The head is better than the tail. That is why Deuteronomy 28:13 says, “And the LORD shall make thee the head, and not the tail; and thou shalt be above only, and thou shalt not be beneath”.
How important is it to be the head? When your picture is required for your passport, all they want to see is the picture of your head. They don’t bother about the rest of the body. That tells you how important the head is. I am decreeing to every one of you reading this article, In the Name that is above every other name, you shall be the head – Amen! To be first is better than to be last.
When the President is passing through, there can never be a traffic jam because the road will be clear whereas the story is different for the ordinary citizen. Genesis 41:1-43, tells us the story of how Joseph was repositioned overnight when he became Prime Minister.
V 43 says “And he made him to ride in the second chariot which he had; and they cried before him, Bow the knee: and he made him ruler over all the land of Egypt”. In other words, the guards cleared the way in front of Joseph as he passed. As the One who sent me is alive, from now on when you travel, Angels will clear the way for you – Amen.
Joseph was just a slave, what he did was right, but the wife of his master lied against him.
Who would the master believe? His wife or the ordinary slave? That is why the fellow who was below ended up in prison.
To let you know how important position is, Amos 3:3 says only people who understand each other can walk together – “Birds of the same feather flock together.” When the incurable is cured, the one who has been cured will leave the company of the incurable. In John 5:1-14, immediately after the man who had been at the pool of Bethesda for thirty-
eight years was healed, he left the company of the sick and never returned there.
In the name that’s above every other name – I am talking by the Power of God; everyone reading the Sunrise Magazine will never sleep in an hospital bed again – Amen.
Position matters! If someone is mentally ill, he’s not likely to stay in the company of those who are mentally well, rather such a person will be in a psychiatric hospital. When free again, they will return to a different category of people. In Daniel 4, when Nebuchadnezzar lost his mind, nobody told him to go and join the animals; he went voluntarily. But when God had mercy on him and his senses were restored, he returned back to the palace because position matters!
When a sinner is truly saved, they will want to be in the company of those who are saved. In Acts 9:1-30, when Saul of Tarsus got saved, he looked for someone who would help him to join the company of Christians. That is why the Bible says if you are truly born again, you cannot be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. Why? Because position matters!
IT TAKES GOD TO REPOSITION SOMEBODY!
1. It takes God to take you from the miry clay and put you on the Rock to stay.
2. It takes the Almighty God to reposition you from the valley of sorrow to the mountain top of praises. In Luke 7:11-15 – The Widow of Nain was in the valley of sorrow and God intervened and she became someone who could wear the garment of praise for the rest of her life. In the name that’s above every other name, there is somebody reading this now, who will never know sorrow again – Amen.
3. It takes God to take the barren and reposition them to a level where they will have many children – 1 Samuel 2:21.
4. It takes God to reposition you from being the one who is pursued to become the one who is pursuing your pursuers.
5. It takes God to reposition you from total failure to super success.
HOW DOES GOD REPOSITION PEOPLE?
How can God reposition anybody?
1. Jeremiah 32:27 tells us that our God is the God of all flesh, and there is nothing too hard for Him.
2. He is Sovereign. Psalms 115:3 says, “But our God is in the Heavens: He hath done whatsoever he hath pleased”. He is the original Majesty and He is going to reposition someone today, whether your enemy likes it or not – Amen.
3. He is also the Lord of Hosts. There is no force anywhere that can stop Him. That is why we discover in 1 Samuel 2:7-8 that He can raise up one and bring down another. He can pick up a beggar from the dunghill and keep on raising him until he begins to sit among princes. That is why He is the One who can reposition.
WHY NOW? WHY IS IT NOW YOU WANT TO REPOSITION SOME PEOPLE?
1. God said, ‘I have decided to do a new thing’. You know the meaning of that? Your life is about to take a new turn (Amen). In Isaiah 43:19, the Almighty God says “Behold, I will do a New Thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the Wilderness, and Rivers in the desert.” You know it is in the time of hardship, that God proves Himself. I rejoice with those of you who are true children of God – As God lives, you would soon be rejoicing – Amen.
2. He also said He is doing it now! There are some people whose miracles can no longer wait – a day too late, will be too late. You know the story of the widow of Zarephath in 1 Kings 17:8-16 – if help had not come at that crucial moment, it would have been too late. The Almighty God wants me to tell someone reading this page now; concerning the miracle you are waiting for, no more waiting – Amen!
WHO NEEDS REPOSITIONING?
No matter where you are, God can take you higher still. You remember the story of David? He was a shepherd, but God Repositioned him and he was anointed king before his brethren. Later he was repositioned to the Cave of Adullam and a lot of people in distress gathered around him. The Bible says, he became the captain over them. He was still repositioned higher, and he became the king
of Judah. He was repositioned still higher, and he became the King of Israel. Lastly, he was repositioned higher again and became the father of the King of kings.
WHAT WILL GOD REQUIRE OF ME TO BE REPOSITIONED?
God is Sovereign, He does as He pleases. But He is not arbitrary: everything He does, He does for a reason.
1. He looks at the Heart – He knows your Heart. Genesis 12:1-3 says, “Now the LORD had said unto Abram, Get thee out of thy Country, and from thy Kindred, and from thy father’s house, unto a Land that I will shew thee: And I will make of thee a Great Nation, and I will bless thee, and make thy name Great; and thou shalt be a blessing: And I will bless them that bless thee, and curse him that curseth thee: and in thee shall all families of the Earth be blessed”. What had Abraham done? Why did God just pick him out of the crowd to reposition him? – God knew! The God who knows the end from the beginning knew that “one day when I ask this same Abram to give me a son, Isaac, the only son that he loves, he will not deny me”. God knew in advance that Abraham is going to be His friend. He knows you – He knows that if He prospers you, you will serve Him with the money. Is that correct? He knows that if He promotes you, when you get to the position, you won’t forget Him. He knows your heart!
2. He knows tomorrow from even yesterday. When He decided to relocate or change the position of David, He said, “I have found a man who will do My will” (Acts 13:21-22). God knows who will be grateful after they have been repositioned. He knew what he was doing when he chose Solomon to be king – He knew he would return to say thank you.
3. Not only does He choose people because of the intent of the heart; He also rewards those who are diligent. Proverbs 22:29 says, “Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men”. Hebrews 11:6 says, “for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him”. He knows your heart, He knows
what you will do in the future. He knows you want to serve Him, only you don’t have the means and position. Hence, He wants to reposition you.
4. He Answers Prayers. Matthew 7:7-8 says “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For everyone that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened”. Who will He reposition? The one who has a correct heart, who is determined to serve God, and say Lord, reposition me and watch and see. He is looking for those who will diligently seek Him. He is ready to reposition those who will be hard working. I am just decreeing; because as you are reading this now, you too will knock at one door, and many doors will be open unto you – Amen!
However, this is going to mean hard work because He is not going to reposition a lazy fellow – the lazy fellow will remain lazy. A friend of mine was talking the other day – He said there is a saying that “power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.” He said he doesn’t believe that, rather he believes that if you are already corrupt, power gives you the opportunity to show it.
Do you want God to reposition you and place you on a higher level? What are you going to do when you get there? He answers prayers and He honours faith. According to Mark 9:23, if you believe that God is going to reposition you, He will do it. I pray that from now onwards God will reposition you beyond your wildest dream in Jesus name.
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Pastor E. A. Adeboye www.eaadeboye.com
Editorial Notes
It’s another new season! Never forget that seasons are created and directed by God.
Daniel 2:20-21 says, “Praise be to the name of God for ever and ever; wisdom and power are his. He changes times and seasons; he sets up kings and deposes them. He gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to the discerning”
God ordains the seasons we are in. He placed us in this world in these times and in this season. We may not be happy with God’s choice of timing, but none of it is by chance or error.
From before we are born to the end of our lives, God is accomplishing His divine purposes. Every event in our lives has a season, an appropriate time – not produced in some random order, but in a way that fulfils God’s purpose. Isaiah declared that God shaped us in our mother’s womb (Isaiah 44:24), and Jeremiah tells us God knew him and chose him for a special work even before he was in his mother’s womb, (Jeremiah 1:5). Solomon informs us that if we cooperate with God’s purposes and timing life will not be meaningless. Everything, even the most difficult experiences of life, will be “beautiful in its time” (Ecclesiastes 3:11).
Think about the current season, Autumn is the season of harvest. We see the reward of our labours. Our hard work begins to pay off. You will see the reward of your hard work in this season in Jesus’ name.
Remember that seasons are not permanent, and until God stops the process, the cycle will repeat. The season in which you now find yourself will soon pass. After Autumn ends,
winter comes and another spring is at the doorstep.
This is true for your life also. Don’t be discouraged because of your current season. There will be Divine Intervention and another season will begin. Remember that everything will be beautiful in its time.
In the present, explore your season. Learn and see what God is doing. To get the most out of where you are, you must understand the characteristics of your season. When we recognize the season, we need to make necessary adjustments to get the most out of it.
Enquire of God:
What lessons are you teaching me?
What actions do I need to be taking?
What is my plan moving forward?
In every season you are a witness to God’s power and sovereignty. Your response preaches a message to the people around you.
As always, this edition of Sunrise has articles to encourage and strengthen you in various areas of your life. Be blessed as you read and always remember that this is YOUR magazine. If you have contributions for the next edition, please get in touch!
• Andrea Onduku Editor
Divine Intervention for the Persistent
21. Then Jesus went out from there and departed to the region of Tyre and Sidon.
22. And behold, a woman of Canaan came from that region and cried out to Him, saying, “Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David! My daughter is severely demon-possessed.”
23. But He answered her not a word. And His disciples came and urged Him, saying, “Send her away, for she cries out after us.”
24. But He answered and said, “I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.”
25. Then she came and worshiped Him, saying, “Lord, help me!”
26. But He answered and said, “It is not good to take the children’s bread and throw it to the little dogs.”
27. And she said, “Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters’ table.”
28. Then Jesus answered and said to her, “O woman, great is your faith! Let it be to you as you desire.” And her daughter was healed from that very hour.
What is the meaning of Persistence?
Persistence is the noun form of the verb persist, which means to continue steadfastly or firmly in some state, purpose, or course of action, especially in spite of opposition. It means to endure tenaciously. It also means to be insistent in a statement, request, or question.
Most, if not all of us, need help. Our families need help. Our nation needs help. The nations of the world are in desperate need of help. The unemployed need help. The self-employed need help. The sick need help. Even the healthy need help because the healthy may still need help to become wealthy. Humanity has unlimited needs, but only the unlimited God can truly meet them. And today, in the name of Jesus Christ, the unlimited God will meet your limited needs.
Why? Because He is the One who says in Genesis 18:14: “Is anything too hard for the Lord?” And in Jeremiah 32:17, we read: “Behold, You have made the heavens and the earth by Your great power and outstretched arm. There is nothing too hard for You.” He is asking you now: “Is anything too hard for Me?”
He is asking a parent reading this: “Is anything too hard for the Lord?” He is asking someone in desperate need right now: “Is anything too hard for Me to do?”
Our help comes from the Lord. Oftentimes, however, for that help to come, persistence is required especially in the place of prayer.
In the Bible passage above, this mother was
Matthew 15:21–28
in desperate need of divine intervention for her daughter. She came to Jesus, faced fierce opposition, but she persisted until she prevailed. God is looking for believers who will persist until they prevail. Jacob once said to the angel, “I will not let you go unless you bless me” (Genesis 32:26). That is the ministry of persistence.
As we learn lessons from this story, it is my prayer that God will give us the grace of persistence, so that we may also prevail in the name of Jesus.
Lessons from the Story
1. The Oppression of Her Child
Matthew 15:22 – “My daughter is severely demon-possessed…”
Here we see the pain of a mother over her child’s condition. Like this mother, many parents today face similar pain over their children. The young people of this generation are particular targets of satanic oppression. The enemy contends with them through demons manifesting in different forms violence, gangsterism, gender confusion, sexual and racial abuse, same-sex relationships, snares and traps, social media vices, peer pressure, rejection, depression, and the oppression of their minds.
These are the marks of the end times in which we live. Parents are trying, but many are tired. Some seek solutions everywhere doctors, experts, therapists (not necessarily wrong places) but only a few find the ultimate right place: at the feet of Jesus.
Today, I congratulate every parent who has come to the feet of Jesus concerning the issues of their children. You will not go away disappointed in the name of Jesus. As a parent myself, I also bring my children and yours before the Lord. Like that woman, we will not leave disappointed in Jesus’ name.
Matthew 11:28 – “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
Jesus is the true expert in dealing with oppression. Acts 10:38 says He went about healing all who were oppressed by the devil. Today, every oppression of the enemy over our young people shall be broken in the name of Jesus Christ.
2. She Faced Obstacles to Her Prayers
Matthew 15:23–26 shows how she was ignored, dismissed, and insulted. Yet she persisted.
• The Obstacle of Race – She was a Canaanite. The Jews were commanded in Deuteronomy 7:2 to “show no mercy” to them. Yet she begged for mercy, saying, “O Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me!”
• The Obstacle of Religious Bias – The disciples said, “Send her away!” She wasn’t “one of them.” Many today still face discrimination and rejection because of their faith. Even within the church, sometimes we treat new believers with disdain.
• The Obstacle of Rejection – “Jesus answered her not a word” (v.23). Silence itself can feel like rejection. But she didn’t give up. Beloved, don’t abandon your Christian journey, even if men reject you. Psalm 27:10 reminds us: “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me.”
Ultimately, did Jesus reject her? No! He accepted her. And He will accept you too.
3. The Opportunity for Her Faith
Every opposition is also an opportunity. She refused to give up. She humbled herself, worshiped, and responded with great faith: “Even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their master’s table.”
Disadvantages are not always negative it depends on how we process them. Luke 18:1 tells us to always pray and not lose heart. Our Lord is looking for humility, repentance, worship, persistent faith, and unrelenting prayer.
As you persist in faith and prayer, I declare that your help will come sooner than later, in Jesus’ name!
Prayer Points
1. Father, command every demonic attack against our children and young people to cease, in the name of Jesus.
2. My Father and my God, I join my faith with everyone reading this today, and we ask that You command deliverance for every loved one, child, and young person held captive by the enemy. Lord, command freedom, healing, breakthrough, and restoration for them now, in the name of Jesus Christ.
God bless you!
• Pastor Leke Sanusi Continental Overseer, RCCG Europe Continent 9/ Chairman, Board of Trustees, RCCG UK
10 Keys to Attract Divine Interventions
There are moments in life when human effort is not enough. Connections, Intelligence, and Resources fail, hope seems lost in these moments. At such times, what we desperately need is a divine intervention; a moment when heaven steps into our affairs of men to turn the impossible into reality. The good news is this: God delights in intervening for His people, but His interventions are often attracted by certain spiritual keys.
There are some timeless biblical principles that position us for divine interventions:
1. PRAYER AND SUPPLICATION
Prayer is heaven’s invitation to step into earth’s situations. God Himself says, “Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and show thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not” Jeremiah 33:3.
Hannah prayed fervently at Shiloh, and God remembered her, turning her barrenness into fruitfulness 1 Samuel 1:10–20
Prayer does not just move mountains; it moves the God who made the mountains.
2. FAITH AND TRUST
Faith is the currency of divine intervention. “Without faith it is
impossible to please God” Hebrews 11:6.
The woman with the issue of blood pressed through the crowd with faith in her heart and received her healing Mark 5:25–34
Faith draws God’s power into human impossibility
3. HOLINESS AND OBEDIENCE
Walking in obedience to God’s Word unlocks His covenant blessings. “If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land” Isaiah 1:19
Israel saw Jericho’s walls crumble, not because of military strength, but because they obeyed divine instructions Joshua 6:16–20
Obedience creates a pathway for God’s intervention.
4. WORSHIP AND PRAISE
Praise is not just a song; it is a weapon of war. God dwells in the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3). When Paul and Silas prayed and sang praises in the Philippian prison, the doors opened supernaturally Acts 16:25–26. Praise invites God into our battles.
5. SACRIFICE AND GIVING
Sacrifice provokes divine remembrance. Cornelius’ prayers and almsgiving rose as a memorial before God, attracting angelic visitation Acts
10:4. Solomon’s unusual offering at Gibeon moved God to grant him wisdom and wealth 1 Kings 3:4–5.
Sacrifice is a spiritual magnet for God’s attention.
6. STANDING ON GOD’S WORD
God intervenes to fulfil His promises. When we hold firmly to His Word, heaven responds. Elijah prayed for rain based on God’s promise, and the heavens opened 1 Kings 18:41–45.
The Word of God is the anchor for every divine intervention.
7. COVENANT RELATIONSHIP
God is committed to those who walk in covenant with Him. “And God remembered His covenant…” Exodus 2:24
Israel’s deliverance from Egypt was not accidental, it was a covenant response.
Those who stand on covenant ground attract covenant interventions.
8. PROPHETIC CONNECTION
Honouring the prophetic voice positions us for divine breakthroughs. “Believe in the LORD your God, so shall ye be established; believe his prophets, so shall ye prosper” 2 Chronicles 20:20
The widow of Zarephath experienced supernatural supply because she honoured Elijah’s prophetic instruction 1 Kings 17:10–16
Honouring your prophet attracts divine intervention.
9. HUMILITY AND BROKENNESS
God responds to the humble and contrite. “A broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise” Psalm 51:17. King Hezekiah’s humility turned a death sentence into 15 more years of life 2 Kings 20:1–6.
Humility attracts mercy and God’s intervention.
10. CRY FOR MERCY
Above all, divine interventions flow from the mercy of God. Blind Bartimaeus cried, “Jesus, thou Son of David, have mercy on me!” and Jesus
stopped in His tracks to heal him Mark 10:46–52. Mercy remains the ultimate key to God’s intervention. Romans 9:16.
Divine interventions are real, and they are available today. When we engage prayer, faith, obedience, worship, sacrifice, covenant, humility, and a cry for mercy, heaven cannot ignore us. As you apply these keys, may the God who turned the Red Sea into a highway, who shut the lions’ mouths for Daniel, and who raised Lazarus from the dead, step into your situation in Jesus’ name. Amen
Prayer Points for Divine Intervention
1. Lord, let my cry reach Your throne today, hear me and answer me in Jesus’ name. Jeremiah 33:3
2. Father, let my faith provoke miracles and breakthroughs in my life. Hebrews 11:6
3. Lord, give me the grace to obey You completely and enjoy covenant blessings. Isaiah 1:19
4. God, as I praise You, let every chain in my life break and every prison door open. Acts 16:25-26
5. God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, remember Your covenant and intervene in my destiny. Exodus 2:24
6. Jesus, Son of David, let Your mercy overrule judgment in my life. Mark 10:46-52
7. Lord, align me with the prophetic instructions that will usher me into breakthroughs. 2 Chronicles 20:20
8. Father, I humble myself before You, arise and show me compassion. Psalm 51:17
9. Lord, scatter every barrier standing against my advancement in life. Psalm 68:1
10. Lord, let Your intervention come speedily into every delayed area of my life. Psalm 70:1
Pastor David Sola
Oludoyi Deputy Continental Overseer, RCCG Europe
DOPAMINE OR DISCOMFORT
(A conversation I overheard on the train)
Awhile ago, on one of my many train trips to a meeting, I overheard a conversation. Please don’t accuse me of eavesdropping as I’m convinced God wanted me to learn from it. I hope you will learn too.
Two students were discussing about how to prepare for their forthcoming exams. They talked about the strategies for success, and how they envisioned the outcome. The first student, let’s call him Opa, excitedly listed all the things he had going on; a YouTube interview for a content creator role, plans for street interviews on Trending News, an audition to be the master of ceremonies at a major awards night, and many other activities.
His friend, let’s call him Sco, listened carefully, nodding as Opa spoke. When Opa finished, Sco gently asked if he might reconsider putting those activities on hold until after the exams. Opa quickly shook his head in disagreement, insisting that the opportunities would make him “the talk of the town.” He envisioned growing in popularity, appearing on chat shows, and gaining more followers and likes on social media.
Sco, however, had a different approach. He had just finished reading Atomic Habits by James Clear. Being inspired by the book, he decided to suspend all his social media activities until after exams so he could focus fully on studying. Opa listened politely and smiled. “All the best”, he muttered as he hurriedly pulled out his phone and spent the next two and a half hours giggling and gasping at all the online videos. Sco on the other hand, chose to focus on writing out his study plan, setting deadlines, and identifying collaborators to help him reach his goals. “Hmmm!” I almost said out loud as I silently observed them.
How many of us choose the quick pleasures of dopamine over the discomfort that produces lasting reward?
WHAT IS DOPAMINE?
Dopamine is commonly called the “feel-good hormone.” It activates the brain’s reward system, creating feelings of pleasure and satisfaction, motivating us to seek those experiences again and again. Scientifically, dopamine is a neurotransmitter and also a chemical precursor of substances like adrenaline. It is God’s good gift to us, but when misapplied, it can enslave us. That’s why we must discipline ourselves to say “no” to dopamine’s constant pull and embrace the temporary discomfort for a greater reward.
WHAT IS DISCOMFORT?
Discomfort is the feeling of unease, either inflicted by circumstances or self-imposed through discipline. In this context, discomfort is the price paid today for the comfort of tomorrow.
Examples include:
• Studying instead of sleeping.
• Saving instead of spending.
• Being patient instead of yielding to pressure.
• Choosing silence instead of endless chatter.
• Truly listening instead of just hearing.
• Digging deep instead of settling for mental laziness.
Does discomfort feel joyful in the moment? No. But in the end, it produces growth, freedom, and fulfilment. Unfortunately, many realise too late in life that if they had embraced discomfort over dopamine, their life stories would have been richer and more inspiring.
BIBLICAL EXAMPLES
• The Prodigal Son (Luke 15) chose pleasure over the discomfort of waiting patiently for his inheritance. He was later restored only by divine mercy.
• The young prophet in 1 Kings 13 disobeyed God and chose momentary ease over the discomfort of standing firm. His life ended tragically.
• Orpah (Ruth 1:14) chose the comfort of the familiar over the discomfort of the unknown,
and she faded into obscurity. But Ruth, the risk-taker, embraced uncertainty, trusted God, and became part of the lineage of Christ.
• Moses (Hebrews 11:24–25) chose “to suffer affliction with the people of God rather than enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin.”
PRACTICAL EXAMPLES
• A student attends a Destination Wedding just days before exams. Returning unprepared, he fails to perform well. The pleasures of today steals the success of tomorrow.
• A business woman hastily signs a lucrative proposal without proper due diligence because the process felt “too uncomfortable.” She later discovers she has been deceived. Discomfort in asking hard questions could have saved her.
• A young man, blinded by infatuation, ignores the glaring red flags in a relationship. He mistakes the “feel-good hormone” for true love, proposes, and later regrets it. Remember: red flags don’t turn green except at traffic lights.
CONCLUSION
Life will always present two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The choice is yours. Are you allowing dopamine to rule your decisions, or will you embrace discomfort for a higher goal? Better still, will you surrender both to God, trusting Him for divine intervention?
The year is almost over. With just about 100 days left, what is driving your decisions? Dopamine, discomfort, or divine intervention?
Remember, the enemy thrives on distraction and distortion, but if you determine to endure discomfort and lean on God, He will lift you to victory in Jesus’ name. Thank you and God bless.
• Pastor Modupe Afolabi
Continental Executive Director, RCCG Europe Continent
Marketplace Relevance
When we hear the word “marketplace”, what often comes to mind? For some, it is usually the traditional market where goods are bought and sold. Yet, in a broader sense, the marketplace is far more than that. It is the space you occupy to offer value and make impact in exchange for reward. In essence, the marketplace is where your purpose, skills, and value meet the needs of others. Whether you are in business, employment, building a career, studying, or serving in ministry, you are in the marketplace, because you are offering something.
What Does It Mean to Be Relevant?
Marketplace relevance means being valuable, visible, up-to-date, and in demand. People do not simply pay for your skills; they pay for the solutions those skills provide. You can be talented, but if your talent isn’t solving a problem, it will not earn your relevance.
My son once visited a local shop’s website and found it poorly designed. Instead of complaining, he built them a better one, highlighted the flaws, and offered his services. They accepted his offer, and paid him for the service he rendered. His relevance came not from skill alone, but from his ability to apply that skill to solve a problem.
Biblically, Daniel is a striking example of marketplace relevance. He remained influential under four different governments in a foreign land. Why? Because he consistently provided solutions to the pressing challenges each leader faced. His skill gave him access, but his problemsolving ability kept him indispensable. And don’t forget, Daniel was an immigrant in a foreign land, yet highly sought after.
This shows that your background, accent, or colour becomes inconsequential when you consistently bring value and meet needs.
There are two crucial principles you must apply to Staying relevant in your sphere of calling: Proficiency and Problem-Solving.
1. Proficiency is about mastering your craft. It requires continuous growth, deepening your knowledge base, and becoming recognised in your field. Proficiency builds credibility and earns the trust of clients, employers, and peers.
2. Problem-Solving is about moving beyond complaints to action. Many people see what is wrong in their workplace or community, yet do nothing about it, however, relevance comes when you step forward with solutions.
Daniel applied both; His proficiency made him credible, and his problemsolving ability made him indispensable. These qualities were not accidental; they came from consistent, deliberate, and continuous learning, unlearning, and relearning.
Continuous learning is key to staying ahead because remaining relevant in your sphere of influence is not a one-time achievement; it requires constant growth.
Alvin Toffler once said: “The illiterate of the future are not those who cannot read or write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.”
Yesterday’s knowledge quickly becomes today’s mediocrity. Think of Nokia and Blackberry; once global giants, now reduced to relics. They lost relevance because they failed to adapt to changing needs, while brands like Apple and Samsung thrived by innovating. In the same way, if you must stay relevant, you must keep learning, unlearning, and relearning. That may mean enrolling in courses, attending conferences, not just spiritual but intellectual too, reading widely, and seeking mentors.
Even Daniel, with all his wisdom, “understood by the books” (Daniel 9:2). His commitment to knowledge sustained
his influence across generations.
Another critical aspect of relevance is adaptability; the ability to evolve with the times. The ideas that launched your business, ministry, or career years ago may not be sufficient today. You risk stagnation and decline remaining in the old.
Equally important is visibility. Scripture reminds us: “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works” (Matthew 5:16). Your light is your skill, knowledge, and expertise. But if no one knows what you carry, your relevance remains hidden.
Visibility requires intentionality: Ruth, in the Bible, demonstrated this principle. She was intentional about being visible to Boaz, she went the extra mile to lay at his feet in order to be seen. In the same way, you must be deliberate about letting your work be seen.
As powerful as prayer is, staying relevant is not achieved by prayer alone. Scripture reminds us that “faith without works is dead.” Relevance demands both grace and grind. Grace positions you for opportunities, but grind requires your diligence, learning, and problem-solving ability, to keep you there.
Share your expertise through networking, word of mouth, and social media. Build your personal brand, be consistent and strategic in putting yourself forward.
In conclusion, to thrive in the marketplace, you must be valuable, proficient, adaptable, visible, and above all, solution driven. People must never meet you where they last left you. Keep growing, keep learning, and keep shining.
Remember, the marketplace does not determine your relevance by who you are, but by the problems you solve.
• Pastor Joan Dada (PJD)
Youth Mental Health Crisis:
A Call to the Church
Across the UK, many young people are struggling with their mental health. Loneliness, anxiety, depression, and even self-harm are no longer rare issues affecting just a few they are everyday realities for many teenagers and young adults. Recent studies reveal that one in five young people report experiencing a mental health condition and hospital admissions for self-harm have risen sharply in the last decade.
Behind each number is a story, a face, a longing to be seen and heard. Some of these young people live on our streets, attend our
schools, or even walk through our Church doors. While the scale of the problem can feel overwhelming, the good news is that God often works His Divine Intervention through ordinary people and places. Even a small Church, rooted in love, can become a place of safety, healing, and hope.
Here are 7 key ‘lights’ the Church can shine in response to this crisis:
1. Belonging
Every young person longs to feel accepted for who they are. Many hide behind masks because they fear judgment, rejection, or failure. The Church can step in by creating communities where young people know they are loved unconditionally. This doesn’t always require big programs sometimes it simply means remembering their name, asking about their week, or celebrating their small victories. In a world where many feel invisible, belonging can be life-changing.
2. Connection
Loneliness is one of the greatest drivers of poor mental health. For some, home is not a safe place; for others, school feels like a battlefield. The Church can fill the gap by fostering genuine connections friendship, mentoring, and consistent presence. When young people know that someone will notice if they are missing, it builds trust and stability. Just as Jesus drew close to those who were overlooked, we too are called to walk alongside the young with compassion.
3. Safe Haven
Young people need what sociologists call a “third place” not school, not home, but a space where they can simply
breathe. The Church can be that safe haven. Whether through youth nights, drop-in cafés, or creative workshops, our buildings can be transformed into sanctuaries of rest. A safe haven is not about fancy equipment; it’s about creating an environment where a young person feels, “Here, I am safe. Here, I am welcome.”
4. Small Acts
When facing something as vast as the youth mental health crisis, it’s easy to feel powerless. Yet small acts can have a profound impact. A smile at the door, a word of encouragement, a simple meal shared these often speak louder than sermons. Divine Intervention often comes not through grand gestures but through consistent, quiet faithfulness. As Scripture reminds us, “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin” (Zechariah 4:10).
5. Creativity
For many young people, words are hard to find. But creativity opens doors where speech cannot. Art, music, drama, and storytelling can be powerful tools for healing and selfexpression. Churches can host open mic nights, painting sessions, or music groups not just as entertainment but as ministry. When a young person paints their pain, sings their story, or writes their hope, they begin to process emotions in safe and healthy ways. Creativity becomes prayer in motion.
6. Partnership
The Church cannot and should not do this alone. Mental health professionals, schools, charities, and community groups each play an essential role. By forming partnerships, Churches can provide both spiritual and practical support.
Hosting information evenings, inviting local organizations to share resources, or simply signposting to professional help strengthens the safety net around vulnerable young people. When the Body of Christ works with the wider community, we embody God’s love in tangible ways.
7. Hope
At the heart of it all, the Church is called to shine the light of hope. Young people need to know that their struggles do not define their future, that their pain does not have the final word. Our message is that God sees them, loves them, and has a plan for their lives. Sharing testimonies of God’s faithfulness, offering prayer, and gently pointing to Jesus can plant seeds of eternal hope. Even when answers are not immediate, hope sustains.
The youth mental health crisis is real, urgent, and heartbreaking. But in the face of this darkness, the Church is not powerless. By shining the seven lights of belonging, connection, a safe haven, small acts, creativity, partnership, and hope, we can reflect Christ’s love in ways that bring genuine healing.
Divine Intervention does not always arrive in dramatic miracles. It often comes through the faithful presence of God’s people, living out the Gospel in everyday ways. If our Churches can become places where young people feel safe, valued, and hopeful, then we will have played our part in God’s greater plan to restore and redeem.
May we rise to this call, and may our Churches truly be a beacon of light for the next generation.
The Power of AI Search and the Silent Christian Voices
There’s been an ongoing debate within the Church about the benefits (or not) of social media. Some have gone to the extreme of labelling social media “the devil’s tool” and as a result have made every effort to steer clear of the various platforms. Technology can be scary; however, we must find ways to harness the positive side of it for our benefit.
In today’s digital landscape, Churches need to come to the realisation that social media isn’t just a platform for connection or posting selfies, it’s also a mission field. As Artificial Intelligence (AI) increasingly shapes how content is discovered, shared, and understood, Christian creators have a unique opportunity to influence both algorithms and souls.
Matthew 10:16 – Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves. We’re called to be creative and discerning, using every tool available without compromising the message.
Artificial Intelligence works by mimicking human intelligence using computer systems that can learn, reason, and make decisions. In all honesty, it’s scary; the sci-fi movies of those days have become the reality of today. Search engines are always crawling the web, scanning for, and storing information. So, when you search in Google, Bing, or any of the other search engines (which are now powered by AI), they respond to your question with the wealth of knowledge they have searched for and stored.
Faith-based content, especially when rooted in scripture and spiritual
insight, often aligns with trending queries around purpose, hope, and transformation. However, if Christians are not posting anything, when there is a search around transformation for example, AI will not find any Christian faith related information and instead, will offer whatever it can find from other inputs on the web.
In today’s digital age, screens have become the new pulpits, and the internet is the modern-day marketplace where ideas, values, and beliefs are exchanged. If Christians aren’t present in that space, it leaves a vacuum that can be filled by voices that don’t reflect biblical truth or spiritual hope. Silence leaves a void. If Christians remain silent, other ideologies dominate the conversation. Faith-based content isn’t about winning arguments, it’s about being present with truth, grace, and hope for those searching for answers.
Some Christians are resistant to change, especially technology related changes. There is nothing new under the sun, and this has always been the case whether it’s the introduction of mobile phones or the internet. However, we should take advantage of whatever tool is available for us to use to influence lives and win souls.
Mark 16:15 - Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. If we are to go into all the world, we will need to use every and any platform, whether through preaching, writing, media or digital outreach.
• Pastor Remi Williams Fragrance of Life Connections
The Quiet Cost: The Sacrifice of Parenting in a Digital World
In living rooms around the world, parents exchange lullabies for passwords, play dates for push notifications, and uninterrupted conversations for the glow of screens. The digital era has brought enormous benefits; access to learning, connection across distances, and powerful tools for work and parenting. But it has also silently shifted what parenting looks like and what it costs.
Parenting in the digital age requires unique sacrifices; time, presence, mental energy, personal ambitions, and spiritual rhythms. Fathers and mothers alike make these sacrifices while raising children whose childhoods are steeped in screens. Research shows children’s screen time is at historic highs, reshaping family life and demanding new forms of vigilance, boundarysetting, and shared responsibility.
This article examines the quiet but profound costs borne by parents today and invites reflection on how to respond with wisdom and hope.
What the Data Says
Modern research paints a clear picture:
Young people are online more than ever. Nearly half of U.S. teens say they are on the internet “almost constantly.” (Pew Research, Dec 2024)
Parents report varying levels of monitoring: 64% of parents of 13–14-year-olds say they look through their teen’s smartphone, though this drops as children grow older. (Pew Research, Mar 2024)
In the UK, Ofcom’s 2024 report shows significant increases in children’s media use, highlighting parents’ struggle between worry and trust.
Health authorities link higher non-school screen time with risks such as depression, anxiety, sleep disruption, and lower physical activity. (CDC, 2024)
The World Health Organization estimates 11% of adolescents show problematic social-media behaviour, urging families to consider digital life when addressing mental health.
The Kinds of Sacrifices Parents Make
1. Time and Presence
Parents often trade focused and quality time for multitasking answering work emails while children play with tablets or using screens to
calm toddlers during chores.
The simple sacrament of presence eye contact, steady conversations, spontaneous play becomes fragmented. Many parents report guilt for relying on devices, even while acknowledging their necessity for juggling responsibilities.
2. Emotional Labour and Vigilance
Monitoring apps, curfews, and screen rules create ongoing emotional work.
Parents expend mental energy policing content, mediating conflicts, and turning digital harms into teachable moments.
This “mental load” is invisible but heavy: planning, reminding, enforcing rules, and calming anxieties about online dangers.
3. Career and Financial Trade-off
Parents, especially in dual-earner households, adjust schedules, accept fewer demanding roles, or pay for childcare/monitoring services to reduce risks.
These economic sacrifices can impact long-term career growth and retirement readiness.
4. Personal Well-being and Spiritual Rhythms
Parenting in the digital age can erode personal time sleep, exercise, and spiritual practices.
Many parents feel more stressed and less able to sustain rest, prayer, or reflective reading when screens dominate family schedules.
A Biblical Perspective: Calling, Sacrifice, and Hope
Scripture recognizes both the call to train and the cost of parenting, offering grounding words for weary parents:
Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (NIV): A call to intentional discipleship in everyday moments: “Impress them on your children… talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road.”
Ephesians 6:4 (NIV): A reminder of balanced parenting discipline coupled with nurture: “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”
Proverbs 22:6 (NIV): A vision of long-term investment: “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old, they will not turn from it.”
Psalm 127:3–5 (NIV): A celebration of children as a blessing, framing the sacrifices of parenting with joy and meaning.
Practical Steps for Sacrificial, Sustainable Parenting
1. Set shared family values and rules about devices. Create a clear “family covenant” for device use (hours, content, device-free zones) so enforcement is shared rather than shouldered by one parent.
2. Protect rhythms of presence. Anchor daily life with screen-free times (meals, bedtime, worship) to nurture connection.
3. Model healthy digital habits. Limit personal device use in front of children actions speak louder than rules.
4. Use tech tools wisely. Leverage parental controls and screen-time tools to reduce vigilance fatigue while remaining relationally present.
5. Share the load. Divide digital parenting responsibilities between both parents and/or extended family to reduce burnout.
6. Prioritize parental self-care and spiritual formation. Rest, supportive communities, and shared spiritual practices sustain long-term parenting.
Conclusion: Sacrifice with a Posture of Hope
Parenting has always required sacrifice. The digital age hasn’t removed that truth it has simply reshaped it. Today, parenting requires more vigilance, negotiation, and boundary-setting. Yet Scripture invites us into the long view: small acts of presence, correction, and love matter deeply.
Parents are not merely managers of devices and schedules; they are cultivators of hearts, minds, and souls. The sacrifice is costly, but it is not meaningless. With faith, intentionality, and community, mothers and fathers can welcome the gifts of digital life while guarding what is most precious the heart and soul of their children.
Key Sources
Pew Research Center Teens & Technology Reports (2023–2024)
Ofcom Children and Parents: Media Use and Attitudes (Apr 19, 2024)
World Health Organization Teens, Screens, and Mental Health (2024)
U.S. CDC Public-health analyses of screen time and adolescent wellbeing
OECD Family Database and Better Life Index on family policy and work-life balance
• Pastor Onyekachi Uduku
Stumbling Blocks to God’s Intervention
In 2 Kings 7, we read about the prophecy given by Elisha concerning a turnaround of the nation’s economy in 24 hours. This prophecy was given in the context of a severe famine in Israel. In the midst of this hopelessness, the King’s officer scoffed, dismissing the prophecy as impossible.
When we look through the scriptures and even our presentday realities, there are miracles, signs and wonders that transcend human understanding. Sometimes we try to provide an explanation to mysterious happenings around us but often they don’t appear logical. No wonder the scriptures says in Romans 11:33 “Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and His ways past finding out”. We’ll never figure out the fullness of the wisdom of God when demonstrated in our lives and the world around us. This is why He is described as the unsearchable God.
The officer mentioned in 2 Kings 7 was just a natural man, using his natural senses and logic to understand situations around him. The things of the Spirit are alien to a natural man because they are spiritually discerned (1 Cor. 2:14). A believer in Christ is not a natural man. At the point of salvation, our spirit is connected to the Spirit of God, the transformation and the renewal of the mind by the Word of God is a gradual process. As our minds get renewed by the Word of God, our spiritual sensitivity is sharpened to understand the things of the Spirit because the Word of God is Spirit and life. Our faith in God is boosted by the
amount of the Word of God we feed on. It can help us to believe that with God, all things are possible. However, many believers still limit God (Psalm 78:41), hindering the move of God in the following ways:
Insensitivity and Distraction. When we seek God with the whole of our hearts, He is ever faithful to answer our prayers according to His will. He said in His Word that “this is the confidence that we have that when we pray according to His will, he hears us” (1 John 5:14). This means that the answers He provides will always align with His will. Therefore, it is imperative that we harness the help of the Holy Spirit to always pray His will into our lives and situations so that Jesus may be glorified. His answers to prayers will usually come as instructions on what to do. In other Words, there is a part that we need to play when seeking God’s help. The challenge is that we need to be sensitive enough to know what he would have us do. God is always speaking, and it takes a sensitive believer to understand the language of the Spirit and hearken to instructions. In a world where there is so much noise vying for our attention, we often get easily carried away running after shadows and leaving the substance. There is lack of consistency and focus in seeking God intimately, no consistency in following
through with what God has already revealed. The distractions are so palpable that we sometimes get lost. Proverbs 27:8 puts it this way, “Like a bird that wanders from its nest is a man who wanders from his place.” We see a lot of believers today wandering from their place in God and their place of assignment because they are engulfed in the yoke of distraction. God in His infinite mercy is always waiting for us to return to Him who is the true source of life and solutions.
Lack of discernment of times and seasons.
The book of Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “to everything, there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven.” This suggests doing the right thing at the right time. Something can be right and justified but if it is done at a wrong time, it could be catastrophic. Elishah knew by discernment that it was not the right time to receive gifts from the work of the ministry but Gehazi, his servant, out of greed ran after the gifts and the result was a curse of leprosy in his lineage to generations yet unborn (2 Kings 5:20). When seeking God for His intervention in any area of life, we need a discerning spirit to be able to know the time of our visitation.
Daniel gained insight into the fulfilment of God’s promised 70 years of desolation in Jerusalem and he started seeking the Lord for a visitation at the specified time (Daniel 9:2). Many have missed opportunities and experienced delayed blessings because they lacked discernment concerning the time and season of their visitations.
Abraham welcomed three strangers that appeared to him and made them comfortable in his house which led to the birth of the longawaited promised child. If he had not been hospitable, he would have missed his season of God’s visitation.
Not giving regard to the people God has placed in our lives.
God is seated in heaven, and He hears us when we cry out to Him for help. Our God is a Present Help in the time of need. God will not come down from heaven to help you, He will always use people around you to bring the help that you need. The scripture says, “And He has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the face of the earth and has determined their pre-appointed times and the boundaries of their dwellings” (Acts17:26). This means that your location is predetermined by God, where you are is not a mistake. God ordained for you to live there and benefit from the resources that He has put in place for your
good. The Church you go to, the department where you’re serving, the people in your neighbourhood, the school you attend etc. Wherever you find yourself as a child of God, there would always be a purpose for it. There isn’t a coincidence with God, it’s always a God incident. If you have prayed for long and there seems to be no results, humble yourself and seek counsel from your spiritual leaders, they may see what you don’t see. The Bible says, “In the multitude of counsellors, there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14). You should place value on the people around you. Never look down on any one because you might need them one day. The Bible says “better is a neighbour nearby than a brother far off” (Proverbs 27:10). It is a lack of wisdom and sheer waste of time seeking help a far off when we can get help within our reach.
Forgetting God’s past faithfulness.
When we read about the Israelites and how God showed up for them in parting the Red Sea and other mighty miracles, you would wonder why they rebelled and murmured against God at the slightest provocation. People naturally default to forgetfulness when faced with the vicissitudes of life even when they have conquered higher challenges by the help of God in the past. In the case of the Israelites, crossing the Red Sea was a mighty miracle that God did in their lives when compared to a moment of hunger in the wilderness that made them desire to go back to Egypt for the meat and bread, the land of their captivity. They immediately forgot that the God that had delivered them from the Red Sea could also provide food for them in the wilderness. Forgetfulness depletes faith in God. Without faith it is impossible to please God and unbelief hinders His move in our lives (Matthew 13:58). When faced with challenges, be still and ponder, think about the goodness of God and reflect on His mercies and interventions in the past to draw strength and boost your faith in the God that never changes. He is still the same God yesterday, today and forever.
Our God is a faithful God and would not want us to seek Him in vain (Is. 49:19). God shows up for us in diverse ways. It is not for us to choose how He should intervene in our situations. God sits in Heaven and He does whatever pleases Him because He is sovereign and He is unquestionable. As we seek Him with the whole of our hearts, removing every stumbling block in our way, let us position ourselves for His miraculous interventions and He will surely come through for us.
Identify the DRAIN In Your Relationship
Dr Russ Harris in his book, Act with love identifies a framework for understanding the things that can drain our relationships of strength and vitality. He used the acronym DRAIN:
D – Disconnection, R – Reactivity, A – Avoidance, I – Inside-your-mind, N – Neglecting values
Let’s take time to break this down so that we can build better relationships.
Disconnection:
Think about how you disconnect from your spouse? Do you get bored, irritable or stop listening? Do you get cold and distant? Do you close off/shut down?
Q. What should you do instead?
• Prioritize Communication: Regularly carve out time for conversation, even if it’s just for a few minutes each day. Practice active listening, focusing on truly understanding your spouse’s perspective.
• Show Appreciation: Regularly express gratitude for your spouse’s efforts and contributions, both big and small.
• Make Time for Each Other: Schedule regular date nights to create dedicated time for connecting and enjoying each other’s company.
• Rekindle Physical Intimacy: Physical closeness plays a significant role in emotional connection.
• Address Unresolved Conflicts: Don’t let disagreements fester. Address them constructively by staying calm, listening actively,
and avoiding blame.
• Try Something New Together: Shared experiences can reignite the spark in your relationship and bring a fresh energy to your marriage.
Reactivity:
Think about how you react impulsively or automatically, without stopping to consider what you’re doing? For example, do you yell, snap, storm off, say hurtful things, criticize, blame, accuse etc?
Q. What should you do instead?
• Identify and Address Triggers: Pay attention to situations or emotions that tend to trigger impulsive outbursts. Once identified, you can develop strategies to manage those triggers, such as creating distance from the trigger or engaging in alternative activities.
• Practice Active Listening: Actively listen to your spouse’s perspective to avoid interrupting or responding impulsively. This involves focusing on what they are saying, asking clarifying questions, and validating their feelings.
• Take Breaks: When you feel overwhelmed or triggered, it’s important to take a break from the conversation to calm down and regain control. This could involve stepping away from the situation, going for a walk, or engaging in a calming activity.
• Communicate Frustration Effectively: Instead of resorting to impulsive, hurtful words, try expressing your frustration using “I” statements
and focusing on the behaviour rather than the person. For example, instead of saying “You always...” try “I feel hurt when...”.
• Practice Patience and Understanding: Remember that your spouse might also be struggling with communication challenges. Approach communication with patience, empathy, and a willingness to understand their perspective.
• Delay Gratification: Before responding to a trigger, try to delay your response. Take a few deep breaths, count to 10, or mentally rehearse a more constructive response.
• Develop Alternative Outlets: Find healthy ways to release pent-up emotions and redirect impulsive urges. This could include engaging in hobbies, exercise, or spending time with friends and family.
Avoidance:
Think about how you try to avoid or get rid of painful feelings that are related to the issues in this relationship? For example, do you withdraw or stay away from your spouse? Do you try to distract yourself with TV, computers, books, going out? Do you avoid talking to your spouse about the issue?
Q. What should you do instead?
• Recognize not talking is more destructive so it is important to try to communicate when you are feeling upset.
• Explore reasons why you are avoiding painful feelings or conflict. Is it because in past times you felt invalidated or is it because of past relationships?
• Open communication with your spouse about the cycle and let them know you would like to work on fixing it.
• Emotions are nothing to avoid or be afraid of, God gave them to us. Let’s celebrate them in all their complexity.
• Emotions are signposts that help you navigate the journey of marriage. Embrace the emotional expressions of your spouse and look for the message behind the words. What does your spouse’s anger mean about their current experience and satisfaction in marriage? Learn from these emotions.
• You make a better marriage when you work through conflict and honestly confront emotions.
Inside-Your-Mind:
How do you get trapped inside your mind? For example, do you worry about the future, dwell on the past, relive old hurts, rehash old arguments, stew over everything that’s wrong with your spouse? Do you get caught up in judgment,
blame ot criticism? Do you get caught up in thoughts of rejection, betrayal, abandonment, or being controlled?
Q. What should you do instead?
• Process and Learn from the Past:
Acknowledge and Process:
Allow yourself to reflect on past experiences but try not to dwell on them.
• Learn from Mistakes:
Identify what you can learn from past events to prevent similar issues in the future.
• Practice Gratitude:
Focus on the positive aspects of your life and express gratitude for what you have.
• Challenge Negative Thoughts
• Challenge Negative Self-Talk: Identify and challenge negative thoughts about yourself and the future.
• Focus on What You Can Control: Instead of worrying about things you can’t control, focus on what you can influence and take action on.
• Create an Action Plan:
Develop a plan for addressing your worries, perhaps by taking steps to change a situation.
Neglecting Values:
Think about what core values you neglect, forget about, or act inconsistently with, when disconnected, reactive, avoidant, or inside you mind? For example do you lose touch with values such as being loving, kind, caring, generous, compassionate, supportive, fun-loving, easy going or affectionate?
Q. What should you do instead?
By becoming more aware of how your behaviours impact your values, you can start to take actions that are more aligned with what truly matters to you and improve your overall well-being.
The key is identifying what is going on and then working to try to solve it. You can commit to working on yourself and then also help each other.
See the drain on your relationship as a mutual problem that needs to be fixed together.
• Andrea Onduku Founder, Matters of the Heart which provides training to individuals and organisations on emotional resilience and well-being, and also communication strategies.
MATTERS OF THE HEART
Dear Andrea
Q. I’m embarrassed to ask this, but things seem so difficult between my spouse and I that I wonder if we are really still in love at all. I think we have even gone beyond arguing, beyond caring, we just can’t be bothered anymore. There seems to be no passion and I feel like giving up. Is there anything we can do as a last ditch attempt to save us?
Anonymous
Thank you for getting in touch. I can hear that things feel desperate right now but there is always a way back. When there are no positives, it is normal to ask if it is better to give up.
Therefore, before negotiating major issues, you must first be convinced that it is worth it. This will take some working through so that you feel in a better position to take the steps to fix things.
Can you set aside an evening where you have a dinner together alone and reminisce about why you got married to each other in the first place. Look at old pictures, read old love letters/notes and reflect on what you loved about each other then.
This may help you to remember what you once had and kickstart the process to get it back.
Either on the same evening or at a different time, identify the problem of where it changed.
Q. Do you think you had unrealistic expectations of who each would go on to be?
Q. Have either of you stopped putting in the effort?
Q. Have either of you disappointed the other?
If you identify any of these to be the problem, then ask yourselves the questions below:
Q. How can these 3 issues be overcome?
Q. If we no longer feel in love, how can we rekindle it?
Q. If we are determined to continue, what knowledge do we need to succeed?
Q. What issues do we need to go and study or research about to help us through the problems we have identified?
You could each go and do some research and thinking on your own and then come together to discuss. This exercise is necessary because couples often don’t actually know what they want to be different in our marriage. They just know they are not happy. But with no idea of what is wrong, there cannot be any idea of how to fix it.
Here are some questions you can ask yourself to give yourself some direction of what changes you actually want:
Q. If something amazing happened overnight and you woke up tomorrow with your problem solved, what would you be doing differently? What would your spouse be doing?
Q. Let’s assume you are on track with your spouse so that they respond to you positively, what would you see yourself doing differently? (This helps you identify changes you need to make so that your spouse responds differently)
Q. Today you feel accepted and loved, what changed to make you
feel that way? What are you doing differently?
Q. When you are happy in your marriage, what will you or your spouse be doing that is different? What will you be doing?
Q. What is happening in times when you are happy in your marriage?
Once you have done all this, you will be in a much better position to resolve issues. You will have remembered what you actually used to love about each other, you will have identified where it went wrong, you will have reflected on the changes you both need to make individually, and you will have a clearer picture of what you actually like to change in your relationship.
Now you may ask, how do I go about requesting my spouse to change based on the issues I have identified?
Keep in mind the effect that gender differences can have in conflict. Usually, men tend to withdraw when they are upset whereas women have a hard time with emotional distance and tend to want to discuss and settle each problem rather than put it off. Try to strike a balance between these two perspectives when addressing issues.
What method could we use to talk?
• Fair Fight for Change (FFFC)
To change the atmosphere from adversarial to cooperative
Invite the other party to have a FFFC but remember that permission should be sought as the other party may not be in the frame of mind for a discussion at that time and this should be respected.
If agreed then take the following steps:
1. Think about your complaint
2. State the positive change you want rather than stating the complaint. State one specific behaviour at a time, don’t list requests that are negative, vague and full of conflict.
3. Your spouse repeats what you said to check that they heard correctly and understood.
4. You show appreciation for being heard correctly
5. State what you want your spouse to do instead. For example, you could say, “I would prefer that you do it ‘x’ way”-this puts the blame on you rather than them as it is not that they are doing it wrongly just that you prefer it a certain way.
6. Your spouse repeats what you said to check that they heard correctly and understood.
7. You show appreciation for being heard correctly
8. Your spouse responds by agreeing to your request or states conditions tied to the agreement
9. Continue the steps until an agreement is reached
10. Repeat the process for your spouse to raise their own requests for change.
In all, remember that the source of love is God because He is Love (1 John 4:8). This means that in the midst of all these practical steps, the most important thing you can do is to love God and ask Him to help you love your spouse the way He does.
Andrea Onduku
Send your problems or questions, which will be treated in the strictest confidence, to info@mattersofheart.org
Nurturing the Future
Christian leadership extends beyond the pulpit and into the home and community. As Christian leaders; pastors, elders, teachers, and mentors, your influence profoundly impacts the spiritual and moral development of your children. God’s Word emphasises the importance of raising children in the admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). It is vital for Christian parents who are Church leaders to prioritise their children’s physical and spiritual well-being and provide practical steps rooted in Biblical principles on how they can do so effectively.
It is easy to get carried away with Church activities and ministrations. Getting busy for God is great but you must do so without neglecting your home. It is important to pay attention to your own biological children’s growth. Their overall welfare must be given adequate attention. They are your first congregation, and you must not fail in carrying out your duties towards them.
Here are some common challenges some children of Christian families might face and some practical and age-appropriate ways that parents can help. You can mix and match depending on your child’s age.
Preparing for adolescence and independence
- Why it matters: As children grow, beliefs may be tested in many ways.
- Solutions:
- Keep open dialogue; invite questions about identity and beliefs.
- Teach critical thinking alongside faith how to examine ideas with grace.
- Build a trusted support network (youth leaders, mentors, pastors) for guidance.
Doubts and questions about their faith in God.
- Why it matters: Honest questions can deepen belief or reveal gaps that need exploration.
- Solutions:
- Create a safe space for questions; do not fear doubt.
- Listen first, then answer or say, “Let’s find that out together.”
- Use child-friendly resources (Bible storybooks, short faith videos) and discuss them together.
- Share your own questions and how you work through them.
Peer pressure and secular culture
- Why it matters: Friends can influence beliefs and behaviour.
- Solutions:
- Help children articulate who they are in Christ and why it matters to them.
- Role-play scenarios and responses.
- Encourage friendships with other kids who share positive values and involve them in healthy Church or youth activities.
Hypocrisy and trust in adults
- Why it matters: If adults do not practice what they teach, children may distrust faith.
- Solutions:
- Model authenticity: admit mistakes, apologise, and show grace.
- Distinguish between imperfect people and God’s character.
- Invite children to see the Church as a community, not a perfect institution.
Balancing rules and grace (avoidance of legalism)
- Why it matters: Excessive rulekeeping can push children away.
- Solutions:
- Emphasize a relationship with Jesus over “checking boxes.”
- Explain why rules exist (to love God and others) rather than to punish.
- Celebrate grace moments and mercy, not just obedience.
Bible literacy and engagement
- Why it matters: Knowing the Bible helps faith become personal, not cultural.
- Solutions:
- Use age-appropriate Bibles or storybooks (e.g., story-focused editions for kids).
- Create short family devotion times with a simple discussion question.
- Try child friendly Bible apps or videos to spark interest.
Difficult topics in Scripture (violence, judgment, hard seasons)
- Why it matters: Young readers may wrestle with harsh passages.
- Solutions:
- Provide context in simple terms; focus on God’s character and love.
- Encourage questions and explore different explanations together.
- Use age-appropriate summaries or children’s apologetics resources.
Gender roles and stereotypes
- Why it matters: Stereotypes can limit children’s gifts and leadership.
- Solutions:
- Highlight biblical examples of women and men who lead and serve (e.g. Deborah, Lydia).
- Affirm each child’s gifts and invite them to use them in family or Church life.
- Model equal respect and teamwork in the home.
Science and faith
- Why it matters: Some kids fear science contradicts faith.
- Solutions:
- Affirm that science and faith can complement each other.
- Use science-friendly faith resources and show examples in nature, history, and medicine.
- Encourage questions and learning rather than fear-based dismissal.
Church politics and conflicts
- Why it matters: People’s disagreements can be confusing or disappointing.
- Solutions:
- Separate people’s flaws from God’s goodness.
- Talk about disagreements respectfully; avoid bad-mouthing others.
- Emphasize the Church’s mission and community over arguments.
Digital media and online influences
- Why it matters: Online content can shape beliefs and values.
- Solutions:
- Set clear, age-appropriate screen time and content boundaries.
- Discuss online behaviour, privacy, and how to handle harmful content.
- Co-consume media with childrenwatch or read together and talk through it.
Suffering, pain, and unanswered prayers
- Why it matters: Tough experiences test faith and trust.
- Solutions:
- Validate feelings, pray together, and lament honestly.
- Share stories of perseverance and faith in hardship.
- Build a support network (siblings, friends, mentors) to walk through tough times.
Fear-based parenting and shame
- Why it matters: Fear and shame can push children away from faith.
- Solutions:
- Use grace, not shame; celebrate progress, not perfection.
- Encourage risk-taking in safe ways (trying new service projects, sharing thoughts).
- Teach that mistakes are opportunities to grow and rely on God’s forgiveness.
Generosity and stewardship
- Why it matters: Faith without giving can become self-focused.
- Solutions:
- Involve children in family giving (missions, Church, charity jars).
- Model budgeting and generous living with your own finances.
- Connect generosity to God’s love and practical needs.
Servant leadership and mission
- Why it matters: Faith calls us to serve others beyond our comfort zone.
- Solutions:
- Do regular service activities as a family (food banks, volunteering).
- Encourage children to identify their gifts and find age-appropriate service roles.
Prayer life and spiritual disciplines
- Why it matters: Prayer helps kids connect with God daily.
- Solutions:
- Keep prayers short and childrenfriendly; use simple prompts (thank you, please, help).
- Practice a simple routine (before meals, bedtime, bedtime blessing).
- Use prayer journals or prompts to reflect on answered prayers.
Friendships with non-Christian peers
- Why it matters: Relationships shape beliefs and behaviour.
- Solutions:
- Teach boundaries and wise decision-making without shaming friends.
- Encourage friends to know Jesus too, while respecting everyone.
- Get children involved in Church or youth activities to balance social life.
Authority, obedience, and responsibility
- Why it matters: Respect for authority helps kids navigate life.
- Solutions:
- Explain the reason behind rules; involve children in setting some family expectations.
- Model respectful disagreement and thoughtful conversation.
- Give age-appropriate responsibilities and celebrate accountability.
Balancing Church commitments with family life
- Why it matters: Over-scheduling can hurt family bonds and faith formation.
- Solutions:
- Prioritize meaningful involvement over quantity (choose one or two key activities).
- Plan regular family times around Church commitments. This will help the family to bond and help the children understand parental love.
Conclusion
Christian leaders bear a divine responsibility not only to shepherd their congregations but also to nurture their children as future leaders and servants of Christ. This involves a holistic approach intentional spiritual teaching at home, active community engagement, and modelling Christlike behaviour. By doing so, leaders ensure that their children grow in faith, virtue, and resilience, becoming beacons of light in their homes and communities. Remember, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). God has entrusted parents and leaders with the precious gift of children. Let us commit ourselves fully to their spiritual and moral well-being, trusting that His grace will guide us every step of the way.
May this guide inspire and equip Christian leaders to faithfully care for their children, reflecting Christ’s love in every aspect of family and community life.
• Bola Owagbayegun
STRENGTHENING ECUMENICAL RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN PENTECOSTAL, CHARISMATIC AND ORTHODOX CHURCH LEADERS
On the beautiful Summer Monday evening of the 16th of June 2025 at the RCCG Europe Central Office, Redemption House, the leadership of RCCG UK had the honour of hosting a Dinner Reception of the Churches Together in England (CTE) with leaders of the Pentecostal, Charismatic and Orthodox Church leaders in attendance.
The event which was scheduled to kick off at 6pm had guests arriving at the venue from about 5pm. In attendance were about 18 delegates from the CTE and 4 from RCCG UK (Pastor Modupe Afolabi, Pastor Yinka Oduwole, Pastor Marcus Chilaka, and Pastor Akpo Onduku).
The CTE General Secretary, Bishop Mike Royal was quick to reflect that: “You might think that the Pentecostal and Charismatic churches had little in common with the Orthodox Eastern and Oriental churches. However, for many years now, CTE has supported these traditions to come together for fellowship, the deepening of relationships and building mutual understanding. Last year we were hosted by Archbishop Angaelos at St Andrew by the Wardrobe in the City of London. It therefore seemed fitting that the Redeemed Christian Church of God should return the compliment and host the gathering at their headquarters in Stevenage. Since the Coptic Orthodox Church Cathedral is also in Stevenage, it certainly made for an easy journey for former CTE President Archbishop Angaelos, who has been so instrumental in bringing the traditions together over the years.”
Continuing, Bishop Mike Royal writing on the evening said, “RCCG hospitality is always generous! Ecumenical representatives were treated to a seafood platter and delicious nibbles to start followed by Nigerian Grilled Chicken or Beef Stew with Jollof Rice. Fellowship around the food table was as rich as the talks from the various traditions.”
RCCG’s generosity, warm and friendly welcome was well appreciated, and it provided the needed relaxed and friendly beautiful atmosphere for a night of rich ecumenical conversations.
The Continental Executive Director of RCCG Europe Central Office, Pastor Modupe Afolabi said the opening prayers that set the tone for the evening. Welcome speeches were made by the two moderators: Revd. Dr. Ben Aldous (CTE Principal Officer for Missions and Evangelism) and Shermara Fletcher-Hoyte (CTE Principal Officer for Pentecostal, Charismatic and Multicultural Relations).
Following their welcome speeches, the Archbishop Angaelos of the Coptic Orthodox Archbishop of London gave the first talk. This was followed by that of Revd Richard Bradbury of Ground Level Network of Churches who spoke on behalf of Bishop Tedroy Powell, the National Presiding Bishop of the Church of God of Prophecy and the Pentecostal & Charismatic President of the CTE. There were also contributions from Pastor David Whyte from the Wesleyan Holiness Church representing the Pentecostals; Father Andreas Minic representing the Greek Orthodox Church; Paul Bedford from Ground Level representing the Charismatic churches. In fact, it was a wonderfully rich time as the respective church leaders expounded the distinctives of each tradition. For the CTE’s General Secretary, Paul Bedford’s candour about the journey the charismatic movement had been on to embrace a more ethnically diverse church, particularly in a North of England context, was considered a highlight of the evening.
All in all, the speakers, in revolving around the theme of the evening, which was ‘Engaging Diaspora Communities’, brought to the fore, the need for working together as we seek to promote unity. From the Greek Orthodox traditions to the Pentecostal and Charismatic expressions, there was need to create the space in which fruitful collaboration and mutual understanding can grow. As churches work more closely together in our great task of sharing God’s mission and making the gospel of Christ known in our nation, the better we are in fulfilling the gospel.
In emphasising on diaspora engagement and contributions to the church, speakers made mention of understanding the priesthood of all believers drawing from 1 Peter 2:9; the recent growing presence of migrant communities in
Churches; and the link between culture and worship which is crucial in creating a memorable worship experience. Mention was also made that most ministers of migrant denominations began by being bi-vocational and this comes to light in their delivery of sermons by bringing real marketplace experiences to the fore. Of course, not forgetting the initial institutional resistance of the earlier traditional churches, migrant communities have journeyed through to where they are currently.
Pastor Modupe Afolabi spoke on behalf of Pastor Leke Sanusi, the Continental Overseer (CO). In her speech, mention was made of the high regard the RCCG Mission and leadership places on the work of the CTE. Pastor Modupe Afolabi on behalf of the CO appreciated the CTE in the promotion of ecumenical relations and the Pentecostal, Charismatic and Orthodox Leaders for the effort at promoting unity. The gathering was reminded of the CO’s previous participation at the meeting of the Pentecostal and Charismatic Leaders at the CTE Offices in London in 2023. In her speech, a brief history of RCCG was given to have been founded in 1952 and here in the UK in 1988. Today we are spread across the 4 nations of the UK with about 900 churches. Mention was made of the Redemption Camp in Surrey which was recently acquired from the Ellel Ministries Pierrepoint. Beyond highlighting RCCG’s commitment to ecumenism, acknowledgement and appreciation was made of the recent CTE award to two of our Young Ecumenists (Dolly
Bamigbade and Melody Amadi-Okoye) of the Bill Snelson Fund.
At the close of the evening, there have been more reflections on the evening:
“A powerful gathering of Pentecostal, Charismatic, and Orthodox Church leaders at the RCCG Continental Executive Offices. The atmosphere was one of mutual respect, deep faith, and shared purpose. The night showed us that in unity there is strength and what became clear is that we have far more in common than what sets us apart. A beautiful reminder of the richness of the whole Body of Christ when we come together in love and mission. –Shermara Fletcher-Hoyte (CTE Principal Officer for Pentecostal, Charismatic and Multi-cultural Relations)
“Thank you so much for hosting us at the RCCG headquarters. I just want to really say, I appreciate you and the work you do for CTE and the ecumenical landscape.” – Revd. Dr. Ben Aldous (CTE Principal Officer for Mission and Evangelism).
Report by: Dr Akpo Onduku
Pastor, Chapel of Grace Bradford RCCG UK National Ecumenical Officer to the Churches Together in England (CTE) Email: pastor@chapelofgrace.org.uk
Our Newly Dedicated Parish by our Father in the Lord, Pastor E. A. Adeboye
OUR SAVIOURS PARISH, MIDDLESBROUGH
DIVINE THRONE PARISH, MIDDLESBROUGH
Testimony of God’s Goodness in RCCG Hosanna House
Christian Centre Wolverhampton
We give all the glory to God for His faithfulness and mercy towards us. For many years, we prayed, trusted, and laboured for a permanent place of worship. There were times it seemed delayed, but the Lord reminded us that His timing is perfect.
At different points, He granted us landmark miracles, opening doors where there were none, raising unexpected helpers, providing financial resources beyond our imagination, and granting us favour before men. Each time we faced obstacles, God turned them into stepping stones. Truly, His hand has been evident at every stage of our testimony.
Today, with hearts full of gratitude, we stand as living witnesses that God indeed answers prayers. He has blessed us with a new Church auditorium.
The building, located at 121 Merridale Street, Wolverhampton, WV3 0RA, was first dedicated in 1930 as the St Paul Church of England building. Subsequently, it was later acquired by the Church of God of Prophesy about 20 years ago. To the glory of God, our parish RCCG Hosanna House Christian Centre, Wolverhampton in April this year 2025, completed purchase and taken possession of the iconic church building from the previous owners.
We are currently renovating the premises and by God’s grace, it will soon be ready for dedication and worship. It will be a place where God’s name will be glorified, where souls will be nurtured, and where God’s presence will dwell till eternity.
Truly, “This is the Lord’s doing, and it is marvellous in our eyes.”
To God alone be all the praise
Pastor Chukwunonye Ezeah (Parish Pastor)
Report on the RCCG Teens Conference 2025
Theme: Glory Ahead
The 2025 RCCG Teens Camp United Kingdom, themed “Glory Ahead”, was held from the 25th-29th August 2025 and proved to be a truly lifechanging experience for the young people in attendance. The camp was the culmination of months of intense and intentional planning, prayer, and spiritual preparation, and it brought together hundreds of youths and youth leaders from different churches across the regions of RCCG UK.
Planning and Preparation
Planning for the youth camp began at the very start of the year, about nine months before the event. From the onset, there was a strong sense of expectation and desire among the young people and their youth leaders for the camp. By the time the official flyer was released in May the response was overwhelming. Within just four weeks, all available slots were taken up, and 400 youths had already registered and paid to attend.
Preparation for the camp extended beyond logistics. Spiritually, the young people had been engaged in prayer long before the conference. After the previous year’s camp, members of the choir had initiated weekly prayer meetings every Sunday on Zoom. These meetings steadily grew, sometimes attracting up to 60 participants, including both choir and non-choir members, all eager to intercede and seek God’s face. Remarkably, these prayer sessions continued for an entire year leading up to the 2025 camp. In addition, a seven-day fast was observed by the youth leaders and volunteers just before the camp began. A total of 50 volunteers, alongside youth leaders from various churches, also contributed their time and service to ensure the camp’s success.
Attendance
The camp drew a large crowd, with a total attendance of 420 youths, including 50 volunteers and numerous youth leaders.
Camp Activities
The camp spanned five days, and each day was packed with spiritually enriching and physically engaging activities. These included:
• Early morning workouts to invigorate the delegates.
• Morning devotions and prayer walks to set the spiritual tone for the day.
• Bible study and group sessions, where the young people were divided into 20 groups of 20–21 members each.
• Sports sessions that encouraged team spirit and physical fitness.
• A day of intense prayers and fasting that young people consecrated themselves to seek the Lord which culminated in a release of grace and the anointing led by the National Prayer Director Pst Francis Oladimeji
• Variety night preparations within groups, showcasing creativity and talent.
Special highlights included the Praise Night, where the atmosphere of worship and joy was overwhelming.
On this night alone, 92 young people surrendered their lives to Christ. Across the entire camp, a total of 108 young people were recorded that made decisions for Christ though it is believed that even more youths encountered salvation privately without publicly identifying themselves.
The grand finale of the camp was the Banquet Night with young people all dressed elegantly and treated to a three-course meal. This is to prepare them for serving with influence in corridors of power. There was a showcase of various presentations by the various groups: drama, spoken word, music, poetry and dance. The night ended with the special launching of the new album of one of our Guest ministers, Faith Child who graciously chose to do this with the young people.
The music inspired joy and pleasure in the presence of the Lord for all.
Impact
The theme “Glory Ahead” was not just a title it was better experienced than explained as it was evident the glory of has landed in the camp and upon all.
The camp was marked by five days of glory, the supernatural, and Divine encounters. Many young people left saved, transformed,
filled with the Holy Spirit, and spiritually empowered.
The camp was led under the able direction of Pastor Mary McCauley, the National Director of Teenage Ministry UK supported by a team of over 60 volunteers and youth leaders from across various parishes in RCCG UK. The collaboration between the camp staff, the catering team, the dedication of the volunteers and of course the presence of God ensured that this year’s Teens Youth camp was a resounding success. To God be the Glory. It is of importance for us to acknowledge the great support we received from the following:
• Pastor Leke Sanusi over and over has proven his total commitment to the Emerging Leaders. He made sure that the funds for the volunteers were released to ensure we meet statutory safeguarding standards. Thank you, Sir.
• The Central office led by Pastor Modupe Afolabi were very helpful and the Holy Communion elements arrived just on time. Thank you
• Of course, our Global Director Pastor Mrs Folu Adeboye’s prayer especially for good weather to enable us have a successful week was evidently answered. Thank you Ma.
• For all our parents and parents in the Lord who trusted us with their children, we thank you. God bless you all.
The RCCG Teens Conference 2025 was truly an unforgettable time in God’s presence. The joy,
WORKERS’ RALLY APRIL 2025
At the RCCG Workers’ Rally, Workers from all RCCG parishes from across the country assemble for an evening of Worship and the Holy Communion under the leadership of the General Overseer, Pastor Enoch Adeboye. The Workers’ Rally was organised as a multisite event streamed from the Central Office in Stevenage.
CONTINENTAL ORDAINED MINISTERS’ CONFERENCE 2025
The 2025 Continental Ordained Ministers’ Conference (COMC) took place from Thursday 24th to Saturday 26th April 2025 at the Redemption Camp at Pierrepont, Surrey. Our beloved General Overseer, Pastor E. A. Adeboye was the host. Attendees were Parish Pastors and other Ordained Ministers in RCCG Europe Continent which includes the UK, Europe Mainland & Republic of Ireland
LIGHT UP WALES 2025
Light Up Wales took place at the Utilita Arena, Cardiff on Good Friday (18 Apr 2025).
Hosted by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, it was a wonderful time of salvation, healing and miracles.
LIGHT UP NEWCASTLE 2025
Light Up Newcastle took place on Sunday 14th September 2025 at Carr-Ellison House, Newcastle Upon Tyne. It was a well attended and wonderful time in God’s presence.
