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Full STEAM Ahead at Staten Island Academy

Middle School & High School Guide

SWEET SUCCESS

How Baked by Melissa’s Melissa Ben-Ishay balances business and family

The Ultimate Guide to FALL FUN

The season’s best family road trips, experiences & more

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FEATURES 12 | Cover Feature * Staten Island Academy introduces new labs, arts spaces, and a fully integrated STEAM approach preparing students for the future.

22 | Breast Cancer As cases rise in younger NYC women, know you’re never too young to learn the signs and seek support.

36 | Carousels Take one of these classic rides for a spin 38 | Room for Dessert We talk to Melissa Ben-Ishay, of Baked by Melissa, about launching a business in NYC, being a mom, and her philosophy on indulgence and life

FALL FUN 8 | Spooky Reads Silly, spooky stories for every little ghoul and goblin.

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14 | Pick the Perfect Pumpkin The best pumpkin patches for an autumn family outing 18 | Staten Island Haunted Houses Community hub showcases spooky displays across the region

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EDUCATION 28 | Choosing a Middle or High School Advice and resources for navigating academics and the big transitions

20 | Hay Fall!

Hop on a hayride this season

30 | College Alternatives Find success beyond the traditional classroom

40 | Fall Bucket List Seasonal must-dos, from foliage to haunted houses, for memories that last well beyond autumn.

34 | Bilingual Basics Is a bilingual education right for your child?

42 | Ultimate Guide to Fall Fun Family Roadtrips* Pack the car! The ultimate guide to fall adventures just a short drive away

DIRECTORY

48 | Ultimate Guide to Fall Fun Experiences* Can’t-miss outings to make the most of the season 52 | October Calendar ​​Plan your month with family-friendly events, festivals, and activities.

24 | Middle & High School Directory*

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EDITOR’S NOTE

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Falling for Fall in New York Fall in New York has always been my favorite — maybe it’s because I was born in October, got married in October, and had my secondborn during this magical month.

There’s something that changes with the crisp, autumn air, colorful leaves, and the city settling into the rhythm of a new season that feels like a reset.

To mark the start of our favorite season, we’ve packed this issue with ideas for enjoying everything Staten Island has to offer, like cooler temperatures, gorgeous scenery, and so many family-friendly activities to do, whether exploring the city or taking a short drive out of town.

But first, we are off to a sweet start with Room for Dessert: Melissa Ben-Ishay of Baked

by Melissa shares her journey of launching a business while raising a family, plus her left-

over Halloween candy brown butter cookie recipe—perfect for a cozy afternoon at home.

For fresh air adventures, find the perfect pumpkin, hop on a hayride, or check off must-dos on our Fall Bucket List. Our Ultimate Guides to Fall Fun highlight family road trips and seasonal experiences that make core memories for your kids.

So throw on an extra layer, sip that pumpkin-spiced latte, and get ready to make the most of this colorful season. From sweet treats to pumpkin patches, hayrides, and city adventures, there’s no shortage of ways to fill your fall with family fun—and memories that will last long after the leaves have fallen.

Warmly, Tara

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Halloween

Spooky Stories for Every Age Perfect Halloween reads!

By Marina DunBar anD alexa lutter

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alloween is a holiday often linked to costumes and sweets, but never underestimate the impact of a captivating, spooky story in igniting that imaginative, eerie vibe.

This season is the ideal time to immerse yourself in tales filled with ghouls, ghosts, witches, and werewolves through the pages of a carefully selected book. Check out these fantastic Halloween reads for toddlers, kids, and teens, perfect for a dark, stormy night or a cozy autumn evening.

Room on the Broom

by Julia Donaldson

Ages 2 to 5

“Room on the Broom” is a delightful picture book written by Julia Donaldson and illustrated

by Axel Scheffler. It tells the story of a kind witch who invites various animals to ride her broomstick. This charming tale of friendship and teamwork is ideal for preschoolers and early readers who are just learning about Halloween. amazon.com Big Pumpkin by Erica Silverman

The Littlest Mummy

by Brandi Dougherty Ages 3 to 5

“The Littlest Mummy” tells the story of a tiny mummy who wants to join in the Halloween festivities but feels too small.

This adorable and heartwarming picture book emphasizes the importance of inclusion and finding a place to belong.

Ages 2 to 5

This is a fun Halloween-themed book about a witch, a pumpkin, and a cast of quirky characters who all want nothing more than to enjoy pumpkin pie. The playful language and vibrant illustrations make this book a great way for little ones to get into the Halloween spirit.

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The Dark by Lemony Snicket Ages 2 to 6

Beloved children’s author Lemony Snicket is the mind behind this beautiful and inspiring story.

“The Dark” is an expressively illustrated picture book that tells the story of Laszlo, a young

boy who is afraid of the dark. When the dark comes to life and leads Laszlo on a mysterious adventure, he learns to confront his fears.

After all, it’s the things that initially scare us that often leave us with the fondest memories, just like Halloween itself. This book is perfect for younger children.

The Witches of Anderson House: A Spell for Disaster

by Jennie Poh with Dave Lowe 5-7 Years

When Henry can’t find his beloved guinea pig, Crumpet, he knows just where to go to ask for help. Myrtle Stormwhisper is coaxed out of retirement to help Henry by using her magic. The problem is, Myrtle is a little rusty. Follow along as Myrtle, with the help of her fellow retired witches, work together in this beautifully illustrated book to reunite Henry and Crumpet.

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HALLOWEEN

Troubling Tonsils! (Jasper Rabbit’s Creepy Tales!) by Aaron Reynolds 6-9 Years

From the creators of “Creepy Carrots!” comes a new spin-off chapter book series, where Jasper Rabbit shares stories of caution. In this first adventure, he recounts the story of Charlie Marmot, whose simple throat surgery begins to take on a life of its own.

With eerie sounds, missing tonsils, and a hint of revenge, this mix of chills and laughs is perfect for young readers ready for their first creepy tale.

Goosebumps Series

by R.L. Stine Ages 7 to 10

No list of Halloween books for children and teens would be complete without R.L. Stine’s “Goosebumps” series.

With over 200 spinetingling tales to choose from, readers can dive into stories of haunted houses, sinister ventriloquist dummies, and shape-shifting monsters. These books are a great stepping-stone for helping young readers get more comfortable handling longer books on their own.

The Witches by Roald Dahl Ages 7 to 10

The legendary author Roald Dahl’s whimsical yet spine-tingling storytelling shines in this children’s novel. Follow the young protagonist as he stumbles upon a convention of witches with sinister plans. Dahl’s captivating narrative will keep children and teens enthralled, and maybe even a bit cautious around their elders.

Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark

by Alvin Schwartz Ages 7 to 11

“Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark” has been a staple of spooky literature for generations.

Alvin Schwartz masterfully weaves a tapestry

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of bone-chilling short stories for young readers seeking a fright. With haunting illustrations

by Stephen Gammell, this anthology is the definition of a Halloween classic. Though some are more lighthearted than others, beware that these stories often deal with themes of paranoia, grief, and death, making them maybe a bit too scary for younger children, especially if they’re reading them alone.

The Halloween Tree

by Ray Bradbury Ages 7 to 14

Ray Bradbury, the master of eerie atmosphere, gifted October 31st enthusiasts with “The Halloween Tree.” This timeless classic takes readers on a journey through time and space, exploring the origins of Halloween traditions. It’s a captivating blend of history, fantasy, and thrilling adventure that will enchant both children and teens, and maybe even inspire an interest in historical studies.

Coraline by Neil Gaiman Ages 8 and up

Neil Gaiman’s “Coraline” is a modern classic that transcends age boundaries. This eerie tale of a young girl discovering a parallel world behind a secret door offers a perfect blend of creepy and captivating storytelling. With its unique blend of fantasy, horror, and thematic creativity, “Coraline” is a fantastic way to introduce kids to the wonderful world of literature. It’s no wonder that this book inspires many future English majors.

The Girl Who Drank the Moon

by Kelly Barnhill Ages 8 to 12

Kelly Barnhill’s enchanting “The Girl Who Drank the Moon” is a spellbinding story that weaves magic, courage,

and a touch of darkness into a mesmerizing narrative. Follow Luna, a young girl with an extraordinary gift, as she confronts the secrets of her world. This beautifully written novel is a Halloween treat for middle-grade readers.

The Bone Houses

by Emily Lloyd-Jones Ages 12 and up

Another contemporary entry is this 2019 young adult novel. “The Bone Houses” combines fantasy, horror, and adventure. It follows Ryn, a teenage gravedigger, and Ellis, a mapmaker, as they journey into a haunted forest filled with reanimated corpses. This book explores themes of family, bravery, and the supernatural, reminding teens that the spirit of Halloween is for all ages.

The Witch of Willow Hall

by Hester Fox Ages 13 and up

If your book-loving teen has already breezed through all the Halloween classics, consider a more recent story first published in 2018. For teens who enjoy historical fiction with a touch of the supernatural, “The Witch of Willow Hall” by Hester Fox is an excellent choice.

Set in 1821, this novel tells the story of a family plagued by rumors of witchcraft and a sinister presence in their new home. It’s a haunting and atmospheric read that captures the essence of Halloween.

The Coldest Girl in Coldtown

by Holly Black Ages 15 and up

Holly Black’s “The Coldest Girl in Coldtown” is a young adult novel that reimagines the vampire genre. Set in a world where vampires exist, Tana must navigate a dangerous vampire city called Coldtown after a deadly party. This book is a thrilling blend of horror, romance, and suspense, making it a must-read for older teens.

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Full STEAM Ahead at Staten Island Academy

BY DOUGLAS HATT

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ver the past few decades, educators have recognized the importance of incorporating STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math) into their curricula.

These subjects provide young scholars with access to careers in fields like medicine, computer science, architecture, and finance, as well as a variety of other disciplines. In recent years, however, schools have realized that adding A, as in the Arts, integrates more imaginative methods into technical and scientific education.

Staten Island Academy has always recognized the importance of STEAM. That’s why the 141-year-old independent pre-K3 through 12 school is expanding its efforts and infrastructure to offer students a more complete STEAM experience.

The school recently unveiled its newly designed Innovation Lab. This exciting new addition features 3D laser printers, laser engravers, industrial sewing and embroidery machines, soldering stations, and interactive displays with touchscreen and broadcasting capabilities.

Additionally, the school has recently

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renovated its 2D art studio, which is flooded by natural light and offers flexibility in space that enables students to paint and draw in a way that’s most comfortable to them, whether working individually or collaborating with a group. The space and its adjacent Innovation Lab have direct access to the technology and the expansive 13-acre grounds of the Todt Hill campus.

“We see this as a space where students can express themselves in multiple ways and cultivate a sense of creativity that they may never have imagined before,” says Caroline Crane, the school’s Director of Admissions.

Empowering Students to Meet the Future with Confidence The Staten Island Academy leadership believes that STEAM is valuable to its students because it equips them with critical thinking, innovative, and problem-solving skills needed to thrive in a technology-driven world.

“We are educating children for a future that is largely unknown,” says Dr. Eileen F. Corigliano, Staten Island Academy’s Head of School. “Because we know that creative problem solvers have the ability to see beyond

traditional explanations. So our curriculum centers on teaching children to learn, collaborate, and adapt to solve real-world problems.”

The school has also renovated its already impressive Stanley Library, which houses more than 10,000 volumes of print and nonprint materials and subscriptions to over 50 periodicals. Open to students, their parents and immediate families, faculty, staff, and alumni, the 1,700-square-foot library is a multi-cultural space that retains the sense of a traditional library with a contemporary feel.

In addition, the library offers students a wide variety of technological resources for students to use, including laptop and desktop computers, iPads, printers, copiers, and a projection system.

A Theater and Performing Arts Space in Tune with Today’s World The Haugen Hall Theater, Staten Island Academy’s 248-seat performing arts center, has also been renovated and features stateof-the-art lighting and sound equipment and an 800-square-foot stage to showcase the school’s yearly parade of dramatic and musical offerings available to the Staten Island Academy community.

A Fully Integrated Approach Elements of STEAM have been embedded into the curriculum at Staten Island Academy for decades, but this focused approach by curated faculty will guide students through an ever-changing technological landscape. Understandably, it’s impossible to think about new technology without acknowledging artificial intelligence. Staten Island Academy is at the forefront of helping students adapt to this challenging technology, recognizing its ethical pitfalls and harnessing its vast potential.

At Staten Island Academy, while academics are strongly emphasized — each year, the school places graduates in leading universities throughout the country — the school remains committed to educating “the whole child,” providing numerous opportunities for extracurricular activities, academic competitions, athletics, theater productions, and service projects that connect the Academy to the greater Staten Island community.

Photos by Alphonse Telymonde

To learn more about Staten Island Academy and its facilities, visit statenislandacademy.org or call 718-987-8100.

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FALL FUN

Pumpkin Patches

BY NEW YORK FAMILY

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t’s pumpkin season! Celebrate October with a family day trip to one of these pumpkinpicking farms near Staten Island, where you’ll find gourds, munchkins, and plenty of fall fun.

NEW YORK CITY The Cityside Pumpkin Patch 8-08 Queens Plaza S, Long Island City 646-942-6807 instagram.com/citysidepumpkinpatch

The Cityside Pumpkin Patch is set to return to The Summer Club rooftop in Long Island City on October 3. This event promises an ultimate fall experience with over 10,000 pumpkins sourced from upstate New York, spread across a 25,000-square-foot rooftop space. Families can enjoy interactive photo opportunities, autumn-inspired treats, and signature activities like the Smash-o-Lantern Zone, Scarecrow Archery, face painting, and tarot card readings. It’s the perfect place for families looking for fall fun in the city.

Decker Farm Historic Richmond Town, 435 Richmond Hill Road, New Springville, Staten Island 718-351-1611 historicrichmondtown.org

Decker Farms features pumpkins of all shapes and sizes. Complete with photo-ops and fall decorations, you will surely experience a picture-perfect moment when deciding which pumpkin to take home. And don’t miss the Pumpkin Chucking, Snack Wagon, Living History Demonstrations, and more! Fall Hours: 12 pm-5 pm, weekends.

Queens Botanical Garden 43-50 Main St., Flushing, Queens 718-886-3800 queensbotanical.org/pumpkinpatch

If you’re looking for the perfect fall photo op, you’ll find it at QBG this fall. Ticket fee includes

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admission to both the pumpkin patch and the garden, so you will have plenty of chances to snap the perfect autumn shot. Kids can also meet and take pictures with costumed nature creatures roaming the farm. For adults 21 and older, harvest—and pumpkin-themed beers and ciders are available for purchase. Can’t decide on the perfect pumpkin? Get them all!

Extra pumpkins are just $8 each. Open October 12–26, Saturday-Sunday, 8 am to 6 pm.

Queens County Farm 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy, Floral Park, Queens 718-347-3276 queensfarm.org

As the longest continually farmed site in New York State, Queens County Farm opens its pumpkin patch again this October for families to enjoy. Pumpkin month at Queens County Farm is full of excitement with autumn in the air. While the pumpkin patch is open primarily on weekends, pumpkins can be purchased in the Farm Store during the week.

The museum is open to the public from Oct. 1 to Oct. 31, Monday through Friday, 1 pm to 5 pm Saturday and Sunday; and 10 am to 4 pm Sunday. General admission is free, except during special events.

NEW JERSEY Alstede Farms 1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester, NJ 908-879-7189 alstedefarms.com/pick-your-ownpumpkins

Head to Alstede Farms with your family to pick the freshest pumpkins! There are plenty of pumpkins in all shapes and sizes to choose from: orange and white, munchkins, gourds, and assorted winter squash. You can purchase a Pick-Your-Own ticket on their website prior to visiting. Admission to the Corn Maze and Blooming Giants sunflower trail is included. The park is open from 9 am to 6 pm daily.

Battleview Orchards 91 Wemrock Road, Freehold, NJ 732-462-0756 battlevieworchards.com

Battleview Orchards is a family-owned farm known for pick-your-own seasonal produce and its famous country store. During the fall, families can enjoy pumpkin picking alongside fresh apple cider, apple donuts, pies, and other homemade treats. The farm’s welcoming atmosphere makes it a perfect day trip for fall traditions.

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FALL FUN

Demarest Farms

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244 Wiermus Road, Hillsdale, NJ 201-666-0472 demarestfarms.com

25 Bartley Rd., Long Valley, NJ 908-876-3351 ortfarms.com

Demarest Farms’ pumpkin picking rolls out on Sept. 20. Make your reservation on their site and pick out the perfect pumpkin. Once you make a reservation, you will be given a date and time to arrive at the farm. The cost for general admission is $8, which includes free parking, entrance to the pumpkin patch, petting zoo, and hayrides available Saturday and Sunday; plus $13+ for the largest pumpkin you pick. Children 2 and under can enter for free. Open weekends, 8 am to 5 pm, and 3 pm to 4:30 pm on Thursdays and Fridays.

Giamarese Farm 155 Fresh Ponds Rd, East Brunswick, NJ 732-821-9494 giamaresefarm.com

This family farm offers a classic fall experience with pumpkin picking, hayrides, and a farm market stocked with seasonal produce. Kids will love exploring the pumpkin patch, while parents can browse for fresh vegetables, apples, and homemade jams. Giamarese also hosts fall festivals with family activities throughout October.

Happy Day Farm 135 Iron Ore Rd., Manalapan, NJ 732-977-3607 happydayfarmnj.com

Happy Day Farm is known for going big on seasonal fun. In October, the farm transforms into a fall wonderland with pumpkin picking, a giant corn maze, hayrides, pig races, and photo-friendly pumpkin displays. Families can also enjoy treats like apple cider donuts, kettle corn, and lemonade, making it a must-visit for festive fall outings.

Hillview Farms 223 Meyersville Road, Gillette, NJ 908-647-0957 hillview-farms.com

Pick your own pumpkins at Hillview Farms!

In October, you and your family can visit this family-owned and operated farm with 53 acres of locally grown food. Hayrides are available every weekend in October! You can even visit their roadside market with apples, pumpkins, vegetables, tomatoes, donuts, cider, and bakery items. The market is open daily from 9 am to 6 pm (the field is closed to the public at 5 pm).

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Ort Farms is a go-to spot for fall fun in northern New Jersey. Families can pick pumpkins right from the field, enjoy scenic hayrides, and get lost in the corn maze. The farm also features farm animals, train rides for kids, and plenty of delicious fall treats, including their popular apple cider donuts.

Riamede Farm 122 Oakdale Road, Chester, NJ 908-879-7762 riamede.com

You might know Riamede Farms for iconic apple orchards, but they also have a CutYour-Own-Pumpkin Patch! Cut pumpkins right from the vine in this pumpkin patch at the beginning of the season. Riamede Farm recommends that you bring your own cutting shears as well.Grab some delicious apples, donuts, and baked goods during your visit. Pumpkin and squash fields open in late September. Fall Pumpkin Days offers a General Admission ticket online for $10.50 on weekends and $3.50 on weekdays— children 2 and under enter for free. Tickets include access to various activities, but the farm does not allow pets or emotional support animals. It is open Wednesday through Monday from 9 am to 5:30 pm and closed Tuesdays.

Secor Farms 85 Airmont Ave., Mahwah, NJ 201-529-2595 secorfarms.com

Make picture-perfect memories at Secor Farms’ storefront pumpkin patch. Public Hayrides begin September 15, run through November 2, and cost $7.50. Don’t leave before browsing the farm’s market, full of freshpressed apple cider and homemade apple cider donuts. Open 9 am to 5:30 pm, daily.

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Terhune Orchards 330 Cold Soil Rd., Princeton, NJ 609-924-2310 terhuneorchards.com

A Princeton favorite, Terhune Orchards features pumpkin picking, apple orchards, pony rides, live music, and barnyard animals. Their weekend Fall Festivals are a big draw, with children’s activities, wagon rides, and fresh cider donuts. Adults can also stop by the winery for a seasonal tasting while kids enjoy the farm fun.

Von Thun’s Country Farm Market 438 Route 57 West, Washington, NJ 732-986-6816 vonthunfarms.com

Von Thun’s offers a full lineup of fall activities including pumpkin picking, hayrides, corn mazes, and an activity area filled with games and attractions for kids. Families can also shop the farm market for fresh produce, fall decorations, and homemade goodies.

Seasonal events and themed weekends make it a lively spot throughout October.

WESTCHESTER Outhouse Orchards 139 Hardscrabble Road, North Salem, NY 914-277-3188 outhouseorchardsny.com

Outhouse Orchards attracts plenty of families year after year — you can even bring your family dog! Choose from pumpkins, gourds, and an assortment of Halloween decorations as you celebrate the fall season. Reservations are not required on weekdays, but you can book a reservation if you visit the farm on the weekend. Pumpkins are weighed by the pound. General Admission is $18 on weekdays and $22 on weekends. Purchase your tickets online to receive reduced pricing.

Wilkens Fruit & Fir Farm

Stony Hill Farm Market 15 North Rd., Chester, NJ 908-879-2908 stonyhillgardens.com

1335 White Hill Road, Yorktown Heights, NY 914-245-5111 wilkensfarm.com

Stony Hill Farm Market offers pumpkin picking, hayrides, and family activities, but it’s especially loved for its famous 10-acre corn maze — one of the largest in New Jersey. Visitors can also enjoy a maze fun park, gemstone mining, and fall treats at the market. It’s a great destination for families

Spend the day with your family in the patch as you search for your favorite pumpkin.

Wilkens Fruit & Fir Farm is also very well known for its markets: the bakery, apple farm market, and country market. They’re open 10 am to 4:30 pm, Wednesday through Monday (closed on Tuesdays).

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Little Steps Make a Big Difference at the YMCA’s Counseling Service

By Douglas Hatt

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n recent years, families on Staten Island have been deeply affected by substance use disorder, especially the opioid crisis, which has brought with it a rate of overdose deaths 170% higher than the national average. When a loved one struggles, the whole family feels the impact—and children are often the most vulnerable.

That’s why the YMCA’s Counseling Service provides care, support, and resources that help families navigate these challenges with compassion and hope.

Through treatment services, counseling, and prevention programs, the YMCA works to reduce stigma and ensure that no family feels alone in this journey.

Little Steps is a shining example of how the YMCA supports Staten Island families. Since 1989, Little Steps has used expressive art, play, role-playing, and other therapeutic techniques to

meet the needs of young people ages 5 to 17. The program empowers children to understand that they are not the cause of their family members’ struggles. While they cannot control or cure their loved ones’ substance use disorder, they can learn healthy ways to cope and thrive.

The program’s philosophy is simple: children experience life on an emotional level and often express themselves through action. That’s why therapy at the YMCA’s Counseling Service is active, expressive, experiential, and, above all, supportive.

In groups of children around their own age, Little Steps participants learn that substance use disorder is a medical condition—one they didn’t cause and can’t control, but one they can manage their response to. Children practice skills like trusting themselves, speaking openly, setting boundaries, making positive choices, being assertive, building friendships, and identifying and expressing their feelings.

Above all, Little Steps reinforces each child’s sense of self-worth and resilience.

Little Steps is designed for children with a family history of substance use and at least one of the following: behavior or mood changes, aggression, anger, depression, anxiety, academic challenges, low self-esteem, perfectionism, oppositional behavior, hyperactivity, physical complaints, or social withdrawal.

The YMCA believes that early intervention is the key to helping kids build protective factors and decrease risk factors—reducing the likelihood of future substance use. Through Little Steps, children gain tools to recognize and shift patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that developed in response to their family member’s struggles.

If you know a child who could benefit from Little Steps’ positive support, contact the YMCA’s Counseling Service at 718-948-3232 to schedule an intake appointment.

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FALL FUN

Staten Island Haunted Houses A small group grows into a community hub showcasing spooky displays across the region

BY ALEXA LUTTER

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ooking for the ultimate haunts and spooky experiences this Halloween season? Staten Island Haunted Houses has you covered with an array of haunted houses all around Staten Island, New Jersey, and more.

Staten Island Haunted Houses is a group of Halloween lovers dedicated to delivering and providing all things spooky to the public.

Origin of the Staten Island Haunted Houses Hub Staten Island Haunted Houses grew from a small, close-knit group of Halloween enthusiasts who first connected in a Facebook group.

What began as exchanging phone numbers and a simple text chat quickly evolved into a real-time hub for sharing tips such as where to find props, which stores had sales, and how to make displays stand out. During the Halloween season, those conversations expanded into something bigger: guiding families to each other’s displays. What started as coordination soon became friendship, and the group’s shared passion for Halloween turned into a mission.

In the winter of 2022, the group established itself as an independent organization.

One of their key challenges was that display lists were confined to a private Facebook group, restricting public visibility. To connect with a broader audience, the group developed a website and created lawn signs featuring QR codes that linked to a customized Google map. It expanded its presence on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, making sure that Staten Island’s Halloween festivities could be celebrated across various platforms.

A Growing Halloween Phenomenon The group’s growth has been both rapid and

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In 2025, the group is taking another step forward by introducing events to its Facebook group and website, while expanding the display list. What started as a small idea has grown into a tradition that brings families together, celebrates creativity, and ensures that the magic and chills of Halloween are easy to find.

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steady, transforming from a small network of Halloween enthusiasts into a communitywide movement. In 2023, it began with just 15 displays and ended the season with 40.

By 2024, the network had expanded to 65 displays, reaching beyond Staten Island into Brooklyn and New Jersey. During that year, the group also promoted several causes, including children’s cancer awareness, partnered with local businesses for crosspromotion, and introduced an online photo gallery that allowed Halloween enthusiasts to preview displays before planning their visits.

Dedicated to Halloween Haunts Staten Island Haunted Houses has always been committed to being a go-to destination for family fun, creativity, inspiration, and trustworthy information. Each display listed has been verified through on-site visits or FaceTime calls with the display owners. The organization always secures permission before sharing any addresses or promoting paid haunts. This commitment to transparency has become a cornerstone of the organization, and families eagerly anticipate joining the list. One of the first questions many ask is: “When do I get my yard sign?” These signs have become a badge of pride and a connecting display for owners to each other.

Finding Haunted Houses Visit sihauntedhouses.com. The list of participating houses will be updated frequently during the month.

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FALL FUN

Hop on the Hay Wagon!

Best hayrides near Staten Island for a family treat this fall

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eel the fresh, crisp fall air on your face and the delightful sound of leaves crunching underfoot, and climb in for the coziest ride of the year! Heading out to pick apples or pumpkins, finding your way through corn mazes, or just looking for a spooky good time with the family? Our top family-friendly hayrides are a perfect autumn adventure, just close enough to Staten Island!

Queens County Farm 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy., Flushing Queens 718-347-3276 queensfarm.org/hayrides

NYC Flushing Farms

This NYC gem offers hayrides in October and November during fall festivals, including the Children’s Halloween Festival, Wildlife Weekends, and the Annual Queen’s County Fair. Little ones will love the corn maze and pumpkin picking. Enjoy cider, donuts, and pies at the snack bar. Open daily from 10 am to 5 pm; admission is free. Hayrides (weather permitting) run on weekdays from 1 to 4 pm and weekends from 11 am to 4 pm. $6 per person.

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NEW JERSEY Alstede Farms

Flushing Farms offers hayrides, a pumpkin patch, a petting zoo, and a corn maze, plus seasonal treats like cider and donuts. Tickets include all activities, making it a full day of family fun. It is open Saturdays and Sundays, 10 am–6 pm. Admission is $20/adult, $16/child (ages 3–12), and children under 2 are free.

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Head west for a fall family fun at Jersey’s Alstede Farms, where your family can enjoy the evening Harvest Moon Hayride. The ride leads to a corn maze, pumpkin patch, campfire,

entertainment, and cider. Open from 6 to 10 pm Fridays through Sundays (last entry at 8:30 pm). Tickets are $20.

Hillview Farms 223 Meyersville Rd., Gillette, NJ 908-647-0957 hillview-farms.com

From now until the end of October, make the trip to Hillview Farms for a traditional hayride.

Spend the day with the family on the farm picking from a variety of apples, taking a ride on their hay wagon, and seeing animals roaming around the farm. Hayrides start in October.

The farm is open daily from 9 am to 6 pm (the field is closed to the public at 5 pm).

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Riamede Farm offers scenic hay wagon rides through historic orchards. Pick a variety of apples and fresh vegetables. A farm pass includes admission to the apple orchard, pumpkin field, and seasonal produce picking.

Wagon rides run on weekends and select weekdays. The farm provides wide-open spaces and charming views, making it a perfect countryside escape. Hayrides are available on weekends and select holidays. Please check the website for current hours and pricing.

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HEALTH

The Rise of Breast Cancer in Younger Women

BY DANIELLE RAMOS

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any women, especially those in younger age groups, may think they don’t need to worry about breast cancer yet.

They may feel it is only a health concern for older women, and some may have grown up believing this notion. However, recent data suggests otherwise.

Breast cancer is the most common cancer among women in New York State, with about 16,700 new cases and 2,500 deaths each year, according to the New York State Department of Health (NYSDOH). Despite the 44 % decrease in overall death rates from the disease since 1989, according to a report published last year by the American Cancer Society (ACS), incidence rates among women under 40 are rising in New York.

According to a study from Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health, breast cancer is being diagnosed more often in younger women, and New York is among the top five states with the highest rates. Between 2012 and 2021, cases in women under 50 rose about 1.4% each year, with women ages 25 to 39 seeing a steady 1% annual increase. Experts believe that factors like air pollution, alcohol use, and other environmental exposures may contribute to this rise.

While breast cancer was once thought of as something that mainly affected older women who are past childbearing age, these numbers highlight that it’s becoming a concern for younger women, as well.

Increase in Younger Women Being Diagnosed with Breast Cancer Dr. Natalie Berger, Associate Director of Breast Medical Oncology at New York-Presbyterian Hudson Valley Hospital, says she has noticed an increase in younger patients getting breast cancer. “While breast cancer is primarily associated with older women, there is a disturbing trend of younger patients being diagnosed,” says Dr. Berger. “The number of cases in women aged 20-40 has been noticeably higher, aligning with recent reports

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from the American Cancer Society,” stressing that age does not confer immunity.

Dr. Berger emphasizes that paying attention to your body and keeping regular check-ups is essential, especially for those with a family history or genetic risk. “I am seeing more patients who have breast cancer detected on self-examination or during a breast exam with their doctor,” she explains.

“Fortunately, in 2024, the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) lowered the recommended age of initiating annual mammography from 45 to 40 years old. The United States Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) then recommends that screenings be conducted biannually through age 74.

However, annual mammograms are important for early detection of breast cancers, which can grow quickly. Many organizations, including the National Comprehensive Cancer Network (NCCN), American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), and American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO), recommend annual mammograms for those up to the age of 55. Then, the timeframe between mammograms should be discussed between each person and their provider,” Dr. Berger explains.

No matter how old you are, “It’s essential to remember, no age is too young to develop breast cancer,” Dr. Berger stresses, while reminding us that although “We are seeing an increase in breast cancer, it’s still rare and women shouldn’t panic.”

Be Proactive There are many things women can do to catch things early, even before they need a mammogram. Knowing your family history and discussing it with your healthcare provider is critical. Early detection is crucial, and regular screenings can save lives.

“There are some women who may be recommended to start breast cancer screenings before age 40 based on family history or genetics,” Dr. Berger says. “Regular check-ups with both a primary care doctor and a gynecologist, along with monthly self-exams, can help identify potential issues early on.”

Breast Cancer & Pregnancy As mothers, it’s important to recognize that breast cancer can also affect women who are pregnant or have recently given birth.

“It’s important to note that breast cancer can also develop during pregnancy or while breastfeeding,” Dr. Berger points out. “Many changes in the breast during this time are normal, but women should consult their doctors if they notice anything unusual, such as new lumps that do not go away, persistent skin changes, or persistent clogged ducts.”

Dr. Berger advises women to be their own best advocates. “It’s vital for you to advocate for yourself. If you notice any changes in your breasts, don’t hesitate to seek medical attention,” she says. “Early detection can greatly improve treatment outcomes and increase your chances of a successful recovery.”

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or many moms, investing in themselves can feel like the last thing on the list. Bevin Sullivan, MSN, ACAGNP, founder of RENVY, knows that feeling well. “My journey from nursing to aesthetic medicine wasn’t just a career change—it was a natural evolution of my desire to help people feel empowered and confident in their own skin,” she says.

Raised in Brooklyn, Sullivan learned resilience early and went on to earn nursing degrees with Sigma Theta Tau honors at Wagner College and Pace University. Her passion for aesthetic medicine grew from a belief that transformation is about more than appearances. “When practiced with compassion and clinical excellence, aesthetic medicine can be a powerful tool for empowerment,” she explains.

RENVY celebrates its first anniversary this fall with a November 1st rebranding event at their office from 1 to 4pm.

The practice offers a full spectrum of services—from injectables and skin rejuvenation to hormone optimization and concierge medicine—giving clients personalized care that goes far beyond the surface. “We’ve built a space where women, and really anyone, can invest in themselves knowing they’ll be met with authentic support,” Sullivan says.

As a women-owned business, Sullivan makes it a priority to uplift others. Through organizations like Soroptimist, she mentors women in healthcare and business. “When women support other women, we create a powerful network of empowerment that extends far beyond individual success,” she notes.

Her team reflects that same philosophy. “Our practitioners are carefully selected not just for their technical skills, but for their ability to connect on a personal level,” Sullivan explains. “True transformation happens when people feel heard and supported.”

What might surprise clients is that Sullivan also works in emergency medicine at a local hospital. “The ER keeps me grounded, while RENVY allows me to help people feel their absolute best,” she says.

Her mission is simple: “Everyone deserves to feel their best— and at RENVY, we make that possible with care that comes from the heart.”

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31 Tioga St., Staten Island Connect@renvy.nyc 360med.life 848-360-6333 Bevin Sullivan, MSN, ACAGNP

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EDUCATION

How to Choose a Middle School or High School

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s the parent of a child in high school and another in middle school, I can tell you these are some critical years. Your babies have outgrown their baby faces; your children are entering adolescence and soon, adulthood. They have hopes and dreams, goals and talents, and bright futures. With your support and a good education, there is no limit to how high they can fly.

A good education starts with a good school, and here in New York, we have some of the best options in the country, maybe even the world. New York offers many new and established middle and high school options, reflecting the diversity of educational approaches. From public institutions to private academies, charter schools, and beyond, the array of choices can feel overwhelming. It’s not the worst problem to have, though.

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Recognizing the importance of finding the perfect school for your tween or teen, we’ve compiled an updated guide to the different types of school options available to students in New York. Our guide covers a broad spectrum of institutions, taking into account the changing academic and career landscape. Read on for tips and reasons to attend open houses for your child’s prospects, along with some helpful websites and resources you will need as you begin the application process together.

Public Schools New York schools strongly emphasize equipping students for future success. From middle to high school, the focus remains on obtaining diplomas, pursuing a technical or college education, and building fulfilling careers.

Public schools offer many extracurricular activities, internships, and volunteer

opportunities, allowing students to explore their interests and gain practical experience.

The flexibility in scheduling encourages students to discover their passions. The commitment to diversity and inclusion ensures that every student can embrace their identity while benefiting from a supportive learning environment. Resources are in place to assist multilingual and special education learners, guaranteeing that no child is left behind.

As students progress through high school, they learn time management, balance between interests and requirements, college and career planning, and valuable life skills.

Charter Schools Charter schools provide all children free, publicly-funded education while operating independently. Charter schools have the freedom to innovate, adapting to students’ needs and experimenting with different learning approaches. Extended school days and years are standard, allowing for comprehensive education. These schools support special needs students and English language learners. Clear performance goals motivate charter schools to prepare students for college and careers through enhanced

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communication skills, effective time management, extracurricular engagement, and academic excellence. Many charter school buildings are brand new, with a more modern look than their public counterparts.

Private Schools New York private schools provide middle and high schoolers many options, from clubs and activities to meaningful projects.

With spacious indoor and outdoor facilities, advanced technology resources, athletic teams, student publications, and summer programs, students have all they need to excel. The emphasis on individuality and responsibility empowers students to pursue independent interests and leadership roles, both in and out of the classroom. Smaller class sizes foster deep connections between peers and teachers, ensuring personalized support.

Boarding Schools For a more independent educational experience, consider New York boarding schools.

These institutions attract students worldwide and immerse them in a diverse and enriching environment. Access to state-of-the-art facilities, including libraries, studios, and science labs, prepares high schoolers for universitylevel coursework. Leadership opportunities and college counseling resources pave the way for higher education success. Dormitory life offers a taste of independence and the chance to form lasting peer connections.

Catholic Schools Catholic high schools offer a nurturing environment rooted in religious values. Students gain a deeper understanding of self, God, and community. With impressive graduation rates, college acceptances, and successful career outcomes, New York Catholic

schools have a strong track record. Co-ed and single-sex options are available, each offering a unique atmosphere. Students aiming for Catholic high schools should prepare for the Test for Admission into Catholic High Schools (TACHS) exam.

Jewish Schools Jewish middle and high schools blend education with traditional values, fostering a holistic learning experience. Students develop into thoughtful young adults through Torah study, observance of traditions, connection to Jewish history, appreciation for Israel, and engagement in social and political activism.

Jewish schools emphasize learning inside and outside the classroom, with clubs, religious observances, and field trips enhancing the educational journey. Co-ed and single-sex Jewish schools offer choices to suit each family’s preferences.

Reasons to Attend a Middle and High School Open House Open houses are so important! Once you’ve settled on a type of school and narrowed it down to a few different prospects, find out when each school is holding its open house and plan to attend as many as possible with your child.

Here’s why these events are essential.

Meet the Faculty: This is an opportunity for you and your child to meet their potential future teachers and principal.

The principal, in particular, plays a significant role in the school and, consequently, in the lives of the students. It is imperative that you feel comfortable with this person being at the forefront of your child’s education.

Be on the School’s Radar: Schools often note which students attend their open house events, which could be a factor in their decision to offer your child a spot.

Always be sure to neatly write your child’s name on the attendance sheet so they know they attended.

Get a Feel for the Surroundings: Got good vibes? That’s precisely what you should feel about a prospective school.

The atmosphere, the staff, the location, the students—all of it should just feel right.

If it doesn’t, trust your gut and cross that school off your list.

Assess Your Commute: The open house is a good chance to do a practice run

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on the commute. You can see how far the school is from your home, how long it takes to get there, and what the surrounding neighborhood is like. You will also learn which transportation options are available at the open house.

Learn About Programs Offered: This is often one of the most important deciding factors when selecting a school. At the open house, you will be given an in-depth look at the programs and courses offered at the school. You can ask questions, meet the teachers heading up each program, and learn about your child’s academic options.

Voice Safety Concerns: Your child’s safety is crucial. At an open house, the school will address any questions or concerns you have about security measures, emergency procedures, possible crime statistics, and more. This is your chance to express any health concerns you have as well and to learn the school’s COVID/sickness regulations and preventive measures.

Learn About the School Day: At the open house, you will find out what time school starts and ends, when your child will be eating lunch, what her daily schedule might look like, how the periods are structured, and other information about the school day.

See Which Afterschool Activities and Clubs Are Available: Most schools offer

after-school sports, academic clubs, and other programs your child might be interested in joining. A school that provides various extracurricular activities might play a significant role in his decision to apply.

Meet Current Students: One of the best ways to learn about a school is from the students themselves. At the open house, students are often on hand to describe the programs they are involved in and what student life is like at the school.

Learn About The Application And Selection Process: Some schools require tests or auditions, others screen applicants based on grades or other factors, and some randomly select students. At the open house, you will learn what is required to apply to the school and estimate your child’s odds of receiving an offer. You can also ask questions or voice your concerns about the process to ensure you have all the information you need to help them apply for enrollment.

Learn the School’s Rules & Policies: Some schools don’t allow cell phones, and others have strict dress codes. If there is a rule you think will become an issue for your child in the future, or, adversely, something you’d like the school to be strict about, this is a good time to find out – and decide if that makes the school a quick check off your list or a reason to bump it up.

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MIDDLE SCHOOL & HIGH SCHOOL DIRECTORY | Special Advertising Supplement

The Community School High School: 1135 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 201-862-1796 Lower School: 11 West Forest Avenue, Teaneck, NJ 201-837-8070 CommunitySchoolnj.org The Community School offers a custom education experience in a mainstream-style program for students with learning challenges. Through small group instruction and innovative teaching both the Lower School and High School provide each student with the resources they need to support their abilities and interests. By applying multisensory approaches, employing related services, extra curricular/clubs and sports, The Community School offers the best of what mainstream public schools offer in smaller, individualized settings. This allows students to gain confidence and find success in and out of the classroom.

Visit The Community School Open House on Saturday,

October 18th from 10 am - 12 pm. Register at communityschoolk12nj.org.

Curtis High School 105 Hamilton Ave., Stapleton 718-390-1800 curtishs.org Curtis High School Information Night is Monday, November 3, at 6 pm. See which of Curtis HS Small Learning Communities suits your child’s interest.

Including Arts & Architecture, Human & Legal Studies, IB Career-related Programme, International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme, Media Studies, Navy Jr. ROTC, Performing Arts, Practical Nursing/Nursing Assistant and Software Engineering Institute.

Moore Catholic High School 100 Merrill Ave., Bulls Head 718-761-9200 moorecatholichs.org Moore Catholic High School is a co-educational secondary school dedicated to a student-centered learning

environment in the Catholic tradition. Moore is committed to academic excellence as well as to providing a rich and varied curriculum such that all students develop their full intellectual, spiritual, physical, artistic, and moral potential. Students develop as responsible citizens, educated for thoughtful, meaningful participation in society. Visit our Open House on October 4, 2025, from 12 to 3 pm.

Enter as a student; leave as a leader.

SI Academy 715 Todt Hill Road, Todt Hill 718-303-7803 ccrane65@ statenislandacademy.org statenislandacademy.org Staten Island Academy’s distinctive programs combine individualized attention with a rigorous academic curriculum that challenges students in Grades 5-12 to reach their full potential. Small class sizes ensure every student is known and supported, while

an array of extracurricular activities fosters creativity, leadership, and teamwork.

The Academy’s new STEAMinspired program, housed in a state-of-the-art Innovation Lab, provides hands-on learning experiences that spark curiosity, preparing students with the skills and confidence to thrive in a rapidly changing world.

St. Joseph By The Sea 5150 Hylan Blvd., Huguenot 718-984-6500 alumni@ josephsea.org josephsea.org St. Joseph by-the-Sea High School has been providing students with the full high school experience grounded on Catholic Faith and Values for over 60 years. From a 26-acre campus and college program to specialized institutes and seamless online learning environment, there’s truly something for everyone at Sea. Register for an upcoming open house today at josephsea.org.

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ach year, hundreds of Staten Island and New York City-area students compete for the Staten Island Academy William Winter Scholarships, which include admission to the 141-year-old independent school and scholarship assistance.

The scholarship program is open to students entering 6th or 9th grade the following September. Awards are based on an examination, grade reports, record of school involvement, teacher recommendations, and a personal interview.

Like the college admissions process, the scholarship selection is art and science.

There are quantitative ways to measure whether a student will succeed at the Academy, so we ask all applicants to take an entrance exam, known as the ISEE, or Independent School Entrance Exam.

Some qualities are far less tangible on paper—the potential to fall in love with

learning, the curiosity to keep asking questions, and the ability to be a respectful and contributing member of the school community. All applicants participate in a comprehensive interview process in an effort to better establish a personal relationship with them and their families.

The awards are based on academic merit, citizen leadership, and the potential to positively contribute to our community’s overall culture. Head of Upper School, Frank S. Crane, shares, “The scholarship process gives me the opportunity to meet with high-achieving, innovative, and aspirational students who will hopefully one day be scholars and leaders in our school and the world.” In a world that increasingly calls upon students adept in critical thinking, self-expression, and collaboration, students at independent schools such as The Academy are uniquely poised for the challenges ahead.

The head of School, Eileen F. Corigliano, writes, “This scholarship process embodies who we truly are as a school. We do not just seek out students who can achieve high test scores; we welcome students who can contribute to the Academy community academically, artistically, athletically, and positively through service and partnership in a positive learning community.”

Open House for rising Grade 9 applicants: October 21 at 7 pm Open House for rising Grade 6 applicants: November 19 at 7 pm The William Winter Scholarship exam for students entering 9th grade in September 2026 will be offered on Saturday, November 22, 2025.

The ISEE test will be offered on Saturday, January 24, 2026, for students entering 6th grade in September 2026.

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EDUCATION

Exploring College Alternatives with Your High School Senior

BY THALIA FERNANDEZ

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enior year is a significant milestone for any high school student. It’s a time when they start preparing for their future and considering what is the right fit for them. While the traditional route is heading to college, it’s a path that only some want to take.

If you’ve got a teen who may be confused, overwhelmed, and not sure about college, it might be time to start discussing alternatives, and there are a lot. From trade schools to gap years, there are plenty of options, and here’s how you can start having that conversation today.

Where to Start: Their Interests Parents play an essential role in helping their children navigate the many career options available today. A great way to start is by discussing your child’s interests and reassuring them that they’re not alone in this journey.

Questions you can ask to get the conversation started: • What are your favorite things to do in your free time?

• Are there any subjects in school that you like more than others?

• When you think about your future, is there anything you feel potentially excited about?

• Is there something you think might be out of reach?

Presenting your kids with these questions will give them space to reflect on their passions and open up the conversation.

Opening up the conversation will also help to narrow down the potential college alternatives that can be explored.

College Alternatives Today, there are several “non-traditional” options for kids to consider. Here are just a few: Trade Schools provide hands-on training for specific careers. While trade schools are not tuition-free, they are

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generally more affordable than traditional four-year colleges. Trade schools are all about focusing on the specific career you’re interested in without signing up for courses that don’t align with your major. Classes are generally smaller and are all focused on your career of choice. It’s also one of the best ways to land a job quickly. There are plenty of job options for graduates who have studied in trade and vocational schools. Some career options for these schools are culinary arts, the automobile industry, cosmetics, dental, construction, HVAC, animal care, and more.

Community College is a great alternative to your standard four-year college or university. It’s a popular option for many reasons. Students can walk away with a degree; it’s a way to explore whether

or not college is a great fit and can serve as a transition from high school to university.

Community colleges often offer more flexible schedules, lower tuition costs, and smaller class sizes, making the experience feel personalized and less overwhelming than the traditional university route.

Apprenticeships are paid programs that combine classroom instruction with on-the-job training and direct supervision to prepare students for their careers. Apprenticeships are great college alternatives that are often overlooked.

Some of the benefits are getting paid while learning, gaining skills from a mentor, obtaining credentials, receiving mentorship, degree potential, and avoiding student debt. Apprenticeship programs are

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offered by community colleges, technical training schools, and employers. Families can also search for current apprenticeship opportunities by visiting apprenticeship.gov.

Joining the Military or Navy is another common alternative for teens not interested in attending a university. While joining the military is a huge commitment, there are pros to choosing to serve. Joining the military can mean exploring various skills for free, getting paid to work, and, for some, getting the opportunity to travel the world.

This can be an alternative for teens who have shown interest in serving.

Coding Boot Camp Programs have recently gained a lot of popularity because of the potential earnings that come from working in software engineering or other technical fields. Coding boot camps can range from six to 28 weeks, and are known for being intense.

Those who choose to sign up for coding boot camps gain a lot of knowledge in a short amount of time. These programs also generally provide their students with job opportunities at the end.

Sometimes, one of the best options for teens who may be confused about the future is allowing them to explore the real world and head straight to work.

A Gap Year could be what your teen needs. Sometimes, one of the best options for teens who may be confused about the future is allowing them to explore the real world and head straight to work. Gap years are a way to explore the real world while also having support from parents along the way.

Working full-time will provide handson experience, teach kids the value of money, and can even land them in a career they would have never thought of.

Sometimes, landing an entry-level job can mean falling into the career meant for you,

which can happen during a gap year.

These are just a few alternatives to college that can help ease your teens confusion and offer some clarity on the many options that exist out there today.

The traditional college route doesn’t have to be for everyone, and it’s important that teens know that, especially at a time when they are focused on just that.

The Ongoing Conversation The conversation does not end with providing alternatives or asking a couple of questions; it will probably be something you actively work through throughout the year. A significant part of their confusion can stem from not fully knowing what the real world has to offer and what life as an adult truly looks like.

Some of the best things parents can offer are support, understanding, and knowledge of what life after high school looks like. Keep the conversation going and acknowledge that this can be a confusing time for anyone, but eventually, you will figure out what is best for you.

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Benefits of Bilingual Education

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n a city as linguistically diverse as New York, parents face the critical question of whether a bilingual school is the right fit for their child. Bilingual education has grown increasingly popular in New York City, reflecting the city’s rich linguistic landscape.

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, over 52% of residents speak a language other than English at home. Bilingual programs help students develop strong language skills while fostering cultural understanding, empathy, and critical thinking.

What is Bilingual Education?

Bilingual education is a teaching approach in which students learn core subjects—like math, history, and science—in two languages. It goes beyond basic vocabulary or greetings; both languages serve as primary means of instruction. Most programs teach students in their native language alongside a second language, helping them achieve fluency in both.

A Brief History of Bilingual Education The Bilingual Education Act (BEA) of 1968 recognized students with limited English proficiency (LEP) and provided federal funding for bilingual programs. In New York City, bilingual education gained traction in 1974 following a lawsuit against the NYC Board of Education for failing to educate Puerto Rican students with limited English skills. Since then, bilingual programs have expanded to serve students speaking over 145 languages.

While initially intended to help non-English speakers learn English, bilingual education has increasingly attracted families of native English speakers who value the cognitive and cultural benefits.

Types of Bilingual Education Public vs. Private Bilingual Schools: Families first decide whether to enroll their child in a public or private bilingual school.

Public schools offer programs in languages

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including Spanish, Chinese, Russian, Arabic, Bengali, and French, with availability often based on district residency. Private bilingual schools often provide a wider range of language options, including German, Italian, and Hebrew, and typically feature smaller class sizes with two teachers—one native English speaker and one native speaker of the target language.

Many private schools also offer financial aid or scholarships, making bilingual education more accessible.

ESL vs. Dual Language Programs: Bilingual education programs generally follow one of two models. English as a Second Language (ESL) programs support students who speak another language at home and are learning English. Dual Language programs equally provide instruction in two languages, enabling students to develop fluency in both. Program structures vary: some emphasize equal instruction in both languages, while others gradually increase exposure to the second language.

Unlocking the Power of Two Languages Bilingual education offers far more than language acquisition. It connects students to another culture, encouraging empathy and a broader worldview. “When you learn a language, you don’t just learn the language.

You learn some things about the culture,” says Dr. Deborah Gilboa, family practice physician and professor at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine. “It helps children see things from more than one perspective, which is valuable for cognition and critical thinking.”

Learning a second language also strengthens understanding of grammar and syntax.

“When asked whether the adjective goes before or after the noun and why, children start to see how parts of speech relate differently across languages,” Dr. Gilboa adds.

Studies show bilingual education benefits academic performance beyond language skills. Students often demonstrate higher reading levels, improved problem-solving, stronger math competency, and enhanced creativity. “Because bilingual children inherently practice switching between languages, it’s no surprise these skills extend into academics,” says Leanne Sherred, M.S. CCC-SLP, speech-language pathologist and president of Expressable Virtual Speech Therapy. “Young children have increased abilities to perform executive functioning tasks like multitasking, problem-solving, and time management required for academic success.”

Finding the Right Program New York City offers over 545 dual language programs in public schools, including new pre-K programs in French, Haitian-Creole, Hebrew, and Japanese. In addition, private and charter schools provide further options for families seeking bilingual education.

Whether in public or private schools, through ESL support or dual-language programs, bilingual education helps students develop critical thinking, cultural understanding, and academic skills, preparing them to thrive in an increasingly globalized world.

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Carousels

in New York City and beyond

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ake a spin on a classic merry-go-round before the cold weather arrives. The Tri-State Area is home to a surprising number of indoor and outdoor historic and modern carousels that capture the magic of childhood and offer year-round fun for families. Whether set against the Manhattan skyline or tucked within a local park or zoo, these timeless rides featuring hand-carved horses and glowing sea creatures provide an enchanting escape for kids and nostalgic joy for grown-ups.

We’ve rounded up some of our favorite local carousels. Be sure to check ahead before you go—hours may vary by season and weather.

MANHATTAN Friedsam Memorial Carousel/ Central Park Carousel Central Park (mid-park at 65th Street) 212-452-0707 centralpark.com Hours: Daily, 10 am-6 pm (Hours are weather permitting) Price: $4 per ride Located in the heart of Central Park, this handcrafted carousel’s 57 horses run laps to vintage organ music. Note: There is often a long line to ride in the summer.

Le Carrousel Bryant Park, West 40th Street between Fifth & Sixth Avenues, Midtown 212-768-4242 bryantpark.org Hours: March-May: daily, 11 am-7 pm; June-August: daily, 10 am-8 pm; SeptemberDecember: daily, 11 am-8 pm Price: $4 per ride, $30 ten-ride discount card Hear the sounds of Paris and the French Cabaret as you ride one of the 14 prancing animals. This carousel, designed to complement the park’s French classical style, was created by artists at Brooklyn-based Fabricon Carousel Company.

Pier 62 Carousel (Hudson River Park) West 23rd St & the Hudson River 212-627-2020 hudsonriverpark.org Hours: Friday through Sunday, 11 am–6 pm

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Price: $5 per ride This modern waterfront carousel features 33 hand-carved, Hudson River Valley animals and scenic views.

SeaGlass Carousel Battery Park (entrance at State & Water Streets), Lower Manhattan 212-344-3491 seaglasscarousel.nyc Hours: daily, 9 am-9 pm Price: $6 per ride, $55 for 10 rides This aquatic-themed carousel is made entirely of glass and steel and features 30 sea creatures under color-changing LED lights, making you feel like you are in an underwater garden.

Price: $3 per ride Named after artist and Dumbo resident Jane Walentas, the 1922 structure was refurbished and reopened in 2011. It has 1,200 lights, and the carousel is set into a pavilion designed by award-winning architect Jean Nouvel.

Prospect Park Carousel 40 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn, Prospect Park 718-965-8951 prospectpark.org Hours: Thursday–Sunday, 12–5 pm Price: $3 per ride Nestled in the park’s Children’s Corner, this beloved, hand-carved 1912 carousel boasts 53 hand-carved horses and two dragon chariots.

BROOKLYN B&B Carousel Luna Park, 1615 Riegelmann Boardwalk, Coney Island 718-373-5862 lunaparknyc.com Hours: Check online for varying hours Price: 4 credits; all-day admission wristband starts at $43 per person; prices may vary depending on the day of visit.

This historic carousel, built in 1906, features 50 wooden horses and has been completely restored and moved to the Steeplechase Plaza.

See the website or call for updates.

BRONX Bug Carousel Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd. at Fordham Road 718-220-5100 bronxzoo.com Hours: Open year-round, but hours change seasonally. Check for up-to-date hours.

Price: $7 per ride plus general zoo admission.

Free general admission on Wednesdays.

This whimsical, oversized insect and butterfly-themed carousel is located next to the Butterfly Garden, where you can watch live butterflies in flight and flowers in bloom.

Jane’s Carousel Brooklyn Bridge Park at the East River, Dumbo 718-222-2502 janescarousel.com Hours: weekdays (closed Tuesdays), 11 am to 6:50 pm; weekends, 10 am to 6:50 pm

QUEENS Flushing Meadows Carousel Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Fantasy Forest Amusement Park, 111th Street at 55th Ave., Flushing 718-788-2676

Hours: Closed Mondays, check online for varying hours on other days Price: $5 per ticket Moved from Coney Island for the 1964 World’s Fair, this classic carousel is located next to the Queens Zoo and about a 2-minute walk from the New York Hall of Science.

Forest Park Carousel Northwest Entrance (Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive), Forest Park 718-788-2676 nycarousel.com/#forest-park-carousel Hours: Thursday through Sunday 11 am-6 pm through August Price: $5 per ticket Created in 1890, this is the only designated New York City landmark of its kind—a beautifully restored, hand-carved treasure where families can ride one of 49 whimsical horses or relax in a chariot to the sound of vintage organ music.

STATEN ISLAND Carousel for All Children Willowbrook Park, Eton Place at Richmond

Avenue 718-677-2165 sigreenbelt.org/carousel-for-all-children Hours: 11 am-5:45 pm; Thursday through Sunday in August Price: $3 per person Choose from the 51 hand-carved and colorfully painted animals that adorn this Victorian-style wooden merry-go-round next to the duck pond.

Farmingdale 631-694-6868 adventureland.us Hours: Vary; check the website for up-to-date information Price: $40 ages 25 and older; $50 ages 2-24; free for children under 2 A classic amusement park carousel featuring colorfully painted horses and a nostalgic, family-friendly atmosphere.

LONG ISLAND Greenport Antique Carousel Jess Owen Carousel House, Mitchell Park, Greenport 631-477-0248 villageofgreenport.org/antique-carousel Price: $3 per person Hours: Friday 3 pm-8 pm, Saturday 9 am8pm, Sunday 10 am-6pm Greenport’s 100-year-old carousel features hand-painted horses in a lovely glasshouse with a view of the water.

WESTCHESTER Playland’s Grand Carousel and Kiddy Carousel Exit 19 off I-95, Rye 914-813-7010 playland.com Hours: Specific days and hours vary; check the website for a full schedule Price: Free admission to the park, $15 ride all day wrist bands.

Playland’s Grand Carousel, constructed in 1915, features 66 horses with jewel-studded harnesses and three handicap-accessible chariots, all of which circle a rare Gavioli band organ.

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Always Make Room for Dessert

Baked by Melissa’s Melissa Ben-Ishay talks about building a bite-size empire, balancing motherhood, and the joy of indulgence. Plus, a cookie recipe to use up that Halloween haul!

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elissa Ben-Ishay believes life should be sweet. The founder lives a life battered by surprises, sweet treats, and the sweetest gift of all: the love of her family. Baking has always been her love language — and in her earlier days, her way of celebrating the ones she cared for most in life. Cupcakes would soon become part of her routine, with the now wife and mother of two daily stop at Clover Deli in Murray Hill for two cupcakes, basking in the delicious flavors, eventually leading to her motto for Baked by Melissa. “I could never decide between all the different Melissa’s Brown Butter Candy Cookies For all the little goblins and ghouls, Melissa Ben-Ishay shares the perfect recipe for your family to get creative with Halloween candy.

Ingredients 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter 3/4 cup granulated sugar 3/4 cup packed light brown sugar 2 large eggs 2 teaspoons vanilla paste 2 cups all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon baking soda 1 teaspoon fine sea salt 2 cups chocolate candy, chopped (M&Ms, Milky Way, Reeses, Snickers, etc.! You can also add pretzel pieces for crunch), plus more for topping Flaky sea salt, for topping

Instructions 1. In a medium saucepan, melt the butter over medium heat and swirl occasionally until brown specks form, 5 to 7 minutes. Once these specks appear and the butter smells slightly nutty, remove from heat and let cool to room temperature. Don’t

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flavors that looked so delicious. So, at Baked

by Melissa, we decided to make them small so you could try them all.”

Launching Baked by Melissa in 2008, the business blossomed out of a negative time in her life. After being fired from her job in advertising, she visited her older brother. After some tears and comforting, he convinced her to throw on her apron and make something sweet out of a sour situation—thus, Baked by Melissa was born.

The first location opened in Soho, not far from Ben-Ishay’s first New York City apartment in the grand streets of Chelsea, and the tiny treats allowed customers to

experience all flavors. Bursting with tempting tantalizations such as brownie batter and cookie dough, word traveled across the five boroughs, and the brand quickly gained notoriety.

“Baked by Melissa was a product of seeing every challenge as an opportunity to learn and grow, holding yourself accountable for how you feel, and taking advantage of every opportunity that comes your way,” Ben-Ishay recalled.

The bite-sized cupcakes have now become a household name. Shipping to all 50 states, the sweet confections come in a variety of flavors unique to Ben-Ishay. Fan favorites

walk away, as it can burn quickly.

2. Combine the butter and sugars in the bowl of a stand mixer and, using the paddle attachment, beat at mediumhigh speed until light and fluffy, for 3 to 5 minutes.

3. Add the eggs, one at a time, mixing between each addition, followed by the vanilla.

4. Mix in the flour, baking soda, and salt, and stir on medium-low until a dough forms.

5. Fold the candy into the dough until just combined, being careful not to overmix. Place the mixing bowl in the fridge to chill for at least 30 minutes or up to 24 hours. Chilling helps the cookies bake more evenly.

If you’re in a rush, you can skip this step, but I highly recommend it.

6. Preheat the oven to 350°F and line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

7. Remove the chilled dough from the fridge and let it sit for 5 to 10 minutes to make it pliable. Scoop the dough onto the baking sheet and top each ball with additional

candy or chocolate chips.

8. Bake for 12 minutes, until lightly golden.

9. Immediately after you remove the cookies from the oven, swirl a large glass or biscuit cutter around them to get a perfect circle.

10. Top with flaky sea salt and try not to eat them all at once. Store in an airtight container at room temperature for 3 days.

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include an assortment of colorful and flavorbursting minis, electric tie-dye, blondie, and cookie-butter brownie.

When she’s not crafting new fan-favorite flavors of her iconic bite-sized cupcakes, the Hoboken, NJ-based mother is dropping her kids off at school. The evenings are

reserved for dinner with her husband and two daughters, while explaining the importance of nutrition and balance as the family of four serves as her inspiration for new flavors.

“We recently had a flavor called Doobies cupcake, inspired by my daughters

and the dessert they eat at night. They inspire my outfits. They inspire the way I wear my hair. They inspire what I make for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. They are my entire world, impacting every facet of my life.”

On paper, being a business owner and mom may make for the perfect family recipe. Ben-Ishay boasts over 60 thousand Instagram followers and has captured the hearts of New Yorkers with 14 storefronts across the city and in Boston. But the confectionery crafter admits to being far from having it all figured out.

“It does feel like every moment of every day is consumed by the things I need and want to do for both my family and for Baked

by Melissa, my other family.” Ben-Ishay touts. “I am on overdrive. I am tired. I am happy and fulfilled, but it is not easy to have two young children and a full-time job.”

Exhausted from the pressures placed on moms by society, she embraces the chaos and works towards acceptance. “I don’t believe there is a secret recipe in being a mom, a founder, a CEO, and a creator. You’re never going to be all,” she advises. “I’m never going to be the mom that my mom was because she was a stay-at-home mom, and she had a lot more time in the day to get things done, so she could be fully present. And it’s very important that we don’t compare ourselves or our children to each other because we are each individuals with our own strengths and priorities.”

Despite being one of the country’s most successful woman-owned cupcake brands, Ben-Ishay does not believe in a cookiecutter lifestyle. For many families, desserts are an afterthought, and mothers can face backlash for allowing their children to eat sugar at such a young age, but for the famed baker, cupcakes are a rite of passage.

“I have a very clear philosophy on food: mealtime is for nourishment, and if you get your nourishment and fulfillment from your meals, you can absolutely indulge in dessert every single day. Sometimes my kids have dessert more than once a day — it’s dessert.

It’s intended to be a sweet treat that makes you feel happy. I’d rather teach them how to make the right choices so they’re equipped to continue living a healthy lifestyle when I’m not around.

I am so proud to have a product that makes people happy,” she says. “If you have someone in your life that you’re looking to bring joy to — or to help celebrate a holiday like Halloween — send a moment of happiness to someone you love.”

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Fall

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all in New York ushers in a season of vibrant foliage, crisp autumn weather, and traditions that bring families together. It is a time for apple orchards and pumpkin patches, harvest festivals and Halloween parades, lantern trails and scenic hikes. Autumn offers families countless opportunities to make lasting memories. Here are 15 quintessential fall experiences to add to your family’s calendar.

1. Pick Your Own Pumpkins and Apples. Pick the perfect pumpkin without leaving the city!

Queens County Farm Museum boasts a sprawling patch and festive fall activities, or head just beyond the city to orchards like Fishkill Farms, Alstede Farms, or Masker Orchards for apple picking, hayrides, and cider donuts. Many also offer pumpkin patches and corn mazes, making them perfect for a day of fall family fun.

2. Nightmare Before Christmas Light Trail at NYBG. The New York Botanical Garden transforms into a glowing, immersive “Nightmare Before Christmas” experience (now through Nov. 30). Families can stroll through dazzling light displays inspired by Jack Skellington and friends.

3. Bronx Zoo Harvest Glow & Boo at the Zoo. The Bronx Zoo comes alive day and night with seasonal favorites, including Harvest Glow, which lights up the evenings (Thursdays through Sundays through October) with giant jack-o’-lanterns, glowing displays, and festive performances. By day, families can join the Boo at the Zoo fun (weekends through October 26), featuring costume parades, magic and puppet shows, face painting, crafts, trick-or-truth mazes, animal-themed pumpkin displays, candy trails, and even a spirited Boo Dance Party.

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Garden, where families will enjoy guided foliage walks, hands-on activities, seasonal crafts, and interactive nature programs.

5. Central Park Foliage Walk. Stroll through Central Park as the park’s 18,000 trees burst into brilliant fall colors, with peak foliage arriving a little later than Upstate—making the city’s most iconic park a perfect autumn day.

6. Village Halloween Parade. On Oct. 31, join thousands of New Yorkers in costume for the iconic Village Halloween Parade in Greenwich Village. Whether you march or watch, it’s an unforgettable NYC tradition.

7. Family-Friendly Haunted Houses. Take older kids or brave tweens for a spooky—but not too scary—adventure at one of New York’s many haunted experiences. Options like Halloween House New York, Blood Manor, and Genius Gems Haunted House offer ghostly fun, mazes, and seasonal thrills without the full-on frights, making them perfect for families looking for Halloween thrills without the chills.

8. Get Lost in a Corn Maze. Corn mazes are a perfect fall outing for families, offering winding paths, pumpkin picking, and seasonal fun. The Amazing Maize Maze, Harbes Family Farm in Mattituck, Fink’s Country Farm in Manorville, and Outhouse Orchards in North Salem are worth the visit. Each offers hayrides, farm animals, and plenty of autumn adventures for kids of all ages.

9. Fall Festivals. Celebrate the fall season with the entire family by visiting fairs and festivals around New York City, such as the NYC Parks’ Fall Festival, Randall’s Island Harvest Festival, the Harvest Festival at Brooklyn Bridge Park, and Corn Fest at the

Queens County Farm Museum.

10. Road Trip! Escape the city for a fun-filled fall adventure with the family! Take a quick road trip out of the city to Warwick Applefest for apple picking, artisan vendors, and live music, visit the Pound Ridge Harvest Festival for hayrides, food, and kid-friendly contests, check out the annual Long Island Fall Festival at Heckscher Park, or explore the New York State Sheep and Wool Festival in Rhinebeck for hands-on farm activities.

11. The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze. Wander through thousands of glowing pumpkins at the Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze in Westchester or Long Island, with larger-than-life jack o’lantern displays, seasonal music, and magical fall fun for the whole family.

12. The High Line. Take a fall stroll along the High Line to soak in the crisp air and colorful views, then meander to The Whitney—where admission is free for kids and everyone 25!

13. Wave Hill. Visit Wave Hill in the Bronx and take in sweeping Hudson River views framed by fall foliage, then stop by for kidfriendly workshops and seasonal garden activities.

14. Color Factory. Visit Color Factory’s Haunted Hues exhibit, featuring the iconic pumpkin, playful ghosts, a confetti room, and spooky-but-fun spiders.

15. Watch a Movie Under the Stars. Enjoy the crisp autumn air at Backyard at Hudson Yards Public Square and Gardens, where you can catch blockbuster movies on the 30-foot big screen. This vibrant, 5-acre outdoor entertainment hub also features live concerts, fitness classes, and family-friendly activities.

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Family Road Trips H it the road for a fun, fall family getaway just a short drive away.

With so much beauty, history, and excitement close to home, your family won’t need to go far to find a destination everyone will enjoy. From peeping vibrant fall foliage to outdoor adventures or just a refreshing change of scenery, these drivable destinations make it easy to plan a road trip to your family’s next adventure!

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You may have already heard of the widely popular, family-friendly attraction Old Sturbridge Village — the largest living history museum in the Northeast. Their reenactments and special seasonal events attract hundreds of thousands of visitors every year, and it’s worth an overnight stay in Sturbridge, Massachusetts. But off the beaten track, about 30 minutes further eastward, you’ll find another unique historic attraction that will surely surprise and delight you and your kids.

Samuel Slater Experience in Webster, Massachusetts, offers a dynamic and immersive look at the early days of America’s Industrial Revolution. This innovative museum is dedicated to Samuel Slater, often called the “Father of the American Industrial Revolution,” whose pioneering efforts helped transform New England into a hub of industry and innovation.

Blending history with modern technology, this innovative museum creates an engaging journey through the past. Large-scale exhibits that recreate 19th-century settings welcome visitors, from bustling mills to waterways that powered industry. Through holograms, interactive displays, and life-sized scenes, guests experience the sights and sounds of a transformative era as if they had stepped back in time.

The storytelling is vivid and accessible, designed to captivate all ages while providing depth and context to Slater’s legacy. Holographic figures bring historical characters to life, sharing firsthand perspectives of the industrial age. Interactive components encourage explora-

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tion, allowing visitors to learn about Slater and the workers, communities, and innovations that defined the period.

Samuel Slater Experience leaves visitors with a richer understanding of how New England helped shape America’s industrial foundation. It’s the perfect addition to a family road trip that celebrates America’s rich history! Central Massachusetts is full of opportunities for family fun. Visit discovercentralMA.org to learn about itineraries and events in the region.

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BRING THE FAMILY, CREATE THE MEMORIES.

Explore Rochester’s incredible family-friendly attractions, from parks to interactive museums and historic sites. With festivals year-round and opportunities to enjoy theater, sporting events, and more, there’s something for every age and interest. Did we mention the world’s largest collection of toys, dolls, and games? Rochester offers endless opportunities to create memories that will last a lifetime!

Learn more at visitrochester.com

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ULTIMATE FALL/WINTER FAMILY FUN GUIDE in partnership with

Sullivan Catskills sullivancatskills.com info@scva.net.

In the Catskills of Sullivan County, New York, just 90 miles from Manhattan, the seasons follow their own rhythm. In autumn, the hills turn vivid red, yellow, and gold, with muted shades of orange and brown. The ground softens beneath fallen leaves and feels like a blanket underfoot. The air smells of pine, damp leaves, and woodsmoke — a sharpness you can’t bottle. It’s leaf-peeping season, but it feels like the moment your first love took your breath away. Gather with family and friends to wander the O & W Rail Trail between Liberty and Mountain Dale, where each town holds a story stitched from its railroading past. Walnut Mountain offers a steeper climb —13 miles of trails that reward with views you’ll brag about later over fresh-roasted coffee, jalapeno cheddar bagels, or cider donuts, with the makers who are proud to tell you the story behind every bite. Festivals at Bethel Woods in September turn Sundays into celebrations, while pumpkin picking in Bethel, axe throwing, and beard contests in Narrowsburg remind you that this place has character, and plenty of it. When winter arrives, the Catskills don’t hibernate — they shine. Slopes at Holiday Mountain and Villa Roma hums with skiers and tubers. Ice rinks at Callicoon Hills, Roscoe Mountain Club, and the Grahamsville Fairgrounds buzz with laughter, some with bonfires. It’s the kind of simple magic that sticks. Snowshoeing trails wind through quiet forest paths at Hemlock Neversink, Kenoza Hall, Upward Brewing, or the O & W Trail. And when cheeks are pink and boots are damp, there’s warmth

waiting hearthside in spas that offer deep rest, and cozy inns that hold the hush of falling snow outside. Fall into color. Winter into wonder.

In the Sullivan Catskills, each season is a reminder: you’re not escaping life — you’re improving it.

Ulster County In the heart of the Catskills, Ulster County offers a mix of outdoor recreation, small-town culture, and local flavor that makes it an ideal fall road trip destination. Hike to scenic overlooks framed by brilliant foliage, cast a line in crisp mountain streams, or wander miles of trails through state parks, quiet woods, and sweeping autumn views. Families will find plenty to enjoy, from apple orchards and pumpkin patches to fall festivals, farmers markets, and kid-friendly museums.

For generations, families, friends, and solo adventurers have discovered their fall magic in the heart of the Catskills.

The towns and villages throughout Ulster County, like New Paltz, Woodstock, and Kingston, are home to independentlyowned shops, farm-to-table restaurants, and cultural institutions that balance history with creativity.

Evenings are perfect for stargazing under clear autumn skies, and there’s no shortage of cozy inns or boutique hotels for an overnight stay.

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Whether you’re drawn to hiking, local art, live music, or simply slowing down to savor the season with your family, Ulster County is worth the drive. Learn more at visitulstercountyNY.com.

A Revolutionary Family Weekend in Central MA Hands on History Kids Will Love

OLD STURBRIDGE VILLAGE STURBRIDGE, MA

This living history museum recreates rural New England life in the early 1800s, and hosts reenactments and demonstrations year-round.

SAMUEL SLATER EXPERIENCE WEBSTER, MA America’s Industrial Revolution in New England comes to life with storytelling told through holograms, interactive areas and iconic large-scale displays.

AMERICAN HERITAGE MUSEUM HUDSON, MA

MUSEUM OF WORCESTER WORCESTER, MA Free to visit through 2025, this museum has a great children’s area that includes a play diner, general store, and assembly line, all connected to local history.

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Visit a nationally renowned library founded by Isaiah Thomas, housing an 18th-century printing press & Revolutionary War-era materials.

WILLARD HOUSE & CLOCK MUSEUM 3 GRAFTON, MA Visit the birthplace and original workshop of the Willard clockmakers, a significant three-generation legacy founded in 1766.

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Featuring a 1757 homestead, the open-air, living-history museum on 120 acres of farmland offers a bucolic escape with colonial significance.

OPTICAL HERITAGE MUSEUM 5 SOUTHBRIDGE, MA The region’s deep-rooted innovations in optics—shaping millions of lives —are showcased through thousands of items in the museum’s collection.

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ULTIMATE FALL/WINTER FAMILY FUN GUIDE in partnership with

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Just a few hours away between the renowned Finger Lakes and Lake Ontario, Rochester is a four-season destination where families can experience vibrant fall colors, sparkling winter landscapes, and endless opportunities for play. When autumn arrives, the city bursts with seasonal traditions. Families can wander pumpkin patches, tackle corn mazes, enjoy hayrides at area farms, or sip fresh cider while apple picking. Highland Park and the Genesee Riverway Trail provide colorful hiking backdrops, while a day trip to nearby Letchworth State Park, often called the “Grand Canyon of the East,” offers breathtaking fall foliage and dramatic waterfalls.

Winter brings its own magic to Rochester. Families can celebrate the season at ROC Holiday Village, a downtown winter festival with ice skating, events, and holiday shopping. Outdoor enthusiasts can head to nearby ski areas, while those seeking indoor fun will love exploring The Strong National Museum of Play, home to the world’s most extensive collection of toys, dolls, and games. The George Eastman Museum is a treat with Sweet Creations, a magnificent exhibition of intricate, handcreated gingerbread houses. Genesee Country Village & Museum comes

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After a day of exploring, families can refuel with a cozy cup of cocoa, hearty farm-to-table dining, or a delicious meal at a number of familyfriendly breweries, including the Genesee Brew House, known for its annual Keg Tree lighting.

Just a few hours from NYC, Rochester is the perfect destination to embrace the joys of fall and winter together.

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There’s no place quite like the Lake George Area in the Southern Adirondacks for admiring the autumn season, especially the vibrant and colorful foliage.

Splendid seasonal scenery awaits you around every corner. From hiking on nearby mountain ranges, biking through open trails, or getting a gorgeous view from the water with a boat cruise around Lake George. Just driving around offers picture-perfect sights, no matter the destination. You can also capture the spirit of the fall season through one of many events and festivals held throughout the area. Witness dozens of hot air balloons float high above the Adirondack Mountains during the annual Adirondack Balloon Festival, embark on a scenic skyride above the trees at Gore Mountain’s Harvest Fest, or enjoy the fall farm life with Thurman Fall Farm Tours. And, when falling leaves turn into floating snowflakes, there’s just as much to do and see in the winter season. Trade your bike for skis or a snowboard for carving fresh powder at three premier ski resorts. Swap your hiking boots for snowshoes to trek through frosty Adirondack forests. Getting out on the water takes on a new meaning - bountiful ice fishing outings

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on frozen lakes. You can also keep up with all kinds of merriment at winter events. Participate in tradition and friendly competition at the Lake George and Brant Lake Winter Carnivals. See the magic of the season shine bright at Lite Up the Village. Rediscover classic holiday nostalgia at Christmas in Warrensburgh. Bring the family to the festivities at the Adirondack Holiday Festival. Whether you’ve fallen for fall or are in awe of winter’s wonders, embrace the changing seasons and all they have to offer in the Lake George Area.

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This holiday season, Perelman Performing Arts Center (PAC NYC) shines brightly with the warmth of the holidays. Beginning November 23, theatergoers of all ages are invited to enter Charles Dickens’ timeless holiday classic with the Old Vic’s acclaimed production of A Christmas Carol. From visionary Tony Award® winners—playwright Jack Thorne (Harry Potter and the Cursed Child) and director Matthew Warchus (Matilda The Musical)— this heartwarming interpretation surrounds the audience with wonder, music, and merriment. It’s a magical outing that will leave audiences glowing with festive treats, carols, and cheer.

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Fall is a magical time to visit Wave Hill, the beautiful public garden and cultural center in the Bronx. This season’s lineup is packed with family fun, creativity, and culture.

Start with Wave Hill’s beloved Family Art Project every Saturday and Sunday from 10 am to 1 pm (free with admission). Each week, kids and parents have a new opportunity to get creative together, with projects inspired by nature, science, and art. From exploring the worlds of Frida Kahlo and Claude Monet to trying your hand as a Garden Guardian, these activities are designed to spark imagination while making something special to take home.

Mark your calendars for Sunday, October 5, when the gardens host Fiesta on the Hudson (2 to 5 pm), a vibrant celebration of Hispanic Heritage Month. Families can dance the afternoon away with instructor Talia Castro-Pozo leading traditional steps, while live music from Santiago y La Orquesta fills the air. And with the Hudson River and Palisades as your backdrop, it’s an afternoon that’s sure to be picture-perfect.

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WCS Education is NYC’s best-kept secret for fall family fun! Explore nature together, see animals up close, and get exclusive access to your favorite zoos and aquariums — all within city limits.

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Early birds and night owls can find fun activities, from sensory-inclusive mornings at the zoo to sleepovers at the aquarium. Halloween costumes are welcome at festive family programs during Boo at the Zoo in the Bronx and the New York Aquarium’s Ascarium. The whole family can join the Central Park Zoo’s sensory-friendly FaBOOlous Access Morning for a calmer option. School break camp is back at the newly reopened Prospect Park Zoo! Enjoy the crisp autumn air with your toddler on a Stroller Safari at the Queens Zoo. Scouts can start the troop year with a visit to the sea lions, which have special programs at each park. Call the

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babysitter, because there are fantastic events for adults, too. Prospect Park Zoo will debut mocktail mixer evenings this fall. Last year’s sold-out weekend series, Zookeeping for Grownups, is back at the Central Park Zoo. Arranging school break camp pickup and drop off is easy with coinciding events for adults on select dates at the Bronx Zoo and New York Aquarium. You can even pursue your wildest career goals — including field studies and a master’s degree in biology — through Project Dragonfly’s Advanced Inquiry Program with experiential learning at WCS sites.

Make the most of your next visit! See what’s happening at all five parks at wcs.education/explore to plan your family’s next adventure.

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Little Movers Storytime Wednesday, October 1, 11:15 am Richmondtown Library, 200 Clarke Ave. Best for new walkers, toddlers/or children at this developmental stage Free Join the library in the Community Room to hear stories, sing songs, and get those wiggles out as you help your active child build important early learning skills. Discover ways to promote early literacy at home and meet other caregivers in the neighborhood.

Mean Girls Day Friday, October 3, 2 pm St. George Library Center, 5 Central Ave. Ages 13-18 Free Celebrate Mean Girls Day with the Teen Center at the St. George Library. Create your own Burn Book, snap a Polaroid picture, and watch the classic on screen.

Dress code: PINK! So fetch!

Heritage Farm Stand Saturdays Saturdays, 9 am – 1 pm through Oct. 18 Snug Harbor Cultural Center & Botanical Garden, 1000 Richmond Terr.

All Ages Free The Heritage Farm at Snug Harbor is where you get produce grown by the community, for the community. At the weekly Heritage Farm Stands, you can purchase vegetables, herbs, and flowers: fresh, local, sustainable, and impactful.

The Staten Island Oktoberfest Saturday, October 4, 12 – 8 pm

the library? Enjoy a showing of Monsters Inc.

Halloween Dance Party Sunday, October 5, 10 – 11:15 am Simply Gather SI, 29 Nelson Ave., #Suite A All Ages $20 Join Simply Gather on Sunday, October 5, for a spooky-good morning of crafts, music, and FUN! Featuring the amazing Music With Patrick, wear your favorite Halloween colors, make a spooky craft, Dance, sing, and laugh with friends!

Italian Festival & Exotic Car Show at Casa Belvedere SIUH Community Park, Staten Island Ferry Hawk Stadium, 75 Richmond Terrace All Ages General Admission: $10, Veteran Admission: Free Get ready for a full day of food, music, games, shopping, and fun; all while supporting local veterans. Gates open at 12:00 pm, with live entertainment and activities for the whole family, capped off by a fireworks show at 7:30 pm!

Family Movie Matinee and Coloring: Monsters Inc. Saturday, October 4, 2 pm Mariners Harbor Library, 206 South Ave. All Ages Free Why go to the movie theater when you can watch a movie at

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Oktoberfest: Celebrate at Snug Harbor Sunday, October 5, 12 – 4 pm 1000 Richmond Terrace All Ages $30-$75 This exciting new event will bring together the Staten Island community and beyond for an afternoon of authentic cuisine, seasonal beverages, and entertainment in our historic and picturesque setting in the Tented Pavilion. Guests will enjoy a festive atmosphere designed to highlight both tradition and local spirit, creating a unique experience that’s perfect for families, friends, and colleagues alike.

Lighthouse Point Fest Sunday, October 5, 1 – 6 pm National Lighthouse Museum, 200 The Promenade at Lighthouse Point All Ages $7 to Sample the Soup Entries in Soup Contest Celebrating Maritime History on The National Lighthouse Museum Plaza! Enjoy Children’s Activities, Magic Balloons, Face

Painting, International Entertainment, Indian Dance, Mariachi Performers, DJ Joe Nose, and more!

Mt. Loretto Italian Festival Oct. 10, 6 – 11 pm, Oct. 11, 12 – 11 pm, Oct. 12, 12 – 9 pm, Oct. 13, 12 – 6 pm Mount Loretto, Hylan Boulevard All Ages $5 per person (children 10 & under are free) Staten Italy…are you ready?

The Island’s largest italian feast returns this Columbus Day weekend, Friday, October 10th through Monday, October 13th, for the borough’s biggest celebration, including rides, games, live musical performances on stage, beer and sangria gardens, vendors, and of course, some of the best food around. This year, the fireworks spectacular will be hosted on Saturday, October 11.

2nd Annual Fall Freedom Festival at Tappen Park Saturday, October 11, 12 – 6 pm Tappen Park, Bay Street All Ages General Admission: Free Join Roc-A-Natural Cultural Foundation Inc.’s Fall Freedom Festival at Tappen Park, in collaboration with NYC Parks, for the entire family. Enjoy music by DJ Vinny Giles, a Haunted walkthrough, storytelling, a pumpkin patch, pumpkin painting by Diana Daniels, a game of chess with Killsboro Chess Club, a kids’ zone sponsored by NYC Parks Playmobile, local entertainment, resource vendors, and more.

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OCTOBER Belvedere Saturday, October 11, 12 – 5 pm Italian Cultural Foundation at Casa Belvedere, 79 Howard Ave. All Ages $10; free admission for children younger than 12 Join Casa Belvedere’s 15th Anniversary Italian Festival & Exotic Car Show in Staten Island — a fun-filled weekend for all ages. Exotic and classic cars, live music, Taste of Italy Expo, food vendors, wine tastings, kids’ activities, cooking demos, raffles, and more.

Saturday noon to 6 pm, Sunday 12 to 5 pm. Proceeds support the Italian Cultural Foundation’s cultural programs, scholarships, and On Your Mark.

Rising NYRR at the NYRR Staten Island Half Sunday, October 12, 10 am SIUH Community Park, Staten Island Ferry Hawk Stadium, 75 Richmond Terrace All Ages Free Bring the kids to SIUH Community Park for an unforgettable event filled with energy, excitement, and community spirit. With stunning views of New York Harbor, young runners will dash alongside new friends and celebrate the joy of movement in a fun, welcoming atmosphere.

Financing Your College Education Thursday, October 16, 6:30 pm College of Staten Island, 2800 Victory Boulevard Young Adults Free Learn about the basics of financial aid, scholarships and grants, payment plans, and special programs that can provide additional support.

Spooktacular 2025 Saturday, Oct. 18 & Sunday, Oct.19, 2:30 – 7:30 pm Staten Island Zoo, 614 Broadway All Ages General Admission: $30, Members: $25

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Enjoy your day at the Staten Island Zoo’s 2025 Spooktacular!

Enjoy trick or treat zones, fun activities, and more!

The Mainstages Game Show: All For Won Saturday, October 18, 4 – 4:45 pm Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace All Ages Included with $8 admission All For Won: Game On, Together! is a high-energy, collaborative game show by Mainstage.

Through interactive games and teamwork, help Miles the Rubber Chicken cross the road. This show fosters fun, spirit, and community togetherness.

Nightmare On Seaview Saturday, October 18, 6 pm 460 West Brielle Ave. All Ages $25 Ready to experience the island’s newest haunted interactive attraction? Nightmare On Seaview is an exclusive walkthrough Haunted House Experience like no other, featuring live actors and theatrical rooms tapping into the spirits that already lurk over the abandoned Seaview Hospital next door! This year, we’ve made the event even bigger with the

addition of axe-throwing, live music, food, vendors, and more!

ShopRite Kidz Cook: Bento Box School Lunch Sunday, October 19, 12 – 4 pm Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace Ages 4 and up Included with $8 admission Join the ShopRite Kidz Cook team at the museum! In this class, young cooks will learn to make a Bento Box School Lunch.

ShopRite Kidz Cook at Staten Island Children’s Museum is a caregiver-and-me program that introduces children to a diversity of foods, explains cooking concepts, and helps build dexterity with cooking utensils.

Trick-Or-Treating at the Museum Saturday, October 25, 10 am – 5 pm Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, All Ages Included with $8 admission In honor of Halloween, the museum is welcoming young robots, superheroes, princesses, animals, ghosts, mummies, witches, and more for a fantastic day of trick-or-treating.

Costumes are warmly welcomed but entirely optional.

Fall Festival at The Mount Saturday, Oct. 25 & Sunday, Oct. 26, 12 – 6 pm Mount Loretto, Hylan Blvd.

All Ages $5 Come to Mt. Loretto on Saturday, October 25th, and Sunday, October 26th, from 12 to 6 pm each day for the island’s biggest pumpkin patch, rides, vendors, food, beer, sangria garden, and more!

Plus, check out the exclusive one-night only haunted house experience, Mayhem at The Mount on Saturday, October 26th.

Undergraduate Open House – The College of Staten Island Sunday, October 26, 10 am College of Staten Island, 2800 Victory Blvd.

Young Adults 13-18 years old Free This open house is designed to help prospective freshmen, transfer, and readmit students and their families learn more about the College of Staten Island’s excellent academic programs, student services, resources, and facilities. You will have the opportunity to meet with CSI students, faculty, and staff and tour the beautiful campus.

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