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HOW TO MAKE A GUY LIKE
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Glossy lips and uber-hotness might get you a guy’s attention, but when it comes to the hit- by- the- truck feeling (in a good way) there are less obvious factors that play around the part. Guys tend to have deep seated fears about commitment that might stop them from pursuing a woman any further and so they are instantly attracted to her who has personality traits that put away the fear in him. Now here are some tantalizing traits in a woman, such that the only thing your ideal man has to be afraid of is falling in love with you too fast. Ignore Him
By Shalini Jena
After Five Minutes
You have just met this implausible awesome guy who doesn’t have that vexing ego that others bother you with. At this time, you start showering your attention to him and eventually scaring him a bit. Don’t be deceived by his everlasting smile please! You are better than that. So what is the smarter move? Don’t act impressed. Now doing this you not only assure him of not pressurising him, but also makes you slightly out of reach. PAY AS MUCH ATTENTION TO HIM AS OTHERS AROUND YOU. Now if he tells you that he is from oxford or has won the Grand Slam (you are so lucky!) don’t start wowing or raising big eyebrows. Play it cool, maintaining a low key tone and ask him questions like, ‘So, why did you decide to go there if you had to come back after all?’ This triggers his competitive instincts.
Be Comfortable With What You Are Trust me! You might be the hottest chic he has ever met, but if you are uncomfortable in your skin, with your body or style I mean, then it can be big time turn off! Your confidence and sensuality will hold him off from using that who-is-your-daddy-look but also give him an eye that you are no less dominating than him. If someone told you little games like playing with strands of your hair, or brushing fingers on your collarbone doesn’t work, then they are wrong. It totally does!
Talk About Your Passion Now let me tell you this. You don’t make any impression by showing something that you are not. Or by never letting him know what you exactly are. So, the moment you start talking, start with you what you love. At the first go he must know that you are not a woman who he calls up to ask ‘wassupsweety’ and gets the reply, ‘as usual.. Bored..’. If there is something you love so much that you can miss your best friend’s wedding for that. Then don’t hesitate, just spill it out. Guys love passionate women and yes, you don’t have to invent new mania for that. Let us say you like to cook a lot these days, or watching classic movies for a change or just love playing It Girlon facebook, then just tell him. So you see, he takes you as a girl who loves to have fun and do interesting things every weekend which keeps the dopamine flowing.
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Show Off Your Blithe Attitude You don’t want to go on a few dates and end up ignored or avoided, right? Well, you see, guys go gaga over fun loving girls who smile a lot, but they are also afraid that the second the commit to the girl, they turn into one of those bickering couples. SENSE OF HUMOUR WITH PLAYFUL ATTITUDE is important! Even if you don’t have a humour sense, no worries, just don’t give him the serious come-get-me-I-will-break-jaws-look. They would like a girl who laughs easily and appreciates common sense. It gives them the impression that you have a positive spirit around you. Lets say, you spill the juice over your lap while getting up for washroom. No need to freeze and avoid his gaze, look into his eyes and just laugh it off.