Celebrating the Class of 2023 Nineteenth Commencement June 11, 2023 22 Sivan 5783 5:30 p.m. 555 West Hartsdale Avenue Hartsdale, New York
Opening Montage
Processional*
(Hatikvah) and TheStarSpangledBanner*
Led by Ella Ben-Yishai, Ari Estrin, and the Class of 2023
Opening Prayer
Rabbi Abby Sosland
Student Speaker (Hebrew)
Maya Glick
Faculty Speaker
Rina Schulberg
Musical Presentation
Face the River by Gavin DeGraw
Emily Khabie and Daniella Silver
Accompanied by Micah Katchen and Raf Katchen
Presentation of Class Gift
Stephanie Wechsler and Danielle Zuckerman
Head of School’s Remarks
Dr. Michael Kay
Awarding of Diplomas
Musical Presentation
(Fly My Little One)
Led by Ella Ben-Yishai, Ari Estrin, Emily Khabie, and Daniella Silver
Accompanied by Micah Katchen, Raf Katchen, Daniel Patchen, and Ethan Stein
A Blessing of Gratitude
Rabbi Harry Pell Presentation of the Class
Eric Bassin Recessional*
Student Speaker (English)
Daniel Patchen
*Audience Please Rise
If you look at the scoreboard on the field outside, you will see the words that describe who we have become. In the Book of Amos Chapter 3 Verse 8, we read, “A lion has roared, Who can but fear?” Standing here today, with high school behind us, we feel like lions who are ready to find new territory and make our own mark.
To have an impact on others like a lion, to create fear and awe, requires development of core traits that influence the community around us. But lions don’t start out as fearsome creatures. They first rely on their pride for their strength. As they grow, they develop their own personalities. After perseverance, trials, and hard work, they become creatures exemplifying the quote on our scoreboard. But always, despite their incredible strength and power, lions derive their true strength from their pride.
I’ve spent time thinking about why a group of lions is called a pride, and not a pack, group, or even family. If it were called simply a “group” of lions, it denotes a number - more than one. But elevating a simple “group” by renaming it a “pride” connotes qualities and characteristics that transcend simple numbers. It is an anthropomorphism that speaks about its members. In the case of the Leffell Class of 2023, it describes us, but also charges us with responsibility.
Pride is a complicated emotion - embracing it comes with risk. If pride is not based on actual accomplishment or if we put too much stock in being proud of what we have done, we can lose sight of what is in front of us. As it is said in the book of Mishleh, Chapter 16, Verse 18, “Pride goeth before the fall.” But pride justly earned is an emotion that is so natural and so sweet.
A group of lions is called a pride because they are special. And the qualities that a group of lions possesses - courage, strength, grit, unity - earn them the title of a pride. I believe the Class of 2023 has shown these attributes again and again over the past four years.
In the fall of 2019, we entered the High School as mere cubs - restless, a bit nervous, and full of playful energy. As we settled into our new routine, we formed new friendships with each other and our teachers and began to feel comfortable in our new lives. To be a freshman takes courage - one of the key traits of a lion. You have to speak to peers you don’t know, advocate for yourself in class, and figure out who you want to become. That took a lot of courage for us in freshman year. And then, just as we were feeling more comfortable, Covid hit and we were shut down from all our new beginnings. We needed new courage - to adapt and still find connection with each other. We needed our courage to survive. And survive we did.
By sophomore year, we needed not just our courage, but power and strength as we returned to school still in uncertain times. Simply making it through each day, masked and separated, took incredible stamina. Everyone in school needed the strength of a lion to survive. One of my teachers taught behind shower curtains and many had to roar beneath their masks to be heard. Sophomore year forced us to
adapt and to meet challenges on our own, similar to a young lion testing its independence for the first time.
Junior year required a different trait. In addition to the courage necessary to face our tasks and the strength demanded by our courses, standardized tests, and the college process, we needed to dig deep into our grit. Junior year tested every one of us in ways we could never have expected but, like the lions, we persevered together.
Like the lions who are strongest with a pack, senior year solidified our bonds and reliance on one another. We cultivated community and became closer on Lev v’Nefesh. We learned how our greater family, Am Yisrael, can strengthen and sustain each one of us. And we learned the final lessons of how to succeed as we each staked out our new territory. Like the lion who reaches adulthood and leaves its first pride to start another, we have absorbed all the lessons, and focused all the characteristics, to forge successful new paths. We were a pride in the truest sense.
Today we are leaving our Leffell pride and venturing out to find our own paths. We are all on our way to follow our passions, continuing to develop our identities and make a mark in the way that feels right to us. And as we say goodbye to our Leffell family and venture out, we know that our greatest strength, even as individuals, will come from forming a new pride drawing on the character we built here.
The 2023 Class Gift
To express our gratitude for the invaluable education and care we have received, we decided to purchase two picnic tables to put in the courtyard at the Upper School campus. This gift has two special meanings specific to the Class of 2023.
We started high school in September of 2019, which means that we were only freshmen when Covid hit. Throughout the pandemic, we realized that if we wanted to be able to see the new friends we made in those first six months and stay connected with the ones we had known before, we had to do so outside. This meant that we were spending the majority of our time with our friends in the courtyard during all of the sophomore year and even the beginning of junior year. We wanted to make sure that the classes below us would be able to have a place to eat lunch, socialize, enjoy the beauty of the courtyard, and, most importantly, create and strengthen their relationships, just as we did.
In December of our junior year, our classmate and friend Gavri Benson, z”l, passed away. One of the ways we chose to honor him was by planting a cherry blossom tree in the courtyard. By placing the picnic tables in the courtyard near this tree, we connect with and stay close to Gavri’s memory. We hope that students will be able to make connections with their peers and remember to cherish all of the memories they make with their friends.
English Translation of Hebrew Speech
Logan D. Abramowitz
Class of 2023
Ilan Meir Brusso
Elijah Lewis Gilbert
Tal Kleinhaus Aizenberg
Joy Amidror רורדימע יו׳ג
Elijah David Arnowitz
Destiny Castillo וליטסק םירמ
Maya Glick קילג םולב הלארשי םירמ
Benjamin Elias Cohen ןהכ והילא ןימינב
Shloimy Goldberger רעגרעבדלאג ימולש
Erin Simone Bader
Ella Ben-Yishai
Noah Darwin Bessler
Drew E. Cohen ןהכ רתסא
Moshe Tzvi Creditor
Gal Drotman ןמטורד לג
Sarah Eder רדא
Gabrielle Lily Greene
השאב
Maya B. Grossblatt
אלייב היאמ
Aidan Gurvitch
םייח םהרבא
ץיבומארבא רזעילא
דוד
וסורב ריאמ ןליא
טרבליג ןרוא לאונמע והילא
גרבנזייא זיוהניילק לט
ץיבונרא והילא
ןירג
רדיב
הנועמש
רוטידרק
יבצ השמ
טלבסורג
ןב
-ישי
הלא
׳ץיורוג
רלסב חספ ךורב
הרש Benjamin Gustin ןיטסוג ןימינב Lauren Zimmer Block קולב הייוצ הלאירא Ethan S. Eis אומש סייא םולש םייח ל Oz Aryeh Haimovich ץיבומייח הירא זוע Joseph S. Bond דנוב החמש ףסוי Talia Sydney Emuna הנומא ינדיס הילט Lela Ruth Hartzman ןמצרה הניר האל Noah D. Borenstein ןייטשנרוב דוד Ariel S. Estrin ןירטסא לאירא Edward J. Hoffman ןמפוה בקעי והילא Wyatt Logan Maidenberg Gabriel S. Brown ןוארב ןועמש לאירבג Benjamin David Fortinsky יקסניטרופ דוד חנ Noah Cohen Holmgren ןרגמלוה ןולא םהרבא Raquel Horowitz ץיבורוה הקבר הרש Arielle Maliniak קאינילמ לאירא Samuel Stein ןייטש באז Matan A. Katz ץכ ןתמ Daniel M. Maybaum םואביאמ לאינד Ben Kane Wanderman ןמרדנוו יבא קחצי Emily Khabie יבאק לעי Joreh Ephraim Mehl למ הרוי םירפא Cooper Wasserman ןמרסו בקעי םייח Antra-Blake Kingsbury ירבסגניק הרטנא Emily Nicole Nachmani ינמחנ הסדה הלייא Samuel Benjamin Weber רבוו ןימינב לאומש Daniel Klapper רפלק בוד לאינד Daniel Joseph Patchen ןשטפ הירא Stephanie Wechsler רלסקו הכרב הנשוש Ilana R. Klein ןילק הרופיצ Leigha Scheman ןאמיש הקבר האל Rachel Weisberg גרבסייו לחר Evan M. Kurlander רדנלרוק השמ רזעילא Adin Schifman ןמפיש יבצ Holden M. Werner רנרוו ןדלוה Zachary Nathan Levy יול הירכז ןתנ Jared Schwartz ץראווש ףסוי בקעי Alex Wigodsky יקסדוגיו הניד Errol Lipton ןוטפיל ןורהא Daniella Silver רבליס הלאינד Alon Wigodsky יקסדוגיו ןולא גרבנדימ דוד Liam Joel Spiro וריפס הדוהי םהרבא Lev Zaretsky יקצרז ללה בל Bella Yehudit Malina הנילמ הליב Ethan Stein ייטש והילא ן Danielle Eve Zuckerman ןמרקוז הוח הלאינד
“Fly My Little One” /
בולאירבג יקימ / ןייטשנייא קירא
My little ones have left the nest. They’ve spread their wings and flown. And I’m an old bird, I’ve remained in the nest. I deeply hope that everything will be OK.
I always knew this day would come. That they would need to separate. But, now, it has come upon me suddenly. So, what’s the surprise that I worry a bit.
Flymylittleone. Openthesky. Flytowhatevercomestoyou. Butdon’tforget, Thereareeaglesinthesky.Beware.
Now, we remain alone in the nest. But, at least, we’re together. Hug me tight, tell me “yes.”
“Don’t worry, it is good to get old together.”
Flymylittleone...
I know that this is the way it is in nature. And, that I, also, left the nest. But now, that the moment has come… So, it catches me, a bit, in the throat. It catches me, a bit, in the throat.
Flymylittleone...
Awards and Prizes
(Award recipients announced on Friday, June 9)
Core Value: לארשי תבהא - Love of Israel
LITAL GAMLIEL Z”LPRIZE FOR STUDY IN ISRAEL Danny Maybaum
In the spring of 2006, our school suffered a tragic loss–the loss of a student just weeks before her graduation. Lital Gamliel was a unique and creative student who loved life, loved Israel, and always sought to help those around her. She learned in her own unconventional way and took great pride in her accomplishments, challenging her teachers to be the best educators they could. She was a cherished friend to many in our school, but was also always ready to offer advice or a warm, caring ear to anyone who needed it friends, mere acquaintances, even teachers. Yehi zichra baruch may her memory be for a blessing. This prize is awarded annually to a deserving senior who has committed to a year of post-high-school study in Israel and who most embodies Lital’s zest for life, creative energy, and love of Eretz Yisrael.
Core Value: תוחרזא - Citizenship
TIKKUNOLAM Arielle Maliniak
This award is bestowed on the senior who has worked strenuously to repair the world through service to the community and acts of loving-kindness. This student has taken active steps to improve our community and to make real change in the world.
Core Value: םידסח תולימגו תודימ - Character
DEREKHERETZ Lauren Block and Noah Holmgren
This award is bestowed on the senior who most exhibits the qualities of a tzadik a righteous person. This student is a mensch who acts with derekh eretz above all else. This student acts with integrity, gives of himself or herself, and always treats others with the utmost kindness, compassion, and respect.
Core Value: הליהק - Community
KEHILAH Gabi Greene
This award is bestowed on the senior who has displayed a serious commitment to the Jewish value of kehilah Whether as a leader, a “doer,” or both, this student has both internalized and modeled for others a sense of responsibility to the community, recognizing the need for individuals to step forward to support individual and communal needs in a way that builds strong bonds of interconnection within our kehilah. This award is the only one that results directly from student rather than faculty nomination.
LEADERSHIP Matan Katz
This award is bestowed on the senior who has demonstrated commitment to our community through a positive leadership role in the school, manifested in any number of ways classes, extracurricular activities, athletics, student committees, special projects, etc.
Core Value: דמללו דומלל - Academic Excellence
LOVE OF LEARNING / GENERAL STUDIES
Gabi Greene
This award is bestowed on the senior who is passionate about learning general studies for its own sake. This student may or may not receive high grades, but is motivated by a love of learning and not by grades.
LOVE OF LEARNING / JEWISH STUDIES Jared Schwartz and Bella Malina
This award is bestowed on the senior who is passionate about learning Jewish studies for its own sake. This student may or may not receive high grades, but is motivated by a love of learning and not by grades. This award is dedicated in memory of Arnold Aaron z”l.
REBECCA STEMPEL Z”LAWARD FOR LOVE OF LEARNING IN THE ARTS Sam Stein
Rebecca Anne Stempel, a proud graduate of the Class of 2008, passed away in February 2016 after a valiant battle with fibrolamellar liver cancer. Rebecca was an electrifying performer on the stage, always serious about her studies, and a committed, supportive friend. She was an inspiration to those who had the good fortune to know her, and is missed by the many whose lives she touched. Rebecca was talented in many disciplines, but it was her particular love of theater and dedication to the arts that most distinguished her, including her desire to share her love of the arts with others. Yehi zichra baruch may Rebecca's memory be a blessing in our lives. This award is bestowed on the senior who is passionate about learning and participating in the arts for its own sake, and who embodies Rebecca's love of the arts, commitment to learning, and passion to use every day to its fullest.
CREATIVE PROJECT Destiny Castillo and Lela Hartzman
This award is bestowed on the senior who has demonstrated abstract thinking in a school project. This could include a work of art, a WISE project, a special program, a literary piece, or other project.
Core Value: החמשב הוצמו הרות דומלת - Joyous Jewish Learning & Practice
JEWISH CONSCIENCE Elijah Gilbert
This award is bestowed on the senior who best voices the conscience of our community popular or not as exemplified by leading a life of Jewish values and participating actively in the Jewish community.
ןקה תא ובזע ילש םילזוגה ופעו םייפנכ ושרפ ןקב יתראשנ הנקז רופיצ ינאו .רדסב היהי לכהש דואמ הווקמ םויה אוביש יתעדי דימת דרפיהל ךירצ ובש םואתפ יל אב הככ הז וישכע לבא .גאוד תצק ינאש אלפה המ זא לזוג ףוע םיימשה תא ךותח ךל אבש ןאל סוט חכשת לא קר .ךל רוג .םיימשב רשנ שי ןקב ונדבל ונראשנ וישכע דחיב ונחנא לבא ןכ יל ידיגת קזח יתוא יקבח ןקדזהל ףיכ דחיב יגאדת לא ...לזוג ףוע עבטב הז הככש עדוי ינא ןק יתבזע ינא םגו עגרה אבשכ וישכע לבא ןורגב תצק קינחמ זא .ןורגב תצק קינחמ ...לזוג ףוע
We pay tribute to the following families, for whom today’s graduate is the last child in the family to be graduating from The Leffell School:
The Aizenberg Family
The Bader Family
The Ben-Yishai Family
The Bessler Family
The Block Family
The Bond Family
The Borenstein Family
The Brusso Family
The B. Cohen Family
The D. Cohen Family
The Emuna Family
The Estrin Family
The Fortinsky Family
The Gilbert Family
The Greene Family
The Gustin Family
The Hartzman Family
The Holmgren Family
The Kingsbury Family
The Klapper Family
The Klein Family
The Kurlander Family
The Levy Family
The Lipton Family
The Malina Family
The Maliniak Family
The Maybaum Family
The Nachmani Family
The Scheman Family
The Schifman Family
The Silver Family
The Spiro Family
The E. Stein Family
The S. Stein Family
The Wasserman Family
The Weber Family
The Weisberg Family
Dr. Michael Kay, Head of School Dr. Elliot Spiegel, Headmaster Emeritus
BOARD OF TRUSTEES
Karen Estrin, President
Lynette Goldberg, Barry Lovell, Tom Mukamal At-Large Vice Presidents
Ian Dumain, Governance VP Joel Alsfine, Finance VP
Jeff Teitelbaum, Development VP David Glick, Secretary
Michael Benn David Landau Milos Silber ’05
Ella Chinitz Joel Levin Stacey Wechsler
Jason Friedlander Sarah Nanus
Ben Golub Noah Oppenheim Lifetime Trustees
Brittany Harris Michael Perl Michael Leffell
Gary Katz
April Klein
Smadar Amidror Chief Operating Officer
Jackie Grosser Director of Admissions
Dr. Ilanit Hoory Lower School Principal
Robert Promisel Gabriel Nechamkin
Heather Rabinowitz
Senior Administration and High School Leadership Team
Dr. Michael Kay Head of School
Elisha Andron Director of Student Services
Tracey Harris Chief Financial Officer
Rose Weinstein, & Kellen Howell Co-Directors, College Counseling
The Werner Family
The Wigodsky Family
Lori Abecassis
Elisha Andron
Dr. Daniel Aviv
Eric Bassin
Lisa Bennett
Dr. Bill Blank
Rishana Bloom
Karen Booker
Scott Boulding
Chris Cleaver
Yaniv Cohen
Joel Davidson
Scott D’Ottavio
Gregory Eichten
Nomi Feinberg
Joanna Frank
Irit Goldner-Khon
Richard Gross
Jackie Grosser
Miriam Helfgott
Honorary Trustee
Jason Friedland
Ex-Officio Board Members
Dr. Michael Kay Allison Kellman
Eric Bassin High School Principal Dr. Bill Blank School Psychologist
Amy Holtzer Middle School Principal
Rabbi Harry Pell Associate Head of School
High School Faculty
Erica Hezi
Dr. Renee Holtz
Brianna Hooijberg
Kellen Howell
Raz Idan
Will Jamieson
Fabio Janeiro
Chelsey Kail
Rachel Kirschbaum
Aaron Kogut
Scott Kornberg
Rafal Krazek
Mark Kronenberg
Lea LaGreca
Cara Levine
Jennifer Lividini
Samantha Mazo
Ariel Menashe
Joseph Modica
Danny Mond
Dr. Renee Holtz Chair, Student Learning
Barbara Shapiro Chief Advancement Officer
Vivian Nadasdi
Briana Orrico
Rabbi Harry Pell
Seth Pertain
Siobhan Reagan
Nir Rikman
Emily Sayles
Rina Schulberg
Harry Shontz
Ariel Simon
Rabbi Abby Sosland
Shelby Tager
Ariana Tullai
Dr. Eric Wasser
Rose Weinstein
Dorothy Weiss
Rabbi Yitzchak Zilbiger
Rabbi Sandy Zisser
Mission Statement
The Leffell School, a Kindergarten through 12th grade independent Jewish day school, is set apart by our comprehensive, intellectually rigorous dual curriculum that empowers and cultivates each student in mind, body, and soul. Through the teaching of Jewish values, critical thinking, and openness to new ideas, we inspire our students to achieve academic and personal excellence, preparing them for college and the ever-changing world beyond.
We are a kehilah, a caring community that fosters the joyous practice of Jewish life. We instill in our graduates the confidence to navigate life's journey with a strong moral compass and apply their passions, knowledge, and skills to the betterment of the Jewish people, the United States, Israel, and the world.
” ליחתהל ינרזעת תותכסמ
ךתרות דומלת ירבד לכ תא םיקלו “.הָבֲהַּאְב םימויסלןרדה
םירפסו ,םמיסלו םירחא תושעלו רוֹמשל ,דמללו דוֹמלל ,
“Help me to begin other tractates and courses of study, and to complete them, to learn and to teach, to observe and to act, and to fulfill all the words of the teaching of your Torah with love.”
HadranforSiyumim