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Cadence Lane, 8, AJ Lane, 5, & Angeline Lane, 6 are the children of Carolyn and Adam Lane of Augusta.

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Mom to Mom

A Strong Case of the Cooties —Karen Gordon

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News & Notes

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Eating Well With Kim

Creativity and Cooking Edamame Pasta Salad Recipe —Kim Beavers, MS, RD, LD, CDE

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Doctor Dad

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Smart Mom’s Guide

—Renee Williams

Arts & Sports

Editor’s Page

Marathon Metaphors —J. Ron Eaker, M.D.

Guide to Travel Sports —Cammie Jones

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Raising Readers

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Inspiration Station

Raising Summer Readers —Meridith Flory

Faith and Basketball with Will Avery

—Naimah Shaw

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Calendar

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Go Girl!

Lena Taylor —Renee Williams

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or decades, children have been dressing up as

into his own fantasy role and found his superhero power

superheroes. Our children find comfort, even

in his ability to compose and create music. Of course

hope, in superheroes. Recently, Wonder Woman

when this occurred, I felt I had been thrown into a con-

earned $600 million at the box office world-

fusing new world with little guidance on how to balance

wide and after 75 years of heroics (aside from her lasso of

his superpowers with say...his homework, but he found

truth, bullet proof bracelets and boomerang tiara) Wonder

his way.

Woman’s true superhero power is her ability to inspire.

Another part of Wonder Woman’s success story is the

Several years later, my goddaughter Paige felt her calling in being of service to others and one moment she

J. Ron Eaker, M.D.

common narrative of “the hero’s journey,” a story that has

was volunteering at the church nursery and now she is

Meredith Flory

been told in a thousand different ways with a thousand dif-

fashioning her superhero cape and tights to serve in the

Karen Gordon

ferent faces. It is the story of Star Wars, The Lion King and

United States Coast Guard.

Layla Khoury-Hanold

The Wizard of Oz. The monomyth of the hero’s journey is in

Cammie Jones

almost every movie you have seen, in every book you have

will surely be the most adventurous quest of all, I am

Mary Ashton Mills

read and it is present in everyday life because we are all on

scanning the landscape for clues along the way. Dylan’s

Paige Tucker

the hero’s journey.

love of fashion, especially shoes, his interest in music,

Naimah Shaw

We all have a unique set of talents and abilities that

Finally, as I ally with my youngest son Dylan, for what

dance and cooking are all clues along the way. Although I

set us apart-our very own superhero power, an inner

can mentor and guide my children to follow their passion,

awesomeness that we hope to bring to life. Our superhe-

ultimately it is up to them to become the hero of their

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Mom to Mom b y Ka ren G o rd o n

A Pretty

strong Case of

The CooTies @SayWhatScooter: Mommy, what are cuties?

Mommy: Cuties? @SayWhatScooter Yeah, cuties.

Mommy: They’re those cute little tangerines… really sweet, too. @SayWhatScooter: NNOOO (with sarcasm)… cuties are something that people get on their skin.

Mommy: Say what? @SayWhatScooter: Mom, I’m talking about the disease - that people have on their skin. If you touch it, you’ll catch it and get sick. (pause) Mommy: Ohhhhh, you mean COOTIES! @SayWahtScooter: Yeah, cuties.

Mommy: Ok.

For the past two weeks, I’ve had a pretty strong case of THE COOTIES. It was some kind of upper respiratory, sore throat, nasty cough-ish sort of thing. I’d expected it to just go away – considering it was a consequence of two nights of listening to live music in smoky rooms. (Note to self: Stop doing that!!) However, the cough persisted and then got worse.

So, I decided to do the most logical thing – treat it myself. Now, I didn’t say it was smart but I don’t like to take medicine so it made sense to me.

The whole thing started out innocently enough. I called my friend Denise at Humanitree House Juice Joint, told her about my cooties, and she recommended my favorite - Sunshine Ginger-Aide. We’re off to a great start.

Next, I made some kind of concoction with a eucalyptus plant that I bought from the Saturday Market. Inhaling the steam helped to clear all sorts of nastiness and satisfied my desire to have a ‘farm to table’ experience. The hot tea with lemon was helpful and I felt much better after the second one, but I’m sure that was because of the vodka.

The guys were great though. Bossman waited on me hand and foot and Scooter took good care of Georgia, only putting popcorn in her bowl once, again trying to convince us that he had been sleepwalking.

This thing-the cooties- lingered for nearly two weeks so I eventually went to see a doctor who prescribed a strong cough medicine and suggested that I get some rest. Apparently, rest is a significant component of wellness and I seem to have trouble with that. However, I vow to do a better job of self-care and I encourage all mothers to do the same. Being superwoman seems great in theory and looks cool on television, but we cannot fix what ails our communities, families and relationships if we, ourselves, are sick.

Stop and smell the roses. Unplug. Get lots of hugs and let the kids bring you breakfast in bed. They have the best bedside manner…

“Mommy, if you have to throw up, just don’t throw up on my haircut or Daddy’s haircut, okay?”

Karen Gordon is a singer, songwriter and the founder of Garden City Jazz. She works with the City of Augusta to present the Candlelight Jazz Concert Series each year and has partnered with RCBOE to develop interactive courses such as Taking Notes: Jazz & The American Story and Jazz4Kids.

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”Go into the arts. I’m not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable. Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow, for heaven’s sake. Sing in the shower.

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Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something.”

-Kurt Vonnegut

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Splash in the Boro

Are we there yet?

SPLASH IN THE BORO, STATESBORO

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By Mary Ashton Mills dog days of summer in Georgia require creative ways to stay cool. When your kids grow bored with all of the local splash pads such as the backyard slip and slide, the lake, the pool and the river, opt for a day trip to one of Statesboro’s largest attractions, Splash In The Boro Water Park. For this easy day excursion, make plans to leave Augusta early in the morning to arrive at the park by the time it opens at 10:00 am. As always with large attractions, the early bird gets the worm. Plan to stake claim to some lounge chairs and set up camp for the day. The park offers something for everyone with trio slides, a zero-depth entry toddler area, a lazy river, lily pads, a five lane thrill ride, a surfing simulator and even a state of the art wave pool set to open this summer. If you are traveling with a large group or want extra space for your party, plan to reserve a cabana for $70 per day, allowing some shade, extra seating and a cabana host who will take care of your party with food service. Within the park, there are three dining options to choose from: Splashy’s Snack Shack, Splashy’s Sandwich Shoppe and Splashy’s Tiki Hut. The park also offers hand stamps if you choose to splash for a while, leave the grounds for lunch and come back for the afternoon. Located inside of Mill Creek Park, a 42acre recreational park with trails, sports fields and ponds, visitors can enjoy a picnic and some time with nature before returning to the park for the afternoon.

DISTANCE: 82 miles, 1 hour 30 minutes BUDGET: Admission is $18.99 per person over 4 feet tall, $13.99 under 4 feet tall, children under 2 years old are free. Insider Tip: Tickets purchased online are of-

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fered at a discount and visitors get a break from the long ticket lines.

WHAT TO SEE: If you’ve always wanted to try your luck at carving a turn on a wave while surfing, the Flowrider is for you. It is the only dual flowrider in Georgia. Tickets for the stand up Flowrider experience must be purchased in addition to your water park ticket and are $10.00. Don’t miss the grand opening of the new wave pool this summer.

IF YOU GO: The park reaches maximum capacity on weekends so take a mid-week trip if you can. If not, plan to arrive early and get in as many slides as possible to beat the long lines.

SAFE KIDS

FAST FACTS AUGUSTA, Ga. – Every summer,

reach at all times while near a pool or

strings in apparel, which can get caught

nearly 25,000 children in the United

body of water. Swimming lessons and

on playground equipment and strangle

States under age 15 are treated in

inflatable swimming aids do not prevent

a child.

emergency rooms for unintentional

drowning; there is no substitute for

injuries. In fact, a study conducted

active supervision. Keep a phone handy

4. Be streetwise. Teach your children

by the National Safe Kids Campaign

and know infant and child CPR.

to use crosswalks and walk signals

found that during the summer months,

Forever a Lady

when available and only to cross after

emergency room visits for accidental

2. Bike with care. Every cyclist should

looking both ways. Look left, then

injuries among children increased

wear a properly fitted bike helmet.

right, and then left again before cross-

nearly 20 percent over other seasons,

Children should ride bikes of appropriate

ing. Whenever possible, have them

especially among school-age children.

size and should not ride without supervi-

cross with an adult.

sion until they have demonstrated safe Parents and caregivers should under-

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riding habits and good judgment.

5. Climb with caution. Children love climbing trees, fences, hills, walls, and

stand and know how to minimize the risks of summer activities for children.

3. Play it safe on playgrounds. Grass,

rocks, but the risk of fall injuries is ever

Here are five steps to help make sum-

soil, and asphalt are not safe surfaces

present. Teach them to be careful and

mer safer for children.

for playground equipment. Make sure to

not to climb without an adult.

take your children to a playground cov1. Swim smartly. Pools should be sur-

ered about 12 inches deep with mulch,

This summer, make safety a part of your

rounded by isolation fences with locked

shredded rubber, or fine sand. Beware

children’s routine and help safeguard

gates. Keep your child in sight and in

of jewelry, bike helmet straps and draw-

them from injuries.

Safe Kids Greater Augusta, led by Children’s Hospital of Georgia, works to prevent accidental childhood injury, the leading killer of children ages 1 to 14. Safe Kids Greater Augusta is a member of the Safe Kids Worldwide and USA networks. To find out more about local Safe Kids programs, call 706-721-7606, or visit grhealth.org/safekids.

Augusta Mini Theatre, Inc. Arts & Life Skills School Presents Sunshine’s Roast & Toast: “Forever a Lady” featuring Deanna Brown Thomas, Sylvia Cooper, Barbara Gordon and Lessie Price on July 25 at 7:00 p.m. at Church of the Good Shepherd (Parish Hall), 2300 Walton Way. All funds from the annual event will benefit Mariah McKie Butler Memorial College Book Scholarship Fund. Tickets are $50 per person and available by calling 706722-0598 or online at www.augustaminitheatre. com. Augusta Mini Theatre, Making Proud Choices, is a non-profit arts and life skills school and offers classes in piano, African and modern dance classes, drama and visual arts and also conducts a teen pregnancy prevention workshop.

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Eating well with Kim b y Ki m B e a v e rs , M S , R D, LD, C DE

Creativity and Cooking!

I used to think that I had the creativity of a rock and

food consumption and allows children to make healthier

then I started cooking for myself. Eventually, I realized

food choices. With the goal of both future health and less

that I frequently altered recipes and often changed them

mess, it is important to embrace kitchen creativity with kids

into completely new recipes, which indeed is a form of

in a meaningful and edible way. The pasta salad included in

creativity. Fast forward 20 plus years and my daughter

this article is a perfect recipe to “not follow”. There are many

also prefers not to follow a recipe, which unfortunately

ways to change it and still end up with something creative

results in a lot of inedible mess making. Admittedly, I have

AND edible. Here are some ideas to get you started.

not been stellar at encouraging this form of creativity, especially since I am usually the clean-up crew. In an effort to practice what I preach, my perspective has changed

• Change up the vegetables, think lightly steamed asparagus or green beans in place of the zucchini---delicious.

from squelching kitchen creativity to embracing and gen-

• Or try roasting the veggies or grilling them first

tly redirecting the whole creative process.

• Simplify this recipe by using store bought balsamic (recommend Newman’s Own®)

Allowing children time in the kitchen is not just helping

• Alter the dressing altogether

them develop a life skill, but also predictive of future health

o try tossing with olive oil, and sprinkle a packet of pow-

and wellness. Cooking skills correlate positively with weekly vegetable consumption, avoids the frequency of convenience

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dered ranch on top and toss again • Change the pasta shape

Eating well with Kim

Edamame Pasta Salad This pasta salad has a rainbow of colors and will be a welcome addition to any summer time feast.

1 ½ cups (6 ounces) gemelli pasta (twisted pasta) 16 ounces (3 cups) shelled edamame 2/3 cup red onion, chopped 1 small zucchini chopped 1 small yellow squash, chopped ½ medium red bell pepper chopped 2 medium tomatoes, chopped 3 Tbs. balsamic vinegar 2 tsp. lemon juice 2 Tbs. extra virgin olive oil ¾ tsp. dried dill weed ½ tsp. oregano leaves 1 tsp. Greek seasoning Black pepper to taste Garnish with chopped parsley Cook the pasta according to package directions (omitting the salt and oil). During the last 5 minutes of cooking add the shelled edamame to the pasta pot and bring back to a boil for 5 minutes. Drain pasta mixture, and rinse with cool water.

Combine pasta in a large bowl with remaining vegetables (red onion through tomatoes).

In a separate bowl whisk together the dressing ingredients (balsamic vinegar through black pepper). Pour dressing over pasta mixture and toss to coat. Sprinkle with parsley as a garnish. Chill for 1 to 2 hours before serving (Toss before serving to re-coat the salad with dressing, as it sinks to the bottom a bit).

Yield: 10 servings (serving size: 1 cup) Nutrient Breakdown: Calories 170, Fat 5g (0g saturated, 2gmono), Cholesterol 0mg, Sodium 260mg, Carbohydrate 22g, Fiber 4g, Protein 8g, Potassium 460mg Diabetes Exchange Values: 1 Starch, 1 Vegetable, 1 lean meat

Kim Beavers is a Registered Dietitian and Diabetes Educator for University Health Care System. She lives in North Augusta with her husband and two children and she is the co-host of the culinary nutrition segment Eating Well with Kim, which airs at noon Monday, Wednesday and Friday on WRDW. To be notified of new recipes join Kim’s facebook fan page at www.facebook.com/eatingwellwithkim. To search for specific recipes go to www.universityhealth.org/ewwk. You can also watch the segments at www.wrdw.com/ewwk.

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Marathon

Dr. Dad

b y J. Ro n E a ke r, M . D.

Metaphors

You don’t conquer the marathon, You survive it! i am writing this on the waY back from running marathon number 42!!!

Let me just say for the record that sitting in

nius who invented digital cameras, as I can now

a car for two and a half hours after running 26.2

immediately eliminate the hundreds of pictures

miles, and being an old codger at that, is about as

of the wall, floor, and cut-off heads that I once

pleasurable as having your finger nails pulled out

paid Eckerd’s thousands to develop for me. Any-

by a crazed, masked manicurist. However, the

way, when it comes to your family’s health, there

“runner’s high” carried me through until my body

are no short cuts. Face it. Accept it. Practice it! If

reminded me just how dumb this repeated pun-

you and your family are to be fit and healthy, you

ishment is. The race does give you plenty, and

must realize that you are in it for the long haul.

the way I run, I do mean plenty, of time to wax

For example, diets are horrible because their ini-

philosophically about various topics so I found

tiation implies that there will be a time when you

myself cogitating on family health and wellness

will no longer diet, and for most of us, we then

during a particular hilly stretch in the Virginia

go back to the heart clogging, belly bloating style

Highlands neighborhood. (As an aside: it is a

of eating that got us into trouble to start with.

good thing to remember that an area with the

What you need is a permanent change in life-

word “highlands” in its name is not a good first

style, not some temporary fix me up. Think long

choice for a running route!)

term when considering any family health related

The marathon has been used a metaphor for

issue. Whether it is eating or exercise or regular

many things and rightly so. It has elements that

checkups, know that, God willing, you are going

pervade various endeavors: discipline, persis-

to be on this planet around 80 years, and what

tence, training, and obsession. But I found my-

you do now affects the quality of those years to-

self thinking of how it illustrated the way we

wards the end.

approach the health and welfare of our families.

The marathon is a daunting task if you look at

First, like the marathon, wellness is a long-term

it in its entirety. But if I view it as just four six mile

endeavor. We live in a society that cherishes the

courses, it becomes much less intimidating psy-

quick and easy. People are rewarded for figur-

chologically. Likewise, to make sustainable health

ing out short cuts, minimizing effort, and sim-

changes in the family, don’t alter habits drastical-

plifying complex tasks. Certainly, some of those

ly, break them down into smaller, more manage-

approaches do a great deal towards improving

able segments. For example, don’t take on a new

our lives. I will forever be indebted to the ge-

exercise regimen and also quit smoking. Get rid

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Dr. Dad

Anyway, when it comes to your family’s health, there are no short cuts. Face it. Accept it. Practice it!

of the cancer sticks first; reward yourself, and

can be a very positive accomplishment.

tion. Seeing health and wellness from a fam-

then move on to a walking program. Teach

No one runs and survives a marathon with-

ily perspective changes “me” thinking to “we”

your children that small steps will eventually

out two key characteristics: persistence and

thinking, and that can have powerful effects

get you to the finish line. A young child may

discipline. There comes a point in every race

on your motivation. Nothing will substitute for

revolt if you radically change their after-school

where the head takes over for the legs and

committing to a goal and deciding that achiev-

snacks, but a slow subtle change from Twinkies

you have to decide that you are going to finish

ing that goal is non-negotiable. Leaving your

to fruit slices will be more tolerable. Before I

in spite of the pain. So, I believe, no one can

children a legacy of good health is one of the

ran my first marathon ten years ago, the lon-

achieve family fitness and health without a

greatest gifts you can give.

gest distance I had ran at any one time was four

degree of “stick-to-it-tiveness” and commit-

Indeed, the marathon is a metaphor for many

miles. A slow steady buildup over time allowed

ment. There will be times that the necessary

things, and I find its most compelling compari-

me to run the San Francisco marathon six

choices will be painful, but you have to stick

son to a family’s health. Now if I can just spend

months later. You can make changes that are

to your principles and persist. If you won’t do

the next three weeks in my whirlpool bathtub, I

relatively minor at first, but if applied daily, will

it for yourself, do it for your children. You are

will feel human again!

logarithmically increase over time. Just getting

the greatest teacher your kids will ever have.

into the habit of preventative doctor checkups

Lead by example. This changes your motiva-

Look for our

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Smart Mom’s Guide b y C a m m i e Jo n es

Guide to

TRavel SPORTS Way back in the olden days (the 80s), you just didn’t hear about so many kids playing travel sports and if you did know someone, it was most likely a boy playing soccer. Times have certainly changed and today you see travel football, baseball, dance, cheerleading, volleyball, basketball and more. It’s not just for guys anymore either - girls are just as heavily involved.

As a parent how can you decide if playing a travel sport is best for your child, and, maybe more importantly, for your family?

PROS Team Bonding Making new friends off and on the field is very important to the success of travel sports. It’s always fun to play a team sport and work together with a common goal of winning but it is just as important for the team to get along off the field when they are not playing or in a competition.

Courtney Wier of Augusta and mother of a travel soc-

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cer player, says, “I believe that getting to know your teammates off the field helps you to communicate and understand each other on the field. Singing at the top of your lungs on the car ride or playing hide and seek in the Hampton Inn are always great ways to get to know each other.”

PromoTes a HealTHy lifesTyle In order to be competitive, your child will have to be in top shape. This means they need to learn to eat right and stay hydrated. They are also more physically active

Smart Mom’s Guide

as well with both weekly practices and competitions or games. This is a great foundation for buidling the healthy eating bug to continue on to their teens and beyond.

Parent Bonding It’s not always just about the kids. This is a great way for the parents to make new friends as well. When you are on the sidelines of your child’s football or basketball game, the only familiar faces you see may be your team’s parents. This is an easy way to strike up a conversation with a mom or dad and enjoy the game with a new friend. Eating together as a team is also a good way to get to know each other. “It’s great to share a beer together by the hotel pool and recount the highs and lows of the weekend games,” adds Weir.

Seeing new SightS Traveling out of town to places you have never been before is a great way to see what’s out there. Weir recently traveled to Atlanta for an early morning soccer game and was able to visit Six Flags over Georgia for an afternoon of family fun. When you are in between games and have a few hours of downtime, check out the town square, go shopping or visit a museum. Include the siblings and make a weekend out of it if your destination is in a location that sounds like fun for your family. Make the most of your travel time. time management With two or three practices or more during the week, your child will have to manage her time wisely. Juggling school work, family time, hobbies and a social life while making time for practices will cause her to become quite an organized young lady. We all know time management is key even as your child gets older, attends college and enters the working world.

Being a team Player If your team is good or just average, being a team player is key to the success of the season. There may not be many subs on the teams so this makes is even more crucial that your child attend almost every practice and game. There may be different skill levels as each player has his strengths and weaknesses.

This may be frustrating for your child, but these are all character building traits that will help your child in the long run.

Being part of a team with various personalities and skill sets allows them to really know what it means to be a team player.

CONS time Commitment Travel sports will take up a lot of your free time. From weekly practices to traveling out of town for the day, overnight or for the weekend, the time involved is a major factor to consider when deciding whether or not to play.

It’s not just difficult for the player but for the entire family.

If you don’t have good friends or family in your hometown

who can take care of your other children when you are away, then one of the parents will have to stay behind or every weekend is a family weekend. Note the dates of the practices and tournaments or performances and compare it to your personal calendar before you commit.

CoSt Needless to say, the cost involved in travel sports can be hefty. Here are some costs that need to be considered along with your family’s budget: -

Cost of playing on the team (tournament costs, etc) Equipment, uniform, costume costs Cost of hotels and gas Food, beverage expenses

The actual travel costs can be alleviated if you have someone on the team with whom you can trade off travel. Share a hotel room or send your child with another family if you know them well enough. Then take your turn for the next out-of-town tournament. Stay with friends or family if you are going to a town in which you have personal connections.

Pack a cooler with food and drinks so you don’t have to go out for every meal. Sign up for hotel rewards packages that allow you to gain points or get discounts at various hotels.

There are many ways to cut corners here and there with some pre-planning on your part.

Fear oF miSSing out (Fomo) If your child has FOMO - fear of missing out - you may want to make sure that he or she is okay with missing some weekend activities and parties with their friends. No one wants to miss out, especially teenagers, so the sacrifices that come with travel sports for your child may deter them from truly making the commitment. Make sure your child is aware of any upcoming social events that they may not make it to because of travel.

PreSSure to PerForm I have spoken to some parents who say playing a travel sport stressed their child out to the point that they no longer desired to play the sport. There does come pressure to perform when you play at this caliber. As a parent, make sure that your child will take this pressure and make it a positive “peer pressure” versus a way to make them feel intimidated or less than. You know your child best and what works and doesn’t work for them when it comes to this so use your best judgment.

Whatever you decide regarding playing or not playing a travel sport, just make sure that everyone is on board with the decision. If you do give it a go, give it 100 percent and stay positive throughout the season. Playing on a travel team has many benefits that will stick with your child and with you for years to come.

Cammie Jones is an Augusta freelance writer and mother of three.

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Raising Readers

by Mere d i th Fl o r y

RAISING SUMMER READERS FOR YOUNGER CHILDREN, reading in the home is hopefully part of a routine that can be used year round - bedtime stories, storytimes at local libraries or simply having easily accessible board books and picture books for them to look at are ways to encourage a love of reading year round. However, once readers become more independent and school takes up a large part of their time, it can be more difficult to help your child cultivate a love of learning related to their own curiosity, rather than “work”. During the summer, your schedule as an adult may continue, while your children have suddenly more free time on their hands - time where books and educational pursuits face stiff competition from media and technology. The ability to relax and recharge is important for creativity and health at any age, but are there ways that we can encourage our children to make reading, writing and imaginative play a part of how they choose to relax?

Recently, I spoke with Trina Finley, a media specialist in the Columbia County school system, about motivating children, specifically teens to read over the summer. Finley was the Columbia County Media Specialist of the Year in 2011 and 2012 and has two daughters, one attending Davidson Fine Arts School, and one studying creative writing at Augusta University. Finley acknowledged that

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Raising Readers getting some students to read on their own will always

have their tablet or gaming system. This might include

be a struggle, but being patient and setting an example

age appropriate chores, reading a chapter of a book,

is key in motivating your children to come to reading

completing a puzzle or drawing activity, or other hands

on their own. She advises parents, “Don’t force it! I

on activities for around the house.

think that is one reason teens absolutely refuse to read over the summer. They have a variety of novels they

Check with your local library for information on their

read during the school year, and since they are forced

summer reading program each year, or book clubs and

during the school year, they absolutely do not want

other learning activities. Many libraries offer game

to read over the summer.” This may be particularly

nights, crafting or technology classes for children and

important for students who struggle in English classes,

teens. A weekly visit to a local library can be a fun

so here are ways to more subtlety encourage learning

summer activity to do with your child, and you could

over the summer months.

include a stop at a playground, ice cream store, or other fun outing nearby!

Use Technology To yoUr AdvAnTAge For younger readers, the Epic! Books app and simi-

In addition to libraries, Finley reminds parents that

lar electronic book apps, might engage them through

other spaces in the community offer book-oriented

technology. Epic! Books is a e-book streaming service

events. She suggests our local Barnes and Noble as a

for preschool through middle school reading levels.

space that offers reading events with a public calendar

For a monthly fee, children can access books, maga-

online, and the Book Tavern in downtown Augusta of-

zines, and learning videos. One fee is attached to a

ten offers storytimes and other reading events as well.

parent account that allows multiple child accounts and

She also mentioned that Augusta University Academy

sends an email to the parent to let you know how much

(www.augusta.edu/academy/) is a good resource for

time, and what, your child is reading. Finley also sug-

finding educational opportunities for families at our

gested the Storia App by Scholastic which has books

local university.

available for children. Magazine or comic subscriptions may be more appealing to children or teens who do not

Finley recommended purchasing a gift card to a book-

enjoy traditional fiction.

store as a way to point teens towards choosing and purchasing reading material that they feel invested in

Finley also encourages Goodreads for teens and par-

and want to read. This may work as a present at the

ents - a website or app that allows you to keep track of

beginning of summer or a reward for completing an-

what you’ve read, read or post reviews, find book sug-

other task around the house. Several local used book-

gestions, and participate in online conversations with

stores, including 2nd & Charles, offer store credit or

other readers. She adds that the Barnes and Noble

cash for books turned in. If your teen has raised their

website also has videos of interviews with authors and

reading level, clean out books, video games and DVDs

blog entries suggesting books to teens.

that you both own, and offer that they may have the store credit the family receives to purchase new books

For budding writers, she shares that Wattpad is “by

- make an evening of dinner and shopping together as

far the top choice” of writing apps. Wattpad is a free

a way to reconnect. Even at my daughter’s young age,

website and app that allows anyone to write and pub-

turning in books and media we no longer need and

lish their stories, enter contests, and read by genre or

browsing the different sections is an activity we enjoy

hashtags. She explained, “In fact, some of the books

doing as a family.

I purchase for the media center are authors that have become famous because of Wattpad. Students here

While it can be difficult to find ways to incorporate

follow each other to read their work too.”

reading into a busy household, especially with older children, setting an example and providing opportuni-

IncenTIvIze reAdIng

ties throughout the year is a way to not only encour-

While the end goal should be intrinsic motivation, for

age your child to read unprompted, but to connect and

reluctant readers, participating in some sort of incen-

build your relationship as well.

tive may help them begin to make good choices about how to spend their free time. You may have seen ideas on social media sites advocating a list of tasks for children to do in the summer before they are allowed to

Meredith Flory is an Augusta-area freelance writer, military spouse and mother of two. She has a masters degree in children’s literature from Kansas State University and has taught high school and college English.

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Between a Rock

& a Happy Place

By Layla Khoury-Hanold • Rocks provided by Gloria Miller 22 • Augusta Family | July 2017

“It’s a thing,” Allissa Bates enthuses. She’s talking about Augusta Rocks, a 17,000-member strong Facebook group that she founded when

How You Can Get INvolved

she moved here from Tacoma, Washington, where she ran a similar group with over 36,000 members. The premise is simple: paint rocks, coat them

Paint, Hide and Seek

with sealant and hide them for others to find. But it is also a movement

• Purchase rocks (white rocks tend to make the

with a deeper purpose and meaning.

paint’s color pop more) from a local landscaping business, like Earth Tech South Inc, then wash

Part of the appeal is that painting rocks is a fun and family-friendly arts and crafts activity. Though Bates has always considered herself an artist (she credits her dad for passing on the art gene), she says that the best part is that you don’t have to be “good” at art to do it. The hand-held rocks serve as mini canvasses (which is arguably less daunting than an actual blank

them with warm water and let them dry.

• Paint rocks with acrylic paint (or paint pens for detail work) and write Augusta “Rocks” or #AugustaRocks on the back.

• Seal your rocks with a spray sealant to protect

canvas) and kids can let their creativity run free. It is also a project that al-

your artwork and then hide the rocks. Popular

most anyone can participate in and one that is relatively inexpensive. It only

hiding places include the Augusta Riverwalk, parks,

requires you to purchase rocks, acrylic paint, brushes and sealant, though

gas stations and store parking lots. If you find a

some people are venturing into mixed media territory by hot gluing things

rock, keep, re-hide or replace it with your own

like buttons and baked clay. Then there’s the thrill of hide-and-seek—of hid-

painted rock.

ing and finding the rocks, adding them to your collection or re-hiding them, and then sharing your finds with the Facebook group.

Join the Facebook Group It’s not mandatory to join, but it’s a great way to stay

But besides giving kids (and adults) a chance to express their creativ-

up to date on events, like rock swaps, official meet-

ity and providing a family bonding opportunity, Bates explains that the

ups, and charity walks. You can also post photos of

“Rocks” movement is about spreading joy. “It could be that you’re hav-

your rock masterpieces, share and discover painting

ing a bad day and you find a rock that’s painted with the word ‘hope’ or

tips, and see images and stories of new finds.

‘breathe’, and it makes your day better,” she says. “And it’s inspiring to know that someone could pick up a rock that you painted and it makes

Donate

their day.” There are countless feel-good stories shared on the Augusta

The group is currently selling Augusta “Rocks”

“Rocks” Facebook page, like the mother who discovered an “It’s a boy” rock

decals to raise funds for event supplies, like tables

on her first walk post C-section, or the veteran who had recently moved

and a banner. “We really want to get it out there and

to a nursing home and found a rock depicting the Raising the Flag on Iwo

get more people involved,” Bates says. “We’d like to

Jima memorial—on Memorial Day.

do more events, like participate in the downtown market, and do it for free. The movement is free,

“I want this to be a thing where everyone is out there looking for or

happiness is free, and we want to keep it that way.”

painting rocks,” Bates shares. “I hope that it can be something that every-

If you’re interested in donating supplies or funds,

one does and something that we all have in common.”

please contact Allissa Bates via Facebook.

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Baby Wearing

By Meredith Flory

“Babywearing�, the activity of carrying a child with the assistance of a fabric carrier, has historically been used in many cultures, and many indigenous populations have culturally specific ways to wear their children.

However, it is only recently becoming popular again in the United States, and you may have noticed more and more people forgoing strollers and carrying their children in wraps or backpack-like carriers.

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Erin Ritter is an artist and mother of two, including

Occupational Therapist, is a “Party Rocker” for the Ft.

a daughter that she “wrapped every day for the first two

Gordon chapter of The Carrying On Project, an orga-

years of her life”. While Ritter no longer lives in Augusta,

nization that distributes baby carriers to low-income

she is the founding member of the Augusta Area Baby-

enlisted military families, and arranges local playdates

wearers group and lending closet. Ritter shares that her

for military families that babywear to help combat the

“hometown had a wonderful babywearing group”, but

isolation a new parent may feel, particularly if they are

there was not one in our area when she moved here, so

living in a new place. Kift adds that the health benefits

she decided to start one. Overtime the group has grown

she has seen for parents and children through baby-

to include monthly meetings, a facebook page, and a

wearing and shares that it may be soothing for service

lending closet of carriers. She recalls, “I needed to find

members struggling with postpartum depression, PTSD

more people who were already babywearing to help me

or other mental health issues as they work to connect

more, and I wanted to be able to help others who knew

with their families. When Kift was still active duty she

even less than I did.”

says it gave her and her child the bonding and cuddling

Harley Goodman, one of the current co-leaders

time they needed as service members often work long

of the group is an Army veteran, a working mom with

hours. For nursing mothers, Kift adds that her son want-

two children and one on the way, who is also attend-

ed to “nurse non-stop when I was home with him in the

ing school part-time. Goodman says that other than

evenings” so being able to nurse her son as she wore

seeing a friend use a carrier, she “was not exposed to

him allowed her to move around the house freely.

babywearing before being a parent”, but after having her

Babywearing can also be helpful for frequent travel-

first daughter, a friend let her borrow a wrap and says

ers, or families that move often. Kift notes that baby-

she reached for it “out of desperation when her daugh-

wearing can help both the parent and child feel safe in

ter would cry every time I put her down.” Goodman

unfamiliar places, and it can be helpful for navigating

notes that a concern she often hears is that some people

places like airport security with the child strapped to

are “afraid to wear because they think it can create a

you instead of in a stroller for “one less piece of baby

“needy” baby. What I have observed is the opposite --

gear to manage”. The Augusta Area Babywearers creates

my children are both fiercely independent, and I think

community through their meetings and social media,

part of that is due to babywearing helping to instill their

where parents ask questions, post pictures of babywear-

confidence in us.”

ing and sell or trade used carriers.

How can Babywearing help parents or caregivers?

Babywearing allows parents to keep their infant or toddler close to them, while still having use of their hands, and distributing the weight for holding an extended time. Goodman exclaims that is was an “instant game changer,” making tasks such as cooking and cleaning easier. When their second child was born, he had bad reflux and “being upright in the babywearing position” helped both parents soothe him. Goodman shares many stories of babywearing helping families who are caring for a special needs child or how babywearing helped them get through an emotional time, such as a death in the family. Sara Kift, a retired Army

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How can I learn to babywear safely and properly?

All of the women I talked to advocated finding an experienced wearer or educator to help you learn to use your carrier properly if you are interested in learning to babywear. Ritter states that our local group, “has monthly meetings where we teach a certain carry”. Even if you have been babywearing, a meeting might help you learn about a different style carrier, or learn something new, such as ways to successfully wear a child on your back. Kift echoed that local groups can “provide handson education, which is invaluable for safe and fun babywearing.” Ritter acknowledged that while she figured the basics out on her own at first “it can be frustrating and overwhelming to start - for one, you have a tiny baby,

and if it is your first child you are terrified of hurting

•

Ring slings: pieces of fabric with rings to adjust

•

Wraps: a long piece of fabric that can be tied in

them! Two, it can be hard to learn to use a carrier...if you are crying and exhausted yourself.” She added that ex-

and hold the fabric that fit over one shoulder.

pectant mothers are welcome too and you can practice

various ways to support the child. Different fab-

putting a carrier on with a stuffed animal or doll before

rics are suitable for different usages, such as mesh

the baby comes.

slings made for the water, or woven wraps that

However, if your schedule or location does not allow you to find a babywearing group that works for

support more weight.

•

Mei Tais: a version of traditional carriers from

you, Ritter suggested YouTube videos and social media

Asian cultures, it is a large panel of fabric with two

groups for assistance. Organizations and individual

connected fabric straps that are tied around the

trained educators, such as Babywearing International,

shoulders and waist.

Wrapping Rachel, Danny the Babywearing Dad, or Wrap

•

Soft Structured Carriers (often referred to as

You In Love have large blog or social media followings

SSCs): easy to adjust carriers that use buckles and

with educational materials. Goodman also suggests the

backpack-style straps, making them very popular.

“website of the manufacturer of your carrier, as they usually provide tutorials on how to properly use the car-

While there are many affordable options available at

rier” and Ritter adds that specific wrap or carrier brands

stores that carry baby products, there are also companies

may have a social media community for their customers.

that understand parents often want something that shows off their own fashion and interests. Carriers influenced

There are so many choices How do I decide on a carrier?

Ritter shared that “as the local group grew, we needed more than our own personal carriers to have at the meetings.” Through donations, giveaways, and discounts, they were able to start a lending closet that parents or caregivers can join. While it is free to attend meetings and try on carriers, for $30.00 per year, lending closet members may check a different carrier out each month - a good option if you’d like to try various carriers or are unable to purchase one to keep. References from friends can be helpful, but a lot of it is personal preference. Ritter explained that often people have given up because they’ve tried a low budget carrier that isn’t ergonomical, and assume that all babywearing will be uncomfortable, but she encourages people to know that “quality makes a huge difference” and that people are often “so surprised by the difference a carrier that fits you well will make!”

Things to consider are: who will use the carrier (if it needs to work for multiple people), how and where you plan to use it, what your budget is, for what age child and how many children will it be used for (there are options for tandem wearing twins or multiple ages), and if you want a certain color or style. Common styles of carriers include:

with designs from popular books and movies, reflect certain jobs or cultural fashions, or come in all manner of colors and designs are available. These are often through smaller boutique companies, and do not be surprised if the workmanship and artistry raises the price point.

Two local mothers, Christina Baker and Jennifer LaBarge shared with me how babywearing has been a lifesaver since each of their families has three small children. Baker explained,“without babywearing, normal tasks people do everyday...would be impossible; sometimes I wear only one and sometimes I tandem wear one on my back and one in front!” While LaBarge noted that in addition to keeping all of her children calm as infants, that with only one not walking yet, it eliminates the need to push a stroller while, “I have two hands to hold my other two’s hands.” Goodman concludes, “I think having our children be close to us when they are young has made them feel safe and comforted, helped us as parents be more productive and have peace of mind, and overall impacted our health as a family. I recommend babywearing for everyone!” Will you try it as part of your parenting routine?

Meredith Flory is an Augusta-area freelance writer, military spouse and mother of two. She has a masters degree in children’s literature from Kansas State University and has taught high school and college English.

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FIND YOUR

CHILD’S

INNER SPARK

BY RENEE WILLIAMS

SEVERAL RESEARCH STUDIES SHOW THAT CREATIVE ARTS AND ATHLETICS ARE TWO OF THE TOP INTERESTS THAT KIDS IDENTIFY WITH. Activities such as hiking in nature, learning a subject matter like science or history, helping or serving others, taking on leadership roles, engaging in spirituality and advocating for animal welfare also made the list but arts and sports were top.

Search Institute, founded in 1958 by Merton P. Strommen, Ph.D., pioneered in using social science research to understand the lives, beliefs and values of young people. Strommen introduced a framework of the interests and passions that motivate youth and elements that help give them a sense of purpose, focus and future orientation. These elements are critical dimensions to improve well-being and helps strengthen efforts to increase young successful development.

All in all, the research shows that kids who ultimately thrive in their lives have two important supports: 1. Knowledge of what their interests are 2. Adults who support the development of those interests.

When these two conditions are met, children have: • Higher grades • Better school attendance and physical health • Empathy and social competence • Concern for the environment • A desire to help others and a sense of purpose

Three simple steps that can help you find your child’s inner spark: • First, spend time discreetly looking for clues to their sparks, looking with fresh eyes. As you look, ask yourself: When do they seem the happiest? Are they alone or with a group? When are they most absorbed in an activity?

• After you have observed and begin to notice more about their interests, passions and how they spend their time, you can start a spark conversation. What you’re after is having talks that help them discover their own abilities and possibilities, talks that empower them to try new things and take next steps.

• Finally, find a way to follow through with what you find out. If they love motorcycles, maybe you suggest a visit to the local Harley store. Maybe you call your brother or sister who has been riding for years. Maybe together you check online for community education classes in motorcycle safety.

Whatever it is, the main point is to take another step and once you identify your child’s spark: help ignite your child’s inner strengths by: Affirming the spark -Teach or mentor the spark -Provide opportunities to express it -Run interference and help eliminate obstacles -Show up at recitals, games, performances, plays and events.

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Inspiration Station

Faith

by Naimah Shaw

& Basketball WILL AVERY IS PROPELLED BY FAITH AND BASKETBALL. Whether it is his own potential he is challenging or that of another avid young baksetball player, Avery gets up and trains everyday and spends an average of seven hours on the court dedicated to his sport. Returning to Augusta where Avery attended Westside High School, he looks back on his childhood and notes that basketball was always his constant, even when he didn’t have much. The adrenaline that came from playing, even at the tender age of six could not be mistaken. Avery notes that his love for basketball started from the time he could “touch a ball.” Avery reminisces that he knew at a very young age that he wanted to be a professional basketball player and says, “I would stay in tune to what was going on at every level. From waking up early to get The Augusta Chronicle and reading high box scores from the night before to watching college and pro

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Inspiration Station

games religiously every night.” Avery credits his initial

lifelong relationships through the game of basketball.”

attraction to the sport to his parents who helped foster

One prominent example of a transformation was a kid

his love noting, “Growing up I would watch both of my

with whom Avery had the privilege of working with

parents play basketball whether in the neighborhood or

that decided to use the life lessons learned he learned

at a gym or some kind of industrial or co-ed league.”

with Avery and basketball to pursue a career in finance.

After high school, Avery went on to attend Duke

Basketball was the vehicle through which this particular

University where he played college basketball before

youth attained a free education and that education com-

spending 12 years in the NBA and abroad in Europe.

bined with those life lessons became the foundation for

Avery lived in Spain, France, Greece, Israel, the Ukraine,

his new and thriving career. As mentor and coach, Avery

Turkey and Poland pursuing his passion. Receiving

was cheering him on from the sidelines, watching with

prestigious recognition is something Avery prides him-

pride as his student’s success story unfolded.

self on but even at the pinnacle of his career, his heart’s

Avery notes that his best quality is his big heart and

desire was always to return to Augusta and mentor chil-

explains, “I care a lot and will do anything that I can to

dren whose talents are hidden in the burden of unfor-

help someone. I am a very loyal person and I’m a very

tunate circumstances. Personal incentives for returning

hard worker.” When asked how he inspires and motivates

home also included his most prized possessions, his

children Avery says, “I push them to get the most out of

wife Chasity and daughters Yasmine and Autumn.

them with hope of reaching their potential. I want them

Although Avery signed with the Minnesota Tim-

to come in the gym and be better than they were the last

berwolves, his all time favorite team was the Michael

time.” Avery says he constantly reminds them why they are

Jordan led Chicago Bulls. “I watched MJ battle adver-

in the gym and what their purpose is, being sure to remind

sity with early playoff exits to persevere and overcome

them that education should be first and foremost in their

the physical battles with the Pistons and Knicks to lead

lives. Avery encourages campers not to waste time so they

his team to multiple championships.”

can maximize their repetitions as “every rep is important.”

Overcoming adversity through faith and persistence

Inspiration is also given to those wanting to play at the next

is the epitome of everything Avery hopes to instill in the

level by telling them about his personal journey along the

thousand plus children he has monitored and trained.

way and reminding them that he was once in their shoes.

Since returning home to Augusta, Avery has worked

Avery’s love for the sport transcends into all other

with children on both a group and individual basis by

areas of his life as well and he coaches his own daugh-

hosting workshops, camps and team competitions

ter who is always quick to challenge him to a game.

including several schools and even the after school pro-

Building relationships with the children he coaches is

grams at Episcopal Day School and Westminster.

so fulfilling that Avery almost never takes a day off.

When asked how basketball transforms the lives of

His life’s mantra and final message to the youth

children, Avery adamantly notes that work ethic, punc-

is “Commit to the lord whatever you do, and your

tuality, team communication and camaraderie are the

plans will succeed”.

hallmarks of the sport. “My basketball camps have been a place where kids have met new friends from different cultures and backgrounds, gained self-confidence, learned to work hard and also to encourage others.

Basketball brings people together. I have built several

Naimah Shaw is a Freelance Writer, Copywriter, Blogger and homeschool mom of four who has lived in Evans for almost a decade. Prior to that, she graduated with a Masters of Science in Information Technology and taught computer programming for a few years at local colleges.

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calendar

July 4 Independence Day Celebration live entertainment,

J u ly

children’s fun zone, food, crafts, merchandise vendors at Augusta Common. Gates open at 4:00 p.m.Fireworks show

Special Events

Tickets online at www.loomiscircus.com

Admission is $20 for adults and $8

or with cash only at the circus box office

for ages 2-12. Coupons for “Free Kids

July 1

on the day of show. Come celebrate

Tickets” are available at many merchants

more information, www.

Loomis Bros. Circus: Twenty Years of

the show’s platinum anniversary and

throughout Aiken County. Seating is

augustaga.gov.

Tradition

be inspired by a spectacular cast of

general admission and doors open one

USC Aiken Convocation Center. Get

some of the world’s finest circus stars

hour prior to each scheduled show time.

ready for the beauty, the laughter and

in a ninety-minute extravaganza you

Patrons are encouraged to arrive early

the excitement of a traditional three-

and your family will not want to miss!

for best seat section.

ring circus, when for the first time ever,

Witness the hair-raising excitement of

Loomis Bros. Circus brings their all new

the treacherous “Motorcycle Globe of

July 1, 8, 15, 22, and 29.

“Twenty Years of Tradition Tour to the

Death”, our majestic herd of elephants,

Historic Aiken Trolley Tours

USC Aiken Convocation Center. Per-

beautiful White Siberian and Royal Ben-

Aiken Visitor Center and Train Museum,

formances will take place on Friday at

gal tigers, amazing live music, acrobats,

406 Park Ave., Aiken.

7 p.m., and Saturday at 1, 4 and 7 p.m.

clowns, aerialists and a whole lot more!

The Historic Aiken Trolley Tour will be

9:30 p.m.at Fifth Street Bridge.For tickets and

We’d love to hear from you. If you have an event you’d like to add to our next issue, send an email to karin.calloway@ augustafamily.com.

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calendar offering extra tours, with the regular Saturday 10

gold and keep what you find. Gemstone screening

everything the Kroc has to offer. Before and after

a.m. tours, plus an extra 2 p.m. tour on Saturday

for the little ones. Covered panning area, handicap

care will be offered for an additional cost (7am-9am

April 1st and April 8th, as well as two extra tours

restrooms. Tours $3 over 5 yr, gold ore or gem ore

and 3pm-6pm). Make sure to register early as spots

during the week on April 5th at 10 a.m. and April

$5 per half gallon bucket. Panning instruction: no

are filled on a first-come first-served basis! *Week

7th at 2 p.m.Aiken’s Historic Tour takes riders on

charge with ore. N. Mine Street

1 and Week 12 are the only weeks a daily option to

a two-hour trolley ride through Aiken, where they

29835 McCormick, SC. Just north of Hardee’s

pay will be available. All other weeks will be priced

will see and hear about Aiken’s history. The tours

restaurant toward Calhoun Falls. More info at www.

weekly. *There will be no camp on Memorial Day

are a way for people to get a better understand-

heritagegoldmine.com.

or 4th of July. $100. at 9:00 a.m. All ages. www.

ing of Aiken’s exciting history. The tour takes the

augustaroc.org.

riders through different sites where they will learn

July 4

about equestrian locations, the Civil War’s Battle of

Independence Day Celebration

July 3 to 20

Aiken, Hopelands Gardens, the Live Oak Canopy on

Live entertainment, children’s fun zone, food, crafts,

Outdoor Adventure Camp

South Boundary, the Thoroughbred Racing Hall of

merchandise vendors at Augusta Common. Gates

Outdoor Adventure Camp for ages 8-14; kayaking,

Fame, The Hope Diamond, Fred Astaire, and more.

open at 4:00 p.m.Fireworks show 9:30 p.m.at Fifth

canoeing, stand-up paddle boarding, arts & crafts,

Advance tickets are sold through the Aiken Visitor

Street Bridge.For tickets and more information,

local outdoor and water education, outdoor free

Center and Train Museum at 406 Park Ave. To buy

www. augustaga.gov.

time and games; Monday-Thursday 9 a.m-2p.m;

a ticket, please call 803-644-1907, reservations are strongly recommended.

$165 per week. Outdoor Augusta Riverside, 25 July 21-23

Dolphin Way, Evans. www. oariverside.com.

Augusta Southern Nationals July 1 to 31

On the Savannah River. A massive display of fire

July 8

Gordon Lanes Summer Bowling

power from drag boat race participants. Gates open

Swamp Bike Saturday

Gordon Lanes Bowling Center

daily at 8:00 a.m.Races start at 9:00 a.m. For tickets

Enjoy a guided, gentle bike ride through approxi-

Bldg. 33200, 3rd Ave. Ft. Gordon

and more information,www.augustasouthernna-

mately seven miles of wetlands trails. Children and

Get yourself and the kids out of the house and

tionals.org.

adults will enjoy viewing the variety of wildlife and

moving with Summer Bowling Leagues at Gordon Lanes Bowling Center. They have a league for every

Sports & Recreation

age and ability. For full details, please call 706-7913446 or visit www.fortgordon.com.

learning about the diverse plant life & importance of urban wetland ecology.

For tickets and more information,www.phinizycen-

July 1 to 31

ter.org.

MACH Academy, Diamond Lakes Tennis Center, July 3, 5, 10, 11 and 12

102 Diamond Lakes Way, Hephzibah. Want to learn

July 15

Mayor’s Summer Read and Feed Program at Augus-

the game of tennis, then come play with us!! This

4H Family Yoga in the Park. Phinizy Swamp Nature

ta-Richmond County Public Library.

program is Wednesday and Thursday 5pm-7pm

Park. Join in for a low pressure, fun and relaxing

Mayor Hardie Davis invites all young people under

and Saturday 11am - 1pm at Diamond Lakes Tennis

yoga class for all experience levels.

the age of 18 to join the Mayor’s Summer Read

Center. The program is suitable for ages 6-18. The

For tickets and more information,www.phinizycen-

and Feed Program. The program aims to reduce the

cost is only $100 per month. Come prepared to

ter.org.

academic “summer slide” students often experience

have lots of fun, make new friends, and enjoy tennis

during this time of year by providing a fun, positive

instruction, games, and fitness activities. This pro-

July 3 to July 31 at 9:00 a.m.

learning environment. Participants will read books

gram is funded in part through the USTA Southern

Kroc Center

of their choice, participate in an enrichment activ-

Play it Forward Grant and MACH Academy, Inc.

Camp Kroc is an ACA accredited camp program in

ity, and eat a free, wholesome lunch every day of

$100 per month. All Ages. www.machacademy.com.

which children can play and grow in a safe and posi-

the program. at 11:00 a.m. Learn more about this

tive environment. Campers enjoy swimming, arts

program at www.summerreadandfeed.com or call

July 3 to July 31

& crafts, group games, sports, bible lessons, other

706-821-2612.

Kroc Center

fun activities, and a hot healthy lunch. Camp Kroc

Camp Kroc is an ACA accredited camp program in

offers a well-rounded experience for kids to enjoy

July 4, 7,11,14,18,21,25,and 28 at 5:30 p.m.

which children can play and grow in a safe and posi-

everything the Kroc has to offer. Before and after

Gold Panning at Heritage Gold Mine in McCormick, SC

tive environment. Campers enjoy swimming, arts

care will be offered for an additional cost (7am-9am

July 1, 2, July 15 and 16 from 9:00 a.m. to 4:00

& crafts, group games, sports, bible lessons, other

and 3pm-6pm). Make sure to register early as spots

p.m. on first and third Saturdays and Sundays. Tour

fun activities, and a hot healthy lunch. Camp Kroc

are filled on a first-come first-served basis! *Week

the 1852 Dorn Gold mine, learn how to pan for

offers a well-rounded experience for kids to enjoy

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calendar

pay will be available. All other weeks will be priced

July 6 features 246th Army Band.

July 4

weekly. *There will be no camp on Memorial Day or

July 13 features Doug and the Henrys

Fourth of July Rooftop Party at The Partridge Inn

4th of July. $100. All ages. www.augustaroc.org.

North Augusta’s Music in the Park

Celebrate the Fourth of July with the most spec-

Bring a chair or blanket and enjoy music in a beauti-

tacular view of Augusta’s fireworks and skyline.

July 26

ful outdoor setting at Maude Edenfield Park.

The Partridge Inn’s beautifully renovated rooftop is

Kroc Center

All shows at 7:00 p.m.For tickets and more

the best place in town to enjoy the dazzling holiday

A time for young people to worship, develop and

information,www.naartscouncil.com.

fireworks light up the Augusta sky. The hotel will

use their gifts and talents through the art of dance,

July 6

offer food and beverage specials throughout the

drama and music. Every Creative Arts session is

North Augusta’s Music in the Park Series

evening of July 4, as will The P.I. Bar and Grill. Start-

different, so just stop by and join in on the fun! Let

Maude Edenfield Park at 7:00 p.m.

ing at 5 p.m., ticketholders may enjoy the upscale

your creative side show! Ages 13+. All ages. www.

The free hour-long outdoor concerts will be held at

surroundings while enjoying cocktails, beer, wine

augustaroc.org.

495 Brookside Ave., is adjacent to the North Augusta

and a holiday menu of Smoked Chicken Wings,

Community Center. The series is for all ages and we

Brisket Sandwich, Smoked Pork Sandwich and Bar-

July 28

invite everyone to bring a chair or blanket and enjoy

beque Ribs. Live entertainment will begin at 8:30

Family Movie Night at 6:45 p.m.

music in this beautiful outdoor setting. This week:

p.m. and the fireworks will begin at dark. There is a

Join us in our state-of-the-art theater for a family

246th Army Band. For more information and links to

$10 charge for entrance to the event, and only 125

movie night! The event is open to the public. Con-

preview performers www. naartscouncil.com.

tickets will be sold. Guests can purchase tickets to

cessions on sale. Adults must accompany children.

Free!

the event on www.wventbrite.com.

July 17 Saturday Morning Swing: Music at the Augusta

July 14, 15, 21 and 22 at 7:30pm July 16 at 3pm.

Market

Barefoot in the Park

Augusta Southern Nationals

Repeats every Saturday at 8:00 a.m.Local jazz musi-

Paul and Corie Bratter are newlyweds in every

On the Savannah River. A massive display of fire

cians and performing arts groups on the Riverwalk

sense of the word. After a six day honeymoon, they

power from drag boat race participants. Gates open

for early afternoon shows each weekend. The

get a surprise visit from Corie’s loopy mother and

daily at 8:00 a.m. Races start at 9:00 a.m.

Market features local produce, artisans, music, all in

decide to play matchmaker during a dinner with

For tickets and more information,www.augusta-

a family and pet friendly space.

their neighbor-in-the-attic Velasco, where every-

southernnationals.org.

For tickets and more information,www.theaugusta-

thing that can go wrong, does. Written by Neil

market.com.

Simon. Directed by JC Crider. Performed at Aiken

July 21-23

July 21

Community Playhouse.

Phinizy Swamp Nature Park

July 22

For tickets and more information,www.aikencom-

Swamp Treks will bring nature to life for 3rd – 8th

Jazz Soiree

munityplayhouse.com.

grade children. Focused on making the outdoors

For 2017, GMT:RealX (Gray Mayfield’s outreach

exciting, Swamp Treks makes it fun to gain respect

program) presents newly arranged jazz standards

July 25

for the environment and to enjoy wildlife. Split into

and contemporary music. Engaging the audience

Augusta Mini Theatre, Inc. Arts & Life Skills School

two age groups, 3rd – 5th, and 6th – 8th, children

in new ways with each performance at the Jessye

Presents Sunshine’s Roast & Toast: “Forever a Lady”

will explore a new topic each month. Each morning

Norman School of the Arts at 7:30 p.m.

featuring Deanna Brown Thomas, Sylvia Cooper,

starts with a hike that leads into a hands-on nature

For tickets and more information, www.jazzsoiree.

Barbara Gordon and Lessie Price on July 25 at 7:00

based activity. Regular participation is not required,

com.

p.m. at Church of the Good Shepherd (Parish Hall),

but is welcome! Come learn about animals, camping and survival skills, nature printing, bees, and more!

Festivals and Events

Register online at www. phinizycenter.org or by

2300 Walton Way. All funds from the annual event will benefit Mariah McKie Butler Memorial College Book Scholarship Fund. Tickets are $50 per

July 4

person and available by calling 706-722-0598 or

Independence Day Celebration

online at www.augustaminitheatre.com. Augusta

Live entertainment, children’s fun zone, food, crafts,

Mini Theatre, Making Proud Choices, is a non-profit

merchandise vendors at Augusta Common. Gates

arts and life skills school and offers classes in piano,

July 1

open at 4:00 p.m. Fireworks show 9:30 p.m. at Fifth

African and modern dance classes, drama and visual

Travis Tritt at Bell Auditorium at 7:30 p.m.

Street Bridge.For tickets and more information,

arts and also conducts a teen pregnancy prevention

For tickets www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com

www. augustaga.gov.

workshop.

calling 706-396-1426. Spaces are limited.

Music

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calendar

Museums, Theater, Science and Nature July 1 Augusta Bel Canto: American Stories in Song at 1:30 p.m. at Augusta Museum of History, 560 Reynolds St., Augusta. Augusta Bel Canto, a choral ensemble, will perform American Stories in Song to celebrate America’s birthday; free. All ages.

July 1-31 Augusta Museum’s Signature Exhibition Augusta’s History, The 12,000- year journey begins with prehistoric artifacts and Native Americans, featuring a full-scale diorama of Stallings Island culture to World War II, the construction of the Savannah River Plant, the Civil Rights Movement, and Astronaut Susan L. Still. Thursday - Saturday: 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Sunday1:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m.

For tickets and more information,www.augustamuseum.org.

July 3 to 21 Westobou Gallery presents Black|White|Read, by Atlanta-based artist Esteban Patiño at 10:00 a.m.

Curated by Shannon Morris, this exhibition features drawings, paintings, sculptures, and interactive experiences that examine language and its relevance.

1129 Borad St., Augusta. www.wetobou.org.

July 7 Opening Reception, Vicki Greene & Joan Vanover Vicki Greene is a native of Augusta and has painted as a hobby all her life. Greene’s preferred media are watercolor and acrylics. Joan Hurst Vanover first painted as a child along side her mother, an artist in Savannah, GA. She studied art in college and has studied with Freeman and Lynell Widener, as well as, Cathy Marbury, Billie Jean Powell and Charlene Montgomery. She works in various mediums and focuses on the S.C. low-country, pastoral scenes and plant life. Art Exhibition from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.For tickets and more information,www.sacredheartaugusta.org.

July 8 Movie: Beauty & The Beast at 3:00 p.m.

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Aiken. An adaptation of the fairy tale about a mon-

begins. Pre-register at (706) 772-2432

strous looking prince and a young woman who fall in love. 2017 Version. Rated PG. www.abbe-lib.org.

July 8, Join us for this special Mommy & Me art class! Ages

July 8

3-5 are welcome. Your little one will be exploring

Augusta Pirates Night/ 3-D Fireworks at 6:05 pm

their creativity and have the chance to play with

Lake Olmstead Stadium. Turn back the clock with

various mediums. Parent or guardian must be with

the Augusta GreenJackets and we change our name

child and there is a two child maximum per adult.

back to the Augusta Pirates for an 80’s Weekend Celebration at the Lake! Get here early for a Pre-

July 13

game Concert as a part of the Saturday Concert

Create with Me: Glimmering Glass

Series featuring the local talents of CORE! The

View the new studio glass works on display from

GreenJackets will be wearing special Augusta Pi-

10:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. Afterwards, complete a

rates Jerseys that will be auctioned off for #battle-

stained-glass project at the Morris Museum of Art.

won raising money for a scholarship in memory of

For tickets and more information, www.themorris.

Drew Passmore at Augusta Christian School. The

org.

first 1,000 fans will receive 3-d glasses and postgame can enjoy a great Fireworks Extravaganza and

July 7

kids can run the bases!

Dog Days of Summer Movie Series, Aiken County Library, 314 Chesterfield St. SW

July 9

July 7- The Shaggy Dog - Not Rated - 1959 version

Artrageous! Family Sunday:Bubble Party

July 14 - Bolt - PG

Watch members of Totally Spherical create unbe-

July 21 - Hachi - G

lievable bubble formations on the Augusta River-

July 28 - Rock Dog - PG

walk! Afterwards, produce your own bubble-making kit to continue the fun at home! FREE.

Augusta University Events July 1.

July 10-29

Diversity & Inclusion Fellowship Availability Open

EdVenture Children’s Museum

The primary goal of the fellowship is to familiarize

from 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.

fellows with a variety of issues concerning diversity

Complimentary early drop-off. Lunch included.

and inclusion. Topics covered in this fellowship will

Extended day available

include: differences of race, age, ethnicity, sexual

Discover the 50 plus camps offered like cooking,

orientation, physical/cognitive abilities, socioeco-

gardening, robotics, superheroes, engineering

nomic status, nationality, and gender, to name

and more! EdVenture Children’s Museum offers a

a few. Through the use of experiential learning,

variety of camps for four-12 year olds. Each camp

fellows will be encouraged to engage in open and

consists of fun, hands-on activities that will keep

honest dialogues that will facilitate awareness, criti-

your children busy and happy all day long. Register

cal thinking, and comfort around addressing these

early and give your child a fun EdVenture experi-

topics. Fellows come to this continuing education/

ence. Your 4-12 year old will be learning all summer

lifelong learning experience as diverse, cultural be-

and loving it! www.edventure.org.

ings with unique life histories and exciting career For Additional Information visit www.augusta.edu.

July 11, 18 and 25 Diamond Lakes Branch Library at 10:00 a.m.. Join

July 5

the 4-H club and make your very own unique tye

Childbirth Education Classes

dye shirt. Be sure to bring your own t-shirts and

Come learn from our experienced instructors about

have fun dipping them in the different color dyes

your labor, your baby’s birth and how to prepare for

to make cool designs. Space is limited. Registration

that exciting day. You will want to register for this

calendar

class during your 5th to 9th month of pregnancy.

nancy (24-33 weeks). This class includes a tour of The

to medical emergencies. Please pack a lunch or

The Childbirth Education Class is a 4 week series

Women’s Center. Topics discussed include nutrition,

snacks for your child to bring with them to class.

that meets on Wednesdays. 6:30 to 9 p.m. AU

myths of pregnancy, common discomforts of pregnancy,

Medical Center

signs and symptoms of pre-term labor and relaxation

Trinity Hospital Events

7 South - Room 7524. Registration is Required.

techniques used in labor. In addition, the process of

July 16

labor and delivery, comfort techniques used in labor,

Growing Boys

July 12

medications/epidurals and relaxation and breathing

Boy’s ages 9 to 12 accompanied by their father,

Digital SLR Photography 101. Explore camera

techniques are also covered. This class includes valuable

male relative or friend will find helpful information

modes, automatic features, mysteries of aperture

information even if mom intends to use an epidural for

on what to expect in the pre-adolescent years.

shutter speed, ISO, and white balance. Everyday

labor and birth. It’s a must for mom and her partner!

Knowing what to expect can help boys weather this

situations such as family gatherings, vacations,

Partners are strongly encouraged to attend.

transition without undue anxiety, confusion and

sporting events and more will be covered. coned@ augusta.edu

frustration.

July 13 Big Brother - Big Sister

July 19

July 19

3623 J Dewey Gray Cir, Ste 310 Augusta, GA at 6:30

On Being a Girl

Field Day” with works by Didi Dunphy

p.m. This class will take siblings ages 3-8 on a visit to

This class is designed for girls ages 9 to 12 accom-

This exhibition promises more than the average art

the Center for Women so that they can see where

panied by their mother, a female friend or relative.

exhibition. Escape the summer heat and kick-off the

Mom and their new baby will be during their hospital

Discussion is focused on physical and emotional

school year by joining us at the Byrd. Didi’s works

stay. This class offers fun, educational and interactive

changes of puberty.

provide opportunities for bringing the magical mo-

activities so that your child(ren) will be prepared to

6:00 - 9:00 pm $10 per person

ment of childhood “RECESS.”

welcome the new baby. It’s best for children to attend

All classes are scheduled to be held in the Sister

this class as close to mom’s due date as possible.

Mary Louise Conference Room

Miracle Treat Day for CHOG. All area DQ stores

July 13

July 23

will support Children’s Hospital of Georgia through

Babies - Bumps And Bruises

Stepping Into Manhood

this fundraiser. About $1 or more from the sale of

3623 J Dewey Gray Cir, Ste 310 Augusta.

Boys ages 12 to 15 accompanied by their father,

each DQ Blizzard Frozen Treat will go to CHOG, the

This class is recommended not only for parents, but

male relative or friend, join the instructor in frank

local CMN Hospital.

family and friends as well. Infant CPR, as taught by the

discussions on sexuality, peer pressure and respon-

American Heart Association, is discussed and hands-

sible decision-making. This course teaches teenage

on skills are practiced. Infant safety issues, such as car

boys the importance of making their own decisions

seats, choking hazards, and safe sleep are also covered.

and how to assertively say “NO.” 9:30am - 12:00

July 27

Doctor’s Hospital Events July 6

noon. $10 per person. All classes are scheduled to

Center For Women Tour

July 20

3623 J Dewey Gray Cir, Ste 310 Augusta.

Breastfeeding

This tour shows expectant parents and their families

3623 J Dewey Gray Cir, Ste 310 Augusta

Volunteering for Trinity Hospital

the Center for Women, including our Level II Neonatal

This class will help prepare mom and her partner for

Lend a hand. If you’re passionate about community

Intensive Care Unit (NICU), and our beautiful LDRPs

a great start in breastfeeding their new baby. The

service, care deeply for people and have the time

rooms , the only ones available in this area. This a

benefits of breastfeeding along with proper posi-

and energy, we’d love to have your help at Trinity

great time for families to learn about our Family-Cen-

tioning and latch-on techniques are taught.Realistic

Hospital of Augusta. Volunteering opportunities are

tered Maternity Care program and to ask questions!

expectations of the first few days and weeks are

available in various departments throughout our

The Tour meets in the Cradle Club classroom (Suite

discussed. Partners are encouraged to attend.

hospital and with our home health partner. Get in

310, MOB I). NOTE: The tour is included in the Ready

be held in the Ground Floor Conference Room

touch, and let’s talk about how can help each other.

July 22

Volunteers can choose to serve at any of the fol-

Safe Sitter

lowing departments: Information Desk, Dismissal

July 11

3623 J Dewey Gray Cir, Ste 310 Augusta. This safe

Escorts, Mail and Flower Delivery, Gift Shop, Youth

Ready And Able Childbirth Series

sitter is a nationally recognized program that teaches

Volunteer Program, Patient Transportation, Staff

3623 J Dewey Gray Cir, Ste 310 Augusta at 6:30 p.m. A

students ages 11-13 safe and nurturing child care

Support, Radiology, Central and Day Surgery recep-

five-session childbirth class recommended for mid-preg-

techniques, management and appropriate responses

tion and Family Focused Child Birth.

& Able series and the Short & Sweet weekend class.

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Lena Taylor LENA TAYLOR RECENTLY CELEBRATED THE BIG 3-0 and is enjoying a career as a realtor and entrepreneur in Augusta . She and her husband, Dr. Craig Taylor, have a two year-old son named Luke and an eight month old son named Zachary. The family has a Bull Mastiff named Deacon. If describing herself in one word, Lena would call herself “driven” and if she could have any job in the world, she would choose to host an HGTV television show about renovating homes or investing in real estate.

What did you want to be when you grew up? I have always wanted to be a mom.

What’s your favorite food? Pizza, I’m Italian!

Hobbies: Coffee shops, CrossFit, Yoga, food, wine, travel and spending time with friends and family.

What are you reading right now? Women Who Work by Ivanka Trump.

What inspires you? Seeing other women go after their dreams.

Is there an important life lesson you’ve learned? I have learned that life is about our decisions and not our circumstances. You can not let anyone or anything define you. In order to fulfill our true purpose, we have to let go of limiting beliefs and insecurities about not being smart enough, experienced enough, pretty enough, etc. If you want something in life, you have to go after it.

What would surprise people about you? I did not have a picture perfect childhood. My mother, although beautiful, smart and kind, tragically battled an alcohol addiction for the majority of my life and we became estranged when I was 16. Unfortunately, she lost her battle with addiction in 2013. My mother’s addiction caused me to grow up rather quickly and take care of my younger siblings. As the child of an addict, there are many emotional and psychological challenges to overcome. I speak openly of this because I want other young girls who may find themselves in a similar situation to know that your circumstances do not have to define you. I truly believe that living through those tough 38 • Augusta Family | July 2017

years shaped the woman, wife and mother I am today.

Best thing about being a mom? Aside from the unconditional love I feel for my children, the best part of being a mom is getting to relive childhood.

There is nothing better than watching my children’s eyes light up as they discover the world because it forces you to stop and take in just how amazing and magical the everyday world can be.

Hardest part about being a mom? Balance. I often struggle with how I can give my children the love, attention and time they need without losing a sense of who I am as a woman. There is an extreme amount of guilt that comes with being a mother, especially when we take time for ourselves.

Are you a planner, a dreamer or a doer? I am a combination of all three. The planner part of me is always looking ahead to what is coming next and anticipating potential pitfalls. The dreamer in me has her head in the clouds envisioning a life full of love, travel, financial freedom and dreaming big dreams like hosting my own show on HGTV. The doer in me is the most dominant in my everyday life and I’m constantly crossing items off the never ending to-do list.

I try to make the most of my time when it comes to family, work, household chores, etc. My husband often says that I try to do too much and that I have a hard time sitting still.

Favorite Indulgence: The Red Velvet Delight Cake from Boll Weevil Greatest Hope: A healthy and happy family Favorite college football team: The Georgia Bulldogs- my Alma Mater.

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