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In 2009, Ben Packman was shown practicing the shofar in preparation for High Holiday services at Temple Israel. That would be the sixth year that Ben played the shofar at TI. This year, Rosh Hashanah begins the evening of Wednesday, Oct. 2.
Be the Narrative expanding its national reach
BY ELLEN FUTTERMAN EDITOR-IN-CHIEF
St. Louis-based Be the Narrative, a Jewish nonprofit that works to combat antisemitism and build leadership skills among Jewish teens through its signature Student to Student program, is partnering with Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) to further expand the scope of the program nationwide.
“We’ve been looking for a program that will help Jewish students, notably teens, gain confidence and give them the skills to talk about being Jewish and to engage with non-Jews in the community, especially when there is so much negative information circling around in the rise of antisemitism,” said Eric Fingerhut, president and CEO of JFNA. Fingerhut and Shira Hutt, executive vice president of JFNA, were in St. Louis Monday for a reception at the St. Louis Club where the partnership announcement was officially made.
“Frankly, we’ve been looking for great programs that introduce the Jewish community in a very personal way to those who do not have a lot of experience with Jews and the Jewish community,” Fingerhut continued. “We really love the content and respect the structure of the Student to Student program, and we have the capacity to bring it to scale.”
John Kalishman, who co-founded Be the Narrative with Joe Pereles in 2022, said that with this partnership “we will have the
opportunity to extend our reach, our access to more resources and have greater visibility, which will all help to strengthen (Student to Student) and take it to as many cities as possible. It really allows us to move Student to Student from being run by a small organization in St. Louis to a program run by the largest, most important Jewish organization in the country.”
Kalishman and Pereles founded Be the Narrative as a way of expanding the suc cess of Student to Student, an educational program that brings Jewish high school
juniors and seniors into schools where students have little-to-no contact with Jews. By listening to Jewish teens from the Reform, Conservative, Orthodox and Recontructionist movements, as well as the unaffiliated — and asking them questions about their Jewish identity, traditions, values and practices — students unfamiliar with Judaism can learn firsthand about the religion, which can help to dispel stereotypes and breakdown prejudice.
tor of the Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC), with roughly six student presenters and a handful of schools. Over the years, it steadily grew in the St. Louis area, with more than 118 Jewish high school juniors and seniors serving as presenters and 4,122 area non-Jewish students participating in the 2023-24 school year, according to Lauren Abraham, director of Student to Student in St. Louis.
“When creating Be the Narrative our dream was to make a lasting contribution in the fight against antisemitism,” said
See BE THE NARRATIVE on page 9
Above, Eric Fingerhut, president and CEO of
Clayton High School senior Micah Lotsoff speaks about Student to Student during the reception on Monday announcing the expansion of the St. Louis-based nonprofit Be The Narrative. He is flanked by Ladue senior Georgia Bland (left) and Whitfield senior Ella Wertman.
BY BILL MOTCHAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT
Gaya Zohar is a biology and music major. She is a typical teenager in many ways, but as a young Israeli, Zohar, 18, spends part of every day hoping for peace.
“We really hope that there will be peace in Israel, but there are still hostages in Gaza, so it’s really hard to believe in this right now,” said Zohar, who arrived in St. Louis in late August from her home in Ramat Gan, near Tel Aviv. “We really hope for these things, but it seems so far away. We wish for peace in Israel every day, when we get up and when we go to sleep.”
Zohar and three other Israeli teens will be living and working here for the next year. They are the 2024-2025 shinshinim, high school graduates who delay their service in the Israel Defense Forces to serve as cultural ambassadors.
One of Zohar’s goals while she’s assigned to work at United Hebrew Congregation and with St. Louis’ Israeli Scout for the next 12 months is to share details of her culture with St. Louisans.
“After Oct. 7, I felt as a Jewish person I needed to raise my voice for the people to hear,” Zohar said. “People abroad don’t know anything about the situation in Israel, and that is frustrating. I want to make people see what is going on in Israel. When I decided to become a shinshin, I thought ‘This is such a cool way to introduce myself to this world.’ ”
Roni Shhory, 18, lives in the small Israeli village of Gedera. She studied physics and biology in high school. Shhory joined the shinshinim program because she wasn’t quite ready to make the leap to the army.
“I wanted to prepare myself and become more independent,” said Shhory, who is assigned to Kol Rinah, Temple Israel and the Israeli scout troop. “I talked to a lot of people who did this year of service, and they told me how much it’s meaningful and how they felt the connection with the Jewish and the Israeli side of them.
“After the seventh of October, I think our feelings became more connected. We wanted to really share our stories. A lot of us know people that were at the Nova Festival or in the army, so I wanted to tell their stories and to let the Jewish community here feel the connection to Israel.”
Ziv Shalev, 19, comes from Yehud, a small city near Ben Gurion Airport. He loves movies and theater. During his year in St. Louis, Shalev is assigned to work at Congregation Shaare Emeth and Temple Emanuel. He’s already experienced some
of the St. Louis Jewish community.
“Everyone here is so kind,” Shalev said. “It’s really special. I think the year here will give us the opportunity to get to know everyone and also show them a lot about us.”
Shalev said Oct. 7 was a pivotal and significant day for all Israelis, especially young adults.
“It really affected us, and I think it changed a lot about myself, about my personality,” he said. “I think now I’m more
mature. When you experience pain, it can help you after a while because you dealt with the challenges and with the tough times. So I think now I’m stronger than I was before Oct. 7. There’s something in my brain — I always think about that day because it was the longest day I’ve ever experienced.”
Roni Scheuer, 18, is from Bitzaron, in southern Israel. She will be working here at Saul Mirowitz Jewish Community
School and Congregation B’nai Amoona. Scheuer, who was staying hydrated on a recent warm afternoon using her Mirowitz School insulated water jug, has a cousin who served as a shinshin.
“I knew about the program because of him, and I think the war really pushed me to be in this program,” Scheuer said. “I knew that I wouldn’t be in the army this year because I needed a year to prepare myself before. So I thought that this program would be the best for me.
“I want to teach, and I want to learn while I’m here. The Jewish community here has already taught me how to open my heart and my hands.”
The four shinshinim said they’ve already experienced American fast food, which Shhory said impressed on them the importance of fitness.
“We are working out a lot every day,” she said, smiling.
The shinshinim program is a partnership between the Jewish Agency for Israel, Jewish Federation of St. Louis, Shaare Emeth, United Hebrew Congregation, Congregation B’nai Amoona, Kol Rinah, Temple Emanuel and Temple Israel, the Israeli Scouts and Saul Mirowitz Jewish Day School.
FROM LEFT: Ziv Shalev, Roni Shhory, Gaya Zohar and Roni Scheuer PHOTO: BILL MOTCHAN
NCJWSTL plans to relocate to new property — 285
Shir Hadash begins the New Year with rabbinic intern-in-residence
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The National Council of Jewish Women, St. Louis Section (NCJWSTL) is moving exactly 285 feet. But those 285 feet will allow the organization to broaden its reach and deepen its impact within the community.
Over the next two years, NCJWSTL will relocate its operations, including its offices and the popular Resale Shop, to 311 N. Lindbergh, the former Jos. A. Bank building.
“This new space will allow us to grow in ways we hadn’t imagined. We’ll have the ability to expand our community programming and advocacy work while improving the experience for our donors, volunteers and staff,” said Ellen Alper, CEO of NCJWSTL.
A major benefit of the new location is the significantly increased space, which will directly support both NCJWSTL’s programs and infrastructure. Phyllis Langsdorf, president of NCJWSTL board, highlighted how the added capacity will help solve current logistical challenges:
“For example, our Back to School! Store currently stores most of the items in a rental space. As we begin purchasing merchandise for next year’s sale, that too goes into storage,” said Langsdorf. “We will be able to store some, if not all, of that merchandise in our new space. Kids Community Closet also stores some items in our space, but we often must rent pods due to limited capacity. The new building will change all of that.”
Another advantage is the doubling of parking capacity, which will facilitate larger community events and partnerships.
“Our current parking lot often fills up, and customers who can’t find a spot just leave,” said Marlene Hammerman, co-chair of the committee overseeing the project. “The new building will have 120 parking spaces, compared to the 52 we have now. This will make a huge difference, especially for the Resale Shop, which is a critical revenue generator.”
The larger facility will also enable NCJWSTL to support its rapidly expanding programs. “Every year, we add new projects and initiatives to serve more people, and our current location simply can’t accommodate that growth anymore,” Hammerman explained.
The acquisition of the new building was spearheaded by Eddie Cherry, owner of Manor Real Estate and a donor who played a critical role in securing the property.
“It was a competitive bidding situation, but we were ultimately successful. The new building is 10,000 square feet larger than the current space, which will allow for more operational efficiencies and a better experience for everyone NCJWSTL serves,” said Cherry. “This move will ensure that donors, recipients, employees, and volunteers are better served for years to come.”
In conjunction with the move, NCJWSTL is launching a capital campaign to secure funding and offer naming rights for various spaces within the new building. This campaign presents an opportunity for supporters to contribute to the organization’s future while honoring or memorializing loved ones.
Shir Hadash Reconstructionist Community welcomes fifth-year rabbinical student Shira Singelenberg to St. Louis, where she will be in-residence for the final year of her unique two-year intensive internship program through the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College’s (RRC) William H. Fern Program in Field Education.
Last year, Singelenberg visited Shir Hadash monthly and would also lead occasional services and programs virtually as she attended classes full-time at the RRC in Philadelphia. This year, the tables are turned. She has relocated to St. Louis and will serve the congregation in person while completing the remainder of her rabbinic studies online.
While she is already leading Shabbat services and learning programs, Singelenberg is looking forward to kicking off the second year of her internship in a big way during the High Holidays,
when she will be joined on the pulpit by second-year RRC student Miriam Ginsberg, who will serve as cantorial soloist and song leader.
“This will be a unique opportunity for the St. Louis Jewish community to experience the music and vibrant spirituality of a Reconstructionist High Holy Day worship experience,” said Singelenberg.
“Our worship will be interactive with multiple opportunities for learning and space for personal reflection.”
IN A YEAR
Singelenberg will co-lead services with Ginsberg who, prior to entering rabbinic school, helped to build and lead the New Synagogue Projectin Washington, D.C. For six years Ginsberg was the heart and soul of singing at NSP, leading songful Shabbat services, after-dinner tisches on Friday nights, and monthly singing circles. Shir Hadash High Holiday services and programs, including the congregation’s Rosh Hashanah lunch and Yom Kippur break-the-fast, are open to the community at no charge. Advance registration is preferred at www.shirhadashstl.info/ highholidays Shir Hadash Reconstructionist Community meets in the Arts and Education Building of the Jewish Community Center, 2 Millstone Campus Drive near Creve Coeur. For more information, visit www.shirhadashstl.info or email stlshirhadash@gmail.com.
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Shira Singelenberg (left) and Miriam Ginsberg
Bridging the rift: How
St. Louis Jews are navigating complex conversations around Israel
BY SHULA NEUMAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT
Here’s a recipe for strife: Start with a population that suffers from two millennia of discrimination and violence. Add a big dash of land that many in this population feel represents their homeland, and then mix in a healthy dose of a politically fragmented secular culture.
The result is a Jewish community that can no longer talk to each other about one of the biggest issues of the day: Israel.
Jews have always had a multiplicity of opinions about nearly any topic. Engaging in healthy debate is what we do. It’s demonstrated in midrash; it’s evident within every synagogue; there are jokes about two Jews and three opinions.
“We’re so blessed that we have this rich tradition that is steeped with exactly the same type of problem, that there are groups of people who really don’t agree,” said Rabbi Scott Shafrin, executive director of the Jewish Community Relations Council. “And yet they can sit together and vehemently disagree, violently disagree, almost. And then they go to lunch.”
But when it comes to Israel today, lunch seems to be off the table. As a result, efforts to hold discussions about Israel that seek to include a variety of perspectives have been anemic in St. Louis. The various sides in
points of view that I’ve talked with who feel like their perspective on this war and their connection to Israel is not welcome in the community,” Shafrin said. “And a lot of times, it’s not people who all have the same perspective. It’s people who have the whole variety of perspectives on their connection to Israel. But all feel independently
like their connection, or their point of view isn’t welcome, and it makes it really hard to have a dialogue that way.”
For those who have long supported the Jewish state, St. Louis’ existing cultural and religious institutions provide a comfortable base. After all, the biggest communitywide efforts to raise awareness of
the war and the hostage crisis have been in support of Israel. Jewish Federation has raised millions of dollars to support the Israeli war effort. But that doesn’t bring comfort for staunch Zionists when faced with an opposing viewpoint.
“It was really hard to open the Jewish Light and see that letter from young people, many of whom had gone to (the former Solomon) Schechter (Day School of St. Louis) with my kids,” said Jenny Wolkowitz, referring to a December letter advocating for a cease-fire as well as more representative perspectives in community programming. “I did think, ‘Where did we go wrong?’ They’re entitled to their opinions, of course. But that public display of calling for a cease-fire without context was, personally, deeply wounding.”
Wolkowitz’s ties to Israel are particularly strong. One of her daughters served in the Israel Defense Forces. Wolkowitz also has been politically active nationally and within Missouri to make sure Israel isn’t villainized on the world stage. But she says she worries that some of the stances younger people are taking lack an understanding of history. More importantly, she worries about how dissent within the Jewish community is interpreted by non-Jews.
“I do believe there is a need for a big tent,” she said. “But I also believe some things are out of bounds and time and place. Part of the problem is that people have planted their flag. I’m either J Street or AIPAC. It’s reminiscent of our politics in general. I would hope the Jewish community could figure this out and make it a nonpartisan issue.”
Community members on the left have a hard time seeing how Israel could ever be a big-tent issue.
Shira Berkowitz, one of the board members and founders of MaTovu, which bills itself as “an inclusive Jewish space in St. Louis City,” points out that progressive Jews who are critical of Israel’s actions in Gaza don’t feel heard or recognized by legacy organizations like Federation and synagogues.
“They don’t feel like they can be their whole selves anywhere, that there’s not a rabbi in town that’s aligning with how they’re grappling with it,” said Berkowitz, who was one of the signatories of the letter that appeared in the Light. “There’s no communication out of congregations that aligns with how they’re thinking or what their viewpoints are. It’s very opposite of how they think. And so, they don’t want to go into these spaces.”
The rift in opinions is particularly acute because of the emotional meaning that Israel has for so many. Rabbi Daniel Bogard of Central Reform Congregation said disagreements sting because Jews are tribal and taking issue with how people understand Israel feels like taking issue with a person’s core identity.
“Israel as a Jewish nation state is tied up in our sense of tribe, especially post-Holocaust,” he said. “So criticisms of Israel feel like an existential threat to us as a tribe. It’s a threat in a way that atheism or Christianity is just not. So between Jews, when someone sympathizes with Palestinians and is critical of Israel, it feels like going against our tribe and siding with our enemies.”
Bogard said that understanding that context could help but that ultimately, it’s
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Clockwise from top left: Rabbi Scott Shafrin, Jenny Wolkowitz, Shira Berkowitz. Rabbi Daniel Bogard, Rabbi Andrea Goldstein and Karen Aroesty
more important to understand what we, as Americans, actually have control of.
“If I could convince every single one of you that I am entirely right and you are entirely wrong, it wouldn’t change anything,” Bogard said. “It wouldn’t make any Israeli safer. It wouldn’t make any Palestinian child safer. We are tearing apart relationships right here in the Midwest over symbolic positions in the Middle East where we have no power. But the place we do have power is where we are here.”
And that means being willing to engage in conversations with people who don’t agree with you.
In the absence of the legacy institutions creating space for discussion, some organizations are doing it on their own. And the results have been largely positive.
Rabbi Andrea Goldstein said her congregants at Shaare Emeth were eager for the conversations. So, the synagogue sent a cadre of people to a training session JCRC provided over the summer on how to facilitate difficult conversations. Goldstein said the group learned that the goals of the conversations weren’t to change minds, but rather to hear one another’s perspectives. That message worked when they actually convened a discussion group.
“Overall, the session was very well received,” Goldstein said. “Congregants were grateful that their synagogue had created such a structured and safe means to begin to have these kinds of conversations. The biggest critique was that people felt there wasn’t enough time to share more deeply.”
MaTovu also determined that the community needed a “safe” place to convene and try to understand each other. Berkowitz said putting together such a discussion was nerve-racking because of the wide array of opinions within MaTovu.
“It was not successful in coming up with a solution or anything,” Berkowitz said. “It was successful in that everybody that came was given a comfortable place, or quote-unquote more psychologically safe space, to share their opinions. And the opinions were on both ends of the spectrum. Like, extremes. It wasn’t as if we had a synchronous or a monolithic understanding of what’s happening. I think that was really good for folks.”
If holding truly open conversations about Israel is helpful, then it is incumbent on each person to not fear another perspective, said Karen Aroesty, whose daughter was also one of the signatories of the December letter. But Aroesty recognizes how hard it is to let go of the fear. On top of the threat to one’s Jewish identity, there’s the worry that non-Jews will see the intrafaith strife and use it to fuel further antisemitism.
However, Aroesty’s work as a longtime community advocate has taught her the importance of acknowledging those fears and being curious about different viewpoints, of asking what people mean when they say “anti-Zionist” or “Zionist.”
“People don’t want to be vulnerable,” she said. “We want to be confident and thought of as having all the answers. Especially when we’re adults with adult children. I come into the conversation accepting that everyone has different experiences. I’ve been on a journey myself this past year. You can’t look at the scope of events over the last year and not feel different.
“I cannot just watch this and say I feel the same way as I did a year ago. Do I feel any different about antisemitism? Having family in Israel, do I feel any less protective of them? Not at all. Things can be both/and even in the most dire circumstances.”
The key to moving forward, Aroesty said, is to recognize that those with different experiences are not bad people. It just means that they understand things differently.
Holocaust Composer Stories featured at cemetery’s annual memorial service
New Mount Sinai Cemetery welcomes the community to its annual memorial service, at 11 a.m. Sunday, Oct. 6, featuring Holocaust Composer Stories.
Holocaust Composer Stories is a collaboration between the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra and the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum, featuring SLSO musicians Alison Harney, Nathan Lowry and Beth Guterman Chu, as well as Yin Xiong, who will perform the second movement from Czech-Jewish composer Pavel Haas’ third string quartet.
Shortly after Haas completed the quartet, the major European powers struck an agreement that led to the annexation
of the Sudetenland by Nazi Germany. The democratic government of Czechoslovakia fell, and Haas found himself living under Nazi rule.
Haas’ music was banned and he was forbidden to work due to his Jewish identity. As conditions worsened, Haas divorced his Christian wife in an effort to shield her and their daughter, Olga, from the growing persecution. He tried to flee but was trapped in Europe, eventually deported to Theresienstadt in 1941, and later sent to Auschwitz-Birkenau, where the Nazis murdered him.
In this 7-minute-long second movement of his third string quartet, listeners hear a deep, urgent plea or prayer from
Haas. The viola opens with a short melody, repeated three times, each one fasterand more desperate than the last. Haas also weaves in a reference to the Czech hymn, the St. Wenceslas Chorale, a plea for the protection of Czechoslovakia. In 1938, when Haas composed this movement, his audiencewould have recognized the hymn and its significance.
“We hope that through this performance, you connect with Pavel Haas’ story and music as we have,” a news release stated. “ Together, we remember.”
The memorial service is free and open to the community. New Mt. Sinai is located at 8430 Gravois Road.
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Kalishman, who along with Pereles, acquired all “licenses and intellectual property” of Student to Student from the JCRC when they formed Be the Narrative. “We envisioned offering our Student to Student program nationwide, and now as a part of JFNA, we will have a much greater opportunity to expand the Student to Student program into more high school classrooms around the country.”
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board chair and current vice chair of the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum. At the conclusion of the service, Yawitz placed the stone on the grave of his distant cousin. Lt. Frank Yawitz’s great-grandfather was Greg Yawitz’s great-great-great grandfather.
“It’s great that people still remember and honor the sacrifice that was made for this country 80 years ago,” Yawitz said.
From 2017 to 2020, thanks to grants totaling $45,000 from a national Jewish foundation, Student to Student was able to expand into nine cities, where the program is operated through their local federation and/or JCRC. Since Be the Narrative was formed, Student to Student has continued to grow as even more federations and JCRCs have licensed the program through Be the Narrative. Today, Student to Student is in 25 cities, including Jacksonville, Fla.; San Diego; Las Vegas; Portland, Ore. and MetroWest, N.J.
“We have shown over the past few years that the Student to Student program can be replicated in both large and small markets,” said Pereles, who like Kalishman is a former JCRC board chair. “The model we created is both scalable and sustainable. We know what it takes for a new licensee to be successful and how to ensure consistent program quality across markets.”
Since its formation, Rabbi Andrew Terkel has served as CEO of Be the Narrative while Fawn Chapel, who since 2003 has been involved with the Student to Student program in St. Louis, is now Be the Narrative’s program director. Both Terkel and Chapel are expected to stay in their current positions as part of the partnership with JFNA, and Be the Narrative will continue to be based in St. Louis.
Kalishman and Pereles credit Terkel for raising Be the Narrative’s national profile by speaking about Student to Student at conferences and being invited to address different leadership groups. “It was only a matter of time before national Jewish organizations started to pay attention to what we are doing,” Kalishman said.
The time came in June 2023 when Terkel presented at the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations meeting. It was there he met Hutt, JFNA’s executive VP, who was more than impressed with the Student to Student program. Then, in the aftermath of Oct. 7 and the continued rise of antisemitism, the idea of a partnership between Be the Narrative and JFNA gained even more traction.
“Our work took on a new urgency after Oct. 7 in being a positive force for Jewish kids in high school as well as to affirm and build strong Jewish identities in a difficult time,” said Terkel. “I can’t speak for JFNA, but it I think they’re looking at it as a vital part of a strategy to help combat antisemitism.
“Deep down, I believe that if there was a Student to Student presentation in every classroom in America, the Jewish people would be having a better time right now,” he continued. “More people would understand us. More people would know who we are and maybe be a little resistant to some of the misinformation out there.”
“The fact that I was invited as a distant relative and given the honor to place the stone, it was very meaningful that my family has this connection and that it’s kept alive through the work of the DAR that we don’t forget.”
Rabbi Menachem Tendler, head rabbi at U. City Shul, officiated the ceremony. He said it was our duty to honor veterans like Lt. Yawitz.
“It’s Frank and people like him who assured that we can stand here today and smile and be comfortable and be secure that we have live in such a wonderful country,” Tendler said. “This is the Jewish
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way to remember and be grateful and show gratitude, knowing that people mading sacrifices on our behalf.”
ABOVE: Greg Yawitz places a stone on the grave of his distant cousin, First Lieutenant Frank I. Yawitz, at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery on Tuesday.
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The St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association announced Rabbi Karen Bogard as their new president for a twoyear term. Bogard is a rabbi with Central Reform Congregation. In addition, Rabbi Jeffrey Abraham is vice president; Rabbi Scott Shafrin, treasurer; Rabbi Andrew Terkel, secretary; and Rabbi Janine Schloss, immediate past president.
Jim Rosen was recently inducted into the St. Louis Metropolitan Football Coaches Association Hall of Fame. A football official for 50 years, he was selected for this honor based on his officiating
career and many contributions to the game of football. Rosen is a vice president brokerage at Pace Properties and a member of Congregation Shaare Emeth.
Cooper Buxner was recently elected AZA’s president of the St. Louis Council of B’nai Brith Youth Organization (BBYO) for the 2024-25 school year. Son of Courtney and Evan Buxner, he is a sophomore at Ladue Horton Watkins High School (LHWHS). Molly Deutsch is the next president of BBG (B’nai Brith Girls). Daughter of Lisa and Jimmy Deutsch, Molly is a junior at LHWHS and attends
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We’re looking for paid volunteers to come in as substitutes and play, learn, and connect with the wonderful children and staff at our Jewish early childhood centers.
Contact Laura Fields at lfields@jfedstl.org or 314-442-3827 to learn more.
Congregation B’nai Amoona.
Nash Pratt was elected president of SETYG (Shaare Emeth Temple Youth Group). He is the son of Brooke and Ray Pratt and is a senior at Parkway Central High School.
Helena Cooper has joined the Congregation Shaare Emeth team as director of youth engagement. She is responsible for 3rd -12th grade youth programming including SETYG, madrichim coordinator for religious school,
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TOP ROW, FROM LEFT: Jim Rosen, Cooper Buxner and Molly Deutsch
SECOND ROW: Nash Pratt and Helena Cooper
ABOVE, FROM LEFT: Rabbi Jeffrey Abraham, Rabbi Karen Bogard, Rabbi Scott Shafrin, Rabbi Andrew Terkel and Rabbi Janine Schloss
serving on senior staff of Camp Emeth and collaborating with Rabbi Jim Bennett and Rabbi Rachel Bearman on the new tikkun program and post-con fellowship. Cooper is also a LEAD STL facilitator.
Keaton Hentoff-Killian was recently a co-director and performer with the Midnight Circus in the Parks troupe in Chicago. Beginning Oct. 16, he returns to “Water for Elephant,” currently on Broadway, as a co-captain and circus acrobat. His brother, Kellin Quinn is performing at Caesars Palace in Atlantic City in “The Hook,” juggling and doing acrobatics. Hentoff-Killian and Quinn are former members of the St. Louis Arches.
The Forbes/SHOOK Top Next-Gen Advisors Best-In-State list (those under 40 years old) include Jason Berg , Bradley Sabin and former St. Louisan Andrew Feit. Berg, managing director with Moeller Investment Group, ranked no. 6 in Missouri. Sabin, a senior vice
president with Sabin Wealth Management Group, ranked no. 11 in Missouri. Feit, a wealth advisor with J.P. Morgan Wealth Management in Chicago, is the youngest advisor by six years and ranked no. 38 in Chicago.
Paramedic Jake Fendelman was promoted to paramedic crew chief of the St. Louis Fire Department.
Former St. Louisan and co-founder of Bubbe Books, Ryan Panitz, released a new children’s coloring book on Amazon.
“Bubbe Celebrates the Holidays” focuses on instilling Jewish traditions from the eyes of everyone’s beloved bubbe. Inspired from real-life bubbes, two Jewish dads set out to find new ways to bring Jewish traditions into their homes for their young children, while celebrating the foundations they learned about from their own grandmothers. The book is available on Amazon or at bubbebooks.com. Panitz resides in Dallas and works at Denali Advanced Integration.
ABOVE, FROM LEFT: Keaton Hentoff-Killian, Kellin Quinn, Jake Fendelman (FENDELMAN PHOTO: WILLIAM GREENBLATT), Jason Berg, Bradley Sabin and Andrew Feit.
Ryan Panitz and his new coloring book, “Bubbe Celebrates the Holidays’
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High Holy Days in the shadow of war:
A call for
compassion and healing in our communities
BY RABBI KAREN BOGARD
This year, our post-Oct. 6th reality seems omnipresent as we approach the Yamim Nora’im, the High Holy Days. The impact of the horrific actions taken by Hamas on Oct. 7, and the resulting loss of life and ongoing war, have cast a shadow on the joyfulness and enchantment of a New Year.
A full year has passed and we are still longing for hostages to be returned to their families. A full year has passed and we are still waiting for signs that this war will end and no more innocent lives will be taken. A
full year has passed and there is still incessant infighting within the American Jewish community, and specifically within the St. Louis Jewish community, pitting one Jewish soul against another because of their views of this war.
When these tragedies are piled one on top of the other it feels suffocating and defeating; how can we begin a New Year, how can we really do teshuvah, when we are so fractured and broken?
There’s a text from the Talmud that I keep coming back to over and over again in my life; it’s one that I find myself turning
Are young American Jews and Israel drifting apart?
BY RABBI ZE’EV SMASON
Marc Kornblatt prepared uneasily earlier this year for his daughter, Louisa, to arrive for 10 days with the family. Her homecomings once brought the comfort of movie nights and card games, but this year was different. Marc and his wife, Judith, had moved away from Madison, Wis., to live in Tel Aviv, where they felt a real sense of belonging as Jews. Around the same time, their daughter, attending graduate school at the University of California, Berkeley, came to oppose the existence of Israel as a Jewish state.
American Jews have long maintained a remarkable relationship with Israel. Over the years, our fervent attachment has produced billions of dollars in ongoing philanthropic assistance, a powerful and effective pro-Israel lobby, tens of thousands of visits annually, a steady stream of aliyah (settlement in Israel), and myriad other examples of contact and support. Yet these feelings of attachment are changing in some segments of American Jewry, as warmth gives way to indifference, and indifference sometimes leads to downright alienation from Israel.
A young Jewish man was once asked, “Do you think today’s greatest challenge facing the Jewish people is ignorance or apathy?” He responded, “I don’t know, and I don’t care!” A growing number of Jews are declaring themselves as religious “Nones.” These are individuals who self-identify as atheists or agnostics or who indicate that they are disconnected from any formal affiliation with a Jewish religious community or
Rabbi Karen Bogard serves Central Reform Congregation and is the president of the St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association.
toward almost every year as the High Holy Days approach.
The rabbis of the Talmud, living 1,400 years ago, are sharing an even-then ancient tradition that not only does God pray, but that in fact God wraps tefillin! What, they imagine, could God’s prayer possibly be?
Rav Zutra shared a teaching from the great Rav: “May it be My will that My aspect of rachamim (mercy) overcome My anger.
It’s a radical notion that these ancient rabbis imagined: that even God has to work on this intention daily, for the natural state of our universe isn’t one that defaults toward rachamim
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Rabbi Ze’ev Smason is chairman of the Coalition for Jewish Values Missouri.
denomination. In the 1990s, this group could be identified within the single digits. Today, with the Jewish unaffiliated more concentrated among young adults than other age cohorts, an astonishing 35% of Millennials (those born 1981-1996) and Gen Z (those born from 1997- 2012) are identified as “Nones.”
Among American Jews 18-29 years, the following data extracted from a recent Pew Study seems particularly relevant:
• 88% seldom or never go to services
• 47% hold the belief that if you believe in Jesus, you can still be considered Jewish
• 51% report having had a Christmas tree
Feeling that being Jewish is more about culture and ancestry than religion, when asked about essential aspects of being Jewish, more than 40% say having a good sense of humor is essential to their Jewish identity, compared to less than 15% who see Torah observance (‘observing Jewish law’)
If even God needs to work on this each and every day, as the rabbis seem to be suggesting, then how much more so for us as humans do we need to adopt this prayer, this spiritual practice, as our own. How much more so do we need to work every day on leading not with anger, but with mercy; not with judgment, but with compassion; not with fear, but with rachamim.
In my role as the current president of the St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association, I can see the friction, and the heartache, and the ways that we are letting this war divide us. Rosh Hashanah is just around the corner, and with a New Year comes the opportunity to do an accounting of our souls and let our aspect of mercy and compassion and empathy win out in the coming year.
This is my hope, my wish, my prayer for all of us in 5785: May the hostages return home safe and sound to their loved ones; may no more innocent lives be taken needlessly; and may we do the work of every day cultivating a rachamim-centered approach to the people in our family, our community and our world.
A New Year’s wish to ‘be strong and be brave’
BY RABBI BRIGITTE ROSENBERG
I love the birthday wish “ad me’ah v’esrim — until 120.” Every time I offer it, there are either giggles or groans, depending on who is receiving the wish. Those who are further away from the age are often the gigglers, while those who seemingly are within striking distance are the ones who groan in disbelief.
A colleague shared that upon a milestone birthday of a woman, she offered her the wish that she live to be 120. At that moment, a friend of the woman raised her voice and corrected her, saying firmly, “No, Rabbi, you should wish her 120 years and three months.”
“Why the extra three months?” the rabbi asked, quite perplexed.
“Why the extra three months!?” the friend responded, sounding surprised at the ignorance. “Rabbi! Why should she spoil her last birthday? Don’t you want her to enjoy her party?”
Bereishit 6:3 states: “The days of man shall be a hundred and twenty years.” That is a long time to live. Only one or two people may have actually achieved such an age in modern times, and some scientists believe that our physical bodies are unable to hold on much longer than that. What, then, is the source of the Jewish tradition of wishing a person 120 years of health and happiness?
One of the sources for this wish
Rabbi Brigitte Rosenberg serves United Hebrew Congregation and is a member of the St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association, which coordinates the d’var Torah for the Jewish Light.
comes from one of this week’s double parshiot, Vayelech, in which we learn that Moses is 120. Long life was viewed as a reward for righteous behavior. Therefore, living to 120 became an idealized goal, one that became associated with Moshe Rabbenu.
It became a European custom to greet someone on his or her birthday by saying in Yiddish: ‘Bis hundert und tzvantzi,’ and later in Hebrew, ‘Ad me’ah v’esrim’ — until 120!’
Not only are we wishing them long life, we are hoping that they will be, in some way at least, like Moses. As we look ahead to the New Year with its promise of life renewed, may each of us, move forward in our life journey with the same words Moses used when he encouraged our ancestors to press forward into the Land of Promise:
Chazak ve-ematz — “Be strong and be brave.”
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Bagels on The Hill? Yep, you read that correctly.
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The Hill, St. Louis’ iconic Italian neighborhood, is known for its classic Italian bakeries and family-owned delis—but not as a place you’d expect to find New York-style bagels. That is, until now. Since 1916, Amighetti’s has been a familiar name in St. Louis, known for its bread and sandwiches. In Feb. 2023, the deli returned to The Hill after a three-year hiatus. Now, it’s adding to its legacy by venturing into the bagel business, offering a fresh twist on its rich history.
“We’ve been known for our sandwiches for years, but we wanted to expand into something new while keeping the same focus on quality,” said Anthony Favazza, the owner of Amighetti’s. “Bagels just felt like a natural next step, and we’re making them from scratch, right here on The Hill.”
The bagels are baked and boiled every morning and are available in a wide variety of flavors. The current lineup includes classic options like original, garlic, onion and everything, alongside more unique offerings such as cinnamon raisin, blueberry, cranberry walnut, cheddar jalapeño, Maldon sea salt, poppyseed and asiago. To make these bagels even more irresistible, Amighetti’s has teamed up with Hank’s Cheesecakes to offer a full line of schmears that perfectly complement the bagels.
Hank’s schmears, known for their rich flavors, are available in varieties like original, scallion, cinnamon maple and veggie-herb, as well as more adventurous options like dill pickle, Mama Lil’s peppers and even PB&J.
Solving a bagel mystery
When the Jewish Light featured C & B Boiled Bagels in Wood River, Ill., as part of
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its 2023 “Ultimate Guide to St. Louis Bagels,” the bakery quickly became a local favorite for its authentic New York-style bagels. But just as fast as it gained popularity, the shop disappeared, leaving St. Louis bagel lovers puzzled—until now.
“Sadly, they went out of business, but there was a lot of interest in their bagels,” Favazza explained. Recognizing the opportunity, he acquired C & B Boiled Bagels, including their recipes and techniques.
“We wanted to bring that quality here to The Hill,” Favazza said. “So, we took over, moved the equipment, and started baking fresh bagels daily.”
Bagel fans can also enjoy a range of
bagel sandwiches, including the popular Amighetti Special breakfast sandwich—a morning twist on their beloved Amighetti Special, with egg, cheese, ham, roast beef, salami and the signature Amighetti’s special sauce.
Amighetti’s bagels are currently available at their Hill location, with plans to expand availability to their Rock Hill store and Hank’s Cheescakes in Richmond Heights. Favazza also hinted that the bagels are available at their location at City Park as well as wholesale to several locations, including some affiliated with Washington University.
In many ways, the bagels represent a
full-circle moment for Amighetti’s—a return to the bakery roots that began over a century ago, and a step forward into a new era of bread-making.
Bringing bagels to The Hill is only part of Favazza’s plan. Since taking over Amighetti’s in 2016, he has worked tirelessly to restore the legacy of the bakery and expand its reach.
“Amighetti’s started as a bread bakery in 1916, and that’s always been the heart of what we do,” Favazza said. “Bringing the bakery operation back to life is a big part of our vision. We’re excited to keep growing and to bring more of what people love to the table.”
Helen Mirren shines in touching tale of survival, hope
BY CATE MARQUIS SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT
In “White Bird,” Helen Mirren stars as a French Jewish grandmother who survived the Shoah, recounting her youthful experience to her grandson Julian (Bryce Gheisar), a boy who is struggling to fit in at his new school after being expelled from his previous one for mistreatment of another student. Concerned for her grandson, Grandmere Sara tells him the story of her past, one he has never heard, to instruct him in the lasting power of kindness. In flashback, the grandmother’s story takes us to World War II France, to her old French village in the woods, where the kindness of a non-Jewish boy saved her life.
Also starring Gillian Anderson, “White Bird” is a moving, beautifully shot and sensitively told family drama from director Marc Forster, who also directed “Neverland.” The film is essentially a young adult tale, offering a coming-of-age, historical story about a grandmother teaching her troubled grandson valuable life lessons about bravery and kindness,
by using her own experiences surviving the Shoah. The screenplay by Mark Bomback is based on a graphic novel by R.J. Palacio, “White Bird: A Wonder Story,” which is a composite of several true stories that are lightly fictionalized.
The film moves back and forth in time a bit, as storyteller Grandmere Sara weaves her own history into a lesson for her troubled grandson. Young Sara (Ariella Glaser) is a beloved only child, a bit spoiled, the daughter of a doctor father and a math teacher mother. They have a comfortable life. At school, bright Sara also shows a talent for drawing, and is encouraged by her teacher. Sara has a crush on a handsome boy, Vincent (Jem Matthews), but like most of the students, she ignores another boy, who had polio and now walks with a crutch and a leg brace, although some of her peers target him for taunting and bullying.
When the Nazis first arrive, nothing much changes, even for French Jewish families like Sara’s because the town is in “unoccupied” France. But then things do start to change, with signs banning Jews going up in shop windows and Jewish peo-
ple losing their jobs, including Sara’s mother. When Nazis come to the school to round up the Jewish students, Sara manages to escape and hides in the school. She is unsure what
to do, until the boy with the crutch, whose name is Julien (Orlando
Schwerdt), offers his help. Julien smuggles her out and takes her to his parents’ farmhouse, where his kind-hearted non-Jewish parents hide her.
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Amighetti’s is now serving freshly boiled and baked bagels at its location in The Hill neighborhood of St. Louis.
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Helen Mirren as Grandmere and Bryce Gheisar as Julian in the new film, ‘White Bird.’
PHOTO: LARRY HORRICKS. COURTESY OF LIONSGATE
Kate Winslet captivates in gripping story of pioneering WWII photographer Lee Miller
BY CATE MARQUIS
SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT
Kate Winslet gives a powerful performance as war photographer Elizabeth “Lee” Miller whose images of concentration camps in post-war Germany helped proved the horror of the Shoah to the world, in the gripping, inspiring historical biopic “Lee.”
The drama tells an astonishing tale of a bold woman who remade herself from a fashion model into a World War II war photographer. Along with Jewish American photographer David Scherman (Andy Samberg), working for Life Magazine, Lee Miller headed into Germany immediately after it fell and took some of the earliest and most important images of the Shoah, captured at Dachau and other locations as they were liberated. Her shocking photos of concentration camps and survivors were published in American Vogue with an article titled “Believe It” as photographic proof for those who doubted.
You may not recognize her name, but you have certainly seen some of her postwar photos, among the most iconic images of concentration camps. Now Lee Miller is recognized as one of the greatest war correspondents of our time as well as someone who knocked down barriers for women photographers.
“Lee” also features a host of stars, including Josh O’Connor, Alexander Skarsgard, Andrea Riseborough and Marion Cotillard, and a lot of famous artists in this true story. Directed by acclaimed cinematographer Ellen Kura, making her feature film directorial debut, the stirring, inspirational drama “Lee” takes audiences from Lee Miller’s days as a New York fashion model-turned fashion photographer in Paris, who is living a life of pleasure among such important artistic figures as Picasso (Enrique Arce) and surrealist art photographer Man Ray (Samuel Barnett), who mentored her, to her years as a war correspondent and photographer in France and then post-war in Germany.
Winslet gives a breathtaking performance, both as the older Lee Miller and the younger one in pre-war Paris, wartime London and France, and post-war Germany. The older Lee, chain-smoking
and downing scotch, recounts her amazing career to a young interviewer (O’Connor), in a framing device that brackets the historical tale.
We first meet young Lee Miller (Winslet, looking her fashion beauty best) as a partying American ex-pat in pre-WWII France, where the ex-New York fashion model runs with a bohemian, artsy crowd that includes Pablo Picasso and photographer Man Ray, and leads a life of pleasure. Yet Lee has her eye on a new career in photography, a passion from childhood, and has been mentored by surrealist photog Man Ray.
As war’s storm clouds gather, Lee meets artist and businessman Roland Penrose, and moves to London with him. There she gets that chance to switch careers, working at British Vogue under Audrey Winters (Riseborough), who also happens to employ Cecil Beaton, the royal family’s favorite photog.
When war breaks out, Lee returns to France as a war photographer with American troops. There she teams up with Life magazine photographer Scherman (Samberg), and as the war ends, they race to Germany to capture photographic evi-
dence of Hitler’s evil. The bold, bohemian Lee Miller also finds Hitler’s now vacant apartment, where she and Scherman collaborate on a famous photo of a nude Miller in Hitler’s bathtub with her muddy boots from her visit to Dachau next to the tub, a shot taken just as Hitler committed suicide in his Berlin bunker.
Before Lee and Scherman leave postwar Paris for newly fallen Germany, Lee finds one her French friends from her carefree pre-London days, Solange D’Ayen (played by Cotillard, in a heartbreaking performance), who’s hiding in a deserted Nazi command center. Solange has been shattered by the war, and her imprisonment by the Nazis, and now, post war, she waits for her missing husband to return. Lee also encounters other old friends, Paul Eluard (Vincent Colombre), a poet and French Jew, and his wife Nusch Eluard (Noemie Merlant).
Winslet transforms herself from the elegant, hedonistic model-turned-photographer into a fearless, hard-drinking, tough war correspondent Lee became during the war and post-war. It is a showcase performance but both Winslet and Samberg are wonderful in their scenes together, showing real chemistry between the actors.
Samberg’s Scherman is steady and reliable but finally briefly breakdowns emotionally after Dachau, crying out about “his people” and Hitler’s evil, in a moving scene. Both he and Winslet’s Lee Miller are passionate about their work, willing to face danger in the field to tell this important story and record it for history. On the other hand, Skarsgard’s aristocratic Brit Roland Penrose remains a pacifist, who opposes Hitler but does not comprehend Lee’s fearless willingness to place herself in harm’s way.
First-time director Kura crafts an inspiring, powerful film filled with dramatic photography as “Lee” tells the too-little known story of this fearless, feminist who broke barriers for women war correspondents. If the film has a flaw, it is in the somewhat awkward framing device, although at the drama’s end you learn why it was used. However, it is a small flaw in an otherwise outstanding film, featuring an outstanding performance from Winslet, playing a historical figure whose name should be better known.
“Lee” opens Friday, Sept. 27, at multiple area theaters.
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Saturday, Oct. 19: 10 am - 4 pm
Kate Winslet as Lee Miller, in the biopic ‘Lee.’ After the fall of Nazi Germany, Miller’s images documented the aftermath of the Shoah, taking photos at Dachau and other locations that were published in American publications.
PHOTO: KIMBERLEY FRENCH. COURTESY OF ROADSIDE
Melding cultures in the worlds of art and cuisine
BY NANCY KRANZBERG
The past few cultural events that I have attended as well as the art, music and even food that I have enjoyed lately point out that the world is shrinking and coming together in mostly positive ways.
Some terms often used to describe this phenomenon are cross-culturalism, cultural diversity, ethnic inclusiveness, mosaic multi-culturalism, acculturation, transculturation, cultural diffusion and cultural blending.
Transculturation is a term coined by Cuban anthropologist, Fernando Ortiz in 1940 to describe merging and converging cultures.
The first thing that made me think about all of this was hearing a lecture and viewing the artwork of Quinn Antonio Briceno who is the child of a Nicaraguan father and Irish American mother. He was born in St. Louis but traveled as a child to Nicaragua and felt confused in many ways. His art works to bring both cultures together. His paintings reflect the complexities of straddling two cultures and feeling like an outsider in both.
Briceno uses collage, paint and found objects of both cultures such as beanstained works and works based on colorful Nicaraguan tiles and lottery stubs and stickers that say, “Made in America.”
The next visual art exhibition that I had
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as indispensable.
This growing distancing from a meaningful connection to Judaism among younger American Jews has resulted in their drifting apart from Israel. A recent study by the Jewish Identity Project of Reboot documented that on average, young Jews (35 and under) are considerably less attached to Israel, express less caring for Israel, less engaged with Israel, less supportive of Israel and score lower on overall scale of Israel attachment than Jews older than 35. Young Jewish Millennials and Gen Z increasingly see Israel as an occupying power oppressing Palestinians — a shock to their parents
these same feelings about was at the St. Louis Art Museum. The exhibition entitled, “Art and Imagination in Spanish America, 1500 to 1600.” This exhibition, according to SLAM’s summer magazine, is about “imperial expansion, conquest, colonization and transatlantic slave trade that marked this period of time.”
“Cataclysmic social and geopolitical shifts brought people into closer contact than ever before in real and imagined ways, propelling the creative refashioning that surrounded them,” the article goes on to say. “After the Spanish began colonizing the Americas in the late 15th century in an effort to spread Christianity, artists working there drew from a range of traditions, indigenous, European, Asian and African — reflecting the interconnectedness of the world.”
The majority of the works in the exhibition were created in Mexico in the 1700s. Present-day Bolivia, Brazil, Colombia, Ecuador, Guatemala, Paraguay, Peru and Venezuela are all represented by selections of objects. An example of these beautiful blends of culture is an elaborately carved wooden chest from the Philippines, which suggests the impact of Spanish trade routes that crossed the Pacific Ocean. Ships filled with silver sailed from Acapulco to Manila. They returned packed with Asian goods which were then distributed among South
and grandparents, who tend to see it as an essential haven fighting for survival.
What can we, as parents, educators, rabbis, community leaders and the Jewish community at large do to stem the tide of this alarming trend?
Great impact can be achieved by a concerted effort to help young Jews return to their Jewish roots through an understanding of what being Jewish means. Every Jew is a descendant of those who stood at Mt. Sinai 3,300 years ago. When offered the Torah by God, we responded, “We will do and we will hear.” A truly meaningful connection to Judaism is nurtured and expressed by believing and observing “The Ten Commandments” rather than “The Ten Suggestions.” The same is true, of course, with the entirety of the Torah. However, if a Jew looks at the Torah sim-
For more of Nancy Kranzberg’s commentary, listen to KWMU (90.7) St. Louis on the Air the first Friday of each month at approximately 12:50 p.m. She also hosts a weekly Arts Interview podcast for KDHX (88.1), available at artsinterview.kdhxtra.org.
America and Spain.
Jazz St. Louis presents several concerts a year where Afro-Cuban music is being performed. This style is another good example of the blending of cultures. The music is vibrant, soul-stirring genre that merges the rhythmic patterns of Cuban music with the improvisational elements of American jazz. It’s a musical tapestry that weaves together the complex beats of African and Cuban percussion instruments with the melodic and harmonic sophistication of jazz. Our own Dizzy Gillespie was a leader who infused bebop with Afro-Cuban rhythms creating a new, energetic sound that resonates with the spirit of dance and celebration. It’s a testament to cultural fusion and the spirit and the universal language of music.
And, of course, the tango is an incredible blend of cultures. It originated in the late 19th century in the suburbs of Buenos
ply as a man-written work, one is free to decide matters of morals, ethics, and how to relate to Israel based upon prevailing societal norms.
I recently had a conversation with a U.S. congressman. He told me he was mystified when he saw young Jews wearing T-shirts that read “Jews for Palestine and Gaza” at a sizeable pro-Palestinian rally. He asked me how to understand his disconcerting experience. I responded: “Our rabbis teach that if a tree has beautiful boughs, great height and a statuesque appearance yet has only shallow roots, the slightest wind can topple that tree. However, a tree with exceptionally deep roots, though of relatively diminutive size and of unremarkable outward appearance, such a tree can withstand hurricane-force winds.”
Aires and Montevideo, and it’s a product of a melting pot of cultures including European immigrants, African rhythms, local folk music, Spanish-Cuban Habanera and Uruguayan Candombe.
Fusion is often used to describe the food in modern-day restaurants. It’s sort of a hip word, but fusion has been going on in preparing cuisine at restaurants for a very long time. When referring to restaurants, the word “fusion” typically means combining elements from different culinary traditions to create innovative and unique dishes. Fusion restaurants blend ingredients, cooking techniques and flavors from various cultures and geographies, resulting in new, inventive and hybridized culinary experiences.
For example, a fusion restaurant might serve a dish that merges the delicate flavors of Japanese sushi with the bold spices of Mexican cuisine, creating a completely new taste sensation. The key to successful fusion cuisine is a deep understanding of the different food cultures being combined, ensuring that the dishes are complementary and respectful of each tradition.
This combination of people and cultures of the world is a beautiful way of enjoying our lives to the fullest.
A Jew with deep roots — connected to his or her people through the Torah given at Sinai and living an educated, committed Jewish life of mitzvot — will never waver in their love of and commitment to Israel. King Solomon said in Proverbs (3:18) “It (the Torah) is a Tree of Life for those who cling to it, and all its supporters are happy.” A tragic 2014 Indian Ocean earthquake and tsunami took the lives of approximately 230,000 people. Petra Nemcova, on vacation in Thailand when the tsunami hit, clung with all her might to a tree for eight hours before she was rescued.
Clinging to the Torah with all one’s might ensures Jewish continuity, nurtures a spiritual, intellectual and emotional connection to God and the Jewish people, and nourishes fervent support and affection for Israel, our God-given homeland.
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FRIDAY
| SEPT. 27
NHBZ community Shabbat dinner
Join us for a lively musical Kabbalat Shabbat Service at NHBZ at 6:20 p.m. and then sit down to a delicious Shabbat dinner. This special community event invites friends and families to experience the festive joy and beauty of Shabbat. To inquire about pricing and to make reservations, email office@ nhbz.org or call 314-991-2100, ext. 2.
Potluck Shabbat for young adults
The young adult chapter of SPARKS MATCH! is hosting an-other potluck Shabbat dinner for people in their 20s, 30s and 40s at 6:30 p.m. Bring something vegetarian to share and celebrate Shabbat together and meet new people. RSVP to Daphne at daphnekoalabear@gmail.com
SUNDAY
| SEPT. 29
Sababa Jewish Arts & Culture Festival
The Sababa Jewish Arts & Culture Festival will take place at the Staenberg Family Complex near Creve Coeur on Sept. 29 from 10:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. The Jewish Community Center, in collaboration with the St. Louis Jewish Federation, promises a day filled with rich cultural experiences, headlined by four musical acts and amazing Jewish-style food and art. The festival will include music from Gili Yalo, Joe Buchanan, Charlie Kramer, Lucy Greenbaum, Greta Rosenstock and Klezundheit! It will include family activities, food catered by Zelda’s and a variety of artists with a connection to the Jewish community. Alex Rich will serve as the festival emcee and Record Reis will be the festival DJ For more information, visit sababastl.com. There will be a variety of activities in the family pavilion, including Serengeti Steve, Jewish yoga with Michael Tzinberg, a Circus Harmony performance, Music with Greta Rosenstock and Lucy Greenbaum, a scavenger hunt and more. In case of inclement weather, the event will move inside the J.
‘What is the Machzor Thinking’ at Kol Rinah
Kol Rinah will host a class on High Holiday preparation with JTS professor Shira Billet on “Liturgy as Philosophy: The Siddur and the High Holiday Machzor in Jewish Thought.” No RSVP needed. Learn more at www.kolrinahstl.org/event/what-is-themachzor-thinking.html
MONDAY | SEPT. 30
Pre-Rosh Hashanah babka workshop
At 7 p.m., Chabad of Chesterfield will host an interactive and hands-on pre-Rosh Hashanah babka baking workshop at Total Wine & More, 1781 Clarkson Road in Chesterfield. Chanala Rubenfeld will lead participants in this interactive workshop while teaching the mystical and ancient significance behind this delicious treat. Adults and children welcome. Tickets are available for $45. For more info and tickets, visit Jew-
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TUESDAY | OCT. 1 & 15
‘The Week in Review’
From 10 to 11 a.m. the Mirowitz Center will host an online discussion of the news of the day, moderated by Harvey Gerstein and Marilyn Alton. Free, but RSVP required. Program is provided with FEL (Friends Enjoying Life), the Mirowitz Center men’s organization.
STARTING | OCT. 2
Three-part Oasis beginning harmonica workshop
The Gateway Harmonica Club will lead a three-part harmonica workshop at Crown Center, taking place at 10 a.m. on Wednesdays, Oct. 2, 9 and 16. The class is for anyone interested in trying out the harmonica—no prior music reading skills needed. Bring your own 10-hole diatonic harmonica in the key of C or purchase one for $10 during the initial session. For more information and to register, visit: stloasis.org or call 314-862-4859, ext. 24.
THURSDAY | OCT. 3
Aish Rosh Hashanah services in two locations
At 10 a.m. Aish St. Louis offers Rosh Hashanah educational services at two locations: UCity Shul (700 North & South Road in University City) with Rabbi Shmuel Greenwald and at Nusach Hari B’nai Zion (650 N. Price Road in Olivette) with Rabbi Yosef David. Services are in English and all questions are welcome so that you can get a real understanding of the prayers and the holiday. Service is free, but donations in honor of the High Holidays are welcome. For more information or to RSVP, call Aish at 314-8622474 or email cgoldstein@aishstl.com.
FRIDAY | OCT. 4
2nd Day Rosh Hashanah class with Mimi David
At 11 a.m. Mimi David of Aish will lead a 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah Class at Nusach Hair B’nai Zion.
Class is free but donations in honor of the High Holidays are welcome. For more information or to rsvp, call Aish at 314-862-2474
or email cgoldstein@aishstl.com
Tashlich & Shofar blowing at Shaw Park Pavilion
At 4 p.m. join Aish for tashlich and shofar blowing at Shaw Park Pavilion, 27 S. Brentwood Blvd. in Clayton. For more information or to RSVP, call Aish office at 314-862-2474 or email cgoldstein@aishstl.com
MONDAY | OCT. 7
St. Louis Jewish community to gather for ‘From Darkness to Light’
The St. Louis Jewish community will come together to mark one year of remembrance, support and hope. Organized by the Jewish Federation of St. Louis, “Darkness to Light” will provide a space for individuals to mourn, reflect and stand in solidarity with Israel and its people during these challenging times. The event, which begins at 7 p.m., is set to take place at a location soon to be disclosed with a virtual attendance option available. Pre-registration is required (visit www.jfedstl.org/oct7) and there is no cost to attend.
Crown Center Rosh Hashanah program with Rabbi James Goodman
At 3 p.m. celebrate the Jewish New Year with story and song, led by Rabbi James Goodman. Reflect with gratitude and hope thoughts about the past and coming year which you can write on leaves to add to the Rosh Hashanah tree. Enjoy apples, honey and other refreshments. All are welcome! For more information or to RSVP, call 314991-2055.
TUESDAY | OCT. 8
Lucy Greenbaum High Holiday concert at Crown Center
At 3 p.m. at Crown Center, celebrate the new year with the beautiful voice of Lucy Greenbaum, director of music engagement at Congregation Shaare Emeth. Enjoy soothing, inspirational music and holiday refreshments. For more information or to RSVP, call 314-991-2055.
The ABCs of Judaism
From noon to 1 p.m. Rabbi Ze’ev Smason will lead his monthly series at the Mirowitz Center, focusing this time on “Stuck in Space? Five Tips on How to Get Out of a
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Caring Together Support Group
Caring for a loved one and finding it isolating? Led by Joan Hirst and Sarah Levinson of St. Louis NORC/JFS St. Louis, this monthly group (second Tuesday of the month, 2 to 3:30 p.m. at the Mirowitz Center) offers a safe space for connecting with others. Free, but RSVP required. Supported by a grant from the Women’s Auxiliary Foundation for Jewish Aged.
WEDNESDAY | OCT. 9
Grief & Bereavement Support Group at Mirowitz Center
From 10 to 11 a.m. at the Mirowitz Center, Nikki Adams, a trained facilitator with Provident Behavioral Health, leads this monthly group offering a compassionate and supportive space for older adults to navigate the journey of grief. Free, but RSVP required. Supported by a grant from the Women’s Auxiliary Foundation for Jewish Aged.
THURSDAY | OCT. 10
Presidential legacies: The Reagan years
From 11 a.m. to noon, join this online Mirowitz Center class about President Ronald Reagan and his beloved First Lady Nancy, presented by Leslie Flynn, education specialist at the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library & Museum in Simi Valley, Calif. (part one of three). Free, but RSVP required.
Senior Planet from AARP: Intro to translation tools
From 1 to 2:30 PM at the Mirowitz Center, learn how to automatically translate websites and live conversations with trainer Larry Edison (including digital translation tools and apps, such as Google Translate). Free, but RSVP required.
SATURDAY | OCT. 12
Yom Kippur educational services in two locations
Aish St. Louis will offer Yom Kippur education services at two locations, starting at 10 a.m. Rabbi Shmuel Greenwald will lead services at UCity Shul and Rabbi Yosef David will lead services at NHBZ. Services are in English and all questions are welcome so that you can get a real understanding of the prayers and the holiday. Service is free. Donations in honor of the High Holidays are welcome. For more information or to RSVP, call Aish at 314-862-2474 or email cgoldstein@aishstl.com.
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‘Trayf’ at NJT
Through Sept. 29, New Jewish Theatre presents the regional premiere of “Trayf” by Lindsay Joelle. It is the story of two young men excited to drive their first Chabad “mitzvah tank” around 1990s New York City and perform good deeds, but find their lives irrevocably changed by exposure to the secular world. For more information, visit newjewishtheatre.org or call 314-442-3283. Performances take place at the J’s Wool Studio Theatre, 2 Millstone Campus Drive.
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Ilana Taxman, daughter of Maria and Philip Taxman of St. Louis, and Richard Wernick, son of Ina and Jerome (z”l) Wernick of Potomac, Md. have announced their engagement.
Ilana is a graduate of MICDS and Cornell University, where she earned both a bachelor’s degree in finance and marketing and a master’s degree in business administration.
Richard graduated from the University
of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he also received a bachelor’s degree in finance. This was followed by a Juris Doctor degree from New York University School of Law.
Ilana and Richard will be married Oct. 19, 2024 in St. Louis. Ilana and Richard, who reside in Chicago, plan to take a wedding trip to Japan.
Yefim and Tamara Polevoy are celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary.
The Polevoys moved to the United States in 1994 from Siberia and now reside at Crown Center for Senior Living in University City.
The couple first met in Belarus, where Yefim was attending medical school and Tamara was just beginning college. In 1959, they were married, and Yefim completed his medical studies. He secured a
position as the head of the pediatric department at a hospital in Novosibirsk and moved there the same year. Tamara joined him a few years later after finishing her college education. Now, 65 years later, the couple remains happily married.
The Polovoys recently celebrated their anniversary with friends and family at Crown Center, where they have resided for the past year.
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LAWRENCE P. BADLER, September 16, 2024
On September 16, 2024, Lawrence “Larry” Badler passed away peacefully. His life centered around his beloved wife Laurie and their children Matt, Sara, and Jacqueline. Larry cherished his grandchildren—Camille, Sylviana, Tillin, Kaden, and Bryce.
JACQUELINE (JACKIE) FENSTER, age 92, passed away peacefully Friday, September 20 with her family by her side.
CHERYL ANN (“CHERI”) FOX
Few of them had ever met or even heard of her, but tens of thousands of St. Louisans and hundreds of thousands of others around the world had their lives changed through the quietly relentless commitment of Cheryl Ann (“Cheri”) Fox.
Born to Albert and Roslyn Badler, and brother to David, Larry enjoyed a 40-year career in investment, renowned for his integrity and ability to build lasting relationships. A devoted Grateful Dead fan, he attended over 50 concerts. Larry was admired for his style, humor, and generous spirit, and his memory will live on through all who loved him.
A funeral service was held Thursday, September 19 at BERGER MEMORIAL CHAPEL, 9430 Olive Boulevard. Interment followed at Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery, 9125 Ladue Road. Memorial contributions preferred to Arch Grants or Shaving Israel.
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BARBARA DEMBA, September 8, 2024 in Atlanta, GA
Dear mother of Barry Demba, Don (Jennifer) Demba and Gayle Newman. Loving grandmother of Paige, Grace and Nicholas Demba. Dear sister of Sue (the late Robert) Clements. Beloved daughter of the late Aaron and Dorothy Shanvet. Dear aunt of Audrey (Gary) Bregman and Dana Roman (Harold) Bach. Dear cousin and friend.
A graveside service was held Wednesday, September 11 at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road. Contributions in her memory may be made to Breakthrough T1D (formerly the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation), P.O. Box 5021, Hagerstown, MD, 21741-5021.
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For 72 years, Jackie shared her life with her beloved late husband, Harvey, whom she met in high school. Beloved mother of Debra Roberts, Cindy Peters, Neal (Dana) Fenster, and the late Randee Roberts. Loving mother-in-law of Michael (Lisa) Roberts. Very proud grandmother (Bobbie) of eight grandchildren; David (Donelle) Roberts, Daniel Roberts, Stephanie (Bradford) Goette, Jeffrey (Kelly) Guenzburger, Jason Guenzburger, Jourdan Fenster, Shelby (Simon) Brett, and Grant Fenster. Adoring great-grandmother of nine: Audrey, Noah, Jonah Roberts; Trystan, Davia, Jameson, Caden Goette; Alfie, Margaux Brett; Jack Winters. Sister-in-law of the late Aaron (Sandy) Fenster and of the late Hilda (Bernie) Markowitz. Dear aunt, cousin, and friend to many. Daughter of the late Bernard and Shirley Kovinsky.
Jackie lived a life defined by warmth and kindness, thoughtfulness, and a very large heart. Her life focused on her children and grandchildren. Important were her very dear lifelong friends, whom she spoke with daily since high school. Friday night dinners were a highlight for the family and any friends.
Jackie had a true heart of service. She served as President of J Associations and the Council of Jewish Women. She also gave her time and treasures to AMC Cancer Research, the Victim Service Council, and Women’s American ORT. Jackie loved people — and gathering with friends to play mahjong and bridge. Jackie had a positive attitude about life and always a smile on her face. A remarkable woman who embodied unconditional love, naturally and gracefully.
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Cheri, who grew up in St. Louis, passed away on August 11th in Israel, after a long battle with breast cancer. She was 69.
Although she’d lived in Israel for more than 40 years, Cheri had a major impact in her hometown through her position as executive director of the Fox Family Foundation.
Established by her parents in 1987, the foundation supported numerous nonprofits in St. Louis and Israel over decades. The Foundation focused on education from early childhood through college; medical research at hospitals and universities; and gifts to the Jewish community and other religious institutions. In addition, the Foundation supported numerous charitable organizations providing cultural and civic benefits to the community, including art museums, theaters, parks, and the St. Louis Zoo.
organization’s early days. “She was one of the first Israel-based voices, and at a time when the role of Israel in JFN was still unsettled and ambiguous,” he wrote in an email after Cheri’s death. Under her leadership as co-chair, “she began a complete reimagining of the JFN, helping to steward it from an annual conference to a full-fledged international organization with offices in New York and Tel Aviv. Her warmth and wisdom touched thousands of philanthropists and foundation professionals and inspired a new chapter in Jewish philanthropy.”
Grantees learned that Cheri approached her work with rigor. Winning her funding recommendation required not only a strategic fit with the foundation’s mission but proof of effectiveness. Once the foundation’s support was obtained, nonprofits found Cheri to be a source of much more than financial support, she was a constant source of advice and counsel.
“She really understood what nonprofits needed to be effective and she helped them get there,” her brother Steve commented. “It didn’t matter how big or small the organization was,” her sister Pamela Fox Claman recalled. “She took such a deep dive with every single one.”
In Israel, at least two of those deep dives resulted in a seminal impact.
Early in the 2000s, she recognized that food insecurity was a major unaddressed issue in Israel. In response, Cheri helped found The Forum to Address Food Insecurity and Poverty with a group of other funders and became its co-chair. The Forum funded research, created action plans, and fostered the strategic collaborations needed to raise awareness about nutrition issues — and then began tackling the challenge.
This work led her to help found Leket – Israel Food Bank. Realizing that one organization alone would not have the impact needed, she helped orchestrate a merger in 2009 between The Israel Food Bank and Table to Table to form what is now known as Leket Israel, Israel’s largest food and food distribution network, delivering 100 percent nutritious food to 330,000 Israelis in need per week. And in turn all of this work led to her becoming a longtime board member and major supporter of the Chicago-based Global FoodBanking Network, which operates in more than 40 countries.
Cheri was also deeply passionate about the environment, for which she became an early advocate in Israel. In 2018, after many years of groundwork, she co-founded a new unit of the Jewish Funders Networks (JFN) — the Green Funders Forum (GFF) — to mobilize the Jewish philanthropic community. Starting with seven members, the organization has become JFN’s largest peer network, with Cheri serving as co-chair right up until her last days. Prior to the founding of GFF, Cheri had been a very active member and leader of JFN, serving as co-chair from 2001 to 2004.
Cheri’s efforts on food issues and the environment were only among the highlights of a philanthropic career that stretched across continents. She ran her own private foundation, Maor, which supported an array of health research, environmental, food and education-related organizations in the U.S. and Israel. She supported the Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston and the Silent Spring Institute in nearby Newton, Mass. to advance cancer research. She supported the Jerusalem-based Pardes Institute of Jewish Studies, which seeks to cultivate a love of Jewish learning among Jews worldwide, and her Modern Orthodox community in Jerusalem, which has helped define a religious space for women alongside men in the synagogue. Her Jewish identify and faith informed her commitment to Tikun Olam – helping create a better world for generations to come.
Cheri’s connection to Israel began with her lasting love of dance. During her summer break before her senior year at Ladue High School (class of ’72) she toured Israel as part of a Jewishfolkdance troupe. “I danced my way through the country … with the top Israeli folkdance choreographers,” she later said in an interview. She began to lobby her parents to let her move to Israel, but they insisted on college first. After a stint at Clark University in Worcester, Mass., she completed her undergraduate work at the University of Michigan. She then spent a few years in Boston working in early childhood education before earning her MA in public health in 1982 at Columbia University in New York. It was then that she finally moved to Israel.
The move reflected an independent streak that marked her for life — nurtured, perhaps, by her place in the family. As the eldest of the five Fox children, she was her mother’s helper in raising the rest of them, her surviving siblings, Jeff, Steve and Pamela, recalled. “She was always there for us in those early days and later, for everyone,” Jeff said. She was also – for as long as her siblings could remember — practical, modest, responsible, down-to-earth, kind and approachable.
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Mark Charendoff, former president of JFN, credited Cheri with playing “a critical role” in the
In her later years, she was a joyfully devoted grandmother as well.
Cheri’s three daughters — Avigail, of Washington, D.C., Naomi, of Israel, and Miryam, also of Israel — will continue her legacy with the Maor Foundation, where they remain committed to funding and advocating for change.
Besides her daughters, she is survived by her father, Ambassador Sam Fox; her siblings, Pamela Fox Claman, of Israel, Jeff Fox, of St. Louis, and Steve Fox, of St. Louis; and four grandchildren. She was predeceased by her mother, Marilyn Fox, and a brother, Greg Fox. She will be dearly missed by her family, friends and community around the world. Donations in her memory may be made to Leket Israel (leket.org).
JEROME E. GLICK, of Clayton, passed away on September 14, 2024. Son of the late Archie and the late Blanche Glick; Father of Janice Sandweiss, the late Debra Breningstall (Nesanel), Marcie Handler (Michael), and Thomas Glick (Brenda); Grandfather of Lauren Brenner, Jacob Kanter and Sarah Kanter, David Herron (Shoshana), Aviva Crystal (Adam), Bayla Breningstall and Bluma Spero (Zevy), Joshua Handler, Brittany Handler and Rebecca Handler, and Alexander Glick and Jonas Glick; Greatgrandfather of 16; Step-father of David Norton (Amy); Step-grandfather of Lainee Norton and Ellie Norton; Brother of Carole Worth, Lois Guller and Barbara Koch; former spouse of Eleanor Glick and the late Judy Glick; our dear uncle, cousin, lifelong friend and big macher.
Jerry was a passionate archaeologist, real estate developer, community leader, and dedicated philanthropist. He leaves behind a legacy marked by his love of history, commitment to justice, and deep sense of community.
He developed an early fascination with archaeology, particularly the Maya civilization. His dedication to the study of ancient cultures went beyond academic curiosity—he funded multiple archaeological digs in the Yucatan Peninsula, where he spent numerous trips exploring the region’s rich heritage. He also enjoyed traveling the world, visiting places such as Israel, Greece, Spain, Italy, Guatemala, and many more.
In his professional life, Jerry built a successful career in real estate development and property ownership. He was especially dedicated to preserving historical properties that were the foundation of St. Louis such as Raeder Place on Laclede’s Landing.
A firm believer in social justice, he served on the board of the Anti-Defamation League and was instrumental in funding impactful initiatives such as “Beauty and Bias” at the St. Louis Art Museum. His efforts were always aimed at promoting understanding and fighting hate in all
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Badler, Lawrence P. Demba, Barbara Fenster, Jacqueline (Jackie)
Fox, Cheryl Ann (“Cheri”)
Glick, Jerome E. Horwitz, Roberta Mendell
Kornblum, Eugene “Gene” Maurice Kusman, Libby
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ROBERTA MENDELL HORWITZ passed away on Sept. 2, 2024.
Levinson, Hortense “Horty” Rosalie (Strauss)
Minoff, Brandel
Rader, Edward Stanley
Reisler, Dr. David M.
Rothman, Debra Sue
Shrago, Sue
Tegman, Robert Lawrence
its forms.
He also played a significant role in supporting Democratic political candidates, funding and actively participating in campaigns and championing causes that reflected his deeply held values of fairness and equality.
He had an unwavering support of Magen David Adom, Israel’s national emergency medical service. Jerry was especially proud of helping build a life-saving station in southern Israel, ensuring that communities there had access to critical and emergency services.
Jerry will be remembered for his generosity, adventurous spirit, and commitment to making the world a better place. His memory will forever be a blessing to all who knew him.
A graveside service was held Tuesday, September 17 at United Hebrew Cemetery, 7855 Canton Avenue. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in his honor to Magen David Adom in Israel 5 Haplada Street, Or Yehuda, 6021805, Israel or the St. Louis Children’s Hospital Foundation, P.O. Box 955423, St. Louis, MO 63195-5423.
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With the sounding of the Shofar, the High Holy Days are upon us. May your heart and mind fill with the joyful possibilities of the coming year as you gather with family and friends to celebrate our most sacred of holidays. L’Shanah Tovah
Born to Hyme and Madelyn Mendell in St. Joseph, Mo. She was the dear wife of Lester Horwitz and mother to Michael (Mary) Horwitz and Howard (Amy) Horwitz. She was the dear sister to Ellen (Larry) Paskar and sister-in-law to Sandra Kreisman. She was the beloved grandmother to Brendan, Justin and Madison Horwitz. She had many dear nieces, nephews and special friend of Diana Barnholtz.
Private funeral services were held on Sept. 4, 2024 at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery. Memorial contributions preferred to the Alzheimer’s Association or a charity of your choice.
EUGENE “GENE” MAURICE KORNBLUM was born July 21, 1935, passed away in St. Louis on September 17, 2024. Through his vision and innovation, he built St. Louis Music Inc., the family business founded in 1922, into one of the premiere companies in the musical instrument industry. At his retirement, he devoted himself to furthering the visual and musical arts in St. Louis with his involvement as a trustee in several arts organizations.
Gene was the adored father of Nancy (Michael Schreiner) Kornblum and Edward “Ted” Kornblum, beloved grandfather of Sophia and Andrew Schreiner and dear brother of Carole (the late Robert) Simon and uncle to Michael, David and Jon Simon. During his retirement, he became a close friend of Anne Hetlage.
The son of Bernard and Myrtle Kornblum, he was born and raised in St. Louis and graduated from the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School in 1957 with a degree in economics. He was active in student organizations at Penn and served on the senior editorial board of the Daily Pennsylvanian newspaper. After returning to St. Louis, he enlisted in the Missouri Air National Guard and was called to active duty in France in
1961 during the Berlin crisis. Thanks to his knowledge of French, he easily adjusted to living in a small town near the airbase. Under his direction as president of St. Louis Music Inc., the company grew from 40 to over 350 employees working in the company’s headquarters, research and development center, warehouse, and factory in St. Louis as well as a factory in Yellville, AR. The company did a broad international export business with its Crate and Ampeg amplification equipment. It also imported and designed Alvarez acoustic guitars as well as Knilling string instruments. During Gene’s tenure with the company, St. Louis Music’s equipment and instruments were endorsed and/or played by such notable musicians as: the Grateful Dead; Crosby, Stills and Nash; Fleetwood Mac; Johnny Cash; ZZ Top and many others.
He served as a board member of National Association of Music Merchants (NAMM) and was president of the Guitar and Accessory Marketing Association (GAMA). As a leader in the music industry, he encouraged and fostered the careers of numerous music industry professionals. Upon his retirement in 2005, he served on the boards of trustees of the St. Louis Symphony, Opera Theater of St. Louis, the St. Louis Art Museum, the Foundation for Barnes Jewish Hospital, the Newmark Institute, and Arts & Faith St. Louis. Gene was also active at Washington University, auditing classes every semester and heading up a fund-raising initiative for the School of Law that honored his friend, Professor David Becker. In 2013 the Law School awarded him the Dean’s Medal.
A memorial service was held at Temple Emanuel, 12166 Conway Rd., St. Louis, MO 63141, on September 22. The family requests contributions be made to Siteman Cancer Center, MSC 1082-414-2555, 7425 Forsyth Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63105. Please indicate the gift is to the Siteman Annual Fund in memory of Gene Kornblum by writing a memo on your check. You can also give online at siteman.wustl.edu/ tribute. A Rindskopf-Roth Service
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LIBBY KUSMAN, September 20, 2024
Beloved wife of the late Martin Kusman; dear mother and mother-in-law of William Kusman (Michelle) and Michelle Karabas (Bill). She was a proud grandmother of Michael Trager-Kusman (Erin), Andrew Trager-Kusman (Helene), Brett Trager, Dr. Rachel Karabas (Clint), Alec Kusman (Michelle), Amy Karabas, and Isabelle Kusman; loving great-grandmother of Asher, Hawk, Harper and Graham. Raised in Clayton, Missouri Libby was the dear daughter of the late Irwin and Rosalie Solar; dear sister of the late Barbara Gershon (late Stanley); dear sister-in-law of Stanley Kusmin (late Arlene) and Vicky Kaufman (late Stanley); dear aunt, cousin, and friend to many.
Libby attended Clayton High School and had fond memories of her friends and sister growing up. When she was 18, Libby spent time with her friends at the USO where she met her husband and love of her life, Marty, who was in the Air Force and from New York. Libby thought that he was especially handsome. The two were married when he came back from Korea and were together for over fifty years. Three years after they were married Libby and Marty started their family having their first born, William and five years later Michelle was born. As a family, they enjoyed summers at the Lake of the Ozarks and holiday trips to Miami. She enjoyed and valued spending time together as a family.
Libby had many hobbies and always kept busy. Family and friends would describe her as independent, strong, fun-loving, smart, and kind. Her hobbies included going to the J to swim,
playing mahjong with friends, reading, tennis, and racquet ball. She loved being social and was self motivated. She was most proud of her children and grandchildren’s accomplishments.
A graveside service was held Tuesday, September 24 at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road. Memorial contributions in Libby’s memory are preferred to the Alzheimer’s Association, 11433 Olde Cabin Road, Ste. 100, St. Louis, MO 63141. Please visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. Berger Memorial Service
HORTENSE “HORTY” ROSALIE (STRAUSS)
LEVINSON, OCTOBER 25, 1932 – AUGUST 29, 2024
Horty Levinson passed away peacefully at her Southern California home early in the morning on August 29, just months shy of her 92nd birthday.
Harris Teachers’ College, where she was treasurer of Omega Delta Pi sorority, the only Jewish organization of its kind at Harris at the time. There she made lifelong friends.
In May 1953, Horty married Dick, embarking on a remarkable 70-year journey. Their adventurous honeymoon in Miami and Havana set the tone for raising their family in St. Louis before relocating to California.
Throughout the years, Horty lived each day with an infectious smile, quick wit, mug of strong black coffee, and a passion for her “seven C’s”: Commitment, Children, Canines, Cardinals, Cooking, Charity, and Coupons. She was the first to rise every morning, ensuring a hot breakfast awaited Dick and the kids, and the last to turn in at night, packing school lunches and offering reassuring hugs to ease occasional nightmares.
be terribly missed for her overflowing kindness, quiet generosity, and unconditional love for family and friends, whether 2- or 4-legged. A graveside service was held Friday, September 20 at Chevra Kadisha Cemetery, 1601 North and South Rd, St. Louis, MO 63130. Friends and family can join to wish Horty “pleasant dreams,” endless laughs, beautiful gardens, fabulous feasts, and an abundance of love from pets, both new and reunited. In lieu of flowers, the family requests tributes be sent to the Alma and Joseph Levinson Nursing Scholarship Fund (Goldfarb School of Nursing at Barnes-Jewish College), or the charity of your choice. For online donations, select “I want to support other” and type “Levinson Fund.” https://www.foundationbarnesjewish.org/givenurses
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Beloved wife of 70 years to Richard “Dick” Levinson, Horty’s legacy lives on through her four children: Ron Levinson, Steve Levinson, Nancy Kolons (Norm), and Jeff Levinson (Wayne Danner). She was a proud grandmother to Brian Levinson (Samantha), Amanda Wang (Chris), Rob Levinson (Becky), Lu Levinson, Joe Levinson, Ben Levinson (Ashley), David Levinson (Monica Garcia), Brett Kolons (Abbi), and Blake Kolons, and a beloved great-grandmother to Jacob, Sho, Ayelet, Korbin, Dimitri, Leisel, Maya, Lilah, Jack, and Evie. Born in St. Louis to Leon and Ida Strauss, parents who valued hard work and frugality, Horty was a “child of the depression,” as she called herself. She attended Roosevelt High School, and subsequently graduated from
Horty was a magician in the kitchen. She could taste any restaurant meal and recreate it at home on a shoestring budget, using her imagination as the cookbook and her spatula as a magic wand. She instinctively transformed mundane leftovers into culinary feasts, eschewing measuring cups and spoons, sprinkling in a little of this and a dash of that, with frequent taste-tests as her guide. Some of her recipes were simply lists of ingredients with no measurements. From kugel (or noodle pudding, as she called it) to kasha, blintzes to brisket—there was always more than enough food to welcome all, whether the kids’ friends staying after playdates or, as time moved on, her children’s significant others.
A cherished aunt once told her that to know if someone is a good cook, look at their pots: spotless pots mean order takeout; well-worn pots mean invite yourself for dinner. Horty’s pots (many of which were passed down from her own mother) were appropriately weathered, telling tales of countless satisfied appetites.
BRANDEL MINOFF, Sept. 21, 2024
Brandel Minoff passed away on September 21, 2024. Beloved wife of the late Max Minoff; loving mother to Ben (Sharon) Minoff and Jerry (Marilyn) Minoff; devoted grandmother of Michael (Alana) Minoff, Melissa (Tim) Nolan, Stephanie (Dennis) Jarman, Adam (Jennifer) Minoff and Erica (Rob) Dennis; loved greatgrandmother of Carson Nolan, Yael Sabin, Will Nolan, Max Minoff, Rafi Minoff and Yishama Minoff, Brady Jarman, Parker Jarman, Liam Minoff, Dylan Minoff and Alyssa Minoff; dear sister of the late Leon (late Maria) Nick and the late Ydo (late Basilia) Nick.
She loved life, dancing, family and faith. She was the first to arrive at a party and always led the conga line!
Services were planned for Wednesday, September 25th at 1:30 pm Graveside at United Hebrew Cemetery; 7855 Canton Ave, University City, MO 63130. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are preferred to a charity of your choice.
Everyone was welcome at the Levinson household. Horty transformed the chaos of raising four energetic kids into an efficient, supportive, and inclusive environment where all knew she had their backs and accepted them as they were.
Her happy place might be in her garden, swapping stories with friends amidst the clatter of Mah Jong tiles, knitting afghans for treasured gifts to family and friends, winning contests for others, or thumbing through her coupon box in the checkout lane. She joined coupon clubs and challenged herself to see how much she could save, sometimes resulting in the store owing her money.
She had no use for designer labels and preferred using her resources to help others. Horty was a founding member of the Lights of the Jewish Special Needs Society, a charity that provided meals for the elderly and expanded to aid the sick, poor, and handicapped in St. Louis. They also offered college scholarships to Jewish students in need. Her family room became the “recruitment center,” where she personally interviewed prospects to determine who was most in need, amidst tables stacked with hundreds of “Entertainment Books” to sell for fundraising.
Horty was a beloved school room mother, Cub Scout den mom, Girl Scout Cookie chairperson, and ever-present in her children’s lives—driving carpools, helping with homework, and caring for the family. Her love for dogs and the St. Louis Cardinals reflected the simple pleasures that she shared with her family, a joyful thread that created lasting memories together.
When the kids were young, Tuesday dinners were at her parents’, Thursdays at Dick’s parents’, and Saturdays both sides gathered at their home. To Horty, family meant everything. She passed on strong values and a hearty sense of humor to all who knew her, and she will
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EDWARD STANLEY RADER was born on February 16, 1931, and died surrounded by family and friends on September 8, 2024, at the age of 93.
Certain things defined him most clearly: an exceptional work ethic, a sharp wit, and uncompromising integrity.
Edward’s career in medicine spanned over 50 years. Known for precision and excellence in patient care, and thoughtful instruction of Urology residents, he earned the respect of his peers with his breadth of knowledge and contributions to surgical techniques. He was one of the last of a generation of solo-practice doctors, waking at 5:30 am daily and being personally on call for his patients every single day of the week.
Though a busy surgeon, he engaged in many other passions. Ed loved his wife of nearly 70 years, his three children, Billiken basketball, dogs, reading, silence, and sausage pizza (but not necessarily in that order).
He loved playing sports, retiring undefeated against his wife and children in tennis, pingpong, pool, golf, and Horse. Ed also proved to be a prolific amateur humorist and poet, composing over 500 comical poems. He placed a heavy emphasis on learning. He was a voracious reader of history, art and finance. He and Norma were tireless in their efforts to ensure their children received an excellent education. He embraced perseverance and shunned procrastination. His lifelong mantra was, “Do it
now. Do it well.” He’d occasionally joke about being perfect, but almost never spoke about himself, and never in an arrogant way.
Ed Rader was preceded in death by his wife, Norma Lee Rader, parents, Ben and Sarah Rader, and son-in-law, Perry Inhofe. He was survived by his daughter Nancy Inhofe, his sons Jeff Rader (spouse Sarah) and Dan Rader (partner Hoai Huynh), and his grandchildren Glade Inhofe, Cole Inhofe and Anna Rader. Those who survive him thank him for the countless lessons he taught us through his words and actions.
A private ceremony was held on September 10, 2024. Donations may be made in Ed’s memory to the Saint Louis University School of Medicine.
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DR. DAVID M. REISLER
OBITUARIES
1961), and a master’s degree in public health from the Johns Hopkins School of Public Health (MPH 1971). He completed his residency in neurology at Barnes Hospital in St. Louis.
David’s professional career included epidemiological work at the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) and the U.S. Public Health Service, fighting polio in the Dominican Republic, and investigating hepatitis in the prison system among other endeavors. He held academic positions at the Johns Hopkins University School of Public Health, St. Louis University, the University of Maryland, and Washington University. Additionally, David cared for thousands of patients in his private neurology practice in St. Louis, Missouri, and he served on the staff of St. Luke’s Hospital for over 40 years. Upon his retirement from private practice, David continued to serve the community by caring for patients in hospitals and free clinics and conducting disability evaluations of retiring veterans for the Veterans Administration (VA).
Debby’s legacy lives on through her children, whom she adored—Lee, Marc, and Alex Rothman. She was a treasured aunt, cousin, and friend to many, touching the lives of all who knew her.
A graveside service and interment took place on Friday, September 20, 2024, at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery (650 White Road). In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Debra’s memory to Pink Ribbon Good, Evelyn’s House, or the Humane Society of Missouri.
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Missouri—Columbia for mechanical engineering.
Bob’s professional journey was marked by dedication and success. He served in the Army Reserves and earned his master’s in business administration from Washington University in St. Louis. His 34-year career as an executive at Anheuser-Busch was a testament to his hard work and commitment.
After retiring, Bob wholeheartedly embraced his true passion—his family. His five granddaughters were the shining lights of his life, and he found immense pride and joy in every moment of being their “Pop.” Beyond family, Bob was a dedicated St. Louis Cardinals and Blues fan. He was cherished for his thoughtfulness and warm spirit, which endeared him to all who knew him.
On September 19, 2024, Dr. David M. Reisler passed away peacefully surrounded by his wife of 63 years, Fran (Fredman) Reisler, his children, Michael, Ronnie, Susan, and Larry, and his sonin-law Tzvi. Though his activities centered on a distinguished 60-year career in medicine, David beamed with pride in the accomplishments and activities of his aforementioned children, their spouses, Ilana Sultan, Miriam Reisler, and Tzvi Berman; his 13 grandchildren, Ateret, Yardena, Tekoa, Madison, Emily, Amichai, Ariel, Rami, Tali, Yehuda, Rivka, Zecharia, and Yair; and his greatgranddaughter, Ziv. David’s family spans the globe, with descendants residing in New Jersey, Maryland, California, New York, Chicago, and Israel.
Born to Samuel and Ida Reisler, brother to Elaine (Magarrell) and Fritzi (Bright) of blessed memory, David graduated with honors from Harvard College (AB cum laude 1957), received a medical degree with honors from the Washington University School of Medicine (MD
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David was known for his quiet, thoughtful manner, and his unfailingly optimistic, unflappable demeanor. He was deeply committed to his wife, family, friends, community, and synagogue, and he was an avid news buff. For over 50 summers, David enjoyed sailing the waters of Lake Michigan and relaxing on the beaches of South Haven, Michigan.
A funeral service was held Sunday, September 22 at BERGER MEMORIAL CHAPEL, 9430 Olive Boulevard. Interment followed at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road, Chesterfield. Please visit www.bergermemorialchapel.com for livestream details and other information. Memorial contributions preferred to Nusach Hari B’nai Zion or the St. Louis Holocaust Museum. Berger Memorial Service
DEBRA SUE ROTHMAN, February 1, 1955September 17, 2024
It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Debra Sue Rothman on September 17, 2024. Debby was the beloved daughter of the late Aaron Cohen and the late Ilien (the late Gerald) Towbin. She was the dear sister of Barbara (the late Michael) Towerman and Stephen (Felicia) Cohen.
The kindly parents, Vivienne (Gillian Anderson) and Jean Paul (Jo Stone-Fewings), worry that their nosey neighbors might be Nazi sympathizers and might expose her. Hiding her puts them at risk, too, but Vivienne especially is warm and supportive of the frightened girl. Thoughtful Julien not only brings Sara food, but also drawing materials and books, and tutors her in schoolwork so she can keep up. In the barn, the two young people grow close, escaping into a world of imagination and adventure.
As expected, Mirren is charmingly winning as the lively, artist grandmother. Both Glaser and Schwerdt excel in their roles as Sara and Julien, with an especially good performance from young Schwerdt. Anderson is very good as Julien’s warm, supportive mother but it is really the young actors who shine at the center of this drama.
As the tense story of the Jewish girl hidden in the barn unfolds, director Forster skillfully weaves a message of hope and human empowerment into this wartime drama. The story mirrors many of the true stories of hidden children or families aided by their non-Jewish neighbors. The Nazi threat always looms, and increases when a group of local boys, including Sara’s crush Vincent, join the Nazis as a town militia. Yet Forster’s storytelling puts an emphasis on the power of human kindness, and bravery in the face of cruelty. The film is, by turns, tense and dramatic as well as touching and inspiring, portions that Forster skillfully balances.
This is an emotionally powerful film, that is mostly very well-told, apart from one scene, with wolves in the woods that seems to borrow heavily from the Brothers Grimm. Overall, “White Bird” is a moving, hopeful tale of courage that has the benefit of being a rare survi-
SUE SHRAGO, September 13, 2024
Dear mother of Chad Lott and Jason “Jay” Lott; dear daughter of the late Mary and the late Harry Shrago; beloved partner of the late Haim Cohen. dear friend to many and an overwhelming supporter of woman’s rights with an extreme love of four-legged friends.
A graveside service was held Wednesday, September 18 at Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery, 9125 Ladue Road. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Sue’s memory preferred to any animal charity of your choice. Please visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. Berger Memorial Service
ROBERT LAWRENCE TEGMAN, May 11, 1947 – September 22, 2024
Robert Lawrence “Bob” Tegman, 77, passed away peacefully on September 22, 2024, surrounded by his loving family and friends. Bob, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend, leaves a profound legacy of love, generosity, and accomplishment. His absence leaves a void that can never be filled. He was born in St. Louis, Missouri, on May 11, 1947, and graduated from University City High School in 1965 before attending the University of
Bob is survived by his beloved wife of 54 years, Merle (Cohen) Tegman, son Scott (Sara) Tegman; daughter Melissa (Ethan) Hafner; granddaughters Maya and Lilah Tegman, and Abby, Jessica and Molly Hafner; sister Judy (late Wally) Arnowitz; and brothers-in-law Dr. Edward (Marla) Cohen and Sanford (Jo Linda) Cohen. His parents, William and Ruth Tegman, and his in-laws, Joe and Mollie Cohen, preceded him in death.
Bob’s kindness, wisdom, and love will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who knew him. His life was a testament to the power of family, hard work, and compassion, and his influence will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to have known him.
A graveside service was planned for Wednesday September 25th, 10:30 AM at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery-White Road. Memorial contributions are preferred to the United Hebrew Congregation or a charity of your choice.
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vor’s story film that one is told in a manner appropriate for younger people (preteens, although not the very young) while still teaches some valuable lessons about the power of human kindness in overcoming evil.
As the grandmother says near the film’s end, paraphras-
ing Martin Luther King Jr., “You cannot fight darkness with darkness, only with light.”
“White Bird” opens Friday, Oct. 4, at Landmark’s Plaza Frontenac Cinema.
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Savoring Rosh Hashanah
Celebrating the holiday with seasonal delights and meaningful dishes
BY MARGI LENGA KAHN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT
The days are getting shorter, and the nights are beginning to cool down, always a reminder that Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, is nearing. It is also the time of year when there is a shift in seasonal fruits and vegetables at the farmer’s markets. Currently in season is a wide variety of squashes, beets, a new batch of tender salad greens and leeks, pomegranates and apples galore. Coincidentally, much of this in-season produce has symbolic meaning on Rosh Hashanah
The Talmud (Keritot 6:A) tells us that we should eat dates, leeks, beets, gourds (squash) and black-eyed peas on Rosh Hashanah. Each has a special meaning on this holiday. T’marim, the Hebrew word for “date,” means “to end,” suggesting that all our enemies will end their animosity against us. “Karti,” the Hebrew word for “leek,” is similar to kareyt, which means “to be cut off,” the implication being that our enemies should be cut off.
“Selek” is the Hebrew word for beets, which means that our enemies will depart. “Kraa,” the Hebrew word for “gourds,” which is similar to “yikani,” suggests that our good deeds will be remembered in this time of judgment. “Rubia,” the Aramaic word for “black-eyed peas” means “to increase.” These, and other small beans eaten on Rosh Hashanah, portend a productive year.
Other symbolic foods we eat on Rosh Hashanah include apples dipped in honey (the promise of a sweet year); pomegranates (our merits should be as numerous as all of those seeds); carrots (the hope that any misdeeds be forgiven); and fish (fertility and life).
How many of these symbolic foods will be part of your holi day meal? There are certainly ways to include carrots in your kugel, pomegranate seeds in your salad, and dates as part of your des sert. And, of course, you could also introduce a new dish, or perhaps substitute one of the
old ones for something new. That may mean making some changes. A case in point: gefilte fish. I happen to love gefilte fish but am aware that many people do not, including my children and grandchildren. Traditionally made from a whole, relatively inexpensive, freshwater fish such as whitefish, carp, or pike, it is carefully deboned in order to leave the fish intact. After the flesh is finely chopped, it is mixed with eggs, matzah meal and various spices, and then stuffed back into the fish skin. The skin is sewn back together and the gefilte (“stuffed”) fish is gently
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PASSIONATE PALATE
Margi Lenga Kahn is the mother of five and grandmother of eleven. While teaching virtual cooking classes and preparing meals for the local “Meals On Wheels” program, she continues to work on a project to preserve the stories and recipes of heritage cooks. She welcomes your comments and suggestions at margikahn@gmail.com.
Recipe: Honey-Cumin Glazed Beets
INGREDIENTS:
6 medium beets, greens removed, and beets scrubbed
Additional salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste Coarsely chopped cilantro, dill, or parsley, for garnish
1 lemon cut into wedges
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat oven to 425 degrees.
Place beets and unpeeled garlic clove in a small baking dish. Drizzle with 1 tbsp. olive oil and sprinkle with salt. Cover dish tightly with aluminum foil and bake until fork tender, about 45 minutes.
Remove foil and let beets cool enough to be able to handle, 10-15 minutes. Place a paper towel in one hand and add a beet. Wrap towel around beet and slide the skin off; repeat until
all beets have been skinned. Cut beets into 1/2” pieces, and place back into baking dish. Toss to glaze with oil mixture.
Heat a medium skillet over medium heat. Add cumin seeds and toast until fragrant, about 30 seconds. Place seeds on a cutting board, cover with wax paper, and crush seeds with the side of a can or a rolling pin. Place seeds back into pan over medium heat and add remaining 2 tbsp. olive oil. Briefly swirl pan until oil is fragrant. Add beets and honey to pan and toss in cumin oil until lightly glazed. Season with salt and pepper, to taste, and transfer to a serving dish.
Garnish with chopped parsley, dill, and/or cilantro, and lemon wedges.
Makes 4-6 side dish servings.
MORE RECIPES
View Margi’s recipes for Tahini Cinnamon Apple Galette, Pomegranate Glazed Salmon and Caramelized Butternut Squash with Dried Apricots and Couscous on page 32.
Margi’s Tahini Cinnamon Apple Galette (left) and Honey-Cumin Glazed Beets. PHOTOS: MICHAEL KAHN
Skill in sounding the shofar runs through the generations in the Loewenstein family
BY BILL MOTCHAN
SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH LIGHT
The Loewenstein family takes the concept of l’dor v’dor to heart.
Rob Loewenstein, 89, has been blowing shofar on Rosh Hashanah for 79 years. Arnold Weiss, his great-uncle, blew shofar in the 1920s at B’nai El, as did his father, Erwin Loewenstein. All four of his sons and his daughter Cynthia (of blessed memory) have blown the shofar. Add in his granddaughter Allie, and that’s four generations who engage in the centuries-old Jewish custom.
If the Loewenstein family had a crest, it would likely depict a ram’s horn. Rob Loewenstein is easily identifiable when he’s driving around St. Louis. His license plate reads “TEKIA.” Loewenstein’s father taught him to blow the shofar and he taught all of his children.
There may be something in the Loewenstein DNA that creates good shofar blowers. Even his great-granddaughter, 4-year-old Brynn, shows promise.
“My great-granddaughters were here two weeks ago visiting, and I took out my shofar and made a sound,” Loewenstein said. “Well, the little one picked up the shofar and blew it and sound came out. I said, ‘I’ve got a competitor!’ ”
Loewenstein was 10 years old when he first blew shofar. In 1954, he blew shofar in Jefferson City to commemorate 300 years of Jews living in America. This year, he’ll blow shofar at Congregation Shaare Emeth
on Erev Rosh Hashanah. On Sunday, Oct. 6, he’ll blow again at an 11 a.m. service of remembrance at New Mount Sinai Cemetery alongside his sons Drew and Michael and granddaughter Allie. It will
mark the 25th straight year Loewenstein has participated in the service. It will also be a particularly solemn occasion, coming 24 hours before the oneyear anniversary of the Oct. 7 Hamas
attack in Israel. In preparation for the High Holidays, Loewenstein has been cleaning his shofar collection. He has 10 shofars,
Rob Loewenstein (center) and his sons, Michael (left) and Drew, sound the shofar during a service of remembrance at New Mount Sinai Cemetery in 2018 (this year’s service takes place Oct. 6). FILE PHOTO: BILL MOTCHAN
SHOFAR
Wishing you a sweet, happy and healthy new year!
This year’s High Holiday kids’ books are a celebration of Jewish diversity
BY PENNY SCHWARTZ JTA
This story originally appeared on JTA.
The enduring traditions of the High Holiday season take shape across time and place in the latest crop of children’s books about Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and Sukkot.
This year’s books transport readers back to biblical times; whiz them to the old-world streets of Istanbul; remember the etrog trade in 18th-century New York City; and celebrate harvest festivals from very different culture. All of them beckon families with stories that display the rich diversity in Jewish culture.
Here’s your roundup of new children’s High Holidays books for 2024.
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“A Turkish Rosh Hashanah”
By Etan Basseri; illustrated by Zeynep Özatalay Kalaniot Books; ages 5-9
In this heartwarming story, Rafael, a young Jewish boy in Istanbul, wishes his grandmother Nona, and his cousins Alegra and Leon, “anyada buena,” the Judeo-Spanish greeting for a happy new year shared by Sephardic Jews at Rosh
Hashanah. Kids follow the cousins at the bustling outdoor market, where they help Nona shop for the ceremonial foods they will enjoy that evening at their traditional Sephardic meal. The cousins’ excitement is briefly dampened when an older kid bullies them while they shop. But Alegra courageously uses her voice to stand up to him, leading the way for Rafael and Leon to speak out, as well. A playful pack of friendly cats gets in on the action, keeping it light. When the family gathers for the
holiday, Nona praises the kids for their team work. The book concludes with an author’s note about Sepharic customs and a handy glossary.
“Max and the Not-So-Perfect Apology”
By Carl Harris Shuman; illustrated by Rory Walker and Michael Garton Apples & Honey Press; ages 6-8
ers meet Max, a young inventor who saves time in the morning by washing only one side of his face. When Max and his best friend Emma join forces for their Torahclass project about the biblical story of Jacob and his brother Esau, Max is determined to win first prize. But when their teacher arranges different teams, jealousy and feelings of being left out threaten their friendship. It’s a perfect set-up for a funfilled adventure when Max powers up his time-travel machine, this time without his co-pilot Jin Emma. He lands in Ancient Israel, where plenty of jokes between Max and Jacob, his son Joseph and Esau will have kids chuckling. There are meaningful lessons to be shared about forgiveness that reflect the themes of Yom Kippur.
“An Etrog from Across the Sea” By Deborah Bodin Cohen and Kerry Olitzky; illustrated by Stacey Dressen McQueen Kar-Ben; ages 4-10
Award-winning authors Deborah Bodin Cohen and Kerry Olitzky team up in a charming Sukkot tale lavishly illustrated by Stacey Dressen. Set in the early 18th century, a Sephardic Jewish family travels
In this cartoon-style page-turner, read-
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High Holy Days at Temple Israel!
The High Holy Days at Temple Israel are a time for celebration and spiritual transformation. We're here for adults, children, and families to celebrate, reflect, and remember as we bring in the new year, together.
Unexpected movies that capture the spirit of the High Holidays
BY DAVID QUINTAS AND RACHEL OLSHIN HEY ALMA VIA JTA
This story originally appeared on Hey Alma.
The High Holiday season is upon us. Teshuvah — a central tenet of these holidays — literally translates to “return,” but what exactly this concept means has been heavily debated by rabbinic scholars for thousands of years. Some say it entails a public act of confession, while others describe it as an internal process of change. For some it’s necessarily interpersonal; for others, introspective. Navigating these competing conceptions can be a daunting task, especially for anxious Jews like us. So we turn where we always turn:
the movies! As Rabbi Nicole Kidman says “our heroes feel like the best parts of us;” watching figures onscreen navigate their own challenges can inspire recognition, change and evolution in ourselves as well. So, for those of you who are similarly cinematically inclined, here are some film recommendations to get you thinking about what teshuvah might mean for you.
Note: We’ve divided these selections into five pairs based on differing interpretations of teshuvah inspired by articles written by Rabbi Avi Bart and Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks z”l. We recommend referencing those pieces for a more comprehensive understanding of teshuvah
Repenting for sin/wrongdoing
Concise, inspirational, traditional, yet totally alternative. Aish provides a judgement-free zone where questions are welcome and no Hebrew is necessary.
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“Flight” (2012): A central motif of the High Holiday liturgy is Vidui (Confession): acknowledging what one has done which requires amending. Naming wrongdoing aloud is a key step in the process. Robert Zemeckis’s “Flight” centers this phenomenon. Denzel Washington plays an alcoholic airline pilot who is being investigated for a crash landing which viewers know he completed under the influence. Throughout the film, the question of what will be revealed publicly and what he’ll own up to when it comes to his actions and his addiction is dangled in front of the viewer. Without giving the specifics away, the movie’s climax acts as an almost shocking moment of vulnerability and a powerful example of giving voice to what one needs to change as part of the process of changing it. Available to rent or buy online.
“One Child Nation” (2019): In this searching, searing documentary, director Nanfu Wang explores the repercussions of China’s former one-child policy, including those for her own family. In one powerful scene, Wang speaks with the midwife who helped birth her. Haunted by years of administering forced sterilizations and abortions on women who didn’t consent and in some cases were abducted, the mid-
wife dedicated herself in retirement to helping couples struggling with infertility have children. Throughout this documentary, viewers are confronted with people full of regret, struggling with questions that are also a central part of the High Holiday season: How can we make up for harm we’ve caused in the past? And is it always possible? Available on Amazon Prime.
Bettering Oneself
“Bridesmaids” (2011): When you think of this raunchy blockbuster, you probably don’t think of the Talmud. But in one of the core scenes of the film, down-on-herluck Annie (Kristen Wiig) has a passive aggressive yet profound conversation with the wealthy, snobby Helen (Rose Burns) regarding people’s capacity to change. Their disagreement actually mirrors a debate Talmudic sages Rabbi Yochanan and Reish Lakish have on teshuvah Helen/Rabbi Yochanan argue that people change: one moment they’re sinners and the next they’re righteous. Annie/ Reish Lakish argue that the human core remains the same, but people can grow into a more developed version of themselves. That’s the crux of this film, too, as Annie is forced to figure out who she is outside of her best friend Lilian (Maya Rudolph). She allows herself to move beyond her disappointments and keep working on who she wants to be. Melissa McCarthy’s uncouth character delivers a line summing this up (and a turn of phrase worthy of a High Holiday sermon): “You’re your problem, but you’re also your solu-
tion.” Available on Peacock.
“Groundhog Day” (1993): According to Maimonides, the teshuvah process is complete when one is faced with the same situation in which they erred, and makes a different choice the second time around. Perhaps no movie better serves as the paradigm of this definition than “Groundhog Day.” The film follows Phil Conners (Bill Murray), a bitter, sardonic weatherman who finds himself trapped repeating the same day over and over again. Only when he leans into helping others — after cycling through many, many versions of hedonism and nihilism — is he freed from the time loop.
The fact that the film has spawned a mini-genre of time loop movies (see: “Edge of Tomorrow,” “Palm Springs,” “The Map of Tiny Perfect Things,” et al) speaks to the resonance of the fantasy: What if you had the chance to redo your mistakes, to continually perfect your behavior? While outside of movies, such loops don’t occur, we will all eventually find ourselves facing similar choices to ones we regret making in the past. This season is one for reflecting on how we might adjust ourselves at such crossroads when living out whatever our personal version of Groundhog Day might be. Available on Netflix.
Returning to Our Past
“Moonlight” (2016): “Let your head rest on my head, I got you,” says Juan
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Happy double New Year
BY AMY FENSTER BROWN
One of the best things about being Jewish is celebrating holidays. There are the standard American and Hallmark ones like Valentine’s Day and Thanksgiving. Jews get so many extra holidays, including our gift of having two New Year’s celebrations.
When you get holiday cards in December some families include a newsletter to keep up with their family’s happenings. This Rosh Hashanah consider yourself part of Team Fenster Brown.
L’Shana Tova! Happy 5785 to you and yours!
We are doing very well and had a year filled with milestones, which are way more fun than kidney stones.
The boys are now men and luckily, they are cuter and smarter than ever, thanks to their dad, who says he plans one day to find out who their biological mother is.
Speaking of Jeff, he is really making the most of his impressive math skills. He constantly reminds me that he gets 51% of the votes in our house.
Like the rest of the country, Jeff is annoyed by inflation. His latest mantra is: “We can send the boys to college, or we can buy ground beef.” Tough call.
Lately, I’ve been introducing Jeff to people as my first husband. Even though he’s my only husband, I feel this new title really keeps him on his toes.
Davis, age 18, graduated from high school. He even acknowledged us during the ceremony. Now that he’s a college man, he’s starting to question the world around him. Once while shopping, I saw some clothes I thought he might like. He opened the bag, paused and asked, “Mom, have you ever seen me leave the house?” So, I think he didn’t like them.
Since Davis left for college, Leo has not stopped talking. Is it possible he wasn’t a quiet guy all along but just couldn’t get in a word edgewise before? He is now 17 years old, just months away from becoming a legal adult. Sometimes he has the attitude of an illegal adult.
He’s crushing it at school. Leo is president of his school’s National Business Honors Society, but I’m trying to get him to change the name of it to the None Of Your Business Society and avoid answering questions. He’s great at this activity at home, so why not take advantage of his innate skills at school?
Columnist Amy Fenster Brown
is married to Jeff and has two teenage sons, Davis and Leo. She volunteers for several Jewish not-for-profit groups. Fenster Brown is an Emmy Award-winning TV news writer and counts time with family and friends, talking and eating peanut butter among her hobbies.
I’m now at the age where all conversations boil down to the weather and food. The other day I heard myself say, “We really needed the rain.”
These days, the probability of physical things happening when I sneeze uncontrollably is huge. I’m still campaigning for the medical community to change the name of “the change” from menoPAUSE to menoSTOP — because I don’t want to entertain the possibility of it coming
back. Always working for the people, that’s me.
I took a trip to Baltimore to visit relatives this year. My 12-year-old nephew greeted me at the airport with a sign that read “Congratulations on your parole, Aunt Amy.”
Now we all move forward as we bid farewell to 5784 and flip the calendar to 5785. You can bet your apples and honey that it will be a sweet year for all of us.
Miles, age 12, creatively welcomes Aunt Amy.
HIGH HOLIDAYS
RECIPES
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cooked in a large kettle of water with onions, carrots, and the remaining fish head. This, my friends, is the genuine gefilte fish.
When was the last time you made, or were served, genuine gefilte fish? Instead, why not serve a delicious side of salmon, marinated in pomegranate molasses and topped with a lovely fresh herb salad. The symbolism is the same and most of your guests won’t miss the canned or jarred gefilte fish.
Rather than your standard noodle or potato kugel, why not make a kugel of butternut squash? Sweet and delicious, a squash kugel is easy to make and sublime to eat. Or think about serving a velvety butternut squash soup in place of the usual matzah ball soup, or a lovely side dish of cinnamon-spiced caramelized roasted butternut squash and couscous. All can be prepared a day in advance, making the day- of-preparation a lot easier.
The importance of continuing to honor family tradition is certainly not lost on me, and, though everyone in my family enjoys my butternut squash soup, I am not so sure they would prefer it to matzah ball soup on Rosh Hashanah. However, maybe just a slight tweak to your meal will not be noticed. And, if it is, it may be well received and perhaps become a new tradition.
I have included several recipes that use many of the symbolic foods I mention above. All are easy to prepare and can take as little or as much time as you have. You could use store-bought pie dough in a pinch, though my dough can be made far in advance. And granted, arranging the sliced apples on the Tahini Apple Tart is pretty, but it can be time consuming. Instead, you could cut the apples into chunks and spoon them onto the dough, then proceed with the recipe. Either way, your tart will look beautiful and will taste great. Be creative!
Wishing you all a happy and healthy New Year.
Recipe: Tahini Cinnamon Apple Galette
(Adapted from recipe by Andy Baraghani)
This apple galette is very traditional except, in place of the more common almond frangipane, this one uses a delicious tahini paste which, along with the sprinkled sesame seeds on the crust, gives it an exotic Middle Eastern kick.
INGREDIENTS:
Flaky tart dough:
1/3 cup ice water
½ tsp. table salt
1 ½ c. plus 1 tbsp. unbleached all-purpose flour (227 g.)
1 tbsp. granulated sugar
1/2 cup plus 2 1/2 tbsp. unsalted butter (1 stick plus 2 ½ tbsp.- (150 g.) cut into 1-inch pieces, placed on a plate and refrigerated until needed
Tahini paste:
1/3 c. tahini (sesame seed paste)
3 tbsp. granulated sugar
3 tbsp. unsalted butter, softened
1 large egg
¼ tsp. salt
Filling and assembly:
2 lbs. tart apples (about 6 medium), such as Granny Smith, Honeycrisp, or Pink Lady
1 tbsp. freshly squeezed lemon juice
1/4 c. granulated sugar, plus more for sprinkling
1 tsp. ground cinnamon
1/8 tsp. ground cardamom
1/4 tsp. vanilla extract
Egg wash-1 egg beaten with 1 tsp. milk or water, for brushing crust
1-2 tbsp. sesame seeds
Powdered sugar, for sifting over tart (optional)
DIRECTIONS
Pastry Crust:
Stir together water and salt in a small bowl until salt is fully dissolved. Keep mixture refrigerated until needed.
Place flour and sugar in work bowl of a food processor. Sprinkle chilled butter pieces evenly over flour, and pulse machine only until coarse crumbs form. (You should still have small pieces of flour-coated butter.)
Remove water/salt mixture from refrigerator. While pulsing machine, drizzle water mixture through food tube until everything is evenly moistened, and mixture is just becoming cohesive.
Turn contents of food processor bowl out onto a lightly floured counter. Gather mixture together with your hands to form a smooth ball, working dough as little as possible.
Place ball onto a 12” long sheet of plastic wrap on countertop, press into a flat disk, and wrap in plastic wrap. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours or up to 2 days. (At this point, dough disk may be placed in a freezer bag and kept frozen for up to 1 month. Allow dough to sit overnight in the refrigerator before continuing.)
Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. On a lightly floured counter, roll dough out into a 10-12” circle and lift onto baking sheet (it will go over the sides of the pan). Place baking sheet into refrigerator.
Recipe: Pomegranate Glazed Salmon
INGREDIENTS:
Salmon:
1 2 ½lb. side of salmon
2 tsp. sea salt, plus more for serving
1 tsp. freshly ground black pepper, plus more for serving ¼ c. pomegranate molasses
2 tbsp. date molasses or honey
1 tbsp. olive oil, plus more for oiling parchment or foil
½ tsp. ground cumin
1/8 tsp. ground cayenned pepper
1 tbsp. freshly squeezed lemon juice
Sesame spread:
Whisk tahini, sugar, butter, egg, and salt together in a medium bowl until smooth. (Spread can be covered and refrigerated for up to 5 days. Let it come to room temperature before using.)
To assemble:
Place a rack in the bottom third of the oven. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Peel, core, and slice or coarsely chop apples. Place them in a bowl and toss with lemon juice, sugar, cinnamon, vanilla extract, and cardamom.
Remove pan from refrigerator and spoon sesame spread in center. Use the back of a spoon or small spatula to evenly spread mixture to within 2-inches of the border of the dough.. Arrange apple slices or turn apple chunks onto the tahini spread. Turn edges of dough over the apples, pleating the dough decoratively (most of the apples will remain uncovered).
Brush the edges of the dough with the egg wash, sprinkle with sesame seeds and then sugar. Bake for 45-50 minutes, or until apples begin to caramelize. Transfer pan to a cooling rack and let cool completely.
The galette can also be kept overnight in the refrigerator. Once completely cooled, cover it with plastic wrap. Serve cold or at room temperature. Makes 8 servings.
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line a large baking sheet pan with parchment paper or foil paper. Smear lightly with olive oil. Place salmon, skin side down, onto prepared pan. Sprinkle evenly with salt and pepper; set aside.
To make pomegranate glaze, combine pomegranate molasses, date molasses or honey, 1 tbsp. olive oil, cumin, cayenne pepper, and lemon juice in a small bowl. Whisk until combined.
Set 4 tbsp. of the glaze into a small dish and brush 2 of the 4 tbsp. on the top of the
salmon; bake for 10 minutes. Remove pan from the oven and brush with an additional tablespoon from that small dish of glaze; bake for 5 minutes more. Brush, once again, with the last of that glaze, and continue to bake for an additional 8-12 minutes, or until salmon flakes when poked in the center, and the flesh appears cooked. (If you’re using a thermometer, the salmon should be at 125130 degrees.)
Let salmon rest for a few minutes, and then carefully transfer it, using a spatula at either end, to a large serving platter. Alternatively, slice salmon into portions while still in the pan and arrange slices on your platter.
Drizzle remaining glaze over salmon, sprinkle with salt and pepper, to taste. evenly Scatter dill, cilantro, lemon zest and pomegranate seeds over the top; serve. Makes about 8 servings.
PHOTO: MICHAEL KAHN
Caramelized Butternut Squash with Dried Apricots and Couscous
INGREDIENTS:
For squash:
3 c. peeled, halved, seeded, butternut squash, cut into 3/4” pieces
3 tbsp. olive oil or unsalted butter (melted)
2 tsp. dark brown sugar
1 tsp. ground cinnamon
3/4 tsp. sea salt
1/4 tsp. ground turmeric
1/2 tsp. ground ginger
1/2 c. dried apricots, roughly chopped
For couscous:
1 c. couscous
1 tbsp. olive oil
1/2 tsp. salt
1 c. boiling vegetable broth
3 tbsp. unsalted butter, cut into pieces
For garnish:
1/4 c. fresh chopped cilantro (or parsley if you don’t like cilantro)
1 tsp. finely grated lemon zest
1 tbsp. freshly squeezed lemon juice
1 tbsp. olive oil, plus more for drizzling
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Line a large baking sheet with parchment paper; set aside. Combine squash, olive oil, brown sugar, cinnamon, salt, turmeric, and ginger in a large bowl; mix until squash is evenly coated.
Evenly spread mixture onto pan and bake for 30 minutes. Remove pan from oven and add coarsely chopped apricots; toss mixture. Return pan to oven and bake an additional 10 minutes, or until squash is tender and slightly caramelized. Set pan on a cooling rack.
While squash and apricots are cooking, mix couscous, olive oil, and salt together in a heatproof serving bowl. Pour in the boiling vegetable broth and cover bowl tightly with plastic wrap. Let stand for 10 minutes.
Uncover bowl and scatter butter pieces on top. Fluff the couscous with a fork and cover again until ready to serve.
To serve, fluff couscous once again and pour the butternut squash mixture over the couscous.
In a small bowl, mix the chopped cilantro, lemon zest and juice, and olive oil. Use your fingers to evenly scatter the garnish over the top of the squash. Drizzle with some premium olive oil and serve.
Note: If serving later, keep the couscous, squash mixture, and garnish separately. When ready to serve, gently reheat couscous and squash, and assemble with garnish, as described above.
Makes about 6 side dish servings.
SHOFAR
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and four more on loan to family members. They are Ashkenazi shofars that have the optimal pitch to emit the single long tekia horn blast.
“Sephardic shofars are longer,” he said. “They have a beautiful sound, and they are easier to blow than this is because the Ashkenazi shofar has a shorter shank. There’s no mouthpiece like a musical instrument. You are basically just blowing air out of it.”
One shofar sitting on Loewenstein’s coffee table is special. It emits a hearty sound similar to a French horn. On this late September afternoon, he carefully held it, and put it to his lips to blow. Loewenstein acquired it in 1980 on a trip to Israel. It is dark and has intricate carving. He first blew it at the Western Wall in Jerusalem and, next month, he’ll blow it again 44 years later.
5785
Shanah tovah u’metukah!
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by stagecoach from their country home to New York City to their grandfather Luis’ large house. Leah, her brother Aaron and their mother eagerly await Papa’s return from his travels from Corsica in time for Rosh Hashanah. In a postcard, Papa has promised to bring home a perfect etrog — the fragrant citrus fruit used during Sukkot. But when Papa doesn’t arrive, they fear something is wrong. Grandpapa Luis comforts Rachel with a beautiful silver etrog cup. But will her papa return for Sukkot, bringing the promised etrog? To everyone’s relief, Papa returns home just in time, and the etrog finds its home in Leah’s silver cup. In an author’s note, families learn that the story is based on the life of Luis Moises Gomez (16601740), a prosperous merchant and trader from Britain who settled in New York.
“Mixed-Up Mooncakes”
By Christina Matula and Erica Lyons; illustrated by Tracy Subisak Quill-Tree Books; ages 4-8
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“Sammy Spider’s First Book of Jewish Holidays”
By Sylvia A. Rouss; illustrated by Katherine Janus Kahn Kar-Ben; ages 1-4
Possibly the most famous character in Jewish children’s literature, Sammy Spider is back in board-book form in an introductory text about the Jewish holiday cycle. Starting with the fall holidays of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot and Simchat Torah, the book continues through Shavuot in spring, showing the friendly young arachnid who enjoys spinning his web in the home of a Jewish family.
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“One More Story, Tata!”
By Julie Salamon; illustrated by Jill Weber Minerva Books; ages 4-8
In their newest collaboration, Julie Salamon and Jill Weber hit the mark
A Jewish mother who lives in Hong Kong is one of the co-authors of a story featuring a young girl whose family celebrates two harvest holidays: Sukkot and the Chinese Mid-Autumn Festival. Ruby shops separately with her Chinese Nainai and her Jewish Zayde for supplies for the holidays, but she craves some way to combine them. Like other recent books such as “Two New Years” and “The Very Best Sukkah,” the book illuminates connections between different traditions for readers who appreciate learning about the world and want to see contemporary models of Jewish family represented in children’s literature.
with a charming, beautifully illustrated intergenerational story about a young girl named Ruby, her grandparents and great grandmother Tata. Every weekend, when Ruby visits, Tata enchants her with stories imagined from her dreams. On Friday nights, they gather around the Shabbat table and light candles, share challah and enjoy a festive meal.
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“Ping-Pong Shabbat: The True Story of Champion Estee Ackerman”
By Ann Diament Koffsky; illustrated by Abigail Rajunov Little Bee Books; ages 4-8
Kids will cheer as they follow a rising young ping-pong star named Estee who aces all her competitions. Every Shabbat, Estee takes a break from the fast-paced game to go to synagogue and later, to enjoy the company of her family and friends. But when Estee qualifies for the national championship that will be held on a Saturday, she faces a hard choice. In the back pages of this action-packed, cartoon-style book, readers discover the real-life story of Estee Ackerman, who gave up the chance to compete in the national table tennis championship when she was just 11-years-old, because it was held on a Saturday. The following year, Estee won the gold medal at the nationals, gratified by the knowledge that she had honored her values and her religion.
(Mahershala Ali) when teaching “Little” Chiron (Alex Hibbert) how to swim; this tender exchange is in heavy contrast to the harshness of their world. “Moonlight” follows Chiron, a young Black man growing up in Miami, on his journey from childhood to adulthood as he navigates his relationship to queer identity and masculinity. The film celebrates vulnerability while depicting the difficulty that Chiron has accepting it, as he seems to run away from moments of gentleness and love in his life. The first steps to teshuvah involve returning to the vulnerable moments in your year, sitting with them, and building from there — which Chiron ultimately takes on in a stunning and delicate ending. Available on Max.
“Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind” (2004): Reflecting is exhausting and sometimes harrowing, and that is why the central conceit of this film — a procedure to erase painful memories — is so enticing. After breaking up, Joel (Jim Carrey) and Clementine (Kate Winslet) both attempt to erase their relationship and any knowledge of the other from each of their minds. In doing so, they literally walk through past memories, retracing their steps to figure out what went wrong in the relationship. This film is sentimental and romantic without being heavy-handed, and asks big questions about how our pasts inescapably shape us. Like all of screenwriter Charlie Kaufman’s works, the answers are somewhat ambiguous, but in this bittersweet film, as in the teshuvah process, reckoning is the only way forward. Available on IQIYI.
Connecting with Something
Greater than Yourself
“Arrival” (2016): Extraterrestrial stories have long served as analogues for a spiritual search for meaning. In the former, the search is literal and in the latter its metaphysical, but both ask the same questions: Am I part of something bigger? Is anybody watching me? Is there something out there? In this adaptation of a Ted Chiang novella, a linguist played by Amy Adams grapples with how to communicate with an alien invasion but finds the answers have deeper implications about humanity’s ability to cooperate, about space and time and about accepting the story of our own lives. Available on Netflix.
Accepting Yourself
“Real Women Have Curves” (2002): Before “Lady Bird” (a very worthy honorable mention for this list), there was “Real Women Have Curves,” a coming-of-age story about a young Mexican-American woman faced with the choice of going to New York for college or staying in East Los Angeles to help support her family. A then-17-year-old America Ferrera plays Ana in a vivacious and star-turning performance that includes struggling with a fraught relationship with her mother, her body, and the way her mother controls her eating. Ultimately the film is about Ana discovering and learning to love herself, despite the conflicting demands surrounding her. As we navigate the self-scrutiny of Teshuva, we too can learn to appreciate ourselves, even in the face of tension and insecurity. Available on Max.
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CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH
On Sept. 15, Congregation Shaare Emeth hosted ‘in the context of the 2024 Election’ with Deutsch Scholars-in-Residence Dr. Tevi Troy and Rabbi David Saperstein. They debated the merits and weaknesses of liberal and conservative policy in service to the interests of American Jewry, global Jewry and Israel, while demonstrating how even political protagonists with sharply differing political, religious and ideological views can engage in respectful and constructive debate.
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CROWN CENTER FOR SENIOR LIVING
Thanks to the Sydney and Bobette Guller Family Foundation, Crown Center residents enjoyed a festive dinner as part of the Sharing Shabbat project. Congregation United Hebrew Rabbi Emeritus Howard Kaplansky began the evening with candle lighting and blessings. The meal, catered by Circle@Crown Cafe, was served by Crown board members, volunteers and their families, turning this Shabbat meal into a special evening for all.
ABOVE RIGHT: Rabbi Howard Kaplansky speaks during the Shabbat dinner at Crown Center.
RIGHT: Crown Center board member Dan Cohen and daughter Amanda serve dinner to guests.
ABOVE AND LEFT: Guests enjoy Shabbat dinner at Crown.
