5 ways to
COMMUNICATE
family
with your child
Like any relationship, the one between parent and child must be cultivated and nurtured. From the moment they are born, you write on the slate of who they will become. Proper communication, trust, and respect are key, and the relationship you build with your child will determine the success of how he or she interacts with others as adults. With that in mind, here are some tips on fostering good communication skills between parent and child: BE PRESENT. This means you must stop what you are doing and really hear your child. Try not to criticize or question their point of view but simply engage in questions and conversation so they feel that you are there for them—not to parent but to support.
SCHEDULE TIME. Set some time aside each week to converse with your child. Perhaps schedule a parent-child date night so that you can have some one-on-one time.
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SOFTEN YOUR REPLIES. It is almost human nature to disagree with your child’s thought process occasionally, but kids will tune you out if you respond with criticism or negativity.
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RESPECT YOUR CHILD. Express interest in what they are saying without being intrusive, and let them complete their train of thought before you reply. Focus on your child’s feelings rather than your own.
DON’T BE A RIGHT FIGHTER. You can agree to disagree and let them know you value their opinions. Having open, intelligent debates fosters mutual respect and arms them with valuable skills for the adult world.