

GENTS
ARTS + CULTURE
PHILANTHROPIST, ARTIST, COMMUNITY ACTIVIST
A COMMUNITY REMEMBERED
LIFE + CULTURE
RENE KNOTT
FOOD + BEVERAGE
WHISKEY & CIGARS EXPERIENCE





Gents
Have you ever paused to ponder, "Do fathers matter? What differences do I make in my home as a dad?" The answer, my friend, resounds with an emphatic yes! The role of a father is profound, shaping the very essence of home and family. Yet, the magnitude of impact you choose to wield as a dad lies solely in your hands.

Memories, oh how they shape our lives! I find myself transported back to cherished moments of my youth—sharing ice cream with my dad, my helmet bobbing on my head as we rode on the back of his motorcycle, and the exploding applause he offered during my backyard performances. In these simple moments, the beauty of fatherhood shines brightest.
A father's gifts transcend material wealth—his investment of quality time, life-affirming words, and positive actions leave a mark upon his children's hearts.
This month, as we honor fatherhood, let us celebrate the ways dads uplift their homes:
• A father's strength, a pillar of unwavering support
• His words, a symphony of encouragement and inspiration
• His embrace, a sanctuary of solace and warmth
• His smile, a beacon of joy and confidence
• Time spent with him, a blend of laughter and productivity
• His challenges, forging resilience and determination
• His guidance, laying the foundation for life's journey
• His correction, a compass guiding towards growth and wisdom
• Adventures shared, etching memories that endure the test of time
To all fathers and father figures, your presence is a gift beyond measure. Let us seize this opportunity to express our gratitude and admiration. And to you, dear dads, a resounding thank you. Your worth transcends measure, enriching not only the lives of those who know and love you but also the fabric of our wider community.
Happy Father's Day!


June 2024
PUBLISHERS
Gordon Montgomery
gordon.montgomery@citylifestyle.com
Kelley Lamm
kelley.lamm@citylifestyle.com
COPY EDITOR
Julie Brown Patton | julie.patton@citylifestyle.com
PUBLICATION DIRECTOR
Casey Pierce | casey.pierce@citylifestyle.com
INTERN
Kaiya Thompson | kaiya.thompson@citylifestyle.com
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Mel Boban, Robin Seaton Jefferson, Julie Brown Patton, Kara Savio, Susan Lanie-Graham, Daniel Schowengerdt, Chelsea Haynes
CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS
Bob Denlow, Christina Schmidt
Corporate Team
CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt
CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HR Janeane Thompson
AD DESIGNER Evan Deuvall
LAYOUT DESIGNER Antanette Ray

3:5-6










city scene
WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN







1: Country music icon Garth Brooks supported this year’s Puck Cancer Charity Game. 2: Hall of Famer/former St. Louis Blues Brett Hull coached Blues alumni team for Puck Cancer. 3: Puck Cancer Game: St. Louis Blues Alumni presented a check for $600,000. 4: St. Louis City SC is referred to as the Spirit of a New St. Louis. 5: St. Louis City SC fans turn out and passionately support their team. 6-7: Police answered community questions at Tons of Transportation at the Center of Clayton.







8-9: Police answered community questions at Tons of Transportation at the Center of Clayton. 10: Cardinals Home Opener: 550 devoted St. Louis Cardinals fans joined lunch, giveways, prizes, photo booth. 11: IN YOUR CITY Show live on location at Passiglia Nursery and Design Center. 12: Publisher Kelley Lamm and OH OLIVE The Bulldog Author Event at The Porch In Wildwood. 13: All smiles with new owner Jan Coffman at the ribbon cutting for The Porch. 14: Sarah Guldalian and Justine Cryer Dugan look fabulous in red at the Go-Red For Women.




WHY CHOOSE WOOD
Wood is Healthier
Because wood flooring requires fewer chemicals to make and install, it helps promote healthier living and work environments.
The EPA found that hardwood floors improve air quality because they are less likely to harbor dangerous microorganisms, pesticides, and allergens, such as dust, mold, or pet dander.


Wood is Durable
Vinyl flooring will last only a decade or two, while quality wood flooring can last more than 100 years.
Wood floors will stand up to foot traffic and will maintain their color finish with proper maintenance. Vinyl flooring, however, will last only a decade or two and fade dramatically over time when exposed to sunlight.
Wood floors are easy to maintain and can be repaired with relative ease. But vinyl typically needs to be replaced completely if it’s damaged.


Wood is Sustainable
Wood is a zero waste product. For example, old wood from flooring can be turned into other products or simply bio-degrade.
Other flooring types, such as vinyl, are made from plastics or synthetic fibers that take multiple decades to break down and decompose. Recycling companies typically reject old vinyl flooring because it’s not profitable for them. And, the alternative form of disposal - burning - releases harmful phthalate chemicals into the air.

Wood Makes Sense Economically
Many homeowners love the look of hardwood flooring and other features in their home. But they are also concerned about the initial expense of installing wood.
Putting wood floors into your home is truly a good investment. Real hardwood floors add to the resale value of your home. The average return on investment is 70 to 80%!







Heartlands Building Company 'Outdoor Living Space Of Year' Award
Heartlands Building Company, headquartered from Chesterfield, won the Home Builders Association of St. Louis and Eastern Missouri's Outdoor Living Space of the Year award for 2023. This is actually the company's fifth year in a row win for this category. The winning project included a Trex composite deck and stairs; spacious under-deck area; outdoor room with a fireplace, outdoor kitchen, Infratech Comfort Heaters and Universal Screens, LLC; plus a custom-stained cedar ceiling.

Clayton Receives Silver Shovel Award from Spire
Clayton's Department of Public Work team members received the Silver Shovel Award for the fifth straight year (since it was established) from Spire. The award recognizes the city's accomplishment of committing no at-fault damage of a Spire facility (gas line) in the calendar year.

Mission Taco Opens New Restaurant For West Coast-Style Street Food
Mission Taco Joint, the West Coaststyle street food concept known for its tacos, burritos and margaritas, opened a new location at 1000 Woods Mill Plaza. This location joins MTJ's family of restaurants at the Delmar Loop, Historic Soulard, Streets of St. Charles, Central West End (closed temporarily due to fire) and Downtown Kirkwood. Located in the Clayton Village Shopping Center, it seats approximately 160 seats, plus a private event space for up to 72 people.



St. Louis’s #1



United 4 Children Welcomes New Board Member Steve Bowman
Steven Bowman joined United 4 Children’s board of directors, a nonprofit serving children, families and child care partners. Board members are responsible for strategical and organizational planning, ensuring fiduciary oversight and financial management, fundraising, resource development and enhancing the organization’s public image. Steve is a partner/vice president of sales and marketing at Model Technology Solutions, a St. Louis-based provider of cybersecurity and IT managed services and solutions for small and mid-market businesses.




PHILANTHROPIST, ARTIST, COMMUNITY ACTIVIST

2024 Is Momentous Year For Zack Smithey’s Fine Art Smithey Gallery, LLC, Of St. Charles
ARTICLE BY JULIE BROWN PATTONInterdisciplinary artist Zack Smithey has 3,000-plus original pieces in public, private and corporate collections.
"I believe the only universal constant is change, so to stay relevant as time passes, one must be willing to perpetually change, adapt, push boundaries and live outside of your comfort zone," says the St. Louis-region creative.
Zack confirms 2024 certainly is a pivotal year for him. First, because the building housing his former






12,000-square-foot art studio was sold, he had to put hundreds of his works into storage and currently is anchoring from a 350-square-foot space at Foundry Art Centre in St. Charles. Secondly, this summer he plans to complete a three-story historic mural commissioned by County Executive Steve Ehlmann for the Old St. Charles County Courthouse. "We'll be creating the mural in a traditional realism style, depicting historically accurate people, clothing, places and events from St. Charles history," adds Zack.
He adds the size of this mural project enabled him to hire his former Lindenwood University painting instructor, John Troy. They'll apply beneficial color layering and painting techniques regarding scenic art for outdoor theatres they've done at the St. Louis Muny. Before year's end, Zack plans to build a three-story, 4,000-square-foot new showroom, art studio and office space at his St. Charles residence.
ZackSmithey.com

Zack Smithey
In addition to showing in art galleries worldwide, Zack Smithey builds one-of-a-kind luxury functional furniture, paints murals and designs creative shipping container homes. His home is featured on Netflix for “Amazing Interiors.” He designed the first three such container-derived homes in the St. Louis area.








Priceless
ADVICE EDITORIAL: GIFT GIVING INSPIRATION FOR DADS
ARTICLE BY MEL BOBAN
M e m o r i es



LEARN TOGETHER
Learning a new skill together, or sharing a favorite hobby, is a great way to bond. If Dad likes woodworking or fishing, finding a class to attend together goes beyond gifting tools and allows fun.
RETRO MOVIE NIGHT
Enjoy a movie night together with popcorn, candy and all the fixings. Home movies enable strolls down memory lane, or one of his favorite movies from his childhood makes for fun conversation. Ordering a projector for a large format screening makes the movie night feel extra theatrical.
CHEF’S KISS
Take the food pressure off Dad and invite local culinary experts to prepare a meal. A fun theme, based around his favorite vacation, such as Hawaiian food, will make the evening memorable. Alternatively, try a local cooking class together based on his favorite cuisine.
BLAST FROM THE PAST
Brainstorm childhood memories together and enjoy a day reliving them. If he chaperoned a trip to the zoo, experience it again together. If short on time, stop at a favorite ice cream stand and tell him how much you cherish the memories.












Experiences WHISKEY & CIGAR

Advice Editorial: The Right Way To Enjoy Whiskey And Cigars
ARTICLE BY MARK SUTHERLAND, MISSOURI’S STOWLOCH WHISKEYWhiskey and cigars are a traditional pairing that have seen increasing popularity in recent years. It’s an experience that combines taste, texture, smell and community, in a way that enhances relationships and creates a pause in people’s lives to enjoy the moment. But there's a secret to experiencing this soul-refreshing moment to its utmost.



"Drink the whiskey and smoke the cigars you like, the way you like them, with the people you like."
But this doesn’t mean one shouldn’t experiment. Experimentation can take these moments to new levels.
HOW TO ENHANCE THE DRAM
Bourbon whiskey, Scotch whisky, Ozark Highlands whiskey, rye whiskey, Irish whiskey, Japanese whiskey. There's no shortage of types of whiskey, but the great thing is they all have the same list of ways to enjoy them.
The first way is “neat.” This is the traditionalist way of drinking it, and whenever you try a new whiskey, this is where to start. Simply open up the water of life, and pour a wee bit in your glass. Swirl, inhale, taste. This is where you start. But it doesn’t have to end there.
Second, is just a splash of water that can release a depth of flavor in some whiskies, especially the popular single barrels that are available these days.
Third, is to add ice. I prefer a large rock as it melts slower so my whiskey does not get watered down, but it still chills the whiskey just a little.
Fourth is to make a favorite cocktail. The standards are the Old Fashioned and the Manhattan, but there are numerous other drinks that can be enjoyed. Check out some great cocktails that mixologists have made at Stowloch.com
HOW TO PAIR CIGARS AND WHISKEY
Like with whiskey, there are numerous styles of cigars ranging from mild and buttery to strong and earthy. And it does take a little experimentation to find the right cigar that pairs well with one's favorite whiskey. But remember, taste is subjective, so it may not be the same cigar for all whiskies, and it may not be the same pairing that friends like.
The basic rule to follow is to match strength with strength. A mild-bodied cigar, such as a Rocky Patel Vintage, paired with a full-bodied cask strength whiskey such as Stowloch Singel Barrel Reserve, will get lost. Likewise, a full-bodied cigar, such as the Padron 1926, would overwhelm the flagship Stowloch.
Stowloch Whiskey LIT Cigar Lounge StlWith medium-bodied cigars, one can find some nuances in how they pair with a large variety of whiskies. Does one add sweet or spice to the other? Are they balanced or do they change the flavor of the other in a way that enhances the experience?
A great way to find these pairings, and to get great advice, is at a local cigar lounge.
WHERE TO ENHANCE THE EXPERIENCE
In Chesterfield, Lit Cigar Lounge provides a luxurious environment for cigars and whiskey for members and non-members alike. Featuring a huge humidor, VIP lounge, a 5,000-square foot indoor lounge and outdoor patios, and open seven days a week, it is a popular place for spending time watching a sports game or playing a friendly game of cards.
In Clayton, Carbon Members Club is the hottest new venue, and they feature a fantastic cigar lounge and full bar.
They also have amazing food and service. It is members-only, so one must find someone to nominate a new membership.
In St. Charles, visit the Whiskey House at Frankie Martin’s Garden. This historic building has an outdoor smoking area and a huge selection of amazing whiskies. Bring your own cigars and meet up with friends to enjoy great live music in the heart of Cottleville.
There are numerous other locations across the region, including Ash Cigar Lounge on Locust, the Cigar Vault in Pacific, and Bootleggers Cigars in Washington. They all serve great cigars and whiskies.
Editor's Note: Mark Sutherland is founder of Missouri’s Stowloch Whiskey and InverXion Vodka.
StoneLedgeDistillery.com













RENE KNOTT

After Decades Of Reporting, This KSDK News Anchor Says His Current Gig Is His Favorite
ARTICLE BY ROBIN SEATON JEFFERSON PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHRISTINA SCHMIDT PHOTOGRAPHYHe has met three presidents. He’s told the stories of many of the sports legends of his and even his father’s generations, including Muhammad Ali, Sugar Ray Leonard, Michael Jordan, Magic Johnson and Florence Griffith Joyner, to name a few. He interviewed Jayson Tatum at Chaminade College Preparatory

“Young people should find their true passions that allow them to escape from the nine-to-five or to become their nine-to-five.”
School when the Boston Celtics small forward was just 14 years old. But today with three Emmys, STL Bucket List’s “Best TV Anchor” award, and a lifetime of stories under his belt, KSDK News Anchor Rene Knott says his current gig is his favorite.
Rene co-anchors “Today in St. Louis” with Michelle Li on KSDK Channel 5. And whether he’s telling the inspiring story of a St. Louis man who was shot, paralyzing him from the waist down, but who now has forgiven his attacker and is training to become a paralympic athlete; reporting on the death of legendary Cardinal manager Whitey Herzog; or even visiting the North Korean Border to report on the 2018 Winter Olympic Games, but on the side tells the story of the oppression of the people of South Korea,
Rene says he just loves to tell the human stories that he hopes will encourage others.
“You can name practically any sporting event, and I’ve been there,” Rene says. “But I’ve never had more fun than doing the job I’ve been doing for the last several years—getting to know St. Louis and the people and their stories. It inspires me, and I want those stories to do to others what they’ve done to me. You could walk down any street in America and knock on the door and ask, ‘What’s your story?’ and be inspired in some way. I had a neighbor whose mother was Harry Caray’s secretary.”
Born to Ralph and Judy Knott, in Hollywood, California, on May 2, 1964, Rene played football and earned his degree from Southern Oregon State College,


where he met his wife of 37 years, Marla Knott, before landing his first job at KDRV-TV in Medford, Oregon.
Rene says he started out dreaming of writing sports for the Los Angeles Times. But after working internships at local television stations, he realized he enjoyed the idea of telling stories visually. After college, he went on to television stations in Mobile, Alabama, and Washington D.C., before moving to St. Louis, which he says is where he hopes to stay.
“Sometimes your personal happiness can be found in the simplest of things and small places, but you have to breathe it in,” he says. “I hadn’t done that until I got to St. Louis.”
Rene started at “5 On Your Side” in 2004 as the show’s sports director. He moved to the morning show in 2016.
Rene and Marla have two children, Easton Knott, 33, a Washington University graduate and Georgetown Preparatory School counselor; and Eryn (Knott) Day, 28, a MIZZOU graduate and now a kindergarten teacher in Colorado.
Rene states his father, a UPS worker, was his greatest role model. “He never told me do this or that. I just watched him get up early every morning, work hard and stay late,” Rene says. “He taught me the value of looking forward, not looking back. He went from South Central LA to Englewood to management at UPS. In the end he drove two Mercedes.”
It's true he hasn’t forgotten from where he came, but for Rene, looking forward is more important now.
“I think finding a personal happiness is so important. Men are geared toward being conquerors and providers, making sure our families receive more than we were given. We tend to look at our inventory of material items more so than our inventory of emotional items. But we need to stop and embrace where
“Sometimes your personal happiness can be found in the simplest of things and small places, but you have to breathe it in. I hadn’t done that until I got to St. Louis.”

we are in life rather than what we want to accomplish,” Rene says. “We need to slow down and embrace the moments more so than the things.”
As he turned 60 years old last month, Rene says he reflected on the expectations of his own generation and realized perhaps the younger men of today are getting it right. “We didn’t necessarily follow our hearts in our generation. We went to college, got a job, provided for our families. We were geared toward the 40-to-60-hour work week,” he says. “I think young people today are
more geared toward personal happiness, careers that fit their personal passions. I envy it. We grew up with a fear of losing our jobs, one vacation a year and wait for retirement. Kids today believe in experiences in life. They believe they’ll find another job. I would tell them to experience life more and find their true passions that allow them to escape from the nine-to-five or to become their nine-to-five.”







TALENTED PERFORMERS BRING OUT BROADWAY BEST, STARTING WITH LES MISÉRABLES
106 Season Of The Muny


A seven-show lineup ushers in The Muny's magic of a new season under the stars, opening June 17 and running through Aug. 25. "Les Misérables" is the season's opening performance. It previously was produced at The Muny in 2007 and 2013.
“Following our epic and powerful 105th season, Muny 106 promises to be equally big, bold and exciting,” says Muny Artistic Director and Executive Producer Mike Isaacson. “It offers something for everyone, with a glorious selection of new and classics, as well as stories that will move and entertain.”
Muny enthusiasts indicate they're looking forward to the summer kicking off with one of the most celebrated mega-musicals in Broadway history, "Les Misérables" (June 17-23). John Riddle, Jordan Donica, Teal Wicks, Red Concepción, Jade Jones, Ken Page, Emily Bautista, Gracie Annabelle Parker, Peter Neureuther and James D. Gish will star in this year's production. The creative team is led by Director Seth Sklar-Heyn, with Choreographer Jesse Robb, Music Director James Moore and Associate Musical Director Michael Horsley. The production also will feature 20 singers from the St. Louis Symphony Chorus.
“A timeless musical like Les Misérables deserves a powerhouse cast, and the group of actors Seth has chosen will leave you in awe. Audiences will be thrilled to see Victor Hugo’s complex characters gloriously sung on our stage by these wonderfully talented artists,” predicts Mike.
Performances that then follow are: the show-stopping "Dreamgirls" (June 27-July 3); magical Muny favorite, Disney’s " The Little Mermaid" (July 8-16); "Fiddler on the Roof" (July 19-25), and the regional and Muny premiere of Sara Bareilles’ " Waitress" (July 30-Aug. 5). Making its Muny premiere is Lin-Manuel Miranda’s "In the Heights" (Aug. 9-15).
CONTINUED >

The grand finale of the season is the long-awaited return of the tap-dancing comedy, Cole Porter’s "Anything Goes" (Aug. 19-25).
"I'm beyond excited about our 2024 season lineup,” says Kwofe Coleman, Muny president/CEO. “The opportunity to celebrate community, share memories and create opportunity through these seven shows is an incredible gift I can’t wait to share with audiences."
A new sponsor for this year's season is SSM Health Cardinal Glennon for the Infant Care Suite , a dedicated space for parents to nurse children while at The Muny. It also serves as a space for caregivers and young children to take a break during the performance.
The SSM Health First-Aid Suite is staffed by a nurse at every performance for basic medical needs.
The Muny is the oldest, largest outdoor musical theater in America and brings the best of Broadway to St. Louis each summer, with each production created from the ground up in Forest Park.
Each night at The Muny begins with a Preshow Festival, featuring free entertainment on four stages across the campus. Seated dining is available before each show at the Culver Pavilion, or guests can bring their own picnic to enjoy on the lawn.
Muny season tickets, starting at $126, are on sale at Muny.org, at the Muny box office in Forest Park or by calling 314.361.1900. Single tickets went on sale May 20.






HONORING A HISTORIC YET FORGOTTEN VITAL NEIGHBORHOOD OF CLAYTON
A Community Remembered
ARTICLE BY JULIE BROWN PATTON

“It honors the resilience and contributions of our early Black community, shaping the city we know today.
“A Community Remembered” marker to commemorate the thriving, successful Black community in Clayton between the 1880s and 1960s was unveiled April 3 by representatives of the City of Clayton and Clayton Community Foundation. The marker is located at 7700 Carondelet Ave.
Clayton Mayor Michelle Harris says the marker honors Clayton's vibrant Black community whose contributions enriched the city's cultural and economic fabric.
"From homeowners to educators, laborers and city workers, these early residents played pivotal roles in shaping Clayton's history, establishing churches, businesses, and fostering community spirit. Yet, their legacy was overshadowed by challenges like housing discrimination and rezoning, leading to displacement and the erasure of their history," she adds.
The historic neighborhood was bounded by Hanley Road and Brentwood Boulevard, and even more densely populated between Hanley and Bemiston Avenue on Carondelet and Bonhomme avenues, according to city records.
In a 2017 documentary film directed by Clayton High School and Washington University grad Emma Riley, "Displaced & Erased,” she showed the first postmaster of Clayton was Black and that the city had a previous African-American school called Attucks Elementary.
"The marker stands as a symbol of our joint commitment to preserving all parts of Clayton’s history," says Mayor Harris. "It honors the resilience and contributions of our early Black community, shaping the
city we know today. Through the hard work and efforts of the Mayor's Commemorative Landscape Task Force and the support of the Clayton Community Foundation, we're ensuring the stories of our diverse community are preserved and celebrated."
Donna Rogers-Beard, a former AP World History teacher with the Clayton School District for 20 years, says at its height, this community was home to more than 300 people. She’s researched the area since 1991, combing through newspaper archives and conducting oral histories after learning about the Attucks School at the Clayton School District’s 100th-anniversary party.
"It was Doris Graham who gave my first insight into the community's history. She was born on the site of the now-Meridian Inn on Bonhomme. I began researching census records and interviewing people until I had a more complete story of residents from Old Town Clayton," Donna explains.
After Donna created a presentation for teachers and students, Clayton Historical Society members invited her to share her research.
Donna also researched Clayton's first Black postmaster, Richard Hudlin Sr. The History Museum staff published her 10-page article about him and 'Old Town Clayton' for the group's spring 2023 Gateway Magazine
"I've been fortunate to witness the former residents and their descendants celebrate a commemoration of their beloved community on three occasions," she adds. "They know they cannot go back to when they lived and thrived in a place so close-knit that almost everyone was related by blood or marriage to their neighbors.


I’ve been fortunate to witness the former residents and their descendants celebrate a commemoration of their beloved community on three occasions. “ ”
And most went to the same church, which was within walking distance. But they appreciate being acknowledged as part of Clayton's history."
One of the people Donna interviewed was Derek Novel. He also was asked to speak at the unveiling of the marker. He says his paternal grandparents owned a few parcels in Clayton.
"Before my birth, my family moved into one of those properties in the late 1940s. They rented the home at 121 S. Hanley. Years later, Grandpa informed them by letter in 1956 he had sold 'our home' for the location of a Cadillac dealership," Derek states. "We moved into a house up the street on Bonhomme until Pop received a letter requiring us to vacate that residence by the end of January 1958. It was torn down and added to parcels that eventually became the 7777 Building."

Derek says his father found a hilly, forested lot at the end of what is Colorado Avenue. "Unable to afford a home in Clayton, my parents bought and cleared that lot to have a home built upon it. That's where the family of Bertrand and Emma Novel lived from 1959 to the early 1970s. My sister attended Meramec, Bellevue, Wydown schools, and graduated exactly 60 years ago as the only African-American in the class of 1964 of Clayton High School, and I was the only one in the class of 1969."
Adrian Rice's mother, Sharon McKinney Rice, aunts and grandparents lived in a house located where Le Méridien St. Louis Clayton stands now. He and Derek are cousins. Adrian, too, met Donna along the way, and he also shared remarks at the marker unveiling regarding decades-old stories his family had passed down.
CONTINUED >
"My mom and aunts attended Attucks school, and we have old report cards of theirs. I attended the marker ceremony during 2023 that commemorated the school," says Adrian. "My aunt, JoAnne McKinney Henderson, was also the first African-American female to graduate from Clayton High School in 1956."
Adrian adds, "Mom says she had a fairly idyllic childhood growing up in Clayton. They had fun, and enjoyed many adventures playing in what is now the commercial district but was then a tight-knit residential area."
Life has a funny way of criss-crossing.
Adrian says his grandmother saved the life of a child in Clayton when the young boy was inside a car careening toward Brentwood Boulevard. "She jumped into the car, as it was heading into traffic, and steered it to safety or somehow stopped it," he explains, but little did Adrian know how this happening would come into his personal world.
After relocating to Los Angeles, Adrian says he randomly met a young woman with St. Louis connections. "It turns out that her family knew mine. She invited me to attend a family reunion with her relatives in LA. They asked
about my family, and when an older man heard my grandmother's name, he lit up, saying he knew her and that she saved his life. He began to tell the same story about a near car accident. I exclaimed: You are THE boy!' And he was."
In another mystery solved, Adrian says The First Baptist Church of Clayton was once located at 216 S. Brentwood Blvd., (facing Shaw Park) and Bonhomme Avenue with membership up to 600 parishioners. On Sept. 29, 1961, the final service was held at First Baptist Church of Clayton. The congregation moved to 2801 Union in the City of St. Louis. The church was renamed Clayton Missionary Baptist. This was where Adrian's family attended church. "As a child, I did not know or understand the history of how or why the African-American community disappeared in Clayton or why our church was named for Clayton but resided now in St Louis City."
Life also came full circle for Adrian regarding Clayton. After moving back to St. Louis during 2020 after being gone for about 15 years, he works at the marketing agency BI WORLDWIDE, located at none other than 8000 Maryland Ave. in Clayton.









Handling Adversity With Fortitude And Grace

He’s a Soccer Hall-of-Famer, an author and an extremely proud father and grandfather. Jim Tietjens tells others that in many ways he’s the luckiest person in the world: this from a man who has overcome seemingly insurmountable health challenges. He continues to face each new trial with courage, fortitude and grace. Now, he’s on a mission to give back with a book about his journey and the people who helped him along the way.
Jim’s book, Saves, is about everyone who has supported him, including his grade school friend, Mike, and the soccer coach who mentored him. Jim states it’s all about relationships and being surrounded by great friends and medical teams. His book is his way of honoring them.
At age 64, Jim has mastered the ability to bounce back from setbacks and maintain a positive mindset. He has Idiopathic Cardiomyopathy that has resulted in two heart transplants, a kidney transplant, cancer— twice, several pneumonias, and now, peripheral artery disease. Regardless, he remains positive.
Jim says, “I've been dealing with this since I was 31 years old. My father and one sister died of the same heart ailment.”
One minute he was a professional athlete running a marathon, and the next, it was like someone flipped a switch. He was diagnosed with a hereditary condition commonly associated with heart failure in young adults. Several members of Jim’s family tested positive for the condition. There is no cure, but Jim is hopeful there will be someday.
“Maybe not in my lifetime, but my two kids are negative and can't pass it on to their children,” says Jim. “So, it’s really like a miracle.”
Jim says he was 21 months old when his father passed, leaving his mother to raise him. He attributes his strength and perseverance to her. “She taught me to never stay down, so I've always just gotten back up.”
In 1992, as a newlywed, Jim underwent his first heart transplant. His donor was a young boy killed in a motorcycle accident. He reached out to the donor's family but never heard back.
“He was an only son so it would have been very hard on them,” Jim acknowledges.
Three years later, he and his wife welcomed their son, Jimmy, into the world, and two years after that, their daughter, Annie. For a while, life was good. Then in 2003, Jim was diagnosed with stage IV Non-Hodgkin lymphoma.
“The doctor gave me a 50/50 chance, and I just told myself that she doesn't know me, so I'm going to change it to 75/25,” Jim says.
Six chemo treatments later, he says he was in remission and eventually declared cancer-free, but the chemotherapy had severely damaged his lungs. Jim fought on with unwavering resolve and by that Christmas, his lungs were clear.
His tenacity would be tested in 2013 with another cancer diagnosis: throat and tongue. A one-hour surgery to remove the small tumor became an 8-hour procedure to remove 23 lymph nodes. Still, Jim seemed to take it all in stride. By 2018, he was in his third year of kidney dialysis, his heart was showing stress and he would need another surgery. This time his heart and kidney donor was a 23-yearold National Guardsman from Cape Girardeau. He met his mother and they still keep in touch. He says he owes everything to that family and everyone who was part of his transplant journey.
“There's a chain of life at work with a heart transplant…and every link has to be strong,” Jim says. “I believe that’s why it’s all about the team, your team of friends, family, and doctors. That's what I'm trying to honor in the book: everyone.”
He continues to deal with the effects of peripheral artery disease, resulting in 15 surgeries and a toe amputation. He says it’s been rough so it’s important to keep a positive attitude.
Jim is now retired, writing and public speaking to share his story. He says he's taking his book to the U.S. Transplant Olympics in Birmingham this July, and is looking at additional national events in hopes his story will inspire others.

Jim Tietjens is surely a man of tremendous faith and courage, and perhaps an eternal optimist. Despite multiple organ transplants and other life-threatening medical issues, he’s still smiling.
"I’ve always tried keeping a positive attitude,” Jim says. More details about Jim's amazing medical journey, and all those he credits with saving his life again and again, can be gleaned in his new book, Saves. He says the book soon will be available on Amazon and via other major outlets. InspireMeStories.com
PAWSOME AUTHOR TOUR PAWSOME AUTHOR TOUR
Join Author, Kelley G. Lamm, & Olive the Bulldog for a pawsome reading or pawtograph pawty near you spreading a message of courage & fun...

Oh No! A THUNDERSTORM!
Meet Olive the Bulldog and join us on a captivating journey that inspires young readers to be brave Even though the sky may go BOOM, BAM, BUMP, THUMP and even SPLISH, SPLASH, CRACKLE, CRACK the sun will always come out Let’s be brave together and have a pawsome day!
Scan For Pawsome Pupdates or to Order today












The Accelerated Golf Tour will consist of a series of approximately ten tournaments during June, July and the first week of August. Each tournament will be open to both male and female golfers. College coaches may be in attendance.





CHELSEA HAYNES,
StudioSTL Host

A Nod To Fatherhood
Being A Dad Isn’t Easy. Thanks for Being Mine!ARTICLE BY CHELSEA HAYNES
DAD, WHAT WAS THE SCARIEST THING ABOUT BECOMING A FATHER?
"Becoming a parent is intimidating. You suddenly become responsible for the life of another person and the generations to come after through your little one."
WHAT DOES BEING A DAD MEAN TO YOU?
"Fatherhood should be the embodiment of the Heavenly Father’s love here on Earth. A father should be a provider, protector and prophet for the household. You’re responsible for establishing the discipline and rewards systems in the house to create structure and stability. Fatherhood is not hard work, but it’s ‘heart’ work."
WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST ACCOMPLISHMENT AS A FATHER?
"As a dad, I am proud to say I put my kids through high school and college, and even honored that my kids still call home every day. It’s a connection that continues even as my children are thriving in adulthood."
THANK YOU!
Dad, thank you for always being there when we need you! You are our family’s rock, comedic relief and helping hand. I am grateful to have you as a father and friend. Two thumbs up for raising us and giving us a life full of beautiful memories. This is my nod to fatherhood!
Creating beautiful smiles.
























Defender 110 X-Dynamic
ARTICLE BY SUSAN LANIER-GRAHAM PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDEDADVENTURE AWAITS IN A REIMAGINED LAND ROVER CLASSIC

Land Rover has managed to reimagine a classic in a masterful way. The new Land Rover Defender 110 X-Dynamic SE is ideal whether you’re heading out for a day off-roading, or making a quick run to pick up groceries or the kids from school. The Defender offers an unmatched exterior, extreme durability, best-in-class capability, and stunning technology.
INTERIOR AND EXTERIOR FEATURES
The Defender 110 X-Dynamic SE featured a sliding panoramic roof, automatic headlight leveling, and keyless entry. The all-terrain tires will take you easily over the roughest terrain. Inside, you’ll love the 12-way heated and cooled electric memory leather front seats. You’ll enjoy entertainment on the go with the 10-inch Touchscreen, interactive driver display, and Meridian Sound System 400W with 10 speakers and a subwoofer.
UNPARALLELED PERFORMANCE
The Defender is engineered and tested to the extreme. According to Land Rover, is it the “toughest and strongest vehicle ever” and has undergone rigorous testing. If you want to head off-the-grid, Defender is ready. It has a 370-lb. dynamic roof load and a 661-lb. static load. It can tow up to 7,716 lbs. with the Advanced Tow Assist. The electro winch has a maximum pulling force of 10,000 lbs., operated via remote control.
MSRP: $72,000
Price as tested: $87,973 17 MPG city/20 MPG highway






Perfecting Your Golf Swing
ARTICLE BY DANIEL SCHOWENGERDTWhether you are a new golfer or have been playing for decades, we all want the same thing—to be a single-digit handicap (or better). In some professions, golfing with clients is a must, and slicing off the tee box can kill the deal.

Get fit for equipment.
01.
If you are buying clubs off the rack, you aren’t giving yourself the best chance for success. Golf technology is evolving every year, and although you don’t need to buy a new driver each year, if you’ve been playing with the same clubs for 5+ years, it’s time to take advantage of the new equipment. Newer clubs have lower and deeper center of gravity (CG), creating an easier launch off the face. Even off-center strikes can produce a straight shot with the right set of clubs. Any major golf store will fit you for free—just make sure you get the correct length club and size grip. The clubs don’t swing themselves, so don’t neglect instruction and practice, but getting the right equipment is a vital piece of the puzzle.

On drivers and hybrids, some of the newest equipment have premium shaft options off the rack. Generally, a $300 driver has a low-grade $15 shaft that you should change. The shaft is the engine of the club, so getting custom shafts will add distance and forgiveness—guaranteed.
As for the putter, you use it more than any other club in your bag on every round of golf. It should be the most tailored club in your bag.
Get good golf instruction, REGULARLY.
02.

We’ve all heard someone say, “I should get a lesson sometime.” To be effective, you need regular lessons from a PGA certified pro, not just one lesson. Getting quality instruction from the same instructor can turn slices into draws and give you the confidence to play with anyone on any course. Years ago, golf instructors started instruction with chipping and putting and then graduated to the driver. Now, instructors have been pressured to start with the driver because we all want to outdrive our friends. Resist that temptation! Get instruction on your short game and irons first. My friend regularly outdrives me by 50 yards, but my ball is in the hole first most of the time because of my training and practice on the short game.
Read quality golf books for a higher golf IQ.
03.
There are thousands of golf books, but don’t worry, you only need to read a handful of them to up your golf IQ. Here are some top reads: Short game: Dave Pelz’s Short Game Bible by Dave Pelz Mental game: Golf is Not a Game of Perfect by Bob Rotella Mechanics: Practical Golf by John Jacobs Ball flight laws: The Practice Manual by Adam Young (only read the first 50 pages)
Practice your short game every day.
04.
You don’t even have to spend time away from your family while practicing if you don’t have a golf simulator. You can practice putting and chipping on the carpet while watching TV with your family.
Chipping and the bump and run: The only mechanical advice I will give is the most important lesson you can learn in the short game. When you miss your approach shot you must be able to chip the ball within 8 feet of the hole for a one putt. Try this shot from Dave Peltz’s short game book. It gets me up and down from 25 yards out to just off the green.
Instructors have been pressured to start with the driver because we all want to outdrive our friends. Resist that temptation! Get instruction on your short game and irons first.









Parkinson’s Disease: Advertisement
Learn how to take control over this journey.
By: Dr. Beth TemplinYou may be surprised to hear that intense exercise is highly recommended for a progressive disorder such as Parkinson’s Disease (PD). In fact, research has shown this is the approach that is most beneficial.

Whether exercising in a class, with the guidance of a physical therapist, or on your own, people with PD have some unique needs that must be taken into considera tion. The following guidelines should be focused on and prioritized when designing a PD specific workout:
High Effort Workouts
Complex Movements
Big Movements
Whole Body Exercises
Upright Posture
Intense workouts may sound intimidating for any aging adults, let alone someone with a progressive condition, but intensity is one of the most important factors to see lasting benefits Not only are you fighting back against the normal aging process, but PD as well Intense exercise allows you to stay active and independent.
If you want to learn more about how to manage the symptoms of PD, we' ve put together this FREE guide to
show how PD specific exercise is truly one of the best things you can do to slow down the progression and manage the symptoms of the disease.
Inside you'll learn: Primary and secondary symptoms of PD. How exercise manages all of your Parkinson's symptoms. The most important things to get in your exercise routine.
Top recommendations for managing PD longterm.
AND much more!
This guide is available to you absolutely FREE of charge! To claim your copy, simply call our office at (314) 939-1377 or visit our website www housefitstl com/parkin sons to download the guide directly to your computer If you’re ready to slow down the progression of your PD and continue to live a full life, this guide is for you

JUNE 2024
events
A SELECTION OF UPCOMING LOCAL EVENTS
JUNE 2ND
Picnic In The Park
Shaw Park | 4:00 PM
Grab a picnic blanket and join a concert from Hudson and the Hoo Doo Cats. Savor tastes from an assortment of food trucks, let kids bounce around in inflatables, chase bubbles from the Bubble Bus, and just relax in the park. Admission is free with food and beverage available for purchase. The event's sponsor is the Clayton Community Foundation.
JUNE 6TH
Circus Flora: Marooned
The Big Top, 3401 Washington Blvd. | 7:00 PM
Inspired by the allure and mystery of a deserted island, “Marooned!” promises to transport audiences into a world of adventure, discovery and enchantment. Get ready to witness the resilience and ingenuity of the performers as they navigate the challenges of the unknown, bringing to life a tale of survival, camaraderie and the enduring spirit of the human heart. Visit: Circusflora.org.
JUNE 8TH
OH OLIVE THE BULLDOG Reading Pawty!
St Louis Public LibrarySchlafly Library | 12:00 PM
Join author Kelley G. Lamm with Olive, a real bulldog, for pawsome adventures reading through the book "OH OLIVE, Oh No! A THUNDERSTORM!" There will be crafts, games, music, snacks and more. The Reading Pawty as part of the festivities!
JUNE 8TH Mo' Bourbon Festival
The Commons Courtyard New Town | 1:00 PM
Beer BBQ Shop St. Peters and the St. Charles Bourbon Society reps will host this festival until 5 p.m. Missouri bourbon samples are scheduled to be available, featuring rare and limited editions along with beloved staples. Meet the makers. Food by BobaQue will be sold on-site. Advance admission is $35 each and entry day of is $40.
JUNE 15TH
Free Football Clinic For Youth
Lou Fusz Athletic Center At Rams Park | 9:00 AM

Youths can join Hall of Famer wide receiver Isaac Bruce for the IBF's annual, free football clinic. This non-contact clinic enables youth to work on their football skills, sportsmanship and teamwork, while building self-esteem. Each participant receives a T-shirt and refreshments. Space is limited to the first 250 youth in each of the two sessions (8-10 years and 11-13 years).
JUNE 15TH
3rd Annual St. Louis Bourbon & Brews Festival
Frankie Martin's Garden's Food Truck And Beer Garden | 12:00 PM
Sip on a selection of more than 400 craft beers, bourbons and whiskeys, take in the live music, and devour fantastic food from the on-site food trucks while enjoying the features of this one of a kind 3-acre garden until 4 p.m. in Cottleville for this annual event. General admission tickets are $45 each; VIP $85; Whiskey House VIP $150.

WEEKEND LOOKS






CONTINUED
JUNE 15TH
All-Day Juneteenth Celebration
Tivoli Theatre | 8:00 AM
This year, various organizations are combining to curate an unforgettable event: Delmar Boulevard, Delmar Loop, University City, St. Louis City, along with Delmar Main Street and the St. Louis Reconciliation Network. The Race for Reconciliation is a 5K run/walk. There will be an afternoon vendor fair, followed by an evening celebration until 7 p.m. with African drummers and car show.
JUNE 22ND - 23RD
Pond-O-Rama
St. Louis Metro Area | 9:00 AM
In its 24th year, the St. Louis Water Garden Society’s annual tour features amazing ponds and water gardens in the St. Louis metro area owned and maintained by its members. As a society, it also maintained the lily ponds at the Jewel Box in Forest Park for 34plus years. Until 5 p.m. each day, tickets are $20 for both days.
JUNE 23RD
Musical Nights
Oak Knoll Park | 5:00 PM
The band Serapis will perform a free concert until 7 p.m. Bring blankets, lawn chairs and snacks to enjoy with live music near the pond. Access to parking is off of Big Bend. this concert is sponsored by the Clayton Community Foundation. Phone 314.727.8100 with questions.







