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Gifts for New and Expectant Moms
Mother’s Day is just around the corner and many women are getting ready to take the first step in their motherhood journey! July through October are the busiest birth months, which means that Baby Shower season is in full swing. Looking for the perfect gift for the new mom? Here are some excellent suggestions that are also space savers in the home!
HAPPY HEIGHTS HIGH CHAIR & TODDLER TOWER
Elevate your parenting game with a classic high chair that easily transforms into a Montessori-inspired toddler tower! With 2 heights in both modes, this space saving 2-for-1, which folds flat for easy storage, takes you from baby bites to counter heights. The highchair mode accommodates children from 6 months to 3 years/40 lbs. The toddler tower mode, which encourages independence with a secure, nonslip platform that lets kids help at the kitchen counter, accommodates children 18 months to 4 years/50 lbs. ($119.00 – Available at Target, amazon.com, and thefirstyears.com)
SLANT COLLAPSIBLE BOUNCER
This sleek baby bouncer from Boon gives baby a secure, comfy, and stylish seat to relax and play. SLANT uses the movement of your naturally wriggly baby to provide just the right amount of bounce. No batteries are required and there are no cords, which means no trip hazards! This bouncer provides two different angles. The lower angle is perfect for a younger baby and provides more head support. As they grow, adjust to the higher angle and let them sit in style with a view of the room in front of them. ($79.99 – Available at Target, amazon.com, and Booninc.com)
SURE COMFORT®️ COLLABSIBLE BABY BATHTUB
The First Years Sure Comfort®️ Collapsible Baby Bathtub lets you give your little one plenty of room and comfortable support, but doesn’t take up the extra space a full-size baby tub usually needs. Its soft material is designed to mimic the feel of skinto-skin contact which keeps baby feeling secure during bath time. It has a narrow side with recline for newborn baths and a wide side that gives growing bodies room to sit up. Plus, its integrated swivel hook lets you hang the tub to dry right in your shower! ($49.99 –Available at Target and amazon.com)
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THE BUFFALO ZOO CELEBRATES 150 YEARS!
The Buffalo Zoo, a beloved Western New York institution, is thrilled to announce celebrations marking its 150th anniversary!
Founded in 1875, the Zoo will commemorate this remarkable milestone with a year-long celebration filled with special events, new experiences, and opportunities for the community to connect with wildlife.
For a century and a half, the Buffalo Zoo has been a cornerstone of the community, providing unforgettable experiences, fostering a passion for the natural world, and playing a vital role in wildlife conservation. Throughout its history, the Zoo has been a leader in many areas of zoological science and conservation.
“Reaching our 150th anniversary is a momentous occasion for the Buffalo Zoo and the entire Western New York community,” said President and CEO, Lisa Smith. “We are incredibly proud of our rich history and the countless memories created here over the past century and a half, a history that includes pioneering work in areas like reptile and amphibian conservation, rhino breeding, and groundbreaking exhibit design.”
Throughout 2025, The Buffalo Zoo will host a variety of special events to mark this historic year.
On May 31st, The Zoo will host its Birthday Bash, presented by Wegmans. Visitors will enjoy special animal encounters, birthday treats, historical exhibit highlights, and family-friendly activities.
The BuffaLove Community Day, taking place on July 19th, is a special day for the whole family to show their love for all things Buffalo. Enjoy good times with the animals and local vendors showcasing what makes our city great. The event will feature art demonstrations, hands-on activities, performing artists, art auctions and more! All funds raised will go directly to supporting the Zoo’s mission of building community, creating connections and saving wildlife.
The Zoo will host Art Gone Wild on July 26th, a family-friendly fundraiser that celebrates the love of animals through art.
And Zoomagination, The Buffalo Zoo’s annual festival of lanterns and lights, will make a limited run return in August and September with 37 all new lantern displays and interactive elements featuring a variety of largerthan-life dinosaurs, Asian Culture inspired mythical animals, and North American animals.
For a complete calendar of anniversary events and ticket information, visit www.buffalozoo.org.
—by Rebecca Hastings
Motherhood is full of beautiful, messy, unforgettable moments. But along the way, many moms pick up beliefs—myths, really—that make their journey harder than it needs to be. This Mother’s Day, let’s release these unhelpful expectations and replace them with truths that bring freedom, grace, and joy.
MYTH #1: “GOOD MOMS DON’T NEED BREAKS.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
There’s a cultural expectation that moms should be available 24/7, putting everyone else’s needs ahead of their own. But running on empty helps no one. Burnout isn’t a badge of honor; it’s a warning sign.
Truth to Hold Onto:
Rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. Taking time for yourself doesn’t make you less of a mother; it makes you a healthier, more present one. Whether it’s five minutes with a cup of tea or a weekend away, you deserve to recharge, not only for yourself but to be the mom you long to be.
MYTH #2: “MOTHERHOOD SHOULD COME NATURALLY.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
No one is born knowing exactly how to parent. It’s learned through experience, trial and error, and a lot of love. The idea
that good moms just instinctively know what to do leaves many feeling like they’re failing when things feel hard.
Truth to Hold Onto:
It’s okay to ask questions, make mistakes, and learn as you go. Parenting is a skill that develops over time. You don’t have to have all the answers—you just have to show up with love and a willingness to grow. Just like your kids are learning and growing, so are you!
MYTH #3:
“A MESSY HOUSE MEANS I’M FAILING.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
Somewhere along the way, a spotless home became a measure of good parenting. But real life with kids is full of crumbs, laundry piles, and sticky fingerprints. Trying to keep everything perfect all the time is exhausting and unrealistic.
Truth to Hold Onto:
A messy home is a lived-in home. Your worth isn’t measured by how tidy your house is. Prioritize connection over perfection—your kids will remember the love, not the clutter. And the responsibility of the home doesn’t fall only on you. Every member of your household is part of creating the home you want.
MYTH #4: “I SHOULD CHERISH EVERY MOMENT.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
Motherhood is beautiful, but it’s also exhausting, overwhelming, and sometimes frustrating. The pressure to treasure every moment can leave moms feeling guilty when they don’t enjoy the tough days.
Truth to Hold Onto:
It’s okay to love your kids but not love every part of parenting. The hard moments don’t erase the good ones, and you don’t have to enjoy everything to be a great mom.
MYTH #5:
“MOMS SHOULD ALWAYS BAKE (OR BE CRAFTY, OR LOVE EVERY SCHOOL EVENT).”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
Not every mom enjoys baking, crafting, or attending PTA meetings—and that’s okay! The idea that all moms should excel in certain “mom things” is outdated and unnecessary.
Truth to Hold Onto:
You don’t have to fit a mold to be a great mom. Your strengths and interests are enough. If you’d rather read a book with your kids than make homemade cupcakes, that’s wonderful. Lean into the things you love, and your kids will, too.
MYTH #6:
“ASKING
FOR HELP IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
So many moms carry the weight of motherhood alone, believing they should be able to handle everything themselves. But no one was meant to parent in isolation.
Truth to Hold Onto:
Asking for help isn’t a weakness—it’s wisdom. Whether it’s calling a friend, delegating chores, or seeking professional support, reaching out makes you a stronger, healthier mom.
MYTH #7:
“MY KIDS’ HAPPINESS DEPENDS
ON ME.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
Moms often feel responsible for making sure their kids are always happy. But trying to shield them from every disappointment or struggle isn’t realistic—or helpful.
Truth to Hold Onto:
Your job isn’t to make your kids happy all the time; it’s to love them, guide them, and equip them to handle life’s ups and downs. Letting them experience challenges builds resilience and confidence. It can be hard to watch them struggle, but love them through it and you’ll both be stronger.
MYTH #8: “I SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO IT ALL.”
Why We Need to Let It Go:
Moms are often expected to juggle everything—work, home, relationships, self-care—without missing a beat. But the truth is, no one can do everything perfectly all the time.
Truth to Hold Onto:
You don’t have to do it all. It’s okay to set priorities, let go of certain tasks, and accept that some days will be messy. You’re doing enough, exactly as you are.
A Mother’s Day Gift to Yourself
This Mother’s Day, let’s give ourselves the gift of grace. Let’s release these myths and embrace the truth: You are already enough. You are doing an incredible job. And you deserve joy, rest, and love—not just on Mother’s Day, but every day.
Rebecca Hastings is a former elementary teacher who traded the classroom for writing when she stayed home with her three children. Passionate about authenticity, faith, and family, you can find her at RebeccaHastings.net and on Amazon. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places, or wherever there is chocolate.
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A Day Just for Mom: Mother’s Day Celebrations and Gifts She’ll Treasure
“I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.” —Mitch Albom
The role of mothers in shaping their daughters’ and sons’ lives is unsurpassed. Mothers teach us to love, be strong, be confident, persist, live life to its fullest, and be the best we can be.
Mother’s Day is just around the corner. So, this year give her a gift from your heart and your undivided time to make it a special day she’ll treasure.
Mother’s Day Brunch
Serve your mom a scrumptious breakfast or take her out for Mother’s Day brunch. If you prepare it yourself, the following menu will be sure to please: fruit salad, juice, waffles or pancakes with her favorite blueberry or strawberry topping, Canadian bacon or fresh sausage, omelets or eggs benedict, homemade hash browns, and coffee cake or Danishes. Also, don’t forget the fresh cut flowers for the table centerpiece.
Spring Blooms—What better way to spend a spring day than together in your mother’s garden? Pick up her favorite annuals and perennials: begonias, petunias, violets, morning glories, poppies, marigolds, snapdragons, or mums. Then enjoy a relaxing day together, planting and sprucing up her flower garden and catching up on old times.
Mother/Daughter or
Mother/Son Memories—Give your mom a keepsake that’ll be dear to her heart. Purchase Mothers & Daughters: A Record Book About Us to fill out and share with her. Or create your own memory book with a scrapbook or journal. Include photos and memories about special times the two of you have had together; the most important things you remember about your mother from your childhood; how she has inspired you; and the times you look forward to in the future.
The Main Event—Surprise your mother with tickets to an event she’s been dying to see: the ballet, a concert, play or musical, the opera, a favorite sporting event, a comedy show, or dinner theater. Be sure to tell her you have something special planned (but not what), so she’ll be all yours for the day.
Train Excursion—Spring is the perfect time to tour the countryside. Take a train ride with your mom, and enjoy the vivid colors of spring, blue skies, beautiful blossoms, and other scenic sights.
Family Portrait—If your family is like most, you’re well overdue for an updated family portrait. What better time to have it done than on Mother’s Day? Schedule to have your family’s picture taken at a studio, or hire a photographer for a photoshoot in the park.
Coordinate with family members in advance on the formality and color scheme, so outfits don’t clash. Inform your mother how to dress for her special day, but keep the specific reason a surprise.
The Power of Poetry
You don’t need to be a poet to write a special verse for your mother. In your poem, share what it was like growing up with her, how she influenced your life, or tell her just what she means to you. Then print it on stationery, and matte and frame it.
A Little Pampering
—Mothers spend many years pampering their children giving bubble baths, washing hair, and caring for them when they’re ill. Give your mother a special treat—a gift certificate for pampering at the spa where she can enjoy a Swedish massage, hair design, a sea spa manicure and pedicure, or a soothing facial.
Weekend Getaway
—Put together a weekend package designed especially for your mom. Choose a city that offers excellent shopping, art museums and cultural centers, or even a quaint historic town with neat shops, cafes, and parks. Leave the dates for the getaway open so she can make the trip at her convenience, or so the two of you can make plans together.
Keep it
Simple—Plan a relaxing day together, enjoying the outdoors.
Head to a nearby park where you can meander along nature trails reminiscing or take a scenic bike ride.
Especially for Mothers—Buy a book for and about moms. Consider one of the following:
• Mother: A Cradle to Hold Me by Maya Angelou
• I Love You, Mom by Amylee Weeks
• Why a Daughter Needs a Mom by Gregory E. Lang
• Why a Son Needs a Mom by Gregory E. Lang
• Mothersongs: Poems For, By, and About Mothers by Sandra M. Gilbert et al.
• Mom, I Wrote a Book About You by M.H. Clark
• Real Poems for Real Moms: From a Mother in the Trenches to Another by Rachel S. Donahue
• Mom, Tell Me Your Story: Keepsake Journal by Susan Branch
• You Are One Amazing Lady: Special Thoughts to Share With a Truly Wonderful Woman by Douglas Pagels
• Dear Mother: The Hot Mess of Motherhood by Bunmi Laditan
Kimberly Blaker is a freelance writer. She also owns an online bookshop, Sage Rare & Collectible Books, specializing in out-of-print, scarce, signed, and first editions; fine bindings; ephemera and more at sagerarebooks.com.
SINGLE PARENTING
— by Meagan Ruffing
Mother’s Day for the Single Mom
If your Mother’s Day looks different than you thought it would this year, then this article is for you. Navigating this holiday as a single mom can be both lonely and liberating. Mother’s Day, with all its anticipatory celebration, can be a time of grief for those celebrating the day without a significant other but there are plenty of things to look forward to this month.
As a single mom, I look forward to treating myself to a few of my favorite things every Mother’s Day weekend. I buy myself a new pair of cute pajamas and order from a favorite place to eat to enjoy the comforts of my home. I always have my kids that weekend, so I try to plan something fun for all of us to do. Sometimes I’ll take us out for a Sunday brunch or load us all in the car and head to the movies. As long as we’re together in some form, I consider it a successful day for me. This year, you can expect to find me doing all these things to celebrate all of my wins as a mom.
1. Having a Girls’ Night is a must. I have different ‘groups’ of friends so I end up having multiple girls’ nights so that I can hang out with all of them. Each group has its own vibe, so I plan our outings around the fun things that naturally bring us together like trying new restaurants or shopping at local boutiques.
2. Scheduling a massage is a must for me. My insider tip: do this well in advance of Mother’s Day so that you can pick the time and day that works for you. Don’t wait until the last minute or you’ll be without a spa service.
3. Go for a walk and wear an outfit that makes you feel beautiful. I have a walking trail near my house where I love to head outside and listen to my favorite podcast while I take slow, deep breaths and enjoy the outdoors.
4. I help another single mom. I try to pick one of my favorite things to do for myself and I do it for another mom. Early on in my divorce, I remember feeling lonely and less than. It was other women who helped lift me up and remind me that I was important. These women reminded me that even though I was divorced, I was still worthy of being loved.
5. Getting my nails done is something I love to do. I bring a book to read when I’m getting my pedicure, and I put earbuds in and listen to music when I get my nails done. There’s a coffee shop right next door, so I always go over there first and grab my favorite coffee and sip on that while I wait my turn.
6. I love to walk around Barnes & Noble and pick out a new book. I don’t do it very often because, let’s be real, I have too many books that still need to be read. But, on special occasions, like Mother’s Day, I treat myself to taking my time perusing all the fun things and
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Camp Tips: An Age-by-Age
Guide to the Best Camp Experience
Summer camps are more than just summer playgrounds; they’re transformative experiences that shape a child’s growth and independence while building cherished memories. For each age group and stage of development, kids’ experiences at summer camp have different things to consider.
While there are a variety of camp options, there are different goals for each age and different things parents should consider. A six-year-old’s camp experience should look very different from that of a sixteen-year-old. As you think about your child, think about their unique needs and goals for camp. Look for these key considerations for each age group:
EARLY CHILDHOOD (AGES 4-6)
At this age, summer camps focus on nurturing curiosity and fostering social skills through playful activities. Camps often offer themed weeks—ranging from nature exploration to arts and crafts—where little ones engage in finger painting, outdoor adventures, and storytelling sessions.
These camps prioritize a nurturing environment that introduces teamwork, sharing, and cooperation through fun-filled games and activities. Often these are day camps, but overnight camps are available as well.
Important considerations:
• Comfort and Familiarity: Ensure the camp environment is nurturing and familiar, allowing for a smooth transition. Familiar faces or activities can ease separation anxiety.
• Safety Measures: Verify the camp’s safety protocols, especially regarding supervision, food allergies, and basic medical needs.
• Communication: Choose camps that prioritize clear communication with parents, providing updates on daily activities and your child’s progress.
• Play-Based Learning: Look for camps emphasizing play-based learning to nurture curiosity and social skills in a fun and engaging manner.
MIDDLE CHILDHOOD (AGES 7-10)
As children step into the elementary years, summer camps offer a broader spectrum of activities. Sports camps are popular, providing fundamental skills training in activities like soccer, basketball, or swimming. Adventure camps introduce thrilling experiences that include rock climbing, zip-lining, and camping, instilling a sense of courage and resilience.
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Specialized camps also emerge at this age, catering to specific interests such as coding, robotics, or theater. This is a great way to nurture budding passions and talents. Team-building activities and structured games further develop social skills and cooperation among peers as developing relationships becomes more important with age.
Important Considerations:
• Interest Alignment: Consider your child’s interests when selecting camps. At this age, children often enjoy exploring hobbies or sports they’re passionate about.
• Balanced Activities: Ensure a balance between structured activities and free time for social interaction and personal exploration.
• Friendship Opportunities: Check if the camp facilitates teamwork and bonding among campers through group activities and team sports.
• Independence Development: Encourage camps that foster independence through small responsibilities and decision-making opportunities.
PRE-TEENS (AGES 11-13)
Entering the pre-teen phase, camps focus on honing skills and providing opportunities for personal growth. Leadership camps empower adolescents through workshops, discussions, and challenges that cultivate self-confidence and decisionmaking abilities. Wilderness camps push boundaries with more extensive outdoor excursions, fostering independence and resilience through survival skills and exploration.
Additionally, creative arts camps delve deeper into various art forms, encouraging self-expression and creativity. These camps often offer more specialized instruction and advanced
techniques to further develop talents. Individual growth as well as developing strong relationships is essential at this age.
Important Considerations:
• Challenges and Growth: Look for camps offering appropriate challenges that encourage personal growth and self-confidence, such as leadership or adventure camps.
• Specialized Interests: Consider specialized camps that cater to your child’s emerging interests and talents, providing opportunities for skill development.
• Communication and Support: Ensure the camp has mechanisms for supporting pre-teens navigating social dynamics and offers avenues for open communication with counselors.
• Balance and Rest: Acknowledge the importance of downtime and adequate rest amidst more intensive activities to prevent burnout.
TEENAGERS (AGES 14-17)
The teen years mark a shift towards more immersive and specialized experiences. High schoolers can opt for camps tailored to their career interests, such as STEM camps, journalism workshops, or entrepreneurship programs, providing hands-on experiences and mentorship.
Adventure camps for teens become more intense, offering wilderness expeditions, whitewater rafting, or international travel programs. These experiences challenge teens physically and mentally, fostering resilience, adaptability, and a global perspective. Community service camps allow teens to contribute meaningfully through volunteer work, promoting empathy and social responsibility.
Protecting Your Teen’s Mental Health:
Advice from a Psychologist who Understands
With three teenagers, there always seems to be something I’m worried about. Are they happy? Did they eat any vegetables? Do they even know how to make their bed? But then there are the bigger worries. The ones that keep me up at night. Are they safe? Will they make good choices? Are they driving the speed limit? Big or small, I worry about it all.
As parents, we think about everything from the small things to the big things when it comes to our kids. Among the biggest concerns is their mental health. It can be hard to know if we are doing enough, focusing on what really matters, and what to do if we’re concerned.
Dr. Justin Puder is a licensed psychologist dedicated to shining a light on mental health and ending the stigma associated with it. With over half a million followers on TikTok, Puder, often
called Dr. J, is using his expertise and the power of social media to help us and our teens live healthy lives.
A recent study shows as many as 37% of teens reported struggles with mental health during the pandemic. Pair that with elevated anxiety levels with the majority of teens concerned that a shooting will occur at their school, and teens need more help now than ever before.
To equip parents with practical and affordable wellness tools to support their teens, Dr. Puder has partnered with Dr Teals, a leading name in personal care. I had the opportunity to ask him some questions that were on my mind as a mom of teens. Here’s what he had to say.
What should parents be looking for when it comes to teen mental health?
Dr. Puder: Parents should be aware of any changes that last for days that are atypical for their teen. Examples include
changes in eating, sleeping, socialization, energy, and mood shifts. Anything that’s out of the norm may be a sign that your teen is experiencing a mental health issue. Though teens will often desire privacy and independence as they approach young adulthood, if you notice that your teen is isolating from everyone (including friends) this is often a sign of distress.
How do you know the difference between typical anxiety or stress and something more serious?
Dr. Puder: We all experience stress and anxiety increases throughout life. However, when those increases impair our daily activities, it becomes problematic. For teens, this is typically seen with trouble completing schoolwork, taking exams, socializing, and concentrating, and can lead to an avoidance of going to school or partaking in their typical schedule. It’s typically normal for teens to struggle in one class or have trouble with certain assignments, but it is a more serious issue when a teen is struggling across classes and in other settings (home, work, sports team, etc).
—by Rebecca Hastings
What are the best ways for parents to connect with their teens, especially when they are concerned?
Dr. Puder: In times of concern for your teen, it’s best to foster a connection that’s curious and open. You want to communicate with your teen in a way that invites them to share as authentically as possible. This involves allowing them to fully speak and express themselves. It’s okay to name what you’re observing, but be sure to finish with an open-ended question like, “I’ve noticed you’re spending more time alone in your room, how are things going between you and your friends?” It’s not a good idea to lead with judging your teen or being critical of the behavior you’re observing as it’ll likely shut down the conversation and may prevent them from sharing with you in the future.
How can parents foster an environment that helps their teen’s mental health?
Dr. Puder: Creating a trusting and open relationship with your teen is the single best thing you can do for their continued on page 18
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mental health. It’s not about being their therapist, but rather about your teen knowing they can come to you and tell you they need help when something is wrong. They don’t have to share all the details of their lives (this is very unlikely), but they may share enough for you to recognize they need to be connected with a mental health professional. Modeling that it’s OKAY and HEALTHY to speak with a mental health professional can also be a great way to reduce stigma and show we can grow through anything if we face it as opposed to avoiding it.
What are some strategies families can implement to help communication and wellbeing?
Dr. Puder: As parents, we always want to lead our communication from a place of curiosity and nonjudgment! It’s also important to fully listen to our teens before offering any feedback, advice, or opinions. Even when you disagree
with your teen or the decisions they’re making, it’s essential to communicate with them in a way that makes them feel heard and seen. It’s also helpful to schedule times to actively connect with your teen each week. Whether it’s setting the mood for a self-care activity together, sitting down for a homemade dinner, or just tagging along in an activity they love, routinely having time to connect is important.
Where can parents go for help?
Dr. Puder: I strongly encourage parents to model good mental health and talk with a professional as needed! Modeling good stress reduction practices can also include going for walks, having good social relationships, or soaking in a relaxing bath with bath salts like Epson salt. Teens notice their parent’s behaviors, so setting a good example benefits the whole family. Parents can also find support through a variety of support groups and online forums, offering both in-person and virtual support.
splurge on a new book, a new magazine, or a couple of handpicked greeting cards for me to fill out later.
7. Jelly donuts are my favorite, but I don’t eat them very often. Around Mother’s Day, I drive myself through Dunkin’ Donuts or Krispy Kreme and buy myself one jelly donut. I swear, that jelly donut I have during this time of year always tastes the best.
8. I mail Mother’s Day cards to all my mom friends and family. I have found some of the prettiest cards at TJ Maxx and Marshalls for a great price.
9. I take a nap! A personal goal of mine is to take more naps. I’m the type of mom who never slows down and when I do, I feel guilty about it. So, on Mother’s Day weekend, I allow myself to take a nap, guilt-free, and it’s amazing.
10. Yoga always helps ground me and reminds me how much my body has carried me through hard times. I try to schedule a class during the month of May so I have something to look forward to. I also invite a friend to help share the experience with.
I hope this Mother’s Day is everything you want and need it to be. Remember how amazing you are and enjoy celebrating all that this holiday has in store for you.
Meagan Ruffing is a parenting journalist, mental health therapist, and single mom who tries to do her best each day. She doesn’t always get things right but continually strives to do better.
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Rolly Pollies is growing again! Recently added programs are sure to delight families for years to come. Music, Montessori, and WNY’s only sensoryplay programs, “Messy Baby” and Mess Makers” have been created to further Rolly Pollies mission.
Party With Us!
Rolly Pollies offers WNYs best birthday parties, hosting only one party at a time: yours! Visit our website to find available dates and times.
Open Play
Check our website to register online for Open Play.
Use Your Health Insurance Wellness Cards
Raising heathly children is Rolly Pollies mission! Because of this, most health insurances will help pay for your Rolly Pollies classes and camps.
Three great locations:
9630 Transit Road East Amherst, NY 14051 716-689-6151
4058 North Buffalo Road Orchard Park, NY 14127 716-662-7424
1669 Hertel Ave. Buffalo, NY 14216 716-833-3318 www.RPWNY.com
WNY’s trusted source for the freshest products available. Knowledgeable service since 1930. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
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Childcare Resources: CHILD CARE RESOURCE NETWORK
1000 Hertel Avenue Buffalo, NY 14216
716-877-6666
wnychildren.org
Nonprofit Organization helping families find child care and education child care providers.
Childcare:
(Also See PRESCHOOLS/MONTESSORI) FOUR SEASONS
CHILD CARE & PRESCHOOL
885 Sweet Home Rd., Amherst, NY 14226 716-568-1140
www.fourseasonsfamily.com Programs for infants, toddlers, 2 & 3 year olds, 4 year old Pre-K and Summer Camp.
COMMUNITY CHILD CARE
CLEARINGHOUSE OF NIAGARA
1521 Main St., Niagara Falls, NY 14305
716-285-8572 or 1-800-701-4KID
Email: CCRRN iagara@niagaracap.org
www.childcareofniagara.com
The Niagara County Child Care Resource and Referral Program. “An Informational Source.”
Spezio’s Dance Dynamics
SPOTLIGHT ON
Instilling Passion & Building Character One Step At A Time!
arts or are dancing for enjoyment. The professional staff of degreed teachers is dedicated to providing students a well-rounded dance education to all. SDD offers a professional studio with 4 class rooms, many amenities and versatile subjects of study as well as high level ballet training for dancers to discover their personal talents.
Spezio’s Dance Dynamics, Amherst’s premier dance training center, has been educating young artists from beginner to pre-professional since 1993, while enhancing each dancer’s creativity, physical fitness and passion for the art of dance.
Director and Owner Michelle Spezio holds extensive teaching background in all genres and aspects of training enhances opportunities for all students whether they intend to pursue a career in the
“Dancer’s TurnOut Better,” that’s what we believe. Research shows that students who study dance are disciplined, goal oriented and self-motivated. Dancers are expressive in their communication of emotions, likely to excel, creative, imaginative and able to critically analyze and problem solve. Educating dancers to use these life skills in pursuing goals, overcoming obstacles and staying physically fit throughout their lives is our goal.
Dance Dynamics Students have won significant awards for proper training/choreography all through the USA. Dancers have attended many prestigious summer intensives and awarded scholarships. SDD is committed to helping every dancer experience the joy of dance! Spezio’s Dance Dynamics is a proud member of Dance Master’s of America, International Dance Entrepreneurs Association, NDEO, Award winning faculty and director, and has had the pleasure of training so many talented dancers. SDD dancers are going places!
1639 N. French Road, Amherst, NY 716-688-9590
www.speziosdancedynamics.com
Chiropractic:
CLARENCE CHIROPRACTIC
4440 Shimerville Rd., Clarence, NY 14031
716-633-2036
www.MainChiropractor.com
General Family Practice. Also specializing in Pregnancy, Children, and Athletic Injuries.
Consignment Shops & Sales: KID TO KID
1060 Niagara Falls Blvd., Tonawanda, NY 14150 • 716-831-8300
www.kidtokid.com/tonawanda
980 Union Rd., #42A, Southgate Plaza, West Seneca, NY 14224 • 716-675-0483
www.kidtokid.com/westseneca
Best kids’ resale. Clothing, baby gear, shoes, toys, and furniture. Open 7 days.
Healing from within. Adolescent therapy, anxiety/depression, addiction and family dynamics.
Dance Instruction:
CENTER STAGE DANCE STUDIO
4837 Union Rd. Cheektowaga, NY 14225 716-634-3395
www.CSDS.site
Encouragement and positive reinforcement through dance to reach one’s personal best. FIND US ON TIKTOK
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DAVID DEMARIE DANCE
10151 Main St., Clarence, NY 14031 716-510-2531
www.daviddemarie.com
Instilling a great love of dance, while inspiring self-confidence and discipline. Ages 2 & up.
ELITE DANCE COMPANY
5360 Genesee St. Bowmansville, NY 14026
716-288-7868
www.EliteDanceWNY.com
Where every dancer counts so that each dancer can reach their fullest potential. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
EUGENIA’S DANCE STUDIO
730 Orchard Park Rd. West Seneca, NY 14224
716-675-3128
www.eugeniasdancestudio.com
Outstanding classes from Mommy & Me to Award-Winning Advanced Classes.
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SPEZIO’S DANCE DYNAMICS
1639 N. French Rd., • Suite 300 Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-9590
www.speziosdancedynamics.com
Offering quality classical dance instruction for all ages and levels since 1993. See Our Advertiser Spotlight.
ZPAC PERFORMING
ARTS CENTER, LLC
Southgate Plaza - 954A Union Rd., Ste 3 West Seneca, NY 14224
716-608-1010
www.zpac.biz
A unique performing arts center with every style of dancing, singing, acting and creating the arts with playwriting, choreography and directing. Ages 1 to adult. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
Dentists (Pediatric):
MAUREEN J. CASEY, DDS
4017 Legion Dr., Hamburg, NY 14075
716-648-4035
www.drmcaseypediatricdds.com
Pediatric Dentistry. Dental Care for Infants, Children, and Young Adults.
9270 Lapp Rd., Clarence Center, NY 14032 716-741-4239
www.gregsupick.com
U-Pick farm market and CSA. Produce, baked goods, animal barn and more.
Fencing Instruction:
FENCING CENTER OF BUFFALO 485 Cayuga Rd., Cheektowaga, NY 14225 716-553-3448
www.fencingbuffalo.com
Learn to fence. Instruction in classical fencing. Kids, teens, adults. Equipment provided.
Gymnastics:
BUFFALO TURNERS
3200 Elmwood Ave., Kenmore, NY 14217 716-877-2700
www.buffaloturnersgymnastics.com
Gymnastics instruction for girls and boys, 3 - 18 years.
CHILDREN IN ACTION
75 Mid County Dr., Orchard Park, NY 14127
716-662-6886
Email: ciagym@aol.com
www.childreninactiongym.com
Gymnastics, Boys & Girls 12 months and up. Parent-Tot, Preschool Program, Tumbling, Birthday Parties, Field Trips, Playgroups. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
GYMNASTICS UNLIMITED
70 Weiss Ave.
Orchard Park/West Seneca, NY 14224
716-677-0338
www.gymnastics-unlimited.net
Infant-18 yrs., Tramp/Tumble, Learning in Motion, Open Time. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
ROLLY POLLIES
9630 Transit Road, Suite 100 East Amherst, NY 14051 716-689-6151
4058 N. Buffalo Rd.
Orchard Park, NY 14127
716-662-7424
1669 Hertel Ave., Buffalo, NY 14216
716-833-3318
www.RPWNY.com
Children’s gym classes, camps, birthday parties, open play & more for ages 4 months - 9 years old! See Our Advertiser Spotlight.
Health Care & Wellness:
DENT PEDIATRIC NEUROLOGY
3980 Sheridan Drive (DENT Tower) Buffalo, NY 14226
200 Sterling Drive Orchard Park, NY 14127
716-250-2000
www.dentinstitute.com
DENT cares for neurologic patients newborn to adult.
GREAT LAKES
MEDICAL IMAGING
111 N. Maplemere Rd., Suite 120 Williamsville, NY 14221
716-836-4646
www.GLMI.com
Open MRI, Low Dose CT, 3D Mammography, Bone Density, Nuclear Medicine, PET/CT, Ultrasound and Interventional Radiology.
SPECTRUM HEALTH C.A.R.E.S.
716-882-4357
www.shswny.org
Crisis line for youth (under 18 years in Erie County who are in immediate crisis, struggling, putting their life or lives of others in danger, angry, depressed, talk or thoughts of suicide.
Horseback Riding:
BUFFALO EQUESTRIAN CENTER
950 Amherst St., Buffalo, NY 14216
716-877-9295
www.buffaloequestriancenter.org
Private and group lessons; ages 5 and up; year round; beginner to advanced.
701 Whirlpool St., Niagara Falls, NY 14301 716-285-3575
www.aquariumofniagara.org
Visit WNY’s only aquarium. Sea lions, seals, penguins and more!
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BIRD KINGDOM
5651 River Rd., Niagara Falls, ON L2E 7M7 905-356-8888
www.birdkingdom.ca
Discover the world’s largest indoor free-flying aviary… an adventure for all ages! Open all year.
BUFFALO AND ERIE COUNTY
BOTANICAL GARDENS
2655 South Park Ave., Buffalo, NY 14218
716-827-1584
www.buffalogardens.com
Connecting people and plants through beautiful gardens and extraordinary experiences.
FRANK LLOYD WRIGHT’S MARTIN HOUSE
125 Jewett Parkway, Buffalo, NY 14214 716-856-3858
www.martinhouse.org
Engaging and fun family programs offered year round.
HERSCHELL CARROUSEL FACTORY MUSEUM
180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda, NY 14120 716-693-1885
www.carrouselmuseum.org
Fun events and activities for all ages. Once Around Is Never Enough!
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NATIONAL COMEDY CENTER
203 W. 2nd St., Jamestown, NY 14701
DESIGNING DISH
138 Grey St., East Aurora, NY 14052
716-655-4456
www.designingdish.com
716-484-2222
www.comedycenter.org
Fun and laughter for the entire family with a safe, immersive and interactive experience.
OLD FORT NIAGARA
PO Box 169, Youngstown, NY 14174
716-745-7611
www.oldfortniagara.org
Your gateway to family adventure! Living history programs every day, special events, re-enactments. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
THE WHITWORTH FERGUSON PLANETARIUM
Science and Mathematics Complex, Buffalo State University www.planetarium.buffalostate.edu Visit the planetarium for immersive astronomy programs and exciting laser music experiences!
Where everyone is creative. Pottery, glass, pottery to go and much more!! FIND US ON INSTAGRAM FIND US ON FACEBOOK
Parenting Resources:
PARENT NETWORK OF WNY 1021 Broadway St., Buffalo, NY 14212
716-332-4170
www.parentnetworkwny.org
Supporting families of individuals with disabilities through educational resources, 1-on-1 support and events.
WESTERN NEW YORK REGIONAL CENTER FOR AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDERS 150 Stahl Road, Getzville, NY 14068
Email: wnyrcasd@ thesummitcenter.org
www.thesummitcenter.org
A collaborative program offering workshops, trainings, and conferences to support parents, educators, human service providers, and other related professionals.
Performing Arts: ZPAC PERFORMING ARTS CENTER, LLC See Listing Under “Dance Instruction”
Music Instruction:
716 MUSIC & MORE
716-390-8347
www.716MusicAndMore.com
Family music classes for young children and their parents or caregivers.
Paint Your Own Pottery: CLAY HANDS POTTERY
10086 Main St., Clarence, NY 14031
716-759-1208
www.clayhandspottery.com
Offering glass fusing and pottery. Birthdays, Scouts, mom’s groups, showers and team building.
Preschools/Montessori: LEARNING ‘N’ MOTION/ GYMNASTICS UNLIMITED See Listing Under “Gymnastics”
ROOTS OF THE FUTURE MONTESSORI SCHOOL 8970 Main St., Clarence, NY 14031 716-545-8048
www.rootsofthefuture.com
An education that understands and nurtures your child’s natural curiosity
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Schools:
CHARTER SCHOOL FOR APPLIED TECHNOLOGIES
2303 Kenmore Ave., Buffalo, NY 14207
716-871-7400
Email: koliverperez@csat-k12.org www.csat-k12.org
Serving grades K-12, open to all residents, no entrance exams. FIND US ON FACEBOOK FIND US ON INSTAGRAM
CHRIST THE KING SCHOOL
2 Lamarck Drive, Snyder, NY 14226 716-839-0473
Email: office@myCTKschool.com www.myctkschool.com
Offering PreK3 - 8th grade.
Small Classes & Strong Academics. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
ST. BENEDICT SCHOOL
3980 Main St., Amherst, NY 14226
716-835-2518
www.stbenschool.org
High academic achievement in a rich spiritual environment. PK3-8th grade.
2982 Lakeview Rd., Hamburg, NY 14075 3465 Broadway, Cheektowaga, NY 14227 75 Weiss Rd., West Seneca, NY 14224 41 Riley St., East Aurora, NY 14052 Canalside, 44 Prime St., Buffalo, NY 14202 716-580-3458
Email: sk8gr8info@gmail.com www.sk8gr8.com
#1 Learn-To-Skate Program in WNY. Over 20 classes per week. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
Special Needs Services: ASPIRE OF WNY
Serving all of Erie & Chautauqua Counties
716-838-0047
www.aspirewny.org
Aspire of WNY Supports People with Disabilities Live Independent and Fulfilled Lives!
THE CHILDREN’S LEAGUE
393 North St., Springville, NY 14141
716-592-9331
www.tclny.org
Center & community-based educational & therapeutic programming. EI & CPSE Evaluations. Serving children birth-8 years of age.
COMMUNITY SERVICES
FOR EVERY1
180 Oak St., Buffalo, NY 14203
716-883-8888
Email: info@csevery1.com
www.csevery1.com
Helping people of all abilities reach their fullest potential.
THE DOWN SYNDROME
PARENTS GROUP OF WNY
547 Englewood Ave., Kenmore NY 14223
716-832-9334
www.dspgwny.org
Raising awareness of and enhancing the lives of people with Down syndrome.
PEOPLE INC.
1219 North Forest Rd., Williamsville, NY 14221 716-817-7400
www.people-inc.org
People Inc. is Western New York’s leading non-profit human services agency, providing services to people with special needs, families and older adults to achieve greater degrees of independence and productivity. Services include: Residential, vocational and supported employment, respite, senior services, health care and affordable apartments.
THE SUMMIT CENTER
150 Stahl Rd., Getzville, NY 14068
General Information: 716-629-3400
www.thesummitcenter.org
Developmental evaluations, therapeutic and clinical services, family support services, behavioral health services, respite, & school programs for children and adults.
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Summer Camp: CRADLE BEACH, INC.
8038 Old Lakeshore Rd., Angola, NY 14006 716-549-6307
www.CradleBeach.org
Cradle Beach Summer Camp is a nurturing, transformative and fun experience in nature.
Toy Store: CLAYTON’S TOYS
5225 Main St., Williamsville, NY 14221 716-633-1966
1396 Hertel Ave., Buffalo, NY 14216 716-939-3000
www.claytonstoystore.com
One Hundred and nine years of delivering smiles!
Urgent Care: WNY IMMEDIATE CARE
4988 Harlem Road, Amherst, NY 14226 716-564-2273
6375 Transit Rd., Suite 2000, Depew, NY 14043 716-684-2273
2228 Delaware Ave., Buffalo, NY 14216 716-874-2273
3346 Southwestern Blvd, Orchard Park, NY 14127 716-675-3700
www.wnyimmediatecare.com
For quick, quality treatment in an hour or less, 365 days a year visit WNY Immediate Care. On-site physicians and advanced practice clinicians provide cost effective treatment of coughs, colds, flu, allergies, and other non-life threatening injuries. With four convenient locations, we help you Get In. Get Out. Feel Better!™
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ABUSE/DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
n New York State Office of Children & Family Services
https://ocfs.ny.gov/programs/ prevention
State Hotline: 1-800-342-3720
Report abuse/neglect of children. If you believe a child is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local police department.
n New York State Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence
https://opdv.ny.gov/survivorsvictims
New York State Domestic & Sexual Violence 24 hour Hotline: 1-800-942-6906
According to Safe Horizon, a New York victims’ services agency, 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence; more than 3 million children each year witness domestic violence at home; without help, girls who witness domestic violence are more vulnerable to abuse, and boys are more likely to become abusers of their partners and children as adults, continuing a cycle of violence seen in families all too often.
n Haven House Child & Family Services
24-Hour Hotline: 716-884-6000 (for HELP & Shelter)
For over 35 years, Haven House has been working to prevent domestic violence/intimate partner violence and promote peace in the home. Services are based on a continuum of care ranging from a fully-inclusive emergency shelter in a confidential location to long-term transitional housing. The continuum of care includes an extensive counseling and advocacy program for all individuals regardless of gender that includes many satellite locations throughout Erie County.
Who Should Call? Anyone involved in an intimate partner violence or family violence situation,
including: domestic violence, dating violence, stalking, those in same-sex relationships, those with disabilities, male survivors, senior citizens, and immigrant and refugee victims of domestic violence. Friends, family members, co-workers, neighbors, or professionals with questions about domestic violence operates safe and secure emergency housing in a confidential location for women and their children, single women, and transgendered individuals identifying as female. Shelter supportive services include: Safety Planning, Individual Counseling, Support groups (including Art Empowerment), Advocacy. Referrals can call the hotline for information. Haven House housing assistance, Referrals to transitional housing, Food, Clothing, Crisis Intervention, and Children’s Programs.
n Family Justice Center of Erie County
716-558-SAFE (7233) www.fjcsafe.org
Offers free services for domestic violence victims and their children through an extensive collaboration with 13 partner agencies, all located at one secured, comfortable location, where victims can get all the services they need to safely escape abuse. Appointments are not necessary but are recommended. All services are available virtually by calling 716-558-7233.
Buffalo
438 Main St., Suite 201, Buffalo 716-558-7233
(Monday-Friday; 8:30am-4pm) Orchard Park
4383 South Buffalo St., Orchard Park 716-662-0259
(Wed. 8:30am-4pm)
Amherst
330 North Forest Rd., Amherst 716-634-4309
(Thurs.; 8:30am-4pm)
Grand Island
1801 Grand Island Blvd. Suite 3 Grand Island 716-507-0764 (Tues.; 8:30am-4pm)
ADOPTION
n Adoption Star
131 John Muir Drive Amherst, NY 14228
716-639-3900
www.adoptionstar.com
Provides thorough and compassionate counseling to pregnant individuals, regardless of location, who are considering their options, including abortion, parenting, and adoption. Allows prospective adoptive parents and expectant parents to explore all the adoption options and to receive the appropriate information and education necessary to access those options. Provides counseling and support to birth parents and prospective adoptive parents.
n Adoption Program
Child & Family Services
330 Delaware Ave. Buffalo, NY 14202
716-842-2750
www.cfsbny.org
Specializes in promoting permanency through adoption for children of all ages in the foster care system. Staff work with children freed for adoption as well as families interested in adopting children. Provides support, training, and case planning services for the child and adoptive family.
AFTER SCHOOL CARE
n For a very comprehensive list of more than 100 after school care programs in Erie County visit www.211wny.org and enter “after school” in the search box. Information on programs in Niagara and other counties is also available through this site. If you do not have access to the Internet, call 1-888-696-9211.
BABY NEEDS
There are a number of local “Baby Needs” programs that meet the emergency needs of infants and very young children by providing them with a supply of diapers, infant formula, baby food, and baby care products. Limited quantities available; supplies may differ at each location. Get in touch with Baby Needs programs at the following locations which serve specific zip codes:
n Buffalo River Food Pantry 62 Republic Street Buffalo, NY 14204 www.old1stward.com
716-856-8613
Mon-Thurs, 8am-11am. Serving zip code 14204.
n Every Bottom Covered Delavan Grider Community Ctr. 877 Delevan Ave. Buffalo, NY 14215 716-896-7021
Provides up to 50 free diapers and/or 25 pull-ups for each child in eligible families. Diapers available for pickup on a monthly basis.
n The Genesis Center 2163 Seneca Street Buffalo, NY 14210 716-822-1901
www.thegenesiscenter.us
Hours by appointment only. Call to schedule. Serving zip code 14210 for parents with an emergency
need; no residency requirements for children’s clothing.
Many types of services are offered including emergency essentials for babies.
n Harvest House Baby & Children’s Ministry
175 Jefferson Avenue Buffalo, NY 14210 716-824-7818 ext. 214
www.harvesthousebuffalo.org Serving Erie County; by appointment only.
BREASTFEEDING
n La Leche League International www.lllusa.org
The local La Leche groupLa Leche League of Western New York - can be found on Facebook. Leaders are available to answer your questions about breastfeeding. If you are unable to find a leader in your area, call 1-877-4-LALECHE (1-877-452-5324). Western New York La Leche Leaders: Kimberly, 716-997-4662 Jenny - 716-512-5000
DRUG & ALCOHOL ABUSE
n Partnership for Drug-Free Kids
Get Help via text, email or by scheduling a call with their trained specialists by visiting www.drugfree.org. Drug use remains a significant problem in the United States, however adolescent drug use is particularly damaging as such use can affect the physical and mental development of younger people and can impact their opportunities later in life. In 2020, 7.58% of 12- to 17-year olds reported using drugs in the last month. 91,799 people died from drug overdoses in 2020, 21,000 more than the
previous year, making it a leading cause of injury-related death in the United States. A person is more likely to die from an accidental opioid overdose than from a motor vehicle crash.
This national organization helps parents take effective action before their child’s drug use or drinking reaches a point where treatment is required. Research has shown that substance abuse problems can be reduced by intervening early. Encouraging parents to take immediate action is therefore a main goal of the helpline’s team of parent support specialists who offer expert advice to help parents plan a course of action and can supply a list of local resources or treatment facilities. Their website is an excellent one-stop resource where you can educate yourself about specific drugs, teen behavior, and ways to talk to your kids to prevent abuse from ever happening in the first place.
n UNDERAGE DRINKING TIPLINE
1-800-851-1932
underagedrinkingtips@erie.gov Erie County Sheriff’s Office anonymous, confidential, and free hotline. Concerned adults, teachers, students and friends now have a number to call 24 hours a day, to report planned underage drinking parties; underage drinking parties taking place or other activities that may be harmful to the health, safety and welfare of young people.
FOOD ALLERGIC FAMILIES
n Greater Buffalo
Food Allergy Alliance
www.gbfoodallergy.org
The mission of this local support group is to share information, tips, and experiences to ease the challenges of living with food allergies, as well as raise the
awareness in the community; meets at the Orchard Park Library, 4570 South Buffalo St., Orchard Park. You can find meeting details and locations on the organization’s Facebook page.
LEAD POISONING SERVICES
n Erie County Department of Health LEADSAFE Erie County 503 Kensington Avenue Buffalo, NY 14124
716-961-6800
Families with young children who want information about lead poisoning prevention can request an assessment of their pre-1978 home. A visual exterior and interior inspection by staff will identify any potential lead hazards and a lead education visit with the family will provide cleaning supplies and strategies for avoiding lead hazards. “Communities of Concern” have been designated in zip codes 14201, 14207, 14208, 14209, 14210, 14211, 14212, 14213, and 14215.
MISSING PERSONS
n New York State Division of Criminal Justice Missing Persons Clearinghouse
1-800-346-3543
Call local law enforcement first to report a missing child or adult. Call the hotline for case intake or to provide lead information. Electronically distributes missing child or missing college student alerts statewide and assists in investigation.
NUTRITION ASSISTANCE
n WIC - Women, Infants & Children
https://www.ccwny.org/wic Women, Infants & Children (WIC) is a federal nutrition program that supports pregnant, postpartum, and breastfeeding women, infants and children up to the age of five to live a healthier life. WIC provides nutrition education and counseling, breastfeeding support,
prenatal and postpartum support, referrals and supplemental food vouchers. All of our services are free of charge.
WIC is for all kinds of familiesmarried or single parents, working or not working. Fathers, mothers, grandparents, foster parents or other legal guardians of a child under five can apply for the child to receive WIC. WIC does not require US citizenship, social security number, green card or legal residency to receive benefits.
Catholic Charities operates the program locally through a variety of locations. To reach any of the sites serving Chautauqua, Erie and Niagara counties, call (716) 2181484. Not all of their locations are open every day, please call for site schedules.
You may be eligible for WIC if you:
• Are pregnant, breastfeeding or post-partum, OR
• Have an infant or child under 5 years old, AND
• Receive SNAP (Food Stamps), Temporary Assistance (TANF) or Medicaid or meet the income guidelines below, AND
• Live in New York State You can also call NY State’s Growing Up Healthy Hotline toll-free at 1-800-5225006 for further information about eligibility, etc.
PARENT ORGANIZATIONS
Moms, we know how it is. We manage the house, the schedules, the lunch packing and dinner making. We’re there for homework, the big game, the school play, and we make it happen with a smile. Where’s that little dose of “me” time? Thankfully, there are some helpful organizations in our community just for moms. Whether you’re a new mom or a veteran mom, there’s a special place for you to connect, refresh and relax.
n MOMS Club www.momsclub.org
The MOMS Club is an international non-profit organization, started by a California mom. Several local chapters have formed which offer monthly meetings with speakers and discussions, park play dates, holiday family parties, outings for mothers and their children, and activity groups like playgroups, arts ‘n crafts, and a monthly MOMS Night Out. They also do community service projects. Find a local chapter through their web site.
n WNY Mothers Of Multiples
formerly Mothers of Twins Club of Buffalo www.wnymultiples.org
This support group for expectant and current mothers of twins
(and more!) meets on the 2nd Wednesday of most months at 7pm at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, 2669 Sheridan Drive, Tonawanda. In addition to their meetings which feature “meet and mingle” sessions, they organize activities such as moms’ nights out, toy/clothing sales, and a great vareity of other momoriented and family events. Download membership forms on their website.
POISON EMERGENCY
n Upstate New York Poison Center
24 Hours A Day, 365 Days A Year 1-800-222-1222 https://www.upstate.edu/ poison/ Calls are answered by Specialists in Poison Information (SPIs), registered nurses, and pharmacists trained in toxicology. Specialists provide the most efficient and up-to-date poison information available. Physicians and toxicologists are on-call 24 hours a day for consultation purposes. are lost in the maze of rules and regulations in the Special Education System, these are the folks who can help.
Should I be concerned?
Well said, thanks for this. I’ve been waiting for an explanation like this May 1, 2025
Algorithms on social media are basically sets of rules and calculations that decide what content to show users next. Every time your child likes a Cool article!
RAISING DIGITAL KIDS
— by Mike Daugherty
How Social Media Apps Can Shape Your Child’s Worldview
Apps like Facebook, YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram use powerful algorithms to decide what videos, posts, or pictures appear on your feed. As adults, we know that and we are aware this is occurring. In fact, many people enjoy that social media is personalizing the content that’s being presented to them. Unfortunately, the same thing is happening to our children and their underdeveloped brains. Let’s take a look at how algorithms can play a major role in shaping what kids think, feel, and believe.
WHAT EXACTLY IS AN ALGORITHM AND WHY DO THEY MATTER?
Algorithms on social media are basically sets of rules and calculations that decide what content to show users next. Every time your child likes a post, watches a video, or follows a new account, the platforms take note. They track user behavior which videos are watched, for how long, which posts get a “like” or comment—and use that data to predict what other content the user will enjoy. In essence, the algorithm builds a profile of your child’s interests and preferences, then continually adjusts what shows up on their screen. The goal for platforms is to keep users engaged as long as possible by feeding them content that grabs their attention. TikTok is especially good at this. Other platforms have followed their lead, increasingly showing rec-
ommended posts from strangers if the algorithm thinks you’ll enjoy them. Over time, this creates a feedback loop. The algorithm notices what content your child engages with and serves up more of the same. One writer from The Atlantic described it simply: a bit of computer code watches what you find engaging and then sends you more of that kind of stuff.
For example, if a child watches a lot of Minecraft videos on YouTube, the algorithm will suggest more Minecraft or gaming videos. If they start liking dance clips on TikTok, the “For You” page will show them even more dance trends. This can be a good thing—it means your child is seeing content tailored to their interests—but it also means the algorithm might narrow what they see. It’s how so-called “filter bubbles” are formed. The platform’s feed becomes a reflection of what the user already likes, with less exposure to different or new topics.
Importantly, algorithms don’t have values or judgment; they aren’t deciding what is true, healthy, or morally right. They are deciding what is engaging. As social media researcher Jean Twenge notes, these apps are literally designed to keep people scrolling for as long as possible because that’s how the companies make money. In practice, that means sensational, flashy, or emotionally-charged content often gets prioritized by the algorithm—simply because people tend to react to it, not because it’s good for your child. Understanding this is key to grasping continued on page 32
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why the content in a child’s feed might sometimes be extreme or one-sided. The algorithm’s job isn’t to give a balanced view; it’s to keep your child watching.
BENEFITS OF ALGORITHM-DRIVEN CONTENT
Algorithms can be helpful. They introduce kids to new interests and hobbies they might love. For example, if your child enjoys watching art tutorials on YouTube, the algorithm will suggest more art videos, helping them learn and grow creatively. On Instagram, young people might discover communities focused on positive topics, such as climate action or volunteer opportunities, simply because the algorithm noticed their interest.
These tailored recommendations also make learning new skills easier. Tutorials on subjects like guitar playing, cooking, or science experiments often pop up, encouraging young people to explore topics they didn’t realize they liked.
RISKS OF ALGORITHMDRIVEN CONTENT
While there are a few positives, in my opinion, these algorithms are not great for kids. As mentioned above, algorithms can create a “filter bubble” a situation where children see only what aligns with their current interests or beliefs. This means kids might never see different points of view, limiting their understanding of the world. For instance, a teenager interested in a certain political opinion could only receive content that agrees with them, making them less open-minded over time.
Algorithms might also reinforce negative behaviors. If a teen watches a few videos about extreme diets, platforms like TikTok or Instagram could then flood their feeds with more content about body image and dieting. This might lead to unhealthy habits or harmful views about their bodies.
Sometimes, algorithms recommend inappropriate or harmful content. Studies have found cases where children’s accounts received violent or disturbing videos because algorithms mistakenly identified them as engaging content. For example, a child watching gaming videos on YouTube might quickly encounter violent content recommended by the algorithm.
MANAGING ALGORITHMIC INFLUENCE: TIPS FOR PARENTS
Parents aren’t totally powerless. There are several ways you can help your child have a safer and more balanced online experience if you choose to allow them to access these apps.
1. Explain How Algorithms Work: Talk openly about how social media and video apps decide what appears in their feeds. When kids understand why they’re seeing certain content, they become better at controlling their own online experience.
2. Set Screen Time Limits: Apps and platforms are designed to keep users engaged as long as possible. Set limits on daily screen time to prevent your child from spending too much time online. Many devices have built-in tools that can help enforce these limits.
3. Encourage Diverse Interests: Encourage your child to follow a wide range of topics online. A varied feed reduces the risk of getting trapped in a singleminded bubble. For example, if your child enjoys gaming videos, encourage them also to watch educational content or fun DIY projects.
4. Use Parental Controls: Most platforms have parental controls that can filter out inappropriate content. YouTube has “Restricted Mode,” TikTok offers “Family Pairing,” and Instagram provides privacy set-
tings to protect young users. Take advantage of these tools to ensure your child’s feed remains age-appropriate.
5. Watch and Talk Together: Spend some time viewing content with your child. Discuss what they’re watching, why it might have been suggested, and whether it’s reliable information. Open conversations can help kids think critically about what they see online.
6. Teach Critical Thinking: Help your child learn to question content rather than accepting everything at face value. Encourage them to verify information through trustworthy sources. This builds media literacy, making them smarter and safer online consumers.
CONCLUSION
Algorithms aren’t going away. They significantly influence how kids see the world around them. While they can introduce helpful new ideas and communities, they can also trap kids in a limited or harmful online world. By understanding these risks and using practical strategies, parents can guide their children toward balanced, positive online experiences. Keeping an open dialogue, setting clear boundaries, and encouraging a diverse set of interests helps ensure your child benefits from technology without being negatively shaped by it.
Mike Daugherty is a husband, father of three young children, author, speaker, Google Innovator, and possible Starbucks addict. He is a certified educational technology leader who has served in a variety of roles through his twenty-year career in public education. Currently, Mike is the Assistant Superintendent of Innovation, Technology, and Communications for the Chagrin Falls Exempted Village School district in Northeast Ohio. As an IT director he has developed creative, well thought out solutions that positively impact teaching and learning.
The social component is essential for teens, but it can take on different forms. While some kids enjoy a teambuilding extroverted camp experience, others prefer something that focuses on independent growth or learning a new skill. Make sure your teen is comfortable with the level of social interaction offered.
Important considerations:
• Goal Alignment: Select camps aligning with your teen’s future goals or career interests for a more focused and beneficial experience.
• Independence and Responsibility: Encourage camps that promote independence and responsibility, allowing teens to make decisions and navigate challenges.
• Mentorship and Guidance: Look for programs with experienced mentors or instructors who can provide guidance and support to teens exploring their passions.
• Community and Impact: Consider camps that involve community service or global initiatives to instill a sense of social responsibility and global awareness.
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Regardless of age, summer camps serve as transformative spaces where children and teenagers develop essential life skills, forge lasting friendships, and create cherished memories. As you choose camp experiences at each age, consider your child’s evolving needs to offer the best camp experience.
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— by Deborah Williams
Hammondsport –The Small Town in America FAMILY
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Hammondsport, on the southern tip of Keuka Lake in the heart of New York’s Finger Lakes, is a very small town but a giant in aviation history. The area also boasts a rich tradition of winemaking and boat building. It has been called the “the coolest small town in America” and it is all that and more.
Just two hours from Buffalo, it makes an ideal weekend getaway during spring, summer, and fall.
Best of all, for water lovers, Keuka Lake is a lake with a difference. It is Y shaped and the only crooked lake of the eleven Finger Lakes. It is surrounded by lush vineyards on the hills. There are many who claim Keuka Lake is the most beautiful of the region’s lakes. It has been called the jewel in the crown of the Finger Lakes.
One of the lake’s biggest boosters is Alan Locey, a true “laker” who grew up on the lake and offers daily public cruises on his boat as well as charter cruises.
Introducing visitors to the beauty of the lake and helping to preserve its water quality are his passions. As a fellow water lover, our cruise was a highlight of our Hammondsport visit. He is also a master storyteller with a tale about the history of almost every building and boat on the lake, as well as many tidbits of lake lore.
“I so enjoy sharing this treasure,” he explained. “This lake has it all: great fishing, clean water, ringed by vineyards, and I treasure every day spent on the water.”
The Finger Lake Boat Museum in Hammondsport offers another opportunity to enjoy the lake on board the more than 100-year-old Pat II. This historic boat began life as a tour boat in the Thousand Islands in 1924. Then, in 1956, she moved to Skaneateles Lake to serve as a mail and tour boat until 1991. She was then out of service until the Hammondsport museum acquired her from the Skaneateles Historical Society in 2014. The boat was in poor shape, but after an extensive seven-year reconstruc-
tion by a group of dedicated volunteers, she was transformed into a beautiful allelectric boat. She now offers daily cruises from June to mid-October.
Boat lovers shouldn’t miss a museum visit. It is just outside the village and housed in several former Taylor Wine Company buildings. Stop at the theater to watch the 13-minute video overview of the museum.
The area is known for its boat building history with the former Penn Yan Boat Co. nearby. There are several Penn Yan boats as well as other boats on display including a mix of inboards and outboards. The Penn Yan company began in 1921 and ceased operations in 2002. One of the highlights of this exhibit area is the Elizabeth Ellen, a lavishly furnished luxury boat built in 1910 by the Fay and Bower Engine Company in Geneva.
Check out the miniature to-scale steamboats. The steamboats once plied the waters of Keuka Lake and other nearby Finger Lakes. There are two boat restoration workshops and volunteers are usually on hand and happy to explain the work on their latest project.
It was Glenn H. Curtiss, Hammondsport’s favorite son, who put the village on the world map as an aviation and motorcycling pioneer.
Alan Locey
The story of Curtiss and his remarkable accomplishments is on display in the Glenn H. Curtiss Museum, a half mile outside the village. A bicycle and motorcycle racer, as well as engine expert, he went on to become “The Fastest Man on Earth” racing his motorcycle in Ormond Beach, FL and achieving a speed of 136.4 miles per hour.
It was in his hometown that he set a world record for aviation. On July 4, 1908, Curtiss flew the June Bug airplane at Stony Brook Farm during a competition known as the Scientific American Cup. He flew 5,090 feet with more than 1,000 people watching.
The flight of the June Bug was the first officially recognized, preannounced publicly observed flight in America. The flight had been recorded and was shown in movie theaters around the world. Curtiss soon became one of the country’s leading aviation pioneers.
In the years prior to the first World War Curtiss opened flying schools in California and Florida to teach the early Naval pilots to fly and became known as the “Father of Naval Aviation.” He operated a flight school at the south end of Keuka Lake and taught people from near and far to fly. These flying schools trained some of the finest aviators the world had ever seen.
He designed the plane known as the “Jenny” which was one of the most important planes in early aviation. It was designed as a military training plane for pilots during World War I. It is estimated that more than 95% of American and Canadian pilots learned how to fly a Jenny.
Exhibits in the museum include a priceless collection of original airplanes, restored planes, and reproductions, as well as automobiles, bicycles, and motorcycles. Visitors are welcome to visit the Restoration Shop, talk with the volunteers, and watch them work on historic aircraft.
On June 28, an exciting new exhibit is opening at the museum showcasing the aviation pioneer’s involvement with vertical flight or what we today call helicopters. In May 1908, an engine designed by Curtiss was used to make history in Hammondsport as it powered the first vertical flight in the country. One of two all-electric CV2 Cargo Air Vehicles (drones) in existence will be part of the new exhibit. Both drones were made by Boeing in 2017, and the other drone is at the National Air and Space Museum.
The Curtiss name became a familiar one in the Buffalo area when the Curtiss Wright Corp. was created in 1929 and immediately became the country’s largest aviation firm. The Buffalo plant was
best known as the manufacturer of the legendary P-40 Warhawk fighter plane.
During the war years, the company produced 142,840 aircraft engines, 146,468 electric propellors and 29,269 airplanes. Overall, the company employed 180,000 workers including many women during the war. The Buffalo plant employed 5,400 people in 1940 and 43,000 three years later.
One of the joys of Hammondsport is that everything is very close. The Keuka Lakeside Inn, our home while visiting, has a perfect location right on the water. It has its own boat launch and if you wish to rent a kayak or other boat, they are available next door at the Depot, the former train station. There is a gazebo and fire pit on the lake shore—perfect for enjoying an evening by the water.
The swimming beach is just a short walk, as are restaurants and shops on the old-fashioned Town Square. A visitor said it looked like a Norman Rockwell painting and indeed it does.
A visit to Hammondsport would not be complete without a visit to a winery. There are many choices, but my favorite is Bully Hill Winery. It has a remarkable history, winery tours, a tasting room, gift shops, a lovely restaurant overlooking
The Glenn H. Curtiss Museum
The Glenn H. Curtiss Museum
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the vineyards and lake, and even a museum.
Its history began almost 150 years ago when master cooper Walter Taylor founded the Taylor Wine Company. Nearly a century later Walter’s grandson, Walter S. Taylor decided to start his own winery on the very spot his grandfather did on a hill known as Bully Hill. The winery’s reputation quickly grew bolstered by Walter’s larger-than-life personality.
The labels also set his wines apart since he was a gifted artist and the labels were unique, colorful and irreverent. The “Love My Goat Red” label, featuring an orange goat with his tongue sticking out, represented the years of court battles over the “Taylor” trademark and the wine soon became a bestseller.
Today, his widow Lillian has transformed the restaurant into a regional favorite and it is hard to beat the view. Bully Hill is one of largest family-owned wineries in New York.
About 20 miles north is the village of Penn Yan, boasting several special attractions. It is the center of the largest Old Order Mennonite community in the state and horse drawn buggies are a common sight in the village.
It is also home to Birkett Mills which has been milling specialty grains in the Finger Lakes region since 1797. It is one the largest buckwheat manufacturers in the world.
On September 27, 1987, the company made history by setting a Guinness Book of World Record for the largest pancake ever made at the Annual Buckwheat Harvest Festival. (The record has since been bested.) The original 28-foot griddle used to flip the record-breaking pancake is on display at the mill.
The Windmill Farm and Craft Market hosts more than 200 shops selling household items, Amish goods, baked goods, wine, garden items, home décor, clothing and farm grown products in four large buildings, as well as an open-air market and shops along three streets. There are also a variety of dining spots. The season continues through the last Saturday in November and regularly attracts 8,000-10,000 visitors every Saturday.
Travel Tip of the Month: For information on Hammondsport visit exploresteuben.com or call 607-936-6544. For contacting Alan Locey, visit KeukaBoatCruise.com or call 410456-3878. For Finger Lakes Boat Museum, visit flbm.org or call 607-569-2222. For the Curtiss Museum, visit glennhcurtissmuseum.org or call 607-569-2160.
For Keuka Lakeside Inn, visit keukalakesideinn.com or call 607-569-2600. Bully Hill Winery visit bullyhillvineyards. com or call 607-868-3610. Fort Windmill Farm and Craft Market visit thewindmill.com.
Save the Date: The free 2025 Wings and Wheels: Seaplane and Car Show will be September 13 in Hammondsport.
Deborah Williams lives in Holland, NY and is a veteran travel writer whose work has appeared in national and international publications. She is the recipient of the Society of American Travel Writers’ Lowell Thomas Gold Travel Writing Award.
Bully Hill Winery
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— by Dr. Donna Phillips
May is a time for moving!! With birds building their nests, leaves bursting forth, flowers blooming, and grass growing, it is time for us to participate in the energy and excitement of spring. It is time to get outside with the birds, bees, flowers, trees, and the animals with their babies! It is the time of year to celebrate the natural world of families and the perfect time to do things together. Mother’s Day is the holiday of the month. In May, books are blooming to get us ready to welcome spring and all it offers! These books will get you up, out, and moving!
picture with the letters and sounds in the word. Getting outside to play, jump, hide, seek, slide, swing, throw, catch, eat, drink, hike, look, swim, float, read, and listen is the perfect way to celebrate May!
get to know them better and Turn This Book Into a Bird Feeder (Workman Publishing, New York, 2025, $17.99), written by Lynn Brunelle and illustrated by Anna-Maria Jung, will open eyes to their amazingness. Learn about what makes a bird a bird. Learn about their senses, how they fly, how they communicate, why we need birds, and how we can help them. Discover a year in the life of a bird, and even turn the cover of the book into a bird feeder. You can also use this book to identify the birds that might come to your feeder and what you can do to help them thrive.
Hello
Sun! (Random House, New York 2025, $9.99), written and illustrated by LaLa Watkins, will not only invite your young-
est ones outdoors to move and explore but also invite them to read! This beginning reader book encourages lots of ways to move and celebrate spring. It also has a simple repeating sentence frame with changing pictures to help young readers finish the sentence and match the
Now that we are outside, let’s explore. Let’s take a deeper dive into the magic of trees! Spring is the season of wood and trees in many cultures and, no matter where we live, the trees around us are leaping into life! The perfect book to be aware of this and take on a spring walk is A Kid’s Guide to Backyard Trees (Gibbs Smith, Kaysville, 2025, $14.99), written by Felicia Browser and illustrated by Nicole LaRue. It is just the right size for pockets and little hands. Organized by leaf type, this book invites us to explore the trees around us and identify them by leaf type and flower or seed. Then use the book to learn more about its habitat and range, bark and leaves, flowers and fruits, and a fun fact about it. With colored illustrations, suggested DYI projects, and a place for field notes, this is a book I will be sure to keep handy when I head out for a walk.
How can you miss the spring birds? If you can’t see them, you can certainly hear them as they are busy calling to each other as they build their nests. As more and more birds return to our area, this is the perfect time to
We all know that rain showers bring May flowers, so you can be sure there will be rainy days that will keep us indoors. When that happens, The Origami Kid: A Paper Folding Adventure (Workman Publishing, New York, 2025, $9.99), by Robert McGuire, is a good book to help pass the time creatively. Mike is stuck in the house on a rainy day with nothing to do. That is until his imagination takes him on an adventure. He didn’t want to travel alone, so he decided to make an origami dog to accompany him. His adventure takes him to the jungle where he learns how to make an origami monkey. Then he, his dog, and his monkey friend are off to a tropical island where they need a boat. So, he makes an origami boat. By the time his adventure is over he has also made a bird, an airplane, a balloon and a new friend, Oni. This book comes with paper and directions on how to make these origami creations and a recipe for a folded Japanese dumpling treat called Gyoza. The hours of fun with this book will certainly help creatively bide the time until the rain stops.
While the older children are waiting for the weather to clear up, they might enjoy Forest Magic for Kids (Gibbs continued on page 39
DEAR TEACHER
– by Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts
Helping all parents make their children’s educational experience as successful as possible
How to Help your Children Develop a Conscience
Parents: More than ever, you want your children to have a conscience. You want to have them do right when handling situations that arise all too commonly today like bullying and cyberbullying, cheating on tests, lying, and violent behaviors. They need the ability to make good moral decisions. Even toddlers understand right from wrong. However, your behavior as parents will strongly influence how your children behave and what they perceive as right and wrong. Parents should:
• Talk with their children about the character of people on TV shows and in movies.
• Stress the importance of good sportsmanship.
• Discuss which popular figures in sports and entertainment are good role models.
• Set a good example by following the laws in their community.
• Apologize sincerely whenever they act wrongly toward their children, and promise to do better next time.
• Share uplifting content in the media with their children. It is helpful for them to see positivity in action.
• Discuss the consequences of bad behavior.
• Read books to their children that deal with having a conscience. Some suggestions are: Being Nice Is Not That Hard by Marsha Lea Ocasio; Red Is a Crayon’s Color by Michael Hallo; Ramona The Brave by Beverly Cleary.
Question: I have always been shy, especially when I meet new people. Fortunately, I have learned to be more comfortable around people I know. Now, I find it quite upsetting to see my young daughter acting shy in so many situations. Is shyness hereditary? How can I help her be less shy? — Concerned
Answer: Unfortunately, shyness can be hereditary as well as a learned
behavior. Shy parents, like you, can unknowingly teach shyness to their children as the children observe your behavior. It can be a vicious cycle. So as time goes on, shy children often lose their confidence and become even shyer. You definitely can help your daughter learn how to handle her tendency to be shy. However, you are probably going to have make some changes in yourself.
One of the first things that you need to remember is never to call your child shy or let anyone else do so. Labeling children is counterproductive as it may cause them to live up to that label. Also, be aware that many children overcome shyness as they grow older and learn the skills they need to handle social situations. Fortunately, for most children there is no need to visit a therapist. And frankly, it is normal for most young children to exhibit shyness in new situations.
And while you see shyness in your child, you do not want to help her avoid situations that make her feel uncomfortable such as starting a dance class or joining a scout troop as it will just let her escape learning how to handle social interactions. You can make this type of situation more comfortable by having her face new situations with a friend or a friendly adult.
One thing that you can do is make a conscious effort to avoid showing shyness in situations that she can observe. Also, you want to introduce her to play situations in which she will comfortable. You can start by having play dates at home with children she knows. As her confidence grows, she can go to playdates at other’s homes where you stay during the time she is there.
Another thing that may help is to play pretend games with her in which you act out social situations with her from attending a birthday party to taking turns on a slide in the park. Playing board games and doing puzzles with other children can be comfortable and
less stressful activities. Other activities include cooking, hiking, and gardening with others.
Parents: All parents want their children to have friends. Sometimes shyness can interfere with that. Whether your child is shy or not, there are a number of things that you can do to promote friendships between your child and other children. Just having one good friend in a neighborhood or classroom can bring so much happiness as well as social confidence to a child.
The first step to helping your children forge friendships typically starts by having just one young child visit your home. The other child will typically be accompanied by a parent. Limit the visit to an hour and have structured activities. Very young children are very often likely to play separately. Frequent visits with the same child or just a few children will turn into enjoyable play sessions. When you see that one or more of the children play well with your child, you are on the way to having him or her develop friendships. As a parent, you can encourage the development of childhood friendships by facilitating visits with a desired playmate.
Later on, when children are in preschool or elementary school, it is the teacher who can help children develop friendships by having them work or do projects together. Take the teacher in your confidence about a child’s need to find some friends as teachers are skilled in helping children make friendships.
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Smith, Kaysville, 2025, $19.99), written by Susie Spikol and illustrated by Renia Metallinou. This charming book invites the reader to go outside with the eye of a scientist and the imagination of a poet. It encourages us to go out into the woods and let our imagination go wild (Chapter 1), with other chapters like The Green Team: Trees, Leaves and Wildflower Magic, A Wild Forage, Magical Potions, Pixie Dust, and an Elfin Picnic, Forest Folk: Gnomes, Homes and Wee Little Mice, Secret Places, Hidden Forts, and Small Worlds. There are two additional chapters, plus a chapter on ways to make small magical beings. Full of directions, details, and checklists this book will get everyone excited to go out to explore and celebrate the month of May!
With all these books and what the month has to offer, you will have no excuses to stay inside. Keep in mind this explosion of energy, growth, and spring excitement will soon settle once summer is here. So, gather your family, friends, (don’t forget mothers) and all your adventure equipment and get going! May is calling you!
Whether at home or in the car on a road trip, Would You Rather? questions can strike up some fun conversations .
Here are some QUESTIONS you can ask your child!
Would you rather work at a bakery or work at a diner?
Would you rather sleep in a tent or under the stars?
Would you rather win a gold medal at the Olympics or be a famous singer?
Would you rather work for a company that makes movies or a company that makes toys?
Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher. com and visit the dearteacher.com website to learn more about helping their children succeed in school.
Dr. Donna Phillips is an associate professor in the College of Education at Niagara University where her specialty is literacy and children’s literature. She lives on Grand Island, NY and is the mother of two adult children and the grandmother of one.
Would you rather be able to understand what animals are saying or have the ability to be invisible?
*Source – familyeducation.com
Daddy Daddy The Track
M– by Shannon Carpenter
y son, who is a junior in high school, just got his ACT scores back and they are ridiculous. The average score is 21 and his are well above that. Now, you might be thinking Lord, here we go. A father bragging about his son. Fine. Whatever. You are completely right. If we were all in the same room together, I would pull out my wallet and smash baby pictures in your face while a slide show of all my children plays in the background.
I am the cliché father who brags about his children and then looks at his yard in the middle of the night for unknown reasons.
But this article is more than that. It’s about the moment you realize as a parent that your children are better than you. I am a Gen Xer, so this is a pretty low bar, but it still does exist. When I was my son’s age, I was knee-deep in apathy. Grunge music was the soundtrack to my life and the only choice I made was that I should probably get a burrito.
My daughter is in her first year of college and is killing it. (If you want pictures, please let me show you.) My first year of college was spent making very bad choices which typically involved me lying on the floor of a bar bathroom.
And when I was my youngest son’s age, 12, my friends and I thought it was a really good idea to go poke a nest of water moccasins, a venomous snake found in the South.
I’m not one of those fathers who think that kids today have it so much easier. I do not walk around proclaiming “Back in my day!” and then spout nonsense about how real men were made.
My Kids Are Better Than Me
I happen to think that today’s kids have it way, way harder than we did. We were the latchkey kids whose parents needed a commercial to remind them that they had kids in the first place. We could disappear into the ether of life and poke snakes, drink in fields, and never had to worry about that being posted for the world to see. We had secrets.
Our kids have the ever-watchful eyes of the world, and the expectations that come with them. It’s the constant sit-up straight and act right by the world. The constant pressure to perform, excel, and the shame when that doesn’t happen. It’s a bit ironic when, and let’s be honest, their parents were the generation of screw-ups. I would not let my children get away with half the things my parents never knew about.
And for the most part, our kids have risen to the challenge. They can see the problems that go beyond their world and begin to extrapolate their place within it. A sense of community has become more important and less transient. Tomorrow is an issue that needs to be fixed today.
Our children are growing up in a world that we could never imagine and, if we did, our generation wouldn’t have cared to fix it. But instead of being passive passengers, the younger generation seems committed to remaking it to what they deserve.
When I see my kids fight through their anger and apathy and instead choose to reach further with less, that’s when I know that they are better than me. It was easy for me to grow up at a time when no one knew what I was doing or had no expectations of me other than to get out. Half of us were lucky if
we got a “good luck” while heading for the door.
The expectation of this generation, and my kids, is to not only survive in the world but to conquer the future. There are problems and they expect themselves to fix them. Maybe it’s because they know that they can’t rely on the ones that came before them. Housing shortages, inflation, racism, health care; the list can go on and on. It’s enough to make a Gen Xer throw on his old flannel, combat boots, and never leave his garage.
The constant pressure of living a digital life has stripped away much of their anonymity, and they understand that there is no going back. We can all complain about social media and screen time—it’s easy to when it was us who invented it. As my dad would say, it’s like closing the barn door after the horses have escaped.
My children are better than me, and I know it. Our children are better than us, and we know it. They will do more with much less, and they care about it. We should all get our wallets out and show those pictures to the world.
Shannon Carpenter is the father of three and has been a stay-at-home dad since 2008. He’s the author of the book “Stay-at-Home Dad: Your Essential Manual for Being an Awesome FullTime Father.” as well as the co-host of Dadhouse Pod. In addition to his writing on parenting, he is also a humor writer trained through the famous Second City. And we all know that having a sense of humor is essential to surviving parenthood!
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A Minecraft Movie
A washed up used game store owner and a friendless teenager stumble across a mystical orb that pulls them into another world, where they encounter a master crafter whose expertise will be essential in helping them find their way home. Thanks to Jason Momoa and Jack Black, this is a funny film, even for adults, and the animation is well done. The story is flimsy at best and characters are poorly developed – but that won’t bother the target audience. Photo
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Road Trip
Grocery Shopping with Teenagers: 10 Reasons Why It Will Make Your HeadSpin
Iheard the high-pitched scream from where I stood in the frozen food aisle. It carried throughout the entire grocery store before it transformed into full-blown crying. Just then I spied the source—a red-faced flailing child sitting in a shopping cart being pushed by his mother.
I flashed back to when my teenagers were little—and shuddered. As a young mom, there was nothing as challenging as taking my wee ones to the grocery store. I remember all too well the whining, crying, wriggling, and epic meltdowns. I even abandoned my cart once just to remove my out-of-control tot surfboard-style from the store.
But as I stood in front of the frozen peas, the honest truth about grocery shopping for teenagers hit me. Whether they accompany you to the store or stay home and await the week’s haul, teens can be just as challenging to shop with (and for) as when they were younger—it’s just a different kind of stress.
Here are 10 reasons why grocery shopping with teenagers will make your head spin.
1. Bigger kids mean bigger appetites. Yup, teens eat a lot. One day your teen may be eating like an average human being and the next day—poof!—he is eating two of everything. And he’s still hungry! I’ve never had to buy so much food in my life. Am I feeding an army? Nope, just teenagers.
2. Buying huge quantities of food for teenagers is expensive. And you’re not only buying for your teens, but for their hungry friends or teammates. I’m pretty sure I’m still paying off the water polo team meal I hosted years ago when I provided a breakfast that rivaled a Las Vegas buffet! Teens also prefer the latest, pricy brands of toiletries like makeup or hair goo used by their favorite influencers or athletes which means you can’t save a few dollars buying generic brands.
3. It’s physically exhausting grocery shopping for teens. Sure, you aren’t pushing those burdensome shopping
baskets shaped like a race car that they enjoyed when they were little. But it isn’t any easier to push a basket up and down the aisles burdened with all the food and drink that people with insanely fast metabolisms can eat. Or lugging copious amounts of overflowing bags into the house when you get home.
4. Grocery shopping for teens is mentally exhausting. Not only am I calculating how much food to buy and how much it costs, but I’m considering my teens wildly different tastes. They never agree on the same thing. So, whether I plan a meal ahead of time or stare hopelessly at a chuck roast in the meat section waiting for inspiration to strike, I feel like I’m solving an algebraic equation as I try to recall which one doesn’t like tater tots, who still hates onions, and what was that recipe we ate last month that everyone liked?
5. Teens never remember to tell us what they need ahead of time, no matter how many times they’ve been reminded. Nope, it’s not until I’ve already picked up my online order or packed the car after my in-person trip and headed home that they text me they need toothpaste. At least they are big enough to go get what they forgot themselves. That’s one perk of having older kids!
6. Teens are always trying new things, which is good for them, but usually a pain in the keister for us. The child who ate nothing but butter noodles and chicken nuggets until he was nine is suddenly vegan or pescatarian. So, you must learn new rules about what you can buy as you say goodbye to the usual items you purchased on a weekly basis for the last five years.
7. Teens are socially conscious to a fault. If it’s not fairtrade, non-GMO, organic, and dolphin-safe they probably don’t want what you brought home. Until you remind them that it’s your house, your wallet, and you turned out just fine growing up on Twinkies and PopTarts washed down with artificially flavored Hi-C poured from a giant tin can!
8. Grocery shopping for teens can be crazy because they change their minds. Case in point: my teen loved a certain cereal so much that I stocked up and bought six boxes when it went on sale. Of course, that was the exact week he announced it wasn’t his favorite cereal anymore. Don’t worry—he had no choice but to eat the cereal no matter how much he whined about it.
9. Yes, teenagers can be just as whiny as little kids. Maybe your teens are the pillar of maturity but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve approached the check-
out lane only to be surprised by my very big children begging me for that new flavor drink or pack of gum they’ve spied. “Please mom? I won’t ask for anything else and oh, I don’t have any money, can I pay you back, unless you want to treat me because I am your beloved child and I helped you so much today?”
10. Speaking of which, they aren’t as helpful as they think they are. Sure, they can reach things on high shelves or fetch something from the next aisle. More often than not, though, they toss extra things into your cart that they just HAVE to have. Or they stand in front of your cart mesmerized by something on their phone, totally oblivious that they are blocking the way. Or they are slow to help, or even disappear, when it’s time to bring the groceries into the house. Thanks, kids!
Yup, grocery shopping for teens will make your head spin. There is joy in the craziness, though. Providing for them and simply being with them never gets old. But if they would only tell me ahead of time that they need more dental floss.
Katy M. Clark is a writer and mom of two who embraces her imperfections on her blog Experienced Bad Mom.
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One in five children in the United States, or more than 14.5 million total children, has special health care needs such as physical, developmental, behavioral, or emotional conditions, according to the National Survey of Children’s Health. If you are raising a child with special needs, you know how challenging it can sometimes be.
Whether your child has been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, a learning disability, a visual or hearing impairment, or another disability, something free and available right outside your door can make a difference: nature. A growing number of scientific studies over the past few decades have shown the importance of nature in improving our family’s health and happiness.
Children with special needs can benefit from nature connection, helping to support their physical, cognitive, emotional, and social development in unique and powerful ways. “Learning to feel calm and grounded in nature is helpful for any child, whether they be “typically developing” or facing extra challenges such as a developmental delay or a physical difference that affects coordination and mobility,” says Lisa Louis, mother of an autistic son and founder of HikingAutism. com. “Learning to enjoy nature was not only life-changing for our severely challenged son, but for our whole family. We see this with other families as well.”
Discover the many benefits of nature for children with special needs and how you can get started to help them connect to nature safely.
Benefits of Nature Connection
Making time for nature can assist children in endless ways. It can alleviate ADHD symptoms and help children with autism develop their interests and imagination, cope with change, and feel calmer, according to research. Here are some additional benefits of nature for children with special needs:
Non-intrusive sensory experience. Nature presents diverse textures, sounds, sights, and smells that stimulate and
Benefits of Nature for Children with Special Needs
—by Sandi Schwartz
soothe the senses, which can be particularly valuable for children with sensory processing disorders or autism.
Improved communication. Playing in natural environments encourages language development and cooperative skills.
Positive social interactions. Time in nature allows for unstructured play and exploration, which helps enhance children’s behavior, boost their independence and self-confidence, and improve how they cope with change. It’s also a great way to connect with other families facing similar challenges.
Increased physical activity. Nature promotes a more active lifestyle, which can be particularly important for those with physical disabilities or motor skill challenges. Activities like hiking, biking, gardening, or simply walking on varied terrain can improve strength, balance, spatial awareness, agility, and coordination.
Cognitive development. The natural world offers manageable opportunities to foster imagination; curiosity; and problem-solving, reasoning, and observational skills.
Reduce stress. The serene, often rhythmic, setting of forests, parks, beaches, gardens, and other natural spaces can reduce stress and anxiety, which is especially valuable for children with attention deficit disorders or emotional regulation difficulties.
Improved attention. Nature has been found to help reduce impulsivity and allow children to feel more focused and ontask.
Nature Activities to Get Started
The best outdoor activities for children with special needs are those that cater to their interests and sensory requirements. “Taking walks, whether a short stroll to a neighborhood garden or a longer hike in one of the many national, state, and county parks that offer hiking trails, is the simplest way to get outdoors and experience nature,” says Louis. She also encourages people to simply look out their windows and watch for birds and other
wildlife. Growing some herbs or flowers in pots on the front porch is another great project for the family to enjoy together, she says.
Here are some additional nature activities to try with your children:
• Sensory gardens to stimulate all the senses
• Rock collecting to promote tactile exploration
• Outdoor scavenger hunts to encourage exploration and problem-solving
• Nature crafts using collected objects like leaves, flower petals, and pinecones
• Animal tracking to encourage observation skills, such as installing a birdhouse or birdfeeder in your yard
• Cloud watching to stimulate imagination and relaxation
• Water play activities like jumping in puddles and visiting lakes and beaches for a soothing sensory experience
• Tree rubbing for creativity and tactile stimulation
• Outdoor yoga to help with body awareness and emotional regulation
• Visit a u-pick farm to pick apples, strawberries, or pumpkins
What To Keep In Mind While Heading Outdoors
While nature can be fun and helpful for children with special needs, it can also be overwhelming. It’s important to take some precautions to ensure a safe and positive experience.
First of all, don’t worry about structuring your child’s outdoor playtime. Of course, stay close by supervising, but let them have some freedom to explore. This type of free play can help them build creativity and problem-solving skills.
Next, assess the physical space to make sure it is safe and comfortable. Start with something simple like playing in your backyard or local park and gradually introduce children to new wild areas over time. Look for spots with equitable access for all abilities, such as accessible paths into natural areas. Also, limit outdoor time when the weather is very hot or cold, and remember to use sunscreen and protective gear.
Watch out for materials that could be harmful, such as poisonous plants, stinging insects, sharp objects like thorns, and anything that could trigger a sensitivity. Always be prepared with necessary medications, insect repellent, assistive devices, and safety equipment like life jackets and helmets. For highly sensitive children, bringing sunglasses and noise-canceling headphones can be a good idea.
Finally, allow for frequent breaks during the outing, give extra time for transitions, and choose less crowded times to explore public spaces. Always have a safe exit plan in case a child
feels overstimulated. No matter how the day goes, remember to celebrate small achievements and let your children know how proud you are of them as they explore new aspects of the natural world.
Sandi Schwartz is an award-winning author, freelance journalist, and mother of two. She has written extensively about parenting, wellness, and environmental issues. As the founder and director of the Ecohappiness Project, her mission is to inspire and educate families to build a nature habit to feel happier and calmer. Both her parenting book, Finding Ecohappiness: Fun Nature Activities to Help Your Kids Feel Happier and Calmer, and children’s book, Sky’s Search for Ecohappiness, are available now. Learn more at www.ecohappinessproject.com.
Turtle Pediatrics, led by Dr. Spandana Nallapati, MD is a fully remote developmental behavioral pediatric office specializing in diagnosing and managing children with special needs. Visit our website to find out more information on how Dr. Nallapati can help you get the support you need and help your child get the advocate they deserve, all from the comfort of your own home. Available after work hours and weekends! Visit us at www.turtlepediatrics.com for more information
Start the Day by Sharing a Heartwarming Breakfast
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Acozy morning at home sharing a delicious breakfast— for many families, it’s a picture of perfection. Whether your brunch favorites include pastries and pancakes or fruits and French toast, enjoying a meal together is a heartwarming way to start the day.
Now, you can savor all your favorite flavors inspired by wish kids. These Bananas Foster French Toast and Peanut Butter and Apple breakfast recipes are made with the freshness and irresistibly soft texture of Butterbread from Nature’s Own, which partnered with Make-A-Wish on a $500,000 donation to highlight and support wish kids through 2026.
of experiencing the wonders of Pearl Harbor; Aden, who ventured out for an epic fishing trip; and Joanna, born with an adventurous spirit that wouldn’t rest until she learned to surf the breathtaking shores of Hawaii.
“We are truly honored to partner with Make-A-Wish on this meaningful two-year journey, committing to help grant life-changing wishes,” said Krystle Farlow, senior director of brand management for Nature’s Own. “Together, we hope to continue to inspire and spread goodness, one wish at a time.”
Since 1980, the global nonprofit has granted more than 375,000 wishes in the U.S. to children with critical illnesses, helping them build the strength and hope needed to fight their illnesses. Granted wishes can be life-changing, bringing a sense of normalcy to families that can impact entire communities.
To celebrate the partnership, the Slice of Hope Campaign was launched, introducing in-store displays as well as a digital “Well Wish Wall” where shoppers can submit their well wishes for kids to see.
Special-edition bread loaf packaging also highlights the collaboration by sharing inspiring stories from three wish kids: Addison, who fulfilled her dream
To learn more about the campaign, visit naturesownbread. com/make-a-wish.
Bananas Foster French Toast
Total time: 30 minutes
Servings: 4
French Toast:
4 eggs
2 cups half-and-half
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 cup sugar
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
1/4 stick butter
1 loaf Nature’s Own Butterbread
Bananas Foster Sauce: 1/2 stick butter
1 1/2 cups brown sugar
1 teaspoon cinnamon
3 bananas, sliced lengthwise and quartered
To make French toast: In mixing bowl, combine eggs, half-and-half, cinnamon, sugar and vanilla. Beat until well blended.
On nonstick griddle or griddle pan on medium heat, melt butter.
Dip each bread slice into egg mixture until fully coated (two times each). Place on griddle and cook until each side is slightly brown.
To make bananas foster sauce: Melt butter and brown sugar together; add cinnamon. Once melted into caramel, add sliced bananas.
Continue spooning sauce over bananas in pan.
Plate French toast and spoon bananas with sauce on top of each French toast stack.
Peanut Butter and Apple
Total time: 10 minutes
Servings: 1
2 tablespoons peanut butter
1 slice Nature’s Own Butterbread
1/2apple, thinly sliced
1 teaspoon honey
Spread peanut butter on one side of bread.
Arrange apple slices on top of peanut butter.
Drizzle honey over apple slices.
THE KIDDIE GOUR ME T
— by Barbara Blackburn
The Sheridan Family Restaurant borderlines on a diner, featuring American and Greek cuisine, with a family focus. It has a kiddie menu, limited to children 10 and under. All meals include a small juice, milk, or soft drink, with a price range from $6.99 to $9.09. One of the options is the adorable Mickey Mouse pancake, served with 2 sausages or 2 bacon strips.
Sheridan Family Restaurant
3901 Sheridan Drive Amherst, NY 14226
716-839-3011
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Other choices on the Kiddie Menu include a large slice of French toast with bacon or sausage, 1 egg with bacon or sausage, hot dog with French fries, hamburger with French fries, cheeseburger with French fries, open turkey sandwich with French fries, open roast beef sandwich with French fries, grilled cheese with French fries, and two chicken fingers with French fries.
4.5/5
On a Friday, I ordered the special soup—clam chowder—and a very successful one it was with copious clams in the rich creamy broth ($5.99 bowl).
Dad chose the breaded fish ($16.99), like in the old days, instead of the beer battered, which he usually prefers. The meal came with two sides: his were coleslaw and macaroni salad. The mac and cheese was all taken, unfortunately. Some fish frys include fries and the salads. Broiled fish was also a choice, as well as Stuffed fish and Fish Florentine. You may have guessed by now that this was a Lenten Friday. Another time, Dad would have opted for the New Lamb Chops. For lamb lovers, as we are, you can always depend on a Greek restaurant.
The dessert display caught our eye as we entered the restaurant. Most enticing is the Cheesecake Baklava ($7.49), a perfect pairing of traditional Middle Eastern and Tradition American favorite. Cream pies and fruit pies boost the diner classics. Yes, of course, there is Rice Pudding.
All of the expected Greek selections are here, with a half-dozen souvlaki choices ($12.99-$l6.99), even a tasty Open Tuna Souvlaki, served on shredded lettuce with onion, tomato, Feta, and pepperoncini with a grilled pita.
Sheridan captures the lost decades of food, offering the once popular Diet Delight ($l4.99), lean sirloin steak or chicken breast on toast with cottage cheese and fruit. The Design Your Own Cold Plate ($14.99) is just the thing for calorie counters.
Even the side orders list iconic items, like the Texas Hot Sauce ($2.09), made famous when paired with a hot dog, adding a slight cinnamon flavor. To me it’s the star of the Texas Hot Omelette ($12.99).
Yes, it may take you some time to decide. If you want something with Sheridan in the title, the sandwich called Sheridan Special ($10.49) will please you served either hot or cold. It’s corned beef and Swiss with mustard, served with a pickle.
As expected, breakfast is served all day, with the specials served Monday to Sunday, from 7 AM to 10 AM, including coffee. So, it’s a “blast from the past” and the popular present, intermingling Greek and American.
FUN DAYS during the month of
Barb has been happily doing the Kiddie Gourmet for over 35 years. She has two aging children and four grandchildren, all living in Florida. She is a home instructor and community education cooking instructor for Williamsville Central Schools. She is the 2023 recipient of the Buffalo State Alumni Association Senior Service Award.
