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Body Boundaries A boundary of space between you and another person’s body It must be a distance that you both feel comfortable with!
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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
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Body Boundaries
1. Ask for permission
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Everyone has the right to choose if they want to be touched or not
Consent
Ask before you enter someone’s personal space!
Consent – Let’s Practice!
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Consent for Kids
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Agree before you act
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Ask for a hug, handshake or high-five
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Listen to their answer before you act
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Safe Touch
Unsafe Touch Touching that makes us feel unsafe or uncomfortable
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For example: touching private body parts without consent
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For example: hugs, high-fives, holding hands, pats on the back
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Touching that makes us feel safe and cared for
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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
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Does everyone have the right to touch you?
Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
NO!
ASK!
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What should a person do before they touch you?
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Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
Safe vs. Unsafe Touch
What should you say if you don’t want another person to touch you?
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What should you do if another person is touching you without your consent?
No!
No thank you.
Say “Stop!” or “No!”
Stop!
Please stop.
Tell a trusted adult like a parent or teacher
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Consent Permission or mutual agreement to do something
Consent and Sexual Crimes
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• Must be 18 or older (in California)
• Must be sober (no drugs or alcohol)
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• Must communicate with partner and agree without pressure
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Sexual Crimes
Sexual Harassment
Doing or saying anything sexual that makes someone else feel uncomfortable
Sexual behaviors that are against the law because there is no consent
Sexual Assault
Name-calling
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Starting rumors
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Making sexual jokes or gestures
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Unwanted communication (sexual comments, texts, messages on social media)
Rape Any type of sex without consent
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Any unwanted sexual contact
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Sexual harassment Sexual assault Rape Human trafficking Stalking Indecent exposure
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Sexual touching
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Kissing
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Flashing
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Showing or sending sexual pictures or movies
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Taking photos or videos of someone naked
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Making someone touch themself in a sexual way
Penetration of a vagina, anus, or mouth using a body part or an object
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Human Trafficking
Stalking
Forcing, tricking, or convincing someone to do manual labor or sex work
Any repeated behavior that makes someone else feel uncomfortable or scared
(doing sexual things for money, food, shelter, etc.)
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• Standing too close to someone • Following someone
• Staring at someone
• Unwanted communication
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Indecent Exposure Being naked in public
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It doesn’t matter whether someone meant for others to see them naked or not
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• Verbal or written threats
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