MILESTONES SILVER BAY
Gar-Wood Nordenholz
Burwell
Passed on October 17, 2024
Age 96
A long-time Silver Bay Member and Donor.
Following high school graduation, Gar enlisted in the Air Force as a communications officer. Once discharged, he went to work fulltime for the business his father started – the Rails Company – and spent summers out with the rail gangs installing rail fasteners. When his father passed on, he was appointed president.
While in the military, he married Mariana Hiser in October 1951, with whom he had four sons. The favorite summer family vacation spot was Silver Bay on Lake George, NY. With the help of his friends in the community and at Silver Bay he became an accomplished and competitive tennis player.
Gar made time to mentor and counsel his sons. He put his sons to work Saturdays and during school vacations at the family business. He also participated in YMCA camp-outs and YMCA birthday pool parties, house and yard maintenance activities, motor boating, amateur radio, tennis, scuba, and winter ski trips.
Joan
Reed Close
Passed on November 23, 2024
Age 90
A long-time Silver Bay Member and Donor.
After graduating from High School, Joan left home and went to Buffalo, NY to attend the Buffalo General Hospital School of nursing. Upon graduation as an RN, she worked at Buffalo General Hospital. Joan later attended The University of Buffalo School of Nursing, receiving a Bachelor of Science degree in Nursing and was promoted to become a Nurse Manager of a floor at the hospital.
Joan met her husband Donald at Foursquares, a young adult group sponsored by First Presbyterian Church of Buffalo where she also met a fantastic group of lifelong friends. Don and Joan were married in 1961.
After Don passed, Joan traveled to many countries with friends and a local tour group. In 2024, Joan traveled to visit with Jim and family in Cincinnati, with Carolyn and the family at Lake George in the Adirondacks at Silver Bay YMCA, and to West Valley for her 90th birthday and a Reed family reunion. Joan’s love of travel and her family never faded
Wife of the late Donald L. Close; dear mother of William D. (Fiancée
Michele) Close, James A. (Jayne) Close and Carolyn E. Close; sister of Kay Goetz, Dale Reed, Carol Bryndle, Caren Frank, and the late David Reed; grandmother of Russell, Jordan, Taylor, Connor and Kristin. Joan was an incredible person and a friend to all.
Michael J. Coleman
Passed on March 13, 2025
Age 81
A long-time Silver Bay Member and Donor.
Coleman started his career as a general assignment reporter for his hometown newspaper in Saratoga Springs, N.Y., in 1963 and was promoted to city editor and then managing editor there.
Gannett transferred Coleman to Port Huron, Mich. in 1977 to become that paper’s metro editor. Four years later he returned to Saratoga Springs as the newspaper’s publisher.
After retiring from the newspaper in 2007, Coleman remained active, assisting with a number of community organizations and non-profit groups and serving on the boards of the Brevard Zoo, The King Center, Ron Jon Surf Shop, the Florida Bank of Commerce, Dentsply International of York, Pa., the Freedom Forum and the Newseum in Washington, D.C. He also founded and operated Cool Media Consultants in Brevard.
Coleman is survived by his wife of 60 years, Mary Louise (Natale) Coleman; sons, Mark and Christopher Coleman; and two grandchildren. He was predeceased by his son, Michael J. Coleman, Jr.
Ruth Goewey Haase
Passed on August 11, 2024 Age 90
A long-time Silver Bay Member and Donor and a member of the Silver Bay Council.
Ruth Goewey Haase, 90, of Jamesville, NY passed away Sunday, August 11, 2024 at her home. Ruth was born December 16, 1933 in Irvington, NJ to the late Galen T. and Carolyn T. Goewey. She graduated from James Madison University in Harrisonburg, VA with a Bachelor of Science Degree and a double major in Elementary and Art Education, and was a life-long Sister of Zeta Tau Alpha Sorority. She was an active member of Ocean Grove Auditorium Choir, in New Jersey, participating in Sunday Morning Worship, their annual Ocean Grove Auditorium Festival and their Summer Sacred Concerts. She was a member of Ocean Grove Ladies Auxiliary, where she was a summer bazaar volunteer. She cherished Silver Bay YMCA, where she participated in watercolor classes and was a member of the “Mozart Singers” summer concert series. Ruth will be forever remembered as a gifted watercolor artist, featuring scenes from Silver Bay on Lake George, NY. She was a true artist and her talent was beautifully displayed in her sewing, needlepoint, embroidery, counted cross stitch, knitting, crochet and macramé projects.
Jules F. Halm
Passed on November 13, 2024 Age 93
A former Trustee, Silver Bay Council member, volunteer and long-time Donor.
Jules F. Halm {93) of Harrisonburg, VA, and formerly of Silver Bay, NY and Essex Fells, NJ. Jules was born and raised in Roseland, NJ, and went on to receive a Bachelor of Science in Administrative Engineering from Lafayette College in June 1953, subsequently working for both Bethlehem Steel and the CurtissWright Corporation. Following his service as a First Lieutenant, First Rank in the United States Army, Jules returned to Roseland to both raise a family and give back, through volunteerism. Jules next moved to Essex Fells, NJ, and turned his sights toward supporting the Silver Bay YMCA where he served on the Board of Trustees for eighteen years. For most of those years, Jules acted as the Facilities Committee Chair where he oversaw construction projects vital to both the organization’s infrastructure and its ability to serve out its charitable mission. Additionally, he served as the Treasurer of the Board of Trustees for three years, and he was on the Business, Planning, and Capital Priorities and Planning Committees, and the Master Site Planning Task Force.
Jules was truly a fine, yet unassuming man whose dedication to service bettered the communities in which he lived. Above all, though, family came first.
Jules was predeceased by his brother, Joseph C. Halm, Jr.,
son, Joseph (Joe) A. Halm, and granddaughter, Jo Ellen (Ellie) Halm. He is survived by his wife of sixty-two years, Gale Halm, daughter, Suzanne Locke, sonin-law Steven Locke, daughterin-law, Joey Lockwood Halm, grandchildren Abby Halm, Charlie (Mac) Halm, Connor Locke, Ryan Locke, and nieces Candie Halm, Sara Miller, and Carol Calvert.
Joan T. Jacoby
Passed on February 20, 2025 Age 94
A former EMP Alumni, Emp Fellowship member, Silver Bay Council member, Silver Bay Member and long-time Donor.
Joan was born in Manchester, New Hampshire, to Dr. G. Ernest and Mildred Thomas. When she was 15, she met her future husband, Walter, at the Silver Bay YMCA Conference Center, on Lake George in New York. They married in 1952 and honeymooned in South Hero, VT, on Lake Champlain. Both Silver Bay and South Hero would become important places to the family.
Family was very important to Joan. She was an amazing, supportive mother and grandmother. She and Walt enjoyed camping, bicycling, sailing, and traveling with family and long-term friends. They also had a lifelong love of playing games, especially bridge.
Joan is survived by her four children and their spouses: Susan Jacoby and Susan Baumgardner, Gail and Dave Orser, Nancy and James Aman, and Russell and Barbara Jacoby; her five grandchildren and spouses: Christopher Jacoby and Zoelle Egner, Matthew Jacoby, Joshua Aman, Timothy Aman,
Beth Aman and Mikael Ellingson, and great granddaughter Anieve Jacoby. Joan is also survived by her brothers, Norman and Donald, and numerous nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her husband, Walter, her parents, and her sister, Carol.
W. Everett Molony, Jr.
Passed on December 8, 2024
Age 82
A former Trustee, Silver Bay Council member, Silver Bay Member and long-time Donor.
Walter Everett Molony, Jr. was born in White Plains, N.Y. After graduating from Plainfield HS in Plainfield, NJ, he attended Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, where he was a member of Theta Chi fraternity. He graduated with a Bachelor of Architecture degree and spent six years in the Coast Guard Reserves. He was always proud of the Coast Guard and the work it does.
Although he loved the nine years he spent working as an architect, he was always fascinated by the world of investing. He joined Merrill Lynch where he was a financial advisor for 33 years.
He was on the Board of Trustees of the Silver Bay Association and was the Vice President of the Board of Trustees for the Allendale Columbia School in Rochester, NY. He was an EMT for Pittsford Volunteer Ambulance.
He loved skiing and car racing. Most of all he loved his family.
He is survived by his wife, Lee Molony; His daughters, Laura (Tim) Chevalier, Kristen (David)
Weinbach, Sara (Christopher) Reynolds and his seven grandchildren, Ryan and Kyra Chevalier, Carter and Hope Duncan, Noah, Jonah and Ethan Reynolds.
Betty Joan (Koehler) Noordsy
Passed on March 6, 2025
Age 94
A long-time Silver Bay Member and Donor.
Betty Joan Koehler was the youngest of 4 children born to the late John Peter and Clara Martin Koehler in Ainsworth, IA on December 28, 1930. She enjoyed good times (as well as hard work) with her late older siblings Louis, John, and Julie. She attended Central College from 1948 to 1951 where she received a teaching certificate.
Betty met Harvey William Noordsy at Central College. They married on June 19, 1953, at the United Presbyterian Church, in Ainsworth and then moved to New Brunswick, NJ while he attended Theological Seminary. After his graduation they lived in various places in New York State. She was a full time mother and homemaker while her children were in their school years inspiring them to read, play music and enjoy creative cooking and creative arts. She was a talented seamstress and embroiderer, creating quilts and beautiful stitched wall hangings. She took care of grandchildren several days a week. She loved the outdoors, including bird watching and flower gardening. Summers, she and Harvey have long been members of the Silver Bay, NY community, where family often gathers.
Betty is survived by her husband Harvey; her children John Mark Noordsy (Martha), Douglas Noordsy (and partner Callie Sullivan), and Jeanne Noordsy (and partner Russell Serrianne); her grandchildren Peter (Kristen) Noordsy, Anne Noordsy, Charlotte Noordsy, and Jack Noordsy; and her great-granddaughter Gia Noordsy; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.
Maurice L. Rasbeck, ”Morey”
Passed on September 10, 2024
Age 92
A former Trustee, Silver Bay Council member, Silver Bay Member and long-time Donor.
Predeceased by his wife of 59 years Christianna “Ann”, Survived by brothers Leon (Jane) Rasbeck, Dwight Rasbeck, and many nieces and nephews. Morey was born and raised in Wolcott, New York. He attended Red Creek High School and SUNY Oswego before relocating to Fairport, New York. He worked for Fairport Municipal and retired in 1991. He was a long-time member and was a member of the board of The Silver Bay Association on Lake George, actively volunteered with Advent House and School of the Holy Childhood.
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