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The library unveiled its new bookmobile at Armstrong Elementary in the Hazelwood School District. Sponsored by the James S. McDonnell Family Foundation, the design of the Books are Magical bookmobile was created by St. Louis artist Dan Zettwoch.
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The nonprofit scored a goal for local Wish Kid Liya. She had her wish granted to transform her backyard into an elite soccer field, featuring goals, fencing, soccer kits, balls and training equipment. Liya has been bravely battling a rare and terminal form of cancer.
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Thanks to a letter written by student Julia Fowler, second graders were treated to a special visit from Soul on Fire star John O’Leary. Inspired by O’Leary’s survival of a childhood fire, which resulted in the amputation of his fingers, Fowler shared her own experiences and challenges with a congenital condition.
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The annual KidTalk Gala brought together board members, clinic families, donors, community members and Maryville University staff for a spooky evening. The clinic supports free speech therapy services for children ages 2 through 6 in the Greater St. Louis area.
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PICTURED: DAMON MITCHELL, CRYSTAL WEAVER, RACHEL PAINTER, JACOB GUTSHALL
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THE VELVET HAMMER
by joan berkman
Q: I was falsely accused by a co-worker of a serious infraction that not only threatens my reputation but possibly my employment. Any guidance to deal with this situation?
A: What’s most important is to remain calm, cooperate with the investigation and, at all times, stay in control of your emotions and protect your reputation while managing this situation.
Stay Calm: It is essential that you remain calm and don’t overreact emotionally as this could further exacerbate your situation. Take a step back, breathe and gather your thoughts before responding to any questions that could cause other possible negative consequences to an already sensitive situation.
Cooperate with Investigations: If your employer initiates an investigation, be cooperative and willing to provide any necessary information and, in particular, information that shares your side of the story clearly and factually. This is your opportunity to present evidence and hopefully documentation that supports your innocence.
Learn From This: Not knowing what you have been accused of, please keep in mind that false accusations can stem from misunderstandings or workplace politics. Regardless, use this experience for personal growth by identifying lessons learned and how to conduct yourself with similar challenges in the future.
Document Everything: If you haven’t done so already, document dates and times of your interactions with your co-worker in order to present a chronology and, again, a factual narrative that may be needed for your employer’s understanding of what transpired. Keep copies on hand at your office and at home.
Consult Your H.R. Director: Contact your human resources department A.S.A.P. to ensure they are aware of your side of the story. H.R. is responsible for handling such matters and can guide you through the process and hopefully help put your mind at ease.
Seek Legal Advice: Depending on the severity of your co-worker’s accusation, it may be wise to consult with an attorney, especially since you’re concerned about your employment, possible disciplinary action or legal consequences. A lawyer can help you understand your rights and, if need be, develop a defensive strategy.
Maintain Your Professionalism: Whatever transpires throughout this process, continue to act professionally. Avoid discussing the situation with other co-workers to prevent gossip and further complicate your situation. Stay laser-focused on your work, concentrate on your well-being with exercise and a healthy nutritional routine and, most of all, maintain a positive attitude, which is my best advice for employment longevity.
Being falsely accused at work is distressing, but by staying calm, cooperative and seeking appropriate support, you can manage this challenge effectively. Don’t let the actions of this one bad apple spoil your view or your future.
Holiday Caution: Have fun with colleagues but maintain your professionalism, always. &
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WORLD PEDIATRICS
by stephanie wallace
IN SEPTEMBER OF THIS YEAR, World Pediatrics was recognized for 25 years dedicated to healing children and elevating pediatric health care across the globe at the United Nations General Assembly. Founded in Richmond, Virginia, in 2001 by Dr. Julian Metts as the International Hospital for Children, the organization merged in 2004 with Healing the Children Missouri, created by St. Louis native Kate Corbett, uniting with the shared purpose of ensuring every child receives the specialized care they need. Each year, World Pediatrics deploys teams of medical professionals to Latin America, the Caribbean and beyond to provide essential pediatric surgical care, while the most complex cases are brought to St. Louis and other cities around the U.S. for life-saving treatment.
The celebration of World Pediatrics’ landmark anniversary will continue in 2026. This includes its signature event, the Treasures in Paradise gala. Themed A Silver Soirée Celebrating 25 Years of Healing, it will be held Jan. 30 at Old Warson Country Club. Guests can expect an entertaining evening, all framed around the inspiring stories of children who have received life-saving care thanks to the nonprofit. “Treasures in Paradise is always a fun event, but 2026’s gala will be even more spectacular,” St. Louis board chair Mary Pat Brown notes. “It’s a way to celebrate the more than 27,000 children healed by World Pediatrics while looking forward to further advancing the future of pediatric care.”
This year also marks the start of new leadership for World Pediatrics’ St. Louis board. Brown, a long-time supporter of the organization, was honored to take the helm as chair. She is joined by Amy Wellen, CRNA, who serves as vice chair. Together, they bring a complementary blend of philanthropic vision and medical insight. “We’ve got a very talented board, and I’m excited to partner with them— leveraging their strengths and connections—to get the message of World Pediatrics to more people,” Brown says. “I’m looking forward to cultivating relationships with local organizations and building new partnerships. Working together, we can make even greater impact in the lives of children.”
Beyond coordinating medical teams abroad and caring for children who travel to the United States, World Pediatrics is deeply invested in strengthening health systems in its partner countries. The organization provides training for local medical providers, offers essential equipment, increases regional coordination to reduce the need for travel and uses technology to facilitate remote consultations. “We are empowering health care workers within their own communities,” Brown says. “The work World Pediatrics does builds a stronger workforce and reinforces the medical infrastructure, creating sustainable change so even more children can receive the life-changing care they need.”
Every St. Louisan can help further World Pediatrics’ mission. Brown notes that for every dollar donated, there is a fivefold return thanks to in-kind contributions from medical professionals, hospitals and suppliers. “The impact of a single dollar is huge—it means a world of difference for children across the globe,” Brown emphasizes. “Children represent 30% of the population, but 100% of the future. World Pediatrics works to help every child live a healthy life and provides equitable access to the best medical care available.” &
ST. LOUIS BOARD CHAIR MARY PAT BROWN AND VICE CHAIR AMY WELLEN WITH WORLD PEDIATRICS PATIENTS
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Join author and investigative journalist Ben Westhoff for a screening and panel discussion of his first documentary film, Antagonist: How a Wonder Drug Got Sidelined, on Dec.13 at our county library’s Clark Family Branch. Westhoff’s books will be available for purchase and signing at the 6:30 p.m. event. The investigative documentary, by the author of Fentanyl, Inc., explores addiction and treatment, and why we’re not doing as well as we could: Addictions to opioids and alcohol kill more 220,000 Americans annually. Naltrexone, a drug developed and first marketed under the brand name Antagonist by DuPont Pharmaceuticals, has helped many people beat these addictions. But naltrexone has received negative media coverage and been ignored by many doctors.
“The discovery of naltrexone should have been a penicillin moment,” says Percy Menzies, president of ARCA, a St. Louis recovery clinic. Antagonist features Menzies, who worked
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for more than 18 years at DuPont and remains personally and professionally dedicated to ending our national drug and alcohol crises. Filmed largely on the streets of San Francisco and St. Louis, the film draws upon Westhoff’s decade of reporting on the opioid crisis and follows addicted users through the heartbreak and joy of recovery. The project was well researched through interviews with doctors, addiction experts, historians, academics and addicts themselves. Westhoff’s credentials include advising officials at the highest levels of government on the fentanyl crisis, and he has written on the opioid epidemic for The Atlantic The Guardian Los Angeles Times and NPR. For the panel discussion, Westhoff will be joined by Menzies and Dr. Fred Rottnek, a professor and director of community medicine at SLU School of Medicine, program director of the Addiction Medicine Fellowship, as well as medical director of ARCA.
Much of Forest Park’s canopy was knocked flat by the May 16 tornado. To go a long way toward restoring our beloved park’s devastated woodlands and familiar landscapes, Forest Park Forever (FPF) and the City of St. Louis plan to plant at least 2,400 trees over the next 12 months and 6,000 over the next five years. FPF made great strides on Forest Restoration Day on Nov. 2. More than 200 people planted 883 trees of 41 different native species across 22.6 acres. In a normal year, notwithstanding an ‘extreme weather event,’ the nonprofit plants between 400 and 600 trees in the park, and aims to double that this year. Of course, many trees that were destroyed or irreparably damaged had been growing throughout the park for dozens of years. Many of the mighty giants blown to splinters were much older than even you, dear reader.
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The St. Louis Galleria’s owners, New-York-based Brookfield Properties, is putting about six acres of land at the mall’s southern end—presently a parking lot—up for sale, with redevelopment potential at the busy intersection of Interstate 64 and Brentwood Boulevard. There is no publicly available asking price. The site has hosted events like the immersive Van Gogh exhibit, an interactive destination under a massive tent, in the fall of 2021, as well as the Cirque Italia Water Circus last year. The city of Richmond Heights has highlighted the site for mixed-use redevelopment with greenspace. Despite losing Nordstrom earlier this year, the Galleria quickly filled the anchor space with Dick’s Sporting Goods, showing resilience in retail demand. The site’s visibility and constant, brisk traffic make it attractive for developers: “Every retailer wants to be here,” emphasize metro experts in commercial real estate. Nearby destinations like Brentwood Promenade and Brentwood Square add to the area’s retail density. For developers, the opportunity presents a rare chance to build at one of the busiest corners in the county. For the community, the potential for new retail, dining or even residential projects could reshape the mall’s footprint and add to its allure.
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What happened in downtown St. Louis on Oct. 14, 1936?
On Oct. 14, 1936, President Franklin D. Roosevelt dedicated the Soldiers Memorial in downtown St. Louis before a massive crowd. The event marked the official opening of the memorial, built to honor the city’s World War I veterans.
START (St. Louis Teens Aid Refugees Today), had a modest, well, start, established in the fall of 2016 by St. Louis high-schoolers intent on helping Syrians escaping from that country’s civil war. First a drive collected basic toiletries for the families who came here. Then, the volunteer effort got more serious when some newly transplanted teens were beaten. START is now under the umbrella of Welcome Neighbor StL, which has partnered with Afghan families, Ukrainians and others from war-torn, unstable areas. “The Afghans started coming in the fall of 2021, seemingly overnight,” says Ann Wittman, executive director of Welcome Neighbor, which has organically grown into a multi-faceted organization that has helped more than 600 refugees from 11 countries. “We now have 14 employees,” says Wittman, who was able to do so through grants and the generosity of donors throughout the metro, whose philanthropic spirit and effort is second to none. Their offices are at 5007 Waterman Blvd. in the CWE. “I have a ton of connections in St. Louis,” she adds, which she started building probably even prior to her high-school years at Visitation Academy and added to during her years studying information systems at SLU and into her subsequent 13-year corporate career with Deloitte. But the universal divine had plans for her other than working for a Fortune 100 company. “God was asking
me to do more,” she says. Welcome Neighbor teaches refugees to fish, so to speak. “It’s not a one-and-done situation—our whole mission is to partner with them, not support them.” It’s a relationship largely based on trust, which was a quality largely absent in the countries from which they escaped. She’s had refugees approach her to volunteer. They’re brave, resilient, grateful and patriotic: “They want to be American success stories.” One of the most dedicated START members is her son Bobby, who’s in his freshman year at the University of Dayton on a service and leadership scholarship. Bobby made sure to return home in time to be involved with the agency’s winter party. Understandably, it’s not a holiday-specific party, because so many of the participants practice different faiths. The Halloween celebration was also great fun. “Although the concept was foreign to Afghans, the girls loved the idea of dressing up as a princess,” says Wittman, with a laugh. Wittman and her team, plus a small army of volunteers, are tireless. “It’s truly an honor to help these people find a home and get a job,” she says. But it has become an even more desperate task to try and get many of the refugees’ family members out of the country. Wittman and her compatriots will help our new residents prepare as best they can. To learn more or to get involved, visit welcomeneighborstl.org. &
IT’S TRULY AN HONOR TO HELP THESE PEOPLE FIND A HOME AND GET A JOB ...
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spotlight on local art
Bonsack Gallery at John Burroughs School is spotlighting local artist Rachel Lebo in a new exhibit, My Scarf and Her Blouse. Lebo is a cross-disciplinary artist who blends painting, sculpture and storytelling to create works that unfold like short stories. The exhibit will be on display through Jan. 26.
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The Missouri Botanical Garden has published its first children’s book! Written by Liz Byrde and illustrated by Matt Byrde, Rosie & Pogo Visit the Missouri Botanical Garden shares the story of a blind girl and her seeing-eye dog as they explore several areas of the garden, including the Climatron, Japanese Garden and English Woodland Garden. The book is available for purchase at the Garden Gate Shop and at mbgpress.org.
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Even Scrooge wouldn’t want to miss the Historic Sappington House’s special abridged production of A Christmas Carol. On Dec. 20 and 21, the holiday classic will be brought to life in a special walk-through event, featuring five decorated rooms, a performance by Dance Discovery, the Cratchit family singers and more. To purchase tickets, call 314.822.8171 or visit historicsappingtonhouses.org.
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by patty hannum
I HOPE YOUR HOLIDAYS are merry and nice with lots of family, friends and food. Every year, I host my big extended family—there are 50 or so of us Fitzgeralds—at a Christmas Eve brunch. Sounds like a lot of work? It is, but it also isn’t. Everyone always brings something for brunch. All I have to do is clean the house and make French toast and lots of bacon. For many of us, this is the only time we see each other
This results in a lot of animated conversations. As you probably expect, most of the Fitzgeralds are funny in a snarky sort of way, so it is always fun. I think having endless mimosas and my brother Mike’s homemade Bailey’s Irish Cream concoction helps! Most of my nieces
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Chabad of Chesterfield is once again taking its celebration of Hanukkah to the streets! Its Menorah Car Parade will transform Chesterfield into a traveling festival of light, music and community on Dec. 14. The parade will conclude with a high-energy public menorah lighting celebration, featuring a dramatic 75-foot chocolate Hanukkah gelt drop, music, treats and more.
The Little Bit Foundation and the Chris Long Foundation are teaming up to provide much needed personal care items to St. Louis community schools. The partnership will bring EdZone Lockers stocked with shampoo, soap, conditioner, lotion and more. The first two schools to receive the lockers are Central Middle School and Rose Mary Johnson Jennings Junior High School.
and nephews have kids ranging in age from 3 to 23. Every year, I am amazed at how much they have grown up. But right after Christmas, it is time to make my New Year’s resolutions. I write them in this column each year. Fortunately, no one ever asks me how I did. So here is to 2026! Feel free to copy mine if you run out of time to make your own.
First, I am bringing back an old favorite in making 2026 the year of yes! The past two years have been a bit of a struggle for me healthwise— I had my gall bladder out, and my OCD was in full gear. But with the right help and medications, I am almost my old self. Not sure if that is a good thing or bad thing. This resolution means I have to step out of my bubble and be
willing to head west on Highway 64. There are a whole lot of things past the Lindbergh exit that I should see and do. If you have any ideas for my year of yes, email me!
Second, I am going to stop walking like an 85-year-old. Nothing against any readers that age, but at 65, I should not shuffle when I walk. My doctor sent me to a physical therapist to fix me, but now, I am on my own. I hope to spend lots of time this winter, when we are in Florida, working on walking like a 50-year-old.
Third, I am going to reach out to friends that I have somehow let slip past me over the past two years.
I think friends keep you sane, and the good ones tell you when you are
insane. So, I anticipate a spring full of coffees and lunches.
Fourth, I am going to be nicer to myself. I am my own worst critic! I over analyze everything, including this column. When the deadline approaches, I always wonder if I am funny enough or too snarky. There is a fine balance, and even after 11 years of writing this column, I still sweat a little when I turn it in.
So, there is my list. The thing about resolutions is they are about hope. So even if I fail, I will be better for trying at least. And since I never report back on my resolutions in this column, no one can judge me. Oh, and I promise not to judge you if you only last a month with your new fitness routine. Happy holidays, my Peeps! &
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THE GATESWORTH by stephanie wallace
NO MATTER YOUR AGE, there is something magical about the holidays. The wonder of the winter season is on full display at The Gatesworth. The senior living community aims to provide residents with services and amenities to ensure they remain active, happy and comfortable, and that includes month-long celebrations in December. “The Gatesworth is a special place anytime of the year, but even more so during the winter holidays,” event and entertainment director Janine Lawler says. “The sense of community that our residents feel is so evident during this festive time, when we are preparing and celebrating together.”
Highlights of the holiday season at The Gatesworth include its Hanukkah celebration, which features a special program and dinner. The event is always held on the second night of the holiday, so residents can spend the first with their families. For Christmas, the community holds a special Catholic Mass on Christmas morning and a Breakfast with Santa event earlier in the month. Residents also are encouraged to participate in a tree trimming party to help put the finishing touches on the holiday decorations. “We just started the tree trimming event a few years ago, and it’s really fun to see everyone get involved,” Lawler says.
At The Gatesworth, residents can look forward to a mix of classic events with new offerings. Along with traditional concerts and dinners, they can enjoy a performance by the Dancing Santas, hit the town for a holiday lights tour or participate in a Hanukkah-themed skit. “It always brings me joy to offer something new to someone who has seven or more decades of experience behind them,” Lawler notes. The winter celebrations will culminate with the New Year’s Eve party, where guests are encouraged to put on their finest and dance the night away to the music of Fanfare, before counting down to 2026 with a champagne toast.
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The Gatesworth is home to people of diverse backgrounds and faiths. While it is a challenge to accommodate so many different needs, Lawler notes that the staff works hard to ensure every individual has the opportunity to celebrate. Residents also are encouraged to share their own traditions. “Our residents aren’t bashful,” she says. “If there’s a tradition or culture that I’m not familiar with, they’re always happy to fill me in. I am so honored that they not only help me, but also invite others to take part in so many of their traditions and celebrations.”
For Lawler and the rest of The Gatesworth, the winter holidays are all about celebrating community. This time of year brings residents and staff closer together as they share in holiday traditions, new and old. “It’s extra fun with all of the family and friends coming in to visit,” Lawler adds. “I love when I get to meet the grandkids that I’m always hearing about or the son or daughter who lives in another country. The holidays are just such a special time at The Gatesworth. There’s so much to do and a magical energy in the air.” &
LOCATED AT ONE MCKNIGHT PLACE, THE GATESWORTH OFFERS RESIDENTS A WIDE VARIETY OF WAYS TO CELEBRATE YEAR-ROUND, ESPECIALLY DURING THE WINTER HOLIDAYS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.907.0678 OR VISIT THEGATESWORTH.COM.
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It’s such a welcoming place, and I’ve been able to meet so many wonderful people. For anyone who is hesitant about moving, don’t be. When my grandson stopped by, he thought it was great. Coming from a 20-something, that speaks volumes. —
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Senior Moments of Joy
How Will You Redefine Your Senior Moments?
At Friendship Village, we’ve spent 50 years redefining “senior moments” into moments of community, and joy. For our residents, this means finding joy in the big and small things - from a friendly bocce tournament to an incredible symphony concert at Powell Hall.
To celebrate our 50th, we’re enjoying some extra special senior moments with our community members! From skydiving adventures to high-speed laps around the racetrack, an epic RV adventure to a thrilling day out at the ballpark, we’ve fully embraced what senior moments really are all about.
With resort-style amenities right outside your door, you can live your ideal lifestyle and discover joyous moments of your own! Come discover the senior moments waiting for you here at Friendship Village. Schedule a tour today!
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By Stephanie Wallace
The holiday season is here and it’s a time for coming together as a community to celebrate. It’s also a great opportunity to reflect on the new year before it arrives. As 2025 winds down, T&S reached out to local senior living communities to find out what they’re looking forward to in 2026.
Creek Valley Retirement Community
Rob and Christine Ammeter | RESIDENT MANAGER TEAM
In 2026, we’re excited to continue growing our community, enhancing our signature lifestyle programs and creating even more opportunities for connection, wellness and joy. We look forward to welcoming new residents and delivering the trusted, all-inclusive retirement experience our community is known for.
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Mason Pointe
EverTrue Mason Pointe Assisted Living Game Area
The Gatesworth
Carrie Montrey | EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
As a community, we’re looking forward to strengthening connections, expanding engaging programs and enhancing the exceptional living experience our residents expect. In 2026, we’re excited to grow together, embrace fresh opportunities, and continue making The Gatesworth a place where residents feel inspired, supported and truly at home. thegatesworth.com
Clarendale Clayton
Mark Golliday | EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
As we look toward 2026, our focus is on deepening the foundation of relationships and togetherness that defines Clarendale Clayton. We continue to prioritize a home where every resident feels valued, while expanding the programs, services and meaningful experiences that enrich everyday life in our community. clarendaleclayton.com
Friendship Village
Carmen Fronczak | CHIEF REVENUE OFFICER; PRESIDENT, FV VENTURES
Friendship Village is thrilled to launch its latest advance for seniors in 2026 — Senior Concierge and its Stay app! Seniors still in their homes are just a click or call away from getting Friendship Village’s 50 years of trusted, next-level service. Let our select team of vendors help with home repairs, yard work and more while you enjoy your hard-earned retirement!
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FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE SENIOR SERVICES
At Friendship Village, we've spent 50 years redefining "senior moments.” To celebrate our 50th, we’re enjoying extra special senior moments from skydiving adventures and high-speed racetrack laps to an RV adventure and a VIP night at the Fabulous Fox. Discover the senior moments waiting for you.
15201 Olive Blvd. | 636.898.8500 12563 Village Circle Drive | 314.270.7700 friendshipvillagestl.com
ACCESSIBLE HOME HEALTH CARE OF ST. LOUIS
Accessible offers personalized services to seniors in the comfort of their homes. Our experienced compassionate caregivers provide companionship, transportation, meal preparation, medicine reminders, bathing, toileting, transfers and light housekeeping.
PICTURED: OWNERS ANDY SCHENCK AND LYNN SCHENCK
443 N. New Ballas Road, Ste. 231 314.738.9979
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ADVANCED NURSING SERVICES OF ST. LOUIS
For more than 40 years, Advanced Nursing Services has provided one-on-one private duty nursing. We have aides and nurses with the highest level of professionalism and offer truly full-service continuity of care.
PICTURED: OWNER MAGGIE HOLTMAN
230 S. Bemiston Ave., Ste. 810 314.863.3030 advancednursingservices.org
CREEK VALLEY RETIREMENT COMMUNITY
Creek Valley Retirement Community is an all-inclusive, independent retirement experience for seniors 55-plus. With a national reputation for excellence, we're redefining independent living. We provide everything you need to live life to the fullest. Call today to schedule a private tour. 15950 Manchester Road 636.552.4673 creekvalleyretirement.com
In a world of infinite possibility, there’s no better place than Aberdeen Heights to dive into retirement. Discover excitement and purpose here with Signature Living , a multidimensional lifestyle program unique to our not-for-profit Life Plan Community. Enjoy immersive events, invigorating activities and a maintenance-free lifestyle. Ready to dip your toes in? Contact us today to discover just how good life here can be.
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EVERTRUE MASON POINTE
EverTrue Mason Pointe is a Life Plan Community with independent living, assisted living, memory support and long-term care, creating environments to fulfill its mission to help older adults live life to the fullest.
13190 S. Outer Forty Road
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Discover a home designed just for you—our exclusive 55-plus gated community offers contemporary villas with inside and outside maintenance included. Each residence is thoughtfully crafted for accessibility, comfort and effortless living. 12882 Manchester Road 314.686.4440 familypartnersvillas.com
THE GATESWORTH
The Gatesworth’s award-winning executive chef, Brian Hardy, and his team deliver exceptional dining for the holidays and everyday, offering residents and guests elevated cuisine and consistently warm, attentive service that enhances every meal. One McKnight Place thegatesworth.com
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There’s something magical about sharing the season and celebrating friends old and new. From festive dinners and cozy gatherings to thoughtful amenities that make every day effortless, it’s all here, beautifully wrapped into one easy monthly price. Embrace the warmth of community living where the spirit of togetherness shines all year long. The most meaningful gifts of the season aren’t under the tree – they live down the hall.
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by stephanie wallace
FROM THE COSTUMES AND LIGHTS TO THE MUSIC and thrill of competition, there’s a glitz and glamour unlike no other when it comes to a dance competition. Every year, Independence Center uses that excitement to make a big impact with Dancing with the St. Louis Stars. A fundraiser like no other, it features community leaders and professional dancers, hitting the dance floor in a choreographed competition—all for a worthy cause. The event benefits Independence Center’s mission to support adults with severe and persistent mental illness. Founded in 1980, the nonprofit provides a spectrum of services to help members develop the necessary skills to succeed in society and lead productive lives. This year’s Dancing with the St. Louis Stars is Jan. 24 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis. Independence Center executive director Patricia Holmes notes that guests can expect an evening of inspiration and entertainment, including dazzling performances and commentary from the judging panel as well as emcee Damon Arnold. “It’s amazing to see how St. Louis leaders turn into incredible performers every year,” she says. “The competition also will include one of our members, who will share the story of their struggle and perseverance. We’re excited to have them represent us.”
Independence Center operates under the Clubhouse model, a form of psychosocial rehabilitation that focuses on strengthening an individual’s abilities rather than treating them as a patient with an illness. It’s structured to mirror the expectations of a workplace, and members are responsible for helping operate it and perform a variety of tasks. “Those diagnosed with a serious mental illness are often told what they can’t do—it can be a discouraging moment,” Holmes notes. “The Clubhouse model encourages individuals to bring their skills and strengths to a community who understands what they are experiencing.” One of 370 Clubhouses globally, Independence Center is the second largest in the world and the only one in the St. Louis region.
Independence Center provides its members a variety of services. The nonprofit offers support for health care, education, employment, housing, finances and more. It is at the forefront of programming for mental illness, including being one of only three agencies in the state of Missouri with a Coordinated Specialty Care for First Episode Psychosis team. The initiative offers team-based, recovery-focused treatment for young adults. Holmes adds that Independence Center also is working on expanding its affordable housing options for members. “One cannot be expected to find and keep a job or continue their studies when they have no place to lay their head at night,” she says. “Everyone deserves to live in a safe, clean home.”
For Independence Center, the support of St. Louisans is more important than ever. As a community mental health center, the nonprofit relies on Medicaid and government funding for around 87% of its operating budget, and in 2025, it was impacted by cuts at both the state and federal levels. “We could not accomplish what we do without the support of donors,” Holmes says. “Mental illness has no bias. It affects all facets of society. We offer hope to those who feel they have nowhere to turn. With Independence Center, they find belonging.” &
INDEPENDENCE CENTER IS A COMMUNITY-BASED REHABILITATION PROGRAM FOR ADULTS WITH SEVERE AND PERSISTENT MENTAL ILLNESSES. ITS DANCING WITH THE ST. LOUIS STARS FUNDRAISER IS JAN. 24 AT THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS. PICTURED ON THE COVER, CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: BRAD LIEBMAN, ADAM MARLES, KATIE DREW, JEFF WADE, ANTHONY GALLOWAY, STEPHANIE OLIVER. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.533.4245 OR VISIT INDEPENDENCECENTER.ORG.
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ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS
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To invest in student success and support families in crisis Items needed: Children’s books (grades K-five), twin bed sheets, hygiene products
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To support families with children coping with cancer or other serious illnesses
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Gift cards (Amazon, Walmart or Target are most helpful.)
Drop location:
3558 S. Jefferson Ave., Mon.-Fri., 8 a.m.-4 p.m.
Contact:
314.268.1515, jmadi@basketofhope.org, basketofhope.org
CIRCLE OF CONCERN FOOD PANTRY
Mission:
To feed the hungry and provide assistance to low-income families living in our community
Items needed:
Peanut butter, canned proteins, personal care items
Drop location:
112 St. Louis Ave., Mon.-Sat., 9 a.m.-1 p.m. (Visit circleofconcern.org for full donation hours.) Contact: 636.861.2623, circle@circleofconcern.org
DELMAR MAKER DISTRICT
Mission:
To provide a place where makers, artists and entrepreneurs from all backgrounds come together to think with their hands, bridge divides and inspire the next generation
Items needed:
Support for our local artists and businesses, volunteers to paint street planters, non-perishable food items for a food drive with Operation Food Search
Drop location:
Any business in the Delmar Maker District through Dec. 19
Contact: delmarmakerdistrict.org, info@delmarmakerdistrict.org, @delmarmakerdistrict
HUMANE SOCIETY OF MISSOURI
Mission:
Giving animals in need the second chance they deserve since 1870 Items needed:
Newspaper, towels, blankets
Drop location: 1201 Macklind Ave., daily, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Contact: 314.951.1562, hsmo.org, info@hsmo.org,
INDEPENDENCE CENTER
Mission:
To provide care and resources to individuals managing serious and persistent mental illness in their journey to a healthy, quality life
Items needed: Backpacks, hygiene supplies, blankets Drop location: 4245 Forest Park Ave. (Donations can be given to our Clubhouse Shop. A dock is available for large deliveries.) Contact: 314.533.4245, independencecenter.org, info@independencecenter.org (For bulk donations requiring pickup, contact jgivens@independencecenter.org.)
NEEDY PAWS RESCUE
Mission:
To rescue dogs and puppies from local animal shelters, rural shelters and owner surrenders
Items needed:
Dog food, puppy pads, Martingale collars Drop location: Petsmart in Sunset Hills., Sat., 10 a.m.-1 p.m. (Pick-up can be arranged.) Contact: 314.452.8307, needypaws.org
PETER & PAUL COMMUNITY SERVICES
Mission:
To walk with people facing homelessness on their journey to lifelong stability
Items needed:
Thick socks (wool or thermal), hand warmers, thermal underwear (tops and bottoms, size large and up especially needed)
Drop location: 3225 N. Florissant Ave., Mon.-Fri., 9 a.m.-3 p.m.
Contact:
314.338.8189, rracy@ppcsinc.org, ppcsinc.org
SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL
Mission:
To reveal the healing presence of God through exceptional health care services
Items needed:
Toys, such as Lego, Play-Doh, teen craft kits, Barbie dolls, fidget toys and Hot Wheels
Drop location: 3800 Park Ave., Mon.-Thur., 8:30 a.m.-4 p.m.
Contact: 314.678.6622, glennon.org
WORLD PEDIATRICS
Mission:
To heal more children, in less time, by transforming access to advanced pediatric health care
Items needed:
Craft kits (ages 3-16), tickets to St. Louis attractions for field trips
Drop location: 1325 N. Warson Road
Contact: 314.317.8809, worldpediatrics.org
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TWO RIVERS STONE BOUTIQUE first anniversary by
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The library held a special dedication for the Wallace H. Smith Gallery of Art to celebrate with donors who made the new gallery possible. The evening included a preview of Casting a Long Shadow: Frederick Oakes
The boutique, which specializes in distinctive stone from around the world, celebrated its first anniversary. Guests had the opportunity to explore the showroom while enjoying food and drink.
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LISA POWELL, LIZ BEEKS, SUSIE PHILLIPS
COURTNEY SCOTT, SUSAN LYNCH, DARON HENDRIX
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more to under-resourced families so no child goes without a gift for Christmas or Hanukkah. Her efforts have led to the creation of Santa’s Helpers, an entirely volunteer-operated nonprofit. T&S spoke to Swiener to learn more about her dedication to ensuring every
What is the mission of Santa’s Helpers?
It’s a very simple mission: no child is without a gift during the holiday season.
Where did the idea for the organization come from?
When I was at UMSL in the 1960s, I was president of the Evening College student council. A professor came up and asked the council to sponsor an under-resourced family for the holidays. A single mother with four kids had fallen through the cracks. I immediately said yes. The council didn’t want to do it, but agreed to that year. However, they declined the next year. I decided to continue supporting the family on my own.
How have you seen Santa’s Helpers grow?
For three years, I helped one family. Then, it just kept growing and growing. Today, we serve thousands of St. Louisans every year. Until the late 1980s, the organization operated out of my home. Now, we have a wonderful landlord, CK Supply. They go out of their way to ensure we have all the space and resources we need. Santa’s Helpers also has wonderful community partners that help us provide toys, including NorthPoint Development and Planter’s House restaurant. As word gets out, more and more people get involved.
How are families chosen to receive gifts?
Families are referred to us by social workers and nonprofit organizations. We used to have to go out and get names ourselves, but now they are sent to us. I think every social worker in St. Louis and parts of Illinois knows about Santa’s Helpers.
What types of toys and items are donated?
Every child gets toys based on their age and gender. For example, a 6-year-old girl may receive a Barbie and an activity kit as well as clothes and winter accessories, depending on what she asked for. Santa’s Helpers only provides brand-name toys. We don’t use dollar store items because we want the kids to be able to play with these toys for a long time. Each child also receives a stocking and books.
What are the greatest needs for the toy drive?
There’s not a toy we can’t use. We go through thousands of Barbies and Legos every year—we never have enough. A lot of toys are made for 3-year-olds and up, so we’re always desperate for things for 2-year-olds. Teenage boys can be hard to find gifts for, so that is another age group we have a greater need for. &
PHOTOS COURTESY OF SANTA’S HELPERS
SANTA’S HELPERS BOARD OF DIRECTORS
Season tis the
TO BE THANKFUL
This season reminds us how grateful we are for the wonderful people we are privileged to serve. Thank you for placing your trust in Megan Rowe & Co. and may your holidays and the upcoming year be full of love, laughter, and cherished moments.
MMEGAN ROWE & CO. AT COMPASS REALTY GROUP
unique opportunities,” Rowe says. “St. Louis has such a small town feeling—it’s about who and what you know. I have a large network of friends, family and colleagues, which offers even more insight. I’m able to share my extensive knowledge of the local market to help every client succeed, whatever their goal.”
A strong network of connections is extremely important in today’s market. Buyers are facing immense competition thanks to a lack of inventory, and properties are selling before they even make it to market. Rowe is able to keep a close watch on what homes will be available thanks to decades of building relationships. She also has the skills and understanding necessary to match buyers with properties. “It’s a domino effect,” she notes. “If you can perfectly line everything up, you’ll be successful. That means knowing about my clients, their lives and their needs. That way I can connect them with the perfect home.”
For most people, purchasing or selling a home is one of the biggest decisions of their life, and Rowe does not take that fact for granted. Working with her, no buyer or seller has to navigate the real estate market alone. She leverages her experience and connections to ensure a successful transaction from start to finish. “My job is about helping others, and I absolutely love what I do,” she notes. “Are there challenges and stresses? Absolutely. But I get to know people in a very personal way. Being a real estate agent weaves you into some of the biggest moments of people’s lives. I’m honored to have the opportunity.”
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HEALTH IS IMPORTANT, but many of us don’t make monitoring it a priority. Wellness often takes a backseat to the demands and stressors of work, especially for those in leadership positions. Exams are missed, screenings are skipped and appointments go unmade until something is noticeably wrong. PALM Health is designed to help busy individuals and professionals optimize their performance and resilience. For 10 years, the concierge functional medicine and longevity company has been dedicated to delivering personalized medical and lifestyle support for St. Louisans to feel their best in mind and body.
“For a long time, being a high performer meant neglecting your health, but we’re seeing a change,” explains. Dr. Lauren Dal Farra, PALM Health founder, CEO and cardiologist. “More and more community and business leaders are recognizing that their health is their greatest asset and are investing in it. Care no longer means just an annual visit to a wellness spa or an out-of-state executive exam. Instead, the focus has shifted to functional, sustainable approaches.” PALM Health offers personalized, ongoing support through access to a concierge doctor and comprehensive assessments. This includes advanced diagnostics like a biomarker lab panel to evaluate cardiac, cognitive, immune, hormonal, nutritional and metabolic functioning.
At PALM Health, care is centered around addressing the root cause of illness and optimizing mental and physical performance for an individual as they age. Dal Farra notes that, for many people, the concept of longevity is only related to living longer, but the focus also should be on living better. “It’s not just about adding years to your life, but adding life to your years,” she explains. “Our goal is to improve people’s health span, so they have more years of good health. We want to help people age gracefully and maintain physical, mental and emotional well-being.”
Along with concierge medicine, PALM Health provides a curated selection of vitality and recovery services. It offers fitness, nutrition, chiropractic care, counseling and spa services, and members have access to a wide range of programs and amenities, including its healthy cafe. “We create personalized plans that blend medical, nutritional, recovery, lifestyle and regenerative strategies to optimize health and prevent illness,” Dal Farra notes. “Members not only tell us that they feel younger, but they are able to think more clearly and perform better while rediscovering a renewed sense of energy and vitality.”
Dal Farra is also excited to see a shift in local corporate approaches to health and wellness. She notes that St. Louis executives are dedicated to investing in not only their own health but also that of their employees—from providing health seminars to offering lifestyle savings accounts to cover wellness, work-life balance and personal development expenses outside traditional benefits. “Edward Jones, Purina, Emerson and others are pushing wellness forward as a culture for their entire companies,” she says. “Better health drives better leaders, and PALM is looking forward to continuing to be a proactive partner in health for all of St. Louis.” &
ALWAYS WELCOMING LUXURY CONSIGNMENTS
We are now inviting jewelry, watch, luxury handbags, and couture consignments for our winter auction season.
Anna Shaver | 314.833.0833 stlouis@freemansauction.com FREEMANSAUCTION.COM
PALM HEALTH WORKS WITH EXECUTIVES TO OPTIMIZE THEIR PERFORMANCE AND RESILIENCE.
fromBEAUTY A-to -Z
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
The beauty world can be a little daunting to explore—from TikTok to high fashion runways, there are so many trends to follow that seem to be constantly changing. One day neon eyeshadow is all the rage, and the next more natural looks are everywhere. And it all comes with its own ever-evolving lingo. Here’s a look at what everyone was buzzing about in 2025.
DIP DYE:
This two-tone hair coloring technique leaves the hair dark at the roots while the ends are lighter or brightly colored. Unlike with balayage or other ombres, there is no blend between the colors.
frothing:
DUPE:
Short for “duplicate,” this term refers to an affordable alternative to a luxury beauty product.
No, this has nothing to do with a visit to Starbucks—but it does use some of the same equipment. This viral hack uses a frother to change the consistency of beauty products.
sticky method: This application technique is used to ensure that makeup covers acne and dark spots. The process involves using grippy primer products and not blending concealer before applying foundation. This ensures that product stays put over the blemish and gives you more pigmented coverage.
bixie
: A combination of a bob and pixie haircut
LOOKSMAXXING:
Push your physical appearance to the next level. This trend involves taking steps to maximize attractiveness, such as clearing up acne, going to the gym, getting a new haircut or implementing a skin care routine.
TWILIGHTING:
Don’t think about teen vampires from the 2000s. This hair color trend uses balayage and babylights to create a multidimensional brunette color with warm, gold undertones
morning shed:
The removal of skin, hair and self-care products that were put on before going to sleep— creators showing off their morning shed routines grew in popularity thanks to TikTok.
SOAP NAILS:
THIS SQUEAKY CLEAN MAKEUP TREND IS A MINIMALIST APPROACH TO NAIL ART. IT INVOLVES PAINTING YOUR NAILS A SIMPLE MILKY WHITE, BEIGE OR LIGHT PINK THAT IS EXTREMELY GLOSSY AND BUFFED. THE RESULT: A SEMI-SHEER, LUXURIOUS MANICURE.
ate:
An expression of admiration for a display of great skill or confidence. Perfected a complicated eye shadow look? You ate that. If it’s exceptionally fabulous, make sure to add that the person “left no crumbs.”
Glow Up:
A significant and noticeable improvement in one’s appearance
Clean Girl:
Clean up with this minimalist beauty and fashion aesthetic. It is characterized by “no-makeup” makeup looks, slicked back hair, dewy skin and neutral clothing. The trend also is associated with natural products and self-care.
FOR THE ZEN ➊
1. Awaken Face & Body Wellness - Laser Treatments
We offer broadband light laser treatments that improve skin laxity, aging and wrinkles as well as hyperpigmentation and redness. This leaves your skin soft and younger looking. We also offer the Halo laser, which is the gold standard for skin renewal!
GIFT CARDS: IN-OFFICE OR BY PHONE AT 314.209.9993
2. Aquarius Wellness - Hot Stone Massage
Our spotlight treatment this season is the Hot Stone Massage, ideal for easing winter tension and bringing deep, comforting warmth to the body.
GIFT CARDS: ONLINE AT AQUARIUSWELLNESS.COM
3. MarElyse MediSpa- Broadband Light Photofacials
We love Forever Young BBL photofacials this time of year! This revolutionary treatment uses broadband light energy to improve skin tone, reduce pigmentation and boost collagen for a more youthful, radiant appearance, year after year. It’s the perfect gift for yourself or that special someone who loves self care.
GIFT CARDS: ONLINE AT MARELYSE.COM OR BY PHONE AT 314.571.6062
4. PWRx Health - Ballancer Pro Lymphatic Drainage
A celebrity-loved, medical-grade lymphatic drainage treatment designed to sculpt, depuff and accelerate recovery. This gentle yet powerful technology boosts circulation and leaves clients feeling lighter, refreshed and revitalized.
GIFT CARDS: IN-STUDIO OR ONLINE THROUGH THE PWRX HEALTH APP
5. PALM Health - Spa Retreats
Take a break to rejuvenate during the holidays with a revitalizing spa retreat at PALM Health. Luxuriate in our Grand Retreat, including a 90-minute personalized massage, 90-minute signature 3D Facial, with special eye and foot treatments. Or, pop in for the Petite Retreat, a two-and-a-half-hour escape, featuring a targeted massage and facial—the perfect express refresh for your mind and body.
GIFT CARDS: ONLINE AT PALMHEALTH.COM OR CALL 314.801.8898 TO SCHEDULE
THE HOLIDAY GUIDE
SPECIAL SECTION
THERE IS CUSTOM JEWELRY, AND THEN THERE IS OUR CUSTOM JEWELRY
HOLIDAY SHINE
THE DIAMOND BAR by stephanie wallace
THE HOLIDAYS ARE A TIME when the world truly shines—and that sparkle shouldn’t be limited to decking the halls. It’s a wonderful opportunity to give something magical to the special people in your life. Whether it’s the perfect gift or a custom engagement or wedding ring, The Diamond Bar in Town and Country has jewelry for every occasion. Owned by designer Christopher Phillips, the store offers a shopping experience unlike any other.
The Diamond Bar lives up to its name by including a fully-stocked bar that is complimentary for guests. It is part of Phillips’ unique approach to customer service. One of his major goals is to create a less stressful jewelry buying experience, and that effort has paid off. The Diamond Bar was named one of America’s Coolest Stores by Instore Magazine. “We’re bridging the gap between comfort and a bespoke experience, and our attention to detail has paid off with national recognition,” Phillips says. “The Diamond Bar is not a normal store. We’ve redefined the shopping experience for our clients.”
One way The Diamond Bar sets itself apart is through its custom jewelry design. With decades of combined experience, Phillips and his fellow designer Jess Troeckler are dedicated to creating one-of-a-kind pieces for clients. The pair have created thousands of designs, each unlike what can be found in the average jewelry display case. Phillips enjoys bringing people’s visions to life, so they walk away happy with something completely original and unique to them. “Our passion is custom design,” he says. “Jewelry is often purchased to commemorate special milestones and occasions. Your story is unique, so you deserve unique pieces to reflect how special these life events are—not just something anyone can buy.”
When designing a custom item at The Diamond Bar, people can bring in their own gemstones or choose from the store’s selection of diamonds and other stones. Phillips and Troeckler only work with natural stones—nothing synthetic or lab-grown. They meet
with clients one-on-one to discuss ideas for the design and create sketches. Those sketches are then used to create a 3D model to ensure the customer loves how it looks from every angle. “It really helps people feel more comfortable and confident in the design,” Phillips says. “We want to create something truly personal that exceeds expectations.” From start to finish, the process for creating a custom piece usually takes two to six weeks.
For holiday shoppers who don’t have time to design their own jewelry, The Diamond Bar has a selection of more than 500 bespoke pieces in store. Phillips works to ensure that the showroom is stocked with unique items—you won’t find anything that is mass produced or lacks quality. “When you purchase a piece at The Diamond Bar, it will elevate your collection,” he notes. “Jewelry is very sentimental and personal—it is often passed down from generation to generation in families. Our customers not only love what they buy, but also feel like it is something they can keep forever.” &
LOCATED IN TOWN AND COUNTRY AT 13360 CLAYTON ROAD, THE DIAMOND BAR OFFERS A ONE-OF-A KIND SHOPPING EXPERIENCE, INCLUDING CUSTOM JEWELRY DESIGN. PICTURED ON THE COVER:
DESIGNER JESS TROECKLER AND OWNER CHRIS PHILLIPS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.548.5100 OR VISIT THEDIAMONDBARSTL.COM.
COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER | COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE DIAMOND BAR
THE DIAMOND BAR OFFERS A CURATED SELECTION OF ONE-OF-A-KIND PIECES.
&more! HOOKED BOOKS
by patty hannum
Ink Blood Sister Scribe by Emma
Torz
This story follows a magical family that separates to protect each other. Two sisters are charged with maintaining a library that has power beyond comprehension, and another family will not stop until they take it from them. It is both a thriller and a fantasy that will entertain you from the beginning.
The Cemetery of Untold Stories by Julia Alvarez
A prominent writer goes back to her roots in the Dominican Republic. She carries with her a large collection of stories that have not been told. She builds a literal cemetery for them in her front yard. We learn so much about the past and how it creates the present.
Wreck by Catherine Newman
This funny story follows a mother and her family. She is a hypochondriac, but this time, it might not be in her head. Two generations of the family live together in one house. The grandfather has the very best comebacks and observations.
A very quick read.
And Only to Deceive by Tasha Alexander
I must admit that the first third of this historical fiction was rather slow, but once you get through those pages, it turns into a suspenseful thriller. A young married woman finds herself a widow just months after her wedding. Her husband was tragically killed while on safari in Africa. But did he really die?
Read to find out.
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At Awaken Face and Body Wellness, we believe in endless possibilities for your health and vitality. We offer full medical spa services including the newest Sciton BBL Heroic and Halo laser treatment. Awaken is physician-led by Dr. Erica Yalavarthi offering concierge primary care and longevity medicine in addition to weight loss and hormone optimization. Our expert team is here to customize a personal plan to guide you on your journey to a beautiful, healthy and vibrant life.
1 | EYEWEARHAUS
This Holiday Season Give the gift of clear vision! An Eyewearhaus gift certificate is perfect for eye exams, stylish eyewear and prescription contact lenses—something everyone can truly use and love.
745 N. NEW BALLAS ROAD | 314.567.7423 EYEWEARHAUS.COM
2 | FINE PORTRAITURE IN CHARCOAL BY ELIZABETH MAYER
Keepsakes are beautifully rendered in classic black and white, conveniently drawn from photographs taken in the studio or provided by clients. Gift certificates available.
314.962.4953
PORTRAITSBYELIZABETHMAYER.COM
3 | K. HALL STUDIO
Our new Chrome Holiday Spice Hobnail Glass Candles make the season bright, scented with cranberry, spiced orange peel and a woodsy depth for a fragrance grounded in seasonal traditions.
8416 MANCHESTER ROAD | 9831 CLAYTON ROAD 314.961.1990 | KHALLSTUDIO.COM
4 | PALM HEALTH
Gift some wellness, get some wellness!
Purchase a $100 PALM Health gift card and receive a $10 bonus. All gift cards over $250 come with a free Spa Pass ($50 value).
9160 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.801.8898 PALMHEALTH.COM
5 | MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM
Visit Sold on St. Louis at the Missouri History Museum for locally-made and STL-themed gifts, featuring t-shirts, prints, home decor, favorite foods and more. Open Tuesday through Sunday.
5700 LINDELL BLVD. | 314.454.3172
MOHISTORY.ORG/SHOP
6 | AQUARIUS WELLNESS
Give the most wanted gift of all—relaxation. Aquarius Wellness Center for Healing Arts offers massages, facials and spa experiences that restore balance, renewal and peace—the perfect gift of wellness.
7750 CLAYTON ROAD, STE. 103 | 314.645.7643 AQUARIUSWELLNESS.COM
7 | THE DIAMOND BAR
With shimmering diamonds suspended in an elegant gold twist, these earrings feel both unique and classic—an unforgettable Diamond Bar gift for someone who deserves something truly special.
13360 CLAYTON ROAD, STE. 103 | 314.548.5100
THEDIAMONDBARSTL.COM
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| SALLIE HOME
Smithey skillets make an exceptional gift, blending heirloom-quality craftsmanship with timeless style. Perfect for the culinary enthusiast, they offer a beautiful, versatile piece that will be cherished for years to come. Pictured are our two most popular options.
9821 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.567.7883 SALLIEHOME.COM
9 | AWAKEN FACE AND BODY WELLNESS
A radiant gift: customized facials, professional skin care, glowing skin and health at Awaken Face and Body Wellness.
844 N. NEW BALLAS COURT 314.209.9993
AWAKENFACEBODYWELLNESS.COM
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| PWR X HEALTH
Luxury wellness made effortless—elite recovery services and restorative therapies crafted to elevate how you feel, move and live.
1336 STRASSNER DRIVE
314.940.7576
PWRXHEALTH.COM
11 | CAT’S MEOW PERSONALIZED GIFTS
Give a cozy gift they can wear all year. Our exclusive STL pajamas are available in women’s and girls’ sizes in blue or pink.
11773 MANCHESTER ROAD
314.909.1415
CATSMEOWPERSONALIZED.COM
candles and scent diffusers to beautifully packaged soaps, bath salts and more, find the perfect gifts and stocking stuffers for everyone at K. Hall Designs this holiday season.
1. 14K Yellow Gold Double Triangle Floating Diamond Earrings, $1,650 from The Diamond Bar
2. Dansko Women’s Dawn Boot in Black, $250 from Laurie’s Shoes
3. Wax London Nolan Wool Blend Overshirt in Check Natural/Multi, $265 from Jaxen Grey
4. Series Six St. Louis Knit Beanie Hat, $28 from Procure Saint Louis
5. Tie-Dye AdultSweatshirt, $45 from Saint Louis Zoo
6. Common Ground J4F Sunglasses, price available upon request at Eyewearhaus
7. enewton Signature Cross Gold Pattern 3mm Bead Bracelet in Navy, $30 from Cat’s Meow Personalized Gift Boutique
8. Classic Museum Nerd T-Shirt, $29.95 from Sold on St. Louis at the Missouri History Museum
9. Barbour Dramside Reversible Scarf, $80 from Jaxen Grey
10. Josslyn Handmade Chunky Beaded Charm Necklace, $26.50 from Leopard Boutique
MakingSpirits Bright
By StephanieWallace
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The holidays are a season of making merry. And what better way to raise your spirits than, well, spirits. We reached out to local cocktail experts for some recipes to bring some festive cheer to holiday gatherings.
Santa On The Beach
Caitlyn
Nguyen | CO-BAR MANAGER, HIDDEN GEM
Santa on the Beach is our modern, holiday-ready twist on the classic Sex on the Beach, blending Malibu, melon liqueur and pineapple juice, then topping it with Sprite for a bright, bubbly finish. Served with a festive Christmas umbrella, it’s pure tropical holiday cheer in a glass. Don’t miss Hidden Gem’s holiday pop-up, Santa’s Speakeasy, running through Dec. 27.
• 2 oz. Malibu
• 1 oz. melon liqueur
• 1 oz. pineapple juice
• Sprite
1. Layer Malibu, melon liqueur and pineapple juice to create a gradient effect.
2. Top with Sprite, and garnish with a cocktail umbrella and candy cane.
Resting Grinch Face
Nick Naes | LEAD BARTENDER, 4 HANDS + PEACEMAKER
Your heart will grow three sizes this holiday season thanks to this recipe. Inspired by the Grinch, this cozy cocktail gets some extra holiday spirit thanks to the addition of green apple cotton candy. You can find this cocktail and more at 4 Hands + Peacemaker’s holiday pop-up, Cocktails and Claws, through Jan. 1.
• 2 oz. 1220 Spirits
Encrypted Vodka
• ¹⁄₂ oz. triple sec
• ¹⁄₄ oz. simple syrup
• ¹⁄₄ oz. lime juice
• Apple cotton candy
1. Shake all liquid ingredients in a shaker with ice.
2. Strain into a martini glass, and top with apple cotton candy.
Sugar Plum Fairy Bob Biribin | OWNER/BARTENDER, THE WOLF CAFE & PIZZA
Dance into the holiday season with this delicate little gin number. Soft botanicals mingle with notes of ume plum, cane sugar and citrus to create a spirit-forward, yet dainty libation. This recipe is part of our Bling! Holiday pop-up menu, which will run through Dec. 31.
• 1¹⁄₂ oz. Empress Gin
• 1¹⁄₂ oz. plum wine
• ¹⁄₄ oz. lemon juice
• ¹⁄₄ oz. cane syrup
• ¹⁄₄ oz. sweet vermouth
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1. Stir with ice, strain into Nick and Nora glass.
2. Garnish with sugared jelly candy.
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When it comes to comedy, Greg Warren checks a lot of boxes. He has worked around the country on main stages, he has performed on national television, and his always sold-out local gigs have made him an StL favorite. Like most comedians, Warren infuses his work with his own story and experiences, which those who have taken in his show will learn about, laugh at and appreciate.
HOW HAVE YOU WOVEN YOUR ROOTS INTO YOUR COMEDY?
When you start doing stand-up, honestly, you just sort of suck for the first seven or eight years. You’re trying to figure out what to do. I learned that if everyone is going to make a joke about the same thing, mine is probably not going to be in the top 10%. I started looking for how to separate myself from the pack. I’ve had a lot of experiences other comedians haven’t. My dad was my wrestling coach in high school, I played clarinet in the band, and I went to West Point for my first year of college—what if I talked about that? Being biographical is what started working for me.
WHAT WERE SOME OF THE JOBS YOU HAD BEFORE YOU DECIDED YOU WERE GOING TO GIVE COMEDY A CHANCE?
I was a peanut butter man. I sold JIF Peanut Butter.
SETTLE THE DEBATE: CREAMY OR CRUNCHY?
Going on the data, it’s four to one creamy versus crunchy. These are 1999 numbers—I don’t get the reports anymore—but I bet it’s the same today.
WHO WERE SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHO INSPIRED YOU?
I never watched much stand-up growing up. I saw Bob Hope at The Muny one time. In high school, I was going to a big national tournament in Iowa, and my friend had an Eddie Murphy cassette tape and a Walkman. I listened to that thing, and just the way he did characters, I couldn’t believe it. If you knew me at that period in my life, you were annoyed with how many times I went around doing Eddie Murphy routines. Then my uncle gave me The Button-Down Mind of Bob Newhart . That has been a big influence on my style.
WHAT ABOUT YOUR CONTEMPORARIES?
Kathleen Madigan is a great comic from St. Louis who was really good to me early in my career and helped me out a lot. She’s fantastic—it’s nice to see someone from St. Louis killing it. Mitch Hedberg is one of my favorite comics. That guy was doing stuff that nobody else was. Nate Bargatze has done so much for my career in recent years, so this will sound like I’m sucking up, but there’s nobody better right now. I’ve opened for him in arenas in front of 20,000 people. It’s hard to be around a guy like that and not be inspired or influenced just a little bit.
OTHER THAN ST. LOUIS, WHAT ARE THE BEST PLACES IN THE COUNTRY TO WORK?
It depends on the comedy club. Bloomington, Indiana, has one of the best. I’ve worked in Columbus, Ohio, for years. Two months ago, I opened for Nate in Kansas City. I had the home field advantage, and I performed the set of my life. Now, I’ve sold out 13 shows later this month in K.C.
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3. Citronella + Juniper Large Outdoor Candle, $95 from K. Hall Studio
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A LOOK BACK AT 2025
by stephanie wallace
WITH 2025 DRAWING TO A CLOSE, T&S IS TAKING THE OPPORTUNITY TO LOOK BACK ON HOW THE REAL ESTATE MARKET FARED THIS YEAR. We compared 2024 and 2025 sales statistics of single-family homes and condos in 17 ZIP codes. After crunching the numbers, we found that St. Louis real estate is a nearly $3.1 billion business, and on average, sellers received almost 101% of their asking price. Below, take a closer look at how our communities grew over the last year. compiled from maris
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Overall, area sellers received, on average, of their list price.
Buyers in these areas spent almost $3.1 billion on real estate in 2025!
Which community costs the most per SqFt? 63124 >>
Where did sellers get the most for their listings compared to the asking price? 63119 >>
Overall Average Price per SqFt >>
63122
had the highest number of single-family homes sold.
The average number of days on market for homes and condos was 28
The three ZIP codes with the highest average sale prices were: >> 63124 >> 63131 >> 63105
MOST EXPENSIVE & LARGEST >>
SOLD FOR: $7,750,000 16 Bridle Lane, Frontenac, 63131
AGENT: Patricia Shannon
Keller Williams Realty St. Louis
SQFT ABOVE: 13,200
PR/SQFT: $587.12
ACRE: 2.86
BEDS: 7 • BTHS: 11
AGE: 5 years
SECOND LARGEST >>
SQFT ABOVE: 12,988 ACRE: 1.05
SOLD FOR: $2,900,000 33 Portland Place, Central West End, 63108
AGENT: Ted Wight
Dielmann Sotheby's International Realty
BEDS: 9 • BTHS: 8
PR/SQFT: $223.28
AGE: 114 years
OLDEST >>
AGE: 167 years
751 N. Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, 63122
SOLD FOR: $635,000
AGENT: John Jackson
John Jackson Neighborhood Real Estate Company
SQFT ABOVE: 2,008
PR/SQFT: $316.24
ACRE: 0.41
BEDS: 3 • BTHS: 2
“Aimee Simpson is a very knowledgeable and experienced agent who guides her clients with care and expertise to ensure the stress of the sale is limited and the process is easily understood and results achieved - she goes above and beyond! Thank you Aimee!”
4 Midpark Lane | LADUE
4 Beds | 3 Full and 1 Half Baths
Tommy Espenschied Espenschied Hermann Group 314.698.3306 | TESPY@ReeceNichols.com TESPY.ReeceNichols.com
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324 Golden Point Drive | PARKWAY SCHOOLS
$365,000 | 2 Beds | 3 Full Bath Joelle Hibbard and Kathy Karasick J. 314.724.2984 | K. 314.691.0683
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3347 Wilderness Trail | WILDWOOD
$547,000 | 4 Beds | 2 Full and 1 Half Baths Diane Patershuk Patershuk Partners 314.477.7673 | DPatershuk@ReeceNichols.com PatershukPartners.com
16446 Dapple Gray Court | CHESTERFIELD
Beds | 3 Full and 2 Half Baths Berkley Land 314.401.0999 | Berkley@ReeceNichols.com Berkley.ReeceNichols.com
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CURVES & ARCHES
by lauren rechan
I’D USUALLY SAY I’m drawn more to straight, angular lines than anything curvy—but while diving into this new interior trend, I have to admit, I was completely won over. It’s remarkable how introducing curved elements—arches, circles, ovals—can gently transform a space, adding warmth and softening the entire look and feel. See for yourself, and consider bringing a few curves into your décor.
curves in a shower The rain shower head is absolutely perfect dead center.
A round window, popping up somewhere unique in a home’s design, is one of my architectural “jewels.”
This arched panel laid over a landscape wall mural makes a cozy backdrop to any living space.
Curved furniture really throws me when shopping, but when you see it placed perfectly, it is a winner.
The mix of dramatic arched windows and sharp, straight lines makes this California home feel completely one of a kind.
The use of curves outdoors can be both practical (for seating around a table or firepit) while also creating an inviting feel. Winding paths and gardens create a sense of intrigue.
This barrel vault ceiling is stunningly enhanced by bowed wooden beams, creating a warmth to the space.
This is such a beautiful use of an arched opening and applied moulding—it both softens and elevates this bar area.
The use of this dramatic arch as a focal point for this kitchen has a balancing effect on the whole space.
I’m a sucker for any bunk bed, but this one feels so much more delicate than most due to its graceful arches
This winding plaster and wood staircase is a standout feature that is also warm and welcoming.
I love the use of this dramatic archway to set off this uniquely contoured tub and light fixture.
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1.7-1.10
2026 prevagen u.s. figure skating championships
U.S. Figure Skating comes to the StL! The championships will serve as the final qualifying event prior to the selection of the U.S. Olympic Figure Skating Team that will represent Team U.S.A. at the Winter Games in Milan and Cortina d’Ampezzo. Enterprise Center | $345-$625 Various times | usfigureskating.org
1.11
100 things to do in st. louis before you die
As part of the Iconic Conversations speaker series, author Amanda Doyle guides you through the best that St. Louis has to offer— from familiar spots to off-the-beaten-path locales. The Old Courthouse | Free | 2 p.m. 314.678.1500 | speakers.jnpa.com
1.7-1.18 the outsiders
The winner of four 2024 Tony Awards, including Best Musical, The Outsiders adapts S.E. Hinton’s classic novel for the stage, following a found family of Greasers as they clash with their affluent rivals. The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $59-$139 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com
Thomas Craig Burfield Boxdorfer-Burfield Team
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Thomas Craig Burfield has more than 25 years of experience selling in both the city and county. His goal is, and always will be, to go above and beyond to deliver a fulfilling experience. He works diligently with clients to help guide them in their journey to achieve their real estate goals.
1.13
horticulture class –pruning trees and shrubs
Join staff members of the Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum horticulture team for a hands-on, three-hour class on pruning. Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum Free ($15 suggested donation) | 1 p.m. 314.381.0750 | bellefontainecemetery.org
1.15 & 1.16
john mulaney
The comedian and four-time Emmy winner brings his Mister Whatever tour to St. Louis. Stifel Theatre | $76-$400 | 7:30 p.m. 314.499.7600 | stifeltheatre.com
1.16 & 1.17 with liberty and justice for all: mlk in stl
Explore the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and how civil rights movements in St. Louis and across the nation worked to ensure all people realize the promise of American ideals.
Missouri History Museum | Free | 10 a.m.-1 p.m. 314.746.4599 | mohistory.org
1.17 the phil collins experience Enjoy a high-energy, multimedia tribute production that brings the legendary music of Phil Collins and Genesis vividly to life. The Pageant | $40-$60 | 8 p.m. 314.726.6161 | thepageant.com
1.17 & 1.18
dolly parton’s threads
Experience the heart and soul of an American icon with Dolly Parton’s Threads: My Songs in Symphony— a multimedia journey through Dolly’s life and music with the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra. Powell Hall | $54-$144 | 2 and 7 p.m. 314.534.1700 | slso.org
1.23
mud + merlot: affirmations in clay
Shape, stamp and decorate with words and images a set of ceramic affirmation “cards.” Bring your own wine (or other beverage of your choice); light snacks provided. Laumeier Sculpture Park | $60 | 6:30 p.m. 314.615.5278 | laumeiersculpturepark.org
1.23 facing shores
Celebrate the closing of Anselm Kiefer: Becoming the Sea with music and an original dance performance from St. Louis Symphony Orchestra and Saint Louis Dance Theatre. Saint Louis Art Museum | Free | 6 p.m. 314.721.0072 | slam.org