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kicking off this issue with not one but two exciting announcements we’ve been bursting to share!
First up, after months of planning behind the scenes, we’re thrilled to announce the launch of Bromley’s first-ever dedicated local app, brought to you by Life In…Magazines! ��
Packed with everything residents love – including instant access to our digital magazines, a jam-packed What’s On calendar, a growing local business directory and brilliant offers – it’s a must-have for staying connected with your community. Best of all, it’s FREE to download on iOS! Just search ‘Life In Magazines’ on the App Store, and don’t forget to enable notifications so you never miss a new magazine launch or a local deal.
And that’s not all… we’re also delighted to announce that nominations and submissions are now OPEN for this year’s Above and Beyond Bromley Business Awards (The ABBBAs), taking place in November. If you’re a resident, two special categories – Community Hero and Business Personality of the Year – are open to public nominations, so if you know someone who deserves the spotlight, now’s the time to shout about them!
Businesses large and small are also encouraged to submit their entries –it’s free to do so and judging is done on a points system – not a popularity contest making it fair and unbiased. The ABBBAs are all about celebrating the hard-working businesses that help keep Bromley buzzing – and we’d love for you to be part of it.
You’ll find more info about both the app and the awards inside this issue… but for now, let’s just say we’re feeling pretty proud of Bromley this month. Until next time, enjoy the read!
Lauretta Wright, Editor
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Dr Nicola Bailey's piece (A Final Thought) in the May issue was particularly excellent. A clear, succinct and important description of ways to engage with children and their development and for fostering positive mental wellbeing.
Panayiota Procopiou
Thank you Panayiota for your kind words – we couldn’t agree more that encouraging open dialogue and a growth mindset in children is vital for their confidence and mental wellbeing. You’ve won our Star Response for this month and a drink on the house awaits you at The Landing Hotel. Thank you for sharing your insight and support!
Thank
you to our NHS
I was interested to read about the kindness of strangers in a recent issue. Following on from that, I have just come out of Orpington Hospital following surgery on my left foot which has to be elevated all the time, as in plaster up to the knee. I have to see the surgeon at The Princess Royal on Monday to see hopefully if the surgery has worked. So I cancelled my spring holiday to Spain and my annual Easter hotel at Hayling Island. I thought I was going for just day surgery, not being kept in for six nights. Hence, as the admission letter did not arrive in time, I was not prepared. I had no toiletries, medication, clothes, etc. with me. It was a mad rush. But I did not need to worry; the hospital staff were wonderful, from cleaners to doctors, all the staff were so caring. I know it is their job, but a lovely cheerful team which made the patients stay far more pleasant. Thank you NHS staff – and keep up the good work! What would we do without our NHS!
Andrew Beale
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt experience Andrew. It’s moments like these that remind us just how lucky we are to have such dedicated and compassionate NHS staff. We’re wishing you a smooth recovery and hope you’re back on your feet soon – perhaps even making up for that missed holiday next year!
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WALL OF SILENCE
Break down that wall of silence
Push with all your might
So many saw the fight begin On the street that night
That wall would start to crumble
If just one of them would say “We can identify them
We see them there each day”
They saw the gang that gathered
They saw who drew the knife, Had they broke that wall of silence They could have saved another life
They comforted his family
Lay flowers where he fell
They knew who was responsible
But no one there would tell Maureen Hiller
A thought-provoking poem Maureen –thank you! If you have a poem to share, we’d love to read it and perhaps you’ll see yours in print! Email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk
Enjoyed an Easter treat at Bromley Old Town Hall courtesy of family-run business, Concerto Catering. Pictured are the company’s Chelsea Cox (left) and Ruby Plenderleigh. Check them out at www.concertocatering.com
Met with Beci Ward from @studiobeci - well done to T-Level students, Tobi and Luke for coming up with the questions, conducting the interview and transcribing the interview – great job!
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ACTIVITIES
Flin's Fitness: Group | On Demand | Online
See website for class dates & times
Cost: from £6 PAYG, or memberships available
Contact: Fran 07976 412027
All genres of fitness class, for every type of lifestyle: group classes, streamed online, and an exceptional On Demand platform. Cross Training, Pilates, Yoga, Body Conditioning, Zumba and more. Mornings and evenings locally, at Westcombe Park RFC or Tubbenden & Crofton schools.
FREE monthly "Dance Because Nobody's Watching" event, aiming to bring people together for mental health & well being, and FUN. All are welcome. See www.flinsfitness.co.uk
Mel Crisp Yoga
Tuesday evening 6.55pm at Christ Church URC, Petts Wood - Vinyasa Flow Class (1hr)
Cost: PAYG £13 or 4 classes for £40. Tuesday at 8.15pm at Christ Church URC, Petts Wood – Hatha Flow (45mins)
Cost: PAYG £10 or £34 for a block of 4 classes Wednesday at 9.45am at Orpington Village HallHatha Yoga classes (1hr)
Mixed ability and beginners welcome at both classes. Cost: PAYG £13, Block Payment Classes £40 for 4 consecutive classes. First PAYG class is free. Contact: Mel on 07504 855 424. Email melcrisp41@icloud.com www.melcrispyoga.com
First class is FREE when mentioning Life In Orpington magazine.
Mel has partnered with the Primrose Centre (based in the grounds of PRUH) to offer Yoga For Breast Cancer patients. Tuesdays 2pm-3pm (free if receiving treatment) or small donation, Wednesdays 6pm-7pm and 7.15pm8.15pm. Wednesday evening classes are for those who have returned to work, where possible a donation of £10 per class.
Sunrise Challenge Run on Biggin Hill Airport Runway
Sunday 22nd June, 5am for a 6:30am race start
Cost: £20 per person (plus booking fee) includes run and medal. Tickets must be booked in advance. Contact: Call 01959 578 500 or email enquiries@ biggihillairport.com
See bigginhillairport.com/sunrise-challenge-2025
This event provides the unique opportunity to take on a 5K run on our runway while the sun rises, with all proceeds going to our three incredible corporate charity partners: Scotty’s Little Soldiers, RAF Benevolent Fund and Aerobility. To book see bigginhillairport.com/ sunrise-challenge-2025
Bike loans, repairs and sales
Monday-Thursday, 10am-3pm
The Lodge, Norman Park, Hook Farm Road, Bromley, BR2 9SX
Cost: Free bike hire
Contact: Call 020 8466 0790
We have a wide selection of bikes for all ages available to borrow. We also have a selection of refurbished bikes for sale. Bike donations are gratefully received so that Bromley Mencap can continue to teach disabled students bicycle maintenance skills. All money raised helps us support disabled people and their families in Bromley.
CASPA ‘Green Mile’
Sunday 22nd June, 12pm.
Norman Park, Hayes Lane, Bromley, BR2 9EF
Cost: Children £8, Adults £10, Families £25
Contact: fundraising@caspabromley.org.uk
Save the date for the CASPA ‘Green Mile’ 2025 at Norman Park. You can run, walk, hop or even skip the mile. However you do it, we encourage and welcome everyone and anyone to join in. This is a family friendly event which has a one-mile route around the park located on Bromley Common, suitable for all ages. Even dogs can come along. The one mile can be completed however you like. Everyone taking part in the event must wear the colour green to support CASPA and all participants will receive a winner's medal and water bottle. Everything raised from this event will go towards funding two new clubs for CASPA, a local autism community support charity based in Bromley.
For details see www.caspabromley.org.uk contactus@caspabromley.org.uk
business & NETWORKING
Bromley Business Network
Wednesday 4th & 18th June, 7am-9am
On Teams or in person at Bromley Football Club
(Hospitality Suite), Hayes Lane, BR2 9EF
Cost: £12.50 on Teams or £23 in person
Contact: 07957 819008 or email hello@ bromleybusinessnetwork.co.uk
Fortnightly business networking events. Attendance includes unlimited refreshments and a full cooked breakfast buffet. Attendees can also attend via Teams if they can’t attend in person and the first meeting is discounted.
London in-person networking! This free event is open to all – members and non-members alike. Expect expert talks on customer loyalty and delivering standout service, plus updates from FSB London, Start Up Bromley and Bromley Council.
community & CHARITY
Community Café
1st and 3rd Wednesday of every month, 2.30pm-4.30pm
Chelsfield Village Hall, Chelsfield, Orpington, BR6 7RL
Cost: Free
Contact: chelsfieldvolunteers@gmail.com
Chelsfield Volunteers offers tea, coffee, cake and conversation. All are welcome – old friends & new faces. Bring a friend or a neighbour! If you need transport or if you can offer help with transport, please call Peter on 01689 831826.
ABC Sponsored Virtual Readathon
5th - 11th June at anytime
Cost: A sponsored event - sponsor your child or yourself to read to raise funds for ABC.
Contact: 0738 777 1589
ABC is local charity that provides pre-loved books to schools and builds libraries in primaries to inspire children to read for pleasure. Join us this half term by sponsoring your child to read for 5 hours and donating the money they raise to ABC. For details visit https:// bit.ly/3YBrxvR
Polymyalgia Rheumatica & Giant Cell
Arteritis Support Group
1st Wednesday of the month
St Paul's Church, Crofton Road, Orpington, BR6 8JE
Cost: £5
Comtact: Email orpington@pmrgca.org.uk
We are the local support group for the Bromley area for all who are affected by PMR and/or GCA, two little known and poorly understood conditions. Being diagnosed can be devastating and life changing. Our speakers range from rheumatologists to pharmacists, ophthalmologists to Bromley Lions Clubs. Our meetings are an opportunity to share with others who understand. Call 0300 999 5090 for more information or visit pmrgca.org.uk/author/Orpington
CREAM TEA at The Greenwood Centre
Saturday 21st June, 2pm – 5pm
4 High Street, Green Streer Green, BR6 6BQ
Cost: £5 per person pay online in advance or at the door
Contact: (Email GSGAssn@gmail.com or TEXT ONLY
– 07931324817
Support your local community & get to know your neighbours – new and old – at our afternoon
Cream Tea on Saturday June 21st. For just £5 per person, enjoy a delicious plate of sandwiches, scones with jam and cream and unlimited tea and coffee. To ensure we have enough for everyone, please RSVP by Friday, June 13th. Full details and payment options are available at https://bit.ly/ gsgcreamtea
Macular Society Bromley Support Group
1st Tuesday of every month (except January & August) 10am for tea/coffee & biscuits. Meeting starts at 10:30am, finishing at 12pm Bromley Town Church, 2 Ethelbert Road, Bromley, BR1 1JA
Cost: Free
Contact: No need to contact - just turn up
We are a local support group for people suffering with Age related Macular Degeneration (AMD). Being diagnosed with AMD can be devastating, so we look to provide social interaction and mutual support to those affected. We have a variety of speakers and a mixed and diverse programme.
The Wednesday Club
Every Wednesday, 12.30pm onwards Sovereign of The Seas, 109-111 Queensway, Petts Wood, BR5 1DG
Cost: Free
Contact: 020 8462 2569 (Joyce)
This friendship club meets weekly and gives people the opportunity to enjoy a social get-together. There is the opportunity for people to purchase lunch and arrange outings at other times with each other.
Green Street Green Summer Fair
Saturday 21st June, 11am-3pm
Entrance via Vine Road in Orpington
Cost: Free
Contact: Email friendsofgsgschool@gmail.com
Join us for the Green Street Green Summer Fair Which promises lots of fun! Included will be inflatables, games, terrific tombola, PIMs, yummy food, and then an amazing raffle, a spectacular performance from our very own GSG choir and special guests Orpington fire station!
The Bereavement Café
Last Thursday of the month (except Aug & Dec), 11.45am-1.30pm
Orpington Village Hall, 311 High St., Orpington, BR6 0NN
Cost: Free
Contact:
Email michelleharvey.lifecelebrant@yahoo.com
A warm and welcoming space offering tea, coffee, biscuits and support for anyone coping with loss. Whether you want to talk or simply sit with others who understand, our grief counsellors are on hand for individual support. Drop in and feel supported – you’re not alone. No need to book.
what's on community & CHARITY
The Connections Café
Thursday 26th June, 3.30pm-5.30pm
Mountfield Community Centre, St Mary Cray, Sandway Road, Orpington
Cost: Free
Contact: Email info@playplace.org or call 01689 867366
In collaboration with PlayPlace, this free creative arts café is designed for those 55+, but everyone is welcome. Each week features a different creative activity— from poetry to pottery, watercolors to storytelling. No experience needed, just bring your creativity and enjoy good company! Light refreshments provided. No need to book - just drop in and connect!
The Elderberry Café
Every Wednesday, 9.30am-12 noon
Church Hall, St Paul’s Church, Crofton Road, Orpington, BR6 8JE
Cost: Free
Contact: E: elderberrycafe@stpaulscrofton.org.uk
The café serves hot drinks, home-made cakes and much more. The Elderberry Café – where friendship, food and faith meet. Everybody is welcome.
MUSIC, entertainment & FOOD
American Contra Dancing
1st and 3rd Thursdays of every month, 2-4pm Liberal Club, 7 Station Road, Orpington BR6 0RZ (opp entrance to Tesco car park)
Cost: £6 pay on the door
Contact: Email janetmaile@rocketmail.com or call 01689 836407
American Contra dancing is a fun, low impact form of exercise. No partner or experience needed. All dances are walked through first, and the steps called throughout the dance. Join us for a fun afternoon. For details see https://juiceofbarley.weebly.com
Into the Daylight – Jazz and Blues evening, Green Chain Quartet
Thursday 5th June, 8pm-11pm
Daylight Inn, Station Square, Petts Wood, BR5 1LZ
Cost: £5 admission (supporting Bromley Food Bank, Ukraine Appeal & MSF - Doctors without Borders).
Contact: 01689 877402.
Green Chain Quartet with special guests Afterours. The Club is on the first Thursday of every month. Book a table or walk in: www.thedaylightinn.co.uk. For details see www.greenchainquartet.com
theatre & Performances
Churchill Theatre, Bromley
Contact: tickets@churchilltheatre.co.uk
The Croft
Tuesday 3rd - Saturday 7th June
Cost: From £20
The past won’t be silenced. Based on a true highland story. In the remote Scottish Highlands two women arrive at a former Crofters Hut in the deserted village of Coille Ghillie. When suddenly the weekend getaway takes an unexpected turn. Cut off from the modern world, Laura and Suzanne find themselves drawn into the dark history of the Croft and the lives that passed before them.
5 Mistakes That Changed History
Friday 20th June
Cost: From £20
We all make mistakes, but rarely do they change the course of history. 5 Mistakes That Changed History is a hilarious historical storytelling show performed by historian and comedian, Paul Coulter, about five people and how their mistakes (big and small!) changed the world.
Dinosaurs Live
Saturday 21st June
Cost: From £18.50
For the first time since 1881, the home of dinosaurs, London’s Natural History Museum, is going on tour! We’ll go on a pre-historic journey together to the Triassic, Jurassic and Cretaceous periods and watch the life-like dinosaurs come alive right on stage! Age guidance: 3+
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Local Hero...
(Because not all heroes wear capes)
Silvana Rosa Locke
Silvana was nominated as a local hero by the team at Romney House Cat Rescue who said: “Silvana is Bromley’s very own ‘Catwoman’. Not only does she have 40 rescued cats living in her home, she is the founder of registered charity, Romney House Rescue Centre in Downe, where she has dedicated the last 28 years of her life to rescuing cats.” Silvana has lived in Downe for 28 years with her family, cats and dogs, and has recently seen the addition of her fourth grandchild to the family.
Silvana, how did you feel about receiving a ‘Local Hero’ nomination?
I’m flattered, as saving cats is just part of my DNA. What inspired you to dedicate your life to rescuing and rehoming cats?
My love for cats came from my Nana and my Grandfather was a horse vet. I’d spend summers with them surrounded by animals. I started fostering cats for ‘Animal Samaritans’ in Downe and it grew from there! More cats started arriving at Romney House as my reputation for managing difficult cats grew.
You founded Romney House Rescue Centre – is there a story behind the name?
The Centre has been running for 25 years and became a registered charity in 2007. It’s named after the main house as we thought it sounded nice.
Can you tell us about the very first cat you ever rescued?
When I was nine years old, I fed a stray cat and she eventually came into the house. Unbeknown to me, she was pregnant and gave birth under my bed! Dinky had a wonderful 20 years with us.
What is the most rewarding part of running the charity?
I love happy endings. It’s so rewarding to rescue a cat from dire circumstances, then see it thriving in a new home.
Rescuing animals can be both emotionally and physically demanding – what keeps you going? I thrive on my passion. I don’t think about it, I just do it. If there’s a cat in need, I’ll do all I can to help it.
We hear that you have around 40 cats living in your home – what’s a typical day like for you?
My cats need feeding twice a day, there’s immense cleaning to be done and most of my cats have special needs, so need individual care and attention. With my phone ringing and daily centre management for the other 50 cats, it’s very hectic!
Have there been any particularly memorable or heartwarming stories you can recall?
We found Bernie last year with horrific head burns; his treatment has been complex, lengthy and expensive. At one point his wound was so infected his skull was visible. Thankfully, he’s now on the road to recovery.
What’s the biggest challenge you face when rescuing and rehoming cats?
Cost. We have an £8k monthly vet bill and cats arriving daily with no reserves. Once money comes in, it goes out again. The challenge gives me sleepless nights.
If someone wants to adopt a rescue cat, what advice would you give them?
Our cats are precious and we only allow cats to be adopted into safe homes so please read the rehoming info on our website and meet the cat. Also, please neuter your cat!
How can people reading this help in relation to the work that you do?
Support us with financial donations, sponsor our resident cats, join our 100 Club, donate cat food/litter/toys. Volunteer or fundraise for us and like, comment and share our social media posts.
What are your hopes and plans for Romney House Rescue Centre?
To continue our good work and secure more funding and donations so that we can continue to give rescue cats the sanctuary they deserve.
What does community mean to you?
Community is where people and animals can interact with each other peacefully in the same environment. Something I witness regularly living in Downe.
Sue Ball from Time For Flowers delivered Silvana's
A special ‘Thank You’ to Time For Flowers for sponsoring the bouquets and plants for our Local Heroes.
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THE BRIGHT SIDE
Mid-year moments: A time to reflect & reboot
by LAURETTA WRIGHT
It’s hard to believe we’re halfway through the year already – wasn’t it just January? June has a funny way of sneaking up on us. The days are longer, the air’s warmer and there’s a sense of calm before the full swing of summer kicks in. It’s the perfect time to pause, reflect and reset.
Mid-year moments offer a gentle nudge – not the pressure of January resolutions, but a quieter opportunity to check in with ourselves. How’s the year going so far? Have we done the things we said we would? Or has life (as it often does) taken us in a different direction?
The good news? If you made any resolutions, there is still plenty of time. Whether it’s recharging your energy, rekindling your goals or simply reconnecting with what matters – June is a lovely, low-pressure window to do it. Even a small change – like trying something new in the
community or carving out a little more “you” time – can make a big difference. Examples include starting the day tech-free, walking somewhere new, drinking an extra glass of water, supporting a local business, clearing out a drawer or cupboard, trying a new recipe, sending a kind message to a friend or neighbour and ending the day with gratitude. This month, why not take a moment to celebrate how far you’ve come already this year – even if it doesn’t feel like much. Every small step counts. And if things haven’t gone to plan, there’s no rule that says you can’t start fresh in June.
Let’s embrace this mid-year milestone with positivity, purpose and a little playfulness. After all, summer is just beginning – and who knows what good things are still to come?
Lines from Linda
Can you believe we are halfway through the year? I thought it was only birds and planes that flew.
June is such a lovely month. No guarantee of the weather these days, but long light evenings and the month of tennis. What I love most about tennis is the strawberries that are always provided. I love strawberries. I had a little dog once who I named Strawberry. She was extremely naughty and she too adored strawberries. If I got a basket of them, she often crept up and stole one from the basket as I unpacked shopping. Naughty. She didn’t touch any other fruit, just strawberries.
I have an embarrassing memory of taking her to a tennis match that we had been invited to as VIP guests and, holding her on a longish lead in one hand, while we sipped the arrival glass of Champagne we were handed.All was fine. We took our seats and enjoyed the first part of the game, then we all stood up and made our way to the VIP tent for our strawberries and cream. However, we were met by strawberry cheeked faces from the hospitality staff, explaining that all the strawberries were inedible as it looked as if some creature had bitten through them, tossing baskets over as they devoured the contents. Now it was my turn to be strawberry faced. I glanced down at Strawberry, and the giveaway was her whiskers. They were pink, even her eyebrows looked as if she had
painted them with rouge. I should have kept her on a shorter lead. I flicked a glance to my hubby, he too wore a look of deep embarrassment.
I had a little dog once who I named Strawberry. She was extremely naughty "
We were given another glass of Champagne, which we truly didn’t deserve, as a substitute. There were other dogs there and we were too embarrassed to admit it was our naughty dog’s doing, so we made our way back to the next half of the matches. As VIP guests, we were seated next to the president of the club. The second half had barely begun when one of the hospitality staff, arrived at the side of the president. ‘Sir, I don’t know what to say,’ she said nearly in tears. ‘They were there in the interval, but the strawberry cupcakes that were made especially to be served with the tea after, are inedible. Someone’s eaten all the strawberry icing off them’ She lowered her voice. ‘I fear we may have mice. I am sorry but I can’t serve them.’ I looked at Strawberry, her tummy had definitely expanded.
We left without staying for tea.Strawberry was sick all the way home in my car. It took me hours to clean the strawberry jam stains away. My just punishment, yes, I agree.
For more about me and my crime novels see www.lindareganonline.co.uk
COACH BREAKS TO SCOTLAND
19th July 2025
Loch Achray Hotel
Scenic Scotland tour
7 nights / 8 days - £674pp
6th September 2025
Ardgartan Hotel
Scenic Scotland tour
4 nights / 5 days - £500pp
18th August 2025
Inversnaid Hotel
Edinburgh Tattoo tour
6 nights / 7 days - £716pp
13th October 2025
Loch Tummel Hotel
Autumn Break tour
6 nights / 7 days - £608pp
30th August 2025
Loch Tummel Hotel
Scenic Scotland tour
6 nights / 7 days - £689pp
26th October 2025
Loch Awe Hotel
Autumn Break tour
6 nights / 7 days - £575pp
Library Pop-Up
Orpington Library has temporarily moved location to the old Argos site in the mall, while the original building receives an upgrade.
The library is offering all of its usual services and activities including story time, baby bounce & rhyme, Tuesday's Chat with a Cuppa and the Wednesday craft & social events. Pictured ready to meet and greet library users are the library’s supervisor, Sandie Vince and Manager, Khalid Siddiqui. The main library site is expected to reopen later this year.
For details see www.better.org.uk/library/london/ bromley/orpington-library
Aqua Active initiative
Mytime Active has launched a new swimming programme called Aqua Active, offering free access for people with complex needs and disabilities to its pools at the Pavilion Leisure Centre in Bromley and Biggin Hill Pool and Library. The programme follows the recent opening of fully accessible Changing Places Toilets at both venues and the purchase of Aquatilt wheelchairs, which help people with complex needs to enter both pools safely. The programme is funded by a grant from the London Marathon Foundation and allows up to four free Aqua Active sessions per person at either the Pavilion or Biggin Hill during any scheduled general swim sessions. Carers can also access the pool for free.
For details see www.mytimeactive.co.uk/aqua-active
Digital driving licence
The government is launching a GOV.UK Wallet and App to simplify access to services and documents like digital driver’s licences this summer. Brits will be given the option to use a digital version of their driver’s licence from their phone to easily prove their age when buying age restricted items online and in person – as well as proving their right to drive.
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Our experienced team at Foxbridge House take pride in offering the best residential, nursing, dementia and respite care. We put your loved one at the heart of their care and everything we do is personalised to their unique needs and wishes.
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Supporting Youth Wellbeing
Gro Health is a new initiative now underway to provide in-person and digital support, helping children and young people to reach a healthy weight and develop skills to help maintain this long-term. As part of a continued drive to improve access to services for young people in the borough living with excess weight or obesity, Bromley Council is using DDM’s Gro Health platform, to support children living in the borough, up to the age of 18, with a weight management service with tailored programmes that encourage healthy eating, support physical activity, and enhance mental wellbeing. Gro Health will provide two pilot programmes over two years to deliver a 12-week programme with schools in the borough, and a targeted community-based programme of age-specific education for eligible users via referrals through their primary care service or through self-referrals.
Interested residents can access the service by self-referral. To check eligibility and register visit: www.grohealth.com/bromley or call 0330 133 0307. Parents who are concerned about any aspect of their child’s health are encouraged to approach a health professional for advice if needed. For further helpful information and health advice for children aged 0 to 19, visit: www. bromley0to19.co.uk. Support for adults seeking support in reaching and maintaining a healthy weight can also find more information by www.bromley.gov.uk/HealthyWeight.visiting:
Clean power by 2030
The UK is stepping up its clean energy game with major reforms to the government’s renewables scheme. The aim? More wind farms, cheaper energy and a greener future. Plans include faster offshore wind projects (relaxing planning rules to get them up and running quicker), better funding and longer contracts to boost investor confidence. With recordbreaking renewables projects already in place, the UK is powering ahead to hit its 2030 clean energy targets. The Contracts for Difference scheme will be key in making this happen, helping break free from expensive fossil fuels while creating jobs and economic growth.
A bra-lliant effort
Vicki Goffin from Organised & Proud teamed up with Denise Meade-Hill, organiser of the networking group, Ladies Who Latte Bromley, to raise awareness for Against Breast Cancer charity. Overall, bra donations by members totalled 280 and Donna Johnson was the lucky winner who guessed the number closest. The prize, consisting of a goody bag worth over £30 in gifts, was sponsored by Life In…Magazines. Pictured is Carter Rogers (left) from Life In…Magazines with Vicki (centre) and prize winner Donna.
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Help Bring ‘Sharing Joy’ to Bromley
Vamos Theatre’s transformative show for those affected by dementia will be performed in October 2025. We need to raise £2,200 to make it happen. Can you sponsor or donate to support this unforgettable performance? Find out more from www.questsoultheatre.co.uk/sharing-joy
Simpler train travel for the South East
Passengers across the South East can now use tap-in and tap-out ticketing at 47 more stations for the first time, guaranteeing they get the best value ticket available on the day. The new ticketing has turned dozens of key commuter lines such as Sevenoaks to London Bridge into fully contactless journeys making train travel simpler, more accessible and more flexible. Contactless ticketing will be rolled out at a further 49 stations throughout 2025, including London Stansted Airport – meaning all London airports will be accessible by tap-in tap-out ticketing for the first time.
‘In Bloom’ competition!
The annual Coolings In Bloom competition is now open for entries! Whether you’ve been gardening for years or just starting out, now's the time to celebrate and showcase all the hard work with In Bloom – a free to enter competition, encouraging everyone from amateur gardeners to seasoned pros to showcase their gardening achievements.
To take part, download the form from the Coolings website and indicate which category you are entering by 30th June. The categories include Best Front Garden, Best Back Garden, Best Planted Pot, Trough or Hanging Basket, Best Allotment Plot, Best Pollinator Friendly Garden, Best School Garden Best Community Garden and Best Commercial Garden or Horticultural Display. There is no limit to the categories that can be entered and all applications receive a Coolings voucher (one per entrant) to put towards any plant or garden product to help get their garden project started.
Entries will be judged during July. For full details and to enter visit https://bit.ly/coolingsinbloom25
Books needed!
Do you have books on your shelves your children have outgrown? Donate them to ABC Book Club – a local charity that will re-donate your books to primary schools’ libraries where they will be loved again. We have an urgent need for chapter books suitable for children aged 7+.
We have drop off points all over Bromley, please go to www.abcbookclub.co.uk to find out more.
COVER STARS
This month’s cover stars are some of the team from St Paul’s Cray Library and St Paul’s Cray Community Support Centre.
St Paul’s Cray Library was recently nominated as a community hub and selected as finalists for The Bookseller’s Library of the Year award 2025, taking into account its service in working alongside St Paul’s Cray Community Support Team. The support team help residents in improving their quality of life. The service, based in the library, offers advice and guidance, community groups, IT and employment support. Pictured are, from the left: Manager of the Community Support Centre, Anita Thundercliffe and her colleague Joanne Kelly; St Paul’s Cray Library Manager, Thu Huong Flynn and her colleague Stephanie Lawrence. For details or to receive the monthly timetable of activities email communitysupportcentre@gll.org and for more information see https://bit.ly/spccsupport
Better protection for those using safety alarms
The country’s most vulnerable, including elderly people relying on personal alarms to call for help, will be better protected during the switch from analogue to digital landlines, thanks to a new government agreement reached with the telecoms industry late last year. This will include a new requirement for companies to offer an engineer visit to vulnerable customers, who will personally test the vital alarm and ensure it continues to work once a household has moved to the digital network.
Personal alarms are lifesaving buttons connected to phone networks and are known as ‘telecare devices’. They offer remote support to elderly, disabled and vulnerable people, sometimes living in remote and isolated locations. Nearly two million people use these vital alarms in the UK. Last year Telecoms Minister, Chris Bryant, called on telecoms companies to complete a strict checklist of safeguards before transferring customers from old analogue phone lines onto a digital network, reducing the risk of them being disconnected during the migration. In a round table at techUK’s London HQ attended by representatives from the sector including BT, Virgin Media, Vodafone and Sky, the minister also urged companies to extend the power of battery back- up solutions beyond the existing one-hour minimum, maximising their resilience as far as possible and access to emergency services in the event of a power outage.
Behind the Badge
INSIGHTS FROM THE SUPER
We have now delivered the next phase retail crime operation, known as “Operation Kelleher.”
This has been utilised to great effect in Orpington, the Crays and more recently Anerley which I have written about. This time we focussed on Beckenham on Friday 25th April following community concerns and data analysis leading us to identify a number of prolific offenders. We carried out the operation utilising specialist officers from the Met’s Territorial Support Group, alongside your local neighbourhood policing teams, showing the Met’s commitment to tackle this issue. As I’ve said before, we focus on generally harmful people using retail offences as the most solvable crime to bring them to justice and seek Criminal Behaviour Orders to control their behaviour in future.
The operation was a success, we plotted up at frequently targeted stores in plain clothes and made 7 arrests for people caught in the act. Several of these have now
been charged and either remanded or bailed to court. ITV featured this operation on the news and the report is available online and the approach is getting a lot of interest due to its effectiveness.
Every time we run this operation, we refine our approach becoming more efficient and effective. I hope in time this will become part of our normal daily business and bring retail crime under much greater control. I am confident this will make Beckenham a sustainably safer retail space for staff and customers alike.
We aren’t done yet; we have a long way to go and know that for many areas you still see unacceptable levels of shoplifting and associated violence and intimidation from the perpetrators. Be assured that area by area, we will continue to get a grip of this problem and provide the support needed to our retailers and communities.
Superintendent Luke Baldock Bromley Borough Neighbourhood Policing
Firefront line..
As Borough Commander for Bromley, I recently led a Fire Safety Day at The Glades Shopping Centre. It was a proactive initiative to engage directly with local businesses and the wider community. Alongside our fire safety teams and Bromley Borough firefighters, we provided guidance and inspections, helping businesses understand their responsibilities and improve their fire safety measures.
For many businesses, fire safety can feel like a box-ticking exercise, but it’s so much more than that. A working fire alarm, a clear evacuation route and properly maintained fire doors can mean the difference between a minor incident and a major disaster for the business. Our role is to support you in getting these basics right.
We spoke to over 100 business owners about checking their risk assessments, training their staff on fire procedures and ensuring escape routes are always clear and accessible. Simple steps like regular alarm testing, keeping combustibles away from heat sources and having a nominated fire warden can significantly reduce your risk.
This initiative is part of a wider London Fire Brigade strategy to support businesses in protecting their people, their premises and their livelihoods. Whether you’re running a high street café, a retail shop or an office space, fire safety must be part of your daily routine.
If you're unsure whether your business complies with fire safety legislation, we’re here to help. Our Fire Safety Team offers free guidance and advice. It’s better to ask now than to face enforcement later – and more importantly, it keeps people safe.
Let’s continue working together to make Bromley a safer place to live, work and trade.
Ian Frame, Borough Commander London Borough of Bromley, London Fire Brigade
History
Demobilisation after World War 2
by PAM PREEDY
On 8th May 1945, a cease fire was called and soldiers of all sides in Europe laid down their arms. Effectively World War 2 in Europe was over. Three months later on August 15th, 1945 VJ day was announced: Japan surrendered. War was over.
Figures vary, but roughly five million British servicemen and women waited to be demobilised and returned to civilian life; my father among them. Demobilisation took about 18 months to complete (June 1945 to December 1946). It was a challenging time that involved practical and psychological issues, not just for the men, but also for their families.
Foreign Secretary Ernest Bevin quickly introduced a plan for demobilisation, perhaps attributed to the tide of public opinion which favoured slogans and policies that appealed to peace and disengagement. It was also driven by labour shortages needed for post-war reconstruction. The plan was unveiled on 22nd September, 1944. It was revealed to the servicemen and women on the 18th May, 1945 and scheduled to start on the 18th June.
The majority of servicemen had to wait their turn. Their release date was calculated according to their age and the number of months they had served. Some ‘key men’ were given priority because their occupational skills were vital to reconstruction and were released early. Married men and women over the age of 50 were also released early. In the process each group to be decommissioned attended a decommissioning centre where they would receive a one-time grant of £83 each, the promise of a right to return to their old jobs and a set of civilian clothing, which included the socalled "demob suit", shirts, underclothes, raincoats, hat and shoes. By 1947, about 4.3 million men and women had passed through demobilisation centres and returned to 'civvy street'. The process was
Mr Bill Krepper, late of the Pioneer Corps, leaves the demobilisation clothing depot at Olympia, London, as a civilian, wearing his demob
not without controversy. Frustration at the allegedly slow pace of release led to a number of mutinies. It seems that demonstrations and strikes broke out in the Royal Indian Air Force in India beginning on 22nd January 1946 and spread across the continent and as far away as Singapore, Egypt, North Africa and Gibraltar. The peaceful protests lasted between three and 11 days. The men lay down their equipment and refused to obey orders. Strictly speaking, these were mutinies as service personnel were not allowed to strike. They led to some court martials.
The British Government argued that the amount of shipping available was insufficient to permit immediate repatriation of the large number of personnel. However, later declassified reports have shown that British troops were deliberately retained in India to control possible unrest from the independence movement, and the grievances of the RAF men may have also included significant political views and sympathy with the Communist Party of India.
Servicemen and women were thrust into civvy street, although familiar, life had moved on and changed. They had to face the challenge of reasserting their place in the family home and work. They also had to rejoin a muchaltered labour force. Few men talked about their war-time experiences. This was no time to complain about mental issues and many just ‘bottled’ up their memories and got on with their lives; the true ‘stiff upper lip’. I was one of the ‘baby-boomers’ born in February 1947. Dad must have returned at some time during 1946. My sister did not want her father intruding into her life with mother, and certainly didn’t want me having all the toys that our parents were unable to get for her as production in factories during her first six-and-a-half years had reverted to producing weapons as toys were hard to find.
To purchase Pam’s book, Living Through The Great War: How The People of Bromley Faced The Challenges of War, you can email her at pampreedy@gmail.com
Pam Preedy
Lance Corporal E Cowley of the Royal Army Service Corps (RASC) leaves the office at Rhede Camp with his demobilisation papers. Lance Corporal Cowley was the first man to be demobbed from the British 1st Corps.
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Money & Shopping
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For history buffs
Living Through the Great War at Home explores how Bromley’s residents faced WWI – from supporting troops and coping with Zeppelin raids, to managing rationing and welcoming refugees. Drawing on local newspapers, it highlights community spirit, women’s resilience and the impact of war on daily life from 1914 to the peace celebrations in 1919. Ideal as a gift for a history buff, the book is available to purchase directly from Pam by emailing her at pampreedy@gmail.com.
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Just Between Ourselves
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From supporting vulnerable people to protecting our green spaces, local charities play a vital role in our community. If you’ve ever thought about giving back, why not consider volunteering? Whether you have an hour to spare or can commit to something more regular, your time and skills could make a huge impact. Get involved, meet like-minded people and help make Bromley an even better place to live! Now, onto this month’s puzzle –all about our amazing local charities! Find the words in the grid – but one of them is missing. That’s your competition answer!
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Volunteering June
Primrose Centre
MumMum Foundation
St Christophers
Mencap
ABC Book Club
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Magpie Dance
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CASPA
Bromley Homeless
Chartwell Trust
Careplus
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May answer: Cadbury
April winner: Jane Boorman
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Health & Fitness
EMBRACING NEURODIVERSITY & THE POWER OF BALANCE
by Dr. Neil Bindemann, Founder and Director of the Person-Centred Neurosciences Society & Lifestyle Health Foundation
How does it feel to be told you are neurodiverse?
For many, it’s clarity—an opportunity to better understand themselves and their experiences. But it can also be a time of reflection, revealing both challenges and strengths that come with a neurodivergent mind.
Neurodiversity Awareness Week isn’t just about recognising conditions like autism or ADHD; it’s about celebrating the incredible diversity of human thought, creativity, and innovation. From artists and musicians to scientists, teachers, and healthcare professionals, neurodivergent individuals make extraordinary contributions to society. During this year’s awareness week, we had the pleasure of meeting Joulie, the founder of Yummzy – Sinfully Guiltless Desserts, and her husband Adrian at their keto and lowcarb café in Canary Wharf. A conversation about food and lifestyle soon turned into a fascinating discussion about health, neurodiversity, and the body’s response to sensory overload.
For Joulie, her diagnosis of Type 1 diabetes in childhood was something she had long managed, but only recently learned of her autism diagnosis. This revelation provided a new perspective on her lifelong health journey. Could hypersensitivity/sensory overload be connected to immune
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system responses and inflammatory conditions?
An interesting theory—one aligning with growing research into autoimmune conditions such as Type 1 diabetes, arthritis, eczema, and even migraines. If our immune system overreacts to certain stimuli, could our nervous system react similarly?
While these questions are still being explored, one thing is clear—balance is key. Whether through diet, lifestyle changes, or reconnecting with nature, there are ways to reset our senses, support emotional well-being, and nurture overall health. Many neurodiverse individuals find deep comfort in animals, nature, and structured lifestyles— indicating some solutions lie in the natural world.
At the Person-Centred Neurosciences Society and Lifestyle Health Foundation, we’re dedicated to exploring these connections and supporting people in finding their own path to wellness. Through lifestyle neuroscience programmes, dietary approaches like keto, and focuses on emotional and immune system balance, we aim to help individuals thrive, not just manage.
Neurodiversity isn’t a limitation—experiencing the world differently. And by understanding it better, we can create environments where everyone has the opportunity to shine.
and Facts About Endometriosis
Endometriosis is a complex and often misunderstood condition affecting over 190 million women worldwide. Let’s debunk some common myths about endometriosis.
Myth 1: It is normal to have painful periods.
Fact: While mild cramping is common, severe period pain that disrupts daily life is not. If your period pain prevents you from working, attending school, or carrying out regular activities, you should see a doctor.
Myth 2: Endometriosis only affects the uterus and ovaries.
Fact: Endometriosis can develop outside the reproductive system, including the ureter, bladder, kidneys, bowel, diaphragm, appendix, pancreas, lungs and even brain
Myth 3: Endometriosis only affects women of childbearing age.
Fact: Symptoms can start as early as adolescence, but diagnosis is often delayed. Menopause may reduce symptoms, but because oestrogen continues production in small amounts, endometriosis can persist after menopause.
Myth 4: Pregnancy and breastfeeding can cure endometriosis.
Fact: Pregnancy may temporarily reduce symptoms through hormonal changes but is not a cure. Symptoms often return after childbirth or breastfeeding.
Myth 5: Hysterectomy cures endometriosis.
Fact: Since endometriosis lesions can exist outside the uterus, removing the uterus does not guarantee symptom relief.
Myth 6: Severe periods mean severe endometriosis.
Fact: The severity of symptoms does not always match the stage of the disease. Some women with mild endometriosis experience extreme pain, while others with advanced cases have minimal discomfort.
Understanding the truth about endometriosis can help women seek early diagnosis and proper treatment.
Do you have a question for Dr Hashmi? Send an email to hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk with the subject line Ask The Doc
A Final Thought…
A Brave New World?
by Ian Dent
Like many ‘baby boomers’, now septuagenarians, we felt that in our heyday of the 1960s we were changing the world to become a more acceptable and free brave new world for the younger generation. How times have changed since then though, especially with the exponential increases in technology and communications. It has made me reflect on those early days again and wonder if we have established a brave new world – or just a new world order which is more reminiscent of Aldous Huxley’s vision in his Brave New World or George Orwell’s vision in 1984?
When comparing Brave New World and 1984 to the present day, there are several striking similarities and thought-provoking differences. Both are dystopian novels, written in the early to mid-20th Century, exploring the dangers of totalitarianism and the erosion of individual freedom following a turbulent period after World War I. Both were written in the early days of the technological revolution but could already picture societies where governments control every aspect of people’s lives, manipulating them through surveillance, propaganda and the suppression of individual thought.
Whilst Brave New World presented a future where people were conditioned from birth to be content, docile and unquestioning through satisfying citizens’ desires with material comforts, mind-altering drugs and a hedonistic lifestyle; 1984 portrays a society ruled by an omnipresent government known as Big Brother, where surveillance is pervasive and thought manipulated through a controlled form of communication known as Newspeak.
It is evident that some elements of these dystopias resonate with our reality today. Surveillance technologies, such as CCTV cameras and digital tracking have become commonplace in many societies. Whilst they are often advocated as beneficial to identify criminal activity as they can surely be, they also offer a vision of Big Brother too. Government and
corporations also collect vast amounts of personal data, once again advocating the benefits of using loyalty cards and cookies, but conveniently ignoring the increased invasion of privacy and the potential for abuse and manipulation.
The big elephant in the room is the propaganda and manipulation of information through social media platforms, as strikingly made clear in the USA by Donald Trump and his claims of fake news (by whom!) and the social disturbances in the UK following the tragic murders in Southport. It has highlighted to Western governments that whilst Brave New World and 1984 focused on government control, we are in fact in danger of being controlled by large corporations such as Google (Alphabet), Amazon, Microsoft and X with their soft sell of more convenient and immediate control of data and information, whilst benefiting from storing that data and information many times over. When Sir Francis Bacon coined the saying: "knowledge itself is power" in 1597, he most likely wanted to transmit the idea that having and sharing knowledge is the cornerstone of reputation and influence, and therefore power; not the manipulation we see today. This has also extended to media corporations, where misinformation and trust in traditional new sources is increasingly evident with, for example, the BBC News now having to use its Verify label to many news items.
However, it is essential to recognise that I believe we have not fully descended into the nightmarish worlds depicted in these novels. The power of individual thought, critical thinking and resistance still exist strongly today. While challenges to freedom and democracy persist in many parts of the world, so does the human capacity for change and progress, as evidenced very dramatically by Alexei Navalny’s sacrifice in Russia.
The lessons from Brave New World and 1984 should serve as cautionary tales, to remind us to remain vigilant and actively participate in shaping a society that values individual freedom, diversity and the pursuit of truth – all goals which we in the 1960s felt we were challenging –and hopefully the youth of today will still champion.
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The ABBBAs 2025 Meet the committee! community
Preparations for The Above and Beyond Bromley Business Awards (The ABBBAs) are underway. The event celebrates individuals and businesses who consistently go ‘above and beyond’ for either their customers, the community or their wider industry.
In this month’s issue we meet the committee behind The ABBBAs. All the decisions – from what the award categories will be and the table decorations, to this year’s chosen charity and the entertainment – are made by the committee members.
Lauretta Wright founded the ABBBAs after identifying a lack of business recognition in the Bromley borough. She felt that local businesses deserved to be highlighted and celebrated. Lauretta is Publisher at Life In…Magazines, Editor of 3 community magazines and a regularly gives up her time to volunteer for local organisations including Air Search, The Bereavement Café and Summerlands Lodge Residential Home.
With solid experience in sales, programme management and client experience, Aysha Best-Forbes is Strategy and Operations Manager at Life In…Magazines and has been instrumental in developing the company’s latest launch – a new app for the Bromley borough, available on iOS. Aysha is passionate about excellent customer service and loves celebrating the achievements of local businesses.
Now retired, much of Chas Jordan’s professional career was in the office equipment industry, but his passion has been (and still is) advocating for fairness in contracts. During the past 15 years he has returned over £11 million to affected schools and charities who had fallen foul of unscrupulous sales companies. Chas is co-founder and host of the Bromley Business Network and was awarded Business Personality of The Year at The ABBBAs 2023 and served on the judging panel for the 2024 awards.
Kristel Valaydon is a PR strategist, Comms professional and founder of KV Comms. She helps entrepreneurs (founders, business owners) and intrapreneurs (team leaders) align business goals with networks and relationships to deliver success. Her clients span international corporations, nationwide organisations, disruptive SMEs and start-ups. With over 25 years’ experience, she champions leadership, connection and community in comms to help turn strategic vision into reality.
Michelle Simpson has a background in events, sales and fundraising, and is well known locally through her charity work and networking. She has lived in the borough for most of her life and is a great supporter of everything local. When she’s not working, Michelle enjoys socialising with friends and family, reading, travel and scuba diving.
The ABBBAs 2025 takes place on Thursday 13th November at Oakley House. Early bird tickets and submissions and nominations are now open, visit the website for all the details
