Abby Keough Custom Creations Across the Board Game, LLC
Addi Lu’s
Addy’s Way Boutique at 608
The Aesthetics Center at Parkcrest Plastic Surgery
A ton Lawn Equipment
Alex Waldbart Florist
The Alley Clothing Co.
Alpine Shop
Amelia’s Fine Linens
Amini’s Galleria
An Olive Ovation
April’s on Main
Arch Apparel
Arco Lawn Equipment
Arhaus Furniture
B Ann’s Boutique
B. Davis Design
The Back Store
Backhanded Compliments
The Bag Lady
Baked T’s
The Bar MethodTown & Country
barre3 Des Peres
The Bedroom Store
Bella Chic Home & Gift Boutique
Bella Gente Salon and Boutique
bella&mango
Big River Running Company
Bijoux Chocolates
The Bike Center
Birkenstock & More
Black Optical (Formerly Eye Bar)
BLICK Art Materials
Bloomin’ Buckets
Blown Away Blow Dry Bar
Blue Dahlia Designs
BODY20 Des Peres
Bowood Farms
Bowood Lane
Brick City Yoga
Brody’s Lamps & Accessories
Bu City SoapArnold
Chesterfield
Edwardsville IL Kirkwood
St. Charles
CAKEWISH
Carol House Furniture
Cat’s Meow Personalized Gifts
Caution: Elderly People
Checkered Cottage
Chesterfield Jewelers
Christopher Kelly
Candle Co.
Christopher’s Gifts
Circle of Knowledge Toys
City Sprouts
Claire Flowers
Clayton Jewelers
The Container Store
The Craft Cottage
Curio Press
The Curtain Exchange of St. Louis
Cynthia Richard
DAPH
David Kodner
Personal Jewelers
Designs by Ave
Detalle Boutique
Diamonds Direct
Dominic Michael Salon
Dotdotdash
Drew Shoe Corp.
Eileen Fisher
The Ellenor
Ellie Viv
Embroider The Occasion
Emporium St. Louis
Erker’s Fine Eyewear
Eye Candy Boutique
Eye Roc Eyewear
Eyewearhaus
Fabletics
Face and Body Spa
The Flavored Pickle Bar
The Flower Petaler
The Flower Stop
Forever Tennis
The Foyer
Friends Image Design LLC
Garden Heights Nursery
Gearhead Outfitters
Generator Supercenter of St. Louis
Genovese Jewelers
The Gifted Gardener
Gina Graphics
Glenn Betz Jewelers
Glow Candle Co.
Golden Gems
The Great Cover-Up
The Great Frame Up of Chesterfield
The Great Frame Up of Clayton
The Great Frame Up of Creve Coeur
Happy Up Inc.
Hearth & Soul
Heels Boutique
Holliday
Imagination Toys
The Initial Design
IV Nutrition
Ivy Hill Boutique
Izzy Shop
J. Crew
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JAC Designs
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Jeans, Jackets & Jewels
Josephine’s Gift Shops
Joya
Ju Ju B’s
Junction Orthodontics
K. Hall Designs
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Katy Trail Collections
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Shoppe
Kendra Scott
The Kerry Cottage
KIND apothecary
Kirkwood Florist
Klutch Boutique
Koho Boutique
KOREN Shoppe
La-De-Das
Ladue Pharmacy
Lass & Laddie
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Leah Faye Esthetics
Leopard Boutique
Lilac Ivy Boutique
Lilly Pulitzer
The Little
Lusso
Lustora
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Madewell
The MAKER’S Market
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Marketplace at The Abbey
Ros Hommerson Shoes
Rusted Chandelier
Sallie
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Marta’s Boutique
Mary Tuttle’s Flowers
Mason Maison
The Method Aesthetics and Wellness
Michelle’s
Millbrook Pharmacy
Mister Guy Men’s Store
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MJ’s by Ju Ju B’s
MOD ON TREND
MOss Boutique
mud + rose
Mueller Furniture and Mattress
Mueller Furniture and Mattress Warehouse
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Muttley & Me
Namaste Yoga Studio
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NewSpace Home
Organization
The Normal Brand
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Orangetheory FitnessChesterfield
Creve Coeu
Ladue
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Paperdolls Boutique
Peace by Piece Co.
Peerless Furniture and Leather Gallery
The Porch in Wildwood
Precision Skin Care
Dermatology
Project 2 Shop
Provenance Soapworks
Rachel Roe Art
Racketman
Rawlings Experience Store
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Relax The Back
Roaming Druggist Shop
Brigette & Tom McMillin Tim & Dana Bacich
Makayla Glennon Kid
KODNER
IN THE
by stephanie wallace
st. louis fashion fund
The nonprofit has named Brian Bristow to its board of directors to serve as finance chairman. Bristow is currently a real estate agent for Keller Williams Realty and has previous experience managing partnerships for global brands like Amazon, Neiman Marcus and Nordstrom.
united way of greater st. louis
The Evolution Festival donated $100,000 to the nonprofit to support its continued storm relief efforts following the May 16 tornado. The funds were raised at the music festival
westchester elementary school
The school received a surprise donation as part of Tradehome Shoes’ Trade at Home/Give at Home donation program. The school was awarded 64 pairs of new kids’ shoes to distribute
st. luke’s
The health care system celebrated the official groundbreaking of its new St. Luke’s Medical Building in St. Peter’s. The 15,000-square-foot facility will bring state-of-the-art care to the residents of St. Charles County and surrounding areas.
SAWYIER
COVER STORY
GROWING TOGETHER
KIRK DAY SCHOOL
by stephanie wallace
EXCITING THINGS ARE ON THE HORIZON FOR KIRK DAY SCHOOL . For more than three decades, the independent Christian preparatory school in Town and Country has been dedicated to meeting the needs of the whole student—mentally, physically and spiritually. e school welcomes children age 3 through grade six and is committed to helping young people become 21st-century learners with a strong grounding in faith. Now, Kirk Day is undergoing its largest construction project in more than 20 years to better serve its community in delivering educational excellence.
Kirk Day will be transformed by a building project entitled A Bright Future. e initiative will add 24,000 square feet to the campus for a variety of purposes, including a new gymnasium, additional classrooms, an updated entrance and suites for administration and faculty. Other spaces within the school also are being renovated, including adding windows to rooms that lack them and updating and expanding the library to around three times its current size. Mike Hall, Pastor of Mission and Administration, notes that the initiative re ects the school’s dedication to nurturing the growth and development of every child. “We’re excited to have the opportunity to create brand new spaces that meet the changing needs of students,” he says.
At the core of the campus revitalization is Kirk Day’s continuing dedication to supporting students and families in their personal academic journeys. While that means providing physical resources, Hall notes that it also means partnering with the whole family on educational and spiritual development. “We are united with the entire family to ensure kids carry their lessons home with them and continue learning,” he explains. “We encourage our students to examine what it means to be a Christian as well as what it means to be good at math, love music, pursue the arts or excel in any subject, and how all these di erent facets work together to form a strong foundation for success.”
One of the keys to Kirk Day’s approach is balancing tradition with innovation. As well as working for the school, Hall also is an alumnus. He nds it rewarding to see how Kirk Day has grown and evolved to better serve students and families. But equally important are the ways the school has remained consistent, he notes. “Before starting this building project, many spaces in the school looked the same as when I was a student,” he says. “It’s exciting to see Kirk Day physically transform, but it’s also rewarding to witness how the dedication to teaching children and leading them in faith is unwavering.”
e A Bright Future campaign is a re ection of Kirk Day’s dedication to providing a unique academic experience for every child that is built on a foundation of Christian values and personalized support. Hall explains that his favorite part of working with the school is getting to connect with students and their families. “Experiencing the full community is one of the sweetest aspects of my job—it’s not just about connecting with peers but building partnerships between faculty, students, parents and more,” he says. “ e people and camaraderie are what make Kirk Day truly special, and we’re thrilled to be building a campus that better nurtures that community.” &
cwe
The story of the Cathedral Basilica of Saint Louis covers 352 years of history, illuminating key moments in the development of the United States and the Midwest, the establishment of the city of St. Louis and both the influence and growth of Catholicism. Cathedral Basilica of Saint Louis: An Illustrated Timeline does the so-called ‘New’ Cathedral proud, both through text and images—many taken by the author, John Guenther. The glorious cathedral is the apotheosis of buildings that were the seat of Catholicism in St. Louis and its diocese, spreading from here throughout the Mississippi River Basin. Predecessors were the Basilica of St. Louis: King of France (the Old Cathedral, 1834); St. John the Apostle & Evangelist (1860); and the Pro-Cathedral (1864–1914). Highlighting the landmark’s architectural and structural design and construction along with the design, installation and eventual completion of its magnificent mosaics, this
book offers a chronological look at the historic foundations of one of the great cathedrals of the world. Starting from when the Marque e and Joliet Expedition traveled down the Mississippi River in 1673, the story of how our magnificent cathedral came to be is remarkable. Join Guenther, an architect, educator and historian, as he seeks to ‘connect the dots’ of history by taking readers through a visual journey of the key events that led to construction of the breathtaking church and adjacent buildings that make up the diocesan complex at Lindell Boulevard and Newstead Avenue in the CWE. Learn about the vision, determination, persistence, collaboration, creativity and innovation on the part of so many for the design and realization of the beloved Cathedral Basilica of Saint Louis. Construction began in 1907 and wrapped up in 1914, save the awe-inspiring collection of mosaics, the world’s largest, which took decades to complete. For more, visit reedypress.com.
OF THE TOWNS talk
by bill beggs
downtown
The Four Figures are impressive Art Deco statues sculpted by Walker Hancock and anchor each of the four corners of the Soldiers Memorial in downtown St. Louis. They represent four mighty, eternal human values— Vision, Loyalty, Sacrifice and Courage (pictured)— and will be explored through music performed in concert by the Chamber Project St. Louis on Nov. 23 at 2 p.m. on the memorial’s second floor, at 1315 Chestnut St. The concert is free, though tickets are required to a end. Visit chamberprojectstl.org. This concert is first in a series, Landmark Concerts, through which listeners can explore the StL with powerful, evocative music that brings to life the values embodied in the four figures. On Sunday, the chamber musicians will perform compositions by Elizabeth Poston, Nilofar Nourbakhsh, John Cage and Claude Debussy. The concert is presented in collaboration with the Landmarks Association of St. Louis and Soldiers Memorial Military Museum, part of the Missouri Historical Society.
downtown west
Built in 1938 for the Missouri National Guard’s 138th Infantry Regiment, the St. Louis Armory has since been revived as a tennis venue and concert location—temporarily. It was renovated a few years ago and reopened in 2022 to great fanfare as a sports and entertainment venue, but financial woes led to its sudden and indefinite closure last year. The entertainment venue, though, hadn’t been the original redevelopment plan for Greenstreet Real Estate Ventures. The Armory was going to be a 250,000-square-foot multi-use project that included several floors of office space before the pandemic wiped demand for premium office space. Recently, there has been discussion of the Armory being used as an emergency shelter for the unhoused. In light of the May 16 tornado that destroyed thousands of homes in north St. Louis, officials have considered it as a temporary or emergency shelter option, especially during cold weather or disaster response efforts. In any event, the Armory remains closed, its future uncertain. Once envisioned as not only a crown jewel of St. Louis nightlife, it now stands as a symbol of ambitious redevelopment plans derailed by unpredictable events and financial instability.
When did model trains stop running in the display windows at Famous-Barr downtown during the holiday season?
The model trains in the display windows at Famous-Barr downtown stopped running after the store closed in 2013. That holiday season marked the final year of the beloved tradition downtown, which had delighted visitors since it began in 1988. But since 2014, the E. Desmond Lee & Famous-Barr/Macy’s Holiday Trains Display Exhibit operates at the National Museum of Transportation, running from Thanksgiving weekend through the holidays. WHAT HAPPENED IN DOWNTOWN ST. LOUIS ON OCT. 14, 1936?
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eureka
Things don’t only go bump in the night in a house that’s empty except for you, all alone inside—or so you thought. Anyone familiar with Stephen King’s Christine can assure you that classic cars might give you the creeps, too. Jeremy King and Franki Cambele a may spend months trying to get a 1961 Caddy to turn over, but it’s a very rare occurrence when a car decides to turn over on its own and tool around with nothing but mischief and mayhem rumbling under the hood, as was the case with the malevolent force possessing a 1958 Plymouth Fury in the 1983 horror novel that became a movie of the same name. That is, nothing quite that supernatural has happened ‘mechanically’ to Cambele a and King, gearheads and partners in The Haunted Garage and paranormal investigators by avocation. Ghost hunters, that is. King was behind the wheel of a car he was working on one night when he noticed something amiss. Actually, he saw something that shouldn’t have been there. “I glanced at the rearview mirror and saw someone in the back seat,” he recalls over coffee on Main Street in Eureka. And it wasn’t Cambele a. But he was sure there was no one else around when he was working on the car. Automotive work isn’t the main focus of these paranormal aficionados, by any means, notes Cambele a. He’s working pro bono on establishing Emmaus Village in Marthasville, Missouri, as a destination for ghost hunters far and wide. Owners Ben and
Mandi Johnson have a vision of re-establishing the village, five buildings and 50,000 square feet in total, as a place for ghost hunters to stay and explore the grounds with their specialized electronic equipment. Ghost hunters— paranormal investigators, if you will—are an unusual breed, as any number of cable series and podcasts can show you, including one hosted by Cambele a and King, who aren’t tilting at windmills here. They’ve experienced enough out-of-the-ordinary happenings and feelings first-hand to count themselves among the faithful. And the Emmaus Asylum, originally built with locally quarried stone in 1859, is the main focus here. “It was originally built as a home for the ‘feeble-minded’,” Cambele a says. Many long-since-disavowed medical procedures, such as lobotomies, were performed here. “We believe a lot of the hauntings are related to closure,” says Cambele a. “The forest that sits behind the asylum is very active. Even skeptics feel it there. The sorrow is palpable. It’s a very heavy place.” To learn more about the asylum and the village at large, visit emmausasylum.com. It’s a place where one may book events for private, team or corporate investigations. Then, if you dare, take a peek at what else is rolling at hauntedgarage.net. You can learn about the partners’ weekly podcast there. It helps to explore the village’s Facebook page, as well—if you have the nerve, of course. &
THE SORROW IS PALPABLE. IT’S A VERY HEAVY PLACE.
Jeremy King and Franki Cambeletta
Delmar Main Street and the Delmar Maker District are launching a campaign to support and sustain businesses in the district that were hit by the May 16 tornado. Dollar$ for Delmar is a six- to nine-month fundraising initiative dedicated to raising at least $1.5 million. On Dec. 19, the campaign will o icially launch at Third Degree Glass as part of its monthly Third Friday event.
Star Power
Emmy-winner and Severance star Britt Lower is coming to the StL! Lower will be a celebrity guest at The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis’ Holiday Benefit on Dec. 9. This year’s theme, Home for the Holidays, honors the warmth of community and the power of storytelling. The actress will share insights, anecdotes and a special holiday treat with guests. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit repstl.org.
light the night
Brewery Lights is returning to Anheuser-Busch from Nov. 22 through Dec. 30. Guests are invited to stroll down Pestalozzi Street and experience the dazzling light displays, live performances and nightly parades. New for 2025, guests can enjoy an all-inclusive speakeasy experience. For tickets and to learn more, visit brewerylights.com.
YOU CAN HELP spotlight a beloved St. Louis holiday tradition. Garden Glow has been nominated for this year’s Best Botanical Holiday Light Display by the editors and experts at USA Today 10Best. Last year, the event ranked No. 4 in the country. Vote for Garden Glow through Dec. 10 at 10best.usatoday.com.
go wild!
Looking for the purr-fect holiday gift? Adopt a cheetah from the Saint Louis Zoo. Adoption packages include a 12-inch cheetah plush toy, personalized adoption certificate, color photo with animal facts and more. Proceeds go directly toward the care and feeding of the animals. Place orders by Dec. 5 for estimated delivery by Dec. 24. Order online at stlzoo.org/adopt or by phone at 314.646.4771.
HOLIDAY POP-UPS
Cocktails and Claws 4 Hands + Peacemaker | Through Dec. 21 4handsbrewery.com
LIT
Molly’s in Soulard | Through Dec. 23 mollysinsoulard.com
Santa’s Speakeasy Hidden Gem | Through Dec. 27 drinkhiddengem.com
Sippin’ Santa Planter’s House | Through Dec. 28 plantershousestl.com
Up on The Roo op
360 Downtown STL | Through Dec. 28 360-stl.com
The Sleigh Shed St. Louis Union Station | Through Dec. 30 trainshed-stl.com
The St. Louis Christmas Carols Association invites everyone to gather to sing festive carols in neighborhoods or at public venues, collecting donations for area nonprofits that benefit children. Volunteers are encouraged to sign-up by Nov. 30 at stlchristmascarols.org/go-caroling.
Moose Mug Lounge Angad Arts Hotel | Through Dec. 31 angadartshotel.com
The Chalet
Le Méridien St. Louis Clayton | Through Jan. 3 cafelaviestlouis.com
Polar Patio Pop-Up
Side Project Brewing | Through Jan. 4 sideprojectbrewing.com
The Floating Sleigh Riverboats at the Gateway Arch | Dec. 4 - 28 gatewayarch.com
1. Air Comfort Service
Heating, Cooling & Insulation
It’s cold outside! Stay in your comfort zone this winter with a heating system check included with our Preferred Partner Plan, starting at $19/month.
From production to installation, Bobbi Jean Murphy keeps it all running smoothly. As the owner’s daughter, she fills every day with heart and family spirit!
9701 MANCHESTER ROAD | 636.720.0455 CALIFORNIACLOSETS.COM/ST-LOUIS
3. Immerse
Got Deco? We do too! Deco & Deco to be exact. Come see for yourself, vanities, consoles, faucets and accessories. Only at Immerse!
At Liston, we design beautifully tailored spaces that reflect your style and priorities that are personalized for the way you live today and for years to come.
1106 1ST CAPITOL DRIVE
636.940.9417 LISTONDESIGNBUILD.COM
Take Note
5. Freeman’s
Freeman’s is a national auction house, providing collectors, fiduciaries and institutions with a comprehensive suite of services, including auctions, appraisals and private sales.o
6. The Gatesworth
The Gatesworth Gi Shop provides residents with a delightful selection of scarves, gloves, jewelry, purses and more—making holiday shopping easy, festive and right at home!
ONE McKNIGHT PLACE
314.907.0678
THEGATESWORTH.COM
7. Time Savor Chefs
Unlike meal delivery services, our chefs store your meals in reusable glass containers each week. It costs us more, but it is the right thing to do!
6795 LANGLEY AVE.
314.860.9980
TIMESAVORCHEFS.COM
A CLOSER LOOK
Dear prospective parents & guardians,
Get a closer look at our programs and community through the voices of our exceptional educators. This adults-only event o ers insights into our school community through presentations highlighting our enduring commitment to the humanities, STEM, the arts, athletics, inclusivity, service, and sustainability.
WHEN 6 pm Tuesday, December 2 & Thursday, January 8
WHERE STAR (Science, Research & Technology) Building RSVP jburroughs.org/closerlook
SCHOOL DIRECTORY
COMMUNITY SCHOOL
At Community School, children age 3 through grade six thrive in a nurturing, active learning environment. Our dedicated faculty integrate academics, arts, physical education and leadership development—all on a beautiful 18-acre campus that inspires curiosity and growth.
900 LAY ROAD
314.991.0005
COMMUNITYSCHOOL.COM
755 South Price Road, 63124 • 314.993.4040
FORSYTH SCHOOL
Forsyth School fosters a spirit of curiosity and joy, empowering children age 2 through grade six to pursue challenges with con dence. Forsyth’s one-of-a-kind campus and engaging curriculum promote age-appropriate independence, preparing students to thrive in secondary school and beyond.
6235 WYDOWN BLVD.
314.726.4542
FORSYTHSCHOOL.ORG
JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL
Burroughs recently added a digital arts course to its ne arts curriculum. Students can explore illustration, graphic design, animation, photo manipulation and digital painting—expanding their portfolios and gaining skills needed for careers in the growing digital arts industry.
755 S. PRICE ROAD
314.993.4040
JBURROUGHS.ORG
KIRK DAY SCHOOL
Kirk Day School nurtures curious minds and faithful hearts through excellent academics, Christ-centered teaching and a joyful community. Serving preschool through grade six, we partner with families to help children grow in wisdom, character and love for God and others.
12928 LADUE ROAD
314.434.4349
KIRKDAYSCHOOL.ORG
e Whit eld School combines academic rigor with experiential learning, empowering students to think deeply, act compassionately and lead con dently. Our inclusive community values character, scholarship and leadership—preparing graduates to thrive in college and contribute meaningfully beyond school. 175 S. MASON ROAD | 314.434.5141 | WHITFIELDSCHOOL.ORG
WILSON SCHOOL
Since 1913, Wilson School has excelled in reaching every student. Our deliberately small class sizes, two-teacher model, accelerated curriculum and nurturing, inclusive community allow our students to build the academic and social-emotional skills they need to succeed in secondary school and beyond.
400 DE MUN AVE. | 314.725.4999 | WILSONSCHOOL.COM
age 4 - grade 6
Rossman provides a safe, joyful environment thoughtfully designed to support the development of young learners.
Core Strengths:
• Challenging Academics
• Outdoor Learning on 20-Acre Campus
• Confidence & Character Building
rossmanschool.org
Visit Rossman at our final Open House January 15 | 8:30-10:30 a.m.
PARENT TRAP
by dr. tim jordan
SENSITIVE KIDS
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PSYCHIATRIST Dr. Judith
Orlo , author of e Empath’s Survival Guide, on my podcast, Raising Daughters, about the unique needs of kids who are highly sensitive. Highly sensitive kids (HSK) share traits like being sensitive to lights, smells, noise, touch and crowds, having a need for alone time to replenish, and taking longer to wind down at the end of day due to their system’s slower ability to transition from high stimulation to quiet and calm. ese kids absorb the emotions, stress and negativity of others and o en have a hard time distinguishing their own emotions from others. ey feel things intensely, including the pain of others even through stories on the news. ey get overstimulated and overwhelmed if they don’t take enough alone time to refuel and let go of their day. ere are many everyday factors that can make their symptoms worse: fatigue, illness, rushing, tra c, crowds, loud environments, toxic people, low blood sugar, arguing, overwork, chemical sensitivities, too much socializing, overstimulating situations, multitasking, overscheduling, lack of breaks and violent TV shows or newscasts. Too o en they are labelled as shy, antisocial, withdrawn, overly sensitive, dramatic, weak, crybabies or fussy— or told they have social phobia, anxiety or depression. ey may gain a diagnosis and become medicated. And perhaps worst of all, they may learn to believe that they are abnormal and become ashamed of the way they are.
Adults also o en miss out on the unique gi s these kids bring to the world: experiencing high levels of passion, joy, compassion and caring; being vulnerable and self-aware; experiencing a special relationship to nature; and having high levels of creativity and imagination that can make them gi ed artists and writers. So, how can parents best support these sensitive and complex kids? First and foremost, love them for exactly who they are. When they look at you, they need to see re ected back that they are perfect just the way they are. Highly sensitive kids need to learn to become aware of when they are starting to get overloaded and then have o ramps to self-care. ey need to learn how to cope with and express their emotions in healthy ways. It’s imperative that they learn to set boundaries when they need a break from overstimulating environments or draining people. Other helpers include taking breaks from technology, getting adequate sleep, spending time in nature, minimizing stress, hanging with positive people or using rhythmic movements to self-calm, such as walking, drumming, swinging or dancing.
Sensitive kids need permission to take breaks, have quiet time alone and set boundaries with adults if they are too overwhelmed to talk about what’s going on. Also provide creative outlets for their feelings and thoughts and nd peers who are also sensitive souls for support.
ese kids are amazing. Having adults who understand them and envision the best for them will be the gi that keeps on giving.
TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO COUNSELS GIRLS AGED GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE. LISTEN TO HIS WEEKLY PODCAST, RAISING DAUGHTERS, TO GAIN INFORMATION ON RAISING STRONG, RESILIENT GIRLS. FOR MORE INFO ON DR. JORDAN’S RETREATS, SUMMER CAMPS AND BOOKS VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.
CONNECTING FOR A CAUSE SPECIAL SECTION
Have a so SPOT in your heart? Help plan the Zoo’s future.
COVER STORY
MAKE A MARK
SAINT LOUIS ZOO by
stephanie wallace
WHETHER IT’S TAKING IN THE BEAUTIFUL GLOW AT Wild Lights each winter or learning a new fact about a favorite animal from a helpful zookeeper, almost every St. Louisan has fond memories of the Saint Louis Zoo. And it’s not di cult to see why. e Zoo o ers entertainment, education and more while serving as a global leader in animal research and conservation. Planned giving o ers everyone the opportunity to help animals around the world while ensuring that future generations can enjoy enriching experiences right here in St. Louis.
People who remember the Saint Louis Zoo as a bene ciary are recognized as members of its Heritage Society. e program honors those who intend to make legacy donations with special recognition, invitations to events and more. ere are no requirements to join outside of sharing your intention to include the Zoo in your estate plan. “It’s our goal to show gratitude and celebrate the people who support the Zoo this way before it’s too late,” Director of Planned Gi s Lori Sullivan explains. “Members of the Heritage Society have plans to support the Zoo in a variety of ways, but we don’t require them to share the details.”
Heritage Society members receive bene ts, such as early access to new animal exhibits and an annual breakfast celebration. “ e perks of the Heritage Society are a way to honor the special relationship members have with the Zoo,” Sullivan says. “We understand that their future gi s will bene t the St. Louis community, but they personally will not get to enjoy the impact. It’s a truly sel ess act to make a legacy gi to support the places and causes you love. We’re honored to call these people part of the Saint Louis Zoo family.”
Unless a donor speci cally indicates otherwise, all legacy gi s go toward the Zoo’s permanent endowment. rough it, donations are invested and stewarded, ensuring ongoing funding for the Zoo’s mission. Each year, a set percentage of the investment
is distributed toward operations and conservation e orts, according to the donor’s desired impact. “All of the pillars of our mission are supported by the endowment, and it provides a signi cant portion of our annual operating budget,” Sullivan notes. “ anks to the generosity of the community, we’ve been able to double the endowment multiple times since it was established in 2004. rough it, legacy gi s make even more of a lasting impact.”
ere are many ways that donors may support the Saint Louis Zoo. ese include donations of cash, stock, life insurance, property and retirement assets during life or a er. Sullivan notes that no gi is too small to make an impact. “Everyone has an estate—you don’t have to be rich to leave a legacy,” she says. “Being part of the Zoo’s Heritage Society creates an emotional connection that will last forever. Legacy donations are about more than passing down assets; they are a way to pass on your values and make an enduring statement about what is important to you.” &
THE SAINT LOUIS ZOO CONSERVES ANIMALS AND THEIR HABITATS THROUGH ANIMAL MANAGEMENT, RESEARCH, RECREATION AND EDUCATION. WITH A PLANNED GIFT, YOU CAN HELP ANIMALS AROUND THE WORLD WHILE SUPPORTING THE LEGACY OF THE ZOO FOR FUTURE GENERATIONS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.646.4973 OR VISIT STLZOO.ORG/PLANNEDGIVING.
COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER
PHOTO: DIANE ANDERSON
| PHOTO COURTESY OF SAINT LOUIS ZOO
TRACY MALKE, CHARLIE HOESSLE AND MARGUERITE GARRICK AT A HERITAGE SOCIETY EVENT
by diane anderson
SAINT LOUIS ZOO heritage society event
e Saint Louis Zoo Heritage Society celebrates those who have pledged to honor the Zoo in their estate plan. Members enjoyed a program including the society’s annual recognition ceremony, a presentation by the Fred Saigh Curator of Destination Discovery Amanda Bender and an exclusive keeper chat at the prairie dog habitat.
RANKEN JORDAN PEDIATRIC BRIDGE HOSPITAL beyond gala
by diane anderson
Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital is dedicated to making the transition between hospital and home as smooth as possible. It’s the area’s rst and only pediatric bridge hospital, and its model of care allows young patients to play, grow, learn and interact with others. Guests enjoyed an evening of cocktails, dinner, live and silent auctions, and a celebration of the children the hospital has served.
CHARLIE HOESSLE, DWIGHT SCOTT
LINDA RACEN, DAVID GANZ, DEBBIE KETTLER
RICHARD AND CLAUDIA SEIFERT, VIRGIL VANTREASE
TERI STEINBERG, MARGUERITE GARRICK
MARY ELLEN COTSWORTH, BILL SIEDHOFF
JULIE BUCK, CAROL BUCK
LOGAN OFFNER, JASON HEAD, DR. RYAN AND KELLY PITTS
TRACY AND QUINTINUS HENRY
CRYSTAL AND SHAWN DRYDEN
DR. NICK HOLEKAMP, HEATHER RAZNICK
BRIAN AND KRIS HOGAN, MICHELLE AND JOHN HOPKINS
LESLEY SHEKELTON, PAUL STAQUET
MISSOURI BAPTIST
by david anderson
Held at Grant’s Farm, the gathering celebrated Missouri Baptist Healthcare Foundation’s commitment to neuroscience advancements in the St. Louis community. Guests enjoyed delicious food and drinks, a live auction, animal experiences, entertainment and the chance to connect with fellow supporters.
FRED AND KRISTIN KOSTECKI, ANN ABAD, STEVEN HARRIS
MEGHAN AND MIKE HEETER
DOM BERGFELD, KAREN JOHNSON, KELLY WEBB
MARK AND ISABEL SIEDBAND, KATHY AND SUBASH ALIAS
RENE KNOTT, ANDY ARNOLD
connecting for a CAUSE
the SEASON to SHARE
SUPPORT THE STL
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
Gift giving can come with a lot of pressure. Plus, we all have that person on our list who either has it all or doesn’t want it all. This holiday season, think outside the box … literally! The gift of an experience o ers your loved ones the chance to make memories or learn something new. Thanks to local organizations, there’s something that will appeal to anyone on your list. Plus, it’s a great way to support the beloved institutions that help make the StL shine.
FOR THE SPORTS FAN
St. Louis Cardinals ticket pack starting at $288 for 10 games including Opening Day at mlb.com
St. Louis Blues full season tickets starting at $910 at nhl.com
St. Louis CITY SC myCITY+ membership $49 at stlcitysc.com
FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY
Saint Louis Zoo membership, starting at $80
The Magic House family membership, starting at $175
St. Louis Aquarium annual pass, starting at $61.42
Missouri Botanical Garden membership, starting at $44
Missouri Historical Society membership, starting at $50
Six Flags St. Louis annual pass, starting at $95
City Museum membership, starting at $39.99
Circus Harmony classes, starting at $15/class
FOR THE ARTS LOVER
Saint Louis Ballet Cinderella performance
$39-$110 for tickets
St. Louis Symphony Orchestra personalized concert series prices vary depending on concerts selected
The Outsiders at the Fabulous Fox Theatre $59-$135 for tickets
Bach Society of Saint Louis Handel’s Messiah performance $35-$60 for tickets
The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis flex subscription starting at $280
The Muny season subscription starting at $126
Saint Louis Art Museum membership starting at $75
Contemporary Art Museum
St. Louis membership starting at $55
Grant’s Farm annual membership, starting at $149
Laumeier Sculpture Park membership starting at $25
NONPROFIT NEWS
1. THE BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS
Gather around to enjoy the music and magic that make this season special. The Bach Society of Saint Louis’ Christmas Candlelight Concert returns to the newly transformed Powell Hall on Dec. 23. 9450 Clayton Road 314.652.BACH (2224) | bachsociety.org
2. CIRCUS HARMONY
You can support a child defying gravity, soaring with confidence and leaping over social barriers by buying Circus Harmony Defy Gravity Coffee, booking our talented performance troupe or donating online. 314.436.7676 | circusharmony.org
3. INDEPENDENCE CENTER
The holidays can be challenging for those navigating mental health struggles. At Independence Center, members find connection, support and purpose to make the season feel brighter and more meaningful.
4245 Forest Park Ave. 314.533.4245 | independencecenter.org
4. SAINT LOUIS BALLET
Experience St. Louis’ Nutcracker— the holiday tradition that dazzles! Stunning costumes, breathtaking effects and a brand-new growing tree make this year’s Saint Louis Ballet performance unforge able.
PICTURED: SLB BALLERINA REBECCA CORNETT AS SUGAR PLUM FAIRY. One University Blvd. 314.534.1111 | stlouisballet.org
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5. SAINT LOUIS ZOO
See what’s new at the Saint Louis Zoo’s Wild Lights this year, including visits with Santa and shopping at our Holiday Market. Visit select nights Nov. 28 through Dec. 28. One Government Drive 314.781.0900 | stlzoo.org/wildlights
6. SSM HEALTH
CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL
Join us for Light up Glennon at 6 p.m. on Dec. 1 and 15. Shine your flashlight, sing carols and spread holiday cheer for Cardinal Glennon patients. RSVP today for this free event to let us know you’re coming! 1465 S. Grand Blvd. | 314.557.5605 glennon.org/light-up-glennon
7. ST. LOUIS CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL
On Giving Tuesday, be proof that hope lives here. On Dec. 2, make a gi to St. Louis Children’s Hospital because your generosity powers medical breakthroughs in treatments and care. 1001 Highlands Plaza Drive W., Ste. 160 314.286.0988 stlouischildrens.org/givingtuesday
8. ST. LOUIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA Powell Hall has reopened at the Jack C. Taylor Music Center. 718 N. Grand Blvd. | 314.534.1700 | slso.org
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CIRCUS HARMONY
by stephanie wallace
WHEN JESSICA HENTOFF WAS IN COLLEGE, she fell in love with the art of circus. She travelled with a youth circus, and her rst coach, Warren Bacon, encouraged her to pass on her dedication to the cra . She taught her peers how to juggle in the dorm and even returned to her high school to teach students there. Hento became a professional circus performer, but she never lost the desire to spread joy and knowledge through teaching. In 1988, she started a circus troupe in St. Louis, working with 10 children. In 2001, that troupe grew into Circus Harmony, a nonpro t dedicated to teaching the circus arts so more children can defy gravity, soar with con dence and leap over social barriers.
“I started sharing the circus arts not only because it’s fun and exciting, but also a great tool for helping people of all backgrounds nd their strengths, realize their creativity and learn to encourage themselves and others to be the best they can be,” Hento explains. “It’s amazing what some of the kids are able to do. Being in the ring is like an alchemy crucible—it’s transformative. It changes you and how people perceive you.”
Circus Harmony operates out of City Museum, providing regular performances there as well as traveling across the region and even the world to present shows. It also o ers classes at schools and rec centers throughout St. Louis.
Circus Harmony is always looking for new students. Registration for spring classes opens in February, and Hento recommends getting the whole family involved. “You’re never too old to join the circus—our oldest student was 93 and learned the trapeze,” she says. “ e gi of a circus experience is a memory they’ll never forget. History gets made in the ring every day.” To support Circus Harmony while staying on the ground, people can book performances or purchase the nonpro t’s Defy Gravity co ee blend and other merchandise from its online shop.
Circus Harmony has worked with tens of thousands of local children and adults. Many of them have gone on to become professional circus performers, performing for companies like Cirque du Soleil, Seven Fingers and e Flying Wallendas. One alumnus, Sidney Iking Bateman, even transitioned from circus arts to professional wrestling with the WWE. He is working on establishing his own youth development nonpro t in Florida. “Passing it on is the Circus Harmony philosophy,” Hento says. “We’ve worked with so many students who have gone on to share the circus arts either through performance or teaching others.”
As Circus Harmony approaches its 25th anniversary, there’s a lot on the horizon for the nonpro t. A brand new youth circus show called Misterioso from guest director Susan Voyticky will be presented at City Museum in February. e troupe also is working on developing a play centered on Bateman’s life story and the impact circus had on it. Bateman will perform alongside current Circus Harmony students at the nonpro t’s Silver Circus Soiree Gala on April 11. “We are a small, grassroots nonpro t, and we depend on community support,” Hento notes. “Everyone can be a part of the circus by helping give a child their wings.” &
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CIRCUS HARMONY EMPOWERS CHILDREN AND ADULTS THROUGH THE CIRCUS ARTS.
New Frontiers: Health & Beauty Advances
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
Advances in health, wellness and self-care make it clear how many of us strive to better ourselves and the world around us. Whether it’s finding ways to reduce the devastating impact of childhood hunger, creating tools to help health care workers better care for patients or simply looking for ways technology can improve our daily routines, breakthroughs and new innovations are made every day.
A.I. and Nursing
Health care systems across the country are using technology to transform patient care, and Mercy is leading the way. It played a key role in the development of the first commercially available ambient A.I. solution for nurses with Microsoft Dragon Copilot. Ambient A.I. is designed to operate in the background, observing and adapting to provide assistance without direct commands. Dragon Copilot uses the technology to document observations from conversations between patients and caregivers with patient consent. The program is currently being used in the health care providers St. Louis-area hospitals.
According to Mercy, surveys show that 65% of nurses report high levels of stress and burnout, and they report that more than 25% of their shift is occupied with documentation and administrative tasks. The goal of implementing ambient A.I. is to o er nurses relief from these everyday burdens without requiring them to learn to use additional technology. Working with Dragon Copilot, Mercy metrics provided by Microsoft showed a 21% reduction in documentation latency, 65% improvement in perceived timeliness, 8 to 24 minutes saved per shift for high-use nurses, 29% reduction in incremental overtime and 4.5% increase in patient satisfaction.
Addressing Childhood Malnutrition
An innovative therapeutic food co-developed by researchers at Washington University was named one of Time Magazine’s Best Inventions of 2025. Called microbiome-directed complementary food-2 (MDCF-2), it was designed to treat childhood malnutrition by repairing abnormally forming gut microbiomes. The team behind the therapeutic food is led by Dr. Je rey I. Gordon, the Dr. Robert J. Glaser Distinguished University Professor, and his collaborator Tahmeed Ahmed, MBBS, Ph.D., at the International Centre for Diarrhoeal Disease Research in Bangladesh.
Clinical trials in Bangladesh have found that MDCF-2 boosts the activity of gut microbes that play important roles in growth and development. The benefits have been greater than those produced by therapeutic food that does not repair the microbiome. The research o ers better insight into the role food and the gut plays in healthy growth, demonstrating how the microbiome works with and impacts various organ systems. Thanks to the support of the Gates Foundation and World Health Organization, more clinical trials for MDCF-2 are underway involving around 7,000 children across sites in South Asia and Africa.
Epigenetics In Skin Care
Advancements in our understanding of the epigenome could revolutionize our daily routines. In skin care, epigenetics deals with how external factors lead to DNA damage, which in turn causes signs of aging and skin problems. Research has shown that most skin disorders are epigenetic, with inherited genetic predisposition playing a less prominent role. While avoiding all external factors is impossible, this insight has led researchers to work on developing products that help change gene expression patterns, essentially causing the skin to act younger. These insights also can help inform how we protect our skin from environmental factors, such as the sun and pollution.
Researchers working with Estée Lauder have been looking into the epigenetics of the skin for more than a decade. They have discovered microRNA molecules, mir-146a, that change in concentration with age and are linked with other anti-aging markers. MicroRNA influences how cells develop and die as well as other things, such as controlling our circadian rhythm. Our skin’s natural repair methods also are tied to our circadian rhythm, with it acting more as a protective barrier during the day and restoring itself at night by producing proteins and lipids. In theory, finding a way to increase the concentration of mir-146a in aging skin could heighten its ability to repair itself, innovating how we approach skin care. &
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STYLE LIKE AN EXPERT
THINK OF YOUR ABSOLUTE FAVORITE SPACE YOU’VE EVER seen. Is it a cozy farmhouse kitchen featuring the sweetest cake stand? What about a relaxed living room with the perfect sea-grass baskets you just can’t seem to find online? The one thing these dreamy spaces have in common? The perfect finishing touch of accessories. Furniture lays the foundation of a beautiful home, but without that much-needed decor, it’s like a cake with no frosting.
Tell Your Story
We’ll be straight with you: there is no fun in styling for styling’s sake! The pieces that inhabit your home should be intentional and tell the story of your life, your travels and the people you love. When our clients ask us to incorporate their own special pieces into their home, we get so excited because it gives us the chance to help them tell their story.
Finding the Perfect Fit
Curating the perfect home accents takes time and thought. One of the biggest challenges we face with clients are the bargain hunters. The ones who see our styling suggestions and then make a beeline for the nearest HomeGoods or Target. We love walking through the home section at Target, but everything in those aisles was mass produced, and we’ve walked into more than a few homes with the exact same vase or bookends.
“I don’t want to fill my home with meaningless stuff.” We hear this all the time, and guess what? We totally agree! This is why intentionality is so important. Curate your perfect space by including your personal style, understanding the type of art you appreciate, incorporating the mementos you have gathered through travels or family members, and considering what will work best for you.
Se ing the Tone
We have refined our process through experience and over the years we have discovered the benefits of se ing a styling budget upfront. We only walk away from a job when we know our clients have nothing le to do other than enjoy their new space. Back in the day, we would remodel a space, bring in the furniture, encourage the addition of decor, and then go when the client said no. Like clockwork, we would get a call a few months later asking us to come back and style the home.
For clients, it can be a huge stress reliever to have the designer curate, order, and manage the decor. A er all, it’s our job (ahem, passion) to create beautiful spaces, and we know how much time it takes to visit stores, shop online, and find the perfect pieces. We take the time to understand our clients’ style and needs, so we aren’t just sourcing pre y li le things, we are creating a haven of beauty that blends their own heirloom pieces with uniquely cra ed pieces from our favorite vendors. Our clients trust us to create the space of their dreams and we trust them to see the value in the styling solutions we provide.
Where Should You Start?
Are you ready to style your home but not sure where to start? Consider your most high traffic spaces. Where do you spend the most time and how do you feel in that room? We suggest focusing on your entryway, dining room and any shelving you might have, built-in or otherwise. We love a good entryway. A er all, it’s the first and last impression your home makes. Make it a good one with a console table moment that sets the tone for your home. Show off your creative side with that art piece you’ve been meaning to hang or an image that is special to your family.
DESIGN: SCOUT & NIMBLE | PHOTOS: EMILY SEWELL
Gladys Manion Gives Back
This holiday season, Gladys Manion is honored to support Friends of Kids with Cancer. We’re collecting new, unwrapped toys to help bring joy to local children (ages 0-17) currently undergoing treatment for, and survivors of, cancer or blood-related diseases.
If you’d like to contribute, please deliver donations to our office at 8227 Maryland Avenue, Clayton, MO 63105, Because Home is More Than a Place. It’s a Feeling Worth Sharing.
For more information about Friends of Kids with Cancer, please scan here.
If you are a fan of hockey in St. Louis, the name Mike McKenna is a familiar one. With more than 500 games under his career playing for pro teams across the country, one would have to say it was more than a good run at chasing a dream. Now retired from playing, McKenna has found plenty of things that will keep him busy for the foreseeable future, including serving as managing partner for the region’s first Macadoodles.
WHAT WAS THE PINCH-ME MOMENT FOR YOUR HOCKEY CAREER?
It was kind of a slow burn. I spent the better part of three and a half seasons in the minor leagues. Despite being drafted by the Predators, Nashville did not sign me after my college career. I was a free agent. I just gradually worked my way up. When I eventually got the chance to play in the NHL, it definitely was a pinch-me moment. In the span of two days, I went from never having an NHL contract to playing in the league.
WHEN DID YOU START PLANNING FOR YOUR POST-HOCKEY CAREER?
I always had it in the back of my head. Realistically, I expected to play a couple years at the AA level and see if I could move up to AAA. If I could do it, great. If not, I thought I would go to Europe and play four or five seasons of professional hockey before taking my economics degree and getting to work. That didn’t happen—I kept playing hockey.
HOW DID YOU GET INVOLVED IN THE WINE AND SPIRITS BUSINESS WITH MACADOODLES? It actually was a hockey connection from college. It really just seemed like the right fit to have an equity stake and be able to manage and be on my feet. It’s been a great learning experience, and here we are almost a year into our business venture.
WITH ALL OF YOUR EXPERIENCE TRAVELING, ARE YOUR FINGERPRINTS ON THE WINE SECTION? Let’s say tiny fingerprints. I do know wine pretty well. When I was playing hockey, I used to love cooking and then finding the perfect wine to pair with a dish. But I quickly learned there are people who know a lot more than I do.
DID YOUR HOCKEY CAREER HELP IN PREPARING YOU FOR THIS NEW VENTURE?
In a lot of ways. There’s a ton of teamwork-oriented things that play into what we do here at Macadoodles. On the management side of things, I’m effectively the coach here. Off the ice, I found my passion working with the hockey players’ union. That taught me a lot about negotiation and tact. Being a professional athlete also gave me the skills necessary to be a public-facing figure.
OTHER THAN ST. LOUIS, WHAT WAS THE BEST CITY TO PLAY IN?
My favorite city in the NHL was Montreal. It’s hard to describe being on the ice with 22,000
fans in the crowd—it’s just electric. In the minor leagues, it was Syracuse. The rink is old and a bit of a dump, but it’s got so much character and the fans are right on top of you. I got to do
FOR THE KIDS
1. Maileg 3-Floor Castle Tower, $100 from Cat’s Meow Personalized Gift Boutique
2. Jellycat Amuseables Monstera Plant, $74.99 from Happy Up Inc.
3. Jumbo Hitster Music Party Game, $19.99 from Happy Up Inc.
4. Small Ra ia Storage Basket Dinosaur Theme, $140 from City Sprouts
5. Beaded Tree Pillow, $55 from Forth and Home
6. Meri Meri Winter Ballerina Charm Bracelet Advent Calendar, $55.99 from Urban Fort
7. Morado Designs St. Louis Map Art Infant & Toddler, $36 from Procure Saint Louis
8. St. Louis Monopoly, $44.95 from Sold on St. Louis at the Missouri History Museum
10. St. Louis 30” x 40” Baby Play Blanket, $60 from Cat’s Meow Personalized Gift Boutique
Holiday Hosting MAKE THE MOST OF
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE • e most wonderful time of the year is almost here. Part of what makes the holidays so special is the parties and gatherings that bring together family and friends—but for the party hosts, it can also be the most stressful time of the year. We’ve got some tips for holiday hosting to ensure your season stays merry and bright.
1. Send invites early. e holidays are busy for everyone. Odds are it won’t be long before your friends’ and family’s calendars start lling up—especially when it comes to weekends in December. Instead of scrambling to ll a guest list with last minute invites, make sure you ask people well in advance. Using an online invitation service can be an easy way to stay organized and won’t require you to rely on snail mail or text messages to keep track of who’s coming.
2.Pick a theme. Create cohesion by selecting a theme to center your party around. It can be as simple as a color or favorite holiday song, and the party doesn’t have to be completely matchymatchy. Just a few nods to the theme will make an impression on your guests.
3.Prep the night before. Don’t leave organizing everything to the day of. You can set up tables or lay out place settings, so everything is where it needs to be before you start stressing about guests arriving. If you’re cooking a lot before the party, consider organizing the pans you will need and make sure you have enough space in the kitchen to get everything done. You don’t want to nd out the day of the party that you don’t have enough oven space to bake that pie and get the dinner rolls out. Figure out what dishes can be started early, and get to prepping.
4.Tidy your home strategically. Odds are your guests aren’t going to see every room in your home. e o ce or bedroom probably won’t see much tra c, but you can bet the powder room, kitchen and living room are going to be seen by almost everyone. Focus on making those spaces ready. Make sure your guest bathroom is stocked with soap, toilet paper and hand towels. For rooms guests won’t be visiting, just shut the door and don’t worry.
5.Use what you have. Hosting a party doesn’t mean you have to spend hundreds of dollars on supplies. When it comes to the holidays, you likely already have all the decor you need, and odds are you’ve got some rarely used dishes and silverware stashed away
in a cabinet or storage space somewhere. Make things easier for yourself and use what you’ve got on-hand. at can go towards groceries as well. Plan your menu based on what you’ve already got in your fridge and pantry.
6.Don’t be afraid to outsource. No matter how great a cook you are, making everything for a party from scratch is simply a recipe for disaster. Pick a couple of signature items you want to make yourself, and don’t be afraid to buy the rest. at can mean hiring a chef to cook in your kitchen, getting catering from a local restaurant or hitting up Costco and Trader Joe’s for frozen or pre-made options. Also don’t be afraid to take your friends and family up on any o ers of help.
7.Work backwards. Establish a timeline for your party and stick to it. is will help you stay organized. If you’re expecting guests to arrive at 6 p.m. and have dinner ready by 7 p.m., it will help determine when everything needs to be in the oven and when appetizers need to go out. Include even the little things in your game plan, such as what time you want to be dressed or when the candles need to be lit.
8.Bu et and drink stations are your friends. It can be di cult to enjoy your own party if you’re too focused on serving guests. e solution? Help your guests help themselves with beverage and bu et stations. Along with wine, beer and spirits, keep glasses, cocktail napkins, straws, water and mixers together. If you have a punch or signature drink, consider making a large batch as a mocktail. at way your guests can add alcohol or modify it as they wish. Instead of passing around appetizers or desserts. Create a bu et where guests can graze, and you’re free to mingle.
9.Don’t forget the music. You don’t need to hire a D.J. or string quartet for a small holiday gathering, but music is still an easy way to give your party a festive atmosphere. You can create an appropriate playlist using apps like Spotify or Pandora—or nd an already curated one if you’re not sure where to start. at way you can ensure you’ll always have a melody playing in the background to bring the holiday cheer.
10.Take the clean-up o your plate. Hosting a party is a lot of fun—cleaning up a er one, not so much. If you have a regular housekeeper or babysitter, o er them some extra money to help with cleaning up. If you don’t want to hire someone, make things easier for yourself by picking dishes, glasses and silverware that are all dishwasher safe. at way once the party is over, your biggest task will be loading up the dishwasher and switching it on before you head to bed.
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AQUARIUS WELLNESS
Give the most wanted gi of all—relaxation. Aquarius Wellness Center for Healing Arts offers massages, facials and spa experiences that restore balance, renewal and peace—the perfect gi of wellness.
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Shop with us on November 30 for Museum Store Sunday! MHS members will receive a double discount. All shoppers who make a purchase will
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Give the gi of sight this holiday season! Treat loved ones to an eye exam, stylish glasses or contact lenses with a gi certificate from Eyewearhaus. Vision is priceless!
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Fabulous Fox ornaments and gi cards make great gi s. Ornaments are on sale now at the box office and guest services during shows. Gi cards are available to purchase on our website.
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FINE PORTRAITURE IN CHARCOAL BY ELIZABETH MAYER
Keepsakes are beautifully rendered in classic black and white, conveniently drawn from photographs taken in the studio or provided by clients. Gi certificates available. 314.962.4953
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Deck the halls for the holiday season with bestselling Barr-Co. Fir & Grapefruit hand soap and lotion, blending juicy grapefruit zest and the fresh woodsy notes of fir oils.
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KODNER GALLERY
Give the gi of artwork from Kodner Gallery, one of the nation’s most trusted names in fine art. A piece like this still life by Wallace Herndon Smith is a perfect addition to any art lover’s collection.
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MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM
Sold on St. Louis features one-of-a-kind gi s, art and specialty items that are STL-themed, STL-inspired and STL-made. So much more than a museum shop, it’s where you shop St. Louis!
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SALLIE HOME
Smithey skillets make an exceptional gi , blending heirloom-quality cra smanship with timeless style. Perfect for the culinary enthusiast, they offer a beautiful, versatile piece that will be cherished for years to come. Pictured are our two most popular options.
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410 Steeplechase Lane
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by stephanie wallace
11/20-12/7
ken ludwig’s baskerville: a sherlock holmes mystery
The game is afoot in this hilarious adaptation of Sir Arthur Conan Doyle’s The Hound of the Baskervilles. Five actors bring more than 40 characters to life in this fast-paced, laugh-out-loud whodunit filled with high-energy theatrical magic. The J, Staenberg Family Complex $29–$61 | 2 and 7 p.m. | 314.442.3283 newjewishtheatre.org
11/25-12/7
the wiz
Get ready to ease on down the Yellow Brick Road with Dorothy and her companions as the classic, groundbreaking reimaging of The Wizard of Oz comes to life on stage at The Fabulous Fox.
The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $42-$125 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111
12/3
kenny g
With a four-decade body of work, the iconic saxophonist brings his vision of jazz to The Factory in Chesterfield. The Factory | $63-$132 | 7:30 p.m. 314.423.8500 | thefactorystl.com
12.3-12.21
emma
The Rep presents an adaptation of Jane Austen’s beloved novel. Miss Emma Woodhouse is once again indulging in her favorite pastime: matchmaking. Will her schemes result in love or disaster, and is Emma herself immune to the unpredictable arrows of Cupid? Lore o-Hilton Center | Various showtimes 314.968.4925 | repstl.org
12/5
artisan market
Shop local artisans and small businesses while enjoying some Christmas cheer. The family-friendly activities include live music, food trucks, children’s activities and an outdoor movie screening.
The Crossing - Chesterfield | Free | 6-9 p.m. thecrossing.church
12/5-12/7
old fashioned christmas festival
Experience the charm of historic Kimmiswick with festive decorations, carolers, a live quartet, candlelight tours and photos with Santa. Kimmiswick, Missouri | Free | Noon-9 p.m. gokimmswick.com
12/6 & 12/7
2025 hot chocolate run
Pick between running a 5K or 15K route, and a er the race, enjoy a chocolate celebration, featuring sweet surprises, good vibes and community spirit.
America’s Center & the Dome $54-$79 | 7:30 a.m.-5 p.m. hotchocolate15k.com/city/st-louis
12/6, 12/13 & 12/20
tinsel town
Check out this interactive holiday shopping experience that runs along Foundry Way. Shop from local vendors, get a photo with drag Santa and enjoy entertainment and holiday activities.
City Foundry STL | Free | All day cityfoundrystl.com
12/7
illuminate
Enjoy a radiant celebration of the season with the St. Louis Children’s Choirs.
Powell Hall | $15-$44 | 4 p.m. 314.993.9626 | slccsing.org
12/10
neighborhood holiday party
Create your own festive Christmas table runners alongside the Central Baptist Quilters, enjoy delicious food and drinks, and close out the night with a live performance from HEAL Center for the Arts, St. Louis’ youth jazz initiative.
Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis | Free 5-7 p.m. | 314.535.4660 | camstl.org
12/12 & 12/13
history exploration days: holiday toys and games
Take a festive walk down memory lane with games, toys and gi s from St. Louis’ past.
Missouri History Museum | Free 10 a.m.-1 p.m. | 314.746.4599 mohistory.org
12/12-12/14
illuminated echoes
Inspired by the light installations of artist James Turrell and created by Tommie-Waheed Evans, this COCAdance work combines dance, sound and visual art for an unforge able experience.
COCA | $31 | Various showtimes 314.725.6555 | cocastl.org
12/13
mr. blue sky
Celebrate the music of Electric Light Orchestra with a multi-media show, featuring the band’s hits from the ’70s, ’80s and beyond.
12/13 & 12/14
12/13 brothers lazaroff hanukkah hullabaloo
Celebrate the Festival of Lights with one of St. Louis’ most beloved holiday traditions. This year’s Hullabaloo is all about celebration and community, with all proceeds going to St. Louis tornado relief organizations.
Grandel Theatre and The Dark Room $10-$36 | 7:30 p.m. | brotherslazaroff.com
winter celebrations
Inspired by holiday traditions from around the world, the festival offers family art activities and performances, including ice collages, the Penguin Escape Game and story time with special characters.
Saint Louis Art Museum | Free | 10 a.m.-4 p.m. 314.721.0072 | slam.org
12/14
iconic conversations: amanda burke
In honor of Gateway Arch National Park’s 90th birthday, architectural historian Amanda Burke covers the history of historic preservation in America and how it is reflected in the development of the park.
The Old Courthouse | Free | 2 p.m. gatewayarch.com
92.3 WIL and Busch Light present a concert featuring stars Bailey Zimmerman, Nate Smith and Enterprise Center | $48.80-$109.65 | 7 p.m. enterprisecenter.com
mrs. doubtfire the musical
The hysterical and heartfelt musical is based on the iconic film of the same name. A er losing custody in a messy divorce, out-of-work actor Daniel Hillard creates the kindly alter ego of Sco ish nanny Euphegenia Doubtfire in a desperate a empt to stay in his children’s lives. Stifel Theatre | $50.15-$133.20 | 7:30 p.m.
12/18-12/27
el monstero
The cover band brings its annual holiday show back to The Pageant, sharing the music of Pink Floyd and the power of community.
The Pageant | $32.50-$59.50 | 8 p.m. 314.726.6161 | thepageant.com
12/20
art & nature day: winter festivities
Celebrate the arrival of winter by creating bird seed ornaments, taking a winter-themed tour of Laumeier Sculpture Park and warming up with some roasted chestnuts.
to keep Tower Grove Park vibrant and beautiful. Enjoy a science 5K or one-mile run, followed by a festive celebration at the Frosted Holiday Market and Pop-Up Bar.
Tower Grove Park | $15-$45 | 10:30 a.m.-1 p.m. towergrovepark.org
12/27 & 12/28
home alone in concert
Enjoy the hilarious and heart-warming classic while the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra performs John Williams’ score live. Powell Hall | $56-$124 | 2 and 7 p.m. 314.534.1700 | slso.org
