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Cool, then chill in fridge for a few hours.
Place ramekins in a water bath, cover with foil, and bake at 300°F for about 2½ hours, or until set (185°F inside).
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SAVED BY HIS HELMET
(Re: At the Scene, Issue 283)
Ten years ago, I got the phone call no parent ever wants to get: “This is Hatzolah calling...”
My son fell off his bike while riding down Ocean Parkway’s bike lane on his way home from mesivta. His wheel hit the curb while crossing the roadway, and he flew headfirst over the handlebars. A Yid who lived in an apartment building nearby heard the impact, brought him inside to his apartment, and called Hatzolah.
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In the ambulance, the EMT asked my son, “Were you wearing a helmet?”
Although I hadn’t witnessed the fall, I answered for him: “Yes, he was.”
That’s because I train my children from when they’re little: “When your training wheels come off, your helmet goes on.” (This idea is presented in a very positive way; my kids know they “graduate” into a big kid helmet when they learn to ride properly, and it’s very exciting to choose one.)
Now, with my older son, there was no question about it. I knew he’d been wearing his helmet.
Sure enough, his helmet was dented, and there was a mark on his forehead from it, but baruch Hashem, he “only” needed stitches.
Accidents happen. It’s our responsibility to be proactive. Think about how you would feel if something preventable happened to your child. This applies to seatbelts, smoke alarms and all other recommended safety measures. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
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(Re: At the Scene, Issue 283)
C.R.
Your article on safety, where you interviewed Hatzolah members, was very informative, with vital information printed in an easy-to-read and compelling way. Would you consider reprinting it in Yiddish so that our Yiddishspeaking children can read it? I feel like the article would win them over and help them understand on their own why helmets are so important — more so than the thousand nagging warnings we give them every day. It could be such a great resource for the community.
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BUBBY’S CLEANING LADY
(Re: Welcome to the Country, Inbox, Issue 283)
I was disappointed to read that some people believe that “it’s a shame that
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people rely so much on their cleaning help. Do you think your grandparents had help?”
We Yiddishe mammes are juggling a lot, and many of us rely on cleaning help to keep up. To see you so publicly knock it with arguments that have no basis is really disappointing and hurtful.
When you ask, “Do you think your grandparents had cleaning help?” The answer is yes. In fact, Sarah Imeinu had Hagar as a maid, and Rochel and Leah had Bilhah and Zilpa. And our grandparents in der alte heim also had household help. There are so many stories of babies hidden during the Holocaust by the gentile women who used to clean the houses of the Jews. So, yes, our grandparents definitely had household help.
Writing about how hard our grandparents worked is unfair and irrelevant. There is no contest regarding who worked harder, and definitely no winner.
And do you really want to know why my illegal cleaning lady walked a month to get here? It’s only because Hashem wanted overwhelmed, little me to have cleaning help. Hashem runs His world b’hashgacha pratis, including my cleaning help (and everyone else’s).
By all means, please teach your children to help out. Whoever lives in a house should be pitching in, regardless of the cleaning help you have. It’s basic mentschlichkeit, which every child should be taught.
But if you’re a busy mother, cleaning help will lighten your load and enable you to be a calm and relaxed mommy for your kids. There’s nothing wrong with this setup.
A Mother With Help
POST-TRAUMATIC GROWTH
(Re: Invalid Parenting, Your Say, Issue 283)
I, too, am a survivor of a traumatic childhood. Baruch Hashem, the Eibershter led me to a professional, skilled healer, who is blessed with wisdom and siyata d’Shmaya. She is guiding me to take the pain and turn it into purpose by healing, integrating and connecting to my true self.
I learned that when children have intense emotions, we need to show up and be present, because children need to feel our connection of love and safety. As soon as my child presents with an emotion that needs support, the first thing I do is notice what I’m feeling and name the emotion. Then I name my child’s emotion. This way I’m clear on what I’m feeling and what they’re feeling. I can identify both and keep them separate.
Next, I recognize that my child is allowed to have emotions, and that my position as a mother is to calmly accept and acknowledge my child’s emotions.
Co-regulation is the process by which you actively manage your own emotions so you can help your kids learn to manage theirs.
When I am calm, my child feels that they have a protector, a mother, who is here to take care of them. This makes
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I learned that it’s worthwhile to stop everything I’m doing and focus my time and energy on my child who is experiencing negative emotions. That’s the most effective way to help them back on track.
Since I’ve begun doing this, my children have become so confident, happy and whole. My children’s trust in me became much stronger. The results are slow yet steady. It’s a lot of hard inner work, but it pays off.
If we want to see nachas from our children, we need to speak to them b’nachas.
With hope for a healthy future,
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CHAIN REACTION
(Re: Chain of Light, Your Say, Issue 283)
This letter is in regard to the lost diamond earring mentioned in the letter thanking Chaverim.
I saw a sign on a tree on my street saying that a diamond earring was found on March 9. The telephone number given there was 718-437-0549.
I hope this letter will be helpful to that person or someone else who has lost a diamond earring.
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GIVE SOME THOUGHT
(Re: Give or Take, Issue 282)
This story is a masterpiece. I love the writing style — rich, but not frivolous. The characters are likable and so relatable. In the latest installment, the sentiments expressed by Perela are something all responsible adults can relate to, but perhaps mothers of young children most of all… which puts a lot of responsibility on the author. The more we relate to a story, the more we will absorb its messages. I hope your writers are guided by daas Torah in this regard.
Which leads me to the question that’s been bothering me for a while: Why haven’t Ezriel and Perela consulted with daas Torah until now? How can such significant decisions be based only on their own perspective and sentiments? Ultimately, a Yid doesn’t do what feels good, but what’s right.
I enjoy The Boro Park View immensely. I’m writing in regarding the article on baking with kids. I was surprised that you didn’t include interviews with any devoted mothers who carve out time and, yes, lots of patience to give their children the experience of creating delicious baked goodies from scratch. Kids love to pour the eggs, oil and other exciting ingredients into the bowl and watch it magically turn into whatever it is supposed to be.
Store-bought dough is very practical in emergency situations, but baking with kids could be much more enriching than that. Please help this rush-rush generation find time for what really counts.
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IF YOU SUFFER FROM SEASONAL ALLERGIES, WHICH MEDICATIONS OR REMEDIES DO YOU FIND HELPFUL?
My husband suffers terribly from seasonal allergies. I find that Claritin helps him more than anything else. When it rains he also feels a lot better, as the rain washes the pollen away.
Seven other readers agree that Claritin is the way to go.
Zyrtec provides 24 hours of non-drowsy relief. It helps my entire family.
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I started using the Smiling Herbs Allergy Relief vitamin about two years ago. I take it all year and have seen amazing results.
One more reader mentioned Smiling Herbs Allergy Relief as working well for seasonal allergies.
Allegra Allergy has really helped. You can buy it over the counter in the pharmacy and need to take it every twelve hours.
Another reader mentioned Allegra Allergy as being super helpful.
I ordered a plug-in machine on Amazon called an Air Purifier that filters the air and pulls the pollen out of the air you breathe.
I keep rotating between Allegra, Claritin, Zyrtec and Benadryl. Acupuncture has also made a difference. And, of course, tefillah helps — Hashem is the true Healer. As for local honey, it’s sweet, but not a cure. The pollen in it isn’t the airborne kind that causes allergies, and any relief is likely just a placebo effect.
I use Zahler’s Immune Defense.
For itchy eyes, Pataday eye drops are great.
I use a vitamin C powder called sodium ascorbate from the company Nutribiotic. It helps me tremendously.
Putting an onion cut in quarters near your bed each night is super helpful. I’ve tried everything, including acupuncture, but found no relief.
I have been suffering from seasonal allergies for years. The symptoms were so severe that no medication helped me. Three years ago, a local allergy and asthma doctor recommended that I get allergy shots. I went to get the shots twice a week at first. At this point, I go once a month, and the symptoms are much better.
As someone who has suffered for years, and tried nearly everything, nothing has helped me so far. I recently heard about a twoyear diet that heals allergies at the root. It’s quite restrictive, so one would need to be pretty desperate to try it, but the testimonies of healing have been very encouraging. I would love to form a group of people to do it together because I think that would make it easier. Please reach out to The Boro Park View for my contact information if you’d like to join.
I had very bad seasonal seasonal allergies in the past, and I treated it with NAET, National Allergy Elimination Treatment done by a trained chiropractor prior to the season. My allergies are all gone now.
I usually have difficulty breathing due to severe seasonal allergies. My doctor has prescribed a spray called Albuterol Sulfate Inhalation Aerosol, and it’s really been helping.
I have asthma, which is not seasonal but has year-round triggers. My excellent ENT recommended sinus rinses. I use the NeilMed Sinus Rinse, and many times, when someone has smoked a cigarette or I am exposed to any other trigger, I quickly do a sinus rinse to be spared from a serious asthma attack. It is also helpful for seasonal allergies.
The Sujok method of acupressure really helps, but you need a few sessions of it. Also, avoiding spicy foods and sweets helps decrease the symptoms of seasonal allergies.
Keep windows closed and wash up when you come in from outdoors.
Tissues, tissues and more tissues... I didn’t yet find anything that really helps. The best remedy seems to be cocooning indoors with the windows shut.
Nothing works! You just have to wait it out. The funny part is hearing from your friends at shul, “This is the best product against allergies,” or, “Try this supplement…,” while they all have the same red eyes and hold tissues in their hands…
I started using the Defend Super Patches daily a little before allergy season, and feel like the allergies passed over me this year. This year, I finally enjoyed the beautiful weather without the side effects that used to accompany it.
I suffer from seasonal allergies, and every year I try different medications or solutions, believing that this time I’ll get lucky. So far nothing has helped me.
We like Bee Pollen from the Forever Living brand.
I recently heard about a customformula nasal spray that needs to be ordered on allermi.com. They ask about the symptoms and create a custom spray for you. I haven’t tried it yet but heard that it is amazing.
Something that I found really helped was essential oils. A woman in Boro Park sells essential oils with a humidifier for this purpose. You can reach out to The Boro Park View for her information.
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The parsha begins with the monumental mitzvah of Shemittah. As an introduction, the pasuk says, “Vayedaber Hashem el Moshe Behar Sinai,” (Vayikra 25:1), and then goes on to discuss aspects of Shemittah. Rashi and other meforshim ask: What is the special connection between Har Sinai and Shemittah? After all, all the mitzvos of the Torah were given at Har Sinai!
In a discussion with Reb Tzvi Getker, Pinchas Appelton, a farmer on Moshav Margaliot, described his Shemittah experiences, which lend a new perspective on this question.
Pinchas shares:
THE YEAR WAS 5761/2001. Although my family was already somewhat exposed to Yiddishkeit and observing some mitzvos, I could not imagine keeping Shemittah. I was in the middle of building a new house on the moshav for my family, and our financial situation was tight. I put all my hopes in my crops, taking out a huge loan to buy tools, irrigation systems, seedlings, fertilizer and everything I needed. It was simply not an option for me not to work my fields that year.
I chose to plant tomatoes. The tomato crop is planted in three installments over the course of a year. In the earth’s best interest, the first crop is sowed in one-third of the field, the second in two-thirds, and the third time, the entire field is planted.
I began with the first crop. I plowed the field, sowed the seeds, and watered them diligently. In time, my labor saw results. The field was covered in refreshing green foliage. But then I noticed something strange. The tomatoes remained green. I waited and waited, but they did not ripen. After doing some research, I discovered that there had been a problem with the seeds. The vendor returned the seed fee, but I was still left with an enormous loss. My only comfort was that this was the smallest first round, and hopefully, I would recover my losses in the next two harvests.
With renewed vigor, I prepared the soil again — sowing, watering, spraying. This time, the tomatoes were beautiful. I hired
workers and purchased cartons to package the crop. We entered the field — only to discover that the gorgeous red tomatoes were infested with worms. Apparently, we had omitted one important spray from the series of pesticides the fields were treated with. I was left with hardly anything to sell.
This loss was harder to swallow. I had to borrow money again in order to reinvest in my fields for the final round that year. Hopefully, the crop would be ready by Tishrei, when the demand is high, and I would somehow recoup my previous losses.
The process began all over again, and the crop was bountiful. My fields were full, with more than 60 tons of successful harvest.
Once again, I hired workers and purchased cartons. At daybreak, we entered the fields, ready to pick, but the scene that met our eyes was horrifying. The field was bare. There was not a single tomato — or even a leaf — to pick.
I discovered that we had accidentally left the irrigation system open the week before, and that caused a smell that invited animals of all kinds. They breached the fence and snuck inside. Within a day or two, they had devoured our entire crop.
I can’t begin to describe my pain. The price of tomatoes had skyrocketed, making the depth of my loss that much greater. Not only had I not earned money, but I now had to deal with the loans, which I could hardly repay.
My wife and I came to the conclusion that, come what may, the next Shemittah would be a Sabbatical year for us. We had learned the hard way, seeing clearly how there was simply no bracha in my work.
A year before Shemittah rolled around again, I invested extra energy and took out new loans, hoping the crop would be so bountiful that I would be able to rest my fields the following year. I planted tomatoes, cucumbers, zucchini, eggplants and peppers. I still had no idea that the Torah promises that there will be blessings in the sixth year to tide Shemittah-keepers over for three years — the sixth, seventh and eighth years of the cycle. I was simply doing my part so my family would have what to live on.
Immediately after planting, missiles began flying from Leb-
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“I didn’t hire you to daydream,” I said. “You begged for a job, but all you’re doing is gazing at the field”
anon, and since our moshav is very close to the border, we were forced to evacuate. We turned off the irrigation systems and left. I can’t tell you how many questions arose in my heart. Here I was preparing to keep Shemittah! What did Hashem want from me now?
Two months later, we were back home. I returned to my withered fields, facing lots of work; we had to clear the field of the wilted zucchini and cucumbers, and the inedible eggplants and peppers. It was an enormous amount of labor, but it would bring me no profit.
Soon after, a merchant asked if I had any second-class tomatoes to sell him, for use in cooking. I went to check my tomato fields, and lo and behold, a gorgeous crop awaited me. The tomatoes were plump, red and firm — nicer than ever before. Against all odds, the tomatoes had grown beautifully. The demand was high, and my workers and I spent the next ten days harvesting nonstop. I sold my tomatoes to the highest bidder.
My profits enabled me to easily pay off all my debts from the previous Shemittah. I could finally complete our house, and even purchase a new tractor.
At the end of the sixth year, my bookkeeping showed I had earned triple my usual profit — just as the Torah promises.
In the sixth year of the following cycle, I leased large fields and planted all sorts of vegetables. We saw such miracles; it was impossible to deny that Hashem was behind it all.
The first was with our fava beans. After the beans began to grow, there was a rare snowstorm in the area. All of our crops were covered in a thick layer of snow and ice. There goes my bean crop, I thought.
When the snow melted, I trekked up to see the bean plot, which was atop a hill. Amazingly, not only had the ice not smothered and frozen my beans, but the flattened crop somehow caused an additional row of fava beans to sprout between each of the rows I had planted. The fava bean plants had simply doubled on their own!
I needed to pick the beans imme-
diately, and hired a local Arab worker. Soon, I noticed that the Arab wasn’t harvesting the beans as I had asked him. He was standing and staring into space.
“I didn’t hire you to daydream,” I said. “You begged for a job, but all you’re doing is gazing at the field.”
The man turned to me and said in Arabic, “I must admit, you Jews are Gd’s favored nation!”
The Arab continued, “My family has been planting fava beans for 40 years, and never has such a thing happened — bean plants that duplicate on their own? It must be Divine intervention.”
That same year, we grew hot peppers. The crop was so abundant that I didn’t know what to do with it all. I mean, how many hot peppers could I sell? There was enough for half the country, literally!
In the end, I made a connection with a wholesaler, who purchased the entire thing. He said he had the ability to sell my hot peppers, which were large and juicy, throughout the entire country. For four months straight, I had a team of workers pick and pick and pick those peppers.
Interestingly, when it came to paying me the final installment, the wholesaler informed me that his business was in trouble and would be forced to close soon. Apparently, his business had been established only to market my pepper blessing. There’s no other explanation.
Rashi offers two explanations to our question regarding the connection between Har Sinai and Shemittah. But here we can derive another answer.
A Yid who keeps Shemittah and sees with his own eyes the bracha he is blessed with when adhering to this special mitzvah, or chas v’shalom, the curse from not observing it, has no choice but to recognize that the Torah was given at Har Sinai. Shemittah is an obvious proof. If one previously had any doubts, by watching the consequences of Shemittah, all that remains is to accept the Torah b’ahavah. It’s obviously from Hashem!
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Spring was finally here. After being cooped up in our apartment through the winter months, my children and I were eager to spend the afternoon in warm air and sunshine. “I’m so happy they’re finally moving a bit,” I thought, watching them race with their scooters. “If only they could have more movement daily.” The hours they spend sitting on buses and school desks always bothered me, yet seems to be an unavoidable reality.
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As my children played with friends, I joined a group of neigh bors chatting nearby.
“My child is a different person now!” Miri exclaimed. “She’s happier, less rigid, and has a clearer mind. I never imagined she could be so alert and sharp.”
“It was our miracle too,” Chavi nodded. “Yaakov’s fine motor skills improved in just one week. His handwriting is finally legible, and he buttons his shirt by himself.”
Malka, always in-the-know, shared more stories—her nephew stopped bedwetting, her friend’s daughter improved scholastically, and her sister-in-law became more grounded and socially accepted.
I listened quietly. I had no idea what they were talking about. I wasn’t sure I even wanted to know. It’s probably about another vitamin that my kids would refuse to swallow and the kashrus of it would not pass my husband’s guidelines anyway. Or maybe it was about a therapy center that does magic. My heart ached. My kids could use the boost. Life is too overwhelming, and schlepping out twice a week doesn’t fit my schedule. Besides, it’s probably private pay, and way beyond my financial abilities.
As I remained quiet, wondering how my neighbors all manage these comprehensive interventions, Miri continued; “The most amazing part is that it’s easy to do, the kids love it, and it’s actually affordable.”
I snapped out of my thoughts. “What on earth are you all talking about?”
“The Brain Booster USB,” Malka explained. “It’s just six minutes of fun exercises that enhance circulation to the brain and nervous system. The whole family gets these benefits at home, and it costs less than one therapy session.”
Six minutes? That couldn’t be right. I’d bought exercise CD’s in the past. I challenged her: “How could such a short workout make any difference?”
“That’s exactly the point,” she smiled. “It’s not a regular exercise CD—it’s a specifically targeted physio-neuro workout for optimal brain development.”
Later that evening, I shared the encounter with my husband. I listened to the explanation and feedback on the hotline, and we agreed that at this price it was worth trying, and placed an order.
“THE MOST AMAZING PART IS THAT IT’S EASY TO DO, THE KIDS LOVE IT, AND IT’S ACTUALLY AFFORDABLE.”
Two days later, the cute little box arrived. Within three days, it became part of our evening routine—and then came the changes. Moishy became more expressive, Leah earned a nachas note, and I stopped washing Chaim’s linen daily. Even I felt more focused at bedtime.
“Hashem is in control...” My children hum the words of the song to themselves. Thank You Hashem for this gift and all the blessings it brought to our family.
WHAT IS “BRAIN BOOSTERS”?
Four years ago, Mrs. Jakubowicz, a classroom teacher in Monsey, NY, recognized the profound importance of daily physio-neuro exercise for children’s development. She initially created a basic workout routine for her first-grade students and was amazed by the visible improvements that quickly emerged. Witnessing these positive changes, she embarked on a mission to make high-quality brain-enhancing products accessible and affordable to all parents and educators. Over time, respected experts and professionals in the field contributed their insights, helping to refine and strengthen the program.
“Brain Boosters isn’t only for children who need therapy,” Mrs. Jakubowicz explains. “Just like every healthy person benefits from nutritious eating and proper sleeping habits, every human body performs better with optimal brain function.”
The program has earned enthusiastic praise from parents and educators who have successfully implemented it in their homes or classrooms. Today, Brain Boosters offers an exciting selection of engaging brain activities at affordable prices, designed to help families spend quality time together in ways that are both fun and developmentally beneficial.
WHAT IS PHYSIO-NEURO EXERCISE?
Physio-neuro exercises are physical movements designed to support and enhance neurological function. These include activities like cross-midline exercises, right-left coordination, balance training and more. When these targeted movements are done in specific patterns consistently, they help clear blockages within the brain and nervous system, allowing new neural pathways to form. As these healthy networks take over, improvements in brain processing and overall development may become noticeable. Since the brain serves as the control center for all bodily functions, enhancing its connectivity can lead to positive changes across many areas — including physical coordination, cognitive function, emotional regulation, sleep, digestion and behavioral responses.
MRS. JAKUBOWICZ RESPONDS
While learning about the program’s rapid growth in such a short time, we questioned Mrs Jakubowicz about it, to which she answered: “When I left my teaching career, I was interested in delving deeper into the science behind brain exercise. This quest led me to Mrs. Silbiger from the Highways Kriah Program, who offered invaluable insight and information about brain processing. Mrs.Silbiger’s own journey began when she connected with Dr. Fraida Flaishman, PhD OTR/L, a renowned occupational therapist, who emphasized the connection of many foundational OT area’s impact on the development of Kriah abilities. After that, a comprehensive course was created.
Working with Mrs Silbiger transformed my project in many ways. The workout was elevated by integrating advanced OT principles, reflex integration, and specialized physio-neuro techniques. Our team spent months refining each part to ensure its clarity, safety, and practicality. Throughout this process, we consulted with leading experts, professionals, and educators to perfect our program so that it caters the widest range of children physically, cognitively, emotionally, socially, and academically.
During challenging moments when the work seemed overwhelming, Mrs. Silbiger would remind: “You’re doing this for Hashem. Ask Him to help you figure it out.” Her guidance extended beyond technical aspects as she encouraged meaningful technology guidelines in our operations and daily Chovos Halevavos learning. Realizing that only Hashem is the one who can help anyone struggling, and focusing on bringing Him into the picture at every moment, was the ultimate key to success throughout.
When customers ask if the USB really helps, our typical answer is, “No, USBs do not help anyone. Hashem is the one that helps!”
If you feel that this program is the right form of hishtadlus for your family, may you too be zoche to see the positive results and niflaos haBorei that so many have baruch Hashem seen.”
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
For what age group is Brain Boosters recommended?
Ages 3 and up. While originally created for kids, many adults have reported seeing noticeable improvements in their day-to-day life as well!
Is there any coverage for this workout?
While this program is not covered by insurance, Double U—a popular service-based agency committed to helping clients thrive—has introduced Brain Boosters to their families. After seeing clients reduce their need for services thanks to the program, Double U now helps all current and new clients with funding towards this program. To sign up, call 779368-2538.
When can I expect to see change?
Every neurology is different, so results vary. Some see changes in days, others in weeks or months. A 6-week chart is included to help you track progress. And yes—your tefillos :) and consistency can make all the difference!
Can I share it?
This program is for your family’s personal use only and may not be shared with others. However, you’re welcome to copy the track onto your own player or device for convenience.
Can I stop taking my child for one-on-one help?
Brain Boosters is not a replacement for professional services when needed. It’s a powerful brain workout designed to work alongside any other support your child may be receiving.
What’s included?
Each package contains a USB, with the track, practice sheets, and wall signs on it. A booklet with clear pictures and a fun motivational chart is included too.
How often should we do it?
Daily is ideal, but don’t stress if you miss a day. Many families enjoy using it as a Sunday activity too!
Is there a video version?
Yes! You can receive an animated version of the track by email for an additional $10.
Why does Double U help pay for this?
As an agency who strives to help their clients in every possible way, Double U discovered Brain Boosters to be an incredibly effective tool. After witnessing many children reduce their need for ongoing services, they chose to make the program available to their clients. Double U’s ultimate goal and ongoing mission is to help your child improve—not stay dependent on services.
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NYS Education Department Softens
Stance on Yeshiva Regulations
There was finally good news to report in the ongoing vendetta against New York’s yeshivas, with the New York State Education Department conceding that perceived academic deficiencies could be addressed in ways that don’t require yeshivas to alter their curricula.
A statement released on May 15 by Parents for Educational and Religious Liberty in Schools, more commonly known as PEARLS, announced that NYSED admitted to a Court of Appeals that parents could use tutors or extra-curricular programs to supplement their children’s education. NYSED has spent years arguing that yeshiva curricula must be regulated by outside bodies to ensure that students are receiving an education substantially equivalent to that being offered in public schools, and that they are taught particular subjects for a specified number of hours.
“It took us three years of litigation to get SED to admit that parents can satisfy their compulsory education obligation by a combination of sources,” read the statement. “We will continue to press our claims for as long as necessary until SED acknowledges that it has no legal right to impose penalties on yeshivas.”
The statement from PEARLS came one day after some parents at UTA Boro Park III received letters informing them that their school no longer fulfills state educational requirements, and that all special education and related services at the school would be discontinued as of June 30. The letter informed parents that they were required to inform the New York City Department of Education of their children’s upcoming enrollment at either a public school, a private/ religious school, or a homeschooling program, with new IEPs to be developed for each child.
Yeshiva World News obtained an email sent by PEARLS to the New York City DOE, informing them that those letters were baseless in light of NYSED’s agreeing that supplemental instruction could satisfy its substantial equivalency requirement. Within 24 hours, the NYC DOE announced on social media that it would be taking no further action against schools
that were previously identified as “non-substantially equivalent” until it received further written guidance from the state.
Brooklyn Bridge Reopened to Traffic After Fatal Collision
It was a real-life nightmare as Shabbos came to a close last week, when a historic Mexican naval training ship malfunctioned and crashed straight into the Brooklyn Bridge.
Two people died and nearly 20 were injured when the Cuauhtémoc lost power and drifted south from Pier 17, its three masts snapping as they hit the undercarriage of the iconic span. According to news reports, the ship had lost power and was pulled into the bridge by the East River’s current.
Over 270 Mexican sailors were aboard when the Cuauhtémoc hit the bridge. Multiple sailors were positioned on the ship’s masts when the crash occurred, with divers going into the East River to search for victims. Thankfully, none of the ship’s sailors ended up in the East River’s murky waters.
The Brooklyn Bridge was filled with cars when the accident occurred and was closed in both directions as New York City emergency management officials raced to the scene to inspect the structure of the nearly 150-year-old span. Addressing the media at a press conference following the crash, Mayor Eric Adams announced that a preliminary inspection had shown that the bridge had not sustained any serious damage, and was being reopened to public traffic.
The Cuauhtémoc had been in New York for several days and had been docked at Pier 17, near the South Street Seaport, where it had been open for public tours. It was headed to Iceland at the time the accident occurred.
A post by Mexican President Claudia Sheinbaum read, “We are deeply saddened by the loss of two crew members of the Cuauhtémoc Training Ship, who lost their lives in the unfortunate accident in New York Harbor. Our sympathy and support go out to their families.”
Strong Contender for NYC Mayor Offers Lame Excuses on Refusal To Sign Resolution Condemning Holocaust
The second-place contender in the upcoming Democratic mayoral primary defended his disturbing stance on an issue that should have been anything but controversial, refusing to sign a resolution condemning the Holocaust.
Appearing at a campaign stop last week, Assemblyman Zohran Mamdani insisted that his unwillingness to sign the resolution back in January was the result of a pledge made to his office staff that he would not co-sponsor any resolutions this year, no matter what the topic. Mamdani attempted to deflect criticism by saying that he has proudly voted for the resolution to establish January 27 as Holocaust Remembrance Day in New York every year that he has been in office, and would do so again in the future.
Those words fell flat for Met Council CEO David Greenfield, a former City Councilman.
“NOT supporting a pro-Israel resolution does NOT make you an anti-Semite,” observed Greenfield. “However, NOT recognizing the Holocaust certainly does.”
Mamdani declined to say why he had decided against cosponsoring any resolutions in the Assembly this year.
NYC Creates New Department To Fight Antisemitism
had already been serving as the Jewish liaison at City Hall’s Community Affairs Unit, the newly launched office will have an inter-agency taskforce that will take a multi-pronged approach to fighting antisemitism in all forms and will also ensure that there is no anti-Jewish bias at city-funded entities and agencies.
Adams noted that New York City is the first major metropolis in the country to have an office dedicated to protect its Jewish residents, with a goal of ensuring that they are not only protected, but have the opportunity to thrive.
“Antisemitism is an attack not only on Jewish New Yorkers, but on the very idea of New York City as a place where people from all backgrounds can live together,” said Adams.
Davis lauded the mayor as “a modern-day Maccabee” in his efforts to stand up for Jewish New Yorkers.
“Combating antisemitism requires a sledgehammer approach: coordinated, unapologetic and immediate,” said Davis.
According to the NYPD, 54% of all hate crimes committed in 2024 were directed against Jews. That number has risen to 62% in the first quarter of 2025.
Federal Tax Bill Includes Historic Legislation That Could Provide Tuition Relief to Yeshiva Parents
Yeshiva parents may be one step closer to getting some welldeserved financial relief, with the House of Representatives including legislation in a draft budget document unveiled last week that could translate into serious savings on their tuition bills.
Responding to an unprecedented rise in antisemitism, Mayor Eric Adams announced his plan last week to establish an office that would be dedicated solely to combating hate directed at Jews.
Adams announced the creation of the Mayor’s Office to Combat Antisemitism on May 13. Headed by Moshe Davis, who
The Educational Choice for Children Act (ECCA) could potentially provide $5 billion in tuition scholarships for nonpublic school children in grades K through 12 per year. Modeled after programs that are already being used in over 20 states, the bill would provide dollar-for-dollar federal tax credits to those who donate to approved scholarship-granting organizations. In turn, those organizations would provide scholarships to their contributors that would cover a variety of educational costs, including private school tuition.
The legislation is the product of years of advocacy by elected
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“Agudath Israel and its allies will continue to urge Congressional leaders and the administration to include ECCA in its broadest form in any budget deal so that it can help millions of children across the country, including those wishing to attend yeshivas and other nonpublic schools,” said Rabbi A.D. Motzen, national director of government affairs at the Agudah.
Yeshiva parents in Arizona, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Louisiana, Maryland, Minnesota, Missouri, Nevada, New Jersey, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, Tennessee, Texas and Wyoming are already benefiting from $150 million in state scholarship funding.
New Jersey Assemblyman Rabbi Avi Schnall, who is also the director of federal education affairs at the Agudah, described this latest development as a major step forward, reported Yeshiva World News.
“Now is not the time to sit back,” said Rabbi Schnall. “We’re closer than we’ve ever been to real, meaningful change. But we need more tefillos, more outreach and continued attention until this becomes law.”
Self-Checkout Here To Stay, Says Target
Addressing rumors that it was eliminating its self-checkout lanes, Target has confirmed that its self-scanning areas will remain in place in most of its stores, albeit with a limit of ten items per customer.
Target guests began posting recently that the self-checkout lanes had disappeared in their local stores, sparking rumors that the retail giant was making the switch to offering only manned checkouts. Target is among the many retailers who have been plagued by shoplifting, with nearly $500 million in losses sustained in 2023 alone.
A statement issued by Target on May 5 reminded the public that the store had instituted limits on its self-checkout lanes in March 2024. The move has translated into shorter lines and improved checkout experiences for customers, said Target.
But some Target shoppers took a different view of the situation. One shared a picture of the space at her local Target where the registers used to be, which was completely empty. Another complained that there were sixteen checkout lanes in her store, with just one cashier and a “mile-long” line at the self-checkout register.
Target isn’t the only store to have made changes to its selfcheckouts. Walmart made the move to staffed-checkoutsonly at certain stores in Missouri and Cleveland, claiming it would improve service, while Dollar General is eliminating self-service kiosks at 300 stores, and instituting a five-item maximum at self-checkout lanes in other stores. Five Below has said that it would be removing most of its self-checkout lanes and would have guards checking customer receipts as they left the premises.
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QI’m a friendly, easygoing kind of person and usually get along well with people. Recently, my sister-in-law, who I’m pretty close with, made a very hurtful comment. I know I’m supposed to forgive her, but how can I? I feel like I don’t want to speak with her ever again.
— Devoiry
ADear Devoiry,
First, I want you to know that I see and recognize the pain that your sister-in-law has caused. She made a hurtful comment to you, and it really struck deep. You’ve probably been mentally repeating this comment to yourself over and over again. Before we talk about forgiveness and letting go, I want to acknowledge the painful experience of being humiliated and the damage that it causes.
When someone does something that hurts us, we usually assume that the individual had bad intent. We mentally replay the incident and convince ourselves that the person meant to hurt us. But in reality, there’s usually more than just one intention that motivates a person to do or say something.
The term “dialectic” refers to the understanding that
there are multiple perspectives and opposing points of view for any particular experience. By utilizing a dialectical approach and stretching our emotional muscles, we can notice more possibilities and more perspectives on a particular thought. This enables us to see others in a more realistic, human, fallible way.
There is a wonderful quote by famous advice columnist Bernard Meltzer: “When you forgive, you in no way change the past, but you sure do change the future.”
Holding onto the resentment will keep you stuck in the pattern of pain and powerlessness. By forgiving your sisterin-law, you’re not saying that what she did was okay, or that it didn’t hurt, or that it doesn’t bother you anymore. Forgiving is just acknowledging that although she hurt you, you’re allowing yourself to have a different future with her — and with yourself. You’re allowing yourself to have a future that
WHEN SOMEONE DOES SOMETHING THAT HURTS US, WE USUALLY ASSUME THAT THE INDIVIDUAL HAD BAD INTENT
is not represented by one particular comment or incident. You’re choosing a future in which you conduct yourself in a manner that aligns with your highest self. Forgiveness is not only a mitzvah, but a wonderful gift to yourself. Have you ever asked yourself why you’re holding on to the pain and the hurt? You may need to dig deeper to gain a better understanding into what’s blocking your forgiveness. Ask yourself how your life would be different if you allowed yourself to fill your heart with compassion and forgiveness. What kind of person would you be if you didn’t have to be burdened by this pain? Dig deep and find your inner truth.
While I don’t know the particulars of this comment, I do know that broadening the manner in which you think about the comment is helpful. Remember the times where you may have said things you later regretted, or when you unintentionally hurt someone. This may help you view your sister-in-law with a more forgiving lens. Acknowledging that we’re all imperfect people, all struggling and sometimes unaware, helps us forgive our own mistakes and the mistakes of others.
In summary, first give yourself the validation in a compassionate and supportive manner that allows you to hold and heal your pain. Second, remind yourself that forgiveness is a gift for yourself. By forgiving, you’re allowing yourself to surrender to what has already happened without the need to constantly hold on to the pain. And finally, acknowledging that we all mess up sometimes will help you forgive. When you forgive yourself for your own mistakes, and forgive others for theirs, you create a more harmonious world.
Toby R. Tannenbaum is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in Monsey, NY. She specializes in trauma treatment for adolescents and adults.
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Tziri and Perela fly to China. Tziri suggests that Perela put her mother in a nursing home.
anyone at this point. Besides, my son is getting married in January. And… and he comes first. And I think I told you all of this at the wedding.”
“Don’t worry,” Fruma Esther soothed. “It’s not as if Mr. Newman is any more eager than you. But that just shows me that it’s a match made in heaven.”
Kaily woke up to the feeling of her pillow vibrating. She fumbled for her phone and her negel vasser at the same moment.
“Hello?” she answered groggily.
“Fruma Esther speaking.”
“Hi…?” Was she supposed to know who this woman was? Was she supposed to know anything at this hour of the morning?
“It was nice meeting you the other night. I was wondering if you, you know, feel differently after our little talk. I gave you a full day to think about it.”
Oh! Fruma Esther Jaraslowitz.
“I’m not in shidduchim,” Kaily said automatically. What time was it, anyway? She checked her watch and exhaled. It was only 8:00. She still had time until her mother needed help dressing and taking her medication.
“Do you want to stay single forever?” Fruma Esther shrilled.
And if I do, why do you care? Why would anyone care?
Fruma Esther waited, apparently expecting an answer. She waited until Kaily was fidgeting under her virtual gaze.
“What I want… is irrelevant,” Kaily answered.
“Exactly,” Fruma Esther answered triumphantly. “Excuses are irrelevant. Therefore, I think you should meet Mr. Newman one day this week. You can choose which day.”
“No,” Kaily said forcefully. “Just no. It’s misleading to meet
Despite herself, Kaily froze. Why wouldn’t he want to meet me?
For a moment, she fantasized saying, Sure. Thanks for thinking of me. What time works for him?
Then she heard the telltale sounds of wheels clanking in the hallway. This is your place now, Kaily.
“Have a good day,” she said around a sudden lump in her throat. “If I change my… er… position, I’ll let you know.”
Her heart rate quickened. She hoped her mother couldn’t hear her. Her mother didn’t deserve the burden of guilt.
Her phone buzzed from an incoming text. U up already? Just settled into the hotel and checking in to hear how things are with Mommy. I’m thinking about you.
She couldn’t help herself. Things are the same. As in, it’s only me on duty. Going for a hip MRI soon to check if it’s fully healed and PT later. It wouldn’t hurt to call Mommy soon.
Kaily waited for a response. She wanted Perela to get mad, so she could get mad back. But her phone remained silent.
She got dressed, listening intently to the noise coming from downstairs.
When she had lived downstairs, she took comfort in the poor insulation between the two floors. It made her feel safe and secure to hear the gentle footsteps from upstairs. Now the poor insulation allowed her to hear the painters putting a fresh coat of paint over her memories.
She straightened her blanket on the narrow hi-riser and pushed some unpacked boxes from one corner of the room
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“THIS IS RIDICULOUS. YOU HIRE ME TO DO A SHIDDUCH, AND I WORK LIKE A DOG TO GET THE OTHER SIDE TO EVEN LISTEN
to the other. The room did not get any bigger. Had she been too mean to her sister?
Finally, her phone buzzed: If you tried guilting me, job well done.
* * * * *
It was exhausting to have Parkinson’s all day, every day. Roiza had made peace — a cold peace — with her condition. But, always?
She didn’t even attempt to dress herself. Instead, she wrapped a sweater over her shoulders.
All Roiza wanted was to tiptoe noiselessly down the hallway to complete her long list of clandestine tasks before Kaily made her appearance. Instead, her walker made a racket as she clattered to the living room. She hoped Kaily would sleep through this noise at least until she finished with Kathy and Richie on the phone.
The smell of fresh paint from downstairs made her cough, and she quieted it with her hand. Then her phone rang. She answered as quickly as her pre-medicated hands could answer.
“Fruma Esther speaking.” No hello, no good morning. “This is ridiculous. You hire me to do a shidduch, and I work like a dog to get the other side to even listen. Only to find out that your daughter isn’t even interested! It’s literally like moving a building. A building,” she repeated for good measure. Her New York accent rang through the line.
Roiza stayed silent. She moved over to the couch and maneuvered her body into it. Why did her hip still hurt so much?
But Fruma Esther wasn’t done. “She tells me she can’t because of you!”
SHE MOVED, SHE QUIVERED. THE NOISE STARTED UP, AND SHE CONCENTRATED ON THE “LO IRA RA.” HER HIP THROBBED IN THIS UNCOMFORTABLE POSITION
Ouch.
Roiza watched a car pull up and a woman exit, a tiny baby in her arms. It was Mrs. Gordon, the woman who had taken the apartment for her daughter — a kallah
“That’s not true,” she said quietly. How could she explain to this woman that she would give her life for Kaily’s happiness? She watched the woman fumble with the doorknob. How good it must feel to set your daughter up for life.
“Listen. I’ll try to work on this. But don’t tell her I know. You keep calling.”
“I can’t hear you,” Fruma Esther said.
This was happening more often lately, people complaining they couldn’t hear her.
She pitched her voice and concentrated on her vocal chords. “Don’t tell her I know, and keep calling,” she abbreviated.
“One more week. That’s it,” Fruma Esther said. Roiza hung up, fretting. Who could help her? Eli and Yiddy had done their part, and Perela was a half a world away. Maybe Kaily’s sons? It was worth a try.
But first, she had to get Kathy and Richie from Connecticut to make up their minds about solar energy. She needed their commission to complete the little fund she had.
They’d promised an answer today. If they agreed, this would be her fourth sale with a nice commission per client. She would have enough for something beautiful. She watched a harried Mrs. Gordon exit the apartment and head to her car.
There would be a gorgeous necklace for Kaily.
Within the week. * * * * *
“I didn’t buy Bina anything yet,” Roiza mused over breakfast, still giddy from clinching the sale with Kathy and Richie so early in the morning.
Kaily spooned avocado into her plate and blew on the toast to cool it off. Roiza watched her daughter’s fingers work swiftly as she opened one medicine bottle after another to pick out those that needed to be taken with food.
“Maybe we can go out sometime today?”
Kaily nodded. “If you want. But it’s okay, Ma, really. Bina loves you anyway.”
Sure. It was always okay. It was fine for her to sit like a useless rag while her daughter devoted every minute of her day to her and sacrificed her entire life for Roiza.
“It’s not okay,” she said fiercely. “I want to. And I want it to be something beautiful. I’m thinking about a diamond necklace.”
Kaily stopped her quick movements.
“Are you sure, Ma? These things cost a fortune. A diamond necklace is a couple of thousand dollars.”
“I know,” Roiza said calmly.
“Are you sure? Maybe Yiddy should check your accounts?” she asked delicately.
“He did. I earned a nice commission from Yiddy. Let’s go today.”
She watched Kaily’s eyes open wide in admiration. She could swallow all her pills in one shot, that’s how gratified she felt.
Her contentment lasted until the narrow, hard MRI bed entered the claustrophobic hole.
Gam ki eilech b’gei tzalmaves, Roiza whispered, keeping her eyes closed. Even with the pillow under her head, she felt her saliva pooling near her throat.
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“Take a deep breath,” the technician’s amplified voice announced. “And don’t move.”
It was like telling a waterfall to stop gushing.
She moved, she quivered. The noise started up, and she concentrated on the “lo ira ra.” Her hip throbbed in this uncomfortable position.
“Don’t move. It’ll take longer if you do.”
Because threats helped her body behave.
“I can’t get clear images.” The voice was annoyed.
After an eternity, she was finally ejected from the machine. The technician helped her sit up. “I don’t know if we got any clear images here. Maybe we’ll have to do this again under sedation.”
She nodded meekly, tears gathering in her eyes.
“Ma, MRIs are awful, right?” Kaily said as soon as she saw her tears. “Let’s hope we hear good news.”
Roiza didn’t tell her that maybe they would have to do it all over again.
“Time for some jewelry shopping, right?” Roiza said. She was so tired.
She thought of Mrs. Gordon, also so tired, showing up in the morning with her newborn baby to set up her daughter’s apartment. She could do it too.
Kaily chose a small but beautiful store located in its proprietor’s basement. The saleslady offered Roiza a barstool so she could examine the pieces while sitting.
“We want something beautiful,” Roiza announced.
“And young,” Kaily said. “She’s a kallah.”
Oh, right. “Yes, but not too young. I want her to wear it for years,” Roiza asserted.
She watched Kaily examine the tray, her fingers moving over the diamonds.
“These are gorgeous,” she whispered reverently. She gave a forced chuckle. These girls are so lucky I never owned anything as beautiful as this in my life.”
TO BE CONTINUED…
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Cheesecake season meets its match with these showstopping confections. Choose from a variety of truly spectacular centerpieces in honor of Shavous.
What’s better than cookies & icecreamcream
Cookies & cream cheesecake in a cone. With Lieber's of course.
1. Melt the chocolate chips in a double boiler or microwave. Stir in the oil.
2. Fill the cones with chocolate then pour out the excess. Dip the rim of each waffle cone into the chocolate and then roll in cookie crumbs.
3. Stand cones in shot glasses to set
4. Beat cream cheese, sugar and vanilla; add heavy cream and whip until firm.
5. Mix crushed cookies into mixture
6. Pipe mixture into cones with star tip
7. Top with cookie garnish; refrigerate for 2 hours until set
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SNICKER CHEESECAKE
The cheesecake is rich and creamy with a deep chocolate flavor. The caramel-peanut layer adds the perfect sweet and salty crunch, and the ganache on top ties it all together with a smooth, melt-in-your-mouth finish. If you’re looking for a fun kitchen project with a delicious payoff, this is definitely one to try!
CRUST
24 Oreo-style cookies, crushed
3 T. butter, melted
CHEESECAKE
4 packs unwhipped cream cheese
1¼ cups sugar
2 (3.5 oz.) bars white chocolate, melted
¾ cup Greek yogurt
4 eggs
CARAMEL TOPPING
1½ cups sugar
1 stick butter
¾ cup heavy cream
1¼ cups salted peanuts, lightly chopped
GANACHE
22 pieces Baker’s Choice Milk Chocolate Melting Truffles, or 8 oz. chopped chocolate
½ cup heavy cream
N. Twerski (Kuten)
DIRECTIONS
1. Preheat your oven to 350°. Line a 9-inch round springform baking pan with parchment paper, and set aside.
CRUST
1. In a bowl, combine crushed Oreo cookies and melted butter.
2. Press the mixture firmly into the bottom and slightly up the sides of the 9-inch springform pan.
3. Bake for 8 minutes, then set aside to cool while you prepare the filling.
CHEESECAKE
1. In a large bowl, beat the cream cheese and sugar until smooth and creamy.
2. Pour in the melted chocolate and yogurt, stirring until fully incorporated.
3. Add the eggs one at a time, mixing until just combined. Do not overmix.
4. Place a large 9x13-inch baking dish filled halfway with hot water on the bottom rack of the oven (to create a steam bath for the cheesecake to prevent cracking).
5. Once the oven reaches 350°, reduce the temperature to 300°. Place the cheesecake on the middle rack, and bake for 1 hour and 15 minutes.
6. Turn off the oven, and let the cheesecake rest inside for 1 hour with the oven door slightly open.
7. Remove from the oven, and cool completely at room temperature.
8. Once cooled, place the cheesecake in the freezer until firm.
CARAMEL TOPPING
1. In a medium saucepan over low heat, add one-third of the sugar. Stir until it begins to melt and clump together.
2. Add another third of the sugar, stirring gently as it continues to melt.
3. Put in the final third of the sugar, stirring until you have a smooth, ambercolored mixture. Keep the heat low to avoid burning.
4. While melting the sugar, warm the butter by placing it in a sealed bag and soaking it in lukewarm water.
5. Remove the caramel from the heat, and slowly add the warm, cubed butter, one piece at a time, stirring after each addition until fully melted and combined.
6. Heat the heavy cream until it is just warm. Then slowly stir it into the caramel, one tablespoon at a time, until smooth and glossy. All of this is done not over low heat. If the caramel gets clumpy, briefly return it to very low heat, stirring until smooth again.
7. Once smooth, stir in the peanuts.
8. Let the caramel cool to a warm (not hot) temperature.
9. Remove the cheesecake from the freezer. It should be very cold and firm before adding the caramel.
10. Pour the caramel-peanut mixture over the top of the cheesecake, and smooth it evenly.
11. Return the cheesecake to the freezer, and leave overnight to set.
GANACHE
1. Place the chocolate truffles or chopped chocolate into a heatproof bowl.
2. Heat the heavy cream in a saucepan until it starts to boil.
3. Pour the hot cream over the chocolate, and let it sit for 1 to 2 minutes. Then stir until smooth and glossy.
4. Remove the cheesecake from the springform pan. Pour the chocolate ganache over the top, and let it drip down the sides slightly.
KATAIFI
NO-BAKE DUBAI CHOCOLATE CHEESECAKE
I’ve been loving the kataifi fad lately! It’s such a fun, crispy ingredient that instantly upgrades any dessert. In this No-Bake Dubai Chocolate Cheesecake recipe, the toasted kataifi pairs perfectly with creamy pistachio and chocolate layers, creating a rich, elegant treat that’s surprisingly easy to make.
4 cups shredded kataifi dough
2 T. butter
1 (3.5 oz.) bar white chocolate
1 (8 oz.) container pistachio cream
CHEESECAKE
2 cups heavy cream
24 oz. unwhipped cream cheese, cubed
DIRECTIONS
1. Line a 9-inch round pan with parchment paper, and set aside.
KATAIFI
1. Start preparing the base by melting the butter in a pan over medium heat.
2. Add the shredded kataifi and toast it, stirring continuously until golden brown.
3. Reduce the flame to the lowest heat, then add the chocolate bar and pistachio cream. Mix until everything is fully melted and incorporated.
2 (10.5 oz.) sweetened dairy milk cream
¼ cup milk
¼ cup chopped pistachios
GANACHE
22 pieces Baker’s
Choice Milk
Chocolate Melting Truffles, or 8 oz. chopped
chocolate
½ cup heavy cream
4. Reserve a quarter cup of the kataifi mixture for topping the cake later.
5. Press the remaining kataifi mixture into the bottom of the round pan to form an even crust. Set aside.
CHEESECAKE
1. Whip the heavy cream until stiff peaks form.
2. Add the cream cheese cubes, and beat until smooth.
3. Mix in the sweetened dairy milk cream and milk until fully combined.
4. Gently fold in the chopped pistachios.
GANACHE
1. Place the chocolate truffles or chopped chocolate in a heatproof bowl.
2. Heat the heavy cream in a saucepan until it just starts to boil.
3. Pour the hot cream over the chocolate, and let it sit for 1 to 2 minutes. Then stir until smooth and glossy.
ASSEMBLY
1. Pour the cheesecake mixture over the kataifi base, and spread evenly.
2. Pour the ganache over the top, and let it drip down the sides slightly.
3. Decorate the cheesecake with the reserved kataifi mixture.
4. Place the cake in the freezer overnight to set completely.
PASSION FRUIT SWIRL CHEESECAKE
I had so much fun creating this cheesecake. From pressing the buttery graham crust into the pan to watching the passion fruit syrup reduce into this golden, tangy magic, the whole process felt like a sweet little adventure.
CRUST
2 cup crushed graham crackers
1 T. sugar
½ stick butter, melted
SYRUP
1 bag frozen passion fruit (with the seeds)
½ cup sugar
CHEESECAKE
4 (8 oz.) containers whipped cream cheese
1¼ cups sugar
1 tsp. vanilla extract
1 cup sour cream
4 eggs
DIRECTIONS
1. Preheat your oven to 350°. Line a 9-inch round pan with parchment paper, and set aside.
CRUST
1. In a bowl, mix the crushed graham crackers, sugar and melted butter until fully combined.
2. Press the mixture firmly into the bottom of the pan, and bring it up the sides.
3. Bake the crust for 8 minutes. Remove and set aside to cool.
SYRUP
1. In a saucepan, combine the passion fruit pulp and sugar.
2. Bring the mixture to a boil over medium heat.
3. Let it boil uncovered until reduced by half for about 10 to 15 minutes. (Watch closely to prevent overflowing.)
4. Strain the mixture, separating the seeds from the syrup.
5. Store the seeds and syrup in separate containers. Set aside to cool completely.
CHEESECAKE
1. In a large mixing bowl, beat the cream cheese, sugar and vanilla extract until smooth and creamy.
2. Add the sour cream, and mix until just combined.
3. Add the eggs one at a time, mixing lightly after each addition. Avoid over-whipping to prevent the cheesecake from cracking during baking.
4. Pour a third of the cheesecake batter into the prepared crust.
5. Swirl in 3 to 4 tablespoons of the passion fruit syrup (not the seeds).
6. Repeat with another third of the batter and more syrup, and then add the final third of the batter and the remaining syrup swirl.
7. Place a 9x13-inch baking dish filled halfway with hot water on the bottom rack of the oven (to create a steam bath for the cheesecake to prevent cracking).
8. Once the oven temperature reaches 350°, reduce to 300°. Place the cheesecake on the middle rack, and bake for 1½ hours.
9. Turn off the oven, and let the cheesecake rest inside for 1 hour with the oven door slightly open.
10. Remove from the oven, and let it cool completely at room temperature.
11. Transfer the cooled cheesecake to the freezer overnight.
12. When ready to serve, remove from the pan. Combine 2 tablespoons of the reserved syrup with the passion fruit seeds, and spoon over the top. Garnish with additional fresh fruits if desired.
Frozen Custard Pie
INGREDIENTS:
1 ready pie crust
1 Bakers Choice
Vanilla Custard
1 cup whip topping, defrosted
1 Bakers Choice
Nougat Schmeer
OPTIONAL:
Bakers Choice
Nougat Chips or
Flavored Chocolate
Chips
Bakers Choice
Almond Brittle
DIRECTIONS:
Beat topping until stiff, then fold in vanilla custard. Pour half of the mixture into a pie crust and freeze for 2–3 hours.
Spread ½ container nougat schmeer over frozen layer. Pour the remaining mixture over the nougat layer and smooth evenly.
Top with desired chocolate chips and almond brittle and drizzle the remaining nougat schmeer. Freeze until set.
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PretzelapartBuns
20 oz. frozen pizza dough, defrosted
1 Bakers Choice Pretzel Cream
CRUMBS:
1 cup flour
½ stick margarine
⅓ cup sugar
GLAZE:
½ cup confectioners sugar
1 Tbsp. oil
2 Tbsp. boiling water
DIRECTIONS:
Roll out dough to 24x12 inch rectangle. Spread pretzel cream evenly over dough and roll up jelly roll style. Cut into ½ inch slices.
Place all buns on a lined cookie sheet. Combine all crumb ingredients and sprinkle crumbs over buns. Bake at 350°F for approx. 20 minutes or until golden.
Combine all glaze ingredients and drizzle over cooled buns.
You can replace the crumbs with our readymade vanilla cookie crumbs and crush them finely by hand.
Pistachio Cheesecake
CRUST:
1 cup Bakers Choice
Vanilla Cookie Crumble
¼ cup brown sugar
¼ ground pistachios
¾ stick butter, melted
CHEESECAKE:
3 8oz. cream cheese, unwhipped
1 cup sugar
6 oz. Bakers Choice
Pistachio Paste
2.5 oz. heavy cream
3 Tbsp. flour
1 tsp. vanilla
Pinch salt
4 eggs
GANACHE:
3 oz. Bakers Choice
White Milk Chocolate
1 Tbsp. butter
2 oz. Bakers Choice
Pistachio Paste
Crushed pistachios for decorations
DIRECTIONS:
Mix all crust ingredients by hand and press into a 9" round springform pan.
Using a hand mixer or immersion blender, blend cream cheese and sugar until smooth. Add pistachio paste, heavy cream, flour, vanilla, salt and mix together. Add eggs one at a time and mix until just combined.
Bake at 250°F with a water pan underneath for 1 hour, or until set. Allow to cool in closed oven for 1 hour.
In a double boiler, melt butter, add dairy white milk chocolate and melt. Remove from heat and stir in pistachio paste. Pour over cooled cheesecake. Sprinkle crushed pistachios and drizzle melted chocolate for garnish.
HScrumptious zelnut Bars
INGREDIENTS:
2 ½ cups flour
1 cup sugar
1 egg
¾ cup oil
1 tsp. vanilla Pinch salt
1 Bakers Choice Crunchy Hazelnut Cream
DIRECTIONS:
Mix all ingredients in a large bowl. Press half of the crumbs into a 9x13" pan. Spread the crunchy hazelnut cream over the dough, then top with the reserved crumbs. Bake at 350°F for 35 minutes. Cool and cut into bars.
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When the Melech Malchei Hamelachim chose us as His nation and said, “You are My child, My firstborn1,” He gave Klal Yisroel a sign of royalty to put on their head and across their arm — tefillin. It’s our privilege to wear a sign that we are of the family of kings.
“Kol Yisroel bnei melachim heim2,” — every Yid is a prince. And tefillin is his badge, his crown, his seal of honor. And he doesn’t wear it just once in a lifetime; this isn’t a one-time royal ceremony. He wears this sign every weekday morning.
That’s what a bar mitzvah really is. It’s the first time a boy wears the crown of a king. It’s a coronation.
In Every Community a Crown
Walk into a shul in Williamsburg, Lakewood, Stamford Hill or Yerushalayim on a weekday morning, and you’ll see the same quiet sight: a young bar mitzvah bochur, barely taller than the shtender, carefully wrapping the black leather retzuos around his arm and planting the tefillin shel rosh over his forehead with practiced hands.
The keser tefillin is the one royal garment worn by every ben Yisroel — whether he wears a shtreimel, a homburg or no hat at all. While minhagim vary, the message is unchanged: This boy is now part of Hashem’s legion, and this mitzvah is his insignia.
In Litvish yeshivos, the minhag is often to begin wearing tefillin one or three months before the bar mitzvah. The bochur gradually becomes accustomed to halachos and kavanos, easing into his new obligations with daily reinforcement. It’s a slow, dignified approach, one that makes the moment of bar mitzvah a continuation of kabbalas ol, not the starting line.
In many chassidish kehillos, the minhag is to begin just a few days or weeks before the bar mitzvah. The tefillin often remain fresh, unworn, awaiting their first use with awe and anticipation. There might be a small hachnassas tefillin where the mitzvah is welcomed with singing, divrei Torah and heartfelt brachos
In some Sefardic communities, tefillin are passed down through generations — batim that carry decades of kedusha, lovingly restored for the next link in the chain. Others commission new tefillin of the highest hiddur — because when you’re giving a crown to a son of the King, you don’t settle for less. And oh, the details! Dakos or gasos? Retzuos matteh or glossy? K’sav Beis Yosef or Ari? Kesher pashut or a double loop? From a neighborhood sofer or from Eretz Yisroel with a special hechsher ?
The options are endless. And each, in its own way, declares: This isn’t just leather and parchment; this is kavod malchus. Because no matter how it’s worn, tefillin turns a regular boy into a walking testimony of Klal Yisroel’s greatness.
And that’s what binds all communities together. Not the packaging, not the music at the seudah, not the style of hat or the menu. It’s this: A Yid puts on tefillin. He becomes royalty. Different kehillos. Different mesorahs. Same crown.
Preparing for the Mitzvah
It’s a unique and heartwarming sight: a father and son bent over a sefer, learning the halachos of tefillin together. No fanfare. No spotlight. Just quiet, focused preparation.
Some fathers start months in advance, creating a seder tefillin — ten minutes a day to learn the halachos, the kavanos and the meaning behind every wrap and knot. They talk about what it means to wear Hashem’s Name. They review how to pronounce lehani’ach tefillin clearly and where exactly the box should rest on the arm. They speak about kedusha, yiras Shamayim and shemiras haguf
Others bring in a sofer to demonstrate how the batim are made, or a rebbi
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to inspire with a vort about the radiance of a face wearing tefillin. Often, the emphasis is on hislahavus — on creating an atmosphere of geshmak and kedusha around the mitzvah. The retzuos are laid out with care, a niggun is hummed, and the boy is told, “This is your keser. This is your badge. You’re part of Hashem’s elite.”
Many years later, the bochur may forget what songs were sung at his bar mitzvah. He may not remember the cake or the flowers. But he’ll remember the first time he said lehani’ach tefillin. He’ll remember his father’s face, the way his fingers trembled with excitement, the first time he looked in the mirror and saw himself… different.
A Lifelong Companion
Rav Chaim Kanievsky, zt”l, once said that a boy who begins wearing his tefillin with yiras Shamayim, unhurriedly and with care, will carry that
Glimpses of Greatness
He had waited for this day. New suit, polished shoes, tefillin from Eretz Yisroel — even the knot had been triple-checked. The boy felt grown up. Ready.
But what happened after the seudah would teach him more about adulthood than all of the speeches and gifts combined.
The Steipler Gaon had come to the simcha. Not just to give a bracha, but with a mission. He called the bar mitzvah bochur aside, gently, respectfully.
“Do you remember davening in my minyan many years ago?” the Steipler asked. The boy nodded.
“I told you then, ‘You shouldn’t be learning during tefillah.’ I thought you were reading a Gemara. But I was wrong — it was a siddur. You were doing exactly what you should.”
“I remember,” the boy said quietly. “You apologized then.”
“Yes,” the Steipler said. “But then you were still a child. Halachically, you couldn’t grant mechilah. Now you are a bar da’as. Do you forgive me?”
“I do,” the boy whispered.
“Then this is your first mitzvah as a bar chiyuva,” the Steipler said. “You’ve fulfilled v’ahavta l’rei’acha kamocha — and more. You’ve granted mechilah b’lev shalem You’ve acted like a ben Torah.”
And just like that, the Steipler turned and walked away. It wasn’t part of the program. No one danced. No photos were taken. But for the boy, it was the first time he realized what being a bar mitzvah really meant: That his words now had weight. His choices now had consequences. And his mechilah was not just a formality; it was a halachic act of avodah
He had stepped into adulthood not through a speech, but through responsibility.
A Crown in the Darkness
Eliyahu Herman was just fifteen when the Nazis took him from the streets of Budapest. It was 1944, five years into the war, and although he was technically a bar mitzvah, he had never had the opportunity to mark his bar mitzvah, or even get an aliyah
The only thing he had left from his old life — the only trace of his Yiddishe identity — was a pair of tefillin, now tied tightly around his leg with a string.
“Wherever I go,” he thought, “they come with me.”
A few days later, Eliyahu found himself in a brick factoryturned-holding pen. It was gehinnom on earth, one he shared with a truckload of Jews from the old age home and the Jewish hospital.
One day, the Germans ordered them to march. Through a cold rain that turned into snow, they were paraded through the streets while local townspeople stood by, jeering at them and throwing rocks.
They marched and marched. No food, no water — just endless walking until they reached a train and were loaded into small cattle cars. Thirty-five thousand men had left Budapest. Now only 5,000 remained. They were brought to Mauthausen, a brutal concentration camp.
There, someone whispered to Eliyahu, “Say you’re 28. Say you’re a tailor.” He was fifteen. And a yeshiva bochur But he said he was 28, and a tailor. The other boys his age were sent left. To death. He was sent right. To life.
Inside the camp, as prisoners were forced to undress and were hosed down, Eliyahu buried his tefillin under a rock.
“That was the last time I was ever separated from them,” he said. Each day, he found moments to put them on. “I said a short tefillah, just enough to feel like I was still human.”
The SS held roll calls twice a day. Dogs would sniff his leg — right over where the tefillin were hidden. But they never barked.
“I can’t explain it,” Eliyahu said. “It was a neis nigleh.”
Eliyahu survived Mauthausen, but was sent on a death march to Gunskirchen. There, surrounded by corpses, lice and starvation, he still donned his tefillin. One Friday night, fearing they’d all be blown up in their barracks, he convinced two friends to escape. As they crawled toward the door, he passed a dying man — a Jew who had converted to Christianity.
“Do you want to return to the Jewish people?” Eliyahu whispered. The man couldn’t speak — but his eyes said yes. Eliyahu leaned down and said Shema with him. He
same kavod for the rest of his life. But if he rushes through it and treats it lightly, it can become just another obligation, something squeezed in between brushing his teeth and running out the door.
It’s all in the beginning.
That’s why the bar mitzvah moment is so critical. What begins as a one-time simcha can set the tone for 80 years of avodah. The habits he forms now — the way he wraps, the way he thinks, the way he says the bracha — these will echo for decades.
That’s what the bar mitzvah celebration gives a boy: not just a beautiful day, not just a few compliments and cards, but a companion. A lifelong connection that serves as a physical reminder of the spiritual contract he signed at thirteen.
Not every mitzvah becomes your identity. But tefillin does.
What’s the Focus?
The yetzer hara is cunning. He doesn’t stop simchas; he just rearranges the focus. The boy becomes the center of attention, the decor becomes the priority, and the tefillin — the entire purpose of the milestone — becomes a side point. A photo op.
A father doesn’t need to give long speeches. But he can speak to his son and say, “From now on, you’re not just my yingele. You’re a ben Torah. A bar chiyuva. A soldier in Hashem’s army.”
A mother doesn’t need to prepare mussar drashos. But she can whisper a tefillah into her siddur that morning: “Ribbono Shel Olam, let him put on his tefillin with
yiras Shamayim every day of his life.”
It doesn’t have to be loud. It just has to be real.
The goal isn’t to impress the neighbors. It’s to impress upon the child what this moment means: that from now on, he wears Hashem’s Name. That he has a mitzvah malachim would be honored to perform — and Hashem gave it to him.
That’s the question every parent must ask: Will this simcha leave the boy with memories… or with a mission?
That’s what we hand our sons on the day of their bar mitzvah. Not just a party. Not just a set of tefillin. We hand them a crown.
died on the word echad
Eliyahu and his friends made it to the forest. But they were still in danger. If anyone spotted them, they would be shot on sight.
And then, a miracle within a miracle: Lying on the ground were the bodies of dead Nazi soldiers, possibly killed in the final skirmishes as the Allies closed in.
Eliyahu and his friends stripped off their lice-infested pajamas and put on the black uniforms of the SS. It was repulsive. But it was a disguise. A shield. It bought them time. And they ran.
Then came the jeep — American soldiers. They jumped out, rifles aimed at Elihahu and his friends.
“Papers!” the soldiers yelled.
They had none. Instead, Eliyahu held out his tefillin. At first, the soldiers thought it was a grenade. But one of them — a Jew — recognized what they were.
“Du bist a Yid? ” he asked.
Eliyahu’s voice broke. “You… you’re the Moshiach.”
The soldier hugged him. Eliyahu told him about the camp. “Gunskirchen is just nearby. There are 35,000 Jews there — most of them dying. You have to help. Every minute counts.”
The soldier radioed his commander and gave him directions. The U.S. military arrived just in time. Food, medicine, rescue. Thousands of Jews were saved.
“My tefillin,” Eliyahu said later, “saved my life — and the lives of thousands more.”
Eliyahu never had a formal bar mitzvah. But he had tefillin. And every morning, in the snow and hunger, he put them on — and stood before Hakadosh Baruch Hu like a soldier before his commander.
Years later, even in freedom, Eliyahu never went anywhere without that velvet bag. Not because he needed them, but because he remembered what it meant to hold on to one mitzvah when the world was falling apart.
That was his bar mitzvah. No spotlight. No dancing. Just a boy and his tefillin, and Hashem, watching.
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“And may it be Your will before You… that [this] commandment of tefillin be considered before the Holy One, blessed be He, as if I fulfilled it in all of its details, all of its minutiae and all of its intentions…”
The creation of tefillin, the crown jewel of a Yid’s possessions, is a work of heart and hand. Each step of its manufacture must be done with extreme precision and meticulous care. Let’s take a walk in the backrooms of Ashuris, home to high-end tefillin manufacturing and everything Judaica, and watch how this precious object is created, part by special part. Join us on this exclusive tour.
Creating Tefillin
Tefillin have three main components: the parshiyos, the parchment that has the four sections of the Torah that mention the mitzvah of tefillin written on it; the batim, which house the parshiyos; and the retzuyos, the straps.
Every part of the tefillin-making process must be done by a Yid, with the declaration that this act is being done for the sake of the mitzvah of tefillin.
Did you know that the entire tefillin is fashioned from animal hide? There is parchment for the parshiyos, thick hide for the batim, and softer leather for the retzuyos. Each part of the tefillin is made of a different type of hide, and guided by halachos that were given over to Moshe Rabbeinu at Har Sinai.
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Batim
The word batim literally means housing — of the parshiyos of tefillin. Its manufacturers are called “batim-machers” and are yirei Shamayim who follow a meticulous, monthslong process to form the batim
Batim consist of three parts: the ketzitzah, the box part in which the parshiyos are placed; the titura, the base on which the ketzitzah rests; and the ma’avarta, the passage through which the retzuyos of the tefillin are inserted. In good-quality tefillin, the entire bayis is made of a single piece of hide.
The first step in creating batim is to process the animal skin to reduce the smell and remove any remaining hairs, fat or flesh. As with each part of the tefillin process, this must be done lishmah. Then, while still pliable, the leather is placed on molds designed to begin forming the bulges where the parshiyos will later be inserted.
After months of drying, the leather is moistened, and new molds and high pressure are used to continue shaping the batim.
The batim for tefillin shel yad are shaped into a singular square box, while batim for the tefillin shel rosh are molded into four separate rectangles, which will later form a perfect square when pressed together.
Once shaped, the tefillin shel rosh must feature the letter shin on each side. The shins are not the same; on the right side of the wearer, there’s a normal, three-headed shin, and on the left side, there’s an unusual four-headed shin. The accepted practice is to form the shin directly into the hide, a painstaking process of picking and pulling the letter to form a kosher shin out of the batim hide by hand. Only then can a mold be applied to enhance and beautify it.
The batim compartments are now pressed together and squared off precisely. Holes are drilled into the base at exact intervals for the sinews, giddin, that are eventually used as threads to seal the batim.
Until 200 years ago, the batim were made of thinner hide called daka. With the help of specialized presses, most batim are now made from gassos, thicker hide, which lasts a lot longer.
The task of bending and squeezing the animal hide into separate compartments is delicate, as the skin may not tear during the process. While one internal tear doesn’t invalidate the batim, an additional tear or an outside tear can render it passul, making it imperative to rely on the expertise, halachic knowledge and yiras Shamayim of the batim-macher. In fact, a significant amount of batim are disqualified during this process.
Al pi halacha l’Moshe miSinai, tefillin must be perfectly square-shaped. The width of the batim must have the same measurement as its length, with no nicks, indentations or bulges present.
Parshiyos
The tefillin shel rosh contains each parsha on a separate piece of parchment, while the tefillin shel yad has all four parshiyos written on a single piece of parchment.
All pieces of parchment upon which the sections of Torah are written must come from the hide of a kosher animal, and must be manufactured by a Yid with the declaration that it is being done l’sheim kedushas tefillin
The most mehudar parchments are fashioned by hand. Once the parchment has been procured, the sofer can begin writing the parshiyos
A good sofer must be an expert in choosing high-quality parchment, which will enable him to write well and beautifully.
The writing process also commences with the declaration that the work is being done l’sheim kedushas tefillin. In addition, every time the name of Hashem is to be written, the sofer must first state that he is writing the name for kedushas Hashem. The lack of this verbal declaration brings the kashrus of the tefillin into question.
Similarly, any small error can also affect the kashrus of the entire tefillin. If only one letter is written incorrectly or is missing, the tefillin is passul, the person who wore them did not fulfill the mitzvah, and his brachos on these tefillin are in vain. This is why extreme care must be taken by the sofrim and by those who hire them; sofrim must be true yirei Shamayim. To ensure his validity, every sofer must have a ksav kabbalah from a rav.
Rabbi Halberstam, founder of Ashuris, inspecting a parchment to ensure its quality
Putting It All Together
At this point, the batim are painted jetblack with strictly kosher paint. Since the individual compartments of the shel rosh must be visible, the batim-macher carefully separates them with a razor after painting.
After a thorough check by computer and by a person, the parshiyos can be inserted into their proper home. In preparation, each parsha is rolled from left to right and tied closed with a bovine tail hair. The parsha is then wrapped in a blank piece of parchment, which is tied closed with another bovine hair.
One or more of these hairs is pulled through a hole on the left side in the front of the bayis. This hole is one of those that will be used to stitch the titura closed. In this way, the hair used to tie the parsha closed is visible on the outside of the tefillin.
After the first painting, the paint is given time to be absorbed into the leather. The batim are then sanded and painted multiple times more to obtain a uniform, completely black color.
Rashi and Rabbeinu Tam had differing opinions on the order in which the parshiyos should be inserted into the batim
While Rashi’s opinion is accepted as the halacha, many have taken upon themselves to wear an additional pair of tefillin according to Rabbeinu Tam’s ruling.
After the parshiyos are in place, the titura is sewn closed with the giddin, sinews, of a kosher animal, with stitches that form a perfect square.
Kosher by Computer?
Computers are an integral part of the tefillinchecking process, but can they replace humans?
While a computer program is used to check for errors that a person can easily miss, it can never replace the human eye. Computers can check for missing, mixed-up or added letters, while only a human eye can notice letters that are incorrectly shaped, touch one another or are cracked.
Rabbi Halberstam observing the painting of the retzuyos
Retzuyos
As with the other components of tefillin, each step of making retzuyos must be done l’sheim kedushas tefillin
After the softer leather is tanned and prepared, it is painted jet-black according to halacha
Retzuyos must always maintain their black color on the outside and should be checked periodically. Cracks can be painted over with kosher tefillin paint or special fill-in markers available at Judaica stores.
The retzuyos are tied with special knot patterns and inserted into the batim before being fastened into place. The letters dalet and yud formed by the tefillin knots, along with the shin from the shel rosh, form Hashem’s Name.
“And may the bounty from the commandment of tefillin flow upon me, such that I should have a long life, holy bounty, holy thoughts…”
This article was prepared with the assistance of Ashuris, founded by Rabbi Sinai Halberstam, shlit”a. Ashuris provides the highest quality in all forms of sta”m.
Tefillin Care With Sofer Sta”m Rabbi Yoel Tzvi Fulop from Ashuris, Monsey
Tefillin are thoroughly checked before they are sold. After that, a check once in several years is recommended.
Tefillin left in cars can be damaged by the heat in the summer and the cold in the winter. Similarly, bochurim should never leave their tefillin on their bikes; tefillin can be ruined if it rains.
Do not put tefillin on if you are still hot and sweaty (from a mikvah or hot coffee) because body heat and perspiration can ruin the batim and retzuyos
Airing out your tefillin after use and before rolling them up will make them last longer.
When you wash your hands after putting on tefillin, make sure that the retzuyos stay dry.
Don’t put your Rashi and Rabbeinu Tam tefillin down next to each other (this can happen on Rosh Chodesh, when people hurry to don Rabbeinu Tam); they can easily be confused and switched!
When returning tefillin to its case, do so carefully to make sure that the edges don’t bang into the case.
It’s important to regularly inspect retzuyos to ensure that they are fully black.
It’s best for young bochurim to refrain from re-coloring their retzuyos or fixing their tefillin knots, both for themselves or for others. A shailah should be asked if this was already done.
If you think there’s a problem with your tefillin, don’t hesitate to ask an expert. It will often be a non-issue, but what can appear to be a small problem may sometimes be a more serious issue that can render your tefillin passul
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Do a dress rehearsal ten days before the simcha. Have every member of the family, including the parents, get dressed for the simcha from head to toe. This will give you the opportunity to see what’s missing or what needs to be fixed, with plenty of time to buy/find/mend what you still need.
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Also, buy extra yarmulkes, tzitzis and tights in advance. It’s a segulah not to need them.
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Bar mitzvah boys grow fast. Don’t hem the suit pants until two weeks before — tops.
— A mother who learned the hard way
At my oldest son’s bar mitzvah, I was surprised to find myself feeling left out of the simcha. Everything happens on the men’s side! I couldn’t hear what was going on very well, and I couldn’t really see anything. Plus, I was busy with my guests. I felt like I missed something very special.
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Let your son know in advance that it’s okay if he makes a mistake during the pshetl or can’t say the entire thing by heart. Just be chilled about the whole thing. It’ll take the pressure off him.
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It’s normal to be nervous. I threw up in shul during Shacharis right before it was time to lein. But then I was fine.
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Include your son in the bar mitzvah preparations, or at least keep him updated. “I finalized the menu today.”
“I made cheesecake miniatures for the kiddush today.”
All the effort you put in shows him how much you value this heilige milestone.
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Let the boy choose the battel. He’s the one who’s going to use it every day, so he’s the one who has to like it.
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If you’re making a siyum at your bar mitzvah, practice the hadran beforehand. It has a lot of words that you aren’t used to saying, and it’s usually in small print. This way you won’t get all uncomfortable when you’re saying it aloud in front of everyone.
— Nosson
Take advantage of the “high” the bar mitzvah boy is on, to teach and inspire him about tefillin, minyan and kabbalas ol hamitzvos. Boys might go through ups and downs. When they’re “down,” he won’t be open to hearing any of this, so take the opportunity now when he’s “on” to transmit the depth of meaning behind these mitzvos.
— Rabbi Yudkowsky
Teach your kids in advance how to comport themselves at the simcha Teach them how to greet their relatives — especially elderly relatives. They should know to smile, make eye contact and say, “Mazel tov! Thank you for coming,” and offer a handshake. They should also know how to respond to a bracha. This is especially important for the bar mitzvah boy, but the older kids on both sides of the mechitzah should be taught these skills as well.
— Miriam
Wear your new shoes a little bit before the bar mitzvah to break them in. Otherwise you’ll be saying your pshetl wearing shoes that hurt.
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When I arranged the seating, I left a place for myself at every table. This way I was able to circulate among my guests and spend some time with all of them. It worked out really well.
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You should know that it’s normal to feel a letdown after the bar mitzvah. For a long time you were learning, practicing, planning and looking forward to your bar mitzvah. Then suddenly it’s over, and you feel like something is missing, like there’s nothing to look forward to. I felt a little blah for a while after my bar mitzvah. But the feeling will go away after a little while, and then you’ll feel regular again.
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It’s much easier to write thank-you cards the day after the bar mitzvah than two weeks later.
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“Did you unpack the tefillin last night?” My husband stood in the doorway, ready for shul, and his voice sliced through the silence of the kitchen like that morning’s shofar blast
I jolted upright, spilling my coffee over the rim. His tefillin! Had I, in my post-vacation haze, forgotten to unpack them?
It was September of 2023, and we had squeezed in a mini vacation. We hadn’t traveled over the summer, so we looked forward to a nice getaway. Mexico lived up to its postcard image with stunning teal waters and vibrant greenery. Even the confiscation of our frozen chicken soup and cholent at customs couldn’t dampen our excitement. We intended to enjoy every moment.
And we did. The vacation worked its magic, replenishing our energy before the upcoming Yomim Tovim. After a few blissful days, I packed our belongings, and we made our way to the ferry that would take us straight to the airport. The boardwalk leading to the ferry terminal buzzed with tourist shops, and with time to spare, we entrusted our suitcases to the ferry workers for a quick souvenir stop.
Leaving our suitcases unattended in Mexico was a mistake.
We arrived home in Monsey late at night, and being the efficient housewife that I was, I couldn’t go to sleep until every suitcase was emptied and its con-
tents accounted for. In my tired state, the absence of the tefillin went unnoticed. But now, standing in the kitchen the next morning, I realized the tefillin were gone.
They were gone; there was no question about it. Yet I distinctly remembered packing them in the hotel. A nagging thought arose: Had the suitcase I unpacked seemed tampered with? Had someone actually taken the tefillin?
And so began a series of phone calls, each a desperate attempt to locate the tefillin. We called the airport, the Chabad shaliach, the Airbnb cleaning crew — yet each conversation ended with the same disheartening result.
No velvet bag. No black boxes. No tefillin. Just a string of unintelligible Spanish phrases, the underlying message clear: The tefillin were not there.
While no tefillin is “just” a pair of tefillin, these were an especially cherished pair, meticulously written by the renowned sofer from Eretz Yisroel, Rav Menachem Davidovitch, zt”l, author of Minchas Hasofer. These were priceless, their exquisite script a testament to the ehrlichkeit of their sofer
Luckily, my brother-in-law had an extra pair of tefillin written by the same
sofer, which my husband borrowed for the time being. But the question lingered: When does borrowing end? At what point does one replace the seemingly irreplaceable?
Yet my husband wasn’t willing to give up so easily.
“We don’t need to ask questions,” he said. “We don’t need to tell Hashem how to return the tefillin or offer Him suggestions on how He could make them find their way back. Hashem has His own intricate plans, often in ways we could never imagine. We need to daven, give tzedakah and do hishtadlus.”
Rav Menachem Davidovitch, sofer sta”m
As days turned into weeks, a grim realization set in: Someone had likely opened our suitcase, the sight of the velvet bag signaling something of value. Had they intended to sell it? Keep it? Discard it? The only time we left our luggage unattended was during our brief stop at the tourist shops while waiting for the ferry. (The airport authorities, we reasoned, were unlikely culprits.)
The image of a nameless Mexican worker holding our precious tefillin felt like a cruel twist of fate. There were moments when the urge to give up, to simply purchase a new pair, felt overwhelming. But my husband’s unwavering faith persisted. We would not stop hoping; we would simply channel our frustration into more tefillah
Then, in mid-November, I was at the grocery when my phone buzzed.
The accent on the other end was a familiar blend of American and Israeli.
“Hi, my name is Dave,” said the voice at the other end. “Did you lose a pair of tefillin?”
“Yes,” I breathed, a sudden surge of hope eclipsing the weariness of the past weeks.
“Well, I found it. But I need your husband on the line to verify the name.”
Husband on the line. Name verified. Shopping all but forgotten as I raced home to prepare for the arrival of this unknown Dave who had miraculously found the tefillin.
Dave, a forty-year-old bachelor from Queens with only a peripheral connection to Yiddishkeit, soon stood in our living room and described his unusual hobby: a Sunday trip to the sprawling Elephant’s Trunk Flea Market in Connecticut, a place where forgotten relics and curious artifacts found temporary homes. It was there, amidst the jumble of knickknacks, that a velvet bag adorned with Hebrew lettering had caught his eye. An inexplicable stirring from within told him this was no ordinary trinket destined for a flea market. How it had arrived there remained a mystery, but its presence felt undeniably wrong.
The vendor, it seemed, had a similar feeling.
“Well, this is a Jewish artifact,” he remarked. “It can sell online for seven hundred dollars.”
But seven hundred dollars felt steep. Dave began to bargain, ending in a compromise of one hundred and eighty dollars. Dave was now the unlikely owner of a pair of tefillin, one with the name “Shmuel Gross” finely embroidered on the bag.
Driven by an innate sense of responsibility, Dave embarked on a quest to find the rightful owner of the tefillin. He scoured Israeli directories, but no Shmuel Gross with a lost pair of tefillin surfaced. Undeterred, Dave noticed a sticker from a Judaica store, a remnant of a safrus check performed a year prior, declaring the tefillin kosher.
Dave called the store and inquired about Shmuel Gross. A quick database search yielded my name and cell phone number.
And that’s how Dave found us, unaware of the profound significance of this act of hashavas aviedah. Despite his limited connection to mitzvos, Dave felt a deep resonance with the tefillin, an inexplicable pull to return them to their rightful place.
AN INEXPLICABLE STIRRING FROM WITHIN TOLD HIM THIS WAS NO ORDINARY TRINKET DESTINED FOR A FLEA
MARKET
We extended an invitation for Shabbos meals, an offer Dave accepted twice. Though not outwardly emotional, the flickering candles, zemiros and the warmth of the seudos seemed to leave a mark. Perhaps the tefillin were lost so that the spark of a pintele Yid could be rekindled in Dave’s neshamah? Recently, he decided to reconnect with his family in Eretz Yisroel — a journey that might signify a deeper awakening. My husband was right. We don’t need to tell Hashem how to make things happen. Hashem has His own intricate plans — often in ways we could never imagine.
AS
TOLD TO HADASSAH STEINMAN
This story comes full circle, just like the brim of a hat.
A few months ago, my eighteen-year-old bochur, Hershy, needed a hat. Well, he needed two, one for weekday and one for Shabbos, but we decided to get one at a time. We stepped into Krausz Hatters, chose a weekday hat, and off we went.
Several weeks passed, and there was no more denying the fact that Hershy needed a new Shabbos hat. We went back to Krausz Hatters and began trying on hats all over again.
First we tried hats that looked similar to the one Hershy had gotten for weekday, but one salesman shook his head.
“Mr. Kohn, how old is your son? Eighteen, you said? He needs a wider brim.” The salesman reached behind him, grabbed another hat, and plunked it onto Hershy’s head. “Look, he can carry it already; the other hat makes him look like he’s wearing something he’s outgrown.”
After looking himself in the mirror, Hershy agreed that the salesman was right, and I, too, saw the difference. Minds made up, we left with the wider-brimmed hat.
BUT NOW WE HAD A PROBLEM. Having gotten used to the wide brim, every time Hershy put on his weekday hat, he looked like a bar
“IS THERE ANYTHING YOU CAN DO WITH THIS HAT?” I ASKED THE SALESMAN
SERVING US. “IT’S HARDLY BEEN WORN.”
mitzvah boy. It was strange how a new look took over so quickly, and how fast his almost-new hat looked outgrown.
If hats weren’t so expensive, the situation would almost be comical, but it wasn’t very funny when we walked into Krausz Hatters for the third time in a few weeks, this time to replace Hershy’s almost-new weekday hat.
While Hershy chose a hat, I twirled the weekday hat we’d just bought over my hand.
“Is there anything you can do with this hat?” I asked the salesman serving us. “It’s hardly been worn.”
“Well,” the salesman hedged, “not really. It isn’t brand-new, your son’s name’s in it… We can’t quite sell it. Not even at a discounted price.”
I looked at the hat. It looked perfect. But he was right. Hershy’s name was in it, and even if you couldn’t tell, it had been worn. There was no way a customer would buy a hat like that.
“Look,” I said, “I have no use for it. I’ll leave it in the store, and if you ever have a customer who’s tight for money and finds that this hat fits, just give it to him for free. It may as well benefit someone.”
The salesman shrugged. “Okay with me.”
And that was that. Hershy’s hat stayed behind in the store, and we returned to the car, another hatbox in hand.
A FEW MONTHS PASSED, and my twelve-year-old son’s bar mitzvah was drawing near. He’s a tall kid, my Leiby, and he was more than ready to put on a hat and suit. One afternoon I found myself back in Krausz Hatters, this time to get Leiby his very first hat.
For some reason, Leiby wasn’t an easy customer. Though he’s young, he has a fairly big head, and no hat was a good match. In the end, the salesman took the hat that fit best and proceeded to line it with foam to create that perfect fit that was still proving itself elusive.
Then he stopped.
“You know,” he said. “I have a hat sitting in the back. It’s a large size, but with a narrow brim, and I have a feeling it might be perfect for your son.”
He went to the back of the store to retrieve it, put it onto Leiby’s head, and to our relief, it was just right. Not too wide, not too narrow; not too big, not too small.
“Leiby, you look great!” I said. “I’m so glad this hat turned up! Where did it come from?”
I took it off Leiby’s head and flipped it over. Inside was a label that read Hershy Kohn, followed by a phone number that was awfully familiar.
“It’s our hat!” I exclaimed, stupefied. “I can’t believe it!”
“What?” The salesman took the hat from my hand and looked inside. “Isn’t that funny! I didn’t even remember where it came from. Well, it’s yours; take it!”
This time, we bypassed the checkout counter. We’d already paid for the hat some months back, and Krausz had simply provided the storage in the interim.
Full circle, like I said.
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NEOCATE/BABY FORMULA
Neocate $46.99 per can. Kendamil Similac L’Mehadrin in stock!! We buy off any formula for a good price and trade as well. Call for other types of formulas. New! Option of shipping case of 6 Kendamil directly to you from England. Formula Trade 347.369.4886
Looking to sell a natural color bebe organic set, size 3 mths, with matching bonnet and blanket, beautiful for vachnacht. Please call 347 382 0905
CANON CAMERAS 2ND HAND
Snap Source 87 Penn St suite 111 Sunday 1:30-2:30, Tue 8:30-9:30. 347-871-2330 Shipping $10. Beautiful G16 in stock
ACRYLIC HANGERS
Only $5 each! Free Delivery. Call/text 929.399.9024 Hangeroo321@gmail.com
FULL STUDIO
EQUIPMENT FOR SALE
GREAT DEAL! New, barely used. Includes desk, $1000 mic (Neumann 103), jbl speakers, interface, mic stand etc. Full package for $1650 call/text 323-240-0140
HOME BUSINESS
Selling home-based business. Perfect for stay-at-home mother or as a side hustle for working girl. Requirements: Storage space, organization skills, creative energy. Please call/text: 347-433-6117 (leave message)
DOONA FOR SALE
Doona infant car seat & stroller with base, Limited Edition, Excellent Condition, All accessories $450 (Original $700+) Call / Text 718-4739738
JEWELRY
Wholesale goldfilled ladies and girls jewelry open to the public. Sunday and Wednesday evenings 8-10 1216 47 street. For different times please call 347-6613346.
ZD JEWELERS
All types of Gold/Diamond jewelry. Lowest prices in the industry, We do housecalls. Call/text 732-666-4166. Follow us on instagram @ zdjewelers
Beautiful 3 bedroom 3 bath villa with private heated pool and spa available in North Miami, Price per night $289. (We help book flights) Pictures available. Call/Text 845-327-7153
WEST PALM BEACH APT. FOR SALE
Century Village-Golf Edge, 1 ½ bedroom apt. 2 baths, Brand new appliances, Ready to move in now. Price $200K or best offer. Call: 845.325.0500
FARM EXPERIENCE
Unique 2 &3 BR Apts on Frum FARM near White Lake for Whole/1/2 summer & Shabbosim before/after summer.845-866-1177
WEST PALM BEACH
No. 1 Real Estate Broker. Aaron Rose 561.308.5766
LINDEN LUXE
New Pristine Cathedral Ceiling House. 6 bedrooms. 3 bathrooms, jacuzzi. Sleeps 20+. Stocked Playroom. Swing Set. Trampoline, gameroom. All Amenities. 5 min to shul. 3 blocks to grocery/ pizza store. Avail for Shabbos/ Weekday. call/text 718989-1406.
LAKEHOUSE VILLA
Luxurious 3 bedroom lake house villa in Case Grande Arizona. Private pool fully stocked kosher kitchen. 520.251.4459
MIAMI BEACH FLORIDA
Carriage Club North, beautiful 2 bedroom, 2 bath, ground floor, for rent. Call: 347.499.0031
WEST PALM BEACH FOR SALE
Wellington M, 2 Bedroom apt. Ground Floor FOR SALE. Call: 347.760.0639
NORTH MIAMI FL RENTAL
2-bedroom, 2-baths with private heated pool and spa. Feb. all booked. $325 per night. Call/Text: 917-3824810, email: 1752nmb@gmail. com www.themangotreat. com
LINDEN VACATION
Exlusive beautiful fullyfurnished house, all amenities included, 5 bedrooms sleeps 11+2 cribs 6 min walk to shuls Beautiful In ground Heated pool. Call/Text 601-675-2665/ Crownprincevilla@gmail. com
SHAVUOS VACATION
Shavuos in the beautiful Montebello Castle amidst mature trees and serenity!! Off West Carlton in Monsey. Close to shul with mikva. 4 bedrooms. Brand new. Text 845-376-3540
For the best Real Estate deals call Mrs. Debby Schwartz 203.667.2785
BEAUTIFUL VILLA RENTAL
Beautiful villa in serene area outside Monroe. 9 couple rooms, teen room 8 beds and many kids mattresses. Huge private pool with stunning grounds. New!!! Jacuzzi Hot tub. Pictures at hotelfifteen. com 845 837 5662
PRIVATE HOUSE SHORT TERM
Fully equipped furnished 7 bedroom house (18+beds) with linen/towels hotel style in Blooming Grove. Rent for days, weeks, or weekends. Breathtaking beautiful grounds. Call/text 845-2385633
SUMMER RENTAL
Gorgeous 3/5 bedroom, 2/3 bath Villa available in Mountaindale. Near shuls. $350 per night (pictures available). 845-327-7153
SURFSIDE SHORT TERM RENTAL
Newly renovated Fully Furnished beautiful 1 bed 2 bath apt. 91st and Collins, walking distance to Shul, daily, weekly rental. across from beach. Call/Text/ WhatsApp 917 705-9667
DAYCARE TEACHER
Chassidishe daycare in a school seeking to hire teachers without degrees for infant/toddler classes . A child care slot is an option for those who qualify. Please email your resume to ms@ kindervinkel.org or call 347633-3076.
WORK IN OUR GROUP HOME
Bring friendship and genuine care to adults with special needs.
“I greet the individuals, hear about their day, and play games with them. The biggest enjoyment is seeing their smiles. Some of the individuals give hugs.” 61st Street Group Home DSP
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6 BEDROOM
VACATION RENTAL
New luxurious house near KJ available for weekday, weekend and Summer. Stocked kitchen, linen, towels. Beautiful outdoor furniture. Call/text 917-6521468
HIGHLAND MILLS RENTAL (NEAR KJ)
Fully furnished beautiful spacious house. 4 bedrooms available daily, weekly and weekends. Linen, towels and all amenities. Beautiful private grounds, with heated pool. Near shul. Call/Text/ WhatsApp 917 705-9667
FLORIDA RENTAL
Fully Furnished Apartment for Rent, Hallandale Beach. 2 Bedrooms / 2 Bathrooms, Newly Renovated, First Floor Apartment, Kosher Kitchen, 2-Minute Walk to Chabad of South Broward. For information, call or text: 845-304-1865
SUMMER RENTAL
Nice Private House for rent Gr8 location near Grocery & Shul Avail for summer call or text 845.494.4834
MONTICELLO RENTAL
brnd new fully furnished villa next to colonies, 3 bdrm 1 bth 8 beds, daily wkly mntly, minyan all year round 845-587-8105/ 917-995-5574
WEEKEND RENTAL
Large 5 bedroom newly built home in Pomona, 5 minute walk to shul available for weekends and Shavuos. Contact Rikki 347-930-9736.
VACATION PROPERTIES
Luxurious vacation properties for short-term rentals in the Monsey area. Some with POOLS. can accommodate 18 to 150 guests, ideal for large families, Shabbatons, and more.. Great Minds 845-5203250.
FALLSBURG
7/8 bedroom house available to rent for shabbosim. 2 room suite available for weeky/ shabbos. Near yeshiva. Pool. 8457076324.
VENITIAN VILLAS
Luxury unit in venitian villas (S. Falls )available for 4 weeks (optional full summer). 3 bdrms ,3 bthrm. 12k. Serious inquiries. Text to 9175860507.
LINDEN VACATION RENTAL
Beautiful 3 bedroom house center of heimishe Linden available for shabbos/weekday. Fully furnished, linen towels etc. also available Shavuos 9296780684
VACATION RENTAL
Vacation Rental in Chester 13 beds 3 bathrooms. Call or text 845-276-0370 leave message
VACATION RENTAL
Monticello- Brand New luxury 5 and 8 bdrm summer home available entire summer. Beautiful chassidish crowd. Right near mall /shopping. Available Shabbosim before summer / Shavuos. 607-323-1812
SUMMER RENTAL
Chestnut Ridge beautifully updated spacious 4 bedroom house with large porch, swingset, grill, huge trampoline! Pool option available. July/August 845.548.2685
MONSEY FOR RENT
Upgraded Condo for rent in Monsey area. Maple Ave/ Route 45. 4 bedrooms, 2200 sq ft. Lots of upgrades, great condition. $3600 email rb076314@gmail.com
BUNGALOW HAR NOF
4 BR bungalow available in Har Nof [12] for July. Seriously interested please inquire (347)760-3482
AIRMONT RENTAL
Book your next vacation! 5 bedroom 3 bathroom magnificent villa serene property in Airmont. Fully furnished ALL amenities included! 347-420-4945
SHORT TERM
Short term rentals in The Catskills and Monsey for any amount of guests. Call or text Stayza today 8456004404.
VACATION IN LINDEN WEEKENDS/SHAVUOS
Brand new 2/3 bedroom basement. Living area and kitchen. Private entrance to private backyard with inground heated pool. Call/ text 347-224-5574
BUNGALOWS FOR RENT
Few bungalows left in a colony, looking for girls grades 1st - 4th.. please call 917-685-2478
HELP WANTED
TEACHERS & ASSISTANTS STATEN ISLAND
Yeled V`Yalda Staten Island Seeking PART TIME or FULL TIME Teachers and assistants for the coming `25-`26 school year. With a degree or without! Reach out to hear options!. Send your resume to: YeledStatenisland@gmail. com Or call: 718.514.8865
PRE-SCHOOL ASSISTANTS
School year 25-26, Exciting program, Responsible and caring. Great and friendly environment. Excellent pay!! Email Preschool@myrcb.org
DAYCARE JOB
Looking for highly qualified and experienced babysitters, assistants and teachers for a heimishe daycare in Boro Park. Come join our amazing group of teachers. Send in your resume to Tlcdaycarenyc@gmail.com or call 718-701-6556
TEACHERS AND ASSISTANTS
Chassidish preschool looking for warm, devoted teachers and assistants with\ without degree for coming school year. Email resume to chinuch4kinder@gmail.com
DAYCARE TEACHER
Seeking devoted teacher for upcoming year in home based day care. well paid. 9/9:30 to 3. call or text 9175879379
ASSISTANT TEACHERS
Boro Park Early Head Start seeking assistant teachers, warm, energetic, enjoy teaching young children under 3. Full Time Position, Exceptional environment & benefits. Childcare Provided. Email resume to: lfischer@yeled.org Or call: 718.686.2415
TEACHER/ASSISTANT
Teacher/ assistant needed for sp-ed girls elementary and high school. Email school718438@gmail.com
PLAYGROUP TEACHER
Looking for an experienced playgroup teacher. Amazing accomodations and compensation. 19th Ave/47th St area. Mega Kinder 347226-0348
FT/PT MORAH
Yiddish speaking. For small voucher playgroup, for September 25’. Located 47th between 18/19. Great pay! 718853-4139 or 929-287-2054
PLAYGROUP TEACHER
Seeking a responsible and devoted girl/woman to run a small playgroup in South Fallsburg. Transportation and lunch provided. Call 347533-1635.
THE JOB YOU’RE LOOKING FOR!
Want to have money flow into your pocket? Call/text 845324-5182
Classifieds
ABA IN FLATBUSH
Now hiring evening ABA support staff, we`re expanding our team and looking for experienced ABA professionals to onboard for our Flatbush families. No direct ABA experience? No problem. If you are passionate and have a desire to make a difference, Call/ Text/WA: 917.968.2292 or email to: Scaplan@yeled.org
DAYCARE JOB
Seeking warm heimishe teacher/babysitters in a home-based daycare 15th ave. & 50th St. PT/FT great pay. Slot for baby is an option. call 347-597-2652.
INSTRUCTORS
Yaldeinu school seeking full day instructors for the upcoming school year. Hours are 9-4. Please send in your resume to info@yaldeinu.net. For more details please call 718.851.0123.
TEACHER
Chassidshe school in Boro Park seeking lower/ middle elementary school teacher. Experience preferred. Email resume to: teacherbp2004@gmail. com
ASSISTANT TEACHER
Chassidishe school in Boro Park seeking Limudei Kodesh First Grade Teachers Assistant. Email resume to: teacherbp2004@ gmail.com
PLAYGROUP TEACHER
Legal Playgroup looking to hire a teacher, M-Th 10-3 Please Call / Text 347-3541234
JOBS AVAILABLE
Part-time & Full-time jobs available. Email TopPartTimeJobs@ gmail.com
WORK FROM HOME
Great opportunity to manage your own business from home. No experience needed, no computer necessary. Huge potential to grow big. Call: 438.529.1216
ABA EVENING SUPPORT ROLE
Want to make a positive impact on children’s lives? Join us as an ABA evening mentor in Boro Park or Flatbush! Help kids develop their social skills and confidence after school hours. Excellent rates for evening shifts. Please call: 917.968.2292
OFFICE LOGISTICS ASSISTANT
needed at all women office in the heart of Boro Park. Hours: 9:30 AM-4:30 PM. Paid time off, competitive pay. Call: 917.968.2292
HEALTHCARE COORDINATOR
Excellent paying opportunity for a woman to be a healthcare coordinator/ administrator. Must be able to work 7 hours a day in Boro Park. To discuss please call 917.652.9576
PRINCIPAL’S ASSISTANT STATEN ISLAND
Yeled Staten Island is seeking efficient, creative, on-theball individual with ability to multi-task for position of principal’s assistant. Please email resume to: YeledStatenisland@gmail. com or call 718-514-8865
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT
Amazing all female office hiring mid-level Administrative assistant and placement rep. Salary according to experience. Hours 9/9:30-4/5 In person Boro Park office 1312 38th Street. Send resume to: smarkovic@yeled.org Or call/ message: 347.946.4506
F/T EMPLOYEE
Real Estate mgmt office seeking full time employee with basic computer skills. Email: yides@mprealtyny. com or call 718 972 7660
RECEPTIONIST
Heimishe daycare seeking to hire a full time receptionist for September. Please call 3476333076 or email your resume to MS@Kindervinkel. org.
FULL TIME SECRETARY
Seeking a mature secretary to work full time in an all women office. Must be committed, responsible & organized. No experience needed. Please email jobinbp679@gmail.com
HOMECARE SALES
High Standard Home Care hiring energetic grads for sales/marketing. No experience needed. Base + commission. Call (347)6144015 to apply now!
PARA POSITIONS
Now hiring paras to work full time in a special education school for the 25-26 school year. Supportive and heimish environment. Transportation provided. Resumes@ yadyisroelschool.org
SPECIAL ED TEACHERS
Now hiring a devoted special ed classroom teacher for the 25-26 school year. Small class size, excellent training, supportive environment. Resumes@yadyisroelschool. org 718-650-6400
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT
Ivdu Schools in Flatbush seeks f/t Administrative Assistant who is efficient, organized, able to multitask, detail oriented, strong computer skills. Opportunity for growth. Excellent environment and competitive salary. Email resume ivdu@ou.org.
ABA COUNSELORS
Amazing Summer position. Looking for ABA counselors who can work with children in the summer in the city and throughout upstate. Full time and part time openings available. Must be able to work both July and Aug. GREAT PAY. Call: 917.968.2292 or email: scaplan@yeled.org
ABA PARA
Seeking female ABA paras for full-time/part-time in-Day Camp opportunities in Boro Park, Flatbush and Deal NJ. Great BCBA supervision. Please call 718-285-7522 EXT.105. Please send your resume to hr@discoveraba. org
DAYCARE JOB
Looking for highly qualified and experienced babysitters, assistants and teachers for a heimishe daycare in Boro Park. Come join our amazing group of teachers. Send in your resume to Tlcdaycarenyc@gmail.com or call 718-701-6556
SUMMER JOBS
Now hiring responsible girls to work summer. July 7August 14, full day. 1:1 special education, weekly trips, transportation provided. Resumes@yadyisroelschool. org
UNIQUE POSITION
Seeking mature personable woman with great computer skills. Must be social, understanding and have passion for helping others. PART TIME. email uniqueposition11219@gmail. com
SECRETARY
Secretary position for fast paced sp ed school office. F/T, heimish environment, experience and graphics knowledge preferred. Send resume to school718438@ gmail.com.
PART-TIME JOB FOR A SOCIAL, FASHIONLOVING GIRL!
Executive Assistant –Brooklyn, NY. Luxury eveningwear boutique is looking for a friendly, organized girl to assist with back office work, customer service, Instagram, orders, and more. Great opportunity to be part of the fashion world, work in a warm environment, and build your skills! Hours: Sunday, Wednesday & Thursday | 11:00 AM – 6:00 PM. Email resume to info@lewimports. com or text (917) 586-0507
IGT COMMUNITY TALENT CENTER
IGT Community Talent Center Offering: Music, Dance, Fitness, Computing, Art, Home Economics, and Applied Science Classes. $160 Per class (45 minute). Hours: Sunday 10-5PM, MondayThurs 3-7PM, and Fridays 12 - 2PM. Info@IGTcommunity. org
ARE YOU A PEOPLEPERSON?
Join a dynamic front desk team in a large organization in Boro Park, creating a welcoming environment and guiding people to the assistance they need. Requires excellent communication, multitasking, and computer skills. Full time, great pay! Email mrosenberg@ hamaspikkings.org
JOB OPPORTUNITY
A Heimishe playgroup in boro park is looking for teacher and assistants. Must be warm, loving, and caring. Please call 7184377261
LOAN PROCESSORS
Mortgage company in Boro Park seeking experienced loan processors. Excellent salary plus commission. Email: goldy@ theprimestaffing.com
HELP WANTED
Seeking a middle-aged woman to work with a high-functioning young married girl to teach basic homemaking skills in BP in the afternoon. Great pay! Please call 347-645-5362
SEIT SUPERVISOR
SEIT Supervisor with SAS, SDA or SBL for work in Boro Park. Starting September. Part time. Email resume: hr@itstherapygroup.com.
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT
Yeled V’Yalda Early Head
Start is seeking a motivated Administrative Assistant with office experience to join our team. Enjoy a positive work environment and generous PTO. Proficiency in Microsoft Office and strong organizational skills are essential. Email resume to: ehsjob@yeled.org
SALES LADY
Retail store in Boro park & Flatbush is seeking for a F/T or P/T sales lady (Boro Park hours 11-6). Excellent pay and great environment. please call & leave message or text 347-725-0898
TITLE SPECIALIST
If you’re seeking a fresh start and a place that values your experience ,we’d love to hear from you! Company looking to hire an experienced Title Specialist for a F/T or P/T position. Competitive salary for the right candidate. Chantzy@hiresolutionsny. com 8454228098 ext 113.
PRINCIPAL ASSISTANT
Principal’s Assistant for English department in heimish girls school in BP. Mon-Thurs 11:30-4:30 & Sun 9:45-12:30. Should be personable, responsible, good at multitasking. 2+ years office/school experience necessary. Email resume: officeinschool@gmail.com
YALDEINU CFTSS
PSR Providers
Assist Children with life and community based skills
Qualifications: High school diploma + experiance working with children
Mentoring children
Assist children with life and community skills
Qualifications: High school diploma + experiance working with children CPST Providers Art Instructor
Job requirements include:
• Professionally handling calls
• Coordinating with clients and vendors
• Assisting with media placements and scheduling
• Managing billing tasks
• In house, full time position
If you're an organized communicator who thrives in a fast-paced, creative environment, we’d love to hear from you. people@pivotgroup.nyc
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CORPORATE COMPLIANCE ASSISTANT
HCS is seeking a highly motivated, dedicated, and detail-oriented person to join our Corporate Compliance team. This person will be conducting regular internal reviews or audits to ensure compliance procedures are followed. Candidates should have an understanding of regulatory guidelines, strong organizational and communication skills, and the abilities to collaborate with teams to enhance processes and maintain consistent standards. Room for growth, competitive salary and great environment. Please email resumes to Jobs@hcsny.org
SECRETARY/ BOOKKEEPER – BP
Small real estate office seeking detail-oriented, multitasking individual. Must be diligent, serious, and reliable. Office experience a plus. Only serious inquiries. email resume’ resume5587264@gmail.com
P/T BABYSITTER
Looking to hire a part time heimishe babysitter. Experience preferred. Call 929-292-0609
LEAD TEACHER
Lead Teachers Needed for Playgroup (Infant and Toddler Classes). Seeking a warm, experienced teacher for a home-based playgroup near 37th St & Fort Hamilton Pkwy. Contact: Email: applechildcare3621@gmail. com Call/Text: 718-831-2980 (leave a voicemail if no answer)
OFFICE COORDINATOR
Seeking a capable Office Coordinator to join our fast-paced, multi-female office—must be organized, dependable, and a great team player. F/T preferred. Please send resumes to YA@ EscalateABA.com
MASTERS IN SPED
Doing your master’s in special ed next year? We help write all writing assignments and tests. Call for great price. 929-466-1424 or email b6331151@gmail.com
ABA PARA
ABA Para in BP Sunday 10:303, M-T 3-5. Send resume to info@escalateaba.com.
INSTRUCTOR
Chayeinu Academy is seeking a 1:1 instructor for the 2025-2026 school year. Please email resume to info@ chayeinuacademy.org or call 718-303-9170.
DIRECT SUPPORT
PROFESSIONAL
HCS is seeking Direct Support Professionals to work in a beautiful grou p home for women in Boro Park for highly independent young women. Experience working with individuals with developmental disabilities a plus. Driver’s license Preferred. Full-time, flexible hours. Tuesday through Thursday 2:30 PM to 10:30 PM, and some Sundays. Please contact 347598-3127.
DIRECT SUPPORT PROFESSIONAL
HCS is seeking male DSPs to work at our Boro Park residence for afternoon shifts 3-11 pm daily. Please forward resume’ to jobs@hcsny.org
Child Center seeking paras for August. Graduates welcome. Email resume to info@littlegiantscc.com or call 718-577-8486 ext:1
PRE1A TEACHER
Yiddish speaking preschool is looking for a morning Pre 1 A teacher. Please send resume to 43preschool@gmail.com
ATTENTION GRADS!
Are you detail oriented, organized, enjoy numbers? Reach out today to hear about a great opportunity to join an established nursing home management company. Great benefits! Email chana@ hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105
ELA TEACHER
Heimish school is Boro Park seeking experienced 8th grade ELA teacher 2:30-4:15 and 6th grade Math & Science. Warm environment. Email resume: 613schoolposition@gmail. com
DAYCARE TEACHER
Looking for a daycare teacher for toddlers. September. $33-$35 an hour. Call 1929790-3869
SUMMER JOBS
SUMMER JOBS
Heimishe bungalow Colony in South Fallsburg is looking for an experienced female lifeguard for full summer, Please call/text 917-270-6618. Also looking for Female Daycamp staff for First half Please call/ text 718-608-5242. Both opportunites with no accomodations, and great pay.
DAYCAMP POSITIONS
Counselors, Lifeguard, EMT, JC’s for professionally run Bklyn Boys Daycamp. If you are looking for an organized camp with the greatest trips, best campers and a most enjoyable summer This is the camp for you! Text: 347251-5915
DAYCAMP POSITIONS
Brooklyn Boys’ Daycamp seeks a Bochur with videoing experience, also looking for responsible and energetic office workers and assistants. Text 347-672-9646
BOYS LIFEGUARD
Looking for boys lifeguard for Fridays and Sundays in the Swan Lake area call 718954-1190
DAYCAMP HEADCOUNSELOR
Looking for a daycamp head counselor in the Swan Lake area, no accommodations, call 718-437-3730 or 718-4374890
DAY CAMP POSITIONS
Looking for fun, lebedige H.C’s and counselors for day camp in Monticello. Full summer preferred for H.C’s. Also for mature, responsible girl/lady to supervise preschool day camp. 917-9928553
AMAZING SUMMER POSITION FOR WOMEN
We are looking for Heimishe woman to work alongside a fantastic ABA program in the heart of Boro Park. Excellent pay. All-women environment. Call or text: 917.968.2292
ASSISTANT DIRECTORS
Seeking 7th or 8th graders for assistant preschool director. Good Pay. Please call 917 246 7255
PLAYGROUP TEACHER
Yiddish speaking Playgroup in BP is seeking experienced teacher for the summer. Please call 347.731.3396
SUMMER TEACHER
Yiddish speaking Playgroup seeking experienced teacher and high school girls for the summer. Call/text 718-3446067
DAYCAMP POSITIONS
Pre-School Boys Daycamp, Brooklyn seeks Female teachers, Lifeguard, Counselors, JC’s. Full Time & Part Time Positions. A rewarding & enjoyable experience. Call: 718-8716391
SUMMER JOB
Looking for counselors for First half, South Fallsburg Area. Great Environment. Transportation provided. Please reach out to 929-7221173.
COUNSELORS NEEDED
Chassidishe day camp is looking for first half counselors 347-357-3592
PRESCHOOL DIRECTOR ASSISTANT
Looking for a dynamic preschool directors assistant, nice pay 845-500-3939
DAYCAMP TEACHER
Chassidish pre-school daycamp in bp seeking experienced energetic teacher for the summer, great environment, fantastic pay, Call 718-436-0540 lv msg.
MOTHER’S HELPER
Seeking capable mothers helper in BP for summer, hours: aprox 3:30-5:45, Great pay, youth corp welcome, call: 347-731-7404 lv msg
CHILDCARE
PLAYGROUP
Playgroup on 14 and 44 still has some slots left for children being 20months+ in September. Please call Rivky Sekula 347-645-7944
BABYSITTER
Experienced heimishe warm loving babysitter. Slots available. 47th street btwn 16 &15. Friday & late hours available. Many references available. Call 929-214-3384
VOUCHER PLAYGROUP
voucher playgroup on 14 and 44 has a slot starting november for a child being 19+ months call Rivky Sekula at 347-645-7944
42ND & 12TH AVE KINDERGROUP NON VOUCHERS
Big backyard, registration open for the Summer and September. Also looking for playgroup assistant for the summer. call718-633-3263 or text347-232-7608
CHILDCARE SLOT
A few slots left for babies in home-based daycare on 15th & 50th St for those who need part time or 3x week. Starting September. Staff position available. 347-597-2652
VOUCHERS BABYSITTING
New babysitting group forming for September 2025. Centrally located between 14/15 and mid 40’s. Extended hours available. Please call 929-745-9522
VOUCHERS TODDLER GROUP
Vouchers toddler group opening for September. Ages 12 months. 14 and 55th street. Call 1929-790-3869
PRETEND INFANT CARE
Registration for September now open! Accepting babies with vouchers born in March or April of 2025. Hours early morning till 1pm. 45/12. 929585-2257
VOUCHERS BABYSITTING
New babysitting group opening, 18th Ave area. Accepting babies ages 6 weeks6 months. call 347-988-2169
NON VOUCHERS PLAYGROUP
Amazing heimishe playgroup now accepting for Summer/ September. Ask about younger class. For more info call 929-236-6129
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SERVICES
AUTHENTIC
ALERT TO HOMEOWNERS & PROPERTY MANAGERS. EXTERIOR & INTERIOR HOME TUNE UP. PROFESSIONAL REPAIRS BY LICENSED WORKER: ROOFING, WATERPROOFING, BRICK POINTING, CEMENT JOBS, ALSO DO PLUMBING, ELECTRICAL, SHEETROCK WORK, PARQUET OR STONE FLOORING INSTALLED. FOR PRECISION, TIMELY SVC, HAPPY PRICING CALL OR TXT AUTHENTIC @ 212-9918548.
DOULA
Lifsha Kleinman, Experienced Doula 718-7447135. Doula on Demand - Call even in labor. Most insurances accepted. LaborSweetDoulas@gmail. com
SARNO COACH
Experiencing chronic pain/ symptoms? There is a way out! Heal based on the Sarno method! Call Binah Schiff RDCS, Mind Body Educator and Coach 917-446-5360
IS YOUR CHILD STRUGGLING?
Socially, with fears and anxieties, or other issues, and you think you tried everything? With Hashem’s help Energy Therapy can be the Yeshuah for your child. 15 minute free consultation. Call 845445-8252, or email chany@ rapidrecoverycoaching.com
GUITAR LESSONS
Now offering guitar lessons for women & girls. Learn all the basic skills. Located in BP. Call/text 917-618-1174
WIG & HAIR
Wig wash & sets. Hair styling. Wig & hair cuts. Reasonably priced. Located at 10/46. Call or text 917-618-1174
MAKEUP ARTIST
Certified makeup artist for all your special occasions. Call: Yides Neuwirth 917.309.6000 or 718.858.0815
MR. WERTZBERGER’S RENTALS
We rent out wireless wi-fi, tablets, laptops, clarinets, violins. Prices are between $13-$25 per week. Clarinet and violin comes with free MP3 lessons in Yiddish or English. We also offer private keyboard lessons on the phone. Call hotline 718-4351923
GARTLECH
We fix knitted & crochet
Gartlech & make beautiful professional fringes. We also teach how to knit & crochet. call: 917-414-3281
HANDYMAN & ELECTRICIAN
Electrician, plumber, sewer service, Carpentry, sheetrock, locks, etc. 718.9510090
All Electrical work, outlets, switches, fixtures, new lines for washer/dryer or a/c, shabbos clocks, circut breakers. 718.951-0090
HANDYMAN & PAINTING
Experienced & Reliable handyman. Small jobs our specialty! Plumbing, Electric, construction, Locksmith, painting, plastering. Shabbos clocks, outlets/switches, call: 347.275.5408
LIGHT ALTERATIONS
Please Call: 718.450.4700
PHOTO EDITING
Professional photo editing, many years of experience. Special rate for photographers. Also specializing in Custom photo albums, Chosson, wedding, etc. Photo Dreams 347.563.5153
AYIN HORAH
The renowned Rebetzin Aidel Miller from Yerushalayim Is now available to remove “Ayin Horah” over the phone. Call: 718.689.1902 or 516.300.1490
BEAUTIFUL HANDMADE GARTLECH
Hand crochet, Hand knit, Silks & more with beautiful Gartel bag. Text or call: 718.283.4589 Wholesale orders available.
FURNITURE REPAIRS
Furniture, Cabinet & General Repairs, specializing in Chosson-Kallah Apartments. Call: 718.633.6231
NEW WEBSITE?
Get your Beautiful, Fast, SEO-Friendly Website done in 14 days, guaranteed. Email efraim@rapidquill.com
HANDYMAN/PROF CARPENTER
Repair all cabinets, Table & chairs, doors, locks, hinges, tracks, drawers, blinds, shelves, bookcases & furniture assembling and cutting, hang pic frames & more, free est, warranty on service, 917-704-3514 YEHUDA
RESUME WRITER
Need a great work resume? Resumes are what we do! All levels including new-grad and experienced. Call/text 845-554-5778 or email info@ resumakerpro.com
ATT: SCHOOLS, SPECIAL EDUCATORS AND BCBA’S!
Let us take care of all your writing needs! Reports/ Reassessments/ School Letters etc. We specialize in progress reports for hearings. Contact us at: 732-994-3956 reportsdone1@gmail.com
PHOTO ALBUMS
Specializing in Custom Photo Albums, Chosson, Wedding, etc. Also professional Photo Editing, many years of experience. Special rate for photographers. Photo Dreams 347.563.5153
CUSTOM PHOTO ALBUMS
We specialize in custom Photo Albums, Chosson, Wedding, etc. Also professional Photo Editing, many years of experience. Special rate for photographers. Call: 347.563.5153
FENCES
“We don’t chase sheep. We don’t mend shoes. But fences? That’s the job we chose!” Catskill Fence Co. 845-53-FENCE 845-533-3623
WOOD REPAIR UR KITCHEN, HEART OF UR HOME. PROFESSIONAL TRANSFORMATION THRU CABINETRY DESIGNER COLOUR CHANGE. OUR EXPERTISE ALSO INC: RESTORATION OF ESTATE FURNITURE, HI-END MAKEOVER TO DRM CHAIRS, BDRMS, LIBRARIES, STAIRCASES, EXTERIOR WOOD DOORS. UPGRADE UR ORIGINAL PCS! ENJOY THE QUALITY OF YESTERYEAR, DESIGN OF TODAY! BEST PRICING & SVC. TXT FOR INFO & DECORATORS CONSULT. 212-991-8548.
CLARINET RENTAL
Clarinet rental for $18 per week. Comes with MP3 lessons in Yiddish or English. 718-435-1923
MASSAGE THERAPEUTIC
For women. Lymphatic, Ache healing, sciatic pain relieving, deep tissue relaxing, circulation improving, sport injury repairing, toxin/stress releasing. Sigal 347-4097709
CRICUT
Bring your ideas to life with our cricut services! Custom t-shirts, decals, and more. Fast, personalized, and professionally crafted with cricut percision. Call:347585-0778
GARTEL FRINGES
We make professional gartel fringes and mend gartelach. Same day service. In the heart of BP. (347) 693-4920 or (718)435-7644
PROFESSIONAL PLUMBER
Services include fixing leaks and broken pipes, installing hot water dispensers, water heaters, water filters, and MUCH more! Call: 917-6001331
DOULA AGENCY
Are you a doula? Come join our great referral group and get access to a vast new clientele through medicaid. No hassle! No paperwork! just call 347-668-7886
MAKEUP
FREE Makeup Consultation + Application Techniques. Mary Kay, Static, Careline, GA-DE. ATT GRADUATES
Become an Agent for your class and earn rewards! Call/ Text C Fischer 718-930-4946
ATTENTION DAYCARES
Do you need legal ladies for your day care? Please call 929-276-4257.
CAMPSONG LYRICS
For all your theme songs/ singing/sports/shabbos heads etc. Yiddish/English. Knakedig and Rock’adig. Only pay if you like. Option for choreography. 718-7810533
WEB DESIGN
Beautifully designed and developed websites for small businesses. Custom sites at great rates with quick turnaround — get your business online fast! Contact sury.webdesign@gmail.com
Classifieds
SPRINTER & MINI
VAN SERVICE
Heimishe driver available to do deliveries. Local & long distance, we shlep with a smile! Call: 718.951.0090
WHOLESALE FISH
Buy by the case & save. Baby & Regular Salmon. Hashgucha Volove Rav. Free delivery to your home. Call Eli: 516-270-6755
VAN SERVICE
Yossi`s Van Service 15
Passenger van Local & long distance Airports & delivery. Call: 718.962.4664
HAIRSTYLIST
Experienced hairstylist for all occasions - will come to you min. fee. Call or text Chaya 3474157155
LOCKSMITH
For all your locksmith needs
WIGS
BY MALKY
This Yom Tov treat yourself to the service, convenience, look, and price that you truly deserve! 347-461-5526 (BP)
EXERCISE
Exercise classes by mordcha Nove. We come to you $150 a hour 8456622106
GOWNS
WHITE GOWN
Looking to sell a size 2-4 white gown for sister of the bride, Please call 347 628 9586
GOWNS FOR SALE
Bother of the bride size 10 and sister of the bride size 0-2 mauve cloloring for sale. Very reasonable.
Adorable white gowns sizes 2,3,14. Stunning ivory gown size 4-6. Black mother of bride gown size 12. call 347-48-1859
FOUND
Last summer white lagerfeld bag on a bus on way to camp, monsey trails 3472327882
Grey bandana on Flushing 347-628-4800
tear drop shape earring on 14 ave and 40 st. please text 929-326-1115
off white and white fuZzy blanket on 18 and 54 on pesach pls call 9176522506
Money in 48th/18th area 347962-9129
FREE GIVEAWAYS
china closet; beautiful condition. Call/text 347-5228286 Pu in bp
black Bugaboo Comfort Transport Bag for Donkey/ Cameleon/Fox/Dragonfly. Brand New. Pick up in BP. Please text 347-397-1060
LATE ADS
MONSEY – FOR SALE
(Off Kennedy, Spring Valley). Renovated townhouse, 3 bdrms, washer/dryer upstairs, 12 ft basement. Call/ Text 845-579-2416
BLOWOUT SALE
Get ready for summer the natural way! Stock up on our insect bite and wound remedies. Amazing allergy relief regimen. And much more... Try it and see wonders! All items on sale‘20% discount’! ‘’ Purchase our summer/camp package and get a free gift!! ‘’ Sale ends 5/30/25. Call or text: 9296836384
Join our 8-week parenting group for mothers, led by two licensed female therapists. Connect, grow, and gain practical tools in a supportive space with likeminded mothers.
WHERE: At the Sipuk clinic, centrally located in Boro Park
WHEN: Mondays 11AM - 12PM
WHO: For women only
SPOTS ARE LIMITED. RESERVE YOURS TODAY! abelsky@sipuk.org 718-400-9988 Ext. 226
Indulge in our unique selection of quality furniture designed to serve you well into the future. Whether you choose to mix and match or place your order as is, Indigo is here to make your furniture shopping a breeze.
