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Here come the brides & grooms

City and county officials prepare for happy first wave of same-sex couples King County Executive Dow Constantine is looking forward to December 6.

It is on that day that he will open the County Recorder’s Office at 12:01 a.m. – immediately upon certification of the November 6 election – to begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

“I don’t want couples to wait a minute longer than legally necessary to get the rights that voters have recognized,” Constantine told SGN. “I will personally sign the first marriage licenses at 12:01 a.m.”

The move will make King County the first jurisdiction in the nation to issue marriage licenses to samesex couples based on voter approval. Washington already made history when its voters joined those in Maryland and Maine to approve marriage equality initiatives on Election Day. The laws in those states will not take effect

until January, however. Six other states – New York, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, and Vermont – and the District of Columbia already allow same-sex marriage, but their laws were enacted either by legislative bodies or court rulings.

Under Washington state law,

individuals will be directed to the plaza. Couples will be issued licenses on a first-come, first-served basis.

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EXTENDED HOURS As previously announced, the Recorder’s Office will remain open on December 6 until 6:30 p.m. to meet expected demand. All couples within the official queuing area at 4:30 p.m. will be served, however long it takes.

On Friday, December 7, the office will be open from 8:30 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. Couples will be able to line up starting at 6:30 a.m. All couples within the official queuing area at 4:30 p.m. will be served.

On Saturday, December 8, the Recorder’s Office will be open from 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. The lineup will begin at 6:30 a.m., and all couples within the official queuing area at 2:30 p.m. will be served.

All couples, regardless of gender, seeking a marriage license on

“I don’t want couples to wait a minute longer than legally necessary to get the rights that voters have recognized.” couples must wait three days before the actual marriage ceremony may be performed.

The Recorder’s Office is located in the King County Administration Building in downtown Seattle (500 4th Ave.). Couples may start lining up at the James Street entrance (on the building’s north plaza) at 10 p.m. An official queuing area will be designated on the plaza. For people with mobility issues, an accessible entrance will be available on 4th Avenue, and

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King County Executive Dow Constantine

Confronting Transphobia How the two other White House, Seattle residents observe Transgender Day of Remembrance

states won in Nov.

Maryland and Maine’s winning November 20 marked the 14th formula similar to Washington’s observance of the Transgender Day of Remembrance, an international recognition and in memory of the people lost to anti-Transgender fear, discrimination, and violence.

In Seattle, Mac S. McGregor, local Transgender activist and Social Outreach Seattle (SOSea) Director of Outreach for that community, said, “Transgender Day of Remembrance, is a day for all of us to reflect on why people are violent to those who are different from them, and how we can change that.”

Transgender Day of Remembrance was founded in 1998 by Gwendolyn Ann Smith, a Transgender graphic designer, columnist, and activist, to memorialize the murder of Rita Hester in Allston, Massachusetts. The day is now observed in at least 20 countries and in more than 185 cities.

“This day of remembrance reminds us that there is still a great deal of work to do not just to create equality but just the freedom and safety to live true to self,” said McGregor. “It is a day to let the families and friends of those who have died due to hate know that we will

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tive American nations.

Maryland’s situation was most like Washington’s. There, too, a marriage equality bill was passed by the legislature, signed by a supportive Catholic governor, and then challenged by an initiative campaign leaving the final decision up to voters.

One of the highlights of election night was winning marriage equality not just in our state, but in two others – Maryland and Maine – as well, bringing the number of states where Gay and Lesbian couples can marry to nine, plus the see transgender page 9 District of Columbia and two Na- see maryland/maine page 22

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S/he who hesitates is wise An attorney’s thoughts on marriage in Washington state

by Martin Sjolie Special to the SGN So many of us are ecstatic over the approval of Referendum 74 on November 6.

The effect of this law on the dignity of our intimate relationships will be profound and transformative, both to society and to us.

The words “my husband” and “my wife” now assume a very real and legal significance in our LGBT lexicon, where previously we may have used these endearments only in jest.

This having been said, I have no plans to marry. To paraphrase Groucho Marx, I would never marry anyone who would have me for a husband. I do not consider marriage a civic duty like voting, no matter how valiantly the recent battle was fought and won. Indeed, there are many things that I could do legally which I choose not to do.

Obtaining a hunting license, for example, or wearing a Spandex thong. I don’t speak for everyone, obviously.

This is written to encourage thought and planning before committing to wed. There are few more regrettable decisions in life than a hasty or improvident marriage. One should be sure to marry for the right reasons, at the right time, and, most importantly, to the right person. So here is a very brief discussion of marriage in Washington and its legal ramifications.

two ways to end a legal marriage in this state: divorce or the death of a spouse. The matrimonial relationship is not terminated by simply packing one’s bags and leaving the marital tent. Divorce can be a painful and expensive process. It is not glamorous. And so if you are one of these serial monogamists who go through partners like Kleenex tissues, marriage may not be the wisest option for you at this time. Grow up a bit first.

Third, this is a community property state.

The wealth that you accumulate during your

There are few more regrettable decisions in life than a hasty or improvident marriage. marriage will be deemed marital assets, legally belonging to both of you. And you will be liable for the debts incurred by your spouse. Further, your marital assets may be subject to legal claims, should your spouse incur medical expenses or cause a car accident, for example.

You should think twice before wedding someone who is financially irresponsible, as it could become your own personal nightmare very quickly. If your intended is now getting daily calls from collection agencies, be warned that soon they may be calling you as well.

Fourth, your spouse has inheritance rights. If you die first, your spouse will have a legal right to a portion of your estate, even if you have written a will directing otherwise.

Fifth, marriage may jeopardize your pension or public benefits. Before hiring a caterer, you should get in touch with the appropriate office or government agency and ascertain precisely what effect your marriage will have on your future benefits or entitlements. This includes federal programs. Bear in mind that DOMA will be repealed eventually. It’s a question of when, not if.

FIVE THINGS TO CONSIDER First, you cannot marry someone if you are married already. That is bigamy – a Class C felony in Washington. One would think that quite obvious, but consider this: If you are one of the many who went on one of those marriage junkets so popular a few years ago, jetting off to New England or Canada for a romantic matrimonial getaway, then you may be married already.

Your nuptials are recognized as a legal marriage in Washington, and not as some weekend lark that you are free to forget. If you remain happily coupled with your spouse, then all is well. Mazel tov. But if you parted ways some time ago, you must obtain a divorce or annulment before remarrying.

Second, marriage is a permanent contract DON’T BE A BAD EXAMPLE with no warranty or guarantee. One marIt is not my intention to rain on anyone’s ries for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer. There are only nuptial parade. Indeed, I am very hopeful

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that the enactment of marriage equality in our state will result in many happy and enduring marriages, thus contributing to the dignity of our intimate relationships. But I do fear that many may enter this hallowed estate with eyes less than wide open. And I would hate to see our detractors given the ammunition to say, “See, I told you so.”

Fifty years from now, as I sit in my wheelchair, I hope to read many announcements of golden Gay wedding anniversaries. I also hope to read that divorce rates for Gay couples are significantly lower than the national average. With more than half of all new marriages now destined for divorce, I would observe that the bar is low, and that goal is achievable.

TWO PROACTIVE STEPS I close by offering two suggestions to the marriage-minded: Consider premarital couples counseling.

Many excellent professionals offer classes and private sessions, and it is standard procedure in many churches. Find out if you two are truly compatible before you register a china pattern. Does one of you have a problem with anger management or chemical abuse? Do either of you come from a broken home and, if so, what was the cause of that breakup? What are your long-term goals in life, and where do you see your union in 20 years? It may be an enlightening experience. And if the counseling gives you second thoughts, it is far better that this happens now than after the wedding.

Also, consider a prenuptial agreement, drafted by a qualified attorney. (Two attorneys, actually.) For a prenuptial agreement to be enforceable, it must meet certain requirements: Its terms must be fair to both parties, there must be full disclosure of all assets and liabilities, and each party must have access to his or her own legal advisor. Even if a marriage is successful and the agreement is never needed, it still provides lasting peace of mind and security. In my many years of practice, I never once heard anyone say, “I wish I hadn’t gotten that prenup.”

As we look forward to legal marriage flourishing within our community, let us resolve to make our marriages healthy, happy, and durable. And let us pause to learn from the mistakes of others who have walked the aisle before us. Congratulations and best wishes.

Martin Sjolie is an attorney based in Capitol Hill, Seattle. He can be reached at (206) 841-1373 or sjolielaw@clearwire.net.

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Record dollars to benefit LGBT scholars

GSBA raises record $460k at 2012 TASTE event whenever those talented performers stepped on the stage?”

TASTE auctioneer extraordinaire Laura This year’s Greater Seattle Business As- Michalek and emcee David Schmader did sociation’s (GSBA) TASTE exceeded all their magic and kept the bidding lively as expectations, raising a record-breaking bid cards were raised again and again. $460,000 to support the education of LGFORMER SCHOLAR SPEAKS BTQA students.

There is no doubt that the highlight of this “From the moment you arrived and were handed a glass of champagne, I know we year’s TASTE of GSBA was when former all felt the excitement in the air,” GSBA GSBA Scholar Ryan Digges stepped on President Louise Chernin said in an e-mail stage. “Suddenly forks were put down as message to supporters after the November Ryan poignantly reminded us why we were 17 event. “The pre-function reception was there and what it means to our Scholars to wonderful as each caterer gave out scrump- get that call letting them know they are a GSBA Scholar – they are not alone and they tious small plates to savor and enjoy.”

This year’s Silent Auction items were have an entire community who is proud of “wonderful” and bidding was “lively,” said them and honored to help them go to colChernin, adding that the Sisters of Perpetual lege,” said Chernin. “Ryan’s words stuck Indulgence, The Abbey of St. Joan, “sold and truly inspired one of the most successful ‘raise-the-paddle, fund-a-scholar’ moments out of our blinkie rings in record time.”

“Moments after we entered the ballroom we have ever had.”

The success of this event is due in no we met our celebrity chefs, which resulted in exciting bidding for the two coveted small part to the support received from TASTE sponsors, said GSBA officials. chef’s tables,” said Chernin.

“Helping, supporting, and doing some The chefs were Tamara Murphy of Terra Plata, Chris Keff of Flying Fish, Jerry very heavy lifting to create this magical Traunfeld of Poppy, and John Sarich of Ste. evening was our very own GSBA staff,” said Chernin. “Led by our highly skilled and Michelle Wine Estates. talented events manager, Scott Walden, our GSBA team members Randy Bowren, RaWHAT A FEELING The entertainment was top-notch, under- chael Brister, Rachel Chernin, Matt Landlined by the ensemble of actors performing ers, Jessica Swetin, and Jessica Wootten the songs from Flashdance – The Musical. took care of countless details, all during one “The performers had incredible voices and of the most intense election cycles ever, and the dancers were fantastic,” said Chernin. they didn’t miss a beat. They are a dream “I don’t know when the room was more team and along with our TASTE Commitelectric – was it during the performance of tee and Board Leadership, under our cur‘Maniac,’ or was it ‘What a Feeling’ or just rent outstanding board chair, Mark Rosén,

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GSBA President Louise Chernin

are unstoppable when it comes to raising money for our students and supporting our members and our community.”

“But the number-one reason for our success is you – our guests, table captains, and members who care about our students and are incredibly generous in giving back,” she continued. “There is a reason we are the largest and most successful LGBT and allied Chamber of Commerce and that is because we have the best members.”

NOT TOO LATE TO HELP Chernin says that for those who were not able to attend, there is always time to be-

come a GSBA Scholarship Donor. “A yearend donation to the GSBA Scholarship Fund will make a significant and positive difference in the life of an LGBTQA student,” she said. “As Ryan told us at the TASTE, “You will never know how important your donation is to an LGBTQA scholar, but I can tell you that your support will change their life forever. Marriage equality won at the ballot box, and education equality can be achieved with your donation to the GSBA Scholarship Fund.”

Information about the fund can be found online at the GSBA website, www.thegsba. org.

Politicking in Port Angeles Lesbian mom pulls petition protesting teacher’s ‘No on 74’ pin

by Shaun Knittel SGN Associate Editor Cynthia Deford, the Lesbian parent who started a petition drive on SignOn.org urging the Port Angeles School District to prevent politicking by teachers, has withdrawn her petition, saying she now believes the school district will pay attention.

Deford posted the petition, which drew more than 600 signatures, on November 10, after she said an instructor wore a “No on 74: one man + one woman = marriage” button in her daughter’s eighth-grade classroom.

She had planned to deliver the printed version of the petition, with the signatures

and comments by some who signed it, to the Port Angeles School District office. However, Superintendent Jane Pryne told the Peninsula Daily News that the district already has a policy in place and that the issue is now a “personnel matter.”

Pryne would not identify the teacher with the button, despite requests from the media.

“I don’t want anything to happen to this teacher,” she said.

APOLOGY SOUGHT In addition, Deford would not identify the teacher either. The PDN reports that in her online petition discussion, she had said that the teacher in question is male and teaches mathematics.

Deford said she wanted an apology and sensitivity training for teachers. She has not asked for the teacher to be fired and says she has no intention of filing a lawsuit.

The Port Angeles School District has a policy specifically forbidding teachers from campaigning for an issue or candidate in the classroom.

The district’s Procedure 5252P says: “An employee may not campaign for a political candidate or for a political issue during school hours on school property.” Violation of the policy can be “sufficient cause for reprimand or dismissal.”

Referendum 74 was approved November 6 with a 53% majority of the statewide vote.

A BANNER YEAR FOR LGBT RIGHTS I can’t recall such a premier issue of the Seattle Gay News in a long time, with the “Victory” headline in the Nov. 9 issue.

We have returned the rights to Gay men and women, not only in Seattle and Washington state, but in many other states.

R-74 brings back the rights of couples with the security of more than registered partnerships in that their personal rights such as their estates, powers of attorney, etc., will be upheld.

The rights of women will be upheld, despite religious nutcases and others who literally would have women wearing burqas or long dresses and following behind men.

Their right to choose what they wish in abortion rights will be stronger. There are now 20 women in Congress. We can hope the working wage for women will finally equal men.

In my 85 years of being youth-challenged, beginning with my vote for Franklin Roosevelt in 1944, with his beginning Social Security and many other social venues, 2012 is the banner year for we, the middle class.

I am pleased the Seattle Gay News trumpeted all these victories so well.

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FREE BREAST EXAMS The YWCA Women’s Health Outreach, in collaboration with Swedish Hospital’s mobile mammogram coach, are conducting a no-cost mammogram & Pap test screening at the Wildrose on Seattle’s Capitol Hill on Saturday, December 8, from 9 a.m. to 3p.m.

You are eligible if you are 40 or over, have limited income, are uninsured or underinsured, have not had a mammogram in two years or more, are high-risk, or are new to the Breast Cervical and Colon Health program.

If you are over 50 we have a special holiday offering of a voucher for a free shopping spree at the YWCA’s Working Wardrobe!

People with insurance are also very welcome to get their mammogram with us!

We thank the Wildrose Tavern, for their generous offering of their space, Swedish, our provider Beth Kruse, and Public Health Seattle–King County for making this Queer-friendly screening possible again!

Make your appointment today by calling Ingrid at (206) 461-4493.

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ARTS/CRAFTS/GIFTS

South Park Arts “Art Under $100” sale, Dec. 1, 3-9 p.m. South Park artists will knock your socks off with original, edgy works not seen at a typical holiday sale.

What’s more, everything is affordable, with nothing priced over $100. The event will showcase a diverse array of art including painting, photography, sculpture, neon, jewelry, ceramics, glass, letterpress, and more. South Park Community Center, 8319 8th Ave S., Seattle, www.southparkarts.org.

Phinney Neighborhood Center holds its annual Winter Festival and Crafts Fair, Dec. 1-2, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. both days. Features 115 artists and crafts vendors, hundreds of musicians and dancers on two stages, a quilt raffle, bake sale, and lunch items. Supports the Phinney Neighborhood Association’s hot meal program, child care, and other neighborhood projects. Phinney Center, 6532 Phinney Ave. N., (206) 783-2244, www. phinneycenter.org.

The Arboretum Foundation presents “Gifts and Greens Galore” annual holiday sale, Dec. 7-8, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. both days. A unique selection of high-quality fresh-cut greens will be featured along with handcrafted gifts from local artisans. Demonstrations and craft workshops will be given

by Debra Prinzing, Alexandra Hedin, and Sue Mariotti (of Etsy’s Terrarium Shop).

Washington Park Arboretum Visitors Center, 2300 Arboretum Dr. E., Seattle, (206) 325-4510, www.arboretumfoundation.org.

FAMILY FUN Festival of Trees, a time-honored Seattle tradition celebrating 35 years, now through Nov. 28, featuring a “forest” of designer Christmas trees on display at the Fairmont Olympic Hotel in downtown Seattle. The trees will be sold in a silent auction to benefit Seattle Children’s Hospital. Other holiday items will be available for purchase as well. Details at www.seattlefestivaloftrees. com.

Gingerbread Village, the 20th annual benefit for the Northwest Chapter of the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, now through Jan. 1. Seattle’s top architectural firms team up with Sheraton Seattle’s culinary staff to design, bake, and build elaborate gingerbread displays and other holiday creations reflecting this year’s theme. The display is free and open to the public (donation suggested). Sheraton Seattle Hotel, 1400 6th Ave., Seattle. More information at http://gingerbreadvillage.myevent.com/3/ events.htm.

the Market’s holiday tree. Details at http:// the world’s tallest structure-launched fireworks show with more than 2,000 pyrotechpikeplacemarket.org. nic events. The base of the Needle will host Argosy Christmas Ship Festival, Nov. the West Coast version of Times Square, 24-Dec. 23, a Northwest tradition since where more than 50,000 people gather each 1949. The Argosy Christmas Ship (accom- year to watch the fireworks shoot across the panied by festive Parade Boats) sails to var- midnight sky. Special events are planned at ious Puget Sound waterfront communities the SkyCity restaurant and on the Needle’s for choir performances broadcast by a state- observation deck. Details at www.spaceof-the-art speaker system. Various options needle.com. are available for those who wish to sail and/ LGBT CABARET or dine onboard. Visit www.argosycruises. com for information.

Dina Martina Christmas Show, a SeatSing Along With Santa, presented by tle tradition featuring the First Lady of EnTacoma Musical Playhouse and the Taco- tertainment, Nov. 23-Dec. 31. Famed N.Y. ma Boys, Dec. 1, 10 a.m. Bring the whole critic Michael Musto called Dina “the most family to TMP for songs, treats, prizes, and original drag performer working in America photos with Santa (bring your own camera). today.” Martina comes armed with truly Tacoma Musical Playhouse, 7116 6th Ave., legendary songs, stories, costumes, and audience gifts, giving you one of the most Tacoma. Details at http://tmp.org. festive, invigorating, and ingeniously funny Great Figgy Pudding Street Corner evenings you’ve ever had. Bloody Mary/ Caroling Competition, Dec. 7, 5-8:30 Mimosa Weekend Matinees 2 p.m. Dec. p.m., at Westlake Center. A benefit for the 15, 16, 22, and 23; all other performances Pike Market Senior Center and Food Bank. 8 p.m. Re-Bar, 1114 Howell St., Seattle.

Immerse yourself in the holiday spirit as Tickets at www.brownpapertickets.com/ dozens of caroling teams sing their hearts event/271829. out on downtown Seattle street corners in Ham for the Holidays: Ham-ageddon! and around Westlake Center. The top teams then compete in a sing-off on the Figgy featuring Dos Fallopia, Nov. 30-Dec. 30, Main Stage. To form your own caroling 7:30 p.m. Wed.-Sat.; 3 p.m. Sat.-Sun. (plus team or for more information, contact Zoe 7:30 p.m. Dec. 16 and 23). The apocalypse is just around the corner, so Dos Fallopia Freeman at zoe.freeman@speakeasy.net.

(Lisa Koch and Peggy Platt) celebrate with Green Lake Pathway of Lights returns some classic moments from past years’ for its 36th year Dec. 8, 5-8 p.m. (rain or shows, with some new tunes and sketches. shine). A free event sponsored by Seattle Theatre Off Jackson, 409 7th Ave. S. DeParks and Recreation and the Green Lake tails at www.heylisa.com. Tickets at www.

Community Center Advisory Council fea- brownpapertickets.com/event/277489. turing local musicians performing at four

Macy’s Holiday Parade and Tree Lighting, Nov. 23, 9 a.m. (parade), 5 p.m. (tree). Parade features 25 floats, local school marching bands, sports teams and mascots, and hundreds of costumed characters – including, of course, Santa. Begins at 7th Avenue and Pine Street, travels west on Pine to 5th Avenue, south on 5th to University Street, west on University to 4th Avenue, and then north on 4th to Macy’s. Tree lighting in Westlake Park followed by fireworks (weather permitting).

Seattle Center WinterFest, Nov. 23Jan. 6. Six weeks of free entertainment, including the timeless Winter Train and Village, WinterFest Ice Rink, Seattle Youth Symphony Orchestra (Nov. 23, 12:30 p.m., Armory), Ice Sculpting (Saturdays through Dec. 29, noon-2 p.m., outside Fisher Pavilion), Seattle Men’s Chorus (Nov. 24, 12:30 p.m., Armory), WinterFest Student Showcase (Nov. 26-Jan. 6, various times, Armory), Bailadores de Bronce (Dec. 15, 12:30 p.m., Armory), Garfield H.S. Jazz Band (Dec. 23, 1 p.m, Armory), The Dickens Carolers (Dec. 29, 12:30 p.m., Armory), Eastside Modern Jazz Orchestra (Dec. 30, 12:30 p.m., Armory), and a New Year’s Eve celebration with the Rhythm Nation (Dec. 31, 8:15-11:45 p.m., Armory). Details on these and other events at www.seattlecenter. com/winterfest/.

sites along the 2.8-mile path around the lake. Attendees are encouraged to bring their own lights and candles to add to the ambiance. Hot drinks and treats will be served. Details on the event’s Facebook page, www.facebook.com/GreenLakePathwayofLights.

“Hanukkah Under the Stars,” a community celebration, Dec. 15, 5:30-7:30 p.m.

Celebrate the Festival of Lights at one of the largest Hanukkah celebrations in the Seattle area. Featuring the kids’ band Recess Monkey, plus The Sababas, PJ Library, arts and crafts, and community candle lighting. Free with donation of personal items to Jewish Family Services (e.g., toothbrushes, deodorant, shampoo, soap). Stroum Jewish Community Center, 3801 E. Mercer Way, Pike Place Market presents “Magic in Mercer Island. Details at www.sjcc.org. the Market,” Nov. 24, starting at 1 p.m. The award-winning Dickens Carolers will enterNew Year’s Eve Celebration at the Space tain and hot cider will be served. At 5 p.m., Needle, Dec. 31, 11:59 p.m. Start 2013 off Santa leads a countdown to the lighting of with a bang as the Space Needle displays

Homo for the Holidays, an annual all-star holiday cabaret featuring BenDeLaCreme, Kitten LaRue, the Cherdonna and Lou show, Jinkx Monsoon, Major Scales, Fuchsia FoXXX, Faggedy Randy, and many more, Dec. 14-15 and 21-24, 7 p.m. and 10 p.m. nightly. The Stranger calls Homo for the Holidays “the premiere event of the true Gay yuletide season!” West Hall, Oddfellows Building, 915 E. Pine St., Seattle.

Tickets at www.brownpapertickets.com/ event/290222.

MUSIC Seattle Men’s Chorus presents “Baby, It’s Cold Outside,” Nov. 30-Dec. 22, with special opening-weekend guest Ana Gasteyer. SMC, “Seattle’s Other Holiday Tradition,” heats things up with their unique blend of song, dance, and campy comedy, taking you on an exotic journey with festive songs from south of the border, Hawaii, and other tropical locales. 8 p.m. Nov. 30; 2 p.m.

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Dec. 1; 7:30 p.m. Dec. 9; 7:30 p.m. Dec. 16 and 20; 8 p.m. Dec. 21; 2 and 8 p.m. Dec. 22. Also performing in Tacoma at Pantages Theater, 8 p.m. Dec. 13; and in Everett at Civic Auditorium, 8 p.m. Dec. 15. Details at www.flyinghouse.org.

www.seattlesymphony.org.

Seattle Pro Musica presents a Family Holiday Concert, Dec. 8, 3-4 p.m. Featuring traditional carols, an audience sing-along, and young choral singers from area schools.

Suitable for all ages. Town Hall, 1119 8th Rainbow City Band presents “Quodli- Ave., Seattle. Details at www.seattlepromubet: Music to Rejoice, Reflect, and Remem- sica.org. ber,” a concert for World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, Seattle Pro Musica presents “Weih7 p.m. Featuring the West Coast premiere of Robert Maggio’s composition “Quilt Pan- nachten, German Christmas,” Dec. 8 & 15. els (for my love, for my grief, for my let- Experience the joyous sounds of traditional ting go),” on which the band will be joined German choral Christmas music, including by the Esoterics, a Seattle-based vocal en- works by Bruckner, Mendelssohn, Biebl, semble. (See preview in this issue of SGN). and Distler. The evening also includes an Edmonds Center for the Arts, 410 4th Ave. N., Edmonds. Details at http://rainbowcityband.com.

Medieval Women’s Choir presents “Nowell Sing We,” a program of Medieval English carols, Dec. 15, 8 p.m. Be transported by the mellifluous harmonies of compositions by John Dunstable and Lionel Power. St. James Cathedral, 804 9th Ave., Seattle. Details at http://medievalwomenschoir.org.

A Christmas Choral Concert: Sing Love! Benjamin Britten’s “Ceremony of Carols,” chant, baroque choral anthems, and carols with the audience are all part of a free concert with the 50-voice Seattle First Baptist Sanctuary Choir, youth singers, and

Book-It Repertory Theatre presents Owen Meany’s Christmas Pageant. John Irving’s quirky and memorable boy returns to wreak havoc on the annual Christ Church Christmas Pageant. Poignant, rambunctious, hilarious. Dec. 4-23, Center Theatre at the Armory, Seattle Center. Details at www.book-it.org

Lake Union Civic Orchestra (LUCO) presents a Family Holiday Concert and Sing-Along, Dec. 2, 2-4 p.m. This all-volunteer orchestra presents an afternoon of classic carols and other festive tunes. Town Hall, 1119 8th Ave., Seattle. Details at www. luco.org.

Seattle Public Theater presents Santaland Diaries by David Sedaris and The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson, both Dec. 6-24. For those who like a little spice with their Christmas sugar, Santaland Diaries chronicles one man’s experience working as an Elf in Macy’s Santaland.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever depicts what happens when the infamous Herdman clan takes over the annual church pageant and challenges everyone’s traditional notions of Christmas. Details at www.seattlepublictheater.org.

St. Mark’s Episcopal Cathedral presents “O Antiphons,” a service of lessons and carols marking the beginning of Advent, Dec. 2, 7 p.m. Featuring music by the Compline and Cathedral choirs. 1245 10th Ave. E., Seattle. Details at www.saintmarks.org.

Rainier Symphony, Northwest University, and University Presbyterian Church present “Christmas Traditions,” a concert featuring carol arrangements by David Willcocks, John Rutter, Healy Willan, Bob Chilcott, and others, Dec. 4, 7:30 p.m, Benaroya Hall, 200 University St., Seattle. Details at www.seattlesymphony.org.

Early Music Guild presents “Wassail!

Wassail!” featuring the Baltimore Consort, Dec. 14, 8-10 p.m. Music for the Yuletide season played on traditional instruments such as the lute, cittern, viol, crumhorn, recorder, and rebec. The Consort offers old carols and dance tunes from the British Isles, Germany, France, Spain, and the New World. (Pre-concert lecture at 7 p.m.)

The Seattle Symphony celebrates the Town Hall, 1119 8th Ave., Seattle. Details at holidays with a full month of festive per- www.earlymusicguild.org. formances, including Holiday Pops, Dec. 6-9; Handel’s Messiah, Dec. 14-16; and Magical Strings presents “Celtic YuleBeethoven’s Ninth Symphony, Dec. 28-31. tide,” a fabulous gala of Irish music, dance, A special one-night performance of Don storytelling, juggling, and songs of the seaTiki’s Hot Lava Holiday Show, Dec. 17, son, Dec. 15, 7:30 p.m., Town Hall, 1119 brings Hawaii’s top musicians to Seattle 8th Ave., Seattle. Also appearing in various for a night of island rhythms and festive tiki locations throughout the Puget Sound area lounge music. All events held at Benaroya Nov. 30-Dec. 17. See www.magicalstrings.

Hall, 200 University St., Seattle. Details at com for full schedule.

Taproot Theatre presents Sherlock Holmes and the Case of the Christmas Carol by John Longenbaugh, now through Dec. 29. It’s Christmas Eve, 1894, and Sherlock Holmes resurfaces after being presumed dead for three years. Only he’s changed, and not for the better. Three unexpected callers arrive, uncovering clues from the detective’s past, present, and future. Can they save Holmes and his world from a dire end? A mystery full of Christmas spirits the whole family will enjoy. 204 N. 85th St., Seattle. Details at http://taproottheatre.org.

ArtsWest presents The Winter Wonderettes, a “new ’60s Christmas musical,” Nov. 23-Dec. 30. Take a nostalgic trip through the late ’50s-early ’60s musical style when the Marvelous Wonderettes are asked to entertain at the holiday party for Harper’s Hardware. Curtain 7:30 p.m. Nov. 23-24, 28-30 and Dec. 1, 5-8, 12-15, 19-22 (5 p.m.

Dec. 24), 26-29, plus weekend matinees at 3 p.m. Nov. 25 and Dec. 2, 9, 15, 16, 22, 23, 29-30. ArtsWest Playhouse, 4711 California Ave. S.W., Seattle. Details at www.artswest. org.

Seattle Choral Company presents “A Cathedral Christmas 2012,” Dec. 1-8, featuring a joyous collection of late medieval carols taken from the 1582 Swedish collection Piae Cantiones and arranged by Dale Warland, Stephen Paulus, Jackson Berkey, and Kirke Mechem. 2 p.m. Dec. 1, Chapel at Bastyr University, 14500 Juanita Drive N.E., Kenmore; 8 p.m. Dec. 7-8, St. Mark’s Cathedral, 1245 10th Ave. E., Seattle. Details at www.seattlechoralcompany.org.

Northwest Chamber Chorus presents “Sing Heigh Ho!” Dec. 2 & 8. Ring in the holidays with song and poetry by William Shakespeare, Christina Rossetti, Sara Teasdale, William Blake, and others, including a new 10-part Magnificat by Christine Donkin. 3 p.m. Dec. 2; 7:30 p.m. Dec. 8, Phinney Ridge Lutheran Church, 7500 Greenwood Ave. N., Seattle. Details at atmospheric candlelight processional. 7:30 p.m. Dec. 8, Town Hall, 1119 8th Ave., Sewww.northwestchamberchorus.org. attle; 3 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Dec. 15, Bastyr Pacific Lutheran University presents University Chapel, 14500 Juanita Drive its annual Christmas concert, “A Child Is N.E., Kenmore. (Pre-concert lecture begins Born,” Dec. 3, 7:30 p.m., featuring a new an hour before each performance.) Info at work by PLU professor David Deacon- www.seattlepromusica.org.

Joyner entitled “Unto Us.” Featuring PLU’s Bellevue Chamber Chorus presents Choir of the West, University Chorale, and members of the University Symphony Or- “Joy to the World!” Dec. 9-16. An internachestra. Benaroya Hall, 200 University St., tional celebration of song featuring a new Seattle. Info at www.seattlesymphony.org. work for children by Eric Whitaker, “Goodnight, Moon.” 3 p.m. Dec. 9, Prospect ConThe End 107.7 Deck the Hall Ball, fea- gregational Church, 1919 E. Prospect St., turing The Killers, M83, Metric, AWOLNa- Seattle; 7:30 p.m. Dec. 15, Bothell United tion, Passion Pit, The Lumineers, Grouplo- Methodist Church, 18515 92nd Ave. N.E., ve, Of Monsters and Men, and The Joy For- Bothell; 3 p.m. Dec. 16, St. Thomas Epismidable, Dec. 4, 3 p.m., Key Arena, Seattle. copal Church, 8398 N.E. 12th St., Medina.

Details at www.deckthehallball.com.

Details at www.bellevuechamberchorus.net.

Sundays at 2 p.m. (plus Dec. 6 at 7:30 p.m.).

Info at http://seattlemusicaltheatre.org.

instruments, Dec. 15, 7:30 p.m. and Dec. 16, 1 p.m. Seattle First Baptist Church, 1111 Harvard Ave., Seattle. Details at www.seattlefirstbaptist.org.

Miracle on 34th Street: A Live Radio Play presented by Twelfth Night Productions, Dec. 7-16, 7:30 p.m. Fri.-Sat.; 3 p.m. Sun. A “live” 1940s-style broadcast based on the holiday movie of the same name about a man who calls himself Kriss Kringle and is hired at Macy’s but ends up in court after claiming to be the real Santa.

Kenyon Hall, 7904 35th Ave. S.W., Seattle.

Tickets at www.brownpapertickets.com/ event/293698.

Orchestra Seattle and the Seattle Chamber Singers present a Winter Celebration, Dec. 16, 3 p.m. A holiday concert featuring Vivaldi’s “Winter” from The Four Seasons, plus works by Beethoven, Bach, and others. First Free Methodist Church, 3200 3rd Ave. W., Seattle. Details at http:// Stone Soup Theatre presents A Child’s osscs.org.

Christmas in Wales, Dec. 7-24. Celebrate the magic of Dylan Thomas’ childhood KISS-FM Jingle Ball, featuring Calvin Christmas in a play adapted from his poem Harris, Cher Lloyd, Owl City, 3OH!3, Alex and featuring both youth and adult performClare, Afrojack, and Ed Sheeran, Dec. 16, ers. 7:30 p.m. Fri.-Sat.; 2 p.m. Sat.-Sun.; 4 p.m., WaMu Theater, Seattle. Details at special matinees at 12:30 and 4 p.m. Dec. 23 www.kissfmseattle.com, tickets at www. and 24. Details at www.stonesouptheatre. ticketmaster.com. org.

The Irish Tenors (Finbar Wright, Anthony Kearns, and Ronan Tynan) present their annual Christmas gala performance with full orchestra Dec. 19, 7:30 p.m., a benefit for the Ballard NW Senior Center and the Senior Center of West Seattle. Benaroya Hall, 200 University St., Seattle. Details at www.seattlesymphony.org.

THEATER AND DANCE Scrooge: The Musical, presented by Seattle Musical Theatre, now through Dec. 9.

Based on Dickens’ A Christmas Carol, the musical follows grumpy Ebenezer Scrooge through his revealing night of ghostly visits from his late business partner and the Spirits of Christmases Past, Present, and Future. Fridays and Saturdays at 7:30 p.m.,

Unexpected Productions presents A(n Improvised) Christmas Carol, Nov. 29-Dec. 30. An improvised take on Charles Dickens’ classic shaped by audience input. Market Theater, 1428 Post Alley. Details at www.

UnexpectedProductions.org.

Pacific Northwest Ballet presents Nutcracker, Dec. 7-29, 7:30 p.m. Fri.-Sat. plus weekend matinees. Praised by the New York Times as “original and exciting,” this marvelously imagined production created by PNB founding artistic director Kent Stowell and author/illustrator Maurice Sendak, features more than 200 dancers, gigantic moving sets, a snowfall, and Tchaikovsky’s beloved score performed by the PNB Orchestra. McCaw Hall, Seattle Center. Details at www.pnb.org.

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A day of remembrance – and resistance Seattle-area Trans activists make Nov. 20 more than a memorial

BEYOND GRIEF TO HEALING The organizers of this TDOR event wanted to remember the systematic and state violence that happens to Transgender and gender-variant people, but add on to the traditional readings of the names with a space to focus on living and healing from trauma and violence. Students from UW Q Center and SU OMA, in collaboration with Queer Youth Space, organized the program. The plan was to begin the evening at QYS with a healing circle and sound healing conducted

by Zenyu Healing co-directors Christine Guiao and April Nishimura. Guiao stated that they desired to create “a space where we all find healing as a community and

been and is meaningful for many people.

Our choice stemmed from a desire to honor those lost without reducing their lives to the manner of their death. We do not wish to erase the violence experienced by Trans people – rather, we wish to bring attention to the multiple forms of violence we face, be it employment, housing, or health care discrimination, violence from the prison industrial complex, lack of safety in schools … the list goes on.”

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GENDER, RACE, AND CLASS Pratt continued, “We also want to highlight the ways in which racism, classism, and sexism are also present in this list. Most of the people whose names are read tonight are people of color, most are Trans women, and many were likely sex workers. This is true each year. Thus when we come together to raise awareness of violence against Trans people, we do so with the knowledge that to end this violence means we also need to work to end racism, end sexism, fight for the rights of sex workers, challenge the growing prison industrial complex, and refuse to be silent about this country’s exploitation of the poor, both here and globally. We come together tonight to honor and mourn those who are no longer with us, to pledge that will never forget, and to strengthen and support our community so that we can continue to advocate for change, so we that we can be here to continue to remember.”

There are many ways that these issues become invisible and those directly targeted are silenced. Often times, while organizing around hard issues that bring forth lots of complex feelings of sadness, rage, and grief, the need to have voices heard is of utmost importance. This TDOR event reminded me of the powerful force of healing collectively and a different way to give voice to violence and harm done to people’s individual bodies and communities that are marginalized. It is a human right to live free of violence and the fear of death. There is a long road ahead for Transgender justice, although there have been many known and unknown grassroots community efforts to keep people safe within homes, on the streets, and within institutions. There are groups of Transgender people locally and internationally who are living and organizing daily – building alternative families, communities, and organizations while discovering, creating, and dialoguing about new and old ways to transform and heal from the intersections of oppression, violence, and trauma. nate gowdy / seattle gay news

but rather captures all of that while not retraumatizing people. … We are really doing our best and as a newbie to the community In the hallway outside of Queer Youth struggling with how to do that while bringSpace, I sat with a person talking and cry- ing those most impacted to the center of the ing. I had pulled a young adult attendee I organizing … and then creating spaces for knew as a community organizer and public speaker out into the hallway to make a statement about Trans Day of Remembrance (TDOR) and what came forth were tears. This person proceeded to state that they were about to get their ID changed to reflect their true gender and preferred name. As most Transgender people, he had to go through a process with a therapist and he had just learned the day before that he was getting the signature on government forms that will transform his life. He proceeded to state, “The best way for me to honor those that have passed on is by living. … But I am so sad.”

There was fear, joy, sadness, and a myriad of complex emotions wrapped up in this private moment while organizers, predominately students, from University of Washington Q Center and Seattle University Office Seattle memorials to Transgender comrades of Multicultural Affairs within Queer Youth Space membership space and people to really honor those that we lost in strengthen our solidarity so we can move organizational offices were preparing to our communities, Trans folks and gender- forward in creating the world we alternately start the TDOR program inside. Ingersoll variant folks, in ways that focus on ways desire.” Guiao and Nishimura took the first half of the program to focus on giving up Gender Center representatives were also that they lived.” grief as an offering to the universe, and the present. Ingersoll was one of the first organeed to release it from our individual and THE ROOTS OF TDOR nizations in Seattle to support TDOR and Much like this moment, a lot of healing collective body. They also focused on how Transgender rights. and grieving happens alone and the organiz- to call in new energies, new strength, and a ers of this event brought silent grieving into renewed commitment to justice and goodMULTIPLYING INJUSTICES “I believe that economic injustice in the a collective community space as the prede- ness after multiple tragedies. Nishimura form of pervasive workplace and employ- cessor before them. TDOR began as a re- said, “Zenyu believes we need healing ment discrimination along with health care sponse to the murder of Rita Hester, a Trans- around these issues … and that from a more discrimination are two of the most serious gender African American, on November 28, healed and centered place we can come foraspects of institutional and societal vio- 1998, in Allston, Massachusetts. Her mur- ward into the world to make the effective lence against Trans people,” stated Breanna der, like much of the violence directed at the changes we want.”

After the sound healing, people proceeded Anderson, Ingersoll’s board co-president. Transgender community, went unsolved.

“These injustices have such tremendous The first candlelight vigil in response to to Cal Anderson Park for the traditional canemotional, economic, and interpersonal im- Rita’s death was held on December 4, 1998, dlelight vigil and the reading of the names. plications and they empower and fuel many with 250 people coming forth in anger and First, Maddox Pratt of SU stated some of the of the more visible and notorious acts of grief. The vigil sparked a web-based project intentional changes in the traditional reading of the names. “We have chosen this year personal violence that TDOR was originally called “Remembering Our Dead.”

Fourteen years later, it has been trans- to not read the ways people were killed. We created to memorialize. The issues are multiplied for Trans and gender-queer people of formed into an International Day of Re- recognize that this is a break from tradicolor. Economic and health care equality is membrance that happens on November 20 tion and that reading how people died has of each year for Transgender, gender nonor should be among our top priorities.”

Anderson’s statement resonates with the conforming, and gender-variant people Transgendered young adult who processed along with their allies, both to memorialize their emotions between joy of new commu- those killed due to Transphobia and to call continued from cover nity possibilities and fear of all the statisti- attention to the continued violence against cal possibilities around their choices in life. Transgender communities worldwide. This We stayed with each other between long has been a useful tool for bringing aware- not forget and we will work for understandmoments of silence and a few whispered ness and calling people to action against the ing, safety, and the freedom to live a full life comments, one Trans person and one ally, ongoing invisibility of systematic and state for all.” and contemplated what healing and trans- violence against Transgender people.

Jovonna Vaughn from Queer Youth formation would really look and feel like for HOW TO BE AN ALLY each other and Trans people across cultures Space, who works as a Wing 3 research and Here are some steps you can take to help and communities until the program began. education director and community orga- ensure that Transgender people’s rights are As a new person to this event, he was both nizer, stated, “Honestly, before folks from respected and the violence stops: overwhelmed by the amount of violence Seattle University and University of Wash• Get involved in your schools GSA and that happens to people who identify like ington approached me, I had no idea about make sure your GSA is Transgender and him, and overjoyed with the new feeling of Trans Remembrance Day, so this is my first gender-nonconforming inclusive. being surrounded by a supportive network. event around this day. What really attracted • Celebrate Transgender heroes and role This participant was experiencing what me to hosting it here [at Queer Youth Space] models. many of the organizers had intentionally set was how they are trying to take it from being • Make a commitment to support Transforth to create. Sabina Neem, 2013 co-chair a re-traumatizing event … to more of really gender and gender-nonconforming people. of the Seattle LGBT Commission and as- celebrating life. I think they are trying to • Be careful not to box people into gender sistant director of SU’s Office of Multicul- make an important shift in the way we think stereotypes. tural Affairs, spoke as an ally, student, and about Trans Remembrance Day. What also • Avoid gender-biased language and never youth supporter before the program began. drew me to host this event at Queer Youth use Transphobic slurs – not even in “jest.”

“If I die, I want to be remembered by how Space was the healing aspect that it was (You can’t be sure how others will perceive I lived and not in which the way I died,” bringing.” Often times, people have a lot of your words.)

Neem said. “As people who have experi- exposure to trauma and not as much access • Don’t assume anyone’s gender identity. enced trauma, sometimes we don’t see the to resources for healing multiple types of If necessary, ask respectfully how a person way we recreate it for ourselves and so we oppression and violence. Vaughn represents identifies. wanted to do a different kind of Trans Re- a new generation of people being exposed • Respect the diversity of all gender idenmembrance Day. We wanted to do one that to Transgender stories and histories and how tities and expressions. didn’t erase the reality of Transphobic vio- those stories can be remembered in a differ• Go to the GLSEN website (www.glsen. lence and institutional violence that leads ent way with elements of resiliency. org) and take the Ally Pledge. to the death and losses in our communities, “Together we can make a difference and

by Luzviminda “Lulu” Carpenter Special to the SGN

NATIONAL OBSERVANCES National Center for Transgender Equality Executive Director Mara Keisling said, “Today, NCTE is in solemn vigil for the Transgender people we’ve lost to senseless antiTransgender violence. Transgender Day of Remembrance is a chilling reminder that the work we all do too often comes too late for many in our community. So today, we reflect on the people we’ve lost. And tomorrow, we renew our commitment to ending the discrimination and violence that keeps many more of us imprisoned with fear.”

As part of Transgender Day of Remembrance, NCTE Executive Director Mara Keisling and NCTE Director of Policy Harper Jean Tobin, along with two dozen other Transgender advocates, joined the White House observance of Transgender Day of Remembrance. John Berry, director of the Office of Personnel Management, led the group in a moment of silence to honor Transgender victims of violence.

“To have a senior administration official leading us in commemorating Transgender victims of violence is a good thing” said Keisling. “But to have President Barack Obama’s commitment to solving antiTransgender violence affirmed in today’s meeting is a great thing.”

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CEREMONIES AT CITY HALL Seattle Mayor Mike McGinn said November 16 that City Hall will open for wedding ceremonies in its gorgeous lobby on Sunday, December 9 – the first day samesex couples with licenses will actually be able to wed. Aaron Pickus, a spokesman for McGinn, said eight municipal judges have agreed to donate their time to marry couples between noon and 5 p.m. that day.

“I’m just really happy that this has worked out and we have these wonderful art pieces as backdrops for people to get married in front of,” McGinn told Seattle Gay News. “New York and San Francisco had similar efforts when marriage equality became available to them. Getting married at City Hall is going to be a lasting memory for these couples. I know it will have a positive impact on me – this is very historic and a great time to be mayor.”

In addition, The Stranger, a Seattle weekly, is working with scenic artists to create four tasteful pop-up wedding chapels in the lobby of City Hall.

When asked if any of his Gay friends were planning to get married at City Hall on December 9, McGinn joked, “Not that I know of yet,” explaining that although he has a good number of LGBTQ friends, none of them have come forward to say they would participate in the public ceremonies downtown.

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these three days will need to wait in line. To help reduce delays, couples are encouraged to download a marriage license application from www.kingcounty.gov/marriage and bring the completed form with them when they apply.

In case of inclement weather on any of these three days, check local media or www. kingcounty.gov for information.

ing a license, and things to keep in mind as couples prepare for this important day. This information is also available at www.kingcounty.gov/marriage.

helped prepare him for how he would vote on the issue, “although I never dreamed it would be this fast,” he said.

The mayor’s support for marriage equality was never a secret. Unlike President Obama and Gov. Christine Gregoire, both of whom came out in full support of samesex marriage only recently, McGinn had

Seattle Mayor Mike McGinn

stated his views on the subject well before the Washington Marriage Equality Bill was introduced in January.

“I am thrilled that this happened in Washington because it really advertises one of our greatest strengths, which is the fact that you can come to live and work in Washington – Seattle in particular – and be who you want and identify as who you truly are, and find a supportive community waiting for you,” he said.

“It’s just incredibly historic. Marriage equality is finally a reality in Washington state and our residents will be able to have their ceremony at City Hall. On a personal level that just makes me feel really good about the progressive and equality-minded people that call Seattle home.”

plication and are then valid for 60 days. For example, if an application is made on Thursday, the first day the marriage license can be used is Sunday. The last day it can be used is 60 days later. If the wedding ceremony does Applying in person not take place within this time period, the Both parties must be present to obtain a couple will need to apply for a new license. marriage license in person. Save time by Under no circumstances can the three-day waiting period be waived.

If a couple applies for their marriage li“I am thrilled that this cense less than three days before their estabhappened in Washington lished wedding date, they will need to have a separate ceremony within the period the because it really license is valid in which the parties assent or declare, in the physical presence of the ofadvertises one of our ficiant and at least two attending witnesses, greatest strengths, which that they take each other to be spouses. The marriage license forms will be completed is the fact that you can and signed using this date. come to live and work in A Washington state marriage license can only be used to get married within the state.

Washington ... and be who A wedding ceremony on a marine vessel you want and identify as must be in Washington jurisdictional waters.

who you truly are, and find a supportive community waiting for you.”

downloading and completing an application at www.kingcounty.gov/marriage. Bring the completed application, photo ID, and the $64 fee (cash or local check, no debit or credit cards). The license will be issued at that time, but does not become valid until a three-day waiting period has passed. Applicants do not need witnesses, blood tests, birth certificates, or divorce papers to apply.

The application process takes 10 to 15 minutes to complete.

Applicant requirements Both applicants must be unmarried and at least 18 years old or otherwise able to meet the age requirements. Same-sex couples do not have to be previously registered domestic partners to apply for a marriage license, but if a same-sex couple has registered, they must indicate that on their license applicaMARRIAGE LICENSING INFO AN EARLY SUPPORTER Below is general information on mar- tion. They will also have to pay the $64 apMcGinn told SGN that watching the history around the issue of the freedom to marry riage licensing, the requirements for obtain- plication fee.

Applicants may not be more closely related than second cousins, whole- or halfblood.

Seventeen-year-olds may only apply if their parent or legal guardian submits a notarized statement of consent or the applicant is legally emancipated and takes a court-certified copy of the emancipation document with them to apply.

Applicants under the age of 17 may apply if the age requirement is waived by a superior court judge of the county in which one of the parties lives. Each party to the marriage who is under 17 must present a waiver specifically naming them.

Divorced applicants Previously divorced applicants do not need a copy of their divorce papers to apply for a new marriage license. A divorce must be final and filed before applying for a marriage license. Under no circumstances may a person apply for a marriage license before they are divorced.

Who may perform a wedding ceremony?

The following officials are authorized to conduct weddings: • Justices of the Washington State Supreme Court • Judges of the Washington State Court of Appeals • Judges of superior courts, and superior court commissioners in Washington • Judges of courts of limited jurisdiction (e.g., district courts, municipal courts) in Washington • Any regularly licensed or ordained minister or priest, of any church or religious denomination (a minister from a church in another state may perform a wedding ceremony in Washington, with no registration requirement) Washington does not “license” anyone to perform weddings. If a minister or priest is recognized as ordained or granted the power to perform weddings by their religious organization, that person is allowed to do so in Washington state.

A ship captain may not perform a wedding ceremony simply by virtue of being a ship captain. However, if the captain meets one or more of the above requirements, then he or she may do so.

Neither the couple nor the two witnesses may officiate the wedding ceremony, even if they are otherwise authorized to do so.

Witnesses State law does not specify a minimum age for witnesses, but witnesses to a civil contract are deemed competent for this purpose usually at the age of 18. If applicants wish to have persons under the age of 18 witness the ceremony, it is recommended that they have two other witnesses who are over 18 also observe the exchange of vows and sign the marriage certificates. More than two witnesses may sign the certificates.

Additional information Proxy weddings (where someone else stands in for one of the parties) are not recognized in Washington. Both parties must be physically present before the two witnesses and the officiant for the ceremony to Residency/citizenship rules be performed.

Marriage license applicants do not have A wedding ceremony must take place. to reside in Washington, nor do they need Simply applying for and obtaining a marto be U.S. citizens. A marriage license pur- riage license does not make you married. chased from any county in Washington can A minimum of five persons must be presbe used to get married anywhere in the state. ent at the wedding ceremony: the officiant, Couples do not have to apply for a marriage the couple, and two witnesses. The officiant license in the county where they live, nor do cannot also serve as a witness. they need to apply for their marriage license The parties must assent or declare, in the in the county where the wedding ceremony physical presence of the officiant solemnizwill take place. However, a marriage license ing the marriage and at least two attending obtained in Washington may not be used to witnesses, that they take each other to be get married in another state or country. spouses.

Applicants are not required to have a U.S. Social Security number to obtain a marriage Preparing and returning forms license. However, one of the marriage liFull directions for completing marriage cense forms requires either a Social Secu- license forms and filing them after the cerrity number or the applicant’s signature on a emony can be found at www.kingcounty. declaration that they do not have a number. gov/marriage.

This will not affect the couple’s ability to reWithin 30 days of the wedding ceremoceive a marriage license. ny, the officiant must return the completed Washington State Department of Health cerWhen and where licenses may be used tificate to King County Marriage Licensing, Washington marriage licenses become King County Administration Building, 500 valid for use on the third day following ap- 4th Ave., Suite 311, Seattle, WA 98104.

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Vatican fires activist priest Roy Bourgeois defied church authorities by ordaining women

“Dispensing” Bourgeois from his vows as a priest means he is no longer authorized to perform the sacraments of the church, such The Vatican announced on November as marriage or Holy Communion. Excom20 that it had defrocked and excommuni- munication, a more severe sanction, means cated Father Roy Bourgeois, an outspoken Bourgeois may no longer take any active Maryknoll priest. role in church liturgy.

“They finally got him,” the independent National Catholic Reporter editorialized.

NOT BACKING DOWN Bourgeois is a well-known human rights While Bourgeois said his dismissal was activist and was one of the founders of “very difficult and painful,” he remained School of the Americas Watch, a group ded- defiant. icated to ending the relationship between “The Vatican and Maryknoll can dismiss the U.S. Defense Department and Latin me, but they cannot dismiss the issue of American military establishments. gender equality in the Catholic Church,” According to a statement from the Con- Bourgeois said in a statement posted Nogregation for the Doctrine of the Faith vember 20 on the Women’s Ordination (CDF) published by Christian News Wire, Conference website.

Bourgeois was fired October 4 for helping “The demand for gender equality is rooted to ordain women clergy. in justice and dignity and will not go away,” he continued. “My conscience compelled DISMISSED AND ‘DISPENSED’ me to break my silence and address the sin “The Vatican’s Congregation for the Doc- of sexism in my Church. My only regret is trine of the Faith, on October 4, 2012, ca- that it took me so long to confront the issue nonically dismissed Roy Bourgeois from of male power and domination in the Cathothe Catholic Foreign Mission Society of lic Church.”

America, also known as the Maryknoll The incident for which he is being punFathers and Brothers. The decision dis- ished took place in August 2008. Bourgeois penses the Maryknoll priest from his sacred delivered the sermon at a Catholic ordinabonds,” the statement read in part. tion service for Janice Sevre-Duszynska at “As a priest during 2008, Mr. Bourgeois a Unitarian Universalist church in Lexingparticipated in the invalid ordination of a ton, Kentucky, in a calculated act of disobewoman and a simulated Mass in Lexington, dience to church authority. The CDF had Kentucky. … Disobedience and preaching ruled the previous May that any woman against the teaching of the Catholic Church who attempts to be ordained a priest, and about women’s ordination led to his excom- anyone who assists her, are subject to exmunication, dismissal, and laicization.” communication.

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Father Roy Bourgeois

WANTED PAPAL MEETING Although he had been warned by his Maryknoll superiors that he faced church charges, Bourgeois demanded a face-toface conference with the pope.

“There is no room for such discussion,” wrote Tom Roberts of the National Catholic Reporter. “The fear of that discussion is so great that clerics who dare to raise it are

dealt with swiftly and severely.”

In 2011, Bourgeois was arrested by Vatican police when he and several women, all dressed in liturgical vestments, tried to deliver a petition to Pope Benedict XVI. Bourgeois has also been arrested several times in the United States as a result of protests against the School of the Americas.

Coming up for air Gay Olympic diver Matthew Mitcham admits crystal meth addiction

by Shaun Knittel SGN Associate Editor

A DOWNWARD SPIRAL HIGHLY ADDICTIVE “Publicly, he was contending with physiMethamphetamine is a white, odorless, cal injuries and a string of poor performancbitter-tasting crystalline powder that easily es,” wrote Benjamin Law about Mitcham in dissolves in water or alcohol and is taken “Falling With Style,” an article in The Syd-

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In his new autobiography, Twists and Turns, Australian 10-meter platform diver Matt Mitcham says he battled a methamphetamine addiction in 2011 that almost wrecked his career and his life.

In addition, Mitcham, one of only a handful of out gay Olympic athletes, revealed his battle with low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, panic attacks, and repeated self-harm as a teenager, which helped begin his dependence on crystal meth.

Mitcham won the 10-meter gold medal at the Beijing Olympics, but was still ranked No. 2 internationally.

“I had still failed to achieve my childhood dream of becoming the best in the world at something,’’ Mitcham said in the book. So he turned to drugs.

“Taking it was something I did to take my mind off things that were upsetting me,” he said, admitting that he knew the dangers of crystal meth before taking the drug.

Mitcham said he used meth to “make me feel better about myself.”

orally, intranasally (i.e., by snorting), by needle injection, or by smoking, according to the National Institute of Drug Abuse. It is highly addictive.

Mitcham, who smoked the drug in a glass pipe similar to that used for crack cocaine, told Australia Nine Network’s 60 Minutes, “I certainly was addicted to crystal meth.”

Performance-wise, Mitcham’s momentum remained strong. In early 2009, he scored new personal bests at local meets.

But international competitions in Doha, Changzhou and Rome were less successful and shook his confidence. Still, he would win silver and gold at international meets in Mexico and Canada in 2010.

Things changed later that year when Tom Daley began to demolish Mitcham. At one point Daley scored perfect 10s to finish 29.2 points ahead of Mitcham and claim gold.

Daley had beaten Mitcham in Rome the year before and the media swarmed to him.

According to Mitcham, if journalists paid any attention to him it was usually to focus on the growing rivalry between the Aussie and the Brit.

Diver Matt Mitcham

ney Morning Herald. “Privately, he was experiencing the psychological nightmare of clinical depression, compounded by serious drug abuse.”

Mitcham would smoke meth in the mornings before training, then again at lunchtime – usually in his car, out of sight from everyone, including his coach, manager, and boyfriend.

“Nobody suspected anything,” Mitcham recalled. “I’d done such a good job of hiding it and maintaining my functionality, but

it scared the shit out of me that I didn’t have control.”

Mitcham has climbed back from last year’s depths with the aid of Narcotics Anonymous, a drug rehabilitation clinic, hypnotherapy, and the support of his inner circle. Currently he is training for the Commonwealth Games in Glasgow, Scotland. ‘’The answers continue to elude me,” writes a happier and healthier Mitcham, who is still in therapy. “I may work it out one day.’’

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ETSY RAIN HANDMADE HOLIDAY SHOW NOVEMBER 23-24 On Friday, November 23, from 11 a.m.-6 p.m., and on Saturday, November 24, from 11 a.m.-5 p.m., the 4th Annual etsyRAIN Handmade Holiday Show will be held on two floors at McCaw Hall (321 Mercer St.) (in the Grand Lobby and Kreielsheimer Promenade) and will feature 107 arts and crafts vendors hand-selected during an intense jurying process. EtsyRAIN invites all gift shoppers to “Buy Handmade – Buy Seattle-made” and support small businesses this holiday season. FREE admission.

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performances 11/23-24, 11/30, 12/1-2, 12/6-9, 12/13-17, 12/19-24, 12/26-31 at 8 p.m.; Bloody Mary/Mimosa weekend matinees: 12/15-16, 12/22-23 at 2 p.m. Tickets: $20-advance, $25 at the door. www.brownpapertickets/com/event/271829.

Bearse and join Rise ‘n Shine as we work together for an AIDS-free generation. Enjoy complimentary wine, drinks and food. $25 suggested donation will provide joy to a child during the holidays. Tickets: www. risenshine.org.

SEATTLE GAY & LESBIAN BOOK CLUB – MR. FORTUNE’S MAGGOT The Seattle Gay & Lesbian Book Club meets every Wednesday from 6-7:15 p.m., at Seattle Area Support Groups & Community Center (303 17th Ave. E.).

November’s selection is Sylvia Townsend Warner’s novel, Mr. Fortune’s Maggot.

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NOVEMBER 23-25 On Friday, November 23, at 8 p.m., SeOUTERSPACES attle Men in Leather (SML) hosts the SeOn Thursday, November 29, at 7:30 p.m., attle Leather Daddy and Seattle Daddy’s at Washington Hall (153 14th Ave.), auboy Contest Meet & Greet Leather Social at diences will step into a parallel universe Doghouse Leathers (1533 13th Ave.). Come where possibilities are endless. OuterSpacmeet and socialize with contestants, judges, es... is a visionary force of emcees and hipand SML members at this free community hop poets representing the strength in marevent to kick off the weekend. ginalized identities, featuring Climbing PoOn Saturday, November 24, door at 6 eTree (Brooklyn), Invincible (Detroit), and p.m., contest 7-9 p.m., at The Cuff Complex Das Krudas (Havana). These LGBTQ art(13th Ave. & E. Pine St.), SML presents the ists use their art for social justice, and their 2012-2013 Seattle Leather Daddy and Se- cultural work supports the transformation attle Daddy’s boy Contest. Cost: $10. of communities by making knowledge acOn Sunday, November 25, from 11 a.m.-1 cessible through hip-hop, poetry, and other p.m., at C.C. Attle’s (1701 E. Olive Way), media art forms. www.outer-spaces.com.

SML hosts the Seattle Leather Daddy and Seattle Daddy’s boy Contest Victory “STRONGER TOGETHER” – Brunch to celebrate the new titleholders and WORLD AIDS DAY BREAKFAST the weekend’s camaraderie. Cost: $10.

On Friday, November 30, at 7:30 a.m., the www.seattlemeninleather.org. ninth annual World AIDS Day Breakfast will be held at the Washington State ConDINA MARTINA vention Center (8th Ave. & Pike St.), feaCHRISTMAS SHOW turing emcee Amanda Bearse and keynote Returning to Re-bar (1114 Howell St.) speaker Wakefield. Sponsored by Gay City November 23-December 31 with an ALL- Health Project, Seattle Counseling Services, NEW holiday show: the First Lady of En- Rosehedge/Multifaith Works, Seattle Area tertainment, the most surreal and hilarious Support Groups & Community Center, and chanteuse you’ll ever find: Dina Martina! Lifelong AIDS Alliance. $150 suggested Accompanied on the ivories by Chris Jef- donation. Register at www.strongertogethfries and armed with truly legendary songs, erseattle.com. stories, costumes and audience gifts, Dina Martina will give you one of the most fesWORLD AIDS DAY HAPPY HOUR tive, invigorating and ingeniously funny TO BENEFIT CHILDREN evenings you’ve ever had! See why she’s AFFECTED BY HIV/AIDS a favorite of John Waters, Matt Stone, On Friday, November 30, from 5-7 p.m., Margaret Cho, Jennifer Coolidge, Graham at Seattle Design Center, Trammel-Gagne, Norton and many, many more. Evening Ste 105 (5701 6th Ave.) meet Amanda

SEATTLE MEN’S CHORUS – “BABY, IT’S COLD OUTSIDE” HOLIDAY CONCERTS The Seattle Men’s Chorus kicks off their holiday concert, “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” on Friday, 11/30, at 8 p.m., and Saturday, 12/1 at 2 p.m., at Benaroya Hall (3rd Ave. & Union St.) This “South-of-the-Border Holiday Romp” will feature special opening weekend guest artist, actress Ana Gasteyere (“Saturday Night Live” and “Wicked”).

Also joining the chorus for the entire concert run will be guest artist Arnaldo! Drag Chanteuse! Concerts continue at Benaroya Hall, Sundays, 12/9 and 12/16, at 7:30 p.m., Thursday, 12/20 at 7:30 p.m., Friday, 12/21, at 8 p.m., and Saturday, 12/22 at 2 p.m. and 8 p.m.

Concerts will also be held in Tacoma on Thursday, 12/13, at 8 p.m., at Pantages Theater (901 Broadway, Tacoma), and on Saturday, 12/15, at 8 p.m., at Everett Civic Auditorium (2415 Colby Ave., Everett).

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RAINBOW CITY BAND WORLD AIDS DAY CONCERT – “QUOLIBET” On Saturday, December 1, at 7 p.m., at Edmonds Center for the Arts (410 4th Ave. N., Edmonds), Rainbow City Band will present “Quolibet: Music to Rejoice, Reflect, and Remember,” a concert to demonstrate support for people who are living with HIV and AIDS, and to honor those who have died from the disease, featuring the West Coast premiere of “Quilt Panels”

by Robert Maggio, featuring The Esoterics.

A reception follows the concert with an opportunity to view a portion of the NAMES PROJECT AIDS Memorial Quilt. Tickets: $20-general admission; $15-seniors and youth. 425-275-9595; www.ec4arts.org.

SISTERS OF PERPETUAL INDULGENCE – WORLD AIDS DAY CANDLELIGHT VIGIL & WALKING WAKE

On Saturday, December 1, at 7:30 p.m., please join the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, the Abbey of St. Joan, for a candlelight vigil and walking wake to remember those lost and to celebrate those surviving with HIV/AIDS. Meet at Cal Anderson Park Fountain (Nagle Pl. & E. Howell St.) for prayers, blessings and sharing. Celebratory pub crawl to follow. www.theabbey.org.

FREE MAMMOGRAM & PAP TEST SCREENING On Saturday, December 8, from 9 a.m.3 p.m., YWCA Women’s Health Outreach and Swedish Hospital’s mobile mammogram coach will be conducting a no-cost mammogram and Pap test screening at the Wildrose (1021 E. Pike St.). You are eligible if you are 40 or over, have limited income, are uninsured or underinsured, have not had a mammogram in two years or more, are high risk, or new to the Breast Cervical and Colon Health program. Make your appointment today by calling Ingrid Berkhout at (206) 461-4493.

SEATTLE FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH OFFERING FREE GROUP CHURCH WEDDING On Sunday, December 9, at 2 p.m., Seattle First Baptist Church (1111 Harvard Ave., at E. Seneca St.), is hosting a FREE group church wedding to celebrate the first day for same-sex couples to legally marry.

Want a church wedding, choir and all, free of charge, on the first day that same-sex marriage is legal? Couples wishing to be married in the beautiful, historic sanctuary that day must do two things: 1) obtain your marriage license on December 6, which is the soonest that it is possible (and not later, because there is a three-day waiting period) and then 2) contact the church to reserve your spot (no couple with a license will be turned away). Call 206-325-6051 or email front_office@seattlefirstbaptist.org to register your participation, or just show up to cheer on the newlyweds! As a church that has married ALL couples since 1979, including same-sex couples, Seattle First Baptist Church joyously welcomes loving partners to join in the ceremony.

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health and medicine

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Everybody in, nobody out

U.S. task force recommends HIV testing for all about $40 at drugstores.

by Mike Andrew SGN Staff Writer All Americans aged 15 to 64 should get routine HIV tests, according to a U.S. Preventive Services Task Force report released November 19.

The new draft guidelines are in line with CDC recommendations first made in 2006 that all people get tested for HIV, not just those considered at high risk. The draft will be open for public comment through Dec. 17.

If finalized, the task force guidelines could extend the number of people eligible for an HIV screening without a co-pay at their doctor’s office, as part of the free preventive care provided by the Obama administration’s Affordable Care Act. Under current guidelines, only people at increased risk for HIV – including Gay and Bisexual men and intravenous drug users – are eligible for free screening.

The new draft guidelines would also simplify procedures for doctors and patients.

Patients having blood drawn for other exams could simply add HIV to the list, with no extra needles or swabs needed. Modern testing can cost less than $20 and require just rubbing a swab over the gums, with results ready in as little as 20 minutes. Last summer, the government approved a do-ityourself at-home version, which sells for

REMOVING THE STIGMA The proposed guidelines should also reduce any potential stigma attached to HIV testing, task force members said.

“It allows you to say, ‘This is a recommended test that we believe everybody should have. We’re not singling you out in any way,’” said task force member Dr. Douglas Owens, a professor of medicine at Stanford University and senior investigator for the VA’s Palo Alto Health Care System.

The task force proposal also recommends: • Testing people older than 64 and younger than 15 if they are at increased risk of HIV infection, • Testing people at very high risk for HIV infection at least annually, • Re-testing people at somewhat increased risk every three to five years, and • Testing women during each pregnancy, something the task force has long recommended.

We are not doing as well in America with HIV testing as we would like,” Dr. Jonathan Mermin, CDC’s HIV prevention chief, said November 19.

Of the more than 1.1 million Americans living with HIV, nearly one in five – almost 240,000 people – don’t know their HIV status. Most of the 50,000 new HIV infections in the U.S. every year are among Gay and Bisexual men, followed by heterosexual black women.

Director of the CDC HIV/AIDS Prevention Program Jonathan Mermin, MD, MPH

MOST ADULTS UNTESTED The CDC recommends at least one routine test for everyone aged 13 to 64, starting two years younger than the task force recommended. CDC data suggests fewer than half of adults under 65 have been tested.

But even though nearly three-fourths of Gay and Bisexual men with undiagnosed HIV had visited some sort of health provider in the previous year, 48% weren’t tested for HIV, a recent CDC survey found. Emer-

gency rooms are considered a good spot to catch the undiagnosed, after their illnesses and injuries have been treated, but Mermin said only about 2% of ER patients known to be at increased risk were tested while there.

“It can sometimes be awkward to ask your doctor for an HIV test,” Mermin said, which is why making it routine during any health care encounter might help increase the rate of testing.

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HIV rate in children drops, UNAIDS says unaids

ADULT RATE HOLDS STEADY The number of new HIV infections in adults has stayed more or less constant for the past four years – at about 2.5 million new cases a year. Overall, 34 million people around the world are now thought to have HIV. The report adds that many more people with HIV now receive anti-retroviral medication, but UNAIDS estimates that 7 million people who need treatment still do not have it.

Sub-Saharan Africa remains the most severely affected part of the world, though some countries there have made impressive efforts in reducing new infections.

“Ethiopia, Malawi, and Botswana have achieved big reductions in new infections, showing they are capable of controlling the epidemic,” Sidibe said.

“Twenty-five countries have reduced the number of new infections by more than 50%.”

The report also shows significant increases in AIDS-related deaths in Eastern

Europe, Central Asia, the Middle East and North Africa.

But some countries, Sidibe noted, “aren’t using the right strategies – Russia, for example, where infections are still growing.”

ENCOURAGING CIRCUMCISION UNAIDS also called for scaling up efforts to offer circumcision to men, which trials have shown is effective in preventing some new infections. According to the new report, “intensive efforts” are under way to find effective non-surgical approaches to circumcision so that trained nurses could carry out the procedure without scalpels or sutures.

“Scaling up HIV treatment to 15 million people from 8 million today is feasible and has the crucial triple benefit of reducing illness, reducing death, and reducing the risk of transmission,” Dr. Manica Balasegaram, executive director of Médecins Sans Frontières/Doctors Without Borders Access Campaign, told BBC News.

UNAIDS Director Michel Sidibé

by Mike Andrew SGN Staff Writer The rate of new HIV infections among children continues to drop, according to a new UNAIDS report published November 20. Worldwide, there were 330,000 new infections in children in 2011, down 24% from 2009.

UNAIDS issues regular reports monitoring progress against targets such as reduc-

ing sexual transmission of HIV by 50% by 2015, and providing antiretroviral therapy to all 15 million people who need it.

“We’ve moved from political rhetoric to programs being implemented and having an effect,” UNAIDS director Michel Sidibe told BBC News.

But the UNAIDS report also warns “significant additional effort is required” if broader targets to tackle HIV/AIDS are to be achieved by 2015.

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international news Catholics spearhead opposition to French marriage law Anti-equality marches held in cities across nation

by Mike Andrew SGN Staff Writer Tens of thousands of French conservatives, organized by Roman Catholic officials, marched on November 17 to protest plans by the Socialist government of President François Hollande to legalize samesex marriage.

Police estimated that some 70,000 people marched in several French cities. March organizers claimed 200,000.

Hollande, who made marriage equality a central part of his election platform, introduced his new marriage law at a cabinet meeting November 7. Hollande’s prime minister, Jean-Marc Ayrault, originally intended to unveil the law on October 31, but was forced to delay the bill because of mounting opposition from conservative forces.

The National Assembly, France’s parliament, will begin debate on the proposed law in January, with a vote expected in mid2013. It would allow same-sex couples the right to marry and to adopt children, but not to use assisted procreation methods.

France’s senior Catholic prelate, Cardinal André Vingt-Trois of Paris, has criticized the Hollande government for forging ahead with plans for marriage equality at a time when the country faces urgent economic concerns.

POPE URGES INVOLVEMENT Pope Benedict XVI told French bishops visiting him at the Vatican on November 17 they should not be “afraid” of intervening in politics.

“In the important debates about society, the voice of the church must make itself heard relentlessly and with determination,” he said.

Lyon Cardinal Philippe Barbarin, who has said marriage was defined by God at the very beginning of the Bible, joined protesters in that city.

“I’m here like everyone else, like the Protestants, the Catholics, the Muslims, the philosophers – it’s a message to politicians so that a debate is organized on such a fundamental issue,” he said.

The archbishop of Toulouse, Robert Le Gall, also joined marchers there.

INFIGHTING ON RIGHT While Catholic-led demonstrators took to the streets, the right-wing opposition party UMP imploded after a tight election for a new party leader to succeed defeated French president Nicolas Sarkozy.

Sarkozy protégé Jean-François Copé – considered the hard-right candidate – defeated former Prime Minister François Fillon on November 18, in a race marked by mutual charges of ballot rigging and corruption. Both candidates have pledged to repeal Hollande’s marriage law if it passes, but

that less than half of French voters now favor adoption rights for same-sex couples.

More than 1,000 mayors have signed a petition against the proposed changes, and the conservative opposition claims there have been protests in 75 towns and cities.

Hollande faces doubts about the proposed law even within his own party, and many observers say that the government’s bill may require several amendments before it has a chance of passing the National Assembly.

SUPPORTERS LOSING PATIENCE LGBT rights activists have been critical of the Socialist government’s cautious progress toward full marriage equality.

“It’s encouraging that the majority of the country backs Gay marCardinal André Vingt-Trois of Paris riage,” the LGBT rights only Cope endorsed the anti-equality dem- group ACT UP–Paris said in a statement. onstrations.

“We’ve won this as a result of decades of Polls still show a majority of French vot- fighting. But it also makes the trepidation ers favor marriage equality, although the and hesitation of the government even hardmost recent polls suggest that the margin er to believe, and this [is a] critical stage. is narrowing as equality opponents take the Why do they lack the moral courage here?” offensive. A recent IFOP poll also shows

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Maine had already experienced a bruising statewide campaign to repeal its marriage law in 2009. At that time, voters rejected the new marriage law, but equal rights activists bounced back and managed to put marriage equality on the ballot again this year, successfully reinstating the law.

SGN interviewed leaders of both the Maryland and Maine campaigns, and found that their winning strategies were remarkably similar.

MARYLAND Carrie Evans, executive director of Equality Maryland, told SGN her group had been working toward equal marriage rights “pretty earnestly since we lost in court in 2007.”

That year, Maryland’s Court of Appeals ruled that the state’s ban on same-sex marriage was constitutional, just as Washington’s Supreme Court did in the Andersen

case the year before. Evans says that Equality Maryland then began to work on legislation to achieve Gay and Lesbian marriage rights.

“We realized we’d have to bring together a larger group,” she explained, “so we reached out to HRC, SEIU [the Services Employees International Union], and the ACLU of Maryland.

“Then the governor came on board in a really big way,” she added. Maryland Governor Martin O’Malley made the marriage equality bill the centerpiece of his 2012 legislative agenda.

The pro-equality coalition realized the law would be challenged by initiative after it passed, just as Washington’s was, Evans explained, and they had already begun organizing a statewide electoral campaign before the legislative session was finished.

About a quarter of Maryland’s voters are Roman Catholic, and Baltimore Archbishop William E. Lori has been an outspoken conservative and an enemy of LGBT rights, but the pro-equality campaign was bolstered by popular support and an outspoken Catholic

governor, Evans says.

“Most of the polling showed Catholics coming in as the most supportive religious group – always with a super-majority supporting equality,” Evans told SGN. “The governor – he made it clear that with him it was truly an issue of faith, of caring about others. He was for equality because he is Catholic and not in spite of it. He stood firm when he got pushback from the hierarchy.”

About one-third of Maryland voters are African American, and the pro-equality campaign developed a strategy of outreach to African American communities early on, Evans says.

“We knew we had to have the Legislative Black Caucus on board [to pass the bill],” Evans told SGN. “[After the bill passed] we focused like a laser on our African American voters. We had two straight African American ministers – Pastor [Delman] Coates and Pastor [Donte] Hickman – they were really a voice for equality in the community.

“We were able to have reputable members of the clergy say you didn’t have to choose between faith and equality. We were really able to silence the opposition on that point.”

Finally, President Obama’s endorsement of equality was extremely important, Evans added. “And then the President – right in the middle of this – his endorsement was very influential.”

MAINE “Tuesday was a great day for the movement in Maine – a day that was generations in the making,” David Farmer, communications director of Mainers United for Marriage, told SGN. According to Farmer, Maine’s activists

were not discouraged by their loss at the ballot box in 2009, but set to work right away doing basic community organizing with the objective of returning to the ballot by 2012.

It was a controversial decision, because many people outside the state were skeptical of Mainers’ ability to change public opinion in such a short time.

“What made a big difference was that the coalition immediately went to work doing one-on-ones with people in the community,” Farmer explained.

“By the time of the election, we hit the 300,000 conversation mark. That’s a lot, considering we have maybe one million voters in Maine. We set the terms instead of allowing our opponents to do so.”

These face-to-face contacts with Maine voters allowed Mainers United to overcome what Farmer described as “challenging demographics.”

“Maine has the oldest and the whitest electorate,” Farmer says. “We have a high percentage of Catholics. We worked hard through our partner organizations on faith outreach. We ended up with 400 faith leaders and 75 congregations supporting the campaign.” Some 37% of Maine voters are Catholic.

Outreach to the faith community helped the pro-equality coalition neutralize the Catholic Church, which was the leading force in the 2009 repeal effort.

“The Catholics were just not as active as in 2009. Catholics for Marriage Equality did a lot of outreach, and not all parishes treated the issue the same.”

Maine marriages will not begin until January, Farmer believes, because “the secretary of state has up to 20 days to certify the election, and then our very conservative governor has up to 10 days to sign the law.”

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