Teen Talk AAA - All Lessons

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Teen Talk Agreements one mic

1) Respect

Welcome to Teen Talk!

no judging use inclusive language

3) Reporting

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2) Privacy 13 or younger with anyone older 14 or 15 with anyone 21 or older

parent(s), trusted adults peers, partner(s)

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4) Communication 5) Ask Questions!

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Pre-Test

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Trusted Adult Interview (HW) Choose an adult member of your family or another adult you trust (age 18 or older)

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Interview them – ask the questions, listen to their answers and write notes

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After completing the interview, ask your adult to sign the back

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This homework is due: _______________

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Agree

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Public Places

Public vs. Private Places

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Can be inside or outside

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Places where people can see you

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Public Places

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Public Places

Classroom

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Public Places

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Public Places

School Hallway

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School Bathroom

School Bus

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Park

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Playground

Public Places

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Public Places

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Public Places

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Public Places

Swimming Pool

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Grocery Store

Public Places

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Public Places

Restaurant

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Movie Theater

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Public Places

Private Places

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Concert

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Places where people can’t see you or what you are doing

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Private Places

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Private Places

House

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Apartment

Discussion Question

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Private Places

What are some things you can do privately in your bedroom?

Bedroom

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Sleep

Private Places

Read

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Private Places

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Private Places

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Private Places

Listen to Music

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Changing Clothes

Private Places

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Discussion Question

Where else is a private place you can take off or change your clothes?

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Bathroom

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Doctor’s Office

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Bathroom Stall

Private Places

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Private Places

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Public Body Parts

Public vs. Private Body Parts

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The parts of your body that can be shown in public places.

Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.

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Public Body Parts 1

Public Body Parts

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Eyes

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Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.

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Public Body Parts

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Public Body Parts

Mouth

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Ears

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Public Body Parts

Public Body Parts Elbow

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Hands

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Public Body Parts

Feet

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Knee

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Private Body Parts (front)

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Private Body Parts The parts of your body that must be covered in public places.

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Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.

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Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.

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Private Body Parts (back)

Private Body Parts

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Breasts

Everyone’s body is unique! Please do not compare your body to the drawings above.

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Private Body Parts

Private Body Parts

Penis and Scrotum

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Vulva

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Discussion Questions

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Private Body Parts

Buttocks

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Who can touch your body parts?

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Discussion Questions

Discussion Questions

When is it okay to take off your clothes and show private body parts?

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How do we keep these body parts private?

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How do we take care of our private body parts?

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Internal Male Anatomy

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Sexual and Reproductive Anatomy

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Internal Male Anatomy

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Internal Male Anatomy

testicle(s)

sperm cells

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Internal Male Anatomy

Internal Male Anatomy vas deferens

testicle(s)

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testicle(s) scrotum

scrotum

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Internal Male Anatomy

Internal Male Anatomy bladder

prostate gland

testicle(s)

testicle(s)

scrotum

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scrotum

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prostate gland

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Internal Male Anatomy

Internal Male Anatomy

urethra testicle(s)

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prostate gland

penis

urethra

testicle(s)

scrotum

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prostate gland

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Internal Male Anatomy

penis

urethra

testicle(s)

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Internal Male Anatomy

prostate gland anus

penis urethra testicle(s)

scrotum

prostate gland anus scrotum

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Circumcision

Internal Female Anatomy

= removing the foreskin from a penis

no foreskin, tip of penis is uncovered

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foreskin covers tip of penis

Circumcised penis

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Uncircumcised penis

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Internal Female Anatomy

Internal Female Anatomy

ovary

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Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)

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ova (eggs)

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ova (eggs)

Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)

ova (eggs) ovary

uterus

ova (eggs) ovary

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Fallopian tube(s)

Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)

ova (eggs) ovary

uterus

uterus

ova (eggs) ovary

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Internal Female Anatomy

cervix

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endometrium (blood tissue)

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Internal Female Anatomy Fallopian tube(s)

vagina

ovary

cervix

uterus vagina

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ovary cervix

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Fallopian tube(s)

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uterus

Internal Female Anatomy

Hymen

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= a thin piece of skin partially covering the opening to the vagina

Vulva = outer female anatomy

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Hygiene Taking care of our body is very important so we can keep ourselves healthy!

How do you keep your body clean?

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Taking Care of Me: Personal Hygiene

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Brushing your Teeth Use a toothbrush and toothpaste

Washing your Body

Caring for your Hair

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Washing your Hair Wash your hair in the shower to get rid of dirt and oil

Use a brush or comb to keep your hair neat and untangled

Shampoo and conditioner help clean and make hair smell nice

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Wash your body every day (with soap!) in the shower to get rid of dirt and germs

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Brush 2 times every day (morning and before bed)

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Smelling Nice

Getting Dressed Put on clean clothes (shirt, underwear, socks) every day

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Washing your Hands

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Wash hands with soap after coughing, sneezing, or using the bathroom

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Put on deodorant every day to help underarms stay dry and smell nice

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Underarms can sweat and sometimes smell bad

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

Sexual Behaviors

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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CONSENT

Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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CONSENT

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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CONSENT

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

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CONSENT

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Sexual Behaviors Tree

CONSENT

CONSENT

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In a healthy relationship, each person’s body and boundaries should be respected.

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Think About It…

Think About It… 3A) Think of at least 2 reasons why SOME teens have sex:

1. The ONLY 100% effective way to prevent pregnant AND the best way to lower your risk of getting an STI is by not engaging in…

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4) What is “consent” and why is it important?

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2. List as many ways as you can think of to show love or affection to a partner without having any sexual contact:

3B) Think of at least 2 reasons why MOST teens WAIT to have sex:

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Be FIRM

What Would You Say?

Reason why

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Figure out your boundaries I don’t want to…

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Make a suggestion

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Scenario

Be FIRM

Figure out your boundaries I don’t want to…

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You are going on a date with someone for the first time. You decide to meet them at a pizza restaurant at 7pm. When you get there, you say “hi” and sit down across from them.

They ask how you are doing and they say they have already put in an order for a large pepperoni pizza. You are a vegetarian.

Reason why

Make a suggestion

Use the Be FIRM model to address this situation.

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“Thank you so much for ordering already. I am

“Thank you so much for ordering already. I am

a vegetarian. I don’t want to eat pepperoni

a vegetarian. I don’t want to eat pepperoni

because I was raised a vegetarian, so why

because I was raised a vegetarian, so why

don’t I ask the server if we can change our

don’t I ask the server if we can change our

pizza to be half pepperoni and half veggie?

pizza to be half pepperoni and half veggie?

That way we can both get what we want.”

That way we can both get what we want.”

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Example Response

Example Response “Thank you so much for ordering already. I am

a vegetarian. I don’t want to eat pepperoni

a vegetarian. I don’t want to eat pepperoni

because I was raised a vegetarian, so why

because I was raised a vegetarian, so why

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“Thank you so much for ordering already. I am

don’t I ask the server if we can change our

pizza to be half pepperoni and half veggie?

That way we can both get what we want.”

That way we can both get what we want.”

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don’t I ask the server if we can change our pizza to be half pepperoni and half veggie?

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Be FIRM

Figure out your boundaries I don’t want to…

“Thank you so much for ordering already. I am

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a vegetarian. I don’t want to eat pepperoni

because I was raised a vegetarian, so why

Reason why

don’t I ask the server if we can change our

pizza to be half pepperoni and half veggie?

Make a suggestion

That way we can both get what we want.”

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Relationship Spectrum

Abusive

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Unhealthy

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Healthy

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Affection

Public vs. Private Affection

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We can show affection to our family, friends, and partners

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Public Types of Affection

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Types of Affection

Depends on the situation (after getting consent)

Private

These types of affection can happen in public or private places

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Public Types of Affection

Waving

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Other people are around and can see you

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Affection is showing someone that you like and care about them

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Handshake

Public Types of Affection

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Private Types of Affection

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Other people are not around and cannot see you

Private Types of Affection

These types of affection can happen only in private places

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Touching Private Body Parts

Private Types of Affection

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Private Types of Affection

Being naked with a partner

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Having sex 12

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Depends on the Situation

Types of Affection

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Hugging

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These types of affection can happen in public or private places depending on your partner’s boundaries

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Talk to your partner about boundaries first

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Types of Affection

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Kissing

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Cuddling

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Not Having Sex • 100% effective

All About Birth Control

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• No semen inside the vagina, anus, or near the vulva

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• Protects against STIs

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The IUD

The Implant

• Goes inside the uterus

• Goes inside the upper arm

• Works for 3-10+ years

• Works for 3-5 years

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• Over 99% effective

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• Over 99% effective

The Ring

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The Shot

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• 94-99% effective

• 91-99% effective

• Given by a healthcare provider

• Goes inside the vagina

• Works for 12 weeks

• Works for 3 weeks

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The Patch

The Pill • 91-99% effective

• 91-99% effective

• Take one pill every day at the same time

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• Goes on arm, torso, or buttocks

• Each pill pack lasts for one month

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• Works for 1 week

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Emergency Contraception • 75-89% effective

The Condom

• Up to 98% effective

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• Pill taken AFTER sex

• Worn on erect penis

• Take ASAP, but can work up to 5 days after sex

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• Protects against STIs

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The Internal Condom • Up to 95% effective • Worn inside vagina or anus • Protects against STIs

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Parenting

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Pregnancy Options

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Condom Demonstration To participate you must…

Condom Demonstration

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1. Follow instructions (do NOT go ahead!)

2. Be careful and respectful with the materials

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Condom Demonstration

Condom Demonstration Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

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…if you cannot do these things, you may be removed from the demo.

Condom Demonstration

Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 2: Ask for consent!

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Condom Demonstration

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Step 3: Check package & expiration date

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Condom Demonstration

Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 3: Check package & expiration date

Step 3: Check package & expiration date

Step 4: Open carefully with hands

Step 4: Open carefully with hands

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Condom Demonstration

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Condom Demonstration Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Condom Demonstration Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 3: Check package & expiration date

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Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 4: Open carefully with hands

Step 4: Open carefully with hands

Step 5: Check direction of condom

Step 5: Check direction of condom

Step 6: Pinch the tip and roll to base

Step 6: Pinch the tip and roll to base

Step 7: Remove carefully without spilling

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Condom Demonstration

Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 1: Store condoms in a cool, dry place

Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 2: Ask for consent!

Step 3: Check package & expiration date

Step 3: Check package & expiration date

Step 4: Open carefully with hands

Step 4: Open carefully with hands

Step 5: Check direction of condom

Step 5: Check direction of condom

Step 6: Pinch the tip and roll to base

Step 6: Pinch the tip and roll to base

Step 7: Remove carefully without spilling

Step 7: Remove carefully without spilling

Step 8: Tie a knot and throw in trash

Step 8: Tie a knot and throw in trash

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Body Boundaries A boundary of space between you and another person’s body It must be a distance that you both feel comfortable with!

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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch

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Body Boundaries

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Consent

Ask before you enter someone’s personal space!

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Ask for a hug, handshake or high-five

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Listen to their answer before you act

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Safe Touch

Unsafe Touch Touching that makes us feel unsafe or uncomfortable

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For example: touching private body parts without consent

O nl

For example: hugs, high-fives, holding hands, pats on the back

y

Touching that makes us feel safe and cared for

8

Safe vs. Unsafe Touch

ew

Does everyone have the right to touch you?

Safe vs. Unsafe Touch

NO!

ASK!

10

vi

9

What should a person do before they touch you?

Re

Safe vs. Unsafe Touch

Safe vs. Unsafe Touch

What should you say if you don’t want another person to touch you?

11

What should you do if another person is touching you without your consent?

No!

No thank you.

Say “Stop!” or “No!”

Stop!

Please stop.

Tell a trusted adult like a parent or teacher

12

2

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Consent Permission or mutual agreement to do something

Consent and Sexual Crimes

y

• Must be 18 or older (in California)

• Must be sober (no drugs or alcohol)

O nl

• Must communicate with partner and agree without pressure

1

2

Sexual Crimes

Sexual Harassment

Doing or saying anything sexual that makes someone else feel uncomfortable

Sexual behaviors that are against the law because there is no consent

Sexual Assault

Name-calling

•

Starting rumors

•

Making sexual jokes or gestures

•

Unwanted communication (sexual comments, texts, messages on social media)

Rape Any type of sex without consent

Re

Any unwanted sexual contact

5

•

4

vi

3

Sexual harassment Sexual assault Rape Human trafficking Stalking Indecent exposure

ew

• • • • • •

•

Sexual touching

•

Kissing

•

Flashing

•

Showing or sending sexual pictures or movies

•

Taking photos or videos of someone naked

•

Making someone touch themself in a sexual way

Penetration of a vagina, anus, or mouth using a body part or an object

6

1

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Human Trafficking

Stalking

Forcing, tricking, or convincing someone to do manual labor or sex work

Any repeated behavior that makes someone else feel uncomfortable or scared

(doing sexual things for money, food, shelter, etc.)

y

• Standing too close to someone • Following someone

• Staring at someone

• Unwanted communication

7

8

Indecent Exposure Being naked in public

Re

vi

ew

It doesn’t matter whether someone meant for others to see them naked or not

9

O nl

• Verbal or written threats

2