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E D I T O R ' S N O T E "THINK OF THIS AS FORBES MEETS VOGUE" A l i t t l e g i r l s d r e a m c o m e t r u e Jen Szpigiel @BECOMINGICONIC

Welcometotheactualizationofadreamcometrue!Thismagazinehasbeenonmyheart andinmyspiritforover20years.IwenttoschoolforFashionMarketingaswellasPublic Relations because Ihad abig vision tobe thecreator and editor ofalifestyle magazine. dreamwascreatingaplacewhereyoucanfindresourcesandinformationtosupport youinlivinganexquisitelifeandtocreateyourlegacy. of this as Forbes meets Vogue. Beautifully curated pages where you sink into leadership along side of trends, style and the best places to visit. It’s an havenformonthlyinspiration,reflection,resourcesandexpansion.Thisis trulylegendaryandIamreallysodelightedyouareherewithmetorealizethis!

TABLE OF CONTENTS 3 MONTHLY INVOCATION a place to pause and reflect with intention 4 JOURNAL PROMPTS invite more gratitude in on purpose 5 ICONIC CLIENT SPOTLIGHT featuring Wellness Coach + Boutique Owner Naz Grimley 8 THE ICONIC THOUGHT What is a marker moment and how to bring more in 10 ESSENSE THE TRAVEL EDITION Our annual family vacation to the world's longest freshwater beach BECOMING ICONIC MAGAZINE VOLUME 01 September 2022 15 FEATURE ARTICLE KELLI MOORE Kelli Moore of SoulFire Productions explains why podcasting is so relevant. 21 YOUR OPPORTUNITY various ways to say YES to yourself and immerse yourself in Becoming Iconic’s world 24 JENUINE THOUGHTS My daughter went to University How Jen is processing with a private journal entry

“HOW CAN WE BE ENTRUSTED WITH ALL THAT OUR HEART DESIRES, IF WE CURRENTLY FEEL THAT WHAT WE HAVE ISN’T ENOUGH? GRATITUDE IS ALWAYS THE REMEDY.” JEN SZPIGIEL

MANTRA PRAYER

As the warmer nights linger, please guide me to savour them with deep breaths and intentionaltimewiththoseIlove.

I know it’s not always about the big marker moments in life but instead every beat of my heart,everytouch,everydetailofthequietertimesthatIcanoftentakeforgranted.

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No religious affiliation only the belief that you can call in what you need

I am full of obsessive gratitude for this moment. I am grateful beyond measure for the guidance and patience I am constantly given as I build trust in myself and realize the potentialthatwasblesseduponme.

HelpmetoappreciatethemostmiraculousgiftsthatsurroundmeeverydayasmuchasIdo the big momentous celebrations. Thank you for the blue that is perfection and can not be recreated in the sky, the birds singing every morning, children laughing in their innocence andgiftofmusicthatisplayinginthebackgroundwhileImakedinner. Thankyouforitall Amen

TAKE 5 MINUTES FOR EACH PROMPT Let’sactivatemoregratitudetodayintoourlives.Todothis,wemustbeintentionalandthoughtful.These momentsofcontemplationoftenrevealtheanswersanddesiresweholddeepinside.Sometimestheyare newrevelationsandothertimestheyarereminders.Bothareequallypowerfulbecausebothareourtruths. Herearesomejournalpromptstosupportandanchoryouintogratitudetodayandgoingforward. J O U R N A L P R O M P T S Grateful

I am eternally grateful for the color of blue that the sky holds against the green leaves of the trees. It is one of nature’s biggest blessings.

WhatisthebestmemoryIhavesofarthatIwanttohonordeeplytoday? HowcanIlearntosavourmyjourneymoreeachday?(Practice,ritual,etc)

Byspendingtimewiththesequestionsandjournaling,youarechangingthetrajectoryofyourday,week,month,life. Itrulybelievethatgratitudeistheanecdotetoanydoubts,hesitationorlackthatwefeel.

WhatdoIseerightnowaroundmethatmakesmyheartsmile?

Audacity! I know that by going out on the skinny branch is where you feel most alive and most fulfilled and I am grateful to live this way. It always has been and always will be alone time to recognize and acknowledge all that is, all that has been and all that is to come.

Whathasbeenaddedtomylife(eventhesmallthings)asaresultof steppingintomydreams?

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Working with Jen has changed my business and life in the most unexpected ways. I have always been someone who boxed myself in. I wanted to fit into the entrepreneurial space and made sure I kept up with the trends and played safe so I was not "too much". I am now unleashed from it all. I am becoming the woman I always wanted to be for me, my family and my business. My revenue has skyrocketed, my vision has expanded and my dreams that I placed in the dark for far too long are finally alive and serving my audience. In just six months, my monthly income grew faster then I thought possible. I launched my now top rated podcast and I am speaking on virtual stages all over the world. I recommend any entrepreneur who is looking to expand, unleash and increase their revenue with total liberation, step into the opportunity with work with Jen. Jen changed my life. I wake up every day excited to show up for me, my family and my business. I couldn’t imagine working with anyone else I can't thank you enough Jen, I love you

N A Z G R I M L E Y

NazisaprivateclientwhoIhavebeenblessedtopartner with.WejustenjoyedaVIPWeekendtogetherwherewe soakedinluxuryanddeepenedourrelationshipevenfurther. Wehavecreatedabrandrefreshtogether(thephotosspeak forthemselves)andplannedherbiggestventureandlaunch thatisabouttotakeplace Nazisbecomingallofherselfand itisbreathtaking! T H E I C O N I C MEETNAZ Client SCALED HER REVNUE BY 444% IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS

Thisistheonly

MyLuxePrivateMentorship.An experiencethatisunmatchedfor itspartnership,careandresults. Youwillhavemyheartandmind withinyourlifeandbusinessto createquantumshifts,revelations andmomentum spacetohave1:1timewithmeas amentorbecauseoftheenergy anddedicationIhavetoeachof myprivateclients.It’sspecialand availablefortheonewhoisready tobecomeiconic

Her Desires

Toscaleherbusinessandcreateprofit Tostopboxingherselfinandfreelybeauthentic Tocreateoffersthatconvert Tocreateaglobalpersonalbrandandpodcast Tocreateharmonybetweenlifeandbusiness @nazgrimley www.nazgrimley.com Her Results Unleashedherselftobefullyauthentic Increasedherpricestomatchherexperience andresults Starteda#4ratedpodcast:RebelliousWomen Grewhermonthlyincomeby444% Createdagloballyrecognizedpersonalbrand Hiredateamtohelpsupporther

HERDECISION

OneofmygreatestcoachingmemoriesiswithNaz.Wewereononeofourearlycalls togetherandmywholebodywastellingmethatIwasn’tseeingandexperiencingthe authenticversionofher.Iknewintuitivelythatshewasanchoredintoaperformative persona.IcanrecognizethesethingsbecauseItoohavebeeninthatpeoplepleasing posture. WhenIaskedherhowshewouldwanttoshowupiftherewerenorules,noopinions,no boxes,Iwatchedarealtimetransformation.Herwholespiritlitupandsheexpressed thatshewouldn’twearthecardigansthatshehasbeenputtingon.Shewaswearing thembecauseshethoughtitwasapartoflookinglikeahealthcoach.Iaskedhertogo andputonanoutfitthatmadeherfeelempowered,sexyandconfidentbeforewe continued.Friends,thewomanwhoreappearedinfrontofmemademyheartbeam.She camebacktoourcallwithagorgeousoutfitthatshowedherbeautifulshoulders,herhair wasletdownandsheaddedsomemakeupthatpoppedherstunningfeatures.Itisoneof myfondestmemories.WesatwitheachothertosoakinthemomentandIwasblessedto witnessawomanbecomeallofherself. Since then, Naz has launched many successful wellness programs as well as her podcast Rebellious Women which is rated top four wellness podcasts She has spoken on podcasts and stages all around the world and is teaching women to unleash themselves from all the “shoulds” and become the most authentic versions of themselves. She is about to launch her dream brick and mortar business as well as a wellness program simultaneously. This freedom to be all of herself has stretched her into the most expansive life and leader of her businesses.

Whenwefirststartedworkingtogether,Nazwaslackingconfidenceandquestionedhow tobringhergiftsoutintotheworld.Shehadrecentlyparticipatedinacoaching experiencewhereshewastoldallthatsheshouldn’tdo.Thisleftherfeelingrestricted anditalsocreatedahabitofnottrustingherself.

Thisexperienceisyourinvitation tohaveafullimmersionwithJen andgiveyourbusinessandbrand arefresh.Youwillworkwith BecomingIconic’sBoutique Agencytocreateanelevatedand expandedversionofyour leadershipandbusiness. BECOMING ICONIC MAGAZINE ISSUE ONE YOUR SEPTEMBER invitation APPLY HERE v i p w e e k e n d r e t r e a t 2openspots

Writtenby This is a marker moment. A point on your life’s road map that will hold a spot in your memory forever I remember when my mentor said to me “This is a marker moment. A point on your life’s road map that will hold a spot in your memory forever”. I loved that analogy and I findmyselfusingitnowinmyownlanguage andexpression I actually visualize the marker dropping in when I have learned a big lesson, celebrated a new milestone or had an experience that took my breath away. I find this recognition solidifies it and takes a mentalsnapshotformetorememberitby It has taught me an intention that I believe is a separator for those who live extraordinarylives.

ICONIC a road map of your life

YOU BEGIN TO PUT GRATITUDE INTO MOTION. THAT’S CELEBRATION. THE PAUSE AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF SOMETHING IS THE PRACTICE OF EXPANSION. FOR YOU. FOR YOUR BUSINESS FOR YOUR LIFE thought JEn SZpigiel

Most people are so fixated on their future goalsandaspirationsthattheyhavelittleto nojoyorpatienceforthejourney Theymiss it.It’s like they are in a car with the most beautiful view out the window passing or going by but they miss it all because they are staring at their phone anxiously waiting togettothedestination. When you begin to welcome in and celebrate marker moments, you sink into the pleasure and adventure of the journey. It becomes more about collecting as many memoriesasyoucanwhilestillhavingabig visionforwhatistocome.

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o I DESIRE FOR YOU TO START ENJOYING YOUR LIFE AND BUSINESS MORE.

Thatjoyandhardwork get to marry each other to make the most ideal and gorgeous relationship. It doesn’t have to be one or the other It is allowing yourselftohaveitall

WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE TO LOOK AT YOUR LIFE AND BUSINESS TODAY AND ACTUALLY SMILE AND GIVE THANKS?

Iguaranteeyourleadershipwouldbe amplified Yourenergywouldbecome contagiousandyourhappinesswouldbe palpable.Itleadsusintothatageold sayingof“ifthiswereyourlastday ”

Idesireforyoutostartenjoyingyourlife andbusinessmore.Torememberthere wasnostartinglinewherewealltookoff simultaneouslyandsohence,thereisno race.Someoneelse’ssuccessgetsto solidifyyourvisionofwhat’spossibleand provideevidenceforyou

Thecallisintoenjoyingeverymoment, encounterandareaofgrowth.Areyou livingthis?Areyoubeingthis?

03. While most are saying it’s not enough, be the one who dances in joy for what is Rather than look at your income as though it’s disappointing, what if you started to give thanks for the fact that you have more than when you started? Instead of exuding the energy that you don’t have enough clients or followers, what if you gave obsessive gratitude for the ones you do have? These shifts in perspective create quantumleaps I believe most worry that, if they are grateful for what they have now, somehow this is settling or interfering with their big goal. This mindset is simply the residue of our hustle culture that has tainted us from understanding that we are supposed to be happy, have fun and seize every moment anddayofourlives

Iamprompting ActuallyNO! Iamnot goingtobegentleaboutthis.Iamurging youtostartlivingyourlifebybecoming moreintentionalallday,everydayto celebratingandacknowledgingyourself, yourblessingsandthewayyourlifeis showingupforyouinthepresent Thisis whenyouentertheroomwiththoseofus whoarelivingtheextraordinaryand gloriousexistencethatmostwonderabout Weareexcitedtogreetyouandhaveaseat bl i i i h i

Thistakes nothingawayfromyou.Youarenotbehind. Youarenotmissinganything.Youarenot lessfavored Toseetheprogressyouhavemadeandthe blessings that have been bestowed upon yourjourneysofar?Tostartcollectingyour marker moments and letting them linger andbeseen?

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Story By Jen Szpigiel Travel

A FAMILY TRADITION AT GEORGIAN BAY

“CollectingmemorymakingmomentshasalwaysbeenmywhyforeverythingIdo.” Everyyear, wepackupthecarwithourkids, ourdogandtoomanygroceriesandheadnorth toenjoyaweekatthecottage.Igrewup spendingeverydayofthesummeratthebeach divingintowavesandcollecting“beauties”at theshore Togivethistomyfamilyandpasson thissummertraditionisatreasuredgift. WehavefoundagemofacottageatTiny BeachinOntario,Canada.Itisacharming placewithwoodenfloorsandceilings,wallto wallwindowsoverlookingthelakeandenough spaceforourfamilyofsixtosleepcomfortably. Thebackdeckisourmorningcoffeeoasiswhile welookoverthewaterandwatchnaturewake uptoanewday Theoutdoorshowerismy personalfavorite.Itiscelebratedbyallofusto washawaythesandfromthebeachwhile feelingthewarmbreezeonourbareskin Canadahasthemostfreshwaterlakesthanany othercountryintheworld.GeorgianBayisthe longestfreshwaterbeachintheworldandis knownforitssandbarsthatallowyoutoplay andwalkforalongtimeuntilthewatergets deep.Wejumpinthewavesanddiveintothe waterfrommidmorninguntilthesungoes down.YoucaneasilyforgetyouareinCanada anditcanfeellikeyouareintheCaribbean fromthewaythebeach,lakeandbreezelooks andfeels.

Ourroutineoflongmorningswithcoffee,followed bysunnyafternoonpicnicsatthebeach,leads intoabeforedinnerSangria.Thenweallgatherup thebeachtoys,paddleboardsandtowelstohead upandcreateadeliciousBBQmeal.Weleavethe “have tos”and“shoulds”behindusandenjoy everypartofthedayandthetreatsthat accompanyit.Onceourbelliesarefullfromour greatmeal,weheadbackwithaglassofwineto thebeachwhilethekidshavetheir“midnight” swim Wesitinaweofthesunset,desiringtotake asmanymentalpicturesaspossible. Earlybedtimesbecome anecessityfromallthe freshair,sunandindulgence.Thewindowsare keptwideopen,ceilingfansonandourskincools offwhilewedriftintothemostdeepand nourishingsleep. Thistraditionhasbeenonethatwehavekeptfor yearsnowandoneweplanoncontinuingasapart ofclosingoursummerholidaysasafamily.We laugh,weplay,werelaxandrelease.Itisthemost soul fillingandrestfulmomentforusall There arefewexperiencesthatrivaltheopportunityto spendtimetogetherwitnessingkidsopenupaway fromtechnology,playingboardgamesthatmake youlaughuntilyoupeealittlealongwithwarm skinthatiskissedbysun,sandandwater It’sreallyagreatlife.

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01. Take your own pillows for a good night’ssleep 02. Bringagreatbookforrainydays.I am reading Robin Sharma’s The EverydayHero. 03. Acoolerbagfordrinksandsnacks at the beach I highly recommend Business & Pleasure Co. Premium CoolerBags 04. Happy Ears ear plugs Avoid restless sleeps from new noises with these must have ear plugs I usethemeverynight! T H E T O P E S S E N T I A L S f o r a f a m i l y b e a c h v a c a t i o n

SEPTEMBER Recipe

2tbspoliveoil 1onionchopped(white,brown,yellow) 2garlicclovesminced 1large

LENTIL SOUP

chopped(about11/4cups) 2celeryribs chopped(about11/4cups) 2cups/400gdriedlentils greenorbrown,rinsed 400g/14ozcrushedtomato 1.5litres/1.5quarts(6cups)vegetablebroth 1⁄2tspeachcuminandcorianderpowder 11⁄2tsppaprikapowder 2driedbayleaves 1lemon(zest+juice) 1⁄4tspsaltandpeppereach ToServe: Chopfreshparsleyforgarnish Warmbreadtoserve INGREDIENTS RECIPE CREDIT: RECIPETINEATS instructions

Prep Time: 10 min cook time: 45 min total time: 55 min As the air changes, I start to crave homemade soups. I love the ease of soup for a family meal as well as the comfort of eachspoonful

Heatoilinalargepotovermediumheat Addgarlic andonion,cookfor2minutes. Add celery and carrot Cook for 7 10 minutes or until softened and the onion is sweet Don't rush thisstep,itiskeytotheflavourbaseofthesoup Add all remaining ingredients except the lemon and salt Stir Increase heat and bring to simmer Scoop scum on the surface off and discard (do this again during cooking if required) Place lid on and turn heat downtomediumlow Simmerfor35 40minutesor untillentilsaresoft Removebayleaves. ThickenSoup:Usingastickblender,do2or3quick whizzes to thicken the soup (see video below) Or transfer2cupstoablender,letitcoolslightly,then hold lid with tea towel and blend then transfer back intopot Add a touch of water if you want to adjust soup consistency. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Grateoverthezestofthelemonthenaddasqueeze of lemon juice just before serving Garnish with parsley if desired and serve with warm crusty bread slatheredliberallywithbutter! carrot

“WHEN YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH LIKE MINDED PEOPLE, YOU THRIVE AND FEEL ALIVE.” J E N S Z P I G I E L

Featured ENTREPRENEUR Featuring ENTREPRENEURS Who Are Building Legacy While Serving Others

CEO Of SOULFIRE PRODUCTIONS @soulfireproductionsco linktr.ee/Soulfireproductionsco

WHAT ADVICE YOU WOULD GIVE YOURSELF FROM THOSE EARLY DAYS OF PIVOTING NOW THAT YOU’RE HERE?

Iwouldjustremindmyselfthatitdoesn't havetobeperfectandtotrustmyself.There wassomuchdoubtthatwouldcreepinasI enteredintoanewworld AllIknewwas televisionandsports,fromthetimeIwas 11.Sotransitioningoutofamaledominated spacewhereIhadtofollowtherulesintomy owncompanyandtheabilitytochooseand navigateanewspacewasoften overwhelming.ButIalwaysfiguredoutor navigatedanewpath SoIwishIwouldhave justtakenastepbacksometimesand releasedthegripandsaid,"Youknow you 'vegotthis.Justbreathe."

WHAT HAS BEEN THE BIGGEST LESSON FROM SCALING THE COMPANY TO WHERE IT IS TODAY?

™ Icannotbethecenterofitsuniverse

MEET KELLI MOORE

Thiswassuchahardlessonformeto learn.Soulfireismybaby,andI'vepouredmyheartandsoulintoit.Manyof ourearlyclientsallcametoworkwithmespecifically.Butoncewetapped outofthataudience,IstartedtoseehowIhadbecomethelimitingfactorto ourgrowth.Noteverysingleoneofourclientsneededtocometoworkwith meorbelikeme.Theycameforourteamandwhatweoffercollectively.DidI createalotofthis?Yes.ButIthadbecomefarbiggerthanme,whichis exactlywhatIwanted.Butdeepinsideme,Ifoundithardtoletgoofmyego andmyneedtobeneededandbeatthecenter.Throughhonest conversationswithmyselfandmytherapist,Istartedtoseewheremylimits wereandhowitimpactedthecompanyandthatthemoreIletgo,themore wecouldexpandandthemorefreedomwecouldallhave.Afterthat,our businessexplodedinthebestwayandIknowit'sthebestdecisionI'veever made,asidefromhiringthegreatestteamontheplanet.

YOU SHARE HOW YOUR LIFE LOOKS RADICALLY DIFFERENT THAN WHEN YOU WORKED AS A TV BROADCASTER. WHAT GAVE YOU THE COURAGE TO MAKE DIFFERENT DECISIONS FOR YOUR LIFE AND CAREER?

WhenIwasintelevision,mylifelookedalotlikepeoplepleasingandadeepneedforexternalvalidation. Iworkedlongdaysandnights,everyholidayandweekend,andwasaconstant"yes"girl.Ididn'thave boundariesoraccesstomyownintuitionorinternalguidance.Everythingwasdrivenbysuccessand achievementtogetmoreattention.Ifeltempty,Ididn'tlikemyselformybodyandIwasphysically, mentallyandemotionallyexhaustedeveryday.OnceIquit,Iwasn'tsurewheretogoorwhattodo,butI startedmypersonaldevelopmentandspiritualjourneyandquicklystartedtoidentifyeverythingIdidn't wantorneedanymore.IhadreallyhonestconversationswithmyselfaboutwhatIwasdrivenby,whatI caredaboutandhowIwaslettingeveryoneelsemakedecisionsforme.IknewIwantedtostartfresh andcreatealifethatwasbasedonmyheartandthenudgesofmysoul.Iwantedtosupportothersin theirjourneytohealandempowerthemtotrustandlovethemselves,withoutaneedtoproveanything AndIwantedtotakeresponsibilityformychoicesthatledmetoalifethatwasnotmyown.Themore andmoreIleanedintothisframeofmindandtookownershipofmylifeandenergy,everythingshifted.I createdmypodcast,haddreamguestsandconversations,metmynowhusband,finallyleftLAand startedanewlifeinColorado,andlaunchedSoulfirefromaplaceofsupport,transparencyand community.Iwasabletofulfillmydeepestneedsanddesiresineveryfacetofmylifewithout perpetuatingoldpatternsandsystemsthatIwasraisedwith Ithasbeenliberatingtosaytheleast Ithinkthecouragetodoallofthiscamefromhittingrockbottom.Iwentthroughsexualassaultsanda publiclawsuit,14yearsofchronicillness,andIlookedinthemirroronedayamidstallofthisanddidn't recognizemyself.Iknewsomethingwasveryoff,andalthoughIdidn'tknowitatthetime,itwasthefirst timeIdecidedtoadvocateformyselfandchoosebetterformyself.WhenenoughwasenoughandIknew Iwouldn'tsurvivethatlifemuchlonger,Iphysicallyhadtoremovemyselfandburnitalltotheground

I’VE HEARD PEOPLE SAY THAT THE PODCAST WORLD IS SATURATED. HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT?

WHAT ARE THE KEY ATTRIBUTES TO A GREAT PODCAST?

WHY DOES PODCASTING MATTER TO AN ENTREPRENEUR?

2.They'renotagoodspeakerorcomfortableon camera 3.Theyaren'tclearontheirgoals,messaging, contentorfunnels

It'sdifferentforeverygenre,forsure.Butinthe spaceswemostsupport,Iwouldsay: 1.Genuine,organicconversationsthatprovideclear valueforthelistener 2.Goodenergyandafeltexcitementaroundthe content 3 Claritywithmessagingandofferings 4.Pushestheboundariesinitsspaceanddiscusses thingsotherpeoplearen'twillingto 5 Invitesthelistenerin,ratherthantalksatthem

4.Theyhaveaverysmallsocialpresence

Igetitcompletely.Itfeelssupersaturated.But herearethefacts:thereareover2million podcastsinApplePodcastsbutonly300kof themareactuallyactive.Soalthoughitfeelslike everyonehasapodcast,mostpeoplearen't actuallyputtingshowsout Thereisplentyof spaceforyourvoice,butyouhavetobereally clearaboutafewthingsinordertostandout andgrow. 1.Howisyourshowdifferentfromothersinthe spaceandinwhatwaysareyouwillingtopush theboundariesandnotsaythesamethingsas everyoneelse? 2.Whatisyourgoalfortheshowandhowdoesit feedyourbusiness? 3 Areyouusingmultipleplatformsand audiencestodrivelistenerstotheshowandare youusingaudioandvideo? 4 Areyouguestingonmultiplepodcastsa monthandcollaboratingwithotherstoshare audiencesandgrowyourreach?

Noteveryoneshouldhaveapodcast.Acouplethings IseewhenItellsomeoneitmaynotbetheright spaceforthem:

1.Theiraudiencedidn'taskforitordoesn'tcareto hearthemspeakinlongformcontent

Podcastingisoneofthemosteffectivewaysto createintimatecommunitiesthatwillnotonlyengage withyourcontentbutalsopurchasefromyou.It buildsarelationshipwithpotentialclientsunlike anythingelse,becauseinpersonaldevelopment, business,spirituality,sexuality,thereisaraw vulnerabilitythatcomesthroughandallowspeopleto feelseenandheard.Yougivethematasteofwhat it'sliketobeinyourenergyandworkwithyouand thentheynaturallywanttogofurtherinaprogram, courseor1:1withyou.Itcanbetheperfectplacefor freecontentandresourcesthatfunnelsintoyour offerings,aslongasyouareextremelyclearonwho youraudienceis,whattheywantandwhereyouwant totakethem

*Havingasmallaudiencedoesn'tnecessarilymean youshouldn'thaveashow,butyoudohavetobe veryrealisticaboutthegrowthhurdlesandthatitwill takelonger

If you would like more information on working with Soulfire Productions, please contacttheteam@soulfireproductionsco “there are over 2 million podcasts but only 300k of them are actually active.” ™

SEPTEMBER • • T H I N G S I A M L O V I N G F O R

Building a fire and sitting on my outdoor couch with a cozy blanket soaking in every last drop of warmerevenings Ilovetosipona glass of good red wine now that fallisuponus. My favorite is Schild Estate Reserve. 02.

Topbunandasweaterweather Is there anything better than a pair of jeans, a gorgeous sweater and your hair pulled up into a messy bun? I think not! Add in a pair of heelsandthelookiscomplete.

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Celebrationsareeverywherewith clientslaunchingtheirdream productsandservicesandthe rewardsfromthelast8months arepouringin. Thisismyabsolutefavoritetime ofyearforallthegoodnessit brings.Cheerstoeveryonewhois celebratingthestartofanepic fourthquarter!

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YOUR OPPORTUNITY

Your OPPORTUNITY WAYS TO WORK WITH JEN Thisisyouropportunitytolearnthe strategy+energy+visionittakestohavea 5 6figurelaunchwithyournextproductor service.Jenwilltakeyoubehindthescenes ofwhatshedoestohavestackedsixfigure launchestimeandtimeagain.The systems,thecreativity,themindset,the lessons,theposturetohavemindblowing resultswithinyourbusiness. THE VIP WEEKEND LUXURY MEETS BRANDING THE CATALYST GROUP COACHING MENTORSHIP BehostedbyJenandherBoutique Agencyforaweekendwhereyoumeet thefutureversionofyourself.Youwillbe soakedinluxurywhilespendingthe weekendrefreshingorbuildingyour brand.It’salifechangingandintimate experience. APPLY HERE APPLY HERE

ThisexperiencehasyousayingYES everyroomthatJenopensforayear accesstoeverygroupcoachingprog offers,alongwithamonthlymasterm togetherandbuildrelationships.Do joinforthelastquarterinto2023wit Catalystisincludedwithinthisexpe Oneyearofprivatementorshipthat MastermindRetreat. Thispackagew featureinboththeBecomingIconic Thisistheonlywaytowork1:1with applicationonly. PRIVATE MENTORSHIP LUXE 1:1 COACHING ICONIC EXPERIENCE HYBRID EXPERIENC APPLY HERE APPLY HERE

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Atthebareminimum,itisourresponsibility topourandexudelove,butmanyofusmiss opportunitiestodothisonadailybasis We’resofocusedonourselves,andourto dolists Weoftenforgettostoptolookup, receiveandgivetothosearoundus Itis alwaysadivineencounterandit’suptous torecognizethis

Sometimes,seeingthecommonalities betweensomeoneelse’sstoryandyours canleadtoinspiration Intoday’sepisode, Jensharesherstoryofunlearningher peoplepleasingtendenciesthatplagued herthroughoutmostofherlife

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CREATE DIVINE ENCOUNTERS

Herstory showswhydevelopingacutediscernmentof yourtruestdesirescanbeyoursecret weapontolivinginintegrity ADVERSITY IS INEVITABLE

THE Podcast

PEOPLE

Weoftenlookatotherpeopleorthingsas beingthefulfillingpiece.Whetheritbe marriage,havingchildren,aspecificdollar amount...Whenwerealizethatthoseare beautifulblessingsandteachersinour lives,butthatthegreatestrelationshipof allistheonewehavewithourselves,that’s whenwereallystarttobeavailableforall thatourlifeismeanttohold

Tobeanauthenticleader,youmustbe willingtorealizethatnoteveryoneisgoing tolikeyou.Youaregoingtotriggersome peopleandyouaregoingtofaceadversity Today’sSoulSparkisanencouraging messageforthosewho’vebeenkicked downinthepast Forthosewhosewounds mayhavehealed,butwhocanstillseethe scarsfromlowpointsintheirpast.

It’sstillan ongoingprocess,butherprogresshas allowedhertoreachnewheightsasan entrepreneur,friendandpartner

PLEASING

J E N U I N E T H O U G H T S

I can’tbelievemydaughterleftforuniversity! Howdidthathappen?! Itisareallystrangetimetonavigateasawoman andamom.TherearesomethingsIdon’tlike witnessinginmyselfandthereareareasthatIam reallyproudof. Ispentmostofthesummerincompletedenial.I honestlydidn’tfeellikeitwasreal.IwishIhad spentmoretimedreamingwithheraboutitbutI justfounditsodifficulttogothere Itwasmy copingmechanism.Denialmeantnotfacingit. I FEEL TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A CHILD IN UNIVERSITY is off to UNIVERSITY I CAN'T BELIEVE MY DAUGHTER

AsIsitinturmoilaboutwhetherIdidallIcould ormaybesomehowfailedher,Ihavealsobeen abletoseetheareaswherebeingamomhas shapedme. Idecidedalongtimeagothatthebigmoments ofmychildren’sliveswouldbetheirs ThatI wouldnotinterferewiththeirprocessor experiencebyprojectingmyfeelingsuponthem. Thistomefeelslikeagooddecisionasamom butitisn’teasy.Iwanttotellherallmyfears aroundparties,boysandpotentialsituations I wanttomakesuresheistuckedinbedsafely eachnightandgetsupwhenheralarmgoesoff inthemorning Iwanttomakesuresheiseating wellanddrinkingenoughwater.Iwanttoknow whosheisspendingtimewithandifsheishappy bylookingatherfaceasshewalksby.Butthisis notmymoment.Thisishers.IhavetotrustthatI havecreatedafoundationoverthelasteighteen yearsthatledustothisgorgeousyoungwoman infrontofmewhocanleadherself.

Ifeellikeitagesmeandexpeditestimepassing inareallyuncomfortableway.Thismaysoundso egocentric(anditis)butthesearemytruths.I amgivingyouthebehindthescenesglanceto sharethevulnerableandtransparentsideofme thatisn’talwaysshownonotherplatforms ThinkofthislikemydiarythatIambravely sharingwithyou.

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IalmostfeellikeIhavemissedsomething.How didwegetheresofast?Iswearitwasjust yesterdaywhenIwassnugglingher,lookingat thosestunningturquoiseeyesandsoakingin fearofmydoingitallwrong.Idon’trememberit all AmIsupposeto?Aretheremomsoutthere whocanrecalleverypivotalmomentlikea perfectlycuratedscrapbookintheirminds? Ihavebeenpresent.Ihavebeendistracted.I havebeenloving.Ihavebeenselfish.Ihave beenthebestandtheworstofmeasaMom It doesthatifwearehonest.Howelsecanitbe experiencedwhenwehaveapieceofuswalking aroundoutsideofourbody?!

Thisisalifealteringmomentformy daughter.Sheismovingout,goingtoanew city,navigatinguniversity,andfindinganew communityoffriends Thisisallbigenough forherwithouthavingtoholdallofmy emotionsthatIamprocessing.Itoldherthe otherdaythroughtearsthatIdidmybestto manage(Squeezingyourbuttcheeksreally works!),thatalthoughIwouldmisshermore thanwordscouldexpress,Iwasjustso genuinelyhappyforher.ThatIbelievedin her ThatIwasproudofher ThatIknewshe wasfullycapableofcreatingawonderful experienceforherself.ThatItrustedher. ThatIlovedher.

Thatthiswasallforher. Ifeltherheartsoftenandasmileoflove returnedbacktome.“ThanksMom”waslike hearing“Iloveyou”forthefirsttimeagain Theydon’tprepareyouforthesemomentsas aMom.Youhavetoprepareyourselffor them Theywillholdeveryemotionpossible andwillgiveyouanopportunitytodeepen yourrelationshiporkeepitthesame.Iam choosingtodeepenit.Neverdoingit perfectlybutdoingitthebestwayIcanwith whatIknowtoday. Shinebrightly,babygirl!Xo

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