Stamford, CT June 2024

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY STAMFORD CITY LIFESTYLE!

Happy First Anniversary to Stamford City Lifestyle!

I’d like to thank all our readers and advertisers for your support throughout the year!  I hope you have enjoyed our first twelve issues and have learned about many of the people, places and things that make Stamford a special place.

As we celebrate Father’s Day this month, I cannot help but think of my dad, Wally, who left us a long time ago and way too early. He was a world class clarinetist, music teacher and gentleman.  He grew up in The Bronx, attended Julliard, served in World War II (as a member of the Army band, of course), and then embarked on a musical career that took him all over the world. As a kid, I spent many a summer evening at Lincoln Center watching him perform from his first clarinetist chair.  He was kind, funny, and was proud of my every accomplishment. If he was still alive he’d be telling everyone he met about his son … the publisher.

In this issue you will learn about a truly incredible organization called 100 Black Men of Stamford, the local chapter of a national organization that, since 1990, has provided mentorship and scholarships to African American boys and girls in our community.

We also explore the world of barber shops, discuss what has made them a unique gathering place for men through history, and showcase a few Stamford shops, some new and some that have been around for decades.

Men’s health is an extremely important topic, and a local health and fitness expert provides some vital health tips for men of all ages.

Finally, we shine the spotlight on two classy gentlemen, Mike Fedele and Kelvin McGregor (pictured on our cover), who are Stamford natives and have made their mark on both Stamford and the State of Connecticut.

I hope you enjoy this issue, and as always, please support our local Stamford businesses and community organizations.

Happy Father’s Day!

MARTY

SHAPIRO, PUBLISHER

June 2024

PUBLISHER

Marty Shapiro | Marty.Shapiro@citylifestyle.com

EDITOR

Laurie A. Guzda | laurie.guzda@citylifestyle.com

SOCIAL MEDIA COORDINATOR

Eva Glassman

AREA COORDINATOR

PJ Kennedy

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Sarah Bamford, Daniel Pachter

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Mbiya Kabongo, Dutch Doscher

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HR Janeane Thompson

AD DESIGNER Laura Paige

LAYOUT DESIGNER Kathy Nguyen

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city scene

WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN

1: Liz Sabia, Harry Day and Melissa Mulrooney watching the eclipse at the SM&NC. 2: First Bank of Greenwich’s Frank Gaudio and team at the Chamber’s Taste of Stamford event. 3: Mayor Simmons stops by the Chamber’s Taste of Stamford event. 4: UConn Stamford President Jennifer Orlikoff and team at the Chamber’s Taste of Stamford event. 5: TOR 8th grade science teacher, Eugene Hobdy, records the full eclipse in Plattsburgh for students. 6: Stamford Chamber of Commerce’s Heather Cavanagh enjoying the big event. 7: The Zohdy’s enjoying delicious eats at The Chamber’s Taste of Stamford event.

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9: The good folks from Abigail Kirsch serving at the Chamber’s Taste of Stamford event. 10: Stamford Downtown’s Mike and Julie Moore, Lynne Colatrella, Jessica and David Kooris at Lady A. 11: CEO Stephanie Joyce at the opening celebration of Attune Med Spa on High Ridge Road.

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business monthly

A ROUNDUP OF NEWS FROM LOCAL BUSINESSES

LE POISSON

Le Poisson by Chef Thomas Burke recently opened just over the Stamford border at the former La Cremaillere location. A cocktail party featured cuisine inspired by the coastal regions of France. Attendees had a first look at the new walk-in friendly bar/lounge area, Petit Salon, which offers its own menu. The iconic restaurant was recognized by MICHELIN Guide last year under Chef Thomas Burke’s leadership. To book a reservation go to www.poissonny.com

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BOSAK FUNERAL HOME

The Bosak Funeral Home is a fourth-generation family-owned business. Bosak is dedicated to delivering a personalized, compassionate, and quality funeral service with the same traditions that have been shared for over 100 years. Bosak has expanded their services in the realm of personal attention to include an in-house monument division and flower shop, creating living tribute videos, as well as creating themed wakes to celebrate the individual by commemorating their life. www.bosakfuneralhomect.com

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THE VILLAGE COMMUNITY FOUNDATION

The Village Community Foundation, the philanthropic arm of The Village in Stamford, is pleased to announce The Kitchen Accelerator (TKA), a program that discovers and supports emerging chefs and restaurateurs. TKA helps culinary founders succeed with no-cost incubation services, expert mentorship, and integrated sales and marketing opportunities with an intensive residency focusing on developing all aspects of their business inside and outside the kitchen. To learn more about TKA, please visit www.kitchenaccelerator.org/SupperClub

ATTUNE MED SPA

Attune Med Spa, a trailblazer in the fusion of beauty, wellness, science, and technology, recently opened its inaugural flagship location on High Ridge Road in Stamford. Attune offers aesthetic procedures and wellness treatments grounded in science and state-of-the-art technology via customized care leading to lasting results. Attune, a female-led and operated team with more than 20 years of experience, makes it easy for people to have access to high-quality treatments at an affordable price. w ww.attunemedspa.com

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HAUTE HEALING OASIS

Haute Healing Oasis is a haven for holistic wellness. Blending cutting-edge technologies in a serene spa-like atmosphere, it offers various therapeutic services, from Infrared sauna and massage therapy to energy healing and holistic health consultations. Visitors can experience rejuvenation of mind, body, and spirit. With a commitment to individualized care and a passionate focus on well-being, Haute Healing Oasis is a must-visit destination for those seeking a holistic approach to health and relaxation. www.hautehealingoasis.com.

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HANNA & MAZER DENTAL

Dr. Leon Hanna and Dr. Kayla Mazer have been a husband-and-wife dental duo for over 24 years. They practice a full scope of general and cosmetic dentistry with expertise ranging from porcelain veneers to dental implants such as crowns and bridges. Dr. Hanna and Dr. Mazer can redesign your smile using the latest procedures in dental technology. Their philosophy is based on giving every patient the highest level of care with warmth and compassion. www.hannaandmazerdental.com.

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100 BLACK MEN of Stamford

DEDICATED TO MENTORING OUR COMMUNITY’S YOUTH

ARTICLE BY MARTY SHAPIRO

Jesse Baker, President, 100 Black Men of Stamford

In 1963, a group of African American men met in New York City to discuss cultural concerns and financial obstacles that were limiting the achievements of African Americans, particularly young males. That group included former NYC Mayor David Dinkins and Stamford resident and civil rights icon, Jackie Robinson. These men eventually formed a civic organization called 100 Black Men of America, whose goal was the improvement of the quality of life in the African American community by fostering the development of young black men.

100 Black Men of America sought to nurture the intellectual development of black youth and enhance the economic empowerment of the African American community based on the following precepts: respect for family, spirituality, justice, and integrity.  The programs included leadership development, youth mentoring, educational scholarships, health and wellness, and economic development.

Thirty years after the founding of 100 Black Men of America, a group led by Darwin Davis, set out to recruit one hundred like-minded African American men in the Greater Stamford area and formed the local chapter of this national organization called 100 Black Men of Stamford.  Since 1993, the membership has dedicated innumerable hours of service to mentor and support youth through experimental learning activities, sports clinics, SAT prep, financial education, and a legal immersion program where young black men meet with judges, attorneys, and paralegals.  The 100 Black Men of Stamford also hosts college fairs and offers scholarships to deserving high school seniors.

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“When individuals see examples of achievement and success, they are more likely to aspire to similar accomplishments themselves.”

I recently sat down with the chapter’s new president, North Stamford resident Jesse Baker, who described his role, “to help the 100 Black Men of Stamford and its network of sponsors, volunteers and partners make brighter futures for the community and the next generation of African American men.”

Jesse and his wife, Valerie, moved to Stamford in 2001, and he has been a member of this organization for 15 years. “As I reflect on my 15 years as a 100 BMOS member, I am proud of the resiliency of this chapter to survive and reinvent itself.  It is tough to retain and strengthen membership, as people move throughout their corporate lives.  The COVID pandemic created a tremendous strain for non-profits, but we weathered the storm and came through even stronger,” Jesse proudly said.

When asked about words of wisdom he lives by and infuses into 100 Black Men of Stamford, Jesse did not hesitate. “I am a steadfast believer in the philosophy of our national organization which is ‘What they see, they will be.’ This statement encapsulates the idea that positive role models are essential for inspiring and shaping the aspirations and behaviors of individuals, particularly young black men.  In essence, it suggests that when individuals see

- Jesse Baker

positive examples of achievement and success, they are more likely to aspire to similar accomplishments themselves.”

Another member of 100 Black Men of Stamford is Stamford businessman, George Boyce. On why he joined the organization, George said, “Tomorrow’s future is dependent on the investment we make in today’s youth, so I’m a firm believer that mentoring our youth prepares and readies them for a better future.”

So, what is the future of 100 Black Men of Stamford? Baker would like to increase the number of dedicated members throughout Stamford and Fairfield County so that the 100 BMOS can make an even greater impact in the community. This year, they are expanding the programming to include STEM-based technology and healthcare events.  They are working with the Boys and Girls Club to do a monthly podcast on topics such as leadership and mental health and are working with Stamford Hospital to roll out a healthy lifestyle and eating program for the community.

If you are interested in learning more about 100 Black Men of Stamford, visit www.100BMOS.com . You'll find information on how to join and assist in the mentoring mission.

Lifestyle Spotlight

ARTICLE BY SARAH BAMFORD @HYBRIDMEDIACOMM PHOTOGRAPHY BY DUTCH DOSCHER

Two of Stamford’s Finest Gentlemen

WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT STAMFORD?

Stamford is a little town in a big city! We have a contemporary metro location with a suburban experience. It’s home to many organizations that contribute to the fabric and success of the City while employing all levels of its citizens.

WHAT MAKES STAMFORD A SPECIAL PLACE?

I’ve lived here for over 66 years and a lot has changed. I’ve made many lifelong friends and try to make Stamford a better place to live. From the shores of Shippan to the hills of North Stamford, we have what embodies a New England village, culture, history, and love of community.

EXPERT ADVICE FOR YOUNG MEN IN THE COMMUNITY:

Make it a point to do something special for someone who wasn’t expecting it. Life can be tough but you will learn from your mistakes. Always pick yourself back up!

Michael Fedele

Michael Fedele

Kelvin Barrington McGregor

WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT STAMFORD?

I was born here and what I love most is our City’s metropolitan and cosmopolitan character! We have good schools, excellent housing, state-ofthe-art hospitals, great restaurants, theaters, and a safe nightlife. Our police force is second to none and is intolerant of any crime.

WHAT MAKES STAMFORD A SPECIAL PLACE?

As a Stamford native, I’m so proud to say that Stamford has taken inspiration from some of the leading progressive cities in this country. We are fortunate enough to have our individual Stamfordite character through our innovation of melding these elements.

EXPERT ADVICE FOR YOUNG MEN IN THE COMMUNITY:

Stamford is well situated to offer young people the opportunity towards mentorship and internship to aid a young person’s professional development. Life is about evolving. Don’t stay in a situation that’s not helping you grow mentally, spiritually, and emotionally.

Kelvin McGregor

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Barbershops of Stamford

FIVE OF OUR TOP PICKS

Montana for Men

Established in 1998 by Michael Warde, Montana for Men offers classic barber shop elements with the most up-todate modern techniques.  Services include haircuts, straight razor shaves, beard trims, sports manicures, spa pedicures, massage, and waxing.

Speakeasy Barbershop

In 2020 during COVID, George Dewey put a barber chair in his garage and began cutting hair for his friends and family. Speakeasy Barbershop is now out of the garage and thriving on Hope Street.

Handlebar Salon

Handlebar Salon offers high-quality service in a stylish and refined atmosphere in the heart of Stamford. Handlebar is home to the finest grooming treatments curated to keep the modern gentleman feeling refined and looking great.

Federal Hairstylists I and II

A Stamford staple. Owner Anthony Rizzi started working at the former Federal Barbershop in 1960 at age 17 before taking over ownership in 1972. Rizzi’s children, Vinny and Cabrina have carried on the family legacy.

Shippan Avenue Barber Shop

Located in a building that was built in 1917, owner Michael Vega decorates the window and shop for every holiday.  The walls are adorned with vintage photos of Frank Sinatra, Lucille Ball and others.

Neighborhood YOUR BARBERSHOP

ARTICLE BY LAURIE A. GUZDA PHOTOGRAPHY BY DUTCH DOSCHER

The barbershop – a sanctuary of style, a haven of hair, and a slice of heaven for the hirsute. Walking into a barbershop is like stepping into a time machine. The smell of aftershave wafts through the air, the sound of clippers buzzing, and the sight of impeccably groomed gentlemen will make you wonder if you accidentally stumbled into a GQ photo shoot.

Michael Warde and Christina Everson of Montana for Men with Michael Fedele and Kelvin McGregor

It's a place where masculinity reigns supreme, and even the most rugged of men can find solace in a perfectly shaped beard. It's a place where you can leave your worries behind, at least for a little while. The barbershop is where magic happens.

The magicians are the Barbers – the maestros, the guardians of grooming, the keepers of secrets. These skilled artisans possess the mystical ability to turn a shaggy mess into a work of art. With their nimble fingers and sharp blades, they transform mere mortals into dapper gentlemen, one snip at a time. It's like watching a sculptor create a masterpiece.

And oh, the conversations that take place within those hallowed walls! Barbershops are mini-communities, where people from all walks of life come together to share stories, jokes, and the occasional tall tale. It's a place where the problems of the world can be solved over a hot towel.

Barbers are not just hair cutters, but artists, therapists, stylists, and confidants. There’s a reason some barbershops have been operating for multiple generations with a fiercely loyal clientele. When we approached Michael Warde, owner of Montana for Men, for permission to use his barbershop for our photo shoot, sitting there were three men who all claimed to be faithful customers for over twenty years (they then proceeded to insult each other affectionately as men often do).

Barbershops are more than just a place to get a haircut. They actively engage with the local community, organizing events, sponsoring cultural initiatives, and supporting local organizations. They participate in festivals, neighborhood gatherings, and community outreach programs. Barbershops strengthen communal bonds and contribute to the fabric of the community. They become places where people can come together, celebrate their shared heritage, and build lasting relationships.

Barbershops date back to the ancient Egyptians and Romans. In the middle-ages, barbers were not only responsible for cutting hair but also performing surgeries and dentistry. Can you imagine? The iconic red, white and blue barber pole reflects

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Mike Fedele and Kelvin McGregor

those early days. The red symbolizes blood, the white represents bandages, and the blue represents veins. Originally, barbers would perform bloodletting procedures, and the pole would be wrapped with bloody bandages to signify their services. Thankfully, today’s barber can focus on your hair and conversation. Although one-stop haircut, dental cleaning and a little bloodletting could be a real timesaver. So, gentlemen, the next time you find yourself in need of a trim or a bit of grooming, don't just settle for any old salon. Seek out a barbershop – that hidden gem where charm and humor combine to create a truly unforgettable experience. Trust me, you won't regret it. And who knows, you might just walk out with a fresh cut and a newfound appreciation for the artistry of the barbershop.

DUTCH DOSCHER:

Dutch Doscher is a photographer specializing in portraiture commercial, editorial and music. He is inspired by capturing the energy and emotion of the moment. He has been recognized by the American Photography Awards for both his portraits and music photography. Dutch is as comfortable in a studio as he is on location. He has taught and traveled to Cuba. He started directing After School Specials and made a movie that went to the Cannes Film Festival. Dutch will always look to see the world in a new way. He can often be found directing on a set, or shooting backstage at a concert. Check out his work on Instagram or visit www.dutchdoscher.com

Dutch Doscher is based in New York, Los Angeles and Martha's Vineyard.

Dutch Doscher

HEALTHY LIFESTYLE GUIDE

ARTICLE BY DANIEL PACHTER @BODYBYPURE

3 Actions That Increase Physical and Mental Health

As an Exercise Physiologist, people often ask me for actionable strategies to help them achieve their best selves both physically and mentally.

Finding novel ways to increase growth hormone naturally is a key factor in our efforts to slow aging, lose body fat, build lean muscle mass and sleep better.  Aside from the king of hormone regulation, strength training, other practices that help to increase growth hormone include:

Intermittent Fasting:

Eating all your calories for the day in a shorter window of time (ex. 11:00am-7:00pm) has huge increases in both the frequency and magnitude of growth hormone release during the fasting period and while sleeping.

Avoid Late Night Eating:

Beyond the fact that the calories we eat at night often lead to fat gain, eating within 3 hours before bedtime also disrupts your sleep and blunts the normal rise in growth hormones during the first several hours of sleep.

Limit Sugar and Refined Carbohydrates at Night:

Spikes in blood sugar give rise to insulin secretion in order to lower blood sugar which inhibits growth hormone production.

UNDER PRESSURE PAINTING WITH AIR

A Survey of Contemporary Airbrush Realism

Opening Reception

Thursday, June 13 | 5 – 7 PM with a keynote talk by legendary artist, Don Eddy

June 14 – September 2

Friday, June 28

JUNE 2ND

Anthony Socci's "United We Stand" Book Signing

Stamford Historical Society | 2:00 PM

The Stamford Historical Society presents a book signing and author talk with Anthony Socci, author of "United We Stand", an Italian history of Stamford; and, Kim Harke, author of "Italian American Recollections".  SHS is located at 1508 High Ridge Road, Stamford, CT.

JUNE 15TH

Riverbank Ramble

Music Festival

746 Riverbank Road, Stamford, CT | 12:00 PM

North Stamford's annual music festival is back and better than ever! Featuring Rebel Kicks. For details @RiverbankRamble on Facebook or call 616-822-8393. email: info@ riverbankramble.com

JUNE 15TH

Arts & Crafts on Bedford

As part of our BevMax Tasting Series, we’ll transform our Farmhouse Plaza into a magical outdoor Beer Garden for an evening of laid-back beer exploration, delicious bites, and live music.

SM&NC Members: $75 Non-Members: $80

6:30 pm | 21 + ONLY music by

Stamford Downtown | 10:00 AM

Shop one-of-a-kind handcrafted goods made by local and regional artists. Bedford Street restaurants will be offering extended outdoor patio cafés.

COLUMBUS PARK, appetizers, homemade pastas, fresh fish and great wine list. A fun and fashionable location where the food and sevice are exceptional.

COLUMBUS PARK, centrally located in downtown Stamford, boasts of its extraordinary appetizers, homemade pastas, fresh fish and great wine list. A fun and fashionable location where the food and sevice are exceptional.

COLUMBUS PARK'S small-to-medium sized private parties such as corporate affairs, rehearsal dinners and family events. Columbus Park Trattoria will help to make your party unforgettable at a cost which is surprisingly affordable.

COLUMBUS PARK'S private dining room can accommodate 64 people. Specializing in small-to-medium sized private parties such as corporate affairs, rehearsal dinners and family events. Columbus Park Trattoria will help to make your party unforgettable at a cost which is surprisingly affordable.