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U.CITY PURIM PARADE Nearly 500 participants joined in the Purim re-enactment and parade through the streets of University City on Sunday, March 24. Costumed characters marched alongside the characters in the Purim story during the annual event. For a gallery of images from the U.City Purim Reenactment Parade, visit stljewishlight.org/multimedia. ALL PHOTOS BY BILL MOTCHAN

Boasting six coveted awards, the New Jewish Theatre was the biggest winner at the 2024 St. Louis Theater Circle Awards, which took place Monday night at the Loretto-Hilton Center. The annual event, now in its 11th year, celebrates locally produced professional theater work performed in 2023 and is presented by St. Louisarea theater critics.

Five of NJT’s six awards went to its musical production of “Into the Woods,” which ran from Nov. 30 to Dec. 17 at the Jewish Community Center’s Wool Studio Theater. In addition to Outstanding Ensemble in a Musical and Outstanding Production of a Musical, Robert Quinlan won for Outstanding Director of a Musical; Phil Leveling won for Outstanding Supporting Performer in a Musical, Male or NonBinary; and Larry D. Pry won for Outstanding Musical Director.

NJT’s sixth award went to Christina Rios for Outstanding Supporting Performer in a Comedy, Female or NonBinary Role, for her work in “Broadway Bound.”

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Columnist lets AI have a crack at ‘News & Schmooze’ As if trolling Facebook and Instagram weren’t enough of a time suck, I’ve been playing around with ChatGPT, an AI language model created by OpenAI (whose CEO, Sam Altman, is Jewish, grew up in St. Louis and graduated from John Burroughs). For those unfamiliar, AI stands for Artificial Intelligence, which refers to the development of computer systems capable of performing tasks that typically require human intelligence. These tasks include learning, reasoning, problem-solving, perception, understanding natural language and even creativity.

The last two sentences of that paragraph come from AI itself, or at least what ChatGPT spit out when I typed in, “What is AI?” Make no mistake, I am no AI expert, but from what I learned, there are all kinds of free AI tools you can use to test its functionality. Some can be used similar to Google to help you learn or to sharpen your writing or even to come up with fresh ideas.

I have no clue where ChatGPT rates in the growing spectrum of AI tools, but I do know right now it’s free (at least the version I’m using is) and super simple to use. That’s a pro. But how is it at coming up with a column subject when I feel drained of inspiration and tired?

So, I asked my new best friend, ChatGPT, “What is a solid, somewhat funny column topic for the editor of the St. Louis Jewish newspaper to write about?” Here is what I got: “How about ‘The Joys and Oys of Jewish Parenting’? This column could explore the humorous and sometimes challenging experiences of raising Jewish children in today’s world. Topics could range from the mishaps of trying to teach your kids Yiddish phrases to navigating the complexities of

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planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. The column could also include anecdotes from the author’s own parenting journey, as well as humorous observations about the unique quirks and traditions of Jewish family life. Overall, it would offer a lighthearted and relatable perspective on the joys and challenges of being a Jewish parent.”

Not a bad subject, I’ll admit, though I’ve written several incarnations of that column over the years and Jewish Light contributor Amy Fenster Brown pretty much holds the patent on that kind of material. But it wasn’t the idea that concerned me as much as the punctuation. Why wasn’t the question mark inside the single quote marks of ‘The Joys and Oys of Jewish Parenting?’ And why was the “b” in bar and bat mitzvah capitalized?

There’s nothing that burns my griddle more than random capitalizations.

Nevertheless, I did sense this was a chance for me to square the record with readers when it comes to spelling.

You see, I was born without the spelling gene (thanks dad), though I have tried over the years to compensate for its lacking (thanks “Webster’s New World Dictionary,” thanks spellcheck).

In that spirit, here’s a little parenting anecdote when navigating the complexities of a bar mitzvah given my spelling handicap.

In 2011, when planning son Jackson’s bar mitzvah, I worked with a graphic designer to create a text-heavy invitation. I thought it was clever, humorous and artistically pleasing, and I couldn’t have been prouder of the finished product.

I must have proofed that invitation 100 times, going over and over it to make sure every word

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was spelled correctly. When I was confident every word was, I gave the go-ahead to the printer for 150 copies.

When the invitations arrived, it took me less than 10 seconds to spot my spelling error. Can you find it in the picture to the right? If so, maybe you should apply to be a ChatGPT copy editor. All I know is that it cost my husband and me an extra 300 bucks to fix the misspelling and reprint the invitations. He thought we were crazy to do so, but I just couldn’t let this mistake get out the door; I was (and still am) editor of a respected Jewish publication, after all. If nothing else, its editor should know how to spell.

As I said earlier, I am no expert — in fact, I am the opposite of expert — when it comes to AI, but I am trying to learn about its pros and cons as they currently pertain to journalism. In experimenting with it, I’ve found AI can help with preparing interview questions, researching subjects and simplifying complex information, but it also has limitations, like understanding context, especially sarcasm and humor, as well as limited knowledge, which also can be biased, opinionated and/or just plain wrong.

Since ChatGPT was built by collecting vast amounts of data from the internet as well as websites, books and journals, what it spits back to users can be as biased or as opinionated as the information it was initially fed.

No question that while ChatGPT — and AI in general — is a relatively new and rapid-fire developing technology, likely even a game changer, it does give plenty of room for pause. Lawsuits have been launched because of it, accusing AI of stealing others’ work, images, even voice similarities. Few standards and practices, let alone legislation, exist around it. And as for us journalists, I’d like to believe that AI can never replace the creativity, imagination and turn-ofphrases that goes into our stories, and makes it seem alive, vibrant, and well, human.

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How a U. City kid grew up to start Haggadahs-R-Us JORDAN PALMER CHIEF DIGITAL CONTENT OFFICER

As Passover approaches, American Jews start considering their Haggadah options about a month before the first seder night on April 22. We learned this from Joe Buchwald Gelles, a St. Louis native who found his way into the professional Haggadah scene. Yes, he’s a professional Haggadah salesman.

Buchwald Gelles was born at Jewish Hospital on Dec. 31, 1948, and grew up in the Congregation B’nai Amoona community of University City, before leaving St. Louis in 1966 for college. After a series of short-term jobs including running away with a carnival, Buchwald Gelles found his way to Cleveland in 1973. It was there his unique Jewish journey began leading him to establish Haggadahs-R-Us, an online marketplace (haggadahsrus.com) featuring some of the best-selling Haggadahs.

In 1976 he opened Orange Blossom Press, a cooperative printshop that he ran for nearly two decades.

In 1989, he met Senior Fellow Emeritus of the Kogod Research Center at the Shalom Hartman Institute, Noam Zion. who in 1989 was the scholar-in-residence at the Cleveland College of Jewish Studies.

“He davened at our shul, Beth Am,” said Buchwald Gelles. “We reconnected when he returned in 1995 with a prototype of what became ‘A Different Night.’ I told him it was excellent, but he needed a designer

Some of the Haggadah available on Haggadahs-R-Us. and I offered to do the job. I didn’t get that job, but I did do the leader’s guide that accompanied it,” remembers Buchwald Gelles.

Jewish publishers had doubts about Zion’s Haggadah, suggesting there was a market only for Orthodox and pre-shortened English versions. Zion gambled on a third market: people wanting an enriched seder experience. He raised $68,000 and self-published his draft as “A Different Night: The Family Participation Haggadah,” which sold 23,000 copies in its first year.

“A Different Night” was hailed for “breaking the mold of the American Seder.”

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Maxwell House or Uncle Fred, it’s your turn to read a paragraph,” says Buchwald Gelles. “It starts with a ‘barebones’ seder but offers short texts for lively discussions and 20 versions of the Four Children spanning 500 years.”

Inspired by the success of “A Different Night,” Buchwald Gelles launched

Haggadahs-R-Us in 1997. “We began with one Haggadah and now offer 10, as well as supplements,” he says. “I only carry books I would willingly use in my own home.”

But Haggadahs-R-Us is more than just a store; it’s a passion project.

“Our philosophy is clear: this is not a supermarket,” Buchwald Gelles asserts.

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St. Louis teens seeking guidance on antisemitism and how to talk about Israel now have a new option Leaders for Tomorrow Accelerator

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Since Oct. 7, the Jewish Light has been closely following the stories of local teens grappling with the pressing need for guidance in navigating the surge of antisemitism. These young adults are not only seeking education on effectively addressing bigotry but also striving to become articulate advocates for Israel and the Jewish community among their peers.

For many years, the American Jewish Committee (AJC) has been at the forefront of educating over 2,000 teens through its Leaders for Tomorrow (LFT) program.

Now, this renowned program is making its way to St. Louis.

The LFT program is designed to instill a robust Jewish identity and cultivate advocacy skills, empowering teens to become informed and vocal advocates for Israel and the Jewish people. By equipping participants with knowledge, tools and skills, the program aims to proactively prepare them to address challenges they may encounter, particularly on college campuses where discussions about Israel can be contentious.

Nancy Lisker, regional director for St. Louis-American Jewish Committee, emphasized the importance of guiding

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WHERE: United Hebrew Congregation 13788 Conway Rd., 63141 MORE INFO: To Register, visit AJC.org/ stlouis/lft2024. For more information email kalmest@ajc.org teens through the complex landscape of antisemitism: ‘To help them navigate a complicated and often hostile social fabric, our teens will spend time learning the intricate history of antisemitism and how it manifests itself in today’s society. Together, we’ll unpack how these prevalent tropes manifest across major social media platforms and empower them to respond to or report antisemitism effectively.”

The AJC is transparent about the curriculum, ensuring parents understand exactly what their teens will be learning.

“We are unique amongst Jewish advocacy groups in promoting a centrist, non-partisan narrative approach to understanding the Israeli-Palestinian conflict,” said Lisker. “We teach our students that being pro-Israel does not mean you are

A previous Leaders for Tomorrow held by the American Jewish Committee. anti-Palestinian, or vice versa. Instead, we challenge them to acknowledge and validate Palestinian narratives while still remaining steadfastly true to our own proud Zionist beliefs.”

Rather than relying on scripted talking points, teens are encouraged to forge their own advocacy paths by gaining a deeper understanding of how their Jewish identities contribute to the broader tapestry of the Jewish people.

“This will be the first time that the AJC Leaders for Tomorrow program will be offered in St. Louis. Every year we see the immediate success of our work most prominently on American college campuses, where LFT alumni at top schools ranging from NYU to Northwestern to UC Berkley are standing up to denounce antisemitism and advocate for new policies to protect their Jewish communities,” said Lisker.

Author Dara Horn to deliver Annual Staenberg Lecture on April 15 The Annual Staenberg Lecture, presented by Maryville University in partnership with the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum, will take place Monday, April 15, at The Factory in Chesterfield.

The event will feature noted author and podcaster Dara Horn. Named one of the “Best Young American Novelists” by Granta Magazine (2007), she has published five novels along with her highly acclaimed book, “People Love Dead Jews: Reports from a Haunted Present” (Norton 2021). This collection of essays takes on

the crisis of antisemitism with clarity and insight, along with Horn’s trademark humor; setting the table for critical conversations among Jews and non-Jews alike.

She also hosts a companion podcast series for the book.

Horn’s nonfiction pieces have been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, Smithsonian, and numerous other publications. Her books have been translated into 12 languages, and named to lists that included: Notable Books (New York

Times); 25 Best Books of the Decade (Booklist), and Best Books of the Year (San Francisco Chronicle). In addition to receiving three National Jewish Book Awards, she has been a finalist for honors including the Kirkus Prize; the Wingate Prize; the Carnegie Medal for Excellence in Fiction, and more.

“Dara Horn’s work opens a door to crucial conversations about how we teach and discuss the Holocaust, and how we combat contemporary antisemitism,” said Myron Freedman, executive director of

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Annual Staenberg Lecture with author Dara Horn WHEN: April 15 ay 6:30 p.m. (doors at 6) WHERE: The Factory, 17105 North Outer 40 Rd, Chesterfield MORE INFO: For tickets or more information, visit thefactorystl.com/event/annual-staenberg-lecture/ the Museum. “We are grateful that this year’s Staenberg Lecture Series will feature her insights—especially during a time of rising antisemitism and hate. We thank Michael Staenberg and the Staenberg Family Foundation for once again making this important lecture series possible.”

This will be the third in a series of lectures made possible through a generous commitment to Maryville University from philanthropist Michael Staenberg, and the Staenberg Family Foundation. The fiveyear series focuses on contemporary social issues through the lens of the Holocaust, its lessons, and its historical significance.

“I am immensely proud of the Annual Staenberg Lecture, a beacon of knowledge and enlightenment in our community,” Staenberg said. “It’s an honor to support the critical conversations led by remarkable minds like Dara Horn, as we strive to combat hate and prejudice, and foster a more inclusive and understanding society.”

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Melton course will explore ‘Love, Loss and Wisdom’ The St. Louis community has another opportunity for adult learning beginning in May: Love, Loss and Wisdom, a sixweek course offered through the Florence Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning with Temple Emanuel Senior Rabbi Elizabeth Hersh on Thursdays from 7 – 8:30 p.m. The six sessions will take place May 2, 9, 16, 23, 30, and June 6 and will be offered in person at Temple Emanuel, 12166 Conway Road or on Zoom.

Classes are recorded so if you miss one, you can always watch it later.

Discover the Jewish responses and rituals that take us through mourning and arrive at a place of healing. When death inevitably enters our lives, Jewish wisdom and ritual can help us cope with heartbreak and loss, the anguish of why suffering exists. We will also seek to understand the big questions of what Judaism says about life after death and its understanding of messianic Rabbi Elizabeth Hersh times. With a wider lens, we gain a context with which to better understand our moments of anguish as individuals and as a community.

The cost is $179. However, if you have taken this class before, contact Rabbi Janine Schloss at rabbijanine@testl.org before registering. For those taking this class for the first time, register here: www.meltonschool.org/st-louis Confidential scholarships are available. In addition, a special tuition rate of $50 is available for any full-or part-time professionals working at Jewish organizations, including teachers and staff in St. Louis Jewish preschools, religious schools, day schools and youth groups.

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Holocaust Museum seeks nominations for 2024 Lutz Humanitarian Award The St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum is now accepting nominations for the 2024 Lutz Humanitarian Award. This annual tribute is named in honor of the late Holocaust rescuer and former St. Louisan, Carl Lutz. The winning nominee will be recognized at the annual program on Nov. 19. Nominations will close on May 10.

The award’s proceeds will support the Museum’s educational initiatives, fortifying its unwavering commitment to reject hatred, promote understanding, and inspire change.

The 2023 Award was posthumously awarded to Carl Lutz for his extraordinary efforts in saving lives during the Holocaust, commemorating his heroic work. Lutz, a Swiss diplomat stationed in

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Budapest during World War II, orchestrated a sweeping rescue mission that furnished tens of thousands of Jews with life-saving documentation. Lutz and his wife, Trudi, were named Righteous Among the Nations by Yad Vashem. A familiar face in the St. Louis community for almost a decade prior to the war, Lutz embodies the spirit of this award, which will be given annually beginning this year.

Chrissy Laycob, Award co-chair and Museum board member, said, “The Museum’s mission is to educate all its visitors about the history and lessons of the Holocaust – inspiring them to reject hatred, promote understanding, and inspire change. The Lutz Humanitarian Award puts the Museum’s mission in action by recognizing those among us who are actively fighting against hate

and bigotry, and for justice and understanding.”

Myron Freedman, the Museum’s executive director remarked, “As we honor the legacy of Carl Lutz, whose courageous acts during the Holocaust saved thousands of lives, we also look toward today’s humanitarians. The Lutz Humanitarian Award not only celebrates the bravery of individuals like Lutz but also serves as a beacon of inspiration for those dedicated to combating hatred and injustice today.”

Nominations are open on the museum’s website at stlholocaustmuseum.org/ programs/lutzhumanitarianaward.

Those interested in sponsorship opportunities may contact Chaney Jewell at CJewell@STLHolocaustMuseum.org or 314-442-3710.

The finale of Ignite YP’s Staenberg Speaker Series featured the series’ namesake, Michael Staenberg (at left) on March 20. Staenberg spoke about his philanthropic journey and his goal of “Building Beyond Bricks.” At right is Ryan Rich. Read a full story on the event online at stljewishlight.org. PHOTO: JORDAN PALMER

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Ashley Pollock has joined National Council of Jewish Women St. Louis as its membership manager. In this role, she will coordinate and support leadership and membership initiatives including all special events, leadership programs, membership programs and outreach. Pollock is a member of Congregation Shaare Emeth.

Artist Mark Witzling has been selected to participate in the selective Chateau Orquevaux artist residency program in Orquevaux, France this spring. He was awarded grant support for the residency from the Denis Diderot Foundation and the Regional Arts Commission.

Participating with artists from around the world, Witzling will focus on furthering his painting techniques using oils and cold wax. A member of United Hebrew Congregation, he recently retired as the Craft Alliance executive director.

The St. Louis Symphony Orchestra announced the appointment of Alex Shapiro as chief philanthropy officer. In this role he will report to the president and CEO and oversee a team of 16 working toward $10 million in annual giving, as well as the completion of the capital campaign for renovation and expansion of Powell Hall and building the endowment fund through legacy and planned gifts. Shapiro was most recently the vice president of philanthropy with the

TOP ROW, FROM LEFT: Ashley Pollock, Mark Witzling, Alex Shapiro and Rabbi James Stone Goodman.

SECOND ROW: Jesse Kavadlo, Gene Schenberg and Dylan Moulton.

BELOW: The cover of Rabbi James Stone Goodman’s new book, ‘Fountain, Respect for Sources.’

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Rabbi James Stone Goodman released his new book of poems and stories, “Fountain, Respect for Sources.” The book is based on a guideline for spiritual growth

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adapted from Solomon ibn Gabirol, a Spanish-Jewish poet writing mostly in Arabic in the 11th century. It is divided into six phases: Silence, Listening, Remembering, Practicing, Teaching and Gratitude. “Fountain” is the second book in a planned trilogy that also includes “Espaclaria is a Mirror, Sometimes Cloudy Sometimes Clear” and the forthcoming “Black Fire White Fire.” Goodman is a rabbi with Central Reform Congregation, which will host a live performance on April 4, when Goodman, Rabbi Susan Talve and local band Brothers Lazaroff will perform selections from the book set to music.

After 27 submissions, Jesse Kavadlo’s caption was selected by The New Yorker for its weekly cartoon. Each week the magazine provides an original cartoon in need of a caption. A member of Congregation Shaare Emeth, Kavadlo is a professor of English at Maryville University.

Former St. Louisan Gene Schenberg received the Electronic Transaction

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Rabbi Andrea Goldstein, Cantor Seth Warner, Lucy Greenbaum, Debbie Bram, and Shir Emeth Youth Choir invite you to our community 2nd night seder.

Our one-hour seder features readings from traditional & modern haggadot & generous amounts of music.

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Q&A: A Class on Reform Jewish Responsa with Jewish educator Cyndee Levy TOP ROW, FROM LEFT: Jill Schupp, Cindy Frank, Louise Levine and Mindy Grossman.

SECOND ROW: Diane Fadem, Karen Francis and Pat Shores.

BELOW: Volunteers with NCJWSTL’s Healing Hearts Bank include Joy Sterneck, Bonnie Davis, Mary Kutheis, Karen Tabak and Susan Glassman.

sands of eligible sales representatives, he was one of 50 sales representatives from member companies who demonstrated commitment and passion for achieving excellence. Schenberg resides in Las Vegas and is senior vice president of sales at Valor PayTech.

Dylan Moulton and her American University swim team set two school records at the Patriot League championships: the 200 and the 400 free relays. A sophomore at AU, she is the daughter of Shary and Jeff Moulton and is majoring in neuroscience.

LEFT: The band Post Sex Nachos, which includes former St. Louisans Sammy Elfanbaum (center) and Mitch Brodden (far right) will play at the 2024 Lollapalooza music festival in Chicago in August.

Former St. Louisans Sammy Elfanbaum and Mitch Brodden and their band, Post Sex Nachos, will perform at the 2024 Lollapalooza music festival, which will be held in Grant’s Park in Chicago on Aug. 1-4 (their band performs on Sunday, Aug. 4).

Jill Schupp is this year’s recipient of the 2024 Hannah G. Solomon Founder’s Award, given by NCJWSTL. She is scheduled to receive the award on April 3, at the Celebrating Women event held at the J Performing Arts Center, beginning at 7 p.m. This is the highest honor awarded by NCJWSTL and is presented to an individual who has changed the lives of others through his or her leadership efforts and service. In Schupp’s 22 years of elected service she passed 30 bills at the state level aligning with her focus on social justice, education, and healthcare. Currently, she serves as the Capital Campaign Committee Chair for the Veterans Community Project-STL; and serves on Access MO, Crown Center for Senior Living and Provident Behavioral Health Boards.

Other section and community honorees include: Cindy Frank, Leadership; Louise Levine, Fritzi Lainoff Advocate; Mindy Grossman, Emerging Leader; Diane Fadem, Community Impact and the AAUW Ballwin Chapter; Karen Francis and Pat Shores, Community Partnership; Healing Hearts Bankers volunteers - Gail Lapin, Karen Tabak, Jane Charbonneau, Susan Glassman, Joy Sterneck, Mary Kutheis, Randee Schmittdiel, Bonnie Davis, Mary Sue Inman, Gay Lipman and Monique Ray, Volunteer Service;

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The responsa literature, in which rabbis answer questions about halachah (Jewish law), is a vast treasury reaching back nearly 15 centuries; Reform rabbis have been writing responsa since the 1800s. In reading Reform Responsa, Rabbi Mark Washofsky presents a deep dive into this literature, boldly arguing that Reform Judaism is indeed a movement fundamentally based on halachah.

Participants will engage in impactful learning through the lens of Reform responsa and enjoy lively discussions focused on the process of engagement with Jewish law, values and practice. The text is compelling and made accessible through its combination of “rigorous scholarship and masterful storytelling.”

The group meets Tuesdays, April 9 & 16, and May 7, 14, 21 & 28 | 1– 2 p.m. at Temple Israel, #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive. These classes are open to the community.

There is no cost to attend but participants must purchase the course textbook.

RSVP is required by Friday, April 5 by RSVPing at www.ti-stl.org/ AdultEducation. Questions?

Contact Cyndee Levy at: cynlevy5@gmail.com

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D’VAR TORAH — PARASHAT SHEMINI

Dietary laws are another way to bring holiness to everyday life

BY RABBI JOSEF DAVIDSON

For the last two years in which I was enrolled in rabbinical school, I served a small congregation on a monthly basis located in the heart of Cajun Country: Lafayette, La. Located as it was near the Gulf of Mexico, the residents of Lafayette ate a lot of crayfish, mainly as an étouffée or at crayfish boils. I was familiar with crayfish, which we called crawdads and could find in the lake in City Park in Denver.

Fishermen there used them as bait to catch fish. We even caught one and kept it in a large pan filled with lake water. It managed to live quite awhile until the first winter freeze, but that’s another story!

So, whenever I was in Lafayette, invariably someone would declare to me, “Rabbi!

You don’t know what you are missing by not eating crayfish! It’s so good!”

Of course, I could agree that I didn’t know what I was missing, but that fact was not going to persuade me to try these obviously forbidden water creatures. I would reply that there were plenty of kosher fish that were served fresh from

the Gulf, so I would not go hungry. And all of them could be prepared blackened, my new favorite preparation, covered with lots of red pepper and other spices.

As we learn in this week’s Torah portion, Shemini, water animals are required to have fins and scales to be considered kosher, or fit for consumption. The rich variety of fish that have fins and scales is enormous, offering more choices than one can possibly consume, so I did not miss seafood that was not kosher, crayfish amongthem. Our Torah portion goes on to describe the characteristics of four-footed animals and of birds that render them kosher.

At first blush, Jewish dietary laws seem highly irrational. Why these animals and not those? Why these birds and not those?

Why these fresh water and sea creatures and not those? What is the lesson?

There is a saying: “You are what you eat.” Animals that are kosher are peaceful, vegetarian ruminants. Kosher winged creatures are not birds of prey. Fish with fins and scales are a bit more heterogenous. But what they share in common is that their flesh can be dried and otherwise

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STLRCA asks for community’s support As we near the celebration of Passover, we thank you for giving us the opportunity to serve you and for helping our community thrive.

The St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association (STLRCA) is the only clergy organization in the greater St. Louis area open to rabbis and cantors from all branches of Judaism. STLRCA members are Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist and non-denominational, and we serve our community in congregations, organizations, hospitals, universities and more.

As examples of our community support, we: • Provide a weekly D’var Torah in the St. Louis Jewish Light.

• Teach at Jewish community educational and cultural events.

• Create community dialogue on critical issues including religious freedom, equal rights and Israel.

• Participate in interfaith and interracial dialogue, representing the Jewish community to the broader community throughout the region.

• Offer a forum for clergy to discuss and act on community issues.

• Support our clergy by offering a place for collegiality and professional development.

The STLRCA is also actively involved in

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tzedakah throughout the community.

Each year during Passover we recall our own people’s experiences of hardship and servitude in Egypt. The Exodus story calls us to remember others in our own midst who suffer and to work for their redemption as well. With the lessons of Pesach in mind, the STLRCA is proud to be a co-sponsor of the Rabbi Robert P. Jacobs Jewish Fund for Human Needs (JFHN).

JFHN supports small St. Louis area non-profits that provide direct services to those in need of food, housing, health care, education, employment, and other essential human needs. Along with our co-sponsor, the Jewish Community Relations Council, we care for our neighbors and affirm the Jewish community’s commitment to providing for the basic needs of our neighbors.

The St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association is vital to the ongoing health and vibrancy of the St. Louis Jewish community. We ask for your support for the important work of the STLRCA and, through us, the JFHN, to keep us and our community strong and thriving!

To make a tax-deductible gift, you can contribute securely online via Paypal at www.paypal.com/givenow (enter STLRCA in the search box) or send a check made out to “STLRCA” to St. Louis Rabbinical & Cantorial Association, P.O. Box 410792, St. Louis, Mo. 63141.

On behalf of the entire STLRCA, best wishes for a Sweet Passover and thank

preserved and that their preparation does not involve cooking them alive. Animals and birds are to slaughtered humanely and as painlessly as possible. If we are what we eat, then ideally we, too, are peaceful and nonviolent.

Mindfulness has become a trait to be valued as a means of learning to be in the moment and enhance our experiences, spiritual and physical. Kashrut, Jewish dietary laws, is a means by which we become mindful of what it is that we put into our bodies. Instead of merely satisfying appetites, we have the opportunity to elevate consumption to a higher level of holiness. By exercising control over what we consume, we develop a physical and spiritual discipline that stands us in good stead for the many more serious decisions that we make over the course of our lives than, “What’s for dinner?”

The dietary laws are one of the means by which we actualize the statement that the Jewish people is an Am Kadosh, a holy people. This is not the kind of “holier than thou” holiness that some might associate with the term holy.

Am Kadosh also refers to the notion that

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Responding to recent letter In a March 20 letter to the editor, Roger Lewis states that Israel must “end aerial bombing and use of large-scale weaponry in Gaza while encouraging the flow of food and medicine into Gaza.”

Unfortunately, Israel must use bombs, but their damage is limited through computer modeling and dive-bombing. By altering the angle and the depth that the bomb explodes, bombs can be more precise.

However, no matter how careful Israel tries to be, civilians will be killed and wounded in a war. To minimize this, Israel warns civilians of impending attacks. This sacrifices the element of surprise. Safe zones and maps are also used to help civilians avoid danger.

Israel has also supplied food, water, and medicine to Gazans. To my knowledge, an army has never done this for an enemy’s civilian population. The truth is that Israel takes better care of Gazan civilians than Hamas does. There are reports of Hamas and armed civilians seizing aid meant for civilians as well as reports of terrorists killing civilians attempting to evacuate danger zones.

Mostly, Israel’s conduct during this war has been good. During a war, mistakes will be made. This terrible war could end immediately with the release of the hostages and the surrender of Hamas. It is sad

Rabbi Josef Davidson serves Congregation B’nai Amoona and is a member of the St. Louis Rabbinical and Cantorial Association, which coordinates the weekly d’var Torah for the Jewish Light. we are a people set apart from others, as noted by the prophet Bilaam when he blessed the Israelites instead of cursing them. There is nothing inherently wrong about the diets of those who do not observe Kashrut.

In fact, the rabbis admonish us to refrain from saying that we do not consume pork because it is vile. They advise us to say that it is the sweetest of meats. Rather, we refrain from enjoying the sweetest of meats voluntarily, mindfully, as part of a spiritual and physical discipline.

The dietary laws that are found in this week’s Torah portion are one of the means by which we elevate our lives to a higher plane of mindfulness and of holiness. In every aspect of life, Judaism is a way of life that makes the mundane holy and infuses life with meaning and purpose at all times.

Shabbat Shalom!

that this will not happen. Releasing the hostages without Israel releasing highly dangerous terrorists is not likely to happen, nor will Hamas surrender those responsible for Oct. 7.

David Goldmeier St. Louis

No easy answers Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has a very difficult decision to make. He can agree to a cease-fire with Hamas in the hope that the remaining hostages be freed, or continue his relentless fight to annihilate every last member of the Palestinian terrorist group.

Netanyahu must also consider the thousands of innocent Palestinian civilians, mostly women and children, who have been killed in the Israel-Hamas war, together with the tens of thousands of civilians who are starving because of the lack of humanitarian aid.

Furthermore, Israel’s actions may be contributing to the ever-increasing wave of antisemitism and anti-Israeli attitudes that are permeating the world’s stage.

I can sympathize with Netanyahu’s plight, and whatever decision he makes is certain to be met with criticism from both sides.

I’m a staunch supporter of the prime minister, but feel he is in the proverbial position of “being between a rock and a hard place.” That said, the world is waiting with bated breath for Netanyahu to make his all-important decision.

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TWO PERSPECTIVES ON JUDAISM AND ABORTION

‘Pikuach Nefesh’: Saving Choose life: Jewish law lives and the case for access forbids abortion except to abortion as health care to save the mother

BY RABBI SUSAN TALVE

Laws that ban and restrict access to abortion do not stop abortions; they only serve to make them more dangerous and life threatening.

Women die when those who oppose access to safe, legal and affordable abortion set up bans and barriers that confuse and cause fear for providers and organizations that were able to save countless lives when the law protected abortion as a personal choice.

Abortion bans and barriers put lives in the hands of politicians instead of physicians. For generations, the Jewish community has shown compassion for the physical, emotional and spiritual health of a person whose life is threatened by a pregnancy. Countless texts and rabbinical commentaries throughout the ages have supported the right of a pregnant person to know what choice is right for them.

As a child, I remember my mother helping those who did not have the means for safe abortions when they were illegal before the days of Roe vs. Wade. Our rabbi was part of an underground movement that saved lives by making sure that not only those with privilege had access and the support to make the difficult choice of terminating a pregnancy. The suggestion that anyone makes this choice lightly is misleading and cruel.

As a rabbi who has guided many through this challenging choice, I have been grateful to have much of Jewish tradition on my side. Jewish tradition supports those whose lives are threatened by a pregnancy to choose their own life for their sake and often for the sake of their families and other children.

I have been with mothers who have had to make the agonizing choice to terminate a wanted pregnancy to survive and be able to have other children. Judaism

Rabbi Susan Talve is the founding rabbi of Central Reform Congregation and is the founder of the Ashrei Foundation, which works to heal and repair Missouri through justice and equity. supports putting the mother’s life first if there must be a choice. I’m grateful that we can comfort those who have been raped or are the victims of incest as they weigh their options.

Anyone who has been on this front line knows that these are difficult and often necessary choices to save lives, relieve suffering and terminate fetuses that are incompatible with life. It is hard to believe that our state continues to choose policy over people and continues to put the most vulnerable at risk.

In 1974, Simone Veil, a Jewish Holocaust survivor and the director of the Ministry of Health of France, was successful in making a case for abortion.

She proved that laws that restricted abortion only served to punish the poor and that these laws only made a mockery of legal systems because they did nothing to stop abortions from happening.

As a Holocaust survivor who had been stripped of every dignity, she worked to protect the dignity and privacy of other women. She was among those survivors who saw the absolute banality of evil and still chose life and meaning.

As a Jewish woman, she drew upon many principles that value the saving of lives. As a feminist, she fought for the bodily autonomy of people with uteruses See RABBI TALVE on page 17

BY RABBI ZE’EV SMASON

Dear Rabbi, My husband and I just found out we’re expecting. This pregnancy hasn’t come at the best time; we’re facing difficult financial pressures, and it just doesn’t seem like the right time for us to have a child. Friends have advised me to consider an abortion. Some have said their rabbis teach that a fetus doesn’t become a person until after birth and that, according to Judaism, abortion is “a choice.” However, when I think about terminating the life of our unborn child, my heart tells me that it might not be the right thing to do. What does the Jewish Bible say about abortion?

Respectfully, Samantha Dear Samantha, I so admire that you look to our 3,300-year-old Torah for moral guidance regarding the consequential decision you face. Before relating the Torah’s stance on abortion, I’d like to share some ideas that Judaism expresses regarding the grandeur and significance of the life growing inside you.

The Divine gift of a soul was given to your child, Samantha, when it was conceived within you. The Talmud identifies this moment of ensoulment in a fascinating dialogue between Rabbi Judah the Prince and the Roman Emperor Antoninus (Sanhedrin 91b). Although the popular joke goes that a Jewish fetus is only considered viable when it gets into medical school, the truth is that Judaism has always believed that life begins at conception, i.e. that the soul — that all-knowing, all-feeling inner self that is the true person — is present at the very beginning of an unborn child’s formation.

Were you aware, Samantha, that the soul you and your husband brought into

World leaders, journalists should not blindly trust information from Hamas

BY JENNY WOLKOWITZ

In his State of the Union last month, President Joe Biden referenced Hamas’s “Gaza Health Ministry” casualty numbers, saying that “more than 30,000” Gazans have been killed. Secretary of State Antony Blinken has now said that Israel must make reducing these casualties Israel’s “highest priority,” apparently even higher than bringing back the more than 100 hostages who are being sexually abused in dark tunnels, with minimal food and water, six of whom are American citizens.

But the 30,000 figure has been proven totally false. First, even Hamas admits the 30,000 includes terrorists that Israel is intentionally killing. Israel estimates this figure at 13,000. Second, we know the 30,000 could include casualties from more than 1,200 Hamas and Palestinian Islamic Jihad (PIJ) errant rockets dropped within

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Gaza and attributed to Israel. Third, we know the 30,000 could include Gazans who are shot by Hamas operatives while relocating at Israel’s request or attempting to obtain some of the international food aid that Hamas keeps for its own leaders and fighters or sells back to Gazans at exorbitant prices. Most likely though, the 30,000 figure doesn’t correlate to any actual casualty numbers whatsoever because it is entirely fictitious.

A world-renowned Wharton professor of statistics and data science, Abraham Wyner, has determined that because of internal inconsistencies, the likelihood is zero that the numbers reported by the “Health Ministry” are truthful. Based on his analysis of casualties reported during the first three weeks of the war, Wyner concludes that Hamas picks an arbitrary number for daily total deaths, takes 70% of this total as its reported number of daily deaths for women and children, and then

each day randomly splits that number between women and children. Following this process, Wyner was able to replicate the numbers reported by Hamas during the three-week period, noting that the number of total deaths reported each day was constant at 270 +/- 15%, regardless of whether the Israel Defense Forces engaged in fighting or not on a given day. Moreover, the percentage of deaths of women and children that are reported each day does not fluctuate regardless of whether the fighting is in a civilian area or in tunnels where only Hamas fighters are present.

Of course, it should come as no surprise that Hamas is falsifying its casualty numbers. Certainly, an organization that supports beheadings, rape and torture would have no qualms about lying. Hamas fully admits that its strategy is to maximize Gazan deaths to create global sympathy.

When Hamas claimed that Israel had bombed a hospital, it immediately – within

Rabbi Ze’ev Smason is chairman of the Coalition for Jewish Values Missouri.

the world now has a share of the World to Come? Many are unaware that Judaism believes in the afterlife and the eternity of the soul. An infant gains a share of the World to Come from the moment of conception.

Rashi, the preeminent French Medieval Torah elucidator, states: “ ‘From the time of conception’ — from the time the seed has been conceived in the mother’s womb, even if the mother miscarried and the child is lost, it has a portion in the World to Come” (Sanhedrin 110b).

The life of your baby began long before he or she will be born. And lest someone attempt to convince you, Samantha, that the question of when life begins is solely an issue of theology or philosophy, please consider just a handful of developmental markers of the child growing inside you.

Your unborn baby’s heart will begin to beat 18 to 21 days after fertilization. At a certain stage, your unborn child will begin to suck his or her thumb for comfort. If you sing or listen to music on loudspeakers during your pregnancy, your baby will be born with a better ability for neuronal encoding of speech sounds.

The Torah teaches, Samantha, that your unborn child lives an astoundingly robust spiritual life. The Talmud (Niddah 30b) reveals that an angel teaches your See RABBI SMASON on page 17

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the hour – claimed 500 fatalities. We then learned that it was an errant PIJ rocket that fell outside the hospital, and the fatalities were less than 100. We already know objectively that it is impossible for Hamas to accurately assess these figures in a war zone.

How does it happen that people who call themselves journalists report unconfirmed numbers like these? First, journalists will tell you that on a big story like this, there is intense pressure to keep reports coming, no matter what. Second, because it is a war zone, Israel does not permit outside journalists within Gaza, other than on supervised military tours. That’s why See COMMENTARY on page 17

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Plenty is new for the 29th annual St. Louis Jewish Film Festival, which takes place April 7-18: a new location, an All-Access Pass, a return to an all-theater experience and a new director. But one thing has not changed: a great lineup of insightful, inspiring and uplifting films with Jewish themes.

The title of this year’s festival is “Escape the Ordinary,” and it does that with films that speak to today, films that touch the heart, bring a laugh or a tear, films that make it worthwhile to come out to the theater to share the experience with others.

“This year’s St. Louis Jewish Film Festival is one of the best ever,” said festival co-chair Marilyn Brown. “We have a really strong lineup of films — dramas, documentaries, comedies, etc. There is absolutely something for everyone to enjoy. Films that will make you think, bring you tears, and give you a good belly laugh.”

The festival boasts 10 feature films and six short films from eight countries, including Israel, in English, Hebrew, Italian and French (with subtitles, of course).

So, what’s new this year?

“I would say ‘what’s different’ is one of the themes this year. It seems like nearly everything is different,” said John Wilson, the Jewish Community Center’s director of cultural arts, and director of the festival.

The festival has expanded to six days of screenings from five, spread out over two weeks. Films will be shown at a new venue, the B&B Theatres Creve Coeur West Olive 10, 12657 Olive Blvd.

The new All Access Festival Pass is already sold out, said Wilson, who encourages film fans not to delay buying tickets to individual films.

The festival kicks off Sunday, April 7, with a program Celebrating Israeli Filmmakers from Sapir College in Sderot, Israel. The college is located in the western Negev

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near Gaza but was closed on Oct. 7 when Hamas launched its brutal border attacks. When the college shut down, the students in its top-notch film program were in the last weeks of completing their final film projects, which were supposed to be shown at the annual Cinema South Festival. It was canceled because of the war. The college only reopened its campus for classes in late March, according to Israeli news site ynetnews.com.

Five of the short films made at the Sapir Academic Campus School of Film & Television Studies will be presented beginning at 4 p.m. One of the producers, Yasmin Hoffman, who produced “Elinor,” will attend. More details on the festival’s opening day can be found in a Jewish Light article published March 20 (and online at stljewishlight.org).

Another festival highlight will be a comedy double feature on Tuesday, April 9, with “My Neighbor Adolf” at 3:30 p.m. and “Remembering Gene Wilder” at 7. Separate tickets are needed for each film. “My Neighbor Adolf” is an English-language Israeli/UK/German dark comedy set shortly after Mossad abducted Nazi Party official Adolf Eichmann from Argentina. In the film, a reclusive Shoah survivor living in rural South America begins to suspect his new German neighbor (Udo Kier) is Adolf Hitler.

The documentary “Remembering Gene Wilder” is the favorite festival film of co-chairs Brown and Paula Sigel.

Glenn Kirschbaum, the film’s writer and co-director, will be in attendance and will speak before and after the film.

On Thursday, April 11, a pair of films fitting the theme “Overcoming Adversity” will be shown. “Exodus 91,” a creative, thought-provoking Israeli docudrama based on real life efforts to bring Ethiopian Jews to Israel, will screen at 3:30 p.m. “The Way to Happiness,” a Belgian, French-language drama-comedy, will screen at 7. Set in 1987, the film is about a man who escaped the Holocaust as a “hidden child and now runs a movie-themed deli.

When he suddenly falls for a woman, he finds he must confront his past.

‘St. Louis Jewish Film Festival’ WHEN: April 7 - 18 WHERE: B&B Theatres Creve Coeur West Olive 10, 12657 Olive Blvd. in Creve Coeur HOW MUCH: Ticket prices are $20 for the opening day program, and $15 for other films MORE INFO: Visit stljewishfilmfestival.org. Tickets are available online or through the Jewish Community Center box office at the Staenberg Family Complex’s Arts & Education Building, 2 Millstone Campus Drive (open Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.). Festival brochures are available at the J, as well as at some synagogues and businesses.

Sunday, April 14, is “Lovers’ Sunday,” with Israeli romantic comedy “Matchmaking” — which Brown calls the don’t-miss comedy of the festival — at 3:30 p.m., and “The Story of Annette Zelman,” a French romantic drama based on a true story, showing at 7.

Films on Tuesday, April 16, are themed “Laugh and Love,” including a showing of two short films at 3:30 (“Heritage Day” and short feature documentary “The Catskills”) for one admission. At 7 p.m., the festival will screen the full-length feature “Love Gets a Room,” inspired by true events surrounding a theater troupe that puts on plays during the Nazi occupation of Poland.

“A majority of the action takes place on the stage in the theater where they perform,” said Wilson, who counts the film as one of his favorites of the festival. “It’s riveting, romantic, musical and very compelling storytelling.”

The festival closes out Thursday, April 16, with “Arts and Romance,” featuring “Vishniac” at 3:30 p.m., a documentary about one of the 20th century’s foremost photographers, Roman Vishniac, and “The Shadow of the Day,” an Italian 1930s-set romance, at 7 p.m.

The festival is dedicated to the late Jeffrey Korn, its longtime co-chair.

“We lost our third co-chair, Jeffrey Korn, this past fall,” Wilson said. “It was unanimous among the committee that this year’s festival would be entirely dedicated to Jeffrey’s memory and the stalwart work he did while serving on the festival committee for years and years.”

Sigel said: “Jeffrey was such an integral part of the festival for many years. He will be greatly missed. We will miss his jovial smile, and all the time and energy he spent to make each year a success.”

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5 great Passover books for kids from PJ Library

BY JENNIFER BAER

spin on a classic Yiddish folktale.

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“Nachshon, Who Was Afraid to Swim”

I have a terrible memory. Actually, I remember obscure details really well but forget passwords, early pick up times, birthday parties and pretty much anything with numbers.

I should seriously pause for a moment each day and say a prayer of gratitude to the person who conceived of having a calendar on a mobile phone.

I’ll add that to my to-do list, which incidentally is also on my phone.

In so many ways, memory is a link to our past and our future. At a minimum, it’s how we learn to avoid stepping in that same hole in the sidewalk and instead find new holes to blunder into.

Some could say that memory for Jewish folks is both individual and communal, both passive and active. For example, my family doesn’t just think about having our Passover seder at Aunt Sally’s, we go back year after year and actually do it. And it’s much more fun to eat matzah ball soup as opposed to remembering the last time you got to have it.

Just as there are infinite opinions on whether matzah balls should be firm or soft, a seder can have endless configurations… long, short, English, Hebrew, silly, loud, big, small… and no right or wrong way. So, regardless of how your family observes the Passover holiday, I hope it is a memorable one.

For recipes, printables, seder props, breakfast ideas and all things Passover, visit: pjlibrary.org/ passover Download free copies of the PJ Library Passover Haggadah: pjlibrary.org/haggadah Check out some PJ Library Passover books for every age:

Written by Deborah Bodin Cohen; Illustrated by Jago Ages: 5 to 6 years, 6 to 7 years Synopsis: As the Israelites rush to leave Egypt after being freed from slavery, young Nachshon is the first to brave the water that must be crossed, even though he is afraid to take the plunge.

“Workitu’s Passover: A Story from Ethiopia”

“My Family Seder” Written by Rosalind Silberman; Illustrated by Hiroe Nakata Ages: 6 months to 2 years Last Sent to Families: March 2023 Synopsis: The child in this book is ready – it’s time for his family seder! Even though he’s just a baby, he can still enjoy and even participate in many meaningful ways. After all, Passover is about welcoming everyone to the table.

“In Our Teeny Tiny Matzah House” Written by Bill Wurtzel; Illustrated

by Claire Wurtzel Ages: 3 to 4 Years Synopsis: Kitzel can’t hear himself meow. His house is teeny tiny, but his family is large and noisy. Soon his family will feel even larger and noisier, because Passover is about to begin! This story, illustrated entirely with food, is a delicious

Written by Zahava Workitu Goshen and Maayan Ben Hagai; Illustrated by Eden Spivak Ages: 7 to 8 years Synopsis: In Workitu’s Ethiopian Jewish community, it’s traditional to break all the dishes before Passover begins. That might sound like fun, but Workitu is sad to see her favorite cups and pots go when it’s time to remake them free of chametz. Auntie Balainesh helps Workitu find the spirit of Passover renewal celebrated by this custom.

“Out of Egypt”

By Moshe Moskowitz Ages: 9+ Synopsis: Ever wonder about the Great Escape of the Jewish People from Egypt?

Check out this graphic novel, and you’ll find out things you never knew about this ancient story.

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Sauce Gribiche is my secret weapon for Passover

BY STEPHANIE GANZ THE NOSHER VIA JTA

This recipe was first published on The Nosher.

Sauce gribiche is a cold egg sauce that originated in 19th-century France when the so-called “mother sauces” (or grandes sauces) were being defined by chefs Marie Antoine Carême and August Escoffier. It is a derivative of mayonnaise, but unlike that classic emulsion, which uses raw egg, gribiche is characterized by the use of boiled eggs. The sauce, which is often compared to a remoulade, harnesses the briny flavor of capers and cornichons, and bright herbaceous notes from any combination of parsley, chervil and tarragon.

While it sounds a bit fussy, gribiche is as easy to make as it is versatile. Throughout Passover, when my dining choices are more limited than usual, sauce gribiche becomes a staple. After the seder, I use my leftover parsley and a couple of eggs to whip up a batch that will hang out in the fridge, its flavor improving over the next few days. The sauce brings a silky-chunky texture to what-

ever it touches, from the traditional veal to the more modern blanched spring vegetables like asparagus and new potatoes. I like to add it to hard-boiled eggs for an eggon-egg breakfast, drape it over poached salmon for lunch, and occasionally pile a bit on a piece of matzah and eat it just like that.

There are many variations of gribiche. Some prefer a soft-boiled egg, which results in a looser sauce, while others, myself included, gravitate toward a slightly firmer yolk, which renders a richer gribiche. Some insist on a medley of herbs, and others choose only one. Either way, the simple sauce comes together in about five minutes once your eggs are ready. And while, traditionally, sauce gribiche is made with Dijon mustard, which contains kitniyot, readers who want to avoid mustard seeds can use kosher for Passover mustard. Once you’ve got the basics down, gribiche is a bit of a playground — add your favorite briny thing (Castelvetrano olives! Piparra peppers!

Anchovies!) or swap out the Champagne vinegar for any vinegar of choice. It’s hard to go wrong.

Recipe: Sauce Gribiche INGREDIENTS

2 large eggs 1 Tbsp chopped fresh parsley (4 stems worth) 1 Tbsp chopped capers 1 Tbsp chopped cornichons (about 3) 1 tsp Dijon mustard (or kosher for Passover mustard of choice) 2 tsp Champagne vinegar, or vinegar of choice ¼ cup extra virgin olive oil kosher salt and cracked black pepper, to taste DIRECTIONS

In a medium saucepan, add two eggs and cover with salted water. Bring to a boil over medium-high heat. As soon as the water starts to boil, turn off the heat and set a timer for 7 minutes. Meanwhile, prepare a bowl with ice water. When the timer goes off, use a slotted spoon to transfer the eggs to the bowl of ice water.

Allow eggs to cool for 3 minutes and then peel.

While the eggs are cooking, pick the leaves from 4 stems of parsley, and chop until you have 1 Tbsp. Chop 1 Tbsp capers and 1 Tbsp cornichons (about 3). Set aside.

Separate the egg yolks from the whites. Finely chop the egg whites and set aside. Press the yolks through a fine mesh sieve into a mixing bowl. Add 1 tsp Dijon mustard and 2 tsp Champagne vinegar, and whisk to combine. Slowly drizzle in ¼ cup extra virgin olive oil while whisking. The sauce will become thick and lighter in color as the oil emulsifies into the egg mixture.

Fold in the chopped parsley, capers, cornichons and egg whites. Season with salt and pepper.

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NJT CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1 New Jewish Theatre’s artists at this year’s St. Louis Theater Circle Awards.

Adapting ‘Into the Woods’ for our intimate studio theater was a challenge, but one that brought out tremendous creativity and artistry from the director, music director, choreographer, actors and designers,” said Rebekah Scallet, artistic director of NJT. “It is wonderful to see their hard work and ingenuity rewarded by the Theater Circle. I have been so fortunate to work with amazingly talented and wonderful people in my time so far with NJT — hopefully this is the only the beginning of our successful collaborations together.”

RABBI SMASON CONTINUED FROM PAGE 13 unborn child the entire Torah. This means that everything we need to know is inside us: Your yet-born child, in utero, is taught the difference between right and wrong, the purpose of life, how to love and how to reach its potential.

And I’m certain you’ll find it of interest, Samantha, that Jewish law demands that the Sabbath be violated in order to save an unborn life, regardless of its proximity to conception. Given that lifesaving activity is the only situation in which Sabbath restrictions are set aside, were an unborn child considered as simply “fetal tissue” and not considered “alive,” this would be prohibited, not required.

RABBI TALVE CONTINUED FROM PAGE 13 to make their own decisions. And as a human being, she showed empathy for those less fortunate.

As a conservative, she knew just how to talk to a room full of men and knew that they were more concerned with social structures and birth rates than with women’s lives. Simone Veil succeeded in overturning the abortion bans in France and paved the way for the com-

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“Into the Woods” had received 11 of NJT’s 24 total nominations, which was the second most nominations of any local theater company, and just two less than the Muny, which received 26.

After NJT, Stages St. Louis, the Repertory Theatre of St. Louis and the Black Rep, each took home five awards on Monday night.

The Muny, the Shakespeare Festival and Opera Theatre of St. Louis each won two awards.

In total, nominees in 33 categories vied for honors covering comedies, dramas, musicals and operas. Approximately 100 productions were considered for nominations for this year’s event.

For a list of all the nominees and winners, go to stltheatercircle.org/2024-program.

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New Jewish Theatre won six awards from this year’s St. Louis Theater Circle Awards.

What then, Samantha, about abortion? Jewish law opposes abortion except in cases of danger to the mother. Times may change, but the Torah’s eternal values and truth never change.

Most Torah authorities consider feticide an act of murder. Even the most permissive opinions of Torah scholars reserve abortion for extreme situations that no woman should ever experience.

However, the tragic fact remains that in the United States, nearly 95% of abortions are performed on healthy children being carried by healthy mothers.

Don’t be misled, Samantha, by those who misrepresent biblical passages in order to promote the idea that abortion should be regarded as simply a “choice.”

Jewish law is based on the theological presumption that a human being does not possess total ownership of one’s body: Our

bodies belong to God. We are His stewards of our bodies. And we are stewards of His children, both those already born and of those conceived but not yet born.

Samantha, I suggest you listen to your heart. It is telling you that the child you are carrying is a gift, arguably the greatest gift God can grant us. As you begin your pregnancy, rejoice in being a sacred repository — like a Holy Ark containing a Torah Scroll — of a yet-born child with a precious soul who is of inestimable value in God’s eyes.

As you and your husband deal with the challenges of raising your child, may your decision to choose life for your unborn child bless you both with abundant joy and nachas for the rest of your lives.

With blessings, — Rabbi

passionate and legal care that exists there today.

I’m proud that Jewish tradition allows for abortion when it is the right personal choice for a pregnant person, whatever the reason. I am part of a lawsuit that is suing Missouri for imposing other religious traditions’ beliefs upon all.

I am in support of the Missourians for Constitutional Freedom’s ballot initiative that will allow the people of Missouri to vote on restoring the legalization of abortion, protecting access to birth control and controlling their own reproductive

health care choices.

Jewish tradition invites healthy and thoughtful debate rooted in our texts and teachings and, in many cases, we are able to stand together even when we disagree.

Adding women’s voices to our wisdom in areas where we have direct experience continues to help us grow in compassion as we serve the greater good and God. Access to safe, affordable and legal abortions helps to preserve one of our highest principles: Pikuach Nefesh, the saving of the lives and souls seeking to choose life.

COMMENTARY CONTINUED FROM PAGE 13 American articles are often written by someone, whom we perhaps recognize, with additional Gazan names on the by-line. The “senior” reporter is located somewhere in Israel. The others are “stringers” – Gazans who provide stories and pictures to the journalists. These stringers are Hamas approved. They must be because Hamas strictly controls all reporting out of Gaza.

NGOs and others, to whom the media looks for more objective evaluations, are under the same pressures from Hamas.

Those who need to operate in Gaza, know that if they say something other than what has been approved, they and their colleagues literally put their lives on the line. At a minimum, they can lose all access, and will be banned from Gaza and no longer able to do their jobs.

The bottom line is that we, and our politicians, are bombarded with Gaza stories all day, every day, but where reporting from Gaza is concerned, they are just that – stories, and they cannot be taken at face value. For these reasons, it is dangerous beyond measure, for world leaders and other decision makers to formulate political strategies based on wholly fictitious data. And, using fake information as a cudgel to beat up on a democratic ally that is literally fighting for its life is simply inexcusable.

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SUNDAY | APRIL 7

The Big Muddy Dance Company returns to the Mirowitz Center for a free performance from 1-2 p.m. RSVPs are required.

FRIDAY | APRIL 19 Big Muddy Dance 2024

Mindfulness and poetry

In celebration of National Poetry Month, join instructor Scott Berzon from 10-11:30 a.m. at the Jewish Mindfulness Center at Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Rd., for this exploration of the ways that mindfulness can illuminate poetry and poetry can deepen our mindfulness practice. All are welcome, and registration for this free class is required. For more information or to register, call 314-569-0010or email Stacy Jespersen at sjespersen@sestl.org

STARTING | APRIL 7 St. Louis Jewish Film Festival See related story on page 14.

Biblical Criticism Series Begins

Kol Rinah’s Verein group will present the first of its Biblical Criticism Program Series at 4 p.m. online via Zoom. For more information, email ralphjgraff@gmail.com.

MONDAY | APRIL 8 Symphony string quartet

Looking for a way to continue the fun after the afternoon solar eclipse? Then join us at the Mirowitz Center from 3-4 p.m. for a special St. Louis Symphony string quartet performance that celebrates Spring 2024 and our inspiring change of seasons. No cost to register, but RSVP is required.

TUESDAY | APRIL 9 The ABCs of Judaism

Judaism has its own “ABCs” – teachings to guide your life. Join the engaging and inspiring Rabbi Ze’ev Smason at his monthly in-person program from 12-1 p.m. at the Mirowitz Center. No cost to register, but RSVP is required. This month’s topic: Passover: What Does Freedom Mean to You?

Mirowitz Center’s The Week in Review

Harvey Gerstein and Marilyn Alton moderate “The Week in Review,” from 10-11 a.m., a forum for thoughtful discussion about the most pressing news stories of the week. No cost to register, but RSVP is required.

STARTING | APRIL 9 Class on Reform Jewish Responsa with Cyndee Levy See related news brief on page 11.

Mobile Mammography Van visits The J

The Missouri Baptist Mobile Mammography Van will be at the J (Chesterfield) on April 9 and the J (Creve Coeur) on April 10.

This service provides 3D screening mammograms for women 40 years of age and older.

The fee for the screening will be billed to you or your insurance. Missouri Baptist will submit claims for you to participating insurance companies and Medicare. Women who are

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SUNDAY | APRIL 21 Jewish War Veterans meeting

Brothers Lazaroff (above) and a host of guest musicians including (top right) Peter Martin and Rob Koritz (above right) will perform at “The Passover Project: A Musical Seder,” at City Winery on Thursday, April 18. Visit bit.ly/Passover-Project for tickets or more information. uninsured or underinsured may be eligible for free mammograms. No physician order is required. Schedule an appointment by calling 314-996-5170. For more information, contact Debbi Braunstein, Director, the Hamsa Wellness Community at 314-4423266.

FRIDAY | APRIL 12 Potluck Shabbat for 20-, 30- and 40-somethings

The young adult chapter of SPARKS MATCH! is hosting another potluck Shabbat dinner at 6 p.m. Bring something vegetarian to share and celebrate Shabbat together and meet new people. RSVP to Daphne at daphnekoalabear@gmail.com.

MONDAY | APRIL 15 Author Dara Horn to deliver Annual Staenberg Lecture See related news brief on page 6.

TUESDAY | APRIL 16 Wrestling at the Chase

The television show, “Wrestling at the Chase,” debuted in 1959, establishing St. Louis as one of the most important cities in the history of professional wrestling. Join Ed Wheatley from 10-11 a.m. at the Mirowitz Center as he shares stories from St. Louis’ glory days. Free but RSVP required.

The soul, the body & the afterlife Join Rabbi Ze’ev Smason for this session, from 12-1 p.m.at the Mirowitz Center, looking at “Reincarnation & Resurrection.” No cost to register, but RSVP is required.

Learn about online shopping

Mirowitz Center trainer Jim Salih provides a general introduction to shopping online, including how to search for products, make comparisons, and add items to an online shopping cart from 1:30-2:30 p.m. at the Mirowitz Center. No cost to register, but RSVP is required.

WEDNESDAY | APRIL 17 Breast and Ovarian Cancer Support Group – The Hamsa Wellness Community

This monthly group provides support, connection and education to women in the community who have been diagnosed with

breast or ovarian cancer and are anywhere along their treatment path – before, during, or post-treatment. Facilitated by Kathy Bearman, licensed clinical social worker, this group meets from 5:15 – 6:45 p.m. on the third Wednesday at the J near Creve Coeur.

Newcomers are always welcome along with female family and friends. Light kosher dinner will be served. The Hamsa Wellness Community is a program at the J and a community partner of the national, not for profit Sharsheret organization. Free but RSVPs are requested to Debbi Braunstein at 314-4423266 or dbraunstein@jccstl.org.

THURSDAY | APRIL 18 ‘Passover Project’ musical seder to benefit Jewish Light

Tickets are now on sale for “The Passover Project: A Musical Seder,” at the City Winery St. Louis, 3730 Foundry Way, at 7:30 p.m. (doors at 6). Attendees can expect a family-friendly, but decidedly grown-up seder, with music, readings, poetry, audience interaction and some Passover teachings connected throughout. Talent includes the Brothers Lazaroff, Rabbi James Stone Goodman, Peter Martin, Rob Koritz, Joey Ferber, Anita Jackson and more. For tickets and more info, visit bit.ly/Passover-Project

Lilith Readers book club with Rabbi Amy

This free book club is inspired by Lilith, one of the fiercest forgotten women of Jewish literature. Prior to each meeting from 7-8 p.m. at Congregation Temple Israel, #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Dr., we’ll read a book by or about Jewish women, each taking place during a different time period, so we’ll learn a little history, enjoy some fantastic novels, and bring to light some forgotten figures of the Jewish past over a nosh and some great discussions. Light refreshments provided.

Feel free to BYO wine or other treats to share. April’s book is “The Dressmaker of Prospect Heights” by Kitty Zeldis. RSVP at: www.ti-stl.org/AdultEducation.

Passover 2024: Story of the Exodus

Former St. Louisan Elana Kaplan, museum educator and lecturer for New York City’s Metropolitan Museum of Art, brings to life the story of the Exodus – the Israelites’ historic exit from Egyptian bondage from 10-11 a.m. at the Mirowitz Center. This virtual tour includes some of the most extraordinary artistic and cultural artifacts in the Ancient Egyptian Art Collection at The Met. Free but

Jewish War Veterans Post 644 will meet in the Kaplan-Feldman Holocaust Museum at 10 a.m. on the third Sunday of each month (unless otherwise indicated). A Zoom option will be available for those not able to attend in person. For more information and the Zoom link contact Post 644 Commander Ellis Frohman at 636-519-7512 (leave a message if no one answers).

TUESDAY | APRIL 23 Second night seder for adults at Temple Israel

Whether you are Jewish or new to Judaism, an interfaith couple, looking for an experiential learning opportunity to make new traditions, or simply seeking friendly faces and a warm and familiar place to enjoy a seder with other adults, Temple Israel invites the community to join for an inclusive second night seder experience for adults with the congregation’s rabbis.

The traditional seder and meal, with wine and beverages, takes place from 7-9 p.m. at Temple Israel. The cost is $36 for TI member; $54 for non-members. Young adults ages 16-20 years are welcome to attend and must be accompanied by an adult. Reserve your seats by April 14 at: www.ti-stl.org/ Passover

FRIDAY | APRIL 26 Finding Freedom – A Passover mindful movement class

During Passover, we recall our redemption from Mitzrayim, literally the “narrow place.”

In this class, from 10-11 a.m., we will focus on opening and releasing those tight places in our bodies to help us recall the feeling of freedom. For more information or to register, call 314-569-0010 or email Stacy Jespersen at sjespersen@sestl.org

SUNDAY | APRIL 28 KoREH Open House

From 9-10:20 a.m., learn more about KoREH (Kol Rinah Education Hub, the religious school at Kol Rinah). Join for Havdalah and then children can participate in classroom activities. Meet KoREH Director Cindy Kalachek along with other parents to hear about the programs that happen on Sundays. RSVPs are encouraged so organizers can plan accordingly. For more information, email cindy@kolrinahstl.org.

Family chocolate seder at Temple Israel

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Miriam is the daughter of Anya Chotiner and Todd Kaufman and the stepdaughter of Brad Chotiner She is the granddaughter of the late Deborah Zorensky, Marc and Karen Corson, and Stuart and the late Judy Kaufman, all of St. Louis, as well as Barbara Chotiner Braunstein of Pittsburgh, and David and Celia Chotiner of Houston.

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ONGOING Kol Chadash musical Shabbat service at Kol Rinah

This live prayer service will feature music with acoustic instruments, bringing together beautiful melodies and words of Torah to create a deep and moving prayer experience. Participants can come together at 9:30 a.m. on Saturdays at Kol Rinah to find

BIRTH: SOPHIE ELYSE MOLEY Lauren Moley and Charles Moley of Columbia, Mo. would like to announce the birth of their daughter, Sophie Elyse Moley, on October 25, 2023, weighing 6 pounds, 9 ounces.

Sophie is the granddaughter of Sanford Friedman of St. Louis, Patricia Paster of St. Louis, Kelle Moley of Copenhagen, Denmark, and the late Jeffrey Moley of St. Louis. She is the great-granddaughter of the late Robert and Suzanne Yawitz of St. Louis, Sue and the late Irv Friedman of St. Louis, Chuck and Kay Harbert of Tucson, Ariz., and Janis and the late Malcolm Moley of New York.

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tion Sits. They take place on Tuesday mornings at 9 a.m. via Zoom. No previous meditation experience is necessary. For info, contact Stacy Jespersen at sjespersen@sestl.org.

‘All My Sons’ at NJT

Movies at the Mirowitz Center

Through April 7, New Jewish Theatre kicks off its 2024 season with Arthur Miller’s searing classic, one of the most iconic dramas of the 20th century. Miller won the very first Tony Award ever given for Best Author (now known as Best Play) for the premiere in 1947. For more information, visit newjewishtheatre.org.

Mindfulness Meditation Sits

On Tuesdays from 9-9:30 a.m., join Rabbi Andrea Goldstein for the Jewish Mindfulness Center’s free weekly Mindfulness Medita-

On Fridays at 1 p.m., enjoy movies on the Mirowitz Center’s 14-foot screen. Call the Movies at Mirowitz Hotline (314-733-9812) for the film title and description each week.

Free and open to the community.

Mirowitz Center Community Singers

Professional musician Robert Denison will lead Mirowitz Center Community Singers from 2-3 p.m. on Wednesdays. No experience is necessary. Learn from CDs (no printed music). Performance opportunities will

be offered. Free and open to the community; register online at http://bit.ly/Register_ MirowitzCenter or call 314-733-9813.

Game on at the Mirowitz Center

From 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. the Mirowitz Center welcomes guests to play Mahjong, bridge, poker or Mexican Train dominoes – whatever games you like. The Mirowitz Center will provide complimentary coffee, tea and water (guests can bring their own snacks to enjoy and share). No RSVPs are necessary for these weekly games, held in the multipurpose room, but plan to coordinate your group’s schedule and any needed substitutions. Register online at http://bit.ly/Register_MirowitzCenter, call 314-733-9813, or email skemppainen@mirowitzcenter.org.

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MARTIN L. ALTMAN, March 20, 2024 Beloved husband of Carolyn McKeone; dear father of Sharyn Altman and the late Michael Altman; dear step-father of Kelly Markus (Mark) and the late Lynn McKeone; dear grandpa of Margaret “Maggie” and Samantha “Sammie” Markus; dear brother of the late Dorothy Solomon (the late Ely); dear uncle of Gene Solomon, Ginger Hope and Roberta Solomon; dear friend to many.

A graveside service was held Monday, March 25 at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road, St. Louis, MO 63017. Memorial contributions preferred to the Jewish Federation of St. Louis, 12 Millstone Campus Drive, St. Louis, MO 63146 or the charity of your choice.

Please visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. Berger Memorial Service RHONDA JOY BANFORD, survived by her loving husband, David Banford, her two daughters, Alyssa Banford (Bradley Biesinger) and Caitlin Banford (Cam Maloni) and her brand new grandbaby, Lola Joy Maloni, passed the morning of March 31st.

Born and raised in St. Louis, Rhonda was the youngest of two daughters to Mildred and Richard Poletsky (z”l). Although her sister, Sheila Glazer (z”l), was eight years older, Rhonda and Sheila enjoyed a close relationship filled with laughter and memories.

Rhonda brought joy to so many throughout her life. Her quick wit, prodigious vocabulary, creativity, warmth, strength, and compassion was evident to all who knew her. She grew up

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with an incredible love for The Beatles, animals - especially dogs, and tennis. In her career as a Speech and Language Pathologist, she gave the precious gift of language to so many children and adults.

Never one to sit on her laurels, Rhonda volunteered wherever her passion led her. She led the immense project of the Jewish Committee for New American’s summer camp at the International Institute, worked with a dog adoption organization, helped resettle two families into their new St. Louis homes, safely walked women needing care into Planned Parenthood, and turned out with her homemade posters to every rally she could find.

Diagnosed with metastatic Breast Cancer, Rhonda’s unending internal strength and the steadfast support of her husband gave her a few more years to proudly watch her daughter’s careers and relationships blossom.

Her memory is a blessing and a constant source of light.

Funeral service Wednesday April 3rd, 10:00 AM at New Mt. Sinai Mausoleum, 8430 Gravois.

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SYDNEY LAUREN CASSEL, 29, died peacefully on March 21 surrounded by her family after a long illness. Sydney was the daughter of Richard and Karen (Kaiser) Cassel; loving sister to Melissa (Mel) Cassel and Mel’s fiancee, Johannah Walker; and adored granddaughter of her late grandparents, Lionel and Eleanor Kaiser and Dr. Melvin and Laura Mae Cassel.

Everyone who knew Syd knew her brilliance, kindness, and loyalty. Her keen intellect fueled her interest in medicine and led her to the University of California-Davis, where she graduated with high honors in Nutrition Sciences and Public Health. When the pandemic hit, her passion for healthcare merged with her kindness and generosity, leading her to put life on pause while she worked full time at a COVID testing and vaccination site for two years. Her co-workers soon became friends, often driving to Calabasas to spend even more time with Sydney.

Sydney was an avid runner. Neighbors saw an eight-year-old Syd lapping the block at all hours, preparing for her next meet. Coaches recognized her talent, recruiting Sydney as one of few freshmen on the Varsity Track & Field Team.

Teammates likewise recognized her warmth, making the Cassel home the gathering place for mid-practice breaks and appointing Syd as team captain for her junior and senior years.

Those who knew Syd best loved her sharp wit, disarming smile, and spunky socks. Never afraid to tell it like it was, Syd pressed others to be honest about life’s difficulties and to not shy away from a tough conversation.

Syd prized her relationship with her sister, Mel, and planned to be her maid of honor at Mel and Johannah’s wedding this fall.

Mel and Syd had the sort of relationship that most sisters aspire to; best friends through all phases of life.

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Syd’s funeral service was held Tuesday March 26 at Berger Memorial Chapel, 9430 Olive Boulevard, followed by interment at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road, Chesterfield, MO. Berger Memorial Service

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RICHARD DENNIS, 59, died suddenly on Saturday March 16th in New York City. Son of Miriam Dennis and Aaron Dennis z’l. Brother of Joel (Betsy) Dennis. Loving uncle to Rebecca and Leigh Dennis. Nephew of Lester Goldman (Judy z’l), Barbara (Byron) Schneider, Eugene (Linda) Goldman, the Robert z’l (Marsha z’l) Dennis and Carl Dennis. Cousin to many.

After graduating from Parkway Central in 1982, Richard went to New York to attend NYU Tisch, School of the Arts and graduated in 1986.

He remained in New York City for the rest of his life. He was a free-lance set designer and serious painter. He will long be remembered by those who knew him.

A funeral service was held Monday March 25, in the Chapel of Congregation B’nai Amoona, 324 S. Mason Rd. 63141. Interment followed at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Rd. 63017. Visit www.bergermemorialchapel.com for more information and to view the livestream of the service.

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Berger Memorial Service DR. RABBI JOSEPH FEDER, February 20, 1932 - February 7, 2024 Joseph Feder, a distinguished scientist and Torah scholar passed away in St. Louis on February 7, 2024 (28th Sh’vat 5784). Funeral services and interment were held Friday, February 9, 2024 in the Eretz Hachaim Cemetery, Israel.

Joseph (Joe), zt”l, was born in St. Louis, Missouri to Ruth and Morris Wolf Feder.

During his high school years, Joe moved to Chicago to study in Yeshiva and was active in B’nei Akiva, where he met the love of his life, Charlotte (nee’ Pollack).

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exalted, scholarly knowledge of Torah and for his sharpness, clarity and piety. The blessing that his Rabbinic teachers included for Joe’s continued personal advancement in learning and that he be a catalyst for the growth of the larger Jewish community, was prescient.

Joe obtained his Ph.D. in biochemistry from the Illinois Institute of Technology and completed a NIH post-doctoral fellowship in enzymology at Northwestern University under Professor Myron Bender. Joe was a Distinguished Science Fellow and Director of Biochemistry and Cell Culture at Monsanto Company, where he discovered and studied key growth factors and enzymes and established critical large-scale animal cell culture processes required for the creation of modern biotechnology. Due to his scientific expertise and knowledge, Joe was an invited speaker and chair at science conferences and symposia all over the world and a reviewer for NIH and NSF study sections. He authored and co-authored over 140 publications in major scientific journals and books and held over 40 U.S. issued patents. Joe was one of the first biotech leaders to forge collaborations with academic labs such as Harvard, setting an early example for how to streamline transferable and medically valuable research. Joe’s discoveries and developed technologies enabled the founding of two biotech companies, Invitron Corporation and ISTO Technologies, where Joe held roles of President, Chairman and CEO. Joe’s intellectual capability and harmonized scholarship in both Jewish studies and science, enabled him to approach challenging questions of Jewish law and ethics with exceptional depth, insight and creativity. Thus, he was often consulted in complex areas of Talmud, Halacha/ Jewish law and science from Rabbis in communities across the USA as well as in Israel.

Joe was generous with his broad and deep knowledge, and was a natural teacher with a gift for simplicity and clarity. He taught throughout his life: Early on in Hebrew Day schools and Yeshivot, and for over fifty years he provided classes at Young Israel and other venues on a wide range of Torah texts and topics, ranging from Tanach and Talmud to courses on Jewish medical ethics. Joe was also an Adjunct Professor of Biochemistry at the University of Missouri St. Louis and at Washington University, where he taught evening classes in biochemistry, enzymology and biotechnology.

In addition to his wide range of intellectual and professional pursuits, Joe was committed to the Jewish community of St. Louis, where he took on leadership roles and was honored with several awards over the years. These community roles included: President of the Vaad Hoeir, President of the Central Agency of Jewish Education, President of Young Israel synagogue, board member of the H. F. Epstein Hebrew Academy, board member of the Jewish Federation, an officer of the Jewish Community Relations Council, an officer of the Jewish Community Centers Association, a member of the Holocaust Commission and a Governor-appointed member of the Missouri Health Facilities Review Committee.

Joe was a modest person who treated everyone he met, regardless of background or

stature, with kindness and respect. The principle of ‘Derech Eretz Kadma L’Torah’ was intrinsic to how Joe lived his life. He had boundless curiosity and love for learning, a passionate commitment to justice and truth, and a deep belief in God, Zionism and the destiny of the Jewish people.

While many individuals achieve excellence in their work or in other singular pursuits, few are able to achieve the measure of excellence across the extensive areas of interest in which Joe engaged during his life. Moreover, for many who were fortunate to cross his path, Joe served as an example of the rare individual who could effortlessly toggle between multiple, seemingly disparate worlds that he had integrated into a seamless, coherent unity. Joe will be greatly missed by his family members, his community and the many who loved and respected him. May his soul be bound in the bond of everlasting life.

Joe was the beloved husband of Charlotte Feder for 71 years; dear son of the late Morris and late Ruth Feder; dear Aba of Dr. Michele Feder-Nadoff, Dr. Dvorah (the late James Haugabook) Feder, Gavreal Feder and Rena Feder Shalem; dear Saba/Zaide of Malkah Nadoff, Havneh Feder-Haugabook, Ayala FederHaugabook, Matanya Draiman and Eliana Draiman; dear brother of the late Anna Lee (the late Jack) Schauder; dear uncle of Marlene Lancer, Elana (Bruce) Zisser, Ari (Michelle) Schauder, Dr. Aron (Tova) Buchman, Gila (Yossie) Rosenblum, Arie (Linda) Buchman and the late Aliza (Charles) Bennett.

Berger Memorial Service STANLEY IRWIN GILULA On February 26, 2024, Stanley Irwin Gilula peacefully passed away, in Portland, Oregon, surrounded by his family. He was 76 years old.

He was born in West Frankfort, Illinois and was one of seven children. He is preceded in death by his parents, Dr Adolph and Dora Gilula, and his brothers, Dr Marshall Gilula, Dr Norton Bernard Gilula, (Bessie), and Dr Louis Gilula (Debbie).

Stan was a talented artist, receiving a degree in graphic design from SIU, Carbondale, Illinois and a MFA from UCLA. Most of his life was spent in NYC, doing his photography and working as an owner’s rep, managing and protecting owners of large properties. Bergdorf Goodman and Prada SoHo were two of his clients.

Stan’s greatest loves in his life were his family and photography, his art medium.

He will be greatly missed by all that knew him.

SANDRA BETTE KAISER, 89, departed this world peacefully March 25th, 2024 surrounded by love - leaving behind family and friends who will deeply miss her kindness, warmth, and her always sweet smile.

Sandra was the wife of her late husband Arthur Kaiser for 33 years, dear mother and mother-in-law of Jeffrey and Fonda Kaiser, Michael Kaiser, and Lawrence and Bernadette Kaiser. Loving sibling to her late sister Nancy Andrew and brother Marvin Ichkowsky. She was

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Grandma to - and very much loved by her 7 grandchildren – Heather, Courtney, Erica, Jennifer, Elizabeth, Emily, Alexander and 3 great grandchildren – Tori, Gordie, and Lucy!

Sandra loved to read romance novels, listen to classical music, and watch classic films. She had a passion for adventure – moving from Springfield, IL to St. Louis in her teen years to begin her new life.

She married, had 3 boys – and then devoted herself to raising them through their teen years (Thx Mom!).

Her “outside of the home” work career began as a hospital volunteer. She then moved towards working in high end department stores where she found her niche managing, selling, and promoting many lines of fragrances and cosmetics. Over the years, Sandra dedicated herself to assisting thousands of women with their cosmetic and beauty needs – both in St. Louis County as well as in Laguna Hills - Southern California.

Although Sandra’s passion was to enjoy walking along Laguna Beach, her true heart was back in St. Louis with family and friends – where she returned to live out her remaining years enjoying her grandchildren. “Sweet Sandy” – as she was referred to - will always be remembered.

Graveside service Thursday, April 4, 11:30am at Chesed Shel Emeth Cemetery, 650 White Road in Chesterfield. Contributions in her memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America, 322 8th Avenue, New York, NY 10001.

A Rindskopf-Roth Service ROSALIND (ROZ) D. KESSLER, who was cherished by her loved ones and touched the lives of everyone who knew her, passed away on March 27, 2024 at the age of 95.

Roz was born May 13, 1928 to the late Meyer and the late Wilma Goldstein in St. Louis; she was the second of three children, pre-deceased by her siblings Bernard Goldstein and Leatrice (Marvin) Holtzman.

Roz was married to the love of her life, the late Ben L. Kessler, for 68 wonderful years. She was adored by her three daughters and their husbands, the late Susie (Jeff) Kress, Carrie ( Br i a n) Vallandingham and Debi (Mark) Mehlman. She was cherished by her grandchildren and nine great grandchildren Matthew (Megan) Ray, Jessica (Paul) Crysler, Leigh (Josh) Huster, Chad, the late Natalie, Scott (Rachel) and Blair Mehlman. And she was

beloved by her nieces, nephews, entire extended family, and circle of friends.

Roz leaves behind a legacy of kindness, compassion, and zest for life. She made everyone around her feel special and would give anything to make you smile. She was a vibrant woman who loved to sing, dance, and travel. She could turn the most ordinary moments into a party and never missed an opportunity to make others laugh with a quick one-liner. Roz was a lifelong learner, she was always engaged with the latest trends in fashion, technology, current events and more. Roz had a true heart of gold and was beautiful inside and out. She will be so deeply missed.

A funeral service was held Monday, April 1st, at the New Mt. Sinai Mausoleum, 8430 Gravois.

Memorial contributions of your choice preferred.

Berger Memorial Service JERRY ALLEN KLEIN, March 25, 2024 Beloved husband of Sharon Bradford Klein; dear father and father-in-law of Suzanne (Lee) Wagstaff and Jordan (Katie) Klein; dear grandfather of Grace (Andy Peterson) Randolph, Jennings Randolph I V, Alexander Klein, and Anna Klein; dear son of the late Melvin and Gertrude Klein; dear cousin and friend to many.

Jerry received his Bachelor of Arts degree from Wash-ington University and a Juris Doctorate from the Washington University School of Law in 1961. His career as an attorney and helping others was a lifelong passion and he was practicing law until his death.

Jerry was a member of the following professional organizations: The Missouri Bar Association, The American Association of Justice, the American Bar Association, the Missouri Association of Trial Attorneys, The Bar Association of Metropolitan St. Louis, The St. Louis County Bar Association, and The Lawyers Association of St. Louis.

He was a lifelong member of the JCC and his passions included racketball, golf, and the stock market. He was a diehard Cardinals fan and attended several Game 7 World Championships.

Jerry was a devoted husband to his wife of 56 years, father, and grandfather.

A graveside service was held Thursday, March 28, at United Hebrew Cemetery, 7855 Canton Ave. 63130.

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MARILYN ANN GREENBERG REZNIK passed away peacefully in her sleep on March 25, 2024.

Beloved wife of the late Gerald “Jerry” Reznik for 42 years. Dear mother of Lisa Reznik and Andrew Reznik. Loving grandmother of Miranda and Margeaux Meyers. Treasured sister of Julie (Ronald) Kramer. Cherished aunt of Scott and Robert Kramer and the extended Hirsch family. Dear sister-in-law of Marilyn (the late Dr. Arnold) Goldman and family and the late Elaine (the late Eddie) Gralnick and family.

Marilyn was a passionate lover of life, curious and exuberantly adventurous; she had a life full of beauty, laughter, thrills and great conversation. Her extended family was large and diverse, clever and accomplished. She was a grand figure who shaped and delighted the many lives she touched. She will be deeply missed by her abundance of friends and family.

A funeral service was held Friday, March 29 at Congregation Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Road, followed by interment at Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery, 9125 Ladue Road. Visitation with the family beginning at 12:30pm until time of service. Live stream available at www.rindskopfroth.com.

Contributions in Marilyn’s memory may be made to Dr. Ramaswamy Govindan, C/O Foundation for Barnes Jewish Hospital (https://www.foundationbarnesjewish.org/ramaswamygovindan-md); Laumeier Sculpture Park (https://interland3. donorperfect.net/weblink/weblink.aspx?name=E10989 &id=6); or to the Missouri Historical Society (https://mohistory.org/support).

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PHIL NEEDLEMAN, PHD — SCIENCE & INNOVATION THOUGHT LEADER DIES AT 85 Phil Needleman died March 25, 2024 when a 100 foot tree came crashing down on him while he was walking in the woods with his dog. This freak accident was a mythical end to an Epic life.

He leaves behind his beloved wife, Sima, his daughter Nina, Son Larry (Lisa), Grandsons William and Joshua, brother Paul Needleman, sister Arlene Robbins, brother Alvin Needleman, many nieces and nephews, and hundreds of admiring friends and colleagues.

Starting out as a cross-eyed trouble maker in Brooklyn, he rose to international prominence for his world-class research in the academic world, in industry and in shaping future scientific innovation. His research at Washington University and later in industry had a major impact on four important areas of scientific knowledge and patient care, improving the daily health and quality of life of millions of patients. He cherished relationships, took great interest in people, was kind, generous, encouraging, challenging and mentoring. He was advisor to anyone asking for guidance from disadvantaged students to Nobel laureates. He delighted in others’ achievement and growth. On a personal side, Phil and Sima’s love of 68 years was the stuff of fairy tales. They cherished, loved, liked, respected, enjoyed and supported each other throughout their long lives together. They were grateful for each other and prioritized their relationship. He always credited her for inspiring and supporting his achievements. In recent years, as Sima’s Alzheimer’s advanced, Phil’s love and devotion to her were profound and inspirational.

There was nothing more important to him than keeping her comfortable and as happy as possible; that he cannot continue doing this is the saddest part of his unexpected passing.

Scientifically, he was best known for Celebrex—both discovering the mechanism in his laboratory at Washington University and developing the drug Celebrex as Chief Scientist at Pharmacia, a drug that is used daily by millions of patients. However, he was even more proud of other scientific achievements, especially discovering and elucidating an endocrine system that is characterized by the heart communicating with the kidneys, influencing blood pressure. He received award after award for his major contributions, and even a couple weeks before his passing at 85, he delivered the major address at a national meeting of pharmaceutical industry leaders.

Phil was always grateful to his own mentors and for his opportunities, and he was extremely generous. During the last several years, he focused on combining his immense expertise in biological sciences and vision, with funding. It was his wish to create research centers that have the most promise for having high impact. His goal was to fashion these centers in novel ways to avoid institutional obstacles and to make profound and rapid progress …’in my lifetime, and I’m old.’ As a result, he was the architect and funder of 3 such centers at Washington University and worked extremely closely with colleagues at the university until he was satisfied that they would achieve this lofty vision.

Those who knew him well and loved him will miss his personal qualities the most. Phil Needleman found life to be an alluring puzzle to solve, a quest. His curiosity, enthusiasm, optimism and lack of self-imposed internal limits plus his enormous intellectual brilliance allowed him to have a lifetime of profound achievements.

But most importantly he was a mensch. People knew him as a kind, thoughtful, generous person with great integrity. He was also fun-loving and savored nature, the arts and Cardinal baseball.

He was an amazing teacher, colleague, friend, mentor and collaborator who experienced sympathetic joy, delighting in others’ achievements. He prized his family—Sima, his kids, grandkids, siblings, nieces & nephews. There is no other like him; he will be sorely missed.

A funeral was held Monday April 1st at Berger Memorial.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Washington University Innovation & Commercialization program or to Network for Strong Communities, for their Capacity Building Scholarship for small nonprofits. https://wustl.advancementform.com/campaign/gifts-wustledu/give?sc=GA2024 Click: make your own designation.

Enter: Needleman Program in Innovation and Commercialization Network for Strong Communities website http://www.nscnow. org To Donate go to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_ bugon_id=EZ686S83G74UL To read Phil Needleman’s memoir, visit: https://bit.ly/Needleman-memoir

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HARRIET SCHNEIDER, March 31, 2024 Beloved wife of the late Harold “Ace” Schneider for 62 years; dear mother and mother-in-law of Stuart Schneider (Debbie) and Karen Rosenberg (Barry) of Overland Park, KS; dear grandmother of Jessica Schwartzman (Mitch), Abby Schneider, Emily Fenton (Colton), Danny Rosenberg and Allie Rosenberg; dear greatgrandmother of Matilda and Mac Schwartzman, Cooper, Spencer and Sawyer Fenton; dear sister of the late Milton Soskin (Darlene); dear sister-in-law, aunt, cousin and friend to many.

Harriet had a lifelong love of books and reading that she was proud to turn into a 40-year career as a library aide in schools around St. Louis, but her favorite title of all was Grandma Ace and Bubby.

Graveside service Wednesday, April 3, 2 PM at United Hebrew Cemetery, 7855 Canton, University City, MO. 63130. Memorial contributions preferred to the American Heart Association or St. Louis County Library Foundation. Please visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. Berger Memorial Service MYRNA SOKOLIK, March 29, 2024, beloved wife of the late Jerry Sokolik, most loving mother of Bruce (Nancy) Sokolik, Joel (Vicki), Sokolik, and Sherry (Craig) Dedert, best Grandma to Jamie (Nik) Miller, Brian (Paige) Sokolik, Cori and Cameron Sokolik, and loving GG to Miles and Gemma Miller and Penny Sokolik.

Myrna cherished life and filled hers with everything she loved and returned that love to all. Her cheery presence, gentle smile, and warm sense of humor filled the room. She was active in book clubs, bridge games, lunch and dinner dates, jigsaw puzzles, and most of all, loving her family.

A funeral service was held Tuesday, April 2nd at Congregation Temple Israel, #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive, followed by interment at Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol Cemetery. Visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information, including Live Stream link.

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RALPH EGLIN WAFER, age 76, passed away March 21, 2024.

Ralph was born October 1, 1947 in Shreveport, LA and was the oldest son of Dr. John Gill and Dorothy Eglin Wafer.

He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Deborah, sons Matthew (Michele) and Joshua (Barbara), twin brother John, brother Thomas (Melissa) Wafer, sisters Louise (Rob) Ward, and Dorothy Thoma; sister-in-law Sandy (Rusty), granddaughters Madeleine and Sofia, and grandsons Samuel and Henry. Our dear uncle, cousin and friend.

Ralph graduated from St. Stephen’s in Austin, TX and Tulane University School of Architecture. At age 6, Ralph knew he wanted to be an architect. He and Debby married in 1972. They lived in Memphis before moving to St. Louis. Ralph loved St. Louis: its rivers, old buildings, historic parks, and baseball team. Ralph saw great potential for the city, shown by his involvement in redeveloping, rehabbing and improving homes, neighborhoods, and communities. From running his own architecture firm downtown through working as a Plan Examiner for the City of St. Louis, he enjoyed working with homeowners, developers, and builders.

He volunteered with and provided leadership to the Missouri Coalition for the Environment, Boy Scouts, St. John’s United Methodist Church, Old North St. Louis, and numerous other organizations.

Ralph managed to keep a positive outlook through the brutal pain of cancer and continued to help others. He was often stopped by people who expressed their appreciation for his guidance and help in bringing their projects to fruition.

Ralph will be missed by his family, friends, co-workers and all who knew him.

Funeral Service, Tuesday, March 26, 10:30am at Central Reform Congregation, 5020 Waterman Blvd. Visitation with Ralph’s family beginning at 10:00am until time of service. Private interment. Live stream available at www.rindskopfroth.com. Contributions in his memory may be made to the Missouri Coalition for the Environment or Central Reform Congregation or any environmental cause. The family wishes to thank the doctors and staff at the Siteman Cancer Center for their care of Ralph and the staff at BJC Hospice for their compassion, care and support. A Rindskopf-Roth Service JAMES P. YALEM, January 25, 1955 - March 22, 2024 Beloved son of Gerry Prell and the late Richard Yalem. Loving older brother of Susan (Richard) Weitzer, Laura (Maryanne Gallen) Yalem and Patricia Cornett. Dear uncle of Benjamin Weitzer, Rachel (Micah) Katcher, Jacob and Joshua Cornett. Life-long friend of David and Sharon Steckler.

Jim was an attorney, proud graduate of Duke Law School and an avid fan of the Blue Devils. He was a serious fisherman who enjoyed lake living. Jim will be missed by all who knew him.

Private graveside services were held. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Jim’s memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

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