Etiquestions

By Dr. Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa

Question 1 - Is there such a thing as elevator etiquette?  I always feel super awkward when I enter an elevator and other people are already in the elevator.  What should I keep in mind?

Answer 1 - This is such a good question.  I'm sure it has happened to all of us: we enter an already packed elevator.  There is such a thing as elevator etiquette, and one tip to keep in mind is that if you are entering a crowded elevator, it's always best to face the doors.  Entering the elevator and staring into the face of someone else can be very awkward, and even creepy.  You're already in someone's personal space, so don't make it worse by initiating potentially unwanted eye contact.  Enter the elevator, smile, then face the doors.

Question 2 - Is there such a thing as Phone Etiquette? What is the acceptable timeline for responding to text messages or phone calls?

Answer 2 - A recent survey says that people respond to text messages within 3 minutes!  However, don't feel pressured to respond immediately.  Acknowledge you received the message, but reply at a convenient time when you can pay attention to your response and be thoughtful with how you respond.

Question 3 - I recently attended a fundraising event at a Country Club where our host provided menus for us to order dinner from.  I noticed that one of the couples at my table had asked for a meal that wasn't on the menu.  They are members of the club and felt like they could order what they wanted.  Is it okay to order off the menu when you're not paying?

Answer 3 - This is a great question, and it reminds me of how much importance we sometimes place on food when attending events.  Always remember that it is not about the food.  When a host provides a menu, they usually spend some time looking at selections and budgets.  It's best to stick to the menu.  Find something on the provided menu to order and make sure the thank the host for the selection of food choices.