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REAL TRUTH. REAL LOVE.
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VOLUME 02 – PART 1
She She She
Releases Trusts Cries
how’s your heart? “You’re blessed when you get your inside world—your mind and heart— put right. Then you can see God in the outside world.” MATTHEW 5:8 MSG
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ow is your soul doing? What is going on in your inner world?
We are so much deeper, wider, and multifaceted than what the eye can see. For some of us, fashion and make-up and pedicures can be a fun way to express our own unique style and flair! Yet, ponder how much time and money we invest on our improving what is on the inside. Caring how we appear to the world is not a ‘bad’ thing, but do we ever take a
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look at what is on our inside and invest in our own soul health? Our soul is made up of our mind, will, emotions, thoughts, attitudes, our character, and even our moral makeup—in other words, our inner world. The purpose for these next three chapters, She Releases, She Trusts, and She Cries is to support you in navigating the negative emotions of anger, fear and sadness. These three common emotions are often ‘stuffed’ and handled in unhealthy ways that can affect us for
years to come—and even our physical health over time. The culture we live in and even our family culture often may not model or teach us how to handle our emotions in a healthy way. Entire books have been written on each of these subjects! We hope to plant seeds of truth in your mind and heart and share some helpful tips along your journey to becoming ever more emotionally and mentally healthy, strong, and thriving!
Your Emotional Health Matters!
Did you know that your ability to connect with God is directly impacted by your emotional health? If we are in the depths of depression, filled with steaming rage, feeling bitter with unforgiveness, or paralyzed by fear, our spiritual life will be impacted. We can try to comfort ourselves through ways such as eating, porn, shopping, social media, getting good grades, drinking, drugs, sex, gaming, and even work—to escape and distract ourselves for the moment. God cares so deeply about your health—body, mind, soul, and spirit—your entire being! IT'S OK TO GET HELP! If you feel you need additional support, for starters, you can go for counseling and/or to a reputable prayer ministry in addition to spending time with God and meditating on His Word.
ACTIVITY: Reflect on the following questions and rate yourself from 1 to 10 (1 being poor, 10 being excellent) on your emotional health in the areas of your mind, will, and emotions: MIND:
How has your thought life been about yourself, others, your circumstances?
Do you tend to have positive and hopeful thoughts or do you find yourself stewing in negative and cynical thoughts?
WILL:
How have you been managing the virtue of self-control?
Are you a pushover where you have little boundaries and can’t say no? Are you a control freak?
Have you been trusting God and seeking godly direction, or taking things into your own hands? Have you been making good and wise choices? EMOTIONS:
Do you find yourself on an emotional roller coaster? Are you stuffing your emotions?
Do you feel peaceful and content overall?
Are you even aware of your emotions and avoid ‘going there?’
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