Love Is NOT Blind - You Are
Questions List
1. When it comes to challenging decisions, what are you likely to do? Has this kept you from adventure or got you into trouble?
2. Are you usually the one to break off your relationships? If so, what have been your prevalent reasons? If not, what have been the other person's reasons?
3. Are you the kind of person who stays up with trends and expects your partner to also? Do you feel you should keep your partner up on trends and suggest what they wear?
4. Have you ever tried to change because someone asked you to? If so, what was asked of you?
5. How have you handled past failures, whether in relationships or in general? Did it help you grow, or did you wallow?
6. How do you respond to criticism? How does it make you feel? How has it shown up in your love life?
7. Describe a relationship that was immensely satisfying. Why was it so good, and what happened to it?
8. Have you ever taken others' advice and then felt like it was the wrong decision for you? Explain. In hindsight, do you wish you had made a different choice? Why?
9. Do you tend to look to others for advice, help, or decision-making, or are you quite certain you can handle it yourself?
10. Describe a time you felt like you were in your groove. What made you feel this way? What drove you, and what decisions did you make to get there?
11. Has there been a span of time that you were not in a relationship, and how did it feel?
12. If you’ve never been in a relationship, what do you want others to see in you when you date or talk? What’s important for you to project?
13. Talk about a time that you felt you had to level up in a relationship and how did that feel? What made you feel that way?
14. When you argue with someone you care about, how does it affect you, what do you do, and how do you feel later?
15. Share an experience where you felt valued, loved, and listened to. Are you usually the one that is listening or being listened to?
16. How do relationships go for you? Are you the one in control for the most part, or are you wanting, expecting, and hoping for someone else to take the lead?
17. Do you feel it’s essential to make changes for the other person in a relationship, or should they accept you for who you are? Do you expect others to change for you?
18. When you first meet someone or are dating, is there something you always know is a no? Is there something that consistently drives you crazy, and you look for an exit?
19. Is there anything you feel is a consistent challenge for you? Explain.
20. Would you say you are a late person, right on time or 10-15 minutes early?
21. What is a successful relationship to you? Have you ever had one?
22. Share what you think your style is and how you want people to see you.
23. Do you tend to make most of the decisions in your relationships? Are you the driver?
24. How do you tend to respond when someone suggests you should do something?
25. Do you tend to find fault in almost everything, and if so, why?
26. What are some values that are important to you in life and why?
27. How do you prioritize your daily tasks and responsibilities?
28. Can you describe a recent stressful situation and how you handled it?
29. What strategies do you use to manage stress?
30. How do you prefer to communicate with others? Are you more direct or indirect?
31. What do you find most challenging about communicating with others?
32. How do you typically handle feedback from others?
33. What areas do you focus on for personal growth and improvement?
34. Do you consider the game of love to be hard, and if so, why or why not?
35. Do you worry about someone loving you? What is your concern?
36. Would you say you are often the affectionate one in your relationships?
37. Are you concerned that getting to know the real you will have potential mates running? What is your concern?
38. Is it challenging to be compassionate when your partner shows emotional turmoil? If so, what keeps you from it?
39. Are you concerned about your mate's behavior when they are gone? If so, in what way, and what is it that you are concerned about?
40. Are you comfortable depending on your mate? If not, what keeps you from depending on them?
41. Do you find yourself running from commitment or being the one who wants your partner to commit? How does that affect you?
42. Do you feel like you are the one who’s always trying in your relationships?
43. What complaint seems to keep coming up in your relationships, whether it’s about your mate or your mate about you?
44. Are you the kind of person who gets jealous of your mate talking to others, or are you more, eh, whatever, I’ll find someone to talk to or something to do?
45. Have you ever truly committed to a relationship, or do you always have a toe out the door?
46. Do you feel like you have a need for change that keeps you from truly committing?
47. Is there a circumstance in your past that keeps you from trusting someone?
48. What concerns do you have about your ability to be in love?
49. Does what you believe about your social environment affect your choices about love?
50. Do you feel like you are lost in the game of love?
51. What are the most important qualities you look for in a partner, and why?
52. How do you handle situations where your needs and your partner's needs conflict?
53. What role does physical attraction play in your relationships?
54. Describe a time when you felt misunderstood in a relationship. How did you handle it?
55. How do you approach and resolve conflicts in relationships?
56. Are you more comfortable giving or receiving affection? Why?
57. How do you express love and appreciation to your partner?
58. Do you feel more comfortable planning dates or being spontaneous? Why?
59. What boundaries are important for you to maintain in relationships?
60. How do you balance your individual interests with shared activities in a relationship?
61. What is your approach to financial planning in relationships?
62. How do you react when your partner needs space or alone time?
63. Describe your ideal partner. How do they complement your strengths and weaknesses?
64. How do you handle differences in values or beliefs with your partner?
65. What is your approach to managing household responsibilities in a relationship?
66. How do you prioritize your career and personal life in a relationship?
67. What role does humor play in your relationships?
68. How do you handle jealousy or insecurity in relationships?
69. How do you maintain friendships outside of your romantic relationship?
70. How do you support your partner's personal growth and development?
71. What do you consider deal-breakers in a relationship?
72. How do you navigate power dynamics in relationships?
73. How important is it for you to share common interests with your partner?
74. How do you handle disagreements about spending time with family?
75. What is your approach to maintaining a long-distance relationship?
76. How do you ensure that both you and your partner feel heard and understood?
77. What is your approach to sexual intimacy in relationships?
78. How do you handle stress or external pressures in your relationship?
79. How do you celebrate milestones and special occasions in your relationship?
80. What is your approach to handling differences in opinions?
81. How do you support your partner during difficult times?
82. What role does trust play in your relationships, and how do you build it?
83. How do you manage and communicate expectations in a relationship?
84. What is your approach to dealing with past relationship baggage?
85. How do you handle changes in your partner's physical appearance or health?
86. What is your approach to maintaining a healthy work-life balance in a relationship?
87. How do you address and navigate cultural or religious differences in relationships?
88. What is your approach to discussing and planning for the future with your partner?
89. How do you handle your partner's friendships with the opposite sex?
90. What is your approach to managing and resolving financial disagreements?
91. How do you deal with changes in your relationship over time?
92. How do you maintain intimacy and connection in a long-term relationship?
93. What is your approach to apologizing and making amends in a relationship?
94. How do you handle and express anger or frustration in relationships?
95. What role does empathy play in your relationships, and how do you cultivate it?
96. How do you balance independence and togetherness in your relationship?
97. How do you deal with external influences on your relationship (e.g., family, friends)?
98. How do you maintain your sense of self while being in a relationship?
99. What is your approach to dealing with unexpected challenges in a relationship?
100. How do you ensure that your relationship continues to grow and evolve over time?