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The Gift of Great Service WORD SCRAMBLE

Celebrate with us! Complete the WORD SCRAMBLE below and be one of the first three to submit your answers at our on-site office.

HINT: Unscramble the words to reveal the qualities we value most at Pam Golding. Each word represents what we bring to Le Domaine, consider them our gifts to you this festive season.

SELLING AGENCY IN LE DOMAINE ESTATE

Thank you to our valued clients for an exceptional 2025. As the top-selling team in Le Domaine Estate, we’ve consistently achieved full asking price with offers secured within a week.

Le Domaine Snippets

The residents of Le Domaine are always up to something! Catch up with all the latest events.

A Lifetime of New Beginnings

Ann Braine shares how her journey from London to Durban sparked adventures in education, love, and uplifting communities.

Know Your Neighbours

Meet Gerrit and Ineke Ter Haars! They share how they have nurtured their bond over the years.

The

Hookers

This vibrant group of ladies has become a symbol of kindness, generosity, and true community spirit.

Indulge in a traditional Christmas pudding, packed with sugar, spice, and all things nice!

Important NUMBERS

100 Acutts Drive Hillcrest | 031 716 8000 www.ledom.co.za

Reception Office Hours: Monday to Friday 08:15 to 16:00

Body Corporate Trustees

Chairman: Peter Dixon

Vice Chairperson: Trish Brouwer, Jim Barrow, Margie Brown, Dave Gibbon, Lesley Heger, David Martin, Neville Rudman, Grant Weston

Key People & Contacts

Estate Manager

Frances Mans estatemanager@bcld.co.za

PA to Estate Manager

Jo La Réservée | ext 8025 emassist@bcld.co.za

Financial Manager

Lesley Clarke financemanager@bcld.co.za

Finance Admin | Insurance Claims

Jo-Anne Hounsom | ext 8022 accounts@bcld.co.za

Zietske de Villiers | ext 8021 admin@bcld.co.za

Maintenance | Gardens Call Centre

Glenda Coetzee callcentre@bcld.co.za

All maintenance, irrigation and gardening on common property requests to be logged on | ext 8017

For any after hours maintenance emergencies dial | ext 8998

After hours means: Monday to Friday from 16:00 to 08:00, as well as weekends and public holidays

Lifestyle Co-ordinator

Lydelle Goddard | ext 8018 lifestyle@bcld.co.za

Residents Information Desk

Caron Hepburn | ext 8000 reception@bcld.co.za

Services

Care Centre | ext 8450 wendy@ledomainecare.co.za

Laundrette | ext 8699

Lodge | ext 8450

Digital - supersonic

Marc Chapman | ext 8005 supersonic@ledom.co.za

Security Services, Excellerate & Main gate ext 8998 or 071 475 3664

Clinton Botha - clint@ledom.co.za

Health Hydro | ext 8056 thehealthhydro@gmail.com

Hairdressing Salon | ext 8054 talitha200@gmail.com

Mode de Vie - Bar and Restaurant | ext 8089 catering@ledom.co.za

Medical Emergency Assistance

Please call Security on | ext 8998 Or 071 475 3664 who will contact MEDITECH Emergency Services

Hosted Senior Tours

TOURS DEPARTING:

February 2026

• The Cavern, Northern Berg, KZN | 01 – 05 February ’26 (4n)

March 2026

• Springbok Lodge, Nambiti, KZN | 15–18 March ‘26 (3n)

• South Coast, Pumula Beach Hotel

• Mkuze Trails

April 2026

• Springbok Lodge, Nambiti, KZN | 12–15 April ’26 – (3n)

• Victoria Falls & Chobe

National Park | 13 – 17 April ‘26 (4n)

• Tembe Elephant Park, KwaZulu-Natal |19 – 22 April ‘26 (3n)

May 2026

• The Cavern, Northern Berg, KZN

• Umngazi Hotel & Spa, Wild Coast Eastern Cape | 08–13 May ‘26 (5n) fly-in experience

• Kgalagadi & Augrabies Falls | 18–23 May ’26 – fully booked

• Tembe Elephant Park | 31 May – 3 June ’26 (3n)

Editor From The

As the Christmas season settles gently around us - twinkling lights, warm gatherings, and the familiar spirit of giving - we are reminded once again of the quiet magic of kindness. This time of year, it feels almost effortless: we check in on neighbours, share a meal, donate a blanket, and offer a smile a little more freely. Christmas has a way of softening us, encouraging us to pause and to truly see one another. But what if this weren’t something we packed away with the decorations? Living in a community like ours, we are surrounded by people whose lives, memories, and experiences weave together into something extraordinary. And every small act of kindnesswhether it’s holding a lift door, offering a listening ear, or simply greeting someone by name - adds another thread to this tapestry. These gestures may seem small, but they create a legacy far greater than we often realise. Kindness is not dramatic. It doesn’t demand applause. It lives in the everyday spaces of ordinary life. And it is here (at home), especially here, that it matters most.

As we move through this festive season, perhaps we can see Christmas not as a moment but as a reminder. A gentle nudge to carry its spirit into January, into autumn breezes and winter mornings; into busy days, quiet days, and everything in between. Imagine what our Estate would feel like if the generosity we show in December became a habit rather than a holiday tradition. The truth is, kindness is one of the most meaningful gifts we can give - one that outlasts ribbons and wrapping, one that requires no budget, only intention.

So, as we celebrate this special time of year, may we also commit to a simple but powerful promise: to make kindness our everyday legacy.

Wishing you a Christmas season filled with warmth, connection, and gentle moments of joy.

Lifestyle Co-ordinator | lifestyle@bcld.co.za

DECEASED ESTATE AND TRUST EXPERTS

FOUNDER & DIRECTOR

DANIEL MARSH

Daniel is the founder of Marsh Fidelity and serves as Vice Chairman of FISA KwaZulu-Natal. He holds a Bcom (Rhodes), Advanced Diploma Estates & Trusts (UFS) (Distinction in Estates), Post Graduate Diploma in Estate Planning (UFS) and FPSA®. Daniel has built his career on protecting families and ensuring estates are handled with care, clarity, and compassion. His passion for people and community service is what inspired the birth of Marsh Fidelity. Beyond the office, Daniel enjoys marathon running, bonsai cultivation, church, and family life with his wife, Hannah.

SPECIALIST ESTATE ADMINISTRATOR & TAX PRACTITIONER

LEE-ANNE DONWAUCHOPE

LEGAL & ESTATE ADMINISTRATOR

ARIANA DWYER

Lee-Anne is the Specialist Estate Administrator & Tax Practitioner at Marsh Fidelity. Lee-Anne brings a wealth of knowledge and precision to estate administration and taxation. With years of specialised experience, she ensures that estates are wound up efficiently, accurately, and in full compliance with the law. Her expertise in estate tax allows clients to navigate complex financial matters with confidence, while her approachable nature ensures they always feel supported.

OFFICE

& CLIENT COORDINATOR

LONDIWE NGCOBO

Ariana Dwyer is the Legal & Estate Administrator at Marsh Fidelity. Ariana is an admitted Attorney, a member of the Fiduciary Institute of Southern Africa(FISA) and holds a designation from FPSA® (Fiduciary Practitioner of Southern Africa). She holds a BA (cum laude) in Law & Philosophy, an LLB (cum laude), a Post Graduate Diploma in Estate Planning and an Advanced Diploma in Estates and Trusts, obtained

Londiwe is our office and client coordinator. Her responsibilities include, but are not limited to, managing daily operations and providing administrative support. She is highly organised, detail-oriented, and possesses excellent interpersonal skills. Londiwe is dedicated to helping people and improving our communities to create a better South Africa.

with distinction. With her sharp legal expertise and a caring, client-first approach, Ariana helps families navigate estate and trust matters with clarity and peace of mind.

from the desk of the Estate Manager

As we wrap up 2025 and step into the magic of the festive season, I want to take a moment to reflect on what makes Le Domaine truly special: our incredible community spirit!

A heartfelt thank you goes out to our dedicated Trustees, the amazing BCLD team, and our hardworking service providers. Your commitment and tireless efforts throughout the year have kept our Estate running smoothly and beautifully. We couldn’t have done it without you!

support and understanding as we navigated various projects and improvements this year. Your patience during the energy efficiency rollout and your cooperation during the dassie intervention were truly appreciated. These initiatives are vital for the sustainability and harmony of our Estate, and your willingness to work with us made all the difference.

This has been one of the most challenging years, with various projects on the go, including a few days of flooding and high winds that tested our resilience as a community. Through it all, your support has been invaluable.

To our wonderful residents, thank you for your continued

We are also pleased to share that our finances remain sound and well in line with the budget, and by the time you read this article, the proposed levy increase for 2026, carefully considered by your Board of Trustees, will have been announced and will be tabled for

approval at the 2026 AGM to be held in April 2026.

The proposed increase is once again subsidised substantially by the Levy Stabilisation Fund, ensuring that we continue to maintain and improve our beautiful Estate responsibly while keeping costs as manageable as possible.

Now, let’s embrace the joy of the season! May your homes be filled with laughter, warmth, and festive cheer. Here’s to a bright and exciting 2026, full of new opportunities and shared successes. From all of us at Le Domaine, Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! And remember, “Jesus is the Reason for the Season”!

Le Domaine - Where Community Shines Bright This Festive Season!

With warmest regards

Estate Manager

What’s on your mind?

Complexities of a Simple Will: “My Will is simple and is only two pages. Why should I be concerned?

I’m a South African with assets overseas. What factors do I need to consider for my estate planning, and do I need more than one Will?

I’m a South African with assets overseas. What factors do I need to consider for my estate planning, and do I need more than one Will?

LOwning assets abroad adds complexity, but here’s what you need to keep in mind:

Owning assets abroad adds complexity, but here’s what you need to keep in mind:

Should I Have More Than One Will?

If your foreign assets are limited to a small bank account, one South African Will may be enough, as many banks recognise it for worldwide assets. But if you own substantial assets or own foreign property, separate Wills can help by aligning each with local laws, which may speed things up for beneficiaries.

ife is messy. People die out of order. Beneficiaries fall ill. Relationships change. A one-pager rarely provides for these realities. When events don’t follow that tiny script, beneficiaries end up arguing about interpretations, and executors are left trying to administer an estate with their hands tied behind their backs. There are countless cases where overly simple Wills have caused real hardship, but let me highlight just a few that left families dealing with unintended consequences.

No residue clause or backup heirs

Understanding Probate Abroad

Foreign assets often require a local probate process (similar to South Africa’s executorship). If this is needed, the South African estate can’t be finalised until it’s completed abroad, potentially causing delays.

When a Will leaves out who inherits the balance of the estate after specific bequests, or fails to name substitute heirs, assets can fall into intestacy. In one estate, the deceased’s estranged, financially reckless adult child inherited by default under the laws of Intestate Succession, because the simple Will didn’t say who should receive

the residue. One overlooked clause changed the entire outcome.

Having a foreign executor familiar with local probate rules can make the process smoother, especially if you have multiple or valuable assets overseas.

Not revoking old Wills

Having a foreign executor familiar with local probate rules can make the process smoother, especially if you have multiple or valuable assets overseas.

Additional Costs and Fees

If a Will does not include a revocation clause, all previous Wills must be read together to work out the testator’s intentions. This can cause confusion and conflict, especially in second marriages, where a former spouse may still be named in an older Will. One forgotten sentence from the simple Will turned a simple estate into a battle.

You need to make provisions for additional costs as other countries don’t always cap executor fees like South Africa does (3.5% plus VAT). In some places, probate fees are much higher.

Forced Heirship, Marital Property Rules and trusts

When the spouse gets the income, but the children get the capital

Forced Heirship, Marital Property Rules and trusts

Some countries, like Italy, Portugal, and France, have “forced heirship” laws that dictate how assets are distributed, regardless of what your Will says. Additionally, marital property regimes may impact distribution, and testamentary trusts are not always recognised.

Executors without proper powers

Inheritance Taxes and Duties

Your foreign assets might be subject to foreign inheritance taxes on top of South African estate duties. These taxes can add up and reduce the total inheritance for beneficiaries.

Preventing Conflicts Between Wills

An overly simple Will often leaves executors without the authority needed to administer efficiently. They may need repeated permission from the Master, or even a High Court application, just to perform basic tasks. In one estate, the Will didn’t authorise the executor to renew leases. A portfolio of rental properties intended to support the heirs sat empty because no one had the legal authority to sign leases with tenants.

Preventing Conflicts Between Wills

A mother left her investment portfolio to her children, but the income from it went to her husband. The children wanted their dad to have everything. But if they renounced, the assets legally skipped to their children. The husband, who desperately needed access to the fund, couldn’t receive them. The simple Will didn’t allow for any flexibility.

If you decide on multiple Wills, make sure each one applies only to assets in that specific country to avoid accidental revocation. This is why an experienced estate planner is invaluable—they ensure your intentions are honored without any legal conflicts across borders. Working with a specialist familiar with international laws can help lower these taxes as well as foreign probate fees through strategic planning. If you would like a ‘Health Check’ carried out on your Will at no cost, contact us.

The executor eventually had to bring a costly High Court application, causing months of lost income and unnecessary stress. A single missing paragraph from this simple Will cost the family thousands. In the end, a Will’s purpose is to bring certainty, not confusion. Spend a little more time crafting a clear, considered document to avoid unintended consequences. Let us help you draft a clear and robust Will.

Let’s Talk

083 384 4873

Le Domaine Snippets Snippets & Socials

Remembrance Day

At 11:00 a.m. on the 11th day of the 11th month, residents stood proudly and respectfully as young Kearsney College student, Lance Martegoutte, played “The Last Post”. The morning continued with a moving Remembrance Day service, led by Paul Spence, Kath McCleland, and Nicky Grieshaber. Many tears were shed as Paul spoke about the 1914 Christmas Truce football match. The room fell silent when a resident stood to share that her grandfather had played in that very game, recalling the stories he had passed down to her. Moments later, another resident rose to say that her grandfather had also taken part in the match - but on the German side. The two women embraced warmly, creating a rare and deeply touching moment that will long be remembered.

Williams St Ladies Choir

Another beautiful morning of serenading and a lot of fun, with the ladies from the Williams Saint Ladies Choir.

A Night of Opera with Menzi

The talented Uber driver turned opera singer serenaded the residents in November. “Pure joy from start to finish! What a delightful, humble and hugely talented man. His show was very uplifting, and my table of nine was all in agreement … we would love to see him again without a doubt.” - Val.

Snippets & Socials

Competition Winner

Kieth Wishard, pictured with his wife Kate, winner of the Mode De Vie Windhoek Draft competition.

Alpha Group

A six-week Alpha course and tea were generously hosted by resident Vanessa Wilson in September and October. Thank you, Vanessa, for your time and Christian spirit.

The Crafters’ Christmas

The ladies of the Crafters Group recently enjoyed a wonderfully festive Christmas celebration - beautifully dressed themselves with a table to match, the morning was filled with laughter and wrapped in the warm spirit of friendship.

Upper Highway Market Leaders

We Put the Seeff Team Into a Poem!

In the heart of Le Domaine, where the gardens stay green, Youʼll find four local legends behind the property scene.

Hayden, the veteran, steady and wise, Guiding each seller with calm, trusted eyes.

Charlotte, collected, confident, kind, A soothing presence with a sharp, clever mind.

Lynette, tiny but mighty, warm-hearted and bright, Turning every viewing into pure delight.

Varina, fierce, focused, seasoned, and smart, Matching every buyer with a home from the heart.

Different strengths, one powerful team, Helping sellers succeed and buyers find their dream.

Seeff Hillcrest & Kloof Your Le Domaine Specialists.

A Lifetime of New Beginnings

WORDS ANN BRAINE

If anyone told me forty years ago what life would be like for me now, I would have found it difficult to believe. In those days, I commuted three hours a day to work in the library of King’s College London. Mandatory early retirement loomed. Then we immigrated with teenage children to begin a new life in Durban.

I was soon employed by the University of Natal to lead the Financial Aid Service, which was quite challenging in 1992. After six years, I was selected to manage a new project, processing applications for all higher education institutions in KwaZulu-Natal. The Central Applications Office (CAO) offered a simpler and cheaper process, taking on much of the clerical workload of processing applications, and offering better placement prospects.

Things changed greatly domestically, too. My husband passed away, and my children completed their studies and returned to Europe. That left a big gap in my life and in the large house in Pinetown - until I met Bill (on the Internet, just in case you thought that was only for youngsters).

We got married 21 years ago, and life has been an adventure since, often literally. After retirement, my unique experience running the CAO equipped me well to assist the Department of Higher Education and Training in planning a greatly needed national equivalent, the Central Application Service, now in its pilot phase. I served until just before COVID-19, then I started seeking ways to fill my days. Through Hillside Church, I joined iKusasaLethu to teach sewing.

“I now head up the ‘CAO project’, leading career choice workshops with Grade 9 and Matrics in nine disadvantaged high schools.”

One day, an email from Hillcrest Advice Bureau and Bursary Fund (HAB&BF) - one of Hillcrest’s best-kept secrets - landed in iKusasaLethu’s mailbox. I was immediately attracted by their work with matriculants, volunteered, and found my perfect niche. I now head up the ‘CAO project’, leading career choice workshops with Grade 9 and Matrics in nine disadvantaged high schools. Our donors sponsor the workshops and pay the application fees of high flyers, 97 this year and 310 since 2021. We keep in touch with them via WhatsApp and try to smooth their path into postschool education. HAB&BF has a long-standing connection with Le Domaine, through volunteers Connie Johnson, formerly of Bordeaux and Heather Maybery of Reims. Each project aims to lift people above their circumstances. The Advice Bureau in KwaNyuswa helps overcome challenges with Home Affairs, SASSA, and other state bodies; the Schools Fund provides uniforms (and selfesteem) to nearly 400 indigent children annually, and the Tertiary Fund provides a support network and tops up NSFAS funding for about 35 students, most of whom complete their qualifications in a minimum time.

Bill and I have enjoyed 10 happy years at Le Domaine, and have great fun organising the Bird and Bugs enthusiasts.

Know Your

Neighbours

GERRIT & INEKE

Genade, that’s grace in Dutch. When asked what the secret to maintaining strong family bonds is, this was Gerrit’s answer. One word!

Married on August 23, 1955, the Ter Haars have shared a lifetime of love, faith and companionship. Now 96, Gerrit speaks about their seven decades together with visible pride and gentle humour; he attests his happiness. “It actually feels even longer,” he chuckled warmly. “I never planned for this - it’s extraordinary, and I’m deeply grateful that we could reach this milestone.”

Their story began in a small church in Holland, where both were raised. Gerrit was still a student when he first noticed Ineke. “I went to church and saw her sitting there,” he recalled with a smile. “I don’t think I heard a single word of the sermon that day - I only saw her.” After two to three years of courtship, they married,

and Gerrit admitted that while her beauty caught his attention first, it was Ineke’s heart and character that truly won him over. “I was drawn to her looks, but I fell in love with her personality. We shared our Christian faith, which gave our relationship a solid foundation. Though we came from different backgrounds, we balanced each other perfectly. My wife is beautiful - inside and out.”

In 1956, the Ter Haars moved to South Africa. Gerrit, a doctor by profession (and Ineke, a teacher), dedicated 40 years of service at Rietvlei Hospital in the Transkei. The couple later lived in Pietermaritzburg before settling in Le Domaine, Hillcrest, three years ago.

Even after a lifetime together, their connection remains tender and unwavering.

“I fell in love with Gerrit as I got to know him,” Ineke shared. “We always got along, and after all

these years, we’re still in love. We never really had big arguments.”

Although Ineke’s long- and shortterm memory is not what it was, her face lights up when he walks in the room, and she never forgets who he is!

Gerrit describes how Ineke is the epitome of grace, moving from a bustling, busy city in the Netherlands to the quiet town of Transkei, she gave up everything she knew to support his role as a Mission Doctor and never once asked him to go back home. Gerrit himself lived a life of remarkable service to others, working alone for more than 10 years at the Rietvlei hospital. After his retirement, he continued to volunteer for organisations such as Lifeline and Philekhade children’s home. Ineke still knits Bobby bears for sexually abused children. When asked what advice he would give to younger couples, Gerrit didn’t hesitate, “Forgiveness. You can’t avoid conflict, but resolve it with unconditional love; that’s the key.”

Together, they’ve built a large and loving family - six children, 21 grandchildren, and 19 greatgrandchildren - a living testament to a love that has truly stood the test of time.

Seasons Greetings

From the Salon

Dear Le Domaine residents and clients, As we close another year at Le Domaine, we have the honour of reflecting on our journey with you over the past 18 years. Thank you, not only for your support in 2025, but from our very beginning in 2007. Love, Talitha, Martie, and Vicky

When Talitha packed up her home and moved to Durban in October 2007, she brought with her more than just personal belongings - she carried a vision. With nothing but a plastic chair, a mirror against the wall, and an extension cord running out to the only plug point in a clubhouse still under construction, The Hair Salon was born - amidst tilers, paint fumes, and the buzz of finishing touches. One of her first clients, Pauline Kelsey-Pitot (of Marseilles Village), booked

a regular 10:00 a.m. on a Friday morning slot and 18 years later, Pauline still walks through the salon doors every Friday at 10:00 a.m. sharp - a living tribute to loyalty and lasting relationships. Since those humble beginnings, The Hair Salon has steadily grown - expanding from two chairs to four, and from a solo act to a small team of two dedicated hairdressers and a shampooist who love what they do. Through every trim and transformation, the heart of the salon has remained the same: a space built on care, consistency, and community.

Talitha’s personal journey has mirrored her professional one. Moving to Durban as a single woman, she later met her husband, started a family, and today, 18 and a half years later, she remains the proud owner of The Hair Salon - a stalwart presence and the spirit behind its enduring success.

From the Health Hydro

Merry Christmas from The Health Hydro. We appreciate every visit, every smile, and every moment you have shared with us. Wishing you a festive season filled with joy, beauty, and good health. See you in the new year for more pampering.

With love, Lyn, Caleigh, Tracey, Angelique, and Esmerelda

TALITHA - BUSY SALON OWNER, MUM, AND PLANT SAVER

MARTIE - LOVES HER JOB AND CHATTING TO HER LADIES

VICKY - MAGIC FINGERS

FINGERS

eHappy Hookers

A story of love, self-sacrifice, and the deepest sense of community.

Step into the clubhouse on a Friday morning, and you’ll be greeted by the most delightful scene: a circle of ladies with knitting needles clicking, crochet hooks looping, steaming cups of tea at their side, and enough joyful chatter to drown out your own intrusive thoughts. Affectionately known as The Happy Hookers, this vibrant group has become a symbol of kindness, generosity, and true community spirit. Their laughter fills the room, but it’s the love and compassion woven into every

gathering that truly speaks to who they are. Formed before COVID-19, the group has grown to nearly 20 dedicated women. And they don’t just sit and knit … they spend the entire year gathering for the homeless, the underprivileged, the abused, and the abandoned. Some of the organisations they support include The Cheshire Home, the Jes Foord Foundation, Nelson Mandela Day projects, the Hillcrest AIDS Centre, the Seaman’s Institute, the St Mary’s Prem Baby Unit, and many more.

This year alone, their impact has been extraordinary.

• They made 100 drawstring bags filled with supplies for rape survivors supported by the Jes Foord Foundation.

• They packed Jars of Hope for Mandela Day.

• They produce three to four blankets every month for the Hillcrest AIDS Centre.

• They knit Mother Teresa jerseys and beanies for premature babies at St Mary’s hospital.

• They craft mittens for the Seaman’s Institute.

• They have made donations to the Robin Hood Foundation.

• They sewed quilts for every resident at The Cheshire Home.

And pictured here is one of their most heartwarming projects: individually curated Christmas hampers for every resident of The Cheshire Home. Each hamper included a clothing parcel, a food and snack parcel, and a toiletries parcel - carefully matched to each

person’s clothing and shoe size and toiletries tailored to their personal needs. These remarkable women not only gathered, packed, and personally delivered each gift. They also donated the food to The Cheshire home so they could have an early Christmas lunch complete with meat, vegetables, dessert, juices, and plenty of festive eats.

There are no words to fully capture the beauty and impact of their work. It is an honour and a privilege to live amongst such extraordinary women.

If you would like to join this social group - even just for a fun morning of hooking and chatting - or if you’d like to get involved in any of their volunteer projects, please contact Lydelle at lifestyle@bcld.co.za

Ladies, you are the epitome of generosity and community. Thank you for everything you do.

Get to Know Your Wildlife

Slender Mongoose (Galerella sanguinea), also known as the Black-tipped Mongoose or the Black-tailed Mongoose.

Appearance

Slender Mongoose females attain a mass of 575 g and are smaller than males at 715 g. Colour varies from light brown to dark red-brown depending on the area within its distribution range. Their underparts are lighter in colour. The long tails are distinctively black-tipped, a characteristic of this species. In colder regions, they could be melanistic.

Diet

The Slender Mongoose feeds primarily on small rodents, reptiles and at times also on birds, and is known to take invertebrates.

Breeding

A year-round breeder, but births occur more often in the rainy season. They have a gestation period of eight to nine weeks and deliver one or two litters per year, each consisting of between one and three young.

PHOTO FRANK KIHN

The Golden GIRLS

OF PHILAKADE CARE HOME

WORDS NOREEN BROOMHALL

Perched on a hilltop in Embo, not far from Le Domaine, PHILAKADE

(meaning long life) has been a beacon of hope for the past seven years. The care home consists of two specialised wards supporting 84 disabled residents of all ages.

They provide full-time care for severely disabled, mainly bedridden residents, many with paralysis or mental challenges, while others are accident survivors living with amputations. These residents require intensive nursing, and while some are independent enough to use wheelchairs, most need ongoing, hands-on support. All caregivers are selected from the local community and professionally trained on-site. The social heart of PHILAKADE, a spacious lounge and activity area with a kitchen and a wide deck overlooking the

valley, where residents gather for TV time, music, guided exercise, arts and crafts, weaving, and sewing. The atmosphere is vibrant and communal. Each resident receives a disability grant, which contributes to the daily running of the home and helps keep everyone well-nourished. PHILAKADE is completely off the grid, powered by solar energy and supported by a borehole that keeps 30 water tanks filled year-round.

The gardens, too, are a source of pride. This care home is truly a place of joy.

How do the Golden Girls of Le Domaine fit in?

Two years ago, a White Elephant Shop was added to the property. It quickly filled to the brim with donations, and I was asked to help organise it and make it functional.

With little hesitation, I reached out to friends and neighbours at Le Domaine, and six incredible women volunteered to take on what initially felt like an overwhelming task. On our very first day, we walked through the main lounge and were greeted by residents’ warm smiles at our enthusiastic attempts at Sawubona and Unjani. Their joy at seeing outsiders take an interest in their lives and their crafts was deeply motivating. Right then, we knew we wanted the shop to become a meaningful incomegenerator for this remarkable care home.

We were now committed to opening the shop twice a week and using the additional days to tidy, restock, and reorganise. This meant doubling our “workforce”, and soon we welcomed new volunteers. Each potential Golden Girl received a tour of PHILAKADE, followed by coffee and a chat. Every volunteer now does two shifts per month and fills in when others are away or unwell.

With a clinic on the property, many of our customers are young mothers looking for baby clothes, children’s wear, linen and curtains. Donations of these items are especially appreciated. I am endlessly grateful for the energy, creativity and compassion this team of women brings to PHILAKADE. Their dedication and their hearts help keep this truly joyful place thriving.

To Ann Maud, Cathy Dale, Di Lyall, Denise Clark, Jan Brazier, Jane Gomasall, Jean Winterton, Jill Dent, Joan Lanzendorf, Joyce Murphy, Olga Russell, and Sue Meers, thank you for all you do!

Christmas Pudding

A rich, sticky pudding packed with dried fruit, spices, and a hint of bourbon.

WORDS JAMIE OLIVER

INGREDIENTS:

• Unsalted butter, for greasing

• 150g Medjool dates

• 150g dried apricots

• 150g pecan nuts

• 75g crystallised ginger

• 1 small sprig of fresh rosemary

• 150g dried cranberries

• 150g raisins

• 150g suet

• 150g plain flour

• 75g fresh breadcrumbs

• 200ml semi-skimmed milk

• 1 large free-range egg

• 1 clementine, zest and juice

• Golden syrup

• Barrel-aged Bourbon

METHOD:

1. Grease a 1.5 litre pudding bowl with butter.

2. Pit your dates, then, by hand or in a food processor, finely chop the flesh with the apricots, pecans, ginger, and rosemary leaves. Place them in a mixing bowl with the cranberries, raisins, suet, flour, breadcrumbs and milk. Add the egg, clementine zest, and juice into the mix, and mix until well combined.

3. Tip the mixture into the greased bowl and cover with a single layer of greaseproof paper and a double layer of tin foil. Tie a piece of string around the bowl

to secure it in place and make it watertight, then set it in a large, deep saucepan and pour in enough water to come halfway up the sides of the bowl.

4. Bring the water to a boil, cover the pan with a tight-fitting lid, and simmer for about four hours. Check the water regularly, and add more boiling water if needed.

5. When the time’s up, lift out the bowl, remove the foil and paper, then carefully turn the pudding out onto a plate ready to serve, or leave to cool and reheat just before you need it.

6. You can either drizzle it with golden syrup and a swig of bourbon - gorgeous - or be a bit more flamboyant and gently heat a good few swigs of bourbon just to warm it, then strike a match to the pan (stand back!), let it flame, and carefully pour it over your pudding.

7. Present it to your guests and sing some Christmassy songs, then, when the flame subsides, drizzle with golden syrup. Serve with cream, custard or ice-cream.

Social Wellness

Busy vendors and shoppers had a very productive day at the Le Domaine annual Wellness Fair in October 2025.

Meet the Team Perfect Ntini

When it comes to the OneSpace Connect app, Perfect is one of the most “indemand” staff members. Fondly nicknamed Preston, the man who has won multiple Manqoba awards for his patience with the residents. Meet Secure 25’s Access control extraordinaire, Perfect Ntini.

Professional Background

How long have you been working at Le Domaine?

Six years.

What qualities do you think are essential for someone in your position?

Attention to detail, the value of patience, and the ability to be flexible.

How has your role evolved/changed since you started?

We have upgraded our access control and security technology over the years, and I have had to learn a lot about these new technologies.

Team & Work Environment

What do you enjoy most about working with your team?

The BCLD team members have a lot of life experiences that I have learned from. They work well together and have taught me so much over the years.

How do you think your work contributes to the overall experience of residents?

Teaching residents how to use the OneSpace Connect app for our Estate access has brought me much joy. One reason is that I get to see how happy it makes them to learn and understand some modern technology, as well as being able to show them how they can so easily invite their friends and family to visit with a touch of a button.

Is there a moment that stands out for you as especially rewarding or memorable while working here?

I especially loved the residents’ training days for the OneSpace Connect app. I got to interact with many residents and helped them with what seemed like a very daunting task. I received so many “thank yous” and appreciation. This made me feel very proud of my job.

Personal Insights

What’s the most satisfying part of your job?

Engaging with the residents. They have so much life experience and memories to share, and often, while they sit with me, they share these experiences and get to have a good laugh. I love this time with them.

How would your colleagues describe you in three words? Patient, kind, and gentle (they told me that).

Human Touch

What’s your go-to way to start your day or get into “work mode”? I pray every morning before work to remind myself that I have a large task to carry out, not just in my job but in my family life, too.

What do you enjoy doing when you’re not at work?

I like to visit rivers and waterfalls, as they bring me peace and wisdom.

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

I have tried many things to bring happiness, and the one thing I have learned that brings me the most happiness is helping others and making them feel special.

An Unexpected

Lesson

IBut her post wasn’t exactly about the cutting board, but more about how so many of us don’t use the things we hold dear out of fear of wasting, damaging, or using them too much. “Oh, fellas, how we deny ourselves the joy of using what we love, of fully experiencing the things we’ve chosen, worked for, and brought into our lives.” “The cutting board reminded me that beauty is meant to be lived through. It’s meant to be worn down by laughter by ordinary moments that become special simply because we were present enough to enjoy them.”

on Appreciating Our Beautiful Things - and Using Them!

WORDS GOOD THINGS GUY

sn’t it funny how little things can sometimes give us the biggest lessons? A woman opened up about how finally using her special Himalayan sea salt cutting board became a lesson to allow ourselves to enjoy and fully experience the things we’ve chosen, worked for, and brought into our lives instead of “saving them for later”.

Our brains have been trained to save our new, best or most prized things for very special or specific occasions. It may be a beautiful

dress, a fancy pair of shoes or expensive crockery that only comes out when you have guests. For Hermien Elago, that “thing” was a pretty Himalayan sea salt cutting board she’d bought a while ago.

“It infuses salt directly into your veggies, meat, or whatever food source you’re cutting,” Hermien shares in a Facebook post. “But I haven’t been using it because it’s so pretty! With each use, you rinse it clean, but that also means it becomes smaller until it dissolves completely with time.”

Hermien’s epiphany is something so many of us can resonate with, because we’re strangely wired to ‘save something special for that one special moment’. But have you ever wondered what it would mean if that moment never came? Would you have never used the thing you cherished most? Hermien offers a simple way to avoid this, and quite frankly, I am keen to take a note out of her book. “Maybe joy lies in us allowing things, no matter how pretty they are, to be used fully, to serve their purpose, to dissolve slowly in the process of being truly lived. Anyway, I used the cutting board today.”

Spray the luxe perfume, wear that blouse to the grocery store and take those shoes out of the box! Go on and enjoy your beautiful things and create “the special moment” today … It’s yours after all, and beauty is meant to be lived through!

Le Domaine Estate Security tips for our residents

Hello, Le Domainers! Clint Botha here, your Security Manager. Keeping our community safe doesn’t have to be all doom and gloom, so here are your essential security reminders with a dash of good humour. Remember, your awareness is our best defence (and the reason we have such a wonderfully peaceful estate!).

Access Control

Send visitors a PIN code for guest access. It’s the modern-day secret knock, minus the sore knuckles.

Always tap your access card when you enter or exit — especially so we know you’re safe (and not just dodging a book club invite).

Personal Safety

Walk with a companion whenever possible. Should you need assistance, you’ll have someone there to help – and perhaps someone to laugh with when you realise you’ve walked right past your own home. Keep your mobile phone charged and with you Whether it’s for emergencies, staying connected with family, or capturing that perfect sunset over the clubhouse, you’ll be glad it’s in your pocket.

When you’re out

Have your car keys ready before reaching your vehicle. This helps you stay alert to your surroundings and prevents that awkward key-fumbling dance in the parking lot.

Stay aware of your surroundings. A little vigilance goes a long way — and helps you dodge awkward encounters.

control room number is always handy.

Call us on 031 716 8998

SECURITY THAT’S PERSONAL. PROTECTION THAT’S PROFESSIONAL.

Security Tips for Our Residents

Hello, fellow Le Domaines!

As your Security Manager, I’m here to sprinkle a little humour on your safety tips to keep you secure and entertained in our fabulous community. Remember, your awareness and quick action are what make Le Domaine the safest Estate around - or at least the one with the best gossip!

Access and egress:

• Use your own access card to enter and exit the Estate. In emergencies, the control room needs to know if you’ve left the Estate or if you’re just hiding from your in-laws.

• Have your access card ready

before you arrive at the gate. Standing there like a deer in headlights is not a good look.

• Send your visitor a pin for access. It’s like giving them a secret handshake, but without the awkwardness.

Safety:

• Walk with a friend or neighbour. If you fall or have a medical emergency, you’ll have someone to help you up and maybe even crack a joke or two.

• Keep your cell phone with you. You never know when you’ll need to call for help or take a selfie with a squirrel.

• If you live alone, set up a daily check-in with a friend or neighbour.

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO TRANSFORM COUNTLESS LIVES WITH A SINGLE ACT OF KINDNESS AND LEAVE A LASTING LEGACY.

By including a charitable bequest to the Community Chest in your Will, you become a beacon of hope for those in need. Your legacy will provide essential care and support to vulnerable children and elderly individuals across KwaZulu-Natal. Together, we can create a brighter future, filled with compassion and opportunity for all.

Contact Rashilla Francis on 031 303 3890 or email: rashilla@communitychest.co.za

It’s like having a personal assistant who also enjoys your terrible jokes.

Out and about:

• Avoid drawing money at busy shopping centres. Most banks let you withdraw money at a supermarket till, which is safer and gives you an excuse to buy more snacks.

• Have your car keys in hand before approaching your vehicle. This way, you can focus on not tripping over your own feet instead of fumbling for keys. Always be alert - or at least pretend to be.

Remember, the OneSpace app has your built-in panic button. Always remember to keep your phone charged and with you for the quickest access to help. If you are unsure if your app is working, call reception on Ext 8000 to make an appointment with our team to assist.

Audiologist

Mandy Pillay B. SP & H (UDW) Cert. Vest Disorders (UCT)

Audiologist

Louise Molina B. Comm. Path (Audiology) (UKZN) Additional Training in Cochlear Implant MAPPING and Rehabilitation (UP)

• Diagnostic audiology for Adults and Children

• New born hearing assessment in Nursery NICU and outpatient

• School hearing screenings

• Hearing Aid evaluations and ﬁttings (Signia, Oticon, Widex, Phonak)

• Vertigo/ Dizziness assessment and management

• Hearing implants (Cochlear Implants, Bone conduction implants, Middle ear implants)

• Auditory Processing Disorders - Assessment and management

• FM systems

• Swim Plugs, Earmolds, Ear Protection

WORDS CLINTON BOTHA