Staten Island Special Child - November 2025

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4 | leveling the learning Field

Deputy Chancellor Christina Foti talks to New York Family about the future of inclusive education in NYC public schools

6 | s uccess in school

Simple ways to strengthen communication, build confidence, and help your child thrive in school

8 | choosing Private schools for n eurodiverse learners

From tailored instruction to smaller class sizes, explore how private schools help neurodiverse learners succeed

10 | s pecial n eeds listings

Helpful resources for the special need parent

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Leveling the Learning Field

the future of inclusive education

New York City is renowned for its exceptional education system. From charter to public schools, families rest a bit easier at night knowing their child is receiving a quality education, taking one thing off their already full plate.

For Deputy Chancellor Christina Foti, standing firm on the city’s reputation is not just a goal, but a mission. As the Deputy Chancellor of the Division of Inclusive and Accessible Learning (DIAL), Foti works to ensure that the approximately 20% of disabled New York City students and 73% of students considered economically disadvantaged are on a level playing field.

“DIAL was established to ensure that students with disabilities and multilingual learners are at the center of decisionmaking at New York City public schools,” she explains. “Our mission is to make sure that every New York City public school provides inclusive and accessible learning environments to students by centering their needs. And that starts at the highest level of decision-making.”

Education Closer to Home

As one of the largest public school systems in the country, city schools play a key role in the educational development of our youth. As of June 2022, 88% of students received their recommended special education programs in full; however, ensuring that all children have access to the resources they need remains an ongoing challenge. Most students with IEPs travel to and from school in the same manner as students without IEPs, which can consist of a long school bus ride or via crowded city buses and trains during the hectic weekday morning rush hour.

Foti is working to make schools more equitable and recognizes the importance of

bringing resources closer to home. She says that families have had to travel far outside their neighborhoods for too long to access the right programs. “For students with disabilities, they’ve needed to travel outside of their communities to get the high-quality services that they need,” says Foti. “Our work has been about bringing those services to their communities so that siblings can attend school together and neighbors can attend school together.”

Brooklyn residents have recently experienced the outcome of this initiative head-on, with the opening of the new PS 6 Early Childhood Annex in Flatbush. The newly opened extension serves children from 3K to kindergarten and is described by Foti as “a completely accessible building.” The annex features include a sensory room, preschool-sized bathrooms, and family spaces—all designed with accessibility and community needs in mind. Foti hopes that the newly opened space provides some relief to parents who worry that their children won’t have to commute so far and won’t have to sacrifice the quality of their education.

“Families can walk to school together and know their children, of all abilities, are being served in a high-quality, inclusive environment.”

The response from families has been overwhelmingly positive. Foti recalls visiting her neighborhood school one morning and watching a father gently brush his son’s face before dropping him off. “It was a beautiful moment to see how they clearly walked to their school that day. Dad was happily dropping his son off somewhere he knew his son would be safe and happy, and where he would be educated in a high-quality way,” she shares.

Autism Initiatives

Beyond Brooklyn, DIAL is piloting new autism programs in several districts, including 5, 12, and 14, seeing what Foti describes as high success rates. In the New York-New Jersey metro area, approximately 3% or around 17,000 students in NYC public schools (as of a 2017 New York Times report) were identified as having Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

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“Our autism programs are outperforming their peers. Students are graduating in four years at 97%, which is remarkable,” Foti emphasizes. “The city now offers specialized placements for every incoming kindergartener with autism in those districts, and the model is expanding year over year.”

Embracing Multilingual Learners

The influx of migrant children has presented challenges for multilingual learners, but Foti is quick to emphasize the opportunities it creates. “Our commitment has been to increase bilingual programming generally because it benefits all students,” she says.

Since 2022, the city has experienced an influx of 40 thousand migrant children, in addition to the already 148,000 English as a second language (ESL) learners across the city, according to the NYC Department of Education. Many struggle to find proper education due to the language barrier. Despite the struggles, migrant children have shown promise, as exemplified by the child chess prodigy. “When children learn a second

“For students with disabilities, they’ve needed to travel outside of their communities to get the highquality services that they need. Our work has been about bringing those services to their communities so that siblings can attend school together and neighbors can attend school together.”

language, brain development is incredibly beneficial,” Foti explains. “We welcome the diversity that our students bring.”

The city is also mindful of broader issues, such as safety and accessibility.

When asked about Gov. Hochul’s recent cell phone ban in schools, Foti emphasized the importance of striking a balance between distraction-free environments and necessary accommodations.

“From the inception of the ban, we were very mindful of what that would mean for students with disabilities, who perhaps rely on technology. What we’ve made clear is that if a child needs a device in accordance with their IEP, the school should provide it,” she clarifies. For parents

and caregivers navigating these systems, Foti encourages leaning into school-level support. “We’ve trained parent coordinators, school psychologists, and special educators. Thousands of folks have already been trained on the special education process,” she says. Families can also reach out to district offices or even DIAL’s central office directly via a dedicated special education inbox, which is monitored by her team.

According to Foti, at the heart of it all is a simple but powerful mission: Equity. “Our goal is really to put New York City at the forefront of special education practices, and to make every school the school we want to see for students with disabilities and multilingual learners.”

Set Up for Success

How to help your differently-abled child thrive in school

Good communication between parents and teachers is key to every child’s success—but it’s essential when your child has a learning difference. Staying informed, maintaining open communication, and helping your child feel empowered can make the school year smoother and more rewarding for everyone involved. Here are some tips on how to set your child up for success.

1. Know Your Rights—and Speak Up Parents are entitled to clear information about special education services and supports. Understanding these rights helps you advocate confidently for your child. When attending meetings—such as the Committee on Special Education (CSE), annual reviews, or parent-teacher conferences—don’t hesitate to ask questions if something isn’t clear. Staying informed puts you and your child in the

best position to ensure their needs are met.

2. Keep Communication Flowing Regular, honest communication with your child’s teachers makes a huge difference. Long Island co-teachers Kathy Devine and Emily Cole emphasize that parents of students with special needs should stay in close contact. “We like to know early if something changes at home—like a new medication or a shift in routine,” Cole says. Devine adds, “If your child is struggling with homework, let us know right away instead of waiting until the end of the trimester.”

Write a short letter to your child’s teacher at the start of the school year describing their strengths, challenges, and what strategies work best. It helps teachers understand your child as an individual from day one.

3. Understand IEP Goals

Take time to learn your child’s Individual-

ized Education Plan (IEP) goals and how they differ from general classroom goals. It’s normal for students to progress differently across these areas, but knowing what each set of goals measures will help you track growth more accurately—and celebrate progress in all forms.

4. Involve Your Child in the Process

Encouraging your child to participate in discussions about their learning plan can build confidence and self-advocacy skills. Cassie Reilly, a Transition Coordinator at a Long Island high school, suggests involving children in IEP meetings when possible. “Being open with kids about their diagnosis helps them see that their learning difference doesn’t define them,” she says. It’s about giving them a voice in their own education.

5. Embrace Your Child’s Unique Path

Every child’s journey looks different. Reilly notes that children may behave or perform differently at school than at home, and that’s okay. Success might not always follow a typical path—but with ongoing communication and understanding, parents and teachers can work together to find what works best for each child.

Why Some Families Turn to Private Schools for Learning Differences

For children with ADHD, dyslexia, autism, or anxiety, personalized instruction can unlock success

For many New York–area families, choosing the right school is rarely simple. But when a child has learning differences, whether it’s ADHD, dyslexia, autism, or anxiety, that search can feel overwhelming. Even in districts with strong special education programs, parents often find that large class sizes, limited resources, and inconsistent support make it difficult for their child to thrive. That leads some to the realization of exploring private schools explicitly designed for students who learn differently.

Despite dedicated teachers’ good intentions and hard work, resources are stretched thin within the NYC public school system. Classrooms include students with a wide range of educational needs, and individualized attention can be difficult — if not impossible — to sustain. When a student’s needs aren’t fully met in a traditional classroom environment, some parents begin exploring alternative options for neurodiverse learners, like schools that center their teaching philosophy on how each child learns best.

A Tailored Approach

Private schools that specialize in learning differences take a different approach to classroom instruction. Unlike traditional schools that expect neurodiverse students to adapt to conventional learning methods, specialized schools design their curricula around each student’s unique needs. This individualized model may mean breaking lessons into shorter, more manageable steps, using multisensory techniques, pacing instruction according to the individual’s needs, and measuring progress by growth rather than standardized benchmarks.

These schools often maintain small classes — sometimes with fewer than 10 students per teacher — allowing teachers to devote more one-on-one time to each child

to familiarize themselves with their interests, abilities, and challenges. For children who struggle with attention or anxiety, the quieter, more predictable environment can reduce stress and improve focus.

Focus on Emotional Well-Being

Often, these schools place a strong emphasis on social-emotional learning and executive functioning skills, which help students manage frustration, stay organized, and advocate for themselves. Instead of viewing behavioral differences as disruptions, teachers are trained to recognize how overstimulation and frustration manifest and respond to help students refocus and regulate.

This can be transformative for a student who has gone from falling behind or feeling misunderstood to being engaged, capable, and confident. The feeling of belonging rather than feeling singled out can be as valuable as the curriculum itself.

Navigating the Path—and the Price

For many families, moving from public to private school can be complicated. When a public school cannot adequately meet a child’s needs, some parents look to private

schools for tuition coverage through the city’s Department of Education (DOE) reimbursement process. However, this process can be lengthy and often requires legal advocacy, documentation, persistence, and time.

But, while tuition costs are high, families who are able to make the investment (or effort of pursuing reimbursement) say it is worth it for their child’s long-term confidence and well-being.

Lessons for Every Classroom

In classrooms where individuality is embraced, mistakes are treated as learning opportunities, and emotional well-being is seen as essential to success, children who once struggled to fit in finally begin to flourish. The lessons from these specialized environments could inspire all public and private schools to rethink how they support the diverse ways children learn.

As awareness and understanding of neurodiversity grow, more families and educators are recognizing that traditional learning doesn’t work for every student. For many, finding the right school isn’t just about academics—it’s about helping their child discover their strengths, build selfesteem, and rediscover the joy of learning.

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At the Joan & Alan Bernikow JCC of Staten Island, children with special needs can find the support they need in a fun and nurturing environment. The JCC offers an array of programs for children with special needs, including First Foot Forward for preschoolage children, Marvin’s Camp for children ages 6 to 21, after-school activities for kids and teens, a Girl Scouts troop, inclusion opportunities in traditional programs, and more.

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Dr. Phyllis G. Merlino, a Board Certified Pediatric Dentist, treats children of all ages and is specially trained to treat patients with special physical, mental, and healthcare needs in a calm and caring atmosphere. The office is committed to quality dental

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Metro Community Health Center (MCHC) provides high-quality, wellcoordinated primary and specialty care, with a strong commitment to individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Their skilled physicians, therapists, nurses, and staff deliver compassionate, evidence-based, and culturally competent care, regardless of a patient’s ability to pay. Services include primary care, dental, neurology, GYN,

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As the mother of a special needs child, Dr. Mineo understands the challenges of being both a mother and a provider. Foot and ankle issues are common among the special needs community. If left untreated, foot issues can significantly impact patients’ overall health and quality of life. Treatment plans are created that accommodate the unique physical and sensory needs of each patient, ensuring effective and compassionate care.

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