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BY MOLLY LEVINE JEWISH LIGHT INTERN

MAKANDA, Ill. – For the past month, 18 Israeli children have explored the ins and outs of something foreign to them: Jewish sleepaway summer camp.

“I was nervous but more happy because I [knew] that I was going to meet tons of friends,” said Orr Ambar, a 12-year-old from Kibbutz Ein Zivan, which is located in the northern Golan Heights near the Lebanon border.

Orr is one of the Israeli campers spending a month this summer at Camp Ben Frankel, located in Makanda, Ill., about two hours south of St. Louis. He and his Israeli cohorts, ranging in age from 10-17, were given the opportunity to attend their first sleepaway summer camp in the United States.

In late May, Camp Ben Frankel’s staff launched an emergency fundraising campaign to make this possible. The campaign received support from more than 130 donors who gave more than $130,000.

On June 20 and 21, four camp host families greeted the Israeli campers in Chicago. There, they recovered from jet lag before arriving at camp on June 23 and staying until July 20.

As the newcomers socialized with their fellow campers, they adjusted to the environment that would be their home for the next month.

“The first few days there was an adjustment as they were getting used to what it’s like to live in a place without sirens,” said Aaron Hadley, director of Camp Ben Frankel. “There was a noticeable adjustment to being in a place that

How 18 Israeli kids spent their summer at Camp Ben Frankel

was safe and calm.”

All 18 Israeli campers were either displaced from their homes as a result of the Oct. 7 Hamas attack on Israel or live on the Lebanon border. At home, these children and teens were exposed to daily security threats.

“In my home, we have rockets every day,” said Lior Shavtielli, a 17-year-old from Kibbutz HaGoshrim. “I felt like I needed to get [away] from reality in Israel. I’m grateful being here for now.”

While at Camp Ben Frankel, Shavtielli assumed a counselor-in-training (CIT) position. As a CIT, Lior shadowed counselors while he explored more than 100 activities that Camp Ben Frankel offers.

Given her love for the water, Hadar GutnerHoch, a 12-year-old camper from Kfar Saba, found joy in exploring waterfront activities including stand-up paddle boarding and kayaking.

“There’s always something to do,” Hadar said. “You’re never going to be alone [and] never going to be bored.”

Throughout their month-long stay, Hadar and the other Israeli youngsters fostered deep connections with their fellow campers.

Evie LeCointre, a rising seventh grader at Ladue Middle School, has spent the past four summers at Camp Ben Frankel. This summer,

and Hadar were introduced to each other

as cabinmates. From braiding hair to performing dances, the pair found several ways to bond with each other.

“[Hadar] was pretty quiet at first,” Evie said.

“After she slept in our cabin, she really started opening up. It’s been really fun having her in the cabin.”

See CAMP on page 22

Evie

Lior Shavtielli rides a horse at camp.

PHOTO COURTESY CAMP BEN FRANKEL

ABOVE: Or Garti takes a selfie with her campers at Camp Ben Frankel.

PHOTO COURTESY CAMP BEN FRANKEL

BELOW: Hadar (left) and Zoe get ready to kayak.

PHOTO: MOLLY LEVINE

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Two St. Louis musicians featured in latest edition of iconic Jewish songbook

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Picture this: It’s a beautiful evening at Camp Sabra. Kids are gathered around a campfire, song leaders are strumming guitars, and everyone is belting out tunes with infectious enthusiasm. The scene isn’t much different in synagogues, where song leaders have a seemingly endless repertoire for every service and celebration. But where do all these songs come from? How do these melodies, which seem to spring from the heart of Jewish life, make their way into our shared experiences?

The answer is this: behind every song leader’s expansive repertoire is a treasure trove of Jewish music resources, one of the most iconic being “The Complete Shireinu,” which was first published in the early 2000s. Ever since, “The Shireinu” has been the go-to songbook for Jewish musicians.

“‘The Shireinu,’ also known as the ‘Complete Jewish Songbook,’ has over 350 songs from Jewish tradition, some liturgical and some secular,” said Lucy Greenbaum, director of music engagement at Congregation Shaare Emeth. “The first edition contained mostly the ‘camp repertoire’ of the last few decades.”

copy of Shireinu as a young song leader in Phoenix, Ariz.

Now, as the publishers of “The Shireinu” prepare for the release of its second volume, there’s a buzz of excitement, particularly in St. Louis, where Greenbaum and fellow local musician Rob Aronson are among those contributing original music to the catalog.

Aronson, music leader at Congregation Temple Israel, has relied on the original “Shireinu” for nearly two decades.

“‘The Shireinu’ was essentially my Jewish music bible when it came to music selection for services,” said Aronson. “I am incredibly thrilled and honored to have some of my original music compositions included in the new ‘Shireinu Volume II’ publication.”

Greenbaum fondly recalls receiving a

“Our small group of song leaders would meet early on Sunday mornings before religious school started and would play through the songs, practice teaching songs to each other and just generally geek out over music,” said Greenbaum. “I continue to refer to my copy of ‘Shireinu’ when I am looking for a specific song or just need some inspiration. I’m extremely excited to play through the new edition when it comes out and get even more inspiration!”

Transcontinental Music Publications, the publisher, spent almost two years gathering input from clergy, musicians, song leaders and the public. Aronson’s “Bar’chu” and “Havah Nashirah,” along with Greenbaum’s “Adonai S’fatai,” were chosen by a 33-member review committee to be part of the new edition.

The new volume, set to release in summer 2025, will be available in both print and digital formats, ensuring accessibility for all.

Rob Aronson (above) and Lucy Greenbaum (below). PHOTOS: ZACH DALIN PHOTOGRAPHY

Supporters see renovation progress at JCC’s Marilyn Fox Building donor event

A donor event was held at the Jewish Community Center’s Marilyn Fox Building on Monday, June 24 to show supporters the progress of the renovation effort in progress at the facility. Construction began April with completion planned for September 2025. All areas of the building are being updated and a new Adult Day Center will be added, providing a much-needed service in the Chesterfield area.

STORY & PHOTOS BY BILL MOTCHAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT

At left, Steve Gallant signs a blank wall at the J in Chesterfield at a donor event Monday to announce $14.6 million of renovations that is scheduled to be completed in September 2025. Twelve million dollars has already been raised. Donors were invited to sign the wall and send their best wishes to the future of the Marilyn Fox Building and the J in Chesterfield. Above, Stuart Zimbalist and Nancy Siwak.

Above, Monte Sandler, Debbie Lefton and Greg Siwak.

At left, Michael Staenberg and Felicia Malter

Below, Lenore Pepper (right) greets Lynn Wittels.

Above, Julie Flom. Below, Kristen Conrad and Ashley Stockman

Alongside New Jewish Theatre’s upcoming production of “Red” will be three special events to give a deeper understanding about this play about the life of abstract expressionist painter Mark Rothko. “Red,” by John Logan, runs Thursday, July 25 through Sunday, Aug. 11 at the Jewish Community Center’s Wool Studio Theatre.

• St. Louis Art Museum Docent Bill Sitzer — Sunday, July 28

A Q&A session with Bill Sitzer, docent for the St. Louis Art Museum, will follow the 2 p.m. performance. Sitzer will also share further information on Rothko’s life and evolution as an artist, including how he came to create the famous Seagram Murals featured in “Red.” The presentation will take place in the Wool Studio Theatre.

• Rabbi James Stone Goodman of Central Reform Congregation — Saturday, Aug. 3

‘Red’

WHEN: July 25 to Aug. 11. Performances are on Thursdays at 7:30 p.m., Saturdays at 4 and 8 p.m., and Sundays at 2 p.m.

WHERE: New Jewish Theatre’s Wool Studio Theater in the Jewish Community Center’s Arts & Education Building, 2 Millstone Campus Drive

HOW MUCH: $27-$58

MORE INFO: Tickets are available at newjewishtheatre.org or 314-442-3283

group of nine poor, mostly Eastern European Jewish immigrant expressionist artists, who came together to help raise exposure for their art during the Great Depression. Goodman had a personal relationship Ben-Zion, a founding member of “The 10” and wrote about him in his book “Fountain.” The presentation will take place in the Wool Studio Theatre.

Following the 3 p.m. performance, Rabbi James Stone Goodman will speak about Rothko in the context of “The 10,” a

curtain both into how Rothko created his work and how the NJT’s artists translated the space into the intimate Wool Studio Theatre. The presentation will be in the J’s meeting rooms A and B, across the hall from the theater. Abstract expressionist painter Mark Rothko is subject of ‘Red,’ which runs July 25-Aug. 11

• St. Louis Theatre Circle AwardWinning Designer Margery Spack — Saturday, Aug. 10

At 5:30 p.m. NJT’s scenic designer Margery Spack will share her extensive research into Rothko’s Bowery Studio in New York City, performed in the course of creating the scenic design for “Red.” This is a unique opportunity to peek behind the

Christopher Harris (left) as abstract expressionist painter Mark Rothko and Dustin Petrillo as his assistant, Ken. PHOTO: PETER SPACK

Kohn’s sued for $150,000 by Chicago supplier

ELLEN FUTTERMAN EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Mid Town Distribution, a major kosher supplier headquartered in Chicago, is suing Kohn’s Kosher Meat and Deli — the only free-standing, full-service kosher grocery in St. Louis — for nearly $150,000 in unpaid bills.

The lawsuit, filed in the U.S. District Court for Northern Illinois on June 27, alleges that the owners of Kohn’s, Bayk Kohn LLC and Yehuda Kestenbaum, breached their contract and currently owe a balance of $149,345.20 to Mid Town “for

goods sold and delivered (and) for which payment has not been received.”

“Plaintiff repeatedly made demand on Kohn’s as well as its member, Yehuda Kestenbaum, for payment of the balance due on the Goods,” according to the lawsuit. “Although acknowledging their obligation to pay the balance due, Kohn’s and Kestenbaum have failed to make payment.”

On Tuesday, July 9, a letter on Kohn’s website from the Vaad Hoeir of St. Louis, which provides kosher certification, said the deli restaurant and grocery at 10405 Old Olive Street Road had “closed until further notice” last week.

The letter also said that while the Vaad understands the need in St. Louis for fresh kosher meat, kosher catering and a kosher restaurant and has “done everything to support these efforts, numerous practical and legal issues need to be sorted through by the parties involved.”

Kestenbaum issued a statement saying, “it was with a heavy heart” that he announced the closing of Kohn’s” after 19 months, and he “regretted the inconvenience this may have caused.”

He declined to answer questions about the pending lawsuit.

In November 2022, Kohn’s was bought for an undisclosed amount by two Orthodox businessmen on the East Coast from Lenny Kohn and his sister, Rosemary Cooper. Kohn and Cooper had taken over the business from their parents, Bobbi and Simon Kohn, who opened the grocery and deli in 1963.

Calls to Lawrence Benjamin, the attorney for Mid Town, were not returned to the Jewish Light

“For some time, we have been actively looking for an operator who might be interested in continuing the legacy of Kohn’s,” he said. “We hope to have a new operator shortly.”

How St. Louisans are mourning after Kohn’s closing

In 2019 when Jeffrey Abraham, senior rabbi at Congregation B’nai Amooona and his wife Lauren first visited St. Louis, they were especially impressed by several local institutions.

“We saw Mirowitz Jewish Community School, then we went to B’nai Amoona, and Friday they took us to Kohn’s Deli,” said Lauren Abraham. “It was an awesome place, a restaurant and easy pick-up place that we did not have anything like in San Antonio, Texas. It was definitely a strong piece of the package of the St. Louis Jewish community when we were looking to move here.”

Before it closed three weeks ago, Kohn’s

Kosher Meat and Deli was the only free-standing full-service kosher grocery in St. Louis. A note released on Tuesday, July 9 by the Vaad Hoeir of St. Louis, which provides kosher certification, announced the closing and indicated that a reopening might be announced soon. A kosher supplier in Chicago is suing Kohn’s for nearly $150,000 in unpaid bills.

Shelley Hoffman Dean, who worked as a cashier at Kohn’s for about a year and a half, thought the grocery and deli would reopen after closing for the long July 4th weekend.

“I was on vacation but had been told they were going to close for a week because we didn’t have enough product and that someone would be taking over operations and reopen,” said Dean, who

often made lighthearted videos from Kohn’s as “Shelley from the Deli,” touting the business.

that people will pay a premium price for, they will lose the battle for customers.”

“This is a huge loss,” she said. “In some ways, Kohn’s was like a community center, where people could come and socialize, especially older people. Hopefully, the closing will motivate other (kosher) things to open. There is just so much potential.”

Since the closing announcement, many members of the Jewish community like Dean have expressed their hope that Kohn’s does reopen. The 63-year-old restaurant and grocery has held a special place in the hearts of St. Louisans who have fond memories of the original location in University City and the current location at 10405 Old Olive Street Road. The Jewish Light asked those Kohn’s regulars what the closing meant to them.

Larry Friedman (member of Bais Abraham): “Like anyone who grew up here, I was saddened to hear about the closing of Kohn’s. It was the last of the kosher delicatessens that were such an important part of the St. Louis Jewish world. I hope the closing will be temporary and that we do not lose this link to a beautiful tradition that was maintained for decades by the Kohn family.”

Cheryl Martin (member of Central Reform Congregation): “I remember when I was 8 or 9 years old in the 1960s and my grandma made knishes and potato salad for Kohn’s. They were still on Olive near Mount Olive right next to Jack and Jill Ice Cream. They were your typical old country business. My grandmother would walk down there and they’d all talk in Yiddish to each other.

Carl Greenberg (member of B’nai Amoona): “My reaction to the closing was that another example of the big fish eating the little fish. With competition from Costco selling kosher meat, it’s hard to compete, especially after they opened a store in U City. I’m not faulting them at all, but momand-pop businesses have stiff competition and unless they offer something unique

Donna Epstein: “It is not a complete surprise as all the other kosher markets had been disappearing from the St. Louis area for years. It is hard to believe that the St. Louis market could not sustain just one kosher market. Perhaps people had started buying what they need online and getting better prices or not having time for the drive. Hopefully in the near future, another market will come along to take its place or someone will reopen Kohn’s.

Larry Pevnick: “I was saddened as this was the last bastion of real kosher food in the St. Louis area. I remember the great knishes and corned beef sandwiches and going there with my Orthodox friends. This place will be sorely missed by a lot of Jewish people of all ages.”

Idena Freedman (program assistant at B’nai Amoona): “I could not feel more heartbroken. Kohn’s was a pillar of the Jewish community which catered to a plethora of clientele. Lack of access to a Glatt Kosher butcher and deli counter is a tremendous void which needs to be filled. Over the course of my 10+ years living in St. Louis, my family and I developed close relationships with so many of the wonderful and dedicated employees who felt like family.”

Larry Sekuler (who now lives in Mountain View, Calif.): “My grandpa and Simon Kohn were the best of friends. I remember that when my grandpa died of cancer in 1978, I was standing right next to Simon Kohn at the funeral at United Hebrew Cemetery. Simon Kohn had lost his best friend, and he was inconsolable. I also remember that we used to go every day to the J in the summer. My mom would take us out to go swimming and on our way back we’d go to Kohn’s and get chopped liver to take home. They had the best chopped liver—with the possible exception of my bubbe.”

Jewish Light Editor-in-Chief Ellen Futterman contributed to this story.

STORY AND PHOTO BY BILL MOTCHAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT

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National Council of Jewish Women St. Louis planning

2024 Back to School! Store

NCJWSTL’s Back to School! Store will take place on Sunday, Aug. 4. An annual one-day event, Back to School! Store provides new winter coats, shoes, hats, gloves, school supplies, backpacks and books to children in the St. Louis area so they will be prepared, motivated and excited to learn on their first day of school.

Since last year’s hybrid model, both delivery and the in-person store, was such a success, NCJWSTL will again be implementing both agency delivery and an in-person event with more than 400 volunteers helping kids receive their back-toschool supplies, winter gear and other items.

The store works to reduce absenteeism by ensuring students have fewer barriers

to attending school. Given that many families need to prioritize their spending on food and necessities, these school supplies and winter wear are even more important than ever.

“NCJWSTL is very proud of the Back to School! Store program,” said Ellen Alper, CEO of NCJWSTL. “Over the past 23 years, the Store has provided over 26,000 children with the new clothing, coats, hats/ gloves, backpacks and school supplies they need to begin the school year on a positive note.

“Students and families are referred through our 65 plus partner agencies who pre-register their children so that deliveries are age and size specific. This program is only possible with the incredible collab-

oration and support of community members and partners, donors and volunteers.”

Back to School! Store items are always brand new and can include: a winter coat,

hat and glove set, underwear, personal care items like a dental kit and comb and hairbrush, period products, Bombas socks, backpack, books, folders, glue

sticks, markers, pens, pencils, earbuds and so much more.

Students and families need these resources and school supplies more than ever. NCJWSTL will continue to distribute coats, uniform and non-uniform pants and shirts and personal care items later this fall/winter in partnership with schools through the NCJWSTL Kids Community Closet (KCC) program. There are 29 KCC serving 33 schools in St. Louis city and county. Children who attend a participating school may access a KCC at any time and receive the new clothing that they need to be able to attend school.

To learn more about Back to School! Store and how to get involved visit: https:// www.ncjwstl.org/back-to-school-store.

Holocaust Museum launches ‘600 Butterflies’ community art project

The St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum recently announced the creation of a new, free art workshop entitled, “600 Butterflies: A Community Tribute to Holocaust Victims.” Butterflies have long been a symbol of the children murdered during the Holocaust. Workshop participants will create handmade paper butterflies, which will be combined to create an art installation to be displayed at the Museum.

“This community project allows participants to engage in a meaningful and creative way, contributing to an art installation that will help keep the memories of victims of the Holocaust alive,” said Helen Turner, director of education. “We look forward to engaging with members of the community — of all ages — to create this collaborative display.”

These workshops will take place from 11 a.m. to noon each Monday through Aug. 26. The workshops are free, but pre-registration is requested. Visit tickets. stlholocaustmuseum.org/events.

National Council of Jewish Women St. Louis volunteers and children served at a past Back to School! Store. PHOTO: PHILIP DEITCH

A first look at St. Louis’ coolest Jewish festival

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Get ready, St. Louis. The much-anticipated Sababa Jewish Arts & Culture Festival is back, and it’s set to light up Washington University on Sept. 29. Organized by the Jewish Community Center (the J) in collaboration with the St. Louis Jewish Federation, this event promises to be a vibrant celebration of Jewish art, music and food.

“Sababa,” which translates to “cool” in Hebrew, is exactly what this festival embodies. Attendees can look forward to a day filled with performances from an eclectic mix of artists, mouthwatering kosher food and activities that celebrate the rich tapestry of Jewish culture.

“While the Sababa format is similar to previous years, it will have a whole new feel and look so everyone will enjoy it, both people who attended in the past and first-timers as well. There will be increased security as well to make sure the event is safe and secure,” said Rabbi Brad Horwitz, chief Jewish engagement officer at the J.

Musical Lineup

This year’s musical headliners are sure to impress.

“The goal was to present a variety of musical genres, funk, country, soul, acoustic, that would appeal to folks of all ages and interests. Also, we wanted to feature more local St. Louis talent as well as some out-of-town performers,” said Horwitz.

The lineup includes:

• Gili Yalo is one of the most intriguing musicians in the music scene in Israel. Yalo combines Ethiopian roots with soul, funk, psychedelic and jazz music. He incorporates sounds from traditional Ethiopian music into contemporary music production. The result is an exceptional, rich, vivid melody accompanied by Yalo’s unique voice with lyrics in both English and Amharic. www.giliyalo.com

• Joe Buchanan is Texas-born and southern-raised. Buchanan makes country music that is steeped in Torah and the trials of the human spirit. A blend of Southern soul and country charm, his music is grounded in the belief that there is always more room at the table. www. joebuchananmusic.com/epk

Charlie Kramer, Lucy Greenbaum and Greta Rosenstock are all local artists and/ or song leaders for St. Louis Jewish organizations. Their combined performance will be a “one day only” exclusive show for Sababa 2024. Greenbaum and Rosenstock encourage Jewish families attending Sunday school to join the festivities after class.

Klezundheit! is the only klezmer big band in Missouri and will be performing a high-energy and very danceable klezmer set for Sababa. Founded by bandleader Bob Herman in 1998, the band has been featured performers at concerts and festivals in St. Louis, Paraguay and Brazil. You can also hear Klezundheit! at Central Reform Congregation’s Simchat Torah celebrations and venues around town.

Kosher food

Zelda’s Catering from Chicago will be serving up a feast of kosher delights. Known for its fresh, from-scratch dishes,

Zelda’s menu will offer a variety of tasty options that perfectly complement the festival’s cultural offerings.

Family fun and art

New this year, Sababa will feature a dedicated pavilion for families and children. With activities and entertainment specifically designed for younger attendees, the festival is truly an event for all ages.

“This year’s art and vendors each have a unique talent and represent a variety of mediums,” said Horwitz. “We will have plenty of jewelry, ceramics, wood, glass, prints and so much more.”

Above, from left: Charlie Kramer, Gili Yalo, Greta Rosenstock, Joe Buchanan and Lucy Greenbaum

file photo of the Sababa Jewish Arts & Culture Festival in 2018.

PHOTO: ZACH DALIN PHOTOGRAPHY

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Val Toskin will serve as the interim director of Jewish Life and Learning at Saul Mirowitz Jewish Community School. She has been studying Talmud in the original Aramaic at SVARA since 2018 and is currently enrolled in a master’s program for teacher leadership at Brandeis University. Toskin will continue teaching grades 2-4. Lincoln Richman has joined Mirowitz as a Judaic studies teacher for grades 5-8.

Randi Poscover is back at the Jewish Community Center of St. Louis as its new director of operations. She oversees the nutrition department, which includes 613 Catering, Meals on Wheels and the J kitchen, operations for all building events, and laundry and cleaning departments. Poscover attends United Hebrew Congregation.

Jessica Fischoff is the new director of Library Art at the J. She is responsible for planning the Jewish Book Festival line-up of authors and to ensure the events are well publicized and attended. Fischoff plans to expand the programming to include writer-friendly workshops and retreats.

Dr. John Schneider, Washington University School of Medicine associate professor of Otolaryngology-Head & Neck Surgery and Division Chief of Rhinology

and Anterior Skull Base Surgery, will assume the role of assistant dean of coaching through the office of Faculty Promotion

and Faculty Development. He is a member of Congregation Temple Israel.

Washington University alum Marylen Mann recently received the Washington University Brown School of Social Work Distinguished Volunteer Award. It celebrates her impactful work throughout the community such as the organization she started 42 years ago, Oasis. It is a national nonprofit supporting healthy aging through lifelong learning, active lifestyles, and volunteer engagement.

Cheryl Adelstein announced the launch of Stellar Strategists, a consulting firm offering practical public policy solutions, meaningful community engagement strategies, and effective leadership development opportunities to advance clients’ advocacy and engagement goals. A member of Central Reform Congregation, Adelstein was formerly with the Jewish

Attorney Bradley Winters was recognized in the 2024 Chambers USA ranking of leading lawyers in the Mediators category. He is the only Missouri mediator ranked nationally. Winters is a mediator and arbitrator with JAMS neutral in Clayton.

Rachel Bray is the new publicity coordinator for Arts & Faith St. Louis while continuing as communications and engagement coordinator for the Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC) of St. Louis. The mission of Arts & Faith St. Louis is to build a harmonious St. Louis by establishing an ongoing, intentional relavtionship between the arts and the faith communities. Bray is a member of Congregation B’nai Amoona.

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Parashat Pinchas: Using the power of names

BY RABBI JESSICA SHAFRIN

“A person is given three names: one that their parents call them, one their fellows call them and one that they acquire with their deeds.”

— Midrash Tanhuma, Va-yakhel

The naming process is unique to each individual and culture, yet names are laced with meaning. I always enjoy the “midrashei shem,” the stories about the names we encounter in the world around us and in the Bible as well. It is also interesting when we note whose names appear in a story and whose do not: the pivotal story of Potiphar’s wife and her influence of Joseph or Pharoah’s daughter who saved Moses; while these stories are memorable, the names are not included in the

Torah even though the rabbis have included stories which do sometimes name them.

However, in Parashah Pinchas, the five “daughters of Tzelofehad” are named: Mahlah, Noa, Hoglah, Milcah and Tirzah. The mention of their names pushes us to recognize the important role that they play in their generation and for future generations as well.

Together, Mahlah, Noa, Hoglah, Milcah and Tirzah identify an oppressive premise within an unfair system by recognizing that when their father dies, and their father’s land is trapped in limbo with the fear of being lost. Standing before Moses and Eleazar the Priest they state that they recognize that since there were no sons to inherit the land and continue his legacy through passing on his land that such will

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Reader responds to Rochester column

In his July 10 opinion piece “Bean counting racial outcomes is no way to achieve equality,” Marty Rochester presents a straw man fallacy and seems to misunderstand or misrepresent the goals of diversity, equity and inclusion (DEI) efforts. The purpose of tracking demographic data is not to hire unqualified individuals, but rather to identify discrepancies and address systemic issues. For example, there are relatively few Black doctors and police officers partly due to historical mistreatment and exclusion. Creating better pathways to these professions can enhance them both. These DEI initiatives require sustained effort over generations, which is why it is crucial to start now. As a former academic, Rochester often critiques colleges. He references the Foundation for Individual Rights and Expression (FIRE) and its criticism of DEI hiring statements. In my experience, a diversity statement from a white male applicant who developed and implemented a program to improve foundational learning for students with poor academic backgrounds would be valued more highly than a statement from a Black applicant merely emphasizing their race. FIRE is known for its rankings of free speech on college campuses. However, these are systematically biased, as they exclude conservative religious colleges like Brigham

Young and Liberty University, where liberal speech is often restricted. Additionally, their rankings ignore significant legislative actions like Florida’s Stop WOKE Act, which bans liberal speech such as teaching of Critical Race Theory. These omissions cast doubt on the credibility of FIRE’s reports.

Nobody who truly understands DEI believes that simple bean counting is the solution. Rochester’s approach promotes oversimplified and divisive thinking, rather than fostering the thoughtful and nuanced discussions needed to bring about meaningful change that benefits everyone.

Judith

M. Ogilvie Professor of Biology and Neuroscience, St. Louis University

Keeping tabs on Iran’s nuclear program

With all attention on Hamas and Hezbollah in the Middle East and our own election follies, I fear no one is watching the big story regarding Israel. Under the law to monitor Iran’s nuclear progress, PL 117-263, Section 5593, President Biden is required to have U.S. Intelligence agencies provide Congress semi-annual reports on the status of Iran’s nuclear weapon’s program, but the administration has ignored that requirement, without providing any justification for the dereliction of duty. This matters because in May the UN’s

be lost. “Let not our father’s name be lost to his clan just because he had no son!” (Number 27: 4) they then continue with bold language, the imperative “Give us a holding”.

And the response? Moses escalates the concern and God responds with an emphatic “Yes!” Yes, they are right! Yes, they have the rights to inherit! And Yes, this law will be put in place for future generations!

Their names, Mahlah, Noa, Hoglah, Milcah and Tirzah, are here to remind us of the need to give voice to the unheard, give space to those not present.

We are given hope that even though taking a stand for what is just may not be easy, when we are faced with fear or unknown obstacles, we can rise and we will succeed.

IAEA ‘watchdog’ censured Iran, estimating that Iran now has 150kg of fissile Uranium isotope (U-235) enriched to 60% purity, an amount sufficient to make several conventional nuclear bombs (and likely a low estimate given the IAEA’s biases). The last step, increasing the purity to weapons grade (90%), is vastly simpler.

The Biden administration, still seemingly wedded to the disastrous JCPOA which then Vice President Biden and President Obama assured would prevent Iran from cheating, opposed the IAEA censure. With Iran at the doorstep of obtaining bombs, the administration is ignoring a nuclear-armed Iran as much as they ignore the Americans still held hostage by Hamas.

The questions friends of Israel must ask is, why is the Biden administration stonewalling the truth about Iran? Even the most charitable answer is cause for desperate concern for those who love peace and love Israel, but if the U.S. does not engage now, Israel will be faced with Hobson’s choice of war now or annihilation later.

Matthew Grad St Louis

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voters urged to ‘seize the moment’

With a month to go until the MO-01 primary, we, rabbis and cantors from across the Jewish spectrum, write once again, in our personal, private capacities, with a clear and unified message: Let’s get Wesley Bell to Washington.

It’s time for our community to seize the

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May Mahlah, Noa, Hoglah, Milcah and Tirzah give us strength, courage, comfort, patience and perseverance, for we stand on the shoulders of these trailblazers.

moment. To utilize the power of the ballot box.

For nearly four years, Cori Bush has not been shy about her desire to isolate, demonize and discredit Israel. She does not speak for us, nor does her voting record in Congress represent us.

It’s time to make a change.

This August, MO-01 can elect a new leader — progressive Democrat Wesley Bell. He is a strong, progressive challenger, and this race will come down to our willingness to mobilize and do the work necessary to win. Luckily, we have a tested roadmap to follow.

Recently, voters in Westchester County, N.Y. made their voices heard by electing pro-Israel candidate George Latimer over anti-Israel incumbent Jamaal Bowman, one of the most hostile critics of Israel in Congress. Latimer won decisively by a 17-point margin. While many point to the role of outside spending in this race, the election was ultimately decided by those who showed up at the ballot box. Fueled by a passionate, mobilized and engaged pro-Israel community in New York-16 more than doubled the average voter turnout across the rest of the state prioritizing early voting and getting out the vote on election day.

Now it’s Wesley Bell’s turn.

Polling shows the Bell-Bush race at a dead heat, with Bell leading by just one percentage point and 11% still undecided.

The national pro-Israel community is engaged in this race, but they aren’t casting ballots on Aug. 6. Only our community can do that.

We know what’s at stake.

Bush voted against condemning the

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Praying for the terminally ill

BY RABBI ZE’EV SMASON

Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, a Swiss American psychiatrist, told of a terminally ill woman who was in the hospital and begged the doctors to help her survive long enough to attend her son’s wedding. If she could just get to the wedding, she said, she could die in peace. So they did everything possible to have her at her highest level of well-being.

The day of the wedding all her intravenous lines and tubes were removed. She was dressed up and made up until she looked beautiful, and off she went to the wedding. When she returned to the hospital, everyone was expecting her to stagger onto her bed, lie down and die. Instead, she came back into the ward, she called the doctors, and said, “Don’t forget, I have another son.”

How does the Torah look at praying for the terminally ill? Would prayers that could possibly ask God to perform a miracle be appropriate or even permissible? And if not, how should one approach prayer in such a dire situation? Is prayer ever futile?

Numerous Torah sources argue that it is a mistake to ever lose hope. Prayer, even for a patient who is told that they have little or no hope of recovery, is a time-tested Jewish approach. In the face of seemingly insurmountable odds, Jewish law emphasizes the importance of always continuing to pray.

Today more than even, a “terminal” diagnosis is not a death sentence. There is no infallibility in a physician’s diagnosis of an incurably ill patient. We should also recognize that some diseases can be

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Hamas terrorists after they perpetrated the bloodiest attack on Jews since the Holocaust. She voted against emergency aid to Israel in a time of need. She co-led a resolution with Rashida Tlaib calling Israel’s founding a “catastrophe.” She backs the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions movement against Israel. And she voted against the lifesaving Iron Dome defense shield that has saved countless Israeli lives - both Jewish and Arab alike. Cori Bush does not represent her community.

Wesley Bell is the leader we need in Congress who will represent our community and stand by our ally Israel. But he can’t win if we sit idly by. Every vote matters and we must mobilize.

Make a plan to vote and know that early voting began on July 23.

We call on our community and all supporters of Israel to help defeat one of Israel’s most unashamed enemies, and bring a leader who represents us to Washington.

We can help Wesley Bell win this race, but the outcome is squarely on our shoulders.

Let’s get to work.

Rabbi Jeffrey Abraham

Rabbi Yosef David

Rabbi Josef Davidson

Rabbi Seth Gordon

Rabbi Shmuel Greenwald

Rabbi Howard Kaplansky

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controlled for years or even decades, during which time new medications and treatments can be discovered. Additionally, many examples exist of those who were told they had as little as weeks to live but went on to live productive, enjoyable lives for years and even decades.

Jane Plant, professor of geochemistry in London, diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 42, was told at the time of her diagnosis that she had at most two months to live. Jane passed away in 2016 at the age of 72. Guitarist Wilko Johnson performed a farewell tour in 2013, after

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ished as the result of our prayers. Additionally, the patient may live longer than they would have otherwise. Why would this be desirable? The Torah emphasizes that every moment of life has tremendous value. Praying in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds is expressed in the well-known Talmudic statement, “Even if a sword is placed on one’s neck, one should not despair of God’s mercy.” Prayer can infuse the terminally ill patient with hope as an affirmation that there are ways of finding optimism and courage in even the bleakest of situations.

Numerous Torah sources argue that it is a mistake to ever lose hope. Prayer, even for a patient who is told that they have little or no hope of recovery, is a time-tested Jewish approach. In the face of seemingly insurmountable odds, Jewish law emphasizes the importance of always continuing to pray.”

being diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer. Johnson was told by his physicians that he had nine or 10 months to live but stunned his doctors by living an additional nine years.

In our daily prayers we refer to God as Shome’a tefilla, “He who listens to prayer.” Note that we don’t refer to God as a Mekabel tefilla, “One who accepts our prayers” and who says yes to our specific requests. But even if the patient isn’t cured, it is possible that his or her suffering will be even slightly dimin-

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On Aug. 6, residents of the First Congressional District will have an opportunity to vote and unseat Cori Bush as Representative. They should do so.

Bush is vehemently anti-Israel.

Beginning the day after 1,200 Israeli people were butchered on Oct. 7, even before Israel went into Gaza, she began calling for a “ceasefire.” She also began calling for no weapons to be provided to Israel, including rearmaments for Iron Dome, which is solely a defensive system, and one which has successfully protected the Israeli people from thousands of rockets.

And when Congress voted to condemn Hamas for its brutal attack on innocent people, Bush was one of only 23 votes against.

The Light recently published a letter from 17 rabbis across the denominational spectrum, all joining to urge Jewish voters to support candidate Wesley Bell on Aug. 6. This follows an incredible letter published in the Light last November, signed by 30 Jewish Congregations and organizations, condemning Bush for inciting “anger and the potential of further violence toward the Jewish community.”

As if that weren’t enough, Bush is simply a bad representative. She is currently under federal investigation for paying her own husband to provide her with private security services. This is the same person who seeks to defund the very police who

It is always essential to pray, even when there appears to be no chance of recovery or any hope our prayers will be answered. In addition to the efficacy of prayer and the hope and support it brings to the terminally ill patient, prayer creates a meaningful relationship between ourselves and God. Even if we don’t receive what we pray for, thoughtful prayer uplifts us and connects us to the Almighty. It humbles us to realize that although we care passionately about the outcome, we have no idea what will

protect the rest of us.

Moreover, since first being seated in 2020 she has missed more votes than almost any other representative. And for this year, she has missed 24% of all House votes. Her voting record can be found here: https://www.govtrack.us/congress/ members/cori_bush/456829

Regardless of political party, all supporters of our Jewish community and of Israel should take a Democratic Party ballot on Aug. 6 and vote out Cori Bush. Voters will still be able to vote Republican if they so desire, in the November elections. Let’s make unseating Bush our top priority.

David Rubin

St. Louis

Progressive Jews of St. Louis respond to clergy’s letter

As members of the St. Louis Jewish community, we are compelled to respond to a recent letter (see opposite page) by some area rabbis that mischaracterizes the record of Congresswoman Cori Bush. Bush is a supporter of peace and as a co-sponsor of Representative Haley Steven’s resolution in October 2023 she quickly and unequivocally condemned Hamas’ attack on Israeli civilians. There is no evidence of Bush exhibiting hostility towards Jewish people or the Jewish faith. Criticizing the Israeli government is not antisemitic – such claims make Jews less safe and distract from real antisemitism.

What bothers these rabbis is that Bush’s concern extends to Palestinians also. She

Rabbi Ze’ev Smason is chairman of the Coalition for Jewish Values Missouri.

happen. This humility spiritually elevates us and connects us to God and enables us to accept His will.

A nurse who works in an ICU offered several important insights. She said that the reason people find praying frustrating is because they expect a total cure, and that they need to realize that there is much more to pray for with regard to an incurably ill individual than his or her complete recovery.

Here are some of the things she suggested people pray for: That the sick person not suffer too much pain, anxiety, depression or loneliness; that the sick person be treated gently and with dignity by the medical staff; that the veins of the sick person be easy to find for intravenous injections; that the family have the strength to hold up under the strain and to not abandon the patient; that the correct decisions, medical and ethical, be taken by the family, patient, doctor and rabbi. “If you pray for all of the above for a sick person,” the nurse said, “you will find that many of your prayers will be answered”

We all have much to pray for. May all in need of a refuah (healing) experience a full, speedy recovery. And may we accept that our prayers will be answered in the way God best chooses to do so.

called for a ceasefire early because she wants to save lives. She correctly describes Israel as an Apartheid state, in accordance with the most respected human rights groups including Amnesty International, Human Rights Watch and the Israeli group B’Tselem. Bush is an anti-racist humanitarian, and she lives her values regardless of political convenience. Her opponent, on the other hand, is receiving massive funding from organizations supporting the extreme right-wing Netanyahu / Smoltrich / Ben-Gvir government in Israel. A large portion of his donors also donate to Trump and other MAGA candidates. In addition, he previously managed a GOP congressional campaign for an anti-abortion candidate.

Supporting a candidate running as a Democrat whose campaign is largely being funded by single-issue interest groups like AIPAC and extreme rightwing donors does not make anyone safer - not Palestinians, not Israelis, and not Jews in the United States. The flames of war being fanned by this Israeli government only continue to wreak havoc and bring needless suffering; if we allow this election to be bought and Bush’s opponent to take office, he will do nothing to stop the violence.

Let’s keep a principled member in Congress who fights for the needs of St. Louis. Support the reelection of Congresswoman Cori Bush for Congress. Michael Berg and Ariel Groener Progressive Jews of St. Louis

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Meet the St. Louisan who has helped grow Israeli tennis program for all children

BY BILL MOTCHAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT

Rom Malka, 14, is an Israeli-Arab who lives in Be’er-Sheva, Israel, which was attacked by Hamas on Oct. 7. Since the attack, Rom feels completely safe in one location: the Israel Tennis & Education Center (ITEC).

More than 20,000 Israeli children find respite from the war and stresses in their lives through the non-profit ITEC centers. ITEC has 17 primary locations and seven satellite facilities throughout Israel that focus on children who have special needs, are at risk or live in poverty.

They learn life skills and how to get along with other young Israelis from different backgrounds and religions. The idea is to create a more peaceful and stronger Israeli society.

ITEC continues to support Israeli children, thanks in large part to donors and volunteers in the United States, such as St. Louisan Les Nackman. It’s fitting that Nackman supports ITEC because he has had a lifelong love of tennis. He received a tennis scholarship from the University of Missouri in 1944. After college, Nackman went into advertising and eventually became a manufacturer’s representative for electronics, hardware and housewares in several midwestern states.

Nackman , a longtime member of Congregation Temple Israel, began volunteering and fundraising for ITEC in 1993. Over the past 30 years, he’s helped raise millions of dollars in support of the orga-

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nization. In 2005, he joined the ITEC board of directors.

“It had everything I wanted in a charity,” Nackman said. “I love children. I love tennis and I love Israel. Since 2000, when I took over the ITEC tennis exhibitions that showcased the Israeli children at my tennis club in Florida, it just got bigger and better.”

Twenty fundraising exhibitions are held in Florida each year to support thousands of children in ITEC. Nackman, 97, stopped playing tennis during the pandemic in 2021, but his efforts to aid ITEC haven’t slowed down one bit.

and

In addition to his home in St. Louis, Nackman spends time during the winter in Boca Raton, Fla. A tennis court at Addison Reserve Country Club honors him for his work with the Israeli organization.

The Samson ITEC in Be’er-Sheva has a

See LES NACKMAN on page 17

‘Lowcuterie’ and other random ideas I have to share

BY AMY FENSTER BROWN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT

I have a lot of random ideas swimming around in my head. They’re doing laps, jumping off the high dive and frankly just taking up space. It’s time to purge my flooded brain.

• Charcuterie boards can be so impressive, elaborate and inviting. It takes creativity to artfully arrange your basic fruits and cheeses and meats just so. What if you don’t have that kind of time or attention to detail? I don’t. So next time I have people over, I’m going to leave out dips in their original plastic tub containers and throw open bags of chips on the counter and call it “lowcuterie.”

• Are you one of those people at the grocery store who won’t take the first item in the front, but rather takes the second or third version stacked behind it? Instead of grabbing the front box of Cocoa Puffs on the shelf, you rifle behind for a different box, thinking it might be fresher or have a later expiration date — or might have been

touched by fewer people.

I think the grocery stores know that game and have figured out a way to trick us. They might know we take apples from the underbelly of the pile and bread from the back of the row. I bet the grocery employees do a reversal of items and put the freshest stuff up front, and the boxes of Cocoa Puffs they secretly licked in the break room into positions two and three on the shelf. It’s the employees’ way of giving us high-maintenance shoppers the middle finger.

• Friends who overthink and worry all the time — we might be on to something. Looking back, how many of the scenari os that kept you awake at night worry ing actually happened? Not a lot, right? See, worrying works! It’s almost scientifically proven. Most of the stuff we worry about never even happens, so don’t let anyone tell you to relax. Stick to your nutty guns and keep on panicking for no reason. It probably burns more calories than being chill. Pat yourself on the back

for worrying in a way that prevents disaster. We thank you.

• A great game show idea would be sending people into Ikea to see if anyone could accurately pronounce the names of products. Those clever Swedes come up with some good ones. Schlarfenflarf and Kjuggenhaager aren’t easy to say. On our show, “Name! That! Omojlig!” whoever can correctly say the Swedish words for “table with hollow legs” and “cheaply made plastic tubs” wins a year’s supply of Pfufferenschnog. May the best pronouncer win.

Columnist Amy Fenster Brown is married to Jeff and has two teenage sons, Davis and Leo. She volunteers for several Jewish not-for-profit groups. Fenster Brown is an Emmy Award-winning TV news writer and counts time with family and friends, talking and eating peanut butter among her hobbies.

• We are all doing the best we can, and sometimes we can do better. For example, I think there’s a more efficient way to be gay. If I were going to be in a same-sex couple, I would also want to make sure it’s a same-size couple so I could double my wardrobe. It works for platonic roommates, too.

• Nightclubs for menopausal women could prove quite popular. We should open up one together. Let’s do a strip club, but there won’t be dancer-type strippers on a stage. Instead, we women of a certain age strip off our own clothing as our hot flashes flare up. Pants come off as our legs turn into fire sticks. Shirts are removed as our own body heat suffocates us from deep within our burning souls. Don’t get me started on bras.

We’re in a nightclub setting because we still want to be hip and have fun with our friends. We would have to serve good food, too. We could call it “Chicken Strip Club.” Or maybe we would feature a made-to-order omelet station and call the place “Flash in the Pan.”

We can workshop the details.

Les Nackman (center) is flanked by his daughter, Linda Horwitz, and son-in-law Phil Horwitz. Nackman is a longtime supporter of

fundraiser for the Israel Tennis & Education Center.

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Philanthropist Michael Staenberg transforms Crown Center’s blank walls into art-filled halls

BY JORDAN PALMER CHIEF DIGITAL CONTENT OFFICER

Nothing says “possibility” more than a blank wall. So, when the 57-year-old Crown Center senior living facility in University City received a $1 million donation from philanthropists Michael and Carol Staenberg to build a new 52-unit residential building to replace the original 10-story Tallin Building, it was expected that there would be plenty of blank walls.

And Michael Staenberg doesn’t like blank walls.

For more than a decade, Staenberg, the current President of the Board of Directors for the St. Louis Jewish Light and an avid art collector, has been seeking out empty walls and filling them with life. Whether it’s monumental sculptures at one of his developments or artworks in Jewish institutions he supports, Staenberg enjoys donating or loaning art to brighten otherwise dull spaces.

“I probably bought 5,000 pieces of art over the years, and I’ve given away about 1,000 pieces to nonprofits,” said Staenberg. “I buy every piece myself. I call, look and

travel all over to find the right pieces, and I’ve commissioned some to fit certain spaces. Much of the art either reflects a Jewish theme or was created by a Jewish artist.”

To be exact, Staenberg has donated 1,231 pieces, with an estimated value of around $5 million. In total, 24 nonprofit organizations in St. Louis, Omaha, Denver, Kansas City, and St. Paul, Minn. have walls adorned by pieces from Staenberg’s collection.

Now add 45 more to that total, all of them hanging inside the newly renovated Tallin Building.

Nearly a year ago, as construction on their new homes ramped up, a group of Crown Center residents visited Staenberg’s offices for lunch and a chance to view some of his art collection.

“Each attendee received a book featuring much of Michael’s collection and was able to select the artwork and artists they liked best for the Crown community,” said Andy Thorp, executive director of Crown Center.

The selected artwork was installed this past May, bringing new life to those previ-

“The reaction has been overwhelmingly positive,” said Thorp. “Residents have stopped to ask where the art came from, who the artists are and what the artwork means. When I told them it came from Michael, they asked that we thank him. They said the art brings the space to life and adds color to our community. We have planned a resident art opening in late July where they will be able to meet Michael and learn about the artists and the pieces

“When you walk into the building, art makes you feel good,” said Staenberg. “There is no second chance to make a first

The Crown Center Art

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Artwork at Crown Center by (clockwise from top left) James Michael Smith, Timothy Weldon, David Gerstein and Jeff Kapfer.

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new fitness and education center named for Nackman and Adele Loeb, who’s also a supporter of the program. Their fundraising and volunteer work on behalf of ITEC is an essential element for the organization’s goals, said Yoni Yair, ITEC vice president of development.

“With the longtime involvement and extraordinary leadership and generosity of Les and Adele, we are able to impact the lives and support hundreds of at risk and underprivileged children in Israel,” Yair said. “Their meaningful generosity helps us to keep hundreds of children off the streets and bring them into our community centers, where they get tutoring and gain important values and life skills that will help prepare them for life.”

Nackman said tennis is only the vehicle used to get children in the door.

“We change their whole life,” he said. “Most of the kids in Israel come to the centers after school, because there’s no place else for them to go. Their parents both work, so they come to the centers, meet their friends, do their homework and get a hot meal. Everybody, including Arabs and Christians, are invited to come. Nobody is excluded.”

If any of the children show promise for advanced tennis education, ITEC helps them obtain college tennis scholarships in the U.S. Regardless of their skill level, coexistence is a primary goal, said Phil Horwitz, Nackman’s son-in-law.

“The most interesting thing about ITEC is that you see this diverse group of kids coming over here, and they’re all holding the Israeli flag, and these are Arab Israelis,” Horwitz said. “It’s really amazing to see this diverse group of kids on the tennis court. During the exhibitions in the U.S., the kids come out on the court and talk about their experience at ITEC. It’s very moving. Most of these kids really come from impoverished areas of Israel.”

Horwitz said the ITEC experience has clearly made a difference for many Israeli children. Their transformation is demonstrated during the U.S. exhibitions.

“The kids come on the tennis court and they introduce themselves, and then they play the U.S. national anthem, followed by the playing of ‘Hatikvah,’ ” Horwitz said. “You see the Jewish Israeli kids and the Israeli Arabs and all the other diverse groups of kids down there singing together, supporting Israel. People sometimes don’t understand that non-Jews living in Israel support Israel. They love Israel. And they are so happy to come over to the U.S. and see all these people supporting ITEC.”

ABOVE: Les Nackman and Adele Loeb at the Israel Tennis Israel Tennis & Education Center.

RIGHT: Les and Adele sit in front of court at the Adison Reserve Country Club in Florida dedicated in honor of Les “for his love and care of the ITEC children.” BELOW: An aerial view of an ITEC facility. SUBMITTED PHOTOS

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YOUR CALENDAR OF ST. LOUIS JEWISH COMMUNITY EVENTS

Editor’s note: All Mirowitz Center events are free unless otherwise noted. To register for a Mirowitz Center event, visit http://bit.ly/ Mirowitz-registration, call 314-733-9813 or email info@mirowitzcenter.org.

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New Jewish Theatre play looks at artist Mark Rothko

The New Jewish Theatre presents the play “Red” from July 25 to Aug. 11. “Red” earned its playwright John Logan a Tony Award for Best Play in 2010. The play is an introspective look at abstract expressionist painter (and Latvian-born Jewish immigrant) Mark Rothko at the height of his fame. As he takes on his largest commission to date, he also takes on a new assistant who challenges his work and ideals. Visit newjewishtheatre.org for more information.

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Timeless Tunes with The Overthe-Hill Singers!

From 1-2 p.m., enjoy a show featuring The Over-the-Hill Singers with Broadway showstoppers and the best hits from the 1920s, ‘30s and ‘40s. No cost to register, but RSVP required.

SATURDAY | JULY 27

Nusach Hari B’nai Zion’s Synaplex Shabbat returns

The community is invited to NHBZ’s Synaplex Shabbat, featuring a choice of three sessions led by guest speakers. Regular services begin at 8:30 a.m. in the Main Sanctuary. “Soul Building” begins at 10 a.m. in the lower level with Rabbi Yosef David of Aish HaTorah. Babysitting will be provided. Then, join one of these sessions with guest speakers at around 11:15 a.m.:

• “What’s at Stake: U.S./Israel Relations in the Upcoming Elections” led by Keith Beardslee, St. Louis Council AIPAC.

• “Jew Hatred: Why Are ‘They’ So Intolerant? (Hint: We can fix it!)” Led by Rabbi Yosef David.

• “The Three Weeks: Distance Makes the Soul Yearn Stronger” led by Rabbi Shimmy

Fried of the St. Louis Kollel.

There will be a free Kiddush lunch for all at around noon. All events are free and open to the Jewish community. For more information, call 314-991-2100.

SUNDAY | JULY 28

NHBZ Pizza Night

Bring your entire family to NHBZ’s Pizza Night from 5-7 p.m. for an all-you-can-eat delicious buffet of kosher pizza, pasta, salad and French fries plus a dessert and beverage. Prices are: $15 for adults; $8 kids ages 3-12; free for kids ages 3 and under. Credit cards are accepted. For more information, call 314-991-2100, ext. 2.

Peace like a river: An evening of story and song at MaTovu (note time change)

Join Lucy Greenbaum, the Prayer Lab musicians, Rabbi Andrea Goldstein and other talented and soulful St. Louis artists at 5 p.m. (the time has been updated since the ChaiLights calendar entry that ran July 10) for an evening dedicated to songs and stories of peace at MaTovu, 4200 Blaine Ave. All donations collected before and during the program will go to Combatants for Peace, a joint Israeli-Palestinian community effort. Registration is required and donations are appreciated. Contact Stacy at sjespersen@ sestl.org or call 314-569-0010 for more information.

TUES. | JUL. 30 & AUG. 6

Introduction to Jewish Mysticism with Rabbi Andrea Goldstein

From 7-8:30 p.m. and again, at the same time, Aug. 6, this Jewish Mindfulness Center class will survey some of the central themes of Jewish mysticism found in the Hebrew Bible, the Zohar and traditional Hasidic texts. The programs are free, but registration is required. Contact Stacy at sjespersen@sestl.org or call 314-569-0010 for more information.

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St. Louis and the Great Fire of 1849

The devastating Great Fire of 1849 occurred on a beautiful day in May and left St. Louis in ruins. Storyteller Barnes M. Bradshaw, in a costumed performance from 1-2 p.m., covers the causes of the fire, as well as heroic efforts by volunteer firemen. No cost to register, but RSVP required.

Melton course on ‘Our Communal Days of Joy and Sorrow’

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FRIDAY | AUGUST 2

Potluck Shabbat for young adults

The young adult chapter of SPARKS MATCH! is hosting another potluck Shabbat dinner for people in their 20s, 30s and 40s at 6 p.m. Bring something vegetarian to share and celebrate Shabbat together and meet new people. RSVP to Daphne at daphnekoalabear@gmail.com

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non-members. Light refreshments provided. Feel free to BYO wine or other treats to share. RSVP at www.ti-stl.org/AdultEducation. Registration is required to attend.

The East-West Divide: The Catholic and Orthodox Church

Dr. Valerie Karras, from the Perkins School of Theology at Southern Methodist University, analyzes doctrinal differences, ecclesiastical practices and political impacts that brought us to the current divide between the Catholic Church and the Orthodox Church from 11 a.m. to noon at the Mirowitz Center. Part 1 of 4 – No cost to register, but RSVP required. Attend one or all sessions; prior attendance not necessary. Provided with FEL (Friends Enjoying Life), the Mirowitz Center men’s organization. Co-sponsored by the Jewish Community Relations Council of St. Louis.

Improv for Life: A theater group with Rebekah Scallet

TUESDAY | AUG. 6 & 20

The ‘Week in Review’

Join the conversation from 10-11 a.m. with a community that values knowledge, respect, and the art of informed opinions! Moderated by Harvey Gerstein and Marilyn Alton, this is a forum for thoughtful discussion about the most pressing stories of the week. No cost to register, but RSVP required. Program is provided with FEL (Friends Enjoying Life), the Mirowitz Center men’s organization.

TUESDAY | AUGUST 6

The Beatles: Abbey Road

From 3-4:30 p.m., University instructor Neil Davis delves into the history, music and cultural impact of the Beatles and their seminal album, “Abbey Road,” which in addition to chart-topping songs, also features one of the most iconic album covers ever shot, with John, Ringo, Paul and George crossing Abbey Road. No cost to register, but RSVP required.

WEDNESDAY | AUG. 7

Protecting your personal information online

From 12:30-1:30 p.m., Mirowitz Center

Trainer Larry Edison shares tips for maneuvering in cyberspace, such as browsing safely, recognizing online scams and knowing when it’s OK – or not – to share personal data. No cost to register, but RSVP required.

THURSDAY | AUGUST 8

Lilith Readers Book Club

This book club, from 7-8 p.m. at Temple Israel with Rabbi Amy Feder, is inspired by Lilith, one of the fiercest forgotten women of Jewish literature. The August book is “Until Next Summer” by Ali Brady, described by the New York Times as “a heartfelt and hilarious frolic through a nostalgic landscape of (summer camp) color wars, first kisses and toilet-paper porch decor — with a cocktail in hand.” Free for TI members, $18 for

Whether you’re new to improvisation or have some experience, this group offers a supportive and playful environment from 2-3 p.m. at the Mirowitz Center with the New Jewish Theatre’s Rebekah Scallet –director, educator and arts leader who has over 20 years of experience. No cost to register, but RSVP required.

FRIDAY | AUGUST 9

On the Record with Bob Cohn

Join Bob Cohn, editor-in-chief emeritus of the Jewish Light, from 11 a.m. to noon every other month – on the second Friday – to discuss films, plays, articles and books on issues of concern in our community. No cost to register, but RSVP required. Provided with FEL (Friends Enjoying Life), the Mirowitz Center men’s organization.

ONGOING

Spiritual Direction with Rabbi Andrea Goldstein

Spiritual Direction is a practice that involves meeting with a spiritual director on a monthly basis to cultivate our ability to discern God’s presence, the presence of holiness, in all aspects of our lives – the celebrations, the struggles and each moment in between. Anyone can benefit from Spiritual Direction. You do not need to hold any particular image of God, or a belief in God at all. Rabbi Andrea Goldstein offers Spiritual Direction most Monday afternoons. There is no cost for members of Congregation Shaare Emeth, though it is customary to make a donation to the Jewish Mindfulness Center of St. Louis after each session. The cost for non-Shaare Emeth members is $50 per session. To set up a first appointment contact Stacy Jespersen at sjespersen@ sestl.org.

Kol Chadash musical Shabbat service at Kol Rinah

This live prayer service will feature music with acoustic instruments, bringing together beautiful melodies and words of Torah to create a deep and moving prayer experience. Participants can come together at 9:30 a.m. on Saturdays at Kol Rinah to find spiritual meaning and fulfillment through music, harmony, joy and spirit. For more information, visit kolrinahstl.org or call 314-727-1747.

Rabbi Andrea Goldstein will lead an introduction to Jewish mysticism class through the Jewish Mindfulness Center at Congregation Shaare Emeth.

Rabbi Yosef David of Aish St. Louis is one of three guest speakers at Nusach Hari B’nai Zion’s Synaplex Shabbat, which is open to the community.

SIMCHAS

BIRTH: CALEB MADESON BEN-GAI

Gila Hoffman and Asaf Ben-Gai would like to announce the birthday of their son, Caleb Madeson Ben-Gai, on May 31, 2024 in St. Louis, weighing 5 pounds, 15 ounces. Caleb is the grandson of Mark and Judy

Hoffman of Clayton, and Rhoda and Ofer Ben-Gai of Newton, Mass. He has two siblings, twins Remi and Noa, who are 3½ years old.

TRIBUTES

In honor and memory of your father, Ram — Joan & Sherman Silber

JESSIE & STEVEN GEORGE

Congratulations & Mazel Tov to you & your family on your recent wedding. We hope you are blessed with many beautiful years together — Rachel & Larry Eilbott

BIRTH: GRAYSON CHASE GORMAN

Haley and Cole Gorman would like to announce the birth of their son, Grayson Chase Gorman, on July 3, 2024 in St. Louis, weighing 7 pounds, 4 ounces.

Grayson is the grandson of Kim and Gary Bussard, and Beth and Mike Gorman, all of St. Louis.

He is the great-grandson of Gene and Lee Deutsch of St. Louis; Fran and Steve Zamler of St. Louis; Louise and Bob Prescott of Mahomet, Ill.; the late Bobby Bussard of Olney, Ill.; Pat and the late Tom Reynolds of Springfield, Ill.; and the late Rita and Richard Gorman of Springfield, Ill.

OBITUARIES

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HARVEY GERSHENSON, July 21, 2024

Beloved husband of the late Audrey Nissenholtz Gershenson for more than 70 years; dear father and father-in-law of Shelley Sarver (Jay), Dean Gershenson (Debbie), the late Bradley Gershenson (Michelle Bowers), Mark Gershenson (Caryn), and Beth Manlin (Mark); dear grandfather of Michael (Ingrid), Kevin (Melanie), Alex (Elena) and David (Lily) Sarver, Scott Gershenson, Sarah Gershenson (Andrew Andereck), Ellie and Meredith Gershenson, Corey and Brette Gershenson, and Ben, Sam and Max Manlin; dear great-grandfather of Madeleine, Leo and Noah Sarver, Isla and Everett Sarver, Asa and Sloane Sarver, and Zoe Sarver; dear brother-inlaw of the late Monte Nissenholtz (Annalee); dear uncle, cousin, and friend to so many.

National Council of Jewish Women, Hadassah, B’nai Brith, Ladue PTA, and local candidates’ campaigns. Her love of music and theater lives on in all her descendants.

Carole volunteered as a Cub Scout Den Mother and Girl Scout Troop Leader before returning to paid work. She was a special events buyer at 7-Up, video editor and marketer for 7-Up International, and merchandiser for Hermann Marketing and Corporate Express in St. Louis.

She and her childhood friend, Liz Cupples (z’’l), communicated daily for decades, sharing local and national news stories, and mid-game phone conferences about their treasured baseball Cardinals.

Funeral service Wednesday, July 24, 10:30 AM at Congregation Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Road. Private interment follows.

Memorial contributions preferred to the Brad Gershenson Fund for Youth Sports Programs at the JCC, 2 Millstone Campus Drive, St. Louis, MO 63146.

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CAROLE ANNE CYTRON FLEISCHMANN HARRIS, born 4/27/1932 in Louisville, KY passed away on July 7, 2024 in Los Angeles, CA.

Beloved wife of the late Sylvester “Les” Harris (z’’l) and the late Ira Fleischmann (z’’l).  Dear mother of Dr. Jonathan (Laura Weis) Fleischmann, MD; Dr. Sally Ember, EdD; W. Ellen (Marc) Silvers and Lauri (Dr. Richard, MD) Stern.  Loving grandmother of Yakov (Estee Eisenberg) Fleischmann, Yeshaya (Adina Kagedan) Fleischmann, Rabbi Akiva (Talia Sosnovich) Fleischmann, Malka Fleischmann, Merlyn (Lauren Harrison) Ember, Sarah Kneeland, Jeremiah Kneeland, Elijah Kneeland, Emily Stern, Noah Stern, Amanda Stern and Jamie Stern.  Cherished great grandmother of Rami, Tal, Ziva, Noam, Avner, Natan, Amira, Liat, Danit, Reia, Adriel, and Ayal Fleischmann and Athena Ember.

Carole and her family moved to St. Louis in 1944 where she graduated from Clayton High. During high school Carole participated in choir and musical theater, ADG sorority, and showcased at the Park Plaza Hotel for the Arthur Murray School of Dance. A talented actor, singer, dancer, amateur gymnast and creative writer, Carole authored musical parodies for family simchot, and wrote and directed musicals for the

Until Macular Degeneration reduced her sight, Carole played mahjong and canasta, and online Free Cell solitaire. She was legendary in the family games of Spite & Malice and double-deck Hearts.  A ravenous reader, Carole most recently enjoyed audio books and participating in the HaMakom Havurah Book Club in Los Angeles. She was close to and kept in frequent communication with her friends, siblings, in-laws, and children. She remembered her 12 grandchildren’s and 13 great-grandchildren’s milestones and sent greetings or sang “Happy Birthday” to them via phone or video chat.

May the memory of her loving, optimistic spirit be a blessing to all who had the honor of knowing her.

Graveside service Wednesday, July 10 at Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery, 9125 Ladue Road, St. Louis, MO 63124.  Contributions in her memory may be made to The St. Louis Society for the Blind and Visually Impaired, The St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum, and the St. Louis County Library Foundation.

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WARNER ISAACS, July 10, 2024

Warner graduated from Country Day School in 1952 and attended Washington & Lee University. After college, he returned home to St. Louis where he worked as a stock broker for Semple Jacobs, joining his father in the brokerage business. He eventually joined Stifel Nicholas and retired in April 2024. He had an illustrious career and became the longest tenured employee, working at Stifel for over 61 years.

Warner was passionate about Camp Nebagamon where he was a camper for six years and a counselor for an additional four. Some of his fondest memories and longest friendships

were born in this special camp in the Northwoods of Wisconsin. He passed his love of camp down to his sons and grandson and had a welcome sign at his house that read, “This is a Place of Welcome to All” which was from Nebagamon.

Warner’s life was steeped in traditions based on his love of both family and St. Louis. He was a past President of Clayton Rotary, Mers Goodwill and was an avid “all Cardinal” fan, both football (St. Louis not Arizona) and baseball. Warner loved his time on the golf course at Westwood Country Club where he began playing as a young boy.

Most of all, Warner loved his family. He beamed with pride in speaking of his children, Julie, Teddy, and Stephen. He welcomed his in-law children with enthusiasm and loved to see his family grow. Each of his eight grandchildren knew how much he loved and supported them and he had numerous nicknames for them. Most of all, Warner loved and was proud to call Helane his wife for 65 years, he was a devoted husband. Together they raised their children, enjoyed their grandchildren and traveled the world.

Warner leaves behind a loving legacy in his family. His wife Helane, daughter and son-in-law Julie and Roger Scherck, son and daughter-inlaw Ted and Judith Isaacs, and son, Stephen Isaacs. His grandchildren Emily and Daniel Polinsky, Ariel and Sophie Isaacs, Ellie and Katie Scherck and Adam, Jordan and Marissa Isaacs proudly carry wonderful memories of their Papa. He passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by family.

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RONALD DAVID JACOBS, May 17th, 1947 - July 12th, 2024

Beloved and devoted husband of Lydia Jacobs.  Dear father of Matthew (Genki) Jacobs, Constance and Christopher Pudiwitr.  Loving grandfather of Michael Shannon and Zachary Boyer.  Cherished great grandfather of Oliver, Addison and Raynea Boyer.  Dear brother of Nancy (Martin) Fine.  Beloved son of the late Jeanette and Gus Jacobs.  Dear uncle, cousin and friend to many.

Ron attended University City high school; Graduated from University of MissouriColumbia; and loved his career as an accomplished pharmaceutical representative. Charismatic and lively, he was the center and life of everything he was involved in.

In spite of all the medical hardships he was dealt, Ron pushed through and fought not only for himself, but for those he left behind. He will always be remembered as a fighter, never willing to give up.

Graveside service Tuesday, July 23 at Beth Shalom Cemetery, 650 White Road.  In honor of Ron and his son Matthew, and in lieu of flowers, the family would like any donations to go to Country Acres Rescue, 739 Weidman Rd, Manchester, MO 63011.

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ELINORE “JACKIE” KASNETZ, April 3, 1928-July 5, 2024

Beloved wife of 59 years of the late Marvin Kasnetz; dear mother of Madalyn (Russ) Payne, Carla (Tom) Ross, and Andy (Holly) Kasnetz; devoted grandmother of Lindsay and Ethan Payne, Brian (Lindsay) Ross, Michael (Emily) Ross, and Alex and the late Zachary Kasnetz. Jackie was the adored daughter of the late Samuel and Esther Rain and the sister of the late Irene Rain and the late Mildred Plax. She was the dear stepgrandmother of Deborah (Josh) Stewart, Jennifer (Michael) McMillan, Stephen Payne, and Tristan Finazzo; the loving Bubbe of Jack, Molly, Liam, and Blake Ross; mother-in-law to Teresa Flynn; dear aunt, great-aunt, and friend to many.

During her lengthy career Jackie was an accomplished early childhood education administrator, consultant, and human resources professional.  After retirement she and Marvin shared the joy of traveling widely in Europe, South America, North America, and many other destinations. They participated in numerous Lifelong Learning retreats throughout the United States.

Jackie had a keen intelligence and was an avid reader and book collector throughout her life. She loved art and classical music. Her warm, outgoing personality and generous spirit made others feel comfortable in her presence. She leaves a wealth of cherished memories for those who were fortunate enough to know and love her. We will miss her every day.

A Graveside Funeral Service washeld Friday July 12 at United Hebrew Cemetery, 7855 Canton Ave. 63130.

There will be a Celebration of Life for Jackie on October 27th, 1PM at Congregation Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Rd. 63141.

Contributions in Jackie’s memory can be made to the Zachary Flynn Kasnetz Memorial Law School Scholarship at the University of Missouri. Visit www.bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. Berger Memorial Service

RONA MAE LEVIN, born on August 18, 1928, passed away peacefully on July 11, 2024 in Redondo Beach, California, just a month shy of her 96th birthday.

Beloved wife of the late Milton Levin.

Dear mother of Lesley (Craig Barton) Siegel, Barry (Jan Hale) Levin and Jonathan (Erica) Levin.  Loving grandmother of Dustin (Jessica) Siegel, Arielle Siegel, Sam (Stasia) Levin, Emilia (Matt) Linville-Engler, Toby and Gabriella Levin.  Cherished great grandmother of Everett Siegel, Wilder Linville-Engler and Frankie Linville-Engler.  Dear cousin of Julie (Mark) Gronneberg, Beki Stallings, Richard Sacks and Jerry (Joan) Field.  Beloved sister and sister-in-law of Pat and the late Burton Meisel.

Rona moved to Redondo Beach in 2015 after

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OBITUARIES INDEX

Gershenson, Harvey

Harris, Carole Anne

Cytron Fleischmann

Isaacs, Warner

Jacobs, Ronald David

Kasnetz, Elinore “Jackie” Levin, Rona Mae

Mold, Craig Mark Nerviani, Renee Pepper, Edwin Rosen, Irwin “Irv”

Sandler, Ronald Eleanor “Letty” Serkes Schainblatt Schwartz, Ronald

living for over 85 years in St. Louis County. She was a graduate of University City High School and attended Washington University in St. Louis where she studied art. She was married for 63 years to the love of her life, Milton, whom she began dating as a teenager. They loved each other with their whole hearts, always.

Rona once revealed that after hearing someone on TV opine that it was important for children to hear their parents fight and see them resolve their disputes, she and Milton staged a few fights for the kids. Rona was affectionately known to family and friends as “sweet Rona”, in part for her warmth and her engaging personality, in part for always managing Milton’s larger-than-life personality with a smile.

An extraordinary homemaker, Rona was known from St. Louis to California for her brisket and chopped liver. She was an accomplished needle-pointer and loved slots, poker, mah-jongg, family vacations, and time spent with her children and grandchildren.  She will be dearly missed.

Graveside service Friday, August 2, 10:00am at Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery at 9125 Ladue Road.  Contributions in her memory may be made to the Jewish Federation of St. Louis (www.jfedstl.org), 12 Millstone Campus Drive, St. Louis, MO 63146 or the Glaucoma Research Foundation (www.glaucoma.org), 251 Post Street, Suite 600, San Francisco, CA 94108.

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CRAIG MARK MOLD (Moldafsky), July 17, 2024

Beloved husband of Judy Mold for 53 years: dear father and father-in-law of Carey (Luc) Rimmer and Christine (Stefano) Schena; dear grandfather of Emma, Garrett, Nico and Noah; brother of Sharon Barnholtz and Irl Mold; Friend of Many.

Craig was a longtime employee of St. Louis Paper and Box, he was a member of the JCCA and a longtime member of Shaare Emeth. He was a lover of Silly Hats, and he always had a positive attitude, to a fault sometimes.

There will be a Celebration of Craig’s Life on Saturday, July 27, 2024 from 1PM to 4 PM at PROVINCES RESTAURANT inside the Hilton Frontenac, 1335 S. Lindbergh Blvd. St. Louis, MO. 63131. Memorial contributions preferred to Alzheimer’s Association.

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RENEE NERVIANI, July 13, 2024

Beloved wife of David W. Nerviani; dear mother of Michael Nerviani (Sara) and Daniel Nerviani and step-mother of David Nerviani and James Nerviani (Jenn); loving grandmother of Kailee, Dominic, Vincent and Miles Nerviani; dear daughter of the late Larry and the late Lena Kaufman; dear sister of Steve Kaufman (Judy) and Howard Kaufman; dear aunt, great-aunt, cousin and friend to many.

Renee treated everyone as if they were family. She provided love and support for all and never asked for anything in return. She loved many and was loved in return.

Graveside service Thursday, July 18 at 1:30 PM at Beth Shalom Cemetery, 650 White Road. Memorial contributions preferred to the American Cancer Society or to the charity of your choice.

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EDWIN PEPPER passed away peacefully, July 12, 2024, at his home.

He was married to the love of his life, Lenore, for over 70 years. His family meant the world to him. His children include Marc & the late Don Heath, Karen & William Jacoby, Michael & Julie Pepper. His grandchildren are Brittany & Brandon (his partner, Brianna), Elizabeth (her partner, Danny), Jessica & Nick Smyth, and Katie Jacoby.

After transferring to University City High School, Edwin met Lenore at 16 years old. It would be the beginning of a love affair that spanned a lifetime. His career as an Interior Designer was his passion. At a young age, he and Lenore started Edwin Pepper Interiors , and after 60 years their Interior Design business flourishes, today.

More than anything Edwin loved spending time with family and friends. His legacy is not just in the years he lived, but in the lives he touched, the hearts he warmed, and the souls he inspired

Funeral service Monday, July 15th at Congregation Temple Israel, #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive. Interment Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery. Contributions can be made to The St. Louis Jewish Community Center, the Jewish Federation, American Jewish CommitteeSt. Louis or the St. Louis Men’s Group Against Cancer

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IRWIN “IRV” ROSEN, July 13, 2024

Beloved son of the late Albert and Rose Adelstein Rosen.  Dear brother of Claire (the late Robert) Huber.  Loving uncle of Daniel (Steven Miller) Huber.  Dear nephew of Clara Kleinman.  Beloved cousin and friend.

Irwin attended Soldan High School before graduating from University City High School. He then studied engineering at Rankin Technical College and also took evening classes at Washington University.  He was an engineer with Sverdrup and Parcel (which later became Jacobs Engineering) for well over 50 years.

University of Missouri at Columbia. When Ronnie was drafted into the Air Force, he married JoAnn and together they lived in Cheyenne, Wyoming, Indianapolis, Indiana and Washington, DC before returning to St. Louis, Missouri where they spent their remaining years together with their family and friends.

Ronnie was a foodie and very health conscious. Ronnie and JoAnn traveled throughout the states and all over the world. They saw the world’s greatest entertainers, like Frank Sinatra, Elton John, Johnny Carson, Barbara Streisand and numerous Broadway shows.

In Ronnie’s younger years, he walked everyday along Spoede Road. In his later years he was involved with Washington University Adult Education Program where he facilitated courses on current events.

Ronnie was a diehard Cardinals, Blues and Mizzou fan as well as St. Louis Browns, Football Cardinals and Rams fan. His top priority was his family. There was no better husband, father and grandfather. There was not a youth soccer nor baseball field in the St. Louis area that he did not watch his grandchildren play soccer or baseball and he traveled with Brad during his high school years to his Missouri Valley tennis tournaments.

For more than 30 years in spring and summer months, Ronnie and his pals from University City could be found every Sunday morning playing Indian Ball at Tilles Park. Over the years children and grandchildren joined the Sunday morning Indian Ball games followed by brunch at various local deli’s. As the Indian Ball gang aged, they were joined by many other friends as it evolved into a regular weekly Friday Lunch Club at various St. Louis restaurants. Ronnie along with many of his friends volunteered for many years at the Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry. Contributions to Evelyn’s House or Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry.

ELEANOR “LETTY” SERKES SCHAINBLATT passed away peacefully on July 20, 2024, at the age of 94.

Beloved wife of the late Julius “Juby” Schainblatt. Loving mother of Ellen Kortum,

Merry Schainblatt and the late Cathy Schainblatt. Dear sister of the late Kenneth Serkes. Beloved daughter of the late Nathan Serkes and the late Freeda Alpert Serkes. Dear aunt to Jon, Betsy and Laura and their families. Beloved cousin to Linda Cohen and friend to many.

Letty attended Soldan High School and Lindenwood College. She was a talented singer and dancer, and later became a teacher of kindergarten and second grade students at Jackson Park School in University City. She is still remembered fondly by her students. Letty had a large group of friends and loved to socialize and travel. She had a fantastic sense of humor. Even in her senior living facilities she loved to participate in activities and her smile could brighten anyone’s day.

Graveside service Thursday, July 25, 11:00 a.m. at United Hebrew Cemetery, 7855 Canton Avenue. In lieu of donations the family asks that you please not vote for Donald Trump.

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RONALD B. SCHWARTZ, July 9, 2024

Dear loved one of Gloria Schwartz, Frank Schwartz, Sharon Goldstein, Melanie Goldstein (Barry), Michael Pearl (Melissa), Emily, Natalie, Andrew, Evan, and Serena.

Graveside Service Friday, July 12 at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road. Memorial contributions preferred to Congregation Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Road, 63141 or the Alzheimer’s Association, 11433 Olde Cabin Road, Ste. 100, 63141.

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Irwin always put family first, and did many things to help others.  He loved doing work around the house, especially cutting the grass on his riding mower.  He was very close with his sister, especially following the deaths of his mother, father, and brother in law.  He was very independent up until the end.

Graveside service Thursday, July 18 at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road.  Contributions in Irv’s memory may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. A Rindskopf-Roth Service

RONALD S. SANDLER born 12/25/1933. Surrounded by family, Ronald Sandler passed away peacefully on July 19, 2024. Beloved Husband of more than 66 years to the late JoAnn Sandler. Loving father of Brad Sandler and Linda (Pearl) Sandler, Mark Pearl. Loving grandfather of Melissa Sandler, Jason Sandler, Max Sandler, Colin Sandler, Rachel Pearl and Jeffrey Pearl. Dear uncle, cousin and friend of too many to name. Born in the University City Loop and graduate of University City High School. He subsequently attended and graduated from the University of Missouri, Columbia where he was President of the Sigma Alpha Mu Fraternity. While at the University of Missouri, he met JoAnn at a St. Louis Browns baseball game, who was from Kansas City, Missouri. JoAnn joined Ronnie at the

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JEWISH LITE

JEWISH CROSSWORD PUZZLE

By Yoni Glatt,

koshercrosswords@gmail.com | ‘Leading Ladies’ Difficulty: Manageable

Find answers to this puzzle online at stljewishlight.org/0724-crossword

27. Some blades

28. Finish for “court” or “her”

29. Not quite surrender

7. Part of a Seder

13. Brew the wrong way?

14. Former intelligence org. 15. Weather report warnings

16. First woman to lead the Jewish people

18. Mini mother

19. Britain’s last King Henry

20. Magen David Adom destination, perhaps

21. Rashi says she was a judge in the days of 16-Across

22. Last (independent) Queen of the Jewish people

26. Sci-fi beings

31. Acid used in antiseptics

33. Evil Queen of Judah

36. They can be pumped or bumped

39. Avoidance

43. Ben ___ Chai

44. Some baseball games end with them

46. Hebron to Jericho dir.

47. Leader of Israel

50. Husband of 55-Across

51. You might make one with an app

52. Foe of Saul

53. Where you can find 22-Across’s

Street in Jerusalem

55. Evil Queen of Israel

58. Crispin of “Back to the Future”

59. Before city or state

60. Rage

61. Stephen King horror classic without supernatural or alien beings

62. Talks, colloquially

63. Org. that might confiscate a bottle

Down

1. Beatty or Kelly

2. Raise up

3. Most squiggly

4. A famous Amos

5. He ruled long before 33-Across

6. Sound you might hear after an aliyah

7. Short appearances

8. Give notice

9. It’s a hint

10. Head of a Canadian province

11. Georgia airport, for short

12. Haifa to Efrat dir.

17. Stuff in a drum

20. Holy Land letters

21. Slangy pronoun

22. He ran from Iran

23. ___ sore spot

24. Pro-Bowl defensive end Umenyiora

25. It’s home to 47-Across Sq.

27. French Open divisions

30. Subway resident

31. Calls from the flock

32. Circular cereal

34. 22-Across married into this tribe

35. Indie folk band Bon ___

36. One of the holier fruits

While the Israeli campers established friendships with their American counterparts, they also formed relationships with each other.

Thirteen-year-old Zoe Beit-On credited Hadley with playing a crucial role in forming these relationships. Zoe traveled from her home in Kibbutz Ein Zivan, near the Lebanon border, to attend the camp.

“Without [Hadley], I would have never met all of these people,” Zoe said. “I thank him every day for having me and the Israelis [who] I’ve gained as a family. I feel like I’m really connecting to all of them.”

Campers also connected with Israeli counselors, including 19-year-old Or Garti. She left her home in Kfar Tavor last August to spend the year working as a shinshimim (Israeli teen ambassador) at Congregation Kol Rinah. After completing her volunteer work in June, Garti

CLASSIFIEDS

41. Donkey relatives in Asia

42. Cornhusker St.

44. Like messed-up makeup

45. Carrier Lingus

arrived at Camp Ben Frankel where she was responsible for a group of American and Israeli teenage girls.

“I felt like it was my opportunity to form a relationship [as] a counselor but also a friendship,” Garti said.

In addition to unique relationships, Camp Ben Frankel offered Garti something of which she had only ever dreamed.

“It’s like an American dream to be in a summer camp, and I’m so happy I got to do it,” Garti said.

48. Automatic transmission gear

49. Grace’s last name, on “Will & Grace”

50. Timeline unit

52. Comic Ansari

53. Grand Casino letters

54. Winner of the Thrilla in Manila

55. Where Rav Saul Lieberman taught, for short

56. Old intro to “long” or “now”

57. Sheep meadow

In anticipation of leaving camp to return to Israel, campers said they will bring with them memories of a place that served as a safe haven. With hopes of continuing this dream for more Israeli children and teens, Camp Ben Frankel is “actively looking at ways to continue this program,” said Hadley.

“If they want to come back, then we want to find a way to bring them back, because it’s just that powerful and that important,” Hadley said.

37. “Equal” prefix 38. Katz and Artzi

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Below: Larry and Rachael Pevnick present the Ted and Rachael Pevnick Scholarship during the Memorial Day ceremony at the Holocaust Museum.

Below right, Cantor/ Rabbi Ronald Eichaker of United Hebrew Congregation leads the singing of El Molai Rachamim

B’nai Amoona recently installed its 2024-2025 Sisterhood Board.

Heritage Post 644, Jewish War Veterans, St. Louis held their Memorial Day Program on May 26 at the St. Louis Kaplan-Feldman Holocaust Museum. Rabbi Ze’ev Smason was the keynote speaker. The Ted and Rachael Pevnick Family Scholarship and the Chuck Sandroff Scholarship were awarded to Noah Kravitz and Nathan Arst, respectively. Noah is a Peoria, Ill., high school graduate who will be attending the University of Missouri in the fall and Nathan is a St. Louis high school graduate who will be attending Washington University in the fall.

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Above, Retired Col. Monroe Ginsburg, president of the St. Louis Jewish Veterans Memorial Center, presents opening remarks. At left, a view of part of the audience attending.

Bar & Bat Mitzvah Party PlannEr 2024

A JEWISH LIGHT SpEcial SEction

Finding a timeless gift a bar/bat mitzvah will always

cherish

BY MOLLY LEVINE

JEWISH LIGHT INTERN

When it comes to deciding on a b’nai mitzvah gift, endless choices abound. While some opt to give an amount of money that’s a multiple of 18 because 18 symbolizes “chai” or life in Hebrew, others may look for something less traditional but still meaningful.

Elizabeth Bleyer, a rising junior at Maryville University, became a bat mitzvah in September 2016 at Congregation United Hebrew. After completing her bat mitzvah service, she received a glass box with a “mini-Torah scroll” that opened to the Torah portion she chanted.

“It was so cool to see the portion but small in that little glass box,” Bleyer said. “I’ll always remember that’s what I said. [It] was very sentimental and emotional.”

Bleyer’s father, Craig, also received an emotional gift following his 1980 bar mitzvah at Beth Am Temple in

Pearl River, N.Y. Looking back, his most memorable bar mitzvah gift was not a physical item but an experience.

“[My grandparents] took me to England [the] next summer,” Craig Bleyer said. “We were all very into British things so going there together was really special.”

More than four decades later, he reminisces on time spent abroad with his family.

“Anytime I look at the pictures [of the trip] or see [photos of] my grandparents, I think about that experience,” he said. “I really hold on to that.”

Sanford House, also a member of United Hebrew, received a similar bar mitzvah gift in January 1987. After his celebration, House opened a poem revealing a gift he would cherish for many years.

“My dad found this tour; it was get on the bus, get off the bus,” House said. “It was supposed to be 13 countries in 10 days, and it was pretty memorable.”

In recent years, trips have remained a popular gift for many b’nai mitzvah celebrants.

Sam Sigel, a rising eighth-grader at Ladue Middle School, also received a bar mitzvah gift in the form of a trip. Not long after his service last September at Congregation Shaare Emeth, Sigel flew to the East Coast with his maternal grandparents to celebrate the milestone.

“I went on a trip to New York, [and] it was fun,” Sigel said. “We went to see two plays… ‘& Juliet’ and ‘The Lion King.’”

While Sigel enjoyed spending time in the Big Apple with family, he also acknowledged the significance of a Star of David necklace gifted to him by his paternal grandmother.

“I can wear it every day, and it shows how I’m proud to be Jewish,” Sigel said.

Sigel was not the only recent b’nai mitzvah to receive a memorable piece of jewelry. Abby House, daughter of Sanford and a rising eighth-grader at Parkway Central Middle School, became a bat mitzvah at United Hebrew in February. The most memorable bat mitzvah gift she received was a Star of David necklace given to her by her

older brother.

“It was probably my most memorable gift because… I eventually will give [it] to my kids, and [it] will be cherished forever,” Abby House said.

Like Sigel and Abby House, Lauren Ormont, a rising sophomore at the University of Missouri, received a piece of jewelry from a family member. After becoming a bat mitzvah in December 2017 at United Hebrew, Ormont’s aunt gave her a necklace with sentimental value.

“Growing up, my grandma on my dad’s side suffered from a stroke, and she ended up passing away,” Ormont said. “The necklace [my aunt] gave me was my grandma’s jewelry.”

Years after her bat mitzvah, Ormont wears the necklace on special occasions to remember her late grandmother.

“I feel like I have a piece of her with me, which is something that I really cherish,” she said.

Craig Bleyer and his grandparents

Lauren Ormont

Sam Sigel

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Elizabeth Bleyer

Abby House (left) at her bat mitzvah and at right, her grandfather, Sanford House, at his bar mitzvvah.

Mitzvah party venue options can seem endless; here are 9

BY ELLEN UTTERMAN EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Planning a b’nai mitzvah party sometime soon? Oy vey, we feel for you.

Even the most organized of planners can find themselves overwhelmed trying to sort through all the details. But perhaps the most crucial is deciding on a venue because that in large part will set the tone.

The good news is that in St. Louis, venue options are almost as vast as the Mighty Mississippi. What follows are 9 relatively new(ish) and notable places you might want to consider:

The Garage

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Located downtown, The Garage, marries industrial space with a vibrant vibe, and is perfect for anyone whose sensibilities run gritty, pretty and city. Colorful graffiti covers the walls of this warehouse-like venue that can accommodate parties ranging from 50 to 750, and where’s there’s enough indoor and outdoor space for everything from dancing the hora to a competitive game of “Pin the Kippah on the Rabbi.” Rentals run from $1,000 to $1,700 depending on the day of the week and the number of people being hosted. Any caterer can be used, and while there is no kitchen on the premises, one can be accessed next door at Honky Tonk STL, which The Garage also owns.

The Reverie

17057 N Outer 40 Rd., thereveriestl.com

Located at The District in Chesterfield, the Reverie is a popular venue for b’nai mitzvah parties because of its versatile event spaces. It offers a grown-up setting with modern amenities, including state-ofthe-art audiovisual equipment, customizable lighting and spacious dance floors. The dining area can seat up to 325 people (700 for cocktails and passed hors d’oeuvres), and features sliding and pivoting floor-to-ceiling doors that lead from one room to another. Butler’s Pantry, which operates the Reverie, also serves as exclusive caterer and can accommodate kosher catering if needed. Room rentals range from $1,000 to $4,000 depending on day and time, with a $7,000 minimum food and beverage package.

The Noble 3611 S. Grand Blvd., thenoblestl.com

Once a 10-story Art Deco bank, The Noble, at the southwest corner of Grand Avenue and Gravois Road, was considered south St. Louis’ first skyscraper when it opened in 1929. Though the bank closed in 2001, its intricate stonework on the exterior of the building as well as the metal and plaster work inside, have been painstakingly restored to highlight its original beauty, including vaulted ceilings, a converted vault space and ornate, Art Deco fixtures. With over 7,000 square feet of space, the Noble can accommodate 250 guests for banquet-style seating (220 with a dance floor) or up to 350 for a cocktail reception. Rental fees go from $1,500 to $4,000 with food and beverage minimums ranging from $3,500 to $11,000. The venue has partnered with Culinary Canvas for catering.

Kranzberg Arts Foundation Grand Center kranzbergartsfoundation.org

The Kranzberg Arts Foundation in Grand Center boasts multiple party venues under the KAF umbrella, but the one most often selected for b’nai mitzvah celebrations is the airy and open Urban Ballroom on the fourth floor of the .Zack at 3224 Locust St. This private event space with sweeping views of downtown can seat up to 350 and allows for a cocktail reception for 450. The $3,500 weekend rental fee includes tables, chairs, linens, china, flatware and the like. While the preferred caterer is David Kirkland Catering, the venue offers other options as well as accommodations for kosher catering. And if that space isn’t big enough, or if the circus speaks to your child, The Big Top, available March through October, can seat

600 people and handle 1,200 for a cocktail reception. The rental price: just a mere $8,000.

The Smith at The MOTO Museum 3408 Locust St., thesmithstlouis.com

Located in Midtown, The Smith at The MOTO Museum offers 7,500 square feet of versatile party space with high ceilings and exposed brick walls. The space can be configured to accommodate a variety of layouts, including a traditional reception (400 seated with dance floor), a cocktail party (up to 750), or a seated dinner (up to 450). The space also has a large garage door that can be opened to the outdoor patio. The venue showcases a collection of classic motorcycles, which provides a unique element for event décor as well as a

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Mitzvah project: Making bracelets and raising money for Magen David Adom Bat mitzvah: June 20, 2024

After cancelling plans to have a summer bat mitzvah this year in Israel, Stella pivoted to support Israel in this time of need.

“Since I can’t have my bat mitzvah in Israel, I wanted to help out in some sort of way,” she said. “I researched different organizations in Israel I could donate to, and Magen David Adom seemed like the best choice.”

Stella sold a variety of handmade bracelets, each featuring the Israeli flag, peace signs and more. At $5 apiece, Stella quickly exceeded her goal.

“Originally, we wanted to sell a bracelet to represent each hostage, but we exceeded that and now we have sold over 500 bracelets,” she said. “My whole family helps, and we still have more to sell.”

Take a look around Jewish spaces in St. Louis, and you’ll likely see someone wear-

“ We’ve sent bracelets to Texas, Washington, New York, Chicago and more, so these bracelets are all over the country now, which I think is really cool,”

Stella said.

You can purchase bracelets through Facebook or in the United Hebrew office.

Landon and Brody Spielberg

United Hebrew, Parkway Central Middle School

Mitzvah project: Lasagna Love B’nai mitzvah: May 18, 2024

For brothers Landon and Brody Spielberg, their mitzvah project was a family affair.

“My family wanted us to do this project because it’s a generational thing,” Landon said. “My dad and my brother did mitzvah projects.”

Landon, 12, and his brother Brody, 13, decided on Lasagna Love, an organization that provides lasagnas to people in need. Their Aunt Barb volunteers for the organization.

“My aunt asked if I wanted to make lasagnas with her, because I have a passion for baking, and my brother decided to join us, too,” Landon said.

Landon, who has a TikTok channel for his baking, enjoyed “being able to bake and help people at the same time.”

Brody said, “It felt really good to make lasagnas for the people who need it. If

they are struggling to get their own food, we can make it for them and bring it to them.”

Together with their aunts, grandma and parents, they baked once or twice a week for three months leading up to their b’nai mitzvah and would love to continue making lasagnas in the future.

Samantha Goldenberg

Congregation B’nai Amoona, Saul Mirowitz Jewish Community School

Mitzvah project: St. Louis Diaper Bank focusing on period poverty

Bat mitzvah: Dec. 2, 2023

After a school trip to Jefferson City to learn about the process of passing a bill, Samantha was inspired to take on an issue facing women all over the world, including at home in St. Louis.

“In sixth grade, we worked on a bill to get passed with our local representatives, and I worked on a bill to provide free period products in all public and charter schools,” Samantha said.

So when thinking about what she wanted to do for her mitzvah project, her mind kept going back to that experience. She and her mom ended up volunteering at the St. Louis Area Diaper Bank once a week for three hours at a time while her sister went to gymnastics, starting in spring 2023.

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From left, Stella Shapiro, Landon and Brody Spielberg, and Samantha Goldenberg

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On the hunt for latest bar/bat mitzvah trends

BY MEGAN RUBENSTEIN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT

Planning a child’s b’nai mitzvah party can be overwhelming. With so many options and ever-changing trends, it’s often difficult to know where to start. We spoke with some St. Louis parents and vendors about the latest trends at today’s mitzvah parties. Here are several that they noted:

Fun and tween-friendly food

While we won’t say the multi-course, sitdown dinner is long gone, families are getting more creative when it comes to food at mitzvah parties. Whether you choose a post-service luncheon or a more formal dinner, there are many ways to spice up tradition.

Food stations offer a happy medium between sit-down and buffet style meals and allow guests to choose what they want to eat. Lauren Murov, who belongs to Congregation Shaare Emeth, had food stations at her son Noah’s bar mitzvah party in April of 2022, and plans to do the same at her daughter’s bat mitzvah in April of 2025.

“We feel like it’s a more casual approach and encourages mingling,” Murov said. “We also like that it gives multiple food options and people can choose what they

novelties,” Jacobs said. “Sometimes people will hire a savory food truck for dinner and bring us for dessert.”

While the truck is a unique option, Jacobs also provides an ice cream sundae bar for indoor b’nai mitzvah parties.

“We let the kids pick from a variety of flavors and toppings and they are always super excited,” Jacobs said. “Sometimes they even eat the ice cream before or instead of dinner.”

Speaking of ice cream, sweets are always well-loved at a mitzvah party. Whether it’s bringing in a cotton candy machine or friends choosing to contribute baked goods, there can never be too many desserts.

However, the sweets don’t always have to all be presented at the typical “dessert time.” Late-night bites are becoming more popular, and many families choose to add desserts such as doughnuts to their latenight menu.

“It’s always a fun surprise to see what’s served late at night on the dance floor or at the end of the party,” Murov said. “We had around eight different mini-desserts that servers passed around on the dance floor so people could enjoy and still party.”

Alternative venues are in, but the classic ‘dance party’ isn’t out

In the past, a dance floor was crucial to the mitzvah party. While it is still common today, alternative venues are becoming more common, where instead of dancing other activities take centerstage.

“Country club parties will probably never go out of style, but the alternative party has come more to the forefront in the last year or two,” said Joey Gerchen of JG Entertainment. “The party depends on the kid, and some kids are more introverted. The idea of a dance party might not be for everybody.”

stant is that every kid has different interests at age 13. Whether it’s ice skating, video games or shooting hoops, focusing on the child’s interests can help decide the party venue and vibe.

“We’ve seen everything from arcade games to laser tag,” Staci Gerchen said. “Anything that’s active for the kids.”

While it’s important to honor the child’s preferences, it’s also important to give guests a fun and memorable experience. Many of these alternative venues appeal to all ages and create the perfect balance.

“At Amp Up, we see parents wanting to find a venue that fits their child’s personality, such as ‘sporty’ or ‘gamer,’” said Kim Link, owner of Amp Up Action Park in Town and Country. “However, both adults and kids love the fun and relaxed atmosphere of our place to celebrate.”

Plus, even if a family decides to go with a more sporty-themed venue, there can still be a DJ. Music has still proven to be a key part of the party experience.

“We recently did a party at an ice rink, and we also did one at Dave & Buster’s. We do the entrance, we do the hora. But the DJ might be the secondary activity while the ice rink is the main attraction,”

Joey Gerchen said.

Interactive experiences help your party stand out

From the classic photo booth to LED furniture and decor, the extras are often what keep people talking about a party for years to come.

Photo booths have been around for years, but as times change, so do photo booth styles.

“The actual booths themselves have changed. People used to want an actual booth that you walked into, but as technology has evolved, people now use green

“There is even technology now where you can text yourself the photos or upload your photos to social media straight from our software,” he added.

As technology has evolved, so have many other party trends. Gerchen noted that at some parties, there will be an area dedicated to creating TikToks.

“Everybody records everything, and the newer trends are often based on social media,” he said.

Not all interactive experience trends rely on technology. Past favorites like an airbrush bar still exist, but they also have evolved into patch bars, where guests can design a hat, phone case or other items with trendy stick-on patches.

Another new concept, the “glitter bar,” might be perfect for tweens — and anyone else — who fancy a little bling.

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At the end of the day, stay true to your

kid

While adults may be in attendance, it’s important to keep in mind that a b’nai mitzvah party isn’t a wedding — it’s for a 13-year-old who likely has unique interests and ones that are still developing. So whether you choose a hotel ballroom or a baseball field, remember why you are having the party in the first place — to celebrate your child’s years of hard work and transition to adulthood.

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nine hygiene products for distribution to city libraries, where women in need could pick them up at no cost.

“We became regulars there and were having competitions of how many bags we could fill,” said Jennifer Goldenberg, Samantha’s mom.

B’nai Amoona supported the project, allowing Samantha to put a box in the building where people could donate products and money.

“It felt really good to help adults and teenagers get the products they need so they don’t have to miss work or school,” Samantha said. “It was really fun, and I want to go back sometime this summer to volunteer again.”

Isabella Bernier

Congregation Shaare Emeth, Parkway Central Middle School

Mitzvah project: Sweet Celebrations Bat mitzvah: June 1, 2024

When Isabella found out how many kids don’t get to have birthday parties the way she and her friends do, she wanted to help give them the celebrations they deserved.

Isabella started working with Sweet Celebrations, a nonprofit that helps give homeless children birthday parties, when

she was in fourth grade. She decided to make the organization the focus of her bat mitzvah project.

“My mom took me to one of the workshops with my sister, and we made birthday banners, centerpieces and banners for the birthday parties,” Isabella said. “It’s really cool because everything is customized to the specific child.”

Last summer, Isabella and her sister held a bake sale and lemonade stand to raise money to buy birthday gifts for teenagers.

“(Sweet Celebrations) get the least amount of gifts for teens, so I wanted to focus on collecting gifts for them,” Isabella said. “We were able to get a lot with the money we collected.

“Over the years I’ve done around eight workshops, held two lemonade stands, one bake sale, two toy drives, and now I am doing a toy drive for summer birthday parties. This winter, we should be doing our third winter toy drive.”

Isabella’s mom, Jennifer Bernier, started bringing her daughters to volunteer with Sweet Celebrations at a young age and has been impressed with Isabella’s commitment over the years.

“The way they’ve responded to the volunteering is better than I could have ever imagined,” Bernier said. “My daughters have always been the ones pushing and asking when we can do the next workshop. It started as a way to show them the world, and it’s turned into them doing this themselves.”

Isabella Bernier and her sister worked to support Sweet Celebrations, which holds birthday parties for homeless children.

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• Smoked Salmon Torte

• Knishes

• Blintzes

• Flourless Chocolate Brownies

• Cheesecake

• Award Winning Brisket

• Custom Desserts

• House Made Cold & Hot Food Platters

• Shiva Trays

• Smoked Salmon Torte

• Knishes

of course, Cupcakes!

backdrop for photos. Rental ranges from $1,500 to $2,500 and bar and catering are handled exclusively by Urban Canvas.

The Dogwood in the Grove 4308 Manchester Ave. thedogwoodstl.com

The Dogwood’s facade is comprised of the original 1940s Kroger Grocery storefront, with huge picture windows and a pair of towering Cyprus doors dating from 1860s New Orleans. A second story was added during renovations with a terrace overlooking the Grove neighborhood. A secluded garden area can be used for guests to sip and stroll or even as a gathering place for the kids. The venue accommo-

dates 110 guests seated with food stations and 150 for plated dinners and 200 cocktail style. The Social Affair, the catering group that operates the venue, can customize menus to most any theme. Depending on the season and day of the week, room rental runs between $4,000 and $5,750 and food and beverage minimum $6,000 to $15,000.

Wild Carrot

3901 Shaw Ave., wildcarrotstl.com

It 2015, Laura and Casey Bunch bought what a former movie theater in the historic Shaw neighborhood and spent three years refurbishing the 7,500-square-foot building and facade using old photographs depicting what the outside of the 100-year-old theater had looked like. Today, Wild Carrot –named for Laura’s favorite flower (Queen Anne’s lace also known as wild carrot) — can accommodate 300 guests for a cocktail reception and up to 250 guests seated. The space rents for $6,200 for a Saturday night (less other nights) and the bar runs between $30 and $38 a person. The venue has eight preferred caterers but will accommodate kosher catering. “We wanted a place that is inviting and unique while allowing our clients’ personality and vibe to also shine,” said Laura Bunch.

18 Rails

THE Venue@City Foundry, 3730 Foundry Way, 18rails.com

Another party venue from caterers Butler’s Pantry is 18 Rails, located in the City Foundry. It gets its name from the 18 rail lines that connected St. Louis to the rest of the country back in the day. Functioning in a previous life as Century Electric

Company, the nearly 7,000 square feet of space maintains its industrial vibe but feels modern with a wall of original windows, exposed brick, treated concrete, wood grain and metal sheeting. It can seat roughly 350, with capacity up to 700 for a standup affair. Contact Butler’s Pantry at 314-6647680 for rental and catering packages.

City Winery

3730 Foundry Way

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Also at the Foundry is City Winery, an entertainment venue, winery, restaurant and event space all under one roof. The entire facility can be rented for parties of up to 280 people seated and 350 for a standing reception. The venue does not charge a rental fee but there is a food and beverage minimum plus a 20 % administrative fee which is based on the spaces of the venue that are used. Shannon Markway, event sales manager, notes that because the catering is done on premises by the winery’s culinary team, menus can be fully customized.

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THE BARNETT ON WASHINGTON

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Barnett on Washington is the perfect venue for intimate, elegant and timeless events.

Our gorgeous venue, bar and patio, let you create the vision you are looking for when planning a special event, such as bar/bat mitzvah, graduation parties, anniversary parties, rehearsal dinners and weddings. We offer secured parking and onsite management of the event.

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3207 WASHINGTON BLVD ST. LOUIS, MO 63103

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Cori Bush owes us an apology.

Excerpt from the Statement of Jewish Community Leaders of St. Louis.

As published in the St. Louis Jewish Light, Nov. 1, 2023.

“The 60,000 Jewish members of the St. Louis community deserve an apology for [Cori Bush’s] lack of decency, disregard for history, and for intentionally fueling antisemitism and hatred, especially at a time when law enforcement in America is recording an all-time high in violent attacks against Jews… Representative Bush has shown little outrage against the horrendous attacks by an organization whose very charter calls for the killing of all Jewish people.“

1. H. Res. 771, Congress.gov, 10/25/23; 2. H. Res. 1123, 5/16/22; 3. H.R. 5323, Congress.gov, 9/22/21; 4. Pittsburgh Jewish Chronicle, 7/27/22.

against a resolution condemning Hamas’ brutal attack against Israel.1

���� Cori Bush was one of just 6 Democrats to co-sponsor a resolution calling the creation of the State of Israel a catastrophe.2

���� Cori Bush was one of just 8 Democrats to vote against funding for Israel’s Iron Dome missile defense system which protects civilians from terrorist rockets fired by Hamas and Hezbollah.3

���� Cori Bush held a fundraiser hosted by an antisemitic activist who once wrote: “I should put a sign on that door that says if you’re yahoodi [Jewish] please kill yourself cause you aren’t welcome anywhere.”4

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