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Puberty Talk Agreements
Welcome to Puberty Talk!
2) Privacy
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1) Respect
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3) It’s okay to feel embarrassed!
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Pre-Test
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Insert statement here
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Disagree
Insert statement here
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Disagree
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Disagree
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Pick-a-Side
Insert statement here
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Agree
Pick-a-Side
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Tree of Trust (homework)
Trusted Adult Interview (HW)
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Ask Your Adults
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Let’s Talk
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My Trusted Adult
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Three Options:
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Public Places
Public vs. Private Places
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Can be inside or outside
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Places where people can see you
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Public Places
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Public Places
Classroom
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Public Places
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Public Places
School Hallway
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School Bathroom
School Bus
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Park
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Playground
Public Places
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Public Places
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Public Places
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Public Places
Swimming Pool
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Grocery Store
Public Places
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Public Places
Restaurant
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Movie Theater
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Public Places
Private Places
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Concert
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Places where people can’t see you or what you are doing
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Private Places
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Private Places
House
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Apartment
Discussion Question
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Private Places
What are some things you can do privately in your bedroom?
Bedroom
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Sleep
Private Places
Read
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Private Places
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Private Places
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Private Places
Listen to Music
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Changing Clothes
Private Places
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Discussion Question
Where else is a private place you can take off or change your clothes?
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Bathroom
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Doctor’s Office
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Bathroom Stall
Private Places
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Private Places
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Public Body Parts
Public vs. Private Body Parts
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The parts of your body that can be shown in public places.
Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.
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Public Body Parts 1
Public Body Parts
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Eyes
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Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.
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Public Body Parts
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Public Body Parts
Mouth
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Ears
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Public Body Parts
Public Body Parts Elbow
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Hands
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Public Body Parts
Feet
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Knee
Public Body Parts
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Private Body Parts (front)
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Private Body Parts The parts of your body that must be covered in public places.
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Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.
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Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.
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Private Body Parts (back)
Private Body Parts
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Breasts
Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.
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Private Body Parts
Private Body Parts
Penis and Scrotum
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Vulva
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Discussion Questions
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Private Body Parts
Buttocks
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Who can touch your body parts?
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Discussion Questions
Discussion Questions
When is it okay to take off your clothes and show private body parts?
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How do we keep these body parts private?
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Discussion Questions
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How do we take care of our private body parts?
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Body Boundaries A boundary of space between you and another person’s body It must be a distance that you both feel comfortable with!
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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
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Body Boundaries
1. Ask for permission
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Everyone has the right to choose if they want to be touched or not
Consent
Ask before you enter someone’s personal space!
Consent – Let’s Practice!
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Consent for Kids
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Agree before you act
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2.
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Ask for a hug, handshake or high-five
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Listen to their answer before you act
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Safe Touch
Unsafe Touch Touching that makes us feel unsafe or uncomfortable
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For example: touching private body parts without consent
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For example: hugs, high-fives, holding hands, pats on the back
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Touching that makes us feel safe and cared for
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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
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Does everyone have the right to touch you?
Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
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ASK!
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What should a person do before they touch you?
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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
What should you say if you don’t want another person to touch you?
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What should you do if another person is touching you without your consent?
No!
No thank you.
Say “Stop!” or “No!”
Stop!
Please stop.
Tell a trusted adult like a parent or teacher
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Internal Male Anatomy
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Sexual and Reproductive Anatomy
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Internal Male Anatomy
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Internal Male Anatomy
testicle(s)
sperm cells
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Internal Male Anatomy
Internal Male Anatomy vas deferens
testicle(s)
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testicle(s) scrotum
scrotum
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Internal Male Anatomy
Internal Male Anatomy bladder
prostate gland
testicle(s)
testicle(s)
scrotum
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scrotum
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prostate gland
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Internal Male Anatomy
Internal Male Anatomy
urethra testicle(s)
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prostate gland
penis
urethra
testicle(s)
scrotum
scrotum
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prostate gland
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Internal Male Anatomy
penis
urethra
testicle(s)
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Internal Male Anatomy
prostate gland anus
penis urethra testicle(s)
scrotum
prostate gland anus scrotum
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Circumcision
Internal Female Anatomy
= removing the foreskin from a penis
no foreskin, tip of penis is uncovered
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foreskin covers tip of penis
Circumcised penis
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Uncircumcised penis
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Internal Female Anatomy
Internal Female Anatomy
ovary
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Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)
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ova (eggs)
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ova (eggs)
Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)
ova (eggs) ovary
uterus
ova (eggs) ovary
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Fallopian tube(s)
Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)
ova (eggs) ovary
uterus
uterus
ova (eggs) ovary
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Internal Female Anatomy
cervix
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endometrium (blood tissue)
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Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)
vagina
ovary
cervix
uterus vagina
ova (eggs)
ovary cervix
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Fallopian tube(s)
ova (eggs)
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uterus
Internal Female Anatomy
Hymen
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= a thin piece of skin partially covering the opening to the vagina
Vulva = outer female anatomy
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Hygiene Taking care of our body is very important so we can keep ourselves healthy! How do you keep your body clean?
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Taking Care of Me: Personal Hygiene
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Brushing your Teeth Use a toothbrush and toothpaste
Washing your Body
Caring for your Hair
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Washing your Hair Wash your hair in the shower to get rid of dirt and oil
Use a brush or comb to keep your hair neat and untangled
Shampoo and conditioner help clean and make hair smell nice
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Wash your body every day (with soap!) in the shower to get rid of dirt and germs
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Brush 2 times every day (morning and before bed)
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Smelling Nice
Getting Dressed Put on clean clothes (shirt, underwear, socks) every day
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Washing your Hands
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Wash hands with soap after coughing, sneezing, or using the bathroom
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Put on deodorant every day to help underarms stay dry and smell nice
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Underarms can sweat and sometimes smell bad
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