KEN GREEN IS THE ULTIMATE CARDINALS
FAN
APRIL 2025
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April is here, and spring has nally sprung! If we’re lucky, the weather will start acting like it. The past couple of months have given us quite the rollercoaster of temperatures, and if things don’t warm up soon, I just might pack my bags and head to South Carolina!
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This month, I’m especially excited about our feature story. My good friend and neighbor, Kenny Green—a die-hard Cardinals fan—shares a heartwarming tale about how his dad, a Queens, NY native, became a devoted Cardinals fan and passed that passion down to his family, despite growing up in Yankees territory. Be sure to “Catch” this must-read story on page 10!
April is also National Volunteer Month, a perfect time to give back. Doreen has rounded up some incredible local charities that could use a helping hand. If you’re looking for ways to share your talents and make a di erence, check out her article, “Making a Di erence.”
Thinking about upgrading your backyard oasis? Ocean Blue Pools and Spas has been transforming outdoor spaces in Wilmington for nearly 15 years, including stunning designs right here in Brunswick Forest. If a backyard refresh is on your spring to-do list, give them a call!
And speaking of to-do lists… did you know April 17th is Blah, Blah, Blah Day? (I had to look this one up myself!) It’s a day dedicated to tackling all those things people have been nagging you about. So, gentlemen—consider this your friendly reminder!
As we step into April, let’s welcome it with open arms, fresh energy, and a spirit of gratitude for all the good things to come.
Here’s to a fantastic month ahead!
Ciao,
Debby Daigle Publisher ddaigle@bestversionmedia.com
This month marks Volunteer Awareness Month, a time to recognize the power of giving back and the incredible impact volunteers have on our community.
Inside this issue, you’ll nd a listing of local organizations that could use a helping hand. Whether you have a few hours to spare or are looking for a long-term commitment, there are plenty of ways to make a di erence. Tip: Save this issue for future reference!
And in honor of the beginning of baseball season, this month's cover story highlights Ken Green's deep-rooted love of baseball—a passion that has shaped his life in remarkable ways. And if you're looking for ways to stay active and engaged, our calendar of events is packed with things to do all month long.
As we enjoy the longer days and warmer weather, let’s also take a moment to appreciate the value of volunteering and the positive impact we can have when we come together as a community.
As always, stay safe, stay healthy, and stay grateful!
Doreen Sargente Content Coordinator dsargente@bestversionmedia.com
REDEFINING OUTDOOR LIVING:
Ocean Blue Pools & Spas
BY DOREEN SARGENTE
A FAMILY LEGACY IN OUTDOOR LIVING: OCEAN BLUE POOLS & SPAS
Nestled in the heart of Wilmington, NC, Ocean Blue Pools & Spas is more than just a business; it’s a family legacy rooted in a passion for creating breathtaking outdoor spaces. The story began in Ireland, where a love for community and craftsmanship was instilled in the founders from an early age. After years spent in bustling New York, the family relocated to Wilmington in 2009, drawn by its coastal charm and vibrant
community. It was here that they decided to channel their passion into a business, transforming backyards into personal retreats.
Fast forward to today, Ocean Blue Pools & Spas is Wilmington’s largest pool and spa dealer, offering a comprehensive range of services. From custom inground pool construction to outdoor kitchens, hot tubs, and water testing, they’ve become a trusted name for homeowners looking to elevate their outdoor living spaces. Family-owned and locally operated, the company is built on a foundation of quality craftsmanship, personalized service, and an unwavering commitment to customer satisfaction.
BRINGING DREAMS TO LIFE
“Your pool design journey begins with a deep dive into your vision,” says the team at Ocean Blue. And they mean it. Every project starts with listening—an essential step to ensure that no detail is overlooked. Partnering with Alyssa Winfield Designs, Ocean Blue Pools & Spas marries expert craftsmanship with thoughtful design to deliver stunning, one-of-a-kind outdoor spaces. Whether it’s a sleek fiberglass pool or a comprehensive backyard transformation, the team approaches each project with meticulous attention to detail.
The result? Spaces where families can
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relax, unwind, and create lasting memories. It’s no wonder that Ocean Blue Pools & Spas was named the 2024 Dealer of the Year by Leisure Pools—a testament to their dedication to excellence.
A TEAM THAT DELIVERS
Ocean Blue’s success is fueled by a team of skilled professionals who bring passion and expertise to every job. From, Kevin, Jack, David and Will and the rest of the crew, the team takes pride in delivering top-notch installations and exceptional customer service.
Customers like Ryan and Crystal have nothing but praise for their experience: “A pool is a huge investment of time and money, and Ocean Blue provides the best—top quality at a competitive price. They were professional and courteous throughout our entire project. Even during the challenges of COVID, they went above and beyond to keep things on track. We recommend them without reservation.”
A COMMITMENT TO COMMUNITY
Beyond pools and spas, Ocean Blue Pools & Spas has woven itself into the fabric of Wilmington’s community. Their family values shine through in everything they do, from providing personalized service to supporting local causes. They understand that a pool is more than just a luxury; it’s a space where families connect, friendships grow, and memories are made.
WHY CHOOSE OCEAN BLUE?
When you choose Ocean Blue Pools & Spas, you’re not just hiring a contractor; you’re partnering with a family that’s deeply invested in your satisfaction. Their commitment to transparency, quality, and fair pricing ensures a seamless experience from start to finish. Whether you’re dreaming of a sparkling pool, a relaxing hot tub, or an outdoor kitchen that’s perfect for entertaining, Ocean Blue brings your vision to life with care and expertise.
So, if you’re looking to transform your backyard into a personal paradise, look no further than Ocean Blue Pools & Spas. With their dedication to excellence and a proven track record, they’re ready to make your outdoor dreams a reality.
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Making a Di erence:
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In our area, the spirit of community service is alive and well. Whether you're looking to give back, meet new people or gain valuable experience, volunteering is a rewarding way to make a positive impact. There are countless non-profits eager to have you on board, and the following barely scratches the surface! No matter what your interests are, there's an organization that's the perfect fit for you. Take a look at just a handful of opportunities available to our community.
GROUP NAME: A SAFE PLACE
A Safe Place is an empowerment organization for young women and girls focused on prevention, advocacy, and restoration to assist victims of exploitation and trafficking. Opportunities for volunteers include the following:
• Teach a life skill
• Pack welcome bags, street outreach bags, or hygiene bags for survivors
• Provide a meal for a weekly peer group
• Volunteer at our emergency shelter
• Become a prayer partner
• Host a fundraiser
• Join the Associate Committee CONTACT:info@asafeplacetogo.com
GROUP NAME: ALL 4 CATS INC.
The primary focus of All 4 Cats is working with the community to rescue stray cats. We nurse the animals back to health, spay/neuter, socialize, and find them permanent and loving homes. When we are able, we also work with local animal shelters to rescue and re-home pets. We are located in Wilmington, NC. CONTACT:info@all4cats.org
GROUP NAME: BOYS AND GIRLS CLUBS OF SOUTHEASTERN NORTH CAROLINA
At the Boys & Girls Clubs of Southeastern North Carolina, our mission is to enable all young people, especially those who need us most, to reach their full potential as productive, caring, and responsible citizens.
CONTACT: Volunteer@bgcenc.org
GROUP NAME: BRUNSWICK COUNTY HABITAT FOR HUMANITY
Brunswick County Habitat for Humanity welcomes individuals and groups eager to contribute to building affordable housing in the community. While no prior construction experience is necessary, a commitment to helping build the community is essential. Volunteers can choose their own schedule, with a minimum of three hours per month, and can work individually or as part of a group.
CONTACT: Visit website at: brunswickcountyhabitat.org/volunteer/
GROUP NAME: CATHOLIC CHARITIES
Catholic Charities is committed to serving the most vulnerable individuals and families throughout eastern North Carolina. Our mission is to provide help, create hope, and serve all people, regardless of faith or background. We trace our history back to 1899 when a Catholic Orphanage was established in Raleigh. Join Catholic Charities in our mission to rebuild homes and lives for families affected by disasters. No skills needed, just a compassionate heart and a willingness to help.
CONTACT: Vickie.Sasser@ccharitiesdor.org I
GROUP NAME: CAPE FEAR HOSPICE
Lower Cape Fear LifeCare (LCFL) takes care of patients and care givers from the time of diagnosis of a life limiting illness, through end of life. LCFL is the only non profit organization in the area. We have 3 hospice care centers in the area. Each care center has a family kitchen meant for families and loved ones of current hospice patients.
Volunteers give families support, friendship and time together when they need it most. They play a crucial role in providing excellent care and support to our patients and families. We simply could not do it all without volunteers! Contact Laura Long at 910-620-5062 or Laura. Long@LifeCare.org
GROUP NAME: GOOD SHEPHERD
CENTER
Good Shepherd Center is the area's largest provider of homeless services serving New Hanover, Brunswick, and Pender counties.We have volunteer opportunities for nearly all ages and abilities. Volunteer in the Soup Kitchen, Second Helpings, sorting the incoming food donations, and special projects. Bring your civic groups, church groups, corporate and small businesses, scout groups, school groups--we welcome your involvement!
CONTACT:ebrown@goodshepherdwilmington. org
GROUP NAME: THE HONOR FOUNDATION (THF)
THF is a non-profit organization that operates a nationally recognized career transition institute for the U.S. Special Operations Forces communities in the military. This program helps Special Operators navigate the change from military to civilian lives and careers through an
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executive-education style curriculum that combines one-on-one executive coaching and industry mentoring, three months of class instruction, and access to an elite, nationwide professional network.
THF’s mission is truly fueled by the generosity of our community—from donors, to volunteers, to coaches and employer partners. We have many opportunities to get involved: volunteering at events, becoming a coach or mentor, sharing information about your company or profession, hiring our Fellows, and much more.
Contact:Joanna DeMott, Director of People at THF’s Camp Lejeune campus at joanna@ honor.org or visit their website https://www. honor.org.
GROUP NAME: LELAND VFW POST 12196
We work with a number of local nonprofits to raise money, food, and clothing for those in need. We work with the schools on a number of programs such as Voice of Democracy, Patriot Pen, and promoting Americanism.
CONTACT: Call 910-408-1934
GROUP NAME: 100 MEN IN WILMINGTON WHO CARE
What if you could be part of a group of local guys that join forces every three months to raise over $10,000 for a charity in Wilmington? We gather at quarterly meetings for about an hour to hear three short presentations on local nonprofits in need. Members vote and each person writes their check for $100 directly to the winning nonprofit chosen for a collective, impactful contribution.
CONTACT: 100menwhocarewilmington@gmail. com
GROUP NAME: PAWS4PEOPLE
Paws4people® trains puppies to prepare them for their future roles as life-saving Assistance Dogs. One of the most valuable stages is Puppy Development. During this stage a few goals are to build confidence, instill manners, and expand their socialization skills. Your support helps our mission to place highlytrained, customized, life-changing Assistance Dogs!
EMAIL puppies@paws4people.org today!
GROUP NAME: NOVANT HEALTH NHRMC IN WILMINGTON
CONTACT: www.novanthealth.org/volunteer
Select “New Hanover Regional Medical Center” (for all NH Wilmington locations) or “Brunswick Medical Center” (for NH in Bolivia, NC)
Complete the application
Complete the onboarding education
One of our Volunteer Coordinators will contact you!
GROUP NAME: THE PATRIOT GUARD RIDERS
PGR is a national organization that was formed in 2005 to render honors during funeral service for military veterans and first responders. They provide flag lines and escorts during funeral services at the families request. One does not have to be a veteran nor ride a motorcycle to join.The only requirement is respect for those who have served our country.
CONTACT: chinthe53@gmail.com
GROUP NAME: SAMARA'S VILLAGE
There are many ways to become involved and partner with us in serving together, sharing your talents and resources. We invite individuals with a heart for this organization, no matter their previous level of knowledge or experience, to learn more about Samara’s Village and thoughtfully consider joining us. There are many different opportunities available to serve within the mission…we will train you!
CONTACT: volunteer_coordinator@ samarasvillage.org
GROUP
NAME: BRUNSWICK COUNTY SHERIFF’S OFFICE VOLUNTEER PROGRAM
The Brunswick County Sheriff’s Office Volunteer Program invites dedicated citizens who are eager to give back to their community while gaining insight into the daily operations of law enforcement. Volunteers contribute valuable support services without monetary compensation, assisting with community outreach, administrative duties, research, and more.
To become part of the Brunswick County Sheriff’s Office Volunteer Program, applicants must meet the following criteria: Successfully complete the BCSO Citizens Academy Course (application can be found on the BCSO website)
Be a law-abiding citizen with good intentions
Pass a comprehensive background check
Be at least 18 years old
CONTACT: brunswicksheriff.com or call 910-2532777
GROUP NAME: UNITED WAY OF THE CAPE FEAR
We are uniquely positioned to neutrally assess the resources and needs of the people of the Cape Fear region, develop thoughtful solutions, and serve as a trusted steward of the financial investments in the community.
By partnering with local agencies across the Cape Fear region, we are able to continue to fight for the health, education, and financial stability of every person in our community.
United Way of the Cape Fear Area empowers our neighborhoods by building strong foundations for these agency partners so that we can have a stronger, united, more resilient community.
CONTACT: Angela.fernot@uwcfa.org
GROUP NAME: WILMINGTON SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA
The WSO fundraises throughout the year to sustain its Music For Youth programs and its concert series.
CONTACT: Visit website at wilmingtonsymphony.org/contribute to learn how you can support the WSO
GROUP NAME: WILMINGTON ANIMAL CENTRIX
Wilmington Animal Centrix is ending pet homelessness one spay and neuter at a time by providing no-cost spay/neuter vouchers for pets and through community education and support. We are seeking volunteers to plan, organize, and lead fun, creative events and fundraisers. You will be supported by a great team of volunteers and our Board of Directors. CONTACT us via our website at https://www. wilmingtonanimalcentrix.org or via Facebook and Instagram.
Volunteering is a powerful way to strengthen our community and make Leland and our surrounding area an even better place to live. Whether you have a few hours a week or just a day a month, your time and skills can make a real difference. Start your volunteer journey today and discover the joy of giving back!
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COVER FEATURE
Ken saw Lou Brock inducted into the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, N.Y. in 1985
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Bats, Baseball, and BRUNSWICK FOREST
By Doreen Sargente
In the world of sports fandom, some people casually root for a team, tuning in when it’s convenient. And then there are people like Ken Green—lifelong, diehard, statistic-memorizing, memorabiliacollecting, game-attending superfans. For Ken, his devotion to the St. Louis Cardinals isn’t just a hobby—it’s part of his DNA, passed down like a treasured family heirloom.
Ken’s love for the Cardinals can be traced back to his father, Bob Green, who grew up in Queens, New York— enemy territory for any non-Yankees fan. In 1942, an 11-year-old Bob, already a budding baseball fanatic, found himself swept up in the excitement of that year’s World Series. The Yankees, expectedly, had made it to the Fall Classic, and their opponent was the St. Louis Cardinals. Wanting to make things a little more interesting, Bob made a bet with his Uncle Dave—one whole dollar, a hefty
sum for a kid in 1942. Bob put his faith in the Cardinals, who were led by a young rising star named Stan Musial. When the Cardinals won the series in five games, Bob collected his winnings and, more importantly, found a team to root for the rest of his life. "That was it," Ken says. "That one dollar locked in his loyalty forever, and he made sure his kids inherited that same passion."
Ken and his two siblings—older brother Scott and younger sister Beth—were raised as devoted Cardinals fans despite growing up in New York, where Yankees and Mets fans dominated the landscape. “People thought it was weird that we weren’t Yankees fans, but to us, it made perfect sense,” Ken laughs. “It was family tradition.”
Ken’s love for sports didn’t stop at being a fan—he built an entire career around it. From an early age, he knew he wanted to be a sportswriter, and he made that dream a reality. Over the course of 32 years, Ken worked as a sportswriter,
columnist, and copy editor for three major newspapers: the San Antonio Light, New York Daily News, and Newark Star-Ledger.
Writing about sports gave Ken a frontrow seat to the action. He covered thrilling games, profiled legendary athletes, and analyzed the highs and lows of teams across various leagues. But no matter where his work took him, his heart remained with the Cardinals.
Ken has been married to his wife for 43 years who has been an incredibly patient and supportive partner in his Cardinals obsession. In fact, she spent 20 years working from home as a travel professional—inside what Ken lovingly refers to as “the baseball office.”
“This wasn’t just a little corner with a couple of baseball things,” Ken admits. “It was a full-fledged shrine to the Cardinals. Jerseys, posters, signed baseballs—you name it.”
Ken’s fascination with collecting started
Memorabilia celebrating World Series titles in 2006 & 2011.
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Mark McGwire signed this photo for Ken during his recordsetting home run streak in 1998.
when he was just a kid, thanks to his father’s encouragement. In 1967, Bob suggested that Ken and Scott start a scrapbook chronicling the Cardinals’ season. That year, the team—led by Lou Brock and Bob Gibson—won the World Series. For Ken, it was the perfect introduction to both collecting and storytelling.
“I was hooked,” he recalls. “I kept making scrapbooks for five full seasons, clipping every box score, headline, and article I could find. It was like running my own personal sports section.”
Over the years, his collection evolved from newspaper clippings to an impressive array of Cardinals memorabilia, including autographed baseballs, photos, and even a bat signed by 42 legendary players. "That bat is my crown jewel," Ken says proudly. "It’s got signatures from five Hall of Famers, including Willie Mays, six MVPs, three Cy Young winners, and more than two dozen All-Stars."
One thing that sets his collection apart is that the vast majority of his autographs were obtained in person. "I don’t buy autographs," he explains. "That’s why so many of them say ‘To Kenny.’ It kills their resale value, but that’s fine by me. These are memories, not investments."
Ken has attended countless games over the years, from regularseason matchups to historic postseason moments. He’s been to two World Series and three National League Championship
Ken saw Lou Brock inducted into the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, N.Y. in 1985
Custom made plaques show Cardinals World Series titles and the team’s retired numbers.
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Series—always, of course, when the Cardinals were involved. He has also attended four All-Star Games, soaking in the excitement of baseball’s greatest players on one stage.
“People don’t realize just how storied the Cardinals franchise is,” he says. “Only the Yankees have won more World Series titles. And let’s be honest—no one outside of New York actually likes the Yankees.”
While baseball remains his greatest passion, Ken has always had other interests. Music is a close second, and he and his wife have attended over 300 concerts together. Their shared love of rock ‘n’ roll has taken them to venues all over the country, creating a treasure trove of memories along the way.
Locally, Ken has also been involved in volunteer work, particularly with Brunswick County Meals on Wheels. Delivering meals to those in need has been a fulfilling experience, and he plans to return to the program in the near future.
Though age and a couple of back surgeries have slowed him down a bit, Ken remains active. He enjoys biking around Brunswick Forest and walking on the treadmill—always with rock n' roll playing in his ears, especially his beloved Jethro Tull. Since moving to Southeast North Carolina in 2019, Ken and his wife have fallen in love with the area. “The beaches, the weather, the people—it’s all been great,” he says. “And Wilmington’s downtown is a hidden gem.”
Through every stage of his life—whether as a young boy filling scrapbooks, a journalist covering major league sports, or a retiree reminiscing about the many games he’s attended— Ken’s passion for the St. Louis Cardinals has remained unwavering.
Baseball isn’t just a pastime for Ken Green. It’s a lifelong love affair, a family bond, and a personal history woven into every play, every game, and every piece of memorabilia in his collection.
And one thing is certain: no matter where he lives, no matter how many years pass, Ken Green will always be a Cardinals fan.
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SOCIAL MEDIA & YOU AS A CAREGIVER
BY LILI FIORE
Pretty much everyone is on social media in one form or another these days. The key is to figure out how to use it to bring you joy and wisdom. Like most people – myself included – our breaks and downtime don’t feel complete unless we have been scrolling through our social media. Social media and the algorithms surrounding it have a huge ability to change your mindset and your mood depending on how you are feeling on a given day. Many people use it to show off new toys or fabulous vacations or haircuts, or even to push their political or religious views!
This can be overwhelming at times because of all the negativity that comes with it. So, what to do? You, as a Caregiver, are already stretched beyond your limits, with everyone needing things from you and depending on you. We need to build you up and fill your energy tank with more positivity than negativity to give you strength and energy so that you can continue to give out as much love and compassion as you are.
So, the formula for happiness on social media is as follows:
• Unfollow any accounts that are negative, make you sad, make you uncomfortable, or give you any kind of icky feelings inside.
• Do not unfriend but unfollow any friends who are posting lots of political or other things that make you uncomfortable or take up your time, and do not bring you joy, or
make you laugh on a consistent basis.
• Your brain, heart, and soul can only handle so much suffering at a time. And since you can’t change being a Caregiver, you need to protect yourself.
Now, once you have done the weeding out so that you can scroll for 10 minutes and find nothing that doesn’t make you smile, then it is time to start adding!!
The best part about Instagram is that it allows you to collect the posts that you love in folders that you name! In case you are new to Instagram or haven’t done this before, under each image, on the far right side, is the outline of a bookmark. Tap the outline of the bookmark and it will allow you to “Save to Collection,” and you name that Collection whatever you wish! I personally have over 15! I highly recommend creating a collection of things which I call “silly fun.”
Once you have gathered some different posts, you can go to your own profile page, and in the top right-hand corner, there is a drop-down menu that starts with “settings”. The fifth item down is the bookmark symbol, and it is called “Saved”. If you click on this, it will bring you to all the different collections you have gathered, and you can choose whichever one suits you to make you smile when you need it! I especially love Instagram and I follow all sorts of inspirational and spiritual sites, cool innovations like mechanical and technology.
I follow travel sites, nature sites, and LOTS of animal sites because watching a 30-second clip with a funny dog often gets me to laugh out loud and brings me joy. Think of museums, national parks, and tourist sites for places you have always wanted to see. Follow humorous sites, follow sites that have spiritual affirmations, ocean life, and surfing. I also love following mystical and educational sites too. And you can follow sports teams as well!! Follow whatever brings you joy on social media and at least for now – ditch the rest!!
My Aunt Esther would have LOVED Pinterest! She would take the time and effort to cut out pictures, articles, comics, etc., and sent them to me and my Mom in her letters. Pinterest is the modern-day ability to do that instantly through technology. Create an account and then think of subjects that make you smile and happy things that you are passionate about! After searching for things that you love in those subject areas, you just need to “Pin” them to the “board” of the subjects you created boards for earlier. You can always create new boards as you start to see things in your feed that you want to pin that are a new subject area. One can spend hours on Pinterest learning and having fun finding things.
Especially in today’s world, it is especially important to build in activities that bring you joy and laughter. So use social media to help you curate streams of the things that make you smile and at least for now - ditch the rest!!
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Our Street, Creativity & Retirement WHO KNEW? - PART 2
PHOTOS & ARTICLE SUBMITTED BY
MADDY HALBACH, PHD AND LAWRENCE LEWIS III
STONEY POINT DRIVE IN THE SHELMORE NEIGHBORHOOD, BRUNSWICK FOREST
Last month, Maddy shared the story of how she and Larry moved to Brunswick Forest and were warmly welcomed by their wonderful neighbors on Stoney Point Drive. Maddy began by highlighting the incredible creative talents that are thriving right on her street. From artists and writers to craftsmen and chefs, Maddy has been inspired to learn about the unique passions that have shaped her neighbors’ lives.
This month, we continue that journey, introducing even more neighbors who bring creativity and artistry into our community. Their stories, like those we've already shared, remind us of the incredible depth of talent and experience that makes Stoney Point Drive, as well as Brunswick Forest a special place to call home.
TRACI CIMINI
Traci is a powerhouse specializing in personalized cards, favors, candy bar wrappers and invitations for all occasions through her beloved business “Your Cards and More” which you can find on Facebook. She specializes in crafting unique cards, favors, candy bar wrappers, and invitations for every occasion. Her absolute favorite time of year is the holiday season when she creates enchanting, personalized Christmas cards from Santa for children, spreading magic and joy, and bringing smiles to the grandparents on our street who send them to their beloved grandchildren. Traci’s background is publicity and marketing, and she was blessed to do just that for the Calvert Marine Museum in Solomons, Maryland. The museum is a hidden gem on the western shore in Maryland.
JAMES FORNEY
Jim makes the most beautiful natural wood floating frames. He also creates remarkable furniture including wine cabinets, wine cases, and fun feet for the card game “Hand in Foot”. He makes Euchre and Pinochle dice so the neighborhood cardplayers can remember which suit is trump, assuming they can remember to look at the dice. Many of his unique wood frames hang in the homes of Stoney Point. We like to think of that part of his creations as “Frames by James”. Jim started at an early age learning at his father’s side how to craft furniture. He has been creating wood furniture for his family and friends for over 30 years. Jim is a member of the Brunswick Forest Woodworking club.
KIM GRISHAM
Kim was raised on a farm in Michigan and moved here from Chicago, after retiring from an intense job as the Director of Strategic Planning and Analysis for AT&T for 24 years. In retirement she has found a love of building and sculpting clay and putting a face onto everything and anything. Her work is very whimsical and only limited by her imagination.” Her art can be found at the Port City Pottery and Fine Crafts at the Cotton Exchange in Wilmington. One of Kim’s pieces were recently purchased for the set of “Merv” a movie that was being filmed in Wilmington last year.
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DIANE GUIDIDAS.
Diane hails from NJ. She is our in-house interior designer and our go to for advice when we need her 20 years of designing for fortune 500 companies experience, to create warm cozy interiors in our southern coastal style homes. She has this uncanny ability to combine design/color. She puts her love of sewing and skills to use by making tee shirt quilts and sewing little dresses for charity.
MADDY HALBACH
Maddy, the street’s favorite Kiwi, is a retired Finance Educator and now a multimedia artist. She has won art competitions with her mixed media paintings and wearable art. Since 2017, her handpainted wedding dress, appropriately named "Lily Pond," has been featured on websites, in museums, galleries, and major shopping malls in and around Maryland. Maddy is now a studio artist at the Southport Studio Artists in Southport. She believes that art is a way of expressing oneself and that it can have a positive impact on people's lives. Many of her paintings will be exhibited during the month of May in the main gallery at Leland Cultural Art Center. In addition to the studio more of her art can be found on MaddyHalbachArt.com or hanging in many of the homes on Stoney Point Drive.
BILL LEDERHOUSE
Bill is a retired Navy Heat Exchanger Product Manager for ITT Standard in Buffalo, NY. He was introduced to woodworking as a child by his father, himself a master carpenter. At a young age he would build go- carts so he and his friends could ride them on the neighborhood streets. He can often be found helping neighbors with minor home repairs and woodworking projects, building wood card holders for neighbors so they can participate in our card games or bowls with unique designs for our kitchens. He has made rocking horses for his grandchildren and other fun items. When Bill is not helping others, he can be found walking his buddy “Darby”, who likes to visit and get dog treats from the neighbors.
Tee is our street’s greatest chef. She is a foody and wonderful cook. She retired from teaching middle school and as the Wellness Coordinator for Verona Area School District in Wisconsin. She has always had an interest in cooking and now during her retirement in Brunswick Forest has found her happy place, the kitchen. Tee loves to experiment with creating and cooking tasty dishes. She views food as a palate, colorful and beautiful on a plate filled with flavor. In honor of Hell’s Kitchen Finale Tee made Gordon Ramsey’s famous Lobster Mac and Cheese. For New Year's she made an amazing seafood stew and a lobster ravioli topped with lobster and crab in a light lemon sauce. She goes out and tries new restaurants in the Brunswick-Wilmington area, posts her experiences on social media and discuss these places with the neighbors. When Tee decides to host a dinner party, the neighbors do their best to ensure that they will be the ones invited to participate in her culinary delights. It’s been fun uncovering these hidden “gems” of Shelmore. I’m sure there are many more to be discovered as we keep broadening our friendships in what we lovingly call “The Point”.
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Golf’s Consistency CHALLENGE NIC'S TIPS
NICOLE WELLER, LPGA/PGA GOLF TEACHING PROFESSIONAL
Whenever I inquire about a student’s goals, the top response is the desire for more consistency. It’s a super popular quest by all golfers. Who wouldn’t want to find the perfect way to move the ball the same way each time, it’s so much more fun, rewarding and easy!
The interesting thing, though, is that consistency is a myth. As human beings who function a little differently every day, a more realistic goal might be to have a smaller window of variability. Instead of the big misses, can the shots have a lot closer pattern, wavering maybe a little this way or that way but not as wide a dispersion?
Pia Nilsson and Lynn Marriott are world-renown owner coaches of Vision54 (Pia coached Annika Sorenstam and they both coach many great current Tour players, amateur competitors and recreational golfers all alike). They say be a “MASTER OF VARIABILITY – BE adaptable! Every day on the golf course will be variable. Consistency is a myth. You want to learn your own common tendencies what you do when playing great and how you get in your own way. Those tendencies can be consistent! By recognizing these tendencies you can start to manage yourself on the course, no matter what happens each day – and you will be a master of your own variability”.
While playing at Wake Forest University on scholarship for the women’s golf team, I had shot my lowest round of golf during a qualifier for a travel event, at one point. What a fluid, easy round – I couldn’t do anything wrong! I expected that the next day and tried to find what I had instead of being who I was that day and hitting the shots I had that day and scored a lot higher than expected. Having great routines and a perfect swing doesn’t mean it’ll come through as planned, it just increases our odds. Golf is a difficult game for a round, let alone four rounds in a row to win an event at a professional touring level or amateur Club Championship. Dr. Robert Bjork, distinguished cognitive psychology research professor at UCLA, has done a great amount research on learning and forgetting. Just because one can perform something doesn’t mean it’s been learned and conversely just because something’s been learned doesn’t mean that it can always be performed exactly the same. Two top players at The Masters recently both hit their 2nd shot way right of the 15th green on the final day, very off-line for players of their caliber. How could that happen after all the millions of golf balls they’ve hit with a coach right there? It’s the human factor and just because they’ve learned it doesn’t mean it can always be performed the way we intend, so we need to give ourselves some slack, acknowledge and honor the human factor and move forward to do it again.
SO HOW CAN ONE CREATE A TIGHTER RESULT PATTERN?
check in with what you have that day. A former colleague of mine who coached at a large SEC university men’s golf team and had played in two U.S. Opens said if his ball curved a little right that day, he played it. If it curved a little left another day, he played it. He didn’t try to fix it, he learned how to make his shots that day get to the hole. Patterns are a gift, learn to recognize them and capitalize on them.
Spend energy on what you can control and not what you can’t. Golfers spend too much time on trying to micromanage things that are out of one’s control (other people, weather, results, fairness, one’s swing mechanics). Do your best to plan and then not worry, play. Rehearse a swing feel or image away from the ball and then once you address the ball, it’s time to play, not think and micromanage. Watching The Master’s on tv recently, Ludvig Aberg from Sweden did all his planning (@95% of his shot) and then spent very little time over the ball and executed his shot (@5% of his shot). Let go of things you can’t control and focus on your planning, intent, attitude, how you power yourself during a round with food and hydration, how you warm-up
Be aware of both your technical skill and your human skills you bring to the table each day, they’ll vary and that’s OK. Just
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effectively… remember it takes only 15 minutes to actually play the game of golf. All the time between those swings are how you can be successful or not, based on what you tend to be attentive to and how you react.
Learn to practice better with both blocked (repetitive) and random (scrimmaging) type practice so that what’s learned can then also be performed with variables. I love taking students out on the course or range for Transfer Play Practice. Hitting 10 seven-irons on the range is one thing. Super and congratulations! But can you do it after having had 5 minutes since your last swing on a totally different terrain with the perceived pressure of the match or your friends’ comments? It’s one thing to learn how to shoot a basketball over and over again. It’s another to shoot a basketball with someone charging at you with arms flailing and a crowd cheering for you to miss while you have to pivot, re-set and shoot… did you practice shooting that way? Train better! Check out a brilliant book a colleague of mine, Trent Wearner called Golf Scrimmages: Realistic Practice Games under Pressure to help learn how to hit shots.
Be OK knowing you can’t be consistent but striving towards a tighter window of variance. A golfer might only hit one shot straight on the range but the other nine were only fiveten yards off in each direction. That’s better than three very straight shots and the other seven shot being twenty yards or more off and ‘out of bounds’… it’s a more playable tendency. Above all, stay the course, enjoy exploring your game and either being successful on some days and rounds and then learning about what could be better on the other days.
Nicole Weller is an award-winning LPGA/PGA teaching professional and instructs local area golfers at Compass Pointe Golf Club in Leland. Feel free to submit your question or topic for the Nicole’s Notes column via her website ‘Contact Nicole’ page. For more information on Nicole and her tips / videos, visit www.nicoleweller.com.
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Brodie is a spunky and friendly 2 year old Carin Terrier who we got from a breeder. We've had 3 other Carin Terriers before him, but he has turned out to be the best one yet, thanks to guidance from our amazing trainer Tayler!
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MEET SOPHIA!
We got Sophia from a breeder in Snead Ferry, NC called Native Ranch Puppies. A friend in our neighborhood has her sister and recommended the breeder. She was two in October. She is a miniature Cavapoo.
Sophia is a sweet natured dog always looking for belly rubs from anyone willing to give them. Her favorite pastime is playing fetch particularly with a pickleball but any toy will do.
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CALENDAR OF EVENTS
SATURDAY, APRIL 5TH-SUNDAY, APRIL 6TH
Annual Herb and Garden Fair
@Poplar Grove Plantation
For more than 30 years, Poplar Grove Plantation has been the site of one of the most anticipated events for gardeners in the spring season – the Annual Herb and Garden Fair. This yearly event features a wealth of plants, flowers, shrubs, trees, and green goodies of all varieties, and is a great first stop for local and visiting gardeners alike who are eager to ring in the spring season.
Time: Saturday, 9am-5pm,Sunday, 10am-4pm
Cost: FREE
THURSDAY, APRIL 10TH-SUNDAY, APRIL 13TH
North Carolina Black Film Festival
Wilmington is well-known for both its diverse cultural scene as well as its status as one of the biggest filming destinations west of Hollywood, and these two attributes are beautifully combined at the annual North Carolina Black Film Festival. This annual and invitational festival features a wealth of talented African American filmmakers of all genres who will share their works to the delight of audiences and movie bu s everywhere.
For more information visit: blackartsalliance.org
April Golf Opportunities for Women –Cape Fear/Wilmington LPGA Amateurs Non-members may golf twice before they decide if membership is right for them. Visit: lpgaamateurswilmingtonnc.com for details and to register. For questions, email lpgaamateurswilmingtonnc@yahoo.com
THURSDAY, APRIL 10, 17 & 24
Beau Rivage, Wilmington, 4:30PM/9 holes/$40
SUNDAY, APRIL 13, Beau Rivage, Wilmington, 9AM/18 holes/$62
MONDAY, APRIL 14 & 28, Ironclad, Hampstead, daytime play day, 18 holes/$39, 9 holes/$24
SATURDAY, APRIL 27, Sandpiper Bay, Sunset Beach, 9:20AM/18 holes/$48
FRIDAY, APRIL 11
Newcomers Club Meeting
@Leland Cultural Arts Center
Doors open at 9:15 am, meeting at 10:00 am. This month's speakers will be Pam Sender, Communications Chairperson, Wilmington Jewish Film Festival and David Stanley, Deputy County Manager, Brunswick County. Check us out nbnewcomers.org for the club's activities and additional information.
SATURDAY, APRIL 12TH
Cardboard Boat Regatta
@Brunwisick Forest, Hammock Lake
Time: 11am-2pm
SATURDAY, APRIL 12TH
EGGSPEDITION
@Northwest District Park
1937 Andrew Jackson Hwy
Bring your basket and celebrate spring with the Town of Leland and famed eggsplorer, Steve E. Bunny!
Time: 10am-1pm
Visit: townofleland.com for details
Cost: FREE
SATURDAY, APRIL 12TH
Run Sunset Beach
Discover some of the prettiest terrain that Sunset Beach has to o er with more than 600 runners from all across the region and the country with this annual running event that puts the small town of Sunset Beach on the map. The Run Sunset Beach event features a variety of races that range from a mile-long Fun Run to a half marathon, and which boasts some of the most scenic courses that coastal North Carolina has to o er.
For more information and to register visit: coastairraceproductions.com
SATURDAY, APRIL 12TH-SUNDAY, APRIL 13TH
Pleasure Island Spring Surf Fishing Challenge
@Carolina Beach
When the weather starts to heat up in the Cape Fear region, so does the fishing, and this
annual fishing tournament is the perfect venue for newcomers and experienced anglers alike to join in the fun. With miles of shoreline to go around, and some big cash prizes on the line for lucky anglers, the Pleasure Island Spring Surf Fishing Challenge is a great way to experience the exceptional spring fishing scene of coastal North Carolina.
For more information visit: fishermanspost.com
SUNDAY, APRIL 13TH
NC Science Festival
@The Children's Museum of Wilmington
This year’s theme is “State of Innovation” and the Museum will be hosting a morning full of fun activities that focus on technology and innovation! Visitors can look forward to engaging with technology without a screen and imagining themselves as scientists along the way. Activities will include engineering a scribblebot, creating binary code bracelets, and going under the sea through virtual reality.
Time: 9am-12pm
Cost: $5.00-$15.00
THURSDAY, APRIL 17TH
Spring Eggventure
@Halyburton Park
Ring in the Easter holiday with a world of fun for the youngest vacationers in your crew by attending the annual and aptly named Spring Eggventure. The morning event features an array of games, activities, and a popular Easter Egg hunt to the delight of nature fans of all ages.
Time: 9:00 am
SATURDAY, APRIL 19TH
Southport Springfest
Celebrate the arrival of warm weather and sunny days along the waterfront with a stop at the always-engaging Southport Springfest. This festival features a wealth of activities and attractions for visitors of all ages, and is sure to be a highlight of any getaway to the coastal Cape Fear region.
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SATURDAY, APRIL 19TH
Holden Beach Family Flashlight
Easter Egg Hunt
Both kids and adults alike can join in the fun of this Easter Egg hunt which is a challenging evening treasure hunt that will delight attendees of all ages. Held in the heart of Holden Beach, this annual Easter Egg hunt challenges friends and family members to scour the grounds of a popular public park in search of tons of colorful eggs that will be even more hidden when the sun sets.
FRIDAY, APRIL 25TH
Star Party
Carolina Beach
The skies over Carolina Beach are brimming with stars and natural wonders, and visitors and locals alike can learn more about this beautiful canopy by attending the Star Party at Carolina Beach State Park. Free and undeniably fun for stargazers of all ages, the Star Party features plenty of events including outdoor shows, telescope viewings, vendors, and other activities to help starry-eyed visitors discover all there is to know about this distinct and always stunning nightly display.
Time: 7pm-10pm Cost: FREE
SATURDAY, APRIL 26TH
5th Annual Caridad, Inc. Fundraiser Festival
@Shuckin' Shack in Leland Silent Auction, 50/50 Ra e, Ra e Prizes, Live Music, Bring your own chairs, Stroll among the Oysters and Octane Classic Cars
Time: 1pm-8pm FREE
SATURDAY, APRIL 26TH
Brunswick Family Assistance Battle of the Bands
@WWAY Event Center
Time: 3pm-6pm Visit: eventbrite.com for details
SATURDAY, APRIL 26TH
Earth Day Celebration
@Long Leaf Park
Wilmington Kids of all ages will have a ball while learning a little bit more about our precious planet at the annual Earth Day Celebration which is held in the heart of Wilmington. During this special afternoon event, the Long Leaf Park in the central region of the Port City will be transformed into a fun, festival atmosphere complete with exhibits, drinks, food, and live music, which all combine to provide an educational yet entertaining day that kids and adults alike will adore.
Time: 12:pm-6pm Cost: FREE
SATURDAY, APRIL 26TH
Healthy Kids Day
Wilmington Get active while enjoying the start of the beautiful spring and summer weather that the Port City is known for by attending the always fun and highly energized Healthy Kids Day. Celebrating its 14th year in 2025, this annual event has a focus on getting outside, getting active, and having a ball that will resonate with kids of all ages, and which will show just how much fun exploring Wilmington can be.
THURSDAY, APRIL 24TH
Zack Top
@Live Oak Bank Pavillion
Time: 7:30 pm
Visit: concerts.livenation.com
FRIDAY, APRIL 25
Larry, The Cable Guy
@Wilson Center
Time: 7:30 pm
Visit: wilsoncentertickets.com
SATURDAY, MAY 3RD
Brunswick Forest Home Show
@Brunswick Forest Fitness and Wellness
The Brunswick Forest Home Show will present home improvement and remodeling experts who focus on the interior and exterior features of your home. The BF Home Show will inspire you with countless ideas on enhancing your home's comfort and functionality.
Time: 12pm-3 PM
Our state-of-the-art-facility combines cutting-edge technology with a warm, welcoming atmosphere for you and your furry family. With decades of expertise, our compassionate team is dedicated to providing top-tier care for your dogs and cats.
Dr. Scott Pett
Dr. Artan Emini
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Helping Single Mothers ACHIEVE SELF SUFFICIENCY!
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PAM CAPELLA
Words from the Founder: Carmen Schloner
Caridad has done an incredible job, thanks to the dedication of our volunteers, donors, and the entire community who support its mission. Because of your generosity, in 2021, we were able to help 5 singlemother families. By 2024, that number grew to 46 families who became independent, broke the cycle of poverty, and now lead normal lives.
IS A TESTIMONY FROM ONE OF OUR MOM’S: Jennifer
"I am a single mother raising two children on my own, without their father. I was struggling and needed help and was not having luck finding resources. I did a google search and found Caridad through the Help Hub. I reached out and spoke to Ms. Carmen about a year ago. She reassured me that she understood my situation and was able to help me. She immediately took all my information and gave me the information and resources that I needed to move forward. She kept in touch with me by routinely checking in and offering solutions to things I was struggling with. Most importantly, she let me know that I was not alone and that I should keep in contact with her and let her know if I needed anything. I cannot express how grateful I am to have found such a ministry that helps single mothers". Caridad remains committed to motivating and empowering women to work hard, secure full-time jobs, and follow structured plans to navigate challenging times. They won’t be doing it alone— we’ll be here every step of the way until they achieve their goals.
We look forward to seeing you at our Spring Festival at Shuckin’ Shack in Leland on Saturday, April 26th. This will be our only fundraiser in 2025.
5TH ANNUAL CARIDAD FESTIVAL
Saturday, April 26
1-8 PM
SHUCKIN SHACK in Leland
RAINDATE: April 27
SHUCKIN’ SHACK will donate 10% of all sales to Caridad, Inc.
Silent Auction | 50/50 Raffle, Raffle Prizes | Live Music Bring your own chairs Stroll among the Oysters & Octane Classic Cars
Bidding starts April 16 at caridadincnc.org
Caridad, Inc. is a non-profit 501c3 helping single mothers and their children in Brunswick and New Hanover Counties achieve selfsufficiency. All proceeds will support these single mothers.
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