TheI mpac tofDi f f er entCommuni c at i on St yl esi nMar r i ageSat i sf ac t i on Li t er at ur eRevi ew Nonv e r bal Communi c at i on To a l otofpeopl e,nonv er balcommuni cat i on may be secondar yt ov er bal communi cat i on.Of t ent i mes, i ti sov er l ooked, andmayev enbevi ewedassomet hi ng t hati snoti mpor t ant . Howev er , t hi spar t i cul araspectofcommuni cat i oncanact ual l y speakal otoft hi ngs. Nonv er bal f or m ofcommuni cat i onmayconsi stofact i onssuch assmi l i ng,l ooki ng,t ouchi ng,f r owni ng,orev enexpr essi onsofsur pr i se,asseeni n t her esear chst udyofWel nerandShane( 2004) .Womenar ef oundt oshow t hese f or ms ofcommuni cat i ons mor e compar ed t o men.Wel nerand Shane st udi ed di f f er entnonv er balact i onsand behavi or sr el at ed t ot hecl oser el at i onshi p ofa coupl e, anddi scov er edt hatwomenl ookedatt hei rmat esf oraconsi der abl yl onger per i odoft i mecompar edt omen.Forexampl e, t heav er agel engt ht hatawi f el ooks atherhusbandwas7. 5seconds,whi l eahusbandusual l yl ooksathi swi f ef or4. 5 seconds.Howev er ,ev ent houghmenexpr essl essnonv er balcommuni cat i onand emot i on, t heymaynotr eal l ymeant hatt heyar enotpayi ngat t ent i onwhent heyar e bei ngspokent obyt hei rwi v es. Forexampl e, Wal eyandShawn( 2005)t heor i z edt hat menshow l essemot i onmaybebecauset heywer et aughtandl ear nedt odampen emot i ons,i ncl udi nganger .Assuch,whenahusbandandwi f eendsuphavi nga di sagr eement , t hesi t uat i onmayqui ckl yescal at ei ft hehusbandexpr essesf ul l yhi s emot i onsbyshowi ngvi ol ence. Thus, i twast her ef or esuggest edt hatal otofmenf ai l t oshowt hei remot i ongener al l ybecauset heyhav eper sonal l yt r ai nedt hemsel v est o besocal l ed‘ emot i onl ess’ , par t i cul ar l ywhenf aci ngconf l i ctsi t uat i ons.