Glo - November 2019

“Women rely on friends. ... That’s where we draw sustenance and find safety. We can count on our women friends when we need a good laugh or a good cry.” Cokie Roberts

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contributing writers

Mary Jane Bogle, Stacie Ball, Ray Balogh, Lauren Caggiano, Shelley Galbreath, Jaclyn Youhana Garver, Kristin King

Hillary Knipstein, Cathy Shouse, Barb Sieminski, Carly Thompson-Memmer, Julie Young

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Title of piece: Forever Praises

What inspired this piece?

This piece is the culmination of a series of five other pieces emerging from an extremely challenging season in my life. I personally chose to offer praises to God when faced with an uncomfortable transition where I had to trust good would be the result of difficult decisions; choosing joy and love over dismal circumstances, while offering praise, provided peace and clarity while in the chaos.

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Shanon Roberts

Where do you draw inspiration for your artwork?

Spending time with Jesus and meditating on His word and revelations, my daughters, the women I minister with in my community and the experiences of life.

Who are your biggest supporters?

My husband, daughters and amazing tribe of women I have connected with in my community.

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From the executive editor

Tis the season to be thankful...

And this year, I am EXTRA thankful. I have two beautiful daughters, a wonderful and supportive husband, a warm and cozy home, a career I love, and THREE (yes THREE) fur babies (dogs), including our new Great Dane puppy, Wilma, who joined our family in October. We may be crazy, but we are happy.

In November, I also like to reflect on family traditions. When I was a kid, we spent Thanksgiving with the Fosters (my dad’s family). Dad is the youngest of five, which meant I had lots of cousins. We’d converge at Grandma and Grandpa Foster’s house for a day of feasting and football—the latter on the TV and outside in the yard.

We’d feast on corn casserole, an assortment of Jell-O salads, turkey, ham and endless desserts. After we ate, everyone would head outside for a game of touch football. One year, it snowed on Thanksgiving, and we got soaked during a lively game. I have so many fond memories from those holiday get togethers.

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Now that all of the cousins are grown up, we are scattered all over the country, and we don’t get together every year. I miss it so much. In September, my cousin Joe married his high school sweetheart, Janet, (30+ years later), and I got to see many of my cousins on my dad’s side. It reminded me how much Thanksgiving meant to me. Now, we have new traditions, but there will never be anything like those holidays from my youth.

What are some of your favorite Thanksgiving traditions? I’d love to hear about them. Email me at ambouthot@the-papers.com.

I hope you all have a wonderful November, full of opportunities to make memories. Xo,

Melinda Musselman

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MUST HAVEBoots

Make a statement with your boots this year

by Mary Jane Bogle

Autumn is finally upon us, and nothing says “Fall Fashion” better than a new pair of boots. But what to choose? Women in the market for new footwear this season can take their pick from a wide range of textures, colors and styles. Here’s a quick look at what’s trending in boot fashion this season.

Prints. Straight from the 2019 Fashion Week, animal prints are back in a big way. Snakeskin and leopard-skin prints are especially hot this season, and you can choose to sport the fashion in a wide range of colors. Women seeking to incorporate the animal-print trend in a more understated way can opt for a black-on-black or grey-ongrey print, adding a hint of texture and whimsy to an otherwise classic look.

Colors. You’ll discover a wide range of colors in boot fashion this year, particularly in bright red, vibrant green and vivid blue. Of course, black and grey will never go out of style, but if you want to change up your wardrobe this fall without incorporating the brighter hues, consider purchasing a taupecolored boot instead of black for a timeless, classy look.

Textures. Leather and suede will always be popular choices in fall footwear, but you’ll also see velvet boots making an appearance this year. Look for cut-outs, too, as well as accent stitching. “Brown boots with a touch of teal or red stitching are particularly stylish this year,” said Sue McBride of Robert’s Shoes in Fort Wayne. Studs are making a comeback as well, as are sweater tops.

“Another new trend to follow is a solid-colored slouchy boot,” said Michelle Schwieterman with The North End in Roanoke, “which you can wear over jeans or pair with casual dresses.”

Styles. Combat boots are especially hot this season. Look for that wide, chunky heel with a lace-up boot everywhere in stores this fall. You’ll still find ankle-length and calf-length booties, too, with a few knee-length and over-the-knee options as well.

Something for everyone. According to Emma Taylor-Metcalf at LynMaree’s in Auburn, just about every fashion decade is represented in footwear this season. Love the ‘70s or ‘80s? You’ll find a boot that matches your passion for vintage style. You won’t have to travel back two decades to discover hints from the ‘90s, either. Just look no further than your favorite boutique this fall.

Have fun. Above all else, feel free to explore new trends and have fun with footwear when you shop. “Don’t be afraid to try something new,” said Meg Oliphant at The Local in Huntertown. “If you love it, you can wear it with confidence, knowing you’ll look great.” a

Resources:

Lyn-Maree’s, Auburn, 260.333.0238, lyn-marees.com

Roberts Shoes, Fort Wayne, 260.483.3812, Roberts-shoes.com

The North End, Roanoke, 260.676.2582, thenorthendboutique.com

The Local, Huntertown, 260.316.6419, shopthelocalboutique.com

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MAKEUP LOOKS

By Hillary Knipstein

New snow, ornaments, twinkling candles—everything seems to shine a little brighter during the holiday season. November and December present an opportunity to be deliberate about making things beautiful. It’s not just limited to holiday decorations—holiday parties are a perfect time to add some glamour to your makeup routine.

Several local industry professionals provide insight into easy ways to make your face both merry and bright for every holiday celebration.

Michelle Childs-Fernandez, owner of the Hair Dept. and Art 22 Academy, said that trending holiday makeup looks are “anything but subtle.” This season, the traditional evening smoky eye with wingtip liner is finished off with glitter. She said another hot seasonal eyeshadow trend involves a brick red shadow (it’s surprisingly flattering). For a strong, dramatic, eye, don’t forget to accentuate the eyelashes—either with strip lashes, clusters or extensions. For lips, she sees rich, bold deep burgundies and cranberry hues in a matte finish. Additionally, she sees bronzer being used over makeup to create a dewy look.

Adams has a hack for a bold holiday lip: “Don’t just outline and overdraw your lips. Go ahead and color in your lips, as well. It’ll make liquid lipstick last longer.”

For eyes, Adams likes bold and gold. After applying an eye primer base and blending all over the eyelid, gold ups the ante. “In your crease, outer corner, and underneath your lower lashes, add a gold color. Blend, blend, blend your eyes of gold.”

To intensify the shimmer, Adams suggested adding a highlighter to the inner corners of the eyes and to the cheekbones (she likes Elizabeth Mott’s Show Me Your Glow shimmer shadow and highlighter).

For those racing from work to celebrations, Shirley Williams, cosmetologist and owner of Southwest Hair & Day Spa, has suggestions. One recommendation involves using a base eye shadow that can be added to when applying makeup in the morning. Then, when it’s time for the event, build the eye makeup by either brightening the eyeshadow color or creating a smoky eye. For more drama, go for a silvery shadow under the eyes and in the crease of your eyelid. An additional option involves playing on another holiday makeup trend—minimal makeup with a strong matte lip. To revive daytime makeup going from day to night, Williams also recommended using a mineral powder (she likes Mirabella’s Pure Press) to freshen foundation.

Here’s to a little extra holiday shimmer. a

Resources:

5 Elements, Fort Wayne, 260.969.6955, 5elements-spa-salon.com

Hair Department, Fort Wayne, 260.432.3505, thehairdept.com

Southwest Hair & Day Spa, Fort Wayne, 260.459.2739, southwesthairspa.com

Tonya Adams, the esthetician and makeup artist at 5 Elements Salon Spa Barber Lounge, loves holiday sparkle. “You’re show stopping and bringing in the festivities, so why not have fun with glitz and glam?” she said.

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By Shelley Galbreath | Photo by Zack Kittaka

Meet Kim Boyce, an all-around super star where the local community is involved.

She grew up in Kendallville on a Christmas Tree Farm and attended Purdue University in West Lafayette, graduating with a degree in finance, marketing and communications. She settled in Fort Wayne to begin her career. She and her husband, Ian, have three grown boys— Jeremy, Cameron and Chandler—and have recently become grandparents. When the boys started school and grew older, Boyce said she became involved in the local community through various non-profits, including the Junior League, PTO, Neighborhood Association and Tapestry.

Giving back and helping others has always been important to her. “As the project manager for Tapestry, I am thrilled to be working for Purdue University Fort Wayne and with Parkview Health to raise money for student scholarships in the health profession,” she said. “It is always amazing to see 2,000 people gather for one day to support higher education.”

On Friday, April 24, 2020, Tapestry will be gathered in the Allen County War Memorial Coliseum for a day of inspiration, education and renewal, while celebrating family, friends and co-workers.

Last year Boyce became involved in another venture, the Fort Wayne Village Marketplace, a two-day, upscale holiday shopping event/experience founded on providing a venue to support small businesses and to showcase local artisans.

“I founded Fort Wayne Village Marketplace with two of my friends, Jill Ramsey and Lyndsay Davis,” Boyce said. “We were thrilled with the turnout for our event last year and look forward to this year’s event on Nov. 8 and 9 at the SportONE Parkview Fieldhouse.”

In 2018, Boyce said there were nearly 100 local businesses and artisans that set up shop and displayed their wares.

“We are so grateful for them and thankful for the support of our major sponsors who believed in us enough to get this event off the ground and make it a success.”

The trio hopes to build on last year’s success and make 2019 an even better Fort Wayne holiday shopping tradition.

“We will be welcoming over 100 vendors and hundreds of shoppers as we kick off the holiday season shopping local businesses and artisans,” Boyce said. The first 1,000 shoppers receive a Vera Bradley shopping tote, Tim Hortons coffee voucher and BOGO Komets Hockey ticket.

“I am proud to call Fort Wayne my home and grateful for the environment it has provided for Ian and me to raise our family. I love being a part of our great city and am so excited to see where it is headed with all of the downtown growth and development,” she said.

Boyce considers her family the underlying influence on her successful career in fundraising, event planning and volunteering. “Without my family, I would not be who I am today and could not have pursued my dreams” she said. “I have a passion for leadership, community and helping others, and when I can do all of these, while being a wife and mother, then I feel as though I am doing what I was born to do.” a

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Olivia Obringer

Age: 20

By Stacie Ball | Photo by Mollie Shutt

Olivia Obringer, a junior at the University of Saint Francis, has a passion for both animals and people. Recently, she witnessed a connection between the two that began an explosion of great ideas within her. She teamed up with her four-legged friend, Willow, to benefit people of all ages in our community.

“A couple of years ago, I visited a nursing home with my dad and his deaf great dane. For the first time, I was able to witness how much a short visit from a dog can mean to people,” Obringer said, “The elderly went from emptily staring at the wall or TV to genuine excitement seeing his great dane. After that, I set out to have my own great dane become a certified therapy dog.”

Obringer assisted Willow in passing her Canine Good Citizen test and eight weeks of My Best Friend Dog Training. The training included four evaluations, which tested Willow’s ability to handle distractions in nursing homes and libraries. Obringer said, “In July 2018, Willow and I became a certified therapy dog team.”

From there, Obringer contacted her local library and organized a “PAWS to Read” program where children could read to Willow.

“After a couple weeks of this program, I noticed that some of the regular children had improved their reading skills,” Obringer reported, “They went from shy and quiet, to openly excited to see Willow every Tuesday, picking out their favorite book with enthusiasm, and reading the story without as many mistakes.”

This inspired Obringer to create an event called “De-Stress with Pets Week.” She invited 5 to10 therapy dog teams to her university once a semester the week before final exams. Students were excited to have an opportunity to take a break from studying and de-stress by petting a Newfoundland, shih tsu or her own great dane, Willow.

When Obringer is not teaming up with Willow, she is an executive board member for the Pre-Professional Healthcare Honor Society and a cabinet leader for the Center for Diversity and Inclusion at her university. She also participates in studies with various biology professors, analyzing and researching anything from Asian clams to human lung cultures. Off-campus she is a veterinary assistant at Northeast Indiana Veterinary Emergency & Specialty Hospital and a Big Sister for Big Brothers Big Sisters. She spent her summer working on African primates as an intern at the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo.

Currently, Obringer is studying biology and pre-vet medicine. In the future, she hopes to be accepted into a graduate program in veterinary school and earn her doctor of veterinary medicine with a concentration in ER medicine.

“I thrive on being busy,” Obringer explained when asked how she manages it all. “My planner is full of assignments that need to be written, meetings I need to attend, and exams I need to study for.”

She attributes her ability to prioritize and efficiently complete all tasks to her experience in the emergency department, where she is always busy with patients needing medical attention. Knowing she wouldn’t have it any other way, she continued, “An easy, boring day in my planner stresses me out more than a full one does.”

Armed with knowledge, compassion and a whole lot of determination, Olivia Obringer is ready to change the world one paw at a time. a

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Andrew B. Hogue, OD

By Barb Sieminski |

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When Dr. Andrew Hogue, OD, told his high school guidance counselor he wanted to be an architect, it was gently suggested that he choose another career.

“When I was 5 years old, Dr. Don Bollheimer performed surgery on my crossed eyes, so I investigated eye care,” said Hogue, who earned his optometry doctorate degree from Indiana University, and who 33 years later, owns two Better Visions offices, one in his native Columbia City and one in Leo.

Hogue and his wife, Laura, have four children – Chloe, Lydia and twins Lucille and Camille – and he admits that his wife is the real family star.

“She is not only a volunteer coach for the cross country team at Blackhawk Christian School, but she also teaches Chemistry and sleeps from 2 a.m. to 6:15 a.m. I don’t know how she does it,” admitted Hogue, whose own spare time is consumed with running his kids and sometimes other people’s to and from South Side High School for swim practice.

A dedicated musician, Hogue has played various baritone saxophones in some area big bands like Blue River Big Band, Stardust, Auburn’s Little Big Band, Knights on the Town and Lake Effect.

“I did not realize that getting to play all that music for a short time would be some of the most important times of my life,” recalled Hogue. “As a novice player, I am so thankful for all of the musicians I was privileged to get to play with.”

Hogue began practice in 1993 in Wabash with a group of doctors and learned a great deal from his mentors, including disciplines regarding insurance, practice and all the difficulties of running an office on top of employee challenges.

“It is so hard to be a solo practitioner,” said Hogue, who also worked in Fort Wayne 18 years with Longe Optical, where he learned more about the commercial and business side of eye care.

“Longe sold years later and became a subsidiary of Sweetwater Sound after the owner and Chuck Surack became friends. Optometrists are ingrained in school that the very best situation is private practice ownership. Because I knew I had learned enough in the industry to practice in my hometown of Columbia City, I decided to take over the practice there. I have put every free fiber of myself into delivering vision care, quality eyeglasses and contact lenses and management of my medical patients because it’s my family name on the building.”

“I use humor to get through the days. Most patients skip the formality and call me Andy. I tell my kids to call me Doctor Dad, and my nieces were always told to call me Doctor Uncle Andy. But regardless of professionalism, my most valued title is ‘Dad,’” he added. a

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Resources for Caregivers

By Jaclyn Youhana Garver

Her husband had advanced Alzheimer’s disease, and she cared for him in their home. They had no children, so she carried 100% of the burden.

When she decided to enroll him in the hospice program at Visiting Nurse, she received a variety of help: a home health aide to take care of his physical needs, nurses for his medical needs and people to sit with him so she could attend support groups and have some time to herself.

“I saw her last week, and she’s doing a lot better,” says Bonnie BlackburnPenhollow, director of communications for Visiting Nurse. “She actually told us she’s able to be a wife rather than a nurse. They made the vows to care for each other in sickness and in health, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t have someone holding your hand to help you through this process.”

Caregivers are those people who provide care for a loved one during an illness, and that amount of around-the-clock care—while watching a friend or family member go through a difficult time—can wear on a person.

November is Family Caregivers Awareness Month, and the best thing to be aware of is the variety of resources and support available to help caregivers in northeast Indiana, especially because it’s so common for caregivers to neglect their own needs.

Blackburn-Penhollow mentioned the Sandwich Generation, that population of people who have both young children and aging parents. In addition to caring for these two groups, Sandwich Generation members often work fulltime.

“Physically it’s very demanding, but emotionally, it’s almost even harder,” she said. “You think about a daughter who has looked up to her dad all his life and suddenly has to clean up his bodily functions. That’s demanding, and that’s emotionally tough for people.”

“I don’t think anyone can really understand or plan for how intense caregiving can be,” Blackburn-Penhollow said. “It’s hard enough for a lot of us to take care of ourselves on a regular basis, but to add in another person whose needs can be very demanding can be extremely stressful.”

Visiting Nurse offers caregiver support ranging from social workers to nondenominational spiritual care. It also provides resources, including grief yoga and caregiver education—teaching caregivers what to do in case of a crisis. Volunteers can sit with a patient to give a caregiver a brief break, and respite care can help for up to five days. During respite care, a patient can stay in Visiting Nurse’s hospital location.

Mad Anthonys Children’s Hope House is a pediatric hospitality house that provides support for families with hospitalized children, especially those who need intensive care and/ or urgent medical attention, explained Melissa Dessaigne, Hope House’s executive director. It currently has three homes in Fort Wayne, including a four-bedroom home at St. Joseph Hospital specifically for families of burn survivors.

“Similar to a Ronald McDonald house, Paul’s Place provides temporary, fully furnished two-bedroom apartments for adult patients and their caregivers who come to Fort Wayne for medical treatment,” said Amy Torrez-Alfaro, who founded the nonprofit in 2015.

Paul’s Place also provides nutritional and spiritual counseling, plus caregiver training for those caring for someone with cancer.

Resources:

Mad Anthonys Children’s Hope House, Fort Wayne, 260.459.8550, childrenshopefw.org

Paul’s Place, Fort Wayne, 260.444.8576, paulsplace.org

Visiting Nurse & Hospice Home, Fort Wayne, 260.435.3222, vnfw.org

Shop Local This Holiday Season

By Jaclyn Youhana Garver

American Express launched Small Business Saturday after seeing small businesses hurting in the 2010 recession, and it has been recognized nationally for nearly as long: In 2011, the U.S. Senate unanimously voted to support the day.

Of course, you don’t need to shop small only on the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Giving back to the community throughout the holiday season can “create jobs, boost the economy, and invigorate (our) neighborhoods,” according to Greater Fort Wayne Inc.

Here are just a few of our favorite small businesses, complete with a gift suggestion or two.

Shop: Opal & Ruby

• Kristin Packnett, a managing part ner at Opal & Ruby in Fort Wayne, said that gourmet foods make excellent gifts for party hosts and families. Its Finding Home Farms’ Pancake and Waffle Mix is especially perfect for anyone who loves to entertain—or who loves breakfast 24/7.

• Ornaments can make sweet, sentimental gifts, especially if they’re personalized. Packnett sug gested Opal & Ruby’s Coton Colors ornaments, which come with free personalization. Pick one up for teachers, grandparents, hair dresses or babysitters.

• The Coton Colors Happy Everything Platter comes with one attachment— others are sold separately, for when you’re looking for a future gift idea—to make the platter appropriate for nearly any season or holiday.

Shop: DeBrand Fine Chocolates

• The Classic Collection at DeBrand is its most popular gift, said Audree Beere, DeBrand’s business operations manager. It’s a collection of a dozen DeBrand caramels, fruit creams and traditional favorites like gourmet PBJ and maple nut cream. “It’s the ideal gift for the person who creates quality and tradition,” she said.

How to shop for coworkers

One of the trickiest groups to buy for is a coworker: Do you have to buy for everyone? What if you don’t know what to get?

The Balance Careers, a website that specializes in job advice and tips, provides some easy-to-follow rules for coworker buying during the holidays:

• If you’re being pressured to chip in for a group gift and you don’t want to participate, say simply, “I’m sorry, but my budget won’t allow it this year.” If you’d rather not give a reason, stick with, “I’m sorry, but I’ll have to pass.”

• Mind a price limit. You don’t want to show up to a $20 gift exchange with an e-reader and make everyone else feel uncomfortable.

• Keep in mind this list of inappropriate gifts: Anything people put on their body—lotion, jewelry, clothing—is too personal for a coworker. Avoid gag gifts, especially if you don’t know the recipient very well. Cash isn’t acceptable, unless it’s coming as a company bonus.

• Giving nothing is better than giving the wrong thing. A good question to ask yourself is, “How would I feel if someone gave me this?”

Shop: Paper Gourmet

• For a thoughtful, affordable gift option, Debra Kirk, who owns Paper Gourmet in Auburn, recommended picking up one or two Creative Co-op berry bowls, spoons and/or hot pads. They provide a pop of color and would make a great gift for a friend or party host.

• For the favorite kid in your life— or your favorite kid at heart—Kirk recommends Jellycat’s Luis Llama with matching book, “Luis Llama and His Lion Drama.” Jellycat has a reputation for creativity and durability.

• Kirk likes the Nora Fleming four-section melamine platter, which is great for anyone who enjoys outdoor entertaining or potlucks. a

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Resources:

DeBrand Fine Chocolates, Fort Wayne, 260.969.8333, debrand.com

Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium, Fort Wayne, 260.444.2019, opalandruby.com

Paper Gourmet , Auburn, 260.927.2222

Holiday Gift Guide

Are you ready for holiday shopping? Whether you are almost done or have just started, we have just the thing! The annual glo Holiday Gift Guide is back!

Check out these great gift ideas from local retailers for the special people on your list… or even for yourself.

Happy Shopping!

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Glamourous Style

The Empreinte Cassiopee will be available this fall in the shimmering shade of Titanium Grey. This contemporary colorway with it’s metallic highlights showcase the intricate details in the fine embroidery. Limited availability but not to be missed!

Barbara’s New Beginnings

4705 Illinois Rd., Suite 108, Fort Wayne | 260-432-9939

8635 River Crossing Blvd., Indianapolis | 317-844-1600 barbarasnewbeginnings.com

Restore Your Beautiful Self

Our mission is to help you restore your natural beauty; to look as good on the outside as you feel on the inside. Today’s contemporary facial cosmetic procedures make it possible for you to achieve the desired look you want and confidence that you deserve.

Diepenbrock Facial Cosmetic Surgery 7845 Carnegie Blvd., Fort Wayne 260-423-2340 | renewedlook.com

Chocolate Lover’s Dream

The Truffle Collection is the perfect gift for the ultimate chocolate lover! These twelve incredible variations seem almost too beautiful to eat … almost. Each oversized piece is individually and artistically designed, but their true beauty lies within. Each silky, rich truffle is like a petite, luxurious chocolate dessert.

DeBrand Fine Chocolates

260.969.8333 debrand.com

These Boots Are Made For Gawking

And that is, indeed, what will happen when wearing these colorful, sassy, fashionista-lovin’ boots of the season. See the expansive variety of fashionable and comfortable fine leather boots at Robert’s Shoes. A huge variety of styles and patterns are available for all those on your holiday gift list!

Robert’s Shoes

3915 E. State, Fort Wayne | 260.483.3812 Roberts-shoes.com

For Foodies

Eat, walk and discover downtown Fort Wayne. Looking for a gift for the hard-to-buy person on your list? Give them the gift of an experience. Fort Wayne Food Tours gift certificates make the perfect gift. The tour includes four culinary stops and a walking historical tour of downtown.

Fort Wayne Food Tours fortwaynefoodtours.com

Custom Facial

Our experienced Aesthetician will customize a specific facial according your skin type.

Fort Wayne Dermatology 7881 Carnegie Blvd., Fort Wayne 260-469-1400 | fwderm.com

For the Fashionista

Belle Curves Boutique & Consignment

614 E. Dupont Rd., Fort Wayne 260-489-6257

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How About Treats for Your Sweets?

Pop into Poptique Popcorn this holiday season to grab gifts of all sizes. Gifts start at $1.99. Poptique offers gift baskets, holiday samplers, corporate gifts & more. Customize your gift with a custom logo too! Don’t delay, pop in today!

Poptique

120 Walker Way, Columbia City | 260.244.3745 4206 W. Jefferson Blvd, Suite 3, Fort Wayne | 260.459.3767 127 W. Wayne Street, Fort Wayne | 260.422.3777 stores.poptiquepopcorn.com

Be Jolly

‘Tis the season to be Jolly! This delightfully sweet red wine blend is the perfect gift for the holiday season. Jolly Juice pairs well with wrapping presents on a chilly evening or watching your favorite holiday movie with loved ones. Jolly Juice is $15.95.

A dry Jolly called Jolly Black Label is available this year for $19.95. Both will be released November 1st.

Country Heritage Winery

1852 CR 68, LaOtto | 260-637-2980 countryheritagewinery.com

This Ellie and Kate 100% Acrylic poncho is perfect for those fall Indiana days and pairs perfectly with a great pair of boots. Also available in Mocha.

Feel Beautiful

Revision Skincare is a Medical Grade Skincare line that is results based with high concentrations of ingredients that will actually improve and change your skin. Prices vary depending on product: $35-$200

Belle Sante 5010 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne 260-436-6900 | bellesante.com

LOLLIA

Lollia Lotion

These products were listed as one of “Oprah’s Favorite Things” Buy any $12.00 or higher Lollia product, get a “This Moment Petite Treat Handcreme” FREE, a $7.50 value.

Fort Wayne Custom Rx 425 E. Dupont Rd., Fort Wayne 260-490-3447 | fwcustomrx.com

12 Days of Christmas

Ring in the holidays with the Twelve Days of Christmas gift set! Sample the season & discover the magic of Cedar Creek Candles. This adorable gift set includes 12 mini 4-oz. contemporary jars in assorted scents from our Holiday Collection. The perfect gift for any candle lover in your life, including yourself!

Cedar Creek Candles 13527 Main St., Grabill | 260-615-0110 cedarcreekcandles.com

Preventing and Reducing SUICIDE

By Carly Thompson-Memmer, PhD Student

Suicide is a large and growing public health concern. In 2017, 47,173 Americans died from suicide; this is equivalent to one person dying every 11 minutes.1 In addition to those who have died by suicide, 10.6 million American adults seriously thought about suicide, 3.2 million made a plan, and 1.4 million attempted suicide in 2017. 2 From 1999 to 2016, Indiana alone experienced a 31.9% increase of suicides.3

Suicide is rarely caused by one factor, but the individual generally experiences poor mental health; which may or may not include a mental illness. Other problems, such as those related to relationships, substance use, physical health, legal issues or financial concerns often contribute to suicide.

Increased anxiety

• Feeling trapped or in pain

• Increased substance use

• Looking to access lethal means

• Increased anger or rage

• Extreme mood swings

• Expressing hopelessness

• Sleeping too little or too much

• Talking or posting about wanting to die

These five steps supported by evidence4-5 can help you support someone planning/attempting suicide: 1 ASK: “Are you thinking about suicide?” may be a difficult question to ask, but this can enable a conversation about the person’s suicidal thoughts and/or behaviors. Depending on your relationship, you may want to ask why the individual is considering suicide. Try to encourage him/her to share reasons why they want to stay alive and focus on those reasons for living.

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SAFETY: Find out what the individual has already done to prepare for suicide. Does the individual have a detailed plan? What kind of access do they have to their planned method? Knowing these answers can inform you of the imminence and severity of danger to the individual. Reducing a person’s access to lethal means is an important part of suicide prevention.2

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NATIONAL RESOURCES

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention afsp.org

National Alliance on Mental Illness Nami.org

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1.800. 273.TALK (8255) *

Crisis Text Line (text HELLO to 741741) * suicidepreventionlifeline.org

The Trevor Project helpline: 1866.488.7386 * TrevorText (text START to 678678) * thetrevorproject.org

*available 24/7/365

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LOCAL RESOURCES

Mental Health America of Northeast Indiana 260.422.6441

mhanortheastindiana.org

NAMI Fort Wayne 260.447.8990

Namifortwayne.org

Parkview Behavioral Health Helpline: 260.373.7500

1720 Beacon St, Fort Wayne, 46805

STOP Suicide Northeast Indiana stopsuicidenow.org

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SUPPORT: Whether by phone or physical presence, showing support for the person at risk is lifesaving. Follow through with any support you offer the individual; don’t promise more help than you’re capable of providing. Being connected to others and minimizing feelings of isolation protect against suicide. You may want to ask what and/or who will be the most helpful resources for the individual.

CONNECT: Having ongoing support, such as a suicide lifeline, can help the person in moments of crisis. Additional supports may be a mental health professional, support groups or religious/spiritual communities. Together, develop a safety plan for times of crisis. This plan may include people to contact, places the individual could go to, suicide lifeline numbers, etc. The My3 app, a safety planning and crisis intervention app, may be a good resource.

FOLLOW UP: Following up with those at risk has shown to reduce the number of deaths caused by suicide. Connecting with the individual allows you to check in with them and see if there are any other ways you can help them. Following up also conveys your continued support to the individual. a

photos: shutterstock.com

References

1. American Foundation for Suicide Prevention

2. Centers for Disease Control

3. Centers for Disease Control: National Vital Statistics Reports

4. Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health

5. Bethe1to.com

Vicki Eber, a wellness coach and yoga teacher with Divine Dwellings, reminds us to keep it simple:

“Something we often lose sight of in such a busy world is that less is more,” she said. “The more complicated we make it (which is in our human nature), the less likely we are going to want to try.”

That’s why she recommends that those in search of more simplicity consider carving out 20 to 30-minute chunks of time to meditate and build from there.

Along with slowing down, Eber recommends practicing kindness to yourself. That means coming to terms with the fact that you can’t do it all — nor should you. Sometimes you need to call on others for help. As she succinctly put it: “The biggest lesson I’ve learned and why I’ve become the coach that I am is: You don’t need to do everything, and you don’t have to handle things alone.”

Vicki Eber

By Lauren Caggiano

Life moves very fast in our always connected world. How can we keep our inner peace while still juggling all of its demands? A few local women weigh in on this 21st century struggle.

Hope Matchett

On that note, Hope Matchett, owner of The Red Stiletto, is of a similar mindset: “Find resources or focus groups that you can lean on,” she said.

“Podcasts are a great tool for listening while getting other tasks done.”

And physical and mental rest go hand in hand with that mantra.

“Rest and relaxation should not be a forced activity, it should be something that is natural and authentic to you,” she said. “But also, finding balance, which is simply finding ways to let go of the non-urgent things so you can take time to recharge. Not everything on the to-do list is so urgent the world might end, right? Delegate those tasks or set them aside for another day and give yourself that time.”

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Tracy Yost Rachel Pritz

Tracy Yost, a wellness coach and personal trainer, echoes Eber’s comments. She suggests people come to terms with the types of stress and how to address them. Not all stress is bad.

“Eustress, or good stress, is the appropriate amount of stress that allows us to perform at optimal levels,” she said.

On the other hand, in the case of distress, performance decreases, motivation decreases and burnout can set in.

However, this doesn’t have to be the status quo. Life Coach Rachel Pritz offers insight into how to manage stress and thrive. First, she recommends scheduling everything in your day — and that includes down time.

“Scheduling everything may sound rigid, but it really just helps you spend your valuable time within your highest priorities and set and keep healthy boundaries,” she said.

Sleep is also a powerful antidote in stress management and enjoying overall wellness. Most Americans don’t get enough sleep and that’s huge for stress management. So, don’t be shy about carving out time for some shut eye.

Bottom line: If you don’t put yourself first, someone else will. Self-care isn’t selfish. a

Open Enrollment for Medicare and the Health Exchange

By Cathy Shouse

Fall not only brings pumpkins, mums and a chill in the air, but it’s also the time when you or loved ones might potentially have decisions to make about open enrollment for Medicare and the Health Exchange. Both of these subjects can seem complex and a bit overwhelming, especially if it’s your first time. That’s why we’ve gathered some expert tips and resources to get you started.

Ric Runestad, investment advisor representative with Runestad Financial Services LTD, said the important thing is to start the process early and keep important dates in mind. While it’s tempting to procrastinate, the deadlines are fixed and the repercussions for missing them aren’t pretty.

Health Exchange Open Enrollment 101

Open enrollment for the health exchange is Nov. 1 until Dec.15 in Indiana (other states may differ).

+ To check out the available options, go to www.healthcare.gov

+ To purchase dental, vision or term life, select “Shop plans.”

+ Coverage will start Jan. 1, 2020

Note: You’ll need your Social Security number, date of birth, address and Medicare number, etc. If you qualify for Medicaid or the Children’s Health Insurance Program you can apply for these programs any time.

Medicare Open Enrollment 101

Open enrollment for Medicare is from Oct.15 until Dec. 7.

• Enrollment can occur for both Prescription Drug Plans or Medicare Advantage Plan.

• Every year people can change either their PDP or MAPD.

• Medications and formularies can change every year so it makes sense to make sure you still have the most competitive plan for next year.

• MAPDs plans are also frequently changed, so if you have a MAPD, you also want to make sure it is still the best plan for you for the upcoming year.

If someone misses the last date, can anything be done?

“For MAPDs and PDP the dates are set and you must make your changes during that window,” Runestad said.

Along with researching online, you can always call someone local to help. It’s possible your income level will impact your health exchange premiums. The important thing is to get an early start, to gather all the information you need, and to avoid being rushed into a decision. Also, if there is a last-minute crash on the website due to all of the traffic, you will not need to be concerned.

“If you are under age 65 and looking for Affordable Care Act exchange coverage, I would certainly work with an agent. They will understand this much better than an untrained person who is trying to make heads or tails of the confusion of the website,” Runestad said. a

photos: shutterstock.com

Resource: Runestad Finance, Leo, 260.627.3333, runfs.com

December 6, 6 – 8p

Watch Santa arrive on a Firetruck! Kids can visit with Santa and see a live reindeer.

10a – 5p

The beauty of Turkish artistry glows in hanging mosaic lamps rimmed in hand hewn brass. Proceeds from the purchase of these lamps directly supports the women artisans living in remote villages who seek to improve their living conditions, as well as bringing new services to their villages.

See these lamps and other handcrafted items at

Creative Women of the World 125 W. Wayne St. Fort Wayne, IN 46802

Open Monday ~ Saturday 11-6pm

Katali Boutique

Katali Boutique @kataliboutiqueftwayne

ONE ENTIRE STORE’S INVENTORY MUST BE LIQUIDATED! SALE PRICES GOOD AT BOTH LOCATIONS!

The Magnificent Mile CHICAGO, IL

By Kristin King

As the holidays approach, take a few days to indulge in the wonders available on Chicago’s most notorious stretch of walkable retail and dining in the district — The Magnificent Mile. Housing over 460 shops, 275 restaurants and 60 hotels, you’re sure to find a little something for everyone on this trip. The holiday season is especially magnificent along this stretch in downtown Chicago.

HOW TO GET THERE:

Making it a weekend stay? Avoid the traffic by taking the train from Waterloo station. You can arrive in the Windy City without the hassle and tickets start at only $23.

WHERE TO STAY:

Need help getting into the holiday spirit? We recommend you book a room at The Godfrey if only to experience their Winter Wonderland Rooftop Patio. Elegance and holiday cheer collide with heated igloos and tastefully festive trees, as well as bottle service and your own fire pit for roasting smores.

Experience classic Chicago in all its glory with periodemphasized design, including marble mosaic floors and large, grand staircases at the InterContinental, a historic gem.

Looking for something a little funkier? Hotel EMC2 is an awe-inspiring junction of art and science. Every square inch begs guests to give in to their curious nature and embrace creativity.

WHAT TO DO:

You absolutely do not want to miss out on the 2019 BMO Harris Bank Magnificent Mile Lights Festival happening Nov. 22 and 23. Witness the celebrated tree lighting parade, live entertainment and exclusive offers from businesses along Michigan Avenue. You’ll have a chance to see Santa Claus and catch the brilliant fireworks that close out the evening. There’s no place like Chicago to welcome in the holiday season.

WHERE TO SHOP:

Make sure you don’t miss Bloomingdale’s Home & Furniture Store at Medinah Temple. This 1914 auditorium-turned-department store is one of North Chicago’s most unique buildings. Four levels of original and restored architecture full of home goods makes this a truly oneof-a-kind shopping experience.

Shop local. Swing by Navy Pier Signature Store to find a trove of unique Chicago-themed gifts, as well artwork, clothing and jewelry created by local artisans. Support Chicago’s creative scene and walk away with a one-of-a-kind item.

Speaking of gifts, Mary Mary Gifts is the prime boutique for exclusive and creative gifts. Jewelry, trinkets and furnishings abound, so you’ll be able to cross a few people off of your gift list and maybe treat yourself to a thing or two.

WHERE TO EAT:

Chef Eric Damidot of NoMi will whisk you away with his take on modern French cuisine. The award-winning menu highlights the use of local ingredients to infuse community and culture into sophisticated dishes, such as cinnamon roasted Maine lobster. Our mouths are watering already.

If exotic yet causal is what you’re after, then you have to try The Purple Pig with its reimagined Mediterranean menu. Dishes are sharable, rustic and unforgettable.

And of course, we couldn’t forget giving you the skinny on where to find classic deep-dish pizza. Look no further than Gino’s East for its relaxed atmosphere and specialty pies.

For more information please visit www.themagnificentmile.com. a

SATC’s mission is “to be the most respected and trusted resource for superior medical forensic care, education and research in bringing justice to those impacted by sexual assault”.

Supporting this cause is so meaningful for us because every 98 seconds someone is sexually assaulted in this country and it is often not reported nor discussed. The event raises much-needed funds for the SATC’s mission to provide assistance to sexual assault victims at every stage. SATC provides services to men, women and children in 17 Northeast Indiana counties. The center works in conjunction with 56 law enforcement agencies and 22 hospitals, including child services and the morgue. All of the services are provided at no cost to the victims.

Fort Wayne Sexual Assault Treatment Center, Fort Wayne, 260.423.2222, fwsatc.org

On Sept. 25, glo attended The Sexual Assault Treatment Center’s Warm & Cozy fundraiser. The event featured raffle items, catered food, drinks, music and a live auction.

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Village Marketplace

Fort Wayne Village Marketplace

The SportONE Parkview Fieldhouse will once again be transformed by the Fort Wayne Village Marketplace. This fun holiday shopping experience features over 100 top quality local vendors, showcasing the must-have gifts of the season. We will be there handing out our November issue—stop by our booth and say hello!

Where: SportONE Parkview Fieldhouse; 3946 Ice Way, Fort Wayne, IN 46805

When: Friday, Nov. 8, 5 p.m.-8 p.m. and Saturday, Nov. 9, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Cost: Tickets are $5 at the door (kids 12 and under are free)

Parking: Parking is free!

Fort Wayne Village Marketplace

November 8th and 9th

Friday 5p-8p and Saturday 10a-5p

@ SportONE Parkview Fieldhouse, 3946 Ice Way, FW

The Embassy Celebrates the 35th Anniversary of

Sponsored by

Shop over 100 upscale local stores, artisans and specialty food vendors gathered all in one location. Start your holiday shopping with the best our area has to offer. Unique gifts, décor, apparel, toys and more. Enjoy a glass of wine while you spend time shopping with good friends.

SHOP ~ ENJOY ~ EXPERIENCE

www.fortwaynevillagemarketplace.com

EMBASSY FESTIVAL OF TREES

NOVEMBER 27 – DECEMBER 4

Beautifully decorated trees and youth performances wrapped in the splendor of the Embassy Theatre

HOURS AND EVENTS

NIGHT OF LIGHTS

Nov. 27, 6-9 p.m.

THANKSGIVING DAY

Nov. 28, 4-8 p.m.

Returning In 2019: Irving Berlin’s White Christmas film screening, 5 p.m.

BREAKFAST WITH SANTA

Sponsored by 3Rivers

Federal Credit Union

Nov. 29, 30, Dec. 1, 9:30-11:30 a.m.

Tickets: $20 per person

Holiday Memories

TICKETS

$8 adults, $4 children 4-12; Free to 3 and under; $5 groups of 10+ Available at STAR Bank box office at the Embassy, Ticketmaster.com or call 800.745.3000

Nov. 29, 30, Dec. 1, Noon-8 p.m.

Friday, Saturday, Sunday

Dec. 2, 3, 4, 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday

COMMUNITY SING-ALONG

Fort Wayne Children’s Choir

Dec. 2, 5-9 p.m. with performance from 6-7 p.m.

SENIOR DAY

Sponsored by Saint Anne Communities

Dec. 3, 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Festival of Trees is one of the region’s most anticipated holiday traditions. This year, the festival includes a Thanksgiving Day screening of the classic holiday movie “White Christmas,” starring Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney.

This Festival of Trees 2019 is Nov. 27 through Dec. 4. Lobbies of the Embassy Theatre and Indiana Hotel are transformed into a wonderland of Christmas trees under the theme of “Holiday Memories.” This year marks the festival’s 35th celebration for the week-long fest.

Guests will tour the theatre as they view over 60 decorated trees and animated holiday windows. Admission includes festive entertainment on the theatre stage, including performances featuring the Grande Page pipe organ. Also, patrons can purchase a special ticket for breakfast with Santa Nov. 29 and 30 and Dec. 1. Visit www.fwembassytheatre.org for a complete lineup of activities. Founded in 1984, the Festival of Trees supports ongoing operational and restoration efforts for the Embassy Theatre Foundation. It is the organization’s largest annual fundraising event.

The Embassy’s Festival of Trees is a holiday tradition for northeast Indiana. Visit the Embassy Theatre, 125 W. Jefferson Blvd. in downtown Fort Wayne.

Special events:

Thursday, Nov. 28: Thanksgiving Day – Festival of Trees open 4 to 8 p.m. Enjoy the tradition of the Festival after Thanksgiving dinner. What a treat for out-of-town guests. Tour the theatre, view decorated trees and listen to musical performances featuring the Grande Page pipe organ.

RETURNING THANKSGIVING DAY: See Irving Berlin’s holiday classic “White Christmas” on the big screen! Movie starts at 5 p.m.

Breakfast with Santa: Nov. 29 and 30 and Dec. 1 (starts at 9:30 a.m.) Separate ticket required. $20 per person. Breakfast sponsored by 3Rivers Federal Credit Union. Sing-along with Santa. Storytime. Limited seating.

Fort Wayne Children’s Choir Community Sing-along: Monday, Dec. 2, (festival open 5-9 p.m.), choir performance from 6-7 p.m. a

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our community.” The same goes for the Brilliant Woman of the Year award. This public recognition honors a standout adult female leader who has made great contributions to the cause of advancing girls and women on a local level. Dr. Deborah McMahan, Sister Elise Kriss, Sue Ehinger and Susan Johnson have been among the winners in years past.

By Lauren Caggiano

The annual Boys and Girls Clubs of Fort Wayne’s Smart Girls/Brilliant Women luncheon and awards ceremony celebrates the accomplishments of girls and women in our community. This year’s event is planned for Wednesday, Nov. 6 at the Grand Wayne Center, and the nonprofit’s leadership is excited about what’s to come.

investing in the future of girls.

“We’ve been doing (Smart Girls) programming for a long time at the club and even prior to my tenure here,” he said. “The program has taken off and I love it, because what it really highlights is our members’ peer-to-peer leadership.”

The Smart Girls initiative serves youth middle school through high school and teaches educational and life skills, such as character building. Specifically, it emphasizes a positive self-concept,

decision-making skills while adopting healthy attitudes and lifestyles. The girls are empowered to build skills to resist negative influences and grow into responsible, productive and caring young women, according to the club’s website.

In the process they often grow together. That’s why the Smart Girl of the Year award is distinctive. It’s peer to peer, which speaks to the camaraderie of the cohort.

Regardless of their background and life path after high school, Jordan said all the Smart Girls of the Year trajectories have a “direct impact to

Regardless of the specifics, Jordan said every year he’s thrilled to be in the presence of such changemakers and supporters alike.

“Last year we had about 800 people at the event — 80% of them were women. And this year we anticipate the same type of response,” he said.

The momentum generated from the organization’s new building has also been a boon to the cause. At the end of the day, it’s about the children and their futures. Jordan said it takes a village and he feels blessed.

In his words: “We feel so grateful to have community support, which allows us to continue to share our mission and our vision in support our children.”

For more information about the event and to purchase tickets, visit www.bgcfw.org. a

Two young ladies receive flowers at the Smart Girls event.

A young lady enjoys the special annual luncheon held at the Grand Wayne Center

Slow Cooker Creamy Italian Chicken

By Amber Bouthot

You will likely be all turkeyed out this month—and extra busy as the holiday season revs up. Let us help you with this super simple, yet extremely delicious slow cooker chicken recipe. With a few minor tweaks to a traditional Creamy Italian Chicken, it’s actually waistline friendly too, which is a good thing as we enter holiday cookie season.

Ingredients:

• 1-1/14 lbs. boneless, skinless chicken breasts

• ½ cup reduced-fat Italian dressing

• 4 tbsp. reduced-fat cream cheese

• fresh parsley

Preparation:

Place chicken breasts in the slow cooker. Season the chicken with salt and pepper and pour the dressing over. Cover and cook on low for 4 to 6 hours, or until the chicken breasts are tender. Cut the cream cheese into cubes. Turn the slow cooker to high. Add cream cheese and stir until melted and well blended. Serve over rice or pasta, or with a side of vegetables. Sprinkle with parsley

*pictured over cauliflower rice a

Bottoms-up! Bottoms-up!

Pumpkin Spice Mule

By Amber Bouthot

There’s nothing better than a cold Moscow mule on a hot summer day, but once the leaves start to change, I can’t get pumpkin spice off my mind. I tweaked this classis drink into this tasty fall version. Enjoy!

Ingredients:

• Ice

• ½ cup pumpkin pie vodka

• ¼ cup apple cider

Preparation:

• 1 12 oz. can of ginger beer

• pumpkin spice for garnish

• cinnamon sticks for garnish

Fill two copper mugs with ice. Divide vodka and apple cider between them, then top mugs off with ginger beer. Sprinkle a little pumpkin spice on top and garnish with cinnamon stick. a

Novemberto-do list . . .

By Ray Balogh

1 | Friday | First Friday

Late night shopping, live entertainment, local culinary delights, locally crafted beverages, more. Free admission. 5 p.m.-8 p.m., downtown Auburn. 260.333.0883.

1 | Friday | First Friday

Live entertainment, food, kid’s activities, shopping, evening specials and more. Free admission. 5 p.m.-8 p.m., downtown Wabash. 260.563.0975, wabashmarketplace.org.

1-2 | Friday-Saturday |

Open House

Large selection of Christmas decor including hundreds of ornaments. Friday 10 a.m.-5 p.m., 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday, A Perfect Blend Floral Gifts & Home Decor, 1225 S. Scott St., Bluffton. 260.824.2695, aperfectblendbluffton.com.

1-3 | Friday-Sunday |

Christmas Gathering

Snowmen, Santa, stockings, wreaths, trees, lighting, furniture, pictures, purses, soaps, unique finds. Refreshments and drawing for $50 gift certificate. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Friday, 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Sunday, Beyond the Barn, 105 N. First St., Pierceton. 574.253.3362, facebook.com/beyondthebarn2.

2-3 | Saturday-Sunday | Trader Days

Commemoration of Chief Little Turtle’s victory over the American army in 1791. Native arts and crafts, native drum and dance, buffalo stew and fry bread, native flute music, bake sale. Commemorative Mihsihkinaahkwa powwow quilt raffle and silent auction, $10 per ticket. Free admission. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, noon-4 p.m. Sunday, 5705 Bluffton Road, Fort Wayne. 260.426.2882, fwhistorycenter.com.

2, 9, 16, 23, 30 | Saturday | South Side Farmers Market

100 stands featuring produce, hand-crafted items, antiques, fresh baked goods, eggs, local honey, hormone-free pork and chicken. Master gardeners on hand to answer questions. Free admission. 7 a.m.-1 p.m., 3300 Warsaw St., Fort Wayne. 260.244.3288, southsidefarmersmarket.com.

3 | Sunday |

Flea Market

Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club. 8 a.m.-3 p.m., Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East), Decatur. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, facebook.com/decaturindianafleamarket.

3, 29, 30| Sunday, Friday, Saturday | Holiday Events

• Sunday, Nov. 3, open house, Coton Colors sale, party, free attachment with purchase of Base while supplies last, 4 p.m.-6 p.m.

• Friday, Nov. 29, Black Friday storewide sale, mimosas, free ornament with purchase while supplies last, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.

• Saturday, Nov. 30, Shop Small storewide sale, festive treats, giveaways, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Opal and Ruby Gift Emporium, 5215 Illinois Road, Suite 104, Fort Wayne. 260.444.2019, opalandrubygifts.com.

8 | Friday | “Public Hike: Nights Owls!” with Soarin’ Hawk Raptor Rescue

Demonstration with owls followed by hike. Free admission. 7 p.m.-8:30 p.m., Arrowhead Marsh, Aboite Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.

9 | Saturday | Holiday Open House

Locally owned unique gift shop offering country, primitive, vintage, artisan gifts. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., 112 S. First Street, Pierceton. 574.594.2774, facebook.com/homespunhouse.

9, 30, Dec. 6-7 | Friday-Saturday | Discover Roanoke Holiday Events

• Saturday, Nov. 9, holiday open houses and shopping specials at local stores and restaurants

• Saturday, Nov. 30, Small Business Saturday, chance to win $400 shopping spree

• Friday-Saturday, December 6-7, Christmas in the Village, breakfast and visits with Santa, live reindeer, kids’ activities, caroling, shopping specials, 6 p.m.-8 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday Free admission. discoverroanoke.org.

9 through Dec. 31 | Sunday-Saturday | Christmas in Shipshewana

Light parade, tree lighting ceremony, “Shipshewana’s Lights of Joy” drive-thru light display, chocolate day, kids day, Santa visit. Free admission except for drivethru light display. 866.631.9675, shipshewana.com.

14 | Thursday |

Historic Hand Arts Class: Quilts, Fabric and Paper

Create Christmas ornament inspired by quilts from Spring Mill Village early settlers. $20/person. 9 a.m.9:30 a.m. registration and refreshments; 9:30 a.m.11:30 a.m. program, Swinney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.747.1229, settlersinc.org.

14-16, 21-24, 29-Dec. 1

| Thursday-Sunday |

“Shipshewana’s Lights of Joy”

Drive-thru light experience featuring more than 2 million LED lights in mile-long display of various light scenes. $15/car 6 p.m.-9 p.m. Thursday and Sunday, $20/car 6 p.m.-10 p.m. Friday and Saturday, throughout Shipshewana. Closed Nov. 17 and Thanksgiving. 260.768.4129, shipshewanaslightsofjoy.com.

15-16 | Friday-Saturday |

Lakeside Holiday Festival

Holiday house walk, artisan market, tree lighting, caroling, craft sales and lunch, local business specials. $8/person, free for children 12 and under, for house walk. Friday evening, tree lighting and caroling; 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday, artisan market; 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday, house walk. Various times and venues. 260.854.2412.

16 | Saturday |

Holiday Haute Gathering Market

Unique shopping, boutique trailers, food trucks. Free admission. 10 a.m.-4 p.m., Allen County Fairgrounds, 2726 Carroll Road, Fort Wayne. facebook.com/hautegatheringmarkets.

20 | Wednesday |

“Short Hikes for Short Legs: Who is Home?”

Explore and try to identify who is home this time of year and who is heading somewhere else. Free admission, open to children 3-5 accompanied by responsible adult. 9 a.m.-10 a.m., Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@ lrwp.org, lrwp.org.

29-Dec. 15 | Sunday-Saturday |

Festival of Gingerbread

More than 100 handmade gingerbread houses and designs made by artists of all ages. $6 adults, $4 seniors 65 and older, $4 youth 3-17, free 2 and under. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Friday, noon-5 p.m. Saturday and first Sunday, The History Center, 302 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne. 260.426.2882, fwhistorycenter.com.

30 | Saturday |

Old Fashioned Christmas

Sleigh rides, tree lighting, cookies and hot chocolate, brass band, pictures with Christmas characters, lighted walk, carolers, barbershop quartet, readings of Christmas story and “The Night Before Christmas.” Free admission. 6 p.m.-8 p.m., Oakwood Resort Inn, 702 E. Lake View Road, Syracuse. 574.529.0684, chqw.org or facebook.com/chautauquawawasee.

30-Dec. 1 | Saturday-Sunday |

Christmas in the Park

Fun, family friendly indoor/outdoor festival featuring “Do You See What I See?” walk-thru complete with live animals. Free admission. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Franke Park, 3411 Sherman Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.447.9437.

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Francine’s Friends Mobile Mammography Coach Schedule

Walk-in openings are available depending on schedule.

For an appointment, call 260.483.1847 or 1.800.727.8439, ext. 68120.

11/02 Bradtt’s Harley Davidson – 1400 Cass Street, Wabash

PPG North Manchester – 1104 N. Wayne St, North Manchester

Avalon Missionary Church – 1500 Lower Hungtington Rd, Fort Wayne

Botanical Observatory

• “Botanica Jones: Scientist, Merchant or Thief?” (through Nov. 17), regular admission

Adults $5, children (3-17) $3, children (2 and under) free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday, 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday, noon-4 p.m. Sunday, Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory.org.

Embassy Theatre

• Sunday, Nov. 3, Tony Bennett, 7:30 p.m., $154/$104/$79/$64/$54

• Thursday, Nov. 7, Aaron Lewis, “State I’m In Tour,” 7:30 p.m., $59/$49/$39

• Friday, Nov. 8, “Mystery Science Theater 3000 Live!”, 7:30 p.m., $62.50/$48.50/$38.50/$28.50

• Saturday, Nov. 9, TOBYMAC, “The Theatre Tour,” 7 p.m., $99.75/$69.75/$49.75/$39.75

• Sunday, Nov. 10, Bert Kreischer, “Body Shots Tour,” 7 p.m., $56.75/$36.75

• Wednesday, Nov. 13, “The Price is Right Stage Show,” 7:30 p.m., $49/$39/$29

• Saturday, Nov. 16, The Klezmatics, 7:30 p.m., $46/$36/$30/$21

• Wednesday, Nov. 27, to Wednesday, Dec. 4, “Festival of Trees,” visit fwembassytheatre.org/festival-of-trees to sponsor a tree

Fort Wayne Embassy Theatre, 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

Memorial Coliseum

• Tuesday, Nov. 5, Youth for Christ of Northern Indiana 2019 Banquet, 6:15 p.m. Friday, call 260.484.4551, ext. 211, or visit yfcnin.org/events to reserve a seat

• Tuesday-Wednesday, Nov. 12-13, PAW Patrol Live: “The Great Pirate Adventure,” 6 p.m. Tuesday, 10 a.m. and 6 p.m. Wednesday, $105.50 VIP/ $55.50 Gold Circle/$45.50/$35.50/$29.50/$25.50/$19.50

• Thursday, Nov. 14, A Day to Remember: “The Degenerates Tour,” 6:30 p.m., $39.75 general admission

• Thursday, Nov. 21, Chris Young “Raised on Country World Tour 2019” with Eli Young Band & Matt Stell, 7 p.m., $59.75/$49.75/$25

• Saturday, Nov. 23, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northeast Indiana 12th annual Women’s Champagne Brunch, 10 a.m., doors open at 9 a.m., suggested donation of $75, RSVP to Dametria Refner, 260.203.3330 or dametria.refner@ bbbsnei.org

Parking $6 main lot, $10 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.

Honeywell Center

• Friday, Nov. 1, Great Russian Nutcracker, 7: 30 p.m., $82 Gold Circle/$62/$50/$32

• Wednesday, Nov. 6, Judy Moody & Stink, 10 a.m. and noon, $10

• Friday, Nov. 8, Colin Mochrie & Brad Sherwood, 7:30 p.m., $76/$49/$35

• Sunday, Nov. 17, Cirque Dreams Holidaze, 2 p.m and 7:30 p.m., $45/$35/$25

• Tuesday, Nov. 19, “Miss Nelson Has a Field Day,” 10 a.m. and noon, $10

• Saturday, Nov. 23, Jackie Evancho, 7:30 p.m., $50/$40

• Sunday, Nov. 24, “A Christmas Carol,” 7:30 p.m., $40/$25

• Saturday, Nov. 30, The Midtown Men “Holiday Hits!”, 7:30 p.m., $100/$45/$35 Ford Theater, Honeywell Center, 275 W. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellcenter.org.

Niswonger Performing Arts Center

• Saturday, Nov. 9, Tim Hawkins “Trying Too Hard Comedy Tour,” 7:30 p.m., $55/$45/$35

• Sunday, Nov. 24, “We Will Rock You Queen Show,” 7:30 p.m., $75/$70/$65/$60/$45

Niswonger Performing Arts Center, 10700 SR 118, Van Wert. 419.238.6722, npacvw.org.

Fort Wayne Museum of Art

Traveling Exhibitions

• Michael Estes Taylor: Voyage of Variations (through Nov. 17)

• Bertil Vallein: Vessels of Time (through Nov. 17)

• 47th International Glass Invitational Award Winners (through Nov. 17)

• Full Spectrum: Paintings, Drawings and Prints of Julian Stanczak; Wood and Stone Sculptures of Barbara Stanczak (through Nov. 24)

• American Brilliant Cut Glass: New World Innovation from 1876-1917 (ongoing)

• Planes, Trains & Automobiles: Classic Toys and Americana (ongoing)

• Repose in Amber (ongoing)

• Day of the Dead/Dia de los Muertos (Nov. 23 through Jan. 26, 2020)

• The Mexican Mask Collection of Helmuth & Terrie Goede (Nov. 23 through Jan. 26, 2020)

• More Than Four Walls: Photographs by Lucy Bell Seaton (Nov. 30 through Feb. 16, 2020)

Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), Fort Wayne Museum of Art, 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa.org. a

2019

glo-roscopes

By Julie Young

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

This Thanksgiving avoid the traditional and do something completely unexpected. You are a trendsetter who isn’t afraid to forego turkey for a spaghetti dinner or swap out pumpkin pie for a yummy chocolate cake.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

You have the ability to make the ordinary extraordinary and people are grateful to you for that skill. This year, offer to bring a centerpiece and then use your creativity to whip up something beautiful that will have everyone at the table talking.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

It’s the little things that mean the most to a Capricorn. They are grateful for a new day, a glorious sunset or a job well done. Each mundane task that is accomplished is one more gold star on their mental chore chart. This month, your positivity rubs off on others.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Your bluntness is a wonderful attribute, when expressed to the right people. Not everyone is thankful for your forthrightness. Think before you speak around the table this turkey day and avoid hot-button topics likes politics, religion or the outfit your cousin wore to dinner.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

You are the first person to offer a contribution, whether it is a side dish for a family meal, to pick up a relative for a doctor’s appointment or donate to a good cause. This is a wonderful trait, provided you do not allow yourself to be taken advantage of by others. Don’t be afraid to say no sometimes.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

If family meals are not your style, eschew the typical Thanksgiving Day feast with the folks and serve others at a local soup kitchen. Your organizational skills and efficiency will be welcomed and you will get back what you give 10 times over. Think about it.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Your whimsical ideas are the hit of any party so this Thanksgiving, offer to be the emcee and create some fun activities for the family to take part in. Everyone will appreciate your effort and you will be working inside your wheelhouse. Besides, you don’t like to cook.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Although you prefer nonverbal communication, when it comes to the holidays, you’re going to have to come out of your comfort zone. Do not race from the table right after dessert is served, but rather find something to chat about with your friends and family. Above all, leave your phone in your purse. The texts can wait.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

With so many places to go, things to do and people to see, it’s up to you to put together a plan that will get your family everywhere they need to be over the long weekend. Thankfully, you have the ability to execute a travel strategy the military would envy. Don’t over extend yourself.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

The devil is in the details and when you don’t pay attention to the fine print, it has a way of coming back to bite you. Be careful what you agree to or you may find yourself hosting a larger party than you can handle. Get the specifics before agreeing to do anything.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Everyone wants to come to your home for the holidays and it’s easy to see why. Your meals always look effortless. Your home is spotless and you have an aura that draws people to you. They do not know how much work goes into your perceived perfection and we won’t tell them. You do you.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

You rely on the tried and true family recipes to make the Thanksgiving Day feast memorable and you aren’t keen to make any changes. This year, blend the old with the new and create traditions that the next generation will carry on for years to come. a

M. Lugakingira DMD, DDS, MS

F. Awah DDS, MD