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Volume 6 - Issue 10 December 2010

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First pneumonia and now a root canal…the next thing you know, someone is going to tell me there is no Santa Claus. Even if someone does, well, let me just set the record straight. I BELIEVE! For the past few weeks, they (I guess the elves), have been getting downtown Newton decked out for Christmas. They have been very busy hanging wreaths, putting out Christmas décor and hanging lights. Of course, they have to test the lights as they hang them so they leave them on as they are wrapping up the town. It is like having my very own Christmas Tree lighting. I even made a cup of hot chocolate and just watched them for a few minutes. How glorious it all is. There was even Christmas music playing. Well, not really. That was in my head. Which leads me to a question.

Why does the singing that comes out of my mouth not sound as beautiful as it does in my head? That is almost as profound as another question I have yet to get the answer for.

Why am I not near as smart awake as I am asleep? When I am asleep and dreaming, I must have a very high IQ. Things that I know and things that I can do are just astounding. During the day, though, I sometimes have a hard time just knowing my name. You probably don’t have any idea what I am talking about!

Did I say I believe? Even Scrooge came around and he was a really tough one. How could he not? If you just open your senses to the season, your whole body will tingle or in my case, jingle! Hear the sounds, smell the scents, see the sights and just bask in the wonder of it all. So what if your singing does not sound as pretty out of your mouth. Sing it anyway! It is really pretty hard to mess up Jingle Bells. At least sing it in the shower. That always helps with the tone and if you do, I know you will feel so much better.

One of my favorite Christmas hymns is O Holy Night. It sends chills through my whole body, right down to my toes. Just close your eyes and listen to it. It does not have to be on the radio or carolers singing it in front of your house…it is right there in your head and it is beautiful. Do you believe? Put me to the test right this minute and do it. Don’t you just love it? Keep those eyes closed for another minute and see the Christmas lights. How beautiful!

Doesn’t that just make you relax and you feel less stress? Even if it is just for a moment.

Did I say I believe? When I think of the words of that wonderful song, my mind is drawn back to the sight of other lights. The ones the angels hung that night for all to see.

The Sheppard’s in the fields were just tending their sheep like any other night but they heard the singing. The guiding light that lead the way for the wise men so they could see with their own eyes. I believe every word! There was a baby born that night. A king was born in a manger and the world was sent a Savior. That is what Christmas is about. Do you believe?

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Message From The Heart........................................pg 3 Mandy’s Misadventures..........................................pg 7 The Cupcake Cutie.................................................pg 8 ‘TisThe Season For Giving.......................................pg 11 The Story Behind “O Holy Night”.............................pg 12 Kim Fletcher: Reaching Your Full Potential............pg 15 Nicole Greer: Sophisticated Women....................pg 16 Me, Myself, and Inc.............................................pg 19 The Male Box.......................................................pg 20 Girlfriends In God................................................pg 23 Truth & Beauty by Teresa Pope............................pg 24 Expectations of Christmas.....................................pg 25 The Front Porch....................................................pg 27 The Sophie Shopper..............................................pg 28 Dinner Diva...........................................................pg 30 Let It Snow...........................................................pg 31 Passion; It’s In My Blood..................................pg 33 The Gourd Lady...................................................pg 34 How To Decorate Your House With A Puppy.......pg 37 Shutterbuggerz.......................................................pg 39

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Dear Santa, and I can I have been exceptionally good this year, prove it.

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‘Tis the Season for Giving By: Casey Winebarger, Esq.

It’s the little things at this time of year that make me feel like it’s the holidays, whether it’s the smell of hot cocoa, the brisk chill in the air, or the crack of a warm fire. But none of these things immediately bring Christmas to mind quite like hearing the ring of the Salvation Army bell outside my favorite stores.

As the ring of that bell symbolizes, the holidays are a time when people are in the spirit of giving, whether to their family and friends, their churches, or their favorite charity. But these gifts don’t just help out the recipients. If done correctly, giving may also help you save money on your taxes.

The benefits of giving are two-fold. In the long term, gifting money or property removes it from your estate and lowers the potential estate tax burden that could result at the time of your death. If you give property that has appreciated in value since it was acquired, you remove that appreciation from your estate, too. Furthermore, if the appreciated property is given in-kind, rather than sold and its proceeds gifted, there is no taxable event, meaning you will not owe any income taxes on the accumulated gains.

In the short term, giving can help reduce your income tax liability.

This can happen in several ways. First, if you have property that has decreased in value since it was acquired, you could sell it and give the proceeds, thereby generating recognition of a loss. That loss could then be used to offset any gains you may have on your income taxes.

Second, if you give to a qualifying charitable organization, you could get an income tax deduction in the year the gift was made. There are a few requirements you must satisfy in order to get this deduction.

The recipient-organization must be a 501(c)(3) tax-exempt public charity (a list of qualifying charitable organizations can be found in IRS Publication 78, “Cumulative Lists of Organizations Described in Section 170(c) of the Internal Revenue Code” available on www.irs. gov; this list is updated annually). You must also substantiate your gift with a receipt or cancelled check showing the date, recipient, and amount of the gift. If the gift is not cash, the receipt must include a description of the property. Finally, the charitable deduction is an itemized deduction; therefore, you must itemize in order to take it.

The maximum you can deduct for charitable donations in one year is 50% of your adjusted gross income. Any excess can be carried forward to the next tax year.

While gifting can help reduce your income and estate taxes, you should be aware that it could cause you to incur a gift tax liability. The IRS imposes a gift tax on all gifts of money and property, regardless of who the recipient is, which is charged to the donor. However, there are several exclusions and credits which prevent most folks from ever having to pay gift tax. In 2010 and 2011, the annual exclusion allows you to gift up to $13,000 per recipient per year without incurring gift tax or having to file a gift tax return. Married couples can collectively give up to $26,000 per recipient per year and still be excluded from the gift tax. For gifts over the annual exclusion amount, you have a lifetime credit of $1 million. This means that you can give up to $1 million over and above the annual exclusion amount without paying gift tax. You must, however, file a gift tax return in this instance.

As 2010 winds down and we start to buy holiday gifts for our loved ones, think about how you might also be able to give a gift to yourself – the gift of a lower tax bill on April 15. Remember, to be applicable to your 2010 taxes, your charitable donation must be received by the organization on or before December 31. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

DISCLAIMER: The content of this article is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute legal or tax advice. You should not rely solely on the information herein to make legal or taxrelated decisions. You should consult an attorney or CPA for specific advice tailored to your unique situation.

Casey Winebarger is an attorney at Patrick, Harper & Dixon, LLP in Hickory, North Carolina. She practices primarily in the areas of estate planning, elder law, and business and corporate law. Casey may be contacted at 828-322-7741 or via email at cwinebarger@phd-law.com. Patrick, Harper & Dixon is Hickory’s oldest and largest full-service law firm.

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The Story Behind O Holy Night

O Holy Night was written by Placide Cappeau de Roquemaure in 1847.

The music was written by Adolphe Charles Adams.

Placide was known for his poetry, and the lyrics to his song are certainly poetry. He was approached by his parish priest to write something for the Christmas Mass, and this is what he came up with. He used the Gospel of Luke as his guide, and imagined what witnessing the birth of Jesus was like. He titled it “Cantique de Noel,” which has become known in English as “O Holy Night.”

The song was performed three weeks after the music and lyrics were finalized at a Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve. It spread across the church and France very fast, and was performed in many Catholic services. Later, when Placide left the church, and it was discovered that Adams was a Jew, the heads of the French Catholic Church decreed it “unsuitable” for a Catholic Mass. However, it continued to be popular and sung throughout France.

Legend has it that on Christmas Eve 1871, in the midst of fierce fighting between the armies of Germany and France, during the Franco-Prussian War, a French soldier suddenly jumped out of his muddy trench. Both sides stared at the seemingly crazed man. Boldly standing with no weapon in his hand or at his side, he lifted his eyes to the heavens and sang, “Minuit, Chretiens, c’est l’heure solennelle ou L’Homme Dieu descendit jusqu’a nous,” the beginning of “Cantique de Noel.” After completing all three verses, a German infantryman climbed out of his hiding place and answered with, “Vom Himmel noch, da komm’ ich her. Ich bring’ euch gute neue Mar, Der guten Mar bring’ ich so viel, Davon ich sing’n und sagen will,” the beginning of Martin Luther’s robust “From Heaven Above to Earth I Come.” The story goes that the fighting stopped for the next twenty-four hours while the men on both sides observed a temporary peace in honor of Christmas day.

Perhaps this story had a part in the French church once again embracing “Cantique de Noel” in holiday services.

John Sullivan Dwight introduced O Holy Night to America. But he was an old man when on Christmas Eve, 1906, Reginald Fessenden broadcast a man’s voice over the airwaves. What he broadcast was the story of the birth of Christ from the Gospel of Luke. Following his reading, he picked up his violin and played O Holy Night - which became the first song ever sent through airwaves.

Now it is a song recognized the world over and sung by many people. It is difficult, musically, because of the range a voice needs to cover all the notes that drop low, and go up to the high A. It can be difficult to play accompaniment for the song because of all the triplets in the music. But it is wonderful when done well, and has been sung for many Christmas Masses and celebrations around the world.

Oh Holy Night Oh holy night!

The stars are brightly shining It is the night of the dear Savior’s birth!

Long lay the world in sin and error pining Till he appear’d and the soul felt its worth.

A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn!

Fall on your knees Oh hear the angel voices Oh night divine Oh night when Christ was born Oh night divine Oh night divine Led by the light of Faith serenely beaming With glowing hearts by His cradle we stand So led by light of a star sweetly gleaming Here come the wise men from Orient land The King of Kings lay thus in lowly manger In all our trials born to be our friend.

Truly He taught us to love one another His law is love and His gospel is peace Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother And in His name all oppression shall cease Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we, Let all within us praise His holy name.

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“Only four days into my hospital stay, I was faced with the news that I was paralyzed. My choice to live was no longer just about me. I had to choose life if my unborn daughter was going to have a chance at life.” Windi Stevenson-Ghrist My friend Windi is the classic Californian… young, beautiful, spirited, tanned and full of life. Despite being ‘SoCal’ through and through, her dreams are the same as mine and yours. She longs for more peace in her heart, healthy relationships, and a comfortable home for herself and her children.

But life has not come easy for Windi. On July 26th, 1987, at just 17, she lost her closest friend and companion, her 15 year old sister Casey as a wreckless car careened through a barrier where she and her sister were competing in a triathlon… her sister was hit on her bike, tossed into the air and died in Windi’s arms on the hot pavement.

For years, grief, guilt and hopelessness filled Windi’s life, pushing her to the edge of strained family relationships, as she gave in to abuse, drug use and a defeated attitude.

But in recent years, married and the mother of two, Windi was making every effort to pull her life together. She longed to create a new beginning for her young family.

July 26th, 1987 was fading into the distance, but the anniversary of this day continued to bring much reflection. On July 26th, 2003, Windi was gripped with sadness as she rushed about in heavy freeway traffic making last-minute preparations for her daughter’s first birthday party. She was lost in thought when an angry driver pulled alongside of her, rushed into her lane and slammed on his brakes, leaving her nowhere to go.

As she swerved, her bumper tapped his, sending her car out of control and landing on its top. As a witness stopped to put out the fire that engulfed her car, Windi fought to hold onto consciousness so she could alert the EMS that she was five months pregnant and that her one year old daughter was in the back seat.

Just four days into her hospitalization, Windi learned that she would be This is a picture of Windi paralyzed due to a spinal with her son Hunter. cord injury. Her rehabilita-

tion would be delayed until her daughter was born.

Finally discharged home from rehab to her plush Southern California suburb home, Windi’s next blow came from her husband who confessed to the affair that began while she was in the hospital. A woman had taken over her bed while she slept alone in the hospital fighting for her life.

Now homeless, Windi faced new depths of despair that would be complicated when a California judge chose to award full custody of her two youngest children to her husband.

I got to know Windi around that time, and even visited her in the group home where she lived with other severely disabled individuals.

During these years, Windi has fought to stay alive and hold onto sanity.

But things would get darker still when her ‘term’ in the group home ended and she was told that she had to find another place to live. With no income and no family willing to take her in, the only place she could go was into a nursing home.

Windi called me last week from that place. And guess what??? After years of praying, jumping through legal hoops and holding onto hope, Windi holds the keys to her very own apartment! In fact, as you read this article she is moving in. There is only one problem… her only possessions are a hospital bed and a small TV. As she shared her great news, I was filled with a vision… this is where YOU come in!

For Windi, “Extreme Home Makeover” is just another TV show. But together, we can make it her reality. My vision is to raise $10,000.00 secretly for Windi by the end of this year. I have a team already lined up to travel with me to California where we will take Windi shopping for furniture, linens and kitchen appliances. The remaining money will go into an account to assist her month to month so there is no risk of her losing her new home.

Windi lost her sister, her husband, custody of her children, her home, her body and her hope. But we can help her rebuild! Will you join me?

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By Nicole Greer, PPCC Founder and Principle Coach at Vibrant Coaching

I am not a philosopher. I am not a theologian. I am not a logician. I am not a theorist. However, I do explore philosophies. I crave a deeper theology.

I long for logic and seek theories to embrace. But, what I really want for Christmas is wisdom.

Wisdom is the great gift. Wisdom simply put is knowing right from wrong.

A wise individual seeks to understand people, things, events, and situations with an uncanny ability to effectively and efficiently apply knowledge to produce positive results.

Let’s consider the Christmas story of the three magi. The magi or wise ones provide a great example of obedience, perseverance, and faith. This historic account provides treasured insight into wisdom.

Ancient writings tell us that the wise look up.

1 After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem 2 and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”

Looking up requires you to seek solutions. Keep an optimistic viewpoint.

You are bound to see potential when your vantage point is literally and figuratively “sky’s the limit”. And when gazing heavenward, then and only then can you discern the patterns spelled out that provide divine direction.

What does your future hold?

Ancient writings tell us that the wise are generous.

11 On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh.

Generosity requires you to be willing. Not just with your money or material things but with your talents. You must take responsibility for your personal gifts. Beneath the surface of your day-to-day existence lies potential and possibility. If you set out on a journey to deliver exquisite, rare, and precious goods to the world, what would they be?

Ancient writings tell us the wise follow the instruction of their dreams.

12 And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route.

Dreams are real. They exist. You can’t deny the fact that you have ideals, something hoped for and mental images of what could be! The key is to follow their instruction. Pay attention. Dreams contain expectations of your potential. How can you step into your dreams?

Taking a next right step can land you in the most surprising situation. Little did the wise ones know that their journey would lead them to a king that was toddling around the hem of his mother’s skirt. Without reservation, they demonstrated obedience. They looked up and stepped out into the ordained journey. They demonstrated perseverance. Diligently they harnessed their talents to navigate, negotiate and deliver precious gifts. Finally, with great faith they worshipped the most peculiar king they had ever held court with without reservation.

Word to the wise…

Love God Completely.

Love your selves correctly.

Love others compassionately.

Wise Matthew 2 The Magi Visit the Messiah

1 After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi [a] from the east came to Jerusalem 2 and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”

3 When King Herod heard this he was disturbed, and all Jerusalem with him. 4 When he had called together all the people’s chief priests and teachers of the law, he asked them where the Messiah was to be born. 5 “In Bethlehem in Judea,” they replied, “for this is what the prophet has written: 6 “‘But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for out of you will come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel.

7 Then Herod called the Magi secretly and found out from them the exact time the star had appeared. 8 He sent them to Bethlehem and said, “Go and search carefully for the child. As soon as you find him, report to me, so that I too may go and worship him.”

9 After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. 11 On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. 12 And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route.

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Me, Myself, & Inc.

much more exciting and exhilarating. It was and is about creating synergy in one’s life through honoring the three aspects of who each of us is – Me, Myself and Inc. Look up the word synergy in the dictionary and you find definitions such as “the interaction of two or more forces so that their combined effect is greater than the sum of their individual effects” or “cooperative interaction that creates an enhanced combined effect.” No conflict, no forces going against one another, but rather a true sense of harmony being achieved in the most desirable way … positively and energetically. And the best part of all … the combined effort enhances and enriches to a greater sum

By Sherré DeMao than all those aspects separately could ever achieve. Now this is more like it! This is something I could embrace and run with … and that is exactly what I have done and you can too.

So, how do you create synergy in your life? First, you must take a very honest look at what you truly and ultimately believe that you want and what will make you feel fulfilled, satisfied, and complete in your personal life and in your work life by honoring the three Are You Ready To Rewire Your Thinking? aspects of you. This is not as easy as it appears. Our entire mindset of opposing forces, conflicting needs, and overwhelming demands As I mentioned in my first column, I determined more than 15 years has been conditioned into our thinking at a very young age. You ago that work/life balance doesn’t work. Instead, I determined that MUST forget about all of those things tugging at your psyche and work/life synergy where you truly get to the very embrace the three aspects of core of what you who you are – Me, Myself really, truly want ...“the interaction of two or more forces so that their and Inc. – was a better more … what gets your combined effect is greater than the sum of their positive way to approach life passion flowing, and work. In this column, your heart a flutter, individual effects” or “cooperative interaction that I wanted to give you a bit your metabolism creates an enhanced combined effect.” more insight so you can grooving, your further shift from the balance mind racing with mindset to the empowering, ideas, your energy exciting synergy mindset. soaring, and brings For many years of owning a business and living my life, like you, I vitality to your future. This is where the process of synergy begins had been under the misguided notion that there needed to be balance. and I am thrilled to be taking you on its journey.

The problem was it always meant choosing, adjusting, conceding, compromising, giving up, and maneuvering this or that in order to achieve this ultimate equilibrium.

Bio: Sherré DeMao inspires Everything that was being “balanced” was viewed as separate millions through her monthly competing forces vying for my attention, pulling me in all directions Savvy Business Owner column, along the way. As years continued to go by, I found myself getting her weekly Monday Motivation more and more uncomfortable with the entire idea of balance. I found & Insight and her national contributing writing for myself coming to the reality that it is never achievable, at least not in FoxBusiness.com, Entrepreneur, the way that I or anyone else was perceiving it to be.

Women Entrepreneur, and Being the eternal optimist, this idea of it not being achievable felt Enterprising Women magazines. frustrating and disheartening. But then, I had an epiphany. I, we as a An expert strategist and marketer focused on entrepreneurs, her society, have had it all wrong. We have been focusing on the wrong side unique perspective and innovative of the equation in this formula for a happier, satisfying existence. approach has earned more than Work/Life Balance has become the mantra of every executive 50 awards regionally, nationally coach, training professional, magazine article, and a myriad of other and internationally including being named among the Top 50 resources that range from spiritual to being professed in a corporate Enterprising Women of North values statement. Look in the dictionary and the definition for America in 2007. Her first book, balance ranges from “a state of equilibrium or parity characterized Me, Myself & Inc. - A Synergized by the cancellation of one set of forces by equal opposing forces” or World, An Energized Business, Living Your Ultimate Life (www. “a satisfying arrangement or proportion of parts or elements.” And memyselfandinc.com), was herein lies the problem. We are viewing our lives as these elements, cited as a Top Business Shelf parts, and opposing forces. Why is that? Why do we begin the whole pick by Midwest Book Review. process by viewing everything as separate and in conflict?

Her newest book, 50 Marketing Secrets of Growth Companies It was at this moment of enlightenment that I began to change my in Down Economic Times entire view of how to achieve a satisfying work and personal life. It (www.50marketingsecrets.com) was not about balancing at all. It was something much greater and was released in fall of 2010.

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Looking back over 2010, I have tried my best to shine a light upon what love is to a woman in such a way that men can understand. You see, there is a difference in the way that men and women communicate.

The things that we guys think are important are different than what women find important. Now ladies, guys have to be careful about showing tenderness, because of what other guys will think. No matter how silly you think that is, doesn’t really matter, because the fact is…it will never change. Guys will do what we can do, so far as it doesn’t ruin our relationships with other guys. It is best that women just understand that there are rules and lines that guys have to operate within.

Now, what I have tried to do is shine a light on some of the lies that we guys have been told. Real men…I mean lumberjack, Spartan, warrior men…guys who lead other men, will do things that seem to contradict the rules, because they know the lies. Showing tenderness, buying flowers, holding a chair and opening doors are manly things to do. Saying I’m sorry, when you mess things up is manly and keeping promises is very important to establishing the things that are most important to women…trust and security.

Nothing will destroy trust faster than broken promises and the reverse is also true. Nothing builds stronger bonds of trust and security than a man that will keep his word. A man dedicated to principles…a man of character.

Kept promises:

Once upon a time, there was a man named Larry. Larry was a great guy and everyone liked him. He was a man of character…a leader. Larry asked his friend Shane to come in with him and purchase a business that was going up for sale. Shane trusted Larry and decided that it could be a good move. Shane withdrew his retirement savings and applied it to the cost of the business and the two friends became partners. The business was a great success and as with many people who experience such success…Larry began to party and see women who were not his wife. Shane confronted his friend and asked him to return to the man of character that he once was. Shane was told to mind his own business, threatened and told Shane that he could have his share of the money back…if he would just leave and go away. Shane was devastated.

Not only had he stepped away from a career, but now he was losing the new job and his friend. As he left the building, Shane heard a small voice in his heart say, ”One day this will all be yours.” Difficult days lay ahead for Shane, but so did future days of glorious success.

During the next thirteen years, the thought crossed Shane’s mind that he must have been wrong about the voice or maybe he had done something to offend God; that the promise was retracted. It bothered Shane deeply and he prayed often to ask God if He meant what He had said or if He had been offended. Well, thirteen years to the month, maybe even the day, the phone rang and Shane was told that horrible

things had happened surrounding the business and that if he was interested in the equipment, that he once owned, it was available and that arrangements needed to be made to take possession.

Promises kept… I hope you can imagine how emotional Shane felt when he walked into the warehouse full of the equipment that he so dearly loved; equipment that had become part of his identity while he partnered with Larry. To his surprise, the equipment was no worse for all the years…in fact it looked like it had not been used in all that time.

What a miracle!

By Thanksgiving, Shane will again have his business up and running and this time it all belongs to him…debt free now. I won’t try to find hidden reasons or answers…I’ll let you do all of that. The story is true, current, and Shane is marveling at the faithfulness of God. Shane trusts God and God is building a relationship with Shane based upon that trust. Through that relationship of faithfulness, Shane is learning even deeper character.

God knows the value and importance of keeping promises. You see we are about to celebrate the most important of all promises. Christmas, the birth of Christ, the promise that we would be given a Savior , one who would come and live a sin free life, because we can’t; one who would freely pay the penalty for our sinfulness and three days later be raised to live in the hearts of all believers and ascend into heaven. Having paid the penalty, He offers eternity for any who will follow Him. Praise God for promises kept and be thankful that we have a God of character who loves us so much that He sent His son to die for all of humanity, so that all who would believe could have eternal life.

Ladies and gentlemen, in this time where good examples are hard to find…look no further than Jesus Christ…our God of CHARACTER. Merry Christmas!

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by Mary Southerland

Today’s Truth

James 1:17 (NIV) “Every good action and every perfect gift is from God. These good gifts come down from the Creator of the sun, moon, and stars, who does not change like their shifting shadows.”

Friend To Friend

Before you hit the malls and plunge into the last days of shopping frenzy, set aside some time to pray, asking God to direct your shopping trip and give you insight as you purchase each gift. Interesting thought, isn’t it? I have to admit that I tend to plan, think and worry about Christmas gifts more than I pray about them. However, I recently heard a true story that has changed my perspective on Christmas giving.

Each Christmas, Operation Shoebox collects and sends over eight million shoeboxes stuffed with small gifts such as candy, school supplies, small toys, toothbrushes, soap, and shampoo to children across the world. In Mexico, hundreds of boys and girls gathered at the church in a small village, excitedly anticipating the arrival of their precious shoeboxes.

Delightful chaos erupted as bulging shoeboxes, wrapped in brightly colored paper and ribbon were passed into the small, eager hands of each child. Wrapping paper was hurriedly ripped into pieces and tossed aside, a smile spreading across the face of each child as their long awaited Christmas treasures were revealed.

However, one little boy dissolved into tears as he lifted the lid of his box and peered inside to see what he had received for Christmas this year. One of the Operation Shoebox volunteers spotted the little boy and hurriedly made his way across the church to see what the problem could possibly be. With the help of an interpreter, the volunteer asked the now sobbing little boy, “What is wrong? What is in your box?” With tears streaming down his face, the little boy said, “Socks!” The worker instantly understood and assured the little boy that he could trade his box of socks for another box that might have crayons or a piece of candy in it. Alarm spread across the face of the child as he vigorously shook his head and quickly jerked the box away from the now somewhat confused worker.

Clutching the shoebox to his chest, the boy began sobbing out an explanation to the interpreter who listened for a few moments and then, with tears spilling out of his own eyes, turned to the volunteer and said, “You won’t believe this!” Taking a deep, steadying breath, the interpreter explained, “This little boy has a rare skin condition with which he was born. It seems to affect his feet more than any other part of his body. The doctors have tried various medications and treatments but finally told the little boy that nothing will work and his feet will never heal unless he begins wearing cotton socks. His parents cannot even afford food for this boy; much less provide socks for their

son. So, all year long, he has been praying for socks.”

Have you ever considered the idea that your Christmas gift may very well be an answer to someone’s prayer? I have to admit that I have rarely, if ever, made a Christmas gift list with that criterion in mind. Always in a hurry, my first thought is usually how to find the greatest deal at the lowest price in the shortest amount of time with the least amount of effort and hassle at the first store I enter - and hope the person likes it - because that is what he or she is going to get. Ah, yes. That is certainly the heart of God, isn’t it?

Join me in making this Christmas season different. Do not allow television ads, catalogues or shopping fliers dictate the gifts you give this year. Turn your Christmas list into a prayer list and you may very well end up giving an “operation shoebox” gift to someone you love.

Let’s Pray

Father, I so want to make this Christmas all about You. I pray that the gifts I give this year will be encouraging and truly helpful and not just items checked off of a list or obligations that have been met. Please direct my thoughts, my heart and my shopping trips. Help me to spend wisely, in a way that pleases and honors You. Give me Your heart, Lord, and remind me that Christmas really is all about You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn

Carefully make your Christmas list for this year.

Pray for each person on that list, asking God to give them peace and joy this holiday season.

Consider making gifts instead of buying them.

Give something of special value to you to someone on your list.

Ask God to bless each gift and each recipient.

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Wow! To think that God can and does use us to meet the needs of people across the world is just amazing and humbling to me! Life is filled with miracles like the shoebox - many of which we won’t know anything about this side of Heaven. But we can put feet to our prayers and give a gift in Jesus’ name! Look around, girlfriend. Who needs you this Christmas?

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Ladies, it’s that time of year and what a wonderful time it is!

Christmas is a time of joy, peace, and a very busy schedule! Before you get too far into the social aspects of the season, think about your true expectations of Christmas. Realize there is an array of events popping up on your calendar, and think about what you truly want to commit to during this amazing time of the year.

The best way to start is to talk to your family about the various parties, church functions, family visits, etc. before you promise to attend any. You and your family should openly discuss everything on your calendar, in order to understand one another’s expectations. And what does that mean exactly?

There are so many family members to see, parties to attend, and if your children are different ages, they will be involved in different types of Christmas celebrations. Commit to what you know you can do, and don’t forget to save some time for yourself. You and your spouse deserve some unique time exclusively for you amid the frantic schedule.

As much as we Mom’s love to decorate our Christmas tree and the house in a special color or theme, consider what your children want. When our son was young, he always wanted a “real” tree, so every year we purchased our tree and decorated it the way “he” wanted to. We displayed Christmas ornaments he made in pre-school, and other “special” ideas he had for the tree. I’m sure some of our visitors thought our tree wasn’t elegant enough, but it met our son’s expectations, and that was the most important thing to us. Later when he was in high school, he suggested we purchase an artificial tree, which we did. He is now in college, and although he still enjoys the tree, he leaves it up to Mom. Remember, Christmas is for your children, so ask them about their expectations, and try your best to meet them. They grow up quickly!

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the expectations of those of us who recognize Christmas in a spiritual way. If you have a friend or neighbor who has never experienced the beauty of a Christmas Eve service in candlelight while singing Christmas carols, you should invite them to attend that very special service. It may be an expectation of yours to attend this service every year, and is something you always look forward to. By introducing this beautiful service to someone else, you may set an expectation for them once they experience it.

With parties and social events have a great time, but don’t overcommit. Being exhausted during Christmas makes it difficult to fully enjoy it. When planning your Christmas events always try to be creative and come up with new, exciting things to do with your family.

As with all things in life, consideration for other’s expectations can be an amazing reward for you and for those around you.

Merry Christmas and God Bless, and may all your expectations be met during this very special time of year!

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How much are you spending on Christmas presents this year? That is a huge question and the right answer depends on who’s asking it. You might think that does not make any sense but when you think about it; it does. If someone who owns a gift shop is asking, they would not be happy to hear you say you are giving all hand made gifts this year. The recipients might not be happy if you are not a great crafter. “But it is a gift from the heart” you say, made with love. Then I hope all of your gifts this year come to you with lots of “love”. My family does not wish for that kind of “love” from me.

If a child is asking, the amount really depends on what is on their most wanted items Christmas list. Those lists very wildly in the amount of dollars you might be shelling out. Kids, after all, do think money grows on trees or maybe that has changed recently and they just think all we have to do is print it. Kid’s gift lists are so different than they were even when my kids were small. Do they even make Tonka trucks or pee pee dolls any longer? To be real honest, I am afraid to ask any of my grandkids what they want. Ipads or Smart phones or computers small enough to fit in your purse but cost more than my first car...what kind of gift is that any way?

We used to say if we only had a penny for every ___ we had, than we would be rich. I can say if I only had the money that I spent for my grandkids electronics than I would be rich. It seemed like every year for several years when I would ask the first two grandkids what they wanted it was always a new gaming system. Of course I bought them but after a few years, I finally put my foot down and refused to buy another, newer, more powerful, more sophisticated version than the previous

year’s model. After all, they were not old enough to even know what “sophisticated” really stood for!

Last year I gave in though and did buy the Wii for one family member and now look what has happened. It would not surprise me if they don’t ask for the newest system because now you don’t need to hold anything.

My answer to that is; hold it anyway?

Oh, now I am showing the LOVE! Speaking of buying gifts let me ask you this question. Who can afford stocking stuffers any longer and when did those stockings get so big?

Don’t make the mistake of asking what they would like to have in their stockings. Did you know that games were the number one answer? I am not talking tidily winks here. The new game that I just saw that is supposed to be a giant hit this year, well, it is sixty bucks! Yes, I know it will fit in that $20 stocking, along with half a dozen other outrageously priced stuffers. What ever happened to a box of crayons and a coloring book?

I am on a roll, so I can’t stop with that. Have you seen the price of the new “crayons”? Who do they think is using them....Michelangelo?

Coloring Books are not much better. Along with all the stickers and the sparkles that are added; the prices really sparkle as they stick it to your pocked book.

After I think about it, maybe I should take up knitting! I never really gave it a fair chance before and I am sure if I put my mind to it, I could make something other than a sleeve! Then again, I have not checked on the price of yarn. They might be making it “sophisticated” now a days.

So who is asking makes a difference. If you ask me, I can tell you, I want something far greater than any money can buy. My children or grandchildren may not be able to tell you one item I got them ten or twenty years from now but I sure hope they can tell you how much they were loved.

Much love to all our readers and I am off to the yarn store!

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She would talk about my grandmother Louise as this beautiful, vivacious woman who loved to socialize with her friends, play bridge, take her family to church, bowl with her husband Thad, go to the theatre, traveling, and of course shopping! She loved being a mother and wife! She loved to dance and was a member of the dancing boots dance team at RJ Reynolds High School in Winston-Salem, NC. Thad was a lover of all sports especially the Wake Forest Demon Deacons.

He was an Army war veteran from World War II and was in Amendola, Italy on VE Day May 8th, 1945. He was a business man who loved taking his family to church, sweets from Dewey’s Bakery, golfing, bowling, baseball, traveling, racing and of course spending time with his family and friends.

I have always dreamt of being an entrepreneur in the fashion industry and I finally was able to make it happen. Business is apparently deeply rooted and in my blood. My great grandfather A. Thad Lewallen Sr. bought a patent in 1936 for a headache powder from a local pharmacist Martin Goodman. At the time almost every pharmacist had their own headache formula, however Thad Lewallen Sr. saw what he could do differently in a highly competitive field. He has been called a marketing genius because he felt “the best form of advertising is sampling” and that is just what he did. He had his friends and family hand out this headache powder to local factory workers at shift changes and soon the demand outnumbered production and Goody‘s Headache Powder had arrived! As the product had become known throughout the South for its legendary speed of relief, Goody’s took the logical step of becoming one of the first non-automotive sponsors of NASCAR in 1977.This led to Richard Petty, the undisputed “King” of NASCAR, becoming the company’s official spokesperson.

A. Thad Lewallen Sr. died on April 8, 1945 when his son A. Thad Lewallen Jr. was away at war. When he returned he went to work as Vice President of Goody’s Manufacturing until his untimely death. Goody’s continued to be a family run company until 1994 when the family sold the company.

My grandfather Thad Lewallen Jr. passed away unexpectedly from a massive heart attack on February 6,1964 and my grandmother Louise Lewallen passed

Sophie Woman’s Magazine Dec 2010 pg 33 away 10 months later from a year long battle with Melanoma Cancer on December 14, 1964. My mom Linda and her two brothers Thad and Mark were left in the care of Louise’s sister Millicent.

Growing up I couldn’t have asked for better parents. My dad Dale has been my Pastor my whole life and together with my mom they instilled in me and my brother, Chip, our faith in God and love for the church, integrity in everything I do, importance of family and of course a zest for life. My mother has been through a lot in her life with losing her parents at such an early age but I have learned such a humbleness and grace from her. I learned to appreciate having my family there because she was not fortunate to spend a lot of time with her parents and it makes me appreciate this wonderful woman I get to call Mom. My parents prayed for a Christian husband to come into my life and four and half years ago I met Jacob who I know God created to be my husband. We were married on June 30th, 2007 in Hickory, NC and I truly know what it means to love someone with your whole heart. I could not thank God enough for my wonderful marriage and to feel so loved everyday.

I can only hope that I can be half the woman and mother that my mom is because Jacob and I are expecting our first child, a little girl named Elouise in December!

Hearing these stories of my mom’s family my whole life always made me feel so close to them and inspired me so much in everything I did. From cheerleading and dance, to spending time with my family and friends and of course opening my own business with my best friend Stetson Patton, appropriately named after my grandparents Thad & Louise Boutique. We are a women’s boutique offering luxury clothing and accessories at affordable prices. We are moving into the Union Square Emporium which will open on October 1st, 2010 .We are also available online at www.thadandlouise.com and available for in home boutique parties.

Having a love of athletics and cheerleading and dance, Stetson Patton and myself were named the advisors of Lenoir-Rhyne University’s Cheerleading and Dance Team in 2010. We also are co-chairs for the American Heart Association Auction Committee. I love being able to serve my community with an organization that has greatly affected my family’s lives and I love being able to share my passion and inspirations with my dear friend and business partner Stetson Patton.

My grandparent’s lives deeply inspired me and has definitely directed me in my life and my career path. The deep roots that my ancestors have set for me make you realize that family definitely helps define who you are. It’s worth taking that look back to see where you came from and also to see where it can take you.

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The National Gourd Lady

and other materials from nature, such as seed pods and acorn caps, Margaret set to work.

For 17 years, she and Clyde exhibited Margaret’s gourd creations at the N.C. State Fair. During those years, they added the Southern Christmas Show in Charlotte to their gourd-selling venues. “Clyde went along with it because he knew I enjoyed it so much,” said Margaret.

When set-up at the State Fair became too difficult for them, they focused solely on Charlotte. For nearly 50 years, Margaret and her

by Mary Canrobert gourds have been regulars at the Southern Christmas and Spring Shows.

Freelance Writer & Editor “Every year I say is going to be my last year,” Margaret pointed out, but she packed up her gourds again last month and headed to Charlotte.

Is there anyone left in western North Carolina who hasn’t heard of Then, without even trying, Margaret caught the attention of Mike Margaret Sparkman (AKA Sparky, The Gourd Lady, and The National Redding in 2003. At that time, he was hosting a show called Carolina Gourd Lady)? Maybe that’s too narrow a scope. Is there anyone left in Traveler. “He saw my things [at the Southern Christmas Show] and the nation who hasn’t heard of the 94-year-old Conover resident who’s thought they were so unusual,” Margaret explained. “That’s what got been creating folk art with gourds for 52 years? Besides newborns and me on Carolina Traveler.” And that’s how Margaret got on The Tonight recent immigrants, of course. But, hey, thanks to the Internet, even some Show the first time. It was Redding whom a Tonight Show representative of our overseas neighbors caught Margaret’s Oct.29 appearance on The contacted, asking “if he knew a down-to-earth person with a unique Tonight Show. “People around the world have sent messages [saying] hobby,” said Margaret. “Mike sent four tapes of people with hobbies, they saw it,” said Margaret. That was her second trip to the coveted seat and they picked mine.” next to Jay Leno’s desk. In 2003, Margaret stunned Leno and everyone Margaret didn’t whack Leno on Oct. 29, but she did run after Denzel watching when she bonked him on Washington. Margaret had been the head with an especially long invited to be in the audience long-necked gourd. of the Oct.28 show. Margaret’s How in the world did sweet little limo driver and Washington Margaret Henry grow up to be so simultaneously pulled into the famous? It’s the result of a series parking lot of the studio in which of events, a whole lot of innate The Tonight Show tapes. Without talent, and being at the right place waiting for the driver to open her at the right time. door, Margaret jumped out and ran to Washington’s car.

Here’s the greatly condensed “People aren’t supposed to talk version: to celebrities,” said Margaret.

Margaret married Clyde “If security would have seen me, Sparkman in 1938. They adored they wouldn’t let me talk to him, each other and supported each but they couldn’t see me because other in their hobbies: Clyde’s was I was between two cars. I don’t fishing; Margaret’s, flowers. At the think they could have stopped me same time, Margaret honed her if they tried. innate salesmanship at JCPenney.

“He hadn’t parked his car yet Margaret Sparkman on the Jay Leno Show Later, she worked the reception when I went over. I said, ‘Denzel, is desk at the Shuford YMCA Pauletta with you? She grew up in in Conover. In the meantime, my hometown, Newton-Conover.’

Margaret grew an acre of flowers each summer, joined garden clubs, He pulled out his phone and called her and said he met a friend of hers trained to be a flower show judge, won local and state blue ribbons for in the parking lot. He let me talk to her. We talked about a benefit we’d her arrangements, put altar flowers in her beloved Concordia Lutheran been to in Newton. She’s bought gourds from me before.

Church in Conover nearly a month of Sundays each year, and earned “[When he appeared on Leno’s show], Denzel told first thing that a her first nickname: The Flower Lady. Whew! That’s a lot, but that’s not friend of his wife’s from Newton-Conover was there. He said, ‘Margaret, anywhere near the whole story. stand.’ They turned the spotlight on me.”

In the 1950s, Margaret started growing ornamental gourds, because, as she explained, “I thought gourds would be more permanent.” When Actually, the spotlight turned toward Margaret the day she decided her garden club decided it would be nice to take funny things to shut-ins to grow gourds. She’s been on Charlotte TV programs, featured in to make them feel better, Margaret fashioned a little gourd chicken and numerous publications, had a Shuford YMCA building named in her took it to Ollie Morrow (deceased) of Claremont. honor, and recently was the subject of a documentary filmed by James Ollie looked at Margaret’s chicken and said, “That little chicken looks Smith of Charlotte. sick like I am.”

On Nov. 1, she received the Mayor’s Citizenship Award. It reads, “I knew right then I had to improve on my critters,” laughed “Promoting our agricultural heritage / Conover’s International Goodwill Margaret.

Ambassador and the National Gourd Lady.”

Margaret and Clyde grew three acres of gourds one year. Working in “Clyde would be real proud of me,” Margaret mused. her kitchen, which continues to double as her folk art studio, Margaret We all are. started looking at gourds from all sides, visualizing them as animals, holiday characters, fruits and vegetables, and so on. Using paint, glue,

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We have a new family member this year and have been in shock at the havoc an eight pound puppy can bring. My piano bench has been stripped of the leather. A floor lamp with glass globe was destroyed when she pulled the cord out and toppled the 40 pound lamp hitting the piano and breaking the glass globe. I have retrieved everything from thumb tacks to important business cards out of her mouth. When the puppy started in on my shoe closet, all war broke out!

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At our home, we tend to go through sofas fairly quickly. The four dogs, which enjoy sunning on the sofa in front of the window, destroy the back cushions quickly. We budget for a new sofa every two years. This is against everything that I have been taught about getting the best and keeping it forever; but it is the best solution for our family. I guess it does help the local economy since we try to buy locally made sofas!

Another life-saver for households with pets is that indoor/outdoor rugs have improved in looks over the last years. These are great under a breakfast table or in a family room. To clean, simply take them outside and hose them down. Outdoor rugs would have been nice in some of the fraternity houses I visited in college!

Now it is time to decorate for the holidays. Time again to try to outsmart the puppy who is curious about every little thing and way smarter than her owners! I can decorate the mantle since I don’t think she can climb that high (even though she can jump on a dining table and clear out smoked salmon hors-divers). I can decorate the front door and the outside of the house. The large Christmas tree will stay in the basement this year and we will use a small tree on top of the piano or on a tall pedestal in the dining room. Cords will be an issue since the little demon likes to pull them out of the outlet. I guess the decorating theme this Christmas will be “Sparse, high, and outside.”

Christmas will still have the same incredible meaning even though our decorating will be minimal this year. Celebration of the birth of Jesus will still be the center of all of the craziness that the season brings. Hearts will melt with tenderness at the music and togetherness of the fellowship with family and friends. Meanwhile, the puppy will be in her crate having visions of sugarplums and tearing up Mommy’s new shoes.

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