Boerne, TX June 2024

Sabinas Creek Masterpiece

Susan Hallmark and Lori Shull have been a dynamic duo for 10 years, working together in San Antonio and Hill Country real estate. Susan brings unparalleled expertise to the table, specializing in luxury residential, new home sales, and Farm & Ranch properties. Lori’s background in design and construction adds a unique perspective to the team. Together, they blend their diverse skills and deep market knowledge to make buying and selling enjoyable and heartfelt. Whether exploring the Texas Hill Country or nurturing family bonds, Susan and Lori bring strength, power, and endurance to every endeavor.

Cheers, Brothers!

When I was growing up, I heard a lot about what it means to be a man. The messages were everywhere—on TV, in music, at church, at school, and at home. But the ones that meant the most were the ones I heard from men I looked up to and loved—my dad, friends’ dads, teachers, and coaches. Some definitions were definitely more helpful than others, but I’m thinking about them often as I prepare to become a father this month.

We’re blessed that our community is full of great men like the ones I knew growing up, and we’re excited to introduce you to some of them in this issue. Former pro baseball player and brewery co-founder Jeremy Affeldt is an ace who loves creating spaces for men to be honest and vulnerable—while sharing a cold one, of course (“Vulnerability, Community, and the Buffalo Spirit,” p. 34). You can stay in style with sophisticated looks featuring some of the leaders of our community (“Most Interesting Men,” p. 58). And we’ll pause and think about our lives as we consider the advice we’d give our younger selves (“Dear, Me (Men’s Edition),” p. 42).

I’m grateful to have many men in my life who share their lives with me. From my father to my brothers, from teachers and coaches to bosses and mentors, from many friends to those few trusted confidants… there isn’t enough room to list every man who has impacted my life, but they know who they are.

When I think about authentic community and relationships between men, I will always think of my friend Michael. He passed away suddenly last year, and his absence is still acutely felt. Among the many things he left behind is wisdom in the form of poetry. So I raise a glass and hold on to this segment as advice I wish I had known when I was younger and as wisdom I hope to live out every day as a new father, a partner, and a man.

Sometimes, the only perspective we need is our own.

I am gloriously whole.

My heartbeat is the rhythm of the universe. Each star’s last incredible breath mirroring each exhale from my own lungs. Here is all I need.

Now is the only time that matters.

—Michael Moilanen, “A Peak at Resolution”

DANIEL GERTSON, EDITOR @BOERNELIFESTYLE

June 2024

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A gentleman is not defined by the content in his wallet or the cut of his suit. He is defined by his manners and the content of his character.

This gentleman. This husband. This father. This friend. This brother. This uncle. This son-in-law. This disciple. A true follower of Jesus Christ. He is my biggest support in my real estate career and the reason I believe in myself again. I am blessed. Pray for the men in your lives.

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GLOBAL REAL ESTATE ADVISOR

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WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN

1: Champion HS junior Phoenix Guerra qualified for the 2024 UIL Class 5A state golf tournament. 2: Mrs. Salas class at FOR Elementary was featured on KSAT 12 for “Science with Sarah.” 3: The Cibolo Center for Conservation celebrated its 36th birthday on Earth Day! 4: The Hill Country Mile hosted the Texas Corvette Association’s 31st Annual Open Car Show. 5: Boerne ISD Middle Schools performed at Heart of the Hills One Act Play Festival. 6: BHS girls and boys soccer both earned silver medals at the UIL 4A state championships. 7: Many locals and out of town guests gathered in Boerne for the total solar eclipse.

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Vitality Testosterone & Weight Loss

One of the best wellness teams in town celebrates one year in our community! Vitality Testosterone & Weight Loss’ expert team of health professionals is more committed than ever to helping you reach your goals. By developing personalized treatment plans surrounding testosterone replacement therapy and weight-loss management for each patient, they bring the men and women of Boerne specialized care they can feel. Here’s to your best life yet!

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Boerne100

Boerne100 was founded to connect men who have a heart for service and are looking for a way to make a real difference in our local community. Membership consists of 100 men who meet once a quarter to learn about charities doing good work in our local community. They then combine their resources to make a meaningful contribution to the most deserving of them, donating $10,000 every quarter to local causes.

On Greens & Dreams

Tom Relf knows golf. He’s been playing golf for a long time, and he’s played a lot of courses. In fact, he’s marked 87 of the top 100 ranked courses in the country off his list. He’s been a member of Canada’s PGA for 27 years, and he was the coach of the men’s and women’s national teams of Mexico from 1999 to 2011. He’s the owner and a sports agent for PGA/KFT Professional Golfers and he’s the CEO of Terra Forza Golf, a company that’s revolutionizing the way golf shafts are fit. Like we said… Tom Relf knows golf.

When we wanted to give you a guide to some of the best golf destinations in the region, state, and country, Relf was the obvious choice to turn to. So grab your bag, lace up your shoes, and round up your favorite foursome. Your dream greens are calling.

Find Tom at terraforzagolf.com

ARTICLE BY TOM RELF

Horseshoe Bay Resort | hsbresort.com

I always love my time spent at Horeshoe Bay. The “Ram Rock,” “Slick Rock,” “Apple Rock,” and “Summit Rock” courses make for a golf experience that is almost unparalleled in Texas. “Ram Rock” has long held the distinction as one of the toughest tests of golf in the state, and it is still my favorite. I also find “Slick Rock” very enjoyable and a great experience. “Summit Rock” is the private course in the quartet and has fairly limited play relative to the other three. Even the putting course is amazing and offers something fun to do as a family, even for the most novice golfer.

Omni Barton Creek | omnihotels.com/ hotels/austin-barton-creek

There are four eighteen-hole courses at Barton Creek: “Fazio Foothills,” “Fazio Canyons,” “Coore Crenshaw,” and “Palmer Lakeside.”  For the most part, the topography at Barton Creek is very undulating which results in some really unique design and architecture on all of the courses. My personal favorite is “Fazio Canyons.” The Omni Hotel at Barton Creek is also wonderful. The resort offers something for everyone—an amazing spa, great dining options, and outstanding golf instruction and practice facilities.

Fields Ranch | fieldsranch.com

The new shining star in the golf world is Fields Ranch in Frisco. Omni Resorts and the PGA of America have joined forces to build one of the more incredible golf complexes in the country. Fields Ranch East and Fields Ranch West will host 25 major championships over the next eleven years. Additionally, the practice facility, academy, club fitting, and training facility are second to none, and a great short course and putting course round out an incredible experience. The Omni PGA Frisco Resort offers great rooms, a number of really good dining options, a few really good bars, and an incredible spa.

Pine Valley Golf Club

My favorite golf course in the world has to be Pine Valley Golf Club in New Jersey. You have to be a member or invited by one to play, and I’ve been very lucky to have played it more than fifty times. Every time I go back, I can’t help but be excited for what I know awaits. It boasts some of the truly greatest golf course architecture in the world, incredible fellowship, and world-class conditions that make it simply the best. Pine Valley is very private and requires all players to walk the golf course and use a caddy. It really is a special club in the world of golf, so if you ever get the chance to play here, be sure to take it.

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DISCOVER THE BREADTH AND BEAUTY OF HILL COUNTRY DISTILLING

When one talks about distilling in Texas, the conversation understandably usually revolves around whiskey and tequila. But, just like the Lone Star State, the spirit landscape is diverse. That’s especially true in the Hill Country. So, in rounding up area distillers of note, we intentionally included spirits other than those mainstays. Some may be well known, while others have more recently popped onto the radar. No matter how extensive or storied these creators may be, we hope you enjoy exploring the deep history and developing future of the spirits scene in our state—a history and future as bright, broad, and beautiful as the Texas sky.

1/ The Bourbon expertise of these long-time friends comes through in four styles, including rye and over-proofed varieties. Find them online and in discerning retailers. sisterdaledistillingco.com 2/ Already one of San Antonio’s oldest craft breweries, Ranger Creek has mastered whiskey too, with bourbon and rye standards, alongside special releases of single-malts specialties. drinkrangercreek.com 3/ Elk Store Winery & Distillery Brothers carry on their great-grandfather’s legacy in this Fredericksburg destination. Hand-crafted moonshine, gin, rum, and whiskey are exclusively available at their historic Main Street storefront. elkstore1895.com 4/ These specialty liquors crafted in Kerrville from prickly pear cactus are unmistakably Hill Country. With flavors reminiscent of vodka, tequila, and gin, there’s a uniqueness to these spirits that’s unmistakably Texas. hcspirits.com

ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY DANIEL GERTSON

1/ Sisterdale Distilling Co.

2/ Ranger Creek Brewing & Distilling

3/ Elk Store Winery & Distillery Brothers

4/ Hill Country Spirits

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Vulnerability, Community, and the Buffalo Spirit

ARTICLE BY REY LOPEZ | PHOTOGRAPHY BY SARAH BROOKE LYONS

“I played with 750 millionaires, and more than 80% of them are unhappy.”

Walk into Free Roam Brewing Company on Main Street, and you immediately sense it’s a place that is different from your ordinary craft beer pub. There’s a sense of history in the space that includes a 100-yearold well. There’s also a sense of community among its patrons that draws you in and makes you feel like you are experiencing something far more satisfying than a good pint of beer. For CEO and co-founder Jeremy Affeldt, that’s all by design, and it’s a design that began on the diamond of Major League Baseball.

During his days as a pitcher for the San Francisco Giants—a career that included three World Series championship rings—Affeldt recognized a void in men’s lives that wasn’t being addressed. "There are 750 guys in Major League Baseball, and the average salary is $3 million," Affeldt explains. "So, I played with 750 millionaires, and more than 80% of them are unhappy. You have guys buying cars for every day of the week, and they're buying big houses and boats; they look for the models and the actresses. They have all of these things they can't satisfy themselves with because they're just empty."

That emptiness was worsened by insecurity and isolation, and Affeldt realized the challenges he witnessed in professional baseball extended to men from all walks of life. "We're all very insecure because we have to perform every day, and we know we can't," he says. "Over the course of time, they build up these walls. And it's not because they're bad people. I've just learned that men, in general, build up this wall. They don't know if they can do it, and if they do, they don't know if they can maintain it. They don't know if they can be good husbands, fathers, or providers."

He came by these realizations honestly: "When I was going through my divorce, I started learning about myself. I started looking around and saw that men have a hard time being vulnerable not only with their wives or kids but with each other." So, Affeldt decided to do something about it—for himself and others. "What I learned was that healthy relationships do not function without vulnerability. You have to let people know who you are," he said. "My buddies, my close circle of men, cannot protect me if they don't know what they're protecting."

From the beginning, Affeldt has envisioned his brewery as a safe space for men to be open and honest about who they are and what they face. Free Roam's logo combines an image of hops and a buffalo head, an image that "is a homage to our spirit animal, the mighty buffalo. A creature built for the storm, the buffalo symbolizes inner strength, perseverance, and a love of freedom."

The buffalo's instinct is to run into, rather than away from , an approaching storm, which, Affeldt says, inspires him. "I was starting to learn about the buffalo mentality and how buffaloes charge storms,” he elaborates. “That's how I have to get men to look at life. It's not hiding from or running from storms and putting up this facade that says, 'I'm tough.' It's about being present with the storm, admitting you have a storm, and then being man enough to take on that storm."

Affeldt also challenges the stereotypical understanding of a "warrior mentality" by turning it on its head. "It's not saying 'Nothing's wrong. I'm good.' That's not a warrior mentality. That's a coward mentality because it's not good. You're hiding, you're scared, and you're running," he said.

It’s not saying, ‘Nothing’s wrong. I’m good.’ That’s not a warrior mentality. That’s a coward mentality. “ ”

As he ruminated on this idea of vulnerability as the foundation for inner strength and the buffalo’s approach to life's challenges, he started to see community as the framework for connection. He also knew exactly how he would achieve his dreams.

In the Bay Area, Affeldt was invited to speak at a church’s men's night in 2019. The event was on a Saturday night, and he assumed it would be at the church. He knew that a Sunday school room was the last place men wanted to be on a Saturday evening and was not shy about letting the pastor know. To his surprise, the pastor agreed.

"’Yeah, I know. That's why I didn't want to offend you,’" Affeldt recalls him saying. "’I'm putting it on at a brewery.’" Affeldt spoke to 250 men that night. "The men start coming in. I order a beer, light my cigar, and guys start leaving," he recounts. Affeldt and the pastor wondered why a cigar might offend the men. What happened next caught them both by surprise. The men returned with cigars and cigarettes. Affeldt turned to the pastor and commented, "It's called 'safe place.'"

Affeldt spoke to the men that night about vulnerability and the buffalo mentality. "I cried. They cried. And that's when I realized this is the vulnerability I'm looking for.

I want to get to the hearts of men where they can be real." As he drove back to San Francisco, he says he felt God directing him to create a place where this could be a regular occurrence.

The following year—as the world reeled and the COVID pandemic raged—Affeldt saw a perfect opportunity to apply the buffalo mentality and charge head-first into the storm by launching Free Roam with guys he got to know at that brewery, manager Brandon Phillips and head brewer Jaron Shepherd. Many called him crazy, but Affeldt remained steadfast. "I'm not nuts. I know why I want to do it. I'm not just wanting to open a beer hall. I have a passion for community and a passion for men. My thought is if I can create an environment where men can be real, get together, and have a brewery, yes, but almost like a pub where you go in, and guys are sitting at tables, and they're hanging out."

And he has seen people form genuine connections. "Be as vulnerable and transparent as possible," he says. "You need to be transparent with everybody and vulnerable with a few. Transparency is just about who I am. If you don't like me, that's fine. I won't play the game of charades and become what you want me to be so I can hang with you. And then there's another circle; they know my deepest, most intimate frustrations and thoughts. Those are the guys that give me wisdom."

What was born out of a commitment to create a safe place for men has expanded its scope to be a place where everyone can be honest, and Affeldt hopes that becomes the legacy of his brewery and his life. "I've seen men cry. I've seen women cry. I've seen marriages hashing out arguments in the corner. I've seen guys figuring stuff out. I've seen business deals. That's life."

freeroambrewing.com | 830-336-5257 | 325 S. Main St. Wardrobe: Vicki Kennedy | vickikennedy.jhilburn.com

I’ve seen men cry. I’ve seen women cry. I’ve seen marriages hashing out arguments in the corner… That’s life.

“Thanks

Kathy L.

Dear, Me (Men’s Edition)

IT’S

THE GUYS’ TURN TO SHARE WISDOM WITH THEIR YOUNGER SELVES

ARTICLE BY DANIEL GERTSON

As we did for women last month, we want to give the men in our community a chance to pause and reflect on their lives. After all, “What do you wish you’d known when you were younger?” is a question men face too. Still, it can be a struggle for guys to take the time to consider. But as James Castro of Conscious Health & Wellbeing, PLLC says, “The future is really only the next breath away.”

To begin the exercise of reflection, Castro suggests homing in on your purpose, which serves as a foundation for the rest of our work. “Purpose provides the frame of reference for perpetual reflection and intentionality,” he says. “It becomes the lighthouse, the barometer, to measure most things in our life, showing us the way to view events, thoughts, and feelings.”

If one struggles with painful memories or emotions along the way, Castro offers this encouragement: “The past doesn’t have to equal the future. Life is really full of so many positive possibilities… Everyone has resiliencies; learning how to access them and use them helps overcome hard things!”

We extend a heartfelt “thank you” to the many men in our community and networks who were willing to pass along their wisdom. We’re especially thankful to the guys of Morningside at Menger Springs and to those who attended a recent “Men’s Night” at Free Roam Brewing Co. for being honest, transparent, and vulnerable and living out the truth that we all thrive when we charge the storms of life together.

I wouldn’t just speak, I would shout to my younger self to stop looking into the past and worrying about yesterday. Focus on becoming the best version of myself today to maximize tomorrow. —David

Love them all where they are and stay openminded to everyone. Lean into the people who love you no matter what. They'll get you through the harder times and to the people who will carry you through the rest of the way. —Gilbert

Go get tested and treated for ADHD! Before you go to college, work, get married, or raise kids in your early 20s. You will understand yourself so much better and be able to manage your attention issues, love and accept yourself, and be more present in your relationships. —Aaron

It’s not about the end goal. It’s about the journey. Enjoy your moment, your wife, your kids, your life in every moment. —Nicholas

Take your time. Life is short. Pray often. Don’t settle until you find “the one.” —David

Ask all the questions while you can! Like a lot of kids growing up, I took my family stories for granted. After all, my buddies were calling. But now I can really relate, and I have a zillion questions about their life experiences and decisions. —Hugh

Be authentic. There are enough fake people out there already. Slow down and enjoy the ride more often. Laugh until it almost hurts. Laugh at yourself most often! Treat others as you would like to be treated. Be willing to accept bigger challenges in life. It’s OK to get out of your comfort zone more often. —Gerald

The greatest treasure a man can have is a life full of joy, surrounded by those he loves! —Travis

“I wish I had understood the significance of being born, that the odds and chances to be alive are phenomenal, and that the uniqueness of me is truly amazing.” —James

“I wish I could sit down with my younger self and tell him to take that risk. No matter how hard it gets or how crazy or irresponsible your family and friends think you are, get out there and take that chance. If you don’t, you’ll spend the rest of your life wondering, ‘What if?’ ” —Rey

Learn to listen to those who matter most, especially in emotionally charged instances. There have been times when my insistence on being right (even when I was right) was lost on my loved one because I didn’t really try to understand them. Listen in such a way that you understand where they are coming from so unequivocally that they almost don’t need to hear your sage advice. —Jeremiah

God willing, you will get old, so take care of your body. Nurture relationships, be intentional and present. Be patient, and pick a wonderful life partner. Don’t take yourself seriously, and vacation often. —Phil

Be certain of nothing; it’s a great way to learn and see new perspectives. Make some mistakes. Not big mistakes, but some consequences are fleeting and make for great stories when you’re older. You are not playing a video game trying to get to the next level, you are living a life—a life with a purpose, a life that was sacrificed for, a life that deserves to be truly lived. The Powerball numbers on April 22, 2024, are 12, 16, 33, 39, 52, and the Powerball is 1. —Evan

Transformation & Kindness

Trenton Teat Designs More Beautiful Spaces and a More Compassionate World

Trenton Teat doesn’t run your average bathroom remodeling company; he runs a beacon of compassion and transformation. Specializing in high-quality renovations, Ballroom Baths has made a name for itself for its exceptional craftsmanship and its unwavering commitment to international philanthropy.

Teat founded Ballroom Baths as a family business 27 years ago in Chicago. After a while, the family with seven boys moved with their business to Boerne, lured by the weather, school districts, and people. Over the years, their dedication to excellence and integrity propelled the company to success, earning them a reputation as one of the premier remodeling firms in the area.

A commitment to social responsibility is ingrained in the company’s ethos and is reflected in every aspect of their work. One of Ballroom Baths’ philanthropic projects is the Jasmine Rose Foundation. Through this initiative, the company contributes financially to provide resources like books and clothing to underserved communities in the Philippines.

In addition to their international efforts, Teat and Ballroom Baths are also dedicated to supporting their local communities. Teat frequently collaborates with local charities and organizations by donating supplies and volunteering time to make a positive impact, including a prayer tent at Boerne Market Days.

Teat shares his remodeling advice, expertise, and heart in a variety of ways. One of the most prominent:  The Ballroom Baths Show with Trent Teat radio program at 11 a.m. each Saturday on Boerne Radio. During this show, Trent addresses issues like finding and vetting a contractor, checking a builder’s business credit, and more.

Through his business every day and his philanthropic endeavors, Teat’s primary mission is to transform spaces. His team of skilled craftsmen works closely with clients to bring their vision of luxurious and functional kitchens, bathrooms, and utility rooms to life. Through his philanthropic efforts, he strives to transform the world into a kinder and more compassionate space too.

Through his business every day and his philanthropic endeavors, Teat’s primary mission is to transform spaces. “

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THE VISION & VISTAS OF A HILL COUNTRY ARTIST

PHOTOGRAPHY BY PAULA VM

For years, Pauly Tamez has been a student of the outside. He’s been trying to translate the environs and vistas of Texas to canvas since he first put paint to paper as a child. Now an adult and full-time artist, Tamez revels less in capturing a scene and more in discovering it. We sat down with the Boerne master to learn more about his inspiration, his vision, and the joy that he finds in being a man who makes art.

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HOW DID YOU GET STARTED IN ART AND PAINTING?

I discovered I could color drawings with water-based paint around age seven when I got one of those inexpensive watercolor paint sets with a single brush. I've painted with several mediums since then and pretty much grew up expressing myself with one medium or the other. I had a couple of great mentors who influenced my work and encouraged me to develop a passion for painting. The late Bill Zaner helped me develop the discipline of painting quickly and consistently. David Caton helped me develop my skills as a fine artist by exposing me to other historical painters and encouraging me to study color and composition.

WHAT INSPIRES YOU ARTISTICALLY?

Certainly, my environment—be it the Hill Country, West Texas, the Gulf Coast, or anywhere else I travel—is an inspiration for landscapes. But ultimately, it is about reaching people. I am a servant, a giver, a teacher, and a life-changer. I give away as many or more paintings as I sell. I love to teach, and I know my painting changes the lives of each person I see, meet, or engage with. I see paintings in everything, everywhere. Sometimes I wake up thinking of my next work. I relate to Vincent Van Gogh when he said, "I dream my painting, and then I paint my dream."

HOW DO YOU DESCRIBE YOUR STYLE?

When I paint landscapes, florals, or representational works, I use an impressionist style: loose and colorful, representing subjects with shapes with little detail. My abstract work is very expressionistic. I paint bold colors that flow and move. I love painting something that different people see in different ways. It's my expression, and the viewer's interpretation, but color, shape, composition, and perspective all come into play.

THERE’S A STEREOTYPE THAT MEN DON’T APPRECIATE FINE ART. DO YOU FIND THAT TO BE TRUE?

I agree that it's a stereotype, but it's not accurate. I have yet to find a man who is not, at some level, appreciative of fine art. I've related to all sorts of men through my art— professionals, craftsmen, country boys, outdoorsmen, veterans, tradesmen, and service workers. Art is emotional, and it reaches all men on some level, even if they don't like it. We all see things differently. Of course most men have an appreciation for fine art!

WHAT

DOES THE FUTURE HOLD FOR YOU AND YOUR ART?

When I retired, I was able to merge my passion with my purpose. I determined I wanted to paint the rest of my life. I work every day to get better—emotionally, spiritually, and as an artist. I don't want my paintings 10 or 20 years from now to look like they do today. I'm always trying new things, techniques, styles, and colors. I want to be a better artist, and I am purposely working toward that. And that purpose is wrapped in service, giving, teaching, and changing people's lives.

You can find Pauly Tamez’s work at venues and galleries around Boerne, San Antonio, and the Hill Country. Learn more at ptamezart.com

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J. HILBURN STYLIST VICKI KENNEDY PRESENTS CUSTOM LOOKS PERFECT FOR THE SUMMER—AND ANY SITUATION IN WHICH THE DISTINGUISHED MAN MAY FIND HIMSELF.

ARTICLE BY AUBREY MATSON | PHOTOGRAPHY BY PAULA

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This summer formal look is built on Brock’s pink, lavender, and blue shirt, made with an Italian tech fabric for excellent breathability and excellent performance. The rose pink bamboo twill sport coat is 100% bamboo fiber, offering wrinkle-resistant, hypoallergenic, and moisture-wicking luxury. Brock wears this paired with 100% linen ivory trousers, making this look perfect for any destination wedding or summer soirée.

Western

Owens’ ensemble features country essentials that will stay in style for seasons to come. Here, Owens dons a Carlo Bassetti navy and lavender geo print western shirt, complete with pearl snaps and a mid-blue denim inner placket—all custom-made and tailored to Owens’ classic style.

Waylan Owens | President, Owens Outdoor Sales

Casual

Tellez sports a multi-blue Canclini shirt, effortlessly achieving a comfortable, contemporary look. The shirt is made with weightless stretch fabrics designed for extended wearability. Paired with the stylish soft blue, Tellez also wears a double-notched Marzotto sport coat. Completing his ensemble are 4-way stretch chino pants in oatmeal for all-day comfort and style.

Israel Tellez, MD | Founder, Fair Oaks Emergency Room

Professional

Geddes is clothed in a monochromatic look perfect for the office or a dinner out on the town. This navy twill custom shirt features a stretch fabric that balances a sleek look with comfortability. Geddes’s couture Loro Piana suit—made exclusively from Australian wool for an airy, lightweight feel—with accents of pic stitching on the collar and lapel for a style that is sophisticated and strong.

Dan Geddes | Regional President, Frost Bank

Athletic

Ready for the links, Baize wears a Summers navy sand-washed pique 3-button golf shirt made with bamboo for a lasting, soft texture. Accompanying his shirt, Baize wears light grey 5-pocket pants complete with a textured, 4-way stretch fabric. Designed to fit you to a tee, the golf pant combines the quintessential links look with the flexibility and comfort to play your course.

Brian Baize | President, Chicago Title

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Doctor, Man!

“I’m here because my wife made the appointment.” This refrain—or something very similar—is one Ben Stahl, MD, hears all too frequently. He says that in his experience, he often encounters men who only seek medical attention at the behest of their spouses. Stahl is not alone in this; the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said in 2001 that men are 30% less likely to visit the doctor than women. Experts say the trend still holds, even though the data is a few decades old. While there is some debate around the reasons for this tendency, many medical experts say that it needs to change if men want to live longer, healthier lives.

Stahl attributes this phenomenon to men's focus on their careers and family responsibilities, often to the detriment of their own well-being. This tendency to prioritize external obligations over self-care can lead to delayed diagnoses and exacerbated health issues in the long run.

To combat this trend, Stahl encourages men to take a proactive approach to their health, starting as early as their twenties. He emphasizes the importance of regular check-ups, which gradually increase in frequency as a person gets older. By encouraging men to take an active role in their health

from a young age, Stahl says those practices will become lifelong self-care habits and can help reduce the need for more intensive care in the future.

This concept of patient empowerment through education and engagement is central to Stahl's approach. With each patient, he seeks to understand an individual's priorities and values, tailoring his care accordingly. He’s found this improves a patient’s motivation to participate in the process. Drawing parallels to financial planning, Stahl encourages his patients to view their health as an investment in their future quality of life. Just as they would consult a financial planner to secure their economic well-being, he urges them to proactively manage their physical health to enjoy the fruits of their labor in retirement.

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A shift in perspective like this is often needed to get men to take their healthcare seriously, Stahl says. To address common concerns men may overlook—issues such as fatigue, mood disturbances, or decreased desire—he emphasizes the importance of routine screenings, including comprehensive blood work. By identifying potential underlying problems, such as low testosterone levels, he can offer personalized interventions ranging from lifestyle modifications to medical treatments like testosterone replacement therapy.

Stahl established Boerne Family Medicine in 2009, hoping it would be not just a healthcare facility but also a cornerstone of the local community. As a 1995 graduate of Boerne High School, Stahl's roots run deep in the town. Together with his wife and four children, he not only runs the practice but also actively contributes to the fabric of Boerne's life.

His dedication to his hometown reflects his commitment to providing personalized care that transcends your typical clinical visit.

As a family medicine practitioner, Stahl is driven by a curiosity for all aspects of health. His decision to pursue family medicine stemmed from a desire to understand and address the diverse array of health concerns that individuals face. In his view, no single area of medicine dominates; instead, every facet contributes to a comprehensive understanding of health and well-being. This philosophy is reflected in the approach he champions at Boerne Family Medicine, where patients receive care that encompasses the full spectrum of their health needs.

The clinic serves people in every stage of life, from infants to seniors, and typically sees between 500 and 600 patient visits each month. Stahl affectionately jokes that they see patients "from diapers to diapers," underscoring the practice's commitment to lifelong care. However, Stahl's vision extends beyond reactive medical interventions. Embracing a new approach he refers to as “Medicine 3.0,” he is committed to preventive care and lifestyle improvements as cornerstones of his practice.

At the core of Stahl's practice is a collaborative, honest, and goal-oriented approach to care. His goal is to empower each patient to become an active participant in their health journey. Through education, engagement, and proactive interventions, Stahl especially hopes to set men free from the constraints of preventable health issues and equip everyone with the tools they need to lead a vibrant, fulfilling life.

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Honey Creek Nature Hike

Guadalupe River State Park, 3350 Park Road 31, Spring Branch | 9:00 AM

Come experience nature! Join certified guides for an interpretive hike to Honey Creek, one of the last pristine bodies of water in Texas. The trail is about 2 miles and moderate in difficulty; much of it is flat, but there are some rocky areas, slopes, and two steep but short hills. Entry is free with park admission. Register here:  fs18.formsite.com/TPWD/tntfhrb0ko/index.

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Live at Rivulet

Rivulet Kitchen & Bar, 518 River Rd. | 6:00 PM

Come experience one of Boerne's newest hangouts across from Cibolo Creek! Celebrate "Thirsty Thursday" each week with a night out featuring fabulously fresh food, ice-cold drinks, and live music.

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Sourdough Workshop at The Cibolo

Herff Farm, 33 Herff Rd. | 6:30 PM

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Movie in the Park

Main Plaza, 100 N. Main St. | 7:00 PM

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