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the brideâ€™s guide to have and to hold
PUBLISHER/EDITOR Jennifer L Prince
Dear Friend, You're engaged? Congratulations! Now you get to plan a wedding before you embark on a lifelong journey together.
CREATIVE DIRECTOR Stephanie Budd GRAPHIC DESIGNER Amber Ingram CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Aubrey Frederickson Jennifer L Prince
I've worked hard on curating content for you to aid in your planning. From budgeting worksheets and advice from former brides to real weddings and our inspiration boards, I hope you utilize this guide to help you make your big day the best it can be!
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FREE WEDDING APPS
YOU'RE ENGAGED, NOW WHAT?t
REAL WEDDING a magical woodland event
QUIPS advice from former brides
INSPIRATION BOARD i do bbq
REAL WEDDING a mountaintop elopement
PREFERRED WEDDING PROFESSIONALS
INSPIRATION BOARD a gothic glam affair
REAL WEDDING a literary delight
DESTINATION WEDDING Millinocket and Portland, Maine
INSPIRATION BOARD a DIY forest wedding
ROOM FOR THE GROOM
I STILL DO a mountainside vow renewal
GETTING MARRIED IN VA
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Apps for Wedding Planning
Our smartphones always seem to be within reach, so why not use yours to plan your day? Whether it’s a wedding specific app or one that you can merely tweak, there are plenty out there for the bride-to-be.
NON-WEDDING APPS EVERNOTE
This app is designed to keep you organized. It gives
Search for color palettes and complimentary colors on the
you the ability to create to do lists, take notes and keep
go as you determine which colors work best for you. It’s a
track of ideas you find on the web. What better time
handy app for helping you decide the overall tone of your
than planning a wedding to stay on top of things?
Wary of spending too much? Mint is a budgeting app,
Long hailed as the place for ideas, it’s the perfect way
which is perfect for organizing your wedding budget
to be able to curate your own wedding board filled with
- and even other finances - all in one place. Keep on
ideas. Curate specific boards such as flowers, dresses
track with no regrets!
and favors and keep track of the latest inspiration.
SLACK Having the ability to communicate with a team can be taken to the next level with weddings. Share ideas, notes and photos with your mom, sister or bridesmaids while you are in the planning process.
APPY COUPLE Not only can you personalize the app to your liking, but you can also keep track of photos and a registry along with communicating information to your
JOY Manage your guest list and RSVPs all in one place. It enables you to create your own customizable website along with storing wedding memories for your future self.
guests. It also includes a fun countdown clock!
LADYMARRY With a timeline and a plethora of creative ideas, this handy app lets you plan your special day like a pro. It also has the ability to keep notes and manage a group of people for communicating information.
WEDPICS With rave reviews, WedPics allows all of your wedding photos to be gathered in one location. It is easy to use and enables the bride and groom to see their day from the guests’ perspective.
LOVERLY VIRTUAL WEDDING PLANNER Want an honest opinion on your wedding decor and ideas? This app allows you to consult with a personal concierge while saving ideas and offering advice for your big day. Want more practical ideas? Head to www.hillcitybride.com for more inspiration! 6
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YOU’RE ENGAGED! NOW WHAT? STEPS AFTER YOU SAY “YES”
Congratulations - you’re finally engaged and you have the ring to Photo by Crystal Reyns Photography
prove it! As you and your partner embark on the journey that is wedding planning, you are surely excited by what the next year or so has in store. It can be tempting to dive in head first and surround yourself with all things weddings, but it’s important to take it slow in order to prevent yourself from taking on undue stress and burning out. With that in mind, here are some of the first things you should do after getting engaged.
Enjoy it! That’s right – quit dreaming up color palettes and mapping out your ideal tablescapes in your head. Log off of Pinterest and put your phone down. It’s time to unplug and truly take in all of the newly engaged bliss. Plan a romantic date night to celebrate, just the two of you – the planning can wait, but you won’t get back these precious moments again. Share the news. Assuming you didn’t livestream the proposal (you didn’t, did you!?), the time will come for you and your fiancé to spread the news. Before you pick the Instagram filter that best suits your ring’s sparkle, be sure to personally tell those that are close to you. Your parents or your best friend will want to be the first to know – 8 Photo by Cardinal Rose Photography
don’t let them find out through social
agree on an overall budget for your
important and then select an aspect
media! Once your loved ones are in
for each of you – that way, you can
on the news, feel free to spread the
Pick your Big Three.
compromise and everybody will get
love throughout your social accounts.
Once you have an idea of your
what they want.
Settle on a budget.
wedding’s price tag, it’s time to
You weren’t expecting to start with
settle on your Big Three: the three
Once you get through these first
wedding dress shopping and cake
most important must-haves on your
steps, you can begin the initial stages
tasting, were you? The wedding
wedding day. More than likely, these
of research for your wedding. Above
budget is the end all, be all of your
will be the categories you spend the
all, don’t forget to enjoy the journey!
planning process – it will have an
most on, so it’s important to come
effect on every aspect of your big
to a consensus. Is there a venue that
day, so it only makes sense to start
you’ve been dreaming of since you
there. Sit down with your partner
were a child? Does the entertainment
and start with a ballpark number –
make all the difference to you? Is food
at what point can you not bear to
a priority? Or do you value high-
spend any more money? It could be
quality photography more? If you’re
$10,000 or $100,000. Whatever it is,
having trouble agreeing on three, pick
find a common place where you can
one that you can both agree is most
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Zach & Taylor A MAGICAL, WOODLAND WEDDING After meeting at Liberty University their freshman year, Zach and Taylor were inseparable. They dated for four years until Zach finally proposed during an intimate walk on the beach with Taylor. So sweet! When it came to their wedding, this couple worked together to plan a stunning event. “The phrase that came up most was that I wanted it to have an Anthropologie-esque, woodland feel. We definitely just wanted something that felt like it had our personality stamped on it,” offered Taylor. Being an artsy person, Zach was actually integrated a lot into the wedding planning. Taylor recalled, “He was unbelievably helpful in this whole process—he was decisive where I was indecisive, which made things a lot easier.” From the lovely cake to the gorgeous sea glass colored bridemaids’ dresses, their concept came together flawlessly. 10
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One item of note is their ceremony backdrop. Sorella Farms has quite a few options for ceremonies, but Taylor wanted something unique. “We had never seen anyone have their ceremony with the woods framing it…so we really loved that idea, and the floral wall and petal floor gave it this magical, woodland feel” she reflected. The backdrop – made by Adam Mullins from reclaimed barn wood and covered in florals and greenery by The Arrangement Company – ended up being Taylor’s favorite part of the wedding décor. So lovely!
ADVICE FOR THE BRIDE-TO-BE
FAVORITE WEDDING MOMENT
The best piece of advice I would give
My favorite moment of my wedding
to a bride on her wedding day would
day was when we did our first look
be to not put so much pressure on
and took our photos before the actual
herself. Things WILL go wrong, no
ceremony. Having that quiet, private
question, but ultimately the goal is
time before the craziness set in to get
to marry someone you love and have
to be together and enjoy the moment
the people you love there to celebrate
made the day feel even more special,
with you. Too often there is this
and it also took a lot of pressure off by
element of comparison when you
the time the ceremony came around.
look at “Pinterest-perfect” weddings and expect yours should look the same, when the reality is your day should just feel like it belongs to you—something that expresses who you are. Enjoy the moment.
ON PLANNING A WEDDING A wedding planner is worth every penny, and I feel like that it something every bride should seriously consider adding into her budget. It is worth any extra money to have peace of mind
ON BEING A NEWLYWED
that someone is always there when
The most helpful thing for me has
you need them and making sure every
been to keep the big picture in
detail is taken care of.
perspective. You are now dedicated to a lifetime with this person, so instead of expecting perfection right away, realize you have a lifetime to grow together and figure it out.
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VENDORS Venue – Sorella Farms Photographer – Adam Barnes Photography Wedding Planning & Design – Max & Dexter Event Design Florals – The Arrangement Company Catering – The Great Room, Nomad Coffee Cake – Angela Hudson Bride’s Dress – Amrhein’s Bridesmaids’ Dresses – BHLDN Menswear - Express Hair & Makeup – Bethany Bell Reclaimed Wooden Wall – Adam Mullins Rentals – Max & Dexter, The Crimson Magpie, Happily Ever After Event Rentals Tea Favors – Novella Tea Co. Rings – Brilliant Earth, Revolution Jewelry
ADVICE FROM RECENT BRIDES
When it comes to wedding advice, why not ask the experts? Former
My mom and I purchased the same
brides, that is! Here are tips from recently married local ladies.
wedding planning book from Barnes and Noble. Since she’s helping me
Be careful with your hotel reservations if your wedding is around a holiday! They may be hosting events/parties late into the night. Our wedding was 2 days before Halloween and there were about 500 costumed drunks when we walked into the lobby. Yikes. ~ Kimberly My advice was actually given to me by my photographer, she said “if you’re crying while you walk down the aisle, smile, don’t try to stop the tears”. She
the most it is so great for both of us to have a checklist to go over even though we’re 4 hours away from each other. This makes planning so much easier, and a book will let you know about things you didn’t even think of! ~ Stacey
said she did when she walked down the aisle and in all her pictures she looks
Don’t be afraid to buck tradition- it’s your day! Also, be
mad. I took her advice and those are some of my favorite pictures--raw,
willing to compromise with your
groom on the little details because
it’s his day just as much as it’s yours, and compromise is definitely needed
The day is about your love and commitment. Not about the details of your wedding. Your wedding is probably not going to be what you see on TV or
in marriage! ~ Anne-Marie
what society thinks it should be. And that’s ok. Don’t obsess about those details, just make it special for you and your soon-to-be husband. ~ Hannah Choose a honeymoon perfume and wear it on the day of your wedding and every day of your honeymoon. When you return from your honeymoon only wear that scent on special occasions. It will bring sweet memories back to you and your hubby of those special days.
Don’t forget to plan for your marriage in the midst of planning for the wedding. The wedding is one day, your marriage is for life. ~ Danielle
We traveled to Cancun for our honeymoon and every time I wear my honeymoon scent my hubby says “you smell like Cancun!” ~ Sarah Interact with your guests! They may be standoffish thinking you’re too busy to approach, so you go to them! Don’t get too caught up in “being on display” that you feel like you can’t be a part of the party that’s going on to celebrate you. ~ Carla Definitely have someone pack a to go meal for the getaway! During the reception many of the guests will be talking to you, leaving hardly any time to eat. You won’t regret it! ~ Valorie 16
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I DO BBQ AN INSPIRATION BOARD The rehearsal dinner is a fun time for an intimate gathering with family and friends, and in this case it’s an outdoor, tented barbecue! Christian and Jami’s event had a true southern flair, and here are some tips for your own BBQ.
Incorporate fun food items of the traditional south. Our faves? Check out the list below. • Sweet Tea • Savory Cheesecake (with the twist of Eastern Blue Crab!) • Pulled Pork • Mac & Cheese • Spoon Bread • Oysters • Local Wine
OTHER ELEMENTS WE ADORE • Mint Juleps were passed on silver trays as the guests arrived. • Water in elegantly etched bottles was placed at each table. • Those napkins? The guests were able to take them home as a keepsake. • The “crab” cake is an adorable element! • As far as location goes, the couple rented an estate they found via Airbnb. Brilliant! • Galvanized trays, bowls and surfaces were utilized throughout.
VENDORS Planner - A Little Party Events Photographer - Hildebrandt Photography Catering and Decor - Farmbasket Venue - Oak Lawn (private) Cake - Kissed Cupcakes Rentals - Lynchburg True Value
Ryan & Taryn A MOUNTAINTOP ELOPEMENT You may recognize Taryn if you’ve ever been to Lynchburg’s Rivermont Pizza, and it’s actually where this couple’s story begins. Taryn works there part time, which is where Ryan caught her eye – she developed a crush, and little did she know that she had caught Ryan’s eye, too. One night he mustered up the courage to talk to Taryn. “He walked right in, sat down next to me, and introduced himself. He gave me his phone number and we've been inseparable since,” she reflected. After dating a little over a year, Ryan proposed on the Blue Ridge Parkway. They had spent so much time together in the mountains hiking and camping, that the location just seemed natural. Taryn offered, “We decided to relax and go for a drive. We stopped and picked up some wine, cheese and crackers, and brought a blanket with us. We eventually decided to stop at an overlook and have a little picnic. Then he asked me.”
As an outdoorsy couple, who is a little more on the private side, they chose an elopement because it felt natural for their personalities. “We feel most connected to God when we're in the mountains...we also knew we wanted to feel the freedom to say our vows without feeling like we were putting on a show for people, or be nervous about what others were thinking,” Taryn reminisced. Taryn spoke of the calm and peacefulness she and Ryan felt on their wedding day. “We really loved the idea of it being more intimate and personal…and it was completely that- we were able to be so present and enjoy every little moment with our focus completely on each other.” Their location of Cole Mountain offered a serene backdrop for their nuptials along with being the location of their first hike together.
ADVICE FOR THE BRIDE-TO-BE
ON BEING A NEWLYWED
Be authentic to yourself.
Spend less time trying to be
Compromising to appease other
understood and more time seeking
people or prevent tension is a
to understand. Practice empathy
heartbreaking thing - not only in
by allowing yourself to feel what
wedding planning but in life in
your partner is feeling. When both
general. If something is important to
partners do this for each other,
you, don't let it die out. And certainly
there is more understanding,
don't apologize for letting it thrive.
gentleness and patience. Empathy
It's your day! Do whatever you want,
breeds acceptance and comfort. I
and know that the people who love
truly believe that empathy is the
you will support you, even if they
key to connection and freedom in a
would have chosen something else.
Although it was a private event, Taryn and Ryan incorporated special touches
such as professional hairstyling, wedding wear, beautiful flowers, and a
Photography - Tyler Phenes, Photographer
photographer to document the day. Not to be left out, their friends and family
Gown - Celebration
were included in a celebration a few months after their elopement,
Florals - UrbanFlora (Katelyn Sandy)
which was a smart way to follow up their big day.
Hair - Signature Studio ( Janette) Makeup- bride
Taryn’s final thoughts? “It was very important for us to be authentic to
Jewelry - borrowed from friends
who we are as individuals, as well as a couple.” And their day definitely was uniquely beautiful.
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PREFERRED WEDDING PROFESSIONALS We adore our vendors and have faith in them that they can provide a great experience for you! Here's a handy list of our preferred vendors and how you can get a hold of them easily (along with a reference to their ad page numbers). AESTHETIC SERVICES
Carilion Clinic Cosmetic Center -
Central Virginia Orthodontics - page 1
Sterling Life Photography - page 17
Ashley Grace Bridal - page 39
Visions by Heather - page 38
Church Street Bridal - page 30
www.churchstreetbridal.com PLANNING AND COORDINATION Photo by Visions by Heather Photo by Visions by Heather
A Little Party Events - inside back cover
it's FOUND vintage - inside back cover
Tina Lane Events - page 47
Bowen Jewelry Company - page 15
SPAS AND SALONS Body Works Day Spa & Salon - page 30
Location at Entwined Events
Fink's Jewelers - page 7
www.finks.com Photo by K Jugar Photography
FLORISTS The Arrangement Company - page 13 www.thearrangementcompany.com 434-444-0655
434-385-5116 www.aztecrental.com Happily Ever After Event Rentals - page 13
Southern Provisions Company -
Aztec Rental - page 43
GIFTS & REGISTRIES
Location at Weddings at LU
TINK'S Place LLC - page 23 540-344-2324 www.tinksplace.com
Lynchburg True Value back inside cover 434-385-5150 www.lynchburgtruevalue.com
Photo by Liz Cook Photography
Location at Timberlake Tavern
RESOURCES Hill City Bride Wedding Blog back inside cover
Make a list of your favorite vendors to contact here!
www.hillcitybride.com TRANSPORTATION Lexington Carriage Company - page 30 540-463-5647
Photo by Sterling Life Photography
www.lexcarriage.com Photo by Melissa Batman Photography
VENUES Craddock Terry Hotel - page 9 434-455-1500 www.craddockterryhotel.com Edloe Glades - page 17 434-941-4614 www.edloeglades.com Entwined Events - page 2 434-933-3300 www.entwinedevents.com Heart of High Peak - page 37 434-944-5271 www.heartofhighpeak.com
Location at Edloe Glades
Sorella Farms - page 11
Photo by Kelly Jacobsen Photography
434-907-8686 www.sorella1827.com Timberlake Tavern - page 3 434-665-7435 www.timberlaketavern.com Weddings at LU - front inside cover 434-592-3511 www.liberty.edu/weddings
Thank you also to the many vendors who provided content for our Winter 2017 issue, who are all credited with their respective work.
Location at Craddock Terry
GOTHIC, GLAM AFFAIR AN INSPIRATION BOARD Often used as a term in architecture or to describe dark dressing in the late 20th century, the word “gothic” now means all things glam and dreamy when it comes to weddings. If this trend appeals to you, it can be incorporated in a beautiful way. Here’s how!
• Wear lace. • A dark, bold lip color is key! • Don statement jewelry. • Lace-up shoes finish a look. • Choose deep, rich colors. • Utilize marbled pieces (note the cufflinks, invitations, table accessories, bride’s skirt and patina of the location). • Think words like “flowy” and “drippy” (such as loose florals, iced cakes, draped centerpieces and already used candles). • Choose a location that looks glamorous and ornate, yet stately.
VENDORS Photography - Gaudium Photography Styling - Max & Dexter Event Design Rentals - Happily Ever After Rentals Florals - The Arrangement Company Dress - Sweet Caroline Styles Tuxedo - Tuxedo by Sarno Jewelry - Finkâ€™s Jewelers Appetizers - RA Bistro Hair - Hair Designs by Jessica Makeup - Makeup by Ashley Cake/Desserts - Molly Reeder Stationery - A Paper Wedding LLC Venue - Swannanoa
Helpful Hints For Quick! Write down the top 3 adjectives you want said about your wedding! Ponder the first three that come to your mind, and it just may give you a start into your wedding scheme.
1. 2. 3.
READY TO SET A DATE? Think about what is most important to you. Are you looking for a specific date that is a must, or are you willing to work within a timeframe depending on the availability of the venue's schedule and the season?
DECIDE ON YOUR BUDGET FIRST, AND HAVE A PRICE RANGE IN MIND WHEN YOU GO TO VISIT YOUR VENDORS. USE OUR BUDGETING SHEET ON PAGE 38.
Work with your wedding planner to create a timeline for your wedding day. Having a clear vision of this before your day will create a more relaxed experience for all. 28
the Bride-to-be Baffled about what to do when? These are just suggestions, and adjust them to your own time schedule from engagement to wedding day. Be sure to keep a wedding binder or use an app (see our suggestions on page 6) to help keep organized!
12 MONTHS set a date work on guest list hire larger vendors (photographer, venue, and caterer)
4 MONTHS work on order of ceremony/reception order favors purchase rings
select bridal party
WANT TO HONOR FRIENDS OR FAMILY THAT AREN'T IN YOUR WEDDING PARTY?
purchase a dress
Here are other ways they can
reserve a block of hotel rooms for out of town guests
work on and send out wedding day timeline
Serve as a greeter to welcome guests
Sing or read at the ceremony
purchase attendant gifts
shop for bridesmaids' dresses
work on reception seating chart
Ensure that guests sign the register
Deliver a toast
do a trial hair/makeup run
Say grace or offer a prayer
book other vendors
send save the dates
pack for honeymoon
order wedding invitations
finalize plans with vendors
register for gifts
delegate wedding day tasks
BE SURE TO READ YOUR VENDOR CONTRACTS AND ASK QUESTIONS. DISCUSSING THINGS UP FRONT WILL KEEP THE COMMUNICATION LINES OPEN.
Photos featured are from Brian & Sarah’s wedding by Sterling Life Photography
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EV and Josh A LITERARY DELIGHT When I think of a perfectly carried out theme, this wedding has it all. This couple incorporated books into every aspect of their wedding, and if you are wondering why...well, they actually met because of - what else? A book! "We met at Rivermont Pizza. It was late at night and I had brought a book to read, as I typically do. He had actually just finished reading it, so I talked to him instead of politely ignoring him like most guys," EV reminisced. They both are avid readers and have large personal libraries, and although their proposal doesn't center around books, it does speak a lot about their compatibility - at least as far as Josh was concerned! EV offered, "We had talked about marriage and decided that we would eventually get married but hadn't formally declared ourselves engaged. Josh is a huge Red Sox fan, and one day on a shopping trip I picked up a Red Sox t-shirt. I wore it when I went out to meet him that night, and I woke up to find he had posted a picture of me in it on Facebook and changed our relationship status to engaged." So fun! 31
As a Sweet Briar graduate, EV had spent countless hours studying in the Cochran Library. After talking to the events coordinator and librarians, they were allowed to have their wedding at the library, which is the perfect setting for this couple. After scouring Pinterest for doable, and cohesive - yet not overdone - projects, their creativity shone through on their wedding day. Oh and as for not having a cake? EV explained, "Josh hates cake, and I had taken him on a date to have a slice of pie at Woodruff's early in our relationship. When I suggested pies from Woodruff's as an alternative to cake, he was ecstatic. We ended up having 10 flavors of pie!"
ADVICE FOR THE BRIDE PLANNING HER WEDDING Prioritize spending on what matters to you. If you want top of the line in one area, be ready to cut back in another. ADVICE FOR THE BRIDE-TO-BE Relax and assign someone else to make decisions that day. Have someone else take care of the little problems that crop up so you don't stress out. ON BEING NEWLYWED Marriage is fantastic, but it's just a continuation of the relationship you had before. It's a commitment to continue building and growing together. 33
Books were incorporated in: •
the ceremony arch
the venue - a library!
tiny book necklaces (so darling!)
Book pages were utilized for: •
wraps for vases
to label their card box
wedding bouquets, boutonnieres and hair florals
VENDORS Photography - Allegra's Studio Venue - Sweet Briar College, Mary Helen Cochran Library Dress - Church Street Bridal Alterations - The Gilded Thimble Hair and Makeup - Emily Garbee of Body Works Day Spa & Salon Rings - BlueRidgeNotions (Etsy) Pie - Woodruff's Pie Shop Catering - Sweet Briar Catering Earrings - FavoringBrave (Etsy) Necklaces - JanDaJewelry (Etsy) Suits - R. Coffee Ltd Book Arch Support Structure - Hawk Rochow of NovaTech DJ - Thomas Dean Day of Coordinator - Robyn Trost Socks - Sock Dreams Save the Dates: DIY with help from family Invitations - Zazzle Flowers - Sam's Club, arranged by family Bouquets and Boutonnieres - DIY by mom Wedding favors - tiny pottery bowls by the bride Escort cards and Centerpieces - DIY
PORTLAND & MILLINOCKET, MAINE
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PORTLAND This ocean side city is full of history, a lovely shopping district and beautiful homes. It also offers options for couples that want either an urban feel or a private, picturesque ceremony. Being a writer, The Press Hotel was especially intriguing. Offering interesting Photo by Greta Tucker Photo
hen I think of Maine, thoughts turn to quaint towns on the
coast and lobster. My impression of this New England state came from the fact that my parents loved the area, and we spent many summers renting
and well thought out touches such as a typewriter art display and wallpaper made out of rolled newspaper, this hotel is housed in the former Gannett newspaper building. It offers many options for event spaces and overnight accommodations. Their in house UNION restaurant offers unique, delicious fare and creative dessert options in addition to catering. My favorite spot of all was the rooftop view off of the penthouse suite, which is perfect for an intimate wedding with high impact overlooking the bustling city of Portland.
lake homes for vacationing. The
A little off of the metropolitan area sits The Danforth. With it’s luxurious
landscape is stunning!
accommodations, each room offers a different feel in this historic home
For the couple who is thinking of going to a destination for their own wedding – or honeymoon – consider heading north to The Pine Tree State, which offers an experience all it’s own. I had the pleasure of perusing wedding venues, eating delectable
turned inn. The space is lovely with its cascading natural light, and one of my favorite spaces was a hidden widow’s walk with a view of the ocean on the roof of the building. Tempo Dulu offers a variety of cuisine, and I would suggest the tasting menu, which offers a sampling of their culinary delights. Plus, their drinks arrive in style, each having it’s own creative twist. As Portland’s only luxury boutique hotel, it is perfect for an overnight stay, elopement, rehearsal dinner or vow renewal.
cuisine and taking a few tours on a
For those couples looking for a seaside experience, two locations come to
recent press trip to the state.
mind. The first being the aptly named Inn by the Sea. Upon entering the 35
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Photo by Emilie Inc
Photo by Casey Durgin Photography
view goes straight to the ocean
dinner and accommodations at the
which also offers outdoors-y types of
before you head up to your room,
Portland Harbor Hotel. With luxury
activities such as hiking, kayaking,
which includes a fireplace. So cozy!
rooms in the heart of downtown, a
fishing, moose tours and whitewater
The inn itself has a lovely lawn, yet
picturesque ferry ride takes you to
rafting. For those wanting to brave
a secluded boardwalk takes you to
Great Diamond Island, which houses
the colder weather, the center offers
the ocean, which houses a mile of
their coastal sister property - the
snowmobiling, ice fishing and cross
lovely Inn at Diamond Cove. The
In addition, the Black Point Inn
island is full of history and views and
Whether you choose to rent out the
offers a sprawling lawn with an ocean
also boasts accommodations and a
property in whole or part, a wedding
view that makes for stunning photos!
restaurant for convenience.
overlooking Mount Katahdin is
The inn is full of charm and tradition,
both rustic and picturesque. The
and The Point Restaurant offers
Dubbed “The Magic City” Millinocket
on-site restaurant, River Drivers, is
an unparalleled dining experience
is a destination for couples that
also ready to cater your event with
along with tempting cocktail and
want a romantic retreat for either
finesse. A 3.5-hour drive also takes
their honeymoon or wedding. Rustic,
you to Portland if you would like to
For those who truly can’t decide if they
quaint cabins overlooking Millinocket
incorporate a jaunt to the city in your
want an urban or a seaside event, the
Lake are available in several sizes at
perfect option just may be a rehearsal
the New England Outdoor Center,
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WHILE IN PORTLAND Portland is rich in history and beauty – both with the coastal views and lovely buildings. Besides the restaurant recommendations in Portland, there are a plethora of other activities for you and your guests to peruse. Easy Day If you love bowling – or even if you don’t – a trip to this local upscale bowling alley and restaurant is a must. What a fun place for your attendants to gather or to hold a rehearsal dinner! The restaurant offers delectable delights
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such as lobster rolls and fun drink options. Think of this more as a great restaurant that happens to have quality, bowling lanes. The Maine Brew Bus This is exactly what you think it is. A brilliant idea. Bright green buses take you from stop to stop to experience local craft breweries and wineries. Their guides are also knowledgeable about the local scene, so you are able to ask questions and get a flair for the area. Portland Discovery Tour Whether you choose to tour by land or sea, this 90-minute introduction into
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the history of the city lets you relax and soak it in, and they have a variety of tours available. Portland Head Light and Fort Williams Park First lit in 1791, this beautiful lighthouse and park offers stunning views. With its history and scenery, it makes the perfect stop for visitors – and you can even get married there! Sea Bags If you are doing a welcome bag for out-of-towners or looking for a fun bridesmaids’ gift, head to Portland’s downtown shopping district to the Sea Bags headquarters. These sturdy bags are made from recycled sails, and while you are there, be sure to peruse the other nearby stores.
WEDDING BUDGET WORKSHEET
Grab a calculator and your fiancé, and get ready to have some fun! Be sure to have a budget number in mind before starting this worksheet. What is your total budget for your wedding? $ Look at the budget breakdown below. Break your budget amount down according to the percentages below, and write the number next to it. (Quick math review - to get the amount for your reception, multiply your budget number by .45, and write the number next to the line. Follow suit with the other budget categories.)
Reception - 45%
HERE IS WHAT EACH CATEGORY INCLUDES.
Flowers and Decor - 10%
Reception - site rental, catering, cake, equipment rentals, beverages
Photography and Videography - 10%
Flowers and Decor - bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, arrangements for ceremony and reception, decor rentals, lighting Photography and Videography - photography, videography, prints, albums Planner or Coordinator - 10%
Planner or Coordinator - wedding planning services, day of coordination
Music - 8%
Music - ceremony musicians, cocktail hour music, reception music, sound
Bride & Groom’s Attire - 7%
system rental, dance floor rental
Cushion - 2%
Ceremony - site fee, officiant fee
Ceremony - 2%
Stationery - save the dates, invitations, programs, menus, place cards,
Attire - gown and alterations, tuxedo, accessories, hair and makeup
thank you notes, postage Stationery - 2% Rings - 2% Transportation - 1%
Rings - bride’s wedding band, groom’s wedding band Transportation - transportation for bride and groom, transportation for wedding party, valet parking Gifts - wedding attendant gifts, welcome baskets, favors
Gifts - 1%
Have a talk with your fiancé. What are the 5 things that are the most important to you on your wedding day? Make a list! You may want
Considering your 5 things, tweak the suggested percentages as to what you see fit. Be sure they add up to 100%! Then, using your new percentages, calculate the monetary amount you can designate towards each category. Reception -
(such as parents).
Flowers and Decor -
Photography and Videography -
Planner or Coordinator -
Bride & Groom’s Attire -
you attain those 5 most important
to include the opinion of others
2. 3. 4. 5.
What types of vendors can help
3. 4. 5.
So, how did you do? Talk with your fiancé and discuss your new budget. Happy planning! Want to share? Use Instagram and tag @hillcitybride.
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DIY FOREST WEDDING AN INSPIRATION BOARD If the idea of a woodland wedding appeals to you - especially if you love DIY or are on a budget - then this event is here to inspire! It’s filled with lovely, handmade elements that Kevin and Amanda had woven throughout their day. Passionate about creating and wanting a unique, financially friendly affair, this couple had a lovely day full of whimsy and ideas.
• Amanda made her own wedding invitations (made 2 months before the wedding) and dress (sewn three weeks before the wedding). • Flowers were purchased and arranged by the bride and her maids the day before. • The bridesmaids were given a color palette and could either chose a solid color from the hues or pick a floral patterned dress that included the color scheme. • The bride and bridemaids had a bachelorette party at Rivermont Makery to craft the wedding day headbands. 40
VENDORS Bridal Gown, Stationery, Boutonnieres - Bride Photographer - Colin Mukri Hair - Angie McGouldrick (friend of bride) Makeup - Fabine Edma (friend of bride) Hairpieces - DIY at Rivermont Makery Florals - made by Bride and Bridesmaids (flowers from Kroger) Groomswear - Asos Catering - Joyce Yoder (aunt of groom) Music Playlist - Nathan and Lindsey Isidro (brother and sister-in-law of the bride) Groomâ€™s attire - Asos Wedding Venue - Backyard (brideâ€™s parents) Portrait Venue - The Wisecarver Farm Officiant - Todd Foster Videographer - Josh Etheridge
ROOM FOR THE GROOM including your guy in wedding planning Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, especially if you’re trying to do it alone. The good news is that you’re not alone! Your wedding is about two people—you and your soon-to-be-spouse. Instead of trying to do everything yourself, keep the following suggestions in mind and get your groom involved in the prenuptial preparations.
• Like all stereotypes, the one about men not being interested in wedding planning is not always true, but if your groom is shy about pitching in, remember what he is interested in—you! If it’s about the floral centerpieces for the reception, he might not care much, but if it’s about saving you from total stress
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meltdown, he’ll probably care a lot. Let him know how much pressure you’re under and ask for his help. • Next it’s time to pull out the old to-do list and decide, together, which tasks each of you will take on. Keep personal interests in mind. Let the music lover take charge of the playlist for the reception while the foodie handles the catering. If you feel strongly about flowers, keep that job for yourself and maybe suggest that your uber-organized groom handle the budget and keep track of contracts and appointments. 42 Photo by Lauren Paige Photography
• What about those things that neither of you are particularly thrilled about doing? Well, start by deciding whether they’re absolutely necessary. Do you really need a seating chart or would you rather just let your guests choose their own tables? For those less pleasant chores that you both feel necessary, divide them up evenly or work on them together. • One thing to keep in mind is that if you are asking for his help, you need to be willing to let go of total control. You’ve asked for his opinions and
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assistance, so it’s only fair that you listen and accept what he’s going to
a unique groom’s cake or find ways
offer. In fact, a great way to get him
to incorporate his tastes as well as
excited about planning is to make
hers into the wedding cake. Music,
sure that there’s something in it for
wedding favors, and centerpieces
him to be excited about.
can also be easily chosen to reflect
• What elements of your big day reflect your groom’s personality and style? Some couples get creative with
Aubrey Fredrickson is a happily married, mother-of-two, stay-at-home freelance writer who loves discovering and sharing unique ideas.
personality and interests. What could you add in or change up to make him feel like it really is about him as much as about you?
I Still Do
a mountainside vow renewal Couples spend so much time planning and preparing for the wedding day, yet a lifetime occurs afterwards. Itâ€™s so special to see a husband and wife progress and grow as their life together continues. This 10 year vow renewal is both beautiful and meaningful, and we adore what the wife, Cami, had to say about her journey.
I met Ryan the night before Easter 2003. We were volunteers in a ministry that performed character building assembly programs in elementary schools during the week and sang in churches on the weekend. He was a staff member visiting my team traveling across the west coast. I remember the moment he walked in the door. My team was in the middle of singing "Your Grace Still Amazes Me," and I lost my breath for a second. We got to know each other over the weekend, and though our memory differs on who asked who for their number, (he totally asked for mine) we kept in touch over the remaining months of my tour. We were smitten. By July we had talked almost every day on the phone for the past four months. Ryan asked if he could fly me to visit him in Arizona so we could spend some time together in person, away from our crazy schedules. I had family near his home town and stayed with them during my visit where we had our first date. It was more like a week of spending time together, finally in person.
We dated mostly long distance for the next two years and during a visit with my family in New Jersey, Ryan proposed on June 15, 2005 on the beach in Cape May. He buried a treasure box partially in the sand with his bible inside holding my ring marking Philippians 4:6-8. â€œBe anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let our requests be made known to God: and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.â€? We were married a year later July 22, and two weeks later moved to Virginia to start school and begin our lives together. We celebrated our 10-year anniversary in 2016, the same year we moved our little family of four into our first house â€“ the BEST anniversary present ever. 10 years of marriage has changed us a lot, and taught us a lot. We both began our marriage with a lot of unspoken expectations and not a lot of counsel. Being long distance we were together for the first time all the time, and it was a little overwhelming.
The best decision we ever made was to trust God with our marriage. Sometimes it was Ryan and sometimes it was me, but one of us had to make the conscious decision to point the other to God. A family member told us before we were married that it was better to be kind than to be right. That, along with lots, and lots, and LOTS of grace has made our marriage stronger over time. For couples who are engaged or newly married, choose each other. You will not always be on the same page or want the same things, and you will not always feel blissfully happy. But, choose to forgive and extend grace to each other. Choose to give your time and patience to each other. Choose to consider situations from each other perspectives. But mostly, choose to point each other to God by pursuing Him yourself. When each of you decide to choose these, regardless of whether the other does or not, marriage can be pretty spectacular. 46
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Getting Married in VA Getting married in Virginia? Be sure to get a marriage license! You and your spouse-to-be can obtain a license through any Virginia Circuit Court Clerk. Check www.courts.state.va.us for a listing. Licenses are valid for 60 days and cost $30. Head to www.virginia.org for more detailed information on sites and officiants. You most both be 18 years old - be sure to take an actual certified copy of your birth certificate. If you're under 18, you will need notarized consent from a parent or legal guardian to tie the knot. Also take along a valid driver's license, military ID, state ID or passport for identification. Who can marry you? Great question! Be sure to get an ordained minister (who can show proof of ordination), a marriage commissioner, justice of the peace or a judge. Be sure to make getting a marriage license part of your pre-wedding plans (yes, some couples have forgotten!).
Quick note: Guidelines do change at times, so please head to www.courts.state.va.us to contact your local Circuit Court Clerk's office.
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