on believing and achieving
The ultimate gift guide over 175 gorgeous gifts
13. TRENDING
What's trending now
15. SHOPPING
Editor's picks of the hottest pieces right now
16. WINTER TRENDS
Winter pastels, animal and houndstooth
23. SUPERHERO CAPES
Instantly chic outerwear
24. DISCO
Velvets, sequins and metallics
26. HEAD GIRL
Winter hair accessories
29. LONG DRESSES
A longer length for winter
30. HOW TO WEAR STATEMENT KNITS
Wear your Christmas jumper with everything
33. SEASON KEY PIECES
Everything you need to get you through the season ahead
36. POSITIVE FASHION
A round up of all things positive from London Fashion Week
39. SWITCHING TO VINTAGE
Traci O'Dea explains why she's stopped shopping
40. WE NEED TO FILL OUR EMPTY SHOPS
Emily Smith discusses ways we can fill our empty shops on the high street
42. EDITORIAL: OPULENCE
Mark Stephenson photographs Andreia Magalhaes at the Hotel de France
53. THE ULTIMATE CHRISTMAS GIFT GUIDE
Christmas gifts for everyone
66. JODIE LEE
ON BELIEVING AND ACHIEVING
Jodie Lee tells Liana Shaw all about her career as a performer
71. MUST-HAVE INGREDIENTS
Laura Butlin-Policarpo looks at the key ingredients for 2020
74. 60S REVIVAL
Marc Whitehead photographs Ella Hanley
72. SUMMER METALLICS
Mark Stephenson photographs Robyn Kent
82. MOTHERHOOD CAMPAIGN
A campaign designed to help mother's accept and love their post birth bodies
90. HOW TO HAVE A HEALTHY FESTIVE SEASON
Chloe Bowler shares her tips on staying healthy over the festive period
93. THE CHRISTMAS TABLE
Christmas table décor
94. BRINGING THE OUTSIDE IN Harriet Rouse looks at ways to bring the garden indoors during the winter
96. FOOD: WINTER WARMERS
Recipes by Christian Gott
98. DATING: I AIN'T AFRAID OF NO GHOSTS
Bex Evans on the harsh reality of dating
101. WHAT'S THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE
Laura Butlin-Policarpo discusses the 5 love languages
103. BOOK CLUB
Hannah Carolan's must-read books
104. WHAT DO FAIRYTALES TEACH US ABOUT LOVE?
Cliona Elliott looks at the classics, and discusses their hidden messages
Cliona Elliott is a freelance writer. She loves travelling, brunching, listening to stories and anything sparkly.
Published poet, essayist, journalist, cookbook editor and voice actor, Traci O’Dea is an American living in Jersey where she is writing her first novel.
Harriet Rouse is the owner and founder of www.gifts.je. With a weakness for strong coffee and an uncanny ability to kill pot plants, she has over ten years experience as a freelance writer.
Tabitha Orchard is a freelance writer, schoolteacher, Pilates instructor and mummy to baby Ophelia. She holds a degree in journalism and enjoys writing about fashion, arts and culture.
Chloë Bowler is a celebrity personal trainer and owner of Health Chef, which delivers freshly prepared, healthy and delicious meals straight to your door, three times a week.
Hannah Carolan is a freelance writer, marketer and event management professional. She enjoys drinking prosecco, sleeping, creating stuff and exploring new countries.
Bex Evans is originally from Leeds, but has called Jersey home for 14 years. She can be found writing, reading and jogging around the island.
Emily Smith is a freelance writer, marketer and charity shop addict. She loves cooking, meeting new people and creating hand-made gifts. She is currently trying to live a year without buying anything new.
Editor Sophie Wilkinson 07829 828033 sophie@mannermagazine.co.uk
Mark Stephenson is originally from Liverpool, but moved to Jersey in 2008 and is a passionate semi-professional photographer. He specialises in lifestyle, fashion and portraiture.
Sales Mark Wilkinson 07829 838844 mark@mannermagazine.co.uk
MannerJersey @Mannerjsy www.mannermagazine.co.uk
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The festive period is a time for parties, get-togethers and celebrations. Most importantly though, it’s a time to catch up with loved ones, be it friends or family.
This issue is jam-packed with all things love…
We all know how the story goes – the princess waits to be saved by her knight in shining armour, they fall hopelessly in love and live happily ever after… Cliona Elliott takes a look at some of the classic fairytales, and talks about the messages they did, or didn’t, teach us about love. Page 104
When it comes to love, the person we neglect the most is ourselves – especially post-birth. May Bourne, a Midwife and founder of Positive Birth Jersey teamed up with Sophie Darwin, Jersey’s only on-island birth photographer, to launch the MOTHERHOOD campaign to celebrate the beauty of post-birth bodies. Page 82
We have put together the ultimate gift guide which includes over 175 gifts for women, men, children and pets, so you can treat your loved ones to something special. From page 54
As issues surrounding the environment become a priority, the fashion industry looks to play a key role. During London Fashion Week an array of fresh designers pushed their environmentally friendly alternatives. Two brands that stood out to me were Stay Wild Swim and Ancuta Sarca.
Stay Wild Swim was set up by friends, Natalie Glaze and Zanna van Dijk. The two women are passionate about the ocean and have created a stunning line of swimwear, produced entirely from regenerated ocean plastics. Being passionate about eco-friendly alternatives to fast fashion, Ancuta Sarca recycles old trainers with vintage heels to create one-off quirky styles. You can read all about the Positive Fashion initiative from page 36.
Whilst on the subject of eco-friendly options, Traci O’Dea shares her experience of vintage clothes and explains why she won’t be buying anything new anytime soon. Page 39
A familiar face, Andreia Magalhaes, looked simply stunning in our Opulence themed shoot, photographed by Mark Stephenson at the Hotel de France (page 42). Also shot by Mark Stephenson was our cover girl Jodie Lee. Jodie will be performing in Mendes Management’s family pantomime ‘Aladdin’ alongside ex Emmerdale star Dale Meeks at the Radisson Blu from 19th – 23rd December. Liana Shaw met with Jodie to find out about her career as a performer so far. Page 67
Throughout this issue you’ll also find winter trends, beauty ingredients to look out for in 2020, recipes by Christian Gott, Chloe Bowler’s advice on staying healthy over the festive period, Bex Evans dating series, plus much more.
Once this issue prints, we’re looking forward to a busy month of moving house, gift buying and hosting Christmas. This is also our first (and last!) Christmas as a family of three. Yup, you guessed it, Beatrice is going to be a big sister by the time our spring issue hits the shelves!
I hope you have an amazing time at Christmas and wish you all health, happiness and prosperity for 2020.
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Why buy wrapping paper when you could just utilise what you already have? Save newspaper for wrapping, and make your gift even more unique.
Take #selfcaresunday to the next level with homemade facials.
Orange and Honey face mask Combine three tbsp orange juice with a 4 tbsp of honey. Rub the mixture lightly over your face and then leave it on for 15 minutes. Rinse with lukewarm water and moisturise as normal.
Show off your personality with Christmas inspired nails.
Breeze through winter in softer colours - blush pink is the focus this time around.
Now considered a wardrobe staple, animal print reigns supreme for yet another season.
No longer just for royals, the high-contrast houndstooth motif is having a moment.
Capes instantly make an outfit more chic, don’t they? Alluring cuts and glorious fabrics are the new superheroes of outerwear- a dramatic but easy alternative to the classic coat. These pre-loved swishy styles aren’t only elegant, they’re also forgiving, versatile and cosy. Unite textures and tune your silhouette by teaming your woolen cape with skinny leather trousers and a felt fedora. There are a variety to choose from this season too. Look out for snug knitted choices, a classic style trench, animal print or a drop a touch of class with a leather-bound trim.
It's not all doom and gloom come winter, the colder weather also means sparkly sequins, luxurious velvets and shiny metallics.
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It's official, hair accessories are no longer just for distracting from bad hair days. From diamante slogan slides to velvet, pearl-studded headbands, headgear is now on heavy rotation in our everyday line-up and both catwalks and sidewalks are in agreement. Here’s a round-up of some faves we've spotted recently.
Bejewelled barrettes aplenty are the flavour of the season. No longer reserved just for an evening look, they now bring magic and dazzle to everyday life. Scoop up sparkling clips densely studded with diamante and pearl detail and adorn your head generously. Apply on both sides, towards the back or by decorating little braids as part of a unique multi-part updo. Remember, more is more!
Headbands continue to make headway as they trickle in to the new season from the last. The fashionable way to wear a headband is unfortunately also the least useful one; plotted right on top of your head, making room for an inch and a half of centre parted hair, as the fall 2019 hair accessory trends dictate. Continue to twinkle with velvet bands of jewels, pearls and swaths of silk knots in rich colours, reminiscent of turbans. And again, that’s just the daytime look. By night, you can dress up in glittering, festooned looped headbands that will remind you of a tiara. For a more stripped back version, opt for simple, wide black hairbands, still every bit as chic and very, ‘Audrey Hepburn’.
Texturise with leather, feathers and fur. Add a fierce cord of leather densely wrapped around a plait of hair going down the back for a powerful battle-ready effect. Or combine trends and don a leather headband or wide head tie to create a high ponytail- minimalistic but effective. A luxurious plume of feathers atop a headpiece will instantly bring delicate opulence to any outfit, whilst fur has got us feeling all cosy for winter. At London Fashion Week, it was the fuzzy faux-fur headbands at Shrimps that provided a warmer, northerly touch that contrasted against the flowy dresses presented.
Scarves as headgear is nothing new, but this winter it's huge. Colourful, abstract prints in rich colours and logo adorned neck scarves secured around pony-tails or made into headbands can bring an ensemble of black clothes to life. To add the look to a pony, simply thread the scarf into your hair-tie, knot and let the scarf ends fall long with your hair. Wrap yours like a turban to obscure the hair and neck or a la prairie and let your hair cascade from underneath.
BOWS AND RIBBONS
Ladylike charm continues to reign in style. These feminine embellishments showed up all over Fashion Week as some of the more ubiquitous winter 2019 hair accessories. Models graced the catwalk at Emilia Wickstead with their hair pulled up into a top knot, secured at the base with a small bow. At Chanel, semi-ponytails were often secured with black ribbons, while at Oscar de la Renta, the same treatment was given to low-slung braids. Find and team monochrome grosgrain pre-tied ribbons secured to barrettes for a no-nonsense perfect bow to add demure girlish flair to your outfit.
Flower power reigns on. Will it ever end? Invest! Despite the inappropriate season, floral hairpieces will be bright and lush this winter. During Fashion Week, the Rodarte collection was like a garden explosion, with an assortment of different flowery trimmings adorned upon models heads and many designers have followed suit. Try faux-rose enhanced large bobby pins, black velvet hairbands studded with daisies or barrettes bursting with a colourful posey of wildflowers to add illusional volume to your hair.
You don’t have to wear massive flower crowns or ultra-blingy clips every day since fall hair accessory trends also included simple, visible Kirby grips. We like these hair accessories as they fit in better with some of the more minimalist fall 2019 fashion trends we saw this season. The hair was as simple as can be at Blumarine, with soft waves and a side part that was kept neat with the help of a single, brown bobby pin. This lent a schoolgirl effect to the runway. The use of metallic jumbo bobby pins at Lela Rose was minimalist yet creative.
Like a reliable old friend for all the bad hair days and for the times we have no time to create wild and wonderful hairdos. The chunkier the better and the more embellished and colourful the cooler. Select abstract prints, pearly options or designer logo adorned designs to surround your top knots. Keep Your Hair Messy. Scrunchies lend themselves to a relaxed, off-duty aesthetic.
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Maximalists rejoice as pretty maxi dresses refreshingly sweep their way into our winter wardrobes. No-longer reserved for summer and formal wear, relish in wearing modified seasonal styles that radiate ladylike demureness. Opt for ultra-feminine themes; dark floral patterns and lace are particularly key. Layer with thermals, tights and a faux fur gilet before toughening up the look with a pair of cowboy boots. a
Whether you opt for a more subtle Fairisle pattern or go all out classic Christmas jumper, wear your statement knit with everything.
For a casual look, throw on your statment jumper with a pair of jeans and boots. To smarten things up, team with a longline skirt and add some jewellery.
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Ladylike gloves should be the go-to hand warmer this season.
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In 2019 the British Fashion Council continues to focus on its Positive Fashion initiative, a platform designed to celebrate industry best practice and encourage future business decisions to create positive change.
Ethics – Focuses on social, environmental and business governance to drive a more sustainable fashion future. Positive Fashion champions the long term sustainability of the fashion sector which contributes £32.3 Billion to the UK economy in GDP and supports 890,000 jobs. Through the power of collective influence, the Positive Fashion committee of global brands, designer businesses and industry stakeholders gather thought leadership and drive change.
People – Represents the people, from the product makers to the staff, students and models who pioneer our brands. The BFC takes the lead in setting the standards for an industry that strives to represent equality and diversity on the global stage. Championing the importance of every person in the sector as a vital and valuable part of our industry entitled to be treated with respect and dignity.
Community – Supports the community of talent, skills and craftsmanship that make up our unique industry. Our initiatives are designed to develop connections and understanding between designers and manufacturers taking a holistic approach to the long term viability of the sector. We celebrate the wealth of talent and capability that is unique to British designer businesses.
Made from recycled tents and along with dead stock yarns from Italian mills, this look is hand woven by the women of San Patrignano; an education and rehabilitation programme for people with drug and alcohol dependency that teaches traditional Italian craft and a sense of community. This programme is known for producing high quality and traditional crafts such as furniture making, weaving, leather products.
A suit consisting of a single-breasted jacket, basic lea trousers and a shirt are the core pieces for EFTYCHIA. An outfit present each season, revisited and updated. This leather version with the knitted polo is the new take on it for AW19.The brand’s approach and inspiration are drawn by traditional men’s tailoring, and the workplace environment, but also by societal and gender stereotypes. It is a comment on equality and what unnecessarily divides the sexes.
For AW19, Charles Jeffrey LOVERBOY partnered with Locharron, a Scottish tartan mill that has been operating continually since 1892, to produce a new tartan design, based on combining their previously designed “LOVERBOY” tartan with a traditional shepherd’s check design. LOVERBOY worked closely with the designers to ensure that the design was true to the Scottish craft and a real reflection of the message of the season.
Stay Wild Swim was launched by Natalie Glaze and Zanna van Dijk. They both grew up scuba diving, snorkeling and exploring the depths of the open water, developing a connection with marine life, so are both passionate about protecting our oceans.
Not only are their pieces created using regenerated ocean plastic through the most sustainable practices possible; they are made into beautiful, clean and minimalist styles which flatter every woman.
“We feel a responsibility to give back to the ocean and Stay Wild Swim is our way of doing that. It is our passion project; one we pour our hearts and souls into. It gives us the opportunity to not only fight the marine plastic problem facing our oceans, but actively contribute to the solution. From our factory to our labels all the way through to our packaging; at every stage we have looked to support local start-ups and sustainability leaders.”
Ancuta Sarca, a Romanian-born, Londonbased designer, has quickly gained international recognition by up-cycling old trainers with vintage heels.
Sarca is passionate about eco-friendly alternatives to fast fashion, and her reworked kitten heels tick that box. Sarca buys secondhand heels and old Nike trainers from charity shops, car boot sales and the likes of eBay and depop, before merging the two to create a quirky hybrid shoe in her North London studio.
“I like, and I think a lot of people like, the clash of masculinity and femininity,” she explains. “I love the idea that the kitten heel feminises the sportswear and the sportswear lends the kitten heel a more masculine edge.”
The Sustainable Sequin Company was launched in 2018 by Rachel Clowse, who says she ‘discovered a high level of waste, in the form of inactive special occasion wear, within women’s wardrobes.’
The sequins have caught the attention of designers across the world. Last year, the recycled PET sequins were used in a custom Gucci dress by Alessandro Michele for Hari Nef at the Green Carpet Fashion Awards.
At the end of October this year, The Sustainable Sequin Company posted a sneak peak of their first biodegradable bioplastic sequin. Working with the BioComposites Centre at Bangor University, they have developed commercially viable, biodegradable non-oilbased sequins. These sequins will be machine washable and completely biodegradable at end of life. Rachel commented, “We think these could spell the end for plastic sequins when we launch early 2020!”
Traci O’Dea shares her experience of vintage clothing, and explains why she won't be buying new garments anytime soon
When I heard the first rip, I was dancing a reel in a muggy marquee outside a castle in the Scottish Highlands. As soon as the band stopped, I skittered to the cramped posh loos and checked around the back of my vintage 1950s floor-length gown in glittery peacock-blue (the same shade as the chemical-filled liquid in the toilet bowl). The fabric of the dress hadn’t torn, but the thread holding the dress together in the back had split to about two inches below my bum— definitely not in compliance with the strict dress code policy at the Northern Meeting Ball, and as a brash American, I knew they wouldn’t cut me any slack. (Before dinner that evening, an Englishman had been forced to change because he’d shown up in black tie instead of white tie—the horror!) About an hour later, I discovered a second rip—the threads again—a three-inch gap around the waist seam between the mermaid-tight skirt and the surplice top. I was relieved to realise that my awkward dance moves were not to blame for the seam-splits; rather, the heat and vigour of the Scottish reeling had likely caused the 69-year-old threads to rot.
The gown was falling apart around me, my dance card was booked for six more reels, and I had to hide the indecent peepholes in my dress. I made it through the next dance unscathed but then, during the exuberant ‘Inverness Country Dance’, as my bekilted partner twirled me around the room like a contestant in Strictly and ran me up and down the parquet floor, the slit in the back ripped again - all the way up to the base of my spine. Luckily, I had on nude tights and some heavy-duty shapewear, rendering me as sexless as a naked Barbie doll, but I could imagine the prim and proper ladies and gents at the ball were shocked and scandalised. I quickly found a chair and sat out the last few dances in a 1920s puffy-lapelled black velvet smoking jacket to cover up the disintegrating ball gown that, after I’d been perspiring all night inside the humid tent, had started to emit a faint smell of cat urine.
Most of my clothes don’t smell like cat piss or fall apart. That night was a worst-case scenario for someone who only wears used clothes. In March, I posted on Facebook ‘My goal is to stop buying myself newly manufactured clothing (aside from underwear). Anyone else already doing this?’ My UK bestie who now lives in Kansas City replied, ‘I'm with you. There's an amazing store here called Revive… It's all really good quality and much nicer than you can find at the mall. I just treated myself to a bag and a pair of boots.’ A friend in Oregon commented, ‘Kade and I have done this for several years. He took some sewing lessons which helped us widen our search possibilities at consignment stores!’ Another friend posted a Macklemore ‘Thrift Shop’ meme, and of course, my smartass husband had to chime in, ‘If you insist on buying first-hand underwear, you should buy smaller knickers to save the planet.’ Amongst dozens of positive comments and likes, there were only two somewhat negative responses, a simple, ‘No’ from a pal in the British Virgin Islands and a crying-with-laughter emoji from my shopaholic sister.
Here in Jersey, I encountered some in-person debate with friends and some less-than-useful gaslighting, but then I had one friend, the last one I’d ever expect, say to me last month, ‘I’ve been buying clothes on eBay lately’. And that made me smile.
Now that I’ve made the pledge, I avoid the unhealthy temptation
of sales racks rammed with cheaply made clothing that eventually ends up in the bin because the fabric is too worn out to pass on secondhand to someone else. Older clothes tend to be better constructed. Even my peacock-blue vintage number from the ball was repairable. The fabric remains as sturdy as in the 1950s, and the seams can be easily replaced with new thread; also, a quick dry clean will dispel the smell (I probably should have thought of that before wearing it to the ball). Luckily, there are great seamstresses and dry cleaners in Jersey who will sort all that out for me.
To me, not buying new clothing is common sense.
1. I don’t like wearing what everyone else is wearing.
2. I love a bargain. 3. There are enough garments in the world to clothe me (and probably the rest of the population) throughout my lifetime. But when I think of my pledge in the bigger context of the environmental crisis, I feel like a total fake. I’m a hypocrite. It’s impossible to live on the grid and not be a hypocrite. For me, buying new clothing is something I can live without that doesn’t feel like a sacrifice, so I’m not really giving anything up to help the environment. I’m simply being a little bit less lazy with my purchases. But maybe this is a first step to making bigger changes and bigger sacrifices (beyond the embarrassment of flashing my granny pants to 400 Scottish people). I look forward to finding out.
"Most of my clothes don’t smell like cat piss or fall apart."
Imagine an area in St Helier where one minute you could be rooting through rails of one-off pieces in a vintage clothes store, before heading into a record shop, and then finishing your shopping trip by browsing through some hand-made beauty products.
This may sound like a faraway dream for Jersey but this is a familiar sight in places like Totness, Bridport and Falmouth in the South West. Instead, our town is full of empty shops, some which have been left empty for more than a year. The former Frontier shop at no 10 Bath Street, the old Quicksilver site and former Next store, both on Queen Street, remain closed and empty. Last year Daphne East, the then town centre manager for St Helier, said that the number of empty shops in town had hit a ten-year high.
The recession and retail tax have been blamed for the number of empty shops in St Helier but surely there is more we could be doing? Could a reduced rent and the option of having a pop-up shop encourage budding entrepreneurs to test out their business idea on islanders, without committing to something long-term?
Jersey is lucky to have a whole host of independent businesses, everything from artists, to artisan cake-makers, tailors and potters. But these makers and designers tend to work from home or showcase their crafts at markets and events. We’re lucky to have such a thriving Central Market, something many small jurisdictions don’t – including our neighbours in Guernsey. But is the market concept something we can bring out into the high street?
Maybe it’s the cost of rent that is driving people off the high street. Last year properties 59-61 King Street were being advertised for rent for £64,000 a year on a minimum nine-year lease. A groundfloor unit in the Co-op development at Charing Cross, which is still empty, was being advertised for rent at £201,000 a year on a nineyear lease. And Queensway House on Queen Street, formerly the home of Next, was advertised for rent at £510,000 a year. Again this site remains empty and has been identified ‘as one of a number of problem spots’ by St Helier Constable Simon Crowcroft. He even said he was considering taking proposals to the States for a tax on empty shops as a way to encourage landlords to find tenants for empty properties.
There are many islanders, I would imagine, that dream of running their own business, myself included, but do the rising costs and the minimum nine-year leases only put entrepreneurs off rather than encourage them on to the high street?
Jersey is often criticised for not attracting retail chains such as H&M, Zara or Office Shoes and although I would welcome any of these stores into the island, I can only feel we should do more to encourage our own makers and designers on to Jersey’s busiest streets. I would love nothing more than seeing St Helier filled with a rotation of quirky shops, bars and cafes changing on a three-
monthly or yearly basis, testing the market and keeping the appetite for shopping very much fresh for people.
Pop-up shops don’t need to be huge retail spaces – thinkers and makers can be creative with small spaces and test their ideas. And to solve the problem of filling those big, empty shops – why not create a mini-market environment and get more than one business inside.
I recently spent time helping set up a new business in KeriKeri, New Zealand, which was entirely born from the idea of pop-up shops. The Merchants of KeriKeri was an old Kiwi packing house which has been transformed into a whole array of small spaces, selling everything from vintage furniture and clothes, haircuts, paintings, flowers, pet accessories and bedding. The shops pay a minimum rent for three months before extending their leases or moving out. This keeps the warehouse fresh and full of new businesses and encourages shoppers to keep coming back and see what’s new.
So maybe with a little forward-thinking from those in charge we could put Jersey on the map for having a thriving high street and one full of weird and wonderful shops. After all, a proposition led by Economic Development Minister Lyndon Farnham to allow shops over 700 square meters to open on Sundays has recently been passed in the States. Let’s make the most of St Helier becoming a ‘go-to’ zone on Sundays in the new year and offer shoppers something a little different.
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Jodie Lee has always been known as a triple threat... Liana Shaw met with Jodie to discuss her career so far.
There’s a natural warmth that radiates from Jodie Lee, even though she’s not feeling too good. It’s that time of year and of course, some of us just get caught out. However, as we meet one Sunday afternoon to shoot our front cover, you definitely wouldn’t be able to tell, and that’s not because of the bronzer. No, Jodie Lee is a true professional. The show must go on and all that jazz…
Jodie has always been known as a triple threat performer; I’ve known that from my own performing arts days. With a new show coming up and exciting goings-on happening next year, Jodie explains why she loves performing so much and how her long history with the profession started, despite hiding under her nan’s chair to start with.
“My nan took me to my first dance class when I was 3 years old. I actually hid under my nan’s chair for the first couple of lessons but I soon got involved and my love grew from there. My parents slowly introduced me to more classes as I got older until I had at least 2-3 hours of classes a day! I took classes in all genres of dance, drama and also had singing lessons. I loved performing. It is where I weirdly felt most myself. I loved playing different characters, mastering new steps.”
But committing to your passions doesn’t always come easy, especially when you’re young. It takes dedication to stick with what you love. “By the time I was a teen I had 2-3 hours of training a day” Jodie continues. “I did struggle with this at times as at that age, you do want to be going round to friends’ houses, to birthday parties or get-togethers. I would be lying if I said I
didn’t struggle with this a few times but on the other hand, my dancing, singing and acting classes gave me another group of close friends with the same interests and passions.”
But thankfully she had a great support network of family and friends to cheer her on. Jodie knew she didn’t want to stay in Jersey and study A Levels, and boldly, decided she’d rather train in the UK and focus on her performing. She spent 3 years at Bird College in Sidcup, Kent, honing her craft, though it might not have been that way at all if she hadn’t stuck to what she believed in. However, Jodie and her parents knew it was the right thing for her.
“A few of my teachers tried to convince my parents that this was the wrong thing to do at my age (at just 16) but my parents supported my wishes to try and further my training” Jodie adds. It must have been a difficult decision to come to – and at such a young age, to pursue a passion in a very fickle, up and down industry, as opposed to A levels. But through the encouragement of friends going to watch Jodie at gigs and with her loved ones around her, she knew she’d always be able to get by.
And in recent years, Jodie’s husband Mark would fly out to visit whilst she was performing in various places in Italy, or Menorca when she was working out there. Travelling as a performer brought many new experiences. Instead of staying in London, Jodie became part of the community she worked with onboard ships or with her fellow tour castmates. However, she has fond memories of being part of our local productions in Jersey, including being part of JADC and the Green Room Club, as well as her dance and drama schools.
Focussing on local arts now she teaches and works in Jersey, I wonder how she feels about dance, music and drama being taught in schools and whether we let children nowadays explore with performance enough. Why is it so important to keep these subjects going? “I truly believe that the arts should be accessible to all and be taught in schools. Children should be able to experience and express themselves through art every day. Whether it be art, drawing, music, dance or drama. So much pressure is put on children now to reach standards in Maths and English that they are not getting the chance to show how talented they are or could be in many other areas.”
It’s clear that to Jodie, teaching the arts is as important as actually performing herself, having set up Jodie Lee Performing Arts Academy in 2014. Her passion for keeping an eye on local talent and encouraging other young artists to pursue their dreams and goals is obvious when she discusses their potential. But there are obstacles in their way…
“Students of mine have qualified for large dance competitions such as the Dance World Cup and this year’s World Dance Challenge,” she explains “and these are amazing opportunities to represent Jersey on a world stage but we have not been able to source any financial help or funding. The children and parents have worked so hard over the years to fundraise through different events to help cover costs of travel and entrance fees, but there have been a couple of occasions
when very talented youngsters cannot attend due to the financial cost, which is such a shame.”
It is such a shame, and clearly more needs to be done to shed light on these young performers and the struggling arts opportunities. However, Jodie’s motto of ‘Believe & Achieve’ is exactly what she tells her students, and she will not be deterred from inspiring them to work hard and reach their goals.
“If you believe you can do it and want it bad enough, then keep working hard towards that goal and you will achieve your dreams. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t give anyone false hope in believing the arts are an easy option because it really isn’t. It takes lots of hard work and determination. I am always honest with my students and admit there were times I wish I had worked harder and not been so eager to finish my training and start performing. Like any craft or skill, it’s what you put into it. You can’t expect to train for 1 hour a week and be the best you can be.”
As Jodie explains, this is important when it comes to the turbulent world of show business.
“The ‘Believe’ part of this motto is really important as there are so many knock backs in this industry, making it quite easy for people to give up because they stop believing in themselves. Sometimes you can be the most talented person in the room but the casting director is looking for a 5ft 7 brunette and you are 5ft 5 and blonde. It is just the way it is and you need to be determined enough to carry on.”
"You can’t expect to train for 1 hour a week and be the best you can be."
Jodie has done a bit of everything when it comes to performing – a real triple threat. And not only can she sing, act and dance on any stage, but there have been challenges to her shows that would have thrown any performer off their game. Literally! From doing a seven-minute can-can routine, to dancing on a moving stage (as if dancing on a normal stage isn’t hard enough), she has a lot of funny stories to tell when it comes to working on cruise ships.
“I remember one particular bumpy night where I was just about to dance a lift with one of the male dancers. In this lift you go into a handstand onto his knee and propel yourself up and over his shoulder, to end up behind his back in what is called the crucifix lift (you are straight, with your arms extended to the side and he holds you up above his head under your arms.) Well on this night, as we performed this move the ship went over a wave and as I was going over his shoulder the ship dipped. So it felt like the stage floor rose up because rather than being in the air I hit the floor with a thud!”
But Jodie knows the secret to a successful show isn’t always smooth. The bumps in the road can happen anywhere and it’s important to ‘get on with the show’ as the saying goes. This happened to Jodie just this last summer with a most recent mishap being at the Merton Hotel. A dancer down, Jodie and the cast had to switch a few things around last minute…
“I forgot to double-check our music before handing my laptop over the tech man. The show started fine but as the girls prepared to go on for an Irish dance number, the French scene music started to play! I had somehow put the music in the wrong order and so our singer had to start singing in the wrong costume whilst I ran out to the sound desk to try and figure out a plan!” Ah, show business. Anything can happen.
This season, we’re all hoping for smooth sailing with the new show Jodie is starring in, alongside an incredible cast, in the Aladdin Pantomime at the Radisson Blu Hotel – so that’s another busy performing season coming up and Jodie is extremely excited. “I first got contacted by Mendes Management via my school to provide a show team of local young dancers to perform in the show. At our first meeting, we got talking and they asked me to send over my showreel. I was then offered the part of the Princess and I was really chuffed. The show is being held at the Radisson Blu from December 19th - 23rd and there are 9 shows in total. The cast is made up of professionally trained actors including Dale Meeks, an ex-Emmerdale actor, as well as two teams of 8 dancers (who
are performing alternating shows) from my school, the Jodie Lee Performing Arts Academy.”
It’s another great show for Jodie to add to her ever-growing list, though does point out a quick favourite. “One show that will always be special to me is ‘Joseph and the Technicoloured Dream Coat’ that I did with the JADC when I was around 11 years old. I was cast as the part of the narrator and it was my first ever lead role! I absolutely loved it! This show definitely made my love for performing on stage grow. At the JADC show awards that year I won the trophy for ‘Best Newcomer’.”
Clearly, they could see her potential and what a star in the making she was…
Jodie is also looking to the future. “Since being back in Jersey I set up JLee Productions with one of my best friends, who is also a trained dancer. We have produced summer season shows at The Merton Hotel for 5 years now and also provide entertainment for lots of public and private events. We are planning our first ever large-scale production show at the Jersey Opera House on February 15th 2020, called ‘Bond in Concert’, celebrating over 50 years of James Bond in the build-up to the brand new movie being released. The show will involve a 15 piece band, professional singers and dancers!”
Homegrown talent doesn’t come much more obvious than this. A go-getter, inspirational worker and a kind heart, it sounds like Jodie has always abided in her own motto. Having done so much in her life already, from teaching youngsters who could one day be future stars, to performing in a variety of shows, to producing them for large scale events, she really can say she has believed and achieved.
"...rather than being in the air I hit the floor with a thud!"
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This year ingredients like retinol, hyaluronic acid and vitamin C have dominated skincare. It would be hard to find a brand without a product hailing one of these must-haves as the star of the show.
Whilst I doubt HA will be fading to the background anytime soon (let’s hope not as it’s the key to hydrated skin), there are some new players. Here's a look at the must-have ingredients to look out for in 2020...
Niacinamide is a form of Vitamin B3. It has potent anti-inflammatory qualities, which mean it’s a great gentle addition to your skincare routine if you are prone to acne. It works by regulating the skins natural oil secretion making is perfect for those with oily or combination skin. When used consistently, it can strengthen the skin barrier. This means it keeps free radicals and pollution out and moisture in – great if you struggle with a dehydrated complexion. Most skin types, even sensitive, tolerate niacinamide.
Kakadu plum is pretty potent, it’s a fruit grown in northern Australian making it an all-natural ingredient. It’s believed to be ‘the most concentrated form of Vitamin C on earth’. Vitamin C is essential for glowing skin; it reduces the appearance of acne scarring and fades dark spots, leaving your skin brighter and more even. It helps trigger collagen production, which depletes with age, Kakadu plum can improve the skin's elasticity. As a powerful antioxidant, it’s going to protect your skin from pollution, UV damage and environmental damage. Be mindful if you use retinol or AHA/BHA’s as you skin can become sensitised or irritated when used in combination with vitamin C.
Prebiotics are nutrients found in the gut and on the skin, they increase the production of probiotics. Probiotics are good bacteria designed to reduce inflammation, prevent premature ageing and protect against bad bacteria; essentially optimizing healing our skin. As prebiotics and probiotics are naturally found on the skin, they can help to balance our skin's pH – a lot of products are too alkaline which can lead to redness, dryness and even breakouts. The skin’s acid mantle is happiest between a pH of 4.7 and 5.7. Everything from our skincare routines to our environment can threaten this delicate balance. If you’ve ever splashed your face with water and not followed up with a serum or moisturiser- chances are you face will feel dry and tight. Although water is dehydrating, a contributing factor to this is that our household water tends to be more alkaline than our skin would like. That’s not a problem if you are making sure to rebalance your skin’s epidermis, look for probiotic infused products with a pH 5.
If like me your sensitive skin has a love-hate relationship with retinol, bakuchiol might just be the ingredient we’re been waiting for. Bakuchiol is a plant extract, which has been used in Ayurvedic medicine. It
functions similarly to retinol; increasing cell turnover, stimulating collagen production as well as reducing and smoothing out signs of ageing. All without the risk of drying and irritation, side effects that can come when using retinol. Although the research is limited, it’s promising and I guarantee if you haven’t heard the hype growing around this ingredient, it won’t be long before you do.
Ceramides are fats, lipids to be specific, that are found in high concentration within the top layers of our skin. They make up 50% of the skin’s composition – they hold our skin cells together in a protective layer limiting visible signs of ageing and moisture loss. Although our skin contains a lot of ceramides, sun damage and age lessen our bodies’ ability to keep up production levels. As with most anti-ageing products exposure to light and air lower the effectiveness so make sure to look for well packaged, stable products.
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May Bourne, a Midwife and founder of Positive Birth Jersey teamed up with Sophie Darwin, Jersey’s only on-island birth photographer, to launch the MOTHERHOOD campaign to celebrate the beauty of post-birth bodies.
The campaign aims to offer a realistic image of what motherhood looks like – an image that is very rarely portrayed on social media platforms. There is unnecessary pressure and high expectations for women to ‘bounce back’ to their pre-pregnancy weight, which isn’t realistic. The images celebrate everything that comes with motherhood - stretch marks, weight gain, a change in skin, c-section scars, and breastfeeding breasts.
25 individual women shared their unique stories about their postbirth bodies, whilst participating in an intimate photoshoot that depicts the raw and emotional experience of birth and motherhood.
An exhibition will be held at The Arts Centre between 23rd March - 4th April 2020 - the images will remain on display for 2 weeks. An online social media campaign will also take place during this time.
You can follow May and Sophie on Facebook and Instagram.
- Positive Birth Jersey, @positivebirthjersey
- Sophie Darwin Photography, @sophiedarwinphotography
“I loved having Scarlett so much that we wanted her to have a sibling and 18 months later I was pregnant with Bertie. I can’t imagine being without them and they make our lives so complete. Being a parent is the best job in the world, but also the hardest – I love every minute of it! I had Scarlett via a natural birth, but Bertie was an emergency c-section. I wasn’t ready for the body changes I had with Bertie.” - Victoria
"On the surface I’m a mother of two, but in fact my body carried three beautiful humans. I first became a mother when we brought a beautiful angel into the world - that insane love everyone spoke about was there, the minute I held him. But he was too beautiful for earth. Instead, he handpicked his two beautiful sisters to stay with us and complete our family. I guess my body fought back, despite all the anxieties and worry - it didn’t fail me, it never has - although I initially thought that it did." - Alisha
“I really love my shape in this pregnancy, it is so nice to have tight skin and not to be sucking in my tummy, and my youngest is absolutely obsessed with my bump and with cuddling, kissing and talking to baby. Pregnancy is such a contrast to the post baby stage, where it is definitely much harder to embrace the softer me, and to respect and value the phenomenal things my body has done.” - Claudia
“I felt like I had failed as a mother. I was disgusted by what I saw in the mirror and I was struggling with how much my body had changed. A few weeks later I saw the MOTHERHOOD campaign and it just sparked something inside me. It has completely changed how I view myself and my body. It felt liberating having the photos taken and sharing the experience with so many other beautiful women. I now look in the mirror and smile as my body has done something amazing and has grown and fed 3 beautiful children.” - Rachel
“My body has taken quite a knock. I have always struggled with my weight and body positivity and during my pregnancy I certainly ate for two. That alongside the expected changes with growing another human, it’s left me with a very different image when I look in the mirror. That being said, I have never felt more confident. When I see myself I don’t see the same person. I feel ashamed but that is why I wanted to take part in this. Although I am at my biggest, Barney sees me through his perfect eyes as his wonderful mother regardless of my size and shape. I’m so proud to say I am a mother and I bear the scars and lumps and bumps to prove it. They are my journey and I wouldn’t change a thing.” - Polly
“It took me years to learn to love me again and be proud of the skin I’m in, scars and all. My body grew and birthed two beautiful babies. It was put through so much and I should praise it not tear it apart. Taking part in this campaign with so many strong, beautiful and brave women all with a different story to tell has been such a privilege.” - Mikela
“It has taken me a little while to look at my scar and I really didn’t realise how much of an overhang there would be on my tummy where the scar is. I was bloated for weeks and weeks and just didn’t like the way it looked and felt so different to having a natural birth first time.” - Victoria
“I put on a huge amount of weight in both pregnancies and I'm still nowhere near my prepregnancy weight but I really couldn't care less. I have scars, stretchmarks, dimples and wobbly bits and I honestly have never loved my body more. I'm so proud of what it's achieved and the beautiful, healthy babies it has created. It is upsetting that we live in a time were women are expected to 'bounce back' from pregnancy and childbirth and carry on as normal. But nothing will ever be 'normal' again.” - Charlene
“My body has changed completely after my two pregnancies. To say that I don’t mind would be a lie. I don’t particularly like my stretch marks, I don’t like the loose skin on my tummy and I don’t like that I have lost my waist. But it is reality of what pregnancy does to a body. I am proud as well. I am proud of what my body has done and I am proud of what my stretch marks stand for. It’s real. And it has done something absolutely amazing, only seven weeks ago. So, for now I’m kind to my body and I really appreciate what it has done for me and my babies.” -
Marijehen people think of domestic abuse, they often focus on physical violence. But domestic abuse includes any attempt by one person who is or has been in an intimate relationship or are family members to dominate and control the other. It is estimated that one in four women and one in six men will experience domestic abuse at some point in their lifetime.
Similarly, the impact of such abuse upon the lives of the children living in such environments cannot be underestimated. Domestic abuse is a complex and challenging issue which can wreck lives and devastate families.
In 2018, there were 1,106 domestic incidents and 468 domestic crimes in Jersey. With 442 domestic incidents where children were present and 381 domestic abuse notifications were shared with Education.
The Jersey Safeguarding Partnership (which includes a number of local agencies and Government department) launched their Domestic Abuse Strategy for 2019-2022 in April. The strategy aims over the next three years to keep more Islanders safe through three strands of work focussed on prevention, protection and provision, and includes an annual campaign to raise awareness.
There are a number of different signs and types of domestic abuse:
Psychological/emotional - uses ‘mind games,’ to undermine and make the person doubt their own opinion and to deny that abuse is happening. Constant name calling, put downs, withholding affection. Telling the person what to wear, who to see, where to go, and what to think. Making threats, using blackmail and fear to control. Isolation from friends and family.
“I left a very controlling relationship 18 months ago which resulted in me becoming very depressed, anxious and suicidal. I couldn’t breathe…he wouldn’t even let me go to the toilet without knowing where or what I was doing… he hated me seeing my friends and would lose his temper massively… every text message would be analysed and he would rage if I didn’t reply straight back to him or said I loved him enough.”
Physical - anything from a slap, bite, punch, kick, strangulation – used to instil fear. It is not about causing harm to their partner, it is about exerting power and control to scare and to use violence as a threat.
“I was in a physically abusive relationship in my early 20s, and even now 20 years on, I am still scared when someone shouts, raises their voice or gets angry that they are going to hit me. It took me a long time after the relationship ended, before I could trust someone to touch me again without being terrified. The emotional scars from the abuse never leave.”
Sexual – it isn’t just rape or sexual assault, it’s about entitlement and expectation, and forcing someone to have sex, perform certain acts or degrading behaviour against their will.
“My ex-partner would force me to have sex, when I didn’t want to. So, I would let him do what he wanted, because I was so scared of him.”
Financial - it’s more than just money, it can mean: preventing someone from getting or keeping a job, not allowing them access to their income, giving an allowance, taking money, running up debts and withholding basic necessities.
“I felt completely trapped because my partner would have control all of our income and only give me ‘pocket money’ which meant that I couldn’t afford to buy my own things nor ever go out and treat myself.”
It’s impossible to know what goes on behind closed doors, but there are some tell-tale signs of abuse:
• Depression and anxiety
• Seems afraid or anxious to please their partner and goes along with everything their partner says
• Has to check in often to report where they are and what they’re doing
• Receives frequent/harassing calls or messages from their partner
• Talks about their partner’s temper, jealousy or possessiveness
• Has frequent injuries, with the excuse of accidents
• Frequently misses work, school, or social occasions, without explanation
• Dresses in clothing designed to hide bruises or scars
• Cancels plans last minute
What should you do?
It can be very hard to talk about abuse. Here are some tips for ways to approach and the help someone you are worried about: approach them in a sensitive way, such as “I am worried about you because…”. Let them know they are not alone, that it is not their fault and that you know how hard it can be to talk about it. Help them to recognise that what is happening is unacceptable and that they don’t have to put up with it. Provide them with information about agencies that are there to help and support them. Don’t judge, just listen.
Where to go for help?
In an emergency, call the States of Jersey Police on 999 for immediate help.
• Jersey Domestic Abuse Support - 880505
• States of Jersey Police – non-emergency: 612612
• Jersey Refuge Service - 768368
• Victim Support - 440496
• *Jersey Action Against Rape – 482800
*(for sexual offences and not for generic DA reporting)
Party season doesn't mean your health has to take a total nose dive. Chloe Bowler shares her tips on staying healthy over Christmas
Christmas is such a magical time of year, and a very busy time of year for everyone, with more parties and socialising than normal. While this is great fun, it can have an adverse effect on your health. Not only may your diet suffer, but many people also find their alcohol intake dramatically increases throughout December, and this can often lead to a poor diet, lack of nutrition, and generally bad food choices. Mix this in with a lack of sleep, and you have a recipe for Christmas flu!
I am a definite supporter of partying and love the merriment of the season, however, as the weather changes, the temperature drops, and sleep can be harder to fit in, it is so important to try to counter the negative effects with some positive steps for your health.
Sleep and good nutrition are paramount for a strong immune system, so do try to keep in some sort of sleep routine. Don’t spread yourself too thinly, and diarise some early evenings as well as the late-night parties. If you know you are going to be out at a party all evening, try to eat something nutritious before you go out, so you don’t end up not eating, or choosing a greasy burger late at night. Include wholegrain carbohydrates such as brown rice to keep you energised, along with some lean protein and vegetables.
Brightly coloured fruits and vegetables are high in Vitamin C, and will help support the immune system. Everyone automatically thinks of citrus fruits for Vitamin C, but in actual fact, you will get more Vitamin C from broccoli and peppers, so think vegetables, and think rainbow colours when choosing your food.
If you are finding your exercise routine dips, don’t worry. Sometimes it’s good for the body to have a break. However, if you can find the time, try to incorporate a shorter workout into your day, or fit in a workout in the morning if your evenings are now too busy. Always try to find time for some walking at the weekend, the fresh air has so many health benefits, and it’s not too stressful on the body if you are tired. It’s all about balance, and you will feel a lot better in January if you have been able to keep up with some exercise throughout December.
If you are drinking more alcohol than usual, I would always recommend people to increase their water intake. It may seem simple, but it is also really easy to get dehydrated. If you feel thirsty you are already dehydrated, so remember, prevention is better than cure. Sip water throughout the day, and when you are drinking alcohol always try to match it with the same volume of water as well.
Keep to a healthy eating routine. If you’re out in the evening, eat before you go.
Eat the rainbow. Fill your plate with brightly coloured vegetables to boost your immune system.
Schedule your exercise. Even if it’s one workout in the week, and a walk at the weekend, put it in your diary and you’ll be more likely to stick to it.
Keep hydrated. Carry water with you, and drink consistently throughout the day.
Get the zzz’s in. Sleep helps the body recover, so mark some early evenings in the diary, and get some rest.
"If you feel thirsty you are already dehydrated."
Harriet Rouse looks at ways to bring the garden indoors, including homemade table decorations and wreaths
The temperature may have dropped, with those mild summer evenings sat out in the garden or at the beach a distant memory, but there is still joy to be had from the garden even if we find ourselves spending less of our time in it. Whilst it may seem that nothing very much is happening, there are still plenty of plants thriving in the winter months, and, with a little planning, enjoyment and colour can still be found before the early shoots of spring start to appear.
Hellebores come in an array of colours and are also beautiful in cut arrangements. Flowering from December to March, they are known as the Christmas Rose and are the perfect addition to the winter garden. There are also several varieties of winter-flowering clematis (cirrhosa) which add some much-needed interest and blooms. The easiest way to inject an instant bit of colour is in hanging baskets or pots. Head to the garden centre and seek out winter pansies, violas and trailing ivy, and make sure you position your pots and baskets somewhere that you'll be able to enjoy them from the inside (not just to someone passing by).
Throughout the winter evergreen foliage is abundant in the garden perfect for bringing the outside in, from ivy and eucalyptus to pittosporum, there's always something that you can use.
no rules, just take your time and ensure that you have scissors or secateurs to hand to trim to length, and some twine to fix things once you're happy.
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Whilst the summer may have a long list of flowers perfect for displaying in vases, there's still a lot to work with, it just takes a little more imagination!
Dried flowers such as hydrangeas and ferns look striking when paired with evergreens, branches and a few inexpensive flowers that you can pick up in any supermarket. Let your imagination run wild, and search Pinterest and Instagram for ideas. There are
fashionable. All you need is a table (cloth optional) and
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When it comes to the winter, and especially December there's a lot of entertaining, and not just on the 25th! The good news is that cosy and snug has never been simpler or more fashionable. All you need is a table (cloth optional) and to simply drape it with ivy or eucalyptus. A few tea lights or candles dotted throughout with some dimmed lights is all the effort you need to make, and trust us when we say it will look like you've gone to a lot more effort than you have. If you've got a house full, and a table plan to boot, a simple gold pen and an ivy leaf is the perfect seasonal touch and an inexpensive way to make sure everyone knows where they are supposed to sit. Whether or not they stay there is another matter entirely.
It might seem obvious, but with winter comes a lack of food for our feathered friends. The earlier you put it out, the earlier the birds will know that your garden is the place to hang out this wintertime, and with them, they'll be flashes of colour, and constant visitors to your trees for you to glance out at from the comfort of your home.
Make sure that you don't let the food or water run out - birds are fickle creatures and will move on if they don't think that dinner is guaranteed. It's also important that you don't put out too much food so that it spoils. You'll soon settle into an idea of the optimum levels though, and the good news is, that while any food you put out would probably be pilfered in the UK by grey squirrels, at worst you'll get a red squirrel hanging out in the garden waiting for its treats... well with any luck anyway!
Get the kids involved with restocking the bird feeders (ensuring they wash their hands afterwards), or make your own by using a scraped out grapefruit or orange skin and filling it with lard or suet mixed with seeds and nuts.
Different birds like different foods, so make sure that you have a selection of treats hanging from a pole/balcony or tree to attract the most diverse wildlife. They also feed differently. The RSPB suggests using a hanging plastic feeder containing sunflower hearts to attract finches, tits and sparrows; a hanging mesh feeder with peanuts to attract tits and a hanging mesh feeder with fat balls for (mainly) tits and sparrows. If your feeding station is
housed on a tree, then put some suet or lard onto the bark, or rest a feeder in the branches of a tree to encourage woodpeckers.
The prospect of being creative may fill you with horror, but wreath making is not only an enjoyable and accessible activity, but it's also a great one to do with friends, especially over a glass or two of mulled wine.
Should you not have the faintest idea where to start, most florists across the island offer wreath-making evenings throughout December. Varying hugely in price and what's included, they book up quickly but keep an eye out on Facebook or Instagram for any last-minute cancellations.
If you'd like to DIY, we'd recommend buying a base. The days of oasis are over as we try and go as plastic-free as possible - they're also heavier and harder to use, so ask in the market in town or at your local florist whether they have a moss base that you can buy (moss is light but retains moisture helping it to last longer). You can also buy wire base on Amazon or eBay which keeps things simple - though works best with spruce/fir as they don't hold water.
Then all you'll need is some floristry scissors, wire (22 gage is a good weight to work with), and greenery. The good news is that a lot of greenery is available for free around the garden - collect long lengths of ivy, spruce, holly and berries, and you'll already be halfway there. Pop into any florist and buy a bunch or two of foliage if you need to bulk things out, and you can easily add fir cones, fruits, baubles, ribbons... but start by getting the base done. Work in a clockwise motion wrapping the wire round to capture the foliage, and do not cut the wire until you're finished! That way you've only got two weak points, and the beginning and at the end. Keep going until it's all covered, and go round again if needed. Remember you can trim it afterwards if needed, and - if in doubt - pop onto YouTube! There's plenty of tutorials there!
The most important thing of all at this time of year is to try and enjoy. Enjoy the shorter days and the longer nights, the nesting, the films. Enjoy a break in the weather than allows you to take a walk through the lanes without being drenched or frozen. Every season has its good points both in the garden and in the home, and winter - whilst not necessarily putting on so much of a colourful display - is no exception.
"The most important thing of all at this time of year is to try and enjoy."
This season’s recipes are hearty warming dishes, all great on a cold day and are all suitable for vegetarians.
Preparing beetroot can be a little messy so you can skip the first stage and simply buy in precooked beetroot. The resulting soup is colourful and packed full of tasty vegetables.
1 kilo raw beetroot
1 large onion, peeled and finely sliced
2 medium carrots, peeled and sliced
2 sticks of celery, cleaned and sliced
½ bulb of fennel, trimmed and finely sliced
2 large potatoes, peeled and diced
2 large cloves of garlic
1 bay leaf
1 sprig of thyme
400g can chopped tomatoes
500ml vegetable stock
150ml quality olive oil
½ teaspoon ground sweet smoked paprika
Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper
250ml crème fraiche
1 tbsp horseradish sauce
1tsp fresh dill, chopped
1. Wash the beetroot and chop of the stalks. Place the beetroot in an oven proof dish, toss in a little extra oil and roast in a hot oven 400F/200C/ Gas mark 6 for thirty to forty minutes until soft. Remove and allow to thoroughly cool. Rinse the beetroot in cold water, peel and dice.
2. Heat the oil in a large heavy bottomed pan and gently cook the onion, carrot, celery, garlic and fennel until very soft, stirring occasionally to prevent sticking and burning.
3. Add the beetroot, potatoes, chopped tomatoes, stock, thyme, bay leaf and paprika. Bring to a gentle simmer and cook for twenty to twenty-five minutes until the potatoes are soft. Season generously.
4. Whip the crème fraiche and horseradish together to make the garnish. Serve in bowls with a spoon of horseradish crème fraiche and freshly chopped dill.
This is a really simple supper dish using readily available ingredients from quality supermarkets. You can buy fresh gnocchi and pesto and can finish the dish with vegetarian Parmesan for an extra flourish. Toasted pine nuts are excellent in pasta and salads.
800g fresh potato gnocchi
300g chestnut mushrooms, quartered
150ml good quality olive oil
4 cloves of garlic, peeled and crushed
A splash of dry white wine
A handful of fresh basil leaves
50g pine nuts
Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper
1. Toast the pine nuts under a hot grill until light golden brown. Cool and store in an airtight container, this can be done in advance.
2. Heat a pan of lightly salted boiling water and drop in the gnocchi for two minutes then pour into a colander.
3. Pour the olive oil into a large frying and heat. Add the gnocchi and sauté, tossing occasionally to get a really good colour. Add the garlic and mushrooms, season with salt and pepper and cook them until golden brown. Add the splash of white wine and turn up the heat until the juices have reduced by two thirds. Turn down the heat and stir in the fresh pesto sauce. Cook for a further two to three minutes to heat through. Toss in the fresh basil and serve topped with toasted pine nuts.
This is a delicious dessert made from store cupboard staples. Stem ginger is great in puddings or grated into stir fries.
175g self-raising flour
100g soft light brown sugar
100g soft butter
4 medium free-range eggs
50g stem ginger, finely diced
Juice and zest of 1 lemon
½ tsp baking powder
½ tsp ground ginger
100g coarse orange marmalade Jersey cream to serve
1. Preheat your oven to 350F/180C/Gas Mark 4.
2. Butter eight individual pudding dishes and divide the marmalade between them.
3. Place the butter, sugar, eggs, flour, baking powder, lemon juice and the ground ginger into a food processor and process until smooth and creamy. Mix in the chopped ginger and lemon zest and spoon the mixture into the prepared dishes. Place on a baking tray and put into the preheated oven. Bake for twenty to twentyfive minutes until the top is golden brown and when inserted into the sponge a small sharp knife comes out clean. Remove from the oven and leave for five minutes to cool slightly. Run a knife carefully around the sponges and tip into bowls.
4. Add a good glug of fresh Jersey double cream and serve.
For all that the dating scene has gained in the last decade with the advent of apps that allow us to meet potential partners we might otherwise never stumble across, it seems that along the way we've lost something far more important. Where have our good manners gone?
While many a happy relationship has started with a swipe, the idea that something better could be coming up in the next profile, along with the relative anonymity of being behind screens has chipped away at the respect and consideration that we would usually offer to someone we meet face to face. 7 years after the launch of Tinder these new dating behaviours have become common enough that names have been coined for each of them.
'Ghosting' is probably the most frequent form of bad behaviour, and certainly the one that receives the most knowing looks when referred to. Ghosting is the act of suddenly and without any warning or explanation cutting all communication and disappearing into the ether, leaving the injured party wondering what on earth went wrong.
Variations on the above, and from personal experience, are more likely to occur here in Jersey (where let's face it, completely disappearing is tricky given that you're likely to bump into each other at some stage) are 'orbiting' and 'bread-crumbing'. The former is where all communication has stopped, messages go unread and calls unanswered, but the ghost continues to haunt your social media accounts, watching stories and dropping likes, just to remind you they're still around. Breadcrumbing is similar, but crueller in that the perpetrator puts in just enough effort to keep you interested without any real intention of taking it further. Also known as benching, they are quite literally putting you on the bench, keeping you in reserve in case other (better) options don't work out. I've done some research amongst single friends and every one of them has experienced at least one of these practices, most have been through them all several times over, and a few have now decided that if you can’t beat them, join them. Unsurprising then that this kind of behaviour appears to be becoming the norm, rather than the exception; somehow we’ve reached a stage that when getting together for an initial drink, we consider our date more disposable than the straw we’re sipping from.
Given the nature of online dating and using apps as an introduction, this lack of effort can just about be excused in the early stages; I think most people have quietly dropped out of chats when the conversation just isn’t flowing. But once you’ve met in real life, be that for a single date or a dozen, then the discourteous act of simply disappearing becomes plain old fashioned rude.
Of course, nobody enjoys sending that ‘thanks, but no thanks’ message to someone they haven’t clicked with, it’s
awkward and risks hurt feelings, but surely we should treat each other with enough consideration to bite the bullet and be honest? I’ve talked around this subject a lot, and I’ve never encountered anyone who has been even remotely offended by a polite message drawing a line under a less than successful date, but I’ve spoken to many daters, of both sexes, who have been left confused and upset by being ghosted or benched. The consequence of what appears like the easy way out to the ghoster can have far-reaching effects for the ghostee. When anyone vanishes into thin air they leave behind questions from ‘are they ok?’ to ‘what did I do wrong?’ and many dozens more. When the suddenly invisible man (or woman) is someone that you felt a connection with then so much the worse; reports of being left feeling used, disregarded, disrespected or just not good enough aren’t at all unusual. The bewilderment and lack of any kind of closure can be far more painful than an honest brush-off would ever have been. But would-be ghosters should consider that the ill-effects aren’t just limited to the victim in this toxic game; particularly in a community as small as ours where word gets around, people talk and a reputation can precede you. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
In a time when our collective mental health has never been on more of a knife-edge and ‘be kind to each other’ is a buzzword, somehow dating seems to have been left out of the trend. As far as I see it we have two ways to move forward; either we remember our manners, treat each other with respect and stop being shy of calling out those who don’t, or eventually we reach saturation point when we’ve all ghosted our way through the entire single population. I know which I option I’m more afraid of.
Laura Butlin-Policarpo discusses the 5 love languages, a concept initially founded by Dr Gary Chapman
Love is an emotion, a feeling… a unique experience for all of us. Have you ever felt like you were on a different page to a loved one? Be it your other half, a close friend, sibling or other family members. Chances are the way that you communicate love is different and the key is to address how you express your affection lies in understanding their love language. The theory shares 5 love languages; each of us will have a prominent way of giving and receiving love. Identify the way those closest to you communicate and use it as a way to connect.
Using words to build up the other person. Look for opportunities to give sincere compliments. It’s not just about saying ‘I love you’ try to explain the reasons why you feel this way. You’re looking for ways to positively recognise them, whether written or spoken.
Rather than spending time physically together but immersed in other things. This requires giving your partner your undivided attention. Put the screens away, play your favourite album and light some candles. This is all about being together and sharing a moment.
This isn’t about being spoilt. This act is about the thoughtfulness behind the gift. Knowing that you have gone out of your way to think about your loved one and put in the effort to show them that. For example, buying them their favourite bar of chocolate when you went to the shop. It shows that you understand them and that you know them.
Anything you can do to lessen the burden on the other person. Chances are you’ll know if you partner resonates with this love language. You might have heard them frustrated about always doing the dishes, doing the foods shops, juggling cooking meals with monitoring homework. Well, what if you walked the dog, hoovered the house? How about letting them lie in at the weekend and making breakfast in bed. If you’re really stuck for ideas – just ask!
If you’re not a hugger – then physical touch may not be the language you relate to the most. Be intentional about finding ways to express love using physical touch. Holding hands can calm, heal and reassure. Offering a neck or foot massage in the evening can show you want to help them relax. Touching their arm in conversation can offer support and reassurance.
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I’m Hannah and I’m a biblioholic. My love of reading, and creative writing, is the result of three years spent at Oxford Brookes University where I studied for a degree in publishing. I love a good murder mystery book, but I also regularly read travel, health, action & adventure and science fiction titles.
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Holly Martin
Christmas has always been Ruby Marlowe’s favourite time of the year. So when she is offered the opportunity to open a year-round Christmas shop in the little village of Happiness, it seems like a dream come true.
Disaster strikes though when the shop sustains some water damage, so she is forced to share temporary premises with the guy she had a fling with in the summer, Jacob Harrington.
Ruby and Jacob must decide whether they can work side-by-side and keep their feelings to themselves or take a chance on one another.
A feel-good romance that’s like a mug of hot chocolate on a winter’s day.
Sophie Kinsella
Becky Brandon (née Bloomwood) is given the task of hosting Christmas for the very first time for a group of family and friends. The “perfect” Christmas is never easy, but the many scrapes and sticky situations she finds herself in make for a lot of laughs and OMG moments. From the chaotic vegan turkey dinner to her fight to join a male-only billiard club, Becky never disappoints. This is not your typical Christmas story, but it’s sure to make you laugh this holiday when you need it.
The perfect read for both fans of the Shopaholic series and holiday fiction. *****
Adam Kay
Best known for his UK bestselling non-fiction title of 2018, This is Going to Hurt, Kay’s festive follow-up is the entertaining story of the life of a junior doctor at the most challenging time of the year. Having worked on Christmas Day six times in the seven years he was a medical doctor, Kay has truly seen it all.
The only reason this isn’t a 5 star is that the book wasn’t long enough! Hilarious, poignant and a reminder of the sacrifices made and the challenges faced by the unsung heroes of the NHS.
While out shopping with her family, Detective Lindsay Boxer encounters a known criminal by the name of Loman, who is planning a ‘big event’ that is set to cause widespread terror to the residents of San Francisco on Christmas morning.
Lindsay takes up the case with the help of the SFPD Homicide team, pushing them in many directions, some red herrings, while others seem to point to a major heist only a few days away.
The usual strong characters you expect from a Patterson novel are fully present in this story, however the plot lines at times feel unbelievable. A quick and easy read that’ll intrigue fans for the next instalment in the series.
Do fairytales send a positive message when it comes to love? Cliona Elliott looks at some of the classics
Once upon a time, there was a little girl who sat on the sofa in a pair of fluffy pink pyjamas, mesmerised by the Disney princesses she watched on the video player. With their long, flowing hair and bouffant gowns, the princesses were always saved by a handsome prince and brought back to life by true love’s first kiss. Like many little girls, she always imagined that by the age of twentysix, when she’s ‘all grown up’, she would be married to her prince charming and would live happily ever after. The little girl then grew up, and oh how different things are to how she imagined them with her child’s mind. If what they say about frogs is true, she has yet to kiss a few more until she finds her prince.
There are many powerful lessons embedded within the enchanted forests and magical characters that make up our favourite childhood fairytales, but what do they teach (or perhaps not teach) us about love?
Let’s start with the positives. Ultimately, fairytales teach us that love conquers all. It will find its way through all of life’s obstacles and seep through the cracks even in the darkest of times. When Cinderella’s father tragically dies, her cruel Stepmother puts her to work as a scullery maid as a punishment for being much more beautiful and graceful than her two daughters, Anastasia and Drizella. "Have courage and be kind. Where there is kindness there is goodness, and where there is goodness there is magic." Despite Cinderella’s rags and
lower social status, the Prince searches the whole kingdom, finds Cinderella and they fall in love. In a world so obsessed with external beauty, Cinderella teaches us that it’s our actions and how we treat others that determine our nobleness and beauty.
Beauty and the Beast also teach us about true beauty, and that love doesn't discriminate. Every rose has its thorns, and Belle discovers that real beauty is defined by kindness, compassion and having a
heart full of good intention. She falls in love with the Beast when she takes the time to get to know what's beyond the surface level, showing us that sometimes we need to look beyond our perceptions. The same goes for Ariel. No matter how different or odd we think we are to everyone else, we should never try to change ourselves to fit another mould. We are all unique, and the people who accept our uniqueness are the only ones that matter.
The Evil Queen from Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs teaches us that first and foremost, we must love ourselves. "Mirror, mirror on the wall. Who's the fairest of them all?" The Evil Queen becomes so envious of Snow White that she plots to kill her. In her pursuit to remain the "fairest in the land", she leads herself to her own demise. It’s a similar story for Maleficent, the evil fairy in Sleeping Beauty. Both of these cruel antagonists are bullies, but behind every bully is someone who's hurting. Their curses against Snow White and Sleeping Beauty are the real mirror, reflecting the insecurities and unhappiness they feel within themselves.
But what do the fairytales fail to teach us? In all of these stories, the princesses’ fate is to find ‘The One’ and live happily ever after. As lovely and romantic as ‘The One’ sounds, the idea of there being one person who was put on the earth to find you is outdated. It creates a feeling of scarcity, and it can also encourage people to stay in relationships they are no
longer happy in. That’s not to say soulmates don’t exist, but I think we can have more than one; we can have multiple soulmates who serve a different purpose at different points in our lives. The classic fairytales also paint a picture of being saved by love. The princesses are always at the mercy of love, waiting to be rescued by their prince so that they can be free. Love is amazing, and it can enrich us, but we can’t rely on someone else to fill our cup. If you think you need someone to come and sweep you off your feet, to make you feel worthy, then you’ll never be truly fulfilled. The fairytales fail to teach us that actually, someone can drop you after sweeping you off your feet, and when it happens, it’s you who’s going to have to pick yourself up and do the work if you want to be happy.
I would say that we are responsible for our own happy ever after, but I’m not going to use that term as it implies that one day we’ll wake up and everything will be perfect. If we try to seek the perfect relationship, the perfect house, the perfect family - the fairytale ending that will last forever - we’re chasing an illusion. There are magic moments to be found in every day, but if love was as straightforward as it is in the fairytales, there would be no room for the wonderful growth that happens in between all of the plot twists.
"...the idea of there being one person who was put on the earth to find you is outdated."
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