KELLY MURRAY Publisher of Murray Media Group kelly@murray-media.com
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Hello, friends!
This month, I’m especially excited to share some of the stories and events that remind us just how special our community really is. We’re honored to highlight She Supply as our nonprofit of the month. Their work is making a meaningful impact for women in need, and I encourage you to read their feature and see how you can get involved.
I’m also thrilled to share the inspiring story of my dear friend, Debbie Sardone, with Buckets and Bows. Debbie’s dedication, energy, and heart for others shine through everything she does — and I think you’ll love getting to know her better in this issue.
Experience the 10 Must-See State Fair attractions and if you’re a fan of festivals, don’t miss the unique lineup of events taking place in and around Denton County. Like, head to Lewisville for the Western Days Festival. Or in Denton, immerse yourself in the Denton Arts & Jazz Festival and the vibrant Denton Day of the Dead festivities.
For a taste of Bavarian tradition, visit the Frisco Oktoberfest Last but not least, mark your calendars for the Fall into Flower Mound Festival in Flower Mound.
Whatever your preference, there’s something for everyone to enjoy this autumn. Let’s come together, have fun, enjoy the cooler weather and make a difference.
Let’s come together, have fun, enjoy the cooler weather and make a difference.
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2 STATE FAIR OF TEXAS Attractions Hot
by Craig Hewitt
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TEXAS AUTO SHOW
For car enthusiasts and casual viewers alike, the Texas Auto Show is an attraction you won’t want to miss. Showcasing everything from beautifully restored classic muscle cars to the latest sports cars, visitors can marvel at models from major manufacturers, interact with expert staff, and even participate in thrilling test drives. It’s the perfect blend of automotive innovation and Texan pride.
THE MIDWAY
Looking for thrills? In the beating heart of the Fair lies the midway, a family-friendly haven filled with adrenaline-pumping roller coasters, challenging games, and irresistible carnival entertainment. With over 70 rides, including the 212-foot-tall Texas Star Ferris Wheel, you can immerse yourself in the electric atmosphere of the fairgrounds.
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CREATIVE ARTS PAVILION
This area displays handmade crafts, photography, woodworking, and more — highlighting the incredible talent of Texas artisans. Be sure to browse and, if you see something you really like, take home the perfect souvenir.
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ALL-STAR STUNT DOG SHOW
Bring the whole family to the fair’s thrilling Dog Show. Watch as talented canines show off their skills and training as they perform impressive feats of agility and grace. A delightful experience filled with laughter and joy, these adorable pups steal the show and possibly your hearts.
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CHILDREN’S AREA
With fun activities tailored specifically for kids, the Children’s Area is a magical kingdom of exploration. From interactive games to a variety of rides designed just for little ones, parents can relax knowing there is a plethora of choices to keep the children entertained.
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BIG TEX
No visit to the State Fair is complete without stopping by the iconic Big Tex! Standing proudly at 55 feet tall, this towering cowboy has welcomed visitors since 1952. Don’t miss his signature, “Howdy, folks!” as he greets fairgoers, and be sure to catch the beloved tradition of Big Tex’s daily speeches that echo through the fairgrounds.
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LIVE MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT
State Fair of Texas
Fair Park in Dallas (925 S. Haskell) Sept. 26 - Oct. 19, 2025
For details, visit BigTex.com.
LIVESTOCK EXHIBITS
Get a genuine feel for Texan culture at the livestock exhibits, where you’ll find everything from championship cattle to adorable goats. This attraction highlights the state’s agricultural roots and allows visitors to engage directly with these remarkable animals, providing educational and heartwarming fun for the whole family.
Pump up the volume by attending one of the many live music acts staged at the fair. From Texas country stars to lively mariachi performances, the fair is a vibrant venue, brimming with the state’s rich and diverse musical heritage. Check the schedule online and grab your concert tickets for unforgettable performances throughout your visit.
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THE GIANT SLIDE
Wrap up your fair experience with a ride down the Giant Slide. Its steep decline and exhilarating speed thrills visitors of all ages with plenty of laughter and excitement. Climb to the top, take in the fairgrounds from above, and finish it off with an exhilarating descent that caps off your day.
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FOOD, GLORIOUS FOOD
Move over corn dogs and cotton candy! If you want to indulge in world-renowned fair food, visit the annual Big Tex Choice Awards exhibit, where you can sample the best of the best. From savory options like deep fried deli tacos and wagyu bacon cheeseburger deviled egg sliders to sweet treats like Dubai chocolate cheesecake or Tex’s toast a la mode, your taste buds will take a rollercoaster ride of their own.
TEXAS NOTHING CAN STOP THE U
ntil this year, Erik Kroh coached either boys or girls water polo teams in California while based in Flower Mound since moving here in 2019. Then fate, along with a talent pool of both genders, changed that.
A squad made up of his daughter Emma and six other girls plus three boys succeeded like no previous group of Texas Thunder club players in July when they captured the U12 Platinum mixed division in the USA Water Polo National Junior Olympics. The team consisted of kids from Flower Mound, Keller, and Southlake who achieved their once-in-a-lifetime dream in Irvine, California.
“I didn’t know what to expect,” Erik said when he first realized this team would be co-ed. “We went undefeated (in the tournament). We had a couple of closer games because we were sleeping for a couple of quarters. I think we physically outmatched them. There were some teams that had good experience and good players, but we were able to outnumber them.”
Among the seven teams the Thunder beat was the Titans from Whittier, California, 8-4, in the championship match. They previously knocked off the defending champions and runners-up.
“Win or lose, I’m already proud of what they’ve accomplished,” said Erik, “Going undefeated in this tournament with all the hard work and dedication — it really makes it worth it.
“One of our strengths is everyone on our team is a producer, whether making a great play on defense or going down getting involved with the assist or the score. That’s what made us difficult to stop because we didn’t have that weak link or the superstar that you can stop. Everyone contributed to each match all the way up to the championship.”
Flower Mound contributors besides Emma Kroh were Luella Martin, Harper Thompson, and Alan Waterman. Other team members were Jaskirat Singh, Travis Ronayne, and Amelia Pappalardo from Keller plus goalie Eva Demas and Madison Fry and Clover Martell from Southlake. Erik was occasionally assisted by Justin Pudwill, the 2024-25 Texas Girls Coaches Association 5A/6A Water Polo Coach of the Year at Southlake Carroll High School.
“I liked this whole group,” Erik said. “When you have a great group, it’s easy to be their coach. They’re hard workers. They
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THUNDER
ask for extra sets. They are that kind of kids. That makes my job super easy.
“There’s no attitudes. They were having fun. Everyone likes winning. Throughout the season we played a lot of 14U. We’re going there with the intention of hopefully getting our butts kicked and learning lessons. We had some bad days and still had a good time. It’s not ‘We got whupped today.’ It’s ‘What lessons can you learn from this?’”
While water polo has long been huge in Southern California, it’s more recently begun to flourish here in Texas. Erik, who played the sport both in high school and junior college in his native Fullerton, California, initially coached his son Owen, who later competed at Marcus High School. For the last four years, he’s done the same with Emma.
Coaching his children and their teammates has been educational for Erik. “As a coach, I just try to stay out of the way. I give them the skills and options as far as plays and how to adapt to the defense and the offense.”
He came to the area at the urging of college teammate Brandon Dion, a Highland Village resident who helped launch the Thunder in 2009. Texas Thunder’s 300 members practice at aquatic centers in Lewisville, Southlake, and Justin.
Erik said the only sad part of winning the championship is team members will separate into their respective gender/age groups for next year.
“Pretty much the whole group is graduating this year. We move up a level not to play together again,” he said.
| photos courtesy Texas Thunder
As the summer heat begins to subside, Denton County bursts into life with a plethora of fall festivals that capture the spirit of the fall – the season to eat, drink, and be merry.
WESTERN DAYS FESTIVAL
Friday & Saturday, September 26-27
150 W. Church St., Lewisville, TX 75057 OldTownLewisville.com
Step into the Wild West at the Western Days Festival, a fun-filled, two-day event that celebrates the cowboy culture of Texas. Families can enjoy a variety of activities, including live country music performances on six different stages. Children will love the petting zoo and the Kid Kountry Playground with carnival rides, bounce houses, and an inflatable obstacle course, ensuring there’s something for all ages.
DENTON
ARTS & JAZZ FESTIVAL
Friday - Sunday, October 3-5
Quakertown Park, 321 E. McKinney, Denton, TX 76201 | DentonJazzFest.com
Things to Do FALL FESTIVALS 5
by Craig Hewitt
5 Things
The Denton Arts & Jazz Festival offers a fusion of rich culture and creativity. This free weekend event features a stellar lineup of jazz musicians, local artists displaying their creative wares, and scrumptious food vendors. The family-friendly atmosphere offers folks of all ages a chance to enjoy art workshops, art exhibits, and engaging performances.
FRISCO OKTOBERFEST
Saturday, October 4
Tostitos Championship Plaza, 9 Cowboy Way, Frisco, TX 75034
Join the festive atmosphere at Frisco Oktoberfest, where you can taste the flavors of Germany right in the heart of Texas! This family-friendly extravaganza boasts lively entertainment, including local bands that bring traditional German folk music to life. Young visitors can enjoy an array of activities, such as face painting and games, while parents savor delicious bratwursts and freshly brewed beers. Stroll through the vibrant marketplace filled with unique handmade crafts and gifts.
FALL INTO FLOWER MOUND FESTIVAL
Friday & Saturday, October 10-11 4000 River Walk Dr., Flower Mound, TX flowermound.gov
Venture out for the inaugural Fall Into Flower Mound Festival located at the
Flower Mound River Walk. This event embodies the essence of community, featuring local artists and musicians who bring creativity to life. Kids will be enchanted by the imaginative play zones filled with bounce houses and interactive crafts. Savor delectable local food options while enjoying live performances that fill the air with excitement.
DENTON DAY OF THE DEAD FESTIVAL
Friday - Sunday, October 24-26
126 E. Oak St., Denton, TX 76201 DentonDayoftheDeadFestival.com
Denton’s Day of the Dead Festival combines traditions of Día de los Muertos, Halloween, and Harvest celebrations to create an inclusive, family-focused festival that celebrates culture and community.. Delight in authentic Mexican culture and cuisine while enjoying the coffin races and lively performances at the Cirque du Horror. Kids can enjoy the pumpkin patch, compete in the pine box derby, or even witness the Twilight Lantern Parade.
| photos courtesy of events' social media
Empowering women in Need with Hygiene Dignity Delivered
In every community, there are pressing needs that often go unnoticed. That is, until caring people come along, shed light on the issue, and then do something about it.
Riding on a bus to Birmingham for a Youth Choir Mission Trip, Shari Mayes leaned over and showed Kathy Meyer a video she was watching on her phone about period poverty, a problem women and girls face when they can't afford period products. When they returned, they did some research and discovered period poverty affects a great number of women and girls in North Texas — 25% of women struggled to purchase period supplies last year due to lack of income.
"I may not have an Ivy League education or a C-level title," Kathy said, "but I can identify a need, and my friends and I can get together to work on it."
And that's what they did. Kathy and Shari gathered some friends and decided to do something about it — founding She
by Murray Media | photos courtesy of She Supply
Supply "to provide a sense of dignity and cleanliness to women in less fortunate situations." Kathy's oldest daughter Maranda was the nonprofit's first board member, and Maria Hernandez stepped up as their first treasurer, securing the 501(c) 3 status for the group.
“We need to educate people that period poverty is real," said Dr. Lisa Pierce, She Supply's current vice president and a frequent speaker on behalf of the organization. "It’s not just a fad or niche thing. It’s not something that’s talked about because it’s embarrassing, and it’s keeping people from getting an education. It’s keeping women from going to work, so they can move on in the world.”
Since feminine hygiene products are considered a “luxury item,” women below the poverty line cannot use government
assistance to purchase these essential products. Many women and girls are often forced to choose between these essential items and other basic needs, such as food and shelter, and this dilemma can lead to missed school or work, stigma, and compromised health.
The impact of She Supply has been profound. By partnering with various schools, food banks, and homeless shelters, the organization has provided nearly two million feminine hygiene products since its inception. For many girls, being able to attend school and focus on their education without the fear of shame or embarrassment about their natural bodily functions can be a godsend. In the United States alone, it is estimated that 1 in 5 girls may miss school due to a lack of menstrual supplies.
When paired with the challenges posed
Kathy Meyer & Shari Mayes, Co-Founders
by low-income households — 151,000 female households in North Texas live in poverty, and another 2,400 do not have a home — the urgency for initiatives like She Supply become readily apparent.
The success of She Supply relies heavily on community involvement. Grassroots support fuels the organization’s mission, allowing it to expand its reach and impact. Their reach, which started in Lewisville ISD, has since spread throughout Denton, Tarrant, Collin, and Dallas counties.
Local businesses and residents have also risen to the occasion, organizing independent donation drives and fundraisers that not only bring in much-needed supplies, but also raise awareness about period poverty that lead to broader community efforts to tackle this pressing problem. For example, Texas finally ended the "tampon tax" — sales tax on period products — in 2023. As of May, 19 states still levy that tax. Their mission transcends mere product distribution — it aims to bring the conversation around menstrual health into the light and break down the stigmas that often accompany it.
“We want to empower young women so they don’t have to worry about this simple thing that happens to them once a month,” Lisa said. Workshops and awareness campaigns designed to teach young women about their bodies, self-care, and the importance of advocating for their health have become an integral part of the organization’s program — they foster an environment of support and understanding, a crucial step in ensuring menstrual health is treated as standard healthcare.
For many young women, She Supply serves as a pleasant reminder that they are not alone in their struggles, and that help, even with something so personal, is available. As we continue to support and uplift one another, organizations like She Supply shine a light on issues that require our attention and action.
She Supply relies on us to continue their work. Kathy, who remains on the board as
chairwoman emeritus and helps however she's needed, said their hardest challenge is finding volunteers — adults who have some time and are interested in helping.
Financial gifts and supply donations are always needed. Go to SheSupply.org to donate or to get something from their wish list. For more information, contact the current chairwoman Janel Cassoria at Chair@SheSupply.org
Kathy Meyer, center, and the She Supply board celebrate giving away 1 million products (2023).
Fall Fashion Trends to Watch
by Murray Media
Fall 2025 is shaping up to be a season of bold contrasts, cozy textures, and playful reinventions of the classics. Designers are embracing a balance of nostalgia and futurism, delivering pieces that feel both timeless and forward-looking.
COLOR PALETTE: Earthy tones — rust, olive, deep cocoa — anchor the season, but they’re punctuated by jolts of cobalt, marigold, and metallic silver. The idea is mixing grounded neutrals with surprising, joyful bursts of color.
TEXTURES & FABRICS: Luxe comfort reigns supreme. Oversized knits meet sleek leather skirts, quilted jackets drape over silky slip dresses, and faux fur adds instant drama. Sustainability continues to steer choices, with recycled wool and plantbased leather dominating the runways.
SILHOUETTES: The power suit has returned, but with
a softened edge. Boxy blazers pair with wide-leg trousers or mini skirts, while asymmetrical midi skirts, chunky boots, and dramatic overcoats define street style.
MAXIMALISM FOR MINIMALISTS: One of the most intriguing trends this fall is “maximalism for minimalists.” Instead of all-over prints or head-to-toe sequins, designers are offering clean, structured looks — think a monochrome palette or tailored separates — elevated with bold textures, sculptural jewelry, or a single pop of neon. It’s statement-making without sacrificing simplicity.
Maximalism FOR MINIMALISTS
ACCESSORIES: Oversized scarves, slouchy handbags, and square-toe ballet flats with fresh embellishments round out the look.
This fall, fashion is about layering, mixing textures, and embracing pieces that feel personal yet unapologetically bold.
Cozy meets chic — and everyone’s invited to play.
2025 FALL FASHION GUIDE
MAINSTREAM BOUTIQUE
469.702.1345
MainstreamBoutiqueFlowerMound.com
5801 Long Prairie Rd., Ste. 810 Flower Mound, TX 75028
Cozy Meets Confident
This fall, it’s all about warm tones, textured knits, and effortless layers that make you feel as good as you look. Our racks are filled with handpicked pieces you won’t find anywhere else — styles chosen to inspire confidence, spark joy, and carry you through the chilly season in comfort and style.
At Mainstream Boutique, we’re more than a boutique — we’re a community where women lift each other up and leave feeling like family. Whether you’re here for that perfect fall sweater, a bold new accessory, or simply a friendly face, you’ll always be welcomed into our circle.
CLOUD AND FEATHER BOUTIQUE
714.240.2897
CloudAndFeather.com 2660 Justin Rd., Ste. 100 Bartonville, TX 76226
(Located inside Cloud 9 Salon and Spa)
Fall is calling, and we’ve got the perfect answer at Cloud and Feather Boutique! This cozy cable-knit sweater in rich plum — one of the hottest colors of the season — wraps you in warmth while keeping your style on point.
With its relaxed fit and textured design, it’s the ultimate mix of comfort and chic. Pair it with your favorite denim or leggings for a look that’s effortlessly autumn-ready. Whether you’re sipping cider, strolling through the pumpkin patch, or cozying up fireside, this sweater is your must-have fall staple.
Get lost in our fall styles, accessories & giftware that give all the autumn feels!
photos courtesy of each respective
CHARMING & MAIN
charmingandmain.com
hello@charmingandmain.com
Local pickup at 308 FM1830, Ste. 18A Argyle, TX 76226
Charming & Main is an Argyle-based online boutique offering complete, readyto-wear looks for the woman who wants style made simple. This fall, we’re bringing you a collection full of effortless denim, cozy sweaters, layering must-haves, standout accessories, and versatile shoes — blending trending prints with timeless neutrals you’ll reach for again and again.
We're online only, but always openand offer convenient local pickup at our warehouse on FM1830. Every item includes detailed sizing info and real-life fit guidance, and our friendly customer service team is always here to help.
Shop anytime at charmingandmain.com — we make getting dressed the easiest part of your day.
AUTUMN
ESSENTIALS
by
Madison Reed
Fall in Texas doesn’t always mean crisp, cool days and colorful leaves. Some years, it can still feel like summer well into November. But even if sweater weather comes late, autumn is the perfect time to prep your home for the months ahead. From unpredictable cold snaps to holiday hosting, a little fall maintenance can save you stress (and money) later. Here are a few things every Texan should do to get their house ready.
DEEP CLEAN THE HOUSE
We all know about Spring cleaning, but Fall is also an ideal time to deep clean your home! Wipe down baseboards that have accumulated dirt from summer activities, and dust commonly forgotten things like lampshades, fans, and shelves. Give the outside of your home a little love too, with a thorough rinse.
SERVICE YOUR HVAC SYSTEM
Texas weather keeps your air conditioner working overtime most of the year. Before you switch to heat, schedule a tune-up. Replacing filters, cleaning ducts, and checking for leaks helps your system run efficiently and keeps surprise breakdowns at bay when the first chilly front blows through.
PROTECT AGAINST PESTS
As the temperatures dip, critters go looking for warm places to hide. Seal gaps around doors, windows, and your foundation. Trim back trees and shrubs that touch your roofline, and consider a fall pest control treatment to keep rodents and bugs out of your living spaces.
CLEAN GUTTERS AND DOWNSPOUTS
Even if you don’t have a yard full of oaks, Texas trees shed plenty in the fall. Leaves and twigs that collect in your gutters will cause water to flow incorrectly, leading to roof damage or even foundation issues during heavy rains. Clear out leaves and debris, and make sure downspouts direct water away from your house. Other preventative measures include installing a piece of hardboard at the bottom of the downpipe to avoid gutter clogs and costly maintenance of debris buildup.
PREP YOUR YARD AND GARDEN
Fall is the ideal time to fertilize your lawn in Texas, giving grass roots the nutrients they need to stay strong through winter. Rake up leaves so they don’t smother your turf, and mulch garden beds to insulate plants. It’s also smart to drain and store hoses before the first freeze.
CLEAN THE FIREPLACE
If you plan on lighting some cozy fires this fall and winter, definitely make sure to clean the fireplace. Soot buildup causes dangerous problems such as chimney fires, flue deterioration, and chimney blockages that prevent toxic fumes from exiting the chimney, and, in turn, back into your home. To DIY, lay down newspaper to protect the area, remove loose ashes and dust, use a wire brush to clean soot from the brick, and finish by wiping away the remaining soot with a mixture of warm water and baking soda. Or call in the professional chimney sweeps.
CHECK SAFETY ESSENTIALS
With more time spent indoors, now’s the season to test smoke detectors and carbon monoxide alarms. You should replace the batteries once a year — when you Fall Forward in Daylight Savings Time is a good time to remember – even for hardwired systems because they use a battery for backup. If you have a 10-year sealed battery system, check the manufacturing date and replace the entire alarm after 10 years.
SET THE ATMOSPHERE
There’s nothing more comforting than a candle glimmering next to you while spending a night in. Enhance the ambiance of your home with autumn-scented candles. Scents like cedarwood, cinnamon, and pumpkin pie are perfect choices to infuse your space with a warm and inviting fall vibe.
A LITTLE PREP GOES A LONG WAY
Texas homeowners know the weather can change on a dime. Taking care of these fall to-dos ensures your home is comfortable, safe, and ready for anything — whether it’s a warm Thanksgiving, an early freeze, or a house full of holiday guests.
Answering the great debate
...diet vs.
exercise
by Jesse J. Leyva, Owner of Outlaw Fitcamp
Whether you want to trim off extra pounds so you'll feel better, look better, or be better prepared to tackle whatever demands come your way, you probably want to find the most efficient way to do it. I present the contenders for your weightloss attention.
in the left corner: diet
While fad diets have done a lot to malign the fine name of dieting, a proper diet is a vital way to lose weight. In fact, research has shown that if you're only going to do one thing in your journey to weight loss, it should be dieting.
But what does dieting mean exactly? It means taking very careful note of every bite you put in your mouth. But you can't stop there. Paying attention to what you eat isn't going to make you lose an ounce. You must also reduce the number of calories you consume. If you want to lose even more faster, you'll want to make sure your calories are good calories. In other words, you can't eat just Twinkies and Big
Macs every day. You'll need fresh fruits and vegetables, lean protein sources, and ‘lots and ‘lots of water.
in the right corner: exercise
Like diet, there have been all sorts of fad exercise programs that have spanned from dangerous to ridiculously funny.
But exercise hasn't lost its place in the race. You've got to hit the gym if you're going to maximize weight loss. The best technique for weight loss is to burn more calories than you take in, and exercise is your golden ticket for shredding calories and building muscle.
There are other reasons exercise rocks in the world of weight loss. It is the best way to ensure that the weight you drop is fat and not muscle. Also, when you exercise, your muscles tone up and grow stronger.
With more muscle, your body's ability to shave off calories increases, making it easier to burn calories even when you're doing nothing at all. Diet can't do that! so...who
wins?
More than likely, you read this hoping that exercise alone would help you lose weight because you hate the idea of watching what you eat. Or maybe you're just the opposite, and you prefer to watch your diet but absolutely loathe exercise.
Well, there's bad news for you either way. This battle that has been waging on for decades (okay, make that centuries) is ultimately a draw.
Try as you might, one of these methods alone is not enough to help you lose weight, keep it off, and have an overall healthy lifestyle. In fact, you will find that once you become serious about losing weight, you’ll be careful about what you eat because you don't want to put all that exercise to waste. You'll also push harder in the gym to burn even more calories and get closer to your weight goal.
So stop pitting diet against exercise and do both. Your good health and leaner self await!
We would love to be your solution for a challenging, effective exercise program.
by
Cleaning House
W Love Leading with
hen most of us reach age 50, we tend to see ourselves in the twilight of our careers, but for local entrepreneur and public speaker, Debbie Sardone, this was the time in her life when she decided she was just getting started.
Debbie recently made waves when she was recognized on Forbes' “50 Over 50” list, which honors women over 50 who are making significant professional and societal contributions.
While growing her house cleaning business, Buckets & Bows Maid Service, into one of the largest privately owned cleaning services in the nation, Debbie founded Cleaning for a Reason, a nonprofit dedicated to providing free house cleaning services to cancer patients in need. Her illustrious career serves as a testament to the power of compassion, purpose, and the profound impact one person can have on their community.
Debbie’s journey into philanthropy began with an unexpected phone call from a client who had been diagnosed with cancer and lamented her inability to afford cleaning services during a time when she needed it most.
Reflecting on that pivotal moment, Debbie shared, “The call changed my life. Realizing that I missed an opportunity to help someone in my community was my wake up call. [It] stirred within me a burning desire to never make that mistake again.”
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You can’t help everyone, but you can make a world of difference for the people you can help.
That moment provided the catalyst that led to Cleaning for a Reason, a charitable program aimed at offering support to those facing one of life’s most physically and mentally grueling battles. Since its inception in 2006, the organization has provided free cleaning services to over 60,000 cancer patients, partnered with
more than 1,400 cleaning companies, and donated upwards of $20 million in services.
Even for some of the most successful among us, launching a nonprofit is rarely without its challenges. "In the beginning, enthusiasm was high — people loved the vision — but funding was scarce,” Debbie recalls. Serving as both the funder and fundraiser, she honed her storytelling ability to garner support.
As the word eventually spread and national headlines began to follow, Cleaning for a Reason gained traction, attracting donors and cleaning companies eager to contribute to the cause. What started as a small initiative with a handful of volunteers blossomed into a self-sustaining movement, embodying the communicable nature of compassion and generosity.
Through her experiences, Debbie has been humbled by the invaluable lessons about leadership and service.
“You can’t help everyone, but you can make a world of difference for the people you can help,” Debbie said. This sense of accountability guides her instincts as a leader. “As an entrepreneur, I was used to being the final word. In the nonprofit
Craig Hewitt
photos courtesy of Cleaning for a Reason
world, I’ve had to ask more questions, listen more deeply, and talk less. Those lessons have made me a better leader in every area of my life.”
In addition to her recent accolade of being named in Forbes’ 50 Over 50, Debbie has received many local recognitions and was named one of Reader’s Digest’s “Best Things in America.”
In spite of all of her successes, however, Debbie relishes seeing other cleaning companies gain recognition for their support of Cleaning for a Reason in their communities. “Seeing owners celebrated for their generosity fills me with pride. It proves that when we give back, we don’t just lift individuals — we elevate the entire industry,” she said.
Now a seasoned business coach and consultant, Debbie intuitively integrates her philanthropic efforts with her business pursuits. “There is no divide,” she said. “Cleaning for a Reason gives me deeper purpose, and that heart for service is what I bring into my coaching practice.”
Her sessions underscore a poignant philosophy — Generosity is not a hindrance to growth. It is a catalyst for it.
Every day she encourages business owners to weave giving into their company’s fabric, creating brands that resonate with clients and foster a positive culture. “At the end of the day, people remember how you made them feel, and that’s the true measure of success in any service business,” she points out.
Debbie Sardone’s story is best described by what she believes are the ingredients for success — resilience, vision, and heart. Through Cleaning for a Reason, she has proven that one person can ignite a movement, change lives, and inspire countless others to serve with compassion.
In a world that often demands profits over purpose, her journey serves as a refreshing reminder that true success is not quantified by how much money you make but by how many lives you touch.
Healthy
School Lunches
by Dr. Rebecca Butler Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics
It is important to remind parents that the best lunch is one that your child will eat. Encourage your child to choose items that will power them through the second half of the day, rather than slow them down.
Include the major food groups. The foundation for any healthy meal is the five major food groups: fruits, vegetables, protein, dairy, and grains. Protein enhances satisfaction from a meal and wards off cravings later in the day.
A serving of grains provides the energy the brain needs to stay focused. Fruits and vegetables are important sources vitamins and fiber. Dairy sources provide satisfaction with a bonus of calcium. Minimize milk intake to 8-10 ounces and encourage other sources of calcium.
Opt for nutrient-rich foods. Most Americans don’t consume enough of these three essential nutrients. Each has health benefits for growing children, so add these in the lunch box when you can.
• Calcium: Great sources include dairy products (milk, cheese, yogurt) and non-dairy foods such as canned fish, dark greens, almonds, apricots, and tofu.
• Fiber: Great sources include beans, lentils, pears, berries, whole grains, beets and broccoli.
• Potassium: Great sources include bananas, baked potatoes, white beans and avocado.
Spice up your sandwich. Sandwiches are
a favorite lunch item, but they do not have to be boring and bland. Use whole-grain bread, tortilla wraps, and pitas to add variety. Next, pick your protein: lean deli meats are a go-to option but don’t forget last night’s dinner; sliced grilled chicken, steak, or even an extra burger patty can all be today’s sandwich filler. Don’t forget softer proteins: canned tuna, chopped boiled eggs, and hummus.
Make it bright and appealing. Children often are attracted to bright colors and interesting shapes. Those cookie cutters aren’t just for holiday cookies; repurpose them to create interesting shapes of sandwiches, fruits, and even vegetables. Children often like small items; try baby carrots and grape tomatoes instead of full size.
Always make sure your child drinks plenty of water throughout the day.
Hummus/avocado or nut butter spreads on bread or as a dip for fruits/vegetables.
Cream cheese around a pickle spear and wrapped with thin deli meat is a convenient and delicious option.
Drinkable, low sugar yogurt or kefir as a beverage for bone-building calcium, probiotics, and energy.
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RevivingLovebirds the in an Empty Nest
Keeping the Love Alive After the Kids Leave for College
by Madison Reed
So, the kids are officially off to college, and the house feels, well… a little quieter. The refrigerator no longer has a steady stream of snack requests, and the living room is no longer a battleground of who gets control of the remote.
But there’s one thing that hasn’t changed — you and your partner still have each other. Now that the house is emptier, it’s time to rekindle the romance and keep the love alive. After all, the kids may be gone, but the adventure is far from over.
Rediscover Your “Dating” Habits Without the Awkward Teenagers
Remember those days when a date night was something to look forward to? Now that your kids have their own social lives (or at least pretend to), you have the freedom to rediscover each other in ways that don’t involve silent dinners and eye rolls from the teenagers across the table.
Start small — like a cozy dinner for two at home. No need to worry about a child’s food allergy or whether they’ll eat the vegetables. Just cook what you like! Then, perhaps, follow it up with a nostalgic movie marathon, with no judgment from the backseat drivers. Bonus points if you choose films your kids would have hated. This is your time, after all.
Take Up a New Hobby Together (and Maybe Not Dance Classes)
Before your kids came along, you and your partner probably had hobbies. But somewhere between soccer games, science fairs, and PTA meetings, those hobbies got shoved to the back of the closet — right next to the 1990s CD collection.
It’s time to dust off that old bike, unpack the art supplies, or learn how to salsa dance. Picking up a new hobby together is a great way to bond while building something fun to talk about other than “Hey, how was your day?”
Hint: don’t choose a hobby that involves any form of competitiveness, unless you’re okay with bickering over who’s better at paint-by-numbers.
Rediscover
Your Sense of Humor
Without the chaotic energy of kids running around, you might actually have the time to have those long, uninterrupted conversations. Use that time to laugh!
Sure, you might now have more “inside jokes” about how much you miss the sound of a vacuum cleaner over the constant hum of teenage complaints, but why not embrace the humor in the situation?
It’s a bonding experience and, let’s face it, laughing together is one of the most romantic things you can do.
Turn the Bedroom Into a Sanctuary (No, Seriously, Get Rid of the Laundry)
Remember when the bedroom was just for sleeping? Well, it’s time to reclaim your private space from the ever-growing laundry pile and stray Legos (even though your kids technically don’t live here anymore, they still manage to leave stuff behind).
Transform your bedroom into a sanctuary of comfort and relaxation, and no, we’re not talking about a pile of throw pillows. Create a cozy environment that sparks intimacy — whether it’s fresh sheets, a nightly ritual of tea before bed, or spontaneous pillow fights (because hey, who says the fun stops with the kids?).
Embrace the Freedom (& Each Other)
Finally, enjoy the freedom! You’ve spent years worrying about school schedules, extracurriculars, and making sure everyone’s fed. Now it’s time to reframe your relationship, free from the external pressures. Go on weekend getaways, have impromptu adventures, or just spend an evening talking about what’s next for you both — without worrying about curfew.
Remember, the kids may have flown the nest, but it’s your turn to fly. With a little creativity and a lot of humor, you might find that this new chapter of life is just as exciting as when you first met.
by Dr. Matt Artho, Owner of Country Lakes Family Dental
QUALITY OF LIFE Your Dental Care &
There are some lessons in life that are learned quickly and early. For instance, don’t let your mom brush your hair when she is mad or don’t trust your dog to guard your food. Other lessons are learned over time and sometimes too late. One of the most important concepts that is beneficial to acquire early is the value of health, including dental health.
Research completed over the last decade shows a strong correlation between tooth loss and a decrease in the quality of life. Tooth loss is defined from loss of functional dentition (20 or less teeth) to severe tooth loss (8 or fewer teeth) or complete tooth loss.
As you would expect, individuals in these situations lead to poor diet conditions which can lead to further systemic complications like heart disease, diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, history of stroke, and so on. In addition, psychological factors are associated as a result of low self-esteem regarding appearance or self-worth.
The good news is that advancements in dental care provide not only for prevention but adequate restorative care. The improved understanding of periodontal disease and its prevention significantly changes the dynamic of dental patients no longer facing major tooth loss.
In addition, dental radiography and longterm restorative care allows the prompt discovery and treatment of dental decay to avoid excessive removal of tooth structure. Also, advancements in dental implants offer the permanent replacement of teeth with seamless safety and certainty.
Ultimately, the goal in maintaining your teeth and quality of
life is a matter of prevention. It all starts with the basics of a healthy diet, daily brushing and flossing, and of course, visiting your dentist. Together we can do our best to keep your smile lasting your whole, happy life. Happy smiling!
Dr. Matthew Artho is dentist and owner of Country Lakes Family Dental in Bartonville, TX and 13-time winner of Best of Denton County.
IA Breed Above Delivering More than Quality Pet Care
by Craig Hewitt | photos by Miranda Longoria Photography
n Bartonville, Texas, where animals are as beloved as people, Bartonville Veterinary Center has emerged as a haven for those seeking compassionate and high quality pet care.
Recently honored as “Best Veterinarian” by Best of Denton County, this family-owned and operated practice is redefining the veterinary experience for pet owners in the community. Under the expert leadership of Dr. Melissa Cordero, the center exemplifies a perfect blend of veterinary excellence, community-focused service, and heartfelt compassion.
Originally hailing from Puerto Rico, Dr. Cordero grew up riding horses, nurturing a deep love of animals from an early age. With an unbridled passion for science and a desire to work with animals, she went on to study Animal Sciences at Oklahoma State University, eventually earning a doctorate in Veterinary Medicine and later a PhD in Veterinary Biomedical Sciences. In college, she also discovered her other love — her husband, Chris. After graduation, the two moved to the Dallas-Fort Worth area, choosing Argyle as home.
When the opportunity arose to purchase the clinic in 2016, she recognized it as
the chance of a lifetime. For Dr. Cordero, taking over the Bartonville Veterinary Center was not just a business decision. It was an opportunity to serve the community and to provide a higher level of veterinary service.
“We live in the community. We are part of the community, and we are really committed to creating a great patient and client experience,” Dr. Cordero said.
As a family-run business, Bartonville Veterinary Center places a high priority on community connection. Dr. Cordero and her team strive to create a warm and
Dr. Melissa Cordero Owner & Veterinarian
welcoming atmosphere where both pets and their owners feel at home. With an impeccable reputation under their belt, the clinic has become a sanctuary for local pet lovers, offering educational resources, community events, and a platform for pet owners to connect and share experiences.
“Every owner is different, and the more I get to know them, the more personalized I can make each appointment,” she said.
The clinic boasts a diverse range of services tailored specifically for dogs and cats. From routine check-ups to dentistry and surgery, each patient receives personalized and attentive care.
The expertly trained and compassionate staff is also there to educate pet owners about preventative care, ensuring they can keep their furry friends happy and healthy in between visits.
Bartonville Veterinary Center also stands out for its focus on creating a cat-friendly environment. With designated exam rooms reserved solely for treating felines, the center is able to provide an environment that reduces stress on cats, ensuring that feline companions receive the care they need without unnecessary anxiety. This level of service has even been recognized and certified by the Feline Veterinary Medical Association, exemplifying the center’s dedication to addressing the unique needs of cats.
The goal at Bartonville Veterinary Center is to ensure every pet receives not just quality medical treatment, but also the empathy and compassion they deserve. Dr. Cordero emphasizes the emotional aspects of veterinary medicine, particularly when it comes to end-of-life care.
A pet owner herself, she personally understands how difficult these moments can be for pet owners, and she and her staff strive to provide sympathetic support that honors the bond between pets and their families. This approach focuses on building trust and open communication, allowing owners to make informed decisions that align with their values and their pet’s needs.
The clinic’s efforts to go above and beyond the call of duty have not gone unnoticed. Being recognized as “Best Veterinarian” by Best of Denton County is a testament to the hard work, dedication, and compassion exhibited by Dr. Cordero and her team. The center also received an accreditation from the America Animal Hospital Association (AAHA), highlighting their commitment to maintaining the
highest standards of veterinary treatment.
For pet owners, selecting the right veterinarian is crucial. For we only want the best for our furry friends, and you can’t go wrong with the best that Denton County offers. With a proven track record of excellence, a commitment to high quality pet care, and an ever-growing community presence, Bartonville Veterinary Center stands out as the ideal choice for pet care.
CREATES CONNECTION & HEALING
by Craig Hewit photos courtesy Freedom Reins
EQUINE THERAPY for Military Veterans
In Pilot Point, Texas, where vibrant ranches touch open skies, a unique horse riding program has taken shape at Stable Strides Farm. This program, dubbed Freedom Reins, is demonstrating firsthand the transformative power of equine therapy. Although equine-assisted therapy has been practiced here for the last 20 years, thanks to Denton County Military Veterans Peer Network (MVPN), it is now being offered specifically to military veterans in Denton County, providing them an invaluable resource and a path to recovery and reconnection.
The essence of Freedom Reins lies in its innovative approach to healing — pairing
veterans with horses in a structured 8-week program that emphasizes both adaptive riding and peer support activities. The calming nature of horses offers a unique environment for veterans to rebuild trust and foster connections. Participants engage not only in the physical activity of horseback riding but also feel the emotional benefits of equine-assisted therapy.
The inherent qualities of horses — their sensitivity to human emotions, their ability to connect with individuals on an instinctual level, and the soothing electromagnetic fields their powerful hearts emit — create an extraordinary foundation for this therapeutic experience.
Equine therapy conveys not only mental health benefits but also physical ones, providing participants with a full-body workout while building strong bonds with the horses. Numerous veterans in the program have achieved remarkable success, surpassing initial expectations by competing in prestigious horse shows across the nation. Just recently, six veteran participants of the program competed in the NSBA World Championship in Tulsa, Oklahoma, with five of them finishing in the top 10.
Research shows that people experience many physiological benefits while interacting with horses, including lowered blood pressure and heart rate, increased levels of endorphins, decreased stress levels, reduced feelings of anger, tension and anxiety as well as improved social functioning and increased feelings of confidence, trust, and patience.
Jackie Egan, a veteran and peer coach for the program, shared that many veterans, herself included, have not only reaped physical benefits but have also found greater peace of mind, contributing to a more profound sense of purpose post-service.
“After the military, the first real sense of home I felt in a long time was when I got to the barn and saddled a horse.”
Participants engage not only in the physical activity of horseback riding but also feel the emotional benefits of equine-assisted therapy.
Since its implementation, the Freedom Reins program has become a crucial component of the support system for veterans grappling with the invisible wounds of service, particularly those struggling with PTSD and anxiety. Over 45,000 veterans call Denton County home, and through the organization's extensive outreach, they are able to assist veterans and their families in finding various services, including job assistance, peer support groups, clinical counseling, and other mental health services — all available at no cost.
Becca Hobby, community engagement director of the Denton County MVPN and wife of a veteran, can personally attest to the program’s overwhelming success. “When my husband returned from his tour of duty, he struggled with the transition. The goal of our program is to reconnect veterans with each other. For me, as a spouse of a veteran, when I connected with the spouses of other combat veterans, it changed my life.”
Replacing the structure, purpose, and shared sense of duty the military provides remains a tall order for veterans, but fortunately, programs like Freedom Reins are
“After the military, the first real sense of home I felt in a long time was when I got to the barn and saddled a horse.”
rising to the occasion. The success of the Freedom Reins can hardly be measured by individual efforts. For it truly is made possible through community collaboration.
The partnership between Denton County MHMR, MVPN, and Stable Strides has fostered connections with other like-minded non-profit organizations, such as Riding Unlimited and GallantFew, harnessing resources to provide comprehensive support to veterans throughout North Texas.
Community involvement plays a significant role in the program's success. There are numerous opportunities for local residents to lend a helping hand, from volunteering at the veterans’ center to teaching specialized classes or assisting in fundraising initiatives such as North Texas Giving Day. Volunteers at Stable Strides
Learn more: DentonCountyMVPN. org/FreedomReins
are also essential, as their support enriches the experience for participants seeking healing through equine therapy.
Through initiatives like Freedom Reins, Denton County is taking significant strides in addressing the mental health crisis faced by veterans. By connecting those
through equine therapy, the program creates not just a path to recovery but also a renewed sense of hope and purpose.
Freedom Reins stands not only as a testament to the transformative healing powers of equine therapy but also of the shared resilience and camaraderie of our veterans.
Posts, Pics, & Pitfalls
by Charla Bradshaw
In an age where privacy is vanishing, a person’s most valuable lesson may not come from what they choose to share, but from the missteps they never meant to.
Privacy no longer protects our misadventures — social media preserves them for litigation. What one posts in haste often becomes tomorrow’s evidence in court. In today’s courtroom, digital missteps speak louder than testimony.
Electronic devices and social media can be a family lawyer’s dream for evidence. The words “It’s admitted” can be devastating.
Not every “friend” is a friend, and “private” no longer means private. Valuable evidence comes from social media, social media messaging, emails, texts, and all electronic devices such as cell phones, Ipads, and computers. This evidence includes a person’s social life, and financial/asset information when people boast about their assets, raises/promotions, vacations, etc.
Social media can also prove patterns of behavior. Sometimes a person’s ego can get the best of them, causing catastrophic damage to their family law case. A person loses control of their
Forensic computer experts can extract electronically stored information (“ESI”) even that which one thinks is “deleted,” including all searches and messaging on an electronic device. In Texas, “spoliation” is defined as the as the improper destruction of evidence relevant to a case. To the extent there is information on a party social media, which reveals facts or information relevant to the family law case, the deletion of that evidence could be spoliation.
The first rule of thumb with regard to all social media is to avoid putting anything in an email, text, or online that you would not want a judge to see. Cease activity on your social media unless your attorney advises differently. Everything you submit on social media can be used as evidence. Social media activity is not only public, it is permanent.
“Privacy” is a thing of the past. “Our bravest and best lessons are not learned through success, but through misadventures.” Amos Bronson Alcott
social media presence due to tagging, mentioning, and using hashtags.
HUMOR AS MEDICINE
Part of what makes this cultural shift so powerful is the levity with which many women are approaching it. Jokes about forgetting why you walked into a room or sweating through a Zoom meeting are more than comic relief — they’re solidarity. Humor has become a way to build bridges, remind women they’re not alone, and take back power from symptoms that can otherwise feel overwhelming.
“When you can laugh at a hot flash, it doesn’t own you anymore,” one We Do Not Care club member wrote recently. That kind of candor is contagious, creating space for women everywhere to embrace the absurdity and challenges of this life stage without shame.
BEYOND THE LAUGHS
Of course, talking openly isn’t just about catharsis. It’s also paving the way for real change in healthcare. By breaking the silence, women are pushing for better research, clearer treatment options, and more compassionate care. Medical professionals, many of whom once glossed over menopause, are recognizing that the demand for information and solutions is growing — and so is the opportunity to improve the patient experience.
A LOUDER, BRIGHTER FUTURE
The beauty of this cultural moment is that women are rewriting the menopause narrative together. It’s no longer a lonely passage but a shared experience, amplified by podcasts, Instagram posts, support groups, and even viral hashtags. Whether it’s a private laugh with friends or a public declaration in the We Do Not Care club, women are making one thing clear — silence is out, speaking up is in.
Menopause may still bring its share of challenges, but the conversation around it has never been livelier — or more empowering. And for once, women navigating this stage of life don’t just have to suffer in silence. They can roll their eyes, share their stories, and say with conviction, “We really do not care what anyone thinks.”
"IWANTTOFULFILLTHENEEDS OFEVERYBODYAROUNDME ANDBESUREEVERYONEELSE ISHAPPY,BUTIDON’THAVE THECAPACITYTODOITTHE WAYTHATIUSEDTO.IHAVETO LEARNTOBEOKWITHTHAT."
Menopause Resources Worth Checking Out
APPS
Balance — Track symptoms, access expert advice, and connect with resources.
MenoLife — A community-driven app that pairs tracking with peer support.
PODCASTS
You Are Not Broken with Dr. Kelly Casperson — Irreverent, funny, and an expert on the topic. 300 episodes in its library you can peruse.
Hit Play Not Pause with Selene Yeager — Hit "play" on this new chapter of life.
The Sweaty Pillow with Lara Smith — A podcast and also a community providing menopause support.
BOOKS
The New Menopause by Dr. Mary Claire Haver — A modern, science-based guide to navigating the transition.
Menopause Manifesto by Dr. Jen Gunter — Equal parts myth-busting and empowering.
Deep in the heart of Texas, just beyond San Antonio’s bustle, lies a hidden gem in the Hill Country where luxury meets adventure. Nestled on 600 acres of rolling hills, the JW Marriott San Antonio offers more than poolside cocktails — it’s exciting and perfect for all ages. As summer wound down and school loomed ahead, we introduced our three grandsons to this quintessential slice of Texas. It was a big win for the whole family. The Fun Begins
We didn’t know what to expect, but the magic began the moment we arrived — friendly staff, chilled welcome drinks, and a surprise scavenger hunt that lit up our boys’ faces. Armed with maps and excitement, they raced to find eight hidden Longhorns tucked behind fountains, trees and flower gardens. What started as a game quickly became a full-blown adventure.
This resort is a playground with wide-open spaces — perfect for golfing, splashing, exploring, and making memories. Home to the Valero Texas Open, the Oaks Course at
a MULTIGENERATIONAL
magical getaway
by Terri Guthrie | photos by Ron and Terri Guthrie
TPC San Antonio adds championship flair to the adventure. After a delicious dinner, the evening turned storybook. Golden light spilled over the hills as the boys cartwheeled and laughed into twilight.
The night ended in pure magic — roasting s’mores under starry skies, flashlights in hand, as the scavenger hunt continued with sticky fingers and glowing smiles. Each longhorn found was a triumph. Back at the rooms, the boys buzzed with excitement. In our room, a surprise bag of warm chocolate chip cookies, their favorite treat.
Our suite was spacious and serene, with a private balcony overlooking the rolling hills and endless skies of the Texas Hill Country. As we drifted off to sleep, excitement bubbled for tomorrow’s adventures — giant slides, lazy rivers, and sun-soaked memories waiting to be made.
River Bluff Experience
We couldn’t believe our eyes. The moment we saw the River Bluff Water Experience, the boys started yelling, "This place is HUGE!" It was like someone dropped a nine-acre beach vacation right in the middle of Texas Hill Country. The
temperature-controlled pools were everywhere, slides that looked like they touched the sky, and a lazy river so long it felt like it could take us all the way back to Dallas.
We grabbed our innertubes and ran straight to the 1,100-foot lazy river — the longest in Texas! It was epic. The river weaved through the entire waterpark, and every bend brought something new.
This wasn’t just a vacation. It was a tapestry of generations and sweet moments stitched together with laughter, discovery, and the kind of experience only the JW Marriott San Antonio can offer. This is what we came for, and it delivered big… Texas-style big!
Wait There’s More –Winter Fun at JW’s ICE!
Even in cooler months, the JW Marriott San Antonio offers Texas-sized fun. Starting November 22, the resort transforms with ICE! — a dazzling holiday experience featuring over two million pounds of hand-carved ice.
For full details, visit JWSanAntonio.com and JWHillCountryChristmas.com
JW MARRIOTT SAN ANTONIO HILL COUNTRY RESORT
MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN OUR COMMUNITY GIVING WITH
are fortunate to have so many nonprofits focused on serving individuals in need – from food and housing to transportation, health, education, job training and more.
We are fortunate to have so many nonprofits focused on serving individuals in need –from food and housing to transportation, health, education, job training and more.
Many nonprofit organizations serve Denton County – from Giving Grace, which helps house families who are homeless or at risk of homelessness, to WTF-Winning the Fight, a group that provides drug education, support, and guidance to individuals and families who struggle with the disease of addiction.
In Denton County, several years ago we launched FindHelp Denton County at FindHelp. DentonCounty.gov — an easy way to find aid online by zip code. For example, using 76208 – a zip code in northern Denton – an estimated 2,989 entities were listed as possible sources of support.
But these nonprofits also require our assistance. As we continue to grow by 90 people daily in a fast-growing county with more than 1,068,355 residents as of January 1, 2025, the need is outpacing available funds.
On Sept. 18, Communities Foundation of Texas held North Texas Giving Day, the largest regional giving initiative in the U.S. Since 2009, over $635 million has been raised for more than 3,000 local nonprofit organizations through the online giving site. In 2024, more than $70 million was collected for over 3,200 nonprofits.
These nonprofits are always in need, so if you missed North Texas Giving Day, you can still help. Check out NorthTexasGivingDay.org and search Denton County to see a list of nonprofits.
Let’s all do our part to help local nonprofits meet the increasing needs of Denton County residents and those in surrounding areas.
by Murray Media
This year, Halloween falls on a Friday. Translation — it’s about to be the most coveted party night of the season. The sooner you stake your claim, the better your odds of luring guests to your lair for a night of
Frightful fun.
Haunted Masquerade Ball
Imagine sweeping capes, feathered masks, and the kind of candlelight that makes everyone look mysteriously glamorous. Transform your space with black velvet tablecloths, gothic roses, and eerie classical music that swells at just the right moments.
Signature sip: A “Midnight Manhattan,” garnished with black cherries, or champagne with a splash of blackberry liqueur for a blood-red glow.
Zombie Prom
It’s prom night, but the corsages are wilted, and the dance floor is crawling with the undead. Think streamers and balloons splattered with “blood,” a disco ball over a haunted gym floor, and a cheesy photo booth with “Prom 1989” dripping in fake gore. Bonus points if you crown a Zombie Prom King and Queen.
Signature sip: A blood-red punch spiked with “eyeballs” (lychees stuffed with blueberries) served in glow-in-the-dark cups.
Haunted Hollywood
Roll out a blood-red carpet, sprinkle in golden “stars” with your guests’ names, and project classic horror flicks (Nosferatu, Psycho, Bride of Frankenstein) silently on a wall for instant atmosphere. Costumes range from ghostly starlets to gory directors fresh off set.
Signature sip: A “Psycho Spritz,” a twist on the Aperol spritz, topped with a gummy eyeball garnish.
Gothic Glam
For those who believe Halloween should be less “campy pumpkins” and more “dark couture.” Dress the space in black lace, silver skulls, and towering candelabras. Mirrors with crackled effects and chandeliers dripping in fake cobwebs set the mood. Guests in Victorian goth or vampire runway looks will feel right at home.
Signature sip: A “Vampire’s Kiss” martini — vodka, cranberry juice, and Chambord, with a sugared red rim.
Black & White Bash
For a sleek twist on Halloween, go full monochrome. Decorate with black-andwhite balloons, striped tablecloths, skeletons, and dramatic lighting. Guests show up in head-to-toe black or white for a chic Burton-esque vibe. It’s elegant, eerie, and just a little bit Tim Burton.
Signature sip: Charcoal margaritas paired with classic White Russians for a yin-yang drink menu.
Witches & Warlocks Night
Double, double, toil and trouble. Dust off the broomsticks and set the scene with glowing green uplights, bubbling cauldrons, and potion bottles labeled with mysterious names. Dry ice in the drinks adds theatrical fog. Encourage guests to arrive in cloaks, pointy hats, or robes.
Signature sip: “Witch’s Brew” punch, — vodka, pineapple juice, blue curaçao, and lemon-lime soda served straight from a bubbling cauldron.
PHANTOM PHOTO BOOTH
Hang a black sheet or sparkly curtain backdrop. Add props such as witch hats, fangs, plastic axes, feather boas. Bonus: make a custom hashtag for guests to share their spooky snaps.
CREEPY COSTUME CONTEST
’90s Horror Throwback
Okay, millennials, it’s time to relive your Goosebumps years. Cover your walls with Scream posters, break out the lava lamps, and queue up a soundtrack of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Charmed. Encourage costumes that nod to cult ’90s horror characters or classic VHS villains — think Freddy Krueger, Michael Myers, or Pinhead
Signature sip: “Slasher Shots.” Layered cranberry juice and melon liqueur for a gory-meets-neon effect.
Boos & Booze
This one’s all about the drinks, so think of it as a haunted cocktail party. Create a DIY “potion bar” where guests can mix their own creations with syringes of grenadine, gummy worms, and edible glitter. Add neon lighting, glowing cups, and a bartop lined with cauldrons of mixers.
Signature sip: A “Bloody Margarita” with a spicy kick and a crimson salt rim.
Categories keep it lively — Scariest, Funniest, Most Glam, Best Couple/ Group, and Most Creative. Prizes don’t need to be big. Think gift cards, a silly crown, or themed trophies (tiny skeletons glued to spray-painted bases).
TERRIFYING TUNES
Mix bangers with classics“Thriller,” “Somebody’s Watching Me,” “Ghostbusters,” and a sprinkling of creepy ambient tracks between songs. Pro tip: layer in random sound effects (wolves howling, creaking doors, thunder) for a haunted-house vibe.
SPOOKY SNACKS
Serve candy like you’re the coolest house on the block — big bowls, variety, and full-sized bars if you want instant legend status. Easy Halloween treats (like “mummy” hot dogs or spiderweb dip) add whimsy without too much prep.
DEVIOUS DECOR
A fog machine at the entrance. Glow sticks in pumpkins or drinks. Motion-activated scare props in the bathroom...yes, really.
Sheriff Tracy Murphree
Meet David Taylor Forensic Tech II
David began his law enforcement career in 1983 with the Port Arthur Police Department. Two years later, he returned to his family home in Carroll ton to join the Carrollton Police Depart ment, where he served until his retirement in December 2014.
During his last 25 years there, he worked in the Crime Scene/ID Unit. After retiring, he worked with Mentalix, Inc., a biometric company, and volunteered with the Denton County Sheriff’s Office, aiding their Forensics Unit with latent print identification and AFIS operations. In March 2018, he came out of retirement as a crime scene investigator and accepted a full-time position as a Forensic Tech II with the DCSO Forensic Unit.
Throughout his career, David received over 1,900 hours of specialized training in forensic sciences. He trained numerous officers in crime scene investigation, latent print identification, and AFIS operation. He earned elite certifications from the International Association for Identification (IAI) as a Certified Crime Scene Analyst in 1996 and as a Certified Latent Print Examiner in 2008.
He has been court-qualified multiple times as an expert witness on crime scene investigation and forensic identification in various courts at the local, state, and federal
levels. Additionally, David has worked as a consultant for three forensic companies, providing training and case consultation. He is a life-sustaining member of the IAI and a former President of the Texas Division of the IAI.
As of last month, upon his retirement from the Denton County Sheriff’s Office, he has dedicated 42 years to law enforcement, including 38 years as a commissioned Peace Officer.
David Taylor has been an immeasurable asset to the Denton County Sheriff’s Office and will continue serving as a reserve Deputy, assisting the Forensics Unit in ID and AFIS work and mentoring newer deputies.
If you or anyone you know is interested in starting a career in law enforcement, apply today and be a part of a great organization.
We're currently hiring for full-time and part-time communications officers to work in dispatch and 911 services, as well as for other positions. Visit the website below to find out about all the openings and to submit an application. GovernmentJobs.com/Careers/
that Crack Us Up Flicks Chick
by Randee Paraskevopoulos
When Harry Met Sally (1989)
One of my all-time favorite movies, When Harry Met Sally attempts to answer the question, “Can a man and a woman be friends without sex getting in the way?” Harry Burns (Billy Crystal) is a pessimist who reads the last page of a book first so if he dies before he finishes it, he knows how it ends. Sally Albright (Meg Ryan) is a content, well-adjusted, albeit high-maintenance, woman. “‘On the side’ is a very big thing with you.” Great one-liners will have you laughing throughout, including one of the most famous scenes in movie history — “I’ll have what she’s having.”
Clueless (1995)
This classic chick flick will have you laughing out loud. Cher Horowitz (Alicia Silverstone) is a well-meaning but oblivious high school student who decides to play matchmaker to her friends. With the help of her best friend Dionne (Stacey Dash) and charming yet sarcastic Josh (Paul Rudd), Cher learns empathy, and the value of being true to herself. Silverstone’s portrayal of Cher is iconic, and you can’t help but root for her as she struggles with friendships, love, school, and passing her driving test.
My Big Fat Greek Wedding (2002)
Released shortly after my own version of a Big Fat Greek Wedding, trust me – it’s more real than you’d believe (except for maybe the Windex). Toula Portokalos (Nia Vardalos) falls for a non-Greek, Ian Miller (John Corbett), which doesn’t go over too well with her very large, very loud, always-in-each-other’sbusiness, Greek family. Check this one out if you want to laugh, remember to love your family, and absorb the wisdom of Toula’s mother — "The man is the head (of the family), but the woman is the neck. And she can turn the head any way she wants."
Bridesmaids (2011)
A raunchy, yet somehow ‘every-woman' chick flick, Bridesmaids delivers non-stop laughs. Every aspect of Annie’s (Kristen Wiig) life is a disaster, but she jumps at the chance to be maid of honor to her lifetime best friend, Lillian (Maya Rudolph). Follow them and the other bridesmaids through wedding planning, friendships, and hilariously awkward (& cringe-worthy) moments. Their antics will leave you in stitches, as this film is worth its weight in wedding cake.
Fall is a beautiful time of year, but it can also be a crucial period for the health of your lawn and garden. While many people think of spring as the prime time for gardening, the work you do in the fall can have a massive impact on how your landscape looks next year. Here are some key tips to help you get your yard ready for a vibrant autumn and a healthy spring.
THE IMPORTANCE OF FALL FERTILIZING
Many homeowners focus on fertilizing in the spring, but a fall application is arguably more important. As the weather cools, grass roots are still actively growing and storing nutrients for the winter. Applying a slow-release fertilizer with a higher potassium content will help strengthen the root system, making it more resilient to cold and disease. This will give your lawn a head start when spring arrives, resulting in a quicker green-up and denser growth. Don’t forget to aerate your lawn before fertilizing to ensure the nutrients penetrate deep into the soil.
RAKE OR MULCH YOUR LEAVES
Deciding what to do with fallen leaves is a classic fall dilemma. While the traditional rake and bag method is effective, mulching your leaves with a mower is a fantastic, eco-friendly alternative. Mulching chops the leaves into small, nutrient-rich pieces that can be left on the lawn to decompose. This process returns valuable organic matter to the soil, improving its structure and fertility. If you have a very thick layer of leaves, it’s best to rake some of them up first, as an excessively thick layer can smother your grass. You can use the raked leaves as mulch for your garden beds or compost them for future use.
WINTERIZING YOUR GARDEN BEDS AND SHRUBS
Preparing your garden beds for winter can protect your plants and save you work in the spring. Cut back perennial plants that have finished blooming and remove any weeds. Add a layer of mulch, such as wood chips or shredded leaves, to your garden beds. This will insulate the soil, help retain moisture, and suppress weeds. For sensitive shrubs and perennials, consider wrapping them with burlap to protect them from harsh winter winds and frost. Taking these steps now will ensure your landscape bounces back beautifully when the warmer weather returns.
LAWN LOVE Autumn
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SOUP Lasagna
Recipe and photos by Kris Longwell and Wesley Loon of HowToFeedaLoon.com
If you love the comforting flavors of classic bolognese lasagna but don’t have the time (or energy) to layer noodles, sauce, and cheese, this Slow Cooker Lasagna Soup is the perfect solution. It has all the rich tomato flavor, savory ground meat, tender pasta, and gooey cheese you crave, but it comes together effortlessly in your slow cooker.
Ingredients
1 tablespoon olive oil
½ lb ground beef 85% or 90% lean
½ lb Italian sausage sweet, hot, or mild
1 cup onion chopped
1 cup celery chopped, optional
1 cup carrots chopped, optional
2 teaspoon garlic minced
½ cup red wine optional
1 28 oz. can crushed tomatoes
1 8 oz. can tomato sauce
4 cups beef broth
1 teaspoon oregano dried
1 teaspoon basil dried
2 teaspoon Kosher salt
1 teaspoon black pepper
8 sheets lasagna noodles
Toppings:
8 oz ricotta cheese, whole milk
2 tablespoon Italian parsley chopped
2 cups mozzarella cheese shredded
Instructions
1. Heat the oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the beef and Italian sausage and cook until no longer pink, using a wooden spatula to break up the meat as it cooks.
2. Spoon off most of the rendered grease and discard it safely. Add onions, celery (if using), carrots (if using), and garlic. Sauté until the vegetables are soft, about 4 to 5 minutes.
3. Add the wine (if using) and simmer until almost evaporated, about 3 to 4 minutes.
4. Transfer the meat mixture, along with the tomatoes, tomato sauce, herbs, salt, and pepper, into your slow cooker. Cook on LOW to 6 to 7 hours, or on HIGH for 3 hours. In the last 30 minutes, stir in the pasta.
5. In a bowl, mix together the ricotta cheese with 1 tablespoon of the parsley.
6. Ladle the soup into bowls, sprinkle with mozzarella cheese, and add a dollop of the ricotta/parsley on top. Garnish with more chopped parsley, if desired.
Serve at once!
No slow cooker? No problem! You can easily prepare lasagna soup on the stovetop by simmering the sauce, broth, and seasonings together, then adding the pasta until tender. Finish with a dollop of ricotta and a sprinkle of mozzarella for the same cozy, comforting flavors in less time.
Ingredient Swaps
Protein Swap – Use ground turkey, chicken, or plant based ground instead of ground beef and sausage. Alternatively, go with all beef, or use ground pork instead of sausage.
Cheese Twist – Stir in cottage cheese, or even cream cheese for extra creaminess.
Pasta Choice – Try rotini, penne, or farfalle noodles for different textures.
Veggie Boost – Add zucchini, spinach, mushrooms, or bell peppers for more flavor and nutrition.
How To Serve, Store, and Reheat
Garnish with fresh basil or parsley for color and flavor.
Serve with crusty bread or garlic bread for dipping.
Cool completely before transferring to airtight containers. Store in the refrigerator for up to 4 days.
Freeze in freezer‑safe containers for up to 3 months.
Reheat gently on the stovetop over medium heat, stirring occasionally.
If the soup thickens, add a splash of broth or water to loosen it. For single servings, warm in the microwave in 1‑minute intervals, stirring between each.
If you’d like to see the video of Kris & Wes making this recipe, visit their website at HowToFeedALoon.com
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