100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc. Real Men Magazine April 2024 Issue

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The 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland Kicked Off The Real Men Vote Campaign and 14 City Tour Living With Chronic Kidney Disease

April 2024 MAGAZINE
REAL MEN
Robert L. Bankston Cleveland Chapter Health & Wellness Chair
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4 Real Men Magazine • April 2024 FEATURES CONTENTS 7 10 12 24 36 40 48 60 64 74 Editors Letter Our History Chairman’s Letter Real Men Vote Mentee Profile Robert Bankston Living with CKD Sickle Cell Disease Howse Bytes Friendly Inn Settlement
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In this April issue of Real Men Magazine, we discuss one of our four pillars: health and wellness. The 100’s health and wellness goals are to raise awareness, provide access to health care, and provide health information that will ultimately promote behavior change, resulting in a healthier lifestyle.

At the national and local level, our organization and Chapter affiliates partner with corporations, foundations, and other nonprofit organizations to promote preventative health strategies and provide education on prevalent diseases that negatively impact African Americans. The 100, through its Health and Wellness Committee, works with other synergistic organizations to develop strategic partnerships to raise a collective voice to help increase awareness and provide health education to mitigate chronic conditions and diseases that plague the African American community.

Robert L. Bankston serves as our local chair. Along with his committee, he is planning many great programs and events for 2024. The shameful excess mortality experienced by Black Americans due to common but preventable chronic diseases is inexcusable. We can’t wait for things to change for our people. To do so would constitute neglect, and history will record a lack of leadership by our organization. We must immediately embrace the innovative strategies available to help reduce high morbidity and mortality rates, which disproportionately burden Black people. Our goal is to improve the quality of Black lives through prevention rather than relying solely on medical treatment options.

Be on the lookout for our Saturday Academy, which is returning to help prepare our youth for the future.

Robert Bankston

Brandon Curry

Robert Dix Jr.

Christopher Howse

Retanio Rucker LAYOUT

Rodney L. Brown

James W. Wade III

Earl Williams

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REAL MENGIVING REAL
MENTORING THE 100 WAY ACROSS

ACROSS A LIFETIME REAL TIME

WHO WE ARE

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he 100 Black Men of America, Inc. is recognized as the nation’s top African American led mentoring organization. Every African-American person should have the ability to create the life they’ve always wanted and that’s what The 100 Black Men of America, Inc. provides.

Committing ourselves to personify the type of people our children will look up to and emulate, we embrace the immense responsibility we have to our mentees and our communities. Providing these children another choice in life by being around likeminded individuals who have similar aspirations and goals.

As we have grown The Network of 100 Black Men of America, Inc. more companies and programs have been formed to assist in delivering the education and empowerment needed to change the course of these children’s lives. This is done through the 100’s Four For The Future focus areas; Mentoring, Education, Health & Wellness, and Economic Empowerment.

Through the expansion, we’ve created 100 Black Men Chapters that delivers unique programs that address specific needs in local communities. Through 57 years of testing, we’ve created the 100’s successful model. A proven blueprint for mentoring and developing young people into future leaders by surrounding themselves with a positive network and giving them the opportunity that they may not have thought was possible.

THE 100 BLACK MEN OF GREATER CLEVELAND

The history of the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland began when several men traveled to Atlanta, Georgia, at the invite of the late Roosevelt Adams. Roosevelt was a Clevelander who moved to Atlanta and became a successful businessman. He was also a member of the Metro Atlanta Chapter of the 100BMOA, arguably the most powerful chapter of the 100 in the country.

The 100 had been trying to establish a chapter in Cleveland for years but had yet to succeed. Roosevelt introduced Michael Nelson to Thomas W. Dortch, the National Chairman of the 100 Black Men of America and a very prominent businessperson in his own right. Thomas and Roosevelt explained to Nelson that they had met with some Cleveland Black businessmen and community leaders about starting a chapter of the 100. Nelson knew many of the names they mentioned and even indicated that he had attended at least two attempts to organize a Cleveland chapter.

At this point, Nelson promised both men that he would get the ball rolling in Cleveland and have a chapter in place. Nelson concluded that he would hold an organizational meeting of individuals who fit into each category, including representatives from the powerful political factions, Congressman Louis Stokes, former City Council President George Forbes, and Mayor Michael R. White.

A date was set, and Nelson invited a number of his friends, including Larry Hines, Gregory Clifford, Curtis Griggs, Tony Smith, Luther Towers, and Julius Singleton, along with Stokes’ rep, Ron Adrine, Forbes’ rep, Daryl Fields, and White rep, Nate Gray to meet with Chairman Dortch and Roosevelt Adams. The

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meeting was held at the now-closed Eloise’s Restaurant on East 79th and Carnegie. The Cleveland Chapter was established in 1997 and became an entire fledge chapter.

The first significant event was a rollout at the Cleveland Clinic. Over 90 men committed to joining, with about 70 men paying dues. Mayor Michael R. White committed to buying 100 copies of nationally known motivational speaker George Frazer’s book Success Runs in Our Race for each member. George, who attended the opening event, graciously took the time to autograph each member’s copy.

The next major event was a fundraising gala featuring nationally known recording artist the late Phylis Hyman. The event coordinator was the dynamic Richard Johnson, considered a significant internet influencer in today’s social media world. The event was held at the Marriott Hotel in Cleveland, and to say it was a success would be an understatement.

Funds raised by that first gala supported the Cleveland chapter’s version of the National 100’s Four For The Future programs of Health/Wellness, Economic Development, Education, and Mentoring. Larry Hines was our first Program Director, assisted by Curtis (Griggs). the parentheses are intentional; that’s how Curtis spelled his last name.

The 100 would continue to grow its brand in Cleveland. The group coordinated mentoring programs in numerous schools, including Daniel E. Morgan Elementary School, Cleveland East Senior High School, John F. Kennedy Senior High School, East Cleveland Shaw Senior High School, Mound School, and Warrensville Heights Senior High School. The 100 also held a Saturday morning mentoring program at its offices in Cleveland’s Shaker Square complex. The numerous programs included a reading program at Daniel E Morgan and a stock market competition at East High School. One of the highlights of our plan was the success of our East High Stock Market Challenge team, which traveled to Atlanta and took on some of the nation’s most prominent schools, finishing a highly respectable 3rd out of the scores of schools that competed.

In 2022, a class of 22 new members came in, and in 2023, the chapter is still thriving. Now, in 2024, celebrating twenty-seven years, after seven chairmen and numerous galas, you can still find the men mentoring in such schools as Wade Park Ken,neth Clement Boys Leadership Academy, and The Friendly Inn Settlement, to name a few.

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Letter from the Chairman

When one thinks of mentoring, the focus often gravitates towards academic or professional development. However, a holistic approach to mentorship necessitates we acknowledge the connection between well-being and success. Health and wellness serve as essential pillars upon which effective mentoring stands, fostering resilience, empowerment, and sustainable growth among mentees. By nurturing physical health, mentors lay a robust foundation upon which mentees can build their aspirations and pursuits.

In essence, health and wellness is the foundation upon which effective mentoring thrives. By prioritizing physical health, mental well-being, emotional resilience, and social connection, mentoring organizations like the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc. lay the groundwork for holistic development and sustainable success among mentees. As guardians of empowerment and growth, mentors have a profound opportunity to nurture well-being, inspiring mentees to embrace their full potential and embark on transformative journeys of self-discovery and fulfillment.

Health and Wellness if one of the four pillars embedded in our mission. It is extremely important in all we do.

Thanks for reading the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc. Real Men Magazine.

Enjoy!

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EXECUTIVE BOARD BOARD OF DIRECTORS

Gregory Lockhart Chairman

James W. Wade III Vice Chairman

Robert L. Bankston Secretary

Lucien Blackwell Director of Finance

Grady Burrows Director of Programs

Anthony Peebles Director of Development

Mayor Michael Booker

Grady Burrows

Brandon Curry

Chris Howse

Darian Johnson

Lorenzo Russell

Glen Shutmate

James W. Wade III

National Chairman

Milton H. Jones Jr.

Midwest District Representative

COMMITTEE CHAIRS

Director of Communications & Public Relations, James W. Wade III

Economic Empowerment

David L. Taylor - Chair

James Ferguson - Co Chair

Education

Brett Horton - Chair

Health & Wellness

Robert Bankston - Chair

Lloyd Totty - Co Chair

Mentoring

Darian Johnson, Chair

Dr. Ernest Smoot, Co Chair

Membership

Mayor Michael Booker- Chair

Brandon Curry - Co Chair

Scholarship

Lorenzo Russell - Chair

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Chairman Gregory Lockhart Vice - Chairman
James
W. Wade III
Director of Finance Lucien Blackwell 2024 - 2026 Executive Board Secretary
Robert L. Bankston Director of Programs Grady Burrows Director of Development Anthony Peebles THE 100 BLACK MEN OF GREATER CLEVELAND INC.

2024 - 2026 Board of Directors

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Brandon Curry Mayor Michael Booker Lorenzo Russell David Taylor Darian Johnson Christopher Howse Brett Horton Glen Shumate

Cleveland Chapter Membership

Bilal Akram

Robert L.Bankston

Lucien Blackwell

Michael Booker

Rodney L. Brown

Grady Burrows

Gary Carrington

Gregory Clifford

Brandon Curry

Lamont Dodson

Travis Everett

Darrell Fields

Duane Griffin

Curtis (Griggs)

Jeevon Harris

Brett Horton

Chris Howse

Darren Huggins

Larry Jewett

Darian Johnson

Roz Kennon

Gregory Lockhart

Terry Maynard

Terry McWhorter

Tyson Mitchell

Michael Nelson

Founding Members

Judge Ronald Adrine

Honarable Gregory Clifford

Darrell A. Fields

Nate Gray

Curtis (Griggs)

Larry Hines*

Judge Michael Nelson

Julius Singleton

Amthony (Tony) Smith*

Luther Towers

Anthony Peebles

LaRese Purnell

Retanio Rucker

Ernest Smoot

Robert Solomon

David L. Taylor

James W.Wade III

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April is National Minority Health Month, Stress Awareness Month and Move More Month

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100 Black Man Health & Wellness Takeover Campaign For A Healthier

Let me share a glimpse of my life. It’s essential to appreciate the gift of life and not get lost in ‘what ifs.’ We often focus on hypothetical scenarios instead of embracing reality.

In the same year, both my father and grandfather passed away. My father, at the age of 49, suffered from heart disease, while my grandfather, who was 87, can be attributed to old age. Adding to the mix, my grandmother also passed away at the age of 52 due to lupus. These different paths in life made me contemplate death daily, especially after losing my father and grandmother at such a young age. However, now, my focus is on embracing life. I shared this little bit about my life because others may focus on the precious gift of life, and sometimes, we get so consumed by the what-ifs instead of reality.

Although my story is not unique, it highlights the importance of preventive measures for specific health concerns. While we can take steps to prevent some health issues, unfortunately, others are beyond our control. This is why the 1BM Health & Wellness Takeover aims to raise awareness about health and well-being in our community and beyond through our monthly publication. We can’t take back anything in our community without being healthy.

Health, Stress, and Finances

Many individuals often exclaim, “Secure the bag!” But what’s the point of having the bag if you can’t share its contents or derive any enjoyment from it?

Financial stress can have a significant impact on mental health, particularly for individuals already dealing with depression and anxiety. Financial worries can worsen their symptoms,

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HEALTH & WELLNESS

Healthier You

making it even more challenging to cope with daily life. The constant pressure to meet financial obligations can create a sense of hopelessness and helplessness, deepening feelings of sadness and anxiety.

Additionally, financial stress can contribute to the development of mental health conditions such as generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). It can also strain relationships and affect job performance, creating a cycle of

stress and anxiety. Furthermore, the effects of financial stress can extend beyond the individual, impacting the mental health of their children and potentially leading to intergenerational stress and mental health issues. Overall, the effects of financial stress on mental health are wide-ranging and should not be underestimated.

The consequences of financial stress on mental health are extensive, exacerbating symptoms of depression and anxiety, leading to the onset of different mental health disorders, straining relationships, and affecting overall emotional well-being. Understanding the influence of financial stress on mental health is essential to offer suitable assistance and interventions to individuals and families facing these difficulties.

Remember, you are not alone; someone is always willing to offer support. If you need immediate medical help, please call 911 or 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

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100 BLACK MEN OF AMERICA, INC. LAUNCHES ITS “REAL TOUR RALLYING BLACK MEN AROUND THE IMPORTANCE

The nation’s largest prominent African American-led mentoring organization, The 100 Black Men of America, Inc., launched its “Real Men Vote” campaign with a 14-city tour. The tour kicked off in Cleveland, Ohio, on April 1st at Premier Barbershop. This effort is focused on delivering critical voter education and engagement ahead of the 2024 Presidential election.

Milton H. Jones Jr., Chairman of the 100 Black Men of America, Inc., said, “We are an organization with more than 4,000 members, all of whom are registered to vote in the upcoming national and local elections. Further, all of these men are committed to helping men and women in their communities register to vote, learn about the election issues, and see the importance of casting their ballots at every opportunity to vote.”

In addition to a critical Presidential election, 435 seats in the House of Representatives and over 30 Senate seats are up for election this year. Ahead of one of the nation’s most consequential election seasons, the “Real Men Vote” campaign is dedicated to combating an onslaught of misinformation and voting dissuasion campaigns. The tour aims to equip Black men across the country with accurate information about issues and policies at the federal, state, and local levels.

Dr. Wes Bellamy, Chair of the Public Policy Committee of the 100 Black Men of America, Inc. Board, emphasized the increasing national recognition of Black men and their potential to

shape future elections. However, this attention has also brought about a surge of misinformation tactics explicitly targeting them. The ‘Real Men Vote’ campaign was designed to equip Black men with the necessary information and tools to make informed civic decisions, leveraging their voting power to enhance our communities and safeguard our vision for the future.

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VOTE” CAMPAIGN AND NATIONAL IMPORTANCE OF VOTING KICKED OFF IN CLEVELAND, OH

“The 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc. was proud to be the first stop on a fourteen-city tour of the Real Men Vote Townhall Initiative, spearheaded by the 100 Black Men of America. Our local chapter and community partners showed up by engaging in a robust discussion on the importance of voting. Last night’s event set the bar high and got the tour off to a great

start,” said Gregory Lockhart, Chairman of the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc. Chapter.

The multi-city tour will feature town halls curated by 100 Black Men, Inc. chapters in each respective city to discuss the importance of voting and how voting builds power. In cities

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Real Men Vote Cleveland Chapter Panelist

noted below, the Town Halls will be jointly hosted by the Coalition of 100 Black Women and the 100 Black Men of America, Inc. The 100 Black Men of America will also work with the Collective Education Fund, Black Voters Matter, and others to ensure that this is a collaborative approach to engaging Black men from many backgrounds.

The 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland and Dr. Wes Bellamy had a fascinating dialogue as the event kicked off with close to 100 Black Men, both young and seasoned, in attendance. Fox 8 Cleveland morning anchor Waynes Dawson served as the Master of Ceremonies before introducing local chapter Chairman Gregory Lockhart, who thanked everyone for coming out and recognized our partners, which included Premier Barbaer Lounge, The Cleveland NAACP, The Presidents Council, The Real Black

Friday, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. - Delta Alpha Lambda Chapter, Black Vote Matters

Urban League of Greater Cleveland Young Professionals and two founders of the Cleveland Chapter, retired Judge Ron Adrine and retired Judge Michael Nelson, participated on the panel.

We were happy to see many elected officials turn out for this Town Hall about voting, especially Black Men who often wonder if their vote matters. Congresswoman Shontel Monique Brown stopped to hear some of the men’s concerns. Brown has been the U.S. representative for Ohio’s 11th congressional district since 2021. A member of the Democratic Party, Brown previously served as a member of the Cuyahoga County Council, representing the 9th district.

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During this time, you should consider voting as a job you have as a citizen. Like you’re responsible for paying taxes or obeying laws, you should vote because you must help decide who runs the country and makes critical decisions. Imagine you’re picking a team for a game. When you vote, you choose the people representing you in the government. These folks make laws and decisions that affect things like schools, roads, and taxes. If you don’t vote, you’re letting others choose for you, and they might not pick what’s best for you.

“I was ecstatic to kick off the 100 Black Men of America’s Real Men Vote campaign in Cleveland, Ohio on April 1st. A room packed with nearly 100 Black Men talking about the importance of voting, why we need to vote, and

lively discussion about what is needed on both the local and national level is exactly the kind of intergenerational conversation we were looking to bring forth with this agenda. Cleveland has shown itself as the model, and I look forward to continuing these discussions nationwide. At the same time, on this tour,” said Dr. Wes Bellamy, National Chair for Public Policy.

Black Voters Matter attended and shared how important voting is to the Black community. Black Voters Matter aims to increase power in marginalized, predominantly Black communities. Effective voting allows a community to determine its destiny. We agree with the words of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. when he said, “Power at its best is love implementing the demands of justice, and justice at its best is power correcting everything that stands against love.”

It was great to be in battleground Ohio, particularly in Cleveland and Cuyahoga County, where we know that winning is a must, not just a plus, the barbershop has always been a sacred space for Black men, where we share information, build partnerships, and engage in honest dialogue. Last night’s event was a significant milestone in this tradition. It was a platform where leaders could listen more than they spoke and where Black men were heard. This event was a testament to the value and importance of our voices in shaping the future. I do not doubt that Black men will be the most consequential voting bloc in 2024 and for years to come because we will be casting a survival vote. So, we must be fully informed and engaged before casting that vote. We deserve to be treated as an investment instead of an expense because the simple truth is that while you might not win with us, you will lose without us. Last night was about recognizing and sticking with that truth,” said panelist Antjuan Seawright.

Antjuan Seawright is a Democratic political strategist, founder, and CEO of Blueprint Strategy LLC, a CBS News political contributor, and a senior visiting fellow at Third Way.

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Mentee Profile

My name is Glen Wright Jr., and I’m 19 years old. I am a senior at the Great Ginn Academy and passionate about Scholarship, Leadership, and Service. I was born and raised in Cleveland, Ohio. I have a keen interest in many different things. I’m very open-minded and am always eager to learn new things, and I plan to attend Ohio State University in the fall of 2024.

In my academic journey, I’ve been proud to achieve many different awards and accomplish many other goals, such as high honor roll, honor roll, Merritt roll, and being selected by my high school to attend the 46th Annual Thesmacher High School Recognition Day, etc.… Beyond the classroom, you’ll often find me on the track or somewhere helping out in the community, especially with 100 black Men of the Greater Cleveland, Inc. mentoring program, which I’m so grateful to be a part of. I believe in the power of empathy, integrity, perseverance, compassion, kindness, and resilience. In other words, I believe in the power of humanity, and I strive to incorporate that into everything I do.

I’m passionate about track and field and personal development, such as self-improvement and setting goals to be the best I can be. In my free time, I enjoy listening to music, spending time with my family, and creating new things, such as art. These pursuits bring balance to my life.

Looking ahead, I’m excited about someday building my businesses and communities and just being that person to change many people’s lives. I want to help as many people as possible with anything while living on this earth. That’s the biggest goal I have for myself. On a personal note, something unique about me is my mindset. I’m myself. Anything is possible, and my determination to deal with difficult situations and perseverance in refusing to quit when things get complicated. I find joy in the Word and having conversations with different people who have been through what you’ve been through and how it changed and helped them, but these small moments make high school a memorable journey for me.

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Helping Us Live Healthier
Robert Lee Bankston

The 100’s health and wellness goals are to raise awareness, provide access to health care, and give health information that will ultimately promote behavior change, resulting in a healthier lifestyle. At the national and local level, our organization and Chapter affiliates partner with corporations, foundations, and other nonprofit organizations to promote preventative health strategies and provide education on prevalent diseases that negatively impact African Americans. The Greater Cleveland Chapter of the 100 Black Men aims to raise health awareness, provide access to healthcare, and share information that promotes positive behavioral change and healthy lifestyles.

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Robert and wife Adrian Bankston

The 100, through its Health and Wellness Committee, works with other synergistic organizations to develop strategic partnerships to raise a collective voice to help increase awareness and provide health education to mitigate chronic conditions and diseases that plague the African American community.

Your Health is one of the most essential things in your life. It affects your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. You only get one body, so taking care of it is necessary. Knowing your body and your family’s health history can help you determine what is “normal” for you. The Greater Cleveland chapter of the 100 Black Men strives daily to ensure our members and mentees learn about Health and Wellness.

One of the major initiatives of the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland is to promote Health and Wellness in minority communities while educating individuals to make healthy lifestyle choices. The 100 partners with 100 Black Men of America and local community groups to present programs addressing severe health and wellness concerns. Health and Wellness is a programmatic focus of the 100 aimed at eliminating health disparities in the African American community through increased education and awareness, policy development and advocacy, and behavioral paradigm shifts. Additionally, the 100 organizes events, such as a 5K run/walk, to promote physical activity and fitness. Health & Wellness chair Robert L. Bankston leads the charge for this endeavor. Bankston possesses a youthful spirit and a unique sense of humor.

The Health and Wellness Committee of the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland aims to recommend, design, maintain programs, and foster collaborations with like-minded organizations to facilitate awareness of good Health for chapter members and the community. The Health and Wellness Committee has developed plans for the year to accomplish the mission by including community programs and internal organizational initiatives.

We wanted you to get to know Robert and learn what type of man he is, giving real-time to the 100 organization. He is involved in many other activities but leaves all that behind when he is with the 100 and his mentee. “I love spending time with my mentee; that’s why I joined the 100 Black Men, not for personal use,” said Bankston. We asked Bankston some questions, and here are his answers.

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What does Health and Wellness mean to you?

Health and Wellness hold immense significance in my life due to the loss of my father and grandfather in 1997. While I regretfully took my time with my father for granted, I was fortunate to spend more time with my grandfather. Witnessing my father’s passing from High Blood pressure and inheriting the same condition, I now understand that every small step I take

toward maintaining my Health is crucial for my longevity. Health and Wellness impact me personally and set the foundation for everything else. While some may believe that money rules everything, I firmly believe that prioritizing God and managing one’s Health properly hold far greater importance than material wealth.

Could you tell us about your job?

I feel honored and privileged as the Chief of the federal government’s Environmental Management Services(EMS). Alongside my role, I am also proud to be an inventor of the “Clean Protection Shield,” a groundbreaking invention that provides an additional layer of protection against infectious diseases. In the 1980s, I sported a Jerry curl and had a brilliant idea—if a plastic bag could protect my hair, it could save lives, too! My motto: Engage, Measure, and Service.

What made you want to be part of the 100?

In my life, I have often sought comfort in being alone, enjoying the presence of family and a few close friends. Witnessing the community’s actions in promoting mentorship, health awareness, financial literacy, and education advocacy inspired me to become part of 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland. Knowing a friend, I asked for a reference and guidance from James W. Wade III, which made me see the core values resonated with me, leading me to understand the importance of sharing knowledge with others. Merely watching from afar was no longer fulfilling, pushing me to immerse myself in a community where I felt connected and capable of making a difference by increasing awareness and involvement.

Tell us about the various positions you hold in the 100.

Becoming a member in 2022 filled me with immense gratitude. One of my long-time friends, Franklin Martin, a pillar of One 100 Black Men

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of Greater Cleveland, inspired me to become the best I can be part of the organization. Upon joining, he shared the organization’s history and challenged me to strive for excellence. I took this challenge seriously and immediately got involved. Initially unsure of where I belonged, I first joined the Communications and PR Committee; two years later, I became the Secretary in 2024, Chair of Health & Wellness, still helping out on the Communications Committee and a team member responsible for organizing social events.

Share your hobbies.

As the mastermind behind RLB Entertainment, I wear multiple hats - I’m a writer, a producer, and a director, all rolled into one. I’m immersed in the thrilling journey of publishing my debut novel and bringing my very first movie to life. This year is going to be an exhilarating ride!

What are your other interests?

My love for cooking fuels my ambition to open a jazz restaurant and establish a nonprofit aiding struggling Veterans. It would be gratifying if

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Co worker Eli Kalil and Robert Bankston Robert with his mentee

my experiences could inspire and guide others toward success. Enduring life’s challenges with faith, I have persevered and will continue to do so with God’s grace.

I proudly served in the United States Navy during Operation Desert Shield/Desert Storm. I am happily married to a retired United States Army Veteran and am blessed with five children and six grandchildren. I have achieved an MBA and a Bachelor of Healthcare Administration from Indiana Wesleyan University. My upbringing occurred in Parkman, Ohio, known for its Amish Country, and Warren, Ohio. As

the current Chair of the Board of Directors for Friendly Inn Settlement House, the oldest settlement house in the country, I take great pleasure in contributing my time and efforts to this remarkable organization. This year, we proudly celebrate its 150th anniversary, marking a significant milestone in our history.

Improving The Quality of Black Lives Through Prevention

The shameful excess mortality experienced by Black Americans due to common but preventable chronic diseases is inexcusable. We can’t wait for things to change for our people. To do so would constitute neglect, and history will record a lack of leadership by our organization. We must immediately embrace the innovative strategies available to help reduce high morbidity and mortality rates, which disproportionately burden Black people. Our goal is to improve the quality of Black lives through prevention rather than relying solely on medical treatment options.

We invite everyone to join the 100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc., in fighting health inequities among our people, especially those exacerbated by the COVID-19 pandemic. The 100 is proud to partner with local collaboration on Health to encourage health screenings, address barriers, provide low—and no-cost services, empower African Americans to track their screenings, and make it easy to share health information with their healthcare teams, family, and friends.

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My Story of Living With Chronic Kidney Disease

Men, Please Take Your Health Seriously

During a time when a lot of care goes into your Health & Wellness, many people, such as myself, have some Health Challenges. I wanted to share my story about my health issue. I suffer from Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD), a condition in which the kidneys are damaged and cannot filter blood as well as they should. Because of this, excess fluid and waste from blood remain in the body and may cause other health problems, such as heart disease and stroke.

African American men often wait too long before talking about their health concerns. Many Black men like myself were always on the go and never took time to see their doctor because I felt okay. Six years ago, one cold February night, when I was rushed to the emergency room, I found out I had CKD.

While waiting in the ER, I couldn’t sit; I had to lay on the floor in pain. Once they took me to the exam room, the doctor gave me tramadol for the pain, and I felt better; the doctor said well, I have to admit you, and when I asked why, he shared with me that my kidneys were only working at 8 percent. That shocked me when I heard it because I don’t particularly appreciate being confined to hospitals.

The next day, a doctor called a Nephrologist, specializing in conditions that affect the kidney. My doctor explained several reasons why people get such kidney problems. But it was always caused by something already going wrong in the body. Diabetes, heart disease, various cardiovascular disorders, being very overweight, etc. They can all cause our kidneys to struggle and, eventually, fail. High blood pressure was the cause of my ongoing kidney illness. Another

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person’s kidney disorder may well have a different reason. But the result is the same. This cause-and-effect relationship shows how important it is to have healthy kidneys and be proactive in seeing a nephrologist who can treat and manage any kidney issues you have. He also shared I had Renal Failure.

Kidney issues are on the rise worldwide, with millions of people each year undergoing treatments for kidney injury or Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD). He explained CKD could also lead to health complications like anemia, osteoporosis, a weakened immune system, or an irregular heartbeat. Yes, it affected my heart badly.

He explained the facts about CKD and told me that not many die from CKD; they die from heart problems. I later found this to be true. After a few months, my heart was working at 20 percent, and the Cardiologist said I could not get on the Transplant List because my heart was not strong enough for the surgery. After being released from the hospital, I went home; the first thing I did when I got home was start reading about the disease.

In case you are wondering, there is no cure for chronic kidney disease; however, there are two forms of treatment options: dialysis or kidney transplantation. Two types of dialysis commonly used today are Hemodialysis and peritoneal dialysis. Many people with kidney disease opt for a transplant to avoid repeated dialysis treatments.

Dialysis is a treatment for kidney disease that filters and purifies your blood using a machine. Hemodialysis is the most common method to treat kidney failure and can be performed at a dialysis clinic or home. I was shocked to find out anyone can be diagnosed with CKD at any age. However, African Americans, Hispanics, and American Indians are at an increased risk of developing the disease. You may also be at increased risk if you have diabetes, high blood pressure, a family history of Chronic Kidney

Disease, and are 60 years of age or older. If you have any of these risk factors, talk to your doctor about getting tested for kidney disease.

At first, I was mad and upset because I told the doctor I didn’t have any warning signs, and he replied, “Kidney disease often has no symptoms until the disease has advanced. “Learning I’d need dialysis down the road was, of course, rather shocking news. Overnight, I went from thinking of myself as perfectly fine to the feeling that I was going to be on dialysis.

What happens when you go into renal failure?

Your hands or feet may swell. You will feel tired and weak because your body needs clean blood to function correctly. Untreated uremia may lead to seizures or coma and ultimately result in death. If your kidneys stop working altogether, you will need to undergo dialysis or a kidney transplant.

Not only is each type of home dialysis treatment different, but every home dialysis patient is unique. For this reason, they gave me a specific diet tailored to my needs. They paired me up with a nutritionist who helped me with my diet. Each week, I used to give blood so they could analyze my lab results to see what foods I needed to eat more of and what foods I had to limit. She would complete a nutrition assessment and develop a nutrition care plan for me. They would analyze your lab results, access to food and food preparation, consideration of your weight loss or excess weight, malnutrition, other conditions like diabetes, ethnic food customs, ability to buy food, living situation, and appetite.

Protein is essential for all dialysis patients to keep their albumin levels up. Albumin is a protein that helps the body stay healthy, and it’s used as a measure of nutrition for dialysis patients. Peritoneal dialysis (PD) patients need extra protein because they lose small amounts when they drain the dialysis solution from their abdomen. Unless these losses are replaced by eating more high-protein foods, the patient remains in a negative protein balance — constantly losing more than is consumed. The

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body then breaks down proteins from muscles and organs to provide essential proteins. For this reason, PD patients need more protein than home hemodialysis patients.

The first two years before being put on dialysis were no fun; being so sick every day, with no energy to do much. I had inquired if I would be healed; while it’s not possible to reverse CKD kidney damage, you can take steps to slow it down. Taking prescribed medicine, being physically active, and eating well will help. You’ll also feel better and improve your overall wellbeing.

Once my doctor said I was ready for dialysis, many tried to convince me not to do it. My doctor had already shared she thought I would be a great patient for home dialysis. I was a little hesitant because of the concern of something going wrong, and having no doctor or nurse there to help was scary. Home dialysis patients can dialyze from the comfort of their homes; it gives me better control of my treatment schedules, more time for activities and attending events, and family, things I enjoyed before starting dialysis. Your kidneys filter your blood’s waste and excess fluids and then excrete them in your urine. When your kidneys lose their filtering abilities, dangerous fluid levels, electrolytes, and wastes can build up in your body. The toxin buildup in your body is the key to making you sick regularly.

To prepare for dialysis, I had to undergo a surgical procedure to implant a fistula in my arm. The fistula is created by joining a vein to an artery, usually in the arm. This creates a large and sturdy blood vessel that can be accessed regularly during Hemodialysis by inserting needles.

I choose to do Hemodialysis because it helps control blood pressure and essential balance minerals, such as potassium, sodium, and calcium, in your blood. Once I went through the training to use the machine at home, it was nothing but a joy doing a treatment. My prescription calls for me to dialyze four times a

week for a few hours each time. I love doing it at home because I don’t have to go out to a center for my treatment when the snow comes. During that time, I learned to do tasks myself, such as setting up the dialysis machine and needling myself.

I know many of you who are taking the time to read my story are probably saying in your mind I hope I never get CKD. Coming to terms with a

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condition such as CKD can mentally affect you and your family and friends. It can be not easy to talk to people about your situation, even if they’re close to you. Learning about CKD may help you and your family understand what to expect. Most black men live about seven years less than white men, eight years less than black women, and 13 years less than white women.

Being on dialysis does some of the work of keeping my kidneys intact, but it does not cure your kidney disease. You will need to have dialysis treatments for your whole life unless you can get a kidney transplant. Before I got on dialysis, I had many rough days and issues. I have better days than sour due to regularly doing my treatments.

Dialysis treatment is usually painless, but some patients may experience a drop in their blood pressure, which can cause nausea, vomiting, headaches, or cramps. However, these side effects typically go away with frequent treatments. In case too much fluid is removed, leg cramps may occur.

One of my main concerns was how long I could do dialysis: “Average life expectancy on dialysis is 5-10 years; however, many patients have lived well on dialysis for 20 or even 30 years,” my doctor said. Overall, too many African American men are getting seriously ill and dying early because of risky behaviors like not exercising, eating an unhealthy diet, smoking, drinking alcohol, using illegal drugs, having unsafe sex, and not wearing seat belts. But there is good news. You can improve your chances of living a longer, healthier life.

Black men, it would help if you prioritized your health and well-being. Heart disease, cancer, homicide, unintentional injury, stroke, diabetes, lung disease, AIDS, and liver disease are leading causes of death among you. More than half of all deaths of black men are due to heart disease and cancer. Therefore, in 2024, I urge you to take charge of your health and get yourself checked out.

There are many ways to do it, such as attending the Men’s Health Fair, where you can get all the screenings for free. Remember, your health matters, and taking proactive steps can save your life. Black men, it would be best if you prioritized your health and well-being. Heart disease, cancer, homicide, unintentional injury, stroke, diabetes, lung disease, AIDS, and liver disease are leading causes of death among you. More than half of all deaths of black men are due to heart disease and cancer. Therefore, in 2024, I urge you to take charge of your health and get yourself checked out. There are many ways to do it, such as attending the Men’s Health Fair, where you can get all the screenings for free. Remember, your health matters, and taking proactive steps can save your life.

Today, I can cope with my sickness, I still have many good and bad days, but each day, I am blessed when I get to see another day.

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Stress Relief Exercise

Dr. Ernest Smoot’s Advice

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1 Exercise for Lowering Blood Pressure

Want to lower your blood pressure? A new study pinpoints precisely what kind of exercise is best for easing blood pressure, and it doesn’t involve running on the treadmill or pumping iron at the gym.

Instead, the study reveals that static isometric exercises like a wall sit (also known as wall squats) and planks—which engage muscles without movement—are best for lowering blood pressure.

To perform a static isometric exercise, you hold your body in one position until your muscles tire. Examples include wall sits, planks and side planks, glute bridges, and heel raises.

Meredith Dobrosielski, an exercise physiologist and clinical research coordinator in the division of geriatric medicine at Johns Hopkins University, says isometric exercises are a great option for older adults because they are low-impact and require no special equipment.

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Healthy Recipe

BlackDoctors.org

Tequila Lime Grilled Shrimp

Boost your stress-fighting arsenal with a variety of options! Incorporate high fiber foods, fermented goodies, and cocoainfused treats into your diet to combat stress. Don’t forget the power of herbal teas, refreshing smoothies, and a comforting glass of milk to help you unwind. And remember, it’s not just about what you eat, but also how you live. Make time for exercise, connect with loved ones, and prioritize a good night’s sleep to keep stress at bay.

Tequila, shrimp, lime, and rice with toasted coconut and pineapple flavors make for the ultimate Summer vibe. It’s a fantastic choice for a light and revitalizing meal. Check out the recipe below!

-2 tablespoons of limeade mix, from concentrate (in the frozen section)

-1 teaspoon of salt

-2 tablespoons of good tequila

-1 tablespoon of brown sugar

-1 pinch of red pepper flakes

-1 teaspoon of honey

-1/2 teaspoon of granulated garlic

-1 tablespoon of olive oil

-1 pound of jumbo shrimp, cleaned and deveined.

Directions

1. In a large bowl, mix the limeade mix, salt, tequila, brown sugar, pepper flakes, honey, granulated garlic, and olive oil until a smooth paste has formed.

2. Toss the shrimp with the marinade and let the shrimp marinate for up to 4 hours.

3. Grill the shrimp in a hot grill pan or on an outside grill until they’ve just cooked through.

Resources

Blackdoctors.com

Medicalnewtoday.com

Betterup.com/blog

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Taking Charge of Your Health: A Proactive Approach

Your Health Matters: The Journey Begins

Let’s dive into a topic that demands our full attention: your health. The immediate reaction might be, “I’m in great shape, nothing to worry about.” However, this conversation is about more than just feeling okay in the moment—it’s about maintaining that wellness long-term.

The Role of Preventative Health

Preventative health isn’t a passive game. It’s not about sitting back and waiting for issues to arise—it’s about adopting consistent habits that ensure you stay at your peak. Imagine having a personal advocate for your health, someone to guide and support you. That’s the role of your Primary Care Provider (PCP).

Your PCP: More Than Just a Doctor

Think of your PCP as a health coach, a partner in your wellness journey. Despite any past negative experiences with healthcare, it’s essential to stay proactive in taking care of your health today. Your PCP isn’t just a healthcare provider; they’re a crucial member of your team, someone who helps you stay informed, confident, and in control.

Building a Relationship with Your PCP

Starting this journey begins with reflection. Consider your health goals and concerns, and remember, your family history plays a significant part in your health narrative. A strong rapport with your PCP opens doors to tailored healthcare, from screenings that catch issues early to advice that supports your wellness journey.

Taking the Next Steps

Your health is invaluable, and it deserves your entire investment. Connecting with a PCP is the first step towards a healthier, more vibrant future. Why not take that step today? Your future self will surely be grateful. For those seeking to begin this journey, The Village of Healing Center is here, welcoming new patients with open arms. Take control of your health journey—your future starts now.

Authored by: Amber Black, FNP-BC, Family Nurse Practitioner at The Village of Healing Center.

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– Chronic Disease Management – Pediatrics

– Prenatal Care

– Postpartum Care

– Centering Pregnancy GYNECOLOGY

– Annual Well-Woman Exams

– Birth Control

– Menstrual Concerns MENTAL HEALTH

– Depression, Anxiety & Perinatal Mood Disorders

– Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

– Grief & Loss

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WHAT IS SICKLE CELL DISEASE?

We face various health issues, including diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer, and Sickle Cell. People with this form of SCD inherit two genes, one from each parent, that code for hemoglobin “S.” Hemoglobin S is an abnormal form of hemoglobin that causes the red cells to become rigid and sickle-shaped. This is called sickle cell anemia and is usually the most severe form of the disease.

In a meeting with a Red Cross representative, she explained the importance of African Americans donating blood, and it was stated. Caucasian would not have the same blood type to help with sickle cell.

Sickle cell disease (SCD) is a group of inherited red blood cell disorders. Red blood cells contain hemoglobin, a protein that carries oxygen. Healthy red blood cells are round and move through small blood vessels to carry oxygen to all body parts. In someone with SCD, the hemoglobin is abnormal, which causes the red blood cells to become stiff and sticky and look like a C-shaped farm tool called a “sickle.” The sickle cells die early, which causes a constant shortage of red blood cells. Also, when they

travel through small blood vessels, they get stuck and clog the blood flow. This can cause pain and other serious complications (health problems) such as infection, acute chest syndrome, and stroke.

SCD is diagnosed with a simple blood test. In children born in the United States, it is most often found at birth during routine newborn screening tests at the hospital. In addition, SCD can be diagnosed while the baby is in the womb. Diagnostic tests before the baby is born, such as chorionic villus sampling and amniocentesis, can check for chromosomal or genetic abnormalities in the baby. Chorionic villus sampling tests a tiny piece of the placenta called the chorionic villus. Amniocentesis tests a small sample of amniotic fluid surrounding the baby. Because children with SCD are at an increased risk of infection and other health problems, early diagnosis and treatment are essential.

Sickle cell anemia is rare in the United States, affecting about 100,000 people. It primarily affects people whose ancestry links back to parts of the world where many people have malaria and carry a gene that partially protects against anemia. This gene also causes sickle cell anemia. In the United States, sickle cell anemia affects many people who are Black. It may also affect people from southern European, Middle Eastern, or Asian Indian ancestry.

Anyone with sickle cell anemia, including babies, is at risk for stroke. Approximately 11% of people with sickle cell anemia have strokes by age 20, and 24% have strokes by age 45. Here is information on stroke symptoms:

•Severe headache.

•Sudden weakness on one side of your or your child’s body.

•Change in alertness.

•Trouble speaking.

•Trouble seeing.

•Trouble walking.

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Splenetic sequestration

This happens when sickled cells become stuck in your spleen, forcing your spleen to get larger. Splenic sequestration often causes acute anemia. Symptoms include:

•Pain in your upper left belly (abdomen).

Children’s enlarged spleens are sometimes visible or can be felt through their skin.

Bacterial infections

People with sickle cell anemia have an increased risk for infections caused by Streptococcus pneumoniae, Haemophilus influenzae, and non-Typhi Salmonella species. Symptoms include:

•Fever.

•Coughing.

•Trouble breathing.

•Pain in bones.

•Headaches.

The Red Cross needs your help battling this disease; they ask you to consider donating blood to help Sickle Cell patients. Who better to help than African Americans? Visit their website for more information at RedCrossBlood.org.

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Common concerns for ethnically diverse donors

Unique Donors

Blood donors from all racial and ethnic backgrounds are needed, because patients from all backgrounds need the lifegiving gift of blood.

As an ethnic blood donor, you may have the unique ability to help patients with special needs. Many ethnic minority groups have rare blood types, such as types U negative and Duffy negative, which are distinctive to their community and serve specialized purposes.

As a result, an ethnic minority patient with sickle cell disease is more likely to find a match among those of the same ethnic background.

The Red Cross also works to find rare blood donors to meet the specialized needs of patients all over the country. Through its 39 Immunohematology Reference Laboratories, offering support to hospitals across the country, and its collaboration with AABB on the American Rare Donor Program, the Red Cross helps insure that patients will get the blood they need at any time of the day or night.

It is vital that our blood supply reflect the diversity of our population to best meet the needs of all. Whether AfricanAmerican, Asian-American, Native-American, Latino, or one of the many other ethnic populations that make up the rich mosaic of our country, your donation matters.

Unique Needs

People of various ethnic backgrounds can suffer from a common debilitating condition related to blood disorders. These disorders can require regular blood transfusions to alleviate pain and continue to allow the individuals to live.

The best chance for a successful transfusion comes from blood donors of similar ethnic backgrounds, because each ethnicity has specific phenotypes in their blood. The best match for one patient is not necessarily the best match for another patient. Your donation may match a patient with specific needs.

I am afraid of needles. At your Red Cross blood drive, only trained staff members will draw your blood. You will feel a brief pinch, but the donation itself is not painful.

Is it safe to give blood?

Your safety is our priority. A fresh, disposable tubing and collections set are used with each donor. Each needle is used only once and then discarded.

Is blood typed, labeled and distributed by race? Blood is typed, labeled and distributed to hospitals with no indication of gender or race of the donor.

If there is a blood shortage, will I be able to get blood if I end up in the hospital? The American Red Cross makes every effort to ensure that area hospitals have blood available when patients need it. We cannot meet the need without your generous gift of blood donation.

Is my privacy protected? Yes, all information is held in absolute confidence in the Red Cross data bank. The Red Cross must maintain your confidentiality, and will not share information without your specific written consent.

What happens to my blood after it is collected?

Your donation is stored at the Red Cross Facility. Blood samples are checked for viruses and other communicable diseases including HIV and Hepatitis C. Those units that pass the testing criteria are released to hospitals usually within 48 hours for patients’ use. If an abnormality is detected, a donor counselor will contact you to discuss the findings. This is done in strict confidence.

Am I eligible to donate if I have a health condition such as diabetes, anemia, high blood pressure, heart disease, etc.? Those with chronic illnesses such as diabetes or high blood pressure may still be able to give if the condition is kept under control through medication.

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Call 1-800-RED CROSS if you have any questions about your ability to donate. © The American National Red Cross | 2015-APL-01050 l redcrossblood.org l 1-800-RED CROSS l 1-800-733-2767 Download the Red Cross Blood Donor App today.

Why should a diverse donor pool matter to you?

The best blood match for patients often comes from donors of similar race or ethnicity. It is extremely important to increase the number of blood donors from all racial and ethnic groups. Red Cross and Sickle Cell Disease Association of America, Inc. supporters, such as you, can help connect our organizations with donors that best meet the needs of patients of all backgrounds.

There Are Many Blood Types

• While the most common blood groups are based on the presence or absence of two antigens in the blood, called ‘A’ and ‘B’, there are in fact more than 600 known antigens that create a wide spectrum of rare blood types.

• Blood types are hereditary. Certain blood types are unique to specific racial and ethnic groups. For example, U-negative and Jsb negative blood types are found more often in people of African descent. So sickle cell patients that require these blood types must rely on donors with matching blood types from people of African descent.

• An African-American blood donation may be the best hope for the needs of patients with sickle cell disease, as over 90% of sickle cell patients are of African descent and will require multiple transfusions over their lifetime. Blood from people of the same race and ethnicity can mean fewer health complications after a blood transfusion.

How You Can Help

• Recruit organizations that have diverse employees/members to host blood drives and support blood donation.

• Set up a virtual blood drive on RedCrossBlood.org/SleevesUp and encourage others to donate.

• Utilize MatchUp, a challenge platform on SleevesUp (at RedCrossBlood.org/SleevesUp), to initiate a friendly blood competition.

• Educate and engage your network about the importance of diverse donor pools.

SICKLE CELL ANEMIA BLOOD RECIPIENT | Aaron’s Story

Aaron was diagnosed with sickle cell anemia when he was 2 years old and endures the pain associated with this debilitating disease on a daily basis. A key component in his pain management is receiving multiple units of blood every three weeks. He is able to live a relatively normal life through the generosity of strangers who voluntarily donate blood.

Learn more at: RedCrossBlood.org/SickleCell

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NATIONAL PROGRAMS

The Brace B. Godfrey African American History Challenge

Sponsored by:

The African American History Challenge (AAHC) is the intellectual property of 100 Black Men of America, Inc. The program was started in 1995 under the leadership of the late Brace B. Godfrey, Jr., founding chapter president of 100 Black Men of Metro Baton Rouge, Inc. and a former member of the Board of Directors of 100 Black Men of America, Inc.

The AAHC Competition essentially is an educational and scholarship program designed to enhance the study of African American history. It is an education and scholarship program designed to enhance and/or ignite the study of African American history among youth and increase their interest in knowing and better understanding the legacy left for them by our African American ancestors.

Yet, the competitive spirit is developed within an experience that will engender mutual respect and admiration among the competitors. The National AAHC Championship Competition will take place at the Annual Conference each year.

During the AAHC program, the two (2) students who demonstrated the greatest proficiency were asked to represent their chapters during the National Competition at the Annual Conference. Twenty teams competed in the preliminary rounds to advance towards the Final Competition. These teams were derived of seven (7) Junior Division teams and 13 Senior Division teams. Only the final four (4) Junior and Senior Division teams from the Preliminary Rounds advanced to compete for 3 over $8,000 in scholarships, prizes, and a chance to hold the title, African American History Challenge Competition Champions.

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Dollars & Sense Youth Investment Competition

Sponsored by:

In collaboration with State Farm Insurance, the 100 will continue to establish and implement a national program to address and help eradicate financial illiteracy among youth of color.

The Dollars and $ense Youth Investment program (Dollars and $ense) is a financial literacy program sponsored by State Farm. This program was designed to provide high school students, grades 9 through 12, with the opportunity to learn and apply best practice strategies for saving and investing.

The goal of this program was to help students understand basic savings/investment principles and to apply these standards in their day-to-day lives.

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Yolanda Y. Armstrong Leading The Friendly Inn Settlement Inc. Into 150 Years

100 Black Men of Greater Cleveland, Inc. wanted to highlight one of our community partners in this issue. We choose the Friendly Inn Settlement, Inc., where Yolanda Y. Armstrong, MSSA, L.S.W., is the president and chief executive officer of one of the nation’s oldest settlement houses, Friendly Inn Settlement, Inc., in the center of Cleveland, Ohio’s Central Avenue. She manages the day-today operations of the organization, which include the Friendly Inn Food Pantry, Before and AfterSchool Youth Programs, multiple programs such as MOMSFIRST, Parents as Teachers, and Help

Me Grow that aim to reduce the infant mortality rate among minority women, Community-Based Wrap-Around Services, MYCOM, and most recently The Geraldine Burns Behavioral Health services, to name a few.

In her 33 years in the field of Social Work, she has received numerous awards, including the Champion of Central Award, the Mt. Zion of Oakwood Village Hero of Faith Award, the Women of Color Foundation Star Award, the Omega Psi Phi Zeta Omega Chapter Community Leader Award, the Non-Profit Executive of the Year Pillar Award from SMART Business Magazine and Medical Mutual, and the Centennial Alumni Award from The Jack, Joseph, and Morton Mandel School of Applied Social Science.

I was born and raised in Cleveland, Ohio, and I am a proud graduate of John Adams High School Class of 1984. I am a child of God and have been a member of Mt. Zion Church of Oakwood Village, where Dr. Larry A. Macon has been my Pastor for thirty years. Mentoring and living a service life are many blessings that greatly benefit me personally and professionally. I was the first to attend college in my family and have worked very hard to ensure that both my girls were college-educated and had common sense. Having deep Mississippi roots (Greenville and Glyn Allen), I know that my warm spirit and love for cooking and helping others come from being raised by my grandparents, Mr. Week and Katie Mae Armstrong, and the family down the street that helped raise me, Mr. Virgil and Shirley Boysaw. I am where I am today with the many mentors determined to ensure I was not a statistic. Those who know me know I love being

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actively involved in what makes me happy. From Whitney M. Young Middle School (Major Work) to the present, others will tell you that I have always been involved in positive activities that helped shape the woman I am today!

What do you feel are your biggest strengths and weaknesses?

My Strengths are my passion for leading in service and my desire to lift others. I don’t let grass grow under my feet. I am constantly moving and doing positive things that make me and others happy. I am a people person and love to network and collaborate with others.

My weakness: I sometimes struggle with saying “No” when my plate is full. I give chances to people who don’t deserve it.

She has worked at Friendly Inn Settlement Inc. for six years since November 14. When she started at Friendly Inn, it was through her C.K.Y. Consulting L.L.C. business. After six months, Yolanda was offered the position of President and C.E.O. As a change agent, she came in to assess the organization and then worked diligently with the staff to get the organization on track to a successful future. This included evaluating and maintaining programs that we already had, bringing in new funding that allowed expansion of services, implementing new services, and building positive relationships with old and new community partners. Our first fundraiser under her leadership was in November 2019, which the board deemed a success and the start of building awareness and meaningful relationships with potential donors. Then COVID-19 hit, and they were all about making sure no one went hungry or lacked the necessary care needed to defeat maternal and infant mortality.

Under Yolanda’s leadership, they were able to pivot and build a partnership with Step Forward to provide an early headstart, which was excellent access for parents who lost their jobs and their vouchers but needed childcare while

trying to get employed again and for childcare staff who needed continuity and not be laid-off. “I am happy that although Covid-19 was a major struggle, we did not lay off any staff. The P.P.P. funding through Huntington and P.P.E. funding from The Cleveland Foundation was a big help,” said Yolanda.

In 2021, their strategic plan was reviewed and approved by the board of directors; this allowed us the opportunity to implement new programming such as Rosie’s Girls, the Geraldine Burns Behavioral Health Program, The Blue Table Talk Entrepreneurship Program, becoming a learning Pod Center for youth who were unable to attend school physically due to schools being closed because of COVID-19, but came to our agency daily to continue their school lessons was most needed and helpful. Although Friendly Inn has such an extended history, visibility and branding have been another critical issue that has increased during my service here at Friendly Inn Settlement, Inc.

Relationships with community partners had doubled within the first two years of leading such a historic organization. We maintained our resilience and kept moving forward despite what we were going through! Today, we have added eight new board members and are looking for more and increased funding with new programs, although the struggle continues. More unrestricted funds are needed for interior and exterior building upgrades and infrastructure.

Please tell us about your big celebration in October.

We have planned a year-long list of events with the theme being Legacy of Love: 150 Years of Community Building Serving the Central Community! My vision for this event began two years ago, which consisted of recruiting a wonderful group of volunteers to serve on our 150th Anniversary Host Committee and to identify three remarkable leaders who were a product of the Central Community to be our Honorary Chairs. I am thrilled to say that

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our three Honorary Chairs are well known in Cuyahoga County and continue to possess an affinity to Central and the Friendly Inn Settlement, Inc. They are Mr. Shakorie Davis, President of Next Generation Construction, Judge Michael Ryan, Judge of the Ohio Eighth District Court of Appeals, and Pastor R.A. Vernon, Founder and Senior Pastor of The Word Church. In celebration of its 150th anniversary, Friendly Inn is hosting an Awards Gala on Friday, October 4, 2024, at the Shoreby Club in Bratenahl, OH. We aim to raise $1 million, which is essential for expanding our services and enhancing our infrastructure and operational support. The event will honor the organization’s legacy of service and commitment to improving lives and those of individuals and

organizations who have made significant contributions to the community. If anyone is interested in becoming a sponsor or part of the 1500 Club, please visit our website at www. friendlyinn150.com.

Share your day with our readers

The only thing consistent at the start of my day is when I pray and listen to my gospel music on the way to work. In leading a multi-service agency non-profit, we must prepare for everything because anything can happen! I am an early riser, so I need to read my emails, check my daily schedule, and focus on the to-do list that I have put together when there is silence. When I arrive at the office, it is about my staff ensuring

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they have what they need to do their jobs and the people we serve. Every day, there is a meeting with a funder or community partner to discuss our services and or the community’s unmet needs. If it’s Wednesday or Thursday, you may see a line wrapped around our building because those are the days our food pantry distributes food. Monday through Friday after 2:00 pm, you will see youth throughout the building participating in our Afterschool programs. Training and development and hosting activities throughout the day with community partners have been worthwhile for our residents and staff, especially with the County SNAP Program, Community Collaborative meeting, P.N.C. Mobile Banking, Job Fairs, and Ward 5 meetings, to name a few! I step back and think about how the day went. What did we do well? What can we improve upon? Is there anything new that we need to address?

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