4Cross Love Identification Questions
1. What are some things that tend to annoy or frustrate you in your daily interactions?
2. What do you do when a plan you were counting on suddenly falls apart? How do you pivot?
3. How do you decide what’s most important when juggling multiple tasks or responsibilities?
4. When you’re part of a team, what role do you naturally gravitate toward? Why do you think that is?
5. How do you know when something is truly complete or ‘good enough’?
6. What do you think people misunderstand about you the most?
7. When conflict arises, how do you typically respond? Now and when you were younnger. What’s your goal in resolving it?
8. What gives you a deep sense of happiness or satisfaction?
9. What role do you dislike playing on a team, and why?
10. What’s something you’re currently working toward, and what motivates you to keep going?
11. When you’re overwhelmed, how do you regain your sense of balance or control?
12. What kind of environment makes you feel the most comfortable and in control?
13. What’s an area in your life where you feel you could grow or improve? Why is that important to you?
14. What are some frustrations you’ve encountered in your relationships (friendships, romantic, or family)?
15. What kind of projects or tasks excite you the most, and why?
16. What does conflict look like for you? Do you avoid it, address it head-on, or handle it differently?
17. If someone doesn’t meet your expectations, how do you handle it?
18. Can you describe a time when you had to make a tough decision? How did you approach it, and what factors guided you?
19. What’s a belief or value that strongly influences how you live your life?
20. What’s something you’ve done that required you to step outside your comfort zone? How did you approach it?
21. What types of activities or moments make you feel most alive and energized?
22. How do you typically react when someone criticizes your work or decisions?
23. When preparing for something like a vacation or big event, what do you focus on? What’s your process?
24. What do you think makes a day feel successful when you look back on it?
25. How do you contribute when you’re working with others toward a shared goal?
26. What’s a dream or goal you’re currently working on, and why is it important to you?
27. What’s a belief or value that guides your daily decisions?
28. What’s something that energizes or inspires you about your work or passions?
29. How do you handle situations where the outcome is unclear?
30. What are some things you value most in your personal or professional life?
What are some of your friend’s strongest qualities? How do they help them in daily life?
When your friend is part of a team, what role do they naturally gravitate toward? Why do you think that is?
What kind of projects or tasks seem to excite your friend the most, and why do you think that is?
When your friend faces a problem, what’s their first instinct in handling it?
Can you think of a time when your friend had to make a tough decision? How did they approach it?
How does your friend usually respond when plans fall apart unexpectedly?
What do you think your friend focuses on most when juggling multiple tasks or responsibilities?
What do you think people often misunderstand about your friend?
When conflict arises, how does your friend typically respond? What’s their goal in resolving it?
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What’s something your friend is currently working toward, and what motivates them to keep going?
How does your friend regain their sense
What kind
balance or control when they feel overwhelmed?
environment makes your friend feel the most comfortable?
What’s an area in life where you think your friend could grow or improve? Why do you think that?
What are some frustrations you have had in your relationship with your friend?
What does conflict typically look like for your friend? Do they avoid it, address it head-on, or handle it differently?
If someone doesn’t meet your friend’s expectations, how do they usually handle it?
What’s a belief or value you think strongly influences how your friend lives their life?
What’s something your friend has done that required them to step outside their comfort zone? How did they approach it?
What types of activities or moments make your friend feel most alive and energized?
How does your friend usually react when someone criticizes their work or decisions?
When your friend is preparing for something like a vacation or big event, what do they focus on most?
How does your friend contribute when they’re working with others toward a shared goal?
What’s something your friend dreams of achieving, and why do you think it’s important to them?
How does your friend handle situations where the outcome is unclear?
What are some things you think your friend values most in their personal or professional life?
What kind of setting do you think helps your friend thrive the most?
What do you think your friend prioritizes most when balancing responsibilities?