2023 Autumn Live More

Live More

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A friend indeed

“We were so impressed with the friendliness of the residents and team members. Moving to an independent living apartment from our condo in West Bend was the best decision we could have made.”

Tom and Margie Kieckhafer, independent living residents

Independent living at Cedar Community is a lifestyle we want you to

enjoy, explore, and embrace!

The opportunities are endless when living in an active and engaging community! . Full-sized pool and whirlpool, state-ofthe-art fitness center, natural prairie, scenic walking trails, lake access . Woodworking shop and artisan spaces . Greenhouse and gardens . Wellness programs . Social, recreational, and educational activities . Volunteer opportunities . Carefree lifestyle

Contact Abby at 262.338.4617 for a personal tour.

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Live More featuring...

Guiding principles and priorities: COMMUNITY Update from President & CEO Nicole Pretre | 4–5 From the editor’s desk Message from our chief administrative officer | 6 News you can use Updates and more! | 8 Caring for oneself & others Message from our vice president of spiritual care and wellbeing | 9 The Lofts at Cedar Lake—A perfect fit for Gary and Laurie Hendrickson Looking forward to the next chapter | 10–12 Cedar Community Champions Celebrating outstanding team members | 14–15 Cedar Community amenities Opportunities to enjoy, explore, and embrace | 16–17 Volunteer highlight Meet Lori Burback and Athena | 18–19 Pet therapy proven to provide health benefits Furry friends welcome | 20–23 Annual Butterfly Release A celebration of life | 24–25 Time, talents, and treasures Deb Meinert | Celebrating 40 years at Cedar Community | 26–27 Resident profile Meet Tom and Sandy Blumenberg | 28–31

Enjoy, explore, and embrace your best life!

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EXECUTIVE EDITOR Sarah Malchow MANAGING EDITOR Carrie Sturn CREATIVE DIRECTOR Cyndi Frohmader ON THE COVER Donna Matenaer enjoys a one-on-one visit with volunteer Lori and her therapy dog, Athena.

A life of service An interview with Margaret Rose Lochbaum | 32–33 Feed your soul at Cedar Valley A message from Cedar Valley UCCI | 34 The heart of a champion Message from our philanthropy director | 35

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OUR MISSION To model Jesus’ love by creating life-enhancing relationships, services, and environments.

Guiding principles and priorities:

COMMUNITY /kә'myoonәdē/ noun a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals

When we developed the guiding principles and priorities, we started with “residents” rather than “community” as a priority. As the conversation progressed, we realized that we needed to include all individuals who are a vital part of our mission— the families of those who live with or receive services from us, the volunteers who give selflessly of their time and talents, our donors who generously support our benevolent mission, and our vendor and community partners who are critical to our organization. As a result, the word community emerged as the most appropriate way to describe our collective priority of those who are at the core of our not-for-profit, faith-based mission.

Our mission had humble beginnings. Cedar Community was founded with one man’s gift of land, a determined vision, and thousands of volunteer hours. Our benefactor, William Koehl, wanted his gift of land to create a place of purpose and compassionate care for older adults. That original 98-acre gift has grown over the years to encompass 550 total acres on multiple campuses.

We have taken the original farmlands and have continued to steward this treasured natural resource with the help of team members, friends, neighbors, and volunteers. For the past 70 years we have cared for, and cultivated, the Cedar Lake Campus from farm field to a beautiful Eden of forestry; native plants; conservation trails; and streams, ponds, and the largest undeveloped frontage on Big Cedar Lake.

We are honored, in turn, to donate the development rights of 100 acres of this pristine land on the Cedar Lake Campus to our community partners—the Cedar Lakes Conservation Foundation. This unencumbered gift will ensure that the primary environmental corridor on the Cedar Lake Campus will remain protected in its natural state for generations to come. We make this gift not only for our current and future friends and neighbors, but to carry on the generous intent of our founders and to acknowledge and respect the indigenous ancestors who gathered here before us.

Nicole Pretre President & Chief Executive Officer

While we are Cedar Community, our not-forprofit benevolent mission is indeed a part of the larger community. We intend to provide purposeful, abundant, and compassionate living and healthcare environments and services for those who live and labor here for generations to come. At the same time, we are also committed to preserve and protect the blessing of the abundant nature that surrounds and inspires us all.

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From the editor’s desk I love fall.

I love the bite of the cooler night air. The smell of the fire pit. And the welcome hug of warm sweaters, hot soups, and down comforters. Fall is also a time of exciting evolutions. Students are returning to the classroom, and for many it signifies a return to “normal” schedules after summer travels and adventures.

This edition features several stories of evolution...of career paths, passion projects, lifestyles, and priorities. You could also call them transitions, journeys, or just plain changes. No matter the moniker, we all live through them. And, if lucky, we live through them with family, friends, neighbors, and a community who cares and supports us along the way.

So, to celebrate this season of change, I invite you to enjoy the pages ahead!

Sarah J. Malchow, CFRE Chief Administrative Officer

Some highlights in this issue: . Volunteer and pet therapy spotlight: Man’s best friend is truly a friend, indeed. Read more to learn about volunteer Lori Burback and her journey with the amazing Athena. You won’t be able to help smiling. Promise. . Our annual Butterfly Release and Celebration of Life took place at each campus in August and September. Our friends and neighbors released over 1,200 Painted Lady butterflies in memory and commemoration of loved ones whose journeys have ended. Fly away little butterfly. Fly, fly away.

When one journey ends, another begins. Gary and Laurie Hendrickson are making the move to Cedar Community, becoming the first new neighbors in The Lofts at Cedar Lake.

Choosing to downsize and embrace new adventures is like writing the next chapter in a book. Write on, Gary and Laurie. Write on!

As we head into a season of transition and change, I hope you enjoy each of these stories and reflect on where you are in your own journey to—Live More.

Be well,

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PS: In each and every edition, it will be my pleasure to share some of the interesting and inspiring journeys and highlights of Cedar Community residents, friends, neighbors, and team members; our commitment to quality and exceptionalism; To model Jesus’ love by creating life-enhancing relationships, services, and environments. and our focus on responsibility and stewardship. Enjoy!

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CEDAR COMMUNITY RECEIVES FIVE-STAR MEDICARE RATING

Cedar Community is proud to announce that the rehabilitation and skilled nursing divisions at Cedar Lake Health and Rehabilitation Center were recently awarded fivestar ratings for overall quality by the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services. This is the highest rating possible.

Ratings are based on national standards and assessments set by Medicare. Assessments include health inspections, staffing, and quality of resident care measures. The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services calculates a star rating for each of the three categories, along with an overall rating.

Cedar Community received five stars in all categories. These standards provide an insight into the quality of care and services that are provided to residents and are a great tool when researching a health care facility. To learn more, visit the Care Compare website, https://bit.ly/medicarerating.

Kelli DeRuyter, administrator and VP of clinical services, recognizes and celebrates the best-in-class care offered at Cedar Community, “We have an exemplary team who provides compassionate care and life-enhancing programs each and every day for our residents—making Cedar Community a great place to live and work.”

Health, Wealth, and Happiness Seminar Series

Join us for a series of engaging and knowledgeable speakers providing expertise on self-awareness; financial decision-making; and the path to happiness, gratitude, and wellness.

Wills, Trusts, and Probate—Oh My!

Sarah J. Malchow, CFRE, Cedar Community, Chief Administrative Officer Tuesday, October 24 | 10 a.m.

Cedar Ridge Campus 113 Cedar Ridge Drive, West Bend

It’s a complicated world out there—but your will and estate planning doesn’t have to be. Learn more about the basics of will and estate planning and which answer may be the best for you.

Enjoy light refreshments and tours of our Cedar Ridge Apartments.

Gratitude and downsizing seminars coming spring 2024!

RSVP: 262.306.7685 or RSVP@cedarcommunity.org

CEDAR COMMUNITY LAUNCHES NEW WEBSITE We are excited to provide a fresh new look on our website. The new cedarcommunity.org is designed to make navigating our sight friendlier—guiding you in the direction to start your journey quickly and efficiently, while providing you with all the tools necessary to make an informed decision when it comes to 55 and better living options. Visit us today, and start your journey!

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CARING FOR ONESELF

Recently, I relocated to my new office in the freshly renovated executive suite.

To help warm up my new space, my spouse gifted me with some framed photos.

One of them is a picture of me standing on the edge of Lake Michigan one night in the Dark Sky Park in Door County, looking at the vastness of water and sky before me. Imprinted across the bottom of the photo is a quote from Glennon Doyle that reads, “I have met myself, and I am going to care for her fiercely.”

Julie Jennings Vice President of Spiritual Care and Wellbeing

The second framing is a triptych, with individual photos of me from behind as I walk hand in hand or arm in arm with another member of my family and our family dog. In the center, I am arm in arm with my mother, leading my children’s childhood dog with one hand, and holding an umbrella over us in the other as we walk down the street outside her Alabama home in a gentle rain one summer morning. In the photo to the left, the first signs of fall show in the canopy of leaves overhanging the gravel path that my son and I are walking down, hand in hand, with our new family dog. And, in the photo on the right, my daughter and I are exploring a grassy trail with the dog, wearing our cold weather gear one crisp winter day, hand in hand, with the blue sky above us and the frozen ground beneath our feet.

My office actually provides its own “warming,” with a picturesque view of one of the many outdoor areas around our campuses, designed to foster reflection and connection on accessible walkways with plenty of benches for restful contemplation and conversation. It is not uncommon for me to look up from my work, out the window, and observe residents with friends or family members strolling or sitting in the park—enjoying the gift of companionship with each other. As I gaze out the window, I look over the objects I have placed on my windowsill, each of them gifts that have been given to me over the years, tokens of appreciation and symbols of the meaningful moments and relationships I have shared with people throughout my career and ministry.

Part of fiercely caring for ourselves is tending to the need we have for connection with other people, opening our hearts to relationships that will both challenge and sustain us, and making time—while we have time—to show up for the moments that become the memories we carry with us.

My mother and our first family dog have both ended their journey on this earth.

And, though the photo holds a place of honor in my new office, I do not need it to remember those summer morning walks, or the sound of my mother’s voice as we talked, laughed, and cried together. My adult children live hundreds of miles from me now, and I count every visit a precious gift. Many of my conversations with residents include a mention of how life at Cedar Community has brought connections to new friends, nature, and opportunities and amenities that enhance the quality of their lives.

May each of us fiercely care for ourselves and each other, through purposeful connections that enrich our lives with meaning and memory.

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THE LOFTS AT CEDAR LAKE

A perfect fit for Gary and Laurie Hendrickson

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Muskego was home to Gary and Laurie Hendrickson for their whole lives. After marriage, they lived in the same neighborhood Gary grew up in. But, after 44 years of marriage, they decided to take a leap of faith and make a move to Cedar Community—their next chapter.

Gary spent over 30 years as a systems analyst at We Energies, while also leading weekly Bible study and prayer groups for coworkers. He served at his church facilitating men’s study groups, leading adult education efforts, and also serving on special building project committees.

Some of Gary’s favorite gifts of time were given when he drove elderly men from the church to needed medical appointments. Laurie served as Minister of Groups and Guests, training leaders to facilitate and nurture small groups of people to grow their relationships with God and one another. Together, they both served the church for over 30 years.

When that season of church ministry came to an end, Gary and Laurie launched Reborn Decor Painting and Design. They served families and organizations throughout the Metro Milwaukee area, helping them to create homes of peace, beauty, and harmony. Some of their favorite projects included several group homes for at-risk youth. Laurie’s passion for design even afforded her the privilege to serve in a renovation project on a guest house in Rwanda, Africa. Together, they grew the business for five years, but ultimately decided to get back to the mission of serving people.

Most recently, the Hendricksons served as co-executive directors of the urban mission—BASICS (Brothers and Sisters in Christ Serving)—in Milwaukee. Their mission focus was on uniting urban and suburban resources for the glory of God and the benefit of humanity. Gary officially retired last year—again. Laurie continues to serve in various training capacities. She hopes to retire next year.

Early in their marriage, Gary and Laurie served on shortterm mission teams overseas. That’s when they met Cedar Community resident Frank Miezio. They lost touch after that trip to New Zealand, but as fate would have it, they reconnected with Frank at a conference in 2021—30 years after their initial meeting! They met a few weeks later for lunch at Cedar Community’s Top of the Ridge Restaurant to catch up. After their meal, they enjoyed a personal tour with Frank of Cedar Community’s campuses! Laurie commented, “The peace and beauty that pervades this place is amazing!” They saw so much wildlife and natural beauty that Laurie immediately thought of her dad, an outdoorsman and avid explorer, “My dad would LOVE this place!” And then, “Wait, I think we’d love this place!”

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“I love the gardens, mature trees, and the ability to step right out into nature,” says Laurie. “We are so excited to be the first ones who signed up for The Lofts at Cedar Lake,” says Gary.

“It will all be brand new and a wonderful new adventure for us.”

At the same time, Gary was beginning to reflect on the long history of Alzheimer’s and dementia in his family. With this in mind, they both decided it was time to begin putting a plan in place that could provide them a full continuum of care if and when it was needed.

Gary and Laurie were originally interested in an independent living home on the Cedar Lake Campus, but Gary questioned this. “Why are we looking at a home? We need to downsize and streamline our life.” That’s when they received the Live More magazine in the mail and read about The Lofts at Cedar Lake.

Along with Laurie’s dad, Jim, they visited and toured with Sales Director Abby Jonasson. After a second visit, Gary heard a whisper saying, “What are you waiting for?” Gary, Laurie, and Jim filled out their applications on the same day! Jim is waiting for that perfect independent living home on the Cedar Lake Campus.

They took to heart words of wisdom they heard two years prior to making their move. Another Cedar Community resident had advised them to, “Be ready.” That’s when they began to do the needed work to prepare their home for sale. They sold in a weekend and have moved into an independent living apartment on the Cedar Ridge Campus while the construction moves forward on The Lofts at Cedar Lake. Their anticipated move-in date is January 2024.

Gary and Laurie are very excited and feel blessed for where God has taken them throughout their lives. They can’t wait to see what the future holds as they make plans to enjoy, explore, and embrace their best lives. “We aren’t leaving our home because we don’t love it, but because we know in the long term, taking care of a home is not going to be the best situation for us. After 40 years in our home, this hasn’t been without some emotion. But God is affirming this move every step of the way! Each time I think about something I think I’ll miss in our current space, we make a trip up to Cedar Community and find that very thing and more in this new space that we’ll soon be calling home!” says Laurie. Gary agrees, “We’re excited to be able to be part of this community. And excited to be part of others living their best lives!”

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Cedar Community announces a new definition of distinction for adults 55 and better—The Lofts at Cedar Lake. Carefree, private residences ranging in size from 1,100 to 2,000 square feet offer the opportunity to enjoy, explore, and embrace your best life.

Located 40 minutes north of Milwaukee on 245 acres of wooded campus, the independent residences offer resort-like living on Big Cedar Lake. Shopping, fine dining, entertainment, cultural events, and an award-winning farmer’s market are minutes away.

Every detail has been thoughtfully designed to provide comfort, peace, and spaciousness—while showcasing the property’s amazing views—all year round.

Discover lake living in the heart of the Kettle Moraine—surrounded by lakes and prairies, hiking trails, and forests.

Amenities included:

· Outdoor green space, trails, and lake access · Spacious design and wooded views · Exercise atrium · Lounge and gathering spaces · Pet friendly · Secure, private storage · Indoor parking garages

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Be the first to discover lake living at its finest by scheduling a tour today with Abby at 262.338.4617.

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Cedar Community Champions

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Nursing Champion

Nursing Champion

Heather Pierre Nurse Scheduler

Abigail Chapman Med Tech

How long have you worked at Cedar Community?

26 years

How long have you worked at Cedar Community?

Six years

What do you enjoy most about working at Cedar Community?

“The caring, supportive environment.

We truly are one big family.”

What do you enjoy most about working at Cedar Community?

“The residents we care for and my fellow team members.”

What her colleagues are saying...

“Heather works to ensure our clinical team has as many hands as possible any given day to provide stellar care to those we serve. She collaborates with leaders to brainstorm creative staffing solutions, while handling all of her routine daily tasks.”

What her colleagues are saying...

“Abby always puts residents first— making sure their needs are being taken care of. She goes above and beyond to make each resident feel important. She sets a great example of hard work, dedication, and teamwork.”

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Every quarter, Cedar Community recognizes team members who go above and beyond their everyday tasks for our residents, families, volunteers, and their fellow team members. Cedar Community is proud to announce our Team Members of the Quarter award winners.

Dining Champion

Cedar Community Champion

Jesse Henckel Dining Services Supervisor

Jim Strupp Maintenance II

How long have you worked at Cedar Community?

25 years

How long have you worked at Cedar Community?

21 years

What do you enjoy most about working at Cedar Community?

“Interacting with the residents and all the team members.”

What do you enjoy most about working at Cedar Community?

“Working with all different people, from residents to coworkers. We have become family. I am looking forward to retirement in December and coming back as summer help next year.”

What his colleagues are saying...

“Residents praise Jesse’s flavorful meals.

They appreciate that he takes the time to deliver their food and ask questions about their meal service. He is a team player and will help wherever needed.”

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What his colleagues are saying...

“Jim wears many hats in plant operations. When things don’t go as planned in a day, he is always willing to try and make them right again!”

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CEDAR COMMUNITY AMENITIES: Living and working at Cedar Community offers many opportunities to enjoy, explore, and embrace your best life.

Your prescription for good health—Cedar Lake Pharmacy

Fine dining at Top of the Ridge Restaurant

Cedar Lake Pharmacy is available to residents, team members, and others receiving services from Cedar Community. Located at Cedar Community’s Cedar Lake Campus, the Cedar Lake Pharmacy offers competitive pricing, a knowledgeable pharmacy team, personalized service, convenience, and the security of knowing our team understands your unique needs.

Don’t feel like cooking tonight? Unexpected company visiting? The Top of the Ridge Restaurant on the Cedar Ridge Campus is available to you and your friends to meet for lunch and dinner. Savor the breathtaking views and delicious chef-made food. Don’t miss one of the best Friday fish fries for lunch or dinner! (And yes, we do have homemade potato pancakes!)

Our friendly pharmacists are available for one-on-one consultations when you pick up your prescription or call with a question. They also offer medication review for current pharmacy users—providing an in-depth review of your medication regimen to learn more about the medications you are taking, how they interact with other medications and over-the-counter items, and how you can save money just by switching to a comparable medication.

An onsite pharmacy with delivery available to other Cedar Community campuses provides convenience for residents and team members.

We also offer use of our private event space for anniversaries, birthdays, or other special occasion dining.

Our Top of the Ridge team can also provide delicious party trays and meals to go for your private entertaining pleasure.

To learn more, call 262.338.2812.

Taking a trip soon and need a vaccination? The Cedar Lake Pharmacy can order and administer various vaccines.

If you are a pet owner, the pharmacy is also able to obtain and dispense many veterinary medications. To learn more, contact the pharmacy at 262.306.4289.

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Cedar Ridge Café and Cedar Lake Café offer casual dining Enjoy coffee, tea, grab-and-go items, alongside a breakfast and lunch menu at the Cedar Ridge Café located on the Cedar Ridge Campus and the Cedar Lake Café located on the Cedar Lake Campus. Enjoy a tasty meal and a friendly smile from our café team!

Life-enriching health and wellbeing programs At Cedar Community our focus on wellbeing and life enrichment provides opportunities for our residents to fully embrace and engage in life, wherever they are on their journey. We have created an environment that approaches life enrichment and wellbeing in a holistic manner— focusing on the seven dimensions of wellbeing: emotional,

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From an onsite pharmacy, salon and spa services, and massage therapy to fine dining at our Top of the Ridge Restaurant, casual dining in the Cedar Ridge Café or Cedar Lake Café, and shopping at our resale shops—Cedar Community features many unique conveniences. environmental, intellectual, physical, social, spiritual, and vocational. We offer an incredible array of opportunities for our residents to make lifestyle choices so they can age successfully by finding balance within their mind, body, and spirit.

We offer programs for individuals of all fitness levels. Each of our campuses features fitness facilities and personal training opportunities with our certified team members. Cedar Community also has an indoor pool and spa located on the Cedar Ridge Campus, which is available for all residents and their guests. Enjoy a water aerobics class, or splash away at your leisure.

Our life enrichment programs offer a variety of classes, social gatherings, hobby groups, music opportunities, art classes and programs, religious services, spiritual programs, and entertainment— the list goes on and on!

Full range of salon services and massage therapy Whether you are looking for a new style, a manicure/pedicure, a rejuvenating facial, aesthetic services, or a relaxing massage— Cedar Community has you covered! A full range of styling services is available by calling 262.338.2813. If relaxation is your goal, schedule your next 30-minute, 60-minute, or 90-minute facial or massage by calling 262.306.4566.

Gift and resale shops offer a wide variety Need to find a gift or a thank you for someone special? Or perhaps you are searching for some new housewares or a new sweater? Stop by one of Cedar Community’s gift and resale shops.

Thoughtful gifts, jewelry, greeting cards, gently-used housewares and home décor, and a collection of new-to-you clothing are available for your shopping pleasure!

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VOLUNTEER HIGHLIGHT

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meet: LORI BURBACK & ATHENA

Lori Burback has always loved dogs. Once she was married, she and her husband, Dan, began caring for dogs that had been abandoned by their owners. In 2012, they took in their first blind and deaf dog. “I knew I needed that dog because she was in a foster home for 18 months and nobody wanted to adopt her,” says Lori. She was fostering dogs to provide them with a better life. However, when Athena—the deaf and blind Great Dane—arrived, it was Lori’s life that was changed for the better.

At a humane society fundraiser, a trainer approached Lori and Athena in the park—noticing the dog’s gentle demeanor. The trainer suggested Athena become a certified therapy dog. Athena participated in a six-week training course through Pets Helping People and became a certified therapy dog and also went on to pass the Canine Good Citizen test.

After 24 years working in sales, Lori felt that her passion for animals was calling her to do something else—she wanted to make a difference in the lives of others. “I truly feel that rescuing these blind and deaf dogs and sharing them with others is where God wants me to be—helping others feel joy.” Athena has such a calming and welcoming presence. She is definitely a gentle giant.

Through Pets Helping People, Lori found Cedar Community and reached out to Volunteer Coordinator Bonnie Amerling with an interest in providing pet therapy for residents. Lori also visits other local senior living facilities— making visits at least two times each week. She is so amazed by the care Cedar Community team members provide and noted what a wonderful place it is. Lori enjoys the interactions with residents, but laughs that most acknowledge Athena first. “I am just the tool that unites Athena with others,” says Lori.

“I had no clue I had these skills to work with these dogs, but for some reason I do. If I can make somebody smile for a little bit or make their day a little bit better just by sharing Athena—I am grateful for the opportunity. God put these dogs in my hands to give them a better life and help people find comfort and joy in her visits.”

When she is not busy working and training her dogs, Lori enjoys crafting and has a booth in Jackson at Main Street Market—The Blind Gardener Potting Studio. She is also an active gardener and does project work for clients.

“Cedar Community really is an amazing place, and the care that is provided is some of the best I have seen. I am overjoyed with the opportunity of being able to share with others and will continue to bring light to both my dogs and the people I visit.”

Thank you for sharing your gifts of time, talents, and Athena with us, Lori!

We look forward to seeing you again, soon!

To learn more about volunteering at Cedar Community, contact Bonnie Amerling at bamerling@cedarcommunity.org or 262.306.4218.

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PET THERAPY:

Proven to provide health benefits

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Pet owners are the first to testify about how much their furry friends mean to them. But did you know that research also shows that pets can make you healthier in mind, body, and spirit? Cedar Community has actively participated in pet therapy as a part of our life enrichment and wellbeing therapies for many years.

top: Lori Burback with Athena right: Bob Brennan and Kate Green with Penny bottom: Audrey Wilkins with Lacy

Many breeds of therapy and support dogs have called Cedar Community home over the years—most recently a Shih Tzu named Charlie visits with residents in skilled nursing, assisted living, and memory care. Cedar Community is also fortunate to have volunteers who often visit with residents—bringing along their furry friends.

Studies show that just 15 minutes spent bonding with an animal promotes hormonal changes within the brain. Stress levels drop as the brain produces serotonin—the feelgood hormone. This is one of the many reasons why therapy animals are good companions for seniors—they offer so many amazing health benefits.

Many seniors already engage in pet therapy daily, because they have a pet at home. Around 65 percent of households in the U.S. have at least one furry friend. Many independent living residents at Cedar Community enjoy the companionship of a furry friend.

Researchers have found a link between pets and better cardiovascular health.

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to a lower heart rate, reduced blood pressure, and a faster recovery during mental stress. These outcomes are a result of both the reduced stress that comes with having a comforting pet, as well as the physical exercise involved in walking a dog.

Caring for a pet or interacting with animals can help maintain quality of life and support seniors through challenging life transitions, such as a move or illness. Animal therapy can reduce loneliness in seniors by providing a source of support and comfort. Animals also can improve mental stimulation and provide meaning. Pets also can help foster a sense of community, both by being a comfort themselves as well as leading to social interaction with others.

Each of the three memory care neighborhoods at The Cottages on the Cedar Run Campus is the home to two robotic cats, a robotic dog, and pet beds. These have proven to be soothing and highly enjoyed by many residents with validated outcomes for their unique ability to engage, provide companionship, calm, soothe, and further promote happiness.

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Reggie means love, pure love to us. He is just a little slice of heaven.

Marilyn Filber

top: Jane Meyer with Charlie left: Darcie Heberer with Reggie bottom: Robotic dog and cat

Pet therapy is an added benefit for residents living at Cedar Community.

It is a wonderful complement to our wellbeing programming, which also includes music and art therapy. Each therapy offers opportunities for selfexpression, inclusion and interaction, and health-proven benefits.

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Butterfly Release A Celebration of Life

Cedar Community celebrated its annual Butterfly Release and Celebration of Life with residents, families, volunteers, and team members at each of our campuses. Residents from independent living, assisted living, skilled nursing, and memory care all had an opportunity to honor, remember, and celebrate the lives of loved ones.

A special thank you to our volunteers, sponsors, and donors who made a financial gift to make this celebration possible. Also, thank you to our volunteer sponsor, Zuern Building Products and Design, who gave the gift of time to help at each release location.

Thank you to our 2023 sponsors: Anonymous donors BSG Maintenance, Inc. Kay and Michael Chevalier Drexel Building Supply Glacier Hills Credit Union The Kopfmann Company, Inc. Schmidt Funeral Home June Schroeder and Charles McCormick Steiner Electric, Inc. Wetterau Homestead, Inc.

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Time, talents, and treasures: Deb Meinert | Celebrating 40 years at Cedar Community Deb Meinert has graciously provided servant leadership to Cedar Community for 40 years! From her very first position as nursing secretary for the director of nursing and nurse scheduling, to human resources, and finally philanthropy, she has demonstrated a “people first” heart in all she does. With that many years you would think Deb started in her early teens, but after graduating high school she worked in a factory.

Realizing that was not the career path she wanted, she attended Moraine Park Technical College and earned a certification as a health unit clerk. “I liked the medical field, but I knew I wasn’t cut out to be a nurse,” says Deb. Her first interview was with Cedar Community and the rest became history.

When Hedy Gumm, director of nursing at the time (and current Cedar Community resident), was winding down for retirement, Deb transitioned to the nursing data office—now health information management—doing clerical work. In this precomputer era, Deb handled all the patient information records including treatment forms and patient summaries— working closely with nursing staff.

Continuing to learn and grow in her tenure, Deb took a position in human resources—one that lasted 27 years. She began as an HR generalist and then specialized in safety and workers’ compensation—as the eyes and ears of Cedar Community and liaison between injured workers and the organization. This was a perfect role for Deb since she provides so much compassion and support to those who need her most.

She also served as the lead for orientation—acclimating new team members with the knowledge and tools they needed to start their careers at Cedar Community.

Realizing she needed a change, when a position became available in philanthropy in mid-2019, Deb took a leap of faith. Current CEO Nicole Pretre knew Deb would be a great addition to that team with her years of history, knowledge, and relationships with team members and residents. Working very closely with Sarah Malchow (who had just been hired as the director of philanthropy in 2019), Deb learned many new skills and helped shape the “donor first” philosophy that is the hallmark of the philanthropy team today. Sarah, now chief administrative officer at Cedar Community, recalls, “Deb’s love for people—her fellow team members, our residents, and our donors— is woven through, and evident in, the deeply personal practices of the philanthropy department. Her focus on carefully stewarding the gifts of time, talent, and treasures is such a blessing to all of us. She really does put the “love” in philanthropy and the “fun” in fundraising! I am deeply grateful for her.”

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Today, Deb is the smiling face you see on the second floor at the Cedar Ridge Campus as soon as you exit the elevator.

While she misses the daily interactions with team members, she appreciates the close relationships she has formed with residents. As the one who processes donations and works closely on events such as the philanthropy socials and Butterfly Releases, Deb is also a listening ear and close confidant for many just needing to talk. She also works with residents and families who choose Cedar Community’s Memorial Garden as their final resting place.

Cedar Community has been such a place of joy for Deb over the years. She has had several family members join the Cedar Community team, and her mom also lived at Cedar Community’s memory care for four years. Deb remembers, “I truly believed in the good care provided at Cedar Community, but I actually got to see it firsthand with my mom. I will never forget the first day my mom moved in was one of the hardest days for me until I walked away and saw the CNA rubbing her back and welcoming her.”

Deb knew from that moment on that her family tree just got bigger. “I have a large family, but there is a very special branch that holds all the caregivers that lovingly cared for my mom all those years.”

Supportive, empathetic, sincere, and generous are words that definitely describe Deb as she lifts people up whether it be at work or in her personal life—she always has a caring heart. She has taken on the challenge of learning a variety of roles and is a valuable member of the team. Jenny Zaskowski, philanthropy director, reflects on working with Deb, “It is an honor and privilege to celebrate all of the great things Deb has accomplished these past 40 years. We thank her for being that person and for making a difference in so many lives, for her dedication, while giving countless hours wearing many hats along the way.”

After 36 years of working at the Cedar Lake Campus in the Cedar Lake Health and Rehabilitation Center, Deb continues to make a difference in the lives of fellow team members and residents at the Cedar Ridge Campus. “Our residents are an inspiration to me to stay active, participate in whatever you can, and not saying I am too old to learn something new.”

Deb is in an exciting phase of her life and finds joy with her family—especially her new role as grandma. She also lives on a hobby farm that includes 200 chickens. Oftentimes, you will see Deb hauling a cooler to work filled with fresh eggs. She also enjoys volunteering and is an adult leader for 4-H and helps out at her church. Deb loves the large family she has been blessed with, and that includes her Cedar Community family. “I have so many reasons to be thankful every day!”

We do, too, Deb. And you are one of them!

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Resident profile:

Tom and Sandy Blumenberg BY: Gladys Sachse Resident, Cedar Community Independent Living

Tom and Sandy were both born in Wisconsin—Tom in Port Washington and Sandy in Waubeka. They met during their freshman year at Port Washington High School and Tom knew right away he wanted to “get to know that girl.”

They started dating during their senior year—attending senior prom together. Tom and Sandy were married four years later on August 11, 1973.

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Tom is the second oldest of five siblings counting three sisters and one brother, and Sandy has one sister. Together, they have many nieces and nephews and are blessed that most of their family lives in the area. Their dog’s name is Gibson—in honor of Tom’s favorite whiskey.

Tom served as a commissioned officer in the U.S. Public Health Service for 20 years. He followed in his father’s and grandfather’s footsteps—both men served in the U.S. Navy—though Tom is happy to say he outranked both of them. He hosted a radio show while in Whiteriver, Arizona, serving the White Mountain Apache Tribe of the Fort Apache Indian Reservation. In later years, he also hosted a show on WOJB for the Lac Courte Oreilles Band of the Lake Superior Ojibwe in northern Wisconsin. In 2012, he began interviewing veterans and recording their stories for the Library of Congress, the Wisconsin Veterans’ Museum, and local newspapers. He continues to write about veterans for Cedar Community’s Live More magazine.

After he retired from public health service, and holding degrees from the University of WisconsinMadison School of Medicine and Public Health, he worked for the State of Wisconsin Department of Health Services and the Northern Lights Public Health Consortium. After retiring in 2004, he began studies to become a master gardener. Tom always had an interest in gardening after spending time in his grandmother’s garden. He shared that interest in botany in local schools and a community garden in Hayward. All the food raised was given to the school system or local food pantry. He still has a green thumb today!

Sandy obtained a BSN from the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay and a degree from Columbia Hospital School of Nursing in Milwaukee. She worked in the operating room and ambulatory health care as a civil servant in the Indian Health Service and later in the private sector.

Tom and Sandy traveled a lot in connection to their careers. Over the years they provided health care to Native American tribes in places like Wisconsin; Montana; Washington, D.C., and three locations in Arizona. They also served as medical

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mission volunteers around the world including places like Nicaragua, and Sandy also had the opportunity to serve on a Mercy Ship mission site in Honduras and on a Mercy Ship in Liberia (western Africa). These floating hospitals port in a country for up to eight months and provide surgical services to people who may never receive any specialized medical care. Their primary specialties are ophthalmology; ear, nose, and throat; orthopedics; plastic reconstruction procedures; and gynecologic repairs. All care was provided at no cost.

Sandy has always been involved in church activities, holding various church offices and assisting with Sunday school, choir, landscaping, food pantries, and resale shop work. Tom enjoys fishing and hunting. Tom has trained a succession of bird dogs that have hunted with him in Canada, Wisconsin, Michigan, Arizona, Arkansas, and the Dakotas. Tom’s interest in gardening has produced a lot of vegetables over the years so canning and freezing preservation became a hobby for Sandy.

Sandy’s family was in the grocery business so food has always been a part of her life. They enjoy raising their own food sustainably.

Before moving to Cedar Community, Tom and Sandy had homes in Hayward, Wisconsin, and Hot Springs Village, Arizona. In 2020, they moved into an independent living apartment for seven months until their new Cedar Ridge Home was completed in January of 2021. This is their sixteenth new address!

It was too much work to maintain two homes.

They researched retirement communities all over the country. At one time Sandy’s parents considered moving to Cedar Community so they were familiar with what is offered.

Tom has two Cedar Community garden plots and they share their harvest with friends and neighbors.

He has encouraged gardening in the greenhouse at the Cedar Ridge Campus. He plays the harmonica at chapel services and entertains the residents in assisted living. He also serves on the Outdoor Recreation and Hiking Trails Committees. Sandy volunteers at the Cedar Lake Pharmacy and serves on the Resident Council representing the Cedar Ridge Homes residents.

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Since 1981, Tom has gone with friends to White Otter Wilderness in Ontario. Sandy and Tom have enjoyed motorcycle, train, and riverboat trips; canoeing; cross-country skiing; downhill skiing; hiking; backpacking; and trekking with their dogs. Tom has completed the 225-mile Ouachita Mountain Trail in Arkansas in segments over three years’ time.

Having lived in federal housing and with their involvement in community work, they bring a strong sense of service and community to Cedar Community—caring, sharing, and helping others.

Their life continues to be defined by service over self as they support each other, their neighbors, and their new community.

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To learn more about independent living at Cedar Community, contact Abby Jonasson at ajonasson@cedarcommunity.org or 262.338.4617.

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A life of service: An interview with Margaret Rose Lochbaum BY: Tom Blumenberg Resident, Cedar Community Independent Living

The early years In 1938, Cyril and Marie Lochbaum welcomed daughter Margaret Rose into the world. She was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and grew up on a 40-cow dairy farm in Wind Lake.

When Margaret was nine years old, her family moved to West Allis, Wisconsin, and then again to 34th and Locust in Milwaukee. Her father took a job as a maintenance technician at Shorewood High School, and her mother was a homemaker, caring for Margaret and her sister, Marianne.

Margaret attended St. Mathias Grade School and in 1955, she graduated from Mercy High School. Her education continued at Mount Mary College. In June 1959, she was awarded a Bachelor’s of Science and Arts in occupational therapy.

Onward A few months after graduation, Margaret and one of her classmates made the decision to enlist in the U.S. Army. Her family did not like the fact that she was enlisting, as they wanted her to stay close to home and get a job.

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The Army offered a promotional program where she would be paid to complete a one-year internship in occupational therapy prior to her licensure. As part of the induction process into the program, Margaret and her friend were featured in a television piece that aired, promoting the opportunity the Army had provided to the two newlygraduated students. After her internship and obtaining her license, she was required to serve an additional year.

Basic training In September 1959, Margaret took her first airplane flight to San Antonio, Texas, for basic training. The six-week training consisted of physical training and marching. She distinctly (not fondly) remembered the gas mask training. In addition, there was plenty of classroom work, which included officer training.

She categorized her initial opportunity to lead others in marching drills as a nerve-wracking experience.

Other assignments After basic training, Second Lieutenant Margaret Lochbaum was assigned to duty at Brooks Medical Center in San Antonio, Texas. Her first duty station (as part of her internship) was in the psychiatric hospital. She cared for soldiers who had undergone ECT (electroconvulsive therapy), which was, at that time, used to treat patients with severe mental illness. She introduced patients to different phases of socializing following treatment and assisted them when returning to daily life.

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After three months, Margaret was reassigned to Fitzsimons Army Medical Center in Aurora, Colorado. There she worked in general medicine with patients suffering from long-term illnesses. Depending on the patient diagnosis, she helped train the patients to regain strength and develop skills needed to be successful in daily living activities.

In those days there were not many opportunities for special-needs students after graduation from high school.

Halfway houses or limited assistance jobs were not readily available, and this caused many young people to end up in nursing homes. Margaret took several students into her own private home to help them transition.

Margaret was promoted to the rank of First Lieutenant prior to her next assignment at Madigan General Hospital in Tacoma, Washington. She lived in a dormitory that was in view of Mt. Rainier. She said the area was beautiful and the staff was wonderful. She worked with a variety of patients with physical disabilities, accident victims, and victims of gunshot wounds.

Margaret retired from her education career in 2000. At that point, her sister was living in Brown Deer and her husband had passed away. This prompted the sisters to make the decision to move somewhere in between and they chose West Bend, building a side-by-side duplex for their home.

Margaret enjoyed gardening, quilting, and hiking the Ice Age Trail.

Margaret stayed at this post until her honorable discharge in September of 1961.

Her sister developed Parkinson’s disease and passed away, leading Margaret to make the move to Cedar Community in 2016.

Returning to civilian life After Margaret’s discharge she returned to the Midwest, accepting a position with the La Rabida Sanitarium in Chicago, Illinois, which specialized in care of children who were recovering from rheumatic fever. She later took a position in the Chicago suburbs, working with special education students in public school districts. She eventually earned a master’s degree in special education from Northern Illinois University.

In 1979, Margaret relocated to Fond du Lac, Wisconsin, and continued her career in small public school districts. She had students ranging in age from preschool to 21.

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Reflections Margaret was proud to serve her country as a “between wars” veteran. She wished she would have extended her service. She considered the good training she received in the military as an excellent basis for her career.

More service At Cedar Community, Margaret volunteers in Cedar Treasures, Cedar Community’s resale shop, and helps maintain organization in the library.

Thank you for your service, Margaret! Then AND now!

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Be our guest

There is a new hospitality space available for rent at Cedar Valley. The Hundred-Acre Haven apartment is open and ready to host personal stays. The apartment is ideal for out-of-town visitors to Cedar Community and family members coming for a special occasion!

The completely updated space is a private, threebedroom, two-full-bath apartment just a short 15 minutes from the heart of West Bend. The rental space is on the lower level of the main lodge at Cedar Valley Retreat Center, with a separate entrance and parking space.

The apartment sleeps up to six guests and also offers a full kitchen, living room, dining space, sunroom, and private patio with a gas grill to relax and enjoy. The southern exposure offers a gorgeous view of the Cedar Valley grounds. Discover the 100-acre property on our walking trails and enjoy the pond, labyrinth, covered bridge, Spirit Chapel, and more.

Additional information may be found on the Cedar Valley website or by calling 262.629.9202.

Follow Cedar Valley on Facebook for all the latest news, art class announcements, nature inspiration, and more!

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Autumn art workshop schedule Cost includes supplies. Full-day and weekend classes include lunch. Weekend classes offer commuter and overnight options.

Alcohol Ink Metal Pumpkins with Beth Kluth Saturday, October 14 | 10 a.m.–12 p.m.

Apply inks to a metal pumpkin. Learn application techniques resulting in a beautiful, glossy finish. Bring a small box to safely transport your pumpkin home.

$55

Plein Air Field Study 2 with Lorin Willey October 28–29 | 9 a.m.–4 p.m.

Designed for artists who wish to begin—or further develop—their skills as a painter in the time-honored genre. Suitable for all skill levels.

Overnight: $236; Commuter: $110

Watercolor Excitement 4 with Joyce Eesley November 10–12 | 9 a.m.–4 p.m.

Learn how to layer your washes until you have just the right value, creating contrast. Some previous experience is a plus, but not required. First-time participants should email Joyce at joyceeesley@gmail.com for a supply list.

Overnight: $410; Commuter: $150

Enamel Earrings with Beth Ratledge Saturday, November 18 | 9 a.m.–12 p.m.

Transform bits of glass and copper into two pairs of earrings.

$40

5349 County Road D West Bend, WI 53090

Find more information and class descriptions at ucci.org.

You may register online or by calling 262.629.9202. Call or email cedarvalley@ucci.org with any questions.

Cedar Valley, a property owned by Cedar Community, is managed by United Church Camps, Inc. (UCCI). UCCI hosts camps, retreats, and events at three sites: Cedar Valley, Daycholah Center (on Green Lake), and Moon Beach (near St. Germain).

Browse events and register online at ucci.org. These sacred places are for your enjoyment and spiritual renewal.

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THE HEART OF A

champion

Have you ever had someone champion for your needs and interests? I mean, truly champion? Someone who went out of their way to encourage you to perform your best; guide you; help you develop skills; maybe offer a penny or two; or offer words of advice, a hug, or a kind ear? As I began reflecting on those who have championed around me, it quickly reminded me that I need to focus on how I am championing for others. I tried to make a list of people who made a difference in my life and quickly realized the list is truly endless. We might not realize the impact in the moment— but champions are all around us each and every day.

Jenny Zaskowski Philanthropy Director

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For our family and business, it is an effortless decision to contribute our talent and treasures to worthy causes that further impact other lives in our great community. Our family has a long history in this community, and the cedar community, as both of our grandparents resided at the West Bend location and were cared for famously! With God’s many blessings, our hope is to continue to champion this cause for many years to come.

Troy Wetterau, Wetterau Homestead, Inc.

For most of us, it’s in our nature to help others—whether it be a parent looking after the best interests of their child, a friend helping another friend, or a child helping navigate care for aging parents. Champions walk beside us—personally and professionally. We are not here to question the difference we made in one’s life, but to know we made a difference. So the question emerges, how can we do this better together?

Cedar Community champions for over 900 residents—providing bestin-class care, compassion, and support. We hope you will join us this season as we kick off our 2023-2024 Partners In Caring™ annual campaign.

This is our season to champion for our friends and neighbors who once had a secure future—but may find that the funds they set aside for retirement and long-term care are not enough. When our neighbors must rely on Medicaid or other government supports to cover the cost of their long-term or skilled nursing care, these costs are not fully covered.

Today, Medicaid payments leave more than $113 per patient–per day unreimbursed. These expenses can add up over the weeks, months, and years. Your support of our Partners in Caring campaign allows us to help our friends and neighbors along their journey at Cedar Community—in spite of their ability to pay.

Thank you for being a champion for others, for walking alongside our team, local businesses, and neighbors so together we can help seniors live their best life.

To learn more about how you can become a champion and impact our Partners In Caring campaign, please contact the philanthropy team at 262.338.4625 or visit cedarcommunity.org. cedarcommunity.org

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Non-profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID West Bend, WI Permit No. 24 5595 County Road Z | West Bend, WI 53095

CEDAR COMMUNITY SERVICES DIRECTORY Independent Living West Bend · Cedar Ridge Apartments · Cedar Ridge Homes · Cedar Lake Village Homes · The Lofts at Cedar Lake 262.338.4617 · The Willows at Cedar Lake 262.306.4299 Elkhart Lake · Cedar Landing Homes 920.876.4050 Assisted Living West Bend · Cedar Bay West · The Cottages (memory care) 262.306.4299 Elkhart Lake · Cedar Bay Elkhart Lake 920.876.4050 Short-term Rehabilitation and Skilled Nursing · Cedar Lake Health and Rehabilitation Center 262.306.4240

Outpatient Rehabilitation 262.306.2150

Philanthropy 262.338.2819

Home Health 262.365.5200 or 262.306.2691

Cedar Community Salon & Spa Services · Cedar Lake Health and Rehabilitation Center 262.306.4281

Hospice 262.365.5200 or 262.306.2691 Restaurant and Catering · Top of the Ridge Restaurant 262.338.2812 Cafés · Market Café (Cedar Ridge Campus) 262.338.4614

· Cedar Ridge Apartments 262.338.2813 · Cedar Bay West 262.306.2130, ext. 4429 · The Cottages 262.365.6500, ext. 5405

· Cedar Lake Café (Cedar Lake Campus) 262.306.2100, ext. 4128

Cedar Lake Pharmacy 262.306.4289

Resale Shops · Cedar Treasures (Cedar Ridge Campus) 262.338.8377

Cedar Community Main Number 262.306.2100

· Cedar Closet (Cedar Lake Campus) 262.306.2100, ext. 4119 Volunteers 262.306.4218

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