ISSUE 10 JULY 2025

East Grinstead Town Crier Issue 10, July 2025

Serving the communities of East Grinstead, Forest Row, Lingfield.

Crawley Down and the neighbouring areas

The Town Crier Let’s thrive!

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Welcome to the June 2025 Issue of the Town Crier !

The cover photograph of East Grinstead’s famous Bluebell Railway is by our resident genius with a camera, East Grinstead photographer, Russell Prain.

Find him on Instagram.

In this Issue

Here is issue 10 of the Town Crier for the communities of the East Grinstead area.

East Grinstead Women’s SHARE page 3 Forest Row Repair Café page 4 Meridian FM page 4

I sincerely hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed putting it together..

The Poetry Page page 5 Portland Vets page 6

If you are a charity or any form of not-for-profit group, club or enterprise you will not be charged for being promoted in this magazine.

Holidays in France page 7 East Grinstead Community Bonfire page 9

If you are a small local business you can have one advertorial feature equivalent to a full page of advertising free of charge so as to make yourself known to our readers.

Talk to Us - Community First Responders page 10 Find Stillness in the Heart of Summer page 11 Sun, Skincare and Social Bonds page 12

In addition to the above, if you are a local small business, we now provide a limited amount of space for you to advertise at very reasonable rates which you can find here.

How Can We Help? Page 17 EGTC presents East Court Live page 18 Claridge House page 19

To view policies and prices in more detail, go to the website here

Witches’ Marks and Warming Pans page 20 Crawley Down Ladies’ Choir page 22

The door is now wide open for your submissions for the August issue. Here’s a rough guide to the type of features we are looking for: •

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East Grinstead Jazz Festival page 22 Christians Against Poverty page 23

Information, news, updates, announcements about your club, society, charity, good cause, art, event, community activity, show, service or small local business.

Promote yourself as an artist (photographer, painter, sculptor, band, musician, composer, film-maker, cartoonist etc.)

Healthy wholesome organic recipes.

Humour and satire Poetry and verse Book and film reviews Health tips and life hacks Commended and Recommended - sing the praises of someone who has provided an exemplary product or service.

And I’m sure there are many other topics I haven’t thought of so be daring, be creative! Get in touch.

The Rule of Seven page 24 EG in Bloom Garden Competition page 24 Eaterie of the Month - The Goat page 25 Summer Maths Adventures page 26 Dear Editor . . , page 26 The Lingfield Farmers’ Market page 27 Gill Bustamante’s Column page 28 Taylor-Made Dreams page 29 Magma Fire Pits page 30 How to Basically page 31 Recipe of the Month page 32

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When & Where?

East Grinstead Women's S.H.A.R.E. is a free weekly support group for women, over 18, a place to breathe, relax and feel heard.

Evening Meeting: Once a week during term time, re-starting on Thursday 11th September 7pm-8.30pm upstairs at the Dorset Arms (excluding 2nd Oct/ 6th If life feels heavy, or you're looking for friendship and Nov)- our thanks to Darren! understanding faces, we'd love to welcome you just as you are. Always free. Always for women.

Daytime Meeting (with Crèche!): DUE SOON once a week during school term: perfect What We Are for mums and carers with little ones. Your child is We're a small, friendly group of local women who lovingly looked after so you can focus on you. meet weekly to share life's ups and downs, with trained and experienced group members, in a VOLUNTEERS with experience are needed for extra confidential & safe environment.

Leaders and volunteer creche workers whilst awaiting funding. Please e-mail if interested.

No judgement. No pressure. Just listening, laughing, learning & some tears.

Our Values-S.H.A.R.E. Support Whether you're struggling with on-going stress, a Heal carer, new to the area, lonely or isolated, you have a Affirm place here.

Respect Empower

Worried about coming alone?

We get it. Many of us were nervous before our first time too. That's why we offer:

Every woman deserves to feel safe, valued and strong and we'll walk with you until you do.

A friendly "hello" over a cuppa before your first meeting

Thinking of Coming? Just come along!

Thinking of volunteering or nervous about attending? Let's Chat First! Email: EGwomensshare@outlook.com;

A gentle welcome from a trained volunteer who'll sit with you

We begin with simple relaxation techniques then take Facebook: East Grinstead Women's SHARE time to talk (or just listen) about what's on your mind.

Website coming soon! You are not alone! And you are truly welcome here Helpful themes are covered once a month and in workshops we deal with life's problems and solutions, Our fund-raising Music Quizz on 5th September has or whatever is on your mind that week. been postponed. Our apologies.

The choice to speak- or just listen is yours.

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What Do You Want From Your Local Radio?

At Meridian FM – your local, non-profit radio station – we’re on a mission to make radio better for everyone in our community. But to do that, we need your help.

Whether you tune in every day or haven’t yet discovered us, we want to hear from you! What would you like to hear more of? What matters to you? How can we serve your interests better?

Our quick, anonymous survey takes just 2 minutes – and as a thank you, you’ll be entered into a prize draw to win lunch at Bench in East Grinstead!

Visit https://meridianfm.com/survey. Or use the QR Code opposite.

Help shape your local radio – have your say today!

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The Poetry Page

This month we feature four Haiku by local poet Gary Byrne I Born near Cambridge, England, Gary worked on local farms to pay for his early travels.

Temples and blossoms Mothers in kimonos The sound of laughing children

Studying languages, acting in theatre and playing all sports were early passions.

II Broadway’s icy wind late night walks and neon lights Chrysler’s eerie glow

Travel followed. His father, Peter, ignited this latter passion after many happy caravan holidays in all corners of the UK, particularly the Celtic areas of Scotland, Wales and Cornwall.

III Long hot days of sun Naked fresh water swimming Crayfish and vodka

Nearly fifty years later those travels have extended to all four corners of the globe.

Once asked what his most treasured possession was, as someone who didn’t let the moss grow under his feet, he replied: “my address book!”

IV Crisp clear morning skies Bonfires and fireworks Leaves of red and gold

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Are you going to France for your holidays?

• For any emergency, you can call 112 free from any mobile phone. This is a EU-wide number to contact the police, firefighters, ambulance, etc. But not UberEat… A lot of businesses and shops close down for up to a month, except in tourist areas, so wherever you drive through you might not find what you need, so think ahead of what you want to have in the car before setting off.

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• Learn a few words of French. Saying Bonjour, Merci, Au revoir, goes a long way to ingratiate you with the locals. Teach your children, there’s nothing as heart warming as a little cutie making the effort to speak the local language.

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Don’t forget to pack plug adaptors.

• Try and work out the things you won’t find easily in France and that you will need and make sure to bring them with you.

• There have been major fires raging in the South, and various areas are being marked as presenting risk of further fires. This is due to human negligence and very hot, dry conditions; check whether the region you are about to visit is on the list of those regions that could victims of fires.

As you probably know, the French desert the towns and cities to go to the seaside, the mountains or the countryside during the summer holidays.

People take a whole month off either in July or August. Yes, it is usual, and it means a real break from it all.

• But most of all… Don’t forget to enjoy yourself! Bonnes vacances!

But if you didn’t know about it, you might get a few surprises, good or bad, on the way so before you head off to the ferry or the Tunnel, here are a few things to think about and take into account: • Because of such a rush to go on holiday, the motorways can end up extremely busy, nightmarish actually, so avoid going by car on weekends if you can and check what the traffic will be like wherever you are driving ahead of time. You can go on the Bison Futé (clever bison) Website and check the predictions to avoid being stuck in traffic jams. The address is https://www.bison-fute.gouv.fr. There will be other ways to check of course.

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• Make sure to have plenty of water with you in the car, as well as some food.

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Have your route well mapped.

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Talk to Us: Sometimes the Most Vital Response Is a Listening Ear witness behind closed doors, the times when even our best efforts and those of the ambulance crew wasn’t enough.

When people think of anyone that’s part of the ambulance service they often picture flashing lights, CPR in progress, or defibrillators saving It can stay with you. And like many volunteers lives. And yes, those moments happen; they’re the and emergency service colleagues, there’s a risk ones that grab headlines. of bottling it up. After all, we signed up to help, right?

But truthfully? A lot of what we do as Community First Responders (CFR’s) is simply being there.

But being strong doesn’t mean staying silent. In Listening. Reassuring until an ambulance arrives. fact, knowing when you need to talk is one of the wisest, most powerful things you can do for yourAnd that’s why July’s "Talk to Us" Month, led self and the people you serve.

by Samaritans, resonates so deeply.

That’s where initiatives like "Talk to Us" Their message is beautifully simple: whatever Month become so, not just for the public, but for you’re going through, a conversation can change responders too. everything. Sometimes, just being heard is the lifeline someone needs most.

They remind us that we’re all allowed to feel. That it’s okay to say, “That call got to me.” And that First Responders: The Calm in the Chaos reaching out isn’t weakness, it’s self-care.

As CFRs, we’re trained in life-saving Everyone Can Be a Listener, Including You interventions but we’re also taught something even more powerful: how to be calm and present One of the best ways you can support CFRs - and in someone else’s crisis. each other - is to create a culture of compassionate listening. That means: Whether we’re attending someone who’s confused, frightened, grieving, or alone, our role is • Asking, “How are you really doing?” and often to simply be that first reassuring face. The meaning it. one who listens without judgement. Who offers • Letting someone speak without rushing to compassion without needing all the answers. fix.

It might be someone who’s seen a loved one be injured or who is ill. Or a parent frightened by • Noticing when someone’s quieter than their child’s breathing. Or an elderly person usual and checking in. struggling with chest pain due to loneliness and • Understanding that behind every uniform anxiety. is a human being, carrying unseen stories.

We can’t always fix what’s happening. But It might seem small, but these actions make a we can offer a hand to hold, a steady presence, massive difference. and a voice that says, “I’m here, and you’re not alone.”

From Listening to Lifting Each Other Up That kind of support? It’s not just medical, it’s If you’ve read this far, here’s the one deeply human. takeaway: empathy saves people too.

We Talk With People but We Also Need to You don’t need a defib to make an impact. Just a Talk Ourselves bit of time. A kind word. A willingness to connect.

While we’re often there for others, we’re still human ourselves.

We carry what we’ve seen, sometimes for longer than we expect. The traumatic calls, the things we

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Community First Responders - continued from previous page

Your local responders. Your neighbours. Your friends.

And if you are someone who’s struggling right now, whether you wear a uniform or not, know that there is ALWAYS someone on hand to listen :

We’re all human. We all carry things.

And we all need a safe space to talk sometimes.

Let’s build a community where listening is normal, compassion is visible, and no one feels Samaritans are available 24/7 on 116 123. The they have to go it alone. call is FREE, it’s confidential and they really Because the strongest communities are the ones want to talk to you. that truly care.

Behind the Uniform Sam – Community First Responder & Health and So this July, as we mark “Talk to Us” Month, Wellness Coach, proud to serve East Grinstead please take a moment to think about the people and the surrounding area. behind the scenes.

The Breathing Room

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Finding Stillness in the Height of Summer July holds nothing back. The sun is high, the days are long, and everything seems to stretch out in full bloom and intensity. There’s a sense of abundance in the air — holidays, plans, energy, colour, noise.

by Judith Rayner

And yet, in the midst of it all, I feel and keep hearing this from clients: “I thought summer would feel Inhale slowly through your nose and exhale gently through pursed lips — like blowing out through a lighter… but I’m still exhausted.” Or “there’s no space just for me…I’m in demand ALL the time”. straw.

Do this a few times and notice your shoulders lower and your mind clearing.

Recognise this?

It’s easy to feel that we should be making the most of every minute — soaking up the sun, ticking off This simple breath calms the nervous system and helps cool and quiet the body. to-do lists, showing up for everyone and everything. But summer has its own intensity, and even joy can be overstimulating when we don’t take time Stillness doesn’t mean doing nothing. It means being present. When we allow ourselves to slow to pause. down, we start to feel again — to notice what we need, to enjoy what’s already here.

What if you didn’t need to keep up with the season’s pace?

If you’re craving more space this summer — to reWhat if you let it soften you instead? group, reflect, or realign — I offer 1:1 breathwork and coaching to support you. It’s not about pushing Try this next time the day feels full, or your through. It’s about coming home to yourself, even thoughts are racing… in the height of the noise.

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Well Healthy

Helping you live a freer, healthier life

This month, Samantha Ford of Unique Welllth presents:

Sun, Self-Care & Social Bonds

Why July’s Wellness Message Matters More Than Ever This month is packed with themes that speak to your health in different ways, from protecting your body and mind through self-care, to soaking up sunshine safely, to leaning into friendships that truly buffer us against the pressures of modern life.

Whether you’re thriving, surviving or somewhere in between, July invites you to slow down, check in, and ask yourself: What do I actually need right now?

again. But it also brings real risks, especially when we’re caught up in the moment.

As someone who volunteers with the ambulance service as a Community First Responder, I’ve seen the harsh side of sun exposure from dehydration in vulnerable people to severe sunburn in adults and children at outdoor events.

I touched on this in May’s article about the impact responders can have before emergencies become Let’s explore three key themes that tie together in a critical and UV safety is a perfect example of how prevention really is better than cure. Check out the surprisingly powerful way. article for more info but some quick reminders Self-Care Month (24 June–24 July) . Your Body include: is Calling, Are You Listening?

• Slip on a shirt or protective clothing Self-care isn't just a bubble bath, it's a boundary.

• Slap on a hat to shade your face, ears and It’s noticing when you’re running on empty, and neck choosing to refuel, before the crash. Yet too many • Slop on sunscreen (SPF 30+ and reapply of us wait for the warning lights; exhaustion, every two hours) irritability, disrupted sleep, before we pay • Seek shade during peak sun hours (11am– attention.

3pm) • Slide on sunglasses with UV protection That’s why I created the 10-Day Self-Care Experience, a simple, real-world way to build micro moments of recovery into your day, without guilt, It’s simple stuff, but consistent selfcare is prevention in action. or, worse still, overwhelm.

You’ll be guided through 10 days of small, smart actions that restore energy, calm your nervous system, and build habits you can actually keep.

Think of it as a daily reset button for your wellbeing now and beyond,

International Day of Friendship (30 July). Connection is the Real Superpower Last month, I explored the silent toll that loneliness takes on health, particularly in men who are “holding it all together” on the outside while feeling disconnected underneath.

The next experience unlocks on Sunday 26th July, places are limited so be sure to secure yours.

This month, Friendship Day reminds us of the If you've been feeling “not bad, but not great antidote. either” or just “ok”, this is your gentle nudge to • A walk with a friend. start prioritising you again, experiment and explore what works for you.

• A text that says “thinking of you.”

• Showing up for someone who didn’t ask but UV Safety Month — Your Skin Can’t Speak, clearly needs it.

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Wellhealthy contined from previous page These moments don’t just feel good, they support our nervous system, reduce stress hormones, and improve long-term health outcomes. Friendship is medicine.

experience, send that message you’ve been putting off, or pack a sunhat in your bag, know that these tiny acts add up.

You don’t need to overhaul your life to start feeling better. Just start with one thing. Then another.

And if you need a guide along the way, I’m here.

If you read last month’s article, you’ll see the threads connecting: how loneliness, stress and coping in silence erode wellbeing. Now, July brings a shift: a focus on restoring, protecting, reconnecting.

For twice monthly health and wellness related updates direct to your inbox, join the Thriving Whether it's sunscreen, boundaries, or bonding Times community: https:// over a cuppa — wellbeing thrives on small actions www.uniquewellth.coach/newsletters taken often. And when you start tuning in, you’ll notice the themes repeat: Samantha – Certified Health & • Prevention is always better.

Wellness Coach • Connection can heal what isolation has Helping you harmed. decode stress and • Energy needs restoring, just like your reclaim your phone battery. energy, focus & • And remember that you don’t have to do it joy. alone.

So this July, whether you try the 10-day self-care

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We've been excitedly planning our Open Day, making sure we’re ready to welcome you all to Claridge House on the 19th July so please put the date in your diaries.

Want to dip your toe in first? We offer half day and full day courses too:

Here is a snippet of what to expect at our Open Day: Talks: Introduction to Buddhism, Understanding Alexander Technique, Simple Eco Tips for All, A Quaker Q&A and a talk by The Healing Garden from West Hoathly.

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Water colour Half Day Course – 5th August Shamanic Workshop – 16th August Mindfulness Through Expressive Drawing Afternoon – 2nd September Introduction to Buddhism (6 week course every Wednesday evening starting 3rd September)

Short Workshops: Tai Chi, Meditation, Sound Healing, Yoga, Mindfulness Through Expressive Drawing and more!

Mini Treatments: Reiki treatments and Massages Refreshments: A chance to sample our famous vegetarian home-cooking, our usual teas, coffees and cakes and delicious sweet & savoury afternoon tea boxes.

Activities and stalls: Lawn games, kids corner, shop, food and more!

So if you’ve ever wanted to find out about your local wellbeing retreat centre, now’s the time!

All are welcome. Entry will be free, but any donations will be gratefully received and will go straight into our Bursary Fund.

So, now that Summer has well and truly appeared, you may be thinking about your holidays? I've always thought that there's no better place to be than the UK in the Summer months.

Why go abroad when you can enjoy a staycation and experience the very best that Britain has to offer during this (hopefully) glorious season? Why not take this opportunity to experience the feeling of true rest and renewal? Claridge House doesn't just offer a break from the world, it's a chance to return to yourself and reconnect.

From Yoga, Mindfulness, Qi Gong, Sound Healing, Calligraphy and all things wellbeing, visit our website for more information on all the courses and retreats we offer.

Website: www.claridgehouse.org.uk Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ ClaridgeHouseRetreat/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ claridgehouseretreats/

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Witches’ Marks and Warming Pans Town Crier columnist Alison Earnshaw visits ‘The Priest House’ and ‘St Margaret’s Church’ in the Sussex village of West Hoathly.

I can’t quite recall the exact circumstances of first spotting ‘The Priest House’. It’s a little off the beaten track and we were either looking for the pub or had taken a wrong turn… either or both are very possible!

kitchen, again intended to repel anything untoward!

There was more headroom in the house than I’d expected. Antony pointed out where the floor level had originally been, quite a bit higher than it is today.

After navigating the narrow staircase, the two upper rooms contained displays of domestic items and exhibits from across the broad sweep of centuries. An My first serendipitous glimpse from the car window item of particular significance is ‘The Suffragette was of a well-established hedge complete with Handkerchief’, embroidered with the signatures of topiary. Lichened roof-tile slabs were visible behind more than sixty women imprisoned in HMP this, similar to those on the oldest buildings in East Holloway in 1912.

Grinstead High Street. Slowing down for a closer inspection, we saw a list of opening times and prices I always wonder just how incredibly cold it must on the gate of this beautiful Sussex dwelling so were have been in old houses such as this. Even with pleased to discover we’d be able to explore further roaring fires in the hearths of the well-to-do of the time I can only imagine the drafts and chills on a future occasion. throughout a bitter Winter! One historic solution on Returning to West Hoathly a month or two later, the display was in the form of a strange contraption Sussex hedgerows were in full green leaf, the narwhich appeared somewhat alarming in today’s row winding roads lined with wildflowers. No climate of Health & Safety. A large iron frame, it parking at ‘The Priest House’ itself but we found a was designed to hold hot embers suspended over the spot a bit further on and made our way back on foot bed, a risky looking alternative to today’s heated past several other beautiful old houses in the pretty blanket or hot water bottle. The beautiful copper village. warming pans also on display were a later innovation; very welcome I should imagine!

‘The Priest House’ has been a museum for over a century and was first gifted to The Sussex Royal Exiting through the enchantingly traditional Sussex Archaeological Society in 1935. We were welcomed country garden with its herbs, ferns and rambling by resident custodian Antony who was the ideal roses we then popped into St Margaret’s Church and guide, knowledgeable and informative about every grounds, located just across the road. The oldest aspect of the six-hundred-year-old property. Past parts of this lovely church date from Norman times owners include Henry VIII, Thomas Cromwell, over nine hundred years ago. Swifts return to nest Anne of Cleves, Mary I and Elizabeth I; quite a roll each year in its ancient tower which contains six call! Antony was available to answer specific bells, the oldest dating from the reign of Elizabeth I. questions about the house, discuss the historic A stroll through the surrounding graveyard led us to background to the property’s life and times and was a spectacular view across the High Weald Area of also happy for visitors to the house he clearly loves Outstanding Natural Beauty and on the clear day of to make their own self-guided tour of the four rooms our visit we could see as far as the South Downs. on display, packed to their ancient rafters with Utter peace and quiet with just a drowsy hum of artefacts from Tudor times to Victorian. bees and rustle of grasses.

Our delve into the house’s secrets began at the Our exploration of the house and church were such a threshold of the front door which is embedded with fascinating and enjoyable way to spend a couple of iron nails and filings. Such additions to a doorstep hours. There’s a ‘Vintage Tea Party’ at ‘The Priest were once believed to bar entry to any passing House’ scheduled for Sunday 8th August from 2.30 witches, demons or even dragons; Antony informed p.m. with tea and cake to accompany your visit and us that the last alleged dragon sighting in Sussex raise funds in support of this historic gem of a was in 1614… who knew! Having crossed the building. Antony and ‘The Priest House’ would be threshold (with no impediment to our progress, I’m delighted to see you! pleased to report) we spotted Witches’ Marks etched into the beam over the hearth in what was once the Continued on next page 20

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Crawley Down Ladies Choir - Update Crawley Down Ladies Choir is on a well earned Summer break, returning for the new term on September 8th which incidentally will also be our “Come and Sing” evening.

This is an open evening at which anyone with a love of singing can come and sing with us. Why not come along to The Haven Centre, Crawley Down at 7.15pm, try us out and perhaps even join us. There is ample parking onsite.

We are always happy to welcome new members, either alto or soprano voices. We sing a broad range of music, from folk to pop, from traditional to musicals and even carols when appropriate. You do not need to read music - several of our members don’t and there is no formal audition with the main qualification purely and simply being a love of singing.

You will also find our stall at the Crawley Down Fayre which is taking place this year on Saturday September 6th. We will have examples of our sheet music to peruse in folders, information available about us and this offers you the opportunity to ask questions and meet some of us too. We do hope to see you there.

Meantime lets hope the recent good weather continues although perhaps not the heatwave.

As a song some may remember goes “See you in September”?

WEBSITE CONTACT

Find full details, download a festival programme and buy tickets at the East Grinstead Jazz Festival website

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Six top tips for budget-conscious parents during the school holidays The long summer school holidays can seem like a daunting prospect for many parents. At Christians Against Poverty (CAP), we understand the financial pressures parents face in finding cheap activities for with the kids and divvy out small tasks using a chore the kids to do over the summer, and so we have wheel to keep it fair and varied. You could even some money saving tips to help you. offer fun incentives such as a sticker reward chart or special activities for later.

1. Create an action plan

6. Do some baking

Avoid the stress of not knowing what to do with the kids by drawing up an action plan. Having a summer Why not have some fun with the kids and get them programme of planned activities will help you work involved with baking and cooking together? It can out how much you’ll need, enabling you to enjoy be a fantastic learning opportunity and doesn’t have each activity with the children knowing that you can to be an expensive activity – find budget-friendly afford it. So why not brainstorm some ideas of recipes online to show children how to cook potential activities, set up a flexible schedule and economically, with the added bonus of having some work out a budget for the holidays? food prepared for when they’re hungry. (They might also be more inclined to eat it if they’ve made it!)

2. Make use of free activities

Worried About Debt or Financial Difficulties?

Local churches often organise free holiday clubs so the children can enjoy the fun activities and get the chance to make new friends, and you’ll be able to have a few hours to yourself. You could also check out your council website and Facebook community groups that advertise free summer activities for children.

Help is available. Visit capuk.org/help to find out more, or get in touch with your local Debt Coach for a friendly, informal chat: fionastraszynski@capuk.org.

3. Be weather-ready

The East Grinstead CAP Debt Centre supports East Grinstead and all surrounding villages, offering free, confidential, face-to-face debt help.

From play parks to beaches, there are many free activities to do with the kids outside, and bad weather doesn’t have to spoil your plans. Gear up You’re not alone. We’re here to help. for all weathers ahead of time so that if you’re caught out by a sudden downpour you don’t have to find an expensive indoor activity to do instead.

“The budget CAP set for me gave me a 4. Have a sort out plan of attack for managing my money in Make the most out of kids' play spaces for the the future. Now instead of spiralling summer ahead, and get the children involved in down, I’m spiralling up! “ decluttering their bedrooms – they may even discover some toys that they’d forgotten about Pete, outdoor enthusiast, now debt free which will save on buying new ones. You could even sell any unwanted items for a little extra summer spending money.

5. Set helpful tasks Including the kids in some of the household chores might not sound that exciting, but you’d be surprised how much fun you can have from getting everyone involved to help out – it takes the pressure off you and also teaches them some valuable skills. Try planning a set time of day to do a little housework 23

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The Rule of 7 in Small Business Marketing Monthly Marketing Tips by Alice Watkyn of Mouthy Marketing

But the truth is that most of your audience will have missed it the first time — or even the second.

Or they saw it, meant to come back, and didn’t.

Think you're annoying people by marketing too often? In reality, you’re probably not saying enough.

The Rule of 7 is a classic idea in marketing that still holds up. It means someone needs to come across your message at least seven times before they act. That might sound like a lot, but think about how many times you’ve needed a few reminders before you bought something, booked a service, or made a decision. It’s not pushy — it’s just how attention works.

Marketing once or twice doesn’t build trust or familiarity and it doesn’t help people remember what you do. But steady, repeated communication does.

You’re not pestering people by sending a follow-up, writing another post, or mentioning your services more than once. You’re giving them another chance to remember you and act when they’re ready.

If you wait until you feel “fresh” every time, you’ll stay invisible.

People are busy. They see dozens of messages a day and forget most of them. Even if they like what Keep saying the same thing, clearly and you offer, they’re not going to jump on it the first time they hear about it. They need time, they need consistently. That’s what works. reminders and they need repetition.

Alice Watkyn Small business owners often hold back. One email Mouthy Marketing feels like too much, posting again feels awkward www.mouthymarketing.co.uk and repeating the same offer feels self-indulgent.

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Eaterie of the Month

The Goat

Situated on the East Grinstead High Street just across the road from the Dorset Arms pub is a café serving breakfast, lunch and dinner. It also does takeaway and has a fully licensed bar, plus an outside terrace and accommodation (see Gothic House) My wife and I decided to use Saturday lunchtime to sample what The Goat has to offer and I have to say we came away mightily impressed and very well fed!

The first thing that impressed us was the menu for some beautifully created teas, two of which we had and found them delicious. I was so impressed I though the tea menu was worth sharing with you so here is my photo of it.

The main menu was highly creative with some excellent and well thought out dishes. My wife chose Turkish style eggs (“Goat Special Eggs”) and I had the Full English breakfast, both from the Breakfast Menu.

Both dishes were superb and the Full English was also HUGE as well as perfectly cooked. The photos I took don’t really do them justice. We both felt that we got top value for our money, the two teas and two meals costing just £30 in total.

The ambience itself was clean and spacious, the atmosphere relaxed and the staff attentive, pleasant and friendly.

We came away very satisfied with our experience and have no hesitation in strongly recommending The Goat to readers of the Town Crier.

We will certainly be going again.

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Summer Maths Adventures Maths tutor, Helen Chisholm’s monthly column gives valuable tips on how to excel, or help your children excel at maths.

As the summer holidays approach, many families are ready for a well-earned break. But Give them a small spending allowance and let them decide how to use it. Estimate the cost of meals, while school stops, learning doesn’t have to and tickets, or souvenirs. Encourage older children to maths can travel with you in the most unexpected plan a day’s activities within a budget; it’s great ways! preparation for adulthood and builds financial Road Trip Maths: Maps, Distances & Travel fluency.

Times These kinds of everyday maths moments are often the most powerful. They show children that maths is Planning a journey? Involve your child in working not just something you do in a classroom, it’s a life out routes, distances, and timings. “If we leave at skill that helps us make smart choices, solve 10:30 and the journey is 2 hours and 15 minutes, problems and feel in control. what time will we arrive?” or “How far is it between these two towns on the map?”

Over the summer, I’ll continue offering relaxed, engaging maths tuition to keep skills sharp and These little questions build real-life problem-solving confidence high. skills and make maths feel purposeful. Even using sat-navs or road signs offers chances to talk about Whether your child is preparing for a new school speed, time, and estimation. year or just needs a little boost, now is the perfect time to keep their mathematical brain ticking.

Holiday Budgeting: Estimating Costs & Managing Money Wishing you all a summer full of sunshine, smiles, and a little holiday maths magic along the way!

Trips away or even days out are perfect opportunities to get children thinking about value For more information, contact me at and budgeting. makingitcountmathstuition@gmail.com

Dear Editor . . .

do to help the bees and other insects flourish:

Always make I was inspired by Steve Ody’s article in the June sure you have a Town Crier entitled “Bee Friendly East Grinstead is section of your Buzzing.” garden or allotment given over As Cllr Ody so eloquently pointed out bees are to borage and/or essentially allies in our pursuit of survival. Indeed lavender. we would be wise to regard all of nature as our ally and not some sort of foe to be crushed. The latter Our insect folly has for too long driven unethical or even crim- friends love inal elements of the food industry to wreak tremen- them and their presence fills your space with life. dous damage to our biosphere.

I am sure there are other plants equally as beeSo all efforts to supplant such destructive behaviour friendly and perhaps your readers could write in with ethical practices should be encouraged. Our and suggest some they have found helpful. survival and that of our children depends upon it.

Let’s work together to help our planet thrive!

Apart from obvious common-sense practices such as refusing to contaminate our gardens, allotments EDITOR’S NOTE: Email your letter to and so forth with poisons such as glyphosate, here egtowncrier@gmail.com is a simple thing any gardener or allotmenteer can 26

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Community Spirit, Fresh Produce, Local Charm The Lingfield Farmers’ Market Are you looking for a delightful way to spend your Sunday morning?

Why not pop over to the Lingfield Farmers’ Market, which is held every second Sunday of the month at Lingfield Primary School, right in the heart of our charming Tudor village?

The next market is Sunday 10th August, from 9 am to 1pm, and it’s the perfect opportunity to soak in the vibrant, friendly atmosphere that feels like a slice of rural France.

Regular stallholders, many of whom know their customers by name, offer not just incredible local produce, but a sense of community too. It’s shopping the old-fashioned way – with conversation, connection, and care.

You’ll find all the essentials and plenty of treats: • • • • • • • •

Freshly baked bread and artisan cheese A top-quality butcher Local honey, seasonal fruit and vegetables Jams, chutneys, and zingy chilli sauces Homemade cookies and cupcakes Flowers, plants and bulbs A welcoming coffee stall Bacon and sausage rolls – perfect for breakfast on the go and much more !!

There’s space to sit and enjoy a hot drink and bite to eat while catching up with neighbours, friends, and family. Whether you’re shopping or just relaxing, the market makes for a lovely Sunday outing.

Location: Lingfield Primary School playground Please note: As it’s a school site, dogs are not permitted.

Volunteers Needed!

We’re always looking for friendly faces to help with the gates and car park. If you can lend a hand, we’ll say thank you with a free hot drink and pastry or breakfast roll! Just drop us a message if you’re interested. lingfieldfarmers@gmail.com or on Facebook @lingfieldfarmersmarket Come along and support your local community – we’d love to see you there 27

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In this monthly column, Forest Row’s renowned artist Gill Bustamante, shares some of her hard-won knowhow with all you budding artists out there.

A word from an artist on buying art!

by Town Crier columnist, Gill Bustamante art around by accredited artists!).

The internet has made buying art accessible to anyone. No longer does a brave potential buyer have Instead, buy art from living artists that you love to go to an art gallery where the silence of being regardless of whether the artist is a ‘name’ or observed by the gallery staff can be intimidating and whether some expert says you should or not. where the choice of art is limited to what the gallery (Personally, I still sometimes get labelled as an owner endorses. They can simply buy art from their 'emerging' artist online even though I emerged in the home online.

60's and feel pretty much fully formed thank you).

One of the falsities that have fallen away due to art becoming more accessible to all is what you should buy. Evaluations about whether the artist is ‘collectable’ or not or whether they are ‘any good’.

Art snobbery can be left to art dealers and people investing in art that they might not even like. The rest of us want art that thrills us and will continue to make us happy for years to come whenever we look at it!

A final tip is that most artists have their own websites. If you see a piece of art that you like in an online gallery (of which there are thousands) – do a search for the artist's name and find their own website where you will probably find the prices better and will ensure the artist gets to keep more profit!

Painting is called The Final Gift of Summer inspired by a walk in August near Lewes area.

The point I’d like to make is do not be fooled by people who tell you what you should like. Just Gill Bustamante - Artist gillbustamante.com because an artist is dead or ‘accredited by an expert’ doesn’t mean it is good art (there is plenty of awful

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Run for TMD – Royal Parks Half Marathon This year we have 50 places for the Royal Parks Half Marathon, and what better time to sign up and train than with sun shining.

We have had an amazing three years as a charity at the Royal Parks Half Marathon; we're hoping this year can be just as good if not better!

Date: Sunday, 12 October 2025 Location: St. James Park, Hyde Park and Kensing- · A cheer point on the day ton Gardens, London · Cheering t-shirts and materials for your family Registration: £25 and friends.

Sponsorship: We ask that our participants raise a minimum of £450 each.

We know that fundraising can be just as challenging as the event, but our team will be on Every TMD event you attend has a significant hand to help. impact on the services we can provide, allowing us to support more families in the South-East.

Alongside your support pack, we’ll be in regular contact with support, advice and ideas and on hand Join Team Taylor-Made Dreams for an amazing for any questions you might have about fundraising event and support services now and in the future or training. for children with life-limiting illnesses and their families.

You can sign up for your charity place by contacting simon@taylormadedreams.org.uk What you’ll get as part of team TMD: · Your own running vest or t-shirt Website: www.taylormadedreams.org.uk · Support from start to finish from all the TMD Team TMD Socials & Events: linktr.ee/thetmdteam · Help with your fundraising

End of Stock Baby Towels for sale!

£5 per towel, £8 for two, mix and match. Good quality cotton.

White with white border, white with blue border or Panda towel.

Free delivery in East Grinstead.area or P&P £3.95 Contact dominique.cook@lineone.net

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Magma Firepits

Introducing the Amazing Art of Andrew Webb East Grinstead’s Andrew Webb is a designer, artist and maker with 20 years of specialist experience using steel, stainless steel, bronze, aluminium, corten, cast concrete and glass.

As well as contemporary firepits (see example right) Andrew makes sculpture and bespoke work such as staircases, furniture and architectural metalwork.

He moved from London about 15 yrs ago into a workshop in Crawley, lives in East Grinstead and is currently making firepits, fabricating sculpture for artists mostly in steel, also making concrete plinths for sculpture.

His work other than fire pits is often concerned with sculptural forms and celebrates the qualities of the material. Andrew prides himself in the quality of the work and on customer satisfaction.

Working in a variety of materials such as steel, stainless steel, aluminium, bronze, in addition to Corten, cast concrete and others, he works with fine artists, sculptors, architects, designers and private clients to deliver high quality fabricated artworks and architectural metalwork. (Pictured right is an example of his work but find many more at the link below) Moreover, he designs and makes contemporary bespoke furniture and related items, ranging from tables in wood and steel, one-off lighting, to custom-made residential doors and most things in between!

As well as making furniture and custom objects for interiors he also makes garden pieces such as benches, rose arbours and sculpture.

Although specialising in steel, he prides himself on having a diverse skill set that enables a vast array of projects to be realised in a variety of materials.

For more information about Andrew and his work, please use the following links Firepits https://www.magmafirepits.co.uk Fabrication for artists https://magmasculpture.co.uk Furniture and metalwork https://magmafurniture.co.uk

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This monthly column is very kindly provided by Justin Kelly of How To Basically.

This month: Pallet woodwork Europe) If you have a coloured pallet you should contact the relevant company for advice on returning it.

Pallet wood is a great, low-cost material that can be repurposed into everything from planters and benches to shelving units and coffee tables. With a bit of know-how and some basic tools, you can transform discarded pallets into practical, eco-friendly projects. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you choose the right pallets, break them down safely, and get building.

Further things to check are: • condition of the wood; avoid cracked, split or overly weathered pallets or ones with oil stains, paint, mould or an odd smell; • is it a block pallet (roughly 9 blocks of wood support the planks) or a stringer pallet (roughly three long pieces of wood support the planks) as with the latter you get some bonus wood!

• size and dimensions of the planks; some planks are quite thin and flimsy vs others are wide and thick; and • how many nails are holding down the planks as any more than two on each end is going to be harder to lever out.

Choosing the Right Pallet

How to Safely Break Down a Pallet Not all pallets are created equal. Picking the right ones is key to both safety and success. Firstly look for the IPPC (International Plant Protection Convention) stamp which is put on any pallet that travels internationally:

Breaking down a pallet is often the hardest part of pallet projects. Do it right to maximise usable timber and minimise injuries. First wear gloves and eye protection as sometimes the nails can fly out. Ideally you get yourself a pallet breaker which will make It has a wheat sheaf logo on the left, then the country your life a lot easier!

and manufacture code on the top right and most Then you’ll need some pliers, a claw hammer and a importantly on the bottom right how it was treated to as long as possible crow bar. give it longevity. The main method is “HT” which stands for Heat Treated and this is good for any Step-by-Step Process: project. If it has “MB” on it don’t use it and don’t burn it as it’s been treated with a toxic chemical 1. Insert the pallet breaker into one end of a plank called methyl bromide. If a pallet has been painted it and lever it back nice and straight. Try to avoid belongs to one of the following pallet rental going off at an angle. If the plank won’t budge companies: then move along to the next place it is resting on, • Red pallets: pool LPR (La Palette Rouge from you can also try coming at it from the other side.

Europe) Gradually lever the plank off the base ideally not • Red pallets: pool PECO (The Pallet Exchange splitting it in the process. Don’t worry if you do Company from the USA) split it as it’s free wood and you can sell/use it as • Blue pallets: pool CHEP (Commonwealth kindling!

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and discard or else bang in the nail and use a 1. Pallet Wood continued from previous page marker pen to highlight the nail so you don’t Once you have the planks off you need to get the inadvertently saw into it later on. nails out. Best to keep some of the plank on the floor (rest it against your foot perhaps) and with 4. If you can’t easily break off the planks of wood the hammer band the end of each nail so it sticks then you could of course use a saw (preferably out proud on the other side. Once you’ve pushed electric!) to simply cut through the wood. You them all out flip the plank over and whilst just won’t get such long pieces. keeping it on the floor use the claw of the hammer to lever them out. Keep the hammer Wood preparation rocking along the wood as opposed to off the Once you have your wood pieces it’s time to sand side. them down. Sand paper has a number on the back which denotes its grit. P40 is the roughest and use2. For stringer pallets some of the nails may be left ful for pallet wood which can be rough, you can in the underlying stringer wood. For these use then move on to a general sandpaper (like P120) for the claw hammer or ideally a long crow bar to a smoother finish. Now you have your wood ready lever them out. Apart from often being rusty to use! and/or bent, generally pallet nails have blunt Good first projects could be a planter, bird box or ends so they’re not easily re-usable; shelf. We run courses at How To Basically’s workshop (10 minutes east of Haywards Heath) so 3. If at any time you break off a nail head or can’t please get in touch if you’re interested. get the nail out, either saw off that bit of wood (www.howtobasically.co.uk).

Recipe of the month Dear Editor I thought that readers of the Town Crier might like this simple recipe for a very healthy, high protein breakfast that sets you up nicely for the day.

I personally do fairly heavy physical work and this breakfast is the best I’ve found so far in terms of supplying me with the fuel I need.

presentation.

Pour in the eggs and gently cook for a few minutes, turning once (best to use a small plate for this, turning the omelette out onto the plate then sliding it back into the pan with the well cooked side uppermost.

First take a ripe avocado, scoop out the soft flesh and mash with a fork adding a tea- Cook for another minute or two then turn out onto your breakfast plate. Then add a dollop spoon of lemon juice. of the mashed avocado. Then eat.

Take two organic eggs plus some grated cheese and grated mushrooms. Put them in a bowl and whisk thoroughly.

You can use whatever quantity or type of cheese and mushrooms you want according to your taste.

A.W.

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Another way to promote your enterprise (whether for-profit or not-for-profit) is to become a columnist for the magazine providing a monthly article that gives people advice and tips from your area of expertise - a great way to promote your competence and good will. In exchange for providing interesting material for our readers and perhaps a small donation you get monthly free advertising. To apply to have a column please email the editor at egtowncrier@gmail.com and we’ll give your proposal fair consideration.

If you are a charity or not-for-profit club, society, association or group, you can promote free of charge. In exchange, if you can contribute a small donation this will be appreciated. Donations are not obligatory but in the interests of fairness, those who have helped with donations will, where need Paid Advertising in the Town Crier In order to avoid becoming just another advertiser arises, be given priority in proportion to their over-filled with ads, we are making only a limited generosity. amount of space available for advertising. This amounts to the equivalent of one page of As we want to avoid the Town Crier becoming advertising for every four pages of articles. It is to just another advertiser in which articles play second-fiddle to advertisements, we ask that where the benefit of advertisers in any case to have a possible you submit an article about your charity, magazine full of content people will want to read without a barrage of advertisements competing for activity, event and so forth that will provide an interesting and engaging read. Such articles can be their attention. any length up to about 600 words and should be Advertising costs are being kept low and amount accompanied where possible with some pictures to the equivalent of roughly £10 or less per week that will help grab attention plus any contact/ website/social media details you would like people for a quarter page ad. Our full pricing structure can be found here to have.

Having said that, we will also do our best to place To give further value for your paid advert, while your announcements, event promo and so forth so you have a paid ad running in the magazine we will not run a paid ad for a competitor selling the please do send them in. same product or service. Where your ad clashes with a free advertorial by a competitor the Best formats for images are JPEG and PNG. advertorial will be placed in a different part of the magazine and every effort made to have your paid Free Promotion for Local Businesses ad appear earlier in the magazine. Our policies If you are a local for-profit operation we will regarding paid advertising are further explained provide one free advertorial-style article per here business. As described above we are looking for something that will engage, inform, inspire or We have also made advertising space available on interest our readers. Length can be up to 600 the Town Crier website. See the details here words, which would give you a full page of free advertising. Please also provide some pictures and The door is also open for you to submit humorous/ full contact/website/social media details. satirical articles, poetry and verse, “how-to” tips Alongside the opportunity for a free advertorial we and advice, interesting/entertaining news and also provide very affordable advertising space (see titbits, recipes etc and if we publish your below). submission you can include a link to the website of your choice.

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Farewell for now!

We hope you enjoyed this issue of the Town Crier.

The July issue is already under construction so please don’t miss out and get your submissions in early.

Browse this website for more info and look out for Town Crier bulletins and updates.

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