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AveryMerry December from us at Life In Bromley magazine! ��
As we reach the most magical month of the year, we wanted to take a moment to say a huge thank you to you – our loyal readers, advertisers and community supporters. Without you, our magazines simply wouldn’t be what they are today. Every story shared, event attended and business supported helps keep our local towns buzzing with community spirit.
A reminder that as you flick through the pages of this issue, please take a moment to notice our advertisers – every one of them plays a vital role in keeping our community thriving. By choosing to shop local, book local and support local this Christmas, you’re helping strengthen the heart of our borough and ensuring that small businesses continue to shine well into the new year.
We’d like to wish you a joyful Christmas and a bright, happy New Year. Thank you for continuing to read, support and celebrate your local community with us – because, as always, community matters most.
Lauretta Wright, Editor
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In response to the story on the October Noticeboard, ‘A road safety overhaul’, I thought I’d share my thoughts. This country is way behind others in testing drivers. The EU brought all 28 countries into line with the style of driving licences and some unity was introduced then.
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In Spain, every ten years, anyone under 70 must renew their driving licence. To get a renewal, you must undergo a medical at any one of the specialised units. This will include not only an eye test, but a hearing test and a general fitness test. Further, you will have to pass a co-ordination test on a computer to demonstrate your ability and reaction time. If you are over 70, then you will have to retest every four years. In this country, if you are over 70, then every three years you can self-certify. The Spanish system is way in front of this country to ensure you are fit to drive on the road.
Dave Fisher
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Normal People
They met one night, on a full moon at the end of the summer. The sky shone bright, they sat on the shore, they laughed and kissed and a seagull came and sit: He watched them through the night. It was her birthday but he didn’t know. They drank whiskey and danced and everybody saw: For an instant of bliss, they were free. They held hands and talked while people stood still like a backdrop on their stage. Then, entangled in passion and whispers they let the moon slip away while morning broke in and warned them about the end. So, they said goodbye and walked away.
Sometime, when the day is dark, they still think of that night, they remember and smile. For a short moment, they believed they were special, different, yet they were normal people.
Claudia Colella
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Behind the Badge
INSIGHTS FROM THE SUPER
This month I would like to update you on Operation Zoridon. You may have seen this in news coverage, but it is the largest operation the Met Police has ever run to tackle retail crime across London.
I was the operational lead as we deployed to over 120 premises across London, including many right here in Bromley, suspected of being involved in handling stolen goods. This crime type enables and encourages those who steal prolifically from our shops and businesses, and brings so much harm to our communities. In fact, your Bromley teams working with Trading Standards and the London Fire Brigade visited more locations than almost any other Borough.
The results were extraordinary, with police making 32 arrests and seizing thousands of items of believed stolen property. Trading Standards seized tens of thousands of pounds worth of illicit and dangerous tobacco and vape
related products and, working together with both Trading Standards and the London Fire Brigade, we used our powers to close down businesses causing nuisance or that caused danger. This is part of our commitment to making high streets and retail spaces safer for everyone. As I have written about before, this was preceded by a year of focussed work on tackling prolific shoplifters with Operation Kelleher, and this is now the next phase moving into organised crime.
We didn’t stop there, and the following week we conducted a series of five coordinated search warrants in the Penge area targeting drug supply, handling stolen goods and criminals exploiting vulnerable people by taking over their homes to deal drugs from. This led to several arrests, illegal items being seized and two further premises being closed down. This is the style of policing we want to deliver, where we are more proactive and front-footed with our crime fighting based on what matters to communities.
Superintendent Luke Baldock
Bromley
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Firefront Line
Bromley Fire Stations: At the heart of our community
As Borough Commander of Bromley, I’m proud to lead a fire service that’s not just about emergency response –but about being a visible, trusted and active part of the community we serve.
Over the past few months, our teams have opened their doors to residents across the borough, hosting four incredibly successful station open days. These events weren’t just about showcasing our equipment or explaining our work – they were about connection. From children climbing aboard fire engines to families chatting with firefighters over tea, we saw firsthand how powerful community engagement can be.
That’s why I’m thrilled to announce our next festive initiative: Green Watch Bromley, in partnership with The Rotary Club of West Wickham, will be hosting a Santa’s Grotto Event at Bromley Fire Station on Saturday 6th December 2025, from 11am to 3pm.
For a donation of £5.00, children will have the chance to:
• Visit Santa in his magical grotto and receive a present
• Explore our fire engines up close
• Enjoy festive crafts and activities while they wait
All proceeds will go to The Firefighters Charity, supporting the wellbeing of our brave men and women across the UK.
Events like these remind us that the fire service is more than sirens and hoses – it’s about people. It’s about being present, building trust and creating moments of joy and safety. Whether it’s through fire safety education, community events or simply being a friendly face in the neighbourhood, we’re committed to being a service that reflects the values and spirit of Bromley.
We hope to see you there – bring your festive cheer and help us make this a day to remember.
Warm wishes, Ian Frame, Borough Commander London Borough of Bromley, London Fire Brigade
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5 Mins With community
The Mayor of Bromley
Born and raised in the borough, Cllr Jonathan Andrews has deep roots in the community. Growing up in Orpington, since 2022 he has represented Darwin Ward, which covers some of the borough’s most rural areas including Downe, Cudham, Pratts Bottom and Leaves Green. Jonathan served as Deputy Mayor last year, championing Bromley’s local charities and voluntary work – a journey that has now led to the Mayoral chains. We sat down with this year’s Mayor to find out more…
Cllr Andrews, we understand that the Mayor’s role is very varied, but is there such a thing as a typical day?
Not at all! It depends on the events on the day and the time of year. The Mayor chairs council meetings about six times a year, but the majority of the role is attending events with communities, schools, charities and local businesses. Sometimes we’ll have up to five events in a single day. It isn’t a nine-to-five role and weekends are often the busiest.
Never a dull moment then! How many events do you attend in a year, roughly?
Definitely several hundred! August is “quieter”, but even then there are events almost every day. It’s really important for the Mayor to be visible and supportive – as Queen Elizabeth II once said, “I have to be seen to be believed.”
Do you have a favourite local event or tradition you look forward to?
The fun ones like the Downe Duck Race, which raises money for Christmas lights, are great, but I’d also highlight the more solemn ceremonial events like Remembrance Sunday and Armed Forces Day - extremely important occasions that I’m honoured to lead.
Where do you go to relax - do you have a favourite spot locally?
I enjoy long walks across Bromley’s many green spaces – such as my ward’s 12 square miles of rural countryside. Across the borough we’re lucky to have parks like Crystal Palace and Priory Gardens. Spending time in nature is great for mental health, especially after lockdown.
Can you tell us about your chosen charities and why you selected them?
My chosen charities are CASPA, which supports autistic people, and The Maypole Project, which supports children with serious medical needs and their families. I chose CASPA because I was diagnosed as being on the autistic spectrum at nine. My family and teachers were supportive, and it never held me back. The Maypole Project provides crucial counselling and emotional support for families in difficult situations. Both are charities very close to my heart.
What’s one thing about being Mayor that people might not realise?
People often confuse civic Mayors with directly elected Mayors, like the Mayor of London. Bromley’s Mayor doesn’t run the council – that’s the Leader’s role. The Mayor is the civic head, chairing council meetings, supporting community groups and representing the borough at events - it’s very varied and you have to be adaptable.
What are you most proud of in Bromley right now?
There’s a lot to be proud of – our green spaces, thriving local businesses and huge voluntary sector. There are also many positive regeneration projects ongoing, and we’ve refurbished and reopened several libraries recently, with more to come!
What does community mean to you personally?
It’s about recognising that we’re part of something greater than ourselves – looking out for each other, supporting local businesses and being proud of where we live. Bromley is full of different communities, but we come together as one borough with a shared civic pride and values.
What legacy would you like to leave from your time as Mayor?
Raising awareness around autism and disability, showing what it’s possible to achieve. I’d like to raise funds and visibility for my chosen charities, and more broadly, to shine a light on the voluntary and community work across Bromley. If I can do that, I’ll be happy.
How will you be spending Christmas?
No doubt attending a number of Christmas lights, carol services and other events in the lead-up! But as for Christmas itself, spending time with my family!
For details and to contribute to The Mayor’s chosen charities visit bit.ly/mayorcharitycaspa and bit.ly/mayorcharitymaypole
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History
The evolution of Christmas traditions
by PAM PREEDY, BEd, BA (Open), MA. Pam Preedy
In pagan times it was the tradition to hold a winter festival called Yule in late December to January. We would recognise many of the traditions of this pagan festival today in the 21st century. It was a time to welcome the returning sun and banish evil spirits.
A large log was gradually fed into a fire over the 12 days of Yule. The ashes were kept to bring good fortune. Decorations of evergreens like holly and ivy symbolised the return of spring and new life, while mistletoe was hung above doorways as a symbol of hospitality and a charm to ward off evil spirits. There was a tradition of visiting homes, singing carols, drinking a shared spiced alcoholic drink: wassailing to wish good health and prosperity.
Gradually these traditions evolved to fit with Christianity: the festival became linked with the story of the birth of Christ. It was a time when the idea of childhood was gaining ground. The greatest changes came with Victoria and Albert and their nine children. They became the archetypal family and helped popularise the 19th century Christmas traditions, such as bringing the Christmas tree indoors and decorating it. Even then they were not the first to celebrate with a Christmas tree. Queen Charlotte, wife of George III was the first to bring the idea to Britain, but it was Albert who popularised it.
Queen Victoria brought glass ornaments to Britain to decorate the Christmas tree in 1848 and the idea captured the public’s imagination. Hans Greiner was credited with inventing these baubles in the 16th century in Lauscha, Germany. Meanwhile, Father Christmas began to appear as a present giver. At this time the focus shifted from the New Year to Christmas Eve. At first presents were simply placed at the bottom of the child’s bed. By the end of the 19th
century, stockings were placed there for Father Christmas who reputedly climbed down the chimneys to leave the presents. Later, the more optimistic children placed a pillow for Father Christmas to fill. At first family presents were placed on and around the Christmas tree which was revealed in all its glory on Christmas Eve with its candles alight. Children were handed presents straight from the tree. The days leading up to Christmas today are busy; decorations to decorate their homes. Christmas presents are bought especially for the children. Christmas cards were introduced by Henry Cole, the first director of the South Kensington Museum. He had lots of people expecting Christmas letters. He asked his friend, J C Horsley, RA, to design a Christmas card in 1843. His design depicted three generations of the Cole family raising a toast in a central, hand-coloured panel, with depictions of acts of charity in the outer panels. One thousand copies were commissioned. All Cole had to do was sign and send them: much easier and quicker than writing letters. The idea caught on very quickly. By the 1860 and 1880s the Post had to warn their clientele to ‘post early’. This custom is changing today in the 21st century and more people are using technologies including email.
After the October break in schools today, there is growing excitement for younger children. There are nativity plays for the infants, while the older children perform other Christmas plays to their parents. Lists are made of desired presents and letters are written by some to Father Christmas asking for presents. There are parties to enjoy.
The traditional Christmas dinners are prepared and served with turkey and roast vegetables although in Dicken’s time (1843) of A Christmas Carol, they were still serving goose. Turkeys gained popularity in the 19th century as they were large enough to feed their large families. They were originally brought to England from the Americas in the early 1500s, a bird fit for a king; Henry VIII. Happy Christmas everyone.
Queen Victoria and Albert celebrate Christmas with their family Images
To purchase Pam’s book, Living Through The Great War: How The People of Bromley Faced The Challenges of War, you can email her at pampreedy@gmail.com
Henry Cole and his family celebrate Christmas on the first Christmas Card 1843
What's on
ACTIVITIES
Art Exhibition: Everyday Echoes
Running until January 2026
Bromley Central Library, Bromley, BR1 1EX
Cost: Free and open to all during library opening hours.
Contact: Organised by Echo Creative CICphoto.echocreativeagency.com
Everyday Echoes is a small community art exhibition featuring street photography, paintings and poetry. The exhibition reflects on the beauty of everyday moments and the quiet ways we connect through shared public spaces. Among the featured artists is Abi, a local landscape artist, art therapist and mother based in Bromley (see artandsoultherapy.co.uk). Her collection, Pathways, explores a personal journey of self-discovery, reflection and inspiration. The exhibition invites viewers to consider how small gestures of care, presence, and attention shape our sense of community.
Wellness In Motion – Mixed Abilities Pilates
Every Wednesday, 6.30pm–7.30pm United Reformed Church, 20 Widmore Road, Bromley BR1 1RY
Cost: 4-week course £30 or drop-in class £10
Contact: Email wellness.in.motion.wm@gmail.com or call 07760533239
Friendly, supportive mixed ability classes designed to mobilise and strengthen your body safely. Pilates can improve posture, help prevent injury, enhance balance, define muscles and ease back pain. New venue opening soon with both private and chair pilates classes (Treewall Gardens BR1 5DF). For more details visit www.instagram.com/wellness_in_motion_wm
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Your essential guide for events, activities, clubs & groups
Wellbeing Through Drama
Friday 5th, 12th & 19th December, 10am – 12pm
Bromley Little Theatre, North Street, Bromley, BR1
Cost: Free (donations welcome)
Contact: info@questsoultheatre.co.uk
Join Wellbeing Through Drama for a welcoming and inclusive weekly session, designed for adults of all abilities. Enjoy 1.5 hours of creative drama followed by 30 minutes of tea and chat — all without the pressure of performance. No experience necessary, just curiosity and a willingness to play! For more information, contact Mercedes at info@ questsoultheatre.co.uk.
Bike loans, repairs and sales
Monday-Thursday, 10am-3pm
The Lodge, Norman Park, Hook Farm Road, Bromley, BR2 9SX
Cost: Free bike hire
Contact: Call 020 8466 0790
We have a wide selection of bikes for all ages available to borrow. We also have a selection of refurbished bikes for sale. Bike donations are gratefully received so that Bromley Mencap can continue to teach disabled students bicycle maintenance skills. All money raised helps us support disabled people and their families in Bromley.
business & NETWORKING
Registering your Business with HMRC
Tuesday 16th December, 10am-12pm
Bromley Central Library, High Street, Bromley
Cost: Free
Contact: Email StartupBromley@GLL.ORG
HMRC will show the key steps to take when registering as a Sole Trader for self-employment or when registering
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your small business. Start Up Bromley (BIPC Bromley) is pleased to collaborate with His Majesty’s Revenue and Customs (HMRC) to bring you a workshop which will demonstrate the key steps to take when registering as a Sole Trader for self-employment or when registering your small business.
See https://bit.ly/startupbromleyevents
Bromley Business Network
Wednesday 3rd & 17th December, 7am-9am
On Teams or in person at Bromley Football Club (Hospitality Suite), Hayes Lane, BR2 9EF
Cost: £12.50 on Teams or £23 in person
Contact: 07957 819008 or email hello@ bromleybusinessnetwork.co.uk
Fortnightly business networking events. Attendance includes unlimited refreshments and a full cooked breakfast buffet. Attendees can also attend via Teams if they can’t attend in person. For details see bromleybusinessnetwork.co.uk
community & CHARITY
CASPA Christmas Carol Concert
Saturday 20th December, 6pm
St John’s Church, Park Road, Bromley, BR1 3HJ
Cost: £5 or a family ticket for £10
Contact: www.caspabromley.org.uk
Join CASPA for their 2nd annual Christmas Carol Concert – a heart-warming, family-friendly evening filled with festive cheer! Enjoy performances from the fabulous Rock Choir and talented soloists, plus an interval serving mulled wine, soft drinks and mince pies. The event is fully accessible and open to all in the community. Book your tickets at https://register.enthuse.com/ps/event/ CASPAChristmasCarolConcert.
Monthly Bereavement Café
First Saturday of each month, 10am – 12pm GreenAcres Kemnal Park, A20 Sidcup Bypass,
Chislehurst, BR6 7RR
Cost: Free
Contact: Email info@greenacresgroup.co.uk
When you lose someone you love, meeting others who can relate to how you feel can help. We promise you a warm welcome from our experienced and compassionate team. You will find a kind, supportive space with understanding from others who are also living life after loss. Everyone in our local community is welcome. Free coffee and cake.
For details see www.greenacresgroup.co.uk
Santa’s Grotto at Bromley Fire Station
Saturday 6th December, 11am–3pm
Bromley Fire Station, Bromley
Cost: £5 donation per child
Contact: In partnership with The Rotary Club of West Wickham
Join Green Watch Bromley and The Rotary Club of West Wickham for a magical Santa’s Grotto event at Bromley Fire Station! For just a £5 donation, children can meet Santa in his festive grotto and receive a gift, explore real fire engines up close, and take part in fun, festive crafts and activities. All proceeds will go to The Firefighters Charity, supporting the wellbeing of firefighters and their families across the UK. A lovely community event that celebrates the true spirit of the season – connection, kindness and a little Christmas magic!
Dementia Café
1st Wednesday of the month, 10.30am-12pm Avenue Baptist Church, 96 Avenue Road, Beckenham, BR3 4RX
Cost: Free
Contact: Claire on 07872 302907
Monthly group for people living with Dementia/ Alzheimers and their Carers/Loved Ones. Each month we have different activities such as crafts, singing, quizzes. You are welcome to take part or just come for a cuppa and a chat. Support provided. No booking necessary, just pop along and join us!
• Small garden trees and shrubs pruned, shaped or removed
• Hedge trimming and removal - Leylandii hedge management
• Stump grinding - tree planting - protected tree application service
• Consultancy and tree reports (mortgage - insurance - health & safety)
• National Trust - Diocese - local authority contractor - Long-standing domestic client list
• All our teams are knowledgeable, fully qualified and experienced
community & CHARITY
Christmas Tree Festival
Saturday 6th December 12:00pm – 3:00pm
Bromley Common Methodist Church, Bloomfield Road, BR2 9RZ
Cost: Free. Donations welcome
Contact: See www.bcmc.org.uk
Come along to Bromley Common Methodist Church for the annual Christmas Tree Festival in support of the children’s charity Action for Children. Enjoy around 50 traditional and unusual Christmas trees, plus a display of famous and infamous local characters from Bromley over the years. There’s plenty to keep the little ones entertained, including face painting, a scavenger hunt, Santa’s reindeer hunt, creative crafts, Scalextric and a photo booth in a stable. The festival concludes with carol singing at 2:30pm – a perfect festive outing for the whole family!
MUSIC & entertainment
BOES Charity Christmas Concert
Saturday 6th December, 7.30pm till 9.30pm
St. Andrew’s Church, Burnt Ash Lane, Bromley BR1 5AF
Cost: Tickets £10 on the door, under 16s free.
Contact: Please see the website or Facebook/ Instagram
Come and join us for a pre-Christmas celebration to get you in the mood! In support of BROMLEY BRIGHTER BEGINNINGS, a very special local charity. Interval refreshments will be available – we look forward to welcoming you! To book or for details see www.boesbromley.org.uk
theatre & Performances
Churchill Theatre, Bromley
Contact: tickets@churchilltheatre.co.uk
Beauty and the Beast
Saturday 6th December – Sunday 4th January
Get ready for a magical panto treat as Beauty and the Beast takes to the stage in a spectacular show for all
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the family. Starring TV favourite Samantha Womack as the Enchantress and Hi-de-Hi! legend Su Pollard as Mrs Potty, the cast also includes Britain’s Got Talent star Jamie Leahey, panto dame Ben Stock, and Sheri Lineham as Belle. Join Belle as she discovers that true beauty lies within in this heartwarming, laugh-out-loud retelling packed with songs, sparkle and panto magic!
Robin Hood and the Christmas Cracker
Saturday 6th – Sunday 21st December
It’s Christmas in Sherwood Forest, and the sneaky Sheriff of Nottingham has stolen the famous Christmas Cracker from the woodland animals! Join Robin and his Merry Men on a fun-filled adventure to get it back. Packed with original music, larger-than-life characters and festive magic, this reimagined tale by StoryMakers Theatre is perfect for the whole family.
The Churchill Comedy Club
Saturday 13th December
Pull up a chair and enjoy a night of world-class entertainment, right on your doorstep. Featuring the funniest comics from the circuit and TV, performing the very best stand-up comedy. This double headliner show includes a brand new line up of top comedians every month, plus resident host Carly Smallman. Get your tickets, bring your friends, and come and have a laugh with us!
Christmas Cabaret: Ex-Drag-Aganza
Friday 19th December
Get ready for a fabulous festive night hosted by drag superstars Ula Lah and That Girl! Enjoy live vocals, dancing, comedy, games and much more, plus a welcome drink on arrival. A fun Christmas event like no other! Age Restriction: 18+
Silent Disco: Dancing Through The Decades
Saturday 20th December
Party the night away with your friends at our fun and fabulous Silent Disco for Adults. With 3 different music channels to choose from on our high spec LED headsets, take your pick from a whole range of party anthems and dance floor fillers from the 70’s, 80’s and 90’s that will be sure to keep you dancing the night away. Age restriction: 18+
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The December prize is a pair of tickets to the Rocky Horror Show opening night on Monday 9th February
Complete the answers then using the letters in the shaded squares, spell out the name of something associated with Christmas (reading from top to bottom, left to right)
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1. What you traditionally do when you stand under mistletoe (4)
5. Traditionally placed on top of the Christmas tree (4)
9. Traditional Christmas treat often hung on the tree (5,4)
11. Bright red classic Christmas flower (10)
13. Movie featuring a boy who is accidentally left at home (4, 5)
14. Classic Christmas ballet (3,10)
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2. Country that the real Santa Claus comes from (6)
3. Christmas decoration typically hung on front doors (6)
4. A popular Christmas dinner item: Pigs In... (8)
6. Reindeer with a shiny red nose (7)
7. Present reserved for naughty children according to tradition (4)
8. Artist who sang 'Rocking Around the Christmas Tree' (6,3)
10. Surname of Christmas character who says "Bah! Humbug!" (7)
12. The number of reindeers helping Santa (4)
What you traditionally when you stand under istletoe (4)
November answer: Capital, Gem October winner: Stephen Rutherwood
Traditionally placed on p of the Christmas tree (4)
Traditional Christmas eat often hung on the tree ,4)
13. Movie featuring a boy who is accidentally left at home (4, 5)
14. Classic Christmas ballet (3,10) Down
6. Reindeer with a shiny red nose (7)
7. Present reserved for naughty children according to tradition (4)
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1. Bright red classic hristmas flower (10)
2. Country that the real Santa Claus comes from (6)
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3. Christmas decoration typically hung on front doors (6)
4. A popular Christmas dinner item: Pigs In... (8)
8. Artist who sang 'Rocking Around the Christmas Tree' (6,3)
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Goal-scoring puzzle
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A little London luxury
Add a touch of calm to your Christmas with this beautiful Hopscotch soy candle, hand-poured in London and delicately scented with uplifting Bergamot. Worth £9, this 95g candle brings a cosy glow and a hint of citrus freshness to any room — perfect for those quiet festive moments when you just want to unwind with a cuppa and enjoy the twinkle of the fairy lights.
A treat for green fingers
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After a day of pottering in the garden, this Gardener’s Therapy luxury soap is just the ticket. Weighing in at 150g and worth £16, this triple-milled bar gently exfoliates and deeply moisturises, leaving hands feeling soft and pampered. With its fresh, herbaceous scent of spearmint and rosemary, it’s a spa-like indulgence for hardworking hands – and the perfect stocking filler for any garden lover.
A trip down sweet memory lane
Who doesn’t love a bit of nostalgia at Christmas? This 650g tub of Swizzels’ Sweet Shop Favourites is packed with all the classics –from Love Hearts and Refreshers to Drumsticks and Parma Violets. Worth £6, it’s the perfect treat to share (or not!) while you reminisce about pocket money days and paper bags filled with pick ’n’ mix. A proper blast from the past to sweeten up your festive season!
Afternoon tea for two
The Landing Hotel offers comfortable stays and exceptional dining experiences for all. Now you can indulge in their Afternoon Tea experience and enjoy a selection of delicate finger sandwiches, delectable desserts and exquisite teas, all handcrafted by the talented team of chefs at Air Culinaire Worldwide. Worth £59.90 (£29.95 each), this exquisite prize of Afternoon Tea for Two will have you devouring every mouthful. For more details see thelandinghotel.co.uk
New year, new start
If you’re looking to kick off the year with a boost of inspiration, you’ll love How to Make Your Life Amazing by J.C. Zielinska – a motivational guide that helps you harness the power of your thoughts and imagination to create the life you truly want in 2026. Worth £12.99, it’s described as a ‘pick-me-up’ read, ideal for anyone wanting to make small, intentional changes that lead to big results.
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My article is about saving animals. They are being killed every day and it can become a problem killing them for food, clothes and other resources because animals are not blank slates who are supposed to be killed.
Why shouldn’t we kill animals? Animals can help people make money. The first way, if others are ok with it, you can sell them to farmers/animal lovers. The other way is that they can make primary sources like food and drink without having to be killed and then the animal’s owner can sell this. If we keep killing animals, then there may be more risk of human deaths per year because some animals, like snakes, can save lives with medicines. And if humans just kill animals, it will be an unequal balance. If we stop killing animals, then economic growth and petting zoos would gradually increase. Animals worldwide would be saved and everyone on earth could live in harmony again.
Scientists are currently finding new ways to think, solve and do things. They are always trying to make lab-grown, vegetarian replicas of foods that taste similar to real meat. We can also recycle things that are harmful to the environment and give it good use. For example, we can reduce plastic bags by cutting them up, turning them into a sort of wool, and use knitting skills to make some other things that last longer instead of using things like tiger fur. Reducing animal killing relies on everyone and not just adults or important people. Children from all over need to help as well, because everything makes a difference on Earth and we need YOU to be the change.
What a thought-provoking article Lydia! It’s inspiring to see a young person so passionate about making a difference for animals and the planet. Keep sharing your voice and spreading awareness; every idea like yours brings us closer to a kinder, more harmonious world.
SUPPORTING LOCAL AUTHORS…
Community
Red Roses inspire next generation at Bromley RFC
There was plenty to cheer about at Bromley Rugby Club recently when Red Roses World Cup winners Meg Jones and Abi Burton paid a special visit to take part in the club’s Girls Rugby Fest. The event brought together girls of all ages for a fun-filled day of rugby skills, teamwork and inspiration, as Meg and Abi shared stories from their international careers and joined in the activities – complete with plenty of “yeehaaa!” moments. The club, which now has almost 80 girls playing across age groups, continues to go from strength to strength under its five-year plan to give every girl the same playing opportunities as the boys. Its #RuckTo100 campaign is already well underway, aiming to reach 100 registered players.
Head of Girls Rugby, Ross Castell, said: “To see so many girls on the pitch, smiling, learning and supporting each other was incredible. It shows what can happen when we create a welcoming, inspiring environment for girls to thrive in rugby.” The event also supported The Star Scheme’s #YourBodyYourGame campaign, which promotes confidence and inclusivity in sport – with players proudly wearing ribbons in their club colours to show unity and pride.
For more details or to get involved, visit bromleyrfc.org or email girlsrugby@bromleyrfc.org.
Beckenham-based business consultant, Emma Meheux, has turned her extensive experience in sales, marketing and digital into her first business book, Sales Before Marketing. Emma, who lives with her fiancé and has grown up locally, said: “I’ve always loved writing. Around ten years ago, I faced some serious mental health challenges which meant I had to slow down and reduce stress. That’s when I realised I wanted to spend more time on creative activities, especially writing, as it really helped my wellbeing. From there, the idea of writing a book started to take shape.”
Aimed at small business owners, Sales Before Marketing introduces a ten-point sales planning process designed to help businesses build strong sales foundations, create a strategic approach and understand the difference between sales and marketing – something many small business owners struggle with. Emma celebrated the book’s launch with a local event at Bromley Old Town Hall, describing it as “a brilliant afternoon with amazing support from so many members of the Bromley business community.”
Emma has other writing projects in the pipeline, including children’s books and a poetry book, which she hopes to publish in the future. The book is available now at salesbeforemarketing.com.
If you’re a local author or know of one, email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk for the chance to be featured.
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Everyday Echoes Art Exhibition
Everyday Echoes is a small, free community art exhibition hosted at Bromley Library and running until February next year. Featuring street photography, paintings and poetry, the exhibition, organised by Echo Creative CIC in partnership with Jen Kavanagh, reflects on the beauty of everyday moments and the quiet ways we connect through shared public spaces.
Among the featured artists is Abi, a local landscape artist, art therapist and mother based in Bromley. Her collection, Pathways, explores a personal journey of self-discovery, reflection and inspiration. Alongside Abi’s work, the exhibition showcases contributions from several other artists. Together, their pieces highlight the rhythms of daily life. The exhibition invites viewers to consider how small gestures of care, presence, and attention shape our sense of community.
To learn more about Abi and her work, visit: www.artandsoultherapy.co.uk
If you're interested in attending a free guided painting workshop (beginners welcomed) with Abi or would like to be kept updated on future events, please email echoshub.hotmail. com to register. Places are limited and a waiting list may apply.
The green light for Greener and Cleaner
Greener and Cleaner is celebrating after receiving funding from Benefact Group’s Movement for Good Awards to launch England’s first Community Sustainability Support Network (CSSN). The CSSN will connect and support local sustainability projects – from Repair Cafés and Community Fridges to allotments, wellbeing gardens, and energy initiatives – helping them share knowledge, access resources and collaborate for greater impact.
Founder Parisa Wright said: “Community projects across England play a vital role in building resilience and sustainability. This network will help them thrive, grow, and make an even bigger difference in their communities.”
Membership is free for any group delivering community sustainability work. Keep an eye out for joining details and updates on progress via www.greenerandcleaner.co.uk
Singing for Health in Bromley
Medising has received a grant from The National Lottery Community Fund to run its Singing for Hypertension project in Bromley for a year. Following a successful pilot funded by the Bromley Innovation Fund, 89% of participants saw lower blood pressure during and after the course.
Sessions run until July 2026 online on Thursdays, 6.30pm–7.30pm and in person on Mondays, 2pm–3pm at St Mark’s Church Hall, Westmoreland Rd, BR2 0TB.
To register, email Nicola at info@medising.co.uk.
Always loved writing? We're seeking voluntary 'roving Reporters' for Life In Bromley! Get in touch by emailing hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk
New guide from Bromley Soroptimists
A new booklet designed to help women in the London Borough of Bromley who are fleeing domestic abuse has just been launched by Bromley Soroptimists. The guide – the first of its kind locally – provides practical information and advice, with a QR code linking directly to the full version hosted by Bromley & Croydon Women’s Aid.
It’s an important step in helping women access the right support quickly and safely. For more information visit www.bcwa.org.uk and to access the guide, scan the QR code.
Churchill Theatre is opening its doors this festive season for unforgettable live entertainment, right in the heart of Bromley. Experience the pure joy of Christmas with this year’s pantomime, Beauty and the Beast, of which this month’s cover showcases some of the cast. This year’s enchanting and spectacular pantomime stars TV and stage favourite, Samantha Womack; panto legend Su Pollard; Britain’s Got Talent’s Jamie Leahey; Dame Ben Stock; and Sheri Lineham as Belle. Younger theatregoers will also love the new show, Robin Hood & The Christmas Cracker. Filled with original music, exuberant characters and imagination, it’s the ideal Christmas show for the whole family.
MAYOR'S VOICE
I wanted to take this opportunity to reflect on the period of Remembrance that Bromley, along with the rest of the nation – and, indeed, the Commonwealth of Nations and wider world – came together to mark recently.
Our national period of Remembrance of course takes place every year, but commemoration this year was particularly poignant with 2025 marking the 80th anniversary of the Second World War and the 85th anniversary of the Battle of Britain – a battle which was absolutely instrumental in securing allied victory, with Biggin Hill’s extremely important strategic role recognised by Winston Churchill himself as Britain’s “strongest link”.
Earlier this year, as Deputy Mayor and then Mayor, I attended commemorations across the borough to mark VE Day in May, and the final end of World War II with VJ Day in August, followed by a service in September commemorating the Battle of Britain (alongside a number of living veterans). It was extremely moving to witness all generations coming together to remember these vital cornerstones of our national history that must never be forgotten.
Lines from Linda
‘Where did the year go?’ everyone is asking. And I don’t know the answer as I am as confused as everyone else. However, it has gone and now it is Christmas.
And, for the first year ever, as I have given up performing in pantomimes, I have more time for socialising and celebrating. I knew I wanted a seasonal jumper with all the reindeers on it, along with Father Christmas. Reindeers carry the presents to the children, they deserve to be on Christmas jumpers.
I found a classy looking jumper with just one reindeer knitted into it. The reindeer had no red nose, so I asked the assistant which reindeer it was. ‘There’s only Rudolph, isn’t there,’ she said indignantly. ‘It’s Rudolph.’ ‘No, Rudolph has got a shiny red nose,’ I argued, ‘This one hasn’t, and it looks quite feminine. Rudolph is male.’
And it was an honour to attend Bromley’s Parish Church of St Peter & St Paul on Remembrance Sunday, and to attend Orpington two days later on Armistice Day, paying my respects and honouring the sacrifices of generations who fought, and in a great many cases died, for us all. I also thought it fitting to visit St George’s Chapel of Remembrance, Biggin Hill – as well as nearby churches in Downe and Cudham, which I know well as their local councillor and have attended Remembrance Sunday services at for several years – both for a quiet moment of reflection, and to deliver a Remembrance Message to the borough, which is available on our website at www.bromley.gov.uk/remembrance.
As well as attending these important formal ceremonies, the Mayoress and I also thought it particularly important to visit and support poppy sellers up and down the borough. These hardworking volunteers freely give their time, effort and commitment each year to ensure that the nation remembers those who fought and died for our freedom, and to raise funds to support our servicemen and women, and veterans, of today. We Will Remember Them.
Best wishes
Cllr Jonathan Andrews Mayor of Bromley (2025-2026)
Find out more at www. bromley.gov.uk/mayor
it at a stall there. There were many stalls. I stopped at one that was selling jumpers displaying Santa on the front. There were batteries on the inside. When you pressed the battery, it played a tune.
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couldn’t decide which tune to pick to play across my chest over Christmas "
‘Oh well I couldn’t say for sure,’ she told me. ‘With only his head on the jumper, no body or bits on display, one couldn’t say either way. Anyway, I didn’t know there were any other reindeers I thought it was just Rudolph.’ I left the shop feeling very sad for Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner and Blitzen. They too fly across the rooftops delivering presents on Christmas Eve.
I decided to go to a famous London market, I felt confident I would find a jumper with all the reindeer on
‘You can pick your tune,’ the marketer told me, ‘and we add that. Any tune you like. All Christmassy of course.’ I liked that idea, but couldn’t decide which tune to pick to play across my chest over Christmas. ‘Do you have a list to choose from, or could you suggest an appropriate one?’ I asked him. He nodded. ‘We do have a list,’ he told me, ‘Or I could suggest a good one for you.’
‘Yes, what would you suggest?’
He gave me a little wink. ‘I’ve got nobody loves a fairy when she’s 40, but I can change wording, to nobody loves a fairy when she’s 60, or even 70 if you want to keep it another year.’ I was speechless. I walked away. I now knew how Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Comet, Cupid, Vixen and Blitzen felt, being forgotten and insulted. 70! No way! But it was the season to be happy, so I kept a smile on my face. I bought a framed picture of the nine reindeers with Santa, instead of the flashing jumper, and wished everyone I passed a Very Happy Christmas. As I wish the same to all Life In Bromley, readers, and adding, ‘A healthy and prosperous New Year to follow!’
For more about me and my crime novels see www.lindareganonline.co.uk
St George’s Chapel of Remembrance, Biggin Hill with Deputy Lieutenant Deirdre Barr (right) and Margaret Wilmot, the Chapel Verger
Life Hacks
MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR TIME OFF IN 2026!
Ready to get clever with your annual leave?
With a little smart planning, you can turn a handful of days off into long, glorious stretches of free time – without using up all your holiday allowance! Here’s how:
Spring into Easter: Book off Tuesday 7th April to Friday 10th April, and with Good Friday (3 Apr) and Easter Monday (6 Apr) on top, you’ll enjoy 10 consecutive days while using just four days of annual leave. Perfect for a spring getaway or a home refresh!
Double up in May: With two bank holidays – 4th and 25th-you have another opportunity to maximise your holiday. Book 5–8 May, and you’ll get nine days off in a row (Sat 2nd to Sun 10th May). Do the same again at the end of the month (book 26–29 May), and you’ve got another nine-day stretch (Sat 23rd May to Sun 31st May). That’s 18 glorious days off for the price of just eight leave days!
6 tips for a stress-free dinner party
Plan ahead! Try to have at least one of the courses made ahead of time
Double check if your guests have any dietary requirements
Keep table decorations simple – guests are there for the food and company, not the decor
Don't put pressure on yourself to make everything. Allow yourself a few shopbought items
Cook something you are confident at making and don't plan a complex recipe unless you've tried it before
Plan your meal according to the season and, if you can, go for a theme so the flavours flow seamlessly eg Turkish, Italian etc
Stretch out the summer: Fancy a late-summer breather? Take Tuesday 1 to Friday 4 September off after the Summer Bank Holiday (31 Aug), and you’ll unlock nine consecutive days of downtime (Sat 29th Aug to Sun 6th Sept).
Festive finale: Christmas 2026 falls on a Friday, with Boxing Day on Saturday (so the substitute is Monday 28 Dec). If you book 21–24 Dec and 29–31 Dec, you’ll end up with 16 days off in a row – from Saturday 19th December to Sunday 3rd January 2027 – and you’ll only use seven annual leave days! Just imagine it: no emails, no meetings and endless mince pies.
A little planning now means you can maximise time off for more adventures, lie-ins or doing absolutely nothing (which, let’s be honest, sounds rather nice). So, grab your calendar, get in early with the holiday requests – and make 2026 your best-balanced year yet!
How to... clean your iron
Spots or gunk showing up on your clothes while you iron? Your iron’s probably crying out for a clean! Over time, fibres from clothes can melt onto the plate – not great for your favourite outfits. Here’s a simple fix:
1. Soak a tea towel in white vinegar.
2. Set your warm (not hot!) iron plate-down onto the towel and let it sit for 30 minutes.
3. Wipe it down, and voilà — clean and shiny!
4. For steam holes, dip a cotton bud in vinegar and gently clear them out.
Keep your Xmas tree fresh for longer!
Mix one teaspoon of sugar and one teaspoon of vinegar into your tree water to keep it hydrated and needle-fall minimal.
Ask The Experts
You asked – and they answered! Send your need-to-know questions to our local experts by emailing hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk with the subject line ‘Ask The Experts’
Q: I’m planning on selling my home early next year. What can I do now to improve its presentation and make it more attractive to potential buyers?
Jennie: The time between now and New Year is one of the most popular periods for homeowners to browse properties – many people are starting to think ahead and prepare for a fresh start in the new year.. It’s the perfect opportunity to prepare your home before the January rush. A property sells well when two things are right: the price and the presentation. That’s where we can help. Home staging is the hidden secret that helps homes sell faster and for more money. It’s about styling your space to appeal to buyers – making it feel brighter, bigger and more inviting. Start by decluttering, packing away personal items and adding simple touches like fresh cushions or neutral décor. If you're unsure where to begin, I’m your local home stager and I offer expert advice and hands-on help to make your property stand out.
Visit Jennie Farrow, Farrow Home Staging for a free home staging guide at www. farrowhomestaging.co.uk and for further details on how we can help you!
Jennie Farrow, Farrow Home Staging
Q: I have never changed windows or doors before – what tips can you offer?
Oliver: Firstly - I would advise looking at the windows of other properties in your road, are the houses similar to yours? What style/age is your property? What windows do other homes have in terms of style & material?
• Do they have any glazing bars? Leaded lights? Patterned glass?
• Standard colours are matt black, matt anthracite & white gloss –Many others colours & finishes are available, plus you can have dual colours – different outside to inside (this will increase cost)
The Window Sanctuary are a local, family owned and run company, with a fully stocked showroom in Brasted. We specialise in aluminium and timber replacements windows and doors. We are independent and offer free unbiased advice. We can provide quotations following a showroom visit, a home visit or if you wanted to send in photos and measurements.
For details see www.thewindowsanctuary.com
Oliver Dolan, The Window Sanctuary
Q: I'm considering extra tuition for my child, how do I go about finding the right tutor?
Reshma: Choosing the right tutor can make a big difference to your child’s confidence, progress and attitude towards learning. Start by considering your child’s needs – do they need support to catch up, stretch ahead, or prepare for exams like the 11+ or GCSEs? Look for tutors or centres that match your child’s curriculum so teaching aligns with what they’re learning at school. Ask about the tutor’s experience, where materials come from, whether lessons are personalised, and how progress is tracked and shared. Visit the centre or arrange a trial to ensure your child feels comfortable. Practicalities also matter –check availability, location, cost, flexibility and whether childcare vouchers or tax-free childcare can be used. Recommendations from parents and schools can be invaluable. Ultimately, the best tutor understands your child’s learning style and motivates them to succeed. When your child leaves a lesson smiling and more confident, you’ve found the right fit.
Find more tips on our website: www.numberworksnwords. com/uk/blog
Reshma Narni, NumberWorks’ nWords Bromley
Short Story
SURPRISED BY JOY
by STELLA PLATTS
Visiting the London Christmas lights was a treat they had always both enjoyed. Each year they would catch the train to Charing Cross from the south coast. Walking along beneath the lights strung across the road and with the warm glow from the shop windows beside them, they held hands. A long marriage had brought them children but they still relished each other’s company as a couple.
They would stop at a cafe and go in for a cake and hot chocolate before heading home in the dark early evening. The rhythm, noise and warmth of the train induced a drowsiness and a contented doze until they reached their stop. The annual event was always fun and memorable as they compared the lights to those of previous years, giving their verdict. It was good to feel comfortable and at home in their capital city. The years of working life were well behind them now and there was time for the simple, familiar events that marked each year’s passing.
This year Frank wondered why he had decided to go to see the lights. He was alone now that Evie had died. Perhaps he hoped to relive their happiness, to connect to her in some way. He really had no idea.
At first the train only passed a few houses but he saw the Christmas trees in some with their lights on. Then just the darkness of fields and woods as they travelled through the countryside. The lights began again as the suburbs passed and then more and more lights and decorated trees could be seen as the city drew near. Some people had lights even in their back gardens on trees and fences, all adding to the Christmas mood of anticipation. For Frank it was pleasant, as though Evie was there beside him and he was glad he’d decided to go to see the lights even without her.
Outside the station The Strand was hung with lights and he wandered around into Trafalgar Square. At The National Gallery he entered the little cafe next door. With his cup
and snack he looked for a table. The cafe was busy and the tables were mostly full. He found an empty chair where a young woman was sitting alone. They sat in silence eating and drinking just glancing at each other.
“This is a good cafe,” she said, inviting conversation. Frank replied that he’d always come to London from the coast each year with his wife to see the lights. He explained that he was now alone but decided to come anyway.
They chatted for a while and the conversation was warm and comforting to him. He realised how alone he had felt and talking to this stranger had broken into his solitude and warmed him.
The conversation came to an easy close and they parted. Not wishing to visit the gallery, Frank slowly moved into the bookshop next door. He was pretty knowledgeable about art and was surprised to see how well stocked the shop was. There were books that revived his interest from the most recent exhibitions and another of his interests from his career in films. He was soon engrossed and thinking he should sort out his books at home and replace them with some newer editions.
At last he decided to buy himself one and moved to pay. As he turned away from the cash desk he saw the young woman from earlier in the cafe. She was looking directly at Frank and their eyes met. Without hesitation they both held each other in an embrace. It was so strange and spontaneous but it felt so right. They just said “Goodbye” and parted once more.
Frank left the gallery and moved through the Christmas crowds. His tread felt lighter. He was somehow renewed. What a strange and unexpected encounter he reflected. It would be a good Christmas.
The train carried him along back to the familiar station and his local streets. Frank knew now that life would be different but he wasn’t as alone as he’d thought. Christmas had brought him a special gift of hope and love.
Feeling creative? We’re looking for your short stories. Send a brief synopsis to hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk with your idea and contact details.
A Final Thought…
Unlocking the mystery of dreams
by MILLA GRANT
Did you know that Paul McCartney’s song ‘Yesterday’ came to him as a full melody, in a dream? Or that the sewing machine was invented because its creator, Elias Howe, had a nightmare about being attacked with spears that had holes in their tips?
Dreams can take many forms and are considered scientific phenomenon’s involving complex brain activity, yet we still don’t know their true purpose. Many theories exist, and some researchers suggest that decoding dreams could potentially lead to humans developing a greater selfawareness and enhanced emotional clarity which could potentially aid in the healing process for trauma.
What are dreams?
Dreams are images and thoughts experienced during sleep, often occurring in an apparently meaningful sequence and usually involving emotions. They are driven by our subconscious and memories, so ‘real-life’ rules don’t really apply, which is why odd things can happen in our dreams and some things, such as our reflection and the time are indistinguishable or blurry. We only dream about things we have encountered somewhere in our lives before (even if it was only a glimpse), as the brain can’t ‘invent’ new people or places.
Historical theories
Throughout history, dreams have always fascinated people and have been deeply rooted in religion and culture. Many ancient civilisations (and religions such as Hinduism) paid close attention to their dreams as they believed they were messages from the Gods that could guide decisions. Others believed that dreams were your spirit wandering through other worlds. The Egyptians, on the other hand, interpreted dreams as a foresight into the future and they used them to navigate life events. These are known today as precognitive dreams, in which people have claimed that they foresaw a disaster in their dream before its occurrence. A famous example is Abraham Lincoln, who reportedly dreamt his assassination before it happened. But was this genuine foresight or simply the subconscious replaying fears that already existed?
Psychological theories
In more recent history, psychologists have tried to understand dreams. Freud believed that the importance of dreams was to delve into the unconscious mind, holding our hidden fears or desires (which we are not able to
access when awake). Other psychologists see dreams as a way for the brain to process daily experiences or emotions. Which is where the quote ‘Sleep on it’ came from for decision-making, since our brain can process the decision while we dream to aid us in making the best decision when we are awake. On the flip side, many researchers propose that dreams are simply random brain activity with no deeper meaning at all. But this is hugely opposed however, since if dreams were truly meaningless, why can they affect our moods, shift our perspectives and inspire?
Disrupted dream risks
Although the exact meaning of dreams remains uncertain, there is growing evidence that disruptions in the dream state are linked to various health risks. Dreams occur primarily during the rapid eye movement (REM) stage of sleep, when brain activity closely resembles that of wakefulness, which stimulates vivid dreaming. Research from the Framingham Heart study suggests that individuals who developed dementia spent less time in REM sleep. Additionally, a study published in the Alzheimer’s and Dementia magazine found that longer intervals to reach REM sleep correlate with higher levels of amyloid beta and tau proteins, which have both been found to contribute to the progression of some types of Dementia. The reasons for the correlations could be due to the REM stage of sleep being the time where the brain processes and consolidates memories. A delay or insufficiency in this phase can disrupt memory consolidation and affect learning, while also promoting the buildup of tau proteins thus blocking neural communication and causing cellular damage.
We spend roughly six years of our lives dreaming - that’s about two hours each night. Some dreams vanish instantly upon waking, while others can stick with us for decades. Whether they’re a window into the unconscious, a form of brain processing, or just a meaningless form of entertainment, dreams remain one of the most fascinating mysteries of the human mind. So, the next time you wake from a vivid dream, ask yourself: was that just random noise - or a hidden message worth paying attention to?
Sources: Alzheimer’s Society, Alzheimer's Research UK, Pubmed, Very Well Mind, Sleep Foundadtion
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London Biggin Hill Airport is one of Bromley’s largest employers - with over 70 companies employing more than 1,700 people across the site.
We are deeply committed to fostering strong ties with the community so that when we succeed, so do local people.
From supporting the next generation with our early careers programme to giving back to a range of local initiatives, London Biggin Hill is proud to support its community - with investment totaling more than £150,000 over the last decade.
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