have some of your favorite pictures printed will ensure that you get to enjoy these fabulous photos in real life and not just online.

Create a photo book or album with a large collection of photos you like and want to keep. Perhaps smaller, customized albums for your parents, bridesmaids or any others who made your day special is your style. Consider printing photos in both color and black and white as they can have very different aesthetics.

Another way to preserve wedding day memories is by creating keepsakes. Photo gifts come in practically every shape and size. A mug with a photo of you and your dad walking down the aisle makes a fabulous Father’s Day gift while a canvas print of a family portrait would be perfect for your grandmother’s birthday. You can preserve your photo memories however best suits you and your loved ones.

Wedding Submissions

Once you have your wedding photos, don’t forget to submit them to ChicagoStyle Weddings! We publish photos and stories from gorgeous Chicago weddings in our magazine and online to share the special details from your Big Day with our audience. Our brides and grooms-to-be love seeing real Chicago weddings to gain inspiration for color

palettes, venues, bouquets, overall reception vibes and so much more. You can submit your wedding on our website, chicagostyleweddings.com.

Date Nights

Whew! You’ve checked every box on your to-do list, from vendor gratuities to submitting your wedding celebration to ChicagoStyle Weddings, you have completed every post-wedding task. Now it’s time to celebrate with your new spouse! It is quite common to feel a bit of a letdown after the excitement and anticipation of planning and enjoying your Big Day. Be sure to plan a date night out with your new spouse and celebrate your new life together. The newlywed title does not expire until after your first anniversary, so you have an entire year of celebrating ahead of you. Go get started!

How Can I Ever Thank You?

We all know wedding planning involves a lot of time, energy and usually a healthy dose of stress at some point. But what makes that all worth it? Wedding gifts! (Okay, and maybe the whole being married to the love of your life part, too.) But in all seriousness, you will probably receive more gifts for your wedding than at any other time in your life. From outfitting your kitchen with matching silverware to fluffy, monogrammed towels for your bathroom, you will be given plenty of thoughtful items that you actually want and need. The only catch to this plethora of presents? Writing the thank-you note.

The etiquette on this item is pretty clear, you have got to send a thank-you note to every single person who gives you a gift. The note both communicates your appreciation and also

confirms that you received the gift so that the giver knows it was not lost in transit. Thank-you notes should always be handwritten, as a printed message comes across as cold and thoughtless. While you can arguably take up to three months after your Big Day to send a thank-you, the gesture feels more sincere when sent in a timely manner. It is perfectly fine to send your notes before the wedding for gifts received at showers ahead of time.

Newlyweds can sometimes feel unsure about what to say or how to structure a thank-you note, especially since sending handwritten letters is pretty rare these days. We have simplified the process for you and laid out everything you need to know to make sure you are sending thoughtful thank-you notes that everyone will appreciate.

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THE NOTE

Traditionally, wedding thank-you notes are small, folded-over cards with a monogram on the front. If you choose to take the traditional approach, you can use your new married monogram. If your wedding vibe is less traditional and more laid-back or modern, you may want to choose a colorful, creative and less formal thank-you note. Pick the style that fits your personality, and feel free to use more than one style of thank-you note depending on your audience. You may want a more casual or spirited card for close friends and something more formal for distant relatives and casual acquaintances. And don’t forget that you can register for your thank-you notes as well!

THE FORMAT

Thank-you notes are typically small for a reason – you don’t need to write that much! You should always start with a greeting – “Dear Whomever” is always appropriate – and then include two to three sentences of text. In the body of your thank-you note, be sure to mention the specific gift you received and how you will use it. It may seem obvious, but don’t forget to say ‘thank you!’. End with something personal – “We can’t wait to see you soon!” or “We are so happy you could celebrate with us!” – to help your thank-you feel meaningful.

Dear Aunt Helen and Uncle Mark, Thank you so much for the beautiful vase you gave us. We cannot wait to display the fresh-cut flowers from our garden in it. We are looking forward to seeing you both at the Fourth of July party soon!

Love, Jennifer

THE GIFT

It is quite common to receive money as a wedding gift, which can make writing

a thank you note feel a bit awkward. Never mention the exact amount given. Rather, treat each monetary gift as a “generous gift,” and write how you plan to spend the cash in your card. For example, “Thank you so much for your generous gift. We were so excited to be able to book a snorkeling excursion on our honeymoon!”

If you receive an item that is a duplicate or that you plan to return, keep that information to yourself. Mention the specific gift given in your note and focus on your gratitude to the gift giver. If you received three toasters, your thank-you might look like this: “We really appreciate the four-slice toaster. We can’t wait to have you over for brunch soon so you can see it in action! It means a lot to us both that you thought of us at this exciting time in our lives.”

There is a chance you may receive something that you’re unsure of how to use or what exactly it is. In that instance, be as general as necessary while focusing on the person who gifted it and how appreciative you are.

THE RECIPIENT

Model your greeting based on how familiar you are with who gave you the gift. It would be weird to address your sister or close friend with a formal pre-fix, but your Dad’s work friend that you’ve never met should be addressed with a Mr. or Mrs. as appropriate. You should also think about the recipient when signing your own name. Traditional etiquette states that since you are writing the card yourself, you should only sign your name. For a more modern approach, both names can be signed. For those who are close to you, your first name should suffice. It’s best to use your full name –first, maiden, and married – when sending a card to someone who may not recognize just your first name.

Remember that thank-you notes are

not solely for gifts, either. You should send a hand-written thank-you to anyone who helps you plan, prepare and celebrate your Big Day. This includes your wedding planner, photographer, officiant, the host or hostess of any wedding showers or events and any others who contributed significantly to your ceremony or reception.

THE ORGANIZATION

Staying organized and on top of your wedding thank-you notes will make life so much easier. Keep track of every gift – who gave it, what it is, when they gave it – in a spreadsheet so you can clearly mark when you have sent a thank-you note for each item. If you have several wedding showers, try to send those notes immediately after the event so they don’t pile up. If you wait to send any notes until after your wedding

day, the task may feel overwhelming. At the end of the day, guests genuinely appreciate knowing that you received their gift and that you are grateful. Make writing your thank-you notes more fun by writing while watching a guilty pleasure TV show or listening to your favorite podcast while you crank them out. Take a moment to truly reflect on how thankful you are for the generous people who celebrated your Big Day before sitting down to write – the grateful spirit will come through in your notes. The most important thing is that you actually send everyone a thank-you note, so stay on top of your gift list and make sure you address, stamp and mail each and every card of gratitude. Your hand may hurt by the end of the process, but once you are done, treat yourself to a bubble bath and one of those new, fluffy towels you just received.

DUSTIN & ALEX

From the Beginning

After initially meeting online, Dustin and Alex immediately felt a connection between each other that allowed them to be their authentic selves. Alex confirmed he knew Dustin was the one for him the first time their eyes met. The Tennessee natives decided to host their wedding in their new hometown of Chicago in order to share the love of their new city with friends and family.

Dashing Details

The wedding’s breathtaking décor showcased Dustin and Alex’s endless love from start to finish. Their vision came to life with towering floral centerpieces, gleaming candelabras and a chic white and blue monogrammed dance floor. The newlyweds dined at a sweetheart table complete with gilded thrones and a luscious spray of blue and white flowers. Their reception was full of meaningful toasts, plenty of dancing and even a visit from an LED robot.

“You’re the One”

Alex surprised Dustin with a performance by R&B singer Dondria to commemorate a moment early on in their relationship when Dustin stole a Dondria CD from Alex and playfully refused to give it back. This thoughtful gesture, and Alex’s memory for special details, are only a few of the many reasons the couple finds themselves to be a perfect pair.

Number of Wedding Guests: 111

To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.

WRITTEN BY Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

VENUE: Kimpton Hotel Allegro | PHOTOGRAPHY: Jolie Images | VIDEOGRAPHY: Windy City Production

RINGS: Rogers & Hollands | FORMALWEAR: Eaden Myles | ALEX’S SHOES: Versace | DUSTIN’S SHOES: Christian Louboutin

ACCESSORIES: Meister Watches | MAKEUP: Beyoutiful Kisses Studio | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Yanni Design Studio

ENTERTAINMENT: Avi Sic; Dondria; Ray Silkman; Z BOTS LED Robots | CAKE & SWEETS: West Town Bakery

Hues Used: SPOTLIGHT ON STYLE | THE GILDED AISLE

Mary Catherine & Matthew

Vendors

EVENT PLANNER: The Gilded Aisle | VENUE: The InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile

PHOTOGRAPHY: KYLE JOHN Photography | STATIONERY: Fiore Press

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Designs by Jodi | CAKE: Bittersweet

To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration.

Bouquet Basics

Believe it or not, your choice of flowers will be one of the most impactful aspects of your wedding décor. Flowers have the power to really set the mood and evoke a magical atmosphere. Not to mention they are gorgeous in photos! The bridal bouquet is the floral element that everyone is sure to notice – your guests are going to be giving you all of their attention as you walk down the aisle, and your bouquet will be right there with you, front and center.

Thinking through your bridal bouquet can be a great way to begin the process of determining your overall floral design. But it’s not as simple as just picking out a few kinds of flowers you like and leaving it at that. Did you know that there are several different shapes for bouquets? Have you thought about any extras you want to incorporate into your floral arrangements? Do you know which members of your wedding party will get flowers? Your florist will walk you through all of

these details but coming in with a few ideas of what you will need is always helpful.

A SHAPE FOR EVERY STYLE

First things first – what style of bouquet do you want? Your florist will tell you that there are many ways to customize your bouquet to your style, and shape is one of them. Ask them to show you examples of different kind of bouquets and look at plenty of pictures ahead of time to get to know your preferences. Bring several photos to your floral appointment. You might not know the name of every flower or arrangement technique, but a picture is worth a thousand words!

If you’re looking for a larger bouquet, there are several options open for your consideration. For a dramatic look, choose the cascading style, which includes longer flowers and greenery spilling out and down from the center to create a voluminous waterfall

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seasonal blooms

Celebrate the season your wedding takes place in and choose your bouquet, boutonniere and floral décor based on what flowers are in bloom. Some flowers can be sourced year-round, but other flowers – like sunflowers – can be much more difficult to find depending on when you’re getting married. Here’s a few of the many flowers available for each specific season.

Spring

Cosmo, Hyacinth, Hydrangea, Lilac, Lily of the Valley, Orchid, Peony, Rose, Tulip, Zinnia Fall

Aster, Calla Lily, Chocolate Cosmos, Chrysanthemum, Dahlia, Parrot Tulips, Rose, Statice, Sunflower, Victorian Lily

Summer

Anemone, Calla Lily, Casablanca Lily, Cornflower, Daisy/Gerbera Daisy, Delphinium, Queen Anne’s Lace, Rhododendron, Rose, Stephanotis

Winter

Amaryllis, Camelia, Freesia, Heather, Holly/Evergreen/Ivy, Lisianthus, Narcissus, Rose, Ranunculus, Violets

effect. Another related style is the pageant (sometimes called presentation) style, which features long-stemmed flowers gathered together, meant to rest in the crook of your arm. You could also opt for the hand-tied style, which features a mix of flowers and greenery loosely tied together with a visible ribbon or twine, achieving an organic “freshly-picked” boho look.

For the classic bride, the round shape is timeless, featuring one or two types of flowers gathered in an arrangement that looks good from any angle, with stems wrapped completely in ribbon or with other adornments. Brides wanting a smaller bouquet can opt for the nosegay or posy style, which tends to feature just one or two types of flowers in a small rounded bundle that can easily be held in one hand. This look is popular for bridesmaids, leaving one hand free so they can help the bride with anything and everything in a pinch! Another small style that evokes a vintage vibe is the pomander, which looks like a ball of flowers hanging from a ribbon or string. While a bride could walk down the aisle swinging this style of bouquet, it’s a more common choice for flower girls. Another unique smaller option is the composite style (also known as glamelia), which takes petals from several flowers and pins them together to form what looks like one giant bloom.

Shape is not the only physical element you have to take into account when thinking about your bouquet. You also have to pay attention to how big the bouquet will be in relation to your body. For taller brides, the sky’s the limit – go for a cascading look or an overflowing bundle if you want. For shorter brides, it’s best to go for a smaller look. You don’t want your flowers to overshadow your face or cover up a large portion of your dress!

MATCH YOUR LOOK

Your bouquet will never stand alone – it will always be seen with your wedding

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gown as a backdrop. Because of this, it’s important to match your bouquet to the style of your dress. If you are wearing a more ornate dress, full of beading or intricately patterned lace, think about choosing a simpler bouquet so that your dress takes the spotlight. This might mean that you choose one color for the flowers and stick with that, or use fewer blooms. With a more modern, simple gown, you can either match the minimalistic look with a simple bouquet or you can go a bit more dramatic with the flowers. If you’d like the bouquet to take center stage, go ahead and mix many different kinds of flowers or use several colors together.

When you meet with your florist, be sure to bring along fabric swatches from your dress and your bridesmaid dresses if possible. That way they are able to see the exact color palette they are working

within. For instance, your florist may use a different shade of flower to match a champagne-colored dress than they would for a bright white dress. And a “pink” bridesmaid dress may mean something quite different to you than to your florist. If you don’t have extra swatches, come prepared with pictures so they can get a feel for your true color scheme.

Besides matching your general aesthetic, you want your flowers to make sense given your venue and the time of day you will be holding your wedding. An outdoor daytime wedding is perfect for bright and sunny blooms like sunflowers, tulips and peonies. The sunlight and open spaces will allow those flowers to shine! If you’re having an indoor wedding in the evening, you’ll need to keep in mind how your bouquet will look under the venue’s lighting and alongside the interior décor of the space. Will the lighting in your tall

and spacious church allow all the tiny details in your bouquet to be seen? Is there colored carpet, tile or draping in your hotel ballroom? All your wedding plans should look intertwined in some way or another. While you don’t need to necessarily match your flowers to the design elements of your space, it’s good to be mindful of them so they don’t clash with each other.

SEASONAL BLOOMS

No matter what aesthetic you are going for, the time of year that your celebrations occur play a huge part in your flower choices. If you have your heart set on daffodils, hosting your wedding in the fall is not going to bode well for your floral hopes! While many flowers are available throughout a large part of the year, there are some specialty blooms that you will only be able to get during one season. Talk to your florist about which flowers you have in mind, and be ready to take her suggestions for alternative blooms that will give you the look you’re going for. For instance, garden roses or hydrangeas can often substitute for peonies, which are beautiful but only available for a very short amount of time. Don’t think about seasonal availability as a limitation – embrace it! You have likely chosen wedding colors that coordinate with the season, so your flowers will naturally match. Take the opportunity to use flowers and supporting elements in your bouquet that celebrate the season. You may even learn about ways your florist can source your flowers from a local greenhouse, which will mean they are extremely fresh and vibrant. Try not to get attached to the particulars – once you give your florist some inspiration photos and color schemes, let them run wild and use their professional knowledge to work some floral magic. Chances are, they will achieve a look that goes beyond your expectations.

WHO GETS WHAT?

After you decide on the shape, size and blooms for your bridal bouquet, you will need to think about flowers for the other people who are helping you celebrate your Big Day. Of course, the bride gets the most dazzling bouquet, but who else gets bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres? There are no hard and fast rules for this, so choose whomever you would like! But keep reading for some of the traditional guidelines.

BOUQUETS

Typically, each bridesmaid gets a bouquet that mimics or takes inspiration from the bride’s bouquet. You will never run out of great photo ops when you and all your girls have beautiful blooms to show off! If your flower girl won’t have anything else in her hands (like a basket or a sign) it’s a cute idea to give her a mini bouquet as well – she’ll love being your mini-me!

CORSAGES

Corsages are meant for the women in your family or any woman you would like to honor, including ceremony readers and other guests who have a special place in your Big Day. Whether you give corsages only to immediate family members (such as mothers and grandmothers) or you offer them to all your important cousins and aunties, be sure you are consistent with providing them to relatives on both sides of your families. You don’t want anyone feeling unfairly left out!

You may have seen women wearing corsages in different ways – some pinned onto their dresses and some around their wrists. Mimicking how men wear boutonnieres, many women will pin the corsage on the left shoulder of their dress. But they may worry about snagging or ruining a delicate gown. An alternative is to opt for a bracelet style corsage that is typically worn on the left wrist. Or, you can ask your florist if they

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offer a magnetic option. That will take the hassle out of pinning and will simplify the process without running the risk of damage to expensive dresses. Both wrist and pinned versions can look beautiful, so it’s best to go with whatever will make your special ladies feel most comfortable. Remember, everyone has a different style. You’ll want your leading ladies feeling their best on your Big Day, that way they can focus their attention on ensuring your celebrations go as planned. You may find it helpful to talk to the mothers to see which style they would prefer, and which option they think would work best for the other ladies.

BOUTONNIERES

Grooms and groomsmen typically wear boutonnieres, also known as “buttonholes,” which are pinned to their left lapel. But other men involved in your

wedding can receive boutonnieres as well, including fathers and grandfathers of the couple, ushers, other family members and even the ring bearer. This is a special way to give a small thanks to the important men in your life. Don’t be surprised if the guys need some assistance pinning them on – send a mom in to help them attach their boutonnieres with ease!

SPECIAL TOUCHES

It’s easy to overlook the way your bouquet is held together, but don’t forget the finishing touches! Most bouquet styles have visible stems, which means that your wrap choice matters, and personalizing this part of your bouquet opens the door to your creativity and allows you to show off what makes you unique.

The standard option for wrapping your stems is a satin ribbon in the color of

your choice. But why not go beyond the traditional look? You can choose other materials to wrap your bouquet. Try burlap or twine if your wedding will be rustic, velvet if you’re going for a boho theme, or lace from your mother’s wedding dress for a personal tribute. You can also draw extra attention to the wrap by using a boldly patterned ribbon or an oversized ribbon tied in a giant bow. Some brides even opt to have several colored ribbons hanging down off their bouquets to add an extra artistic flair and to showcase more color.

Another way to upgrade your bouquet is to attach glitz or family heirlooms to the wrap. Going for a glamorous aesthetic? Ask your florist to attach some sparkly accessories like gemstone brooches or appliques. Or perhaps you’d like to honor your family history by incorporating some heirlooms into your bouquet. It could be a piece of your grandmother’s handkerchief, a locket passed down from generation to generation, or even cufflinks from someone special.

After the celebrations are over, consider preserving your flowers so that you can insert them into a scrapbook or keep as a token from your special day. Of course, there are professionals who can preserve your flowers to ensure the best quality. Do some research for the best professional preservationist that can encapsulate your flowers and wedding day memories for years to come.

Your bridal bouquet is one of the most visible aspects to your wedding-day look, so take the time to think through all of your available options! Your florist will be a wealth of knowledge for you as you decide on all the details and decisions. So, remember to take advantage of them as a valuable resource as much as possible. By putting some extra love and effort into your floral decisions, you will be able to bring a bit of floral flare to your Big Day.

Wedding Themes

CLASSIC, OUTRAGEOUS AND SOMETHING IN BETWEEN

It is true that we are living in a world filled with personalization. You can no longer carry a simple water bottle to the gym, it must be in your favorite color with your initials emblazoned across it.

Almost everything is personalized, so why would you let your wedding day remain simple and straightforward? It’s only the most important day of your life, after all.

If simplicity is still important to you, then there are a number of glamorous, classic designs that can still set your wedding apart. However, if you are craving a little something more, then only your own creativity can limit your ideas. Plus, if you work with an inspired wedding planner, then nothing is off limits (except for unicorns – unicorns may be somewhat problematic.)

As you begin to brainstorm and toss around a few ideas, you may find that you don’t need mythical creatures to realize your

perfect wedding theme. In fact, you may want to emphasize the sports team that you cheer for every Monday night, or even include a few facets of a particular hobby. Wherever your plan takes you, there is a multitude of ways to add some of your favorite things into your wedding day.

Here are a few fun ideas to infuse more of your personalities into your ceremony and reception!

FIRST THINGS FIRST

Before you begin deciding how to incorporate your theme into your wedding, you will need to make a final decision on which theme best represents you as a couple. There are plenty of places to draw inspiration, like taking a nod from nature or even making a list of some of the activities that you enjoy together as a couple.

Here are a few ideas to get those creative juices going!

Black and White – When you want to be somewhat simplistic, a color scheme of classic black and white can add a formal air to your wedding, and it can be accented in a number of ways. Rather than merely utilize the two colors in a regular fashion, think about stripes or even polka dots. Imagine the unique invitation ideas that you could explore with your designer! And have you ever been to New York City and indulged in a famous black and white cookie? Have some brought in, or talk to your baker about adding them to your cake or dessert table.

Island Flair – This theme can be especially fun if you will be honeymooning in the Caribbean or if you have decided to set sail on a luxurious cruise. If you’re thinking about palm trees and a playfulbut-relaxed vibe, you can also incorporate

details like bright flowers and festive names for your cocktails. Flamingos can be a fun addition to a number of designs to add to your island theme as well. If you really want to go all out, think about a sand sculpture, and leave sunglasses on the tables for engaging photo opportunities.

Go Cubs Go – If you love to sit in a crowded stadium, drinking a cold beer and eating your weight in popcorn, you can even bring your love for baseball –or any other sport, for that matter – into your reception. You don’t have to go fullblown baseball bats and umpires, but it’s a great idea to carry this theme into the groom’s cake, or even with cupcakes to accentuate the cake table. When you’re meeting with your photographer, think about setting the men up with sports t-shirts under their tuxedoes, as well as baseball caps, for a few poses. This is also a great way to get the guys excited for pictures.

Gilded Age – The Roaring 20s was a very prolific time in American history, fondly remembered for its flapper dresses, its music and its “let’s all have a good time” feel. Touches of this era can be added to accent your formalwear selections, whether it be through fedoras or sparkly, intricate headbands. Name your cocktails after Fitzgerald’s characters, or set up a Prohibition password before your guests can order their “hooch.” The great thing about this theme is that it can fun, but it’s still classy, presenting the perfect union between the two. Just keep your eyes open for Al Capone!

All You Need Is Rock and Roll – If you and your partner met at a concert or share the love of this energetic genre, then this might be the theme for you! This idea leaves you with a lot of options, as you can narrow down your era of rock music. Are you 80s kids, and love the idea of big hair and blaring guitar solos, or do you find yourself wishing you grew up in the 90s in Seattle? Maybe you are into metal, and you’re not ready to leave your head-banging days behind you. Whatever the case, you can get really outrageous with this theme! Pass out backstage passes to all your guests, with your names and wedding date on them, and go crazy with your cake design. You will also want to consider hiring a live wedding band and giving special attention to the set list.

Into the Woods – If you love the feeling of being surrounded by nature, or perhaps you enjoy hiking and camping as a couple, this theme can add a touch of whimsy to your day. Pin some beautifully decorated fairy wings on your flower girl, and instead of rose petals, sprinkle “pixie dust.” The bride and her attendants can wear flowers in their hair, and you can opt for choices like daisies or pale-colored baby roses with plenty of baby’s breath. You can also really bring this theme into your décor, incorporating greenery and garlands. For

your centerpieces, think about jars filled with flowers and twinkle lights.

Dreaming of a White Christmas - If your wedding is taking place close to the holidays, then you will want to use this to your advantage, especially when it comes to decorations and your formalwear choices. White will be the color of the day, accented with shades of red and/or green, and your flower girl(s) can be snow angels for the occasion. You can add to the romance with cleverly placed mistletoe, and sprigs of spruce can bring an aromatic flair.

DECORATE EVERY SPACE

If you’re hoping to bring out your wedding theme as much as possible, then you’ll want to weave it into as many décor ideas as possible. This is where working with an experienced wedding planner will come into play. He or she will be able to let you know if you can push the envelope, or if you have gone way over the top. Plus, years of knowledge and experience will be key when implementing your ideas. They may look phenomenal on paper, but how will they

translate to your actual wedding décor?

Be especially sure to add some attention to areas that may be a bit overlooked. Your wedding cake table is always a given, but nowadays, adding a few finger desserts has become quite popular, offering yet another space to work into your theme. Also, consider your entrance table. This area can also be spruced up and even introduce your theme as your guests make their way into the venue.

Your reception tables are also a wonderful place to get fun and creative. You

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can place theme-related favors here, as well as talk to your decorator and floral designer about centerpieces that will also complement your ideas.

TIE IN THE MUSIC

As already mentioned in some of our suggested themes, music is an excellent way to really breathe life into your vision. This might seem like an obvious decision, but with so much planning and other wedding-related responsibilities, some couples may not think about blending their wedding theme into the ceremony or reception music.

Just imagine a magical Disney theme, complete with Cinderella’s coach, brought to fruition with classic Disney melodies played by a string quartet during the ceremony. At the reception, you can liven things up with an occasional “Kiss the Girl” or “A Whole New World” mixed into your regular choices.

Be sure to meet with your DJ or live band to explore your options, and let them know that you are interested in extending your theme into your musical selections. If you’re going with a Broadway Baby theme, it doesn’t necessarily mean that your entire reception must be filled with Showtunes. A professional entertainer will be able to find just the right mix to keep your guests on the dance floor, but still tie in the music that will embrace your theme.

GET CREATIVE WITH YOUR CHOICE OF VENUE

When you begin looking at reception facilities, it’s a great idea to have already selected your theme. Of course, if you have had your eye on a particular venue from the moment that ring was placed on your finger, you can easily find ways to incorporate your theme without any difficulty. However, if you are open to a variety of selections for your facility, then you may want to look at it with your theme in mind.

If you have a sports-related theme, imagine if a sporting venue has a room that can be used for special events. Or, if you are keen on a natural theme, what if there’s a reception facility with views of a wooded area or a stream? The options are truly endless!

ENGAGE YOUR GUESTS

Perhaps the best and most important way to incorporate your theme is through engaging your guests. If they can feel as if they’re a part of what’s going on, then they will have a much better time, and your wedding will always be a memorable event.

Rent a photo booth. – Nothing can showcase a theme quite like a photo booth. When you initially think about a photo booth, your memories might take you back to a little box at an amusement park, where you crammed in with your two best friends and then waited patiently for a strip of

black-and-white photos to pop out. To put it mildly, things have really changed.

Now, photo booths come with plenty of options, including backgrounds and scenes that can be selected by your guests when posing for their pictures. Some companies even create their own scenes, which could apply to your theme. Additionally, it’s common for a box of props to accompany your photo booth, or you can bring your own. Think along the lines of beach hats and bright-colored sunglasses for a summer theme, or maybe masks and beads for Mardi Gras.

Encourage your guests to dress with the theme. – This can work especially well with the black and white option that was mentioned earlier, as your guests can wear those colors, which can also apply to any other theme revolving around a particular color scheme. If you have a Hawaiian theme, flowered shirts should come to mind, and you can ensure everyone has a lei or two.

If you want to keep your ceremony classic, you can request that your guests play to the theme only for the reception. Think about Superman or Batman tees coming out for a superhero theme, or clothing sporting your favorite “Game of Thrones” character. Your guests will never forget such a unique reception!

Hopefully, you have drawn some inspiration, and you are just bursting with ideas. Set aside some time with your partner to go over some of your favorites and even come up with a few new ones. You can also get opinions from your friends and family before you make your final decision.

Above all else, remember that your wedding is a celebration that will not only focus on your love but also on who you are as a couple. Get creative, have fun and let your personalities shine through, you and your fiancé will definitely be happy with the results!

LEXIE & TYLER

Say “I Do”

Lexie and Tyler held their wedding ceremony and reception at the same venue, but still wanted the ceremony to feel traditional. A family friend created glass crosses and a gorgeous centerpiece for the altar to bring a church-like feel to the space.

School Pride

The couple met at the University of Kentucky, and they made sure to include their alma mater in their reception. Kentucky fans call themselves the “Big Blue Nation,” so instead of a more traditional route, Lexie and Tyler had a UK-themed “BBN” cocktail hour featuring bourbon, beer and nugget pretzels.

Autumn Beauty

The reception space is incredibly unique, featuring woodwork architecture, hand-painted ceilings, tall vases of magnolia leaves and a giant stone fireplace. Lexie and Tyler wanted to make sure the décor was cozy and warm, so they had candles flickering in the fireplace and the entire space draped in warm shades of maroon, gold and deep green for their fall wedding.

Love, Sweet Love

Lexie and Tyler share a love of all things food. Lexie also happens to be the lead cake designer at Vanille Patisserie, so they treated guests to unique sweets including a tiered wedding cake, a groom’s cake shaped like a bourbon barrel that actually dispensed bourbon, a full dessert table of sweets and late-night snacks.

Number of Wedding Guests: 125

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Emily Conley

Real Wedding Vendors

VENUE: University Club of Chicago | PHOTOGRAPHY: Dory L Tuohey Photography | ENGAGEMENT RING: Kruckemeyer & Cohn

WEDDING RINGS: Tiffany & Co. | GOWN: Martina Liana via Volle’s Bridal & Boutique | BRIDE’S SHOES: Betsey Johnson

FUR STOLE: Betsey Johnson | HAIR: Touché Salon | MAKEUP: Elana Darrus Makeup & Hair | FORMALWEAR: Tom James Company

GROOM’S SHOES: Allen Edmonds | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Jasmine Bridal via GiGi’s Boutique | STATIONERY: Little Shop of Papers

FLORAL & DÉCOR: Fleur | ENTERTAINMENT: Bluewater Kings Band; The CoverGirls Violin Show | CAKES & SWEETS: Vanille Patisserie

Food Truck Frenzy

It is no secret that food trucks have become very popular. Whether you’re at an outdoor festival, a farmer’s market or even a high-end wedding, these rolling kitchens are clearly having a moment in the spotlight. Food trucks are fun and offer specialized food options that are delicious and convenient. While there are some logistical considerations required, we think having flavorful tacos, decadent crêpes, gourmet grilled cheese or artisanal coffee at your event is worth the challenge.

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WHAT KIND OF FOOD TRUCKS ARE AVAILABLE?

There are a large variety of food truck options customized to fit almost any dietary preference, budget or theme. There is no limit to what you and your vendor could come up with to accommodate your guests. Your favorite restaurant may even have a mobile catering option that lets you bring your favorite foods to your wedding guests.

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Food trucks can offer almost every type of international cuisine imaginable: Mexican, French, Chinese, Thai, Italian and more. With trucks that specialize in childhood staples like hotdogs, hamburgers, grilled cheese or shaved ice, you can keep things casual and unexpected for your guests. If sweet treats are more tempting then savory snacks, then dessert-specific trucks that focus on cupcakes, ice cream or baked goods may be just what you’re after. There are even trucks that serve up specialty beverages, from artisanal coffees to cocktails and Prosecco.

Maybe you aren’t a huge fan of wedding cake and you want a food truck for the dessert portion of the evening. An ice cream truck could be a fun way to celebrate childhood nostalgia and cool off if your wedding is on a warm night. Consider creating a custom ice cream

flavor (maybe a combination of you and your partner’s childhood favorites?). There are mobile cupcake trucks specializing in unique flavor combinations with the additional possibility of creating a customized recipe just for you. Shaved ice, cotton candy and sweet French crêpes are other great dessert options.

You can also use a food truck to revive your guests after a long night of dancing. Bring in a truck for late-night eats like mac-and-cheese bites, seasoned fries, sliders, churros or popcorn to keep your guests fueled for more dancing. If your band or DJ has everyone dancing the night away, they are going to need a pick-me-up after a few hours.

WHY SHOULD I BOOK A FOOD TRUCK FOR MY WEDDING?

Many couples choose food trucks for

their wedding receptions because they evoke an open, laid-back and welcoming vibe. Using a food truck is also an easy way to make your wedding feel personalized and unique. The food at your wedding plays a large part in setting the tone for the night, so it’s important to think about the overall effect your menu will have on your reception. Food trucks don’t just offer culinary delights, they also give your guests a one-of-a-kind experience they will always remember. Most food trucks allow guests to customize their orders while the typical reception menu is usually limited to only a couple options. Many food trucks also contribute to the overall style of a wedding – providing unique décor or fun photo opportunities. Guests will have the opportunity to mix and mingle while in line, which can help encourage an energetic and social crowd as opposed to strict seating charts or standard dinner arrangements.

Depending on the number of guests and your menu selection, food trucks may be a cost-effective complement to the traditional plated or buffet-style meal. The ability to customize food trucks means they can accommodate almost any need. Regardless of the size of your wedding, there’s a food truck for you.

Food trucks are extremely versatile and can be integrated into nearly any wedding theme. Have you planned your reception in a vintage French style? Consider hiring a French crêpe food truck to enhance the experience. Adding a Latin flair to your celebration? Find a food truck to serve up empanadas or tacos. You can even choose a food truck with a specific exterior – think metallic, antique or a bright and bold color – to fit in with your color scheme.

You can also customize the menu to highlight you and your partner’s personalities. From serving your favorite comfort foods to a childhood sweet treat or

highlighting an ethnic food special to you, the menu options can serve as a way to personalize your Big Day.

Don’t be afraid to ask your food truck vendor if they can add a menu item for your event. Most vendors will accommodate special requests as best they can. With food trucks, the food and drink options are nearly endless.

USING A FOOD TRUCK FOR OTHER WEDDING EVENTS

If you have your reception menu set, but still love the idea of incorporating a food truck into your wedding festivities, there are plenty of other ways to do so.

Consider your rehearsal dinner, reserve three food trucks to serve an appetizer, the main course and dessert. Another idea is to highlight regional specialties for your out-of-town guests. Treat every-

one to a Chicago hotdog or deep dish pizza to introduce your guests to the city’s flavors. If you or your partner are from different regions, consider a truck that honors your roots with lobster rolls, fried chicken or cheesesteaks. What a fun way to represent your hometowns! If your bridesmaids are up for it, consider ditching the traditional bridesmaids’ luncheon in favor of a gathering of food trucks. You can usually find parts of town that host several trucks for lunch. This can be a fun way to let everyone pick their own favorite food items. Or, if you’re planning to host a post-wedding brunch or barbeque, a food truck can be the perfect way to keep things casual and laid back. You can use the post-wedding gathering as a way to leave guests with a lasting memory of your favorite eats. A food truck specializing in bubbly would be an ideal addition to any brunch.

DEALING WITH DIETARY RESTRICTIONS

Whether you and your guests are vegetarian, gluten-free or dairy-free, dietary restrictions shouldn’t be an issue for a food truck. There are food trucks that specialize in vegan-friendly menus and gluten-free treats. When in doubt, just ask. They’ll have the scoop on preparing glutenfree sandwiches, crafting a vegan dish or whipping up non-dairy ice cream. Chances are, they’ll be able to accommodate any dietary restrictions you may have.

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW

A single food truck can accommodate 75 to 100 guests. Since the average wedding has 150 guests, two food trucks might be a good option while also allowing for a larger variety of food. To really cut down on lines, you may want to hire

three trucks. You can mix it up and offer three types of cuisines like Italian, Mexican and Chinese. Or go the breakfast, lunch and dinner route. Lots of variety is sure to entice your guests’ taste buds. If you stick with one food truck, make sure you discuss your head count with them to ensure there will be enough food items for everyone to be served.

Keep your season in mind. Off-season weddings may come with a less expensive investment, but make sure you think about your guests. Most people won’t trudge through the snow for a cupcake, even from a seriously cute food truck. If you plan on having a summer wedding, make sure there’s shade nearby to keep your guests cool as they order and wait for their food.

Make sure your venue is food truck friendly. Trucks need a place to park and a suitable electric outlet to plug into. While food trucks can be offered at both indoor and outdoor events, it may be easier for the truck to pull into an open spot rather than a crowded parking lot. Talk through your ideas with your wedding planner and venue coordinator to iron out the logistics of when, where, and how many trucks you can have on the property.

Food trucks require time to set up and tear down, so check with your reception venue about the time allotments before you sign anything. What time can the truck set up? When should the truck be removed? These times are very important when selecting any type of mobile catering.

Lastly, creating a specific, limited menu from your food truck’s larger menu may help streamline everything. A smaller menu will speed up the entire process. When guests have only four or five options to choose from, they will order a little more quickly. Having a limited menu will cut down on wait times, help the staff plan more accurately and may keep your costs down as well.

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TO THE CHEF

Chicago attracts some of the world’s top culinary talent by combining a sincere passion for food alongside the artistic mastery that only a select few embody. When it comes to your wedding day meal, Chicago’s culinary scene is ready to prove that it is in-fact a reality to have high standards when it comes to what your guests will enjoy after you say “I do!”. Amaze your guests by serving them an edible masterpiece that will be talked about long after your Big Day.

Cedric Harden

Executive Chef River Roast

Chef Cedric Harden is the leading force behind the culinary program at River Roast. Growing up with the natural inclination and desire to cook for his family, Harden realized that he was passionate about bringing people together through delicious dishes. This revelation inspired him to begin his study at the Le Cordon Bleu Cooking and Hospitality Institute of Chicago at the age of 22. After working his way through different kitchens, Chef Harden now uses his culinary expertise to amaze guests at River Roast. With a strong focus on Midwestern comfort food, he thoughtfully creates shareable dishes that are meant to bring joy, and capture the love and warmth of the region’s cuisine.

Ben Holt

Director of Culinary Operations Jewell Events Catering

With degrees in Culinary Arts and Pastry, Ben trained at Second Empire Restaurant in Raleigh for almost 8 years under Executive Chef Daniel Schurr. It was there that he learned the discipline of working hard and always staying true to the craft. Ben entered the catering world for the excitement and unique challenges that come with working in prestigious offsite venues. With ever changing menus, cuisines, venues and tight timelines, there is never a dull moment in catering. This lively atmosphere feeds into his passion for the culinary arts and gives him the motivation to express his creativity.

Dish Right: Apple wood smoked chicken, seasoned and served with signature crispy potatoes.

Dish Left: Summer Salad - arugula, peach, blueberry, mint, shaved parmesan and pancetta collar with blueberry vinaigrette.

Greg Carso

Executive Chef

The Metropolitan

With a widespread wealth of culinary knowledge and 30 years of experience, Chef Greg Carso brings a special flare to The Metropolitan in Chicago’s iconic Willis Tower. After attending Chicago’s Washburne Trade School and La Varenne École de Cuisine in Paris, Carso established himself at Levy Restaurant Group. Soon after, he joined the culinary world of private clubs that landed him in his current role at the bustling city club. Carso has celebrated many company-wide awards including Rookie Chef of The Year. He continues to experiment and evolve using cutting edge techniques to provide guests with world class cuisine.

Dish Below: Chicken Milanese - breaded chicken breast, topped with arugula. grape tomatoes and pecorino romano cheese, finished with a red wine vinaigrette and balsamic glaze.

Michael Tsonton

Executive Chef Ravinia Festival

Award winning chef Michael Tsonton is the talented man in charge of the culinary team at Ravinia Festival. He oversees all of the versatile dining experiences within the venue including the Lawn Bar, Tree Top, Park View, Ravinia Market and the new rooftop dining experiences that recently opened.

As an impacting force in the culinary industry, Chef Tsonton is passionate about bringing a memorable food experience to your wedding celebration. Together, Chef Tsonton and his hardworking staff will turn your festivities into a culinary masterpiece that your guests will rave about for years.

Dish Above: House cured salmon gravlax with braised grapes, cucumbers and black pepper-farmers cheese.

Matt Jergens

Executive Chef

The Gwen Hotel

As Executive Chef of The Gwen Hotel, Matt Jergens applies his culinary expertise from different regions of the country and their origin to create unique dishes that guests will savor forever. His lifelong passion for cooking has allowed him to have an extensive career in both hotels and independent restaurants. Jergens oversees all aspects of the luxurious hotel’s food and beverage programs, striving to create cuisine that will tap into diners’ past memories, as well as creating new ones. Chef Jergens states, “Every dish has some kind of thought or story behind it.”

Dish Right: Tempura Octopus – sprinkled with rancho gordo salad, salsa tinta and purslane.

Walleska Cianfanelli

Executive Pastry Chef

Palmer House

Walleska Cianfanelli is a renowned international pastry chef who brings a sweet and savory touch to the Palmer House. She specializes in pastries and desserts among other sweets and was awarded the Best Chocolate Sculpture award at World of Chocolate in 2017. Cianfanelli has extensive experience in decorating pastries and plating desserts, as well as assembling dessert buffets for a large number of guests. All of these attributes showcase her passion for the culinary arts and her devotion to the craft.

Dish Right: Caged Heart - milk chocolate sponge cake, fresh strawberry confit, milk chocolate mousse and strawberry glaze encaged by a chocolate dome.

Dan McGee

Executive Chef Swissôtel Chicago

Chicago native Dan McGee uses his 30 years of culinary experience to influence his role as the Executive Chef at Swissôtel Chicago. His love for cooking made him get into the business, but it was his passion for travel and international cuisine that convinced him stay.

Chef McGee first began working for Swissôtel Hotels in 1990 and joined the Chicago team in 2008. Beyond his daily role as Executive Chef, he spends much of his time working with the brand team curating seasonal Vitality menus and activations. Chef McGee is recognized as one of the company’s Vitality Cuisine experts and represents Swissôtel nationally and internationally on various press trips.

Dish Left: Turmeric rubbed chicken kabobs, red & black quinoa, mango chutney, with shaved apple.

Sweet Slices

HOW TO CHOOSE THE BEST CAKE FOR YOUR WEDDING

Cake tasting may be one of the more exciting aspects of wedding planning, but knowing where to start the process can be daunting. For most couples, the cake is the centerpiece of the reception. Your cake is not only an exquisite feature, but also gives your guests something delicious to look forward to during the celebrations. When choosing a wedding cake, you should decide on a style that matches your wedding theme as well as your own personal preferences. Use the tips and tricks throughout these pages to help pick out the cake that’s a perfect fit for your wedding.

CHOOSING A BAKERY

With an abundance of cake designers to choose from, it’s important that you decide on a bakery that you think is delicious, and also talented. You should feel confident that they can deliver you the cake of your dreams. Once you have narrowed down the selections, schedule a tasting. If you’re trying to decide between two bakeries, you can schedule a tasting at both, but just keep in mind that many places have a fee for tastings. Check with the shop about any tasting charges before you arrive to avoid any unexpected fees. You don’t want to bite

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into your wedding cake without understanding exactly how much it will cost.

FLAVOR

Deciding on the flavor of the cake might be the most difficult part of the process. You want to find something that everyone loves, while making sure you still enjoy the cake as well. If you and your partner have different tastes, consider alternating flavor combinations by tier. You can pick something safe for the largest tier –think vanilla or chocolate – and then each

choose a more personalized flavor combination for the remaining tiers. Consider choosing more daring flavor combinations such as lemon raspberry, hazelnut praline, cookies n’ cream, coffee or salted caramel. Choosing unique, personalized cake flavors will help put a delicious twist on the final notes of your celebration.

FROSTING

When the cake flavors are selected, it’s time for the icing on the cake – literally. There is a lot to consider when choosing

the type, color and consistency of your frosting. You want to make sure that your cake designer knows what you want your wedding cake to look and taste like before deciding on the frosting. For example, you might like the way fondant creates sharp, clean edges, but you’re not fond of the actual flavor. Buttercream makes for a better tasting cake, but it won’t create as clean of a look. If your wedding vibe is sleek and elegant, you may choose to forego the taste in favor of the aesthetic appeal of a fondant

icing. Whatever you decide, make sure the cake will still tie into your overall theme. Another thing to consider when picking the frosting is color. If you select darker shades – like black, blue or purple – you could end up with stained teeth in your photos after sharing the first bite with your spouse. Consider choosing a lighter accent color that won’t leave noticeable traces behind.

STYLE

Your cake should capture the essence of

your wedding as much as possible. Depending on the style you’ve chosen for the décor, you’ll want the cake decorations to match.

If your wedding is designed with elegance in mind, you might want to go with a wedding cake that is more traditional in style. This might include piped flowers, like roses, or real flowers as accents. Lighter colors are usually associated with elegance, so stick with a color that matches the rest of your wedding theme to make the cake the centerpiece of your reception.

If your wedding is more modern, you might want to go with more vivid colors. An ombre cake will create an eye-drawing centerpiece. You can keep it simple or spice it up with flowers and other decorations. Including bright, vivid colors will insure that your cake matches your desired theme.

A rustic wedding might lead to a naked cake. Naked cakes usually include some type of filling, like fresh fruit, but aren’t fully frosted on the outside so some of the “naked” cake shows through. If you’re

someone who doesn’t enjoy the taste of icing, this might be exactly the cake for you! And bonus – less frosting means less of a mess!

The final step in dressing up the cake is the cake topper. You may choose to go with something more traditional, or you may think of something that’s completely out of the box. Whatever you choose, you want the cake topper to tie the cake together. A unique topper can also help the cake to stand out.

SIZE

It’s important to know just how many people are going to be at your wedding before ordering your cake. Not only do you want to make sure that you have enough cake to feed everyone at your reception, but you also want to ensure that the amount of cake you need is within your budget.

The first step is to check the cake pricing at your bakery. Many bakeries charge by the slice, which can range anywhere from $2.50 to $8 per slice. The price of the cake will depend on how large the cake is, the kind of ingredients used and the overall design of the cake. When you’re first meeting with your baker, make sure you’re clear about your budget and make selections within your price range.

The list below is a guide for determining just how large a cake you will need, depending on how many people will be attending your reception:

• 5-inch round: 8 servings

• 6-inch round: 12 servings

• 7-inch round: 16 servings

• 8-inch round: 24 servings

• 9-inch round: 32 servings

• 10-inch round: 38 servings

• 11-inch round: 47 servings

• 12-inch round: 56 servings

• 13-inch round: 67 servings

• 14-inch round: 78 servings

• 15-inch round: 89 servings

Use these serving sizes as a starting point but also check with your cake designer for their recommendations. You want to make sure that there’s enough cake for everyone to enjoy!

DELIVERY

There are a few things that you should keep in mind when scheduling the delivery of your cake. First, try to avoid transporting the cake yourself if at all possible. There’s a lot to consider once the cake leaves the bakery and makes its way to the venue. Leave the delivery up to the baker so you don’t have to worry about the cake arriving safely.

Plan on leaving extra time for your cake designer to make last-minute adjustments before the rest of your guests arrive. You also need to know how the venue plans on storing your cake. This will ensure that the cake is fresh and

ready to eat once your reception starts. Most professionals suggest that getting the cake to the venue about an hour to an hour and a half before the reception begins is ideal.

EATING THE CAKE

If your reception is outdoors, you’ll need a plan to keep your cake as pristine and delicious as possible. This might include doing your cake cutting pictures early so that the culinary staff can take the cake in the back and cut it up to prepare it for serving. Double check that your reception venue has a cool, dry area to store your cake before setting it out for the reception.

Before you dig in, make sure your photographer has taken pictures of the cake by itself and any other photos you want with you and your partner. Don’t miss your chance to stuff cake in your partner’s face because all the frosting melted off before it was time to cut the cake!

A SWEET ENDING

Your wedding cake needs to be both visually pleasing and delicious. Striking just the right balance between style and substance can be challenging. This is why we suggest thinking through all of the details and decisions before sitting down with a baker to design your cake. After reading this article, talk with your partner about the goal for your wedding cake. Do you want guests to rave about how beautifully designed the cake was, or how scrumptious the cake tasted? Honestly, it can be and should be, both. These priorities are personal to each couple and drive your decisions about the size, flavor and design of your wedding cake. Once you understand what you want from your wedding cake, you will be better equipped to find a baker that can bring all of your cake dreams to life.

Delicious Decisions

A wedding cake is the most traditional type of wedding dessert, but that does not mean this treat has to be dull. Your cake des igner can help you decide what works best for your wedding reception and figure out how to create a dessert that not only looks sensational but tastes delicious, too! Take a look at some of our favorites that are sure to have your guests wanting another s lice.

LEFT: Amy Beck Cake Design | RIGHT: The Quintessential Cake

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TOP LEFT: Bittersweet | TOP RIGHT: Vanille Patisserie | BOTTOM LEFT: Urban Icing | B OTTOM RIGHT: The Bakester Patisserie

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Million Dollar Moments

HOW TO AVOID THE MUNDANE AND ELEVATE YOUR WEDDING PHOTOS

When you hire a photographer for your wedding, you’re entrusting them with one of the most important aspects of your Big Day. Memories fade, but photographs last forever! Professional photographers are talented artists and they know how to make you look your best for your engagement shoot and your wedding day. But there are also steps you can take to set your photographer up for success. With a little bit of planning, you can make decisions that will elevate your photos and create an inspiring scene for your photographer to capture. Keep reading for some practical tips that will take your wedding photographs from bland to fantastic.

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PHOTOGRAPHY BY Erin Hoyt Photography

PERFECT TIMING

Even if you plan ahead and account for last minute changes, everything will take longer than you think on your Big Day. It’s important that you build additional time into your wedding day timeline so that you are prepared for any delays, setbacks or extra shots you might want. Ask your photographer if she has suggestions for a specific time of the day to take certain photos so you can come prepared with a photography-friendly wedding day timeline.

TIPS FOR GETTING READY TIME

Starting your Big Day by getting ready with your wedding party? If you want to get some shots of this exciting time with your besties, you should plan about 3045 minutes at the end of your getting ready time just for photos. This is the perfect opportunity for your photographer to use that natural morning light streaming in the window for capturing detail shots of your dress and jewelry, plus it will also give you the chance to pose for some group shots. Want an insider’s tip? Wait until you’re actually finished getting your hair and makeup done to take most of those primping photos. It may seem a little fake, but do you really want a photo with your face only half made up, or your hair lopsided and only partially in an updo? Save a few key steps to complete while taking photos, like adding one last decorative hairpin or applying a final dusting of powder or lipstick.

Be mindful of any items that might create an eyesore in photos. Whether you’re getting ready in your home or in a packed hotel room, designate a corner where all your girls can stash their belongings. Nothing cheapens a photo like several overnight bags overflowing with brightly colored odds and ends! Pick a spot that will be out of the photographer’s line of sight and hide

everybody’s personal belongings. That way, your favorite candid shot won’t be ruined by random clutter.

GOLDEN HOUR

The 30 to 45 minute window right before the sun sets is undeniably the best time to capture magical photos. The sun gives off its warmest hues and lights up everything in sight with a glittery soft light. No matter what time of day you’re holding your ceremony and reception, be sure to talk with your photographer about how

you will take advantage of this short timeframe to capture the most important photos. Couples often choose to use this time to take their “couple” portraits, the more intimate photos of you two looking adoringly at one another. Golden hour is also the ideal time to schedule an engagement shoot. Take note of a tricky timeframe: noon to 2:00 p.m. has the brightest sunlight and therefore creates the harshest shadows and squintiest faces. Avoid taking outdoor photos at this time if possible!

SNEAK-AWAY SESSIONS

Once your day gets going, it doesn’t stop! You’ll be surrounded by people and hurrying from place to place, so be intentional about grabbing your photographer to sneak away for some quick private sessions throughout your day. Wouldn’t you like to see your reception venue when it’s all set up before guests arrive? Sneak in with your partner and your photographer before they open the room to your guests. You’ll get some genuine shots of your reaction to the

space, and you may even want to take a practice twirl on the dance floor. You’ll be thankful once the night is over that you have some photographic evidence of your perfect venue and your photographer will love that you planned a time for them to capture all the beautiful reception details.

Another great chance to sneak away for a photo op is at the end of the night, either when you want a break from dancing or after your guests have gone home. Go outside and create a little getaway

under the stars. Soft lantern or streetlamp lighting is romantic and gives you and your partner much needed alone time to take in the day you’ve just had. Since the Big Day is complete and the stress is over, these photos are some of the most genuine and intimate you’ll capture throughout the day.

GROUP SHOTS WITHOUT THE HASSLE

While wedding photos can vary dramat ically from wedding to wedding, one

common element is the group shot. Why not step it up and try something unconventional? Whether this is your classic family portrait, your bridal party session or groups of friends during the reception, here are some tactics you can use to breathe new life into your group photos for visual impact.

Posing

Most people are not natural models, and it can take a little bit of coaxing to get your family or bridal party out of their

shells and looking comfortable. Start putting people at ease by playing music from someone’s phone to get everybody moving, smiling and laughing. Photos can be very flattering when the subjects are in motion – walking towards the camera, laughing while gathered close together or dancing as a group. For bridal parties, experiment with poses beyond the straight line, like semicircles and circles, clusters of smaller groups spread out, differing levels (some sitting and some standing) or turning your back to the camera to catch those special back-of-the-dress details.

Reception Groups

Group photos aren’t over once you’ve taken the family and bridal party shots. How about taking one giant group photo at your reception, or capturing other large specific group photos? From college

friends and childhood classmates to work buddies and extended family members, these group shots will give you priceless memories to cherish forever. What could be better than commemorating this moment in time with all of the people who love you most and came to celebrate your union?

The logistics of that many people in one photo can get tricky, however, and you should talk to your photographer first if this is something you’d like to try. She may need to bring a special wideangle lens to make it work, or you’ll have to think creatively about your space. Is there a large staircase you can pose people on strategically? Can your photographer peer out a window onto a wide lawn filled with people? Have your DJ help facilitate this group photo process so it goes as quickly as possible with the least amount of fuss.

BACKDROP MAGIC

The background of your photos will be just as noticeable as the people in the foreground! Your photographer will naturally scope out the best settings at your venue, but you can help them by thinking this through ahead of time and creating a dramatic backdrop that will look stunning in photos.

Specialty Walls

Consider asking your floral designer to create a large flat structure with a stand that can serve as a background wall and cover it in items like flowers, paper pinwheels, tissue poms, balloons, vinyl lettering or greenery with a customized neon sign. You can use this “wall” behind the head table (for all those tearyeyed toast reaction shots) or as a photo booth background for all of your guests. You can even repurpose a ceremony

arch as a reception photo op spot! And don’t forget to take advantage of existing backdrops at your venue or in the neighborhood that are just screaming to be included in your photos. For the edgy couple, a wall covered in bright-colored graffiti is a great photo spot. For a smalltown wedding, take a stop by the town sign to commemorate the place you met

and fell in love. For a rustic wedding, be sure to find a great barn wall to serve as the perfect backdrop.

Lighting

This can’t be overstated – the right lighting can make or break your wedding photographs! In general, the greater the number of soft lighting sources, the

better. When your background is dark, you might be washed out or details will get lost. Think about renting uplighting from your venue or a lighting designer. Uplighting comes in a variety of colors and can feature patterns or textures (called a “gobo”) meant to illuminate the walls, floors and specific focal points. Remember that warm colors like pink, purple and orange tend to flatter most skin tones, and you can even get custom lighting designs like a monogram or your last name that you can shine onto a dance floor or prominent wall for a personalized experience.

There are plenty of lighting options that go beyond being simply functional –they are beautiful to look at in and of themselves and they’re even prettier in photos! Have you seen how eye-catching string lights can be when they’re draped across the top of an open outdoor space? What about rustic lanterns on tables or hanging from trees, or candles of different heights scattered around in ornate candelabras? String lights can also create a tented ceiling structure when draped from a central pole or hung from above, and they look especially romantic when they glow from behind sheer fabric. Remember to always check with your venue to see if they allow open flames before you plan on lighting hundreds of candles. There are plenty of non-flame options that look real!

ACCESSORIES TO THE RESCUE

A few props and accessories go a long way in making your photos unique and special! Toss items are not limited to your ceremony exit – consider bringing items like confetti or even a champagne bottle to pop for other occasions, like pictures with your girls or group shots with your family. Of course, don’t forget that sparkler shot! You could also bring along a few cute signs to hold in photos,

like “Just Married,” your new last name or “Thank You” to be featured on your thank-you notes later on. If you’re getting married in the winter, think about a glamorous fur wrap or silk scarf to keep you warm and add some texture for snow-filled outdoor photos. Want one of those beautifully curated invitation suite photos? Remember to bring decorative accessories to style this look with your photographer, from coordinating ribbons to a fancy ring box and loose flower petals.

The furniture in your photos shouldn’t be an afterthought. While you can find something to sit on anywhere, you can get an elevated look in photos by bringing along or renting a vintage velvet chair or chaise lounge. A cute coordinating blanket is also a lifesaver, especially for engagement shoots. You and your partner can snuggle together wrapped up in it, or

you can put it on the ground so you won’t get dirty for any sitting poses. And don’t forget about a specialty hanger for those dress shots – there are a lot of cute options for personalized hangers that will match the style of your gown and really pump up your photos.

Your most personal “accessory” might be your fur baby! Don’t overlook your pets when it comes to your Big Day. Whether just in the engagement shoot or on the wedding day itself, be sure to include your furry friends in your photos and you’ll always look back with fondness on your family photo. The best way to elevate your wedding photos and engagement shoot is to put in a little advance thought and then let your true personality shine. Remember to relax and enjoy the day. You favorite photos will most likely be the ones capturing the candid moments between you and all your loved ones.

Practice Posing

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE STEPPING IN FRONT OF THE CAMERA

After your Big Day winds down, your photos will be some of the most precious keepsakes. But let’s face it, unless you’re a professional model, getting in front of the camera can be nerve-wracking. While it is perfectly natural to feel a bit awkward, the last thing you want is for that anxious energy to show in the photos. Luckily, there’s plenty you can do to ditch the nerves and achieve picture-perfect posing. Read on for some tips and tricks to help you make the camera lens your friend.

GET TO KNOW YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER.

When you book your photographer, try to learn as much about them as possible. Think about how their personality makes you

feel. Are they warm and welcoming? Do they have a sense of humor and charisma that instantly puts you at ease? This is the person who will be trusted with capturing the most intimate moments from your Big Day. So, it is important to make sure you feel comfortable being vulnerable in front of them.

The best photographers are pros at making you feel as if you have known them for years. Often, your photographer will do plenty to get to know you. But your relationship with them should be a two-way street. Just think about it, would you rather have your photos taken by a good friend or a complete stranger? Learn as much as you can about your photographer as early as possible. It will do wonders for calming you down once the camera starts flashing.

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MAKE YOUR VISION KNOWN.

Your photographer will doubtlessly have many poses in their arsenal to bring out the best in you. But that doesn’t mean you can’t bring your own ideas to the table! If you have a pose that you're absolutely dying to try, let your photographer know. Better yet, bring in some photos that can be used as a reference. Your photographer will be happy to help bring your vision to life.

Keep in mind that some poses, while they might look stunning in magazines, don't exactly translate well in the real world. Just be prepared for your photographer to make modifications or adjustments. Their entire job is to make you look and feel your absolute best, so try to keep an open mind to the suggestions they give you, and don’t take it personally if they tell you to pose differently.

BOOK AN ENGAGEMENT SESSION.

Engagement shoots are a trend that has been picking up steam in the last several years. We’re talking more than just the “prom pose” pictures in a studio. These creative engagement sessions are a beautiful way to kick-off your engagement, and the photos can be used in a multitude of ways. But engagement sessions do more than provide adorable material for your save-the-dates. They also give you and your fiancé a chance to be in front of the camera before the Big Day. Plus, it's yet another wonderful opportunity to connect with your photographer, with the added benefit of seeing them in action. In fact, many photographers include engagement sessions as part of their packages for precisely this reason. After all, this is also their chance to get to know you more as a couple.

This is when you will truly know whether the photographer is a good match and can deliver the kind of photos you’re looking for. Ultimately, you can think of your engagement shoot as “practice” for the main event.

WONDERING WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR HANDS?

One of the most common questions couples ask when being photographed is, “What should we be doing with our hands?!” This is a very valid question. Many times, the instant you step in front of the camera, your arms suddenly feel like paperweights dangling uselessly at your side. You need to give them some purpose. But you don’t have to make it too complicated. In fact, it could be as simple as both of you using your hands to help support the bouquet, throw your

ring hand out in front of you and show off your bling or even delicately resting your hands on each other’s shoulders or waists. Again, your photographer will guide and assist you, but the main takeaway is to always make sure your hands are engaged.

If all else fails, don’t be afraid to throw them in the air like you just don’t

care! It’s a great way to instantly lighten the mood and will no doubt make for some wonderful shots.

CHECK YOUR POSTURE.

When you feel nervous, it’s natural for your body to start caving inward. But poor posture, along with being bad for your spine, is extremely obvious in photos.

A good remedy is to start developing better body awareness.

In fact, you can start right now! Take stock of the position of your body. How are you sitting? Slumped forward with a curved spine and slouchy shoulders? That simply won’t do! Take a moment to draw your shoulders back, opening up your chest and lifting your chin. Draw your belly button to your spine to give yourself an instantly tighter stomach. Make a conscious effort to sit and stand up straighter. The sooner you make good posture a habit, the easier it will be to maintain when the wedding day jitters kick in.

But maintaining good posture doesn't mean you have to be tense. Occasionally, check in to make sure you aren’t holding any unnecessary tension. Remember to relax your shoulders and unclench your jaw.

FIND YOUR WAIST.

Often, when your photographer instructs you to “place your hands on your hips,” they’re technically referring to your waist. Your hips are usually the widest part of you, so placing your hands here might make you look bulkier than you really are. But if you rest your hands right above your hips on your waist, you instead draw attention to your smallest width—which can actually slim you down.

LEARN FROM THE PROS.

Start studying photos of your favorite celebrities and take notes on their posing styles. If you look at enough pictures, you will start to notice a few patterns. First, rarely do they stand facing the camera straight-on. Instead, they often position themselves slightly angled, with one knee bent or crossed over the other. Their arms float delicately away from their sides, to avoid making them look bigger. Sometimes, a hand is placed on a slightly cocked hip to create flattering curves.

Red carpet pictures of Kim Kardashian, Emily Blunt, Lupita Nyong'o and Lady Gaga are great reference points. They are masters of making the camera work for them. But you don’t need to be a superstar to take pictures like one. You can learn from their techniques and use them in your own photoshoot.

BUT…IT’S HARDER THAN IT LOOKS.

At the same time, posing is much easier said than done. It’s one thing to understand how your body should be posed. It’s another thing entirely to actually do it. Don’t be fooled by the way models seem to effortlessly slide into crazyphotogenic poses. Remember that these individuals are trained professionals who make their careers out of being photographed. They had to work hard to make it look so easy.

The truth about good posing is that it’s often uncomfortable. As many photographers will tell you: if you’re not sore, then you’re probably not doing it right. That idea might seem counterintuitive at first. But sometimes what feels awkward, actually looks way more natural than you might think. The best thing you can do is to try and relax into the pose if possible.

On the other hand, while some poses can be a bit uncomfortable, you should never be in pain! If your photographer poses you in such a way that is excruciating, don't suffer in silence. Let them know so they can adjust and accommodate you.

Also, if you are confused by what your photographer wants you to do, don't hesitate to ask for clarification. A good photographer should be able to give you directions that are easy to both understand and execute.

PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!

Although you might feel a bit silly doing it, practice your poses in front of a mirror until you feel confident about them. This is an especially good idea for poses that are a bit more complicated – like dancing shots. The famous “dip” is a romantic and timeless moment to capture,

but it can also be tricky to get right!

Typically, you or your partner will need to be in a lunge position, so that most the weight is supported by the thigh rather than just the arms. This will provide more stability for the one being dipped back. Meanwhile, practice keeping your spines and neck completely aligned to make you streamlined. Try

not to crane too much when going in for a kiss as this might create an awkward angle.

Whew! Tired yet? Don’t worry – the more you practice, the easier it will become. Just remember, the perfect dip won’t happen overnight.

SAVE YOUR MUST-HAVE POSES FOR THE END.

Of course, you want each and every picture to turn out spectacular. But if there are any shots or poses that you want to just knock out of the park, save them for the end of your session. Chances are, you’ll be stiffest at the beginning when you’re most nervous. But once the camera starts firing, you’ll get warmed up in no time. As your confidence grows and you build rapport with your photographer, you’ll fall into those dream shots much more easily.

The same applies to the day of your wedding. While your engagement shoot will give you some much-needed practice, you'll most likely still be a bundle of nerves when the Big Day finally arrives. So, it's usually best to do the more traditional portraits with your bridal party and family before moving on to the magazine-quality creative shots.

BREAK-IN YOUR SHOES.

Whether you’re wearing flats or heels, find time to break-in your footwear. Trust us, you do not want your wedding to be the first time you wear your shoes. The last thing you need is blisters that will leave you dreading being on your feet all day. And you definitely don’t want pictures of you hobbling down the aisle. After all, how terrible would it be to look back on your photos only to remember how much pain you were in?

If you’re worried about scuffing up your shoes before the wedding, try just wearing them around the house. A few

hours over the course of several days should do the trick.

IT’S ALL IN THE WAY YOU SMILE.

It’s common for people to not like the way their smiles look in photos. But there’s a reason for it! A strained, artificial smile is easy to detect – especially if it doesn’t quite reach your eyes. At the same time, over-smiling might cause you to squint in a way you otherwise wouldn’t. A beautiful, natural smile comes from true emotion – which will only happen if you let yourself relax.

Ironically, if you are feeling a bit tense, one of the best ways to get a genuine smile is by fake laughing. Letting out a forced “ha-ha” will feel strange, but that’s the whole point! It will feel so funny that you’ll actually end up laughing for real. And those shots will be priceless.

NEVER UNDERESTIMATE CANDIDS.

Keep in mind that not all the photos from your Big Day need to be posed. Your photographer will be there every step of the way, capturing hundreds of special moments between you and your new spouse. In fact, for many couples, their favorite photos end up being candid shots that truly capture the essence and joy of the day.

REMEMBER WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT.

While being photographed can be somewhat uncomfortable, don’t get too hampered down with the need for perfection. Remember, this is your wedding day! Try to keep the focus on what’s truly important: capturing the pure love shared between you and your new spouse. If you stay calm and relaxed, your delight and excitement will naturally come through in your photos – no matter what pose you strike!

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The Most Important Playlist of Your Life

The cake flavors and fillings have been selected, and you have made the painful decision between London and Paris for the honeymoon. You found the perfect horse-drawn carriage, and you somehow managed to find bridesmaids dresses that no one has made a single complaint about – openly.

Certain wedding planning aspects are higher on your priority list, or there are those that you just can’t wait to do because the process is actually going to be fun. Making important decisions regarding the music at your reception checks off both of those boxes.

You have probably heard it said that “music is the soundtrack of our lives,” and it can never be more true than at your reception. Think about it. We have all been to those receptions where the dance floor is almost always empty, or when the couple insists on playing an endless stream of songs that almost no one has ever heard before. It makes the reception awkward, and it definitely doesn’t create a lasting memory for your guests.

While your guests come to your ceremony to witness you exchange your vows, share your first kiss as a married couple and wipe at happy tears throughout it all, they come to the

WRITTEN BY Angela Ash | PHOTOGRAPHY BY Rachael Schirano Photography

reception to celebrate, and dance the night away. So, it is your job to ensure that they have a phenomenal time.

This can rely on the music, along with the interactive abilities of your DJ or band leader. So, when you are considering your vision for your ultimate playlist, there are a few things that you will want to keep in mind.

WORK WITH YOUR DJ.

Selecting your DJ is perhaps one of the most important decisions you can make when it comes to your reception. A professional DJ is an entertainer who will wear many hats during your celebration. See your DJ as your Master of Ceremonies, who will not only play appropriate music but will make announcements, interact with your guests and keep that dance floor full!

It’s true that you will want to work with a DJ who will assess your guests and instantly get a read on the type of music that will work best for your particular crowd. However, when you have a varied guest list, a little bit of this and some of that is often in order. Yet, you will need a professional with numerous weddings under their belt to be able to play the right song at the right time.

Once you have met with a few different DJs and have finally made a decision, opting for a true professional with abundant experience, you want to immediately begin discussing the type of music that you hope to play at your reception. If you thought you were off the hook, think again! Just because you are working with a professional doesn’t mean that your input won’t be required. Of course, you can provide minimal information and leave it in the hands of your DJ, but years later, you won’t want to watch your reception video and wish that you had taken more time in selecting particular music.

DECIDE IF YOU WILL HAVE A COCKTAIL HOUR.

Sooner rather than later, decide if you’re going to incorporate a cocktail hour. This is a time when photos are being taken at the ceremony site, or if everything will be held at the same venue, when the space is being rearranged to accommodate the reception, including dining tables and a dance floor. At this time, your guests can gather and even snack on hors d'oeuvres, also indulging in a cocktail or a glass of wine. Envision this as a laid-back time, where guests mingle and discuss how much they loved the ceremony.

For the cocktail hour, choose low-key music to give a chill vibe. A lot of DJs go with what is commonly known as “elevator music.” Another trend is to play the instrumental versions of popular Top 40s songs. It’s always fun to watch guests exclaim, “Oh wow, I didn’t know this was Lady Gaga!”

INVOLVE YOUR PARTNER IN THE DECISIONS.

Even if you are tempted to start scribbling down every song on your “Favorites” playlist, be sure that you make this a couple’s decision. Sit down when you have plenty of time to discuss the music for the reception. Consider your guests, as well as the particular genres of music that you prefer. Both of you should feel responsible for the decision that you eventually make, ensuring that you’re equally happy with the selections that will play.

Don’t be afraid to mix it up, either. It’s not a problem to go from smooth jazz to a little heavy metal – just pass out the earplugs at the door!

THINK ABOUT SONGS THAT HOLD A SPECIAL MEANING.

Every reception has special moments that require a song that is every bit as special. Of course, there’s the First

Dance, the Mother’s Dance and the Father’s Dance, just to name a few. However, you can also request specific songs for other dances with people who are important to you as well. If you have had a best friend for 10 years and you have “a song,” then set it up for a memorable moment during the reception. The same can even go for friends from school – play your school “fight song” and see who can still remember the words!

The most important thing to remember is that you can never honor too many people at your reception. If playing a certain song does the trick, then go for it!

BRING IN SOME CULTURE.

Culture is an important part of any wedding, but if you have chosen to really display your heritage through your attire, the food and other facets of your wedding, then it’s only natural to want to include a

few selections to your reception repertoire as well. A truly cultural wedding can involve many different aspects, and the more you include, the more authentic it will feel – to both you and your guests.

You may have seen a Jewish wedding where the Krenzl is performed, or maybe where an intricate African step dance takes center stage. If older family members are present, displaying your religion or nationality can be a great source of pride for them, and it also illustrates that even if you may be living in a modern world, you will never forget your background. This can often be a happy, emotional moment for the entire family, especially when they see your partner joining in as well.

If you happen to be a couple who come from completely different cultures, then it can be really interesting to add an interactive dance from both backgrounds.

Think of group dances that both cultures can try for the first time, which will engage all of your guests. You can also consider playing a few songs in different languages, which can be a very unique touch. If the majority of your guests are not of the same culture, you may want to retain such songs as an occasional feature or highlight. Not only will this

allow your guests to dance to songs with which they are more familiar, but it will make the cultural moments even more significant and memorable.

THINK ABOUT INCORPORATING YOUR THEME.

If your wedding reception has a particular theme, there’s no better way to incorporate it than by playing a few perfectly placed songs throughout your reception. If you want to remind your guests that they’re at a Hawaiian Luau, then throw on Israel Kamakawiwo ‘ ole’s version of “Over the Rainbow.” If you’re giving a nod to Broadway, then who can resist “Alexander Hamilton?” What’s your name, man?

The genre of the music can even reflect your theme. Your guests will love to hear a little Swing to complement your Roarin’ 20s theme, or even some Madonna to tie in the 80s era vibe.

INCLUDE SOME FAN FAVORITES.

Whether you love them or hate them, there are some “get out and dance” songs that have made their way around the wedding circuit for the last decade or two. You know the ones we’re talking about, from “The Cha Cha Slide, Part 2” by Mr. C to "Apache (Jump on It)" by The Sugarhill Gang. They probably aren’t something that you will throw on in the car on your way to work, but they are songs that will fill up the dance floor and get everyone moving.

MAKE A “DO NOT PLAY” AND A “PLEASE PLAY” LIST.

For every wedding, there are typically two important lists that you will want to hand over to your DJ eventually. After much care and thought, these lists will dictate two imperative things regarding the music at your reception: what to play and what not to play.

•The “Do-Not-Play” List – This list will include songs that, even if a guest should request, the DJ will not play. Maybe you have just never liked Bon Jovi, or perhaps you never want to hear “YMCA” again during your lifetime. These are things that your DJ needs

to know, so that you never have to send someone across the dance floor, demanding that the song be changed. You’re not hanging out with friends at a club where you have to endure tracks that you really don’t like, only hoping that the next selection will be better. This is your reception, which means you are ultimately in charge.

•The “Please Play” List – This list will include selections that you actually want the DJ to play during the reception. Very special songs for the First Dance, the Father’s Dance and the Mother’s Dance will be set ahead of time. The “Please Play” list will be comprised of regular songs that you would like to hear during the “open” portion of the reception, when you’re hoping to join your friends on the dance floor and sing every word. Maybe a particular song holds a special meaning to you and your girlfriends from college, or perhaps a song brings back memories of growing up with your brother. When you create a short list of this music, your DJ will typically fit them into the playlist whenever possible, or during certain requested moments.

ALWAYS LISTEN TO THE LYRICS.

At the end of the day, don’t forget to pay close attention to the lyrics of the notable songs that you have selected. The words are what give the songs meaning, which is more than likely why you have chosen them in the first place. Some couples even select a particular tune as their official wedding song. You can incorporate this in all sorts of fun ways. Have a line of the lyrics stamped on your napkins, or it can even be emblazoned across a banner that hangs above the cake table. Creativity is always key! Your wedding will be one of the most important days of both of your lives,

so don’t ever take a chance on playing whatever pops up on your random Pandora or Spotify playlist. Give your selection of songs a lot of thought, and let it change and grow in the months leading up to your wedding. Some couples start keeping a list in the Notes section on their smartphones months out, so they don’t forget the song that

played while they were driving to the lake or a particular set of lyrics that really tug at the heartstrings.

You will never create a more important playlist, so be sure to give this the time and consideration that it deserves. It’s your moment, your vision and your wedding. Let the music that you select embody it in every way imaginable.

Arrive In Style

Transportation is often lost among the extensive checklist that comes along with planning your wedding celebrations. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t equally as important as everything else! There are many details to consider while thinking of transportation for your Big Day. In this article you will find the ins and outs of everything you need to know and remember about wedding transportation, while still adhering to your allotted budget.

FIGURING OUT THE DETAILS

When thinking about transportation between wedding venues, start with a headcount of people who will be needing transportation. Include you, your future spouse, the bridal party and any other friends and family members that will need transportation. This information is necessary to know while talking with vendors because it will help you decide the size of vehicle you will need on your Big Day. Keep in mind, the number of passengers may also affect the price.

Before reaching out to vendors, ask yourself what kind of transportation you want to use for yourself and the bridal party.

Numbers will vary from vendor to vendor, but usually a party bus can carry anywhere from 12 to 55 passengers while a stretch limousine offers seating for 8 to 10 people. Maybe a classic car or trolley is more your style, make sure to review all of the available options. Another item to consider is riding in a separate vehicle from the bridal party after the ceremony for a few private moments with your new spouse.

It’s easy to forget that you will need to plan transportation before AND after the ceremony. An optimal time to start looking at transportation options is around four months before your wedding day. At this point, you should know where the wedding is going to be and the size of your bridal party. Also keep in mind the time of year your wedding will take place. If you are having a spring wedding, transportation services will be in high demand during the months of April and May due to high school proms. It is never too early to start looking at your transportation options. It’s also a good idea to get price quotes from a few different companies before signing a contract. This will give you an accurate comparison of services and costs.

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OUT-OF-TOWN GUESTS

For out-of-town guests, check with the hotel that you have booked your guests’ room block to see if they offer any type of shuttle service. Most of the time this is free or at a low cost to you. You are not responsible for a rental car service unless there are circumstances where you feel it is necessary. Provide a link to a local car rental company on your wedding website so guests can rent a car while planning their flights.

WEDDING GUESTS

If you are wanting to transport your guests from your wedding ceremony to the reception, consider renting some sort of party bus that will be able to accommodate everyone. Again, check to see if the company you’re using offers any packages for renting multiple vehicles. If you want to think more creatively, you could choose

a more unique form of transportation like a trolley or double-decker bus. You will leave your guests in awe and they will appreciate your thoughtfulness.

HONEYMOON TRANSPORTATION

On the day after your wedding, it is time to head to the airport from the honeymoon suite. Check to see if the hotel or resort you are staying at offers a shuttle service. This amenity is often a free and convenient way to get to the airport. Or, start your married life in style by choosing a limousine or private car service to get to and from the airport.

QUESTIONS TO ASK

It is critical that you ask the right questions, but where do you even begin? Below you will find a list of questions to get you started, to ensure you’re getting the

transportation service you need for your wedding day.

•What forms of transportation do you offer?

•What vehicle sizes and color options are available?

•What different amenities do your vehicles offer?

•Are alcohol or snacks provided in the vehicle?

•Tell me more about my chauffer and his/her background?

•Can I pick a playlist?

•When will you arrive to pick up the guests?

•Can I decorate the vehicle?

•What insurance is available to cover any sort of breakdowns or delays?

•What are the cancellation or refund policies?

•Can we meet in person to finalize?

Types of Honeymoons

FROM RELAXATION TO EXPLORATION –THERE’S A PERFECT DESTINATION FOR EVERY DIFFERENT TASTE.

Your honeymoon has the potential to be one of the most, if not the most, memorable trips of your life. Get inspired from the following adventures, and take the time to plan a getaway that appeals to both you and your spouse – a trip that will create special and unique experiences you will cherish forever.

The Laid-Back Loungers: Tropical, beachside honeymoons are always in style. It’s the ideal setting to unwind from the stress, soak up some sun and concentrate on one another. Mexico’s vast array of all-inclusive hotels offer great value. If ou prefer to stay domestic, you can relax by the ocean at one of the many beautiful beaches and lovely hotels Florida and California have to offer. If you are bored by the beach, consider activities like whale watching (great in Los Cabos, Mexico) or swimming with wild dolphins (Oahu, Hawaii).

The Domestic Roadtrippers: Hit the open road and feel the wind in your hair. Venture to any of our 61 national parks,

lace up your hiking boots and explore miles of scenic trails. Or, if you like wine and picturesque landscapes, the West Coast is where you should go: Northern California’s gorgeous Wine Country. Book a comfortable stay at a nearby bed and breakfast after indulging in the offerings of one – or several – of the region’s 400 wineries.

The Romantics: Get swept up in the history and old-world charm of Europe. You can’t go wrong with Paris, Rome, Venice or Prague, but there’s an abundance of hidden gems that also deserve some love. For the best of both worlds, try a river cruise that docks at large metropolis areas, while also letting you explore lesser known but equally beautiful cities and towns.

Keep in mind, you don’t need money to make memories. If finances are an issue, plan a trip close to home. Spend a few days at a quaint, little Inn, or enjoy one of the many resort spas nearby. You have the rest of your lives to travel – what matters now is fully enjoying one another’s company.

WRITTEN BY Bridget Clemens | PHOTOGRAPHY BY OkBritknee Photography

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Alexis Kay Designs Bridal & Formal Wear..............50

All About the Gown by Judy................................54

Bella Bianca Bridal Couture................................17

Belle Custom Atelier & Bridal Boutique.................54

Crystal Bride, The..............................................31

Dame Couture..................................................52

Diana’s Bridal Boutique......................................33

Eva’s Bridal International....................................53

Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio..............................59

Jenny Yoo Collection.........................................19

Kathryn’s Bridal................................................25

Luxe Bridal Rack..............................................21

State Street Jewelers........................................37

Veiled by ChaCha Bridal Boutique........................52

Volle’s Bridal & Boutique....................................51

Wedding Dresser, The........................................55

White Dress Bridal Boutique...............................35

FORMALWEAR

Formally Modern Tuxedo....................................63

Groomsman Suit, The........................................62

Jojayden.........................................................61

GOWN PRESERVATION

Austin Preservations........................................282

Ceremony & Reception Locations

Allegra Banquets.............................................104

Armour House Mansion & Gardens....................130

Arrowhead Golf Club.......................................126

Bolingbrook Golf Club......................................112

Brookfield Zoo...............................................209

Burr Ridge Hotels...........................................191

Café la Cave..................................................211

Cantigny Park & Golf.......................................177

Carleton of Oak Park, The................................136

Chicago Athletic Association..............................107

Chicago Gaelic Park........................................114

Chicago History Museum..................................110

Chicago Marriott Naperville...............................171

Chicago Marriott Southwest at Burr Ridge...........191

Chicago Park District.......................................132

Chicago Public Library – Harold Washington Library 182

Chicago’s First Lady Cruises.............................144

Chicago’s North Shore CVB..............................168

City Hall........................................................137

Clubhouse, The...............................................194

Concorde Banquets.........................................173

Congress Plaza Hotel, The................................157

Cotillion Banquets...........................................181

Crowne Plaza Chicago Southwest at Burr Ridge...191

Crystal Ballroom & Lounge, The........................163

Doubletree by Hilton Chicago Alsip.....................122

Drake Oak Brook, The.....................................207

Drury Lane....................................................124

Dupage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................205

Eagle Ridge Resort & Spa................................201

Eaglewood Resort & Spa.................................147

Elite Private Yachts..........................................106

Empress Banquets, The....................................175

Fulton Market Kitchen......................................167

Galleria Marchetti – La Pergola.........................8, 9

Galleria Marchetti – The Pavilion........................8, 9

Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse...............................6, 7

Grand Victoria Casino......................................185

Gwen Hotel, The.............................................143

Hawk’s View Golf Club.....................................192

Heritage Ballroom at the Centre of Elgin.............134

Heritage Prairie Farm.......................................202

Hilton Chicago/Oak Brook Hills Resort................108

Hilton Orrington/Evanston.................................159

Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North.........155

Holiday Inn Itasca............................................152

Hotel Arista....................................................187

InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile............101

Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo.............................135

Kimpton Hotel Allegro......................................109

Kimpton Hotel Palomar Chicago........................145

La Villa Banquets............................................186

Lake Lawn Resort...........................................154

Lehmann Mansion...........................................146

Lincolnshire Marriott Resort..............................195

Loews Chicago Hotel.......................................129

Loews Chicago O’Hare Hotel............................189

LondonHouse Chicago.....................................111

Makray Memorial Golf Club...............................206

Manzo’s Banquets...........................................120

Mayne Stage..................................................164

Metropolis Ballroom.....................................14, 15

Metropolitan, The............................................113

Mid-America Club, The....................................119

Midwest Conference Center..............................184

Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago.......................99

Mirage Four Points Sheraton.............................172

Murphy Chicago, The.......................................125

Mystic Blue Cruises.........................................106

Naper Settlement............................................203

Oaks, The – at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse..........165

Odyssey, The..................................................183

Odyssey Chicago River....................................106

Odyssey Lake Michigan...................................106

Palmer House, a Hilton Hotel............................115

Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom............................158

Park Hyatt Chicago..........................................127

Pazzo’s at 311...............................................149

Pinstripes......................................................153

Prairie Landing Golf Club..................................148

Ravinia Festival...............................................2, 3

Renaissance Center.........................................213

Ridge Hotel, The.............................................174

River Roast....................................................133

Rolling Green Country Club...............................190

Rookery Building, The......................................169

Salvatore’s Ristorante......................................105

Seven Bridges Golf Club..................................166

Silver Lake Country Club..................................193

Skydeck Chicago............................................121

Spirit of Chicago.............................................106

Stan Mansion.................................................131

Swissôtel Chicago.......................................10, 11

Taureaux.......................................................204

Thompson Chicago.....................................12, 13

Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago.......IFC, 1

Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante...........................4,5

Volo Restaurant Wine Bar.................................176

Wandering Tree Estate.....................................151

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago.........................123

Culinary Services

CAKES & SWEETS

Amy Beck Cake Design...................................302

Bakester Patisserie, The...................................302

Bittersweet.....................................................299

Quintessential Cake, The..................................303

Urban Icing....................................................303

Vanille Patisserie.....................................300, 301

CATERING

Bauer’s Catering.............................................146

BellaRu Catering.............................................293

Chicago Food Truck Hub..................................292

Jewell Events Catering.....................................291

EVENT STAFFING

Carol’s Event Staffing.......................................294

FOOD TRUCKS

Chicago Food Truck Hub..................................292

ICE SCULPTING

Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures.........................294

Entertainment

BANDS & ORCHESTRAS

Bluewater Kings Band......................................327

H.Y.P.E. Productions, Inc...................................325

JoeSounds Music...........................................326

Standing Room Only Orchestra..........................326

DJS

Chicago Wedding DJs.....................................327

H.Y.P.E. Productions, Inc...................................329

Midwest Event Solutions...................................328

RED Weddings........................................310, 311

Floral & Décor

Artistic Blooms...............................................285

Avant Gardenia...............................................280

Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures.........................294

Kensington Florals & Events..............................266

Northern Greenhouses Floral & Event Design.......281

Phillip’s Flowers..............................................284

Yanni Design Studio........................................279

DANCE FLOOR DESIGN

Yanni Design Studio........................................279

FLORAL PRESERVATION

Austin Preservations........................................282

Gift Registery

Bloomingdale’s, The Registry.............................IBC

Guest Accommodations

HOTEL ROOM BLOCKS

Carleton of Oak Park, The................................136

DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................205

Guesthouse Hotel, The.....................................210

Gwen Hotel, The.............................................143

Hilton Chicago Oak Brook Hills Resort................108

Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North.........155

Hotel Versey...................................................212

Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago.......IFC, 1

Honeymoon & Travel

Apple Vacations................................................96

Pompano Beach Club......................................333

Invitations & Stationery

Amore Creative...............................................269

Coqui

Jewelry

Photography Amanda Mae Visuals.......................................320 Ashley Galminas Photography...........................315

Bethany Kay Design Studio...............................319

Dan Voss Photography.....................................315

Duron Studio..................................................312

Elena Cuellar Photography................................318

Emma Mullins Photography...............................321

Erin Hoyt Photography.....................................314

Hadassah B. Photography.................................321

Jasko Omerovic Photography............................313

Kenzie Leigh Photography................................317

Kristin Bernice Photography..............................308

Mangata Studios.............................................312

Ocken Photography.........................................313

OkBritknee Photography...................................319

Rachael Schirano Photography..........................320 RED Weddings........................................310, 311

Rick Aguilar Studios........................................309

TWA Photographic Artists.................................308

UnPosed Photography.....................................314

Zazú Media......................................................81

PHOTO BOOTHS

AirBooth Social...............................................318

Instant Party Photo Booth.................................309

Midwest Event Solutions...................................328

RED Weddings........................................310, 311

Rehearsal Dinners, Brunches & Events

312 Chicago..................................................228

Arrowhead Golf Club.......................................240

Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano - Algonquin...............237

Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano - Deer Park...............237

Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano - Naperville...............240

Biggs Mansion...............................................228

Blue Door Farm Stand.....................................228

Blue Door Kitchen & Garden.............................228

Carleton of Oak Park, The................................240

Che Figata.....................................................240

Chicago Athletic Association..............................228

Chicago q......................................................228

Chicago’s First Lady Cruises.............................229

City Hall........................................................229

Clubhouse, The...............................................240

Cochan Volant Brasserie...................................229

Coco Pazzo...................................................229

Coco Pazzo Café............................................229

Congress Plaza Hotel, The................................229

Crystal Ballroom & Lounge, The........................239

Curragh Irish Pub, The.....................................229

D.O.C Wine Bar – Lombard..............................240

Drake Oak Brook, The.....................................241

DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................205

Eaglewood Resort & Spa.................................237

Erie Café.......................................................230

ETA Restaurant + Bar at Loews Chicago Hotel....230

Event Room at Fox Run Golf Course..................238

Farmhouse Chicago.........................................230

Fig & Olive – Chicago.....................................230

Forbidden Root...............................................230

Fulton Market Kitchen......................................230

Galleria Marchetti – La Pergola.........................231

Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse – Chicago................231

Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse – Rosemont.............238

Gibsons Italia..................................................231

Gino’s East – Barrington..................................238

Gino’s East – Chicago.....................................231

Gino’s East River North....................................231

Gino’s East – Rosemont...................................238

Gino’s East – Wheaton....................................241

Grand Victoria Casino......................................238

Guesthouse Hotel, The.....................................231

Gwen Hotel, The.............................................232

Hilton Orrington/Evanston.................................239

Hofbräuhaus Chicago......................................238

Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North.........232

Hugo’s Frog Bar & Fish House..........................232

Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo.............................232

Kimpton Hotel Palomar Chicago........................232

La Storia.......................................................232

La Villa Restaurant & Banquets..........................233

Lockwood Restaurant & Bar.............................233

Loews Chicago O’Hare Hotel............................239

LUXBAR........................................................233

Metropolitan, The............................................233

Mid-America Club, The....................................233

Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago.....................233

Murphy Chicago, The.......................................234

Naper Settlement............................................241

NoMI............................................................234

Oaks, The – at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse..........241

Odyssey Chicago River....................................234

Orso’s Restaurant............................................234

Pazzo’s at 311...............................................234

Pinstripes – Chicago.......................................234

Pinstripes – Northbrook...................................239

Pinstripes – Oak Brook....................................241

Quartino Ristorante & Wine Bar.........................235

Ravinia Festival...............................................239 River Roast....................................................235

Rock Bottom Restaurant & Brewery...................235

Salvatore’s Ristorante......................................235

Sepia............................................................235 STK Chicago..................................................235

Talbott,

Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante..........................241

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